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I'm so sorry dude, this sounds brutal. All I can say is hold your two kitties close to you, and let them comfort you. Life will get better for you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 12:19 AM
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Ok, hold on a sec. She said she's waited on you, and you haven't waited on her? So she's literally using your porn habit and mental health struggles against you? So when the marriage gets a bit rough, that's a flat-out excuse to cheat? From everything you've written here, and her car was stopped in a strange location for an hour, your wife is full of shit saying that things didn't get physical. And really, she would have told you if it did? I highly, highly doubt that. She obviously hid the mess…
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/26 04:35 AM
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Of course you should tell both of your daughters the truth. Do every single thing you can to counter this fucked-up lie your ex told them. What a POS she is for turning your daughters against you, and riding that lie for more than a decade. Don't just let the chips fall where they may, email both of them right away. Wow, I'm sorry. This is brutal.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 12:20 AM
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Happy wife here. I understand you're coming from a place of great pain and loss. I understand your bitterness. I'll try to be the spark of hope. 99.99% of females are exactly how you describe, greedy, selfish narcissists who only care about themselves and reaching their milestones (engagement, marriage, house, babies). Then, when they're done with you, they discard you. It's frankly disgusting. But there are very few, precious women out there who are amazing human beings. They are extremely hard…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 09:38 PM
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This is a logical way to think about relationships. The problem is that men's "other head" overrides the prefrontal cortex in most instances.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 11:36 PM
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I also second the cheating comments.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:29 AM
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Don't take this psychological abuse from your wife. She is treating you like she's above you, and you're not worth a second of her time or love. You don't deserve this. This is not how a wife of 20 years should be treating her husband. I'm sorry you're going through this bud. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:28 AM
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Not all women are like this. I've been happily married for almost 20 years. I will say though, good women are extremely few and far between. OP's wife is treating him horribly. He should give her the divorce and find someone better.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:27 AM
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I would send the evidence. Cheating is one of the most horrible things you can do to a human being. Your ex needs help. It's important for the people in her life to know the extent of what she did wrong so she can't spin a bad-guy narrative about you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 07:19 AM
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Good for you buddy. I bet your ex-wife is feeling massive, massive regret at her decision. The crush didn't last long. She's also extremely jealous of your girlfriend. So these feelings are bubbling over into edginess and anger towards you. Well, tough. It was her decision to choose a fling over you. You're winning at life. Your ex fucked around, now she found out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 01:19 AM
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Why are you so bitter? Plenty of people lie in their marriages. It's about how big the lie is. If you think that $2000 over two years, so $500 every six months, is enough to divorce over, I pity you. Even worse, you support his spouse kicking him out of his residence over this huuuuuge lie? I pity you twice. OF course you'll get downvoted.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 03:51 AM
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Really, so you think $2000 is something to get pissed off about? Either you're a bitter woman, or just really don't trust anybody. No spouse has the right to kick their other spouse out of their house, even if he would have spent $100,000. He didn't violate anything. This was just a mind trick she played on him. I bet she was plotting her exit for years.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 03:33 AM
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Time for you to march right back to your house right the fuck now. Like a commenter said below, she has no right to kick you out of your house unless you did something illegal. So get back to your house and stay there. She could be yelling at you to gtfo, and you will not leave. Don't let her play mindgames with you and trick you into believing anything positive. $2000 is barely anything to get pissed off about. Good luck buddy, and fight!
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 03:29 AM
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Everything you've documented matters. Get yourself the coldest, most calculating lawyer you can. You definitely need to start a DV case and press charges. This will be the fight of your life. Prepare yourself buddy. Today is the last day you put up with her despicable ass. You need to also tell the court that you fear for your safety, as she's uttered death threats multiple times. Please, don't think that none of this matters. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 02:26 AM
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I am a woman, and I'm ashamed of my sex after reading this. Wow, that's brutal dude. Women always say they want the nice, attentive guy, then take him for a ride. Your xgf has quite the fucking gall to screw you over like this. All over text messages? So what, she expects you to act like your ex-wife is dead or something? Just to forget that third of your life? Every single person has a past. It's not about the past, it's about who you chose now. IF she was a real woman she would know that. What…
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 12:50 AM
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There is no excuse for cheating. None. Porn is just a movie with fake actresses. I'm a woman, and I could care less if my hubs watches porn. In fact, we watch together. I know my self-worth, and I know those porn whores are just that. This guy has every right to be angry. His ex flirting with real guys irl, and cheating, is waaaay worse than watching a sex movie.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 08:34 PM
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Please press charges. Protect yourself and your children. If she thinks she can get away with a punch now, she'll do something worse to you next time. Please report her.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 02:51 AM
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