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Thank you for those words. I’m in a similar position. I actually like my life now. Who I’m becoming. I’m almost wholly to a place that I’m grateful my X ended something that I never would have. I would have kept sacrificing myself indefinitely, and settled for a life where I wasn’t growing. I’m growing now, becoming someone I never thought I could be. I’ve got a long ways to go but I’ve also come so far already.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 04:16 AM
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I just did how long were they married?
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 02:48 AM
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Cliché is right. My wife blew up our marriage when she had an emotional affair with my son‘s boxing coach. I don’t think it ever went beyond that. My son was right in the middle of it though he knew I wanted to take him out, but he liked it there. I think it was karma that it blew up in my exes face when my son told him that his mom likes him. He said oh really well I’m married and have kids, but your mom is awesome. She was mortified. But at that point, our relationship was over. It wasn’t fair…
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/26 04:22 PM
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Yeah man, you know that more time that goes on the more I realize that it was good for me. Hard to see the truth when you’re in the middle of it all. Now that I’m gone, I get to see who she really is and it’s not who I wanted her to be like I did for so long.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 11:22 PM
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Dude I went through the same shit. Your story is the closest to mine I’ve ever read. I’ve been out 7 weeks now. Clarity/understanding came slowly of just how much I was carrying, how much I was sacrificing myself, and how unhealthy it was for me,how little she gave, and the actual type of mother she was after I left. After carrying so much guilt, It all was like a weight lifted off my shoulder that I’d been carrying for many years. Her mask came off, I finally saw how I was basically dragging he…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 12:42 PM
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I had a female mediator that seemed kinda biased
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 07:14 PM
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Divorce is total destruction for the man, cash and prizes for the woman. A man will sacrifice himself for his family, a woman will sacrifice family for herself.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/26 08:24 PM
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Find every opportunity to compliment her progress. And to be encouraging. its most likely better to support her through this than divorce
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 06:10 PM
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Trying working out with her. Start walking together. Hopefully move up to jogging. Talk to her about your concerns but make sure you do it in the right way.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 11:11 PM
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Dude she’s got to ask you for it at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 10:39 PM
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Fuck yea👊
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 04:55 AM
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Success is the best revenge. Use the pain as fuel to create the best version of yourself
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 04:25 AM
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Sorry man. She will get what’s coming to her eventually
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 12:55 AM
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My mother bailed on us when I was 5. Wanted to go live her life. Saw her a couple times a year then she died when I was 11.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 09:32 PM
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You might actually care more than me😆
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 05:18 PM
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Pretty sure she was just trying to set things up in advance. She was planning ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 04:23 PM
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Holy shit man that is FUCKED up.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 03:58 PM
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I mean to say, idc as long as it’s not someone my wife is overtly flirting with while she’s supposed to be watching my son box, who I’m not paying, and that I don’t have to look at everyday if I want to be involved in my sons boxing class. That would be a special kind of torture.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 02:37 PM
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It was an emotional affair mostly in her mind, I think right at the start he reciprocated some looks but not much more. But it was enough that she thought she was going to be able to monkeybranch when she left me, so she pulled the trigger and blew up our marriage. the branch broke
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 02:28 PM
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Well said my guy. Thank you for this. It’s exactly how I’m feeling
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 05:05 AM
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Don’t even bring it up. Just do what you gotta do without saying a word. Let her wonder
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 07:42 PM
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Yeah, I’m getting a divorce in California and it’s all cash and prizes for the women apparently. Even with 50-50 custody I gotta pay for them when they’re with me and I gotta pay for them when they’re with her. And yes, alimony for life unless she gets married.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 12:55 AM
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One option is go through with the divorce and then date her. That way you have the power and control over the situation. She gets demoted and has to prove herself to you again overtime and you take as much time as you want.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 04:01 AM
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Shes probably fucking him already. Best thing you can do is draw your boundaries hard and fast. Save yourself. Don’t be a pussy she’ll never respect you. It’s the only way at this point. You trying to change yourself now for her isn’t going to move the needle. It’s not about you anymore, It’s about this other guy.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 03:43 AM
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A man who respects himself enough to set boundaries is the most attractive. Your fucked otherwise
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 04:43 AM
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Well man, I’m just going through a divorce from a 15 year marriage with three kids. She had trauma that she never disclosed to me until afterwards just recently she has become someone unrecognizable rewritten our entire marriage and yeah, her justification for leaving me is based on a bunch of things that don’t hold water. Not to say I didn’t have a part in it. Yeah I’m getting kicked out of the house. She stays with her in-laws. I get nothing. I am on my own. Can’t even have the kids 50% of the…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 10:55 PM
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Check check check check check
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 03:48 AM
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That’s part of why I’m here. I’m never going back, I wasted enough time on games, had enough of my willpower sucked away by weed. That’s just me, to each their own. 🤙
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 04:52 AM
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A switch flipped and she became someone I never knew
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 02:40 AM
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Sorry brother. I’m just now ending a 14 year marriage too. I wish I had the awareness and communication skills to be the man she needed, but it would have been really tough regardless. Maybe it’s a blessing in disguise somehow.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 02:03 AM
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I’m fucked. I won’t find a better job than what I’ve currently got. Housing so expensive in so cal. No way for me to get 50/50 custody unless I found a partner that could help out
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 09:25 PM
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How do we join this?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 01:57 PM
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Yeah, she has created an unhealthy relationship with our son by using him as an emotional support. My work does dictate my possible visitation because I cannot adjust the schedule the problem with full weekends is that no place where I rent a room is going to want me to bring three kids over. I need to speak to an attorney and talk about options. Thanks for your comment.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 03:20 PM
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Omg this was so helpful. I’m going through it right now I’m so glad I found this. When I saw that you are a kiteboarder I got goosebumps because I am too. I would love to talk with you. Please send me a DM. Wife just told me last night she’s done, not the first time but last night she doubled down on it in a way she hasn’t before. Please reach out🙏
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 01:15 PM
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