bridge1999 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Men who feel the divorce came out of the blue, what kind of conversation do you wish your wife had with you and how far in advance do you wish she’d had it? Me me did the same but state she was poly	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 08:49 PM
1	Am I The Odd Divorced Dad? I’ve made sure my kids the same age can call me from their tablets. They call me 3+ days when they are at their mom’s for the week, 50/50 custody.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/26 01:31 AM
10	What would you have done differently Should have filled as soon as she pushed for an open marriage	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 05:16 PM
2	Even though you do your best to avoid…. Just cancel the streaming services you don’t use, she can always signup for the services she wants. Mine yelled about this and demand I have a court order to cancel Netflix 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 06:19 PM
6	Ex Wanting Intimacy Depending on state, having sex will still separated can restart the separation clock. This can just drag out the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 05:59 PM
6	Now it’s my fault? It’s always the man’s fault in their eyes. I get told it’s my fault because I wouldn’t support an open marriage and she wanted it. They can’t take responsibility for their actions	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/26 06:20 PM
10	Questions. The mother of my children no longer exists, it’s someone else in her body and that person is the meanest and most selfish person I have ever met.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/26 11:47 PM
12	It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven. Nope would not take her back	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 04:38 PM
3	I posted a couple days ago that I could only feel anger, well the sadness has hit and it’s so much worse One foot in front of the other and keep moving forward. Use your free time to get stuff done so it doesn’t have to be done when your kid is with you	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 11:36 PM
6	How do you even get to the sad part, I can only just feel anger It’s hard when it is her selfishness that caused all of this to happen	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 02:31 AM
3	How Can Someone Leave the Marriage and Still Feel Abandoned by You? My stbx paints me as the villain because I didn’t let her be polyamorous when we had been married for over 10 years in a monogamous relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/05/26 11:18 AM
3	Happy Sunday fellas, divorce sucks but what's one thing you're looking forward to this week? Down town at Sundown on Friday and listen to a few bands play	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/26 11:08 PM
4	Have "Christian" influencers like Lysa TerKeurst, Leslie Vernick, and Henry Cloud contributed to marriages falling apart? Mine it was Instagram, very similar content she was resharing. I filled for divorce and still going through the process.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:53 PM
4	Have "Christian" influencers like Lysa TerKeurst, Leslie Vernick, and Henry Cloud contributed to marriages falling apart? Then there is the social media rabbit hole pushing poly. Lost my wife when she told me she was poly and needs 3-5 more bfs to complete her. I didn’t want that.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 04:38 PM
15	Something I Will Not Miss. How About You? I hope I never have to hear about poly and how it’s ok to have as many sexual partners as she wants	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/26 05:16 PM
6	May I ask what led to your divorce? Mine would tell me I need to work on myself with a therapist but when I would ask her to name something, she would complain about her mental load and it was not her job to tell me what to work on. It’s super hard to work on something that you are oblivious to.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 06:22 PM
7	You guys were right… Sounds like my stbx at the public parks	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/26 09:33 PM
5	Anyone willing to admit they actually regret leaving? I gave her a choice of me or her being poly with multiple partners, she chose poly and I filed for divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/26 10:55 AM
1	Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman... So true, I have a platonic female friend and she has given me lots of insight.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/26 02:42 AM
8	How to you get over her? The woman I loved no longer exists, I’ve mourned the loss of her. It’s time to move on and start a new chapter in life	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/26 01:14 PM
2	Everyone recommends therapy but how many of you actually took therapy and saw some results? Please share good or bad results too! So far having a personal therapist has been beneficial. I’m in weekly sessions and being able to talk through the bs of the week that she is pulling. Last two weeks have been her trying to get me to take the kids out of state before custody has been settled	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/26 03:05 AM
5	Let’s be honest with each other….did alcohol contribute to the divorce? I had not had a drink in two years before I filled	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/26 01:30 AM
3	Splitting Asset Advice? It’s all going to get split 50/50 including 401k ,house equity, vehicle equity, debts	/r/Divorce_Men	20/04/26 05:28 PM
6	Roles of media My stbx would go on rants about how men don’t watch the kids, after she got back from a 2 week out of country trip where I had the kids 24/7. It’s all coming from social media influencers.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 07:00 PM
6	Was the divorce your fault? Stbxw decided she was poly and need 5 other male partners and I said nope and filled for divorce	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/26 06:37 PM
1	Going to be homeless Take out a home equity loan to pay her off	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/26 12:52 PM
2	How many times?! Just go get a lawyer and file	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/26 08:48 PM
7	What petty things became your fault? So many things I “didn’t do” because I was recovering from a surgery and couldn’t walk. Super hard to carry a kid when having to use crutches.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 09:22 PM