| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Death by a thousand cuts | Rant | Significant_Koala_61 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 07:19 AM |
| 14 | Is there any family law solicitors in this space? | Legal Rights | Significant_Koala_61 | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 10:25 AM |
| 4 | Offered 50/50 custody but… | Significant_Koala_61 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 12:53 AM | |
| 4 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test? | Getting Started | Significant_Koala_61 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 11:36 AM |
| 4 | When kids ask about the divorce… | Significant_Koala_61 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 10:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Was I in an abusive relationship?Yep, can’t trust a liar, they will stab you in the back so badly, as I found out first hand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 11:52 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 dads.That sounds good, you’re got it sorted, work a shorter day if you can; I’m about to, and if my work doesn’t gel with it so be it | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | When kids ask about the divorce…Well at least that’s a step in the right direction hey | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 05:29 AM |
| 1 | When kids ask about the divorce…Your comment about your settling in actually gave me some comfort so appreciate that mate 🍻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 05:27 AM |
| 2 | When kids ask about the divorce…On my gosh, that is traumatising, hope all is well, she needs to sort her stuff out or stop driving wow | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 12:50 AM |
| 3 | When kids ask about the divorce…I guess I’m that situation you had to answer honestly and leave the judgement up to they hey | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 12:48 AM |
| 2 | When kids ask about the divorce…Thanks, it sound like you’ve done well and I’m really glad your kids are comfortable there, it’s funny I’ve been exploring ideas of not having a bedroom and there’s a real good chance thatll happen | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 12:41 AM |
| 3 | When kids ask about the divorce…This is good to hear, I have massive fear of falling out of their lives, my oldest hides in his bedroom all day anyway, she’s trying to keep the house and pay me out and if she succeeds it’s going to be hard to get them to come over to my future crummy rental | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | When kids ask about the divorce…Yeah that checks out, my older boy doesn’t want to know about anything unless it’s gaming or tech related lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 08:56 PM |
| 2 | When kids ask about the divorce…Thanks, how was that received? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 08:55 PM |
| 3 | When kids ask about the divorce…Thank you and sorry to hear about that, hope it’s all going well now bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/26 06:24 AM |
| 3 | When kids ask about the divorce…I really appreciate your take on this man, all very sound advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 11:02 PM |
| 2 | When kids ask about the divorce…A fair call there. Yeah they’re 14, 10 and 10 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the feeling that you will never be loved again?Don’t let them stay at your house lads | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/26 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Not doing ok anymoreBro, first im very sorry, second, don’t give her any more of your mental processing bandwidth, she simply is just not worth any of it, you are having major adversity, adversity can build character and help you to become a greater man than you ever were, you can do this bro, fuck her, she can have her karma, best way to get back at her is by rebuilding yourself into the undeniable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/26 10:23 PM |
| 5 | How Important is a Prenup for those going through the process?Just don’t get married then you won’t need a pre nup, if she is a woman, she will dump you at your weakest moment when you need her most | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Self Representing Divorce case using AI..Anyone??If that’s the case then so could all her texts or? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/26 11:54 AM |
| 2 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainSorry to hear that mate, hope the kids are alright, you do what’s best for you and the kids, I’d say | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Wife Tracking My Activities and Our Travel, Divorce Prep?It’s over sorry bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Need adviceSorry to hear that bro, I would suggest listening to your therapist and then eventually all will be revealed anyway, hopefully by then you’ve moved on and don’t care | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 05:06 AM |
| 4 | Almost finalized divorce and find out oldest is not mine. How to handle this mess?The kids is yours the same way the dog is yours, but more attachment both ways, I wouldn’t say anything until they are 18, or likely you will lose custody of them and get cut off like a mate of mine was | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Frozen and struggling so badI’m sorry to hear that bro, if I can offer any advice it is to compartmentalise all of your tasks including lawyers, kids, finances etc, set times for each of them and chip away, when you hit the wall stop and move onto something else, come back to it later | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 07:30 AM |
| 1 | What led to you/ partner initiating the divorce? Did it happen in stages or spontaneously?Room mates co parenting 3 kids a number of other things lead to all that | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 04:25 AM |
| 1 | About Lawyers?My wife’s attorneys move at snails pace and have conceded quite a bit to my and my 2 x AIs, $$$ | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | As a woman… I just wanted to say I’m sorry and I see youYou are so right | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/26 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Why are men shamed for using porn?Cause we like it and it makes us happy | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | She filed and it’s a poor reflection on her.Sorry to hear that mate, she sounds like an actual piece of work, and trying to turn your kids against you is plain child abuse, the kids know they are half you, so she is attacking that half of them, I’m guessing that’s how it feels to them? Just another story of an entitled female, I’m guessing of the west? Cutting off her nose to spite her face. Everyone else picking up the pieces. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/26 09:58 PM |
| 7 | What was dating like after being divorced?Bro there’s none left after all that 🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 08:54 PM |
| 6 | I don't love my wife of 8 years any moreWith all due respect, is this a female poster? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/26 03:38 AM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Just had the talkYeah thanks and sorry to you also, there’s an old saying you meet your real wife during the divorce lol, whatever she is pulling was planned a long time ago, you likely didn’t get a chance, my situation 3 kids and we do own our own house so she will get it or most of it likely and I will get away from unhappy moody menopausal sad lady lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 08:33 PM |
| 12 | UPDATE: Just had the talkAlso bro, I just read about your house being owned by your parents in a trust; high five bro, you beat the system, normally always they can’t touch trusts with multiple beneficiaries, because of the multiple beneficiaries | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 07:13 AM |
| 9 | UPDATE: Just had the talkLawyers will go in extra strong in hopes you’ll accept less, don’t, good luck bro, keep us posted, in the exact same shit as you as we speak | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 07:12 AM |
| 2 | How to show my ex-wife's new boyfriend that he has no authority over my children or me.Yeah I bet, that fella sounds like an ahole but he’s no doubt been coached by your ex , just remember if he so much as shows any aggression towards your kids, ie they come to you and tell you, temporary protection order, restraining order, the police have no choice but to remove him, if he’s a dick to your kids, bye bye | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 09:18 PM |
| 0 | How to show my ex-wife's new boyfriend that he has no authority over my children or me.Entice him to hit you first and then it’s self defence | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Men haven’t really fallen behindI don’t think women are the winners here either in this situation, mind you man have and will continue to be quite expendable. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Men haven’t really fallen behindAt this point they know we know and are actively taking the piss out of us all | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Men haven’t really fallen behindSmart guy 👆 | /r/MensRights | 01/07/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice from divorced menYes, this, my soon to be ex wife got a heavy case of post natal depression on account of her hyperthyroid and general lack of sleep and anxiety. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Seeking advice from divorced menListen to him 👆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 09:23 PM |
| 9 | Seeking advice from divorced menBro I wish I was smart enough to ask this question before jumping off the cliff blindly. kudos to you. The most effective way and absolute full proof way to avoid divorce is to not get married in the first place. I recommend not involving the govt in your love life, you can get married in 1 minute with a pen, undoing it can take years. For a man, being married doesn’t really gain you anything at all, nothing changes, except your fate. Women expect you to lead them, whilst they will automatically… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Wife's birthday coming up. Do I send anything or stay no contact?Fair enough bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/26 03:24 AM |
| 2 | A year after my divorce, I noticed something funny.Ow, my balls! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/26 09:13 PM |
| 5 | If somebody's wife hit on you, would you hook up with them?Nah, that’d make you a home wrecker | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Wife just called me and screamed at me after getting my lawyer’s response to the equitable distribution. Just need to ventI’m hearing you loud and clear my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 01:19 AM |
| 3 | To everyone going through it right now, there IS light at the end of the tunnel. I promiseI needed this thanks bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Do people ask you when you tell them you are getting a divorce…Nope they mostly seem to show sympathy to me and ask if there’s anything they can do, which for me is appreciated but at the end of the day I have to do this, alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 09:28 PM |
| 6 | I hate her, badlySorry man, yeah she probably is worthy of your angry essay, don’t let her live in your head too long though bro, she doesn’t deserve the bandwidth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Dating AgainJust in the separation process currently, doubt I’ll ever use the dodgy apps, and since I don’t really meet a lot of women my age, it’s not looking hopeful | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Early separation with a baby - wife wants full custody and near zero visitation. What should I be doing?The boy needs you, fight | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Venting - in the sauceI’m sorry you find yourself here mate, with a bit of luck you end up on the other side of this with some peace, spare time and meaning to life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Son turned 16 and ghosted dad.Yeah I guess, if she keeps the house in the same way if I kept the house, he’s a home body, if I kept the house likely he would want to stay put also, it’s all he’s ever known and he’s very digital, I try to get him into other stuff but he just isn’t interested, my other 2 kids will be okay though I would say, in the end because they’ll be awfully uncomfortable to begin with and I wonder whether her olive branch of 5050 but she keeps the house is premeditated on the fact she knows the kids will … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Son turned 16 and ghosted dad.Very worried this is about happen to me with my 14 year old, everything you said, all the signs are there | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 12:17 AM |
| 3 | The part of single fatherhood I didn’t see comingHaha, good confidence, I think they’d all be better off with dad learning the practical ways, pretty sure some study said solo dads produce better results than solo mums but it could be my fukt up algorithm lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:42 AM |
| 2 | The part of single fatherhood I didn’t see comingI haven’t moved out yet, but feel like I do most household chores and kid ferrying around already, I expect more spare time, and that is actually a worry if I can’t fill it productively and keep my marbles. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorceShould be automatic everywhere and allegations needs actual proof also. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | LonelinessThanks for that, I’m early stages still, separated, negotiation phase, 23 years, 3 kids and a dog, kind of the same nothing terrible happened, just grew apart, part of me yearns to not have to listen to her in the nearby future, I see elements of her heartlessness with me, when she communicates with the kids and I quietly despise her when she gets cold with them, I’m never cold with them like that | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | LonelinessCan you expand please on the real education? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 09:06 AM |
| 1 | What are the signsI was kidding myself for years | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What are the signsSorry to hear you went through the same bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 08:24 PM |
| 3 | I know nowAm I sorry bro, that is so unbelievable and you are dead right, selfish, puts herself before everybody else, common theme in 2026, wishing you the best of luck with it 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 11:50 AM |
| 6 | What are the signsYes absolutely, they pull away, stop touching you, at all unless you initiate, when you talk about ideas for finance or wealth creation they aren’t interested cause they’ve already checked out, constant criticism and complaining about their life, excluding you from their social circle, not joining you with your social circle, to name a few, would be plenty more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 11:47 AM |
| 2 | She keeps lying about me…Yes being lied about, misrepresented, misunderstood completely, character assassinated, has a real effect on how others perceive you or the reality that exists at all as painted by her is twisted. Bro I know what it’s like, still going through the separation, with 3 kids, but prior to all this, I have caught her out randomly on her phone multiple times absolutely destroying my character, it was gross. I think they put the ugly part of their personality on us, they think we think like them, but w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/26 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Things just keep somehow getting worse manYes classic projection, stay strong bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/26 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Things just keep somehow getting worse manSorry man that super sucks, she sounds terrible | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Thought I’d update every now and thenRumination is unhealthy for your brain bro, it’s a natural thing, but can I share some advice that helped me? When it happens next time, thoughts are spinning, take a moment to recognise it as rumination, label it as rumination, put it aside, this tricks your brain into making a kind of separation from it and a compartment for it, that separation gives you breathing space and helps you to train your brain to do it a lot less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Happy Sunday fellas, divorce sucks but what's one thing you're looking forward to this week?Charcoal barbecue and ale | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 12:18 PM |
| 4 | ReconciliationLet her go man, keep working on you and you will become something better | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Divorcing after 20 years of relationship. Panic at falling apart.Having a bit of quiet time in a busy house and having totally alone time in an empty house are nowhere near the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Living separatelyNever move out lads until there is a structured arrangement that is iron clad | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Offered 50/50 custody but…Wise advice, I have multiple AIs including a family law AI, helping me script all communications and everything is the right tone, confidence level and boundary setting, obviously add a human touch to it | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Can’t stop the tearsSo sorry bro, I hope there’s no kids involved and you can make a clean get away from that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for staying hopeful?Easy bro. The thing is, you taking a stand, taking the lead, being decisive and letting her know what you will and will not accept, for your own happiness and wellbeing and future, is probably the most likely thing to turn her around when she can see that you are serious, confident and basically don’t need her, then it will still be up to you whether you want to carry on or not, but under the new paradigms you have set. Whatever that may be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Am I wrong for staying hopeful?I’m so sorry my man, you have to let her go, I’ve been through what you’re going through already, no amount of concessions you make, effort you put in, things you abstain from or start doing, will turn it around, once they turn it’s over, my advice, rip the band aid off first, set firm boundaries, accept nothing less, likely she will just go, good, it wasn’t meant to be, sorry bro, we’re here all the time if you need to discuss | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Offered 50/50 custody but…You’re damn right she would | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Offered 50/50 custody but…All I’ve ever received is manipulation and this is just the latest stage of it, appreciate your feedback man 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get outFeel good that you can walk away clean, kids generally make that complicated | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do people afford this?In Australia, there’s RYTZ, there’s another that I haven’t used called courtaid, very important recommend using the one developed in your country for your legal system. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 12:50 AM |
| 4 | How the hell do people afford this?Have heard some lawyers treat your financial disclosure as a clue to how much they can milk you for, personally so far, haven’t reached court yet, trying to get out of court settlement using multiple AIs including a family law specialist AI, subscription cost only so far | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Facebook Dating TabSorry man, recommend the high road, avoiding conflict, and spending that time 1 on 1 with your child, that’s what counts now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Do the hits stop coming?Sorry bro, and your eye sounds ouch, hope it all gets better soon mate, we’re always here if yeah need a rant | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 01:44 PM |
| 6 | I'm getting bitter towards relationships in generalBro it’s good you are 24 and are now this cynical, don’t let the angry consume you, look after your health, and then going forward you know how to treat them, or rather keep them away from your property etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Ten Years Down the DrainSorry bro, all my advice is since I am going through it at snails pace currently, is get it done as soon as you can, she’s like cancer for your well being at this point | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Tale of two Mothers daysPretty sure nearly all the men in this group, their ex or stbx, just sits there on phone and laptop 24/7, barely moves, no hobbies and no fun for anybody, and for me I wish my kids had a much better role model from their mum, as for me at least I want to actively get out and explore and have fun, she imparts hand breaks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 09:50 PM |
| 5 | SBXW Falling apart but seems happy?This is good for you bro, and everything you’re seeing is a total facade, she knows deep down inside the truths of everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 09:02 PM |
| 3 | If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ?I help with the gifts and make sure it’s a nice day, but don’t have to say anything | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How does one actually become a better manOkay sorry fungal is meant to be downfall lol, easier said than done I would say, but even just communicating it out there, you’re on the right track bro, we’re here for you anytime | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Shifting processingThat’s very aware of you to accept your responsibility, I wonder if she is able to do the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Shifting processingPossibly? The thing I’m hearing is she processed your divorce years ago and you are just at the beginning yourself, this is common apparently, sorry bro, that part is the same for me and I know mine well enough to know there is at the very least thoughts of somebody else and at worst hidden affair because of generally how useless she is by herself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How does one actually become a better manI’m am hearing you need to reset your nervous system out of fight or flight mode with processing of your flaws that was your part that lead to the fungal of your marriage, I don’t know? Sounds semi-plausible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Need advice . Wife agrees to go our separate ways and live apart for good , but still wants to fuck exclusively .Totally | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Something I Will Not Miss. How About You?Just separated not quite divorced yet, but I will not miss her fighting with my kids and making one of them cry every day, whilst enabling bad behaviours like skipping sports days because she’s lazy and her family are also, won’t miss all the extra dishes, her $500 a week worth of food she buys mostly for herself, her laundry I have to do; her extra dishes I have to do, her passive aggression her shitty cooking, her mess, and most of all, her lack of appreciation for all that i have done for her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Something I Will Not Miss. How About You?I’m feeling this one especially | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 3 | You guys were right…Omg sorry bro, document as much as you can and take steps, do not do anything that can be used against you, follow the procedures clean and start immediately | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 05:20 AM |
| 5 | May I ask what led to your divorce?She never wanted to a be a mother and I took the blame for it is what I reckon | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Death by a thousand cutsI guess it isn’t all bad, I have been a heavily involved father for the the last 13 years (about when she got post partum depression, that lead into hyper thyroid, Graves’ disease and thyroid cancer, basically when she turned on me, was then) | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 08:58 PM |
| 7 | It happened to meBro, this woman is making this like it’s your fault and then seeing other guys away from home with 2 kids at home, unbelievable, do what you think is best, but it sounds like with limited available information from your post she is totally toxic and needs to go | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Death by a thousand cutsTotally, however can’t help but feel she’s exactly the type of person that would make me look like a bad person to my kids with my back turned, the evidence is there already, however they tell me what she says so we will find that out, yes I will be much better off, just got to get through the custody and asset battle, setup somewhere new somehow and rebuild a drama free woman free zone | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Death by a thousand cutsGlad for you, this is good | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Death by a thousand cutsOh it’s actually worse than that sadly, I’ve caught her out lying about me to her friends multiple times before our separation, she would make things up basically, or exaggerate a situation very poorly in my direction, also mocked me and I’m pretty sure but without solid proof she’s has at least one emotional affair , which means there’s a good chance when we were younger she would’ve had a physical one some time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Death by a thousand cutsAppreciate that man thanks, and was looking at some photos the other day as my weight goes up and down, I realise around the house I am not always so handsome and I need to bulk up a bit or something | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Death by a thousand cutsAbsolutely I am not sure that a future girlfriend will exist under the same paradigms as all the last, we clearly aren’t on even ground so maybe no sleepovers at my place sort of thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Death by a thousand cutsYou got this bro and if they are already enjoying coming around that is a great place to start | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Death by a thousand cutsHey man thanks for sharing, I think communication was always going to be hard because a man thinks with logic and a woman with emotion, generally speaking, it’s great to hear that you are getting more involved with the kids, maybe they might not be as comfortable, but the upside could be that they might get to know you much better? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Death by a thousand cutsThat’s sounds like a very worthwhile use of your time and energy bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 11:43 AM |
| 8 | EntitlementSorry to hear bro, I guess for your kids sake, fake that you don’t hate that bitch, while they’re around | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Death by a thousand cutsThanks man appreciate it, looking forward to some solid self improvement hopefully | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Death by a thousand cutsThanks for sharing man, your point about repeating these patterns strikes a chord with me, after reading your comment, I have definitely been the same in other relationships, well I’d like to hope that after this last 22-23 year stint that i might be a bit wiser and more aware of the situations that I will maybe one day find myself in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 08:00 AM |
| 13 | Anybody else just feel crazy?Women don’t really love, I don’t think? Not like men do, maybe to their children but Im not even sure about that now. I’m never going to be vulnerable to women again, it’s me first from now on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Wife moved on fastTemporary protection order if he touches your kid is one thing you can do | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Torn between saving my marriage and walking away — I feel completely lostHey man, sending positive vibes your way, currently battling for 50/50 myself, and it should be base line anyhow, they shouldn’t ever get 80/20 or even 60/40 with a blemish free past. Some countries are onto this, others not so much. It takes a little while to cond yo grips with gets happening but you can do this and you can become a better person out of it I believe, that she could do this to you and your children, you don’t need her I don’t think bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:24 PM |
| 3 | What if something happens to me when my kid is with me?Only a worthy caring father would be worried about this | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 05:55 AM |
| 13 | Why do step dads get such a raw deal?Have heard, step mothers get all the authority but none of the responsibility, step father gets none of the authority but all of the responsibility | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Couples therapy has been enlighteningI went to therapy with my stbx and it was a disaster, was more of a roast, all this stuff she couldn’t tell me in person and it honestly put me off her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 08:09 AM |
| 5 | I don't get mixed signalsBro, they are all nuts, crazy, I’ve had enough also, she served me divorce docs 2 weeks ago , via email from her lawyer without heads up other than always expressing how unhappy she was (which she always is, not my fault), traditionally we would eat dinner and hang out, I told her, hey, not gonna eat or hang out with you anymore, we’ve got 3 kids so it’s business only, then she got weird and sad and I’m like , well you want me out your life I’m out, simple really , your loss | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Let’s be honest with each other….did alcohol contribute to the divorce?Personally I don’t think so, and that’s as a somebody who traditionally drank a fair bit, when I met my wife she was chugging beers next to me at all the parties, after 3 kids years later, no drinking whatsoever and when she did she got angry, I didn’t change much, she changed a lot and think that’s the reality, us men are simple, I play handball with my kids and do outdoorsy stuff and sometimes I sneak a beer in, my wife never does any of that stuff and never the beers, she could use a beer; mo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/26 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test?Australia and most probably other uk colonies, uk itself | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test?Agree mate, thanks for that, I’m cleaning up | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test?Thanks for sharing, yep after what I’ve been through and read over the last little while I think that’s going to be easiest for me also, just not worth getting silver bulleted by the other side over it | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test?Honestly you are right, I am sometimes good during the week and sometimes not and now I’m just off everything, we are only in custody and settlement negotiation, hoping to avoid court for the sake of our kids inheritances | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Anybody have to do an Alcohol Test?Much appreciated mate, yes I am basically clean with the odd weekend beer, doesn’t sound like I can even have that sadly, but my kids are worth more than beer so there you go, she hasn’t asked, as yet, but it’s in her first letter | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Need some supportSo sorry for you to find yourself in this situation mate, how incredibly selfish a manoeuvre and speaking as a musician, she’s better off doing her performing at home online anyhow | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, how many of you in a relationship with a woman now that was hotter than your ex?Why are all the lunatics and I like this one, rocket ships, in bed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Wife just served me divorce papersRight there with you bro, sorry about that, just got served myself 2 weeks ago, no heads up other than the degrading relationship that I was doing my best to hold together for our 3 young kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/26 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Louis C.K. was cancelled by feminists even though he asked for consentI’m going my own way from now on, and if I need a root I’ll pay a hooker, she won’t know my name, where I live or anything about me | /r/MensRights | 19/04/26 10:27 PM |
| 7 | This was cheating by her, right?Yes you have it worked out | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | My ex's boyfriend thinks he can discipline our teenage children and that he has parental authority over my kids.All your kid has to do is make an allegation of abuse and that’s it, temporary protection order, he’s out, that’s the system, it’s against males, use it against him | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 10:44 PM |
| 6 | this shit is getting oldI’m not black but I hear you bro, I’m a white man, so all the entitlements that come with that, or so we were told and now going through custody battle in a system that was designed for me to be a compliant cuck basically | /r/MensRights | 18/04/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | My ex's boyfriend thinks he can discipline our teenage children and that he has parental authority over my kids.Just upper cut him, make sure nobodies around and there’s no evidence | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 09:48 PM |
| 5 | Unbelievable interaction with the ex yesterdayYes they are all basically selfish hoos | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is there any family law solicitors in this space?All good advice thank you, I am in Queensland , we are civil atm, for the kids, but we are at beginning stages currently so a lot to unfold still. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Australia Has Legalised Accusation-Based Punishment for Men in Relationships — And Nobody's Talking About ItYep, seen it happen with my own eyes, not me but someone close that is harmless | /r/MensRights | 14/04/26 10:47 AM |
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