myquidproquo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	How important is age?	Fundamentals	myquidproquo	/r/seduction	01/04/25 06:37 AM

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5	One year out. I’m doing all the “right” things but it still hurts like hell Where is your guitar, dude? You’re hitting the gym. Doing the therapy. You’re on the right path. But you’re missing one key ingredient in your divorce recovery kit. You need a cheap and beautiful electric guitar (for me it was a Squire Telecaster), a guitar stand and a really good course on how to improvise. Learn the pentatonic scale and just go from there. I want to emphasize the being beautiful and cheap and the importance of the stand. You want to wake up with that thing staring at you and t…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 06:31 AM
8	How long do you wait for a response on whether she wants to file for divorce or try to work on things? Isn’t trial separation the new guy test drive?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/26 06:15 AM
5	You guys were right… Oh, he knows...He knows.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/26 10:57 PM
23	You guys were right… Ignore the other dude which obviously is just a piece of shit, so you don’t even want to mess with shit. Contact a lawyer, try to be calm, don’t bring it up. But know this: it’s over! Completely over! Don’t listen to her fucking regrets, and therapies and bullshit. It’s over, friend. You’re going to be alright. EDIT: just want to clarify that I was referring to couples therapy, if she brings it up. You might gain a lot from going to individual therapy if you somehow end up feeling guilt or other…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/26 08:48 PM
4	Kind of afraid to even bother with dating 40 yo. 2 kids. Only had one relationship my whole life. You’ll be fine 🙂	/r/Divorce_Men	19/04/26 06:37 AM
2	on a crossroad 15 years relationship, 2 kids, no sex is the most famous trope of this sub. Mine too. It was infidelity.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 10:44 PM
5	"no more Mr nice guy" attitude. Man, just don't do that. You keep validating that you still think about her while she's definitely with someone else. Remove yourself from that. I'm telling you has a guy who also had a relationship for 15+ years. You don't have to remind her of anything. THEY DON'T CARE! Treat her like a distant business partner for the sake of your kids. Keep it clean and professional. But please, DON'T SHARE YOUR FEELINGS WITH HER! Share them with us. We got you!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 05:25 PM
1	BEING A DORK IS A SUPER POWER I might be that guy. And approaching 40. And recently divorced… I believe I’m getting better. Is there hope for someone like me? Teach me sensei.	/r/seduction	18/02/26 08:24 PM
3	Wake up call. Your wife can cheat on you, even if she is not a cheater. Trust your feelings. The “we are just friends” is total bullshit. There’s literally a book called “Not just friends”, about infidelity. That doesn’t mean go take action and confront everyone. Accept the situation. Accept the idea that your relationship is at risk. Surviving this might even strengthen your relationship. Who knows? Don’t ignore the signs. A particular common one is she investing in her looks (makeup, buying clothes, working out, etc…). Maybe she wants more privacy more often (givi…	/r/seduction	14/06/25 04:02 PM
9	Wake up call. Your wife can cheat on you, even if she is not a cheater. It’s different for long term relationships. Read my answer to this and the other guy who was married for 30 years. I never controlled my wife activities, it was a very healthy relationship. She didn’t want to cheat until it “happened”. This is her deeply held belief, regardless of being total bullshit. Most of these situations start in emotional affair at work. They are not looking for anything. There’s this guy who supports her in a hard time at work and they feel that this fucker is like the s…	/r/seduction	11/06/25 06:44 AM
10	Wake up call. Your wife can cheat on you, even if she is not a cheater. This is true. My wife of 16 years, two kids, and that I’ve known since I was 10 yo cheated on me last year. We are separating now on good terms. I know for a fact that she never cheated before that and that she told me about the other guy before they had sex. I also know that she believes that this was something that “happened” to her that she can’t really justify. She wasn’t looking for anything until it “happened”. I won’t tell you how I know, but you probably can guess. This is not something …	/r/seduction	11/06/25 06:26 AM
6	Is it normal ? More or less the same thing. Also the good vacation where everything is fine…Yes, she was already cheating.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/25 10:27 PM
5	Hit me like a brick wall This is great progress. Consider therapy to deal with the guilt. Regain your independence. Stop asking for permissions. Try to live your life completely independent of her. Support her only with very practical matters that lead to a complete separation. Do not show her feelings. Do not give her emotional support. No breakfasts. No hugs. This is not to hurt her. This is for yourself. To regain your sense of worth. To regain your inner strength. Speaking of strength. Consider going to the gym and …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/25 06:54 AM
10	Hit me like a brick wall Just adding my voice to the “you’re being cheated” crowd. I’ve known my wife for almost 30 years, we met when we were 10. Everything you say you could have done it would not have saved anything. Do not blame yourself. Do not justify yourself. Do not say you love her.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/25 08:57 PM
0	Verge of Divorce I’m joining the voices that say that you are at a high risk of being cheated on! This is very very common. 2 kids, 10+ years and no sex life is like the common story on this sub. I really don’t want to scare you, but once my wife started to suggest to me that I could hook up with someone else she was already cheating… Be mindful of other signs (being more on the phone, buying make up and dressing well, etc…) I honestly believe that the only ways out of this are: Divorce Making her feel more attr…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/25 06:07 PM
3	Wife left me but kept some posts. You remind me of my past self. I can tell you some of the reasons why she told you she would work on it… Because she was not ready to leave. Because she wanted the confort of not having to deal with the consequence of her actions. Because she wanted you to be there to support her lifestyle while she was fucking the other guy. Because she wanted you to be there as backup plan if things didn’t go well. Because in her own story she is not a villain, she will always be a victim. Because she thought …	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/25 04:49 AM
14	My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything. 38, same situation. 16 years together. Go through some of the posts in here. This “15 years and she left” thing is the biggest trope ever. And you know what is the other trope? They never leave to be alone. They always have someone! I bet that you’ve noticed that she’s suddenly dressing and caring about her looks… Anyway… Start individual therapy. Deal with your feelings of sadness, anger and guilt. You are not responsible for any of this! She is. No dramas, no “I love you”, no hugs, no sorries,…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/25 06:44 AM
2	I'm not new here & I know you're bored with this question. "how to seduce girls? Man, for some reason this comment just feels like The truth. I think I need to read this every day when I wake up.	/r/seduction	31/03/25 09:20 PM