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| 6 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.I guess so crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:31 PM |
| 2 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Yeah I'll admit when she would beat the shit out of me I would get in her face no contact though but fuck that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:30 PM |
| 4 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.She knew I was a wrestler and boxer? I don't know never hurt her. Never hurt any woman physically. It's just bullshit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:27 PM |
| 7 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Like WTF? Right? 13 years never laid a hurtful hand on her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:23 PM |
| 7 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Dude sorry SO relatable. The webs they spin. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:21 PM |
| 5 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Roger that. Ironically she set up security cameras and recorded phone calls. Like lady what? Claimed it was to make sure I was okay. Insane. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 3 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.This is it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:12 PM |
| 3 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 5 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Yeah sorry man. Would always ask her on dates in public places so she could feel safe. So nuts. She was the one who beat the shit out of me. Like what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:00 PM |
| 6 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Spot on she went scorched Earth on me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:54 PM |
| 5 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.Thank you brother. Had me questioning my morality. Such a mind Phuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.You too my guy, thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Dude relatable. I would have died for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:35 PM |
| 2 | The people who have hurt me most in life have been womenYep. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol and other substancesWent crazy on beer when she divorced me. Ended up in the hospital from a cement face plant. Neighbors called the squad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Thank you kind stranger! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Divorce is hitting hardBullshit they believe lies and call us liars. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Divorced man claiming I was narcissisticYep mine called me one too. I'm an empath but whatever i guess, never in my life was I called that. I suspect projection. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 11:12 AM |
| 8 | Divorce is hitting hardThis period. Once they are done with you they morph into massively hateful bitches .It's uncanny. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Need helpTook me 9 months to be ready to date again. 13 year marriage. It will happen in time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Thamk you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Having “ the talk” tomorrow . Any tips?Get a lawyer and be kind when telling her. Rip the band aid off. If she gets rattled and has a tantrum, do not give in with anger remain calm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Yeah I'm starting to notice them again but it took 9 long months. Meanwhile she's been with someone else for months probably before the divorce. Thought she was different man. Nope all the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Thanks days feel so long without her but getting ready to start dating again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.For sure going for my PhD in the fall. So that's some gangster shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Struggling with the decisionSounds like me ex wife she was full of hate, Most women I've dated were shy and kind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Typos mo mo | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.I don't do porn. Great advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.hard truth thanks. sucks ass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Yeah thanks brother. Damn this shit hurts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Agree with all of it. Lost the need (not want) for sex years ago but a woman with a fun personality? I'm cooked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 09:47 PM |
| -1 | Dudes can't stop thinking about her. Every other women is invisible.Thanks man. Fucking blows. I'm in this dichotomy state of being loyal but wanting some pussy. I hate it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had to make the decision to file for divorce?I've researched it impacts mental health too. She was sweet and loving then turned into a raging bitch. Drugs might as well be heroine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had to make the decision to file for divorce?Yep. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 09:07 PM |
| 3 | I need to know that I am not aloneYou've got us. Here for you. It sucks only way out is through, doesn't it doesn't sting like siting on a hornet's nest. Ask me how I know. Aunt had to pull stingers out of my ass for hours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 06:19 PM |
| 6 | How tough it is to go for Divorce while having 2 Kids?None of it is easy brother. Still busted. Miss her so much, Godspeed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had to make the decision to file for divorce?Nope I was ride or die and she did the GLP1 and started working out after 13 years. Bitch left soon after. At least she lost her huge tits. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 06:14 PM |
| 4 | DoneStay in the house and tell her to fucking kick rocks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 12:05 PM |
| 7 | May I ask what led to your divorce?We both made mistakes, I forgave hers she harbored mine. Damn. Also GLP1. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 11:53 AM |
| 12 | You guys were right…My ex did the same shitty. I live in a big city but my ex started going to 12 reunion meetings in her small hometown and getting her nails done. Lying cleating bitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | 9 months out from 13 years.I'll fall in love but no strings attached this time. Fuck that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Today we legally filed for DivorceI'm not made of steel, still love her her and miss her, Wish one one day I could see other women like I see her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Today we legally filed for DivorceDude the emotions will come and go. Sit with them like a Buddhist and analyze/ponder. Doesn't mean it's easy. Life is pain is their philosophy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 05:48 PM |
| 2 | 9 months out from 13 years.Sorry brother blows. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 3 | 9 months out from 13 years.Yes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 4 | 9 months out from 13 years.Fucking blows right? Think I'm ok then I'm broken again randomly. Falling in love with a woman is not for the faint of heart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants to be debt freeIf anything is in her name you done fucked up, sorry my guy. Lawyer up NOW. 13 years never let her put her name on shit. They might one day come after you for money like mine did but I was protected. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 2 | 9 months out from 13 years.It blows I'm sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How did you value your home?Thankfully kept it all in my name. Makes it easier. Get calls from realtors weekly, eventually pranked them. Home is paid off Eff them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | The change is wildRelatable. I'm sorry. They turn into a shell of their former selves. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 12:57 PM |
| 7 | The change is wildThis. You see who she really was. They chase fantasy. They are Disney princesses in their mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 10:38 AM |
| 5 | The change is wildI get it it she would just tell me my faults. I asked what qualities I have, Crickets. I think they do it to reduce guilt like assholes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 10:36 AM |
| 2 | I'm not an anxious person but I'm all types of fucked up over this.Need to get there, she was so controlling wouldn't let me go back to get my PhD. Going back in the fall to start the program and be a college professor. FREEDOM TO BE ME AGAIN! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:47 AM |
| 3 | I'm not an anxious person but I'm all types of fucked up over this.We get you, After 13 years she went from loving and giving to a raging vindictive bitch. Strangers treat me better. No idea why so much hatred toward me. I'm 9 months out and still miss her but what can you do other than wish them a good life? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:40 AM |
| 0 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Sad but true. She doesn't give AF about me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:35 AM |
| 2 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Pretty rapidly, She used to work out a ton and plateaued at around 10-15lbs. But still had her chest. Lost over 40lbs. with the drug in about 8 months. She looks sickly now. I actually felt sorry for her when she came over. Still love the woman inside but damn girl. And yes boobs are fatty tissue and those drugs target fat to destroy. Their purpose is to nurse infants not turn men on, but... | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Getting there loyalty and love for her her are fading finally. She was miles ahead of me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | GLP-1s marriage killers?In 6 years we might reconcile. Yeah let me do that sweetheart lol. In other words I'm now Plan B. Fuck that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:11 AM |
| 4 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Relatable. I met this SMOKING hot girl and we chatted for hours at the bar but found out she was still married had to nope out. Can't do that to a brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 09:07 AM |
| 1 | ~16 months in, been saying "at least it can't get any worse" (and then it does) for too long. I just want my life and myself back.I'm midweat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Same guy whose wife tried to hire a friend to kill me, last night found another crazy thing.The fuck? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Just paid final spousal support paymentI get it. I grew up poor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I’m doneSorry brother divorce blows. A second marriage? Fuck no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Never needed gear to get swole. Was accused all the time. Still I wonder what gear would morph me into lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 06:57 PM |
| 6 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Yep. Pretty obvious. Tells me maybe in 6 years like WTF? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Well I finally went through with it.It's going to be a whirlwind of emotions, sleepless nights and no appetite. Shit goes away and you are a Greek God. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 0 | GLP-1s marriage killers?I mean she is not the same. Not the woman I fell in love with. Still love her as a person deeply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:45 PM |
| -3 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Sadly yes maybe was just justifying the pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Nailed it. Wow. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | GLP-1s marriage killers?I mean been with women with tats not a fan. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:30 PM |
| -7 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Totally not trying to be a dick love that woman with everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:28 PM |
| 0 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Could be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:26 PM |
| -6 | GLP-1s marriage killers?I mean I love her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Lol true! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Trying to understand what this meansDude they don't even know. They follow emotion we follow logic. She's lucky to wipe her own ass. That's like an Olympic gold medal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 10:03 AM |
| 0 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titsGot it. Sorry man sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:57 AM |
| 11 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titsLawyer Do you have a helmet? Put it on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titsYes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:52 AM |
| 2 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titslol couldn't get a hand around one before GLP-1 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:46 AM |
| 3 | I spent 7k on ex wife’s titsMy ex lost her tits not paying shit. She had huge ones now just nipples. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Just paid final spousal support paymentDude I paid mine one lump sum get her cheating ass out of my life. Congrats see you later bitch. (not you) | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | ~16 months in, been saying "at least it can't get any worse" (and then it does) for too long. I just want my life and myself back.DM me your location if you're close we can have a grill out and nature hike and just talk bullshit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:24 AM |
| -8 | GLP-1s marriage killers?Lol she doesn't have any. Can't stand women with tats. Wish she got a tramp stamp so I wasn't so attracted to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:12 AM |
| 0 | I'm down bad bros.Can't do it just makes want to bad things to him. But another woman is around the corner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:43 AM |
| 2 | I'm down bad bros.My guy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm down bad bros.This! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 03:29 AM |
| 3 | How much responsibility do you bear for your divorce?Me screwed up lost the love of my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 02:42 AM |
| 8 | Ex wife picsDude I got rid of all that shit. Too painful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 02:17 AM |
| 8 | The Limbo PeriodMine moved out to cheat. DO NOT LEAVE THE HOUSE. My lawyer told me this. If you want it keep it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:58 AM |
| 2 | I'm down bad bros.Thank you, starting to be open to the idea now. I couldn't let go of loyalty for awhile after 13 years. But the fog is lifting. Hey ladies! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Naf5uJYGoiU&list=RDNaf5uJYGoiU&start_radio=1 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 01:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm down bad bros.Kind of you man she was my baby girl. Damn it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:49 PM |
| 3 | I'm down bad bros.Hookers think this way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:46 PM |
| 3 | I'm down bad bros.You get it. What is this nihilist bullsit? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm down bad bros.Roger that | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Revenge cheatingCheating on either side is weak. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to doSounds like you two are a bad match bud. Next woman? Keep your trouser snake just for her and only her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm down bad bros.Need to ride again!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm down bad bros.When it's over it's loving yo hateful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 07:13 PM |
| 7 | I'm down bad bros.Love it man just want to fall out of love with her.. Damn this shit. Thanks for your share. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 03:33 PM |
| 7 | I'm down bad bros.Thank you brother. Damn I loved her I coached her I did everything I could to help. Bailed her out of debt. Asked her what my qualities were. Silence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 11:46 AM |
| 7 | I'm down bad bros.Divorced she intentionally came over asked to use my computer and left the screen up for her new man. Broke me. Like just live your life. How many ways do ways do you want to hurt me? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | UK Dad (early 40s) thinking about separating. What was the reality vs. your expectations?It all sucks either way look out t for you you. Greetings from across the pond. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I Can't See A Future For MeYeah man my loyalty to her is a mind fuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | LimboThis never marrying again, only here for the pussy honey. Then kick rocks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 08:54 AM |
| 3 | It happened to meGold. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 08:21 AM |
| 5 | It happened to meLawyer up when they are done believe them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 08:20 AM |
| 8 | How can I stop feeling hurt by her new relationship?When I figure it out I'll let you know. Still crushed. Women just don't look the same to me. Before I met my wife it was full color now even beautiful women are black and white. Sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 08:10 AM |
| 8 | Anyone willing to admit they actually regret leaving?She initiated. Had no choice. Fought like hell. GLP-1 and out the door. Even injected her to help herr. No idea I was injecting divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 08:04 AM |
| 3 | I’m concerned for my dadDivorce is statistically harder on men and I also used beer to cope. He has to want to stop, pushing will only piss him off. Ask me how I know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Relationship with Ex after DivorceBrother thank you, you nailed it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Relationship with Ex after DivorceI think you're right and I think she already is. I suspect she monkey branched while married. Claimed to need to go an hour north to her hometown for alumni reunion meetings like 12 times. Seriously 12 times? 13 years in the crapper and SHE was the one pushing for marriage. FML | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 06:15 AM |
| 4 | How often do they come back?Outside of my ex wife they all came back. Source 30+ Women | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Relationship with Ex after DivorceMy asshole ex came over asked to use my computer and left an inquiry for a gift idea for her new man on my screen just to hurt me as much as possible. It worked, I was pissed and challenged him. She revealed in it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Relationship with Ex after DivorceGood point my ex of 13 years did everything she could to destroy me. No reason why. I only ever loved cherished and adored her. Was loyal and never abused her. Think it was that damn GLP-1. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Relationship with Ex after DivorcePerfect thread for me, great advice. Was trying for friendship but nope. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Being divorced hurtsHardest event t of my life and I've been though a ton. Used beer heavily initially got blasted to unfeel the pain of loss. Lean on us, support groups, call 988 and warmlines. My two first months post, I had to fight to not delete daily. Just broke me. 13 years love of my life and best friend. Poof just like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Do not miss wife at all…9 months out of 13 miss her and love her. Sucks. She would also tell me to propose, I did to give happiness. Her parents spent 10s of thousands only for her to bail. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:11 AM |
| 6 | What to do when the stbxw hits the wall?Dude I'd give left arm to have her back but I had to let her go. I think she's with another man already in her hometown. Guy that took her to prom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I broke and begged her back.Me either I'm an extra extravert and crave human connection. Although I do enjoy my alone time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 08:57 AM |
| 5 | I broke and begged her back.I just wanted to be friends but once she got her $$$, ghosted me. Made her social media private too. 13 years we can't even be friendly. . I wasn't asking her back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/26 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Wife left after starting a new life in her hometownHard shit man. Truth bomb. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else just feel crazy?My dude! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Never posted before but I just need to get this outYep no way I'm not reading a journal of feelings. He might have just said Cap'n Crunch. Reads like the back of a cereal box. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 05:36 PM |
| 4 | I seriously underestimated how expensive divorce can getYeah mine was 9 months $3500. No more marriage for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Worried sickMine took my side. Ended our sessions she quit. No way to win when it reaches this point. Sorry dude. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Sell or buyout the House? 1.5yr old kid, 40min commuteKeep the house and NEVER move out. Legally moving out puts you at a significant disadvantage. If you need more money take out a second mortgage. DO NOT SELL. If you are divorced have her evicted with authorities to supervise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Hard day todayYeah it's all ups and downs. Sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Did court help you?Mine was amicable because she didn't want to hurt me. If she would have done discovery would have been an instant millionaire. When she found out she literally growled like a dog. Fuck her. Fake bitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 07:43 AM |
| 7 | Do you still love her and think of her?Yep would die for her. Sucks, Ripped my heart out and she gives no shits. Still feel loyal. 9 months out after 13 years. Still fresh I guess. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Men who didn’t maintain friendships/a support system during your marriage - how have you managed the loneliness?AA, friends, family still nothing like her company. Damnit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Rent or buy after divorceIf you're finished for good. Buy. Bought my house for 171k now worth half a million. Get that equity man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 07:18 AM |
| 7 | Difference in Women vs Men After DivorceDude I fought every day for nine months to take her on dates, walks in parks where I would pack a cooler and grill out go on vacations to southern land I own did jack shit. 13 years in the shitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 08:00 AM |
| 3 | I'm just done.Crazy right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 03:10 AM |
| 3 | I'm just done.Yeah man the 6-7 are so chill and sweet, makes them seem hotter actually. Dated a few in my younger years. Thanks for the kind words. My ex is 10 years younger, my first mistake. Sorry for your struggles my guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 03:07 AM |
| 8 | I'm just done.My ex would lie, beat on me, steal my credit cards, has a volcanic temper and even steal money from her employer. Picked a real winner but she is gorgeous. Pretty women are my kryptonite unfortunately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 02:52 AM |
| -3 | Ex wont wont agree to kids meeting current gf.Give your girl some change tell herto enjoy. Then deal with your shit, see your kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with dishonestyEff her better women out there, Trust me some real sweet hearts that don't play games. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 03:01 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...Dude mine got me thrown into a mental ward after beating the shit out of me. Crazy. Never hurt her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 02:40 PM |
| 1 | What to do?Exit stage left. Never again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...10 years younger 39 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...Damn | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...I know damn. Getting ready to put myself out there soon. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...Yeah hard truth for me too. Sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Ant one feeling betrayal.Been through it many times this hit likea like a .50 to my heart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.Almost ready, but when I am I'm running through it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Possible job loss during divorceBrother lean on us. It will get better. I still have rough days missing her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 04:49 PM |
| 1 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with the tension and anxiety of an upcoming divorce?Cheap answer but time, hated the build up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Ant one feeling betrayal.Thank you brother sad but so damn true. Here for you my guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:23 PM |
| -4 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.Two can exist at once like what? Not a dichotomy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:20 PM |
| -7 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.Tied it it doesn't work. My IQ is too high not even being conceited Ignorance is bliss. FML | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:06 PM |
| -3 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.Not saying I'm right just angry and bitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Pre-Mediation TalksGet a lawyer, protect your assests. Freeze your credit/debit cards. Scan your records monthly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:00 PM |
| -3 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.She was seeing him while married to me. Found out after the fact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.TY! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Paying for stbxw living expensesPaid her in full own my home but love camping. Try that? Buy some meat wood lighter fluid and build a camp site. Don't even need a tent make a lean-to. Get some pine tree leaves for your roof. Sleep under the stars man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Pre-Mediation TalksYep lawyer up, if your name is on the title and no history of DMV. STAY IN THE DAMN HOUSE!!! Divorce lawyers will tell you to stay with what you wish to keep. Hell slept in my bed while she slept on the couch. F her. Kick rocks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Ant one feeling betrayal.My computer is acting up excuse spelling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:34 AM |
| -1 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.God bless you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Need perspective, should I still have hope.Sucks but when they are done it's over. Nine months I fought, did jack. Told me in six years we could see told her to eff off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:17 AM |
| 2 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.TY brother. The isolation is killing me. Thought we could be friends wants to only stalk me on here. 13 years poof fart in the wind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:11 AM |
| -1 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.I'll drink one for you. Erin Go Brauh! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:08 AM |
| 0 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.Great advice my dude. Was thinking Ireland (my heritage) and then my doctorate and then who knows? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:03 AM |
| 2 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.TY brother. Holy shit, the pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.Yeah man just fell in love with the wrong one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:57 AM |
| 0 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.I just asked to take her for a lunch date or coffee. Then discovered a new man on her profile. Ripped my heart out. Getting back to me now. Ready for a new woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:53 AM |
| 0 | My ex wife protects her new man from me.I'd show up with bells on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Rebuilding after separationDivorce as a man is devastating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Are female couple counselors biased towards wives?My female counselor took my side so ex wife noped out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Dating post divorce, bad feeling, sanity checkRun yesterday, she's lying. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How to you get over her?TY brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Just want to say Thank YouMay God bless you brother. Still in the thick of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 01:04 AM |
| 5 | One day at a time my dudesTruth bomb. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:59 AM |
| 2 | How to you get over her?Yeah need to start lifting again, Going for walks in nature. Pursuing my PhD in the fall. I'm giving it my all, despite the pain of loss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to you get over her?Could have wrote that myself, all of it. Thank you brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I've started the processMake sure there is verbiage for no retaliation or reopening of the case. Imperative. Then you are golden. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to you get over her?Your are too kind my friend from across the pond. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How to you get over her?Wonderful thank you so much my brother. Yeah I'm covered in shrapnel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Torn between saving my marriage and walking away — I feel completely lostReal. Been through it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 3 | I need advice. I just recently initiated physical distance. She's in one house, I'm in another. She's asking me to come over and help with things around her house. Should I do it, but keep my distance?Consider yourself lucky. Mine turned into dermon spawn. Deny my guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:05 AM |
| 2 | My wedding anniversaryWould always take my ex out for a super fancy dinner flowers and movie. Did jack apparently, | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How to you get over her?It's like we are the same person. 13 years she lied cheated and growled like a dog when she knew my net worth. What about the person? Like eff off. Even called me a narcissist. Never called that in my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 11:08 PM |
| 2 | How to you get over her?Hard truth. Ouch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:23 PM |
| 2 | How to you get over her?Sorry man relatable. She was my one. Sucks. Still foolishly feel loyal to her. It's like when a soldier loses a limb and has phantom pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How to you get over her?Hell yeah! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 4 | How to you get over her?TY she was my little baby doll man, sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 12:55 PM |
| 5 | How to you get over her?TY brother! I used to be a gym rat. Accused of steroids lol. Like what? I train hard ding-a-ling. Muscle failure, seeing stars, nausea, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 3 | How to you get over her?i''m sorry so hard. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Dogs are man's best friend?Well you a new one now, Hello new friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Just got divorced, finallyI was eating bologna sandwiches and hot dogs for weeks. Now a millionaire Spend less make more. Invest a little bits at time. Could be $20 a month. Source: almost lost everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Dogs are man's best friend?Haha fair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 02:27 AM |
| 2 | 9 months out and no longer in crisis, but still feeling stuckYeah mam 8-9 months out after 13 years still think about her daily. Sucks. Nothing helped for me when you fall in love. It's just distractions but my heart was shattered. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Well this a new one, wife tried to hire someone to kill me.Get it documented brother. File a police report and a lawyer in that order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Well this a new one, wife tried to hire someone to kill me.Dude if you have evidence she is looking at jail or prison MINIMUM. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Dogs are man's best friend?Yeah my cat went out got pregnant. 4 kittens to take care of a mess. They were pooing all over the walls. We trained them to use the litter box, they said no. My Dad would call them "blow outs." It was a shotgun of poop on the walls. They like to mark territory. Cat's are super protective. Always dropping dead animals on the doorstep as a gift. Hunters gonna hunt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Wife keeps delaying settlement agreement / uncontested divorce. What should I do?This. My ex wife started growling when she realized what she could have had. Not my circus not my monkeys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Seeking advice after falling out of love with my wifeWish I could unlove her with everything I am. Sucks. Love of my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 04:19 PM |
| 3 | 2 years out, I feel stuck9 months out from 13 years still hurts like hell. Dude just met a guy and we hugged it was cool. Crap like that happens every time I leave the house. Chatted up the Starbucks girl, and she said come back and see me again. Not in a return customer way Maybe I should have pushed play. Don't think she knew how old I am, I look very young for my age. She looked like a teenager. Nope. Getting my PhD this fall because fuck it. Ex wife would always gatekeep. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Gotta love itOnce they are finished they turn evil my dude. No fucks given about you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How to move forward?Suspected the same of my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Record KeepingStick to straight financial . Anything outside is he said she said. Lawyers will pump and dump. Ask me how I know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 09:49 AM |
| 1 | I’m struggling to see a life where I’ve moved on. I want to see that so bad, from people that have made it through.Push push push through and push more when you think your tank is empty. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 08:55 AM |
| 2 | The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in.TY brother you get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 08:36 AM |
| 7 | The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in.TY brother, so painful. Got some forested land in TN, think I might go there start a fire cook over it. (I live in the city but know my country way around shit). I live up north. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 08:33 AM |
| 3 | The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in.TY 9 months out from 13 years. Blows. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 07:05 AM |
| 0 | How can we fix the mess we're in now?Divorced women girl. This is a man's support group, Not being rude and best of luck but kindly kick rocks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:56 AM |
| 1 | I kept getting advice from people who loved me. It almost cost me my kids.Nope stick to your attorney like white on rice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:46 AM |
| 3 | The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in.I hope so brother hurts like hell. Would have died for her still would. Damn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:39 AM |
| 4 | Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyerWhat I did TY! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyerWOW! Ty! Accused me of financial abuse in court she was making $160k/year WTF? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:33 AM |
| 3 | The reality of her being gone for good has finally set in.I'd be cool if she screamed and yelled at me agzain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:22 AM |
| 1 | College400K for drama classes WTF tell her to get a job. Insanity. I had to ride a bike two miles to work at her age to make $4 an hour. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 06:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you cope with ruining your marriageI still live with regret, shame and guilt. Most beautiful woman in the world and I fucked up 13 years. think of all I could have been better at. Why was I not a better man? Become better in all ways Going for my doctorate in fall. Going to a new church meeting new people at the grocery store. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Hard not talking to her missing her loving her thinking about her well being as a protector.Gold. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyerMy guy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyerRight? Even set up a ring doorbell to monitotor me. And would say just wanted to make sure you were ok. How about pick up the fucking phone? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Hard not talking to her missing her loving her thinking about her well being as a protector.Thanks brother, Man just fell deeply in love. Been with 30 women, she was the one who broke me. Feels horrible. I think undoing feelings of undoing loyally are in order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyerMy ex did the same set up spy cameras. Would also record me on the phone and take pictures of me sleeping on the couch claiming I was passed out. Only ever loved that woman WTF? FML. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Hard not talking to her missing her loving her thinking about her well being as a protector.Fist bump! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Was told that she wants a divorce last night. Really in a dark place.Brother this is par for the course sadly. Only care about themselves and will call you the narcissist to avoid their role. Zero accountability. 13 years with my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Would you do it all over again?Thank you kind sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Would you do it all over again?Treat my exes in a way to keep them by my side, Some were bad eggs sometimes I was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/26 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Wedding ringShe gained weight and it wouldn't fit so I stopped too. Last few years of our marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I talked about it but it’s timefew times I talk to my ex wife she just screams and yells. No thank you ma'am. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Getting intimate with new people sucks.All depends on the woman bro. Can be awesome with the right one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Dudes, this just blows. I mean, I'm effing busted and man, I thought I was doing well and then she calls asking if I'm okay. Well, I was until your butt called me and stirred up all this crap again for your own benefit.Mine did the same. Then I realized she was asking if SHE was okay. Yep mine got on GLP-1, marriage killing drugs. Divorce. Demonic. I was a bodybuilder, pure, you work for it. Vengeance is the Lord's. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/26 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Dudes, this just blows. I mean, I'm effing busted and man, I thought I was doing well and then she calls asking if I'm okay. Well, I was until your butt called me and stirred up all this crap again for your own benefit.Thanks brother! Yeah, they always think the grass is greener. It's so weird too, because I've always been a bodybuilder, busting my ass in the gym so much so I was accused of using gear. Now she wants to get in shape for who knows what...but she still calls. I can't wait for the divorce so I can start to date again. Just companionship, maybe something else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 10:19 AM |
| 8 | My Friend Said Something That Made Me Smile…."She gave you your purpose back guys." That's the biggest thing they took from us, or more properly stated what we gave away. I'm finding my identity again and it's a hard road but very liberating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Just Need To VentIt's seriously crazy, and I mean mentally ill crazy, what women convince themselves of. My wife started with accusing me of financial abuse after bailing her out of $20k of credit card debt...TWICE. I paid for all of our bills, I paid for my home so she could sleep comfortably. Then she went on to accuse me of physical abuse. Dudes, I've been with MANY women and I've never lifted a finger against them. That's a bitch move. She's punched me, she's kicked me, she's grabbed me. I had finally had en… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Divorce. Infidelity. I’m going crazyDude, feels like no end in sight. I mean, I don't cry but this shit broke my ass in half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Divorce. Infidelity. I’m going crazyI don't think she was unfaithful but I mean, sort of if she is divorcing me right? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 08:19 PM |
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