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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Was there ever love? | Rant | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/26 05:52 PM |
| 16 | I didn’t realize how lonely and mentally exhausting divorce would feel | Spousal Support / Alimony | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 07:30 PM |
| 15 | Oh, Now she wants to deal... | Rant | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 05:56 PM |
| 12 | Where Shadows Keep their Secrets | Rant | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/25 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Shes making a power play.... | Custody | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/26 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Feeling unsettled, lonely, and a little lost. | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 02:31 PM | |
| 7 | Stress and Anxiety Causing Issues... | Rant | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/25 04:20 PM |
| 6 | How its going now.... | Success Stories | justamannotafailure | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 06:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Divorce Decree signed and filed todayCongratulations on putting yourself out there and making life a priority. Its hard to accept sometimes that being married shouldn't cost you who you are.... Go heal, and Live free... Dobby has no master! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Oh, Now she wants to deal...Dont have any lawyers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/26 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Oh, Now she wants to deal...This was actually as fast as we could get. we set it 5 months ago. and no Lawyers. We have been in court several times and I feel as though I have done very well so far. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 08:33 PM |
| 5 | How do I deal with this rageI can't pretend I've handled my own pain perfectly, because I'm pretty broken myself right now. But reading this, I recognize that kind of rage. It's not really about wanting revenge or wanting to hurt someone. It's what happens when years of love, sacrifice, loyalty, and effort suddenly feel like they meant nothing to the person you gave them to. The anger is covering a mountain of grief. Despite all that rage, you're still choosing not to act on it. You're not screaming at her, you're not dest… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Financial InfidelityMine was getting conned into taking all the debts.... now she thinks shes going to get out Scott free..... ummm bull shit, um bull shit!.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 03:44 AM |
| 8 | You guys were right…Time to get out... | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 04:01 PM |
| 4 | ChatGPTyes. and it works great | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/26 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Trying To UnderstandPretty much..... doesn't make it any better feeling, but whatever right!? lol. I am sure someday we will all look back and just be flabbergasted at the childish BS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Trying To UnderstandReading this felt painfully familiar. i am another guy whom never imagined I’d be here either, trying to make sense of the slow unraveling of a life I thought was stable. One day we were functioning, imperfect but familiar, and the next I was staring at words like “filed,” “orders,” and “app-based communication,” as if my marriage had been translated into a language I didn’t speak. What confuses me most isn’t just the separation itself, but the emotional static, moments of warmth followed by dis… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Any other men here feel like you were left for dead?Yeah… I relate to this more than I’d like to admit. That feeling of being useful until you’re no longer needed hits hard. You show up, you support, you sacrifice, you take the blame to keep the peace and then one day it feels like the relationship gets audited and you’re told you didn’t meet expectations. The “HR-like” part especially resonates. When conflict turns into performance reviews instead of partnership, something fundamental is already broken. It’s hard to communicate when you’re alway… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/26 07:02 AM |
| 3 | I hate Christmas.I get it. It fucking sucks, like, really sucks. You can be around family all you want, but it’s not the same as having that love in your life. The quiet hits different this time of year, and no amount of people around you fills that space. You’re not wrong for feeling it, and you’re not weak for saying it out loud. A lot of us are just pushing through the season the best we can. You’re not alone in that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Stress and Anxiety Causing Issues...Management knows and doesnt care.... i work for the GOV. also,l already medicated for depression and as needed anxiety pills... but they mess me up too and make me less attentive.... catch 22. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/25 05:01 PM |
| 18 | Ex-Wife Reaction to me datingClassic narcissistic behavior.... No matter what you do, it will always be about her. Keep your happy life going! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Feeling unsettled, lonely, and a little lost.I appreciate the intention behind giving advice, but I think you completely missed the point of what I shared. What I wrote wasn’t about giving up, lacking a hobby, or needing a hustle. It wasn’t about dating rules or self-help books. It was about the emotional reality of going through my first major holiday after a life-changing transition. That kind of experience brings up grief, loneliness, and a sense of displacement that can’t be “fixed” by telling someone to hit the gym or make more money.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/25 10:11 PM |
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