fuck that bitch

Proof-Veterinarian90 · 2025-01-16T03:51:30+00:00

This hits home, I feel like I’m an idiot for still loving my stbxw. Can one of you guys punch me straight in the fucin face?

Become_Pneuma · 2025-01-15T18:26:03+00:00

Welcome to the club. Forget she exists. Move on. Get in the gym and find a younger, hotter girl who appreciates you. These actions cured 100% of what ailed me post divorce.

twayevrynmeistkn · 2025-01-14T13:46:05+00:00

I don’t know your exact story, but I feel the vibe. Probably similar to mine. The hate and anger is real, strong, and valid.
That said, it feels amazing when you can start letting go. It is hard, impossible feeling, to think of letting it go at first. As it starts though, it feels like an amazing warmth. She was always who she is, she always will be. She just showed you true colors. Its not a switch you can flip, but you can start taking steps to build the fire that will warm your soul. All you can do now is take the steps that help you. Take care of yourself, exercise any way you can, go to therapy and say out loud how you feel. You will get there.

Fantastic-Truth-3576 · 2025-01-14T23:45:33+00:00

How many kids you got out of that fucked up marriage?

Efficient_Leather_76 · 2025-01-14T22:45:28+00:00

Put me 100k in debt, ruined my credit, moved me 1,500 miles across the country, and asked for a divorce because I wanted kids and she wanted to drink and party, spend time with a bunch of men, all 10+ years older than her who were all alcoholics. Threw away 8 years of marriage to be selfish. Fucking bitch.

whiskeytango13 · 2025-01-14T18:04:08+00:00

You're not stuck, just fucking tangled up.

tvicl69BlazeIt · 2025-01-14T14:59:30+00:00

Dude, sometimes she really is just a cunt.

Expert-Raccoon6097 · 2025-01-14T14:38:57+00:00

Your life isn't falling apart, it's falling into place. Dead weight has been dropped. Time to suck that shit up and go live your life.

Nothoughtiname5641 · 2025-01-14T12:14:53+00:00

I'm reading more and more about narcism. I sent her a series of emails proving the infedelity with time stamps and chats where she was blatantly fibbing about where she was going. She deflected, gaslit and then went through a list of grievances. I'm doing it so I can finally stand up to this deamon of a human being and get my life back. I told her I have people who genuinely love me, she just insultedv them. I'm working at being the good hearted confident and jovial man i was before i met this user.

I'm with you all!!

Timbers-creek · 2025-01-14T06:52:36+00:00

She ruined me emotionally & mentally, but I was able to bounce back stronger. It will take time, sweat & tears. Just keep your head up dude, we all have been through it.

Too_old_3456 · 2025-01-14T04:31:40+00:00

Mine ruined me too.

I’m just now getting my own life back on track after 15 years of living for someone else and their family. I have such a financial hole to climb out of, I’m on the brink of bankruptcy.

It’s bullshit. It is what it is. She cheated, stopped working, racked up debt, and I’m stuck with it. I look at the whole thing as one valuable lesson/life experience. Now I know, never again.

Il_Valentino · 2025-01-14T04:16:27+00:00

And this is why you don't marry, not worth the risks.

UnimportantOutcome67 · 2025-01-14T04:05:47+00:00

Naw, Bro'.

She has set you free.

JustSomeDude7287 · 2025-01-14T03:54:34+00:00

Let it out. Feel the emotion then have it go through you and become even a better man.

Gnauck · 2025-01-14T03:46:29+00:00

I felt downright broken when she left. Still struggle every single day to function like a human being a year later. Despite the difficulties, I'm learning a lot about how to be a better me. Kind of like that Japanese pottery mending with gold. We may only be gathering up pieces of ourselves, but it's progress none the less. One day we get to feel whole again (with a touch of gold too!).

Hang in there homie 🤙

whoisgodiam · 2025-01-14T03:40:28+00:00

Get a fresh 20 year old and never marry again.

willfortune7 · 2025-01-14T03:23:00+00:00

Fuck them chics bro. Get right and bounce back

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2025-01-14T03:12:57+00:00

She ruined you temporarily. We are designed for adversity. Just fight harder in life going forward. Learn from your mistakes.

Don’t get married again.

Then-Alps8928 · 2025-01-14T02:59:49+00:00

You thing she ruined you. She set you free. Another year from now, you'll see.....Use this site to help you out if need be....You'll make it.

No_Investigator3353 · 2025-01-14T02:59:23+00:00

Sorry man...hugs to u (NOT GAY!)

Strong-Adeptness270 · 2025-01-14T02:50:50+00:00

You and me both brother. Ruined my little kids too. I think you have a healthy outlook about the situation

Melodic-Grapefruit-4 · 2025-01-14T02:45:41+00:00

No use in dwelling in it. Learn from it. Get in the gym. Fly under the radar. Stack your cash.

ChickenLegs614 · 2025-01-14T02:40:58+00:00

Ain’t ruined brother— just a temporary set back.

The lower the valley, the higher the peak. Start climbing and make sure she sees you when you’re at the top.

Basic_Advance7627 · 2025-01-14T02:40:05+00:00

Yeah. Messes with your head.

LiberateMeFromYou · 2025-01-14T02:38:33+00:00

Now hit the gym, making a ton of money and find someone better

Mental-Science1288 · 2025-01-14T02:37:34+00:00

Now for the best part; revenge

Title	fuck that bitch
Author	ObeseFedoraTipper
Upvotes	88
Comments	56
Date	January 14, 2025 2:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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