Thought about her again today

Environmental_Tax_89 · 2025-06-22T08:21:50+00:00

are you in therapy? I’d start there. If it failed theirs a reason. You can’t grow in a place that broke you

MR-Ozmidnight · 2025-06-22T02:55:11+00:00

It’s important to recognize that your thoughts may be holding you back, and it’s time to focus on your own goals. While we’re here to support and encourage you, the real work has to come from you. Channel your feelings into something productive, like hitting the big bag at the gym. Use that energy to clear your mind and get back on track towards achieving what you want. You’ve got this!

First-Sail8421 · 2025-06-21T16:36:10+00:00

it’s even harder when you have to pay her a sh$$ ton of money every month for cs and alimony

MR-Ozmidnight · 2025-06-21T11:32:17+00:00

It’s understandable to feel a deep sense of loss, my friend, especially when someone we cared about is no longer in our lives. However, let’s take a moment to reflect on the reality of the situation. The person you are mourning may not be the same individual you married. If you dig deep, you might realize that changes have occurred, and you're grieving a version of her that no longer exists.

She has moved on, pursuing her own path, and while that’s difficult to accept, it’s important to recognize the truth in it. What you’re holding on to is the memory of a relationship that once was, but it’s crucial to acknowledge that she made a choice that left you behind.

Grief is a natural process, but as time passes, we don’t so much ‘get over’ it as we learn to live with it. Each day can get a little easier if you allow yourself to focus on healing and self-improvement. Consider exploring new interests or hobbies, reconnecting with friends and family, or even seeking guidance from a counsellor if that feels right for you.

Redirecting your energy into personal growth not only helps distance yourself from the pain but can also ultimately empower you to become the best version of yourself. You deserve happiness and fulfilment, and by investing in yourself, you send a powerful message to the past that you are moving forward.

Take care of yourself during this time, and remember that turning the page doesn't erase the past; it opens up new chapters full of potential.

Left_Crazy_5756 · 2025-06-21T10:58:43+00:00

Natan Dagur - Stuck in Time

iwanttogotothere5 · 2025-06-21T08:09:06+00:00

I feel ya. I’m stuck here and can’t stop thinking/loving her. This is the worst. I’m putting together a break up playlist. We still share a Spotify account. She blocked me on Facebook.

Title	Thought about her again today
Author	ObeseFedoraTipper
Upvotes	8
Comments	12
Date	June 21, 2025 7:59 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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