Strong-Adeptness270 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Dried of funds- self representing, opposing counsel withheld access to evidence. Uh, I think you need to do anything within your power to get a lawyer to represent you, bud. Taking out loans, selling stuff, getting another job, anything. Trying to find free representation, as unlikely as that might be as a man. Anything. Even a terrible attorney. These court hearings are going to affect you the rest of your life, and I don't know if kids are involved, but that would be much more concerning too	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/25 07:50 AM
6	Separated and Struggling If you have no kids, you're golden. Maybe get the divorce over with and start the process; gather evidence of cheating. Stay no contact, and focus on work and hitting the gym. I wouldn't try to date yet. Time will heal those wounds like nothing. Sucks about your dogs, maybe get a new one	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/25 06:16 AM
19	She lied so much in her court filings What are you talking about, dude? That's your "best friend" who solemnly swore to be loyal and faithful until death, regardless of what happens. Are you alledging that your pure angelic bride would get up in court, and have no problem at all committing purjury or breaking the Lord's commandment not to bear false witness? Ridiculous, nobody would ever believe that. We all know you're abusive, alcoholic, wife beating, philandering, narcissistic scum. /S The best advice I can give is that she is %1…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 12:15 PM
2	Advice in a high conflict scenario It doesn't matter. Nothing you do matters. The system is entirely rigged against men. We need to burn the entire family court system and the feminist deluth model to the ground. The judges oppressing us and our kids should be in prison, if we're merciful about it. We know you didn't abuse anybody, bro. Did they throw you in jail, take your guns, give your girl (who probably cheated on you) all of your personal property, put a restraining order on your against your own home and kids, and start a …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 11:45 AM
11	Any advice on how not to be a narcissist co-parent would be appreciated. We're all "narcissists" according to dysfunctional divorce women. In reality, modern women are narcissists. The main proof is that psychological projection (aka calling others what you yourself are) is like the #1 symptom of narcissism, not to mention their other behavior. I don't think complying, submitting, and cooperating are going to make her stop calling you a narcissist or stop making your life miserable with divorce. She's a pos. What you need to do is entirely ignore her and move on with…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 08:50 AM
14	How do you deal with missing your kids? It's agony. It's total bullshit. When our exes filed for divorce, they stole half the time we get to spend with our kids, and half the time our kids get to spend with their father. That's like taking half of the parental love they'll experience in life. In addition to all the damage and risks divorce does to kids. It's not like they care or the courts do either. "Best interest of the child" is a joke. If our exes actually cared about the kids, they would feel equally agonized by being away from …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/25 03:00 AM
5	I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped. No offense, but your problem is quite enviable. Don't let it get to you too much. I see what youre saying though. It would make me angry to no end to have that money threatened by my "best friend who solemnly swore to have my back and treat me well until death"; especially considering the amount and where it came from. When I think of all the money and everything else I lost through divorce, it helps to think about the guys who lost a lot more than I ever will and didn't let it dismay them. Jeff…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/25 08:28 AM
2	What made you cut ties with your children from your first marriage? My first baby momma was diagnosed with BPD. She has serious issues. I made efforts to be part of our kids life, but she would randomly go berserk to the point that I could not be around the situation. We weren't married. I contacted lawyers about fighting for my parental rights; it was simply too much money that I didn't have because I was young and poor. Also, it wouldve been a fortune spent to further involve myself with a personality disordered crazy person. I hated her so much I had to leave…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 06:46 PM
5	Anyone leave for these reasons? I would leave the relationship. The henpecking and fighting doesn't get better. If you're losing control and getting angry, she could use it in court or to have you arrested. You don't want to end up with an injunction against your home or your kids. You dont need to live like that anyways	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 03:19 PM
5	How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been? I'm more worried about my kids getting molested by a predator than feeling angry, sad and jealous	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 08:53 AM
4	Mediation experiences I just got done with 2 sessions of meditation. The first one was very productive, and landed me in a much better position. I hoped the 2nd one would resolve the whole divorce process. Instead, she decided to be super difficult, unfair and selfish forcing me to proceed to trial. I am still reeling with disappointment and frustration from that second session; I can't even believe someone could be such a terrible person, let alone the mother of my kids. At least I'm still in the improved position f…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 03:08 AM
3	Alienation? Custody Advice Plz It seems to be the path they're trying to make normal these days. That's what these devils want a normal family to look like; fatherless	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 02:53 AM
2	fuck that bitch You and me both brother. Ruined my little kids too. I think you have a healthy outlook about the situation	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/25 02:50 AM