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RantToo_old_3456/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 05:27 PM
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RantToo_old_3456/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 08:07 AM
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Too_old_3456/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 04:19 AM
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Too_old_3456/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 05:02 AM
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Living in my car right now but working my way out of it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 04:36 PM
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Good, put up a fight. Good luck to you!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 11:45 PM
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CPA here. File by paper, claim one of the kids and attach a letter explaining the situation. This will take a loooong time to get processed. You’d have more luck if there was a court agreement but since there is not one yet, you may get denied.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/25 06:52 PM
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Still dealing with it. There are so many things that remind me of all the ways I was taken advantage of by her and her family and the anger bubbles up. I moved into my car this week because I can’t afford to live anywhere. The system is fucked and so are some people.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 01:55 AM
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Agree with the part that if the wife is hanging out with a circle of cheaters, or their parents are cheaters, there is a good chance the wife is cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:04 PM
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I wont get married again, after what I’ve been through. Most women aren’t going to be satisfied with a ceremony and no contract. That contract is her meal ticket. If you don’t marry her, she’ll find someone else who will. That’s not someone I’d want to be married to.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 06:41 PM
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Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. You cannot make her happy. She will never trust you again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 04:43 AM
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You spent 3 years convincing her to get back with you and now you’re not sure? This poor non attractive girl. Just leave her alone.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 03:49 AM
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I gave my all and it was never enough. I wouldn’t expect anything different from the next relationship so there won’t be a next relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 04:24 PM
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Mine was always pushing me to be better and do better. Unfortunately she was also sleeping around.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/25 04:17 PM
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I should have fucked up a couple honestly.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 06:10 PM
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Yeah my life is in financial ruin and my son blames me alone for breaking up the family, but my integrity is still intact.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 06:10 PM
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I’m about to move out of a two bedroom apartment and into my car. I’ll let you know if it gets better, but it can sure get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 04:30 AM
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Same. Always short on money. The answer was never for her to get a job. The answer was always that they pay me too little and I should switch jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 10:10 PM
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If you actually love him don’t go be with another guy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 10:46 PM
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Thank you. I referred to myself as Captain Save a Ho recently and they had no idea what I meant by it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 08:14 PM
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It was a beautiful Saturday morning.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 04:36 AM
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I won’t speak for everyone but I sure did.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 04:35 AM
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And the thrill for my wife was sleeping with other people when she was married. I’m assuming it’s a lot less thrilling.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 04:34 AM
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Women have no idea what men put up with until they leave and then next person says fuck that to all the little annoying things she does.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 04:33 AM
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No chance. Sorry. Are you trying to make his drinking worse?
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 10:02 PM
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My son doesn’t take my calls. All he wants to do when he’s with me is go shopping for stuff. It all gets taken back to mom’s house. The bedroom I have for him at my place is an empty cavern with a bed and a desk in it. And as for the ex, she probably would have ditches me long ago if she didn’t need me to provide.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 10:39 PM
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Hear that. The only reason any of them were nice to me is because I paid for stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 10:37 PM
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I’m with you. It is fucking lonely. I’m delving into work to keep myself busy, office 5 times a week to be around people. Then I come home and I’m by myself, and I can hear neighbors talking shit about me through the walls. Middle aged, single men are treated like we’re diseased or something. “A divorced guy moved in to the apartment building? What a loser!” It’s tough out here for us. Hang in there, you’ll be good.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 06:10 PM
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She doesn’t respect you and doesn’t love you. I went through this exact same thing. I was in denial for ever, I fought to hold on forever. It was real unhealthy. She doesn’t respect you, you need to respect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 03:01 PM
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Your average American isn’t smart enough to understand any of this.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 01:41 AM
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My wife and I were in our mid-twenties and it was a disaster.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 03:37 PM
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Don’t forget if you got divorced after 2019, all that alimony she is receiving is not taxable income!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 03:37 PM
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Good luck with that, Dude.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 03:33 PM
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Hi me.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 03:21 PM
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Get a tongue scraper too, it’ll change your life. You can do it.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 09:47 PM
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Adding on to this, because I’m fresh into being on my own for the first time in 15 years and the weights have been the best thing for me. For anyone struggling to start, buy a notebook. Day 1, do something, anything, even 10 pushups to start. Write down what you do every day and watch yourself progress. Get some dumbbells and that’s all you need to get going. Ive never lifted much in my life but my Ex has been making my life hell lately and I’m taking it out on the dumbbells, just fuckin tearing…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 05:18 AM
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Mine asked about opening ours up. I learned much later, that means she’s already cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 04:39 AM
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I was in your shoes. My God was it bad. But her “waiting in the wings” friend who’s always been around during our marriage is her new errand boy/punching bag.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 04:37 AM
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Yeah Im drowning right now. Teetering on the brink of bankruptcy while she has full physical custody and barely works a bullshit part time job, off living life with the dude that’s been around on the side our entire marriage. And I’m the piece of shit if you ask anyone in their family.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 09:10 AM
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Gonna feel real lonely and quiet for a while. Confusing emotionally. Happy to be out, angry or resentful of what could have been, sadness for the loss. It’s gonna suck. You’re by yourself, no teammate. You gotta take care of #1, and it sounds like you are. Stop contacting her, let the lawyer do it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 02:21 AM
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I wish my STBXW did it this way instead of just cheat with her coworkers on me and gaslight me for years.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 10:59 PM
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I don’t know why you’re downvoted. The men who go after married or taken women truly are scumbags. His post said they were not married, but still, they were together and had an infant child. You can say the same thing about the women who go after married men. Take Arianna Grande for example. Scumbag. Or place the blame squarely on the girlfriend. She wanted to have her cake and eat it too, right after having a child with him. I went through this. I fought to keep my family together but now that …
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 08:38 PM
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This stinks, but it seems to be how things are. Moms get the gifts, dads do the work and get something half-assed or nothing at all. Especially when it comes to boys, they are usually mammas boys.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 08:02 PM
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The vocational expert thing is very interesting and I didn’t know it existed. Thank you, sounds like it’s well worth the money.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 08:34 PM
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Your first line is all I need to read to know that I’ve been doing it wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 07:31 PM
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We were living in her parents home. We financed a huge part of a remodel there. Situation was so bad that I had to leave or risk my mental health. She pays no rent, just a few hundred dollars in utilities.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 07:29 PM
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It’s almost all on my credit because she had terrible credit. What happens if eventually if I just stop paying them all? Is bankruptcy a better option? I’ve been consider that also.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 07:26 PM
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I appreciate trying to give me advice but really don’t know my situation or the expenses I have. We have shared debt payments of about $4,000/mo from our life together that is all on me. I did everything I was supposed to, my STBXW is just refusing to work. I secured housing ($2,400/mo best I could do for Los Angeles) food and utilities. Car payment. Car insurance. Renters insurance. Health insurance. Life insurance. Bills. Gas. Etc. Public Schools in my area are awful/dangerous/ full of drugs. …
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 02:30 PM
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I’ve been where you’re at, pal. I even pop in and visit sometimes but I try not to stay long. My wife ruined me in every way imaginable. But as someone told me, I still have a lot to lose. There are plenty of days where I can’t help it. I give into the self-destruction even though I know it’s bad for me. It’s so hard to let go of the anger but that’s what we have to eventually do in order to heal. I try to make small progress very day, and minimize the bad days. It’s a long road and it’s not eas…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 09:20 PM
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These leaches sucked the life out of me. They all have terrible credit and chapter 11 s in their past. They pressured me into leveraging myself to the max for house renovations and extravagant vacations. They are as selfish as they come, a bunch of bloodsuckers.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 07:55 AM
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Mine ruined me too. I’m just now getting my own life back on track after 15 years of living for someone else and their family. I have such a financial hole to climb out of, I’m on the brink of bankruptcy. It’s bullshit. It is what it is. She cheated, stopped working, racked up debt, and I’m stuck with it. I look at the whole thing as one valuable lesson/life experience. Now I know, never again.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 04:31 AM
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I’m in the process of rebuilding my life after 15 years with her, but throughout everything I learned that I am the type of person that should not be in a serious relationship. My self-esteem issues cause me to second guess why someone is with me. My trust issues that come from a lifetime of bullying/torment were exacerbated during the marriage. My self-esteem was so low….my ex was very pretty and showed interest in me and that’s all it took for me to get hooked. My desperation to have a woman a…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 06:06 PM
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I never once cheated. She cheated multiple times, with multiple people over a long period of time. And she always suspected me of cheating because that is how her mind operates. She assumed I was doing the same thing as her, and so she justified it to herself. Sorry to say but you blew it when you hooked up with the nanny. She’ll say that she forgives you but she will always use it against you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 03:48 AM
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Have your baby daddy reach out to us
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 05:47 AM
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Mine was cheating on me with different people over 10 years or so. I wish she would have just left me all those years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 05:21 AM
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Mine still gives me shit for leaving, along with the in-laws, but I know they are all thrilled. In laws can who never liked me can be the heroes and tend to their heartbroken daughter meanwhile she wanted out for the last 10 years. She always said she’d never be the one to file. Well of course not. She had her cake and ate it too. I paid for everything while she went out and fucked around. And now I’m dead to them. Oh well….
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 08:37 PM
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Yes. I did so much at a normal personal can do for themselves. She would not ever get up to get a glass of water, turn off a light switch or open a window. She asked me to do literally everything, and my self-esteem was so low I did it. Life is a lot less tiresome and stressful now.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 07:47 PM
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I love it when people make the assumption that it’s only women that get abused. It can be happen to anyone and there are several forms of abuse, not just physical. My wife used to sleep-deprive me, destroy my self esteem with insults, isolate me from the few friends and family that I had, etc. Women can be vicious and will always find a way to justify it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 12:30 AM
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My ex-mother in law always boasted how she taught her daughters to “date like a man”because men are shitty and will fuck you over, according to her. Good job idiot, both your daughters got caught cheating and blew it with the best men they will ever have a chance with. Two more cynical, miserable women have been created and the cycle continues….
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:34 PM
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Yeah, when I couldn’t take it anymore I finally left, and I’m labeled as a piece of shit now. Not the person who cheated lied stole and manipulated for 12 years.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:27 PM
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I had to initiate my divorce but that’s because she wouldn’t stop fucking other people.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:24 PM
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Total scam for men anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 08:23 PM
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Get fit. Budget for real. Try stand up comedy. Keep a clean apartment. Do more things with my son.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 06:48 AM
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I fell for it a lot too, OP. STBXW would get mad at me for being upset about her misdeeds. My self-esteem was so low. And I was convinced that she was my #1 supporter so it ate it and moved on. I didn’t get it until later on that she would treat me like shit to justify her own shitty behavior. I had a breakdown and left after many years of trying to keep the family together. I realized the trust would never be rebuilt (among many other issues). Of course the headline is I that I up and left her …
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 12:49 AM
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When came to the realization that everyone is responsible for their own happiness, it made life a lot simpler.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 12:11 AM
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Needed this a couple hours ago. Have been keeping my cool fairly well this whole time but just lost it when she started her bullshit, again. She’s seems to be doing it on purpose, every time she mentions her parents to me it sets me off. She knows how much resentment and anger I have for them. Sick of these games that I will never win.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 10:12 PM
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Sounds familiar. All of it. But life is short and good for you for taking care of #1. You can’t take care of your kids if you’re not taking care of yourself. Hang tough pal, we’re with you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 09:51 PM
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I realized that she wanted to be mad at me. She was looking for things to be mad at me for, so she’d have reason to belittle me, maybe make herself not feel so shitty. I was giving in every time until I realized she was doing it on purpose.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 12:58 AM
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Don’t know, I waited until I broke. Then I was the asshole who up and left and no one seems to care about the 12 years of manipulation, abuse, disrespect and disloyalty I had to endure.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 07:35 PM
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I was in it for 13 years married on the way out but man did she breakdown my esteem. She always knew how. She was like a robot emotionally and I emotionally hypersensitive, probably in the spectrum but never diagnosed. I could not stand to have her mad at me and so I caved every time, even knew she was cheating and lying to my face, I wanted to believe her so I did. After enough time I stopped caring about making her mad, and here we are. It was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. No one …
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 01:05 AM
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Thank you man. I needed this after the holiday weekend, first one since the split. I’m pretty much dealing with the same situation. The split was for the best, but I’ve been going through a shit ton of emotions. There are the highs that come with being my own person again and doing new things with my son, then moments of sadness for the good old times and anger thinking about what could have been, the life we were supposed to have, fear of what comes next, loneliness etc. And of course, every li…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 06:03 AM
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Life isn’t all about building wealth but marriage is really really hard when you’re not on the same page when it comes to money. Every little thing can turn into a battle. I was in the same spot as you but had many other issues. Hope you get what you want out of it, after all we are all responsible for our own happiness.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 02:20 AM
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Yes true that. It hurts but she’s not the one.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 11:52 PM
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I picked up smoking again too, I really need to stop. Been about six months for me also. Let me know when the empty feeling stops for you. I’ll do the same.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/24 04:53 PM
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I was loving life last week but was sobbing in the car today. It’s a mixed bag of emotions. Better you are out than still with a faithless wife, you can set your own course now. But of course this is never what you wanted and you will miss the good old times. You will make new good times. Focus on your kids but also be good to yourself. You have to be your own #1. Give it time and hang in there man.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 02:40 AM
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The best part for me is that when my son is with me, I can parent him the way I want. That was never an option when STBX and I were together because I was overridden on pretty much everything. It’s weird but my son and I are getting to know each other in a new way without her around.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 07:27 AM
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If she wants the divorce you can’t stop her. If she wants to remain on good terms afterwards, tough shit for her.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 06:24 AM
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You will drive yourself to an early grave trying to make someone attracted to you. Either they are or they aren’t. The more you try, the less they will be attracted to you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 03:13 AM
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Same. Or as I like to call it, my 12 years as a slave.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 11:27 PM
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Fucking go for it, good for you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 08:55 PM
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I was betrayed by her, stayed in the marriage another 10 years dealing with her betrayals, suspecting her of this and that and not trusting her, but holding on for dear life and trying to keep my family together. We’ve now been separated about 5 months and I find myself missing her on bad days. There were a lot of shit times during our marriage and a lot of good times too. Every day I see reminders of one of our inside jokes, of which there are probably thousands. It hurts that we can’t laugh at…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:27 PM
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Oh man, you gave me flashbacks to when I used to sit in the car 20-30 minutes or more before going inside to see what awaited. Things can get so bad so gradually that you have no idea how you got into this position and it can feel hopeless. Here’s to the light at the other end of your tunnel, OP. Hope you’re living the life you want.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:13 PM
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The issues are hers and you weren’t responsible for trying to fix her issues. She wasn’t the one for you, and you’re out. It hurts, but better you’re out than 20 years down the road still trying to deal with her deception.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 07:12 PM
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Yes, almost all of that sounds familiar. It reads like something I would have written.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 04:40 AM
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This sucks, sorry man. Finalize the divorce already; pony up for a lawyer if you need to. Moving on to new girlfriend/boyfriend before legal separation is finalized doesn’t help anything. I know it’s not fair, but you gotta keep your nose clean. Owning guns, legal or not, with kids in the house, is not a good look either. Don’t give her any excuse to make you look like a shitty parent. Keep at it, your kids love you and need you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 07:06 PM
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Yeah that’s not what gaslighting is. Sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 11:30 PM
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That’s fucking awesome good for you. I’ve wanted to try stand up most of my life. 15 years ago my life went off the rails and I became a B storyline character in my wife’s life. Now I feel free to take my life in any direction I want to, for me, for the first time in a real long time. Now you’ve inspired me to work on a tight five and give it a shot. Can I ask where you are located? If you’re in SoCal dm me - would sure like to scope out one of these open mic scenes before I venture out there an…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 08:27 AM
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Great stuff
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 04:58 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 04:56 AM
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It does, then I try to fill it with something. Music. A tv show. Work. One day at a time bro.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 04:03 AM
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Jesus Christ man. I thought I had it bad. This is psychotic. I hope your boys are doing well. I hope they’re with you. She has surely done a number on them and they are going to need you as they grow into men.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 01:59 AM
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Amen to this. Hard to snap out the cycle but here’s hoping everyone is doing better than they were before.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 04:55 AM
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I’m going through it too, learning to trust myself again. We go through it for so long sometimes that it becomes ingrained in us.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 11:45 PM
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Part of getting older, especially for men. Our birthdays don’t seem to matter much to anyone. I just turned 40 and celebrated entire alone, to no fanfare, and I have no friends because I’ve been isolated by her for so long. It’s all about the kids now. Happy birthday bud, do it for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 02:09 PM
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I’m sorry to have to say this but Reddit is social media.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 08:38 PM
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That’s disgusting behavior from so-called adults.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 08:38 PM
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I don’t know about OP but it feels like this whole paragraph is written for me. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 06:16 AM
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Glad to hear you’re doing therapy. If she had an affair, then she’s not the one for you, and there’s no fixing it or going back. Forget her. You’d never be able to trust her again. You are out and ow it’s time to focus on bettering yourself. Don’t be afraid of seeing them out in public. Be proud of how far you come and fuck them, they should be ashamed of themselves and scared of seeing YOU out in public. The best part is she will probably do the same thing to the new guy eventually. Women like …
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 06:14 AM
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Getting better at it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 10:45 PM
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She’s a wrinkled old cunt. Maybe.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 10:45 PM
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100%. Looking forward to piecing my life back together, doing it my way and doing it the right way.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:27 PM
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👊
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 06:05 PM
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Thanks pal
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 05:47 PM
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Agreed, this is your chance to take control of your life back. It’s hard at first, you’re trying to figure out who you are. One day at a time, one choice at a time.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 07:12 PM
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Yeah man, it’s really hard. No easy way to do it. We can tell your boy loves you. Make sure he knows how much you love him. It’s all about him now. And don’t beat yourself up, know that you can be a much better dad for him when you make your situation better.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:56 AM
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So worth it
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 06:26 PM
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Same for me. It was a risky proposition, and I told myself after my first girlfriend freshman year of college that I’m not getting serious with someone unless it’s the one. Well it his you when you’re not even looking for it. I went all in when it seemed like I found the one. I was so young and inexperienced. I hung in there for a long time and there were a lot of good times along with the bad and got a great kid out of it. Now I’m good. Her and her whole family thought I left to be with someone…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 10:36 AM
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You gotta be your own rock.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 07:57 AM
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You should already see the light. Leaving was the hardest thing I’ve ever done but deep down I knew it was the best thing for everyone involved. Don’t second-guess yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 07:59 AM
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Good for you and I just experienced something similar. Hang in there. We have time left to live the lives we want to.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 06:09 AM
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Because my wife isolated me for 12 years.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 07:48 PM
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Not my house. In-laws house and they were a huge part of our issues.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 05:55 AM
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So far this one is winning
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 05:53 AM
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We were living with her parents. Moved in for various reasons but the situation became unbearable.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 05:53 AM
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No family, no friends for hundreds of miles unfortunately. I know I’ll have to go small, the best option of the three, and I’m fine with it. I just want to not have to battle it out with people for these places.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 05:52 AM
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They also want you broke and miserable if you’re a man that left your cheating wife.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 04:29 AM
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You are not crazy at all. I noticed the same thing. She had that kind of stuff targeted towards her and I had the same towards myself. Sure algorithms. Only difference is she’s addicted to Tik Tok and I’m addicted to Reddit. But what do they both have in common? That’s right, owned by the Chinese. Of course a country hostile to our own would want to sow discord if they could. Not only to encourage internal strife with other Americans, they want families breaking up. It’s expensive for us. It dra…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 04:27 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Sounds like there is light at the other end.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 01:01 PM
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Yes it really is freaking tough. The second-guessing yourself is normal. It does feel selfish, when you’re not used to putting yourself first. Ignore that. Trust yourself and love yourself first. You should be your #1 fan.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 04:21 AM
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Going through it now. I was holding on to so much anger from the past. After years of trying to learn to trust her again, eventually I came to the realization it was never going to happen. And the same old issues that bothered me from the beginning still bothered me, and I was taking it out on her and our son, who was the main thing keeping us together all that time. Leaving has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But I knew it was the right choice because I was miserable for a long time, and…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 04:16 AM
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That’s how they get you to doubt yourself. It worked on me for the longest time.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 07:14 AM
2

Mine wants full physical custody for some reason and she’s not budging. This should be fun.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 06:29 AM
3

Everyone is responsible for their own happiness. It’s no one’s job to make someone else happy, and if that’s their idea of what marriage is supposed to be then it’s not a healthy marriage. Time to separate.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 06:03 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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