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| 3 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?Feel free to Google it yourself. Not hard to come by. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?99% of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 4 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?There are scientific studies that prove it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:18 PM |
| 9 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?This happened to me. 2 months after her best friend’s divorce, we separated. They developed a trauma bond that lead to unhealthy mirroring. While her best friend was having marriage issues, I remember she would spend countless hours on the phone with her. I would advise her to give some space so that her friend could actually hash it out with her then husband, For better or worse. I would also say that the energy she spends on the phone is being redirected from the potential of problem solving e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.True. Thanks for bringing it back to reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.Can you provide more details, how come your ex didn’t complain? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.He said it was OK but exes are unpredictable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Tik Tok and ChatGPT making women’s brain melt?Only stupid people rely on AI for emotional intelligence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.It’ll be hard but you are right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.Financing is my only option for the next few years… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.You’ve got Big balls my friend. Sometimes it feel that my SXBX succeeded in castrating me from everything I used to love. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.I’ve always wanted Harley Davidson, but was never allowed with my own money. I found a good deal on a certified pre-owned 2024 Harley-Davidson Hydra-Glide Revival. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.Good to know mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.He said I could, but just covering my ass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:17 PM |
| 4 | Divorced Female friends.The audacity to destroy someone else’s marriage is pure evil. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:08 PM |
| 8 | I just want to say I appreciate you all.I love you brother. This thread has also made me have so much empathy for divorced men I meet in the wild. I no longer think why are you not married, but how much pain did you go through to be here. OP, acceptance is hard. It took me two years to finally accept that she took a hammer purposely and eyes wide open, and sabotage our marriage | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | There's been no response to my counter offer for a month.What type of deals are made there. Who settles for what? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | There's been no response to my counter offer for a month.What did you settle on? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why does STBX’s divorce agreement state that individual retirements will be kept seperately, yet her cover letter seeks statements?Can you check your inbox? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Why does STBX’s divorce agreement state that individual retirements will be kept seperately, yet her cover letter seeks statements?Yes. Without the courts, I will not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Why does STBX’s divorce agreement state that individual retirements will be kept seperately, yet her cover letter seeks statements?What do you mean by: “There should be an injunction preventing division of property. “ What do you suggest? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why does STBX’s divorce agreement state that individual retirements will be kept seperately, yet her cover letter seeks statements?u/pk2at | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Why does STBX’s divorce agreement state that individual retirements will be kept seperately, yet her cover letter seeks statements?She very well knows I am nowhere near even a quarter of that. I’m worried that because I make more, she’ll extend her greed to my 401k and will update the agreement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.So what if the filet is not aware of all my accounts? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.I thought the state rules already declare what marital and separate property are? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.It really pissed me off that Reddit gives me better advice than my attorney. Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Being ‘the calm one’ didn’t stop them from rewriting the story…Can you comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/s/Pwq3sWFJrE Folks seem to disagree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that there is a strategic advantage on filing first? We have no children.Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | SXBX is going on vacation tomorrow. What should I do? Start doing some inventory of stuff?USA in an equitable state. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | SXBX is going on vacation tomorrow. What should I do? Start doing some inventory of stuff?Great advice! Just pissed that my attorney , never told me about the retirement reduction thing. Now that you say it, it’s so obvious! Question, is the date of separation a cut off date to when new income is no longer considered marital asset? Is there such a thing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Being ‘the calm one’ didn’t stop them from rewriting the story…I love this post. If I could you give you an award, I would. I’m dealing with the same reality call. Interestingly enough, I see similarities with office politics as well nationally politics. Folks like us have been raised to show the utmost integrity and naively believed that actions speak louder than words. Sadly, the meek do not inherit the earth as I see it. I’ve suspected this for a few years now, reading current events. But, never found a way to translate it to actions in my own life. Fast… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Being ‘the calm one’ didn’t stop them from rewriting the story…Can you tell me why? Does that apply to no kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/25 08:34 AM |
| 0 | SXBX is going on vacation tomorrow. What should I do? Start doing some inventory of stuff?Storage lockers often have bedbugs. Any other options? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Law ReformWhere can I endorse you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | SXBX is going on vacation tomorrow. What should I do? Start doing some inventory of stuff?I’ve had 3 years of loneliness already and am ready to turn the page on this. ASAP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | SXBX is going on vacation tomorrow. What should I do? Start doing some inventory of stuff?Accounts are done. Haven’t started on the materials. Where would I store these things? Don’t have anyone I know or trust with my valuables. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?My God. This is evil stuff they do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Was my situation typical?Something similar happened to me. She broke every pillar in our marriage for 18 months. And last week, she woke me up while I was sleeping to speak to her mom. Mom asked me a few questions, and based on the disagreements between STBX and myself, her mom recommended divorce. Ultimately, she used her mom to break up. I think all her actions previously were also a way to have me tap out. They want us to be the bad guys in their twisted minds, even when they don’t have the guts to end it themselves.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | A good example of what happens when assets are revealed voluntarilyHow do you not disclose voluntarily? Isn’t mediation under oath? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Reducing marital assets by gifts to childrenCan this be done if you have no kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:19 AM |
| 5 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardAgree. People with low integrity are heartless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:16 AM |
| 11 | How was she able to move on so quickly and be so callous when I miss her everyday and can’t move forwardThai is correct. They disconnect slowly by betraying us and latching on to their friends. They don’t come and tell us anything until we join this subreddit... | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?What does that mean? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?Agreed. But I think you were inadvertently unto something with Exodus. I’ve been thinking about 2 things in Exodus: -How Moses tried to lead the folks into the promise land, yet despite the miracles, they fought him tooth and nail to the point where the first generation was barred from entering the promise land. Despite what some of us have tried, our partners chose not to trust in a better future together. -How pharaoh hardened his heart not to change his ways, despite the plagues brought on Eg… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?lol not sure if that is for humor. But can you go into details if it wasn’t meant for humor? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?Which book of the bible or verse would share with your brethren in times like these? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?I love it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?How does it link to divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements?Thank you for this thoughtful post. Sadly, I might have to agree with reality. Can you let me know if you have a comparable link for couples with no kids? That is my situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Sorry to hear mate. Was she employed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements?Did the number the first attorney give come close to what you got in the end? (One did same thing to me) | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?What were the results? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements?That is insane! Thanks for sharing nonetheless. We need more raw truth from folks in your profession. If I understand, if an IRA is premarital property prior to marriage, the entire sum automatically becomes martial property if you contribute any money with your own marital salary? Are percentages and proportions not even considered? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements?Sorry to hear you had a bad attorney. That’s really foul. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Is it me or are most of these divorce attorneys lazy and guiding male clients towards accepting bad divorce settlements?I appreciate a different perspective. I’m curious if the upvotes will confirm that this is indeed the sober truth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Some of the lawyers seem lazy and prone to guis towards the quickest resolution. How did you go about convincing your lawyer to actually fight for you. Did she loose 70/30 because she was the higher earner? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Mediation is that expensive??? What is written discovery? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Who made more? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?I’m very sorry. That situation sounds awful. It’s crazy that our desire to be honorable, to honor our parents and would be spouse lead us to financial and reputational ruin. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Very sorry to hear you had to go through this. Seeing the mask coming off is one of the most painful experiences. While we thought we were building a strong foundation, they were inserting quick sand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 02:49 PM |
| 3 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Amen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?She paid for her fees right? What was the final percentage split? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 12:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Nice. I’m guessing she earned more? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 12:26 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Snap. What was the division percentage in the end? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 12:25 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?What division percentage are you looking for? How long was the marriage? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 12:22 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Sorry mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?How tho?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?How did y all split the assets percentage wise? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:17 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Why would need to pay for her lawyer? Was she a stay at home mom? Did you get good results? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:16 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?We would all rather keep it. But we don’t have a choice do we? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Any regrets? How long did it take you to burn that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 03:14 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?Nice. How long were you married? How many kids? Who made the most? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 01:22 AM |
| 3 | What’s the most you guys have spent on your legal fees?How did you feel about in the end? No kids too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Why is she rewarded for blowing up our family. It's got to stop.Taco | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Why is she rewarded for blowing up our family. It's got to stop.How long were you married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Why is she rewarded for blowing up our family. It's got to stop.Agreed! We seriously need to lobby politicians!! Look at the crazy executive order being signed, and this cause doesn’t get any love? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Anyone also experienced needing to repeat the same things to STBX?🏆 Best comment! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Anyone also experienced needing to repeat the same things to STBX?Okay. I can agree. But how can you explain repeating things that the same person asked one week apart. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 11:53 AM |
| 8 | I don't know how to get out.Just saw you know, the first paragraph made me think you were my twin. It seems that toxic pop phrase words and character assassination is the prelude to them seeking separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/25 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Recent text from ex-wifePeople who complain about people all the time always end up betraying the next person. In the search for the never ending “emotional support”, I bet she is now trying to turn on him too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Curious if anyone was aching for or really looking forward to get divorced and found that is was harder than they imagined it would beShit. No kids. Hope it doesn’t cost that much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Demand respect or keep being stepped on. It’s a choice that you can make.Shit, that’s a good point. Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Demand respect or keep being stepped on. It’s a choice that you can make.That is correct. Your two options are married filling tax jointly, or married filling tax separately. Turbo tax should have given you that option during the application. Unless she did that part on purposes. Sorry to hear. Now the IRS has both your names on the hook. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Demand respect or keep being stepped on. It’s a choice that you can make.You are right. The only reason I stayed was because she said she would sign a prenup on the 4th month. By the time, I had a lawyer make a contract around month 9, she blatantly said she would not anymore and tries to gaslight me. The remaining time has been family visiting and me not wanting to rain on their parade. It’s also me curious on how much stupidity will make a 43 years old woman with no kids waste valuable time before menopause hits her. She’ll be served in May. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Demand respect or keep being stepped on. It’s a choice that you can make.Please teach me sensei!!! I agree on all those methods. Congrats on pulling it off. Can you please share some concrete steps with me so I can duplicate? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Demand respect or keep being stepped on. It’s a choice that you can make.Thanks. No kids. Married 8ish years. For some miracle reason, I pushed back on getting kids because I never fully trusted her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How long did your divorce take?How come it takes that long? What causes it to be shorter or longer than others? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Dating/Relationship PTSD anyone?Tell me more about these books please. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Dating/Relationship PTSD anyone?Never give up. However, Einstein said that “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” My suggestion is that you might need to meditate hard on WHY and HOW to change things. Some people achieve those answers by meditation and self introspection, others by reading books, others by speaking to physiologist. Either method works if it gets you to the destination you want to reach. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Armie Hammer Says He Tried To Hook Up With A Man After Deciding ‘Women Are The Worst’Dude. It’s obviously a joke. Have a cow. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?What are you doing on this sub? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Today was my official divorce.Mazel tov. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 03:17 AM |
| 10 | Is it me, or do they just seem to be bipolar?Fact. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 06:23 PM |
| 3 | The modern divorce process appears very broken and unfair for the 21st century. What action items can we do to court law makers to add this to their agendas?Also, to avoid unfair profiting, asset divisions should be made based on marital tax income contribution by default. If couples decide to go against the default, they can go through the extra steps of drafting an agreement prior to marriage. Sally, the current laws are flipped flopped, and folks prey upon unsuspecting and naive young adults. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:37 PM |
| 4 | The modern divorce process appears very broken and unfair for the 21st century. What action items can we do to court law makers to add this to their agendas?Ultimately, if “crypto bros” were able to lure law maker support to get bitcoin from 60k to 100k in a few weeks, what the hell are folks doing on this topic? I don’t care what party we get on board, as long as things change. If nothing changes, birth rates and marriages will continue to trend down in our society. If this subreddit is any indications, most men going through divorces have ruled out committed second marriages due to financial wipeout. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:28 PM |
| 9 | Is it me, or do they just seem to be bipolar?Agreed | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Is it me, or do they just seem to be bipolar?Check | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:26 PM |
| 8 | What is your view on the reasons for modern divorce?It’s all about the Benjamins baby. Financial security is what leads them into marriage. Financial instability is the leading cause of what leads them out of divorce. Reaching a level of acceptable security is what allows them to detach and day dream about divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Is it time for a divorceI just posted something similar to your situation. Check my latest post. You are luckier to me because you’re only 3 years in. Don’t be like me who pushed through 8 years just to end up with the same conclusion of divorce. Time wasted is the most important thing. Where you invest your love, you invest your life. In the end, unless you have a prenup, she will stay with you longer just so she can profit from you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | fuck that bitchSorry brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | She PlottedHow does one bounce back from such betrayal? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | fuck that bitchHow many years did it take? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Hit with Papers and DrowningHow can this not be a political issue. How can we lobby politicians? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Hit with Papers and DrowningWhat happened to the assets that are acquired to the debt? Still 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Can STBX force me to turn in credit card statements?Thanks for the information. One question for you since I always assumed that men mostly commented on this subreddit. What are your thoughts on most of us (men) feeling victimized by our EXs or STBXs? From your perspective, Does it seem conceivable that so many counterparts can be so evil? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 3 | I'm struggling with not seeking revenge.I needed that. Thanks for sharing. This has been the worse year of my life. I’ve been betrayed by Judas and my veil can finally see through it. I’ve barely been present when talking to people. Kept it all in secret. I wish we all had a group where we could discuss these issues… I guess for now, Reddit will do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 02:26 PM |
| -1 | I'm struggling with not seeking revenge.I don’t know. Evil people like OP’s STBX never face the music. I’m reminded of Trump….or even Hunter Biden for that fact. I’m at a crossroads where I don’t know if taking the high road of righteousness is the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Currently separated for the past year. When should you file separate taxes?We’ve been in the same house the whole year. Why file joint if we both know it’s coming? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Billionaire uncovers secret method to protect assets from STBX.Tell me more please? Do you have any links? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 02:14 AM |
| 12 | Just found out there was another man... you were right (Support)Congrats bud. How does one triple their income? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | A connection can become inappropriately intimate, even when it isn’t sexualWell said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone tried an Intensive Therapy Retreat?You are probably right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone tried an Intensive Therapy Retreat?😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/24 04:15 PM |
| 5 | WTFSorry to hear. Maybe Get a lawyer so this can be strategically documented for your profit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/24 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my damn mind off herListen to “The Process” by Judah and the Lion. It’s a conceptual album about the lead singer/songwriter going through the different phases of divorce. Helps me greatly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/24 06:55 AM |
| 1 | According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.”Agreed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/24 03:54 PM |
| 8 | I think my ex is recording our conversationsYou can bet your pretty penny she is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 01:42 PM |
| 5 | What was the event that led to your divorce? Was it preventative?100% preventable if she was smarter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Anybody else having an absolutely dog shit 2024?2025 will be a better year for all of us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Can my wife kick me out of our apartment that we rent?!lol. We are literally being victimized by these chicks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best place to spend a week worth of vacation during a divorce?Nice. Will it be your first trip there? What’s on your agenda? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 01:24 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best place to spend a week worth of vacation during a divorce?Been there. Wasn’t too impressed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | What’s the best place to spend a week worth of vacation during a divorce?Why? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best place to spend a week worth of vacation during a divorce?Why? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | “Marriage saves money. You will be on a double income and get tax breaks. So many economic advantages.”How did you lose the entire house if it was 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | What songs helped you ?Amazing. I just listened to it now and it turns out I used to like it when I was younger. But listening to the lyrics as a grown man hits different. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 02:31 AM |
| 2 | What songs helped you ?Right now I’m listening to “Blessed be your name” by Matt Redman. My favorite lyric is: “You give and take away….But my heart will choose to say, Blessed be the name of the Lord” | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How old were you when you get divorced?I’m very sorry brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/24 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How old were you when you get divorced?How was it for you? 40 is though age to cross solo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 12:23 AM |
| 3 | What songs helped you ?1) Usher wrote a song about signing his divorce documents called “Papers”. My favorite lyrics: “I done turned into the man that I never thought I’d be….I’m ready to sign them papers” 2) Usher also wrote a heartbreaking song about trying to save his relationship with great lyrics called “Moving Mountains”. My favorite lyrics: “Whatever I do it’s like I just can’t get through to you…..water from the rain keeps washing progress away” 3) Judah and the Lion wrote an entire album about the lead singer… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Living like a hermit, but last night…Not sure how a log of the abandoned activities matter. Being able to recount this to another party is the least of your problems. Getting sympathy from them won’t change anything. Only thing that matters is you and your daughter. Work on strategizing actionable actions now to protect that relationship. You sound very smart. Use your brain power to focus on “problem solving” above “story telling”. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Living like a hermit, but last night…She is trying to keep your daughter away from you. Strategize on changing that now. I don’t think it’ll get better after you divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here done better than 50% on assets?What state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | God’s willWell said about “Free Will”. I’m a believer like OP, and simply accept that God have us the free will to be saints or devils. If wife chose to destroy our marriage. I have no choice but to accept her free will. But can only hope to be wiser for my sake next time while choosing a mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 2 | About to make my retainer deposit. In the case it’s speedy, can anyone tell me if they’ve ever had trouble getting the unused funds back from the attorney?Smart. Any other tips and tricks for me? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 09:14 PM |
| 2 | LOL, are they all this flighty and erratic?Haha. Clever way to make them regret. I used to just block them after, but will mention free concert tickets or something after d day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 12:58 PM |
| 1 | LOL, are they all this flighty and erratic?You gave me an accurate flash back of dating back then. I’m scared to think of how worse it’s probably become now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 12:54 PM |
| 9 | LOL, are they all this flighty and erratic?These are what I call “serial daters”. They date multiple men simultaneously and have Plan A, B and C for weekend nights. Some even go on multiple dates per night. Because they aren’t emotionally invested, they also primarily seek free drinks and food on these encounters. Sadly, it’s become a phenomenon as far back as 10 years ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.Thank you so much for introducing to this document. I just googled it and downloaded my state’s form. Now I understand why my spouse has been making a budget a tracking all this for the past years. Do you know of any one who hasn’t filled out the retirement section fully? I fear my stbx will get greedy if she sees my 401k numbers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.Did any of these include fees for discovery? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.So who pays for the ex’s fees? Since we have no savings, Does it come out of her portion of the house equity? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.So who pays for the ex’s fees? Since we have no savings, Does it come out of her portion of the house equity? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.So if they can’t do tricks, what’s the purpose of telling them what I want? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a law office to ask for a fee for the first hour consultation? This is regarding Divorce.How much did you make in relation to her that you didn’t need to pay alimony. I make almost double. How did you keep 100% of your house instead of 50%? Are you in an equitable state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/24 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Very interesting. I automatically think to congratulate folks that reach the 50 year mark. Then I realized, we are both on this thread. How did yours end? Any thoughts or advice to the younger regarding love/marriage ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Thanks. Was it 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Yea. “Lifetime alimony” is what I meant. Is it that red states are less prone to giving out alimony than blue states? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Thanks. I live in an equitable state. Spouse works and makes above the state average income. I make double. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Thanks. I live in an equitable state. Spouse works and makes above the state average income. I make double. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Is perpetual alimony a thing? If so, is it likely for marriages under 10 years with no kids? How long has your alimony payment been?Thanks. I live in an equitable state. Spouse works and make above the state average income. I makes double. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Stbx can't even respect our late daughterI pray for your healing man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I won the lotteryAny tips on finding good attorneys? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | They basically hide behind lawyers to disguise their true self. They hire pit-bulls purposefully so they can continue lying to themselves about being decent humans.What website gave you those reviews? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 01:00 AM |
| 2 | They basically hide behind lawyers to disguise their true self. They hire pit-bulls purposefully so they can continue lying to themselves about being decent humans.Do you happen to live in North East ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | I won the lotteryCongrats! How long was the marriage? Do you live in an equitable state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | What happens if you refuse to sign the the divorce documents?How did you split yours? 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Hiding evidence - Judge doesn’t careAny advice How I can doing the same thing ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Hiding evidence - Judge doesn’t careWhat exactly did she do so I can replicate it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What happens if you refuse to sign the the divorce documents?6 years? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What happens if you refuse to sign the the divorce documents?Per your last paragraph, you understood the post wrong. My thought was to use my signature as leverage since a legal divorce benefits her: assets + freedom to remarry. The only thing I would gain is freedom from her. But lose my assets. I can get freedom from her even without signatures. But per other comments, it seems not to be a viable strategy since it appears my signature is worth nothing. PS: I could care less if she is having an affair now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 01:36 PM |
| -1 | What happens if you refuse to sign the the divorce documents?They won’t care who contributed more? Even in an equitable state? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | What happens if you refuse to sign the the divorce documents?I live in a no fault and equitable state. I’ve not disclosed nor signed anything yet. No kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Well it's finalThese laws are so archaic it’s ridiculous | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | It’s never enough for them…Sorry buddy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I almost feel like during the separation, she completely managed to deconstruct our history and relationships to accommodate her decision to separate.Real talk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes you win oneHow many years did it take you to recover financially? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/24 11:32 PM |
| 3 | I almost feel like during the separation, she completely managed to deconstruct our history and relationships to accommodate her decision to separate.👆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Does one ever get over her betrayal of choosing to open up our private marriage to her friends, over communicating with me?Share more please. I’ve never had one. Is that not what they are for? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/24 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Does one ever get over her betrayal of choosing to open up our private marriage to her friends, over communicating with me?That is a perfect way to verbalize how I feel. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/24 02:14 AM |
| 3 | overcoming depression without medicationExactly this indeed. In addition to the one you mentioned, natural supplements such as Magnesium Glycinate, Vitamin C, Vitamin K, Ginkgo Biloba and Ashwagandha roots further help with the fight against Stress and Cortisol. Limiting Caffeine intake, and trying to increase sleep also helps against stress. For sleep, try sleeping at the same time. When I truly can’t sleep, I take natural Valerian Root supplements. Personally, I’ve noticed that white noise also helps me go to sleep. Because I live i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | For those that are divorcing in equitable states for reasons other than at fault infidelity, has anyone been able to get a percentage in favor of the male? If so, how?Thanks mate. This is a good perspective to know. If you can and out of curiosity, what was the ball park figure you had to give up during the divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 12:21 PM |
| 3 | For those that are divorcing in equitable states for reasons other than at fault infidelity, has anyone been able to get a percentage in favor of the male? If so, how?Lucky you. Mine sadly is not an addict. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | For those that are divorcing in equitable states for reasons other than at fault infidelity, has anyone been able to get a percentage in favor of the male? If so, how?Is 40 that young? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Hidden AssestsYou can request statements for all her accounts for the past 5 years if you request Discovery. Any updates on this? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Getting re-Married adviceCongrats! Just make sure you sign both a prenup and postnup. Protect your assets and children’s inheritance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | When will these ancient draconian laws of 50/50 change? In 2024, Women are equal to Men. Period. Assets should be split per contributions. How can we lobby reform?Thank you very much. This is so appreciated. -My personal inability to use 2) is that if I provide statements for some of the accounts, they should be able to trace old wires to the rest of the undisclosed accounts. Can you tell me what the consequences of not disclosing everything during discovery? -Per 3), are there any penalties or consequences to gift to parents right before filling for divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | When will these ancient draconian laws of 50/50 change? In 2024, Women are equal to Men. Period. Assets should be split per contributions. How can we lobby reform?Bro, please share more info. What can we do if we didn’t think about prenup in advance? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | DiscoveryI’m about to be in your shoes. I didn’t even know discovery was an option in divorce. Is she legally obligated to produced everything? What would be the penalty if they didn’t give you everything? How do you force discovery? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/24 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Divorce has been final for months, I won, but I'm still not at peace.How did you keep up to 75%? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/24 02:58 AM |
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