| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | Guilt over Hook UpNow do it over and under lol. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 9 | How long to get remarried after divorce?NEVER MARRY AGAIN. How did you not LEARN??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/25 06:17 PM |
| 0 | 5 years later and the ex is finally get a taste of real lifeAnything to make you feel better, stay broke as a joke. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 0 | 5 years later and the ex is finally get a taste of real lifeI’m a married decamillionaire millennial with a prenup, so probably not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/25 12:15 PM |
| 9 | 5 years later and the ex is finally get a taste of real lifeWhy did you get married TWICE, BOTH times without a prenup??? Simps never learn. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/25 09:36 PM |
| 8 | I Want To LeaveI’m assuming no prenup; prepare to be taken to the cleaners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 10:05 PM |
| 10 | New Girlfriend Suddenly Not Feeling ItDude, just get yourself a fresh 20 year old. Stop with the poverty mindset. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Advice on situation of divorceYou will get alimony and child support as the non-earning beta male. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 08:49 AM |
| 7 | Divorce w 7 kids.You have SEVEN children? You are beyond screwed with child support and alimony that will eat up ALL of your pay. A better option is just running away to Cambodia on a renewable “business” visa. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/25 08:33 AM |
| 12 | Divorce survivor guiltWhy are you getting married again? Are you insane? Your judgment couldn’t filter out your first wife, it certainly won’t filter out another disaster from happening again. This is all backed by data. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 03:18 AM |
| 0 | It’s officially over. Here are my tips.Let me guess, no prenup? 🤢🤮 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/25 05:58 AM |
| 9 | Missing my wifeDude, just grab a fresh 20 year old to drain your balls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Is This The Right Mindset To Have?Dude, never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/25 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Alimony Debate in my headDude, pulling from any retirement accounts is absolutely retarded. That growth won’t be taxed at all when it’s time to pull it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | The mask slipsThat doesn’t change the fact that going to a marginally better public OR private school makes any huge sum of difference. Pay for tutoring if you have to, it’s really not a big deal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 04:01 PM |
| -4 | The mask slipsI live in one of the most affluent areas of the USA. Is that really a surprise considering my net worth? Why would I live in an area where the trappings of my wealth can’t be utilized? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 03:56 PM |
| -4 | The mask slips“Shitty” is relative; are you talking about poverty ridden deep Mississippi or South Side Chicago? If not, don’t concern yourself that much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 01:52 PM |
| -6 | The mask slipsDude, just let it go. School is extremely overrated and it is up to the student to take initiative for his station in life. This is coming from a decamillionaire that only went to public schools. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 01:01 PM |
| 6 | I don’t see a forever in my marriage, is that a problem?You sound like a huge moron. You might as well rip off the bandaid now to limit potential alimony and asset rape. And of course, you didn’t get a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 05:50 AM |
| 30 | Girlfriend post divorceDude, just have your fun. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Child support estimateYou’ll be taken to the cleaners especially if you’ve been married for over 10 years in California (lifetime alimony). | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 09:53 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think?RUN and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Child support estimateThis is totally dependent on your state/locale lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 07:34 AM |
| 4 | Divorce..Dude, just RUN. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Id like to run a marital asset strategy by everyoneThat’s the same BS that is repeated over and over here on this subreddit. That’s when you need a prenup the most, when assets are being BUILT. Prenups can protect your assets as long as you keep them clean and separate (no joint accounts), if it’s not signed under duress with a specific clause stating as such, and there are small concessions to make the prenup not unconscionable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/25 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Id like to run a marital asset strategy by everyoneThat’s the same BS that is repeated over and over here on this subreddit. That’s when you need a prenup the most, when assets are being BUILT. Prenups can protect your assets as long as you keep them clean and separate (no joint accounts), if it not signed under duress with a specific clause stating as such, and there are small concessions to make the prenup not unconscionable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 04:32 PM |
| -4 | Id like to run a marital asset strategy by everyoneJesus, why the fuck did you not get a PRENUP? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/25 04:44 AM |
| 4 | I made a big mistake🤢🤮 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to let goGet a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Silent DivorceJust get a 20 year old on the side then lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 09:04 AM |
| 2 | What to expect? I’m anxious as heckRun away to Cambodia. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 07:46 AM |
| 12 | Felt this is appropriate to ask here. Girlfriend seems to be moving toward a marriage… a need divorced guys advice.RUN FAR AWAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | "I don't care about her income"This. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 09:52 PM |
| 9 | 66 and headed for divorce, older guys, what is is like after?Just grab a rotation of 20 year olds. The world is your oyster. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Really tired of the single-dad-bashingAs long as you never marry again, I’m on board. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 07:41 PM |
| 2 | IVF is where I think it started.Dude, marriage is pointless without children. End it. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Useless at 50That’s why you date 20 year olds with less baggage LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | I need a friendYou should be on the bathroom floor crying that you can now approach 20 year olds with impunity. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Happy Independence DayGet this man some pussy and money, stat! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 09:14 PM |
| -3 | Dude I’m fucked upGood, better safe than sorry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 06:27 PM |
| -3 | Dude I’m fucked upYou are setting yourself up for a life of failure if you don’t listen to my advice young man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 04:56 PM |
| -12 | Dude I’m fucked upBe a man and get a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/25 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Tell APs new potential target?Just move from your little podunk town | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 11:01 PM |
| 6 | My wife wants out and I'm terrified.I’m assuming you have no prenup. Be ready to be taken to the cleaners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | 443,000 is gone what should I do?Take her to the cleaners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | 443,000 is gone what should I do?Get the alimony and assets bro, bleed her dry! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Trauma from divorce holding me back.Dude, go lift some weights and eat red meat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Running out of funds for legal battleCambodia. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 07:07 PM |
| 5 | NJ, 64yo, Divorced 10yrs coming up on full retirementJesus, were you earning 500k or more annually? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 06:50 PM |
| -1 | How much are you paying and why?You didn’t get a prenup, be prepared to lose everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 11:21 AM |
| 0 | We were all married to the same person at the same time- is there anything you learned that actually helps?Dude, why didn’t you get a prenup? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/25 05:49 AM |
| 9 | Having more kids?Dude, why are you going to expose yourself to another divorce rape and more rounds of child support LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 03:20 PM |
| 6 | My marriage is overDude was blowing her back out this whole time 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | I am starting to lose hopeSolution: Fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Attorney fees and paying for themJust run away to Cambodia | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/25 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Still hurts, wth?Get a fresh 20 year old, why do you still have the poverty mindset? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 08:05 AM |
| -6 | Asked for divorce, now I’m regretting itGet a fresh 20 year old to have fun with. Stop having a poverty mindset. Never marry again or have additional kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/25 03:40 PM |
| -1 | Why isn’t there a national support hotline for men going through divorce?SaFe SpAcE aS a MaN? LOL Dude, get yourself together and get a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Seeking SupportDude, you need to be railing 20 year olds. Don’t short change yourself. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Financially stuckJust liquidate all assets, abandon everything, and move to Cambodia on a perpetual “business” visa. Boom, done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/25 09:30 AM |
| 7 | She tried to break me. But I’m still standing—stronger.I really hope you never marry again lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | I truly hate being divorcedDude, you need an abundance mindset. You are now free to grab a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Getting your motivation backNot when you have massive debt lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Getting your motivation backDude, don’t pay for college tuitions, are you insane? Just concentrate on yourself and only invest money for your retirement. Get yourself a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 09:20 AM |
| 0 | I’m worried I’ll never have kids now…Dude, never marry again as the odds of another divorce are EXTREMELY high. Just get some 20 year old pregnant without all the legal ramifications of marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 03:04 PM |
| 0 | My son’s mother is trying to ruin me.Dude, just let it go lol. Your son will understand when he comes of age when he needs the real help with college tuition. In the meantime, get a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 04:39 AM |
| 11 | Saw Ex Brother in Law Today who promised he would put 'make me pay' the next time he saw meJust move out of your little podunk town | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Divorce after almost 2 decadesYou will owe massive amounts of child support and alimony on top of asset rape. Get the lube ready. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/25 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Hello brothers - I think I am lonelyJust be in shape, grooming, and most importantly, resources | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Hello brothers - I think I am lonelyGrab a 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Alimony Question—Help!That’s exactly what happens LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Alimony Question—Help!Lifetime alimony in California. You are utterly screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for my situation or words of encouragement? Soon to be filing for divorceAsset rape, child support, and alimony. Be ready to be taken to the cleaners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 01:58 PM |
| 8 | Wife said she wants a divorce for autonomy.She’s getting her back blown out by a beta buck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How to regain a purpose?Money and a son to carry the bloodline. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 6 | At a lossDude, just move abroad and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Too far down the roadSell all your assets and run away to Cambodia. Don’t let the bitch get anything. I’m assuming no prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Should I ask for alimonyGet the money lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Today is the day boys!Dude, NEVER marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Scared. Increased drinking and things are falling apart.Just drink filtered water lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 12 | How do you afford to live?Just liquidate your assets and run away to Cambodia lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 0 | California Spousal SupportYou are very lucky. Lifetime alimony for those in a decade long marriage in libcuck California. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 05:35 AM |
| 2 | It's Become a Non-Believable Comedic Tragedy that I wouldn't even believe.No prenup? Prepare for the asset r*pe of a lifetime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Thought i found the my soul mateJust get a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Will my kids resent me?Just sell all your assets and run away to Cambodia bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 05:39 AM |
| 15 | I married a single mom. Did I screw up?This can’t be real lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/25 07:25 AM |
| 16 | Divorced more than once a red flag?Yes. More red flags than a CCP parade. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 12:13 PM |
| -2 | Sad lonely and lostDude, just get a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Going through it: setting money on fire left and rightDude, just run away to Cambodia. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/25 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Yes and no reconciliationRUN FAR AWAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 10:06 PM |
| 11 | 45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like?Lifetime alimony in California. Ouch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 06:19 AM |
| 7 | Ex-wife's planning on marrying her former coworkerWhy are you wasting your energy on this? Just move on and block her from all social media and SMS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 5 | RantDude, just invest all your money and have fun with a 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/25 05:05 AM |
| 7 | I’m so closeRUN AND NEVER MARRY AGAIN. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 06:24 AM |
| 14 | Talking to ex after divorceBLOCK AND RUN. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/25 02:42 AM |
| 10 | She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single?Dude, NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN. NO EXCEPTIONS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 02:44 AM |
| 0 | At a fork in the roadRUN AND BE FREE WITH A 20 YEAR OLD | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/25 02:03 AM |
| 13 | Super depressed about moneyJust run away to Cambodia and be a permanent PPB. She doesn’t deserve your money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 04:09 AM |
| 7 | I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expectedRUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 03:19 PM |
| -13 | When men say they don't care how much she makesIt doesn’t matter when you are a high value man with a prenup lol. Only weak beta males want a WoMaN tHaT pAyS tHe BiLLs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 12:10 PM |
| 0 | It's not getting betterDude, get a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | My biggest fear coming from pending divorce is our childrenYour son is your top priority. He will carry the bloodline and family name. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 08:28 AM |
| 16 | Well I lost…Dude, just be a passport bro. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?Nope, the main purpose of women is to have your genetic heirs and raise them. Marriage is always a HUGE risk. Ideally, never marry. The less than ideal situation is to have a prenup that has minor monetary concessions so that it doesn’t get thrown out in court as unconscionable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Financially ruined after divorceRun away to Cambodia. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:38 AM |
| 10 | Divorce is finalized today, which she instigated seven months ago, but why do I feel like shit?Dude, get a fresh 20 year old and have some fun. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/03/25 02:17 AM |
| 0 | I am getting worse, not betterEasy, game, be in shape, resources. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 09:54 PM |
| 0 | I am getting worse, not betterDude, get a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Alimony 20+ year marriage in 50/50 state.. what do you payWhy do you people keep propagating this lie? This is false. A prenup not signed under duress with small monetary concessions will prevent any of this from happening. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Wife suddenly left me and my world is crumbling apart.Dude, just get divorce graped and move on. The asset grape, alimony, and child support will be absolutely brutal. Get yourself a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Alimony 20+ year marriage in 50/50 state.. what do you payYou are totally screwed. This is why all men must have prenups. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 09:21 AM |
| -2 | Verge of divorceDude, you are totally screwed. You will be taken to the cleaners with alimony and child support on top of the asset grape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Solo trip for her birthdayShe’s going to get her back blown out. Repeatedly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone else dealt with a destroyed sex drive even though they are happily with another partner?Dude, never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 01:18 AM |
| 10 | What will divorced life look like?You will be forced to sell the house and give her half the equity in addition to massive alimony and child support. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Alimony adjustment for 2018 tax lawJust run away to Cambodia bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 12:41 AM |
| 0 | I (M/46) just started dating a widow (F/38).Dude, just have your fun, preferably with a fresh 20 year old. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do you cry these days? Who do you cry to and how often?Dude, get a fresh 20 year old and have fun with her. Never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/25 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Suicidal thoughts?Just divorce her and be free lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Dating post divorceDude, just have your fun. Never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 07:02 AM |
| 0 | I wish she hurt me.You are now free to get a fresh 20 year old. Congratulations and never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 02:04 AM |
| 5 | I had my 1st post divorce hook upNEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN, DON’T BE A SIMP | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 06:33 PM |
| 0 | fuck that bitchGreat job sir | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 10:56 PM |
| 16 | fuck that bitchGet a fresh 20 year old and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Life After the WarJust live with your mom and inherit the house. You have no money, no assets, nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 01:39 AM |
| 9 | "You should be over it by now"Go find yourself a fun 20 year old and never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/24 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Here is my divorce storyWeak beta male simp falls for CCP red flag parade single mom volume 199,900,000 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay for the kids sake?Beta male energy. Be the ALPHA and dominate life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/24 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Should I stay for the kids sake?Just divorce and be happy with a rotation of fit 20 year olds. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/24 10:04 AM |
| 11 | No kids, no shared assets, less than 3 years marriage. What am I in for?Why did you marry a single mom lol… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | The next relationship…Just grab a 20 year old and never marry again. Easy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/24 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Divorce at 50Why did you get married a second time 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Divorce and splitting up assets - this sucks.Sell the house. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever financially recover?Yes, relying on women for income is weak beta behavior. Period. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever financially recover?You rely on women for money LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever financially recover?They work as long as they aren’t unconscionable and egregious. You don’t know the facts of the matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever financially recover?You sound like a low value beta. A high value male doesn’t depend on a woman for money in any capacity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/24 09:49 AM |
| 12 | 66 year old man. Wife divorcing me after 40 years of marriage.You’ll get completely destroyed, especially without a prenup. Sorry bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 09:39 PM |
| 15 | Do you guys ever financially recover?I can’t believe men get married without a prenup these days. FINANCIAL SUICIDE. The best option however is to never marry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/24 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Never Thought I Would Be Here, But Here I Am. Desperate For Advice.That sucks, a young chad blowing her back out. Divorce and never marry again. Get yourself a 20 year old. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/24 01:49 AM |
| 7 | I voted yesterday, but there was no hope that it would solve the biggest problem in my lifeJust don’t get married ever lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/24 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Hard mode : loneliness and celibacyIt’s not good for your prostate with all that semen retention. Just rub one out a few times a week for health reasons. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/24 11:34 AM |
| 9 | I lost my shitDivorce and be happy. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Move out and lose time with son?RUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Mental health taking a tollRUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 08:33 AM |
| 20 | I can't believe my 4 years of life savings are gone just like that...Get yourself a rotation and never marry again. Never marry without a prenup. The best option however is to not marry at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Vent.RUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Leaving but I am the one miserable 🤦🏻♂️Get yourself a rotation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Finances after separationThe first L was marrying an older woman, Jesus. No prenup? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 3 | What if spouse refuses to work?It’ll be a very high amount of alimony, sorry bud. No prenup correct? Always get a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 10:33 PM |
| 4 | What if spouse refuses to work?You’ll be paying a mountain of alimony. Lifetime alimony in California if the marriage was over a decade. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm having a really hard time.Get yourself a fun 20 year old and have her empty your balls. The world is your oyster. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 09:57 PM |
| 10 | My wife is leaving meJust get yourself a rotation of 20 year olds. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Is online dating worth it?Dude, just set the apps for ages 18-25. No need to go beyond that age range. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 04:52 PM |
| -1 | I can’t wrap my head around how she is doing so wellDude, why do you care so much? Just find yourself a fresh 20 year old and never get married again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 06:26 AM |
| 8 | Ex wife got arrested tonightWestern women smh | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 05:42 AM |
| 1 | 31m going through divorce, I feel like this pain will never go away and just feel sad, alone, and hopelessThe likelihood he'll have a successful marriage is VERY slim based on overwhelming data. He should live a life free from attachments and get with women that haven't been completely destroyed by feminism... yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/24 10:51 PM |
| 0 | 31m going through divorce, I feel like this pain will never go away and just feel sad, alone, and hopeless…and they use men for money. What’s the difference? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/24 10:00 PM |
| 0 | 31m going through divorce, I feel like this pain will never go away and just feel sad, alone, and hopelessBro, just get a rotation of 20 year olds. Live abundantly. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Took a woman out for supper for the first time since the split and I'm all messed up.Just pump and dump bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 09:30 PM |
| 7 | She want alimony included in prenupFirst of all, she’s very old. Second, RUN. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Domestic Violence Happens to Married Men TooThis can’t be real. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Wish I was enough.Dude, just get a new 20 year old and never marry again. The world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 7 | I have a (mostly) healthy relationship with my wife, but there's zero sex. Unsure about what to do next. 34m 33fDivorce and be happy bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | OpinionsTake this deal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 10:52 AM |
| 0 | The reason I don't file for a divorce.Divorce and be happy. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceFinally, a man with a brain/prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceYes, that will be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceA prenup has zero enforcement on child custody, that’ll be a family court matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceNo, never comingle any assets EVER. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceThere’s an alimony stipulation in mine (a small percentage of my large income), so I’m good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceAlso, you are forgetting the best option: Never get married lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceGo meet with a reputable lawyer and have a lengthy, specific prenup drawn up with a “not signed under duress” clause. Make sure it is signed 1-3 months prior to the marriage. Never have any joint accounts of any kind and you’ll be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried Young man Needing adviceIncorrect, it sounds like you’ve never even had a prenup drafted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:53 PM |
| -3 | My wife left with our babyWhy are you going to burn through your life savings for custody lol. Make sure to never marry again but you can have more children outside of marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 02:20 PM |
| -10 | The nightmare never ends. Divorce finalized. Custody finalized.Just keep it simple and give full custody. Then you can live freely and never marry again. Done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 02:13 PM |
| 2 | I am about to do it and I am very anxiousGet it done, be happy. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 09:26 AM |
| 12 | "Happier After Divorce"The world is your oyster, so many women out there. Never marry again. Done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Tired of her and her daughterSingle mom lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | If you got divorced, but found a new woman you can see a future with, would you propose, or heal first and accept the loss?Dude, why expose yourself AGAIN??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/24 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else think about "switching teams"?Sounds GAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/24 08:25 PM |
| 3 | I miss my wifeRUN FAR AWAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/24 05:54 PM |
| 18 | Woman as a friendRUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Don't know what to doRUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 01:29 PM |
| 4 | How do you survive on your own?Just live at your dad’s house forever lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | California: Want a divorce, need advice on alimonyLifetime alimony if you were married for over a decade. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Wife said to husband "I'll just fuck someone else"RUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 12:20 PM |
| 6 | Found the love of my lifeWhy are you exposing yourself to divorce grape again lol… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 12:17 PM |
| 12 | I'm about to get destroyedDude, why did you get married more than once lol… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/24 09:03 AM |
| 5 | The divorce was my fault and I miss her.Poverty mindset, go get yourself a 20 year old without all the damage and baggage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Probable divorceRUN FAR AWAY SIMP | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 05:03 AM |
| 11 | Is my wife cheating?RUN FAR AWAY SIMP | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 12:24 AM |
| 9 | I'm going to talk to an attorney tomorrow. What should I know?Dude, you won the lottery. Lifetime alimony. Make sure to never remarry or cohabitate and you’ll have automated income for life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/24 09:28 AM |
| 7 | Marriage is likely going to end soon. Need advice.You’ll finally be free buddy. Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/24 12:04 PM |
| 8 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Dude, why would you risk your assets again? Are you insane? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 11:29 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with been physically terrified of marrying my girlfriendDude, NEVER marry a woman older than you. That is simply a poverty mindset and displays a severe lack of abundance. If you HAVE to marry, always marry a girl that is 5 years younger than you at minimum and ALWAYS GET A PRENUP. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 7 | Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are?That only works when the woman is still young and attractive lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Recently divorced - Can I still live a fulfilling life staying single forever and dating multiple women?Never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 06:34 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with. . . .You are so lucky it’s not a daughter, Jesus | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/24 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Wife took grandchild and left while I was sleepingSingle moms smh, why can’t you simps just walk away? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 10 | I hate my wifeDivorce the single mom, run far away, never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Who can help me navigate divorce thoughts… turning 31 and this would be year 9 of misery, I mean marriage, I mean mistake….Get ready to lose tons of assets and pay mountains of child support and alimony. I don’t know why you guys don’t get prenups knowing the odds of getting a divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/24 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Fuck itJust go to SE Asia bro and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 06:31 AM |
| 8 | Wow! Told my wife I’m done last night…RUN FAR AWAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 04:54 AM |
| 7 | My spouse had a mental breakdown. Contemplated suicide yesterday morning. She asked for separation a few weeks ago, and I agreed. We are still living together and will be for at least the next year... had anyone else had similar situation?Dude, one year is unreasonable. 1-2 months maximum. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/24 10:41 PM |
| 12 | After a messy divorce, I (44M) been with my girl (39F) for three years, my kids love her, discussing marriage, and the dreaded body count info was revealed in a conversation in a bar. Thoughts?RUN FAR AWAY | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Divorce in CaliforniaLifetime alimony for you if married over 10 years, you won the lottery buddy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Moving in with GF post divorceRUN | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Place to actually talk/chat that isn't Reddit? I'm dying inside as a married father. I can afford to leave. Maybe I should?Dude, just bite the bullet and get divorced. You’ll have your freedom back (with way less money lol). | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/24 09:32 AM |
| 9 | Losing itDude, the world is your oyster. Now get yourself a rotation and never marry again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it OK to tell my soon to be ex wife that I want to take as much as I can from her in our divorce?Destroy her and take everything she has. No prenup, FAIR GAME. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 09:40 AM |
| 5 | It's done.Never marry again and get yourself a rotation. The world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 05:09 AM |
| 8 | Getting re-Married adviceDON’T DO IT | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 08:13 AM |
| -2 | When do you actually let go?Dude, just go monk mode and stay away from women. You have anger issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 05:23 PM |
| 2 | I just found out that I’m going to be forced to sell my house and pay around $1,500 monthly for alimony, child support, and health insurance. I only bring home $3,000 every month. How am I going to survive?Just go overseas to SE Asia and work remotely. Cut off all contact and create a new bank account over there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 05:32 PM |
| -3 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Pump and dump | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Dude, you are searching for trash in the gutter with that horrible poverty mindset. Only go for women in their early 20s with no children or previous marriages. Remember, only an abundance mindset! Do better than a single mom simp!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me?Damn, that sucks bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me?Is your alimony permanent ala California law? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 12:52 AM |
| 12 | Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me?Dude, get out of your poverty mindset and adopt an abundance mindset. You are now a FREE MAN able to pick any woman you want. Never get married again or have any additional kids. Problem solved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/24 12:39 AM |
| 3 | How did you level yourself up?Get into a trade. Plumbing, HVAC, electrician. You’ll never be able to succeed with all that child support and alimony without way higher income. HOWEVER, those figures will be adjusted once your income goes up lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Financially devastatedYes, lifetime alimony in California. Terrible news bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/24 05:12 AM |
| 8 | Financially devastatedThe child support period is finite and I don't know about your alimony situation. You are now a FREE man, it must feel awesome. Never marry again or have any additional children. You will have the time of your life with your new abundance mindset. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 04:41 AM |
| 5 | The hardest part of all of this for me...Dude, stop being in the poverty mindset. There’s billions of women out there, the world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Divorce after 12 yr marriage; mid 50s, NC, no kids.You’ll get destroyed in the family court. That’s why all men should get a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Divorce has left me wanting to dieDude, chill out. You are in a poverty mindset, time to switch to the abundance mindset. You are now free to get a rotation of 20 year olds. The world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Need adviceJust go overseas bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Where/when do you meet women?Yes, never label the “relationship” | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Where/when do you meet women?Just be on their “level” and mirror their concerns over their thoughts LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Where/when do you meet women?Dude, never marry or cohabitate again. Just get yourself a fresh 20 year old that hasn’t been fully tainted by feminism yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/24 04:38 AM |
| 5 | Setback?Stop being a weak SIMP, just sell it and invest the proceeds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/24 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life?The world is your oyster, get yourself a fresh 20 year old and don’t get her pregnant. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Time to go?Dude, just divorce and get yourself a rotation if money truly isn’t an issue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 08:32 AM |
| 1 | House buyout and equityNot going to happen, prepare for lifetime alimony in California. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | House buyout and equityLifetime alimony for Californians married over a decade, sorry bro. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 03:06 AM |
| 1 | House buyout and equityYou’ll be destroyed in California family court with no prenup, sorry bro. Alimony, child support, and you’ll get screwed with your house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 02:36 AM |
| 7 | Do I pay alimony even though wife refuses to work?You will get destroyed with alimony. Sorry bud. Men, always get a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Why am I numb and paralyzed with inaction? How do I gain momentum to make a change?You’ll lose half and be forced to pay child support and alimony. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why am I numb and paralyzed with inaction? How do I gain momentum to make a change?Divorce and get yourself a rotation of 20 year olds. I hope you have a prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Happily divorced, now what? Is money all that matters?Get yourself a rotation and never marry again. The good life! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 9 | I’m glad to be getting divorcedWhy would she if she has a free ride for life lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 09:03 PM |
| 13 | I’m glad to be getting divorced40% of your salary for life??? WOW | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/24 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Last post I made here was about going on a date with a woman... she just dumped meDude, you have a poverty mindset. Get an abundance mindset and get a stable of 20 year olds on rotation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Depressed. I wish I never had kids.Only obligated to pay until they are 18! | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/24 07:58 PM |
| 8 | Divorce got me off anti-depressantsNever marry again and get yourself a rotation. Congratulations sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/24 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Am I in a good spot to divorce despite 2 kids?Congratulations on the prenup sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Why is it this so hard?This is a blessing for you. Now go out and blow out the backs of 20 year olds. The world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/24 09:07 AM |
| 0 | feel like a failureHave your freedom, blow out the backs of 20 year olds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Back and ForthSounds like you won as her salary is higher than yours. She will have to buy you out, then you get a small place, and proceed to blow out the backs of 20 year olds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 05:58 AM |
| 4 | STBXW wont sign divorce agreement.No prenup in California? JFC | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/24 01:05 PM |
| 6 | One marriage enough? Or more to come.WHY LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/24 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Grey divorce, teen children and retirementIn other words, you didn’t get a prenup and you are speculating lol. How much did you lose? There is a stipulation for alimony in mine which is more than fair. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Grey divorce, teen children and retirementWhy do people keep saying this? Do you even have a prenup and gone through the process? A prenup lists assets and debts separately and to be kept separate for the duration of the marriage. As long as ALL assets and debts are kept separate in your name only you are fine. My lawyer and I met extensively and he went over each item, line by line, and made sure there was a listed counsel that reviewed it for my spouse and a clause for not signing under duress (with appropriate time before the actual … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Grey divorce, teen children and retirementYou won’t be able to retire after she takes half of everything. No prenup? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 08:01 AM |
| 5 | The world is so big now.Now get a 20 year old sir. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/23 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Alimony and child support CaliforniaYou are absolutely screwed bud, alimony for life. Huge mistake on your part for getting married in libcuck CA with no prenup. On the bright side, only two years of child support! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/23 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Scared. What happens next?Now time for a string of 20 year old girlfriends that you’ll never marry, you have it made son | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Is getting married even worth it?Only marry if you want children to raise in a healthy environment for your genetic legacy, always get a prenup with a duress clause. Keep every asset separate. Don’t bother marrying unless you are a multimillionaire and can take care of all the bills. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 11:45 AM |
| 5 | God why did I get marriedFirst rule as a man, always have money lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Stay for the KidDude, just divorce now and get a fresh 20 year old. First mistake was marrying an OLDER woman, Jesus. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/23 09:28 AM |
| 4 | No plan in lifeBlow out the backs of 20 year olds, the world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Are we to blame for picking the wrong partners?You only have yourself to blame if you married with no prenup. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/23 06:41 AM |
| 6 | What is divorce like at first?If you don’t have a prenup, you are in big trouble. Assets will be taken away, alimony, child custody battles, child support, lawyer fees, and HER lawyer fees as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 04:16 AM |
| 1 | California, how screwed am I?LIFETIME ALIMONY | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 11:48 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter