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Dating After DivorceLong-Review-1861/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 03:43 PM
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9

Lol exactly, check her phone and all her excuses melt away
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 07:03 AM
1

Standard issue divorce lawfare. The amount of men i know that got handed false protection orders is insane
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 04:26 PM
13

Thats insane
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 01:08 PM
40

Social media has completely changed women 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 06:25 AM
4

How does the first world have such shit family laws? I live in a third world country and it's not like this at all. Alimony is only granted if necessary and up to 18 months after a divorce, kids are 50/50 between parents
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 06:20 AM
2

Sorry man that's disgusting 🫣. I always said, check your partners phone to see who you're really dating. Imagine wasting your only life on a unfaithful woman 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 03:47 PM
3

How is rent like 90 percent of your salary? America is insane
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 01:02 PM
9

Sometimes you hope that someone like this falls hopefully in love with a guy, intertwines her finances with his and gets cheated on so she could have an inkling of how devastating being cheated on feels
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 12:59 PM
4

I'll never understand how women can "break up in their heads" months or years before you even know anything is wrong
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 12:56 PM
3

They say you get stuck mentally/emotionally at the age the trauma occurred. It's why so many borderlines despite being 40 throw childish temper tantrums. My ex threw a tantrum in the middle of a shopping mall, talking full out lying on the floor kicking and screaming. She was 32. Seemed like she was in a weird trance, then acted like it was no big deal
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 10:05 AM
7

She's never yours, it's just your turn
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 09:56 AM
-4

Bill Gates is the biggest pussy ever. He's drunk on power
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 09:55 AM
2

Yes i was with one for over 8 years, just run op, she made me nearly lose my mind
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 05:52 PM
4

Is she perhaps a borderline? They always like to ruin special occasions and are overly emotional over the smallest slights
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 11:10 AM
12

Never cheated, it's horribly cruel and abusive to do to someone you claim to love. Took me years to get over being cheated on though
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 07:59 AM
5

Women break up in their heads and grieve and move on before you even know there's an issue. It's super weird to me how they can just pretend to be loving and caring and then the next day you mean nothing to them
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:15 AM
12

I wouldn't trust this guy for shit, if he can repeatedly betray his family imagine what else he's capable of
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 06:29 PM
13

Those women that will "fuck anything" usually have tons of childhood and self worth issues and get validation through cheap sex. Daddy issues are a thing
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 09:51 AM
14

Sorry dude but always check their phone to see who you are really dating
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 09:50 AM
29

My one ex was getting smashed in the back of an ambulance by a married surgeon at work I was the side guy with another and i had no idea until i checked her phone. She would bang this dude unprotected and then come have sex with me. It's honestly so revolting. She was an expert liar and i think she may have been a sociopath. I no longer trust that women can remain loyal
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 07:44 AM
7

I think it is changing, one of the biggest tags on Instagram lately is accountability is a woman's kryptonite
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 10:12 PM
14

American divorce laws are insane
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 10:10 PM
2

I mean it's pretty trashy of her to have such low morals, she's just asking for a lifelong std 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 09:28 AM
5

Lol if she has bpd be prepared for her to make your life even worse. It took me years to recover from what my ex bpd fiancee put me through. Run as far away and as quick away from this woman as possible
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 09:18 AM
2

Yep, nothing like vacumming the floor to get the pussies dripping 😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 09:11 AM
6

Remember on this crazy liberal leftist app we should not trust our intuition and common sense and the personal experiences of 1000s of other men 🙄. Basically don't question anything or the bullshit we have been forcefed by Disney and rom coms
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 09:01 AM
20

Lol yep every single man that doesn't agree with exactly what a woman wants is a "narcissist". It's absolutely hilarious how grown ass adults refuse introspection or any responsibility for their failed marriages
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 08:48 AM
12

What you did for a woman previously means absolutely nothing. They only care about their current feelings and mindstate. Also look up borderline personality disorder. Cheaters always rewrite history, it helps them compartmentalize the evil horrible things they have done. You'll be fine bro
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/25 11:08 AM
5

Never be a martyr with women. You end up destroyed with nothing
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 09:11 AM
22

Holy shit it's insane how women don't want to dig into their own pockets. Most of the women i dated expected me to pay for everything because "i was the man". Every time we went out, every expensive excursion etc, it's like you're their parent. Then they shame you if you refuse. I'm glad so many men have woken up to these bullshit societal expectations
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 08:41 AM
3

Yep we have all fallen for "crazy girl" love and sex One girl even said to me with a super evil smirk "i know exactly how to get men to fall in love with me" and "men are dumb and easy to manipulate"
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 08:58 PM
5

What? He's not doing anything. Lots of women on the bpd/narcissist spectrum act like this. Sounds like this dude got love bombed for 6 months until she dropped her mask. She sounds like an abusive person that is blaming it on her childhood issues. Billions of other people also had rough childhoods and don't act this way
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 07:18 PM
12

Sounds like her mask dropped dude. Almost every woman is awesome for the first 6 months, they showing their best selves to hook you into a relationship
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 07:12 PM
1

It's life dude, millions have gone through worse 🤷 I'm just saying don't wait for "karma" because even if something happens to your ex it won't make you feel any better. Never wish bad on others. All you can do is move on and start over
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 07:10 PM
1

I wasted more than 8 years on the one 😂😭
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 03:27 PM
6

Sorry bro 😂😂😂 It really helped me to think this way at the time. No point reminiscing over something you have zero control over, you just have to accept it as part of life, as horrible as it is
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 02:18 PM
6

Theres tons of "karma" stories all over reddit so there may be something to it. I've been cheated on by 4 different women and every single one of them is living a better life than me. One was fucking a guy for months, moved him into my house and got violent and called the cops because i wasn't moving out fast enough. She is now married to the guy with 2 kids and a successful career. Another was caught banging a married doctor in the back of an ambulance. She's now earning over 150k a year. Anoth…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:26 AM
6

Radical acceptance bro, that's all you can do. Accept that she's trying to impress and lock down another guy. It's all a mating ritual. So she will pull out all the stops. Be brutal with yourself and accept that another guy will give her pleasure, make her cum, that she will bite her lip when she's riding him. That she will swallow his cum happily and let him have his way with her. It's sucks and it hurts like crazy but it's gonna happen so only thing you can do is accept it and move forward. Bt…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 10:09 AM
1

Take your pet and run!!!! Women like this will put down your dog just to hurt you. I've seen this level of cruelty 1000 times on this app
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 11:40 AM
10

Why would you make up with someone who was cheating on you? She showed you who she was and how little she cared about you or your relationship?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/24 12:13 PM
14

Cheaters always say the exact same shit and they all rewrite history. Her mind is full of dopamine and other fluffy hormones right now. You're the enemy to her "happiness" so she's gonna treat you like shit and degrade you. Look on the infidelity subs, everyone has the same story
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 11:00 AM
1

Thankfully in my country we don't have any sort of stupid "common law marriage system". If you not married she gets absolutely jack shit. Obviously child support is a different thing
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 10:03 PM
0

So glad to see so many turning back to God
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 05:07 PM
8

Honestly bro, that sounds like pure absolute fucking bliss
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 05:06 PM
1

Why would any man get married in America knowing the American legal system? It's absolutely insane. No love or pussy is worth the destruction men potentially face
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 11:35 AM
3

Translation: she in fact hadn't done the work, her unprocessed trauma has manifested in several personality disorders
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 08:11 AM
8

Holy shit this is enough to swear off women for life
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 10:58 AM
20

Welcome to women, where permanent life altering decisions are based on feelings and the subjective opinions of others
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 09:51 AM
3

I would seriously consider the possibility that she has some kind of cluster b personality disorder. This is pure evil man 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 04:50 PM
2

Oh okay fine, the vast majority > 85%. Read through this forum alone and you will see the repeated pattern that men go through
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 05:43 PM
5

This is literally standard divorce lawfare from a toxic woman
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 08:18 AM
12

They all go on a "spiritual journey" which involves getting drunk/drugs , taking random cocks and then getting into new age stuff like tarot, law of attraction etc. It's actually hilarious how most women seem to follow the exact same script. They aren't enlightened, they are full of shit children in adult bodies 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 10:53 AM
2

Well she left me for another dude without a single care in the world. Zero empathy. Then she would call the cops if i tried to contact her. Absolute bat shit crazy
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 02:02 PM
19

Sound like you were married to a borderline. I experienced all this over 8 years with a diagnosed borderline. I nearly lost my mind being with her, it's incredibly traumatizing
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 02:52 PM
4

It's so weird, you hardly ever hear about a man moaning that he was unhappy, he just accepts changes in mood and keeps going
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 10:21 AM
2

Read the book to good to stay to bad to leave. You can do much better than this shitty woman bro
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 11:23 AM
10

Ask for child support, go for the throat as she is doing
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 06:00 AM
11

Cheaters always blame you to appease their own conscience
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 12:22 PM
3

Why would you be attacked? So many people are turning back to God/Jesus and testify to the amazing influence he has in their lives. The real world isn't based on this cringe liberal hateful app
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 09:43 PM
5

Believe actions over words... always. Someone that loves you would never do this
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 11:41 AM
11

Dude don't be daft, go for what's due to you. If the situation was reversed she would be going for you throat trying to bankrupt you. Being a "nice guy" just gets you destroyed
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 11:38 AM
6

Usually it's just an opportunity for women to test other waters without guilt
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 05:57 AM
9

She sounds like an absolute toxic mess bro, don't think you lost anything of value
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 08:42 AM
9

Be careful you don't get banned for mentioning anything against women even if it's the truth. This liberal shithole of an app is very against freedom of speech or anything against the official narrative which is men = bad
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 05:14 PM
14

Lol so you must go off and work, not see your kids and she collects bigger alimony and child support. The entitlement of modern women never ceases to amaze me
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 08:10 PM
7

I didn't believe in crimes of passion until you walk in and find the other guy on your couch playing with your dog while you're trying to move out. Takes everything in you to control the rage. This world has gone insane
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 06:08 PM
4

Especially on this crazy liberal app. Anything that is raises men up is looked down upon and men are made to feel in the wrong
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 06:05 PM
29

It's a badge of honor nowadays from these toxic women. If you had boundaries and stood up for yourself and didn't do everything she wanted immediately you are a narcissist in this feminine societies eyes
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/24 07:09 AM
1

When it's out of nowhere it's because there is usually someone else
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 09:58 PM
6

Are women given a divorce 101 handbook because they seem to all do the exact same shit
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/24 09:55 PM
4

Even with a condom you can still catch it as it's skin to skin
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 11:27 AM
5

Sounds like you were married to a borderline
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 02:34 AM
1

Yep i live in a third world country and alimony is difficult to get unless there was a proven need by the wife and only for a very limited time. Child support is probably the same in most countries
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 08:01 PM
9

American family laws are absolutely insane 🤢 something seriously needs to be done about this
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/24 10:37 PM
6

Cheaters always behave this way. Just abusive trashy behavior. Get rid of her
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 06:51 AM
4

Lol i am. He was by far the better candidate
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 05:36 PM
2

I really don't understand the hate for Trump but we are on this super liberal leftist app so I'm not surprised
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 05:29 PM
6

I often stayed late at work sometimes to like 2 am and i absolutely hated that job just so i didn't have to go home to her. She had bpd and her mood swings were insane
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 09:21 PM
2

Her sister told me to run while we were still dating
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:24 AM
3

Yep took me 2 years to recover after a relationship of less than a year which ended so brutally. There is no timeline to healing
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:20 AM
3

You never ever leave your business or career for a woman. Should be rule number 1 taught to boys. Women run on emotions so can be easily influenced. ALWAYS put yourself first before any woman, they can leave you in an instant
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:19 AM
8

Ok but what's the alternative? Constantly badgering her with professions of your love and then she gets a RO? NC is the best way for you to heal, it's no longer about her
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 09:59 AM
2

Um it's simple actually, she isn't attracted to you anymore but still wants the perks of being with you. Women are manipulative by nature so she'll gladly tolerate you for a lovely free holiday
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 09:53 AM
11

This is why I don't 100% agree with the hypergamy argument, I read soooooooo many stories of woman leaving their husbands/boyfriends and shacking up with some low life abusive addict?
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 11:02 AM
3

My ex was also "depressed" and hot and and cold and wasn't sure what she wanted out of nowhere. Turns out she was cheating with another dude. Always assume that they are deceitful cheaters before thinking of their mental health
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 09:00 AM
6

Lots of shitty women are stuck in the mindset that it is the man's "duty" to provide, while they sit on their asses and do fuck all. I'm so glad men have opened their eyes to this bullshit the last few years
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 06:54 PM
6

There's no time limit on grief. A 10 year relationship took me like 2 years to get over. Conversely i had like an 8 month relationship where i was duped the whole time. I still think of her often and how she fucked me over and it's been more than 4 years... from an 8 month relationship 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 03:17 PM
2

The propaganda is rife on this liberal app, anything against the official narrative and you get banned. It's absolutely insane what's happening in the world. It's intentional and planned destruction
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 06:10 PM
2

Australia has become such a leftist nanny state
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 06:09 PM
5

Many on this group believe exactly the same dude
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 10:38 AM
2

She'll never look at you the same way again, might as well cut your losses dude
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:26 PM
5

There is no good outcome with a borderline. I was with one for almost 10 years and she nearly destroyed me
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 01:59 PM
2

Sometimes you have to learn the hard way. You'll find someone else dude. Just don't do this to someone else again, it destroys people and their world view
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:55 PM
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Nope she'll split you black and make your life hell for "abandoning" her. She will probably fight you for custody too. It's not worth staying with a borderline, they destroy your mental health with their constant change of moods and rages
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 09:02 AM
4

Bro you fucked up badly, accept it and let her find someone that actually cares about and respects her. If you have ever been cheated on you will know the extreme pain, doubt and insecurity it causes. Often takes years to heal and trust again. She unfortunately will never be the same. Get therapy to find out why you think it was appropriate to treat someone like this. Cheating is abuse btw
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:40 AM
1

I actually prefer being alone now. The other day i went to go watch a movie at 11 am and then had breakfast, it was absolute bliss
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 03:51 PM
1

In what ways has God changed you?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 03:46 PM
15

If it's out of nowhere, there's another cock on the prowel. Every guy thinks his woman is different and would never do something like this. You think you're the exception, until you aren't
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 10:24 AM
1

Lol exactly🤣 then these woman expect commitment when they do this to most guys they go on dates with
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 07:40 AM
11

So the hierarchy is as follows currently Hinge>Bumble>Tinder Tinder is mostly low class women that will sleep with you on the first date. The disparity of quality between Hinge and Tinder is huge, even though they are all owned by the same company
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 08:16 AM
1

Yep casual sex is super overrated and just leaves you feeling empty. Then you sit with anxiety over the fact that you may have got an incurable std from one of these highly promiscuous women
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 03:58 PM
1

Not true. Borderlines and other cluster bs often have sex on the first date to hook you even if they not super in to you
/r/seduction13/10/24 03:00 PM
3

Oh and go get std tested because girls like this aren't really fans of self respect or using condoms
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:56 PM
5

It's obvious she's a highly promiscuous girl. Sleeping with you almost immediately means she does this with other people too and does it more than you can imagine. Nothing good will come out of dating a girl like this. She's already deceived you almost immediately. She's sounds insanely toxic
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:55 PM
1

They all say that. It's the same toxic pervasive pattern with them every time. The next dude will be blamed too
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 02:11 PM
15

Usually when they just cut and run it's because there is another dude in the mix
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 08:06 AM
4

American divorce laws are sick 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 08:05 AM
7

Borderlines and cluster bs routinely do this
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 03:16 PM
5

Yeah but he/she could have given you something else that's permanent
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:07 AM
1

Yes future faking is how toxic people get you hooked
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:05 AM
1

Toxic women are attracted to everybody. You definitely weren't the only guy she acted like this with. Might need to get yourself tested bro, women like this are a dime a dozen nowadays
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:05 AM
14

My ex was getting banged on the boardroom table at work. She still came home at the normal times every day , wasn't away on weekends and wasn't suspect at all. If i didn't look at her phone, i would never had any idea. Sometimes you just never know and you get deceived
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 08:03 PM
1

Because i was seeking validation for my low self esteem 🤷
/r/seduction08/10/24 09:10 AM
1

Like a month back. It's actually really gross if you think about it. I felt stupid and disgusted afterwards. Casual sex is incredibly stupid
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:56 AM
1

Nowadays most girls sleep with you on the first date. Consequences of a hook up culture 😐
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:39 AM
2

99% chance she's having an affair
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 05:17 AM
6

Strange, so many of my friends are stuck in awful marriages and wish they were single but they essentially trapped by the system. Look at the silver lining
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 01:51 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its amazing when your ex wife uses logic
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 08:52 PM
2

Women want what they can't have
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 08:51 PM
5

Damn maybe karma does exist 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 08:48 PM
4

Agreed it always seems that the women are the ruthless uncaring ones and the men are the beggers
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 05:36 PM
7

Lol so much for love. You're just an atm. What do you get if she leaves before 10 years? Put an anal Friday clause in so if she misses a Friday she gets nothing
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:35 AM
1

Bro stay far away from alcoholics, they will destroy you
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 11:02 AM
3

Get your fair share from her, she wouldn't be amicable if it was the other way around
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 10:27 AM
2

Holy shit
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 07:44 AM
2

What a revolting human being she is. Stay far away from that psycho
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 07:43 AM
3

Get rid of these snakes. They are both low class trash
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 07:36 AM
9

Also you can never take this revolting woman back. Cheaters do crazy shit to continue to get access to the dick, it's limerace and not based on the real world
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 07:23 AM
13

Standard play by abusive women in divorces
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 07:05 AM
7

Dude give her what she wants, don't try fight it or beg, i know it hurts. But more often than not they already have another guy in the background.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 05:13 PM
1

Holy shit dude, get away from these insanely toxic people
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 06:48 PM
8

Just realize those are the words of an unhinged toxic women and are not based in reality. Women often go for the jugular to hurt you because they operate on emotion
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 09:57 AM
4

Go look at r/DeadBedrooms and see what your future has in store bro. Why would you put up with this treatment?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 07:26 AM
7

Sounds like you were married to a borderline bro
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 07:21 AM
4

100 percent and it's usually the complete opposite
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 08:29 AM
2

This is usually the behavior of a man having an affair, I'm sorry
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 08:35 AM
8

My ex also fell into "depression" and was horrible and cold to me. Would come home to find her still in bed... Turns out she was fucking another guy
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 08:29 AM
12

Oh look another ex wife taking zero responsibility and essentially placing all the blame on the husband
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 12:03 PM
3

Ssris should be illegal, they have destroyed so many lives
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 01:49 PM
9

Based judge. None of this freeloader shit anymore. I'll never understand spousal support. The man no longer gets the benefits of marriage from his wife but he must still pay for her, it's so nuts
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 10:42 AM
2

This is straight out of the female playbook, why is it so common? And they will barely get a slap on the wrist
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 02:35 PM
33

How is a woman that never wants to fuck you, perfect for you? You deserve so much better. When a woman is in to you, there will be zero doubt dude
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 02:01 PM
2

Remember that only the threat of divorce made her think you were now worth the effort
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 06:50 AM
2

You still have a lambo my man 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:58 PM
4

Yep, not sure what it is with women and mercury being in retrograde 😳
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 07:38 AM
3

Yes, definitely don't invite more negativity
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 07:37 AM
1

It will get better mate, this time next year you'll be a completely different person
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:45 PM
3

Yep that's how they hook you with the crazy emotional sex. It's all fake and part of their plan
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 05:39 PM
4

Borderlines are masterful at sleep deprivation and ruining special occasions. Mine always had some crazy emergency on special days like my birthday
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:56 AM
3

Nothing to salvage bro, her actions shows you how much you mean to her
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:51 AM
2

Corey is amazing
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:48 AM
5

No contact, unless it's about the kid. This woman is weak low class trash dude
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/24 06:47 PM
29

It's incredible how every man on this planet is "emotionally abusive". It's almost like every woman plays from the same playbook
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 07:37 PM
1

Why would you take her back after she dropped the D word the first time? It means she has been considering it for ages and she only took you back because she it would inconvenience her. She didn't care about your mental well-being
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 03:26 PM
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I used to stay late at work so i didn't have to go home to her. I'm talking sometimes till like 2 am... i absolutely hated my job btw
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:53 PM
6

Women can never take any accountability, it's actually hilarious
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 01:14 PM
10

So many men have gone through the same thing. Look up the light switch effect, mostly employed by borderlines and narcissists
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 01:11 PM
2

Dude get out!!! Run as far away as you can. I was with a borderline for 9 years, nearly destroyed me. Took over 2 years just to kinda feel okay again. There is lots of mental healing in front of you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 08:09 PM
10

Nurses... it's like they are all cheaters
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 11:40 PM
5

The planned destruction of the nuclear family is definitely a thing. People are blind to what is happening right in front of their eyes
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 08:46 AM
7

Dude it's just your emotions talking, a year from now you will be with a new woman and will barely remember what your ex even looks like. That's life
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 12:36 PM
9

Lol you're getting played hard. Women are manipulative by nature. She's using your love for your kids against you
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:46 AM
1

Typical shaming tactics by women, ignore it and protect yourself
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 02:03 PM
3

The 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 are screaming at you. When people show you who they are, believe them
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 02:01 PM
5

Never take a cheater back. She has a terrible character, that is who she is. She was sucking another dudes dick while you're at home missing her? Fuck that dude
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 07:33 AM
6

Another fellow reddittor married to a borderline. This woman is going to make your life extremely difficult going forward
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 07:29 AM
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I knew she was having an affair a couple of lines in, it's insanely predictable if you have gone through it. Tale as old as time on this group
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 02:02 PM
3

Yes I've read this story too many times. Please try rehome it before your wife does something incredibly cruel but par for the course of a vindictive ex
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 09:56 AM
4

Bro, so you'll teach your sons that abuse is acceptable as long as you're getting pussy? Come on
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 09:48 AM
5

Yep, they always the victim
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 10:28 AM
6

Yep even if they are more sexual with you it's a 🚩
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 10:24 AM
6

They remain teenagers in mind even if they 70
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 09:57 AM
10

I was the side guy without even knowing. She had been practically engaged to another dude. She could lie to you with a smile on her face. If i didn't look at her phone i would still be in a "relationship with a good kindhearted woman"... it was all fake. She had the sickest smirk on her face when i found out like she was happy that she pulled one over me and could now drop the act. Covert narcissists...
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 09:55 AM
6

That was a shitty therapist. Telling a client to be more cruel and deceitful? Where's the personal accountability and growth?
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 09:49 AM
2

How did God change you mate? What's the difference from changing through your own behavior modification? I'm honestly interested because i have been trying to turn back to God
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 06:34 PM
10

99 percent chance that you were married to a borderline
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 05:34 PM
13

Lol asking a woman to take accountability? She'll turn it around and say you made her do it
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 03:54 PM
7

Don't discount her cheating unfortunately especially if you married so young. Usually if you have been blindsided it's because there is another dude. Been through it several times
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 10:08 PM
5

A friend of mine is a divorce attorney. He said on almost every occasion it's the men trying to be reasonable and fair and the women inflaming the situation with false allegations and trying to use the children to hurt their former partners
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 09:38 AM
4

Look up covert narcissisism. My ex was super sweet, kind, loving and super into me and protecting our relationship. It was all fake. When i checked her phone, she had a whole other relationship with another dude. I was the side dude. She would come back from fucking this dude and fuck me. It was insane and sociopathic. When i confronted her she smiled such an evil smile like she was happy that she duped me like she got off on it. She acted like it was no big deal and we could somehow work throug…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 06:25 AM
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Pro tip: they are all "young and damaged" even when they are over 40. Accountability is a woman's kryptonite
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 06:15 AM
5

Yep like blood to a shark. Now she will tell your mutual friends that you are obsessed with her and she's scared of you
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 06:12 AM
8

Trauma bond, look it up
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 06:11 AM
2

It's reddit, anything that goes against questioning the bullshit narratives we are fed is downvoted into oblivion
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 07:03 PM
4

Women are always the oldest child in the room, petty and hold grudges
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 11:54 AM
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Did he take that vaccine? I've heard of several people getting rare and aggressive cancers after taking it?
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 08:06 AM
6

It's honestly scary how many times I've read variations of this exact same story. Are women just cunning and deceitful by nature?
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 05:55 PM
5

Bro she deceived you for 5 years, there are no excuses for that sociopathic type of cruelty. Be glad this evil woman is out of your life
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 10:49 PM
5

She sounds like she has mental health issues and she had another life you didn't know about. Maybe a borderline/covert narcissist... be glad she's out of your life because what she did was revolting
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 01:35 PM
10

A best friend that fucked another dude and got pregnant by him? The anger and disgust stage will hit soon dude and her weak toxic abusive behavior will revolt you
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 06:03 PM
8

Locking herself out wasn't an accident btw. Borderlines are meticulous and cunning. My ex faked many things to get my attention
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 06:01 PM
1

Also don't fall into the trap of thinking "i must be special because she fucked me on the first date". You're definitely not the only guy,massive risk of stds and she's a liar
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 08:27 PM
1

The problem is most cluster bs will use the information you provide them to be the "ultimate girlfriend" while living a different life behind your back
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 08:24 PM
3

To be honest you'll never look at her the same way again. Nothing else to do but divorce and move on
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 07:22 PM
2

I was with someone for 9 years that had it. Absolute insanity, people don't believe you when you try to describe all the crazy behavior
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 04:47 PM
1

Good advice other than this is his current reality but yeah it seems most women behave the same way. This bitch sounds toxic af
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 11:45 AM
3

It's a fantastic book
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 11:44 AM
4

Yes just be caring, attentive, a good listener, supportive, forgive her cheating and go all out on the beta behaviors... women hate that , any form of "weakness"
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 06:42 AM
7

Holy shit dude. Divorce laws in America are insane. 300k? Absolutely nuts
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 11:20 AM
5

Stop dating borderlines. This behavior is not that of a healthy rational person. The first time you notice behavior like this, you leave. This is who she is, no character or integrity. You don't marry into it prolonging your pain
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 04:58 PM
9

Sounds like another dude married to a cluster b
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 08:54 AM
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Dude... you tried to rescue a toxic woman. You can't heal what you didn't break. We have all learnt the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 10:00 PM
8

Dude unfortunately this is to be expected. Blood remains thicker than water. It hurts like a bitch but of course they will side with their relative, no matter what she did. It's just life
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 02:41 PM
3

It's always such an eye opener to see who you were really married to and the snakes that come with them
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 07:16 PM
3

Nah that's rubbish. I've got a mate that cheats in all his relationships, no matter how awesome the girl is. He openly admits it's from his own lack of self worth and childhood issues
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 05:47 PM
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The red pill gets proven day after day
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 04:57 PM
1

Well she came home one day, told me she had been fucking someone else for several months. I moved out the next day and she moved this guy into our place. She's now married with a kid and she seems happy 🤷 but who knows what goes on behind closed doors
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 07:42 PM
1

Dude i didn't even know what gaslighting was until i met her. Not a single week went by where she didn't create some insane fight where she would absolutely rage, constantly threatened suicide when she didn't get her way, threw a temper tantrum on the floor in a shopping centre, I'm talking full out lying on her stomach, kicking and screaming on the floor in front of everyone, she looked like she was in a trance, she was over 30 when she did this. Tried to commit suicide by overdosing in front o…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 04:31 PM
8

I've been cheated on in 4 separate relationships, I'll never believe women are capable of loyalty again. I think society has lied to us about female nature, they definitely aren't the more nurturing sex
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 04:21 PM
3

Well i know because i was with a diagnosed borderline for 9 years and did tons of research. That woman nearly destroyed me. People cannot understand until they have experienced it themselves because the behaviors seem so ridiculous and far fetched
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 12:39 PM
7

It's hilarious how women are allergic to accountability. She's angry at your reaction but not for the reason that caused your reaction
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 12:17 PM
8

So many guys on this sub are married to borderlines.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 09:53 AM
7

That's exactly how borderlines act
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 09:25 PM
14

Welcome to women
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:51 AM
2

Yep i was the side guy to a woman i was dating, i had zero idea because we didn't live close to each other. Other guy knew about it (dude was engaged) and actively encouraged it. If i didn't check her phone one day i wouldn't have had a damn clue. She was an awesome girlfriend but it was all fake, she would go bang him and come straight afterwards and bang me... pure sociopathic shit. She was kind, loving , treated me well and the sex was awesome... all fake. Very difficult to ever trust a woman…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 09:40 PM
3

Yep sex means nothing to girls like this, it's such a 🚩
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 08:47 PM
10

Dude don't forget most people feel the exact way you do in the early stages. It's called the honeymoon phase for a reason. Guys on here learnt the hard way getting married and divorced their second opinion third time
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 08:24 PM
1

Fair enough but even with people i know personally that date single mothers it always seems to end in tears. Not sure why but they are often emotionally unstable and toxic
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 04:01 PM
3

Also there are like 10 🚩 here. Why are so many guys so keen to date single mothers?
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 06:20 PM
4

Why would you want commitment after the first date?
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 06:17 PM
2

Happened to me in several relationships. This is just how most women are wired it seems 🤷
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 06:54 PM
2

Why in the world are you seriously dating a woman 9 years older than you?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 06:09 PM
4

You always meet the real woman when it comes to divorce. Think about a woman's mindset, they are physically weaker than guys so use cunning and manipulation to ensure they have provision
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 12:41 PM
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Please don't take them to the pound. They are sentient beings who have been through enough trauma
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 05:51 AM
11

Dude come on... a trial separation just means a women is gonna keep using you for your provision while looking for the next guy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 02:51 PM
5

Typical female manipulation and shaming tactics. Don't fall for it. It's their main weapon... along with an innate ability to lie under oath 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 11:54 AM
3

Her "mental well being" be careful of a false protection order being filed
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 04:30 AM
2

She's an abusive alcoholic that cheats on you? Fuck being nice
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 01:49 PM
1

Women always trickle truth
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 10:59 AM
5

Get whats due to you buddy
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 10:52 AM
5

Believe it or not there are healthy women that even thorough the pain of divorce would never keep a child away from their father. She has shown you exactly who she is
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/24 10:53 PM
3

From what i have been told from my friends in the legal fields, it is more often than not the women that are the actual abusers
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/24 08:17 AM
2

WTF??? Why didn't she wash her poop chute??? Also so many women when you take off their pants you are hit with a horrific smell. Like don't they shower???
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 11:44 AM
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Her behavior is that of a cheating spouse
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 07:52 AM
8

You can never trust a cheater. That abuse, weakness and cruelty is built into their character
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 02:19 PM
1

Lol no. Bpd are not special at all. They are toxic and abusive and will fuck your life up spectacularly. Read up on the bpdlovedones reddit. She's no different
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 11:25 AM
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Dude your'e still very young and haven't learnt to not not rescue the damsel in distress. There are millions of stories just like this with the majority ending the same way. She has used you. Time to let go and move on
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:08 AM
2

Nah its overrated and just leaves you feeling more numb
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:42 PM
6

It's completely different, having sex for a woman is so easy that it's just like going for a drink on a Friday evening. It's no big deal to them, thus they place little to no value on it
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 11:26 PM
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Because every single girl that i have dated that was very promiscuous turned toxic and abusive, every single one. It's a major 🚩🚩🚩 to her character
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 11:24 PM
10

They all do and so many say the number is 4. I had a female friend tell me girls often say 4 as it's not too low to question. She told a guy she was dating it was 4 when i knew the real number was over 50
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 08:29 PM
12

I wouldn't be able to look at my partner the same way again and would unconsciously start treating her with indifference as i couldn't respect her. Feminists say it doesn't matter but then why do most people especially men get an immediate disgusted and visceral reaction when they find out the number is ridiculously high? Like it's a gross feeling in the pit of your stomach, that must be evolutionary
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 07:41 PM
9

100% reddit is such a liberal , anti self respect and moralless cesspool
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 07:35 PM
4

Any links?
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 07:33 PM
1

What's that?
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 02:54 PM
1

No such thing as karma. I know too many absolutely horrible people living great lives and the people whose lives they destroyed struggle like crazy
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 09:06 AM
11

Go all in and take what is due to you. If the shoe was on the other foot, she would be going for the throat
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 10:48 AM
12

It's because she separated in her mind months ago and has processed a lot of the grief. Right now you're just a familiar roommate to her who she can still sponge off while getting her life together. Never forget that
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/24 05:34 PM
7

Easy, women only mean what they say in the moment. She was caught up in the Disney fantasy of your wedding and how special it was. She absolutely meant her vows at that moment. Reality of life kicks in later so now her feelings about that memory have changed
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 05:04 PM
3

10000% true. One day you will be looking through her phone and see a video of her getting doggystyled by another man. Believe me, it happened to me. You'll never look at her the same after that.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:29 PM
7

Also my promiscuous ex also used that bullshit "yes i was super promiscuous but never cheated and am super loyal in a committed relationship" line. Couple of months after the relationship i found out it was all a lie, spoke to people that knew her and they said she cheated on all her exs, including me. She literally asked a guy to go fuck in the bathroom at a bar while i was ordering drinks. I had no idea this is who she was behind my back. Lots of women are super deceptive and cunning with word…
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:22 PM
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Lol she realized that most dudes just want an easy pump and dump. 4 in a month is a lot. You will never look at her the same, she destroyed it not you mate
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 03:43 PM
6

Normally when women say dumb shit like "i don't see a future together" , there is another guy involved. She's transferring her emotions to another dude and has none left for you. I might be wrong but this exact phrasing has been used on me several times and they were both cheating. Please look out for yourself
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 08:13 AM
10

What did i just read? Why would you go back to someone who repeatedly showed you she was untrustworthy? Come on man
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 07:54 PM
4

I'm really not sure why women do this? Is it a self defense mechanism? The amount of times I've read your enact same story tells me this is built in to most women
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 05:42 PM
2

Cheaters and abusive toxic women always say "i don't know what i want" . It's an abusive manipulative tactic where she gets to use you for her benefit. You should wake up to this shit asap
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 09:25 PM
5

Women only mean what they say in the moment. The new dick changed her mind state and thus her feelings, that's why she doesn't believe herself to be a hypocrite now because she doesn't "feel" like one
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 04:01 PM
5

Because women see it plastered on social media and from their friends so any time a dude stands up for himself and refuses to be disrespected, it's a narcissist 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 06:50 AM
2

Yep, you never really know what's going on in someone else's head
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 09:53 PM
12

Bro why are you still with an abusive ham planet?
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 08:01 AM
5

It's incredibly common. It's like none of your history matters at all. The light switch effect is real. Having experienced it myself It's so difficult to take women or a proper relationship seriously. Knowing that they could be telling you they love you so much, still fucking you all while fucking you over behind the scenes is insanely sociopathic to me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 11:03 AM
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My rule is always assume cheating before looking for any mental issues reasons. This has happened to me several times. One time i was taking care of my ex and her sudden "depression". She skipped work and i would arrive home and she would be in bed. Did lots of research on depression and tried to help her. It was all fake she was cheating the entire time. This "depression" was just guilt and wanting to be with the other guy instead of me. Unfortunately you always have to assume the worst with wo…
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 09:25 AM
1

Look up functional freeze. Your nervous system has taken a knock from the trauma
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 08:35 AM
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Bro if she has bpd, you run as far away as possible. She will destroy you. There is no making nice with a borderline, everything they do is to manipulate you
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 08:54 PM
3

Bro you should have ended it as soon as she cheated. That speaks so much to her character. Why would you then go and marry her??? She is definitely not as perfect as you try and remeber, she seems like an awful shitty person. Cheaters don't really grow out of it either, its a massive character flaw and red flag
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 12:20 PM
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Dude I've been in a similar position to you several times, having been with various toxic and abusive women. It gets better, don't let her win. She will take pleasure in your death thinking "she won". This is how cluster bs think. Go to therapy and somatic therapy for the nervous system dysfunction, it helps a lot. A year from now you will be a completely different man. You matter and your life matters, make it count. Never kill yourself over an evil woman
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 08:16 AM
3

She moved another guy into our house and told me she's actually been cheating for months. I moved out the very next day. Absolute toxic crazy bullshit. The dude thought i was just her roommate
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/24 11:10 AM
3

Never works out well bro
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/24 11:09 AM
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Be careful of the crocodile tears, suicide threats and abuse allegations. Record everything when you leave her. They all act in similar ways. Be prepared for the smear campaign
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/24 07:17 PM
7

I was with a borderline for almost a decade, shit will absolutely destroy you. People cant comprehend the insanity until you have been with one
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/24 04:56 PM
12

History of promiscuity and hating her father. All speaks to childhood trauma and a huge possibility that she will be toxic and abusive
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/24 08:39 AM
5

Bro your'e 30... your parents have no say in your life anymore
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 05:17 PM
5

And people still deny that the red pill ideology exists...
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 05:13 PM
12

What an absolutely terrible woman, unfortunately so many are exactly like this nowadays
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 02:23 PM
2

Just a correction , women communicate covertly not overtly
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 02:15 PM
2

Not just that, they are way more fun to be around than a "healthy" woman... at first
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 03:20 PM
2

I have also dated several cluster b's in a row. I had to stop and do some introspection why I kept getting attarcted to these abusive women
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 09:57 AM
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Yeah dude this one is on you. It's weird to surprise your ex at work with the kids when she's probably thinking of 100 other things
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:39 AM
1

It's a stupid internet meme that's become a thing in the past week where women would rather be alone with a bear in the woods than a man 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 02:45 PM
1

It's a stupid internet meme that's become a thing in the past week where women would rather be alone with a bear in the woods than a man 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 02:45 PM
2

Yep this dude is right. Despite a woman having already been cruel and disgusting she will double down now. Women always seem to go for the jugular for some reason
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 05:08 AM
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Women always have to be the victim in their story. That's all you need to internalize. The rest is bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 08:51 AM
12

Lol don't worry the typical "yas queeeen, you go girl" female arrgance will wear off as soon as real life hits her in the face. Women love attention so she relished that an entire day was dedicated to her "freedom". It's all showboating bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 09:08 AM
3

Withholding sex as a form of control is abusive
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 12:27 PM
5

Exactly the same mindset here. You live once, imagine being taken for a fool because you didn't want to "invade their privacy" 😂
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 09:11 AM
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Remember even if they speak badly about the guy, he's still on her mind and it's usually to throw you off the trail and to stop enquiring. One of my exs kept telling me about this "loser" that she felt sorry for, he was revolting to her and she just enjoyed using him and he was so pathetic to keep giving her money. Turns out almost a year in, i looked through her phone and she had a relationship with this guy even though he was engaged for several years. When she would come back from work she wo…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 08:08 PM
6

The baby daddy is a massive moron if he thinks her treatment is ok and that she won't turn on him down the line
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/24 06:55 AM
2

I'm not even American and it's glaringly obvious what is and what isn't allowed on here
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 07:01 PM
2

Can't belive people are still falling for the covid fear mongering
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 05:56 PM
2

Yeah but that's "attraction" out of necissity and a biological clock not burning desire... this is exactly what leads to deadbedrooms when the new relationship energy wears off.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 05:51 PM
8

Reddit is a liberal leftist cesspool. Any thoughts contrary to the narrative and you get banned.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 03:04 PM
3

Mixed signals are actually clear as day. A woman that adores you and doesn't want to be away from you will be clear as day...
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 05:55 PM
2

Thankfully not the law in my country, which is third world. Only adoption matters
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 07:18 PM
6

Dude... just no
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 07:15 PM
1

Dude i was with someone for almost 10 years, she left me for another man, married him and had a kid with him. I also at one point thought i could never "get over this amazing woman" 🙄. Now a few years removed from her i am so grateful she is no longer in my life, she was a shitty person. I can barely even remember what she looks like. Yes it does suck now but you will feel so much better this time next year, you just have to hang on and grit it out. It's part of life unfortunately
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/24 08:39 AM
8

Women are always the victim. Once you get the full story they were usually the abusive ones
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 09:05 AM
5

This sounds like cheater talk bro
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 10:46 AM
1

There are several similar stories just on this sub alone
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 12:18 PM
6

So many women pull this shit. It's borderline evil
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 08:57 PM
7

This is why I am so scared to get married, imagine being forced by law to stay with a horrible woman like this. Dude get out for your own sanity.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/24 11:38 AM
5

This is exactly the language that cheaters use bro
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 10:15 AM
3

Standard cheater transfer of balme, ignore it
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 10:14 AM
3

Holy shit, American laws are absolutely insane
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 08:16 AM
3

No answer bro, I've been cheated on by 4 different women 🤷🤣. I'm really hoping they aren't all hypergamous but yes I've definitely seen the ungratefulness play out. I wonder if it's the way they are raised
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 02:16 PM
4

Yeah i need someone whose love language is physical touch. Gifts, words of affirmation or acts of service do absolutely nothing for me
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:07 AM
3

What? The Bible has tons of wisdom about toxic women
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:06 AM
9

Yeah dude i agree with the other posters, how do you come back from your wife saying she doesn't want to be with you anymore and then going out of her way to damage you?
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:01 AM
2

That's exactly what narcissists and cluster b personalities do
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 10:52 AM
6

Yep the hypocrisy makes me cringe
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 10:55 PM
14

Classic female tactics especially when they are looking for protection orders
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 10:45 PM
1

They are master manipulators mate, never forget that
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 09:18 AM
2

Dude... how many times do you need to be taught the lesson ? 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 05:44 PM
3

Holy shit American divorce laws are insane. I live in a third world country and it's not like this at all. "Alimony" is for max of 18 months and only if wife didn't have a job
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 05:25 PM
3

I've been cheated on by 4 different women... yes i get that i ignored red flags but what i have personally experienced and seen with my mates relationships, I've never experienced women to behave in an honorable and loyal manner
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 09:59 AM
8

How many more stories like this do we need to see before guys realize this is the vast majority of women. The next "love of your life" won't be any different when shit hits the fan
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/24 04:32 PM
6

Stay as far away as you can from anyone with bpd. I was with a diagnosed borderline for almost 10 years. Nearly destroyed me. Took like 3 years after we had broken up to kinda start feeling normal again. Read up on r/bpdlovedones and you will see the pattern of how the relationships ALWAYS go
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 12:05 PM
1

They can't fathom any "weakness"
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 10:34 AM
2

No such thing, plenty of horrible people that go out of their way destroying others while they still live great lives. She probably would have had the stroke even if she was a great person and loving mother...
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 10:23 AM
9

Great news. They always want the rights but none of the responsibilities. I just don't understand how some of these bitches are raised
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 09:45 AM
3

I actually don't believe women can be loyal. Society and the media pretended that it was men that were unfaithful and women were the empathetic and caring gender. Most men's experiences say vastly different, women are often far more calculating, manipulative and cruel. Disney lied to us
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 06:08 PM
3

I've been cheated on by 4 different women, it's left me numb. I'll never trust a woman again. Can still enjoy their company but i don't expect them to be loyal for very long
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 06:31 PM
1

Just imagine them taking a massive sloppy painful shit after a particularly spicy curry. That should bring them right back down to earth in your mind. Also they are all the same
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 06:12 AM
14

Alcoholics are master manipulators, just keep that in mind. I dated one, it was an absolutely horrible experience
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 04:44 PM
14

So many 🚩 Also your wife is over 300 lbs... that is ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 06:45 PM
3

Dude so you were literally begging for a woman that treats you like shit?
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:41 PM
0

What? It's a perfectly normal monthly salary in my country
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:38 PM
7

You sound severely under appreciated at home mate
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:29 PM
6

Because reddit is a liberal left leaning shithole
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/24 08:25 PM
3

Holy shit that was awful to read. Never take the high road in a divorce. These bitches always go for the jugular
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:42 PM
1

3 ex wives... come on bro
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 01:38 PM
0

2 other guys already got put through the ringer and you miraculously thought you would be different?
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 08:11 AM
3

Yes, childhood issues made me choose broken women to fill a void. No matter how they treated me, i accepted it to just say i had someone. Also your wording is defeatist
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 01:09 PM
4

Yep the environment you grew up in really plays a part
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:06 AM
1

It's been more than 10 years... how much longer 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 05:58 AM
3

What did you notice about yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 05:58 AM
10

Read up on cluster b personality disorders, be thankful you're away from this evil woman
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 05:53 AM
8

It's a leftist liberal shithole
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 08:19 PM
7

I have been cheated on by 4 different women. The diagnosed borderline one nearly destroyed me... One took over 2 years for the numbness , self loathing and apathy to go away. The other I was stuck in my house, absolutely fucked by depression for over 6 months, lost my job etc. The emotional pain was unbearable. I am still numb to this day, feels like my nervous system is fucked and I will never trust a woman again. I treated them all well. Yes I ignored all the red flags and kept dating the same…
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 08:01 PM
3

100 percent true. Dated 3 that have worn those lame chockers, all awesome for 6 months and then they drop their masks and the real abusive them comes out. All had tattoos and childhood trauma All liked rough sex, spanking, degradation etc and were into ass play All 3 cheated... with not a single ounce of remorse
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 03:44 PM
7

You don't have a choice mate. It's be a man and rebuild or suck off a homeless guy for a half loaf. Yes it's extreme but i drill this into myself
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 08:59 AM
2

Fuck her. She's trash. Not your problem
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 08:47 AM
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Her relationship with her parents especially her father. Every single girl that i have dated that hated her dad or dad was absent turned into an abusive toxic mess, some had personality disorders. Lots of tattoos Coloured hair etc. Shows lack of impulse control Wears a chocker when out no matter how old she is. Personal opinion but every super toxic girl seems to wear one Is a liberal/feminist etc High body count is super important, it leaves them fucked in the head and emotionally vacant
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 05:46 AM
1

To keep the family together?
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 08:59 AM
7

She really isn't. Her actions show that. So is a murderer who gives to charity a good person? No he's still a murderer. Just because your wife was sometimes nice and kind to you doesn't stop her from being a filthy lying cheater who goes out of her way to hurt her spouse in the most cruel way possible. That's who she really is
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 08:56 AM
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Also get it out your head that she was kind and loving. Her actions show the real her. She's a sack of shit and a terrible person. You will think so in time too, right now your emotions are clouding your judgment. You should be absolutely revolted at her conduct, she's a disgusting woman and doesn't deserve another second of your time
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 08:51 AM
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She's been cheating for a while. That's why she now claims she wasn't attracted to you and changed the history. It gives her plausible deniability. "Oh I'm not attracted to him or love him anymore so it's not so bad if I'm not loyal to him, i don't owe him anything". All these bitches are the same. You will be okay in time mate, keep pushing forward
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 08:48 AM
2

I've read thousands of stories like this but every guy thinks his precious sweetheart could never behave like this. What's funny is that we all thought that until it happened to us
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:51 PM
3

Once i found out my ex was cheating it immediately killed all feelings, it was surreal. She could have been run over by a car that instant and i wouldn't have gave a single fuck. I don't do well with disloyalty
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:45 PM
3

Women only mean what they say in the moment
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:39 PM
6

Your first couple of sentences describe how every borderline/narcissist acts at the start of a new relationship. Mirroring, love bombing, crazy sex etc
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:33 PM
1

Correction, she was always that person just needed the right circumstances to bring it out of her
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:31 PM
7

Lol why don't women have a sense of honor?
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 06:25 PM
8

Just wrap it up dude. A guy that's willing to fuck a married women isn't exactly the bastion of morals and values. You don't want your ex giving you a forever gift
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:14 AM
10

A grown man talking about "soulmates" is cringe. That's just Disney fantasy bro. The second she leaves you it's done forever, no man should tolerate that disrespect
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:10 AM
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Bro you'll come to realize that casual sex just leaves you feeling empty. It's totally not worth it, don't believe societies lies
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:05 AM
4

Simple, she's keeping up appearances.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 06:13 PM
1

The affair fog and the dopamine response is a powerful thing my man. She will snap out of it one day and only ashes will be left behind her. Nothing you can do, she's an adult with agency and this is the path she chose to go
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 06:07 PM
3

But good on you for owing up to your part. I wish you well for the future mate
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 11:11 AM
3

Why would you give her the silent treatment? That's what women do and it's abusive and toxic dude
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 11:11 AM
1

100 percent happens to men too. I slept with a lot of women and just ended up feeling numb. Casual sex is super overrated and not worth the mental anguish at all.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 10:17 AM
9

Even if she speaks badly about another guy, he's still on her mind. When i had suspicions about a certain guy that she spoke about often. She acted horrified, said he was an absolute loser and gross and disgusts her and she only talks to him because he buys her coffee at work and she feels bad for him. Turns out nothing she said was the truth and she was fucking him for months and he knew about me. These women are sociopathic nowadays
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 09:08 AM
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Everyone thinks they are the exception, until they aren't
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 07:15 AM
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I mean you're kinda showing that your standards you allow for a woman are low and basic? 🤷
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/24 07:37 PM
14

Dude what the fuck. You don't just marry some girl because she demands it
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 05:50 AM
15

Never take someone back that left you. It's always easier starting new with someone than trying to put together the pieces of someone that broke and disrespected you
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:27 PM
5

American divorce laws are insane. It's not like this at all in my country
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 09:26 PM
16

You married a cluster b bro
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 09:01 AM
1

What? How can you blame God as if your wife had no agency and control over her personal choices? I get that you're hurt and want to lash out but blaming God for the dumb destructive choices of your wife or the beta pastors for not having any balls to call her out on her bullshit is a bit ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 09:11 AM
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Agreed. After what I've seen friends go through, I'll never be on the believe all women train again
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 09:10 AM
2

Sex on the first date is a massive 🚩🚩🚩 to me now. You weren't special and she did the same with other guys. It's not slut shaming to be repulsed
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/24 11:20 AM
4

Does Valtrex stop you spreading it to others?
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:57 AM
7

Herpes and hpv are not the same thing
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 09:53 AM
4

Bro, I know a guy shorter than you that has a honey mouth and pulls women. Work with what you have , nothing you can do except possibly that crazy operation
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 12:27 PM
8

Yep agreed, karma definitely doesn't exist. I know too many absolutely awful humans living great prosperous lives. The world is how it is, it's random
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 08:52 AM
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Although it gets thrown around often, this evil disguting women is definitely on the cluster b/borderline spectrum. I have dated a few and this is why I refuse to marry as they are so good at hiding their deceitfulness and evil.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 08:49 AM
1

Would you fight over trash because that's exactly what you're doing
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 05:15 PM
5

I fucking despise alcoholics, they act like complete morons then still have the audacity to gaslight you. It's pathetic
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 05:14 PM
7

Definitely married to a cluster b/borderline
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 04:04 PM
2

Toxic/cluster b women 101 bro
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 11:06 AM
9

100% chance she spun a false narrative that you're the toxic bad guy
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 10:17 AM
8

Took me like 2 years to get erections back after i was cheated on. Trauma fucks with your head. This is normal
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 09:20 AM
3

Not a week would go by without my ex starting an insane fight out of nowhere. Even if we had an awesome day together. It's such a strange mental condition. Our friend group called us, the fighting couple. So embarrassing
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 09:26 PM
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Bpd and cheating... name a better combo. I was with a borderline for almost 9 years. Nearly destroyed me, took me years to kind of feel normal again but left lots of mental scars. Run and don't look back
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 09:21 PM
7

North American divorce laws are insane
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 10:43 AM
3

Took me 2 years to be able to get proper erections again after i got cheated on. Trauma does weird things to your brain and nervous system
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 08:12 AM
4

3 divorces? Have you learnt your lesson 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 08:09 AM
1

My uncle had cancer, his wife went to the shops for groceries. When she came home he was laying dead in his chair. He died alone. It's not always in your control
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 08:35 AM
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She's manipulating you and you're doing the pick me dance. All cheaterr act in the same way
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 09:14 AM
1

100% true
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 09:06 AM
5

She is setting you up
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 08:48 AM
2

It's called an edictal citation if she has moved to another country. A friend of mine had to serve by way of email as the wife purposefully kept avoiding service
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 01:20 PM
3

Substituted service? Get an order to serve by email/whatsapp etc. Not sure if American law allows it but very common in other jurisdictions
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 11:21 AM
9

Absolutely horrific bro I'm so sorry. You will make it through this
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 11:10 AM
1

3 month breakup 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a breakup should be less than a minute and then never contact that person again. I've been with a borderline, i know how much they fuck with your head. You should block and never contact this bitch again otherwise she will hoover you right back
/r/askMRP26/12/23 01:55 PM
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No one deserves to be cheated on. Such a ridiculous mindset. It's one of the most low class, weak and cruel things you can do to another person. It's trash behavior from a trashy individual
/r/askMRP26/12/23 01:36 PM
4

Whenever a woman says all her exes were abusive, i run. Learnt from experience that 99 percent of the time they were the abusive ones
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 10:04 AM
1

To be fair not all of us live in America. In my country there is almost zero market for an RV
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 09:58 AM
3

Poor kid didn't deserve such a terrible reckless mother
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/23 09:56 AM
3

I also got cheated on by a nurse. She was getting fucked in the back of an ambulance by a married doctor. Its an epidemic
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 10:45 AM
9

Looks like you fell in the web of a cluster b, most likely a quiet borderline. Many on this group have been in your shoes bro
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 10:41 AM
1

This is absolutely insane, were there no warning signs before marriage?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 10:15 AM
2

Divorced twice and you thought this one would be different? Every women, no matter how conservative, kind, sweet etc acts in this cold dismissive manner when she is into a new guy. All the memories and things you have been through together mean absolutely nothing to her
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 08:48 AM
1

Lol absolutely brutal mate
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 10:01 AM
1

Yep all about how she feels in the current moment
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 10:00 AM
2

Bro you're still human, don't be so hard on yourself
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 09:02 AM
4

100 %true. She checked out ages ago but you had no idea. Found messages to her friends mocking me and how she can't wait to fuck the new guy . What you had is in the past. This is who she is now. If she's not all over you then that's a first sign
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 08:57 AM
1

She's probably reserving her ass for her affair partner. Not even joking , seen this exact scenario tons of times
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 11:10 AM
1

Holy shit these women live in fantasy land. Can you imagine a grown ass adult typing that bullshit into Google?
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 10:57 AM
5

Why do women always act like this in affairs? Your story is word for word what i have read hundreds of times
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 09:18 AM
1

Always look at your partners friends, they are usually just like them
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 09:14 AM
12

Lol they all have the same playbook. I need space, i want to be alone out of nowhere = i want to try out new cock
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 03:22 PM
1

Can almost guarantee that she was the abusive one. Whenever a woman says all her exs were abusive , it's actually usually her
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 08:14 PM
1

So the previous 4 husbands were not a big enough red flag as to what type of person she is???
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 11:54 AM
4

Go for everything you are entitled to in law. If the situation was reversed you would be getting fucked in the ass!!! Be weary of false domestic violence charges to get you out the house.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 10:42 AM
4

To be fair i know several men that routinely monkeybranch. Yes women do it way more but weak insecure men also do it
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 11:08 AM
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I have been cheated on by 4 different women. Eventually my nervouse system seemed to have shut down and I have been stuck in functional freeze. I am trying somatic therapy to heal but being cheated on is absolutely horrific.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 08:22 AM
2

Agreed fuck that, I refuse to be a "provider" to a grown ass adult just because she has a pussy. It still astounds me how many men find this to be an honour???
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 02:55 PM
1

Toxic women don't give a single fuck of the effects to their children
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 08:33 PM
1

It's scary how almost every woman has the same playbook when it comes to divorces.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 08:27 PM
1

Brooooooooooo.... She repetedly cheats on you and you reward her my marrying her???
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/23 08:22 AM
6

How old is she? I am very weary of anyone that has cheated on a partner. It shows terrible character and weakness
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 10:10 AM
1

My uncle had cancer and was married. My aunt went to the shops and she came back and found him dead in his chair. Being married doesn't mean you won't die alone as horrible as that thought is.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 06:57 PM
7

Do you man. But those covid vaccines are absolute bullshit and definitely not necessary. I've heard way too many negative things to go near them
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 07:29 PM
1

Women manipulate with words...
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 10:36 AM
7

They always say bullshit like "i don't see a future with you" when there is new cock involved. Happened exactly like this to me and a few other people.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 07:24 AM
2

Who cares about "passing on your genes". Do you know a single thing about your great great great great grandfather? This world will eventually end in any event. It's totally meaningless
/r/MensRights05/11/23 09:00 AM
5

Definitely go for alimony. Don't backdown because you feel sorry that she is a poor little woman. If the shoe was on the other foot, she would be going for the throat. Don't let her manipulate you
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 07:52 AM
2

For a pc to work you need a court order governing their power otherwise your wife will just use a false narrative to delay proceedings
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/23 08:47 AM
3

Bro please read up on cluster b personality disorders, this is how they act
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 09:07 PM
6

Every single time I've read a story of a man being selfless, he gets fucked. It seems you must put your purpose above hers at all times 🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 09:04 PM
10

Simple, as with any other addiction it's just your brain searching for dopamine. It has nothing to do with "love" just familiarity and emotional safety
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 03:37 PM
3

Yep but apparently it's no big deal according to the dude above 🙄
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 11:41 AM
2

What rubbish!!! A permanent disfiguring sexually transmitted disease that causes multiple issues. Always protect yourself and ensure these bitches take std tests
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 03:55 PM
3

It's a recurring theme of women turning to esoteric measures during times of crises.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:59 PM
6

Lol dude come on. You had to "get" her to take anti virals? So she couldn't care at all who she infected. You had to "force" her to be a responsible adult?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 02:20 PM
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Lol she tells you about a permanent std AFTER you already fucked and you still didn't question her integrity?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 01:11 PM
1

The gaslighting with these cluster b bitches is insane
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 12:44 PM
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Lol she's using the reconciliation card to get you out the house. She will still proceed with divorce. Women are deceptive as fuck, yours is no different
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 04:06 PM
8

This is why I have no issue with checking your partners phone. Women can lie with a straight face and you won't know who you are really dating/married to until you check their phones etc. Why waste your only life on a dishonest shitty person who is fucking you over behind your back?
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 06:57 AM
3

Definitely tell them
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 05:40 PM
18

It's just gaslighting to absolve her of relationship responsibilities. Typical female behavior
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 07:20 AM
1

American laws are weird. I live in a third world country and there is absolutely no way a wife can withdraw funds the husbands bank account without several checks being done
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 06:01 PM
2

What exactly are you getting out of this, other than drama and anxiety? You have one go on this spinning rock, why do it with a shitty narcissistic ungrateful woman?
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 08:38 AM
12

Why is everyone bragging about body counts? Sleeping around with random sluts is revolting trash behavior
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 07:36 AM
9

Women 1000% marry the good safe guy to be the provider
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:43 AM
2

Being with a belligerent drunk is the absolute worst
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 05:56 PM
2

Welcome to the world of cluster B women
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/23 07:07 PM
6

No such thing as karma. I have seen people do absolutely horrible shit and still lead amazing lives
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 07:24 AM
1

I have been cheated on by 4 different women...eventually you just go numb almost like a perpeutual frezze response. Women's actions don't even affect me anymore, I just laugh or roll my eyes. You will be ok, a year from now you will barely remember her.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 01:41 PM
1

Absolutely revolting 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:48 AM
1

Dude so many 🚩🚩🚩. Other guys got to smash and cum in your sweet love of your life without any effort or commitment. Now that she's met you she's suddenly "over that phase". You're paying full price for what others got for free
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:43 AM
6

Lol dude needs some red pills 💊
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 06:52 PM
4

If they didn't have vaginas, we wouldn't even talk to them
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 06:50 PM
2

Why would you want to be with such a toxic individual? She will continue to bring chaos into your life
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 03:06 PM
1

I'm still of the belief that sexual compatibility is the most important thing in a relationship
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 07:06 PM
5

Lol no you were being gaslighted by a cluster b
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 07:00 PM
8

Not sure if it's just part of a women's dna but it's like their instinct is to "attack" and be cruel if they sense "weakness"
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 06:58 PM
3

It is absolutely a real thing and I also know of several men that have it. They act like petulant toddlers with zero accountability at 40. It is more common in women though. I am still of the belief that many of the hoor stories on here are in regards to undiagnosed borderlines/cluster b's
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 04:59 PM
1

Be thankful you saw who she really was. I don't care what anyone says, always check their phone so you don't waste your only life on a shitty person
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 07:20 PM
1

This sounds like you were married to a cluster b... emotionally healthy woman actually value to the relationship and want it to work
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 10:42 AM
9

Dude, why would you get married for a third time???????
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 09:44 AM
5

Women are the same no matter which country. My mate in South Africa also had to fight for his kids under false dv allegations. Thankfully that country is a lot more reasonable than the US and want the children to have equal time with dad.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 12:55 PM
5

It's actually hilarious how our brains reminisce on only the good parts. I have to look at the messages and listen to the recordings to be reminded who she really is
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 04:31 PM
1

What are you doing getting married at 23???
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 08:45 PM
5

Dude, you dodged a missile. She sounds like a covert narcissit, thank fuck she showed you her true intentions prior to marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 08:09 AM
3

Lol do you really believe that "guy couldn't make her cum" bullshit 🤣 you were getting lovebombed hard
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 10:23 AM
1

They hook you with the love bombing and future faking
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 07:38 PM
1

So you married a clear narcissist?
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 02:24 PM
2

I was with a diagnosed borderline for almost 10 years. Shit was absolutely insane. Only once I started researching it did her actions and words make any sense. She tried to off herself in front of my whole family and one time even called the cops on me on false charges , I didn't even know there was an issue. ​ Stay far away
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 10:54 AM
21

This is 100% a dude playing in to red pill fantasies. Even a older looking 41 year old woman will have no issues finding someone to mooch off of. This is pure cope
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 07:05 AM
1

Yeah no this isn't applicable to someone with a personality disorder
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 04:24 PM
3

Plus your self respect and esteem goes down as you continually allow her to walk all over you
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 04:19 PM
8

I think many of us here are considering taking a couple of bum shots to be waited on hand and foot by this guy whilst he pays all our bills ...
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 08:04 AM
30

Never date a single mother seriously... it hardly ever works out well for the man
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 07:35 AM
7

99 percent chance she is cheating. Women always use these dumb platitudes to convince themselves when new dick is around
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 08:02 AM
1

A year from now , you'll barely remember what she looks like
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:40 AM
1

Celebrate when you get the court order in hand
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:33 AM
2

Definitely appeal, you can't let this stand
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:30 AM
18

It's the standard term every women uses in divorce when they are actually the abusive ones
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 10:19 AM
17

That woman was your ex
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 03:45 PM
9

You sound like a people pleaser and a rescuer. Nothing to do with your "kind" nature. Get into therapy mate to see why you want to put others needs before your own
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 04:27 AM
0

Why would you fuck 100 women? It just leaves you feeling empty and massively at risk for stds
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 04:23 AM
1

Why do men put up with this bullshit? I would rather be alone in peace than have the occasional pussy from someone that disrespects me
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 02:03 PM
5

Even the "good" ones are capable of cheating. You never really know a person...
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 06:32 PM
1

Your wife is a fucking idiot for fucking a guy knowing he has stds. What is wrong with humans???
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/23 07:59 AM
3

Happens to the best of us, my man
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 05:28 PM
3

Cheaters always rewrite history
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 11:32 AM
5

Why are the pretty ones always nuts???
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 11:23 AM
3

Absofuckinglutely. I can sit with a beer in hand and watch the rugby in peace on my big ass tv without being asked to attend to some menial task or take her for breakfast
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 10:42 AM
1

It's so weird that i hardly ever hear men speak of this childish fleeting term of happiness. Women seem to believe its a permanent destination that they just arrive at
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 10:39 PM
-1

Let's not forget all the health issues these bullshit "vaccines" are causing
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 10:30 PM
6

Big of you to admit that bro
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 04:38 PM
41

Why are you married at 20??? Way too young
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 08:31 AM
0

I'm sorry my man this sounds awful. It seems being a man nowadays is indentured servitude. I don't think I could spend my only life catering to an ungrateful woman. As stated repeatedly, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 07:43 PM
3

Bro a year away from her and you won't even remember the "amazing" sex
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:36 AM
-1

This woman is definitely a cluster b, probably a borderline or covert narc
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:27 AM
6

My thought process is that , in a year or so you will barely remember what it was like being with them so why take a permanent choice over a temporary blip? No woman is worth ending your only life over. Just find some new pussy and your ex will be a distant memory.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 08:09 AM
3

I also got that "you will make another woman very happy someday" bullshit...while she was actively fucking other men
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 07:10 PM
2

In 3 relationships, I had a dream that I was cheating on them a few days before I found out they were actually cheating. I would tell them about the dream and we would laugh about it. I then felt weird a checked their phones and sure enough they had been fucking another dude for a while. It's weird how I dream the opposite of whats occuring
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 04:43 PM
8

Welcome to the modern woman , where facts and evidence don't matter and only their re-written history and subjective emotional experience does.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 12:02 PM
5

I'll never understand why american men get married. Thankfully it's not like this in my country but I still refuse to allow a woman that much control over me.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 08:30 AM
6

Keep with your plan to move. This is a fresh start for you. Leave the low class trash to wallow in her misery.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 07:04 PM
1

All part of the NWO plan
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:50 PM
2

I have been numb emotionally after being cheated on by 4 different women. Think my nervous system went into freeze mode. TRE therapy is helpful, maybe consider this
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 07:12 AM
2

Can almost guarantee she is the abusive one
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 11:57 AM
6

1000% cluster b behavior. Probably a borderline. I was with one for 9 years, just absolutely nuts. She even called the cops on me one day with some made up narrative that i had no idea about and I got pulled out the shower naked. Stupidly I still stayed with her for a while afterwards until she discarded me out of nowhere to go fuck another guy. ​ I stay faaaaaaaaaaaaaaar away from any mental illness now
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 10:06 AM
3

Alcoholics are the fucking worst. I dated one for a while. She would put vodka in her water bottle at gym. They are completely irrational and abusive and say the worst things to you when drunk because they are filled with shame. Also are often physically abusive. Just all round shitty partners.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 08:20 AM
-1

It does, I am unsure why americans always spout this rubbish
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:27 AM
1

Maybe in America, in my country pre nups (ante-nuptial) agreements are very difficult to overturn and involve at least a years worth of litigation and need a solid reason such as prejudice or coercion,
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:27 AM
1

covert narcissism
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 11:25 AM
2

Yep I'm numb after being cheated on by the fourth different woman. What i have researched is that your nervous system has essentially turned off and you're in freeze mode from the shock and trauma. Look up somatic therapy
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:40 PM
4

Guarantee she was lying and she was actually the cheater
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:36 PM
7

Women overwhelming act like this
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 05:00 PM
3

My ex was fucking an engaged doctor in the back of an ambulance, it's crazy how prevalent it is in the medical field
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 04:58 PM
7

What? Why must this man waste his only life getting more involved with a shitty woman? The only reason i found out my ex was fucking another dude our whole relationship was by checking her phone. Be grateful you found out the truth
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 02:46 PM
6

Don't forget the inspirational quotes, calling every man she dated an abusive narcissist , oh and referring to herself as an "empath" who is looking for her "twin flame"
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 02:37 PM
2

Marsy her integrity not her body
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 12:25 PM
12

Most girls on online dating are nuts , addicts or have a personality disorder. Be very careful who you stick your dick into
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 11:51 AM
7

Why is reddit such a liberal and left leaning app? I'm not American and have read up a lot on this guy and his policies seem quite rational and freedom orientated?
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 11:47 AM
2

Its a normal nervous system response for some people, don't be so hard on yourself. A year from now you won't even remember it so who cares.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:00 PM
1

Try go all out for 3 months so the dopamine receptors can heal.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 09:09 PM
2

dopamine detox bro, your focus and attention will come back within a month
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/23 03:27 PM
1

What a ride... ​ I stay far away from any woman with mental issues as it eventually always turns to shit.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 12:16 PM
2

Soooooooo many red flags here. She is definitely on the cluster b spectrum. Also never marry a single mother, there are a multitude of stories exactly like this. There is usually a reason why the original dad didn't want to be there which you have now found out about.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 11:57 AM
1

Your wife is a sack of cats, you are dodging an atomic bomb my dude
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 09:34 PM
5

Definitely. They are physically weaker than men but they are more mentally astute and as such can be more manipulative and cruel
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/23 07:13 AM
1

No worries bro, we all plan for the best. But yeah i don't trust women at all after being cheated on by 4 different women
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 04:49 PM
1

Why the fuck do americans get married?????????? I am in a third world country and divorce is nothing like this here, it's far more equitable.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 05:40 PM
4

The toxic bitches always have the "twin flame" bullshit. Bonus points if they call themselves an "empath". She definitely sounds like a cluster b. Go on to r/BPDlovedones and see if anything resonates there. Read up on the discard because that's exactly what she did.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:27 PM
3

You never take back a cheater... she already showed her lack of respect for you and your relationship , what makes you think she will play fair now?
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 01:01 PM
1

Alan Carr easyway to quit smoking... read it
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 12:23 PM
4

Alcohol always ruins everything
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 10:33 AM
9

Nothing wrong with that, it feels amazing 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 09:41 PM
9

I always told myself with any girl I was seeing "she got fucked before you and she will get fucked after you"... it is what it is, The pain and jealousy will dissipate with time. Next year this time she will be barely a passing thought.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 06:19 PM
2

That honestly seems like the dream life
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 06:14 PM
1

sounds like a cluster b
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/23 05:56 PM
3

Dude... this bitch is nuts
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 10:25 AM
3

It's standard practice by women, usually to help create the narrative to obtain protection orders
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 10:09 AM
41

You just accept it as part of life no matter how shit it feels. What women say compared to what they do are very different. Very few of them are actually honorable with their word
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 08:34 AM
1

Tons of women act this way
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/23 10:24 AM
1

Rubbish, don't blame God for the failings of an adult with her own agency
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 11:00 PM
1

Some women show zero signs of dissatisfaction or maybe the men don't pick up on it?
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 10:55 PM
1

Could have a burner phone. Also there are some apps that disguise themselves as a working calculator for example
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 10:51 PM
2

He is buying used equipment...
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 06:00 PM
1

Which sub?
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 05:09 PM
1

I love me some comeuppance stories
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 04:59 PM
2

Sounds like you're married to a cluster b
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 05:48 PM
2

American divorce laws are disgusting. Thankfully alimony is for very short periods in my country and only if strictly necessary
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 12:44 PM
7

This is exactly why it's suggested never to date let alone marry a single mother
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 12:33 PM
2

She'll will get out in under 10 years for good behavior #femalepriviledge
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 08:15 AM
17

What a damn train wreck. Why do men make their lives more complicated? You don't need to martyr yourself, she's a grown woman with her own agency
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 02:55 PM
1

Sue her for damages and pain and suffering. It's possible in my jurisdiction
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 10:28 AM
1

Condoms are also not a panacea. They don't stop certain stds such as various strains of hpv including the one that causes genital warts
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 10:24 AM
1

You never give a cheater the time of day!!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 10:02 AM
1

Yep this guy is 100 percent right. Do the internal work before searching for a new woman also so you don't take out your self loathing out on your children
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 09:50 AM
1

I've also gone numb from being cheated on by 4 different women. Trying breath work and nervous system healing to get me out of this frozen mode. I suggest you also look it up , apparently it's very helpful for anhedonia
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 09:48 AM
1

I instantly lost all respect and feelings for this person once i found out she betrayed me. I found her repulsive and didn't want to be near such a trash person. You'll get there too in time
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 09:45 AM
7

Always look at a woman's friends to see who your girl is behind your back
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 09:40 PM
-5

Bro what in the fuck did i just read? You're a man and supposed to be the leader and have left most of the important decisions to your wife?
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 01:56 PM
5

Absolutely not a dick move. She's being a dick. I love how men are so concerned about the effect on women where women have no such care and wouldn't care if you were homeless after the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 01:56 PM
1

So you don't think the guy you're with also wants to be "treated well and valued"? It works both ways
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 05:03 PM
22

That opening line was wild fuck 🤣🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 09:36 AM
1

Never trust an addict... i learnt the hard way
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 08:29 PM
2

I too dated a borderline... one of the worst experiences of my life
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 11:17 AM
2

That sex life show makes me want to vomit. Plus both of the male characters are way out of that female characters league
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 07:32 PM
6

You almost certainly were married to a cluster b
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 07:19 PM
7

American divorce laws are insane. Why would any man get married there??? In my country, alimony is based on reasonable needs not luxurious needs and its for like a year max
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 11:54 AM
1

Look up hysterical bonding
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 11:06 PM
6

Sue her for defamation. The only way these psycho cluster b bitches listen is when they face consequences
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:07 AM
6

Why is he dressed like such a prick? Also i have yet to meet a woman with facial piercings that wasn't crazy
/r/MensRights20/02/23 11:59 AM
3

As soon as a woman withholds sex, you leave
/r/TheRedPillStories20/02/23 07:49 AM
1

Lol so pathetic
/r/MensRights20/02/23 07:41 AM
13

To be fair that's a pretty terrible joke
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:38 PM
2

Never thought of it this way, you make an excellent point mate
/r/MensRights12/02/23 07:57 AM
1

Female privilege on full display
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:30 AM
4

How you could ever get hard for your wife again is beyond me
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:11 PM
15

That's fucking nuts but addicts are usually abusive and toxic
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:09 PM
20

Holy fuck that was awful to read , I'm sorry dude
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:34 AM
9

Bingo. It's not like men don't do the exact same thing. The club hoes are for a fun time not a long time
/r/MensRights26/01/23 02:51 AM
32

I fully agree with you dude. So many of the women i have met through online dating have claimed this or they were abused. Either other men are completely shitty people or someone is lying or exaggerating for victim status. The bitches that say this kinda shit are usually abusive themselves or completely messed up in the head.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:18 PM
13

Bro i really hope you're not working for that piece of shit anymore
/r/MensRights15/01/23 01:40 PM
1

Women can be weak, men can't be. It's as simple at that even though it's an awful realization
/r/MensRights15/01/23 01:37 PM
10

A women that lies about domestic violence is still a victim. A man that is a victim of actual domestic violence is not a victim but probably deserved it, is a pussy and a laughing stock
/r/MensRights11/01/23 11:31 AM
16

Pretty sure your dad doesn't want to deal with her shit either
/r/MensRights01/01/23 10:43 PM
1

Also they don't look that bad, are millionaires and can still get any guy they want. This is just cope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:50 PM
1

Yep instant gratification is destroying lives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:02 AM
1

No it's not. It's all about sowing confusion and division
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:57 AM
3

Damn this app is full of leftists or bots ensuring the narrative is maintained
/r/MensRights24/12/22 01:56 AM
5

Part of the new world order plan. Don't you find it strange how the trans and toxic masculinity agenda has exploded the last 5 years seemingly out of nowhere?
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:38 PM
2

7 relationship exceeding 6 months , one was 9 years long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:56 PM
1

There are women that do both of those things right here on reddit. Also i caught my ex smelling my underwear 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:56 PM
2

Definitely harmed me, feel nothing with ghosting people now and it makes you feel super empty. Didn't use to be like this but it's almost like my empathy is just gone. Like thanks for making me cum, let's never speak again. Completely stupid and pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:47 AM
1

Meaning what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:51 PM
1

Good for them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:54 PM
12

Yes
/r/MensRights14/12/22 06:37 PM
0

Playing God is never a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:57 AM
10

This dude is such a cuck 🤣
/r/MensRights04/12/22 12:55 PM
0

Unfortunately proven correct with the last 4 woman but anyone can heal if they choose too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:55 PM
1

Which sub?
/r/MensRights25/11/22 10:56 AM
1

Tits
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:29 PM
2

What would have happened to your relationship if she said you weren't the best? Obviously she'll say that. Also she apparently only had a sample of 3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:31 AM
1

Casual sex is almost as overrated as anal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:15 PM
10

Let's not forget a certain medical procedure that was forced on millions
/r/MensRights17/11/22 11:53 AM
15

No man will take a woman seriously that didn't take herself seriously. But to be fair it works both ways. Sleeping around is gross for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:46 AM
3

Friend of mine was dating this big muscled jock dude. He was at her house and asked her to bring him a "blankey" as he was cold. They broke up shortly after. Infantile words are such a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:33 AM
2

I am very sexual and want the woman to have a good time. ​ Got a vibrator, she said it tickled. Another girl said she only has sex "for men" and finds it a chore. Total turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:20 AM
1

Maybe in America. In my country it's automatically 50/50 for child custody because that is usually best for the children. Also a family member is a family lawyer that is very pro male clients and works extremely hard for them
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 07:06 AM
2

Damn dude that's a awful story hope you doing better
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 07:04 AM
9

Amazing handjobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:20 PM
-1

This dude gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:18 PM
1

Herpes as zero cure and is not easily detectable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:18 PM
2

Dude i would never bang a random without protection, i just meant that they don't seem to care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:22 AM
-2

And none of these women seem to care about stds , they always ask not to wear condoms , it's revolting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:45 AM
0

I agree with this, many men overrate themselves when they don't actually offer much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:20 PM
3

Use common sense, neither sex wants the village bicycle that everyone else has had and who may be riddled with stds and intimacy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:35 AM
-2

Girls still want weddings but not marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:10 PM
30

Exactly, being the village bicycle is gross both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:19 PM
-5

Think it's way less prevalent in the younger generations though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:15 PM
1

Any man that gets married in America has lost his mind. Thankfully in my country it's automatic 50/50 for child contact unless one of the parents is a junkie or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:55 PM
1

Great reply
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:48 PM
5

Narcs and toxic bitches always act like this
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 08:34 AM
1

Women are weird dude
/r/seduction26/10/22 10:33 PM
16

Why would she kiss someone she wasn't attracted to?
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:41 PM
1

The gaming isn't the main issue. Women are more covert in their communication. She resents having to step into the masculine role. Why are you waiting for her to tell you what to do like a child seeking moms appoval
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 08:55 PM
2

You're being tricle truthed
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 05:58 AM
-76

Or she has self respect 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:25 PM
2

Lol red pill 101
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:56 PM
1

Red pill is a harsh truth other than a soft lie so I'm glad it's becoming more mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:00 PM
4

Dude virgins are super overrated , give me a sexually open girl any day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:41 PM
2

Lol my brother is a divorce lawyer, men definitely don't have the power in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:26 AM
2

Marriage in America is a sham
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 09:32 AM
2

She made her bed...fuck her
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 09:26 AM
1

Marriage doesn't make sense for a man in America, other jurisdictions are much more fair
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 02:58 PM
3

Narcissists always call others narcissists 😂 dude you'll drive yourself crazy trying to argue with an irrational person and mind
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 02:19 PM
1

Marriage in America makes no sense for a man. It's a lot more fair in other jurisdictions
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 02:14 PM
1

Just be aware of female nature and innate selfishness so nothing they do surprises you
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 02:11 PM
7

Narcissistic cheaters never do dude
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/22 02:09 PM
159

I'm a dude and I've slept with a fair number of women and I've noticed a massive reduction in my ability to pair bond or care deeply. If the woman is boring or disappointing i just stop seeing her. Not being a prick it's just that you don't care so yes it definitely is a thing
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:26 PM
1

Gonna be a while my dude but it will hurt way less after a year
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 07:01 PM
1

Definitely not true for me , took me almost 2 years to get over my ex and i went nc basically immediately
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 10:04 PM
1

A year from now you will barely remember what she looked like
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 09:57 PM
1

It took almost 2 months to progress past a kiss
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:40 PM
29

So I was seeing a woman for about 2 months , got on really well and she made me wait for sex. Once we finally had sex (one time) it was so disappointing as in top 5 worst sex experiences ever and it kinda killed my interest. We still spoke for a bit afterwards but just looks like it faded out from both ends. The chemistry clearly didn't translate to the bedroom. Not saying it's the same in your case but she was insanely vanilla and it was such a let down after the long wait
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:02 PM
2

Nope, you are strong/ you eventually realise that love is not a disney fairytale
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 07:42 AM
4

Dude, eventually you realize someone cheating says more about them than you and it's just part of life. I haven't gotten that "butterflies" feeling in years. Women are just companions now, I don't get too attached and if they leave I always eventually find someone else. No big deal
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 06:56 PM
2

All women say dumb shit like this. Its to relive their own guilty conscience.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 05:05 PM
2

and men control relationships... we all have our role
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 05:04 PM
2

Yep , its like they have been taken over by someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 04:58 PM
1

Which human on this planet doesn't already have whatsapp installed?
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 04:56 PM
3

Women only mean what they say, in the specific moment
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 04:53 PM
3

When a woman goes cold "out of nowhere" she is usually getting attention somewhere else. I learned this the hard way...with 4 different women
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 04:52 PM
1

Please explain more never heard this
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:17 AM
1

I don't think I could ever get married, why must i provide a dream life and end up with a shitty person such as the poster's wife?
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 07:15 PM
1

Only lesson is : sloots gonna sloot
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:11 PM
5

No such thing as karma, I know several horrible humans that are living grand lives. Sometimes life just fucks you and it makes no sense.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 12:46 PM
3

As soon as there is distance and coldness seemingly out of nowhere or without valid cause, there is always another guy involved. Millions of men will attest to the same thing.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/22 12:44 PM
1

You were 100% married to a cluster b personality type
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/22 07:14 PM
6

Just see women and sex as easy commodities now so when issues arise it's easier to just move on whereas in previous relationships always tried to work through things
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:57 PM
17

Don't believe the Hollywood bullshit , casual sex is very overrated. I think I've lost the ability to "pair bond" and actually love a girl because sex became purely transactional and hedonistic. Would much rather fuck one girl I actually give a fuck about.
/r/seduction03/09/22 06:26 PM
4

Disagree, imagine 5 years into a relationship the guy finds out you lied. Always be honest with someone and let them make their own decisions
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:47 PM
12

All it takes is one person to get an std, so you will never really know. Obviously risk goes up the more people someone sleeps with I'm a guy that has slept around and it feels like I've lost my ability to pair bond so it works both ways
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:46 PM
2

You stuck your dick in 56 Petri dishes...good luck with the super aids. Sleeping around for either sex is fucking gross if you think about it
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:22 PM
8

Lots of my female friends fuck anyone that gives them attention
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:38 PM
2

Women are ruthless so I'm happy that you may come out ok
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 08:18 PM
1

Cluster b personality
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 09:08 PM
1

Women do this all the time
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 09:00 PM
1

I always split, i don't know her well enough for a free meal
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:28 PM
-11

Lol cumming quick usually has nothing to do with the women, the guy could have had too much caffeine that day or hadn't masturbated in a while
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:59 PM
1

Nope not at all. Literally just try and make them laugh , obviously I've also been left on read/blocked by lots of women , you just have to find someone that gets you
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:57 PM
2

Lol nah i mean I'm like a 6 on a good day but usually a high 5
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:40 PM
143

I'm a chubby 5.5/6 and i get women , maybe not the highest quality. The key for me is to not give a fuck about the outcome. Just have fun and make them laugh
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:32 AM
1

Lol watch their actions not their words. She fucked you within a couple hours of meeting , guarantee she does the same thing with various other dudes. Hope you wore a condom. Definitely not gf material
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:03 PM
1

Her weaknesses immediately made me fall out of love
/r/seduction06/08/22 07:40 AM
2

Hate this argument , both men and women love conditionally. If you're wife stopped "providing" you sex , you'll resent her , lose attraction and fall out of love. If she fucked another man thereby no longer providing loyalty you'll stop loving her
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:09 PM
13

That they can turn off their feelings like an on/off switch. Experienced it in several relationships and my friends have experienced the same thing. Men are actually the romantic gender
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:00 PM
2

Why do men get married in America???
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/22 06:29 PM
394

Ons are incredibly overrated and empty
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:38 PM
-1

Also post some pics of her
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:26 PM
0

Not sure how she could make it more obvious 😂
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:25 PM
1

Why would you marry this person? 400 pounds??? Fuck man you can do better
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:12 AM
1

What did she do? I also dated a covert narc , that could lie to your face with a smile. Her entire persona was fake. It was horrifying finding out who she really was. Her "abusive" exs were just normal guys that got put through her emotional torture. Crazy women exist
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:07 AM
3

American divorce laws are insane. I'm in a third world country and it's not like this at all here. Courts favor equal parenting time and we have the clean break principle as in no spousal maintenance unless shown to be needed and it's only for a maximum of a year
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 09:04 AM
1

Guarantee sie was the abusive one in her previous marriage
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 09:05 PM
3

Why is it easier?
/r/seduction18/07/22 05:42 AM
1

What do you mean he can't find your clit??? Thought that was a joke meme? It's literally right there? How do you like to be fingered?
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:55 PM
3

So does every other girl. You're putting her on an undeserved pedestal which just puts pressure on her
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:51 PM
2

Remember trauma dumping too soon is a tell tale sign of a cluster b/narcissist and many are aware of it so be careful. Every single girl that I dated that turned out super toxic and abusive relayed a crazy childhood abuse story within the first couple of dates.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:48 PM
1

Look down between your legs, what do you see? Balls or a little flap of skin? Its just a girl dude, no big deal. She's a human just like you. Imagine her taking a massive fat diarrhea shit after a spicy curry night and it will bring her down to earth really quickly.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:40 PM
1

It's so weird to me to hear a girl say "guys catch feelings", like it takes me at least 6 months before I let my guard down enough to catch feelings. Had no idea dudes acted like this
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:36 PM
1

What exactly is he doing wrong?
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:27 PM
1

Or she's cheating
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:18 PM
0

Anti slut defense, women use it to convince themselves 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:00 PM
2

This is why I'm standoffish in relationships until i see the woman is heavily emotionally invested
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/22 09:11 AM
1

HPV is way more prevelant
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:21 AM
10

Also be very careful of stds. Condoms don't protect you against everything. And usually girls that are into the fwb thing are into fwb with other people so don't think you're special
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:18 PM
20

Yeah girls like this that send nudes so quickly are usually 🚩. You're not the only one that got the nude. Remember cluster b's try to get you hooked early
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:14 PM
1

Cheaters always say they were "always miserable" it's revisionist history and made up bullshit to make themselves feel better about their betrayal
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 10:43 AM
1

First book you should pick up is "how to do the work" it's amazing
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 10:40 AM
12

Gross 🤮
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:28 AM
1

Smear campaigns is narcissist 101
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 10:31 AM
3

Fuck her, i despise cheaters
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 10:13 AM
5

You dodged a fucking missile dude. What an absolute train wreck
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/22 06:46 PM
1

I'm still convinced all the stories of horrible women acting so similarly is because they were covert narcissists
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/22 11:07 PM
2

9 years here. Absolute nutcase. Called the cops on me after i jokingly spanked her on the ass after a fight. She said she was still angry over the fight so i had no permission to touch her yet ???One time came out the shower and she was rocking back and forth sucking her thumb and crying out for her mom...she was 29 , she would also disassociate and bang her head against the door etc Literally drive you insane with how they think
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 09:48 PM
6

Dude...she is crazy abusive...get away from her
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 04:29 AM
1

How does cleaning lesson her respect? Shit needs to be done
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/22 08:41 PM
3

Dude quit acting like you're a piece of shit and she's the greatest prize. She sounds like she used you and instead of being there for you she wants to duck to something easier. I guarantee she has major issues and this isn't that big of a loss. Grey rock her and tell her to leave, you have no time for a shitty weak woman
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 06:54 AM
1

In my country 99% of the time its automatic 50/50. The American legal system is insane
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/22 09:19 AM
1

Exactly what I was going to say
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/22 05:29 AM
5

Bro, i'm sorry to hear but try and think logically, why are you begging for someone back that is absolutely willing to destroy you?
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/22 05:21 AM
2

Women remain the most responsible teenager
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/22 07:39 PM
1

Well not in countries with normal divorce laws
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/22 12:26 PM
1

Well not in countries with normal divorce laws
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/22 12:25 PM
2

This was a great read dude
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 08:14 AM
1

Amazing 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/22 07:50 AM
2

The fantasy is always better than the reality
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/22 09:36 AM
1

Men are often content with what they have but these bitches just want more/different for whatever reason
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/22 09:35 AM
2

My ex was getting smashed at work by a colleague and i had zero idea. She was still a great partner at home , lots of sex etc . The dudes fiance messaged me on Facebook and i checked her phone and she was getting dicked down for months . Women are incredibly good liars, you sometimes have zero idea
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/22 09:33 AM
1

99.9%
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/22 09:31 AM
0

Fair but not every country has the same insane divorce laws
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/21 06:40 AM
2

Dude only wanted to smash YOUR wife, why would you even want to take someone back that had so little regard for you???
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/21 04:16 PM
2

Why were you married to a woman 12 years your senior???
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/21 04:14 PM
1

Holy shit that's horrific. Wow dude you are definitely better off without such a toxic and abusive person. It blows my mind how some humans can so easily treat another this way
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 08:59 PM
1

"Space" to a woman always means "you out the picture so i can ride new dick guilt free" . They use the "grow as a person" rubbish for plausible deniability...always
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 08:57 PM
5

Read several accounts of women literally pining for years for their exs. Some but not all women genuinely love the man for who he is
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 08:49 PM
1

Yep, immediately kills all feelings and care i once had for her
/r/TheRedPillStories07/12/21 02:03 PM
5

100 percent. It's so disrespectful that they even thought of separation. It's usually a fatal blow to any relationship
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 01:02 PM
3

The other branch she swang to, broke. That's all this is, if a woman wants to be with you she'll do everything not to be apart from you
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 12:19 PM
1

Exactly what it is
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 12:18 PM
2

South Africa 🇿🇦
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 06:17 PM
2

Not in my country thankfully , both parents get a say
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 04:08 PM
6

That is just ridiculous. Children need both parents involved in their lives
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 11:18 AM
7

American law is insane, in my country equal parenting is the norm unless mom/dad is an addict/abusive???
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 08:00 AM
2

Bingo
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 07:42 AM
1

Women use the words "abusive and narcissist" like a comma. It's usually superfluous bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 07:39 AM
1

Been through the complete change before
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 04:02 PM
1

Definitely an affair; all cheaters act the same way
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 03:58 PM
1

How any man can get married in America is beyond me!!! Is it community property in all states? In my country we have a choice of 3 marital regimes prior to marriage
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 02:38 PM
1

What you said is completely contradictory. A sweet loving person doesn't treat you this way and wants to work with you not against you
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 08:51 AM
3

All women seem to do this ..."and still i rise" 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 06:49 AM
2

American law is insane and you're supposed to be a first world country???
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/21 04:20 PM
5

Not always true, casual sex is often awful, mechanical and devoid of closeness and emotion. You end up unfairly comparing to your ex who you had actually invested in and feel a lot worse
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 11:08 AM
1

Doesn't sex release bonding chemicals in both genders?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/21 10:00 PM
2

What a horrific woman , sorry bro
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 07:41 AM
1

I had a matter where the wife drove a GT3RS as her daily, promptly sold it and started driving around in a shitty 1 litre Nissan to convince the court the husband was financially abusive...court saw right through it
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 06:31 PM
1

I hate that this is true 😭
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 06:27 PM
1

Probably been cheating for a while, usually explains the sudden change out of nowhere
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 06:26 PM
1

If the roles were reversed she would have left you years ago
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/21 05:25 PM
1

What a trainwreck? Why would you even marry an active addict???
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 01:14 PM
1

Sorry i see you're in the uk . Here in South Africa we have several choices for marital dispensations
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/21 08:40 AM
1

Get married in a different jurisdiction . Any man that gets married in America is insane
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/21 08:39 AM
1

Elaborate please
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/21 03:25 PM
25

When a woman leaves suddenly like this "out of nowhere" , no matter how long you are together it's because there is usually another guy that they have been banging for months before she "ended" it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/21 08:10 AM
1

"time and space" always means there is someone else
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/21 09:04 AM
2

Dude call her bluff and start divorce proceedings . A woman that constantly threatens divorce is an abusive pos
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 09:32 AM
3

I was with a borderline for almost 9 years, absolutely destroyed me. Even her psychologist told me to get away from her. Many fake suicide attempts , crying wolf situations. Walked in on her sucking her thumb and rocking back and forth asking for "mommy" , got out the shower and saw her repeatedly banging her head against the wall complaining that she's "worth nothing" , just pure insanity. Get away from her . You feel so bad because of the unpredictable nature of a relationship with a bpd, it's…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 05:19 AM
1

I really hate how true this is. Been left for other men twice now
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 05:12 AM
1

Why would you even want to continue to see an alcoholic with mental problems? They bring nothing but chaos and pain. Look up the sunk cost fallacy. I know it hurts but let the other guy have her and find someone more helathy. You will thank yourself in a few years.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 09:55 AM
1

Maybe in the states but most jurisdictions don't work like this
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 01:58 PM
1

I'm a divorce lawyer , there are no "winners" in a divorce, both parties lose something. It's not the standard adversarial civil system. By due process i meant get the damn thing started instead of asking for permission
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 01:57 PM
19

You don't need your wife's permission to get divorced!!! Just serve her with the papers and let due process unfold.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/21 07:45 AM
4

What is up with American divorce law where you automatically lose half your shit??? Which man would take that deal. ​ Here in South Africa we have 3 systems and one is out of community with no accrual...basically you both keep your own shit. Absolutely ridiculous that you are held at your legal systems mercy
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/21 05:17 PM
3

Women don't care about the past , only men seem to be nostalgic. It's only how you continue to provide that seems to matter.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/21 08:12 AM
2

I say this with the greatest of kindness but this was pretty pathetic to read. It's just a woman that you have hyped up in your mind. I can assure you, just like every other human she has massive flaws. Your'e in limerence , picturing a fantasy life that does not exist. What do you think this sister does not take massive sloppy s h i ts after a night of curry? If your marriage doesn't make you happy, leave and move forward. Live in reality and not some idealized version that only exists in your …
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 12:13 PM
1

Absolute rubbish, I have given up many addictions and after a short while, they meant nothing and you don't even think of it anymore. Don't put people off quitting that may be struggling with an addiction that they are "giving up" something of value and that they will yearn and miss it. ​ Also left someone I was wife for over 9 years and now I can barely remember what she looks like.. time does it's thing to our memories
/r/MGTOW225/07/21 06:29 PM
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