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| 1 | The hilarious behavior of cheating women...What does happen to men in year 5? 🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:21 AM |
| -1 | Why is it 2nd Marriages Fail Even More Than the 1st?Yeah but you can rectify this by being a strong/better leader. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Why is it 2nd Marriages Fail Even More Than the 1st?"They want what other women want" | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Why is it 2nd Marriages Fail Even More Than the 1st?Yeah, and then they go nuts when they hear that men dont generally want high body count women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Is divorced worth it?Love is a feeling. What do you consider love? Love has a way of transforming and taking different shapes. I think I get what you are saying but it didn't happen the way you imagined it would. So now you are thinking of bailing out. You have a child now and that's a responsibility you now carry. Do you just want to abandon your child because your feelings for your wife are uncertain? You would still have to put alot of effort for a relationship to work, whether with your ex or any other woman. I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Cheating wife is divorcing me!Yup She wants to come across as pleasant, gentle, and harmless. Not any more, cu*t! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do i still need to clean my spouse's toilets and take out her garbage and recycling while she continues to abuse me?👍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Do i still need to clean my spouse's toilets and take out her garbage and recycling while she continues to abuse me?I think you absolutely should do this, for yourself, and for your children. It is a legetimate concern for safety, not one of those made-up. Im sure whole sub is on your side about this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I just tell spouse she's going to be served?Dont tell her anything. Get your ducks in order. Make sure you can go live somewhere during the divorce. Collect evidence of your wufe's actions. If she get physical with you or children, get her arrested. Get a good lawyer. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Letting go of the kidsYou had 100% yet you allowed her access to your sons and she used it against you? Why didnt you put a stop to her seeing them??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Do i still need to clean my spouse's toilets and take out her garbage and recycling while she continues to abuse me?Can you just do what they do and claim you fear for your safety, backed up by all evidence? Get a restraining order against her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Wife threatens divorce if I don’t agree to a second child. Agreeing might actually be cheaper than alimony. What would you do?This sounds like this is her plan all along. Nobody threatens a divorce like this. Maybe if there were no children at all but for a second child??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Cheating wife is divorcing me!I re-posted a couple of posts on fb about entertaining other men and I tagged her not knowing that all her almost 700 friends and relatives would see it. Apparently her aunt was questioning her for a week to try and find out what happened. After we spoke and she told me about it, I couldn't stop smiling. I think, when I went to bed I fell asleep with a smile on my face. When the divorce finally happens she wont be able to paint me as an exclusive bad guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | The separation and dividing has begunIf your first wife wasva narcissist, why did you choose another "traumatized" woman? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/26 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Divorce sprung up, I'm totally lost! Help please.Do a DNA test. Your youngest may not actually be yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How much evidence..Yeah well, if that doesnt last long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How much evidence..I want OP take on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How much evidence..OP, how did you end up with such a "treasure"??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating After Marriage - Bit of AdviceYou were the problem? Wtf? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Dating After Marriage - Bit of AdviceIn my experience, that back-fired! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Ex is saying I violated MSAActually, they are not 100% safe. And if HPV was the first time, I assume it was, it should've been discussed. Personally, I think all medical issues/treatments need to be discussed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/26 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever fallen out of love but found their way back to prevent divorce?I cant relate to your situation but I've heard a very good advice: never stop dating your wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Next marriagePoor but not broke? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/25 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Get trust backIf you are not compatible then you just need to find a different person that "gets it". | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Ex Wife new boyfriend left herYeah but the piece of shit is still a home-wrecker! 🤷♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Ex Wife new boyfriend left herYou are joking. A single mother of 2 with no job. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | AITANot at all! OP, sounds to me like you gotta take a day off at work and show up at the most unexpected moment. Also, can you somehow make your ex walk in on you with another woman? Multiple times with different women would be even better! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Confused as hell🍻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/25 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Confused as hellIgnorance is bliss sometimes, OP. Who gives a f...k what she thinks? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendations?Yeah, problem is people dont always understand what to look for to prevent problems and only start looking for solutions when said problems start to occur and sometimes it's too late. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendations?I heard that if you read the first one you'd never want to be in a relationship going forward. Been looking at getting that book to see if it was true. But Orion Taraban is great. Been watching his yt channel for a while now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Legal separation first, then divorce?But from you original post I see that you are planning to be away from her anyways. So, perhaps you just need to find a way to move you stuff quickly or maybe move bit by bit, so that she doesn't notice into outside storage? I mean, desparate times call for desparate measures. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/25 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Legal separation first, then divorce?Why not just do it with registered mail AFTER you leave the house? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Should I stay for the kids?Updateme | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Married for 15 years, together for 25…feeling stuck and torn. Anyone been in a similar situation?Looks like you need to work on communication with her. Either one of you could be a bad communicator. Counselling should help with that as soon as you find a good fit therapist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Married for 15 years, together for 25…feeling stuck and torn. Anyone been in a similar situation?It's definitely not going to work the way it did because look where it ended up. Just being a financial provider is not going to save your marriage. I think you are looking at it the wrong way. Saying things like "meeting each other halfway" and "accept each other for who we are" tells me you are reluctant to change. Also, a marriage is a lot about sacrifices, so if you want this to work out you need to put yourself second and start doing things your wife mentioned you didnt do. Just start doing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Married for 15 years, together for 25…feeling stuck and torn. Anyone been in a similar situation?Well, from an Internet stranger's point of view, you have 25 years together + 2 early teens together + no divorce-worthy issues. I say it is worth it, at least, to try your best. But you really need to fully understand the causes that led to this. Her depression, depending on severety, could easily affect you. If thats the case, and after so many years, I think you are handling(handled) it like a champ but everyone has their breaking point. Are you sure she is getting help or just lying to you t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Married for 15 years, together for 25…feeling stuck and torn. Anyone been in a similar situation?Sounds like there is still hope to save the marriage. But 8 years of emotional withdrawal? Either there is mental health issue involved or your wife started to feel what you are feeling now. Very hard to give any suggestions. Be as supportive as possible, women usually appreciate it regardless. Not entirely sure how you've been behaving towards her lately but if this has been a stale marriage for quite some time, maybe you need to shake it up somehow? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Married for 15 years, together for 25…feeling stuck and torn. Anyone been in a similar situation?OP, I get your situation. It sounds like you may need to get into therapy/counselling if you want to save this marriage. You have been together for many years. There is such a thing as a family crisis, that happens on average every 7 years. Are you certain you are done with your wife or could this just be a phase? Do you still date your wife? Any infidelity involved? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 08:24 PM |
| 8 | Will my spouse lie?Oh, in that case yes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 07:56 PM |
| -1 | Will my spouse lie?Just move on from this as soon as possible. Who cares where she lives and with who? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I find it interesting, sad, frustrating, but more interestingBut if you dont understand nor want to understand yourself, or other people, how are you going to grow and prevent mistakes that sure happened in your marriage in other relationships? Or are you planning on staying single and not going to date? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Cyclical emotional damageTry not to focus on her but yourself and your children! Who cares what she is doing with her life at this point? Start therapy if you can. It will help you deal with your emotions. Stay strong 💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 03:44 AM |
| 3 | fuck that bitchYou got it. 😉 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | fuck that bitchFall down to her level??? Better pass on that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 02:50 AM |
| 2 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!Ohhh, I completely agree. It's just I was taken by surprise writing what I wrote in the sub I wrote it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 07:17 AM |
| 1 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!But they also cry because they screwed up and there is nothing they can do to fix the situation. They hate the end result, just not sure they hate the action that led to the end result. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 2 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!Oh my god! Thats terrible! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!I've been looking for a more level-headed Reddit replacement. I believe it exists just cant remember the name. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 02:48 AM |
| 18 | The divorce subreddit is sickening!!!!/r/DivorcedDads has its issues too. I made a general statement about women and got "a last warning before ban". It was a general statement, meaning I wrote it with intention of describing most women, but not all. Obviously, there are enough exceptions to generalizations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 02:44 AM |
| 2 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?Im sorry to hear this. Sounds very traumatizing. If this is his MLC he needs help but doesnt realize to ask for it. Yes, he may snap out but it maybe too late. I wish you lots of strength! I've seen this situation before. One suggestion, if I may, is not be in a rush to move on with your personal life. Lean on your friends and family! You sound like a strong person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 09:30 PM |
| 1 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?I got that. I meant try to maybe stall the whole thing. By the sound of it, your husband sounds like he maybe seriously stressed out. Sounds like he needs help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?Be careful, I said something similar and got a ban warning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 05:48 PM |
| 2 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?Maybe give him time and he will snap out of it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?Whats MLC forums? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 04:30 PM |
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