20 year relationship. 3 years Separated. 2 years divorced. 2 teenage daughters.

She has tried to destroy me at every turn for 3 straight years. . Physically, Emotionally, Mentally, and Financially. She took my kids and my freedom with false DV allegations.

Reality hits hard when you’re in jail for 3 days. Long expensive story but I beat every charge and won every hearing against her. She tried the SB tactic and it failed miserably in every court setting.

I’m ranting but the doomscrolling on here today had me seeing a common thread. If you know something is off and the D word has been thrown around and it feels real. Know that she has likely already been planning for months. Expect the unexpected.

Record everything. And ffs File First!