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| 3 | Im in shock, in survival mode. In limbo, wife mulling divorce“The ‘stay’ plan is the same as the ‘go’ plan.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/25 11:32 AM |
| 3 | 45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like?Agreed. ‘Amicable divorce’ is an oxymoron. Think of the percentage of men who thought they had a smooth divorce. Probably less than 5%. As the saying goes, ‘the person you marry is not the same person you divorce’. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Financial trouble AFTER the divorceBruh, come on | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Did any of you find it impossible to ask her to do…anything?It’s the perfect crime, isn’t it? Like having infinite immunity and plausible deniability for whatever the situation calls for. Like someone said, because women are weaker than men, they have evolved to be pretty good at playing these verbal/mind games. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/25 11:44 AM |
| 10 | Nagging Thoughts about Paternity.I disagree with the rest of the comments to let it go. Better to know now rather than having doubts right up till you're on your death bed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 08:30 PM |
| 0 | This Thing Has Really Helped Me to Not Hate Women Post DivorceDon’t worry, let the feminists and male-feminists downvote you. We all know the real score here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationYou can give your side of the argument without resorting to insults. If you disagree with him then tear up his points and tell us which part he’s wrong about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 08:16 AM |
| 2 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Correct. We agree with each other on this. Just wondering why some of the people here still want to do it after going through it the first time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:15 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Great advice but for most of us here who are divorced, how many of us here would have taken these advice ourselves before signing the marriage contract in the first place? Not many I guess. 5%? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Everything you say is on the money. Many married men would say they really get along well with their current wives. But you also need to ask those men who are currently divorced, how many of them had an amicable process and it was painless. Not very many I bet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?💯, marriage is an unconscionable contract for men | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Right person or wrong person is tied to the ‘now’. 10years, 15years, she might change her mind hence ‘the woman you marry is not the same woman you’re divorcing’ because most divorces are NOT amicable. You can take that 50/50 gamble. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 0 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?‘happily married folks’ until she decides she wants to replace you. The better metric would be ‘percentage of men who went through an amicable divorce’ or ‘how much money did you lose?’ | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?There won’t be a 2nd time for me because she can be the best person for you for a really long time and until she finds someone else. I don’t want to be at the mercy of family court when that happens again. Never again. If she is truly the one for you, she’d be ok without getting the state involved. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 12:58 PM |
| 1 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Nobody goes into their 2nd marriage thinking their partner is shite too, lol. What I’m trying to say is, not all are bad but most are. 95% are imho. You can chase unicorn or you can be smart | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 12:56 PM |
| 2 | 24 M, is marriage worth it?Come on man, third time’s a charm! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Comparison is the thief of Joy .That’s not too bad tho. The worse is when she did everything with her exes but she doesn’t want to do those things with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | 2nd wife?”Wow, i know the odds does not look good, but this is worse than I thought. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 07:08 PM |
| 3 | 2nd wife?”You being smart with your finances does not make you love her any less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | 2nd wife?”Yea, can’t imagine marrying again. People change their minds all the time. Could take them 10yrs or 20yrs and when they ask you for a divorce, you’re gonna have to pay up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | 2nd wife?”Some guys love a good gamble. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone been on the r/Divorce subreddit? I feel like it’s run by women and is 90% posts from women talking about how much they hate being married and want a divorce.It’s a good place to get your account downvoted if you even dare to share your experience as a man. Also, in before “not ALL women are like that. let’s not generalize women’ type of comments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Settling on things…All I can say is very few guys have an actual amicable divorce. It may start out that way or you might think it’s amicable but trust me, it won’t be for long. Just don’t be a pushover and get a good lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Should I marry her again?It sounds like you’re settling because you can’t find someone who you find sexy and attractive. It’s a recipe for disaster and it’s gonna end worse than it did before. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Single againYea. That’s how they operate. Appear too easy or if they feel that they’re irreplaceable, they’ll gradually lose interest in you. May take them a year or five but, the clock is always ticking if they feel they’ve ‘got’ you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:54 AM |
| 1 | I used to be nice… I feel it fading.It’s easy to confuse yourself as someone who calls out bad female behavior as misogynistic though. We are at the point where men are gaslighted into thinking they hate women just because we have standards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:51 AM |
| 6 | Why do men become the boiled frog so often?It’s not just that we are taught that they are sweet and kind creatures. The issue is the gaslighting that always put them as a victim. If anyone dares to speak out against them, you have the full force of feminists just telling you that you’re a misogynist, incel…etc. They really can’t do no wrong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:36 AM |
| 4 | The Bullet wasn’t SilverJust don’t make the same mistake twice though. I’m dating someone now but marriage is literally off the cards no matter what just because who knows what she’ll be like in 20 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 05:38 AM |
| 8 | Why don’t you hear it from them?I see lots of divorced women online who are ranting about not being able to find men after they leave their husband. You can check out ‘Ace Nate’ channel on YouTube. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 05:36 AM |
| 6 | I used to be nice… I feel it fading.I think it's a cop out to do these whole 'there are good/bad men and there are good/bad women'. It doesn't add to the conversation at all and literally no one benefits from this. Do you have stats and numbers to back your statement up? What's the percentage of men who are bad? Any numbers? The more beneficial conversation to have will be to talk about what's the percentage of marriage that end up in divorce? How many divorces are initiated by women? Most importantly: how much do men stand to los… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 01:06 PM |
| 7 | I used to be nice… I feel it fading.i tried talking about the same points you did in the whatsapp group and boy, the guys there were pissed. I realized that the feminist programming is so deep in most men's mind that they just can't accept that, just maybe, they might have been lied their whole lives. Instead of having a rational discussion it's just the same iteration of 'NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!' | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 14 | When men say they don't care how much she makesThis is a place for men to heal and move on. Not to deal with the same type of woman who they divorced in the first place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Been a while, new drama emergingTwo questions how was the divorce process? Did she try to make life a living hell for you? do you think she will help you out if you’re in a jam and the situation here is reversed? that should make things easier to decide | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Has your view of women in relationships changed?Rich Cooper is great as well, since he’s been through the divorce machine too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Has your view of women in relationships changed?Seeing that the rate of divorce is 50% and then taking into consideration that not all those who are still married are happy, what are the odds that you so happen to chance upon the right woman? I’d say very unlikely. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Has your view of women in relationships changed?If I hadn’t gone through the divorce machine, I wouldn’t be able to begin to understand or even believe what you just said. But now, it all makes sense as I’m beginning to date and view things in a whole different lens. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:42 PM |
| 8 | Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better peopleWhy do you feel the need to come to a safe space for men and absolutely shit on it? You have a million and one space catered to women and you choose to come here? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better peopleYep, just because something is possible does not mean it’s probable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 9 | Very very few women actually lift a man up and make them better peopleIf I hear another dude that says, “But not all American women…”, please just stfu. Yes, it’s not all American women but enough going around that’s absolutely destroying the fabric of society and the family unit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 2 | What are the ‘alternative’ tactics that are available for men (like the Silver Bullet for women)?Yep, fuxk playing by the rules | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | My honest wife liedYes, the very much needed ‘healing’ that women always say | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How long should I wait before I try to meet someone again?This. Just get out and have fun. Don’t worry about ‘hurting’ anyone by not being ‘ready’. Don’t commit or get in trouble with psycho women though. Going out with multiple women in the beginning of my separation gave me back my confidence and made me strengthen my resolve to not beg my ex-wife to take me back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?Agree. Most women are good women until they’re not. No one gets into a relationship with a woman whom they think is bad. I don’t really believe the whole ‘there are plenty of good women out there’ line that the other commenters keep saying. Chances are extremely slim because, just look at the divorce rate, and those aren’t happy in their marriages. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Well I lost…This should be the advice given more often. No point ruining your finances to the point where you are literally screwing your future, just to fight a rigged system. Your kids will understand when they grow up. Or not. It is what it is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Not sure where to turn nowSo don’t get married, don’t stay together and have your own place then? Which is currently what I’m doing after my divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Not sure where to turn nowSame thing when they say ‘healing’. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 10:53 AM |
| 7 | The Last BastionAgreed, no reason to make this sub political like most of the subs out here. That’s the best way to make this community divisive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 05:46 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck! I just inherited a little over 2.0MIt's not too bad compared to the invite-only Whatsapp group that the sub has created. Too many simps there just waiting to leap at the chance to defend milady's honor no matter what. I do feel some one the men there will forever be screwed over by women simply because they are too emotional. For those thinking of joining, don't. Unless you like the feeling of being around women who will nag at you if you even dare try to say anything non-PC for e.g being anti-DEI | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 01:52 PM |
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