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| 10 | You'd think Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Ye, and other billionaires would make reforming the feminist divorce court system a top political priority.... | Conscious-Ad-7338 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 02:36 PM |
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| 7 | How much documentation you needThey dont give a fuck. Lorena Bobbitt cut off her husbands dick while he was sleeping; she got treated like the victim and was fully acquitted. That was 30 years of feminism ago. How much evidence do you need? I'd say enough to fill the library of alexandria, as if they'd allow you to present a word of it. They straight up hate men in my opinion | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 10:17 AM |
| 0 | I’m Just Ready to be DoneI don't know if I agree with this advice. We are only getting OPs side of the story, and it sounds a bit biased. I would advise against "putting your boot on peoples' throat" in general. It tends to rub people the wrong way, and you cant predict the outcome. I wouldnt be the least bit surprised if you try to put your boot on someone's foot and get bitten or stung or find a boot on your own throat shortly thereafter. If OPs wife is so crazy and psycho, why did he marry her and make kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Financially stuckAll I can say is, yeah it sucks. I've had to pay the electric bill with pennies to get them to turn my lights back on, and pawned guns at literal pawn shops for pennies on the dollar to pay lawyers to defend me. Divorce is extremely financially ruinous and self destructive. I'd say you should be upset about these times and never forget them. She sounds selfish and lame and stupid quite frankly. She is no friend or ally of you to treat you that way. Better to divorce her now and get it over with.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you been divorced by a good woman?You need to take her off the pedestal you have her on. I'm sure she's not that great; and if you got her you can get another one as good as her. In fact you probably can and will do better | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 02:41 PM |
| 2 | [FL] need help. My ex needs to attend something for 12 weeks, but does not tell me what. Any ideas?How? That's not the kind of thing you forget. Some kind of social services program or dcf type case is a good guess though, if you think she could be having those problems. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/25 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Feeling worthless.Just concern yourself with your kid, bro. You need to find the resilience and fortitude to be a complete satisfied individual all on your own, regardless of what anyone else on the planet thinks or does. You don't seem worthless at all, and what good is a cheater like that in your life anyway, she's someone else's problem now. You have everything youll ever need inside you; there is nothing you can ever do or change about yourself that will make you worth more than you are as you are. There's no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Ex-wife's planning on marrying her former coworkerYeah, the co-worker sounds like an idiot. This new marriage is bound to be a disaster. Tons of trust issues at best, and rampant infidelity at worst. Guaranteed to fail. Why would the co-worker sign up for marriage, knowing he's just gonna pay later | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Got divorced today!Congratulations | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 03:13 PM |
| 10 | My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything."I thought love meant just providing and staying loyal. But it’s so much more than that, and I didn’t get it until now." Fuck that, and fuck her too. Take that sentiment and flush it down the toilet. Providing and staying loyal is more than enough. In fact you don't need to do anything to be loved. Your wife sounds like selfish trash; 15 years gone and blew up your family. You need to look after yourself and love yourself now, because nobody else is going to. Provide and stay loyal to yourself, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Restraining order and blocked with no explanation 1 years relationshipYou need to ditch this girl yesterday. She put a restraining order on you, then set you up to break it. Come on, man. You need to get it together; there's billions of other women. you need to think about your future. there is a lot at stake if you make more mistakes. You're gonna lose a lot of respect if you keep it up. it's gonna make people wary of you and cost you mental health. But if you calmly let it go, you'll get stronger and people will view you as the bigger person | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 5 | I'm lost. My wife doesn't love me anymore and wants separation and divorce. I am devastatedYou're the man, bro. Mission complete. It's why I keep putting out fires and not giving up fighting every day. Gotta see the battleplan through and make it happen. Someday soon all the pieces will fall into place and whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. That 38 year old menopausal line is bullshit though; go befriend a prostitute to the point of true honesty and ask her what she thinks about that one; she'll tell you you're obviously being taken for a ride and tricked. I don't think we … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 02:23 AM |
| 7 | Wife moved out, can I pack her items up and put in garage?My stbxw threw all of my lifelong personal property away. There have been no consequences, and there are no potential consequences. It's a joke. I wouldn't worry about petty stuff like that, nobody cares | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 10:46 PM |
| 2 | high conflict custodyHow were you able to prove it? Didnt she just say "yeah that is my signature", and if you were able to prove it did it make any difference? Just asking because if I gave that info to my lawyer, he would laugh and say nobody cares | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Ban cursing/swearing??When my stbxw got a CPS case opened on me, that was one of the more heinous accusations. "Using curse words around the kids". So fucking what, isn't this America? Apparently not because the whole family court system operates outside the framework of our country. They'll just take your guns away and put a restraining order on you against your children for cursing around them. As if she curses any less than I do anyways. What a joke | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | She calls me abusive and evil, but after everything she did… I’m starting to think it was the other way around.You shouldn't be so hard on yourself about your past drug use. You should stop engaging with and consuming pornography; doing so is emasculating. It sounds like she took advantage of your good nature for citizenship and to boost her pride. Youre hardly the first guy that's happened to. She sounds like she sucks: proven cheater, cam girl, foreigner, critical complainer. you can do a lot better | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on counselingI don't believe in paid therapy or counseling. It is feminine and a money making industry. Their profession is to sell you mind altering drugs and keep you returning for more sessions; the last thing they want is to see you solve your problems. The value of male true friends cannot be understated. They should be your therapy. Even just one or two of them, guys who you can be perfectly forthright with, who come around your house to check on you when they don't hear from you; that can make all the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 09:36 AM |
| 12 | Are there any tangible steps being taken to change divorce laws?The institution of marriage will simply go extinct and the gravy train will end for family courts, lawyers and baby mommas. This is among many other changes that will occur as a result of men realizing their literal slavery, and quietly removing their consent to be exploited and destroyed by a society that hates them | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you get past the fact that your ex technically “has it easy” now… with her disregarding all of your effort, and shaping the entire situation as if she was a victim of the marriage.As much as I wish I could and try, I can't embrace the "greyrock, focus on yourself, and ignore her" mentality. This chick has you living in your car, probably blew up your life for no reason as thanks for you loving her, and you're supposed to pay her money after she mercilessly takes you to court? Some of us have been ruthlessly violated, our kids used as pawns and destroyed, everything we've built in life thrown away. Maybe you should feel angry about living in your car and hate her, figure o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 06:56 AM |
| 0 | We still don't ask a women out twice correct?You can ask women out twice. I've been rejected by women only to come back later and have sexual relationships with them. I would take what she says at face value and act like it doesn't bother you. Whether or not she's being honest doesn't really matter. Women will test you to see if you're strong and deliberately try to get a rise out of you with stuff like that. If you couldn't handle the fact that she's working and isn't available to go on a date at a certain time, that communicates weakness… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Men who have had access to their children threatened when they tried to move on with a new romantic partner. Can you share your experience and how things turned out?If she catches wind of you hooking up with other girls or moving on... It's safe to say she's gonna get pissed and become endlessly cold & vindictive for a while. I would move on and keep the relationship separate from your ex and kids like you suggested. Not to avoid conflict but because it's none of her business, and you shouldn't be bringing random casual women around your kids because that's inappropriate. She can't cut you off, you have rights as a father. Threatening to do so is textbook a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/25 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?Yeah, but I doubt those guys are lining up to be in a relationship with some divorced single mom. It's not like women don't have sex readily available to them 24/7 their whole life, so I don't see how that's a benefit. Any guy who's willing to raise another man's kids is gonna give her the ick anyways, and is de facto a lesser man than you who made the kids as he's eating your sloppy seconds. I think it's more about money and pride to them | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/25 06:52 AM |
| -10 | Ex’s BF is overstepping with sports"Doesn't seem much you can do" is loser talk. I don't mean to be disrespectful; but there is always something you can do if you put your mind, money, and guts to it. Are we supposed to idly sit by and let "Doesn't seem much you can do" be our motto as they molest and traumatize our kids? "If you can conceive it, you can achieve it". That should be our motto. Can you conceive taking custody of your kids and parenting them properly, and not paying your ex wife a penny? Then you can, and should, ac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Now wife works out and loses weight30 months. What's her problem. Have you had to pay child support or alimony in that time? | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 02:55 AM |
| 5 | How long did your divorce take?The process seems to take exactly as long as it takes until you are bled dry and cant take any more. It takes just as much as you are willing to give for your kids and how hard you are willing to fight for. What a divorce court miracle, and one of divorce courts great mysteries. That's the timetable you can expect, and precisely how much you can expect to pay your lawyer and the courts | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Medical recordsWhy on earth would your ex wife request medical records? Are you talking about for you, or for your kids? If my stbxw sent me a request for my medical records, I would laugh and then throw her request in the trash. I don't care what my lawyer or the judge says about it, I doubt they would care much either | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Interesting bias on GoogleAi is so stupid; everyone knows what men do best is wash the dishes. You know, after you take out the trash, go to work all day, come home, discipline and parent your kids, eat the dinner you paid for, pay the bills, handle any hostile threats against your family... After all that, what a man does best is step up and do his half of the housework and wash the dishes. That's the fastest way to earn respect and sex; plus everyone knows Mom is the hardest job in the world | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Update and questionsAll I can say, is you and me both brother. My "wife" put a restraining order on me and I couldn't go home for months. In the meantime, my life savings of gold bullion and expensive firearms just seemed to disappear, and she allegedly doesn't know anything about it. Oh, and I surrendered a bunch of guns to the cops too, even though I've never been charged with a crime; those guns were "purged" after they mailed a letter to the very house where they had a restraining order against me, so therefore… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Harvard Crimson: Dear Harvard Men, Stop Hating Women.I'm pretty sure feminism originated from Israel; just look at it's founders. Plus spreading it to Afghanistan would be perfectly in line with their greater geopolitical military ambitions. And the West are their enemy too | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 11:55 PM |
| 10 | Fathers rights GeorgeThey think the war is won. They've got another think coming | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/25 03:21 AM |
| – | Soon-to-be Ex-Wife stole information from my phoneNobody cares bro. Go buy a jar of Vaseline. You're obviously an abusive demon from hell, and she's an angel victim. The courts will see to it that "justice" is served. Awe, that's cute, you told her about the accident and let her access your phone out of the kindness of your heart. I wonder how that will all play out in court. (Not well, in case you didn't know) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 07:24 AM |
| 10 | 2nd wife?”If you have a 2nd wife you might as well buckle up for your 4th wife and also your 4th divorce. Clearly you didn't get the message the first time and never will | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 05:46 AM |
| 1 | UK: Dire warning issued following the release of Netflix's Adolescence over 'tsunami' of boys turning to misogyny - as experts say the show is 'not fiction, it's reality' OP: More male hate.Their ceaseless attacks on him do nothing but give him credibility. I always took him for a clown and lowlife, but recently decided to listen to what he has to say specifically because of all the hate. He had a reading list which includes "The manipulated man", "The predatory female", and "the 48 laws of power" at the top. I read all those books (there are audio versions on yt as well) and suffice to say my life is irreversibly changed. I listened to some videos of Tate preaching and it all make… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 03:22 AM |
| 15 | Why do so many men get in relationships and suddenly disappear?"What's so special about her?". That's the exact question they fear most of all, and they know if a man spends time with his true friends and family, it will come up right away. That's the last question these predators want their men asking themselves, and the main reason they isolate them. Meanwhile, it's not uncommon for them to be in constant communication with their friends talking smack behind your back and breaking down their own men and relationships | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 02:43 AM |
| 7 | STBX was just arrested for DVThe cops offered to arrest her after she punched me once. I asked them not too and let her off the hook. She repaid my favor by calling the cops repeatedly during verbal arguments and lying to them until she managed to get me arrested. The police report from the initial report, or police reports where she called for no reason didn't matter or exonerate me at all. Don't repeat my mistake of showing mercy, she'll think you're weak and bring you down later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Best way to break the news to keep things amicable?There's nothing amicable about how women divorce their husbands. There's nothing amicable about how she treated you that led you here. Why do you care? Women treat divorce like total war; why do men always worry about making it agreeable and fair. I don't think you should wine and dine her and walk around a lake either. The smart thing is to do what your lawyer says to prepare and let him do all the talking to explain it to her. If you think you can get an easy, simple, non destructive divorce, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 07:06 AM |
| 6 | The Bullet wasn’t SilverI have had exactly similar experiences. Do you really think lawyers advise that SB behavior? That would explain where all of that came from, which I've always wondered. I'm still going though it; plus my divorce lawyer is a doofus and sometimes I am too. We've hardly won every hearing, but the criminal stuff is beat and I got my kids back much of the time. Also, she put me through a bs CPS case investigation which I closed and managed to get a TRO because the most feminist judge presided over th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 02:41 AM |
| 15 | Why don’t you hear it from them?It's called being discarded by a narcissist. You know how these women all go around calling their exes "narcissists"? That's because psychological projection is one of the main signs of narcissism; therefore labeling others narcissists a blatant indicator that someone is actually a narcissistic person themselves. Modern women are the most narcissistic, entitled, selfish, downright evil people to ever live. All the signs are there; discarding good men, inflated sense of self worth, vindictiveness… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/25 02:29 AM |
| 39 | The phrase small dick energy is genuinely disgustingYeah, women who use that phrase give off loose pussy energy | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 12:38 AM |
| 46 | UK: Girls will no longer be sent to youth prisons - vulnerable boys stay in youth prisons.They're not about equality at all. You'll never hear them clamoring about how there aren't any women garbage collectors or women oil workers. If they really were about equality that would come up, but it doesnt. That just proves they're full of lies, and their whole ideology is all about dominating and punishing men for imagined victimhood | /r/MensRights | 22/03/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Group of Labour MPs seeking to steer young men away from ‘toxic influencers’Listen to what Andrew Tate talks about. He says our world is designed to exploit you, keep you trapped at the same level from where you can't escape, and turn you into a slave for the system. He says everyone is asleep to these facts, and also exposes different ways in which they're true. He talks about how you can fight it There's a lot of things to dislike about Andrew Tate, but they hardly hate him for grifting or his past pimping. They hate him for that message, which isn't even a grift, it'… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/25 09:48 AM |
| 4 | False rape accusationAct calm and unbothered in the face of false accusations. Rage and confusion are understandable feelings, but acting on them will only make you look crazier to outsiders and provide credibility to her negative characterization of you. Acting in anger will weaken your power. Consult a lawyer, do whatever they say, and rid yourself of this person from your life as swiftly and decisively as possible. Do not ruminate about the experience any more than if you killed a venomous snake in your garden | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 02:34 AM |
| 10 | Should I marry her again?Why on earth would you remarry her? That's a terrible idea in my personal opinion. How would not marrying her cause you to lose her as your best friend...Do we have to marry our best friends or lose them now? I just don't understand a single reason you have for making that decision. Sex isn't going to get any better with marriage; obviously you weren't fulfilled before, and you won't be again. Also, I'm concerned that you feel so friendly and connected with this woman in a nonsexual way, you rea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Is this normal???I can only speak from personal experience, but I am not fond of the female gender or want anything to do with them after divorce court. Why would I trade peace and quiet to willingly be a victim of a snake. If society was fair it would be a different story, but I don't even want to be alone with a woman, I'm not trying to get metoo'd | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 10:35 PM |
| 14 | What are the ‘alternative’ tactics that are available for men (like the Silver Bullet for women)?One thing that never ceases to amaze me is how she can just get on the witness stand, more well dressed and composed than ive ever seen her, and blatantly lie for an hour without any consequences whatsoever. Easily disproven lies. It usually benefits her too. Nobody cares. I agree the system is rigged. My stbxw even gets a free lawyer and money from the govt, while I'm supposed to hire my own lawyer and pay her out the ass If you really want varying degrees of toxic tactics, they're this: just l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Consultation questionsI would be perfectly honest. You need to be careful when consulting attorneys. Some of them are fantastic and you will know right away. Some of them might as well be representing your wife on the opposing council. You should tell them about your affair, it's a good litmus test. If they say a single negative thing about it or try to make you feel bad, then why should you pay them $1000s. Fuck them, expect them to screw you over and bleed you dry financially because they've shown what they think. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 09:07 PM |
| 5 | It's not getting betterAt least she can't deny you access to your kids, since they're grown. That's the most painful potential part of divorce. Doesn't sound like she got you in legal trouble either. Money comes and goes, and at the end of the day is nothing more than little scraps of paper. You'll be alright, bud. The best thing you can do is try to be a guy who you enjoy being around, seeking out supportive male friends, and doing things you enjoy. Aside from kids, I don't even know what women are good for anyways. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Struggling with My Ex-Wife Enjoying Time I Used to Share with My Daughter - How Do You Handle These Emotional Setbacks?The things I would have to say regarding your post are socially unacceptable. You have been violated. Society is rigged against you; folks won't understand or care. They will blame you, even though you're the victim. Women are often terrible immoral people, and society despises men. Disregard all of that, think for yourself, in ways that might be socially unacceptable, and fight for yourself because the one thing you can be sure of is that no one else will | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Using AI to analyze texts for manipulationI am certain that ai is extremely powerful at detecting forgeries or altered documents, and will only get better. My question is, what do you hope to gain by proving that? Nobody cares, dude. The whole thing is rigged. I'm sure your lawyer will take your money to send some emails and make a filing. In the end, will it change anything? You going through all the trouble to prove it's fake will just look crazier to them (not to me though) than her actually faking texts. And she'll have gotten what … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 03:17 PM |
| 52 | Exotic dancer admitted that she lied about the Duke Lacrosse players raping her nearly 20 years ago. The three players lost everything, including their jobs and scholarships, and had their lives ruined-all so she could gain attentionThere are currently 0 consequences to making false accusations and only benefits to be taken by violating someone else by lying to authorities and committing perjury. If you're a woman, you'll automatically be believed by everyone and if you're a man you'll literally never have a chance to say a single word in your defense during the whole process | /r/MensRights | 15/03/25 03:06 PM |
| 13 | Say goodbye 👋 cheating wifeConsider yourself extremely blessed that she signed the papers quickly. I'm sure there's at least one or two guys on this subreddit who envy you for that. Congratulations | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 02:27 PM |
| 7 | My soon to be ex keeps calling the PoliceOnce she starts calling the cops, she's not going to stop. And if she manages to get you arrested by lying to them, that will only make her call them twice as much. She may have a lawyer or friend encouraging this behavior. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating IS polygamyI have noticed that India has it's head seriously in the guillotine of feminism; you might be the only folks worse off in that regard than the West | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Psychological IssuesI honestly think therapy could only make things worse. Much worse. I don't think it is capable of solving the problems you described; only her personally wanting to change can do that. I hope she snaps out of it for your family | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Thinking of an out of state moveDo you have kids? I moved out of state and took my kid with me, to where my sisters live, and it was one of the best times of my life. Eventually the courts dragged my ass back and it sucks. Go for it dude, having family around and a change of scenery is just fantastic | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Disobeying the court orderI'm in America. My lawyer says the cops will not enforce our order on either of us. Either of us keeping the kids on a day that isn't ours would reflect very poorly and piss off the judge. Not paying child support also reflects poorly, but not as much. Not sure how much that helps, but I imagine it's similar in Canada. I'd document violations of the order and leave it up to your lawyer to grill her about it later. It's frustrating she won't let you watch the kids when your free, I know that bull… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 06:11 PM |
| 24 | 2-year-old daughter abducted 25 years ago found, reunited with fatherWe need to have no mercy on these women. Equal rights, equal fights. Do they even think twice about alienating men from their kids, or fighting dirty using every weapon at their disposal. NOT AT ALL. Therefore, we should: 1) Abandon them as single moms 2) refuse to pay child support 3) take custody of our kids by any means possible and father them properly 4) never marry them It's as simple as that. This woman suffered 0 consequences. She got to enjoy her daughter's entire life and she remains f… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Need advice - wife wants divorceDon't be too hard on yourself, pal. You don't seem like such a bad guy to me. You're gonna have to fight your way out of this situation, and you should fight. It sounds like that is your house, so you should try to keep it. Your kid will need you too, and it's not your responsibility to solve someone else's problems, especially not someone who threatens to drag you through courts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Anyone walk away from the dogs in a divorce?Yeah, man. I hold my ex responsible for killing my dog. She had him due to her bs restraining order, and treated him like shit and hated him. Eventually, she kicked him out of the house too and finally have him back to me, and he died shortly thereafter, stressed out and sick. If your ex actually cares about your dog and will take care of them, just let it go, it's no big deal. If she's using them as a pawn to hurt you, what a lowlife, but it's not unheard of. And it's like, I knew my dog years … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?Yes, there are great women. I've personally met some. Unfortunately, most of them are from the preceding generations. Modern women are totally messed up; the idea of being normal, motherly, and reproducing to pass their genes along and perpetuate the species in a healthy way doesn't even seem to cross their mind. Good women do exist though, all you can do is try to be a good man | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/25 03:48 AM |
| 5 | It’s the little joys of being divorcedThe allegations are concerning. Seems more serious than the usual plastics/seed oil/food dye/ect. I just split a box of tagalongs with my kid the other day too. No disrespect to op, but he might want to switch to a different cookie for the time being | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to a high-conflict stbxwShe sounds like a psycho and a nightmare. However, you said "She demanded 50/50 custody, that I sign paperwork for her car registration, that I renew her military id, and that I give her all of spring break. She was unwilling to offer or negotiate anything. I ended up giving her half of spring break in a sign of good faith." That sounds perfectly reasonable to me. What exactly is your objection to that stuff. 50/50 is fair, resolving vehicle paperwork / IDs is an urgent issue, and who cares abou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Don't forget... Men!While I agree in general, the temptation for men to cheat seriously arises when your wife and the mother of your kids suddenly decides to become sexually unavailable. Where does that leave a guy? The right thing to do is probably just divorce in that scenario, but it's like, if a man isn't getting sex from his woman he's gonna %100 get it from somewhere and that's just a simple fact | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | The Accusations are hard to understandWe don't need to make up excuses for her. She's a grown woman, I'm sure she can make up 100 excuses for herself | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/25 10:04 PM |
| 3 | On verge of divorce .. What do you say to your wife who says “why aren’t you trying everything”.Alleged cases of abuse cannot be taken seriously in this day and age. Telling your woman "no" is abuse in their mind. They love to assume the role of victim. Who chose to partner up with an abuser. Why was their alleged abuser upset enough to allegedly act abusively. It takes two to tango, hasn't the deluth model done enough damage to families and children already. How about we stop portraying men as abusers when 99% of men in relationships are perfectly reasonable and caring | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/25 03:36 AM |
| 3 | When did you know it was over?I knew it was over when she showed up to court, better dressed and more collected that I've ever seen her in our entire relationship, even better that our wedding day, entered the witness stand, and committed perjury in broad daylight by testifying to the judge she was afraid for her safety, that I abused our newborn kids, and that she would like the restraining order that separated me from them for several months renewed. And all her evidence and allegations were bullshit. I've never treated an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Custody hearing - Kids testify adviceI'm sure regardless of whatever the kids say, it will be spun against you by your ex and her lawyer. It's surprising they're even letting the dad or kids have a word at all. You really should be asking your lawyer this question, but from what I've seen so far of family court, none of this matters, it's a feminist lawyer clown show | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What are some arguments AGAINST misandry?Uh, men built and take care of everything that exists in our society for one. Men built your car in a factory. Men work in some shitty oil field to extract the gas that propels your car. Men built the walls and roof of the room youre in. Men installed the plumbing you shit in, water lines you drink from, and electrical circuits you use. Men installed your air conditioning. Men built your computer, cell phone, and the internet. Men paved the road outside your house and your driveway. Men came by … | /r/MensRights | 16/02/25 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Flip Flopping or...?She's breadcrumbing you. This is abuse, plain and simple. Ditch that dead weight in the past. Go into the lonely cold uncertain darkness with nothing but your guts. Stay there until you love it and call that your true home. Stay there until you love yourself and call yourself your own best company. Only then will you be able to handle these situations with ease and not allow people to manipulate you in such a way | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 04:33 AM |
| 11 | Why did she become so EVIL?It's just how they are; youre going to have to accept that she is your enemy now, she's not a good or reasonable person, and you have to forge your own life while greyrocking her and not reacting to any provocation she attempts | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 03:30 AM |
| 16 | Do you ever think of the double standard when a guy and girl competitively fight and the way some girls go about posting it?It's enough to make you want to play mind games, lie, and slander just to defeat them at their own fighting competition, then gloat about it. Unfortunately, honor is not that easily forsaken for us | /r/MensRights | 15/02/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Just found out that the alimony/child support I've been paying to my ex might not "count"I was just thinking about your situation; my best advice would be to communicate with your dissatisfied contact in the govt if you have one, apologize for not following the proper channels, and work out a deal where you pay them their missed cut but you dont repay alimony. All they really want is their share of the money, they would probably be receptive to it. Dont you have some useless lawyer who should be handling this stuff and explaining it to you in advance. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/24 08:40 AM |
| 6 | Just found out that the alimony/child support I've been paying to my ex might not "count"Do you still not realize that the only reason govt does anything is to plunder the citizenry of money? Every last thing they do. Every govt function... from the police, to family court, to prisons, the dmv, politicians, military. They just want your money and will take it by any means possible. Do you think they sentenced you to pay alimony and child support because they care about your ex and kids?? Haha laughable. They did it for the sole reason of getting their tiny cut. They have no qualms a… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIs there a women's plumbers, garbagemen, and janitors week too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Males who are frequently the dumpers usually have standards and a high self-esteem.No man should tolerate the intolerable or accept disrespect. No man should let someone treat them bad. NO ONE. EVER. If you want to know if someone is treating you bad, you only need to ask yourself if you would treat someone else similarly and if not you know they are acting inappropriately towards you; or even more easily then that consult your gut feeling. Those are words to live and die by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 03:56 AM |
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