Your family and friends and children need you. Your ex hopes you self delete. Guess what? She'll play the victim then too.

 

Just want to encourage you that as a good friend said "every day above ground is a good day"

I've been where you are..........it's not worth it. Your job is to learn and grow.

 

It took me a long process to get where I am today. Wife of 15 years cheated and divorced me. All the while playing the victim to everyone "I never felt loved".

It gets dark sometimes...........really dark. I'm just telling you I know how you feel and where you are.

You are not alone. You aren't the only one that has gone thru this.

Women are seeking security....not loyalty. They will ditch you in a heartbeat. Why? Because their brain is geared to survival not loyalty. It's not personal to you. They have in their brain to monkey branch because "muh victim".

 

Hang in there fellas. Work on you. Really get to know yourself. All of you.

Set goals. Work towards them and watch them come to pass. Then set new goals.

If you self delete they fucking win. THEY ARE NOT WINNING! You are.

All the best. The journey is hard but so worth it. I promise you it's so worth it to invest in yourself!