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Or just take your time!!! Slow down… let her get her job and earn more money. Meanwhile you continue to develop your plan and feel more confident about your decision to divorce and how and when. Take your time. Work on yourself meantime as well and the marriage is just a dead thing that will eventually end once you are ready. And yes, hide all of this from her as you plan things so as much of it works in your favor.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 04:17 PM
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Ugh they sound like nasty vultures
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 08:05 PM
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Now is a great “season” to get to know yourself and heal. Reflect, how did you find yourself with someone who was incompatible? Be really honest with yourself. Do not gaslight yourself. Examine other aspects of your life and really come to understand yourself and what really really really drives you. Then overtime you will regain trust in yourself and decision making. Read a variety of books.. not listen .. but read and engage with the books you read by writing in them, journal your reactions to…
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 03:36 AM
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Go for the jugular.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/25 11:42 PM
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Karma is a bitch and those same parents will eventually get to know her and talk crap about her. Weird you live with her .. what would stop her from accusing you of raping or hitting her? She is showing you how low she will go.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 05:34 PM
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Huge train wreck waiting to happen. Not good at all. Wasted time.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 05:07 PM
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Do not rush things. If you are still wounded or hesitant, then pump the brakes. Get a counselor to process everything. Compatibility is everything and give yourself time to confirm there is actual compatibility. She will always be there if she truly loves you. But never ever look to another person to heal or to feel loved. Wishing you the best!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 04:05 AM
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Protect your assets. She will slaughter you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:32 AM
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Time for your freedom and your joy. Guilt trips are manipulative 🤮
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:21 AM
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This needs to be a nation wide meet up group. Meet up with code word Melodican. Happy for you!!! Woot woot!!
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 02:07 AM
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And this is why women are rushing men to the chapel 💒…. Wishing you grand success despite this set back
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 12:11 AM
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Wow 🤯
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 12:03 AM
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How the hell does she get a house that you have to pay off? Seriously
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 11:51 PM
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Wow get std test too. So sorry you are going through this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 11:13 PM
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I concur!!!👍 Your best revenge is living your best life, so go get it! Get a counselor to process everything because you are human and what you are going through is traumatic. Really get to know yourself and respect yourself. Set healthy boundaries. Maybe get into karate or those kinds of classes because you’re defending yourself physically in those kinds of sports and right now you are also defending yourself internally so the two compliment one another. And you are FREE! There are so many men …
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 12:21 AM
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This ☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️and get a camera system at your home so it protects you of any possible false allegations. She is your adversary as it was stated above so be diplomatic with your words, don’t get baited into any arguments, if you get triggered, acknowledge it within and step away. You’re not a loser… marriages takes 2 to make it work. It’s not your responsibility to make another person happy. Consider getting counseling to process everything. You are human, this is traumatic and you want to dev…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/25 02:08 AM
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He chose to stay on the plantation of hell
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/25 12:06 AM
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How did she originally entrap you?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 09:02 PM
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Are the judges in family law voted in?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 02:11 AM
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You tried. Move on. No one deserves that. 10 minutes into, you should have walked away. If the person is throwing shade, and accepting zero responsibility… run 🏃 do not internalize their words. Get a counselor to process and go start living your best life!!
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 06:49 PM
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This ☝️
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 06:46 PM
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Not even about the kids, at all. It’s just believe the women… no evidence of her statements. The courts are paternalistic, not patriarchal at all. There is no favor to the men.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 06:26 PM
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Daily do at least one thing that will benefit you, strengthen you. And Keep posting.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/25 01:17 AM
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The existence described here sounds horrible. Oh you are not fighting, uhhh, yeah get a hobby… 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 11:53 PM
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She is showing you who she really is. Now is your time to plan quietly your divorce to ensure you get everything!!! EVERYTHING!!!!!! Talk to a lawyer to know what you need to do so you are empowered with all the receipts you need to get everything. Give yourself time to heal and see a counselor so you are not used, abused and gaslit by her. Keep being you …just don’t be affection with her. What with STDs and all. I don’t think you want more problems. Don’t engage in fights. Women use that to tra…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 06:11 AM
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Would it help to eventually get her to work.. at least part time? Just stay in the dead marriage until you get her working fulltime thus able to show can earn her own income? If she goes out or does whatever with people like partying … who cares. Just keep proof of it. Talk to a lawyer, what do you need to do to secure yourself and get your daughter fulltime? It won’t be easy. If you have emotionally pulled out it will be much easier to plot and execute
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 08:20 PM
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This
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 04:05 PM
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You don’t know how she might respond and no good deed goes unpunished … buy yourself flowers 🌹 for being a great dad. Get your kids something special that they will remember. She’s a ship that has passed.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 04:04 AM
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Just out of curiosity, seeing what you see now, did you see any of this behavior early on? Some have posted different kinds of mental illness here. Like I saw 👀 certain things and I just said to myself … oh that’s nothing, that can be corrected. So now I’m diving deep to try to understand why I lied to myself. Cheers!
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 04:53 AM
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Im sorry you went through that!! Is it time for all people to express their needs and wants? Not just go with the old boomer notion of men need to man up? That was a very toxic generation. We are advancing, so with the help of a therapist, find the words to use to express the need for support. And getting comfortable with those words and using them. It’s time. It allows you to protect yourself and your mental health matters! Men are not meant to be saviors. Everyone has to grow up, glow up… no j…
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 03:52 PM
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Wow you men are amazing! What amazing fathers! Keep at it!! Cheers!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 04:07 AM
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Talk to lawyer and plan.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 05:05 AM
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I wonder if the nonprofit called the father’s rights movement would know that number? Www.Tfrm.org
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 05:41 PM
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You are not a fool. You were scammed and she knows how to manipulate you. You’re a great guy so now you need to trust your intuition moving forward and hold your boundaries firmly. You are the prize and be selective about who gets to come into your space. Thank you for warning folks!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 06:40 AM
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There’s the nonprofit called the Fathers Rights movement. www.tfrm.org. They talk about family law and trying to raise awareness of their nonprofit to help fathers. If you are a Type A person with a great job title and make good money, maybe see if you can serve on the board of directors. It’s the board that actually helps the nonprofit grow leaps and bounds. They apply their savvy business skills to advance a righteous cause. Cheers!
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 05:03 AM
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It’s interesting because I am finding that to be a common phenomenon. Whether you are perceived as successful or not, many people in general seem to have that same sense of unworthiness. It’s from childhood, but why is it so common? And once you establish boundaries, those who have not identified their own internal problems Muchless healed, seem eager to want to put you back in an unworthiness place. Anyway, congratulations!! 🎉 Keep at it!! Wishing you the absolute best!! I love my counseling-aw…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 07:13 PM
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Due to this economy, and if you are weak, vulnerable, in a needy state, you will attract a predator. Many women are like sharks, they smell the blood in the water and select their prey carefully yet act like you selected. She will read you and go in for the kill to benefit $$$$$$. Nothing in humanity has changed. Human nature is human nature. So heed the advice given here in your post. Lots of excellent advice! Counseling is an awesome investment!! Wishing you the best!
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 07:43 AM
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The woman you marry is not the woman you divorce. This is why people are highly recommending you not get remarried. Prior to getting married women are already informing themselves on how to navigate a divorce… just in case. That’s the new norm. Old school thinking will just get you in trouble and possibly bring you to your own extinction. These are very different times. Marriage is a business contract and money does weird things to people. It human nature. That will never change. Wishing you the…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 07:09 AM
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Yikes, 😳… so why are men still getting married?? The person they marry will never be the person they divorce. The amount of danger men open themselves up to … is insane. The gays wanted marriage, not for validation, but for the money honey. The benefits of a death on a life insurance policy and/or divorce. Men, I think you really need to encourage the younger generation of men not to get married. Because what a witch hunt the system is! God damn!
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 11:44 PM
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If the women are calling DCFS with false allegations, and tax payer money is used to investigate… shouldn’t the women be asked to pay back the tax payers ?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 11:21 PM
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