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Same thing here, down to the cheating. You need to separate yourself as far as possible from this woman and have all future contact in recording. Do not be alone with her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 10:02 AM
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Stellar ass response and I appreciate you big time. I’ve lost a lot of muscle in the last few months with all this, it’s time to get it back. Where are you going to pick up women? Especially being in your 40s/50s I assume? Can’t agree more with becoming the best dad I can be. The one good thing about this separation is I am already kicking ass at becoming a better father.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 06:44 PM
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Gonna have to get some hobbies going again, thank you
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 06:38 PM
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I honestly don’t know how you guys go on. Stupid to say since I know there’s no other choice. But fuck man if I got hit with that, I think I’d simply give up.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 02:43 AM
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Right here. Respect yourself OP
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 02:38 AM
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I found out the reason buddy, the true reason. She went back to one of her fuck buddies from almost 10 years ago. Just mind blowing to me since we have a kid man. I’m surprisingly doing okay. When I found out earlier this week, it was some of the worst pain I ever felt. But as the days have been going by, I realized a true best friend and life partner wouldn’t do this. I deserve much better than her. Of course I have a lot to work out but I also don’t want a person like that in my life
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/25 08:21 PM
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She was. I figured it out today bud. Went on her watch after reading these messages. The way she gaslit me and made me feel so low is sickening. I hated myself. The truth finally came out
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 12:04 AM
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Brother. The truth came out today. I went on her watch after reading these messages, she was cheating. I am devastated.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 12:02 AM
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I have my suspicions, she’s never been a liar (that I know of) but I’ve already caught her in a lies. She even told me she fucked someone and then took it back, saying she said it to hurt me so I would stop caring. Pretty evil and here I am still hurting like a pussy. I’ve stopped the money and will continue remove her from my life
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 12:33 PM
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I have my first therapy appointment today. I am doing my best to remind myself that my son is the number one priority. Contemplated trying to just go have sex with anyone but I’d probably… cry… I’m being serious too lol. I’m happy you found your vice. Appreciate your helpful encouragement
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:51 AM
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I’m so sorry you had to, and still are, dealing with such awful pain. Your advice and straight up bro love means the world man. It’s hard for me to reach out and this is the lowest I’ve ever been in life. To have individuals like you helping means the world man, please understand that. Let me know if there’s anything I can do for you, or anybody else reading this. Even just checking in with each other
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:43 AM
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I feel like it’s trauma but didn’t want to actually put that in there. I appreciate the validation of how awful this is to do to anyone. It is a fake life and for some reason, that thought didn’t cross my mind. And it hurts man. I absolutely agree with her friends hearing her side only and how awful of a man I am. I am screenshotting this and will read this when I’m feeling low. Thank you so much buddy
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:39 AM
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Seems impossible in this current state but what is the alternative. Would give anything to simply feel neutral again
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:37 AM
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So much love man, thank you. I’m a fucking mess and am scattered often. I will remember this though, like you said
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 11:36 AM
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I’m sorry brother, it is truly hell living like this and there seems to be no escape
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/25 08:44 AM
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