I (39m) filed papers on my wife (41f) of 15 years three weeks ago. Since then she's been open with me about being on dating apps and going out on dates. We've been emotionally separated, but tonight she admitted to me that she's found a 'soulmate' and two nights ago she had unprotected sex with him. She said it was great and for the first time she feels loved by someone.

I got the whole confession on video and informed my lawyer. I am not really that hurt by this because I saw it coming a long time ago. Part of me is even happy for her because eventually I know I'm going to do the same thing. I obviously am kind of dumb struck, I stopped sexually pursuing her after I had my initial suspicions.

This is just another confirmation that I need to keep forging ahead and to not look back.

Fellas, if your wife is letting another man be intimate with her, don't think for a minute she'll change. I see a lot of posts on here about you guys forgiving that shit and making things work out. That's not going to happen.

Here's my advice, once you 'know' she's cheating, tread lightly. But once you 'know know' there's nothing else you can do but set her free.

Hopefully this information helps me in some way but in a no fault state I'm not sure.

Good luck guys