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| 2 | Do you ever feel like they don't want you to be happy?Well I hate to burst your bubble but hope you don't end up paying some of her debt if he hasn't filed . Have you even got a legal separation yet because if not you will be paying half the deft she is spending right now .you do know that right where I live you have to be in a legal separation for 6 months before they will let you file and they keep track of the time that you separate . After that shes has to pay all her debt then . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | How much was too much?I don't now enough of your story was you cheating ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 02:33 AM |
| 3 | how to be friends again?Why stay till she wants it it's going to happen if it was me I would file right now and make her life miserable . Why should you be the one that sits by while she is doing what ever then she will drop you like a sack of crap your crazy I would pack my stuff up and leave yesterday see how easy it is for her to finish with what ever she is doing she probably is seeing another guy anyway let him babysit for her | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Are there any men here who were skeptical towards mens rights until they were abused or physically assaulted by a woman?Me to was dating a woman for awhile then we had the talk and I moved into her condo it was great for quite awhile then on Thursday I came home from work dead tired she wanted to party I said I can't I have to be up at 5 am to drive 60 miles in the morning as soon as I woke up she stabbed me in the back with a dinner fork well wouldn't you know it I couldn't reach it . So at 5 am I'm packing All it stuff out of the house into my car well it was my buddies week to drive still had something's I cou… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | why don't women gift men stuff on valentines dayHaha that's funny valentine's day I don't get anything at all for my birthday or Christmas but my woman's birthday is in December so I was told which diamonds ear rings she wanted and then for Christmas it was a new diamond ring but I didn't get a fk in card even this sucks so next year I think I'm going with nothing for her | /r/MensRights | 12/02/24 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Incredulous AFWant to piss her off go find a woman and just start taking her here and there you don't need to be close or start something the minute your wife's finds out she will be calling every day wanting you to take her | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Can she come back for alimony at a later date?She can not ever come after you for alimony but they will adjust any child support if you change jibs for a higher paying job which it would have to be substantial for them to make a change that would be more than $10 or so . Haha that's to funny because I love in a state you can sue the AP also which like you said it's extremely hard to prove he was out to destroy your marriage but I used it also as a way to make her think I was going after him if she tried to take any part of my business which… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Why so fast?She is trying to hide shit assets or something and wants you to just look over it if she owns a business you are untitled to part of her business don't sing anything until your lawyer looks it over and makes sure she not trying to screw you over . | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Why are y’all so obsessed with gray rock 🪨?Because it works just like it should if done correct and you don't break it | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I suspect I have been drugged by my friend's sisters and his mother while in sleep and they took my pictures.This is fake it has to be you sound like your 10 yrs old | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Todays been a bad dayOh ok that's sucks I guess I feel for ya | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Todays been a bad dayWhy is she kicking you out of the home you know you don't have to leave it's your residence also she can't change the locks she can't kick you out she can't maybe call the cops but when they get there they will rel he straight up she can't kick you out my ex tried that changed the locks well when I tried to get in started pounding on the door .she called the cops they showed up and asked whet I was doing they asked if I lived there hell yes I do well by you proving you live there you can do what… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/02/24 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Cheating ex-wife moved out on teen daughters and meHave you filed yet ?/ People do some crazy things my little brother .lost his kids well him and their mother .my wife and I had to take them in our home 20 and 1/2 yrs ago twin boys now they are 22 yrs old their parents have seen them a total of a dozen times in 20 + yrs . I adopted them 15 yrs ago the last time my brother seen his kids try told him to go to hell . They were 18 so I let them .but like I said people do strange things .for a mother to just leave her children something is broken in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/24 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Layoffs are coming for a lot of womenYeah I was reading a article by a guy. He was saying that companies usually hire through them that a lot of them contacted them in Dec saying they won't be hiring any anyone for some time that they would be doing layoffs . It has been a long time coming this is why I love my business there will be a person doing it for a long time . I have a home and building maintenance company but we also do small construction jobs . | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Contempt hearing next weekShe needs to be careful it's not your problem I've been through the court system for kids more times than 100 families because my younger brother and his gf were arrested for dope and both went to prison well they. Had 2 boys twins that were 18 months old I ended up with them eventually ended up adopting them when they were 5 yrs old now they are 22 and in college which would have never happened with their parents anyway I sent a woman that did the same by the time she left the court her ex husb… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What should I do?It all has to be just for that reason any pentuions or 401 k will get slit up also it goes off of how long you are married I think it 7 years married then things start to get split | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Why do women like to see us suffer even when they are the ones that chose to leave ?Best thing to do is just ignore them my ex would bet a dressed up and looking good when I had to pick my daughter up .she would come down and say "how does my ass look in these jeans " knowing full well she was going over to her APs house for the weekend .at first it would piss me off disrespectful. After a couple times I wouldn't say a word and just leave , then she starts asking me if I still loved her , I wouldn't even answer that and walk out . Before you knew it she was bringing me lunch to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/24 08:36 AM |
| 4 | False accusation and AIThe creators need to imbed some kind of marker In the video or audio that can be found if you search for it kind of like they do with explosives if some one makes one the can take samples and see the markers which tells them where it's made and the lot number for tracing back to where its from and sold . It actually wouldn't be hard to do at all but then hackers could probably. Change it but if it's im did into a video how easy it would be to alter | /r/MensRights | 29/01/24 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Asking for a list of expectations to repair?Stop doing the pick me dance with her don't talk to her at all it sucks I know but it works if you do it right she will start to contact you and will eventually want to come back my ex wife pulled this on me I would go to pick up my child and she would be getting ready to go out on a date at first I would get mad so I figured out she would come down and ask how her ass looked I would just shrug it off like I don't care I kept doing it just ignoring her after a while she started crying asking if … | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Rental addressYes you do call your lawyer tell him he will make a motion with the courts she will have to answer why she did this alot of women think just because a guy doesn't pay his cs she can keep his kids from them this is not true unless the courts say she can | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 12:02 AM |
| 2 | "If Women Ran The World There Would Be No War"Yeah right what have you been smoking ? | /r/MensRights | 20/01/24 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What ifMan you can't live life like that . " what if " . Na its " what im gonna do ". And " how long will it take me to do it " . Just think what if I go and kick some ass I can do this the sane day | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 04:11 AM |
| 5 | The sad reality I’ve faced: there is zero justice in all of this.Let him have her your better than both of them, and I don't even know you they are perfect for each other really there is only a 5 to 7% chance they will make it past 6 months she will be regretting what she has dome and will probably come crawling back to your doorstep begging for you to take her back she will be saying that she made the worst mistake asking if you can forgive her . and shit but don't ever take her back just slam the door in her face find yourself a real woman you deserve that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/24 06:07 AM |
| 5 | More women convicted of battering men, as domestic violence soars in last five yearsGood I was hit by a truck in the spring of 2012. I had to go to my lawyers office , well my then gf started a fight with me and left the house, I walked out and some guy seen me yelling at her to come back well he called the cops I was charged with DV . Well the day before I had to go to court she started in on me at 5 am I was walking out she walked up and bit me on my cheek, I had blood rolling down my face bad it was like a zombie apocalypse.i swear I was getting dressed sitting on the curb s… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Our houseAnd part of her pension or 401 k but you will get50% of the equity yes and spousal support | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/24 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Grey rock feelings.If you do it right it works you have to stay at it . | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/24 01:09 AM |
| 2 | As soon as the ring came off….Yeah as soon as you stbx finds out she will want to get back together this is exactly what happened to me | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Wife wants me to move out for the month of January, anything I should be concerned about from a legal perspective?Don't ever leave your home ever you will never go back she will get a abandonment on you | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 12:42 AM |
| 19 | The reason why we fail so hard.I agree the best time of my life is when I finally told myself it was time to quit trying with my cheating ex wife and move on . The ironic part of it was I spent almost 2 years trying to fix something that I couldn't but as soon as I moved forward she wanted me back which was obviously to late I was done . And since that time I started my business that I always wanted to even while married and it's even better than I Imagined, Not only that I gave me time to focus on being the dad I never had s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Party Invitations…Ex-wife on E-mail ListWell the thing is your hiding in the corner this is a great opportunity to make yourself shine brighter than her you get cleaned up looking all god smelling good and you fo to the party if she sees you just nod you don't need to talk to her the best thing you can do is go and have a great time the reason is it will probably make her jealous bc she will see. You don't need to be with her to move on and enjoy life man take it from a guy first wife if 12 years cheated married again less than 5 year… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Sad Post. No need to respond. I'm just venting.Man your only 53 your still got a lot in this race I'm almost 55 and I am in better shape now than I was iny 30s . | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 09:47 AM |
| 7 | She just admitted itDivorcing your wife won't screw your daughter up what will screw. Her up is seeing you every day being unhappy . This will cause her more grief than anything I know I divorced my ex wife 27 years ago as long as you are a father to your daughter she will be fine . My daughter finished high school a year early and we.t to med school. She's now an Oncologist working at the cancer research center and I have 2 twin boys I adopted when they were only 18 months old they are now 22 both in college ones … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Something from a discussion forum that has been eye openingThis is why I usually go out for coffee just to see how things go but your right im 54 yrs old now and I get hit on all the time owning my own business in people's homes every day .it is something I don't go there it's a conflict of interest dating someone I do work for them I feel obligated or | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 03:28 PM |
| 14 | No explanationShe will never tell you let it go it's been 29 years since my ex wife cheated and I never even got an " im sorry " or anything . | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/23 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Is it OK to be sexually attracted to a female body?It's the way of life to continue I'm pretty sure I think I heard that in biology 101 just like every mammal on earth .but humans mate year round as other mammals have a season . | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Is it OK to be sexually attracted to a female body?My god see this is the problem in today's society.do you all think thee are far worse things in life to worry about . Asking for a friend .....of course it's ok who else would a guy be sexual attracted to .like 90% of all guys out there . | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Addressing the Truth Gently with my 14 years old sonWell the thing is you need to tell him just say you need to talk to your mother about why we are splitting up tell her she has to explain to your son if not he will eventually find out and be upset about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/23 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Passive aggressive stbxw (rant)I would stick to a routine with the kids every other weekend you have them next week she does and don't change and never agree to take them on your weekends off me I could care less let my kids stay with me they mean alot more to me than my ex ever did hell they can stay every weekend if the wanted to and they did . Do t ever put your kids in the middle of a divorce they will start thinking your divorcing because of something they did you kids should never even be In the middle of any dispute Ob… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/23 05:19 AM |
| 11 | My wife just told me she wants to separate... after these holidays. Don't know how to react.Don't leave your house she can't make you and I will tell you I red this same thing all the time has your bedroom died is she on her phone at night instead of spending time with the family ? I'm 99 % sure she wants to or already has been hooking up with a guy at work old bf or someone from a gym this is so common what will happen she will saying want to separate them let's say you leave them she will contact you after your out and say she wants s a divorce and she won't back down since your not … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/23 05:52 AM |
| 5 | So my wife wants to buy me outI'm sitting here right now with a realtor .she hasn't sold a house in a month the market is so bad right now it's crazy people are dropping there asking price by like $80k and still can't sell there homes so if she thinks she is going to sell it probably won't happen real fast and I live in one of the busiest markets there is in the country last year we had 57 ,000 new families move here and now no one is getting any offers | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/23 11:29 PM |
| 2 | God why did I get marriedCall a lawyer yesterday he can get those account frozen she won't get able to move any money she is trying to screw you it will come down she will have to pay for your lawyer you have to do it fast if she even calls them they won't represent you she can call every lawyers in town and your screwed | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Stay at Home Dad ProblemsOh she will have to give you half equity in the home part of her 401k social support for at least a year she won't be able to get out of it either .regardless dad paying part of the down anyway you will come out ok | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | My husband cheated on me and I want to sue him for the adulteryYou can't sue your husband you can file a alienation of affection on the AP but you have to prove she knew you were married and she did nothing to stop destroying the marriage more or less. You need to prove she intended to divorce it's pretty hard to do And with him on tinder he was doing it himself putting himself out there . So you can't sue him . | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/23 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Scheduling nightmare...Just tell her no it's that easy your letting her play games with you .if you don't want him days she doesn't and ask you all you have to do is look at her and say " I CANT SORRY BUT I HAVE PLANS" simple as that | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/23 10:30 AM |
| 5 | Fear of committing after seeing all the horror stories here. Young man need adviceJust agree that both of you sign a prenup if you get married that if one cheats or wants out that you leave with what you came into it with .that would mean you to though . | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/23 03:29 AM |
| 13 | I Feel RobbedI feel you on being robbed my ex wife pulled the same thing , But only together 12 years and a 5 yr old daughter just moved into a new house lived there less than 7 months I was starting a business that we both talked about and I felt like I wasn't quite ready to start yet since we just moved into a new home and all . She made great money being and electrical engineer. Made twice eget I was making which it didn't bother whit that I was still in school and she had finished got a great job right o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/23 02:45 AM |
| 8 | Tonight was tough for meYou sure she's not sleeping with the guy and she's feeling guilty as fuck ? Just a thought she can't blame you for all the problems that being selfish as fk . It takes 2 of you to fk up . She is not perfect she might think she is but she isn't not even close your job shouldn't make you cry no matter how bad it is and how could she say it's your fault she had a bad day when she was at work all day that doesn't make any sense at all . Just my observation is all I think there is more to this story … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | STBXW spending $20,000 on furniture for new place right before settlementIf your legally separated she will end up with the cost of the CC debt on that purchase anyway | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | To sleep with your eXYeah I did get with her a few times it was always to good to pass up and after a few months I felt like I was going to burst .but dam she blew it with one little sentence one night while we were right in the middle of sex if she would have kept her mouth shut and enjoyed the moment I wouldn't have went off the handle on her but she blew it told her to get the fk out | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 11:35 PM |
| 12 | Wife divorce (update)99.999% of the time a woman says she needs a break and is going on a trip with gf or by herself there always another guy she lied to you and you busted her good now she just may have screwed herself when I comes to you telling her to pack her shit and get out and you file for a divorce obviously she doesn't give 2 shits about you . | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Filed for divorce and joint checking accountShe can take half move it split it and give her half save you the haske of arguing about it | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Small BreakthroughFinally someone figures it out tis us ut my friend when I finally said I'm done ,I sold my house and got with a different woman it was tough to do after 12 yrs with someone . But the first thing I did was quit my. Job and found a new one better pay and not so stressful .and just went forward from there . That was 28 years ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | I’m pissed at my stbxIt will implode to | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 05:30 AM |
| 16 | Wives who had affairs, did their relationship last with their AP?Well there isa 5 to 7 % chance it would work out past a month or 2 if they both cheated obviously the chances are even smaller but my ex wife cheated on me and would give me a glass of fking water if I was on fire after I told her to get out and give me time to think about what I wanted to do . Well after so many months of her playing games I finally said fk it I'm moving on she was stills seeing him which was fine with me just leave me alone . Well after I sold the house and moved in with 2 fem… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 05:19 AM |
| 7 | the step-"dad" walking the daughter down the aisle along the bio father has to be a humiliation ritualOh I don't even want to go there my friend what my ex wife told our daughter why we split up and later divorced . She cheated on me well my daughter was 6 yrs old at the time and my ex wife hated the fact that our girl was. A daddy's girl we spent pretty much every evening to get her while my ex was at work . It took over a year for it to be all finalized .she told my daughter I cheated and had a child with some woman .. I can only imagine what else she told her and destroyed my relationship wit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 07:02 AM |
| 3 | My wife finally told me she doesn’t want to be married no longer.I agree every state is different but I imagine they are pretty much the same I would ask for some legal advice on that before you go and pay a couple 1000 on a divorce lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 06:53 PM |
| 19 | My wife finally told me she doesn’t want to be married no longer.6 months you can get an annulment | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/23 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Wife hit me, I called cops, now what…?You can't have the star drop charges she is screwed she will have to take a class and it's like $200 and then she will have a fine and that's probably going to be about $500 then she will have to go back to court and show them that she went to the class ( they give them a certificate ) she might even end up on unsupervised probation meaning she will be on a year if she has any other infraction she will go to jail and they will take her to jail . If she does any wrong oh it's a long freaking proc… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Thanksgiving trip while separatedGo man and be the better person it sucks but if you really want to piss her off this will do it I did t with my wife I really wanted to hate her guts but I went on a trip and was nice never said one thing bad even had a ok time but when we got home she started calling me every night then she wanted me back but I didn't want to o just wanted her to feel some pain of losing me and she did | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 03:24 AM |
| 7 | Cohabitating with my stbxw advice neededNone of her business really | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/23 07:56 PM |
| 9 | SenselessYeah if she left you for another guy even if he was single .he's still a cheating AH the chances of them staying together for more than 6 months is probably less than 10% . | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/23 07:48 AM |
| 8 | Met another womanWell that's because your ex wife knows how much easier it is to find a guy women post on dating apps half those guys are married and just want to hook up and then they dump them .it's probably 20 to 1 this is exactly what happened to m E my ex wife was seeing the guy she cheated on me with .and wouldn't even give me a glass of water if I was on fire . Until I said screw this I sold my house and moved in with 3 females oh hell not even 4 days she started calling every night after work wanting me … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Shopping spree?Hell yes buy a truck she had t filed a thing no legal separation so she will have to pay for half of it | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How screwed am I?Not only that you are untitled to part of any 401k or pension she has she probably won't like that much at all but the debt will be split between unless it's paid off with equity of the sale of the home . But I don't think your screwed at all | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 07:41 PM |
| 8 | Got an attorney now thisSee the thing is she wanted a separate bc she wanted to cheat but I bet my house on it that the guy backed out after he found out she would be single alot of these clowns tell the woman they want to be with them and say all the right things but when it comes down to it the don't . Now you wife is pissed because she sees you moving on and now doesn't know what to do she fked up .mins did the same thing she wouldn't give me a glass of water if I was on fire after 12 years but as soon as I said fk … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 3 | I just got an amicable divorce. What should I do now?Go to the library and meet a good woman that's smart and beautiful I would rather want to meet one there than at a dam club . I like to do alot of different things since I ended my first marriage I got into Rick climbing,mountain biking more than I was before, making all kinds of wooden furniture .was already a carpenter but I do the furniture at home . I got into fly fishing way to much I ended up quitting my job that I was at forever .and went flyfishing for 3 months ,plus I tracked around the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Update: I tried... to no availOh well take her to the cleaners she does realize theat your untitled to part of and retirement ,401k and half the equity of the homie hope if not let her get a divorce I would file first before she goes around town calling every divorce lawyer in town making it impossible for you to find one if she does they will say it's a conflict of interest | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 10:57 PM |
| 8 | Laws against menHell I'm a guy I got divorced in my late 20s .after awhile I started dating this woman she had 2 kids .a few months she asked if I wanted to live together so I did .well I would get up at 4:30 am for work she did too she was a nurse I don't know what I did to piss her off but I sat up getting out of bed she stabbed me in the back with a dinner fork .well I couldn't pull it out so I'm moving out of the condo at 5 am with a fork stuck in me | /r/MensRights | 29/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if I should divorce...but wife moved in her ps5 guy friendWtf man why are you letting this continue I would tell the unemployed bastard to get off my property yesterday if your wife is fucking she can go to this is bull shit you should have her your laptop air your phone and let her read all these comments sight to k twice about what she is doing I dought it though she is delusional if she thinks this is ok just because he is a family.h friend it's more than likely sh really don't know him especially with your children around he might be some kind of p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Please helpWell what do you think she can do legally she can't keep your kids from see and spending time with you she might think she can but that will come back and bite her .I've been through the family courts regarding children more than I want to admit but I have learned a lot . I adopted my twin nephews when they were 18 months old.reason for it because there parents both went to jail then prison . Trust me I've seen it all court date after court date I was in my late 30s then never been to jail for e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Why did you get married ? What’s the point?I'm not billionaire but if I ever think about getting married or In a long term relationship some body will be signing a prenup I'm not giving half my stuff and money that I work for to someone that can't keep her pants on when some guy out of nowhere says hi your beautiful. They fkin melt and fall right into their bed. It took me over 10 yrs to rebuild what I had when I was married to my ex wife 12 yrs shit like it was nothing . Oh well she paid the price yeah she has a big old house that's new… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Broken and seeking advice.Well that's not good she will be held to pay you have the equity from the home and yes you are untitled to half of the 40@k you need to get a lawyer yesterday that way there is a freeze on spending and she will have to show all the bank accounts all finances everything will come out to the courts CC debt any debt owi g she will be responsible for half as long as it occured during the marriage and for your child she could do what ever she wants but she can't keep you from your kids you just need … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 07:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m not crazy, right?Ding ding ding we have a winner if your thinking one more woman added to sea fill of millions of other females cheaters . Well if that's the case your in the same group we are . One none wanted to join that's for sure . All these people know what they're talking about reddit is these therapy there is . I've been lurking around for over a year .and seem it so many times gy trying to get past the cheating .5 or 10 yrs later they figure out they gotta end the charades. Realizing the marriage ended … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle splitting equity in the house?Buy a nice little condo or a smaller house for yourself of course that sucks but I did it . Smaller house less to worry about but a small house where I live will still run you $500k or more .and with he rates so high it sucks . | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/23 06:22 AM |
| 2 | If you are going through a divorce and find out spouse is hiding money....All you wife has to do now is contact all the attorneys in the ears then that makes it a conflict of interest you won't get more am a consultation.then a phone call the next day that say I'm " sorry but we can't represent you COI . No one wants to give money away .she threw her 401k out there for a reason .the IRA is more or she could have more than you know you need an attorney who is this woman she has been doing some home work some where . | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/23 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Have you learned anything?What I hate is what society has made women to become , everyday with reality TV they are bombarded with the thoughts you have to do this and had e to have that , a $2000 purse and $500 dollar pair of shoes doesn't make you a great woman . It tells me that you are easily reeled in buy these things to easy . Those people that have all this stuff on TV they don't pay shit for stuff it's given to them by companies that know free advertising is the best .why spend millions on advertising when we can … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 05:44 AM |
| 7 | She fucked another manI agree I told my ex wife I was divorcing her 5 minutes after she was caught I'm not going to sit and argue because it would just be me getting really pissed off and then what the exact same ending .so they won't change .my divorce was 27 years ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/23 07:13 AM |
| 4 | Need Advice- Soon to be ex draining accounts and maxing cards.It doesn't matter are you legally separated now if so it will all fall on her that's why you get a legal separation right from the begining because if you don't you can end up paying some of it why don't you cut the cards close the account down if she wants to she can get her own .call the card insolent | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 09:33 PM |
| 3 | The Story So FarYeah she can't give you an eviction notice even if it's a rental if she did she would have to move also don't sign anything like that I would sign shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 07:11 PM |
| 5 | The Story So FarWell if she is the one who wants out she can leave and stay in the RV don't ever leave your house there is nothing a lawyer can do either to make you move he should have told her that in the beginning. And she knows it even if your wife payed 100% of the mortgage since you moved in she still can not avict you there is no law that says she can kick you out no judge in this country would sign an eviction notice she might try to give you a 30 day move at will but still that doesn't mean you have to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to dealShe not being a mother what she is doing is not healthy for the kids you need to tell her that this is unacceptable and you will not let it be this way even if you have to fight for 100 % custody have you contacted a lawyer at all you should know this already . This is child abuse when your kid is with her . If any mandated reporter knew what is going they would have to by law report this to DCFS and an investigation would come about .when your a parent to a child your only responsibility is to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Wife is taking me to court to eliminate additional timesharing I have each month. Advice?Well I've been in the court system for a long time .I adopted my twin nephews when they were 18 months old I had to take custody of them ( parents went to jail then prison for drugs ) . Needless to say after a few years it was obvious they cared more about drugs than the kids so my wife and I adopted them .now they are 22 yrs old . I don't have any idea why your ex would pull something like this and get lawyers is in it for just money obviously. The courts hate when one parent pulls shit like th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it?You better tell them if you don't she will tell them something completely different my ex wife told my 7 years old daughter I was the cheating one and she had found drugs on my pants pocket plus I had a baby with some woman . Well my daughter was a daddies girl she wanted to be at my house every weekend. Ok and she was . Now my daughter is 34 years old and an Oncologist.lasy year she called me wanting to meet her brother I was like . WTF are you talking about.well come to find out ex lied to her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Refusing custody of the childrenSo If you have kids man up and pay your CS | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Refusing custody of the childrenPaying child support isn't some you have to do just because they tell you to but child support is what you should pay because it's your responsibility for being a parent married,single ,or just that ons look at it this way if you paid $500 a month for your child .then let's say that child lived with you could you raise the kid on $500 a month hell no you can't that much is spent just feeding them then you have school ,school supplies ,clothes , shoes which kids go through real fast , then if you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I'd like to ask a totally honest question. If you are a divorced or married man I'd especially like to hear your response please.Been married twice and now with my girlfriend fof 13 years and the answer is yes everyone of them never cut down at all I'm 57 and get it 4 or 5 times a week sometimes more . | /r/MensRights | 04/10/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | IDK what to doShe just can't demand what she wants as far as debt goes she will be responsible for half of it and car yes she will get a car but spousal support she might get it for a year they will tell her she is able to get a job . They won't just give her a certain amount they will tell her strait up and keep the text of her saying she has a new boyfriend fault or no fault state it can still hurt her just because she is treating you with her demand I live in a fault state my buddies wife went and cleaned … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 10 | Divorce is the only logical option for men with valueYour absolutely right I found this out 27 yrs ago when I told my now ex wife you blew your chance with e after I caught her cheating after 12 yrs together.well paid all my cs and then some my daughter is now a doctor 34 yrs old with a family of her own let me tell you one thing I told her take it all I will help you load it and I did to rented the truck drove it to her house and unloaded it even if I had to pay $250 k in cs it was worth every penny to get rid of her the sad thing is she was my f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 05:40 AM |
| 1 | As a woman, how can I be more aware of men and their needs?Ok I feel that your being a bit sarcastic here why are you or who are you trying to prove a point to your significant other ? Why would a woman feel what men need to be more assertive.most women think of let's say sex after marriage a duty or a job when the guy has to do most of the initiate just to get shot down the funny thing is a lot of women use the words " not tonight I have a headache " for instance when scientifically proven that sex with eliminate a headache . As far as needs I don't re… | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Found out today my ex is already on dating sitesMen and women think completely different single or married women look at the whole picture as far as what they want in life as men we look to the future but only a week or months we don't look at the 20 year picture most guys like me I just take it one day at a time if something bad happens then oh well .I will get through it I think women once they are single they want someone to protect them more or less especially if they have been in a marriage Like me when I finally divorced my ex wife the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other peopleWell so will you unless your going underground or something you talk like you will just curl up in a ball and do nothing I can tell you life goes in remarried and lost my second wife to cancer at 36 years old now I'm with another woman and have been for 13 years I'm now 54. The world doesn't stop spinning because your getting divorced .if you both weren't happy it's better to cut it out now | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I need help.Dude you don't need help and there is no reason why you should be scared it may seem out of place but you will be just fine there is no reason to say you can't be with your wife .so how long has it been I take it you are just joining the group, that none of us asked to be a part of every one of us has been through this some may have been years ago it was 29 years ago I caught my wife trying to sneak in our home at 5 am she should have been home at 12:30 am the latest from work the only thing it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Want to divorce wife after her affair, but don't want to see my kids less, leave house, and lose half my stuff.Fill first get her on abandonment | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 11:34 AM |
| 2 | The r/ask post about "why so many dads abandon their kids" is outright nonsenseI know I read that post I almost fell over laughing so hard. The funny thing is it was probably a woman that posted it or a guy with no kids . To funny wow how about the guys like me that actually adopted my twin nephews when they were only 18 months old and all of our kids were teens my daughter was the youngest from my first marriage and she was 15 yrs old at the time .it is non sense . In my decree it stated that my ex wife would have to drive half way and meet me in the middle of the distanc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | What do I do?Yeah she was the cake while you sit at home and watch your child how fucked up is that I bet if you went on one date with a different woman she would say I want a divorce but I guess since you are moving to Texas take her with you and tell her one time and we're done I'm willing to try in Texas but I will leave you high and dry if you even think about going out with one guy that's not me | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 06:17 PM |
| 6 | What do I do?Yeah now hell will have a big fucking area for all these women that cheat on there husbands while deployed it's a fucked up situation when the guy has no fucking chance to even fight for his family then he has to come home to a divorce because she doesn't know how to use a dam vibrator | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Child routinely falls sick when with mom. How do I ensure this gets taken into account by the court?You sure she doesn't have Munchausen syndrome by proxy is a mental illness and a form of child abuse. The caretaker of a child, most often a mother, either makes up fake symptoms or causes real symptoms to make it look like the child is sick. Causes No one is sure what causes Munchausen syndrome by proxy. Sometimes, the person was abused as a child or has Munchausen syndrome (fake illness for themselves). Symptoms Collapse Section Symptoms has been expanded. The caretaker can do extreme things t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/09/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Wife convinced me to get vasectomy, and then cheated on me days before operationDivorce is one thing custody of your children is another just because it's a no fault state does t mean you can't get your kids it may be tough it your wife has kind of a bad track record with proving she can provide a safe income t for your children o know all about child laws I adopted my twin nephews they were my brothers kids I had to go to family courts for . A couple years off and on it got to the point they called me dad and my brother wasn't going to be there for them or his gf so I moti… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 11:09 AM |
| 2 | If you move out.. but cant afford a lawyer..If you have to pay her support when it's final it will only be for about 6 months to a year until she can get a job unless she is in a wheelchair or something she is able to work they will tell her to get a job or end up homeless | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | If you move out.. but cant afford a lawyer..This is why you install cameras if she starts with you and calls the cops it's all on video of her starting it .she will try to get a TRO on you eventually if you let her cameras are your friend she can't say anything about the camera either its in your home | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 09:58 AM |
| 2 | If you move out.. but cant afford a lawyer..First of all what's the reason for the divorce .but you never leave your home unless you initiated the divorce if you leave the home she will say you abandoned them and your out for good so if she wants the divorce bc of cheating or what ever she can leave . Nice to a spare room that's going to be tired spot . And don't even say anything to her eat alone .work on yourself don't sit and think about it if you do it's gonna take a toll on you .your life will go on and it gets better trust me .been … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/23 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Will I be on the hook for her credit card debt she's racked up since leaving but before the divorce is final?No it ends the day you separated.minre tried doing the samee thing she even racked up the ones she had from jewelry stores but they will make her show all the debt she has and it won't be held on you for it she probably maxed them out thinking the same thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Have I finally achieved top level of not giving a shit?Yeah as soon as my ex went out of state after I caught her cheating the very next week I was hanging out with a woman that lived 4 houses dow I didn't even know she got divorced I had seen what I thought was her husband there just a few months before that it it didn't go Amy place just good sex, then after that it was another neighbor but she was 15 yrs older than my and amazing sex for about a month then I got shipped out of town for work so that ended that for awhile anyway but I got used to j… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with the stress.Try picking up your kids on a Friday night and your stbxw is coming down asking you how her ass likes in these jeans knowing dam well she going to see the guy she is fking | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 05:36 AM |
| 6 | The toxic friendMy ex wife friend influenced my ex to cheat on me utterly destroying our marriage my ex was somewhat remorseful I didn't care at that point it was over with us someone you don't see every day that can change 12 years of marriage I don't blame the friend 100% bc the ex played a role in it's demise also so I would say 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop itDam I don't know what the problem could be has she takes to a doctor about it maybe she needs med to balance her out I'm not talking anti depressants don't let them put her in those it will become a wasteland for sex could she be seeing another guy this is pretty common with women when they are with anotger guy even if it's just an EA does she spend all night or day on her phone texting anyone I would check the phone records it a good place to start . Does she stay at home alone of women are onl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 02:49 AM |
| 7 | Did any of you get your shot at AP?No it doesn't but it sure feels good knowing you got something other than getting fked over | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 05:57 AM |
| 6 | Did any of you get your shot at AP?Yeah I told his wife what was going on while him and my wife were fking in Las Vegas then when she got home Sunday night ( I knew they were going I found all the messages a week before ) so I let her go she said it was with gf but it wasn't just them she got to the house her shit was packed in a uhaul his wife on ewu changed the locks and code on garage door . After her begging for me to let her in he come hailing ass into my driveway saying I ruined his life . I laughed my ass off and told him … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Getting a divorce. Need adviceDon't leave your house if she wants you gone then she can leave I don't know where you live but you might have to stay together for a certain amount of time before you can actually start the divorce in the UK it's a year I'm my state it's 6 months separation but both of you have to live in the same house it' sucked bad when I had to do it just because I had to come home from work just to see someone I real couldn't stand to look at anymore she cheated .. why is she divorcing you someone else | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why a Cat is a Divorced Man's best friendThat's funny you say that because I never owned a cat in my life always owned dogs but about a year after we separated I ended up getting a cat then a few years later a stray cat kept showing up at my house so I started to feed it and I got friendly so I trapped it and took it to a vet had it spayed and shits checked out for any thing serious ,sickness ,any disease all clean so I took her home to I had a male at home so they got along well just tolerated each other but she got so needy I found h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Respond or IgnoreJust say " dftbmt" that means don't forget to bring me tacos | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/23 07:51 PM |
| 8 | How to get paternity test on a kid that is 19I'm thinking the same about my 43 yr old daughter I caught my wife with a guy when we were just dating but it didn't get to far other than her having her shirt off I pulled the guy out through the window of her car because the door was locked but I ended up catching her cheating about 7 years later and divorced her but when I look back I almost can put the time line together idk if I should just let it go but I also would like to know | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Don't bury your head in the sandFor sure I was married twice first one cheated influenced by a bitch friend that would tell her to dump me that she deserved better blah blah blah well after 12 years together the wife fell into her trap and started seeing a guy that her friend knew well the minute I found out I was done the funny thing is her friend knew nothing about me as a person well I was getting ready to start a business we had a new house ,truck ,jeep ,and 2 cars ,a boat and 2 wave runners and I was only 27 then well the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/23 04:45 AM |
| 9 | If your wife returned what was said?My now ex wife wanted me back after we had separated for 19 months . She was still seeing the clown she cheated on me with . Before that she wouldn't give me a glass of water if I was on fire were together for 12 years .but as soon as I sold the house and moved into a 5 bedroom condo with 3 females . It wasn't even a week and she started calling every night wanting me to take her back ,but I refused to do it bc I figured the only reason was , I was living with females and she could see I didn't … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/23 01:00 AM |
| 3 | What Happens To Them?Yeah that's horrible it's like me I started a small business about 14 years ago when I was in my 40s and then I started dating a woman I went to school with and have known since I was about 7 or 8 yrs old ok so 13 yrs later I get a gut feeling I don't know why I picked her phone up on the bed ,she had gone upstairs to make coffee( I like living in my basement it's coller) I see a message notification as I'm getting dressed to go to my office I look and it's a message to a guy asking if he wants … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Do judges care if people lie? Would they actOf course they care and they have investigators that check on these things .I have been through the family courts for awhile I adopted my twin nephews that were heading into the foster care system because my bro and his gf were both going to prison | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Your salary after separationThe later and they can go back a request it to increase if the want I think it's after 2 years I'm not sure on how many maybe 3 year s but what about your 401k or any pension you have they get part of that also that's what I don't get | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/23 06:39 PM |
| 9 | Just bought house and wife wants divorceDude my ex wife did the same shit moved bought a new car for her and she cheated on me after moving in 7 months vefore | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/23 05:50 AM |
| 1 | DIL wants son to sign so she can take money out of 401k for lawyer.Really does not matter he will have to give some of it to her period and any other pension he has any assets and property (home,rental property ) but it might work out better giving her the $10k now that when she as awarded some of it anyway. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Why is a business considered marital property, but debt isn't?Actually debt is to | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Am I screwed for the rest of my life?Just have her sign a pre nup stating if you both decide to leave you leave with what's your and her the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Struggling how someone you spend 2/3 of your life with can just end itWhat I do t like I can move forward but done things she said about me isn't cool I never said anything bad about this woman how can see sit and say things she knows isn't true and feel ok about | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Struggling how someone you spend 2/3 of your life with can just end itI was in the same boat as you I'm 54 also spent half of my life with someone and out of the blue it was a 180 not that I'm perfect but when I put my things I needed in life to let them reach there's then when I have to sacrifice my entire days and nights to get to were I wanted to be working days going back to school at night watching the kids cooking ,cleaning bath the kids get them in bed laundry ,then if I was luck I would have 30 minutes to myself.she would get off at 12 am be home by 12:30 … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 11 | How to deal with my daughter asking why we divorced?My ex wife lied to my daughter 28 years ago saying I had ann affair with a woman and had a son with her .before that my daughter was a daddies girl then I noticed after awhile she changed when she was at my house. Well 27 years later my daughter is an Oncologist went to med school smart woman .she called me last summer yrs last summer saying she wants to meet her brother .I said what are you talking about she told me she was told she had a brother she doesn't.so we hang up . Later that night I'm… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/23 04:07 AM |
| 3 | The last photoSo what is the reason behind the divorce there has to be done thing that made this happen your wife checked out for some thing people just don't come out and say I'm done | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 08:23 AM |
| 3 | US States where it's hard for a woman to get alimony?Texas ,Mississippi ,Utah and North Carolina are the only 4 that have no alimony but they can get temporary spousal support for like medical reasons .and a couple others but they can't get permanent alimony | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/23 03:05 AM |
| 0 | US States where it's hard for a woman to get alimony?I'm in Utah well I was living here when I got married and divorced my ex wife .it's a fault state but I had enough proof and evidence she didn't have a pot to piss .I thought she would go after half of my business but I think she thought if she did I would go after the both of them plus I gave his wife a thumb drive while my ex and her AP were in Las Vegas for the weekend I knew all about the trip and the motel meet up the week before I was sitting in a maintenance truck I borrowed from work tha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 35 | Had to tell my ex it is not my circus anymore.My ex wife called me like 18 months after I caught her and had her move out of the house Anyway she calls me one night and say I need to talk to you ... I'm like ok go ahead . She then says but not over the phone , I'm thinking something happened to my daughter . So I said them what I'm not driving 45 miles there and I know your not coming here .so I blurt out " what your pregnant " she just breaks out crying yes I am pregnant . Now I haven't had sex with her for about 17 months ,so I say I thin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Big “D” at 45 leaving nothingNice when I divorced my ex wife I did the same thing but I was only 30 but I quit my job and went fly fishing for 4 months everyday on the river yeah I just did a couple years in Wyoming on a job Rock Springs so I would stay there about every other weekend and drive down to the gorge do a little relaxing and enjoy life | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | STBXW is on deed but not on mortgage. Can I simply buy her out without refinancing?Yeah and I think she will get part of your retirement | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 07:34 AM |
| 6 | NursesMilitary is the highest anyone in the medical field doctors nurses are # 2 so it is true this is why I won't date any nurse or a doctor my daughter is an oncologist she has good looking friends she works with not a chance in hell would I think of it because the hours they work | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/23 03:17 AM |
| 25 | Wife says she has “Outgrown our Marriage”She is she has someone else she wants to get with you wait and see a week after you separate she will be saying some guy | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/23 07:48 PM |
| 8 | I won my OFP dismissal!Haha that's to funny love that shit my ex wanted half of my business to but she did t get anything | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/23 06:44 AM |
| 3 | When did your wife’s lucid mind return?Never it's been 29 yrs when I caught her 27 when I divorced her one fking I'm sorry or anything | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 15 | When did your wife’s lucid mind return?Nope and it's been 29 years she got busted 27 since I divorced her .I'm sure she regrets it now my daughter is now 34 yrs old she was 5 then she knew I was going into business.for myself sfe should have waited or not cheat on me .now she's I debt with a new house and just started a business last year from what I hear I'm looking at retiring the end of the year for good . The crazy thing is she would act like we were friends when I would pick my daughter up every time she couldn't figure out why … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Second marriage ending after only 2.5 years.Yeah that's it right there plus any debt that was acquired during the marriage.what about any investments .and what ever you do any savings take half And put in a separate account of yours don't take anymore than half though | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/23 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Second marriage ending after only 2.5 years.Yip that's the way they go about it any debt also gets split in half acquired during the marriage . | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/23 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Second marriage ending after only 2.5 years.Probably 1800 to 2000 a month plus part of your pension but if she cheated and you can prove it even if you live in a no fault state it doesn't look good for them that has a lot to do with it . And I have a friend that works for the court system here and she was telling me that they are seeing a boom in divorce rates right now and most of them are from an unfaithful partner so they have been coming down on them here where I live . She was telling me that they are giving custody of the children t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Advice neededGo back today so t wait another minute fk get back she will say abandonment you don't need a reason it's your house also if she doesn't want to be around she can leave | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice neededNo just tell her even if she says no call the cops bro I did my ex changed the locks cops stood right there and watched me kick my back door in then they left laughing | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice neededDude she can't make you leave what are you doing you better get your ass back there even if you have to sleep in a different room she can't kick you out either she has a new guy and going to move him in if you do t go back wtf man are you thinking | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Can benefits be considered in alimony (California)You are untitled to half of her income I don't know about benefits but you will get half of her pension or 401k she will have to cash out early and give you half at time of divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Just had a thought after reading the "wait at least one year until after divorce to date"Yeah mine did the same shit she wouldn't even talk to me but after I sold the house I moved in with 3 females holy shit hit the fan she got jealous and started calling every night for 6 months wanting me back | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Unequal money divisionThen she gets half plus half your retirement or 401k plus half af the savings oin a joint account | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/23 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Question involving infidelity...Open relationships will end a marriage faster than you think yeah it's cheating she crossed a major boundary . but the thing is she probably already slept with the guy before asking you about an open marriage. But yeah it's cheating and to use no condom fuck is she nuts | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Wife and I are splitting, what to do about the home?Yeah she can't force you out .you need to talk to a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 8 | Is there something in the water?This and I have been reading a lot of stories lately where the woman just says I gone when they get confronted about cheating . | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Just found outShe can't make you move out my buddies wife tried this he called the cops and they told him you can kick the door down if you need to it's your home he did exactly that while they watched told him it's your home as much as hers | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | One month away from giving birth my wife has left me moved 2,000 miles away and doesn't plan on letting me witness the birthWhy did she leave is the baby yours get a DNA test | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | GymHaha that's great man I know what you mean I work for a general contractor have for 20 + years I was on a job and was climbing concrete forms that were 80 feet tall on a new hospital we were building, I wear my bags with full pockets nails screws and what ever tools I need plus my harness and all the safety crap to go with I'm 54 yrs old now and in great shape about 12 years ago I had 3 cats and lived in a condo well HOA decided they wanted to charge me for another parking so I sold the car well… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | 9 YEAR ESTANGED WIFEAh yeah she never got your consent to take the kids out of state and by law says that she has to do exactly that not only that you would get your kids every other weekend and 4 wells in the summer plus she is supposed to meet you have way if they are coming to you by car but if by air she would have to flip the bill half the time . I know my ex wife lives 400 miles away and had to meet me half way . She was pissed because I had to add my daughter to my med insurance. And in my decree it stated i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 3 | A discrete paternity test service?All of them are pretty much just go with like one of the ancestors ones she will never know they send you and email about the results I know you can buy a kit from Walmart and Walgreens stores I'm sure they all sale them they are about $100 I'm about ready to do one on my daughter I just wonder sometimes she got pregnant before we got married 4 months pregnant at time of wedding it was a hurry up thing but . After I look back and caught her trying to sneak in our home after 12 years together and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Being held hostageIf she can't afford the house and buy you out why isn't it going up for sale | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 09:24 AM |
| 3 | I'm entirely innocent, but I might be going to jail. What do I need to know?Well long story short . She has to provide proof any of this happened to get and with that kind of background the judge will see right through her if happens more times than you could imagine. I've been through family courts for 16 years I adopted my twin nephews . But I had custody of them when they were only 18 months old they are now almost 20 years old my brother lost any parental rights at the second court hearing and had never regained any visitation at all it' sucks because we don't and c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Reminder to my fellow man.Yip should have just paid the money and bought out your lease I did my rent was $1300 month and bought out my lease for $2500 figured why should she get to stay there with my name still on it so she had to get a new rental agreement by herself she would have destroyed all kinds of crap if I didnt | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/23 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Reminder to my fellow man.I agree I always say go get in her purse and get your balls back and lock them up as far as moving out of your horse don't leave it's your house to if she wants a divorce that bad she can leave but never leave your house if she states threats about seeing your kids stay calm and let her think what ever she wants to it's not Disney in real life she can't change your relationship with your kids . This is the reason I get band from so many subs I'm actually on a 3 day suspension from 2 of them as w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 03:59 AM |
| -1 | I want to understand what the hell happened.I'm not even going to read past the first sentence. First of all you to don't share a child . You want to say that the both of you have. A child together it's not a freaking toy you just toss to your girlfriend when you want to go out it's a child not a milkshake . | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 03:36 AM |
| -1 | Wife’s new 23 year old bfI don't know where you live but where I live if you are still married this is considered cheating . Sounds like they are doing a little after school specials if you know what I mean you could probably get them both fired from there jobs and this would ruin there teaching careers it would follow them were ever they went . You need a lawyer and fast . You have the upper hand here . But you are still married to a woman that's cheating on you .some states you have to live in the same house for a yea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Updates after 2 months of SeparationWow one more person figured it out don't feed there fire it will drive tem crazy and they want you back it works just the other day a guy was saying this that he would pick his son up and she would be all dressed up getting ready to go out with the guy she cheated on him with well she would say things like how does my ass look in these jeans and he would get all mad we he stopped even answering her just shrug his shoulder or just nod his head and walk away . She would do this every weekend that … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Just curious to know. How many of y’all had people who thought you were a lucky guy because your wife was attractive but in reality the only thing you were getting was starfish sex and she never initiated ?Yeah I did fr 12 years then she cheated I called it quits right then and there worked on myself getting a business going quit my currant job sold the house and moved on then she started calling every day saying she wanted me back I said should it be the other way me deciding if I want you at all she started bringing me lunch to work and she would make cake enough for my crew of guy I ran . Then after they would all be like dam yote wife is hot why are you divorcing her I would say it's a long st… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 04:24 PM |
| 0 | I need helpDude this is where you go scorched earth on her report them both to there management all companies that send employees out of town for work prohibit any kind of affaires on there dime this will get them both fired from there jobs tell his wife about it give her a day to pack her shit and move out, and tell family and friends before she does she will tell them lies saying you are abusive and shit even tell her family .. it won't last they never do by the time she thinks he will be with her he won… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/23 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Of course you should do it under wraps so she don't know it's you just leave some evidence on her car or somewhere like that make his life hell like he did yours | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I owe taxes this year. Ex technically owes half. Any advice?50/50 she has half to pay | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Looking for adviceIf you can find out who she's talking to and it's a coworker tell the HR dept at her work she will lose her job and so will he 99 % of business have tear in there policies they will not have any employees cheating with each other on there jobs. My old job you couldn't even work the same shift your wife or gf worked . | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Looking for adviceWell when a woman says shit like that then starts working out and all the other shit like shaving her V and dressing nice she either has someone on the hook or is already sleeping with someone else this is where you need to put your foot down I wouldn't sleep in the base ment make her sleep down there if she doesn't want to be with you anymore . She can leave and go stay with her new fk buddy . Dont w er pack your things and leave your house ever she can't make you leave. It's your house also . … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Just bumped into ex-wife. I'm okayBeen there it actually feels great to walk away and, know your are better person . My ex wife cheated after 12 years toy | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | So much angerDude my ex wife cheated on me after 12 years together and after I divorced her she would just show up at my house put of the blue and she acted like we were best buddies fk it pissed me off . Then one time my daughter's car broke a belt so I drove 300 miles to my exes house to fix my daughter's car she comes out say oh how you been look pretty good wanting to chat I just glanced over and shook my head told my daughter I would buy her diner if she wanted to come with me we just left I didn't say … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Parental Alienation and Eviction Request Denied.Yeah she can get in some serious trouble doing what she is doing it's actually gonna bite her in the ass if she continues doing it . She is pissed bc she can't make you leave this is what pisses me off just bc women think they get the house and half of everything you own its not true anymore alot more men are getting 100 % custody of there kids bc people like your wife she is coaching them to hate you the courts have some fantastic Forensics people that evaluate the kids and mostly the female th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Reaching out for helpOh an sorry about your problem but yeah she is probably hanging out with some guy . Don't let that get you down enjoy the time with your kids next time make her co. E to you actually she should have to my ex lived 50 miles from me and never wanted to bring my kids but she didn't ready the divorce decree she should have after I pointed out that she had to half the time she was pissed but back to what I was going to say when she had to come to your home make her stay at a hotel tell her you don't … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/23 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Fuck, this hurts.Dude just let it go as far as her in a hotel room with some other guy she's broken that's why it won't last they all think it will until that day comes when the wife's have to shack up with a guy that really does t want a living gf it always goes south pretty fast. My wife I caught her in her birthday she should have been home by 12:30 am the latest well after work I guess she decided to go screw the guy she had been hanging out with well I caught her at 5 am and to top that off I spent over $14… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Just wanna give a big shout out to every god damned salt of the earth man in here .Peace my friend. Stumbled across your list and it hits home with me I caught my wife having an affair didn't care how long it was going on . We ended the Marrage after 12 years together well at first I was spiraling out of control smashing wedding pictures all kinds of shit . Anyway she would give me a cup of water if I was on fire I tried to turn her back but it pushed her farther away . So after awhile I figured it's time to move forward. Got a better job . Sold our house . And didn't have a p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm drowning today. I can't handle this. It hurts so bad.Be strong for your kids they need you now more than ever let her go she's no good she is broken and you can't fix her it's nice to think she might come back if she does it's because it didn't work with the new guy and you will just be a fall back she doesn't love you | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | My wife let me know she feels like she is no longer in love with me.Anyone that says they need space and the partner agrees to it as soon as they move out the end up having someone else over there was never an attempt to work on what they have or had it's a way to let the other person down well they think it's a god way it's just as hurtful as just cheating on themm . Obviously she probably didn't lose her rig she took it off because she's been seeing someone else it happens all the time . | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How realistic is this?Shes in survival mode it's kind of like being behind on rent and the landlord serves you papers to move people do the same thing they had all month to deal with it but now there running around like they need to pay there rent yesterday. Survival mode it's pretty much a way to get you to stay I went out with a woman that pulled the same shit I got so sick of hearing her say she wanted to do herself in ymi finally said do it get it over with she didn't even try it was a plot to keep me around | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | It’s official, there’s someone elseYeah but you can't sleep saying it's for the kids I divorced my ex wife she moved 300 miles away I still drove that every time to pick my daughter up and she knows I'm her dad and loves me more than I can imagine she finished high school a year early and we t to med school and now us a doctor so whe. Your children see you in pain or torment is worse they want to see there parents happy | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 08:40 PM |
| 2 | BB gunNo problem with me you buying him a bb gun hell I went to hunters safety the first chance I could I gd a bb gun at a young age my dad was retired military and taught me how to handle firearms it a great learning phase for your some gives the knowledge of how they work and the dangers involved with gun so no I don't think it's a problem at all . My daughter was about 5 I taught her to shoot and started flyfishing with me she still does it to this day and loves it she is now 33 yrs old | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Need some major help. My ex got a job for 96k, but won't share her W2 and her lawyer says she will quash any subpoena to her employer (NYC)Is she still in the same city as you I'f not fike the motion in another city . | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Successful Divorce After Wife Had an Affair, and May Still Be Involved with APThe funny thing is your ex wife will more or less be single with no AP now so I guess she has to live with what she brought on herself I love this this is so satisfying my ex wife ended up with her AP 27 years ago and are still together but he lost his family to not only that his house his job ( he worked for her parents ) | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Divorced men over 40: how do you find female companionship for just intimacy?I own my own business and I'm in people's homes on a daily basis and I'm telling you im 54 in good shape and I get hit on 2 times a week at least | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/23 07:16 AM |
| 2 | this is more light-hearted but what's your go to recipe during weekBeen making my own dinners since 1985 used to travel for work and my entire crew of guys would be at my apartment after for dinner I would have to say one of my favs are green chilli chicken enchiladas but I can cook about anything I liked to smoke alot of weed when I was younger so I took every foods class I could in school just to eat munchies but later I found out it was good because the class was 90% females then I was an aid for the teacher gave me her keys to go shopping every day pretty m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Really good dayOh that's easy the minute I caught her trying to sneak in the house at 5 am .. lol it was pretty much it but I had her leave she went back east to stay with her sister for About 5 weeks . Then she came back and was hanging out a little bit I figured we will see it was a weekend she was at my house we had sex probably 3 times and the 4 the she looked at me and said " make it good it might be the last time " oh that pissed me off . I got up and said you know your right it is the last time no you n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Really good dayOh het just read all your post man sorry you have to send the wife packing but your like me I wasn't going to deal with the cheating and lies and manipulation. From her I was in it for the long haul we had been together for a12 years married . But it was the best thing for me also I felt so much better once I cane to the conclusion it had to be a divorce I went fishing for 3 months lol that was my working on myself took a few months from work and I did everyday for 3 months I was on a river fish… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/22 07:35 PM |
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