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If it makes you feel any better OP, 110% chance it won't work out for her
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 06:14 AM
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You need a significant change in circumstance to change it later. Judges don't like to change things around and cause instability for kids. If you agree to that now, you could very well be locked into it permanently
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 08:07 PM
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OP, put yourself into anger management classes immediately. Not only does it sound like you could use them, but it's the only way you will get any sort of grace from a judge...showing you are proactively working on this problem. You are looking at potentially losing access to your kiddo
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 05:52 AM
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That's exactly why my prenup says that any lawyer fees will be reduced from that party's share of the marital assets
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 02:17 PM
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Prenuptials are important. Ours divides out assets based off average income of the last seven years of marriage, with a minimum split of 30% to either party (protecting her if she is a stay at home mom, etc)
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/25 03:59 PM
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That's why my prenup has a condition about repaying large expenses that mainly benefit one party within a year of divorce being initiated.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 05:26 PM
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Are you able to move to their town? That'd qualify for a significant change in circumstance and you could file for more visitation
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 10:44 PM
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If they're 2 hours away, it's 4 hours on Friday and 4 hours on Sunday for a total of 8 hours a weekend
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/25 10:43 PM
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Just a warning so you're prepared... Having another kid in itself would be a reason for a modification in many states. Having another child would likely slightly lower her individual obligation, which may slightly increase yours.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 05:11 AM
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I have 50/50 custody and still pay $600/month in child support. You can share custody and still be required to pay.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:36 AM
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It depends on the state, but there is generally a presumptive advantage of allowing a parent to move with a child if they have majority custody. You would be at a legal disadvantage if this situation arose.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 03:46 AM
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I know this is a joke, but for anyone that would actually consider doing this... Judges have wide discretion on "contempt of court". Also, would not look great if brought up later in family court.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 11:21 PM
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If you took the time to write about it, it definitely worked. It's okay to feel hurt and it's better to process it rather than push it down. Just don't give her a reaction
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 06:13 PM
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Can second this. Got slapped with child support with no reduction even though I have 50/50 physical/legal custody (from a prior order outside King County) and had to pay her attorney fees simply because I had more savings than her. Also have to do 75% of the transportation, or they would give her full custody. Luckily we had never been married.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 06:15 AM
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Been there man, but now I have 50/50. Keep fighting and take it to trial for 50/50 if you have to. Child support is based off of potential income, so do a Discovery request (Request for Production) to get two years worth of her tax returns and use that to show her actual potential income at trial. If you fight hard enough and come prepared, many dad's can get 50/50 in their final orders.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 03:12 AM
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My long-term partner was a single mom with a daughter that was about the same age as mine. It has worked out great.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 08:29 AM
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Offers of Settlement won't be admissible in court unfortunately due to evidentiary rules https://www.law.cornell.edu/rules/fre/rule_408
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 03:05 AM
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@OP, You often can't play tapes in court but you can have a neutral third-party witness listen to the tape and write a declaration on what they heard
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 03:03 AM
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Restraining orders are commonplace in custody disputes, they almost never stick unless there is a legitimate one-sided reason for them to. Using a restraining order in custody disputes for an advantage is so common that it's referred to as the "silver bullet technique" Tell them to pound sand and fight for equal custody and child support based off of your difference in income.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 03:02 AM
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For child support Washington uses the following worksheet to determine the combined child support obligation of the parents: https://www.courts.wa.gov/forms/documents/WSCSS_Schedule_2020%2006.pdf Then the judge is allowed to take into consideration factors such as parenting time with each parent, other children, extra expenses, etc. If the total child support obligation is $1000 and you make 75% of your combined income and don't see your child at all with no extra factors, you'd pay $750/month.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 06:32 AM
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And also help with the search. Hit up a local popular dog park, trust me
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 05:02 PM
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I fought for 50/50 against a mother that still, to this day, wants me to have 0 contact with our daughter (she is 6). It may be a long, uphill battle but keep fighting and keep putting on the pressure. Have a nice room for your daughter in your home, spend as much time as you can with her, and keep taking the mother to court over every small change in circumstance to push for more time. You can research and learn how to represent yourself to save a ton of money. After almost 2 years, I was able …
/r/MensRights25/01/22 07:14 AM
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