| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | What makes marriage successful? | _vinland_ | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/23 05:31 PM | |
| 11 | Dilated pupils | _vinland_ | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/23 06:26 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | When is the marriage over?It's over when unapologetic disrespect becomes the norm | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s The Point?Well, you got two kids out of it. I think marriage as a system is moving towards its roots where it's primary purpose is child rearing, and love comes secondary. If only the exit clause didn't exist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 06:52 PM |
| 11 | What’s The Point?One would be a bigger idiot in Canada where there aren't even tax incentives to marry | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | 3 years and it finally feels like it's getting betterI find this to be a pretty good place to process your emotions. The NarcissisticAbuse subreddit is excellent too | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 04:16 AM |
| 1 | "How a Weekend Trip Unveiled the Cracks in Our Marriage"Stay in your house. It's going to be awkward, but if you leave her lawyers can argue you abandoned her | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 04:13 AM |
| 2 | "How a Weekend Trip Unveiled the Cracks in Our Marriage"Guy is about to get laid more than any of us combined | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 04:12 AM |
| 1 | "How a Weekend Trip Unveiled the Cracks in Our Marriage"Cheaters will also leave their phone unlocked and implore you to search through it. This is because they lock themselves in the bathroom for 45 mins with a burner. Ever wonder why girls do so many bathroom mirror selfies? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 04:11 AM |
| -3 | financially supporting this “wife” of mine for the past 2 years.. the only thing that I receive in return is constant stress and bickering from her. Men who were me, how is life now after getting out of the situation?Down vote me all you want, but the man was having sex | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 06:43 AM |
| -6 | financially supporting this “wife” of mine for the past 2 years.. the only thing that I receive in return is constant stress and bickering from her. Men who were me, how is life now after getting out of the situation?Sounds like you're in the good version of marriage. You dropped the divorce card though. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Tomorrow's the dayThe scars will be forever. Cheers | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I question my sanity and some venting.I am communicating in a language she understands best - covertly | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with parental alienationHow does everyone deal with this type of bullshit? She doesn't respect you. She will respect you if other women want you, though. Lift, dress well, be social. It's a stupid fucking game, and it started when you signed off on your vows | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with parental alienation“THEN WHY DO YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT HAVING TO TAKE HIM TO SCHOOL?” Projection at it's finest | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 05:31 AM |
| 2 | What Did You Tell Mutual Friends?Move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I question my sanity and some venting.This may sound counter intuitive, but your wife wants a man other women want. When I hit this point with a girlfriend I start chatting up other girls in front of her. I don't flirt. I just let her see how attentive the girls can be. Albeit, it takes physical appearance: good fitting clothes, groomed hair, and a muscular posture. If you haven't already, change your diet and start lifting, and then make yourself comfortable around other women. You can still turn this around before you choose to fi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 05:19 AM |
| 11 | Tiktok...She has the same crazy eyes as my ex | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 12:05 AM |
| 6 | How do you get over your ex that you still love?The love you feel for her she can only feel for her kids. She never loved you. She loved how you made her feel. You need to be alone so you can learn to love yourself, or you can jump into a new relationship where you'll learn that it wasn't the person you loved, it was the act of loving you loved | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you protect yourself in advance from false allegations and TROsMake sure to film her when she's bruising up her own arms in the doorway too lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 07:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you protect yourself in advance from false allegations and TROsMy ex would hide her phone recording on the dresser and try to start shit. I would calmly acquiescence to everything she said / did, and then as she'd run out of steam she'd walk and get her phone and walk away not knowing I knew lmao | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you protect yourself in advance from false allegations and TROsRecord everything | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Utterly DestroyedSometimes the heaviest weight we'll ever lift is our feelings | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Dilated pupilsYes, then that's the same as my experience. She could have been cheating but I called her out on some shitty behavior that had been going on for weeks. I have never believed in the supernatural, but I do now believe that demons are capable of human possession. Good on you to make a devastating situation humorous for your friend. I hope he is doing well, and I hope you two share a better bond because of it | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Dilated pupilsShe did disappear the night before. This was about 1.5 years ago but those eyes still haunt me | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Holding it in when other guys get marriedI'd be crying at my wedding too | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Holding it in when other guys get marriedAn older married woman might want a man with more money. An older married man might want a younger woman. Women aren't the enemy here | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Holding it in when other guys get marriedNot in that moment of time. The love is flowing. But people change over the years and decades | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 06:22 AM |
| 6 | Holding it in when other guys get marriedIt's hard being single in your 30s when everyone around you is marrying. I'd reckon 30 - 40 will be the happiest years of your life as a married man. It's just that which inevitably follows with the flip of a coin that ends us | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 06:20 AM |
| 10 | Holding it in when other guys get marriedGo party at the wedding and forget about it. We all have different world views and we will all die. It's just that some of us make decisions that kill us long before we actually die | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 06:17 AM |
| 29 | Every guy here needs to watch this video from a divorce attorneyBetter yet, just don't marry | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Its Finally Over - Reflections On A Broken SystemSounds like an annulment of one's weddings vows but what do I know | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 04:01 AM |
| 18 | Every guy here needs to watch this video from a divorce attorneyThis has been posted here before but its great stuff. I disagree with his "get a prenup and continually discuss what to divide during the marriage". It's one of those things that sounds great on paper but doesn't work in practice | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 03:52 AM |
| 8 | Dilated pupilsExplains why I'm here | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 03:13 AM |
| 9 | Dilated pupilsAt least the sex was great | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/23 06:56 PM |
| 3 | StoicismIt actually become the foundation for parts of the old and new testament. Roman roads were great | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | So I bought her share the houseThey say the greatest miracle Jesus performed was having twelve friends in his thirties | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?The divorce_men subreddit is the most redpill forum you'll find on reddit at the moment | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Were things easier in 2013? It took me 10 years to become the man I wanted to be back then but everything feels worse | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Use the way back machine and set it to 2015 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Women crave attention. They get this from social media. Men crave sex. They get it from porn. The internet ruined everyone | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | The gym is a waste of time.Stronglifts for the first six months. Wendler 5/3/1 for life | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Emotionally drained and depressedStatistically women file 80% of divorces, meaning it's gotta be really bad for the man to file to risk the financial hit. The way she jumps into a new relationship is very narcissistic. I'd recommend listening to as much Dr. Ramani as you can: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSyj5Qpu2Sc | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | What to do after getting fucked?Extradite? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Married male friends have become NPCs.It's in a married couple's best interest to avoid divorced individuals | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | I decided to file for a divorceShe's lost attraction (which is very common after having kids). What I am about to suggest is counter intuitive but I highly recommend you try it before you pull out the divorce card: Start lifting barbell weights. Hop on a program like Strong Lifts or Starting Strength. You can pack on 20lbs of muscle in 6 months. Get some nice fitting shirts. Start talking to other women in public (whether your wife is with you or not). Do not flirt with the women. Just be cordial, polite, and confident, to ar… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Rough NightOur jobs naturally put us at a social disadvantage (I'm assuming you work in tech because your name starts and ends with an underscore). I work from home myself. After the divorce I couldn't afford to stay in my high cost of living city I grew up in so I moved to a smaller town. I haven't made any new friends. There is no social life here. My lunch times are spent lifting weights and in the evenings I swim and cook. As the night rolls in I work on my side projects or just lay in bed with my favo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Need advice from men, so I’m the wife and DV invokedGet a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | DestroyedThe emotional highs and low from a cluster B are as addicting as heroine and coke | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | DestroyedCheck out Dr. Ramani on youtube | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It beginsFunny how alimony sounds like all-the-money | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s who got divorced in your early 40s from the love of your life. If you found genuine happiness again (where you don’t think about your ex on a regular basis), how did you find it?I mean, If I wanted someone who fucked all my neighbors while on psychedelics I'd just call up my ex | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s who got divorced in your early 40s from the love of your life. If you found genuine happiness again (where you don’t think about your ex on a regular basis), how did you find it?They'll bend over backwards until you commit. To some varying degrees that commitment means marriage or cohabitation | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/23 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Men who wanted outDamn, you pulled the "But I'm not happppyyyy" | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | why do women do this?Your title reminds me of that one greentext where Rose is on her deathbed thinking of Jack while her children and grandchildren watch, with her having nothing to show for the biological father | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/23 06:39 AM |
| 2 | How did you survive/ recover?At least, now you will really learn who you are | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 05:13 AM |
| -1 | Daycare called and says they are filing a DFS report.Jesus fucking Christ, you thought losing all your shit in a divorce was bad? It only gets fucking worse. What the fuck. Never will I live with another woman again. I didn't even have kids. FUCK | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How to fully put myself into myself?Delete facebook, lawyer up, hit the gym | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/23 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough peopleTrue. 55% of marriages succeed. 45% fail. Still shit odds | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough peopleI recommend diving into this guy's stuff. It's redpill af | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 04:47 AM |
| 1 | She's Not Yours, Its Just Your TurnThose are all some manly fucking men (exempting trump) | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 04:10 AM |
| 7 | She's Not Yours, Its Just Your TurnYour logic doesn't make sense. You still walk out with 250k which is more than 0 had you not gambled. And remember to pay taxes on the 500k | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | There is another life on the other side.I feel you. It was Dr Ramani for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | There is another life on the other side.Been there. Worst year of my life after losing my home, city (it was too expensive to stay in a one bedroom), friends (they came with the city), and savings. I moved back in with my parents and was bed ridden and crippled from depression for 8 months. I'm doing great now but my worldview with relationships has drastically changed. I now see relationships for their transactional nature and I see emotions (positive or negative) for their manipulative nature. I see love as access to resources. I se… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Alimony length and girthPay it all up front with a lump sum OP and move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Alimony length and girthAh yes. Modern day marriage is prostitution | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Alimony length and girthBecause it's human nature to cheat. We are apes with long distance telephones | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | It does get betterSelection bias. We divorced men are here because we tried to fill the void in our hearts and souls with another person | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 6 | She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?”How many girls have you slept with? "What, this week?" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | After Denial… Misogyny?It only works if you're dating. Attraction is sparked by your ability to walk away. Once married it becomes a game of never ending performance | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 03:41 AM |
| 3 | After Denial… Misogyny?Men and women are equally abusive. Humans are inherently selfish. I think what helps is realizing that we shouldn't legally tie ourselves to another person - especially when everyone is inherently selfish | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Found out today my ex is already on dating sitesShe was never yours, and she will never be his. The kids will be hers though | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 11:52 PM |
| 10 | Found out today my ex is already on dating sitesCongratulations, but do not marry again | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 11:51 PM |
| 3 | After a long enough time here and in my own marriage, I’m seeing other people’s relationships as time bombsThey lose respect once you give up your ability to walk away | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | After a long enough time here and in my own marriage, I’m seeing other people’s relationships as time bombsI only go to weddings for the party. I don't pay attention to what is happening center stage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 12:27 AM |
| 4 | My ex-wife finally found a boyfriend on a dating app, and I can't stop laughing at the ironyA marriage will fail if you don't make enough as a man. A marriage will fail if you make less money than your wife. A divorce will greatly benefit the wife if you make more than your wife. How is any of this a win for the man? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I’m so down right now.Time to delete facebook and hit the gym | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What we all knew alreadyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXYdHIkQi9I | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What we all knew alreadyWatch it through to the end. It's a very neutral take on the modern gender war | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Nobody outside understandsI've heard the same from other successful marriages - avoid divorced individuals. Misery, or promises of riches and happiness, loves company | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | She Loved Me, But She Didn't Respect MeYou seem like you have a heart of gold and this world isn't deserving of you. Keep being you | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Things may have reversed?If you think about it, it's a mechanism of evolution to latch onto the strong during difficult times (and procreate if you can). For as difficult as the times are, the person doing the latching must be forever vigilant of their partner's faults, for she and her child will die in these difficult times if their partner has any weak points. Now, when the times aren't that difficult, and everything is a perceived threat to your survival, you get Borderline Personality Disorder. You're filled with a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | What we all knew alreadyProjection is a powerful tool. I had never heard the term but was called one by my ex. It wasn't until I left and dug deeper into psychology that I learned much of the push and pull she employed was very reminiscent of narcissism | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What we all knew alreadyThe movie is not as feminist as you think. Barbie ultimately burnt out and found peace and stability with her new family. Ken burnt out too and found solace in becoming a fuck boy. Both genders suffered for not embracing each other. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What we all knew alreadyBut, isn't that what a narcissist does? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 04:51 AM |
| 12 | Am I a pos…Don't downvote the guy. We were all him at point | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Ozempic, weight loss and divorceHave a good life my friend. It is what you make of it from this day forward. The soul only harms itself | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Wife is divorcing me, what now?On the bright side you're 32 years old. You have 33 more years to rebuild. Think of those in their 50s and 60s around here losing everything and then tell me you're fucked | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | A little brevity for you, gents!She wanted you to grovel. You didn't, and now she's upset. Keep going | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Is a self-described hoe phase any reason to be concerned?Rather just tell her the ceremony will have her father escort her down an isle to legally transfer ownership to you by last name and that you're a feminist and you don't support such an act of patriarchy | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | So it begins...silver bullet methodI'll never forget my narcissistic ex. We lived together for a year and the lovebombing was honest bliss until she caught me taking a glance at a woman in spandex in public. From that day on it was silent treatments, cold shoulders, yelling, door slamming, and extreme devaluation. Granted we were boyfriend / girlfriend and not yet common law I just packed the bare minimum one morning and left. I never spoke to her again. Her hoover attempts, however, were severe. She would self harm, threaten to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 04:40 AM |
| 3 | How emotionally hard is the mere financial side of a divorce?I imagine you are in your mid to late forties. I'm somewhere in my thirties and all around me my friends and colleagues have been marrying their long term partners. I can't imagine the pain they'll all be facing in 10-15 years but this sub, and a couple co-habitation experiences where I couldn't return to get my things, makes me feel it in my bones. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 04:27 AM |
| 5 | How emotionally hard is the mere financial side of a divorce?Live a spartan existence in retirement focusing on body and mind and you'll make it just fine with your retirement savings | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | I wish someone told me thisThough it's still in your best interest to not involve yourself with someone with habits of breaking the law | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | I wish someone told me thisI don't think it's fair to call names. The sub isn't anti-women. Odds are we have a void we're seeking to fill it with relationships, especially post divorce. We need to find meaning in life outside of relationships. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 06:48 AM |
| 6 | I wish someone told me thisThey all hold potential if you give them absolute power. Do not commit and do not marry. You will be fine | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 4 | I wish someone told me thisA divorce is as bad as it's going to get in the relationship world. DUI's at 4pm are a walk in the park | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 0 | Beautiful Endings: An In Depth Guide To Dumping WomenAn internet forum full of spergs who can't even land a relationship will no way in hell have the social skills required to terminate a relationship "beautifully". It's a high stress situation | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 04:00 AM |
| 4 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.The 25 year olds have infinite options. The 30 year olds are single for a reason. Have you considered maybe living a life of solitude? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 03:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR 6] Closed an hb7 while working. Ran some of the best game of my life.Sometimes no response is the message. If you're persistent and her covert communication isn't working then you're one of those guys that "just don't get it" | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/23 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Had sex with a friend last night after a year without any. I hated it. I was not ready.Lets go fishing then | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 03:57 AM |
| 13 | Had sex with a friend last night after a year without any. I hated it. I was not ready.Women had and have a myriad of social connections in their life. For men, we usually have no more than our wives. Women initiate almost all divorce because they will be emotionally supported during the process and after. What are we gonna do, go fishing with the boys? The boys disbanded back in '06 when our wives got jealous that we were spending time away from them | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Ex flexing over settlementSome time the wisest of all philosophies is the unix philosophy | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 01:40 AM |
| 2 | What’s the point?Meditations, Gregory Hayes | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Time to man up and get your life together.Your views make perfect sense. I've converted to Islam. Thank you for your time | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Time to man up and get your life together.If only religion could be based on love and acceptance | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Time to man up and get your life together.Since Christianity isn't the true religion you'd be delighted to know Nietzsche actively opposed it's core teachings and taught of the Ubermensch who strives to "Man up and get his life together". You might be interested in some of his readings | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 09:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Drinks or the park by your place Always enjoyed chasing women. Through the woods. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Unreasonable Disney-like Expectations of a 40 year old Single Mother in 'The Case for Marrying Mr. Good Enough'Spend a little time on the divorce_men subreddit and tell me you haven't seen the face of god | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Unreasonable Disney-like Expectations of a 40 year old Single Mother in 'The Case for Marrying Mr. Good Enough'Seeking validation from sleeping with 100 women is no different than seeking validation from a legacy of grandchildren. It's all rooted in validation. Turn inwards and focus on the present | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Unreasonable Disney-like Expectations of a 40 year old Single Mother in 'The Case for Marrying Mr. Good Enough'Marry, or don't marry. Life is going to be hard and then you will die | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/23 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What makes marriage successful?The risk of obtaining a lifelong partner outweighs the risk of financial ruin, especially as we're reminded of mortality as our grandparents, parents, and friends start passing on | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/23 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Best dating AppGirls learn what boys don't at a very young age | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What makes marriage successful?It's hard standing up for your own needs when all your life you've had to please your parents, friends of parents, elementary and high school teachers, university professors, and work bosses. All these stepping stones of life make us "yes men", indebted to pleasing the system, naturally paving our neural pathways to "please" the woman of our dreams. No wonder bad boy high school dropouts drown in it | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/23 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Lessons from a former incel.It's not so bad in your 30's and 40's | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/23 05:22 PM |
| 3 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniablePeople were saying the same thing back in 2015 | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 08:22 AM |
| 2 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniableI think the important distinction is that the average woman can choose the man that competes for her. The average man will spend his life competing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 2 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniableSo what you're saying is a woman's feelings for a man is like a man's feelings for his job | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…Just strike up a conversation with what is happening around you. For instance, waiting to board a plane? Ask the girl next to you if she thinks your flight will get delayed. She'll give you the proverbial "I hope not", and then - once eye contact is established - you can tell her how your wife's boyfriend lets you spend his frequent flyer miles | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 08:03 AM |
| 0 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…They were probably staring at all the social cues you missed | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Why do I keep trying?You'll at least finally learn who you really are | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | What “Frame” Looks LikeZappa on Crossfire is a masterclass in holding frame: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9856_xv8gc | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/23 10:16 PM |
| 3 | It All Comes Down To “Do You Really Want It So Bad?”It's all relative. Short arms make deadlifts more difficult. Long arms make benching more difficult. Not everyone is going to hit 3 plate bench while natural. It's important you try though | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | The 'Fuckbin'It's nice when women drop in, isn't it | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The 'Fuckbin'I'm so happy to be in my 30's. I'm no longer plagued by the incredible sex drive of the virile 20 year old male. Maybe I'll pick up my book tonight | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/23 11:43 PM |
| 2 | What Jonah Hill did wrongNo, it's because he clued in that his girlfriend has a sexual past (and present) way more colorful than he's ever seen, and his insecurities made him lash out | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 06:19 AM |
| 2 | What Jonah Hill did wrongIt's important because the famous get castrated for minor transgressions that oppose the female narrative. You someday may become famous yourself - maybe not Hollywood famous - but you may become a manager, or boss of sorts, where being above others makes you a target to those longing for power | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"It's either control or be controlled. Machiavelli was right | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/23 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"Expressing your feelings and emotions is usually fine if: She doesn't become liable for your feelings You have a solution You immediately act on that solution | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/23 03:01 AM |
| -2 | Dear Browns: here’s why you aren’t getting laidI mean your patriarchal system no harm. I hope the best for you and your wife | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/23 01:37 AM |
| -2 | Dear Browns: here’s why you aren’t getting laidName me five risks you take | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Confidence and the feeling of physical dominanceWhy would you fight with a woman you're plating? The only approach is to apologize and move on | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 04:54 PM |
| 40 | Dear Browns: here’s why you aren’t getting laidSounds a lot like western white guys | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 04:51 PM |
| 14 | Dear Browns: here’s why you aren’t getting laidSo what's the alternative? Go balls deep, get married, have 2 kids, then divorce? Being risk averse is fine | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Don't we all just want to be loved?Your personality. There's 16 of them. It's a good way to learn about your weaknesses | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Transitive trauma as means of controlTrue crazy behaviorally masks itself to mirror your best traits. You'll only ever know you've stuck your dick in crazy once it's too late | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/23 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Don't we all just want to be loved?Since you obviously identify as an ENFJ you're going to pursue true love a lot harder than the rest of us. Maybe you can find yourself a nice ENFP girlfriend. It's puppy love you're seeking, after all | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs.Forever a dancing clown | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 07:16 PM |
| 50 | Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs.Her: How many women have you slept with OP? You: What, you mean this week? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Emotionally Manipulating Women Into Cooking You Tasty TreatsModern day Japan is equivalent to the 1960's in America. The world is okay with it because the women who are being oppressed aren't white | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 03:15 PM |
| -1 | Emotionally Manipulating Women Into Cooking You Tasty TreatsYou can do your own thing for sure. But it's tradition for reason /shrug | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Emotionally Manipulating Women Into Cooking You Tasty TreatsOkay, but the post was satire | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 01:15 AM |
| 10 | Emotionally Manipulating Women Into Cooking You Tasty TreatsThat's the first step. You then marry and become a salaryman, and then she gets to manage your finances! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 01:14 AM |
| 7 | What Comes After Getting Laid?Religion has and hasn't been controlling hypergamy for thousands of years. It comes in waves | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 11:39 PM |
| 13 | What Comes After Getting Laid?There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses - Ezekiel 23:20 Imagine, today, thinking we're in the "decline" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Omg, the boredom.Now its time to figure out why you had to fill your void with her. Maybe go fill a couple other voids while you're at it | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | TIFU by going out with tinder girl and falling in love.OP can't catch her even with a broken leg LMAO | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/23 02:18 AM |
| 6 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreConsidering you're here asking for help there's only one way this is gonna pan out: your girlfriend is gonna leave you and your plates aren't gonna stick around | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? | Ask TRPFrame is built with hardship | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??But why marry and risk losing everything? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over her? When does it stop?You didn't regret the sex I bet | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 03:24 AM |
| 5 | How do I get over her? When does it stop?Narcissists, especially those with NPD, attract BPD. I'd highly recommend not practicing the dark triad because you will attract a BPD girl and you will mistake their love bombing for your "alpha awakening" | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined for menWould you say intermediate strength is a good place to be? I can't imagine working my way up to advanced or elite while working 40 hour days without steroids or a professional meal plan | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined for menWhy are you reacting so angrily? A man of value would would have agreed and then cracked a joke to whatever your commenter was going on about. Your value comes from a place that is internal | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is ruined for menWhat makes a good set of lifts in your opinion? 225 bench / 315 squat / 395 dead | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/23 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Why Lift? The Iron and The Soul.Why not just learn to discipline yourself and read like the piece suggests | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/23 12:27 AM |
| 2 | The rise of hypersexualized girls and f*ckboysstoners; jocks; greasers; preppies; yuppies; nerds; hippies; granolas; goths; emos; whiggers Some heavy boomer terminology going on here. For the younguns around here it's doomers, gloomers, coomers, boomers, zoomers, bloomers, et al | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/23 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Applying Psychoanalysis To Escape The WageCageThe sidebar says the literal opposite: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/23 06:20 PM |
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