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_vinland_/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 05:31 PM
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_vinland_/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 06:26 PM
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Not a fair comparison. Inject the person with several vials of oxytocin, then tell them the stats. Watch them jump
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 12:37 AM
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Narcissists by the definition of the DSMV believe themselves to be perfect unless they sustain a narcissistic injury, which is external. You're showing self reflection and introspection, which is internal, and a healthy human trait. You are far from a narcissist. A lot of the Dark Triad talk around here is to adopt tendencies to get laid. Those same tendencies won't keep the girl around
/r/TheRedPill15/11/23 12:30 AM
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You can't be a narcissist and paranoid with your own looks. That defies the entire premise of narcissism
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 04:52 AM
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A sub full of autists just rejoiced
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 04:50 AM
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It's over when unapologetic disrespect becomes the norm
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:59 PM
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Well, you got two kids out of it. I think marriage as a system is moving towards its roots where it's primary purpose is child rearing, and love comes secondary. If only the exit clause didn't exist.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 06:52 PM
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One would be a bigger idiot in Canada where there aren't even tax incentives to marry
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 12:06 AM
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The year is 2023 and JP is being hailed as king of the incels. Looks like whisper knew his stuff fellas
/r/TheRedPill10/11/23 10:28 PM
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I find this to be a pretty good place to process your emotions. The NarcissisticAbuse subreddit is excellent too
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:16 AM
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Stay in your house. It's going to be awkward, but if you leave her lawyers can argue you abandoned her
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:13 AM
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Guy is about to get laid more than any of us combined
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:12 AM
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Cheaters will also leave their phone unlocked and implore you to search through it. This is because they lock themselves in the bathroom for 45 mins with a burner. Ever wonder why girls do so many bathroom mirror selfies?
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:11 AM
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Down vote me all you want, but the man was having sex
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 06:43 AM
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Sounds like you're in the good version of marriage. You dropped the divorce card though. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/23 02:30 AM
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The scars will be forever. Cheers
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 06:21 AM
1

I am communicating in a language she understands best - covertly
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 06:06 AM
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How does everyone deal with this type of bullshit? She doesn't respect you. She will respect you if other women want you, though. Lift, dress well, be social. It's a stupid fucking game, and it started when you signed off on your vows
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:33 AM
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“THEN WHY DO YOU ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT HAVING TO TAKE HIM TO SCHOOL?” Projection at it's finest
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:31 AM
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Move on
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:26 AM
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This may sound counter intuitive, but your wife wants a man other women want. When I hit this point with a girlfriend I start chatting up other girls in front of her. I don't flirt. I just let her see how attentive the girls can be. Albeit, it takes physical appearance: good fitting clothes, groomed hair, and a muscular posture. If you haven't already, change your diet and start lifting, and then make yourself comfortable around other women. You can still turn this around before you choose to fi…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 05:19 AM
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She has the same crazy eyes as my ex
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 12:05 AM
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The love you feel for her she can only feel for her kids. She never loved you. She loved how you made her feel. You need to be alone so you can learn to love yourself, or you can jump into a new relationship where you'll learn that it wasn't the person you loved, it was the act of loving you loved
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 07:48 PM
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Make sure to film her when she's bruising up her own arms in the doorway too lmao
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 07:41 PM
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My ex would hide her phone recording on the dresser and try to start shit. I would calmly acquiescence to everything she said / did, and then as she'd run out of steam she'd walk and get her phone and walk away not knowing I knew lmao
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 07:39 PM
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Record everything
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 05:41 AM
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You need to find out who you are by yourself. It'll take years of searching. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 03:44 AM
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Sometimes the heaviest weight we'll ever lift is our feelings
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 06:46 PM
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I find projection fascinating. When someone knows they're useless their best bet at saving face is telling everyone else they're useless
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 06:20 PM
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Yes, then that's the same as my experience. She could have been cheating but I called her out on some shitty behavior that had been going on for weeks. I have never believed in the supernatural, but I do now believe that demons are capable of human possession. Good on you to make a devastating situation humorous for your friend. I hope he is doing well, and I hope you two share a better bond because of it
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 02:25 AM
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She did disappear the night before. This was about 1.5 years ago but those eyes still haunt me
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 10:23 PM
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I'd be crying at my wedding too
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 11:12 PM
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An older married woman might want a man with more money. An older married man might want a younger woman. Women aren't the enemy here
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 11:11 PM
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Not in that moment of time. The love is flowing. But people change over the years and decades
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 06:22 AM
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It's hard being single in your 30s when everyone around you is marrying. I'd reckon 30 - 40 will be the happiest years of your life as a married man. It's just that which inevitably follows with the flip of a coin that ends us
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 06:20 AM
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Go party at the wedding and forget about it. We all have different world views and we will all die. It's just that some of us make decisions that kill us long before we actually die
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 06:17 AM
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Better yet, just don't marry
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 04:27 AM
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Sounds like an annulment of one's weddings vows but what do I know
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 04:01 AM
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This has been posted here before but its great stuff. I disagree with his "get a prenup and continually discuss what to divide during the marriage". It's one of those things that sounds great on paper but doesn't work in practice
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 03:52 AM
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Explains why I'm here
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 03:13 AM
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At least the sex was great
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 06:56 PM
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I think OP is saying unconditional love is owned by women, children, and dogs. Women love their children, children their dogs, dogs their masters
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 06:17 PM
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It actually become the foundation for parts of the old and new testament. Roman roads were great
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 05:23 AM
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That's not how trauma works
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 07:03 AM
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They say the greatest miracle Jesus performed was having twelve friends in his thirties
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 02:59 AM
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The divorce_men subreddit is the most redpill forum you'll find on reddit at the moment
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:56 AM
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It's any girl really. Even when you're dating, girls will tell you at the dinner table that they never check their phone, only for it to light up 8 times while you eat
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 02:55 AM
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Mine just did a fuck load of cocaine
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 02:53 AM
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Were things easier in 2013? It took me 10 years to become the man I wanted to be back then but everything feels worse
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:49 AM
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Use the way back machine and set it to 2015
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:48 AM
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Women crave attention. They get this from social media. Men crave sex. They get it from porn. The internet ruined everyone
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:46 AM
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Stronglifts for the first six months. Wendler 5/3/1 for life
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 02:40 AM
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Statistically women file 80% of divorces, meaning it's gotta be really bad for the man to file to risk the financial hit. The way she jumps into a new relationship is very narcissistic. I'd recommend listening to as much Dr. Ramani as you can: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WSyj5Qpu2Sc
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 04:53 AM
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Extradite?
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 04:49 AM
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I'm under the impression that people who say you shouldn't stick your dick in crazy haven't actually experienced crazy. The narcissist or borderline will make you believe you've achieved your pinnacle alpha state by bombing you with love. The events that follow will leave you husk of your former self
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 07:38 PM
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They love Titanic because Rose's last thoughts are of Jack as she lies in her deathbed surrounded by the children of the man she married. It's the perfect dual mating strategy: Alpha fucks in the 20s, beta bucks and supportive children till death.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/23 07:30 PM
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A borderline personality disorder girl with an intrauterine device will give you the best sex of your life
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 06:02 AM
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It's in a married couple's best interest to avoid divorced individuals
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:22 AM
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True, but a BPD chick with an IUD will give you the best sex of your life
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 02:18 AM
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She's lost attraction (which is very common after having kids). What I am about to suggest is counter intuitive but I highly recommend you try it before you pull out the divorce card: Start lifting barbell weights. Hop on a program like Strong Lifts or Starting Strength. You can pack on 20lbs of muscle in 6 months. Get some nice fitting shirts. Start talking to other women in public (whether your wife is with you or not). Do not flirt with the women. Just be cordial, polite, and confident, to ar…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 04:16 PM
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Our jobs naturally put us at a social disadvantage (I'm assuming you work in tech because your name starts and ends with an underscore). I work from home myself. After the divorce I couldn't afford to stay in my high cost of living city I grew up in so I moved to a smaller town. I haven't made any new friends. There is no social life here. My lunch times are spent lifting weights and in the evenings I swim and cook. As the night rolls in I work on my side projects or just lay in bed with my favo…
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 04:05 PM
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Get a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 03:43 PM
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The emotional highs and low from a cluster B are as addicting as heroine and coke
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 03:38 PM
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Check out Dr. Ramani on youtube
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 03:36 PM
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Funny how alimony sounds like all-the-money
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 03:29 PM
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I mean, If I wanted someone who fucked all my neighbors while on psychedelics I'd just call up my ex
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 06:23 AM
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They'll bend over backwards until you commit. To some varying degrees that commitment means marriage or cohabitation
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 06:19 AM
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I thought it was really good tbh
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 06:16 AM
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I've always felt like women were nature and men were pollinators. Most men work to uphold the system. Few men get to enjoy the system
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 06:15 AM
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Damn, you pulled the "But I'm not happppyyyy"
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 01:26 AM
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Your title reminds me of that one greentext where Rose is on her deathbed thinking of Jack while her children and grandchildren watch, with her having nothing to show for the biological father
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 06:39 AM
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At least, now you will really learn who you are
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 05:13 AM
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She always wanted to see great art masterpieces in European museums. She meant while solo traveling in her mid twenties
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 04:55 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ, you thought losing all your shit in a divorce was bad? It only gets fucking worse. What the fuck. Never will I live with another woman again. I didn't even have kids. FUCK
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 04:44 AM
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Delete facebook, lawyer up, hit the gym
/r/TheRedPill04/10/23 04:03 AM
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You know that feeling when you're at the grocery store checkout and the cashier is checking out your items? That's how you feel in someone else's frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/23 04:02 AM
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True. 55% of marriages succeed. 45% fail. Still shit odds
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 01:23 AM
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I recommend diving into this guy's stuff. It's redpill af
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 04:47 AM
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Those are all some manly fucking men (exempting trump)
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 04:10 AM
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Your logic doesn't make sense. You still walk out with 250k which is more than 0 had you not gambled. And remember to pay taxes on the 500k
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/23 04:08 AM
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I feel you. It was Dr Ramani for me
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 07:54 PM
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Been there. Worst year of my life after losing my home, city (it was too expensive to stay in a one bedroom), friends (they came with the city), and savings. I moved back in with my parents and was bed ridden and crippled from depression for 8 months. I'm doing great now but my worldview with relationships has drastically changed. I now see relationships for their transactional nature and I see emotions (positive or negative) for their manipulative nature. I see love as access to resources. I se…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 11:53 PM
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Pay it all up front with a lump sum OP and move on
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:37 PM
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Ah yes. Modern day marriage is prostitution
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:37 PM
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Because it's human nature to cheat. We are apes with long distance telephones
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:36 PM
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Selection bias. We divorced men are here because we tried to fill the void in our hearts and souls with another person
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:32 PM
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But isn't perpetuating the white race the definition of Nazism?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 11:59 PM
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How many girls have you slept with? "What, this week?"
/r/TheRedPill25/09/23 11:57 PM
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It only works if you're dating. Attraction is sparked by your ability to walk away. Once married it becomes a game of never ending performance
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 03:41 AM
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Men and women are equally abusive. Humans are inherently selfish. I think what helps is realizing that we shouldn't legally tie ourselves to another person - especially when everyone is inherently selfish
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 03:38 AM
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She was never yours, and she will never be his. The kids will be hers though
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 11:52 PM
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Congratulations, but do not marry again
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 11:51 PM
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Your options shouldn't be between her and other women. It should be between her and freedom
/r/TheRedPill22/09/23 11:47 PM
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They lose respect once you give up your ability to walk away
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:28 AM
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I only go to weddings for the party. I don't pay attention to what is happening center stage.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:27 AM
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A marriage will fail if you don't make enough as a man. A marriage will fail if you make less money than your wife. A divorce will greatly benefit the wife if you make more than your wife. How is any of this a win for the man?
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/23 04:32 AM
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When she wasn't To The Left
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 04:17 AM
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Time to delete facebook and hit the gym
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 03:01 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXYdHIkQi9I
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 09:27 PM
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Watch it through to the end. It's a very neutral take on the modern gender war
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 09:25 PM
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I've heard the same from other successful marriages - avoid divorced individuals. Misery, or promises of riches and happiness, loves company
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 05:30 AM
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You seem like you have a heart of gold and this world isn't deserving of you. Keep being you
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 05:25 AM
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If you think about it, it's a mechanism of evolution to latch onto the strong during difficult times (and procreate if you can). For as difficult as the times are, the person doing the latching must be forever vigilant of their partner's faults, for she and her child will die in these difficult times if their partner has any weak points. Now, when the times aren't that difficult, and everything is a perceived threat to your survival, you get Borderline Personality Disorder. You're filled with a …
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 05:08 AM
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Projection is a powerful tool. I had never heard the term but was called one by my ex. It wasn't until I left and dug deeper into psychology that I learned much of the push and pull she employed was very reminiscent of narcissism
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 05:00 AM
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The movie is not as feminist as you think. Barbie ultimately burnt out and found peace and stability with her new family. Ken burnt out too and found solace in becoming a fuck boy. Both genders suffered for not embracing each other.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 04:58 AM
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But, isn't that what a narcissist does?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 04:51 AM
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Don't downvote the guy. We were all him at point
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/23 04:46 AM
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Have a good life my friend. It is what you make of it from this day forward. The soul only harms itself
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:14 PM
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On the bright side you're 32 years old. You have 33 more years to rebuild. Think of those in their 50s and 60s around here losing everything and then tell me you're fucked
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 11:06 PM
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She wanted you to grovel. You didn't, and now she's upset. Keep going
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 05:22 AM
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Remember the dual mating strategy. Often, after a marriage, the provider type no longer serves her any interest
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 05:20 AM
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Rather just tell her the ceremony will have her father escort her down an isle to legally transfer ownership to you by last name and that you're a feminist and you don't support such an act of patriarchy
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 05:02 AM
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I'll never forget my narcissistic ex. We lived together for a year and the lovebombing was honest bliss until she caught me taking a glance at a woman in spandex in public. From that day on it was silent treatments, cold shoulders, yelling, door slamming, and extreme devaluation. Granted we were boyfriend / girlfriend and not yet common law I just packed the bare minimum one morning and left. I never spoke to her again. Her hoover attempts, however, were severe. She would self harm, threaten to …
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:40 AM
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I imagine you are in your mid to late forties. I'm somewhere in my thirties and all around me my friends and colleagues have been marrying their long term partners. I can't imagine the pain they'll all be facing in 10-15 years but this sub, and a couple co-habitation experiences where I couldn't return to get my things, makes me feel it in my bones.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:27 AM
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Live a spartan existence in retirement focusing on body and mind and you'll make it just fine with your retirement savings
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 04:23 AM
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Though it's still in your best interest to not involve yourself with someone with habits of breaking the law
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 07:12 AM
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I don't think it's fair to call names. The sub isn't anti-women. Odds are we have a void we're seeking to fill it with relationships, especially post divorce. We need to find meaning in life outside of relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 06:48 AM
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They all hold potential if you give them absolute power. Do not commit and do not marry. You will be fine
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 06:44 AM
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A divorce is as bad as it's going to get in the relationship world. DUI's at 4pm are a walk in the park
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 06:42 AM
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Every single guy I know has a story about how they opened up in front of a chick they were dating and it went bad for them. It's standard projection. She wants you to open up and get in tune with her feelings while not sharing yours
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 06:21 AM
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As of late I have been noticing posts of The Male Loneliness Epidemic hitting the front page. If you read the comments you will notice the average redditor claim that the epidemic is a hold over from the patriarchy where men never learned to emotionally socialize. You will also find TikToks of women in their twenties claim the same but with one important caveat: they are not interested in helping you open up emotionally. We have half the world population actively blaming the other for installing…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/23 01:51 AM
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So long as it's said confidently it's believable
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 05:17 AM
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Did she find you being a stay at home dad attractive? I mean, you are here after all
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:28 AM
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Citations?
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:27 AM
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Nothing less sexier than a tamed chad amirite fellas
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:26 AM
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The two are mutually exclusive right
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:25 AM
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Because what's most attractive to her is a man who is able to walk away. You can't, at least not easily
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 02:23 AM
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An internet forum full of spergs who can't even land a relationship will no way in hell have the social skills required to terminate a relationship "beautifully". It's a high stress situation
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 04:00 AM
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The 25 year olds have infinite options. The 30 year olds are single for a reason. Have you considered maybe living a life of solitude?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 03:53 AM
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Sometimes no response is the message. If you're persistent and her covert communication isn't working then you're one of those guys that "just don't get it"
/r/TheRedPill20/08/23 12:57 AM
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Lets go fishing then
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 03:57 AM
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Women had and have a myriad of social connections in their life. For men, we usually have no more than our wives. Women initiate almost all divorce because they will be emotionally supported during the process and after. What are we gonna do, go fishing with the boys? The boys disbanded back in '06 when our wives got jealous that we were spending time away from them
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 02:17 AM
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Some time the wisest of all philosophies is the unix philosophy
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 01:40 AM
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Meditations, Gregory Hayes
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 01:34 AM
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Your views make perfect sense. I've converted to Islam. Thank you for your time
/r/TheRedPill07/08/23 12:29 AM
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If only religion could be based on love and acceptance
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 10:48 PM
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Since Christianity isn't the true religion you'd be delighted to know Nietzsche actively opposed it's core teachings and taught of the Ubermensch who strives to "Man up and get his life together". You might be interested in some of his readings
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 09:36 PM
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Next time, with a big grin on your face, just ask if there's room for one more
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 09:31 PM
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Drinks or the park by your place Always enjoyed chasing women. Through the woods.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 09:23 PM
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Spend a little time on the divorce_men subreddit and tell me you haven't seen the face of god
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 05:07 AM
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Seeking validation from sleeping with 100 women is no different than seeking validation from a legacy of grandchildren. It's all rooted in validation. Turn inwards and focus on the present
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 05:05 AM
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Marry, or don't marry. Life is going to be hard and then you will die
/r/TheRedPill06/08/23 05:02 AM
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The risk of obtaining a lifelong partner outweighs the risk of financial ruin, especially as we're reminded of mortality as our grandparents, parents, and friends start passing on
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 12:01 AM
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Girls learn what boys don't at a very young age
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 05:14 AM
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It's hard standing up for your own needs when all your life you've had to please your parents, friends of parents, elementary and high school teachers, university professors, and work bosses. All these stepping stones of life make us "yes men", indebted to pleasing the system, naturally paving our neural pathways to "please" the woman of our dreams. No wonder bad boy high school dropouts drown in it
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 02:18 AM
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It's not so bad in your 30's and 40's
/r/TheRedPill04/08/23 05:22 PM
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People were saying the same thing back in 2015
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 08:22 AM
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I think the important distinction is that the average woman can choose the man that competes for her. The average man will spend his life competing
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 08:20 AM
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So what you're saying is a woman's feelings for a man is like a man's feelings for his job
/r/TheRedPill01/08/23 08:14 AM
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Just strike up a conversation with what is happening around you. For instance, waiting to board a plane? Ask the girl next to you if she thinks your flight will get delayed. She'll give you the proverbial "I hope not", and then - once eye contact is established - you can tell her how your wife's boyfriend lets you spend his frequent flyer miles
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 08:03 AM
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They were probably staring at all the social cues you missed
/r/TheRedPill26/07/23 07:55 AM
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You'll at least finally learn who you really are
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 04:38 AM
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Zappa on Crossfire is a masterclass in holding frame: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9856_xv8gc
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 10:16 PM
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It's all relative. Short arms make deadlifts more difficult. Long arms make benching more difficult. Not everyone is going to hit 3 plate bench while natural. It's important you try though
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 12:00 AM
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It's nice when women drop in, isn't it
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 11:44 PM
1

I'm so happy to be in my 30's. I'm no longer plagued by the incredible sex drive of the virile 20 year old male. Maybe I'll pick up my book tonight
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 11:43 PM
2

No, it's because he clued in that his girlfriend has a sexual past (and present) way more colorful than he's ever seen, and his insecurities made him lash out
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:19 AM
2

It's important because the famous get castrated for minor transgressions that oppose the female narrative. You someday may become famous yourself - maybe not Hollywood famous - but you may become a manager, or boss of sorts, where being above others makes you a target to those longing for power
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:16 AM
2

It's either control or be controlled. Machiavelli was right
/r/TheRedPill02/07/23 03:03 AM
3

Expressing your feelings and emotions is usually fine if: She doesn't become liable for your feelings You have a solution You immediately act on that solution
/r/TheRedPill02/07/23 03:01 AM
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I mean your patriarchal system no harm. I hope the best for you and your wife
/r/TheRedPill29/06/23 01:37 AM
-2

Name me five risks you take
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 08:36 PM
1

Why would you fight with a woman you're plating? The only approach is to apologize and move on
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 04:54 PM
40

Sounds a lot like western white guys
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 04:51 PM
14

So what's the alternative? Go balls deep, get married, have 2 kids, then divorce? Being risk averse is fine
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 04:50 PM
2

Your personality. There's 16 of them. It's a good way to learn about your weaknesses
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 03:45 PM
2

True crazy behaviorally masks itself to mirror your best traits. You'll only ever know you've stuck your dick in crazy once it's too late
/r/TheRedPill28/06/23 01:01 AM
2

Since you obviously identify as an ENFJ you're going to pursue true love a lot harder than the rest of us. Maybe you can find yourself a nice ENFP girlfriend. It's puppy love you're seeking, after all
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 12:50 AM
4

Forever a dancing clown
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 07:16 PM
50

Her: How many women have you slept with OP? You: What, you mean this week?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 03:22 PM
1

Modern day Japan is equivalent to the 1960's in America. The world is okay with it because the women who are being oppressed aren't white
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 03:15 PM
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You can do your own thing for sure. But it's tradition for reason /shrug
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:45 AM
2

Okay, but the post was satire
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:15 AM
10

That's the first step. You then marry and become a salaryman, and then she gets to manage your finances!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/23 01:14 AM
7

Religion has and hasn't been controlling hypergamy for thousands of years. It comes in waves
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 11:39 PM
13

There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses - Ezekiel 23:20 Imagine, today, thinking we're in the "decline"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 10:28 PM
1

Now its time to figure out why you had to fill your void with her. Maybe go fill a couple other voids while you're at it
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 10:19 PM
1

Thank you for writing this. Similar to you, just 3 months in, mine roped me into moving in with her and cosigning her lease. At that moment it was as if a demon replaced the woman I was addicted to. I fled the morning her rage dilated her pupils black. I moved back in with my parents and, while we were not married, she pursued me with lawyers to pay out our year long lease. Like yours she also didn't have a job. She would make the cutest, bubbly, most lovingly naive expressions when I offered to…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 05:13 AM
1

You can't negotiate attraction. If, as a man, you are not attractive to other women, your woman will leave
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 10:53 PM
1

If you're still in this situation I recommend you lift weights and grow some muscle. Your wife will start to notice how other women see you and she will become attracted to you again
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 10:50 PM
2

red pill mf right here
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 10:37 PM
1

OP can't catch her even with a broken leg LMAO
/r/TheRedPill15/06/23 02:18 AM
6

Considering you're here asking for help there's only one way this is gonna pan out: your girlfriend is gonna leave you and your plates aren't gonna stick around
/r/TheRedPill11/06/23 10:32 PM
1

Frame is built with hardship
/r/TheRedPill10/06/23 08:54 PM
1

But why marry and risk losing everything?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/23 04:58 AM
1

You didn't regret the sex I bet
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 03:24 AM
5

Narcissists, especially those with NPD, attract BPD. I'd highly recommend not practicing the dark triad because you will attract a BPD girl and you will mistake their love bombing for your "alpha awakening"
/r/TheRedPill31/05/23 03:23 AM
1

Would you say intermediate strength is a good place to be? I can't imagine working my way up to advanced or elite while working 40 hour days without steroids or a professional meal plan
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 10:08 PM
1

Why are you reacting so angrily? A man of value would would have agreed and then cracked a joke to whatever your commenter was going on about. Your value comes from a place that is internal
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 09:35 PM
1

What makes a good set of lifts in your opinion? 225 bench / 315 squat / 395 dead
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 09:32 PM
2

Why not just learn to discipline yourself and read like the piece suggests
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 12:27 AM
2

stoners; jocks; greasers; preppies; yuppies; nerds; hippies; granolas; goths; emos; whiggers Some heavy boomer terminology going on here. For the younguns around here it's doomers, gloomers, coomers, boomers, zoomers, bloomers, et al
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 06:26 PM
0

The sidebar says the literal opposite: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 06:20 PM
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Why does everyone like to write like they have so much life experience? The only way you'll gain confidence is by being so badly burned that nothing else can hurt you. I'm talking basic non combat stuff, like a divorce or a failed business.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/23 02:39 AM
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