Well, to the guys that said she was cheating and I defended her, you were correct. I looked over our AT&T bill this morning to discover she has been texting and calling this one number for over a month.

It started on my birthday no less when she was up north in Washington at the races. SHE sent him a text at 9:43 am and they haven’t stopped talking since.

Mind you, she didn’t ask for a divorce until the 20th, a full 3 weeks after they started texting and calling each other. Some of those calls lasted over an hour.

Less then a week into my divorce, she accidentally texted me —she meant to text her girlfriend she was out with—that “Dave was going to be late, that she had just got off the phone with him”.

When I asked her about this Dave guy, she promised me he was “just a friend, and they “were just hanging out as friends” she promised me she had no “emotional bandwidth” for a new relationship.

The phone records prove otherwise.

I was a fool. This is my 3rd marriage and the 3rd time I’ve been cheated on. I guess loyalty was a one way street.

I’m so pissed right now. I went to the cellular store to get my own account, and tomorrow I’ll get my own bank account to change my deposit. I will be civil with her, as we have joint debt to pay off still. I’ll let her know before we part ways for the last time that I know she cheated.