RelationshipIcy2226 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	I have friends, a job, and a full life. I've also never felt more alone. Is this normal? Yeah… that part is real. No one really prepares you for the after. You handle the logistics, the paperwork, the day-to-day and then suddenly it’s just… quiet. Not peaceful quiet. The kind that reminds you what’s missing.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/26 09:01 PM
3	Setback: Acceptance Now Back to Anger/Sadness Yeah… this is one of those days where it all just hits again. And honestly, it makes sense. You’ve made progress you’ve gotten to a place of clarity about her, even lost attraction and that’s real. But grief doesn’t move in a straight line. It circles back, especially when something new gets added… and right now that’s your child struggling	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/26 08:53 PM
3	Cheating wife , two kids 4 and 2 Yeah… this is just a really heavy situation all around. Living together while separating, especially with kids, adds a layer that makes everything feel more intense. Anyone in that position would struggle seeing the other person move on so openly it’s hard not to take that in emotionally	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 04:03 PM
1	Go back?? Therapy must be a big help for us, but if you want I do have community that help and support you if you want to join there i'll give you the code, just dm me.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 03:50 PM
1	Filed Yesterday That kind of loss hits hard, especially when you tried to hold it together and it still fell apart.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 03:40 PM
1	How petty to be splitting stuff? Yeah i’ve been through this exact phase, and I remember standing there thinking, how am I even supposed to divide a whole life into two apartments? It’s not really about the stuff it’s about what the stuff represents.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 03:36 PM
3	Go back?? I’ve seen (and been around) this exact situation..where people separate, feel the pull back, and seriously consider reconciling. Sometimes it works. A lot of times, it doesn’t. The difference usually comes down to one thing, Did the core issues actually change, or did the distance just make you miss each other?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 03:31 PM
2	Child support and divorce child support is about the child, not about you or your ex. Even if you split time 50/50 and share all expenses directly, Some states will honor a mutual waiver if both parents agree and the court is satisfied the child’s needs are fully covered. Others will still require a formal child support order regardless of your arrangement. Since your state has a one-year separation requirement before divorce, it likely has more formal rules around child support. The safest move is to have a quick conver…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/26 03:31 PM
1	Opinions please Honestly, I’ve been in the same spot after my divorce, and my first instinct was resistance too. At the start, those “no overnight partners” rules feel protective like they give you some control and stability while everything is still raw. But after a couple of years, you realize things have changed. People move on, relationships get serious, and you can’t control each other’s personal lives forever. For me, the thing that mattered most wasn’t the overnight part it was not knowing the person aro…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/26 03:12 PM
1	Think I’m reaching my breaking point You sound burned out, and honestly that makes sense given what you described. You’ve been supporting the household for years, finishing school, and now caring for a baby while the relationship has been unstable for a long time. Anyone in that situation would feel close to a breaking point. You don’t have to decide everything today, but you shouldn’t ignore how close you feel to your limit either. Your son needs a steady parent, and you can’t do that if you’re completely burned out.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/26 03:06 PM
2	Blindsided divorce after our baby was born. A year later I’m still struggling with the lack of closure. I know your daughter is proud of you too, just keep on progressing and valuing your own growth. If you need someone to rely on.. don't hesitate I cand lend my ear to you ☺️	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 06:04 AM
1	Who Here Has Had More than One Divorce, and Why do you Think it Keeps Happening ? Yeah becaus I realized Putting yourself first isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. When you slow down, look inward, and decide to grow instead of staying stuck, that’s a solid move. It means you’re learning from what life handed you rather than letting it harden you. How 'bout you how you cope with your situation?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 05:19 AM
2	Who Here Has Had More than One Divorce, and Why do you Think it Keeps Happening ? Because we trust people so easily, but now I'm happy with my life, I'mfocusing on myself to become more progressive and productive.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 05:12 PM
2	Affair confirmed Oh that's not easy bro, i know how hard it is been there too.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 05:07 PM