I’m just here to rant.

My exe had an affair and asked for a divorce almost a month later. We made several agreements after she asked for the divorce. Be honest and not have people over.

She lied to my face multiple times since then. We had a talk in the kitchen to be honest and regardless if he she thinks it might make me feel, if I asked a question just be honest.

When i was on a business trip, she went out of her way to try to sneak her affair partner into the house. I called her the next day and she lied to my face again, saying he wasn’t there.

Over the last 2 days, she’s changed some of the last agreements we had. We had agreed to stay in the house until the joint bills were paid off, she’s now wanting to put the house on the market and be out by June 15th. That’s months I will lose with our dogs. She’s cold about it, even saying she needs her space. When I brought up losing time with the dogs, she said I could have them for for the next few months to make up for the time—which she knows I can’t do because my job has been gone from the house weeks at a time on short notice.

Tonight, noticed she had deleted all her stuff in the Amazon account and deleted all her credit cards. When I I asked her about it over text, she said yes, she got her own account.

We had agreed to split the cost of Amazon Prime, Netflix, and Costco. Why pay for price when you can only pay half was the logic. She said after speaking to her therapist, she needed to have all her own accounts. That ultimately, she was going to do what was best for her.

It’s not that logic that I have the issue with. It’s just another example of making an agreement with me and then changing it without even telling me about it. I can’t believe a word that comes out of her mouth.

I pay $600 a month more towards our joint bills than she does. No more. I got my own checking account and updated my direct deposit at work. I told her I will no longer pay more if the bills, that I will match what she pays; 50/50.

The extra money I’ll now keep to help pay for moving costs, and to put it towards my personal debt, which I’m sure now will be far larger then what we both had planned because she had to blow up all our agreements.

She also told me she was going to look at apartments this weekend. I don’t give a shit what she does, she still owes half the mortgage until this house sells.

I highly doubt her and I remain friends after we move out. I’ll try to get civil because of our dogs, but she makes that harder and harder with each passing day.

TLDR: wife can’t keep her word.