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This.... The only reason she's not gone now is because it might cost her and she feels. Like she can Co troll and abuse you. Yoneed to gently and firmly put a stop to that and reclaim your house.... Until such timw as the judge orders it sold. Then you heal and move on, rebuildibg your life brick by brick. There's aot if women out there who are finding out that there not all that and many would be over to moon to be wanted. You're not goi g to find them online, rather geso. E hobbies and interac…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 05:55 AM
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I understand completely and I'm living in a dead bedroom environment because it's cheaper to keep her and she's at least the enemy I know. If ever there was a set of laws that need to be reformed it's family law. They can size your assets, stipulate how the kids get raised and toss you in jail for not paying support on accordance with a formula that assumes the lifestyles of the kids and the lower wage earner are staying the same despite the separation and dissolution of the conditions that prov…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 11:58 PM
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Keep your thoughts to yourself for now, because if you alert her, she will work that much harder to cover her track. Play it cool, be a loving husband, but observe and also verify. Check into the phone records, look into Google maps and such and monitor her behavior while she's not covering her tracks. If you learn the wors, then you know and if you learn otherwise then you know that too and all without causing damage to the relationship if she's legit or warning her prematurely if she's not. It…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 06:57 AM
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Find a new therapist, and stick with your values and morals. As they get older the less you can force the matter anyway so all you can do is model the proper way to do things and enforce the my house my rules philosophy at your house. You'd be surprised at how much they crave boundary's, structure, and consistency. Just implement reasonable, simple rules with both rewards and consequences. The big one that works at my house is the wifi access. It shuts off for them at 11 except fri and sat night…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 04:04 AM
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Careful with the truth bim , you might hurt somebody, lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 09:48 PM
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I'm to the point that I too avoid the confrontation.... Because it's become a waste of time and energy. We've had it out, she either denied my experience or stonewalls completely and she never acknowledges or has accountability and nothing ever changes so I've become conditioned to just avoid it altogether. It's a coping mechanism but no substitute for a happy relationship
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 09:45 PM
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It's harsh, but get a puppy and move, or if the job doest allow time for an animal... Then channel it into something beneficial. It hurts to see the soul you love so deeply turn on you But you can't fault a snake for biting you if you handle it.. learn what you need to change in YOU to attract a higher quality partner.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/26 06:42 AM
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Truth
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 05:39 AM
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Nobody is coming to save you, and if you act now, while she's in limerance and has her head in the clouds dreaming about new opportunities, she might just agree to seperates amicably, with you going your way and her going whichever way she wants. Let him have her, they probably deserve each other. It's chess, not checkers and therefore strike when the iron is hot
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 12:14 AM
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Sounds to me like you already know what to do . It certainly doesn't get easier the more enmeshed you become and the more details you add to the equation. If it's possible, put the work in because anyone you meet is going to have things that you would rather be different, it's la human soul you're talking about and we don't align perfectly like a puzzle piece. Her flaws don't sound like they are easily lived with, so I'd say cut bait while it's still easy
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 09:42 PM
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Truth, it would be so much better if you would have the decency to let me know if you're done. Why waste our time if you're moving on? on?
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 09:13 AM
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Man, I'm sure sorry to read this. whatever the reason and the disconnect in your marriage it hurts to feel the betrayal and to see the end of all you put together and worked to maintain. It makes you feel like you were played, and it doesn't make you feel any better, but the truth is, people change. Women have an idea of the life they want and it seems to me that they don't much care who the guy is that fills that role, as long as you meet whatever criteria she has in her mind that her husband s…
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 08:59 AM
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Give it time, it sucks and it's pain that teaches caution for whatever the future brings. Control what you can and let the rest go. "It took a little time, tequila and therapy, threw it in a blender with ice"
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/26 05:50 AM
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Truth!
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 06:42 AM
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You're not wrong to be angry, but I wonder if the anger isn't misplaced a bit? It takes two to tango and a guy needs a willing partner. If she's willing to put herself in such circumstances, I think you have all the information you need. I'd suggest you get a paternity test of your kiddos and eliminate that doubt and then as painful as it surely will be, I'd say the two of them deserve each other and the inevitable consequences of their decisions.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 06:24 AM
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No Vaseline... Get ready for it because that's what's coming no job that means you get to pay to support her no house that means you're going to have to pay to buy the place to live because if she can't get you to move out quietly and cooperatively she will just manufacture temporary orders through the form of a temporary restraining order because she's afraid of you and your violence and your anger it's a classic maneuver used to separate men from their hard-earned dollars if you're smart you'l…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 04:35 AM
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This is very helpful as I'm at the point where I really want to either make it work, or just cut my losses and cut bait. I completely agree that you can't negotiate desire And the truth of the matter is that if she's not attracted to you, she's manipulating you for other reasons.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 06:54 AM
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It sounds to me like you're going to be much better off. With friends like that, who needs enemies?
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 05:45 AM
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Women always have a safety net or Captain Sav A Hoe who will be willing to rescue them. There's no lessons or consequences for them. Men get kicked around by life. If you screw up you pay the piper. Nobody is coming to rescue men but even a bitchy 4 just has to put her head out the window and there's a guy willing to Fuck her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 06:19 AM
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Truth, you can't negotiate desire nor can you negotiate an enthusiastic loving partner. At best you'll become co-parenting roommates. I'm struggling with this myself because I know the truth and yet it's cheaper to keep her. Good luck...
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 07:13 AM
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Let the wave of pain and anger subside and then try to have an intelligent talk before the next wave crashes down. We all have our faults and flaws, they might have even been cute or quirky when first getting together so don't beat yourself up any worse then is necessary to learn and grow. Having said that, you don't want to leave it up to the lawyers as they will happily take it and divide it between themselves. If you guys can't discuss it together then just be clear on what you want and what …
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 11:03 PM
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