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| 3 | Divorce is on the horizonUnfortunately, you've got absolutely no self-respect. She's told you in so many different ways that she doesn't want to be with you anymore. She got trapped because she got pregnant, and honestly, there's a good chance the kid isn't even yours. Look, I'm going to explain this as simply as possible: when a person tells you multiple times that they want a divorce, they're not dropping hints. They're telling you directly that they want out. No amount of couples counselling is going to magically fix… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Be the bigger man or fuck it?Sounds more like a self-causing problem you got yourself into | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Be the bigger man or fuck it?Most likely he was the main reason you separated in the first place. If she's moved on this quickly, who's to say the guy wasn't already waiting in the background, You really have no idea what actually happened during your relationship or how long this had been going on. So be the bigger man and get a DNA test on the kids. You don't want any nasty surprises further down the road when you finally find out that daddy might not actually be daddy. Better to know now than spend years living in denial… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 01:49 AM |
| 1 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainI think you already knew your marriage was in trouble long before Spain. You even said it yourself: Maybe this will be a fresh start. Maybe we'll find ourselves again. Happy, healthy marriages don't usually need to escape to another country to rediscover themselves. That tells me the cracks were already there. Spain didn't destroy your marriage. It just exposed what was already happening. She met the first guy she connected with and had an affair. Personally, I doubt that was the first time she'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Paternity testI'd get the DNA test. You've only invested five years, you're still young, and if it turns out you're not the biological father, it's better to know now than years down the line. Let's be honest, after the divorce there's a good chance the biological father could decide he wants to play a more active role in his child's life, especially if she's been sleeping with the same guy throughout most, if not all, of your marriage. If that happens, you'll likely end up getting pushed aside anyway. I'd ra… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | My wife is blindsided me and I’m still broken.I don't really understand. You were already 99% set on getting a divorce, so what was that remaining 1% you were holding onto..What was the blind spot.. Were you still hoping she'd suddenly change or that the marriage could somehow be saved? I genuinely don't get it. It simply wasn't meant to be. Instead of dwelling on what could have been, learn from the mistakes made in this marriage. Every failed relationship teaches you something if you're willing to pay attention. Take those lessons with yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/26 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Blindsided divorce after our baby was born. A year later I’m still struggling with the lack of closure.I'm guessing her AP didn't follow through.. in her fantasy new relationship ...by the way I would have double checked the DNA on the kids you don't want to get no Surprises down the line because she has been Unfaithful.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 06:22 AM |
| 2 | How long did you do therapy?If you’ve had a dead bedroom for a long time and haven’t been intimate, and you’ve basically been living like roommates since your son was born, I’m not trying to jump straight to the usual Reddit conclusion... but it might be worth making sure the child is definitely yours. I hate to give the typical Reddit response, but if there hasn’t been intimacy for that long and the relationship has felt more like roommates than partners, it may be something you should confirm. Not trying to assume the wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/26 01:10 PM |
| -8 | Affair confirmedI'm sorry to say this but if this is your third divorce, maybe there's something wrong with you... because you keep finding the bad ones and so maybe you need to ask yourself a simple question why do they keep cheating on you.. or maybe you just don't measure up..:)..it explains why they're looking for another person | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/26 12:49 PM |
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