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| 2 | "taking care of yourself". How do YOU do it, consistently?Agreed! Get up early on the weekend and ride into the sunrise. Wind therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 05:23 PM |
| 9 | "taking care of yourself". How do YOU do it, consistently?Bought a motorcycle and bought new clothes. I wear a button up shirt on Friday when I hit the bar, always compliments from the women. Feels great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 03:22 AM |
| 10 | Has she tried to come backNo, they don't come back, because that would be admitting wrong doing and that's accountability. Last I heard the affair partner bought her an engagement ring, that's one foot in the bear trap just a little more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 17 | Affair confirmedGet all your affairs in order, divorce her and move on with your life. Don't get married again. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/26 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Recently Divorced - What's the toughest hardest moment of your day - nights, mornings, work or co-parenting?I'm a few years past divorce but yesterday I had a day mare (was having a nap) about having a really ugly argument with the ex. Haven't talked to her in 6 months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/26 06:28 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else getting bitter towards the idea of marriage?No way in hell will I get married again. Women are too flighty to adhere to wedding vows, catch and release. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 09:20 PM |
| 8 | I can't believe this is where I'm at.Yep. Never believe what they say, believe what they do. Serve her papers and make your escape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Your Ex and Social MediaMine unfriended me before the divorce was final to mask her movements, I haven't used Facebook in years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 06:55 AM |
| 10 | MenopauseThe breast augmentation is for another guy, cut your losses and leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 05:16 PM |
| 8 | Talk me out of it.DO NOT SEND HER ANYTHING! You have a position of power by not communicating, you'll give that up if you do. 95% chance she doesn't give a shit and has another guy servicing her needs. Ignore thoughts of past memories. Indifference, time, distance are your friends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 09:24 PM |
| 7 | How am I supposed to be expected to just give it all up?Indifference, distance and time. These 3 things are what will heal you eventually. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 03:24 PM |
| 12 | Ex wife texting another guyI have 4 kids but I don't talk to the ex wife. She tries but I blow her off. The solution to disrespect is indifference and distance.(in my case) | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 01:36 AM |
| 12 | Ex wife texting another guyShe's your ex for a reason. Don't do anymore favors for her and forget about her forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I’m getting used here rightWhen you hear that 'I'm not feeling it' talk from a woman that is code for she's got another guy. There's always another guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/26 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Wife MonkeyBranched and I've become the needy ex PART2Nothing in the universe you can do to get her back. Accept it's over, walk away, don't communicate with her any further. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | My Divorce was finalized today.At least you got out of it without kids. Soon it'll be 6 months then a year without communication, time and distance help you heal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/26 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Is your self worth in the toilet?Its supposed to be about a month per year you were married to start to get over the pain of betrayal. Mine took a bit longer but eventually these feelings will fade, just try to put them out of your mind anytime you get wound up over it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 10:45 PM |
| 15 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.Don't ever post on the marriage or divorce subs like the one you described. It's full of the bitter, cheating harpies you yourself are about to be rid of. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Angry and need to ventThe good news is she's someone else's problem, you lucked out really. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/26 03:19 AM |
| 12 | My ex claimed she ‘didn’t need sex.’ Found her on Tinder. What the hell?Believe a woman by her actions, not by what she says. During my divorce she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend (she was cheating in the marriage with this guy). Shes never getting married again (3 years later they are now engaged). That dude is in trouble. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Where to Start Over?Isn't sales tax over 10% in TN? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Expensive hobby after divorce?Motorcycles, metal working and welding, firearms. 3 expensive hobbies of mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Needing advice on finding a new friend group pre divorceNo kids? You're lucky, cut ties completely and leave her in the rearview where she belongs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Nope. Unacceptable. Kick her to the curb, sell assets and split it. Leave and make your own life without her, don't look back, she is not your friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Let her go permanently. The longer you hold on to what she's doing the longer it takes to heal. You'll feel better for it, speaking from experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | r/divorceMy divorce was finalized 3 years ago and as tough as it was it's just another hurdle in life. We always persevere. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | r/divorceIt's kinda like visiting a mental institution. You get to hear all the different stories and problems of the patients but you get to leave and go home when you've had enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Divorced but feeling usedDon't sleep with your ex wife, especially if she's banging some other guy. Leave the trash on the curb, you don't bring it back in the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 11:26 PM |
| 14 | No one cares about menMight sound selfish but you being the husband/protector all that bullshit is over, take care of yourself and look out for #1 because no one else cares. Curb the booze, find other things to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageI was the breadwinner so if we're getting divorced because of her cheating she can pay her half of the Bill's or go get her own place. I also took 60/40 in the house split and equity cheque, that's the price of adultery. Make her pay for her own way, the days of free rides are over. I also charged her for pool maintenance, lawn work, anything that needed fixed in the house prior to sale. I even made her pay for the toll tag bill she ran up going to see romeo. Lol. Make it hurt and bleed em dry b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageEx asked for a divorce(she was having an affair) I tried everything to keep it together but once they've made their mind up that's it. Started making her pay half the mortgage and Bill's, she didn't like that but if she wants to stay at other dudes house she's welcome to go. He just wants her for sex no marriage, you take her, she's his problem now. I'm free! | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Giving her back my wedding ringPawn shop. Might as well buy a nice evening out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 9 | It would have been my 20th anniversary today...You don't celebrate that day anymore because you are divorced, don't say anything and let it pass like any other day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/25 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife’s new contact name. Need ideas!Cheating ex wife. No one looks at my phone but me and the description suits her to a T. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/25 09:03 AM |
| 2 | I am really sad for the men that do family activities with the SBTXWThat's why you ignore her, they are trash. Trash goes to the curb and taken away permanently. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Unbalanced Burden of Divorce: A Housewife's PrivilegeI use a US postal money order and pay her directly. First I photograph it then retain the stub. Child support enforcement has told her to tell me to send it to them so they can add their cut and wet their beaks. I don't work right now so they are not needed in the equation, fuck them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/24 07:53 AM |
| 8 | Getting re-Married adviceYou didn't learn your lesson the first time around? You'll be needing my services in the future (read my name). | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 08:58 AM |
| 7 | The Coldness AfterSame thing bud, they are nuts. Drop em like a hot potato, call it a day. Do not try to reason with them. Don't listen to pleas of fixing it. They won't ever take responsibility and they'll do it again and again and again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Like you I seemed to do everything. Work, Chores, Date Nights, Shopping bullshit. Nothing was good enough.Buddy you hit it on the head with the "I'm not happy" and teenage Jezebel bit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 01:38 PM |
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