How easier life has gotten after divorce? I realize I have so much more free time, peace, money and a positive mind. So much so, that it's so easy for me to reject a woman I'm dating when she begins to make my life even the slightest bit more difficult. It really just hit me today and it brought a massive smile on my face. I'm getting a big bonus from work soon and I don't have to worry about spending any of it on a pointless vacation or gift. It can just go straight into my investment accounts. Life is really good when you focus on yourself.