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Gamify your life . You can literally do whatever you want now my man 💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 01:22 PM
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Completely agree with you man. I’m 37 and 10 months post d day. I’ve lost weight , put on muscle , bought a motorcycle , made new friends and hobbies and gone out with a few ladies . My issue now is that I only wanna have fun with girls nothing serious . I don’t think I’ve got it in me for another round of that after 15 years together .
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 10:37 PM
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Bud , there’s someone else . Hate to burst your bubble . Time to move on
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 08:05 PM
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She’s gone mate . Grab your balls and do the mana work to get back to being comfortable alone .
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 02:57 PM
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This is the way brother . Have fun but that’s it
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:53 AM
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Uhhhhhh she will not sign a pre nup? Huge red flag there bud . I’d figure that out .
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 10:41 PM
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This is the fucking way .
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:57 PM
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Atta boy 💪💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 09:45 PM
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Don’t you fucking dare go on that date with your ex mate . Don’t you fucking dare do it . You’re a man now my dude . Bitches gonna pick up that confidence and come out of the woodwork . Trust me .
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 08:12 PM
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Lolol is all I have to say . Wish him all the best , stop thinking about the bitch , and move on with your life . Plenty of advice here on the sub man. Or just do what I did at 37 . Get jacked , get some tats , get a Ducati and have the ladies crawling my man .
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 07:45 PM
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Dude , I’ve dated a few girls after my divorce. After all the work I’ve put in, I’m finding that my solitude is gonna take one hell of a gal to compete with .
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 03:42 PM
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Atta fuckin boy 💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 10:13 PM
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Get jacked , get some Tats , get a bike , unlock your manhood . Come back to me and tell me what you think of your “beautiful woman” .
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 04:00 PM
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Feel excited about that !! Gamify your life and consider it an adventure!
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 11:59 PM
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Man . I promise you . Listen to me . Life is what you make it . I was married to an extremely wealthy superficially beautiful woman , and I was incredibly anxious and unhappy . I now live far more simply . I have a motorcycle , I have new tattoos, I decided to hit the gym HARD . I’ve quit my job once I lined up a better one . I’ve got a five year old girl where I split 50/50, and a year after my separation and finding my “mojo” I’ve met a person that is easy going and aligns with me quite well (…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 12:10 AM
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Fuck what your dumb shit ex thinks .
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 07:25 PM
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Oh buddy . You’re just beginning the journey of the mans soul . You’re entering the cave , you’re spiralling, but I’m here to tell you , man to man , you will go through catabasis . You will emerge from this a million times more self confident and happy , and fullfilled, but it’s gonna be fucking hard work . Many people will say oh let go of the feelings for the ex , and right now that’s hard to do . You need to fill your days improving your station in every way. Get to the gym , get jacked , ta…
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 12:46 AM
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Bud , you dodged a bullet like NEO . In time you’ll see that . You’re in the shit . Begin crawling out and into the light
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 05:53 PM
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Nah not worth it . Once you’re on the outside of it for long enough you wouldn’t even entertain the idea
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 07:07 PM
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The sign of a true man . You’ve got it . Let her go with love and turn your pain into something beautiful . Please , signed , your future self .
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 03:43 PM
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More than the height, I think it’s the attitude. I’m just carrying myself more upright , more forward and focused , and they can sense it 😈😈
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 01:02 AM
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I feel you brother. I’ve had fukin 3 dates in three nights . 2 of them just jumped on me . When you get “it” back it’s like they can smell it . Gonna slow roll this time in my life and savour it .
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 01:01 AM
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You’re a lucky man
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 02:30 PM
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Fuck the beforetimes my brother. I know, it’s like you get the fuckin mojo back and they just can smell it . Rock on 🤘
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 02:30 PM
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6’2”
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 02:29 PM
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V2 owner here too 💪💪
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:26 PM
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You need to buy super likes and reach out to them via message
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:23 PM
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Preach brother , preach
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:54 AM
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Thank you brother. Things are pretty good and getting better by the day
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:28 AM
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I fucking love it brother . I’m fit financially emotionally and mentally and they just come crawling out of the woodwork. Don’t think I don’t have my eyes open. All I need is me, my Ducati , and my little ray of sunshine my daughter . Time to go play 😈😈
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 04:28 AM
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I mean it’s pay yo okay for sure . Gotta message these girls first but then it’s like shooting fish in a damn barrel .
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 03:20 AM
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Already done , mv agusta superveloce S . Sex on wheels and an absolute panty dropper . Bikes cool too.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 02:19 AM
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Gonna be honest with ya . Likes don’t mean shit. It’s pay to play . On tinder , buy super likes and initiate lots of conversations, you’ll score way more dates that way . Women (good looking ones anyway) are absolutely inundated with guys likes .
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 06:11 PM
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Dude you dodged a bullet Jesus fuck lol . Buh bye psycho.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 04:15 PM
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Pretty sure this is a woman posting in the mens divorce forum . There’s an entire community for you , go there .
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 12:31 AM
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Pete you’ve gotta get a better job man. Or additional income another job . Hustle hard man.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 05:56 PM
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Set stronger boundaries. She is walking all over you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 03:49 PM
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Hmmmm. Cafe? Theatre ? Any cuties at the gym?
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 01:14 AM
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Marriage for you again huh. A masochist I see .
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 12:56 AM
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My dude . Go and explore the town solo . Go meet up with people , explore your hobbies , go play sports , chat people up at the gym . I promise you wallowing in your self pity is gonna make it worse . Make a plan to make some new friends and get after it! Use sites like meetup etc .
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 12:55 AM
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I’d take that sureness with a grain of salt .
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 03:54 PM
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Lol epic
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 04:57 PM
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Same thing happened to me mate . Nothing you can do but therapy to deal with the feelings . Control what you can control, and that’s your life . Here for you in solidarity
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 05:20 PM
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It’s over mate . Move on
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 12:45 PM
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Be strong mate . As yourself why are you still so hurt a year later . What do you need to make you happy? Your capable of doing that all on your own friend . Make new friends , take up social hobbies , get active , basically be more social! Here for ya mate .
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 02:28 PM
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Motorcycle . Feels amazing and you literally cannot think of anything else except staying alive on a bike .
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 05:40 PM
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A Ducati Panigale may break your bones , but never your heart. Just sayin 💪🏍️
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 09:23 PM
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I promise you. I know you don’t believe it now , but one day you won’t care anymore .
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 11:55 PM
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Glad you didn’t become a statistic my friend . Sending peace and love . Get yourself into a better place , start crawling and soon you’ll be sprinting again.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 11:56 AM
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Mine : “I’m depressed, I feel lost in my life , I don’t think I’ll date for a long time” Month later : abracadabra I’m cured! 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 09:04 PM
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Mistakes are something you do accidentally. Cheating is far worse than a mistake . It’s a deep rooted issue within yourself and you should aim to resolve it through therapy .
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 09:01 PM
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Nothing he can do when they’re with the misses .
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 02:54 AM
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Who cares . Not your circus , not your monkeys .
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 11:01 PM
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I bought a Ducati Panigale V2, and it’s waaaaay better than a wife tbh .
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 02:18 AM
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We are here with you brother . I am 8 months out from you , and it gets easier . Be strong . Don’t beg . Work out haaaaaard . Get some therapy. Start the process of emotional detachment. That will take time . Be kind to yourself , and do the things you’ve always wanted to do .
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 11:00 PM
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Don’t you fucking dare soldier . Don’t you fucking dare. People who love you would never put themselves into a position to lose you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 02:32 PM
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That’s literally the worst part. I hated it too man . I’m seven months in and the ex is already with another guy. Look in the mirror take a deep breath and yourself to get through this for your child . We men are always here for ya as well.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:35 PM
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Sit with the pain . Just accept it . Don’t hold it in . Find some time to lay in your pain and cry till you can’t anymore . Then tell yourself that you didn’t want this , she did .
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:25 PM
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There’s no stopping it . It’s part of your catabasis. You need to enter the dark deep cave , and emerge a new person.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 12:13 PM
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Lol .
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 10:34 PM
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This post screams red flag city my man . You’re still going through divorce , she is still going through divorce . You’re both so emotionally vulnerable and it’s so easy to latch on to another person to get that neurotransmitter rush to alleviate the pain . Tread lightly my friend . All the best .
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 10:28 PM
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It’s not romantic. It’s soy . People who base relationships off of “the feels” are just idiots.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 07:55 PM
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Oh I absolutely meant compromise on BOTH ends . If it’s just a one person shit show then present the other party with the info . If they don’t change for you, buh byeeeeee
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 08:28 PM
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This is honestly some of the silliest shit . Love doesn’t compromise? It’s literally in the vows if you marry traditionally . If you didn’t compromise , you’d literally never have a partner .
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 07:19 PM
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Oh man . You fucked up hard . You don’t love her , you love the way she makes you feel . If you loved her , you would’ve taken her into consideration.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:40 PM
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You work quick .
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/23 10:43 PM
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Don’t ever beg anymore . No one is worth your groveling . Don’t lower yourself that way.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 11:33 PM
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I’m so sorry man . The pain is unbearable. Don’t beg . Please don’t beg . It will make you look so weak . You don’t deserve this .
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 08:11 PM
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This is the fucking way brother . She picked an absolute beauty lol. What a loser. Keep on keepin on king 👑.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 06:28 PM
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Your “friend”. That guys a fucking snake and a tool. I’m sure they are perfect for each other lol.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 03:54 PM
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You still married?
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:51 PM
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You’ll go crazy trying to get closer . It’s no use , it’s like a hamster spinning a wheel . That’s why just letting go is the best option.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 12:59 AM
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It’ll take time man. The first 4-5 months I was spiraling hard in depression and anxiety . I still think about it , but much less at 7 months in. You’ll get there , but force yourself to get up and do shit for YOU. Become the best version of yourself !
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 11:23 PM
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So was my wife , before she left me on my birthday and was with another guy 3 months later (probably before). You’re trauma bonded and you need her like an addict needs drugs , it’s the same neurochemistry at play . Your “methadone clinic” is no contact . Each time you think of her , gently tell yourself it’s over and try and focus on something else , even for a little while . Read books , exercise , hang with friends , make more money. Take small steps to be the best you . We are here for you m…
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 11:05 PM
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Nope . No friends . For you. Go no contact unless it’s about kiddo. Man to man , you need that to heal .
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 10:58 PM
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Sounds like a nightmare hoss .
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 08:41 PM
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Lot of jaded men in here , many for good reasons . Don’t paint people in broad strokes .
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 03:49 PM
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It’s brutal it’s hard , but it’s over . Time to slowly emotionally detach and start moving on to be the best version of you .
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 01:56 PM
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My dude . It’s time to come to some hard realizations , man to man. In all likelihood, you probably did check out with anxiety and depression, as did I, and some people can’t handle that . I’m seven months in and it’s still hard , but I’m learning to focus on myself and try and not ruminate too much . Look at where you went wrong and don’t let it happen again .
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/23 12:39 PM
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Fucking right brother .
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 01:40 PM
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Don’t date man . Focus on you . You’re in pain . Don’t numb the pain with another person . Heal and be complete yourself .
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 01:36 PM
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Oh man . I’m so sorry but I’ve gotta give it to ya straight , man to man . The bitch is cheating . Grab your balls and contact an attorney. Tell her you know of her infidelity and are filing for divorce. A cheater has no respect for the man you are .
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 12:22 PM
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Most women are delusional. The “when it comes to divorcing” part is redundant.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 09:10 PM
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This post was absolutely created by a woman lol.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 08:51 PM
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Shits gonna kill me is right. I’ve seen your posts around here , you sound like an absolute beaut . Which I could have a beer with ya bud . Stay up king , don’t let ‘em keep ya down .
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 08:18 PM
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lol the dude had an entire continent of women to make it work with , and has an 8 year old girl in Australia . This one’s gonna be a riot lol.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 08:11 PM
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You’ve got serious issues .
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 01:25 PM
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Grab your balls and listen to periphery - blood eagle .
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 05:52 PM
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Yes sir . You are struggling because you have deeply rooted anxiety and trust issues over the infidelity. She doesn’t respect you , and knows she can have her way with you whenever she pleases . It’s a tough pill to swallow.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 02:26 PM
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We are all here for you brother . Please do not do anything rash . Always here to chat .
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 01:08 PM
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Jesus fuck …. What are you even doing ? This person has you wrapped around their finger and you dance at the slightest tug. Go no contact , detatch emotionally and move on , or be stuck in your limbo hellscape for the rest of your days. A lil tough love for ya , your choice either way.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 05:39 PM
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Your pessimism is showing my guy
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 03:07 PM
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Fucking legend , cheers to you
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:16 PM
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They’re good investments for your soul .
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 09:03 PM
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Bitches be crazy dude . A bike may break every bone in your body , but never your heart .
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 12:20 AM
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Again, you’re nit picking a Reddit post that was likely created in haste , and defending a woman who destroyed a home, a family, to be with their fucking neighbour . Glad you have a strong moral compass . How’s the weather up there in your ivory tower? Go for a walk woman , and get off men’s divorce Reddit lol.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 10:09 PM
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Interesting that you’re nit picking on semantics when literally one of his first sentences was that her was a good husband and dad , and she tried to leave for greener pastures, but I digress … 🧂
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 10:01 PM
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You remarried ….Ballsy of you
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 09:08 PM
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You remarried …. didn’t learn the first time round huh
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 07:01 PM
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Meh , I got inked up , bought a motorcycle, and am living happier than a pig in mud my man . Life is what you make it!!
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 06:52 PM
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A motorcycle will never break your heart . Just sayin
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/23 06:25 PM
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Yeah….I mean do all of this , but fuck keeping the bitch around . Do you know how many women are out there ??????
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 08:39 PM
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This is the way brother , this is the way .
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 11:47 PM
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I did the ol trade in the wife for a motorcycle. Fuck yeah !
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 04:37 PM
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I’ll just say though . It hurts as long as you LET IT . Feel your feelings for a few months, then squash the pity party and look forward boldly .
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 01:42 AM
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She is checked out ….. you’re only drawing out the pain . Give her what she wants . Divorce, heal, work out , make money , be THE man , and you’ll meet someone new 😊
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 01:33 AM
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Yeesh . My guy . It’s time . I think you know it . I promise you life will get better 😊
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 01:29 AM
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Go do some psilocybin mushrooms my dude . That’ll flip your broken script very quickly .
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 01:48 AM
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Yeahhhhh, I mean that sounds about as good as “all you need is love”
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/22 01:23 AM
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