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Oh Boy! She came right out of the door with her Dick swinging.
/r/MensRights24/06/26 05:25 PM
2

I'm just exhausted to this unrelenting BS. O don't even pay attention anymore.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 07:37 PM
36

I got my boy to read "The Manipulated Man" at age 14. I'm taking no chances.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 08:01 PM
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I'm sorry. I was just trying to save folks some time. As for a newbie, yes, i would recommend it and to watch it to completion. She's got some pretty good informative points.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 03:06 PM
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I just listen to the whole video. Its worth it but only in educational sense. Nothing in there for us Men per se.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 01:54 PM
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🤣👍
/r/MensRights14/01/26 05:16 PM
6

I stand by you. Just make sure to stand by your kids, and everyone else can go fu*k themselves off. ✊️
/r/MensRights12/01/26 02:05 PM
14

You are correct. I arrived at this conclusion long ago.
/r/MensRights08/01/26 02:19 AM
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MF can barely hold the economy together. When they can't handle housing crisis, inflation, and rinsing unemployment. They turn to gender/culture wars. Cuz that's an easy point scoring system without any measurable output.
/r/MensRights18/12/25 05:39 PM
35

You are not as cute as you used to be.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 05:38 PM
4

These "critics " can suck my left nut.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 07:07 AM
61

She's just getting annoying by each passing year.
/r/MensRights16/06/25 03:55 AM
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Do they a business death wish. No date, no app. Literally, their business model is dating. My boys are out here swiping while taking a dump! Woo oooohhh!
/r/MensRights10/06/25 12:43 PM
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Saving this. 🤣👍
/r/MensRights17/05/25 05:17 PM
12

So... is this program going blatantly discriminate based on gender?
/r/MensRights12/04/25 02:00 PM
11

r/womenareviolenttoo
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:46 PM
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r/womenareviolenttoo
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:44 PM
5

Amen
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:21 AM
15

Wait till you get to an actual date.... You'll want to baptize yourself again.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 09:09 PM
5

Personally, I'm really happy about this. If they are going to plunge us down. Let's all of us go down together.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 02:45 AM
12

It's time to start ignoring these types of women altogether. They are not serious about equality.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 05:57 PM
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I have no more sympathy left for them. They are too old to act like they didn't know what they were signing up for. Now, they want society to come together and clean up their mess for them.
/r/MensRights26/12/24 02:56 AM
3

Efffff No!
/r/MensRights23/12/24 06:36 AM
10

🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights23/12/24 06:35 AM
13

No!
/r/MensRights22/12/24 03:23 AM
1

Done .thanks
/r/MensRights18/12/24 08:11 PM
4

Just report it as offensive. The link is towards the bottom.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 06:51 PM
12

Step back and take a deep breath. YOUR daughter is yours no matter what the mother says. First things first, establish paternity. Get a lawyer and work on getting the DNA test to know if she is even your daughter or not. IF she is, then work with your lawyer on securing a visitation schedule. Be careful, though. Child support might be coming your way.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 03:21 AM
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🤣
/r/MensRights08/11/24 01:08 PM
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That's the funny part. This isn't in print anymore. You may be able to get your hands on a PDF copy. Worth chasing this one.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 04:56 PM
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Another recommendation: The manipulated man by Ester Vilar
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 12:52 PM
5

You are golden boy!. Get yourself a lawyer who can convince the judge that you fell behind on your career growth to take care of the children while she went to work to keep her growth going. Get custodianship, get child support, and if applicable, get spousal support too. You are entitled to it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:25 PM
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Get the best deal you can get out of this. Make this situation work in your benefit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:11 PM
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🫡
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 12:43 PM
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Cheer up dude! You are sitting on a gold mine. Get your bag. It's time to get alimony for continued lifestyle that you are "accustomed " to. 🙃
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 04:14 PM
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Dig your heels. You are the primary provider of care for your children. You have merit on your side. Get a good lawyer who can convince the judge of this fact. Go through this pain now and spend the rest of your life at ease.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 07:20 PM
2

Check-mate. Ask for the same.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 05:07 PM
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🤣
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 05:07 PM
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It gets better. Focus on yourself and change things around if you can. Go start a new life. It worked for me.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/24 04:11 PM
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There you go. Tells you all that you need to know. Smile, my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 05:49 PM
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This is how i see it. "I wish I could go back to using another human's utility/resources for free. I was too stupid to let go of a slave. " Depending on how much she cashed out for. She's realizing that she let go of her well-trained workhorse for cheap. Go enjoy your life, indulge in some self-care.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 02:43 PM
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Major reason is the coming population decline. The politicians are preparing for it.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 11:15 PM
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You wanted life on easy mode. You wanted someone to pay the bills while you enjoy raising your kids. Now you think he has served his function in your life, and you want to get rid of him. You wouldn't pull the plug because you are addicted to the comfort he is providing. He is right about "You don't contribute anything." Kids have been off the school a while back, and you didn't bother to get back in the workforce. You made your bed. You signed on the dotted line, and now that you have extracted…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 06:27 PM
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I'm of the thought that all men have to do is copy/paste the feminist manifesto. The war is one of PR. Keep outing them every chance you get. Keep taking them to court for any fuck ups on their part. I.e. they talk about gender pay gap, which is horseshit. While they sue airlines for hiring more male pilots because that's all they have in the applicant pool. Sue them back with the same logic on HR positions. Talk less with them. Interact with paper trail. Learn to strategically use your cameras …
/r/MensRights11/06/24 06:10 PM
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Lmfao... this was a good catch... 🤣🤣
/r/MensRights05/06/24 04:33 PM
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Meanwhile, some women had no problem committing paternity fraud. The feminist cheered it on.
/r/MensRights31/05/24 12:36 PM
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Absolutely! There is more in there that either you don't know or she doesn't want you to know. So many men fail themselves right at this stage. Craft your questions carefully. Do some more research on this. It's more than just assets. You can demand drug tests, messages, call logs, and talk to your lawyer about what more you can find using the questions correctly.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 11:12 PM
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Do the discovery, no matter what. Then, you can better gauge the buy-out part. Do avoid the court at a later stage. That shit isn't worth the trouble.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 10:10 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/MensRights29/05/24 09:43 PM
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No
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:17 PM
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I propose this: If a woman so badly wants to get married. She can set up an account that would earn interest. In the event, when she decides to file for divorce. That account will pay for all the divorce expenses for the man to fight. This would also include any expenses incurred related to the child/children custody.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 01:03 PM
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They are Asian and so am I. Men in Asia have a deep cultural code, not allowing yourself to be emasculated. The code says " over my dead body." It means I would take any amount of pain but never let anybody emasculate me. Even if it means losing money, jail time, or losing an entire family. Men in the West need to learn discipline. Not to give in to the pleasure/thirst traps. Keep your spine straight and never let the women piss all over you just for some sex.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 05:33 PM
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👍🥳🎊
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/24 03:10 AM
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File a lawsuit. Get your bag boy!. It's the soft guy era... Drizzle Drizzle!
/r/MensRights15/04/24 02:45 PM
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Agreed 💯. BJ on demand only exists when the paperwork isn't signed.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 02:59 PM
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You can be with someone, but DO NOT live together and DO NOT sign the marriage agreement. No co-mingling of utilities bill, internet bill. Basically, nothing that can prove a common law marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 12:56 PM
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Do it and call it work related expenses.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 09:42 PM
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Don't even entertain this question ever again. Go travel instead.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 11:21 PM
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Test her BS. Talk with another woman in front of her. Let's see how well it goes.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 09:23 PM
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Same here, and your thinking isn't wrong. You just woke up.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 03:46 AM
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We need to start taking legal action against such blatant discrimination.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 10:29 PM
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So much for equality.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 07:57 PM
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At this point, I just can't take them seriously and absolutely don't trust anything that comes out of their mouths. Just ignore it.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 07:16 PM
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This is how i read this kind of crap now "3 reasons Men should.......😴" The minute i read Men "Should". I'm already done.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 11:00 PM
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Awesome response. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 10:31 PM
2

Better yet. Next time, open the door with a hot chick and you standing there with your di*k out.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 08:05 PM
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It's the sweetest thing. Now she can go on romantic food delivery trips with him together as a couple. Order more food next time and tip the guy extra for taking this woman off your hands.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 07:08 PM
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Listening to her is chalk on a board. If I'm not wrong, At some point she says that she is married. Don't understand how you can be married to a gender that you hate so much.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 04:20 PM
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They would still demand that men pay for the dates. Now, the women would complain that they can't find High Value Men.
/r/MensRights02/03/24 06:55 PM
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Thanks Thanks Thanks...
/r/MensRights01/03/24 01:10 AM
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Already doing it. ✊️
/r/MensRights24/02/24 06:08 AM
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Use these steps. It just might help. Clean up your room. Bring more order to it. Reduce clutter and organize with a purpose. Start working on a workstation/desk. A place to zone out into your work, obsession, books, or studies for school. Get the right lamp for the workstation. Start writing everything that might be important to you. With a pen on paper. Get any cheap MP3 player. I know, old school, but it doesn't give you any social media notifications. Throw some music on it that helps you zon…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 04:04 PM
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Women Demanded Equality. Men are going to enforce it! This is the last generation of men who were conditioned to put the well-being of others over themselves. I'm already teaching my boy that he doesn't owe any woman shit. The free stuff has to stop. The answer to your question is that men were kept too busy. Trying to earn enough to feed multiple people. We didn't get any breathing room to ask these questions early on, and nobody told us either. Our own mothers told us to be super generous with…
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 08:26 PM
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Just get a kid from surrogacy. Be a cool single dad.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 02:31 AM
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They are equally a mess. I have tried that, too. They are even worse because they don't even have the work ethic to actually get a job. Don't have the language skills. No understanding of how to function in a developed economy. Plus, they would only look at you as a stepping stone to move on to greener pastures.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:20 AM
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Get a house, be prepared to hunker down, and only get a remote job. Pay to adopt or get a surrogate. Be ready to be a single dad. These women are not as good of a mother as you might think. I have done it, I know. You'll be a much more successful single father than being with a woman. You'll end up doing all the stuff anyway.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:29 AM
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👏👏👏👏 Brilliant. Thanks for sharing.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:30 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 07:48 PM
7

I take many doses of the pill every day.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:05 AM
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Absolute respect. I wish more men understood how to enforce the law and the court order RUTHLESSLY. That's the key. To think of it as nothing less than war. A standing ovation from me!
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 01:34 PM
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Counseling is a decoy. To stall you, and plan better to eff you over. If you don't go on the offense now, you will be playing catch up. Talk to a lawyer, and you fire the silver bullet.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 03:44 AM
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Feel proud of the fact that you didn't put up with a freeloader. She sounds like a leech.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 12:55 PM
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No regrets. It's like going through a much needed surgery. It hurts, but life gets soooo much better after it. Once i filed. I kept marching. Never looked back.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 11:36 PM
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Looks like you are not taking time to calm yourself down. Keep up with your kids and seriously work on grey stoning. Only interact with your kids and recoup for now.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 11:32 PM
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If you are worried about your legal status. Talk to a lawyer and file for VAWA.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 04:56 AM
2

Great point. I never thought of it this way. Thanks
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:38 PM
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Your mind is on the right track. Go enjoy yourself to the max. Call it Self-Love. You made it through and made it intact. 👍
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 03:31 PM
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You stood up for yourself, and you can be free now. Enjoy it, and look forward to a great, fun filled life. 👊
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 09:14 PM
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This is just incredible. They are about to run this country into the ground by running men out of the education realm, then wonder why they can't find men who aren't equally as educated as them. Plus, the economy is going to end up with less educated men to do work. These feminist wouldn't do the tough engineering jobs.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 11:38 PM
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😅... you sir need to celebrate. This is hilarious. I can't wait for my Ex's Bs to come through.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 09:55 PM
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Do post that shit show, if you feel comfortable.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/23 07:46 PM
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Start saving, bide your time. Live off rice and beans and prepare for when they lay you off. That would be a blessing. Immediately, turn around and file for CS modification. You'll be more in control of the situation after that. Consider subletting in the meantime.
/r/MensRights12/10/23 03:00 PM
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Male suicide rate is high... but women do more laundry. Male suicide rate is high... but men need to stand up against sexual harassment women face. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
/r/MensRights30/09/23 08:12 PM
2

To the OP. Take the gravy train away because she did the same to you. She wants your protection and provisioning of your resources, you take that away. We men are too stupid to realize something very simple. If the law doesn't compel her to have sex with her husband, the same law doesn't compel men to do house chores, take her out for dinners, or anything out of the basics. Be basic. Don't beg for it. Don't get mad. Just lay flat as much as possible. What has worked for me, is to focus on myself…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 11:17 AM
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Somehow showing tits in the fight for equality made a lot sense. Why can't men scream if they want to.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 06:14 PM
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Basically, planning birthday parties, researching where to dine and selecting the right resort for the family to vacation at. You as a dumbass man get to pay for all that with your actual labor. Oh forgot. To remind you to call your mom to wish her happy birthday. "Labor"
/r/MensRights15/08/23 06:48 PM
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Depending on the state I don't think she us eligible for it. That's too short of a duration in most states.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 04:55 PM
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It's just wow...
/r/MensRights05/08/23 09:24 PM
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Beautifully compiled. Thanks
/r/MensRights03/08/23 04:37 PM
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Women wait on 2 milestones. Once when you sign the dotted line, second when she pops the kid. After this is complete, is when her true self comes out but by then it's too late. You are already trapped. I understand the need to have a family and coming home to your own children. The least damaging thing you can do is DO NOT marry, establish paternal rights as soon as the child is born and make sure she goes back to work. Nothing is more deadly, in legal terms than a SAHM. If you still want a fami…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 03:09 AM
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Perfect, you have to communicate with her through certified mail. Keep sending mail to the address on file. She will claim that she didn't receive notification. DON'T tip her off, say less!
/r/MensRights29/07/23 08:40 PM
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My order says that I have to inform her of any change/loss of job within 15 days through certified mail. Let's say your order says the same and you lose your job. Now you have to inform her and keep the receipt for the mail. Child support stops, she screams, you produce the evidence of notification. Now she has to give you her new address. The only way to smoke them out is when money runs out.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 08:32 PM
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You are the only one that I have heard this from. Keep going, you are ahead of the curve. 👏👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 01:53 PM
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Let's Petition the MODs to pin this. This is should be the reference glossary.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 03:16 AM
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Oh shit... this happened to me.
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 03:15 AM
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So much for "Feminism is a very inclusive ideology ". My ass.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 12:58 PM
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Without any money in the company to go after, she wouldn't be interested anyways but you can mention in the final decree that she has no claim to it. Ideally, just wait.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 04:05 AM
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Do you have any children with her?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 07:45 PM
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Well said 👏 👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 08:04 PM
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I'm not black but this conversation has to start somewhere. I'm all for it, even if my Black brothers get the relief first.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:31 PM
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Your point isn't lost. You just don't have one. I'm sorry, not trying to be mean. It's happening right in front of your eyes daily. Hollywood, marketing campaigns, political campaigns and women. All regularly, openly, and shamelessly indulge in insulting men. I.e. can include hair loss, not being able to find the right Can of beans in the pantry. Completely ignoring that maybe men are just exhausted, emotionally and physically from working and paying bills. I have voiced my issues to my Exes and…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 02:55 PM
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Men are advised to walk away. Why aren't women asked to quit being abusive?
/r/MensRights16/06/23 05:55 PM
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They don't have anything for women similar to the wheel?
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:37 PM
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Agreed. Feminist have completely forgotten that men have rights too and they can exercise it as they choose fit but again. Feminists ideal world would be wherein men have no rights. Family courts are already there.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:43 PM
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🤣
/r/MensRights13/06/23 11:28 PM
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The author opens by shaming Depp for growing old then continues with ostrich-head-in-the-sand act by completely ignoring all the audio recordings of Heard's abusive threats towards Johnny in private. Feminists can go fuck themselves off.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 06:27 PM
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✋🤣
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 03:52 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 03:30 PM
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They might be on a protest black out for a couple of days. Several subs are doing that. It's something to do with reddit and 3rd party app connectivity. I'm sure they'll be back. You missing them?
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:09 PM
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Get a body cam. Record these interactions. If you want to be the primary on possession, you just might get it. Good job though. 👍 Keep doing what you are doing.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:06 PM
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Why can't you just live together. Depending on the state, you'll be considered married after, typically 5yrs. DON'T SIGN THE PAPERS!. As for the children, married or not, the custody battle is the same. You don't get any exclusive rights just because you are married.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/23 09:20 PM
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Understandable. Not a lot of guys can handle that. It's equivalent of taking a legal piss on your opponent to show dominance. 🤣
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:54 PM
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It might sound like an extreme reaction but sometimes you just gotta screw their heads back on straight. If you agree to let them go for 2 weeks and she takes longer, file for a restraining order stating that she is in the process of absconding with the children and you didn't consent to more than 2 weeks. A father's consent carries just as much weight as a mother's. Keeping children away from the father without his consent is considered child abuse. That shock would make her smell the coffee an…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 04:12 PM
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Under Hague convention, Yes. Not interpol.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 02:13 PM
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This might be the answer. Selling off the house and absconding might be an option. She can dissolve the marriage on the basis of abandonment. It'll be tough and would take years of wait time on her part but if she has to move on, she would have to get a divorce.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:44 PM
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Interpol wouldn't touch anything below a certain amount. My guess is at least 5 mil. The costs of retrieving money is yo high.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:33 PM
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If doing housing chores is slavery then me paying for bills is me being an ATM/workhorse. Eff that...
/r/MensRights04/06/23 06:00 PM
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For the love of God. Please record all of this and stay calm. If i was you, I'll take that recording and file for a PO/TRO immediately to put her in her place. After that she will always be the guilty party.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 08:12 PM
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What's the length of marriage and state? Any issues of domestic violence or history of it? List of assets?
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:58 PM
2

Basically you need to keep the conscious clause in mind. Which means that you need to look merciful by giving her something so she's not on the streets. I'd say, start the bidding at 25% and maybe move up to 30% and call it a day. Keep talking about her cheating during the conversation. That'll keep her and her attorney in check. You can also let them know that you will be asking for your attorney's fee too as you are the injured party if they go to court.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 04:18 AM
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That's your silver bullet. Be aggressive and keep insisting that you can prove adultery if she goes to court and the judge will not like that. The more you keep threatening her with the proof of adultery the more you get to dictate how much you want to settle for. Remember, 50/50 is not the standard. The idea is to give her just enough to look like you cared. Mind you, her attorney is going to try to convince you that your evidence is not going to be admissible. Eff that... steam roll them. Keep…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 02:50 AM
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Was trying to give you more ammo for mediation. Went through it recently. They don't give a crap about deductions. They will slice it in the middle and leave it up to you on how to pay and when.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 01:50 AM
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TX is not a 50/50 state. It's an at-fault state. If you can prove any kind of abuse that you have suffered because of her. This also includes adultery. Her share of the community property can go way below 50%.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 01:06 AM
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I have already started to talk back and analyze women with a heavy dose of scrutiny. Going to raise my boy in a way that he knows he doesn't HAVE to open doors or pay for dinners. Mothers of young men and boys have changed their mind too. They are teaching the next generation to NOT grind themselves for someone who is ungrateful. In another 5~10yrs these women will be running for the hills. I can already see the cracks. A minority of tradwife is surfacing. Rejecting the "Independent Woman " crap…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:25 PM
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I agree. Fuck this stay at home mom bullshit too. They hide their shortcomings behind the child and the society applauds them.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 06:26 PM
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Absolutely not. It just changed the dynamics completely and we as a species need to figure it out.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 11:57 PM
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I agree with you but this craziness is a recent phenomenon in historic sense. Jordan Peterson is right when he said that the birth control pill completely altered the gender relationship. With women having greater control over their reproductive health, men are seen as disposable. We as a society are yet to figure out a new set of rules to manage the roles of each other. Something that humans have never had to do.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 10:45 PM
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No. You are good. I was just talking about my thought process.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 03:41 AM
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💯
/r/MensRights26/05/23 11:01 PM
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I'm sorry that you had to go through it. As a father in this situation. It's just immensely demoralizing. At times i don't even feel like doing much for myself. I do try to keep my head up, go to therapy, gym but their are days i just want to collapse.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:48 PM
4

Honestly, it's not the children that intimate me. Yes, expenses are tough but dealing with a grown adult woman acting like a child and getting the government involved is an absolute disaster for a family unit. Thanks for your compliment though.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 01:15 PM
10

Went through that recently. Fuck feminism.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:38 AM
6

Yes. He is right. The longer the marriage the more a prenup becomes a joke. The Judge him/her self can shred it under the coercion or duress, unconscionability, and failure to disclose clause. It's messed up because a grown adult woman entered an agreement with her husband in her complete consciousness, yet the courts can undo the agreement on her behalf. The agreement was made at a different time. Now the circumstances have changed. Hence, the stipulations are too harsh and unfair for the woman…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:05 AM
7

Perfectly articulated 👏 👏👏
/r/MensRights22/05/23 07:08 PM
15

You keep referring to the well being of the children with the assumption that the mother would, by default, spend every penny on the children. Let's get a little critical here. What's stopping the mother from pocketing 90% of the cash and raising the children on canned mac-n-cheese.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 06:52 PM
15

Nope, never. I'll do the bare minimum till I get my kids back and spend like crazy on them when they are in my care.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 06:44 PM
20

I owe my children my life but not through a deadbeat Ex as a gatekeeper.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 06:41 PM
21

Many fathers don't abandon their children, children are snatched away from them. Then fathers have to fight to be in their own children's lives. While mothers are the default. Fathers are treated as cash cows.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 06:38 PM
14

You NEED to be a deadbeat to counter a deadbeat.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 05:21 PM
21

That's literally where we are with the current laws. Even attorneys have started saying the same publicly.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 03:40 PM
147

MeToo ✋
/r/MensRights18/05/23 05:32 PM
75

Wait for when you get laid off. File for a modification. Then you are in the driver's seat. #DoBareMinimum. Start to take care of yourself more from here on out. Do what feminist do. They call it self-love.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 04:36 AM
2

Welcome... Welcome... 👋
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:43 PM
3

👊
/r/MensRights03/05/23 10:42 PM
43

Hahaha... got that right. 🤣
/r/MensRights21/04/23 04:23 AM
45

It has become pretty obvious that their are certain type of women who understand completely that they would perish on their own. Hence, they become a parasite on men's wallets.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 02:04 AM
28

Good job. Stay the fu*k away from potential problems. They wanted equality. They need to figure shit out on their own.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:05 PM
6

Saw that... just wow... got no mercy left anymore.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 04:22 PM
15

These guys think they will get some pussy for writing shit like that... fucking simps.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 06:35 PM
5

You got it right. Keep going and you'll get your financial freedom soon too.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 12:01 PM
1

Because you mentioned that you might have some complications because you aren't a citizen. This is more on your legal side of things.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 03:35 AM
0

Read up on VAWA.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 01:58 AM
2

Mongolian war music (throat singing)
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 02:17 AM
25

You get days off without losing the job
/r/MensRights31/03/23 01:02 AM
61

Oops. I'm sorry ma'am. 🤸‍♀️
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:21 PM
49

My man!!!!
/r/MensRights30/03/23 05:16 PM
3

Can you provide more details on the duration of marriage, no. Of kids and their ages, any TRO PO, any family violence? Asking because all of these can effect the spousal maintenance. I just went through this. The mediator told me that i could've appealed against the temporary spousal support as it didn't fit any of the state sectioned stipulations. DM me if you need to.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 02:03 AM
6

Dig through your divorce agreement. Sometimes stipulations like these are tucked away in a law code somewhere. Ask your attorney. You just might be able to stop the move.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 08:40 PM
11

Alabama is not a 50/50 state. The Judge can do as they see fit. Which means having a bleeding heart for the damsel in distress. Keep your nose clean as they can use anything against you to give her a larger proportion. Most likely she will site income disparity. Don't quote me on this. Talk to a lawyer first.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 07:58 PM
1

Which state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 07:48 PM
13

Well said
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 03:21 PM
5

👍
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 10:53 PM
2

I found an amazing woman who is a single mom. Her kiddo is a pre-teen. I straight up told her. I'm not going to sign the papers ever again but she'll be treated exactly like a wife and i will treat her kid like my own. She agreed. Several things helped that you can possibly use as a gauge to measure things moving forward. She's a working professional with a college degree. Been handling her expenses alone for past couple of years. Has her own home. Doesn't plan on giving up working. All the abov…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 02:36 PM
9

There you go. She already has a plan in her head. Don't assume naivete on her part.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 12:53 AM
11

She's bullshiting you. When push comes to shove. She'll know more about the law than you do. She's softening your defense so she can fuck you later. DO NOT FALL FOR THAT!
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 12:27 AM
2

And file for a TRO along with the divorce. Ask your attorney about this.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 12:21 AM
5

💯
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 12:10 AM
2

Then file first thing in the morning. Don't wait. Let her discover that you have already filled. It also makes you look better because she is going to say that you abuse her. Why would the abuser want to get out of a relationship? That right there would contradict her entire narrative.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 12:06 AM
6

Alternative: You can threaten her with a tough long fight. Which would make her dream of being with this new guy slip away slowly. That's where you can bargain and get her to relinquish the custody. If you file right away everything locks in until this is settled. If you can make this drag on for another year. She has to stay put, if she leaves with the kiddo, that's parental abduction. In short: Be a pain in the arse.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 11:52 PM
3

I agree. Just got my divorce done. She wanted more money. The more $ i put up the more she forgot that she is getting geographically locked in. To the OP: See what motivates her. Offer that and get your kid back.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 11:45 PM
2

She's incentivising you by not asking for money. You can do the same by saying Give me the kid and you start over. In return, you can sign a very open communication plan with the kiddo. In terms of brutal honesty. I feel like She's the person who drifts wherever her feelings take her. Unstable parents can cause lots of issues for children. Better to fight for your daughter now than her yo yoing back and forth depending on how it goes with this guy. Plus, get it in writing that she's making no cl…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/23 11:27 PM
0

As an individual in a relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:33 PM
2

MGTOW... even the breeze feels different. Feels like the shackles are off. The determination is back. I'll eat rice and beans but I'll get my financial goals completed. I will recover from this. I'm taking it as a challenge that in the coming years, she's going to kick herself thinking about what she lost who she messed with. Stay strong soldiers!
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 12:16 PM
1

Same here. Got shafted with the exact same numbers. Moving forward, never sign the papers. At least that'll protect your assets. You made a very good decision to call it off right away. The longer they stay the more they destroy.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 04:19 PM
1

Absolutely!!!! When I read that. I finished it in a week. Just couldn't put it down. It removed the fog super fast.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 02:34 AM
1

Read the manipulated man. Go Dutch on EVERYTHING. From chorus to expenses. Educate yourself on marital laws, assets division, child support. DON'T sign the dotted line. Do what they do, Not as they ask you to do. Fully indulge in self-care. Value your $s. They are your sweat and blood. Protect your $ at all costs.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 05:05 PM
1

Women hate the idea of spending their money on the guy. We men know it. The more she makes the more of an asshole she becomes. We literally get nothing out of it except looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:31 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. What motivated for your ex to let you have your child? If you don't mind sharing.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 10:11 PM
-2

I wanted a stay at home wife. All so kiddos can have a perfect home. Now i have changed my mind. In today's economic climate if a woman says she wants to be a housewife, she is wanting a man to be turned into her workhorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:27 AM
1

From the man's side. Marriage is a scam. Once you sign the papers, you are now legally a work horse for the woman. When she is done with you, she'll take your kids away from you and there is nothing you can do. So yeah! Fuck Marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:38 PM
11

Leaving shit stains wherever they go.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 08:07 PM
7

Agreed 100%
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 12:31 AM
1

Here in TX it's based on your current income. If it's the same in WA then skip it and get back to it after the divorce. Nobody needs to know what you make after the divorce is final until child support modification is needed.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 06:39 PM
49

Don't try to make sense of it. They are messed up. Just focus on yourself and get out. Don't take their accusations personal. They like to casually throw the words 'abuser' and 'narcissist' around. Like any of them are qualified to diagnose others or to self diagnose. Fuck it. Move on!
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/22 06:45 PM
1

Ah misogyny... 😲🤣
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:51 PM
8

Then make an exit plan.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:23 PM
28

It's part of a long game. To constantly agitate you to make you loose it one day so she can claim abuse. Nobody is going to ask about what she's been doing on a daily basis. Happy birthday 🎂
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 06:27 PM
15

Nope. You are just recovering. Give yourself as much time as needed and start to find activities to do. Gym, travel, hiking, etc... it will get better. Move to a new place if needed.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 09:27 PM
16

Keep marching. Just dial down your expenses for now. You'll rise again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:52 AM
1

What kind of paperwork did you have to submit to prove income?
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 07:30 PM
2

Yes. Neither
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 01:45 AM
1

A little over an year
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 11:28 PM
3

I'm going through the same and I know the feeling. You need to stay calm and calculate your moves. Trust me you will end up regretting even the a short text. You have to plan a lot before you go in this. Specially your finances.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 06:10 PM
9

Go for it but try to keep your demeanor calm and collected. The best way to loose is to go to war with her. Keep the focus on your kids. Hold your words because every word will be scrutinized. Organize your finances before pulling the trigger. And please try not to get yourself into debt.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 05:59 PM
3

Post some details, if you don't mind. I come here to learn as much as support others. Stay strong and keep marching.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 04:42 AM
26

You will feel better when you look back and realize that it's better to end a bad relationship than keep trying to fix that is broken permanently. You certainly don't want your kids in that environment.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 03:44 AM
8

Get the fuck out man!
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 03:14 AM
1

My daughter is 8 months old. My concerns are about keeping the house baby safe. She doesn't pay much attention to things like keeping the cabinet doors locked up, installing gates to keep the children out of the kitchen. Safely securing sharp objects.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/22 04:02 PM
1

She's been in US for 3 months. So no records yet. She doesn't even have SSN yet.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:15 PM
1

Please understand that it is a form of abuse. She was abusing you, wether you accept it or not. Put your foot down and get out of the relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:13 PM
1

Be ruthless and firm. Draw the line on what she can and can't get. Be fair and have a talk. No, it doesn't have to be messy if you snip it quick.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 11:29 AM
4

This is a very well thought-out psychological abuse. Once you have lost your self-esteem you are easy to control. All of my EXs have tried this. I have gotten so use to recognizing it. Once they start telling me my fault i just tell them theirs and I do let them know that they are on thin ice with me if they continue.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 11:26 AM
2

So it's a legal document stating that you have legal been separated without divorce? Can you please post some links? Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/22 05:08 PM
2

Can you please elaborate. I have never heard of this before.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/22 04:29 PM
21

I agree. Women are already ahead of men on this. When women decide they want to leave, they rip the bandaid in a heartbeat. We men are emotional idiots to keep mulling over the decision to end a relationship. I personally think men need to have the confidence that they can get another woman. It's that fear that keeps us from taking the leap of faith.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/22 02:07 PM
7

That statement alone validates how awesome of a father you are. She's irrelevant. Try to divert your mind with your children and more gym. One day your children will turn around and tell the world how great of a dad you are.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/22 03:16 PM
1

It depends on how you approach them. Some men flat out start begging for sex or the woman's time. That shit is just plain stupid. THOSE men hand the power to women. Stand your ground and watch them shit their pants.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 10:54 AM
1

I would be a loyal, committed boyfriend. A dedicated father. Take care of the expenses but NEVER sign the marriage papers.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 09:03 AM
1

The revolution has already begun. I have stopped paying long ago. I don't approach any woman in public, only through apps. I tell them straight up that I don't kiss on the first date. And I will only have a live-in relationship. I WILL NOT SIGN THE PAPERS. Fuck'em
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 12:58 AM
1

My man!!! I'm with you 💯
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 11:19 PM
12

I'm 38. I can tell you that most of them are using apps. Just keep scrolling and swiping. It's pretty easy. No need to approach them personally and give them all the power. You can do it while you take a dump. 😉🤣
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 07:02 PM
3

Have a threesome. Be the king 🤴. Just kidding to lighten up the mood.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 06:28 PM
1

I'd always go ruthlessly 50/50. We men take pride in paying for everything only for that to bite us in the ass later. Not signing the papers gives a huge advantage of not being legally subject to draconian laws of man being the provider and the woman being treated as damsel in distress. Our society has moved way past that nonsense.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 06:25 PM
4

Do it in a public space so cameras are watching.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 04:16 AM
11

Naa, no lids needed. Your children will remember a loving father for the rest of their lives. Keep doing activities with them. So some day they can say proudly "My daddy taught me this...". You are doing great. Keep making exceptionally good memories with your kids. They are smarter then you think.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 01:47 AM
17

Please let that little in you alone. If you go back now, she'll be more vindictive than before. Women can't handle rejection. You have already said it loud and clear that you can and will walkout. She'll cook up more deadly traps this time.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 11:31 PM
4

Pakistan American here who grew up in Middle East. Just stop dude. Have a live-in relationship with the right person NOT necessarily a pakistani woman. Someone who values family. DO NOT sign the marriage papers. After 5yrs, depending on your state, your union is converted into a marriage anyways. Be a dedicated father, a committed husband but all that doesn't require the papers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 11:23 PM
2

Don't go back and don't look for a new 'Wife'. Have a live-in relationship but a dedicated one. Depending on your state, after 5yrs it turns into a marital union anyways. Keep the new one on a 5yr probation. Enjoy something new in life, keep them on their toes.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/22 09:30 AM
14

Keep a log of everything. Including cameras. People like her are very fishy. Start creating a mountain of evidence.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/22 01:20 AM
1

I have been married a little over an year. Separated exactly at 1 year mark. The recent 2 jobs were barely 3 months old. I've quit both but got another full-time now. Don't know how that's going to play out
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/22 12:39 AM
2

I have already compliant about it. Thanks for words of encouragement.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 08:31 PM
2

She's given a visitor visa but i think she's applied for VAWA. that's what people apply for green card when subject to abuse, for which she again their is no evidence. Which means her long-term status is still subject to approval.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 08:15 PM
0

I did but he said he can't say anything about it because it's a personal decision. If her lawyer poses the question "did you loose a job with the intended to reduce child support?" I would have to tackle that on my own to answer truthfully. To which I thought I can explain that 2 jobs are quite a burden with an infant.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 05:05 AM
5

You have no idea what a simple word of encouragement means at this point in time. Thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 01:38 AM
4

It's not really necessary. 1 job is sufficient. I just wanted make more for my kid's college funds.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 11:20 PM
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