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If talking to an AI sex bot, heck lets say it was fully integrated with a physical realdoll body, makes you happy... then you never truly desired a flesh and blood woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:48 PM
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Corner the market in blowjob VR sims!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:47 PM
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If you see a double standard, you wouldn't rationally determine you need to bully the fat women to fix this issue. You would rationally determine you need to build up fat men's body positivity views within male culture. You'd build men up, not tear women down. The fact they only focus on destroying women's beauty standards tells us a lot about the emotional pettiness of these men. Also FYI blue pill/mainstream men are extremely supportive of women's movements. Leftist men are dyed in the wool su…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:39 PM
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She got criticized for two main things: one, she looks horrible now compared to her chunkier self. Her face looks distorted. She just flat out looked healthier and prettier as a chunky girl. Two, the effects on her vocal chords seem to have impacted her negatively. People that went to shows when she was fat compared to shows where she's become skinny have said they notice a distinct difference. As someone that was a day one adele stan(I was a fan of her before her big break, a friend had sent me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:33 PM
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I'm also pretty sure she would clarify her statements in such a way that a reasonable person would understand she doesn't mean literally "me and my friends only find 1 human male attractive at a venue and we all clamor for him" and would admit that all women have different 'types' of guys they go for and a singular venue will have multiple men that are attractive to some women at that venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:33 PM
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"They just say that so they don't get canceled by the woke mob!" or something dumber is what RPers are gonna say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:21 PM
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Lol the story about that 92 year old guy leaving his wife of 50+ years for a 50 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:18 PM
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This is a very recent change in divorces, and if you dive into that 70% you find nearly 90% of the men in those relationships were contemplating divorce at that time, the wives just beat them to the punch. Turns out people in really bad marriages think about divorce long before the actually file for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:16 PM
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You can want to be chased and still have a 50/50 relationship when that relationship forms more solidly. From my end on dating sites, especially if the woman is physically attractive, if she even reaches out wfirst, and then you don't reply within a few hours, she often unmatches. None of these things have anything to do with a 50/50 relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:26 AM
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Most liberals are former kids of conservative parents. It's like the old joke "Why do all these damn heterosexuals keep having gay babies?!" Liberal parents tend to have liberal kids. Conservative parents tend to (eventually) have liberal babies or grandbabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:35 PM
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The retirement system was awful and completely dependent on your children's ability to take care of you as you aged. We see abandonment issues in 3rd world places that still don't have a social safety net for older generations. Even China has had elderly abuse issues due to still having a society built upon "take care of your parents/aunts/uncles/grandparents."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:12 AM
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Most women are having one child and stopping at that one. Even younger women, going by currently statistics, are doing this. It's fairly rare to find a childless woman in her 40s in america, SK, etc. Hence the right-wing obsession with "above replacement level."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:08 AM
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Adding to this, the type of women having multiple kids right now is a demographic conservatives don't want having children at all. They're usually young, POC or white, and anti-conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:06 AM
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It's also a trend that is purely socially-culturally related, so if things change we'll actually see a dip instead of increase. Things aren't set in stone and trends don't always go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:05 AM
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"Hey cuntpockets!" aaaand he's in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:02 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/1dyj5hc/gamer_bros_exhibit_excessive_emotionality_in_cod/ u/Excellent_Badger123 you need to get great at COD and pwn some fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:57 AM
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NYC is going to depend 100% on what burrough you're in. Most people don't date outside of the locale that they are in, which is sort of ironic because people in smaller cities are more likely to be open to dating someone in a neighboring city than someone in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:47 PM
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You're mentally confused bro, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:46 PM
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Wow a rogue Perrin hater in the wild. :O Honestly thought book Perrin had some amazing story lines and some of the most real world motivations, imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:45 PM
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Major ick factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:44 PM
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Nerd spaces have gone mainstream enough that these women by and large are 'normies' overall. Every Con I've been to, if you actually engage with the women there, are usually very mild mannered average types that just enjoy a certain fandom or the community as an accepting group. Yes weirdo horse girl types exist too but they don't make the majority of women at these places. Now, I would agree if we analyzed girls/women in say the 90s at these Cons. 2024? Nope, mostly normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:37 PM
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raises hands Statistically speaking the vast majority of world find dating to be 'easy'. Easy is being defined by me as "can engage in this activity and is successful with it." Success is defined by "can maintain a romantic relationship with another person for more than 3 years." Before an adult human dies between 60-90, they will have multiple LTRs under their experience. Something as low as 3% of humans never obtain this, and are almost exclusively people with severe mental, emotional, or phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:33 PM
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The slog was book 6. If you made it past that(you did) you're almost there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:31 PM
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Many men in this sub openly hate women and they get upvoted for it. General misandry and misogyny are downvoted in most places on reddit. r/women might be an exception(although I highly suspect if we did a survey there you'll learn less than 20% of users of that sub feel misandry is acceptable at all.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:30 PM
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Russia once again on the worst side of history, yet this exactly what RedPillers and even "moderate" BlackPills are asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:24 PM
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Bullshit and you sound like a radfemme that have helped seed the destruction of every wave of feminism that attempted to do something grand. Feminism helps men and women. It's primarily goals(4th and 5th wavers) are beneficial to men as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:50 PM
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Feminism is at its core about egalitarianism becoming the norm within society. It isn't female liberation exclusively. Egalitarianism helps non-elite men just as much as it helps elite-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:35 PM
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and talk about normal things like you would with your friends, then you're gonna be perceived as a platonic friend. That's not what happens though. Women that are interested in dating you romantically will have that seed in the back of their mind. After some period of time of getting to know them, if you make a move when she's receptive to it, you'll form a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:13 AM
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Yea, right as if it's easy for some autist to constantly make friends. If they live in a metropolitan city area, this is true though. Autistic people are capable of having a multitude of interests, and often become highly respected within those circles due to their autistic nature bringing out positive qualities that most cultures view as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:58 PM
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There is no functional difference. If you train a woman to build a nuclear bomb, she will be able to do so. If you train a man to build a nuclear bomb, he will be able to do so. Replace 'nuclear fissionable weapon' with whatever topic au jure that you think is the current hardest thing to do for a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:51 PM
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Exactly. The subtle differences between everyone on earth through every single axis is a combo of hormones, genetics, sociology, history, legal, moral, environmental, and religious vectors. Yet the human species is more alike than dissimilar to each other. If I take a woman and man from every single culture on earth and ask them deep probing questions, you're going to see incredible overlap in desires and needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:49 PM
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There are far more similarities than differences, especially socially and legally speaking. You're basically acting like one of the HBD nerds except for these silly brain scans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:48 PM
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It is not taboo at any company, including fortune 500 companies, to consensually start friendship groups at work and almost all hobby groups and you find a partner eventually within that group. There are a tiny handful of companies where it's heavily frowned upon and we shouldn't be judging things based on those small amount of companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:31 PM
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There are cultures where sexual attraction and compatibility are considered secondary /not a priority in a marriage. All cultures on earth currently are this way. All of them. Yes even western ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:01 PM
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All societies are having kids. If a society needs more kids, they will incentivize reasons for people to do so. If someone needs bodies in a hurry they will make economically and happiness-scale reasons to immigrate there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:19 PM
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That's not how modern militaries work, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:08 PM
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u/ainsleygz holy shit this was too good of a reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:57 PM
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Right now men, specifically right wing men are the ones losing their minds over a silly meme. Human beings are more dangerous than bears, tigers, elephants, hippos, snakes, and any other creatures on land. The only time humans may be on equal footing or in a worse position would be against hungry sharks without a boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:46 PM
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You clearly don't understand how most people interact with each other nor how they think about learnable skills. You can certainly stake out the position that the mainstream is wrong, that humans are genetically or some other reason locked into not increasing their abilities to interact with the world, but in doing so you need to acknowledge most of us don't believe in such 'fate' for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:34 PM
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To maintain a friendship with someone, and I mean deep friendship not just acquaintance in similar circles kind of thing, you have to take steps to actively pursue that state of being. You do have to work hard on friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:32 PM
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Doesn't have to be 1 for 1 equal, just something equitable. Men aren't physically reeling from the labor but they're still having to take care of a pooping, vomiting, crying infant that is up at all sorts of weird ass hours compared to what most people are used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:30 PM
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Men absolutely should legally get similar time off with their children. Federally speaking it should be law. The problem is, even in places that allow for this we see men squandering their time off and not spending it with the children at the crux of why they're getting the time off. It's really fucked up but a lot of men still have shitty conservative, self-centered ideas about themselves over their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:14 PM
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Because that's not what people are doing. They aren't thinking "I'm naked 5 feet from a bear or man suddenly alone". In a vacuum, would you rather be in a place of vulnerability with a wild animal or a thinking human? Most logical people know humans are the top of all food chains on earth. We are the alpha predator. Another human is infinitely more dangerous, morally and pragmatically, than a creature of the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:07 PM
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Who the fuck is going into the woods, or treats this silly question scenario without any weapons or tactics? If a bear is twenty feet from you, you still have multiple avenues to get the bear to retreat or kill it if it won't retreat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:04 AM
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No, and you clearly don't know much about bears and how humans dominate them in all areas we inhabit, including polar bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:03 AM
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The question posits: All things being equal, can you survive against a man or a bear? Bears are easily outmaneuvered, out paced, killed with traps and weapons, scared away, etc. If it's a nice man vs starving bear, women would be fine with the man. If it's a nice trained bear and evil guy, everyone should be choosing the nice bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:48 PM
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I'm a man and I answered bear. 100% of people are answering the question honestly when you get past the absurdist comedy of the question. No I wouldn't snap my fingers to replace it with a man OR a woman. Humans are inherently more dangerous than other creatures in the terrestrial world. Only when we start talking about sea creatures does the table turn, and that's only if someone doesn't have access to boat. Bears, elephants, hippos, alligators, large cats, etc. are all creatures that are domin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:43 PM
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You're in a statistical anomaly situation. Most women now a days in their 30s are happy being single as long as she has some good girl friends to keep her company. Yes they'd love a great relationship with a man(or womanfor the lezzies) but they're gonna maintain being happy by themselves until that man appears. Men in their 30s are usually ready for marriage. Men in their 20s aren't, as a rule. You sound like you hang around immature men, 30-somethings going on 20-mentally. I'm around 30 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:34 PM
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My bf M (35) works overnight and every morning between 4am and 6am when he’s off I’m F(24) asked to leave the room so can he can receive a good rest. Am I selfish for not wanting to leave the bedroom when he comes in from work. He says I’m being selfish whenever I don’t leave the room, He says me sleeping beside him makes the room extremely hot and that my movements wake him up. But for me sleeping out in the living room for another few hours is uncomfortable and I hate it… it’s extremely bright…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:48 PM
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If it's "wrong" for someone significantly older to date a college aged person due to their lack of maturity and life experience, are you also against allowing 18 year olds to; vote, join the military, join the entertainment industry, own property, take out bank loans, sign long term contracts, etc? Because all of those decisions can have potentially life long negative consequences (e.g. PTSD, being maimed or killed via the Military). Everyone I've seen that are hardcore anti-large age gaps in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:22 PM
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He's got a serious case of the gayface.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:30 PM
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94% of men have had 1 LTR by the time they're 29 years old. Explain to me how if the apps are the "only mentality that women have" that this isn't negatively affecting vast majority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:25 PM
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The people that "settle" are mostly very happy and on the road to 20+ year relationships with a rollercoaster of shared happiness and shared sadness like all relationships have. Some of those that settle now will divorce and remarry into a happier relationship. A very small amount will divorce and be unhappy until they die. People that don't "settle" end up moving from short term fling to short term fling until they die. Their happiness depends on their outlook on life, but statistically speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:48 PM
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Is lying wrong? Yes. Will it get you laid? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:38 PM
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Consensual you nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:53 PM
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My boy is thicc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:41 PM
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Why the scare quotes? Yes she is a "transgender" woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:38 PM
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Lmao this is a perfect insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:38 PM
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In your scenario, she would be claiming it. We know its possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:36 PM
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I've held women down from the bottom. It's very, very possible especially if she's petite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:36 PM
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While penises can get hard when completely relaxed state, generally speaking heavily drinking prevents this in most people. Physiologically the evidence would point to him being the aggressor. Exceptions do exist to this rule but in a court of law(criminal) we'd go with a preponderance of the evidence. Now if he and she both stated he never got hard and it was a digital manipulation or oral, then it's more 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:35 PM
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Mariko is the perfect wife 10/10 become a passport bro in the 1500s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:26 PM
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Hey she's pregnant so you won't need to wrap it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:25 PM
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Damn... how you gonna get them back?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:24 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hMVfKV7rBw Holy shit if a pudge like Jim Norton can land a hottie like her... y'all should have hope! u/Lazy_Round_640 this is your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:24 PM
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I know genuine couples where the dude looks like Elon, doesn't have a ton of money, and she's a solid 7/10 or 8/10. However... those dudes are insanely charismatic and 'outgoing' to a level most other guys aren't. Musk's ability to get attractive women does seem to be mostly his wealth, and a tiny bit women that are attracted to super quirky dudes like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:21 PM
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SSBBWs will haunt you in Hell for your sins on earth, repent now!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:28 PM
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The reason for most of those is almost always the fact those same women have obligations towards children and society sees that as a worthwhile thing for those women. Men that are sole caregivers have very similar rates of incarceration and bail and sentencing. If you look at those same stats and only include single women with no kids, the numbers almost exactly match the similar male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:14 PM
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Female sexual abusers are also more likely to involve non-penetrative sexual acts, and less degrading acts. Yes the type of criminal activity and length of such sessions does matter. How it makes the victim feel long term matters as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:13 PM
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Unironically yes, we do need more SAHDs and society shouldn't be so shitty towards those men when they take their kids to activity playdates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:11 PM
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If you're looking for friendship + relationship experience, go for it. Just be upfront after a few dates you don't wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:09 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mY711HJK7pg Ron White coming in hot with this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:08 PM
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If you have money for a hostel you have money for a motel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:00 PM
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Hows the baby doing?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:58 PM
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1) Happiness as a concept is poorly defined and hard to study. I don't trust most "happiness" studies. Then you need to present a better hypothesis. By not doing so, you're just showing how ridiculous your position is that you can criticize something globally scientists believe they think they have a decent handle on, without presenting something better. 3) If relationships with men suck so much, why are most single mothers in such a hurry to find a stepdad. You would think that it would be bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:21 PM
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Not a single mother Not obese Lol lemme guess "These are completely reasonable expectations in the western world!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:55 PM
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No it isn't, even in the deep Valley. Look on glassdoor and assume this person isn't one of the few that scored a great upper management position in some startup from 2005.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:33 PM
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If you live in a major metropolitan area, you go out regularly with mixed groups of single people(or married people with single friends), and you're somewhat put together you're gonna find someone. If you don't meet this criteria, then learn how to take steps to obtain it. 94% of humans on earth manage to do this with at least 1 partner in their lifetime, with the majority doing it with multiple partners. If you're in that 6%, then yes it is "your fault" to some large degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:20 PM
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And he makes half a million a year income. Bet this dude also has 9" cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:08 PM
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Look up incarceration rates in California then come back to us, lmao. Oh you're probably one of those "They need to lock up EVEN MORE" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:57 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F69kq6jis754d1.jpeg Femboy's dream!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:51 PM
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White girl wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:10 AM
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Having same values but never spending a single moment of time with each other due to competing interests would 100% lead to the dissolution of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:57 AM
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I mean it wasn't randomly picking men out of a hat to blame for things men have foisted upon women for the past couple thousand years. We have literal documents written by men, for men, on why women should be subservient legally, morally, functionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:11 AM
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Psst, college age kids have been fucking for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:08 AM
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Even if he has to neglect other household chores, you'd put your kids first in the hierarchy of needs and take care of them. Yeah mom needs to be pulling weight, but that doesn't mean dad gets to throw his hands up and go "I did my part and nothing more!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:45 PM
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his kids are raised by iPads Notice he's doing fuck-all to fix this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:30 PM
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I wonder what the marriage/LTR success rate is for coprophiliacs. It's stupidly rare, but when you find a partner for it, I imagine you just instantly fall in love. That's right incel-bros, shit-eaters get more pussy than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:28 PM
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Its less "Let me do X hobby for Y women" it's "Lets do X hobby and if there are any cool women there, gain some new friends." If it leads to a relationship, great! But that's not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:26 PM
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Literally nothing anyone proves to you will make you stop saying this. You're locked into one world view and it's your own downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:25 PM
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Another post that is a piece of evidence that the most broken posters here came from horrible families that showed no positive emotions towards them, or they're so delusionally autistic they don't even see the amount of times people positively loved on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:17 PM
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All humans should show emotions in front of all other humans. What fucked up family background do you come from to ask this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:15 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahaha. You're so ignorant you don't even understand how ignorant you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:10 AM
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Something something "45% just isn't a large enough percentage to matter!" something something "But look at how society treats those cucks!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:14 AM
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I can’t think of a couple I know where the woman makes more money. You don't know enough professional women then. Very simple. Also you don't know couples where the man has become perm injured or otherwise is unable to obtain the higher paying jobs. I know several blue collar dudes that make less than their wives who are nurses/accountants/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:13 AM
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Have you tried drinking, fucking and falling asleep with your bros?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:52 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1d3e3e9/shes_going_to_be_an_amazing_partner_with_that/ Passport Bros are booking their flights now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:14 AM
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Date autistic women and normie women that are attracted to autistic men. It's that 'simple.' Out of the 3 billion women on earth, tens of millions to hundreds of millions are in the top 2 categories. Finding those women is a bit harder, but the internet has made this much easier connecting people across vast distances that have similar needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:30 PM
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Oh grandpa! That scamp!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:02 PM
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So you're saying rich gay men are the happiest people in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:01 PM
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I saw something a while back that South Korean women in particular are one of the fastest growing 'travel obsessed' group in the world. Those women are pissed and tired of SK men being backwards yokels. They want to see the world, and I really love that fact they're taking charge on it. Really every single country on that list above has one thing in common: men are conservative dickheads and the women are increasingly liberalized modern-thinkers. It's why I keep repeating that blue pill and blue…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:07 PM
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Also a pseudo-dictatorship for the past 80 years, only recently seeing some change in this political structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 PM
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Also very misleading when you actually talk to Gen Z men about the positives and negatives of modern feminism. I can guarantee a Gen Z dude will come up with more positives and interesting thoughtful negatives than a Boomer or even Millennial will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:02 PM
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What he can do? Focus on himself and his immediate family/friends/community and develop healthy happy modern liberal sensibilities about how to interact with everyone. Also learning inner peace with himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:59 PM
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They're delusional and think that their personal thoughts are the same thoughts other men have. Yes Mr. RedPill wants a tradwife and 3 kids by age 25. Most men however don't want that. They may want 1-2 kids, and that's only if they're in a very stable LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:46 PM
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Lol thats not even how bonobos work. A few ape species do work on a more alpha male dominated way, but we've also learned that loner beta chimps also frequently mate successfully with females within a troop. Something like 30-40% with genetic testing we've done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:21 PM
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Men don't own women in any tribes we've came into contact with. Even the North Senegalese Island people follow a pretty normal familial structure from what little we've been able to see from drones and limited contact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:19 PM
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Do you not live near colleges? I'm in a college town and the bars are hopping every night, especially weekends and holidays. Drove downtown last night to go to a Memorial Day party and things were wall-to-wall traffic wise. We have nerdy bars, LGBT bars, frat/sorority type bars, old people bars, etc. and even the old people bars are very busy throughout the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:12 PM
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The lesbian divorce rate goes significantly down if you don't include the lesbians that got married right as their state or federally allowed for it. A bunch of lesbians got impulsively married(yes this was dumb) and it inflated the divorce stats. A lesbian getting married in 2024 will likely stay with her partner for 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:02 AM
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3 billion women on earth, literally tens of thousands or more women find you attractive. You just gotta find them and court them when they're available.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:22 AM
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Wow the rare "this actually seems plausible in a real world way, rather than some weird fantasy that someone completely made up" story. Also yes great for her, move on and no you're not the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:18 AM
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Complete truth in one simple sentence. Although FDS are still less delusional than TRP guys, not by a whole lot but still noticeable that the preferences the FDS mods pushed were somewhat reasonable for a partner. TRP's "virgin submissive" trope is utterly ridiculous for a modern liberal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:07 AM
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Bussy code unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:03 AM
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Vanilla and Chocolate are like the two most bought ice cream flavors, yes including in places like Coldstone. It's weird but one of those weird factoids about how certain civilizations live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:02 AM
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Nope, weed and alcohol are two different classes of drugs in how they make you feel and the 'culture' around them. Although almost all weedheads I know are actively having sex with one or more partners, especially teens that smoke weed on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:26 AM
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They're consuming less drugs and vices overall. Ironically Zoomers are doing what Boomers wanted their kids and grandkids to do, refrain from "negative" stimuli behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:25 AM
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So you admit it's a patriarchy around the world... Ladies, we got'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:00 PM
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There have historically been very, very few matriarchies, including tribal studies we've done on existing tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:56 PM
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Simply put, women would. Women have the knowledge and access to weapons, tactics, and physical strength to harm any man they would want to in this society. This fantasy that men are 100% going to win any war against women is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:55 PM
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I just filmed this porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:54 PM
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I think the key point to your post is that, very few men on earth are going to forgo sleeping with a 'night person', no matter how much they loathe such a lifestyle/personality quirk/whatever you wanna call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:31 PM
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No, that just means you don't hang out with people in lower social circles like rednecks, white trash, poor blacks and latinos, etc. Those guys absolutely have rock bottom standards for who the fuck, and slightly higher standards for who they form longer term relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:27 PM
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They absolutely fuck women they find unattractive. The whole beer goggles thing for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:23 PM
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Nah men usually date someone they consciously or subconsciously don't desire for long term coupling, and are still on the prowl for "the one." Hence why male cheating rates are what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:18 PM
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RIP Alpha King...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:44 PM
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You're a crazy person. Circumcision is definitionally the term to use in this context. Your obsession over the phrase 'genital mutilation' is showing your incredible weirdness. That's coming from someone that would ban globally through the UN resolutions being able to cut any body part off a child or adult without their permission or permission of a reasonable medical professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:28 PM
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Very few people disagree with the last two, some people disagree with the first one and unfortunately they use their religious views to justify it. Obviously lots of people are against conscription for ANY gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:17 PM
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Everyone has red flags, yellow flags, and green flags. You're delusional if you don't think your bf or yourself have some serious underlying flaws. Are you both sentient AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:57 PM
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Oh bullshit. Women and purple/blue pill men genuinely want people to go to therapy and get serious help. Since it makes society better overall if everyone is more reasonable in their emotional regulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:56 PM
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You should be able to fly to near oklahoma and drive the rest of the way for cheaper than flying directly. There's also some weird quirks in the system(depending on airline) where you can book 1 way trips for significantly less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:55 PM
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90% of marriages are within 1-9 year gaps. 95% are within 15 years. Now, this is technically marriage stats and not 'dating' stats, which would likely skew these numbers a bit more since dating someone is a lower threshold than marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:53 PM
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Blue pill men that are neurotic in a way like this get vast amount of treatment in their 20s and 30s, fixing much of their problems. Then they're much more likely to date and actually form a good relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:52 PM
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Every single person on earth has red flags, because we're all imperfect people. The ultimate goal to finding long term partners is if you can put up with their bullshit, and they put up with yours, without driving you or them crazy. If you can do that, you'll have a long successful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:12 PM
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Dudes that care about their wives pleasure? Why do we buy non-sex toys? To have fun with. Why do we buy sex toys? To have fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:07 PM
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Is she Ukrainian? If so, marry her. If not, hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:06 PM
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The right answer is a city, because there are more semi-rural/semi-urban areas within a city to find the type of partner you ultimately desire. There's also just flat out more selection. You're going to find someone in a city of 100,000+ single women, compared to a small town of 20 single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:34 PM
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99% of these "my totally reasonable standards for dating" have at least one giant flaw or multiple. None of them are reasonable for a desperate person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:18 PM
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-Uncircumcised penis Hope you don't live in the USA!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:46 PM
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Old timey wrestlers used to wrestle bears for money in shoot matches. So no... but it is still dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:34 PM
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Adding to this, until we meet another sentient creature in the universe, we don't have a perfect understanding of logic, emotion, rationality, etc. We have our interruption of those things and how we think they may work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:13 PM
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Throw him into the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:48 PM
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You don't pay for a liberalized woman, she contributes to the household nearly 50%, and increasingly more in some niche groups of women that outearn their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:42 PM
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There are hundreds of political subs you can make that thread in that won't get deleted, but you're going to get negative engagement because the idea that women are privileged over men in any country on earth, even Lichtenstein or Monaco, is absurdist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:09 AM
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Yoon is the fourth South Korean president who is a Catholic, after Moon Jae-in, Roh Moo-hyun (a lapsed Catholic), Kim Dae-jung and Roh Tae-woo. Hahaha what the fuck? Married for 12+ years and still no kids as a catholic? Infertility issues or both spouses are hyper focused on just their careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:38 PM
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The desire to have children isn't as instinctual as you think. Humans have the ability to fuck without creating offspring. Our desires to fuck no longer determine the amount of children we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:30 PM
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We're talking globally, so using "in the west" is dumb in this context. Working hours have no correlations for fertility. The main two things that affect fertility are overall lifestyle desires and basic economic decisions that people make when they have or decide to have kids. Also impulsivity/lack of BC, but we're trying to get away from those births as a global maturing society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:29 PM
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I'm a man and I'm absolutely going to put any human as more dangerous, male or female, than an animal all things considered equal. Animals can only live through their instinctual(and for some mammals, learned) experiences. Humans are on another plane of intelligence and decision making. The most dangerous thing in the world is a man, the second is a woman, and the third+ are whatever apex animal predator in that environment you're in. Humans are always at the top of the all chains on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:00 PM
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If you wanna see some crazy shit, go to themotte and look up the thread on that and see grown ass "intellectual" men defend the kid and talk about how "unrapeable doesn't mean they wanted to rape the other ones."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:58 PM
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badly-behaving inner city kids. Is this a way to say 'black and hispanic' but not appear racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:39 PM
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I mean that's fairly accurate for a lot of guys that post here. We see some of the most fucked up interruptions of basic statistics and complete ignorance of any data points that interfere with that poster's notions of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:37 PM
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"Cruel selfish shallow we all are" except 94% of global humans will at some point in their life have at least 1 long term(20+ year) relationship with another person, and it's been this way for all adults for hundreds of years. If you live long enough, you will meet someone that wants to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:34 PM
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You're in a statistical anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:28 PM
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Which is why the best source of long term partners is... drumroll... people that were formerly in a LTR that things didn't work out due to mostly their partner's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:26 PM
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Oh no not the free market!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:55 PM
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Look around you at the posters here...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:06 PM
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We're doubling down on reality. It's more funny-sad that y'all can't understand the logic behind choosing a bear or any animal over another human, including another woman. Humans are scary. Animals generally aren't. Animals harming you is based on instinct. Humans harming you is based on their lack of moral care for a fellow human. Animals can be out fought, out thought. Other humans have a much higher ability of circumventing any planning you do around protecting yourself from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:14 PM
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Ban anyone choosing man over a bear. That'd eliminate 100% of the incels and incel-lites in one giant swoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:12 PM
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Not a single mainstream group views misandry as a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:05 PM
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Lilith's new account?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:36 PM
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If you reverse the genders, women will not do this. Hahaha what fucked up place do you live? Not a single country on earth, even North Korea, would women pick the mean dude over the super nice dude all other factors being perfectly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:30 PM
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Unless you have a horrible disfigurement, your face cannot be so ugly that NO ONE finds you attractive. Even if you are disfigured, many women and men will overlook that when they get to know you better. Autism is managed with therapy and learning new tools with coping with modern reality. Disabled people date happily. Yes it requires more work, but its something most of them do accomplish throughout their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:10 PM
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4 will succeed in obtaining what they want the most. Most women truly don't give a fuck about height compared to personality or facial/body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:46 PM
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It's unrealistic as fuck. Everyone watches porn. Nuns are watching porn. Dalai Lama is watching porn. Porn is a tool, it is mostly a healthy tool for most people. For people that get addicted to it, like any addiction, those people need help and definitely shouldn't date people that regularly watch porn. The rest of us are gonna be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:44 PM
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What makes you think women aren't afraid of random women as well? I'm a man and I'd pick the bear 100% of the time over a strange man or a strange woman. Humans have capacity for evil that bears do not possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:18 PM
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Presumably we evolved to be less hairy than the other apes because of a general preference too. We evolved to have less hair due to the environments we were living in(especially if aquatic ape theory is correct) and generally the genetic makeup selected(or mutated) of our ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:14 PM
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Ainsley always with the genius level posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:05 PM
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Way too many women are into gay porn so that might be a perk!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:04 PM
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anyone can get anyone as long as they are good person. No one has ever said this. Any good person that lives in an area with enough of a population of datable people, if they apply themselves, can and will eventually meet someone that likes them for who they are, and statistically speaking they'll have a 20+ year happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:01 PM
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Name drop them. You're full of shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:59 PM
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Throughout history we've had large groups of Cluster B types ruling over millions of people. Its very likely that there are far more Cluster B types out there than you think there are,e specially on a random distribution. Most societies have collapsed since 6000 BC. Thank you for acknowledging the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:20 AM
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Lesbians are pretty cheap daters in my humble experience. Lesbians that drink can throw down some serious $$$ on a date though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:59 PM
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Using coupons in this fucking economy is sensible as a hell. Any women or men saying no to that are 100% that meme of "he bought me water on our date... bitch he's trying to make sure you stay hydrated." meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:57 PM
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Not really. IF red pill didn't exist she'd run from other ideologies that don't match up with her own outlook on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:29 PM
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Poor Jeffrey just wanted to eat other men too, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:13 PM
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No because it's a domestic matter that is handled within the relationship and within friendship groups. There's zero need for law enforcement in these matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:04 PM
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Women generally rely on very minor physical(compared to other things) things like slapping, pinching, and throwing things. None of these are healthy for a relationship to continue, but the difference is stark. A man gets angry and decides to physically assault his partner, she's getting large persistent bruises or broken bones. A woman gets angry and decides to be physically aggressive the man might have some scratches or a single cluster of bruises. It's no one's fault if you're the one being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:10 PM
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Misandrist that genuinely loves getting dicked down and male companionship but hates herself for it sounds like a fun ride. Make her a muscle mommy and you got yourself a deal. I love how all your tropes are hyper sexual. Stop HORNY POSTING lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:27 AM
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My god we've finally found the perfect BMI females for incels. Female bears are obvious traditionalists that maintain their femininity and embrace the genetic determinism those dudes love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:22 AM
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For a desperate guy, yeah they should take him up for it. Romans, Greeks, Chinese, Arabs all figured it out that sometimes a bro needs some bro romance. Black pillers for sure should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:18 AM
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A midget with a micropenis is probably gonna die alone, that one didn't doesn't change that. Most midgets with micropeens end up marrying other midgets who accept them and their micropeens. Now you can fantasize that the women in those relationships then have to get sexual satisfaction from toys/other men with larger penises, but ultimately what the public sees and what those couples report on surveys is a mostly happy marriage. Most midgets don't die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:13 AM
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So masc, so furious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:11 AM
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Some Men: we're gonna force the majority of men, but not our male children, to go off to war for our profit. Majority of RP Men: How can we blame women for this.. hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:10 AM
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The most important thing you left out: The genie is out of the bottle and cannot ever be put back, short of those Men in Black memory wipe thingies on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:07 AM
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Less than that in secular liberal countries. We're seeing far more divergent political stances every generation now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:04 AM
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People bring this up and forget the most important thing about those big traditional families: they keep having large amounts of liberal, leftist, gay, feminist types of kids. Most of my whole family are ultra conservative, but I'm one of the handfuls of token liberals. My younger cousins are more liberal than I am. Conservativism is a dying thing all along the planet, even the Amish and Mennonites are slowly transforming to the modern needs in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:02 PM
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Man-hating women is an extremely new phenomenon that is a tiny fraction of global women's thoughts on men. Women-hating males is several thousand years old as an ideology. Women have more power today than at any other point in our entire last 6000 years of human history. They currently have a tiny fraction of overall power in the world. We don't truly know what a near 50/50 global power sharing society would look like, because we've never had it beyond the very small(tribal) scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:46 PM
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There are no reasonable women on earth disappointed in a six inch penis thrusting in and around her body attached to a guy that they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:01 PM
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Women's pussies can double as laser measurement devices!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:39 PM
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There's no such thing. Women prefer, in an ideal world, the average penis. Some women prefer larger. Some women prefer smaller. No man is shamed for having a 5-6 inch penis(average worldwide). Zero fucking men have ever been socially bullied for having a 6 inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:38 PM
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Lets be honest those guys wouldn't know what to to do if they even managed to land a date or series of dates with women. They'd fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:57 PM
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I would but I also value women for more than just their pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:56 PM
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THERE ARE FOUR JEWISH LASER LIGHTS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:56 PM
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Plus you never hear a guy say they masturbate to gay porn but they're actually straight. Many straight dudes do find penises and ejaculation exciting, even if they personally wouldn't want to do it with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:55 PM
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People care tremendously. Most of the drama in our lives and in historic lives was drama all around who's fucking who, when they're doing it, and why they're doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:14 PM
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It has been theorized, with some evidence posted from former lovers, that she is a closeted lesbian. So it may be quite a while before she ever really has a 'man' to call her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:01 AM
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This is incredibly cynical and if true would mean there can never be a new app that's successful. Bumble and Hinge both prove this incorrect, as well as a bunch of other more niche apps that are doing well enough from public inquiry on them. Apps will come and go, and there will always be ones that grow and shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:37 PM
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I'm just confused about why you'd launch this with so few markets. Top 50 english speaking markets at a minimum needed to keep this afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:32 PM
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Many autistic people especially 18-30 year old women aren't exclusively heterosexual, so right there your sample size was extremely atypical if you're truly getting your numbers right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:32 PM
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See my post below. Testosterone does effect self control from the limited testing we've been able to observe over the past couple of decades. Hetero men, FTMS, cis women with high T all exhibit a documented loss of self control in many aspects of their lives, including sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:25 PM
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Libido and sex drive, along with self control, do work like that. Men tend to have less self control due to the way testosterone affects our moods and thoughts. FTMs see this increase when they go on a sufficiently high T script. FTMs, like most hetero men, will fuck anyone and everyone when they're gassed up and not thinking straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:23 PM
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You can look at satisfaction rates between lesbians, bi women, and hetero women. Lesbians show the largest positive rates per encounter, then bi women, then hetero women. It makes perfect sense if you're familiar with younger lesbian communities, and some older lesbian communities that are still sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:21 PM
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The reason why is because a significant amount of women are increasingly more hornier than in the past, presumingly less due to biology but due to socialization and culture promoting sexual wellbeing for women and men. We know tribal societies are rife with lots of teen and adult sex(sometimes with each other group.) It's a normal part of many cultures in our recent past. Prudish cultures are actually not the norm historically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:17 PM
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Disturbing. You want to have a 5 star match with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:20 PM
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I was 25ish until 28ish and dated a 40+ year old. They exist but you gotta go looking hard for them or just flat out get lucky. I was living in a resort town though and she was divorced, so the dating market was very small.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:19 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1c3xpqg/wibta_for_wanting_to_divorce_my39f_because_he41m/ Which PPDbro is about to get a divorce and join the MTGOW movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:17 PM
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No, it's absolutely fucked up if you have the same issues as your hetero gendered alternative and you won't date that person. You're essentially saying "I wouldn't date myself" and if that's true, then you need to spend some serious time improving yourself until you would date yourself. Neuro atypical people should mostly be dating within their group, because atypical-ness is inherently difficult for neurotypical folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:30 PM
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Can't tell if sarcastic post or real...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:27 PM
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If you use the male/female delusion calculator and want to exclusively date fat, poor and older men/women, that leaves you with quite a small percentage of people as only few fullfill all three criteria, yet nobody would call you picky. If you're using that calculator that was posted to the main chat a while back, you're wrong. I'm using it right now and getting the majority of people with those qualifiers. I understand you're trying to say "all three at the exact same time" but the truth is mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:16 PM
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It's impossible to get zero traction on OLD if you're a 6/10 guy that can hold a text based conversation AND you take half way decent photos + write a decent bio for yourself. Hinge and Bumble especially, but even OKCupid, and the older dating sites have an incredible amount of success stories. Yes I'd call him extremely picky if he's rejecting multiple women that are interested in him. Just like I'd call a woman rejecting multiple men genuinely interested in her as picky. I think it’s quite rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:44 PM
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so many women put “no Trump supporters” on their profiles but would bang a hot right-wing dude. Show some examples. They don't exist. Someone that is hardcore anti-Trump is not dating any Trumpers. They might date a small r-republican, but even then they're secretly hoping to convert him to at least a milquetoast liberal eventually. If you're a truly liberal/leftist dude, you would not marry Tomi Lahren or Marjorie Taylor Greene or Sarah Palin. You're not nearly as liberal as you think you are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:16 PM
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There are no 8/10s in this sub that are truly loveless and dateless. There's a handful of 6/10s that live in weird isolated dating areas and are extremely picky about their partners that are having some issues getting quality dates. Then there's everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:12 PM
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It literally explains no situations that are applicable to what anyone here is going through or have gone through. If you're super duper attractive you're not posting in this sub. Imagine a sub where you debate optimal investing strategies. Stocks? Options? Crypto? But half the members of the sub are broke/homeless/unemployed. Those do exist, there's literally subreddits for frugal investment strategies and get quick rich schemes and side hustles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:06 PM
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Most garbage men I know are successfully married. Some even have mistresses/girlfriends on the side, so at least romantically they're not having issues finding women to fuck/date/marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:02 PM
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I'm not dying over coochie Alpha man here, we got a true alpha man over here!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:56 PM
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Historical associations between Ukrainian nationalist groups/figures and Nazi Germany, and reverence of them today Nearly zero. Azov types are extremely few and far between. Prevailing pro-Russian attitudes in Crimea and Donbass Well duh, those areas want a bigger slice of the russian pie rather than the smaller slices of the Ukrainian pie. You'll find this is the similar in many places on earth. If republicans could split off and form their own country they'd do it tomorrow. Republicans and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:43 PM
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Women are underrepresented in college First college in the world is regarded at 1088. From 1088 until roughly 1980s for enrollment, and 2000s for graduation women have historically made up a tiny fraction of overall college attendants. It will take hundreds of years of current enrollment to equal the amount of men that were privileged to get higher education degrees and the positive downwind generational affects from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:37 PM
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Most likely his reply "Childless and alone!" Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:35 PM
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So you approached one that you were interest in and grabbed her to pull her in for a private 1 on 1 right? Or did you just leer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:32 PM
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Seriously dude needs to go to a country bar or something. People talk amongst groups and even single people if they look interesting to talk to. Yes it does help for group+group co-mingling but that's true for all social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:32 PM
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This person does not exist in the world in 2024. Even right wing christo-fascist douchebags or left wing anarcho-communists can find a niche heterosexual group that want to date them. Even the worst personality dude that looks handsome can get a date if he honestly tries hard enough in a market with enough available single women. There's about 2.5 asians out there, half of which are women of which most will eventually marry an asian man. There's also that 20%-30% of african women, 30-50% of euro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:29 PM
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No, women on here say "I personally don't find X number of men attractive to me to date, but I can objectively acknowledge they are attractive people." Women tend to develop a certain 'type' or small group of 'types' they like and ignore the rest of men. The reasons why seem to be based on the fact every girl from the puberty on are constantly getting hit on by ALL types of men, and that tends to jade women's experiences towards attraction. Ironically the same thing happens when attractive men g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:25 AM
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I would hypothesize that bisexual women probably find about 40-50% of women attractive, but only ~20% of men. If you hung out in bi-spaces you'd find this much higher for male attractiveness. Bi folks tend to have a much wider range of attractors than heteros.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:23 AM
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To elaborate I’m anti-war, I think market needs regulations to protect consumers, the rich should pay higher taxes, we have to legally protect environment, people need free and accessible machine and education. I’m egalitarian, support LGBTQ+ community, environmentally conscious, pro-choice. So I’d prefer a partner with compatible views hence it’s pretty much all liberal. You're super liberal/progressive and sorry but in russia the liberal/conservative divide works just fine and is precise to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:00 AM
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OH baby you're speaking my language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:56 PM
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Poster above is trying to say it's a genetic component within women to feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:56 PM
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You're not there for just single women. You're there for any relationship that can help you build to a datable situation. This includes married women with single friends, married dudes with single friends, single women that you don't find attractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:33 PM
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This is completely false. In most/many cultures people live at home until they get married, then the wife comes and stays with the male's family. There's no judgment around not having your own place. So once again someone claiming some bullshit evopsych stuff that is entirely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:31 PM
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What men aren't judging women negatively for living with their parents past X age? Everyone gets slagged for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:30 PM
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I'd say settle for the 6/10 woman and go about your fucking adult life. You sound like a child. " Since I'm an egoist as much as anyone else.." you do realize most of us aren't this way? Like this is an exception to the overall rule that most people aren't this extremely ego-driven and centric. Not everyone has MainCharacterSydnrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:16 PM
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Dude is sub 5, even at that age, for that dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:28 PM
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What the everloving fuck... "Call me Papa instead, girl."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:25 PM
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Take her out into Yellowstone and leave her to fend for herself, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:20 PM
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Everything I don't like is Woke - all conservatives in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:33 PM
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What in the utter fuck are you talking about? None of what you said matches anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:57 PM
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Who decides if it’s too much stereotyping? Secular humanists and statisticians that are respected within that community imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 08:51 PM
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Jim Jones energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:17 PM
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99.95% of women in the western world aren't posting thirst traps while in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:05 PM
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Yes they can because the proportional threat of violence is asymmetric, ethically women have more leeway with stereotyping on this specific issue due to the statistical logic of it. Gay men can also use these same arguments as well, because the violence they face is also more likely to be asymmetric.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:58 PM
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1/10 personality. 4/10 looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcQKCdQvUN4 Bet PPD men would reject all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:45 PM
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https://twitter.com/DailyLoud/status/1771324491219538108
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:40 PM
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Haha awesome win. Could see him posting in r/gambling for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:56 PM
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Steph sounds like a fun person to be around. Abby sounds miserable. This is a clear winner(steph.) I do enjoy these that get posted because they highlight the problems that the "i can't find someone" crowd is focusing on the complete wrong aspects of who someone is. Long term personality compatibility > looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:52 PM
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Depending on what area you're in, you should in theory be able to find a house in a place with amentities(I'm assuming you mean basic stuff... not like "needs a high class theater doing shakespeare every weekend.")
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:50 PM
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The number 1 issue in spain is the economy, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:43 PM
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Pretty much. Actual porn addicted folks are not currently within the dating pool, even if they weren't addicted to porn and were instead addicted to X thing. We're not talking about 5 out of 10 type guys being addicted to porn. We're taking 1/10, 2/10, 3/10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:42 PM
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Mostly people waking up to the fact humans can fall in lust and love with multiple people at the same time, while still maintaining their primary relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:07 PM
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Women are NOT okay with their husbands seeing prostitutes, wtf. I mean technically there are surveys out there that disagree with you and do agree with OP's broader point on prostitution in japan. It is, or was at one point, fairly acceptable practice for married men to engage in. However, OP is ignoring the facts that the newer surveys are showing a huge significant change in both male and female ideas around these types of hetero bathhouses. Younger gen of Japan think it's a terrible idea and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:11 AM
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Not all guys. Nah I think we can argue pretty well it's all men, if the right conditions are met for that desperation pity fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:37 PM
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As a man, yes. Very low standards, and if desperate, no standards. For ever cracked out, crazy fucking woman there's at least 3 men that have recently(within the past year) fucked her or tried to fuck her. Women, thankfully, don't seem to emulate this behavior. Of course some blackpill/redpillers will actually say this is a negative towards women as a group that they tend to be at least slightly pickier than men. As if that's a bad thing! Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:31 PM
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The testes stuff is a bit silly in the scheme of things. Humans have a higher brain function that allows us to plan as many or as a few sexual encounters we want. Primates have to rely on instincts ingrained in their brains, and cannot deviate from that(that we know of.) The size of our testes don't have much to do with anything, in modern terms. Only our ability to keep producing sperm or precum which have sperm in it, which the average male can do quite a lot of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:07 PM
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The above poster has set up a no-win scenario in this conversation you're trying to have with them, I suggest pulling the ripcord. Women absolutely can be fooled into believing X kid is Y daddy or even X mommy, when in fact its a totally different daddy or mommy. Of course a woman cannot rationally believe the baby that came out of her isn't hers, at least until we get into some kind of weird future stealth surrogacy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:50 PM
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I think sometimes, these men are thinking “if I were a woman, this is what I’d do!” but they are not women, they have a male sex drive. Women have more opportunity to cheat but less desire to do so. More importantly our life experiences heavily dictate our actions and feelings. If a "man" grew up as a woman, he'd have a completely different outlook on every aspect of "his" life. Also we know exactly what high T women do: they act like high T men to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:34 PM
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since most men don't want to waste time and resources and shoulder extra stress and responsibility for someone else's kids. This doesn't seem to be true when looking at the skyrocketing step-parent demographic. Most "betabux" dudes have 1-2 kids and are joining up with a woman with 1-2 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:31 PM
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Grass is greener syndrome hits all groups imho. Which is why we should rely on deeper analysis for what 'works' and what doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:07 PM
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Post pics of your car and your hog out at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:14 AM
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Yup, also those older women are happiest people on the planet. They have their animals, their kids, their friends, their aging family to hang out with all day every day. I see these women out and they don't look miserable like the RP/BlackP say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:39 AM
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They only reveal that societies on earth develop through a very complex osmosis a social standard for positive and negative qualifiers for dating. Most men and women stick to those social standards, and some minority of men and women reject those ideals. How large these two groups are depend on how liberal/progressive that society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:19 PM
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Nonono you don't understand, you didn't actually think any of that stuff your lizard brain said "He's 6 foot, he's got a 6 pack, and he's probably got at least 6 inches of penis to make our future children." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:16 PM
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No one with a $200,000 car is posting in PPD, lol. LARPing OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:15 PM
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I'm the bluest of pillest and no we don't say that. Being attractive helps. It's just not a pure dealbreaker for 100% of women on earth. Ugly dudes do in fact marry or have LTRs throughout their lives with women that love them deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:15 PM
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This is pretty spot on. There would be no such thing as a friendzone if that guy (man A) was dating someone else (woman B or man B if he's bi) while still maintaining friendship with woman A.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:13 PM
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Blue pill men, the majority of men btw, do not use any kind of hard 3 date rules or anything silly like that. There's definitely a vibe check that goes on, but that's usually months down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:09 PM
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And I'm sure a 35yo woman who isn't going to have sex will push away most men, even good ones. IF the man really likes her, he'll wait. We already see this in many relationships that go the distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:08 PM
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Are you serious you wouldn't find a shaved head female attractive enough to try to get to know them? That's so bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:06 PM
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With a large enough population size you could equalize all those factors. It'd be like Doppleganger Dating or something but still lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:05 PM
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Hahah what a fucking douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:05 PM
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OP is talking about genuinely reaching an equilibrium in all of those factors, which you absolutely could do if you had a large enough population to pluck people from. You could equalize their voices, you could equalize their backgrounds and temperment, etc. People would pair up the same way they almost always do in cultures that allow that freedom: they'd fall in love with personality and actionable things that those people perform for the status of whatever mental or physical task that is bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:03 PM
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Post your data then, mine is easily googlable. Gen Z men have very small friend circles. Millenials are a little better but its not a huge increase. Gen Alpha have large circles but we don't know if they'll maintain those in adulthood or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:54 PM
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How many people were raised by young parents who didn't know what they were doing and turned out perfectly fine? Many, many people. None. The people raised by parents that neglected them emotionally, mentally, and physically are all broken ass adults that never truly get their lives completely on straight. What those broken adults sometimes do is wait till their 30s, learn many parenting skills that their parents didn't learn, and then have kids that do get raised into healthier homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:00 AM
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Many of these people have full time career jobs and they still would not be a good responsible parent. Your only claim, which is a sad one for society, is that "it doesn't matter if you're a good or bad parent, just be a parent anyway." That's the mentality that has created the lower class crisis of unwanted and neglected children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:57 AM
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Naw, fat people definitely are usually attracted to, or will settle for, another fat person. What average looks people won't do is settle for a butterface girl or guy. Average looks/BMI folks won't settle for a fat girl or guy usually, with the exception of chubby chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:41 AM
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No they don't, statistically you just named two of the worse male (in western countries) groups with very small friendship circles. Gen Alpha is doing slightly better than Gen Z on this front, but we won't really know until they get out of high school and either maintain those friend groups or dissolve those friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:38 AM
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No it's genuinely because modern women have other outlets for the emotional, mental, and physical things we need from other human beings. Modern men have become exclusionary and off-putting to even other men. Men's friend groups have shrunk to literally 0-2 good close friends, and often it's just a coworker that you're super chummy with but never emotionally open up to. Women's friend groups are most often 5+ people deep, and include both males and females in that grouping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:36 AM
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A man can speak for men as a group if he has statistical analysis with a quality dataset on his side. Which we basically do have(with the caveat that yes we need more GLOBAL statistics on these things, right now the stats are very White Anglo-Saxon Protestant-heavy.) The data is out there in western countries and men definitely want far more things on that list for a long term partner/mother of their children. Men are way more picky about that sort of thing than is being given credit. Yes men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:32 AM
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I personally don't want my woman to be a carbon copy of me with a vagina, but some shared interests are nice. I think you're more in the minority on this. Modern men definitely do want a "female best friend that we also fuck a lot."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:29 AM
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Society is telling both men and women that you are a superstar, you're the main character, you should have it all. Reality hits most of us though right in the guts once we become adults and get out on our own. Then statistically speaking 94% of us end up settling not just once but multiple times with multiple partners before we die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:28 AM
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Except many people go on to have 30+ year happy relationships with people they're not initially attracted to. The key part is they eventually find things that are deeply attractive in their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:51 AM
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They're assumed to be 51% of the problem because, guess what, most of the time they are a large part of the issue and the primary partner creating the drama/friction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:02 PM
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Agreed. I'd even go so far as to say that prenups should be required(even if its literally just a "spouses get 50/50 of all assets as divided by a third neutral party") and that having a small separate emergency fund should also be required, although that one would require a lot more work legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:05 PM
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It is more likely that men are lying when they say they were blindsided. Every divorce I've been able to witness in real time, every single family member knew about where the arguments and fighting were leading up to. Every (emotionally close) coworker understood how serious things were getting. The husband repeatedly asked what they were gonna do about the problems within the marriage by dozens of family members, coworkers, and sometimes even their priest/pastor/imam. For months, sometimes up t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:10 PM
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The average decision to finally file for divorce is like 3+ years, with multiple long conversations between then and that decision day. The average woman and man would have discussed the issue with friends, family, and even an attorney or two multiple times over the course of months/years. I'm sure there are a very small percentage of truly oblivious men that do get somewhat blindsided by a woman deciding to divorce, but it's such an unique event that we really shouldn't dwell on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:57 PM
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Unless you extend that to all labor, no it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:20 AM
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Lol so you're acknowledging that the most successful men in china are shorter than the average global man? That they're also contextually smaller than other chinese men? Also we're only talking about the guys that are dating. Could care less if there is a decline or not, since that is irrelevant of the ones that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:46 PM
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In china? Beijing specifically? You want me to grab the stats or do you wanna backtrack your statement...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:36 PM
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Lol no. Men don't have to think this way about girls and women they're friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:55 PM
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Lemme get this straight, you're in china and you think height matters in dating at all? Is this correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:44 PM
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This thread is off to an unhinged start, grab the popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:35 PM
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Gold Star Lesbians are generally not that scared of their bi girlfriends going back to men like that. I know an inordinate amount of lesbians and this isn't really ever an issue. They're far more worried about another lesbian stealing their girlfriend than a man swooping in, due to the barriers that gay and bi women put up with men that they let down with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:27 PM
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Which is why women with lots of straight guy friends are usually some of the most chill, fun-outgoing types of women that exist. Not all dudes have ulterior motives and when you actually find that kind of a guy, women let their guard down and just enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:26 PM
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Most of them? Most people that you see out in the world in a relationship is content/happyish. Most people in general are content/happyish based on decades of polling. Paradoxically people in objectively worse conditions are often reporting higher daily happiness ratings. Ignorance is bliss to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:16 PM
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Ban hookup/dating apps Ban social media Remove ofs Bring back slut shamming and shamming single moms Promote traditional values Give tax benefits and perks to people who have stable, families. Promote monogamy Saving your post for when red pillers go "Nuh uh, we don't want a return to patriarchy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:25 PM
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3) Standardize dating. Currently, there are little norms, so it is confusing for many people. Men don’t know if they’ll make the woman uncomfortable by doing something, women are uncertain why guys do (don’t) approach them. If we had a blueprint, things would be easie This is autistic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:24 PM
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Which is sort of my idea, starting with a government-backed dating app that everyone is required to sign up for(think of it as selective service but dating/psychology related) and everyone has to go through massive amount of psychological testing to figure out the best partner for them. Match makers would then set you up and you'd be contractually obligated to go and get it your best effort. Realistically it's just waiting until we have the tech level of Hang the DJ from Black Mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:23 PM
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Then they're in the other two categories. Zero people that touch grass aren't in currently or getting out of a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:20 PM
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Every femcel could date a incel and they'd be happy ever after. Yet that never happens because those people actively want to be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:16 PM
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Women gamers are about 40% of the overall gaming market. The types of games women gravitate to are admittedly different than males, but this is also slowly changing as emerging popular titles like Fortnite grab the interest of women. More women like dancing then men. One of the complaints from women is the lack of male dancers needed for the hobby. Almost all cultures men like dancing just as much as women. This is seen even more clearly at the tribal level, but even looking at 1920s-till-today …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:07 PM
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The ones that "show 80/20 rule" have been thoroughly debunked for inaccuracies or people have pointed out that it doesn't quite say what RP/BP thinks it says. Globally speaking 90-94% of men are either currently in a LTR, or have been previously in a LTR. If women truly only wanted to go for 20% of men, then 70%+ of men would not be able show they're married/in LTR/just out of a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:36 PM
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Male and female hobbies have never been more interconnected than today, outside of some niche tribal groups. Make a list of all the available hobbies that an adult can have and outside of a few, most are accessible by all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:32 PM
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Of course it sounds like they're using introvert wrong. Introvert simply means "I gain mental and emotional energy from experiencing things through my own internal mechanism." Introverts "gain energy" from self-motivated ways of doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:30 PM
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Honestly the hardcore evopsych idea is that the natural forces of evolution are pushing these chronically lonely people to stop breeding, thus ending this genetically inferior line of material from human society. This is a dumb idea but frankly the evopsych nerds deserve to eat humble pie on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:28 PM
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See before the internet, the dataset of men she could compare with was a lot smaller than it is now. The only guys she was comparing you to were those she had either met or heard about. Do you think women only had a small amount of men in their lives that they were aware of? Most high schools for the past 70 years have been 700+ student deep. Most girls had large extended families that they talked to their aunts, grandmas, moms, and cousins about men and dating in general. Most girls subscribed …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:25 PM
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This doesn't make sense because most women currently aren't on OLD. In survey after survey most women are flat out saying "No I don't have any online profiles for dating and haven't had any in the past."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:22 PM
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Every single chronically long term unsuccessful man is absolutely lazy as fuck, and when they do go out they have zero modern game with what modern women are looking for in a partner. Just "putting in effort" is meaningless when you aren't being specific about the actions you're taking to be attractive to a modern woman. FYI if you spend 200k on university but you went to a terrible uni, developed zero business contacts, don't ever publish anything for the more academic types, etc. then you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:21 PM
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Reddit itself has a fairly healthy dating scene in both hobby subs and explicitly "I want to date someone..." subs. Good luck banning that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:16 PM
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Seriously, lol. The person you're responding to has no knowledge of the real world. The most ethical porn created right now is for women by women, the rest of the mainstream porn studio market is extremely exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:16 PM
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It would force people to go out again It wouldn't though. We already are seeing that during the pandemic the behaviors of most people if they're put into a position to do so. Clubs still haven't recovered and people are free as ever to attend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:13 PM
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OP asks for realism and you think every government on earth is going to ban apps, as well as crackdown on any underground apps that get created? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:12 PM
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If you were to sit 5 generations of women. And ask each of them what they valued in their men and their husbands. They values will be very different, therefore their values will be different Not really. Women in the 70s were looking for the same things women in 2020s are looking for. The details of what they're looking for have absolutely changed, but the overarching plot points aren't. Women still are looking for a mate that makes them feel desirable, feel 'whole', and compliments them in statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:10 PM
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It's a bunch of men that wish they could take a pill and wake up as a woman, except for all the hardships that women deal with, then they'd go crying for a pill to change them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:06 PM
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Would you get on a flight with a 1.89 chance of dying? Tens of millions do every year for the past 70+ years...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:57 PM
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If 78% of women are competing for 20% then we would never, ever see anyone having LTRs/marriages from Tinder/bumble/OKC/match.com/etc. Yet we have tens to hundreds of thousands of examples of these over the years. I've been in multiple LTRs from online dating and I'm not a 'chad'. The majority of women doing the online dating thing are looking for another regular dude to fall in love with, not some super man of looks and importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:45 PM
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Disclaimer I think CustodyXChange is a decent site and have used it in debates before, but it's not perfect and we need to acknowledge that. In reality there should be a federal law or organization that has access to all the data from all public or privately available and make the most comprehensive study on this issue once and for all. The following criteria is pretty terrible. For our research, we looked at the most populous county in each state. If we were unable to confirm the schedule for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:43 PM
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This is also a very recent change that may change back to men advocating heavily for divorce. It all depends on how our culture changes with the ebb and flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:59 PM
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You cannot be financially ruined by divorce, literally impossible. Even a business owner that didn't have their business set up as a LLC is going to maintain their successful business and pay off their wife via court-backed payment programs instead of a lump sum. IF child support is too high they can demonstrate that easily with their expense reports and income reports, petition the court to lower it and 99% of the time the court will do so if it seems reasonable to do so. The court wants the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:53 PM
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Ultimately we need more global studies on all of these factors. That goes for pretty much every topic though, not just dating and human interpersonal relationships. Also, the bias in the family courts is clearly a thing, its just not reflected very well in statistics, partly because the people studying it are biased and didn't wanna pay much attention to the fact that most lawyers advice men to simply not fight for custody exactly because how biased it is. No, most divorce and custody lawyers do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:45 PM
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Parental legal authority does include where the child resides and when. It's not just "the father needs to be included in any major decisions pertaining to the child." Dads that want to physically spend time with their kids are able to do so, with few legal exceptions(my above post goes over those exceptions.) A dad with a weak case still needs to present that case to the judge and opposing counsel. If he fails his children at this step, again what kind of dad are we really talking about. Your j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:38 PM
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The lesbian divorce thing also ignores ages and time of marriage for those couples. Many lesbians rushed to get married when it was legalized that had no damn business getting married. Those women are divorced now, but are likely in much healthier second marriages / relationships. Including those women in divorce stats for the next decade or two is going to heavily fuck up the statistics on this factor. If/when a bigger newer study comes out and 18-30 year old lesbians are also getting heavily d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:19 PM
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To them getting laid is the only goal and anything else is an obstacle to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:14 PM
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In general the type of thai women that are also into casual sex, aren't the type of girls that are going after western men for that validation and fun. Culturally you have to understand the types of pressures and expectations that thai women are under, especially thai women in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:13 PM
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how unacceptable is it for me to laugh at something It depends on the unique subculture you're in. Example: My friends and I are into dark humor, so pretty much anything goes. My family would negatively judge me if I made a holocaust joke, so I don't make those kinds of jokes around them. Some women are gonna be into XYZ humor and others will be into ABC humor. You should just be yourself and associate romantically with women that like your natural humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:01 PM
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The best way to explain it is: think of your parents, brother/sister, or grandparent you love. Imagine they started becoming a complete fucking bum. Would your love change for them? For some/most women, it wouldn't change. For most men, it would change and more specifically how the men react to that bum family member would greatly change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:59 PM
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Just asking him out will lead him to think things about her vs the way she went about it where he's gonna come in to the budding relationship a different way. It does make sense, even if its convoluted to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:40 PM
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Don't fetishize the babymaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:53 AM
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It's the snaggletooth. You either love it or hate it, there's no inbetween. I was not a Dunst fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:53 AM
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Dude's posting their L's to daily chat, chefs kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:52 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/maybemaybemaybe/comments/1bacj7u/maybe_maybe_maybe/ This woman is a god damn genius. Also something something hypocrisy "if a male did this, he'd be in jail for stalking!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:48 AM
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The advice in that thread is pretty good: date a divorced 35 year old dude with a phd. Don't obsess about his income.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:19 AM
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Feminists by definition aren't rude to anyone, they're empathetic to all groups. Even rad femmes that might have severe issues with certain aspects of certain groups(cis males) are still far more empathetic and sympathetic to male issues than any other random ideological group. I don't think you know any actual feminists and are only associating women or white women with feminism. Sadly lots of women don't actively practice any form of modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:02 AM
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DINKs also have nieces and nephews that they dote hard on, as well as many eventually do have kids or adopt so they don't stay perfectly "DINK" for life. The consequences are lots of people with lots of disposable incomes and reasons to spend it. Any industry that can cater to those couples will make fortunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:19 AM
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If you're posting on reddit, you're not a bad boy, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 12:17 AM
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No idea how prominent cheating is. The latest large (10,000+) survey that I saw on this the amount of cheating in indian marriages is rampant. Now this is india subcontinent marriages, not indians in other countries. I suspect indians in non-india countries are fairly faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:13 PM
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You need both. Start where you can and if that's online, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:11 PM
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Play commander, make an awesome personalized commander deck and crush your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:43 PM
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So how many lonely men here have said "ok lets group up and be friends with each other!" Very few if none. Of the ones that probably have grouped up, I fear they just feed into each others blackpill/redpill propaganda ideas furthering their isolationism. How many complaining men would genuinely try to say befriend Lilith? None.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:38 PM
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Mia Khalifa the podcaster? Ooooh I know her!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:04 PM
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I think the problem is you assume other people are like you and separate the two. True deep love is the same for anyone, contextually speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:03 PM
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There's a billion short men in the world and the majority of those are in LTRs or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:27 PM
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This is something the leftist mens right's orgs get right: We need to change our behaviors and thoughts to make society better for men. No need to force others to do so. This is an internal issue(at least the beginning stages) that needs to be solved first. When it comes to things like circumcision, that's when greater society has to get led to the fresh water that is changing the acceptance of that practice from "ok!" to "this is morally wrong and no medical professional will ever perform it ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:43 AM
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I'm in the south so if a dude refuses to date single moms he's gonna be single for a long time. Most men around here date single moms because most women above a certain age are single moms due to how easy it is to get pregnant and how hard it is to maintain a healthy relationship. Being a stepdad is one of the easiest things to do culturally speaking right now, since stepdads are socially not expected to do much and can be very hands off with childrearing if they want to be. Heck some families e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:26 AM
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How is love in a romantic sense a lie but not a lie in a platonic or familial sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:20 AM
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I’m not a soccer fan but I know what Manchester United is. Can you name, without googling, the top 5 players for ManU right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:18 AM
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Dude there's Top 10 female artists that I wouldn't be able to point out in a lineup right now. It's possible a dude in the NFL obsessed with being the best he can be might not know a gymnast in the olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:18 AM
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Endorsement deals and such Biles could easily be the 'breadwinner' in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:15 AM
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I’m a black woman, tons of men prefer white, latinas, asians, etc… So even if i’m conventionally attractive there still guys that won’t like me. And there are that will. Also a demographic that if the OKCupid surveys still are accurate, gets completely overlooked by many of these incel PPD dudes when in reality they should be focusing their energy on indian and black women if they're truly desperate to date someone and get experience in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:59 AM
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"Porn!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:54 AM
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If there are predators and murderers out there, no women should be having one night stands or going to a man's place or any risky behavior. Yes. Same goes for men that put them in places with other dangerous men. In an ideal world where people genuinely know and 'obey' the risks to many activities in our material reality, a lot of behaviors and activities we regularly do would cease to exist. We'd have a lot less deaths and injuries due to this cultural change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:48 AM
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Ironically this is why some women won't date a guy without a comprehensive social media presence. They want to be able to check up on a dude they're interested in, and vet them through their social media posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:45 AM
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Every woman that dated lowlifes that I've gotten to know, has never ever said they felt dating any man was "dangerous." The women talking about high risk stranger danger aren't the same crop of women dating thugs and white trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:44 AM
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Matt Damon, like many men(but not the majority), is a down to earth guy that fell in love with the personality and social status of Luciana and could overlook her single mom status. Many people don't have ridiculous PPD RP male standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:42 AM
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The question is if a man is willing to wife up a single mom in her 30s and basically adopt her kids, how are there childless women at that age range who still claim they can't find a man? Same reason there are men in that age range that can't find a woman: Their standards for a LTR are high enough that the current men/women around them don't meet that bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:40 AM
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Are you not loved by your family? Friends? Close Colleagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:41 AM
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Women absolutely care about personality, status, etc. far more than they care about just pure looks when looking for a very long term mate. If she's looking for quick dick, then yes looks puts you at the head of her table. Women rarely marry quick dicks, and if they do its usually those "and she is divorced at 30" scenarios. It ain't a lie, but keep deluding yourself that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:34 AM
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Go to places trashy women hang out, and "date" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:23 AM
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I ate some gay aborted babies. Delicious with some soy almond milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:10 AM
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Ainsleygz the type of girl that has a small bite out of every donut in the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:09 AM
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Yes I'm super insecure, it can't be that I see people demonstrating catastrophizing negative behavior and due to deep empathy and sympathy want those people to correct their behaviors so that can get on with their lives instead of being stuck in 'woe is me' land.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:01 AM
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This is literally all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:57 PM
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Its not on modern hierarchy of needs btw. You can go your entire life without sex with another person. A person that never gets laid even once can live to 80+ years old. You can go a very long time without masturbating, although for men you will leak ejaculate out in your sleep to some degree. Sex rankingThe position and value of sex within Maslow's hierarchy have been a source of criticism. Maslow's hierarchy places sex in the physiological needs category, alongside food and breathing. These ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:02 PM
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That's a 'you' problem though. Most men don't let shit slide if it bothers them. Many, many interpersonal problems in relationships stem from men being more aggressive with not settling for something they actively dislike. Men are more likely to speak up immediately and forcifully about things that upset us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:03 PM
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Men need sex. You're just telling me that you don't understand what needs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:44 PM
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Lol seriously. Every single long term girlfriend I've had has bought me dinner on the regular, bought or made gifts for me, remembers my birthday better than I do, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:35 PM
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What woman in a relationship doesn't take her man on dates, buy him stuff, show affection and take interest in his (some) interests? OP have you literally never been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:32 PM
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But which side of the bars do you wanna be on...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:43 PM
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Unironically this is advice I do give women that struggle with dating, especially nerdy/shy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:43 PM
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In reality, most older men who do well with women of all legal ages were already attractive in their 20s to begin with. Lol no dude, just look at the married men around the world for examples of this. And no, there hasn't been some obscenely sharp shift in global dating culture in the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fjsjy1nken0mc1.jpeg Q4A (gender swap if you're a man), would you date this dude? Would you go on a date with a guy that insisted on wearing this shirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 01:24 PM
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Funny enough it's always the more conservative/rightwing sides of reddit that are absolutely braindead with their takes on real life. "Women suck, migrants suck, POC suck, socialism sucks, feminism sucks."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:22 PM
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You're insane. A night out should cost about $20-60 any reasonably priced restaurant in most of america. Are you buying a ton of alcohol? Don't. Alcohol prices are heavily inflated at bars and restaurants, drink at home. Are you buying nothing but filet mignon? Don't. Buy cheaper and possibly healthier options. I think the most expensive date I've ever been on cost $120ish and that's because we went to a speciality dinner at the Zoo for one of their exhibit appreciation night things. That date, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:20 PM
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We are now several generations into women being able to survive without a man. No we aren't. It took until the 70s for women to be able to get a credit card in their own name without hassle. Those kinds of things have downwind affects for years to come. It all adds up. Women still don't have full agency over their financial, moral, and societal lives. It's better than in the past, but better doesn't mean equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:37 AM
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The USA is a federation and not all states have to have the same policy. All states need a base line where human moral and financial progress have developed to. This means UHC which the rest of the world has acknowledged as a reasonable human right. Part of that health care is the ability to determine what is apart of your body, which fetuses can be apart of a human female's body without their consent. It is a human right to have an abortion and it should be legal in all countries on earth. Stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:12 AM
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Would love to be a fly on the wall at Bob Jones and Mormon University. Bet there so much debauchery going on that we won't know about for years to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:13 PM
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Yes I'd let her know its her face, and steps we can take as a family to either improve it, or find a man or woman that she may be attracted to that doesn't put looks on a pedestal. I'm 100% sure there are even a handful of 5/10 dudes that would happily fall in love with a 1/10 girl if she has other attributes to outweigh the lookism issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:13 PM
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What the fuck is up with your hair? Are you Kid N Play's kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:04 PM
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In theory it only has to work once in 1000 attempts to be "worth it."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:03 PM
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Toronto is sadly one of the worst places to move due to housing issues and just overall "too many people want to live here" problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:02 PM
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Most of these guys don't have a single IRL / non online male or female friend, and if they do, it's not people that are successful at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:01 PM
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Every dancing club near me(fairly large southern city) is packed on the weekends and even sometimes during the week. Really great place to meet women imho if you're a guy with any sort of style and sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:56 PM
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College girls care about redpill, but they care that it's poisoning the minds of what could otherwise be good wholesome guys that they would like to date. I know many dudes hate r/TwoX but one takeaway they should be learning from that sub is that many women fall in love/lust with a RP dude, but then break up with that guy when they learn he's a shitty RP mentality dude. Some might still use him as a physical fucktoy, but many won't and they move on to be with some bluepill dude or reasonable pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:51 PM
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Hell the shit our parents were doing in the late 60s, 70s and 80s would make 00 teens blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:41 PM
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Back in my day middle schoolers would dance naked for the gods. I'm really, really old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:38 PM
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I'm more offended by the women with a fuckton of drinks and their phone in their hands and the giant stanley cups about to knock a dude out swinging it around like a rope. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:36 PM
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I gotta ask is there a reason why you misspell misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:33 PM
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A group of men conspire to want something that others possess. They then wage war to possess it. This explains all known historically-documented wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:32 PM
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Both are at historical lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:28 PM
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They don't reject that guy, they date that guy for 1-5 years until someone more successful comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:26 PM
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. If women can sense through someone's body language within 30 seconds that they'd be a bad partner (as I've heard many claim on this sub and others) No fucking body has said this, lol. Also abusive people usually don't lead with their abusive nature, they lead with the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:21 PM
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There has never, in the history of our written human archives so far unearthed, been a misandrist population with power to enslave men either legally, socially, or economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:18 PM
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every platform except this one seems more in line with PPD discourse Hahahahahah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:45 PM
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Looksmatched 3 or 4s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:45 PM
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Your realitypill is everyone elses's crazypill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:41 PM
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Broken jaw/eye socket/face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:17 PM
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Imagine how big of a loser you have to be to get banned from femdom subs. Learn your place, paypig.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:17 PM
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I mean she literally kind of is, she has what the others want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:15 PM
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A: I'm not a huge fan of porn period for a lot of reasons related to human trafficking, exploitation (of both viewer and those viewed), and the general lack of control, creativity, and good direction it shows. Ton of genuine amateur stuff out there, in no way trafficked women. Often accounts managed by the woman. B: What a man jerks off to says a lot about him, his desires, and so forth. And if those desires are well-aligned and good, that's good, right? But if they aren't so much or conflict wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:24 PM
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Every human does this to some degree. Unbelievably common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:15 PM
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There's no contradiction here. People are still getting together and marrying for 10+ year marriages. They just do it at a different life grouping than in the past. The major trend that the black piller/Redpillers are claiming is that in reality they aren't gonna get married and we're gonna have hundreds of millions of single men into the 40s+. That's their claim that I find ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:29 PM
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Worse yet, these dudes have never been loved by their families or friends either. They have no frame of reference for any of this. Hence them thinking its transactional or "just trust the data, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:23 PM
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Every relationship, including platonic ones, has been pretty close to 50/50 with the exception of older family members where their is an inherent power imbalance for 18ish years of my life. Nothing is perfect 50/50 but frankly 55/45 is pretty damn close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:11 PM
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Many RP posts get pushback from other pills. So if you're ignoring those other arguments, you're just creating more of a world of emotional pain for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:37 AM
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I think upwards of 30% of cis men would currently have a baby on their own if they could, especially if they can genetically determine what kind of child they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:42 PM
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That just means red pilled types are ignoring all the posts that counter their bad ideas. Self fulfilling prophecy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:39 PM
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Technically a pro-OF type of person could be like "You shouldn't need porn to fulfill your needs when you have me, someone that is highly sexual and ready to go often."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:36 PM
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That analysis found that 66% of couples began as friendships, many of them long-term friendships spanning several months or years.Jul 20, 2021 They do... 60% of relationships start as friendships. https://suchscience.org/two-thirds-romantic-couples-start-friends/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:55 PM
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Are you oblivious to the global stats posted here? The only argument I see is that "dude the stats aren't showing a major trend but trust me bro its coming and it'll be completely different than all past trends." 96% of global males and females will by the age of 40 be in at least 1 long term(5+ years) monogamous relationship. Of the 4% that don't, most are developmentally disabled or emotionally disturbed. Yes in the past that'd be 'by 25-30' where now it's pushed back to 35-40. People are stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:53 PM
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How about you return to monke and the rest of us keep progressing as humans have always done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:40 PM
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The fuck? The stats are from this decade. Only issue is they're incomplete, so the data set is smaller than the older data sets. This is where we also take the word of experiences of divorcees and the public records that do get filed, and see if it matches up. Hint: It does. Women, by and large on average, are worse off for several years after a divorce. If that woman eventually remarries, she usually marries someone less successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:21 PM
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The honest truth is you need to tell them as late as you can so they don't cut your hours, but also early enough to receive any benefits of it if management is actually supportive of it. Also try to get out of fast food into actual fine dining or catering(big money) if you enjoy cooking. Or switch industries all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:13 PM
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Cat brains aren't currently capable of the things I'm talking about. You're associating instinct behaviors against human complex behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:43 PM
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We delay eating for hours to days at a time if we choose to. Animals cannot do this. We fuck when we choose to, even if we have intense desires to do so, animals cannot do this. We choose to fight or not fight even if we're very angry with someone, animals cannot do this. We can delay pooping and peeing, and locationally pick better locations to do so than just wherever we are at that moment, animals cannot do this. Humans truly are exceptional compared to all other mammals and creatures we've e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:38 PM
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Again people that don't know much about Japanese culture trying to explain it in western ways that don't fit their actual on the ground beliefs. The Pew figure showing Shinto followers at 3 percent of the population is, however, disputed by scholars of Japanese culture who say that an estimated 80 percent (if not more) practice Shintoism in their daily lives alongside Buddhism and sometimes even Christianity. They attribute the low number to the fact that many do not perceive Shinto as fitting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:28 PM
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Conservative values? Tell me you don't understand Japanese culture, especially urban city culture, without telling me you don't understand Japanese culture. Modern 2020+ Japanese culture is, mostly, very conservative still. 70% of Japanese people are weekly/monthly Shinto practitioners. It influences their thoughts and feelings on a host of issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:09 PM
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Marriage wise, most wives cheat on their husbands. Husbands in Japanese culture(although this is slowly changing) are also encouraged to "cheat" except its not really even considered cheating in an american-sense of that word. Men and women both are allowed to have side pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:55 AM
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Because by statistics we know of, humans break the biological paradigm of every single thing that other animals seemingly cannot break. Humans have developed brains that allow for such complex abilities that no other creature can get close to it. We have broken almost every biological need except the very basics, and we're working slowly on breaking those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:53 AM
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Only 4% of men are virgins by age 27, and less than 8% of men haven't had at least one LTR(5+ years) by 35. No the west isn't doing as badly as you think they are, and neither is Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:50 AM
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I’ve yet to know an actual happy couple. Sure they fake it for public consumption, but under that tiny veneer it’s a different story. Unhinged comment of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:20 AM
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Acting professional isn't masking up. We're talking about people vastly changing who they are, what they say, what they do based on solely the other person they're interacting with. Millenials grew up with the mentality I'm talking about. Gen Z grew up with that mentality, maybe even more than we did. Gen Alpha is growing up in similar environment. "Being real / authentic" is super fucking important to at least 3 generations of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:10 AM
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Interesting! Is this a German / Netherlands site? Sounds so weird there's a specific regional / country app for swinging. Maybe we need to send passport bros to that place instead of SE Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:07 AM
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Which goes back to the concept of "Stop focusing on trying to get laid, just focus on making new friends of the opposite gender."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:36 AM
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Fetlife? There are a lot of losers on Fetlife for sure, lol. Even on sites that are explicitly about sex, men lead with some of the grossest, dumbest messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:35 AM
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What I swipe on is fairly different to who I would talk to out in the world. Why? Are you more or less selective?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:25 AM
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Traditionally yes, many cultures older males in the village / commune would do a lot of that work for the group. Its only when we get into some agricultural societies where we see a schism and men stop doing many of those things. Even still, men still did certain child rearing and house hold maintenance tasks depending on the culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:46 AM
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65.8% of men and 51.8% of women in their twenties said that they had “no spouse or partner.” Post the full data set then... https://www.nippon.com/en/japan-data/h01361/ Which is a lot more in line with what we already see in all other countries on earth. People are forgoing LTRs in their 20s now, but by 40 they're happily married or in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:43 AM
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Send all incels to japan for a couple years?!?! I'm ok with this plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:38 AM
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Girls and women at every point in development broadly speaking are much more emotionally together than boys and men are. My perspective is Southern USA culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:31 AM
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People often still have emotional impacts even when it may be irrational to have them. Even in an anonymous phone call someone can still be so deeply imprinted with "I must watch what I say because the consequences can be dire against me" and thus they say "dont know" instead of what they truly think/feel in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:29 AM
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A woman who has the ability to nurture and take care of her offspring and to keep their household free of germs by properly cleaning it therefore has "feminine" traits. Lmao might wanna look up the vast majority of human recorded history then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:17 AM
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This only works if you believe there are genuine biogenetic reasons for why we perform certain behaviors. If you don't believe this, then this theory falls completely apart. If men do XYZ that is currently coded feminine, then those things actually become masculine. Throughout history this has been true. Men in tribal societies do vastly different things than men in agriculturally societies. Men in urban areas do vastly different things than men in rural environments. Men are fundamentally the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:12 AM
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An extremely small amount of women like fuckboys. Most do not. Most women in their entire lives will never date or fuck a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:08 AM
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Technically yes. If you never know what fecal matter tastes like you'll never be able to discern its personal experience for you. How do you think coprophiliacs get started?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 12:05 AM
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Lmao delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:39 PM
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That's not how experiences work though. You do in fact need to experience X to understand the complete ins and outs of X, because all experiences are ultimately individualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:23 PM
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It sounds like he would get really horny and fuck the other dude. Ass ain't quite a pussy, but it'll still make you cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:22 PM
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Certain greek societies absolutely did accept and encourage homosexual relationships. They also encouraged those same men to marry women and have children as well. From askhistorians thread The Golden Age Greek culture takes its roots from the patriarchal Mycenaean culture it idolized in its epics. The cultural roots of Attic sexuality envisioned women as essentially base and non-virtuous: sex with women was necessary for procreation, but was always tainted with the sense of depreciating manly v…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:19 PM
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Bullshit. Almost every woman that posts regularly on this sub is a heterosexual or bi-sexual but mostly has dated men. There's only like 2 out and out lesbians, and they're technically both bi, having dated men previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:13 PM
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"Men will fuck a week old dead goat if they're horny enough." I don't know where this quote comes from but it feels pretty accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:10 PM
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Thousand times this. Also if your personality is really awesome and you're in a platonic friend group with her due to work/mutual friends/hobby stuff, then her attraction will amplify and multiply regardless of how her initial physical attraction to you was. She can think you're literally ugly and then grow to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:09 PM
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This is borne out in some divorce statistics we have been able to survey. I think the average 'How long did the #1 problem fester for?" is like multi-years long issues. Money issues especially. Cheating surprisingly often years as well, which doesn't make sense because you'd think if you catch someone cheating it's instant divorce(reddit memes!) but no... in the real world most couples stay together for 1+ years after the first incident of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:08 PM
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That's not being consistent with who you are then, you're masking up. Lots of people do not do this, including myself. I talk to my boss the same way I talk to a random stranger. I was raised to not put on a front like that and so it comes a bit more natural to myself than others. Women, as a group, do not mask up that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:04 PM
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How was her libido? In my limited experiences dating PCOS women, it's usually extremely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:19 PM
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Lol see my above comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:18 PM
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Hell no. Especially for white women or central african-descended women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:17 PM
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Do you think you can be in true genuine passionate love with an "ugly" woman? You don't need to write the answer here. I am suggesting you do that thought exercise yourself. If the answer is Yes, then accept that there are women too who are capable of loving an 'ugly' man. If the answer is No, then accept it is unfair of you to expect a woman to be capable of such love. Ultimately, we are drawn to people and feel love for different reasons. Find yours. Be open about what reasons others might hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:15 PM
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Catch old episodes or partial uploads of Johnny Carson. He truly was the most well rounded dude for a late night show that's ever existed. Second best has to be Conan. I never liked Letterman in the 80s or 90s. Weirdly enough older Letterman seemed funnier than earlier stuff he did. Never caught any of the Late Late Letterman stuff on NBC, so no clue how he was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:13 PM
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Be honest would you rather walk in high heels to give your new man an amazing blowjob, or cycle on your schwinn and get all sweaty to give your man a blowjob, or drive in a ferrari to give your man a blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:07 PM
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It's a real thing. It also happens for any new thing, including hobbies, games, and platonic friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:01 PM
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I mean buying tits is literally the cheapest its ever been with the best surgeons out there, so honestly just look for the best woman first and within 10 dates ask her if she doesn't mind getting tit implants, if she's cool with it, there ya go soul-mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:00 PM
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What the hell. :O Who is doing payroll, a 90 year old grannie?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:59 PM
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Women that say they're happier single were in a really bad relationship and are now very jaded on men/women(yes there are even single-and-loving-it lesbians!) Often it takes 10+ years to realize you're in a REALLY bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:35 PM
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No they don't, not as a group. Again, individuals =! group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:34 PM
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dudes need to understand that women switch up their operating system depending on what dude is around. Women don't do this though, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:51 PM
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I'm willing to bet 100% have some kind of neurological conditions that prevent them from actually forming normal relationships with both men and women platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:44 PM
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No matter what type of therapy, if you don't do the work, you the therapy won't work. Ding ding ding! Men are more likely to run from their problems that the therapist highlights within a therapy session. Men that refuse to run and tackle the problems in the manner that their therapist suggests usually end up doing well in therapy and solving whatever crisis that was affecting them. Psychotherapy is one of the best inventions of the 20th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:40 PM
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If it was truly inconsequential they wouldn't be breaking up with the person over it. Breaking up requires hitting a certain threshold, which is different for all individual humans, and once its hit then for a lot of people its time to move on. If the person is in a financially or emotionally secure place, they often do move on with the break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:22 PM
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The key part is if its a consistent, explainable rationale vs "I just feel it so!" type arguments. This is a broader issue with many people not learning how to make philosophical arguments. Men are slightly more often into such niche hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:20 PM
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All decisions are emotion-based to some degree, even an purely economic or stats based decision, because humans are emotional beings that have created all these systems of logic and decision making. Until we meet truly alien civilizations we won't know how technically 'logical' these systems even are. Now, having said that yes women can and do make emotional more than higher analytical decisions and some of those decisions are wholly positive, some are wholly negative, and many are grey areas be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:02 PM
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Its solved easily: enforce and celebrate poly relationships. If the global imbalance is 55/45 men/women, then 5% of men need to be in poly relationships with 1 or more women. Then everyone has at least one partner. Of course convincing men to do this is like pulling teeth out of an alligator without losing your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:21 PM
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It only works because men are too damn dumb and stubborn to stop paying for access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:20 PM
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Lol so just reverse a hundred years of social and political change so you can feel like you have a chance at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:15 PM
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Women aren't hypergamous though, so you're just gonna piss them off when they get artificially limited to whom they can talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:07 PM
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This is dealing with a different issue though. The fact that many retirement plans across the globe were set up with poor understanding of human procreation cycles, isn't a negative mark against lower birth rates. It's a negative mark towards idiot economists, mostly hyper capitalist types, that want a perpetual growth regardless of how realistic that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:05 PM
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Lot of dudes are pure stupidity walking around in the flesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:48 AM
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This is fixable by the dev team though. "User hasn't logged on in 30 days, they are now moved to the folder with other 30+ no log in day folks."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:45 AM
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Gender imbalance: Men seem to use dating apps more than women, and the women that do use them get consistently more responses than men. Several apps have more women on them than men. I believe Bumble's latest stats were like 60/40 women/men. There are other niche dating sites like the infamous Disney dating ones where it's overwhelmingly women. This is a cultural thing at the end of the day. If women feel empowered to use apps, they will. IF they don't, then men will be the dominate group using …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:44 AM
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Strong disagree. The way to avoid cheating is creating a moral framework within yourself that cheating is 100% wrong to do, and you are not going to willfully break your own commandments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:39 AM
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I mean I absolutely tell people to be themselves, just taken to 11 to borrow a Spinal Tap reference. At the end of the day a person faking large parts of their personality, beliefs, and outlook on life is not going to find a good LTR. They may find some short term fun, which for someone struggling for any connection may be useful to do, but its only going to lead to short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:36 AM
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I think the argument is that it began around the mid-90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:34 AM
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The bluepill is simply what works within that era of dating. What worked in the 1950s, 1970s, 1990s, 2010s all have similarities when you analyze the core of what dating was within those eras. The only major thing that's changed is that non-conservative women expect men to be more in tuned with their "feminine" coded traits. Men that refuse this, narrow their dating pool by a lot. Hence TRP men bitching and complaining while being as misogynistic as they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:32 AM
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Their actions globally tell us exactly the opposite. Most women are looks and status-matched with their husbands or long term boyfriends. Same thing for lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:01 AM
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They want an equal, not someone superior or inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:20 PM
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Lesbians meet so much in person at other things now, or at events, or online that the lezbars all died pretty much. Same parallels with many of the PPD men that are having trouble finding someone. The "str8bars" for most guys struggling don't exist any more. But due to a multitude of reasons hetero dudes won't go online, won't join up at events with other hetero women, won't join hobby groups where those women are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:11 PM
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Feeldoes are apparently a godsend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:00 PM
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LBD is more of an older lesbian thing, in surveys under 40 lesbians are having fairly regular sex. Under 25 lesbians are having pretty kinky/experimental sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:59 PM
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I have some lesbian friends and the dynamics in those dating scenes is interesting. Aggressive femmes and butches/studs usually have the pick of the litter so to speak. They get the high tier lesbians. The commonality between "chads" and aggressive lesbians is that both groups know what they want, they know how to obtain it, and they implement those strategies to do so. They're outgoing, they're personable, they're fun to be around. Women want someone that is confident in themselves to navigate …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:57 PM
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Lilith literally masturbating with the salty tears she farms from damaged incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:52 PM
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Its a weird run on sentence but overall says a poignant thing about modern society's expectations in adults. IMHO I eagerly await the AI-dominated future where many people that frankly have no desire or need to learn many of those things can be 'taken care of' to focus on other things in their lives. For example, balancing the average american's monthly and yearly budgets is pretty much a cut and dry formula that if every family implemented it, our economy would drastically improve overnight. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:51 PM
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You could get so much karma farmed from posting that to r/malelivingspaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:39 PM
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Liberal women flat out say that husband material means "this man is well-rounded in his emotional and physical development, I can make babies with him and raise a fun healthy household." They aren't calling "beta soycuck boys" husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:38 PM
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Yes it is? Idk where you live, but the average home price where I live is ~$1 million CAD. You need a buyer and often the mortgage difference will eat up most of that 'profit' from the sale. Also only a small amount of individuals are blessed in america/canada/elsewhere to have property so inflated with some demand for that property. Most divorces, and most sales of homes due to divorce are sub $250,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:35 PM
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If you own a home and divorce that's $500k at least. Tell me you're a teenager without telling me you're a teenager, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/ContagiousLaughter/comments/1aobtnm/that_man_is_winning_in_life/ This is what the incels want to force for us and it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:41 PM
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Except this is a bit of a misnomer as well. Most women can orgasm from PIV sex, although the build up to that is more strenuous than their partner is willing to devote the time and effort to do so. The actual nuances of these sexuality studies around this have gotten a bit muddled on what women are actually saying about their sexual abilities and experiences. Nearly 37 percent of women responded that they needed clitoral stimulation to come, and another 36 percent responded that while they didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:02 PM
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Actually the lesbian STD rate has tripled in the past decade, however the numbers overall are still low. Lesbians really should be broken down into age and lifestyle groups when we're looking at these statistics. Older lesbians skew a lot of numbers away from the behaviors younger lesbians are engaging in(psst they're having A LOT of sex and intimacy moments.) I'm one of the people that says, based on what women flat out say, that they're just as horny as men. The 'type' of horniness is differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:51 PM
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Depends on the woman unfortunately. Some women make men jump through lots of hoops, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:41 PM
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Within most social circles in america from 1997ish until today there is zero negative stigmatization for a healthy adult that is already in good standing within that community/family structure to say they met their awesome ass partner, that that community agrees is an awesome partner, at all. Only judgy asshole people are feeling negativity towards people that meet online. I've known multiple people that dated from the 1980s(through work they did online) till present day and no one was negativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:41 PM
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Globally the happiness ratings are literally over 70%. That's incredibly good for any statistic we can analyze.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:48 AM
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Arguably as long as we define quality as "a relationship where 51% of the time you were genuinely happy-or-content for 5+ years", most people on earth will have at minimum 2-4 happy quality relationships by the time they die. If we define quality as some obscenely strict pie-in-the-sky kind of deal then probably less than 10% of humans on earth have that true deep everlasting relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:47 AM
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I'm a man that enjoys doing pottery. I met many women within this hobby, some of whom we formed a FWB relationship and some that I dated longer term. Men throughout history were into the same hobbies as women for almost a 1 to 1 scale. While some cultures have diverged from that earlier time of shared interests, it isn't exactly insurmountable for a modern man and woman to share at least 1 hobby or major interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:44 AM
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No it wasn't. Literally we had commercials on tv since the very late 90s where eHarmony and similar sites were being pushed as a way for mostly divorced men and women to meet up. eHarmony itself started in 2000, and other sites predate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:28 AM
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You have no clue what you're talking about. It has never at any point in time been embarrassing for adults that are seeking relationships to use the internet. We had several people in my family that started online dating in the very late 90s and no one shamed them for it in our social circles. Maybe your social circle is that shameful to emotionally harm someone for trying to date but most adults aren't that pedantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:26 AM
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More guys are just looking for sex, and women won’t believe you if you say you aren’t . Women do believe you if you show that you're not just interested in casual short term sex. If you genuinely show you care about her as a person, she will eventually want to fuck your brains out. Source: my life and most successful men around me that are peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:22 AM
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Sadly this is the correct answer. Basil seeds are obscenely cheap. I highly suggest thai basil over italian/regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:36 PM
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You are old enough now with parents permission. I think unless you have a truly horrific name you probably shouldn't do this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:58 PM
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As someone that is 6'3, no they don't. Women are consistent across global cultures about what they're attracted to, with some cultures putting things higher or lower on the list of attractive qualities, but none put height as a 'must' as a group. Individual women of course may have such a dumb preference but they're a small minority of people in the dating scene, and frankly they often don't date for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:56 PM
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There's no such thing. Socialists are economically motivated first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:13 PM
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No it isn't, its normalized old dude behavior for the past century or more. Biden ain't sexualizing minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:07 PM
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Pregnant chicks put out though... What a dumb ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:02 PM
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Its because globally speaking it doesn't help at all. There's a sliver of women that are obsessed with height, the vast majority of women do not put it on a top ten list of traits they're looking for in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:01 PM
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Lemme guess you think TwoX is a misandrist sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:05 AM
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I believe the thrust of the 80/20 rhetoric is that 20% of men are having 80% of the sex or sleeping with 80% of women, if one guy sleeps with 20 women then those 20 women go on to find a virgin man in their 30s to impregnate them, who is seeing "sexual success"? The man that has sexual access to her for the next 50 years. Not the man that had extremely limited access for a very short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:53 PM
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Also men that raise a kid due to the biomother not being in the picture(often drug abuse) quite quickly find a step mom to form a relationship with and raise the kids together with her. It's rare a guy stays completely single throughout the childhood of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:34 PM
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Completely spot on. Folks like myself that love kids and are extremely excited to be a parent are forgoing that in our 20s and even for men their 30s, in exchange for other things that are higher value to us in that meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:53 AM
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Half? Nah it's 95%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:46 AM
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I could get this dude laid within 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:34 AM
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She would clearly rather be at home riding her husband's dick all morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:33 AM
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Term monkey branch exists because grifters realized most men are terrible at understanding actual relationship data and professional experiences from psychotherapists, and the grift pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:29 AM
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Clean your damn office, you woke moralist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:28 AM
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FYI Pornhub and other sites have also pointed out that usually the top MALE category is also for lesbian porn. Many people just genuinely like seeing two women fuck in the way that women that love women tend to fuck. I know for literally years when I first started watching porn I hated seeing dick on screen so I almost exclusively sought out lesbian porn, including dyke shit like Crashpad series(highly recommend to any queer folks in the chat.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:26 AM
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Sexuality in human beings, due to our higher brain functions being able to bend or break many 'biological' imperatives, is roughly a choice brought upon by your upbringing and culture. If we had a super gay culture, the vast majority of people in that culture would be actively gay. It would be the 'norm'. That doesn't mean that we should try to make gay people straight. There's nothing inherently wrong with being gay. If there was a pill to take and it made you 100% hetero, it would be unethical…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:24 AM
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Again look up the type of actual 'violence' and then get back to us. Psst, it's low level shit like throwing things and scratching/slapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:22 AM
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They will admit “can’t live with them, can’t live without” But women are constantly saying they don’t need or want men. Do you not see the hypocrisy in this? From your pov on this, both sexes are saying they don't want to live with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:19 AM
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Not solo but they're a good example of it for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:16 AM
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You're not respecting women by doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:53 PM
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Cumcatcher is such a great insult that doesn't see much use.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:52 PM
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I mean that one poster that has a ton of stats and data around how most RP talking points are complete and utter bullshit does get some traction some of the time. Of course most RPs ignore them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:40 PM
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Some people are really crazy. Also most people are still really bad at understanding statistics and analysis of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:39 PM
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If women start approaching a lot more, they'll approach all types of guys. Same with men, that often approach all types of women. The cultural shift will be opening women up to feeling confident to go "Hey you seem cool... lets hang." Something many women don't have that ability to do right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:20 AM
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Societies show variable acceptance of polygamy as a cultural ideal and practice. According to the Ethnographic Atlas, of 1,231 societies noted, 186 were monogamous; 453 had occasional polygyny; 588 had more frequent polygyny, and 4 had polyandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:48 AM
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Stay best friends and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:03 PM
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Well sort of. The amount of translesbians has skyrocketed so you may just end up being in a queer relationship in a few years time, if its more than just a crossdressing thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:57 PM
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There's a youtuber that literally looks like this... don't remember the name though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:49 PM
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Some form of one-man-to-one-woman "marriage" exists in every known culture. Lmao tell me you don't know much about world cultures for the past 6000 years without telling me you don't know much about marriage rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:37 PM
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Everyone should change their standards: If you're unhappy being lonely. If you're fine being lonely, and not complaining about it, then its fine. Keep high standards. It's when dudes are complaining but won't date that fat woman or skinny single mom that people are like "come the fuck on bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:08 AM
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https://twitter.com/fr_brennan/status/572659349329338369/photo/2 Bro landed a 3/10 filipino lady and apparently they're married, can't hate on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:06 AM
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First we need to establish the group we're talking about are the minority. Sub 25% minority. Perhaps even sub 10%, depending on which country and how we define the terms we're using. I think when you ask Gen Z men "Would you rather put in the time and effort to get a girlfriend, laying out you need to do XYZ, or spend time on your hobbies?" lots of men are genuinely choosing the hobbies. There's a generational change in men as well as women, that they're seeking pleasure and comfort in 'things' …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:22 AM
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Most governments track these things and we can interpolate from the data we have what the overall population is doing in places that don't track it perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:13 AM
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i am sorry but as a 30n year old virgin i would probably kill myself if my first chance at a relationship comes to me when I begin to experience erectile dysfunction. did you not write this...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:36 PM
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Its hilarious how vocal certain groups are against all forms of poly. Dare I say, its a very good highlight of how horrible those ideologies are compared to the broader western modern poly movement. "If you're on the same side as literal Nazis, Anarchists, and Communists, you might actually be wrong."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:35 PM
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Its for people that are obsessed with having kids earlier than they normally would have. If you're 30 and still haven't met the right guy to have a baby with, then have a baby with the best guy in your life, which is usually that long-time best male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:34 PM
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I'm biased in this regard and think that men generally take better care of kids if they're in love with their mother. Yeah I think this is a "you" experience thing. My experiences are that men that grow up taking care of their siblings or cousins make for the most attentive dads, and some percentage of guys have a lightbulb moment some point after birth and kindergarten. The rest of men are oblivious to child rearing and no amount of lust/love for a woman affects their attentiveness with a child…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:32 PM
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Not declining that fast, still something like 90% overall, but yes the upper classes are refusing to arrange as much as in the past. Which is kind of interesting because upper class have the most to gain by arranged marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:28 PM
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My understanding is that the only people doing this are: gay asexual people that form a beard hetero relationship to the outside world, but close friends/family know its just an arrangement for a similar goal, two best friends that genuinely don't have a romantic spark but love each on a very deep level, asexual heteros.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:27 PM
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This just tells me that you're severely immature. Suicide is not an option for a fixable, easily fixable!!!!, problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:21 PM
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Post pics. Every incel forum I've been on when guys say they look bad turn out to guess what, look pretty decent. Admittedly the truly hideous dudes might not have the guts to post their pics so there's some self-selection there, but still, the fact remains they almost always have severe body dysmorphia. And second, let's asume you're right. Why do you think modern society is creating "broken" men so much compared to past generations? It isn't. The only broken men are right wingers that hate the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:14 PM
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The current statistics agree that almost all men on earth that make it to the age of say, 70, will be married at least once and will have on average 3+ very long term relationships with a heterosexual woman. That's global statistics. That's also western statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:08 PM
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In general people want cops to do their jobs and prevent crime or quickly solve crimes that happen. Even #abolishthepolice types of people agree with these basic tenets of policing, but disagree with finer details inherent within.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:00 PM
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It's not really that shitty of a job overall. The main issue with beatcops is that you see the worst day of everyone's life, you don't see the happier moments in people's lives. This can leave you cynical and uncaring. One thing the better police departments do in non-USA countries is make sure to keep cops rotating from those positions to more fruitful positions, and providing good therapy and supervisory tools for cops to stay in the mindset of "We serve the People."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:38 PM
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Other than Americans, who are you talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:53 PM
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There are two major youtube channels that post public custody and alimony trials and 9 out of 10 times the guy is incredibly unprepared, refuses to hire council, refuses to use public pro bono or similar organizational help to acquire help from council, refuses to obey pretty easy to follow instructions for filing and counter-filing, refuses to follow the judge's instructions for general behavior in the courtroom / over skype, is vindictive and brings up problems that have nothing to do with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:47 PM
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https://markmanson.net/guide-to-modern-dating Honestly this is a pretty good synopsis of blue pill dating advice. It's based on what actually works in the real world across the globe in multiple different cultures, with a bit of an emphasis on western values.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:50 PM
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The majority of intersex people identify with the assigned at birth gender. Most are 'cis' in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:22 PM
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If you're not r/gooning then you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:29 PM
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I'm literally looking at the #drake tags right now on twitter and this is exactly what I'm seeing, both last night between 9pm-10pm and right now at 730am. Are you living in an alternate reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:31 PM
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I've seen this theory before and thought I don't agree with it entirely, there's probably some elements of truth somewhere within it. The whole therapy section is cringe af though. Psychology was invented on the backs(and brains) of men, is still a male dominated science and philosophy tool for both sexes to get mentally and emotionally healthier. Men related face to face just as well as women. This is a 'human' thing not a sex-specific thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:07 AM
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"I've experienced" this is where you fucked up. Your experiences, frankly, do not matter in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:56 AM
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Women vehemently disagree with you both in actions and verbalization of what they think/feel at any given time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:56 AM
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Technically you don't even have to commit to see potential in them. Long friendships often build potentials between two people if the chemistry is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:55 AM
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Ain't no feminist shaming short men. That's anti-feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:49 AM
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I'm sorry but look at twitter right now and it's 90% comments talking about how gross this leak was, with about 10% neutral-to-bad comments that praise it. Also a bunch of people pointing out the lyrical truthiness from previous Drake tracks. The vast majority of twitter and subreddits talking about this right now are taking Drake's side.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:49 AM
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Reading/learning about medieval history, There are many, many women out there with history degrees or extremely into medieval history(often french and english history). video games with like 90% male player bases Play less Pew Pew games and more Hug Hug games. I’ve recently gotten into competitive Pokemon. Ton of women are into semi-competitive pokemon. Whether they'll be pouring over the latest meta post on Smogon or not, doubtful. But if that's your standard you're already fucking your odds ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:06 PM
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That dude was super adorable. He just needs to find some mid-to-high functioning talkative creative autistic woman and they'd live happily ever after together being the super quirky couple of the neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:03 PM
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Come on you gotta mention the carfucker guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6XSeHmygz9c As weird as this guy is, he's genuinely happier than some of the complainers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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Hypocrisy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:33 PM
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Have you ever watched a film or read a play about romance? It's almost entirely male-dominated sexuality as an empowering thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:32 PM
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Women flat out say they don't see the abundance you see. They see mostly men that have zero interest in.(which this point gets then flipped around to say women don't care about men... lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:34 PM
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I love that you don't mention any other details about the date, only the weird financial part of it. Would have been faster to say Q4W: I don't understand how you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:30 PM
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In the past your ultimate loyalty was actually to the tribe/group you're apart of, usually based on a religious-cultural axis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:11 PM
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The good form of monogamy is a couple that get together and stay together until death. We know this is less likely to happen today than pretty much any other time in history. So this form of monogamy is dwindling for many real world, unfixable(within a monog relationship) reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:08 PM
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Why are you creating a special class of poly relationships as if the same doesn't exist in monogamous relationships? There's a lot of different type of poly. You've got crazy Mormon/muslim stuff. You've got pretty mainstream boring latte sippin' liberal poly. You've got weird cult poly. I want to differentiate the 'bad' forms of poly from a western secular perspective and highlight the ones I think would work better for most people. Qualifiers and context are extremely important in having a deba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:35 AM
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In surveys on this(10,000+ people) the reasons why people break up are usually 'fixable' issues and not fundamentally unfixable issues. Financial problems can be solved. "He cheated on me" doesn't exist within a healthy poly relationship, instead it flips to a positive or neutral emotion. Bad lifestyle behaviors can sometimes be solved with additional partners helping, for example men are currently pretty notorious for being messy home keepers, splitting those chores up even more than 50/50 crea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:05 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%.jpeg You can't tell me this guy isn't picking up at least some chicks with this glow up. Whether he can keep them for LTRs is a different question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:39 PM
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She clearly is fantasizing about you lifting her up on the desk and railing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:22 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:20 PM
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It teaches kids a ton of positive(and a few negative) things with their peers. I honestly think every kid needs to have multiple sleepovers a month to see how other parents act around each other(so if you have abusive parents you can see the signs faster), interact with and learn to share with kids in your peer group, explore sexuality and platonic body stuff, etc. Also kids that have sleepovers learn Santa/jesus isn't real a lot faster and that's a net positive for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:14 PM
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Solve this "crisis" with some good old fashioned greek homosexuality. Take the trans/gaypill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:10 PM
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Its hilarious reading this thread the amount of "they're gross, they're unethical, they're ugly, they're weird" and if you go to actual poly forums or subreddits it's fairly normal liberal people living their best lives. I'd much rather hang out with a wonderfully caring "weird" poly person than a super judgmental asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:09 PM
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Poly people are much more often using multiple protection layers than monog people. We have limited surveys on this and that's what we've been able to discover so far. Jealousy is fixed by having an open communication around what can and does happen in these extra relationships. Jealousy is not some kind of binary thing in most people. It can be turned off with the appropriate psychological and emotional tools. Poly people rarely if ever report having an imbalance in relationship finding. Men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:06 PM
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"It takes a village" is true in almost every long term successful civilization. Nuclear family arguably never really existed, or if it did it was an incredibly brief time and quickly pushed out for other lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:01 PM
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Financial reasons is still the #1 reason for divorce as well. Poly groups usually(but not always) have a much larger ability to increase their income exponentially. Two people work, one person goes to school(trade or college) for higher paying career. They finish that schooling and get high paying job, then another person goes to school for a trade or college, etc. By the time they're 35-40, they can juggle multiple kids, multiple careers, and still afford luxury goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:59 PM
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Most people are happy with monogamy. Statistically this isn't true. The average global person male or female will have 3 LTRs by the time they die in their 70s, and not due to death of their partner. This clearly means that one person for most people is not enough love to satisfy someone for their entire life. Acceptable modern poly relationships would be a huge breakthrough for global dating and marriage culture. It would allow everyone to join up into a larger, more powerful economic and lovin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:54 PM
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I agree with you but the devil's advocate argument is this: If they were born into that society they would have toughened up to the appropriate level. Being born in a "weak male" society caused them to be weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:49 PM
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No. The reason people say this is because its absolutely true when you talk to women across the globe. OP and you and others in this sub want to deny the reality that women, are contextually, just as horny as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:28 PM
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Humans are extremely malleable on their attractions and interests. The reason gay conversion therapy doesn't work is because there's nothing inherently wrong with being gay. If a person truly believes there is a problem with it, they can suppress those feelings. You have to develop an aversion to it though, and that takes desire to change to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 12:00 AM
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Also to add to this, women have more tools and options to "stay firm" on their 300k over asking price today than in the past. Thus we see women doing exactly that and staying happily single for a longer period of time than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:59 PM
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"Any statistics from any country on earth you attempt to gather this data from are all lying to you bro, my source: trust me, I know people are liars."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:30 PM
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Yes which is why there are genuine problems with online dating that culturally we should be working on fixing. Some of this is absolutely female lead problems that women need to be working on. The no spark thing is a particular weird way to react, especially if it was only one or two dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:25 PM
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The average guy, and those who fall under that level.. Are not the ones enjoying such a lifestyle. I'm in the south and average dudes are in fact having casual sex around here. You just need to be outgoing enough and have a larger friend group than many of the autistic weirdos in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:23 PM
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And jealousy is the root of a lot of issues that plague relationships. In almost all surveys on this, especially in the past 20 years, jealousy is not even in the top ten for relationship friction problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:19 PM
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Hinge and Bumble's stats on male:female ratio is muuuuuuch closer to 50:50 than Tinder. In a recent global survey, some countries even have a lopsided more females than male ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:12 PM
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My friend met her ex-bf at work. BUT YOU CANT DO THAT! WHAT ABOUT HR?! - autists losing their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:12 PM
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The husband would still be the father and responsible because that's how society looks at father-in-action vs biodad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:08 PM
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The courts would have to figure out how to handle it legally though. Courts already have a handle on it. Whomever signs the documentation for fatherhood is legally on the line for that child. If no one signs, then it falls on the man(biological or not) that is in that child's life as a father-figure. If no man is in that child's life in that context, then it falls to the biological father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:32 PM
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As for extended family, they don't have an impact on me financially or comparable to raising a child for 18 years. It would be a consequence-less discovery. 100% autism reply. Your extended family has an impact on you emotionally and perhaps economically if you're a lifeline to any of them that may suffer from a housing crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:30 PM
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It does matter that men are the ones victimizing men. It means the solution to stopping that victimization is purely and utterly in the hands of other men. Women have zero significant role to play in this. It's up to us to solve this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:23 PM
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I have met so many women that give me a blank stare when I ask "what gets you off?". Now it may be because they don't understand their sexuality or because it's a McDonalds drive-thru cashier.. hard to say really. Calling bullshit. Women that have had sexual experiences can absolutely tell you what gets them off. Maybe they don't use enough descriptors for your liking, but they can explain the feelings that build up and then ride that rollercoaster of orgasmic pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:39 PM
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Top level post. This is what many of the autistic men in this sub don't understand. They're worrying about the trace amounts of copper in the soil instead of whether the plant has h20 and sunlight. Focus on the big picture first, then fill in the details if that still fails to get you what you're desiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:30 PM
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They moved off site due to "harassment." r/themotte did the same thing + their mods were scared of being raided by the FBI, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:14 PM
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There is nothing about modern lifestyles that "costs more money than a man's" at all. Purchasing power has become deflated from the true reality of our material manufacturing processes. Shit should be a hell of a lot cheaper than it is across the board. Capitalism run amok has created this problem, and thankfully there's enough anti-caps and regulatory-caps that want massive changes and they will obtain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:13 PM
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If it was completely random without cultural expectations and experiences, yes. Its only when you start layering on sociological reasonings for behavior that you start manipulating what someone may choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:09 PM
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Sotomayor is right though, lol. So many angry men in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:31 PM
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“Women have it worse” Men are 3x as likely to die from suicide. Suicide or living is ultimately a decision that every human being has to decide for themselves. Society is very much anti-suicide and there are massive social and cultural propaganda/programs to help anyone dealing with such thoughts. The majority of homeless people are men. Those men often reject any kind of help to get them off the streets. Homeless women are also the same. Temp homeless women that aren't suffering from massive me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:27 PM
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Men and women both date up and down depending on the life circumstances around their availability for courtship. Look at some of the most successful people and their first wife/husband. You will find some outliers in those stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:17 PM
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Then you live in a non-western society. In current western societies men and women both have bottlenecks that they create for the other sex. That's where a lot of the friction in current dating is. Men have certain expectations and standards, and women have similar but different ones. Both sexes rely on the other for some things, and both rely on their group for other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:11 PM
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Yeah no, bone structure, muscle mass, testosterone levels, height differences, twitch muscle fibres, reaction speeds, and a plethora of other ingrained biological advantages that lead to physical domination disagree with you. Actual tribal studies disagree with you. And yet no culture in human society has thrived with women in leadership roles, curious. There are several matriarchal societies on earth, and an emerging amount of egalitarian ones. While the exceptions to the rule of patriarchy, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:42 AM
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The bottleneck for casual sex is culture. In many societies on earth, including a handful today, are free-sharing with their sexual needs and pretty much everyone fucks each other and seem happy with doing so. Women don't control those fuck sessions. If anything, men control it a bit more due to patriarchal control over most societies including these free-sex tribal societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:27 AM
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Women, for a period of recent time, are certainly submissive. Women, through anthropological records and modern tribal studies, aren't submissive psychologically nor physically. The physicality levels that tribal women can produce are right there on par with men of that tribe. At best men might be a little better on the 'burst' and women better on the 'endurance' of activity levels. The way women act is wholly contingent on the culture they're raised in, period. Evopsych ideas around "what is bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:22 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/malelivingspace/comments/1ad8053/staying_at_my_brothers_place_for_the_weekend_and/ The kids bros are not alright...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:33 PM
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You traded your soul for riches My child, I've watched you grow up to be famous And now I smile like a proud dad, watching his only son that made it You seem to be only concerned with dissing women Were you abused as a child, scared to smile, they called you ugly? Well life is hard, hug me, don't reject me Or make records to disrespect me, blatant or indirectly In '88 you was getting chased through your building Calling my crib and I ain't even give you my numbers All I did was gave you a style …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:30 PM
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40k is too grim dark for a lot of women. Be a MTG nerd and play lots of commander where a ton of women gravitate towards that format due to various evopsych reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:28 PM
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I saw the popular guy from college on Tinder today. I considered swiping right to see if we’d match… I know from real life that he is cute; and although I wasn’t in the popular group, he was the quiet/nice one. But then I thought: “imagine if we did match? And I had to spend the rest of my life reliving shit from college?” So I swiped left. No new matches. But then again, I realized that I’m subconsciously not putting any effort into this. Because deep down, I want to meet someone in real life. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:31 PM
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The problem is the type of guys coming here and elsewhere have zero positive mainstream mentors. They're rejecting the normal man for this sigma/alpha crazy pill stuff. There needs to be a way to pick these guys up and get them to see the truth of things(ironically the actual red pill... which is mainstream blue pill ideology) once they're inside the memeplex of the Andrew Tate types.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:14 PM
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They should go to mainstream psychologists, sociologists, sex therapists(for those with sexual hangups like obsessing about N counts and screaming about hypergamy "Every woman will cheat!"), to people in already happy relationships, to people that are currently dating and can help someone navigate how the dating pool dynamics change from decade to decade. Listen to successful blue pill and purple pill folks. Or hell, listen to successful red pill people. Most of the world are conservatives that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:11 PM
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Based on statistics, dating does lead to marriage(or very long cohabitation) even in western nations. Leftist couples report pretty high happiness ratings, although yes less than hyper traditionalist ones that frankly I believe are either naive or brainwashed into thinking they're truly happy. Statistically they're having 1.5 kids. Yes it would be nicer if this stat was more in the 2-3 kid range than just 1 or 2 kid range it currently is in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:22 PM
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The "men here have autism to a VERY high degree" thing is my only answer for how prevalent this is. Also the fact Fresh & Fit / Whatever type podcasts will act like these women are 100% serious and thus the male viewer trusts the podcast hosts without using their own critical thinking skills to go "Wait this is definitely fucking silly..."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:22 PM
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People aren't the same. Just switching a word completely changes meanings, intents, and other cultural aspects of a thing. People can have modern respected preferences and they can have archaic ones that are judged rightfully for being some sort of -ism. You're free to disagree, and we're free to insist on our understanding of how things are in the world and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:20 PM
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First step would be to stop believing that women are hypergamous at all. Second thing would be to realize there is no such thing as a "hook up" culture. People hooking up are also still looking for LTRs should the right person appear. Nothing morally wrong with hooking up. If anything it teaches you to vet better for that LTR as you have a multitude of positive and negative experiences to better judge others by.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:16 PM
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This seems to me to be the position that lonely men are in online. People will tell them they’re evil misogynist rapists – as the articles above did – no matter what. In what is apparently shocking news to a lot of people, this makes them hurt and angry. If you're taking psychoanalysis you should also know this can make people the opposite as well. They can be more empathetic and understanding. They can liberalize instead of becoming more traditionalist. They can be more open and honest than clo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:14 PM
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I will say this, poly-minded people won't change their behavior at all around their primary partner. So in theory if you're monog but dating a poly person, if they did start sleeping with someone, you probably wouldn't notice from that aspect. It's a mentality thing of how you treat people, and truly poly people have the ability to maintain or even strengthen love of more than 1 person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:05 PM
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Libertarian =! egalitarian. Even socialist libertarians like Vaush are at some level of argumentation not egalitarian as a non-libertarian person can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:59 PM
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The labia thing is a macho thing partially and a r/badwomensanatomy/ thing. Some men literally believed a slutty woman would have larger labia or vagina opening "hotdog down a hallway." Also many porn stars have very tight lips and clitoral hoods, and pornified dudes would expect that instead of the reality that most women have lobsided lips and hoods to some degree. Just like men expect two perfectly symmetrical tits instead of the reality that due to hormones and other human evolutionary thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:47 PM
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95% of the people putting out ick videos are flat out saying they're playing along with the joke of it. That woman that said "guys that use umbrellas... ick" elaborated later she was 100% joking and couldn't believe some people thought she was serious. The boy math and girl math thing was, almost entirely but not completely, a fun jokey thing. It wasn't serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:41 PM
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Lmao. Dudes will date butterface girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:45 PM
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There's a ton of 5s and higher in those gym instagram photos...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:44 PM
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No one right now in the english speaking, has online access world is so introverted that they cannot find niche online spaces with women that also in that mentality that want heterosexual male partners. So many people have met and married through the weirdest places online. From fetish websites to WoW to niche hobby stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:42 PM
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Completely over exaggerating. Also he's in LA, that's a genuinely weird dating market for anyone including ultra pretty, ultra rich guys and girls looking for genuine LTRs. Sure you can have lots of casual relationships easily, but that's all you can manage. The people that will take anyone, are already with anyone because there are enough single lonely dudes and women that are putting themselves out there to date that those people do get snatched up fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:11 PM
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Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:50 PM
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The majority of feminists are dating feminist men. It's very rare to find one that actually found a non-feminist man to be a life partner for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:46 PM
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Ugly women don't have any options either. That's you being delusional and ignoring when ugly women flat out tell you about their lives and type of men they get attention from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:45 AM
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Non-stop visit just the most random places. Go to any of the bigger malls and explore. Shit I think I could spend a hour just looking around in a 7-11. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpkfEfTC8pA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:15 PM
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I mean the women here and BP/PP men are pretty representative of the overall global statistics for dating and marriage. The issues most complainers here(mostly men, with a scattering amount of red pill women) are absolutely abnormal in both their mentalities towards women and their mentalities towards dating/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:22 PM
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Why something is at the top of the list of things people care about is immaterial to the fact they do in fact care about it. I've never seen an anti-age gap person not also be against financial abuses. I'm a progressive that cares about 100+ different agenda's and groups. The fact I don't put say, animal rights as #1 doesn't mean I don't believe animals should have lots more rights than they do now. I just don't find it that most pressing issue that demands more attention at this singular moment…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:55 AM
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Most people currently make awful financial decisions, so sadly this isn't much of a factor on cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:41 AM
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Do you trust your life experiences or actual global 100,000+ people surveyed statistics on this? If you trust your life experiences over the data, then you can grow cynical around it. If you trust the statistics, then you can frame your experiences in for the minority position you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:41 AM
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It's grounded because I saw it with my own eyes for years when I was in a blue collar labor intensive field.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:52 PM
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They have quite a few things in common in their overall ideas towards the importance of work and work culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:52 PM
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I mean talking to other humans improves your texting game, so sure...? The biggest issue you're gonna run into is the classic "as a chad I can say X and get Y response, but as myself I say X I get Z response." problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:05 AM
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https://massivesci.com/notes/mongoose-fighting-sex-evolution/ When male mongooses fight, the females sneak away to have sex with other males elsewhere Those fucking sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:54 AM
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I think a lot of people have zero true friends, we all have a bunch of familiar acquaintances we know well. Friendship to me means the old "would help bury a body without any questions of why." and very few people are that ride or die mentality any more for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:51 PM
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Global population is still on the rise. You may not like the people being born, but human civilization is gonna keep on truckin' without you specifically procreating. People that want kids, for the vast majority of people physically capable of doing so, they are having 1.5-2.5 kids. Yes people that want a bigger family are forgoing that because of expenses in our society that we so far haven't dealt with. We gotta wait for the boomers and boomer-minded people to die or be overthrown out of their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:48 PM
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It's the Schrodinger's women thing. Women are the causes of collapse, but don't provide any support for society at the same time. Which is illogical and just flat out stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:42 PM
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Have you tried joining multiplayer BG3 groups, specifically many of the ones with women in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:39 PM
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Societies aren't even collapsing, they're evolving like they always have. What exists today won't exist tomorrow, but what exists tomorrow will be a functional thing that works better for some things/people, and worse for some things/people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:38 PM
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Otherwise women would fight to have manual labor jobs too They are. We're seeing many more female welders, construction workers, truckers, lumber-industry adjacent, and manufacturing jobs for women. Many progressive women's orgs are pushing for women to branch out where they have interests in the careers like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:14 PM
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Women don't go into trades because they don't like manual labour at all. Women don't like getting dirty and they're lazier than men. Tell me you've never worked around women in labor intensive jobs without telling me you've never worked around... The women that go into more physically demanding jobs are badasses that absolutely don't complain the same way men in those jobs complain. They're much more productive once they have the skills to be able to do so. They stay on task much better and don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:08 PM
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Hikkomori are giving up on the craziness of Japanese society, not women. Those guys would love to have a girlfriend, and some do. They would like to live in a non-japanese society that doesn't obsess around work the way current japanese city-society does. They're 21st century hippies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:46 PM
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. A woman ideally wants a man who stimulates her desire for both a short-term relationship and a long-term relationship. Except if you talk to most women, they tell you no in fact they don't want that. They want the guy that's a solid LTR that has amazing qualities. Just like some men have this mentality as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:54 AM
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"Babe, I'm in the mood for a comedy, let's put on Schindler's List."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:33 AM
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"Would you like to make, uh uh uh, a homemade cream pie?" in a outrageous french accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:28 AM
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Stand By Me style male friendships > Now and Then female friendships > sports bro / insert niche hobby male friendships > all other female relationships > regular male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:27 AM
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Even those people can find love as long as they have access to the internet and enough resources to meet up with similarly dysfunctional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:20 AM
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Hannah "Dangerously" G000 you chose... poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:18 AM
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We have global statistics on this and nope, they don't. Most couples are within 10 year difference. If we want to be pedantic it is really less than 6. It's actually decently rare to find couples beyond that age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:11 AM
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She’s seemingly a magnet for red flags. “Jen tells a great story about one of the worst dates she’s ever been on,” says the source. “It was with a very handsome studio executive who brought an envelope to their dinner date. After a few minutes of small talk, he pulled out a screenplay for a slasher-horror-film-meets-rom-com he was working on. Not only did he write it, but he also wanted to be in it, opposite Jen as the star. She was flabbergasted.” Lmao that is a legit cringe level worthy event.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:00 AM
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https://www.motortrend.com/reviews/2025-toyota-imv-0-pickup-truck-first-drive-review-japan-mobility-show/ u/Excellent_Badger123 you need to get one!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:57 AM
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This dude played a risky game and now he's on the hook for 18 years. Now I'm not saying she's a golddigger but... Seriously though it is kind of sad-funny that these dudes don't have enough common sense to realize that they may be getting lied to and are about to create a life that they're responsible for emotionally, mentally, and physically for the rest of their lives. You should probably play it safe and stick to ladyboys from here on out. LOL based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:38 AM
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Lmao not a single country is that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:20 PM
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Something like 92% of all men(that make it to old age) by the time they die will have had on average 3+ LTRs. Majority are doing fine. That doesn't mean we should ignore the other 8%. We should put it into perspective though for the changes we seek for society to enact to help those guys out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:24 PM
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Considering the crazy schizo posting in PPD, they didn't spend enough or target the right people enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:21 PM
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But have you tried Botox, makeup, injections, surgeries, unhealthy dieting and the other wonders of the cosmetic industry designed to turn you into a Ken doll? To be fair, many of us (3-to-5th wave feminists) wish that women wouldn't do all this stuff too. Unless you have a genuine physical deformity, it'd be better to not get plastic surgery and various other moderately invasive things done to your body to "enhance" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:23 AM
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In the meantime you get to live your best life and have the most amazing gf/wifey possible for that period of your life. Live in the moment more dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:37 AM
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My own "this is such a simple idea how is this not being done yet?" is opening up beef/chicken bowl places that are extremely quick with making the food. Apparently there are some successful beef bowl places on the west coast, but this could be a national chain imho. Hibachi style meats, veggies, and rice are all cheap to source and require very little overhead. You can have quick hot meals in very short periods of time. Main issue would be making sure you have a good understanding of your daily…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:35 AM
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Like a black fly in your chardonnay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:32 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/comments/19897hj/no_i_will_not_give_you_covid/ I dunno it seems like its the clients with the true mental illnesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:08 AM
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Are you the period fetish poster that posts to r/AITA all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:51 PM
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They'd rather be a good relationship or single than a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:50 PM
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Small percentage(20% or less) but the ones that do are very vocal about it. I'm only referencing Gen Z or younger, because lets be honest what a 60 year old woman think about this subject is meaningless in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:48 PM
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Grats. All three should be covered by a UHC system but thanks Republicans for preventing that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:15 PM
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I lived in a coastal vacation type place for a few years. The job situation sucks. The dating situation sucks. Hooking up situation is really great... but unless that's your jam fucking tourists / snowbunnies, it gets really boring. Beach towns seem great if you're retired. Any semi-retired coworkers I had or retired folks I became acquaintances with were living their best lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:59 PM
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100% their true feelings. Have you actually spent time around these types of women? They are genuinely way, way happier being alone with friends than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:47 PM
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Online dating is a major component of life going forward globally. We will need government regulation around this topic to keep as many bad actors from wrecking havoc on things. Government needs to do this intelligently and with good responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:38 PM
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Match aren't making the bots, they tolerate them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:23 PM
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They aren't false though. I can say anything truthful or of my own opinion about you and you're not gonna win a lawsuit against me. You'd have to knowingly say something false, AND there needs to be damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:06 PM
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How can you inappropriately smear someone if you have someone's sent messages from the source? Your actions have consequences. Say dumb shit, get called out for dumb shit. Data is everywhere and they have a duty to protect it. In this case the type of data seems to be extremely miniscule compared to other potential breaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:57 PM
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He's fine. Definitely has resting bitch face though. If he was super bubbly and acted like Ed Sheeran, girls would swoon all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:34 PM
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Think about it this way: theyre 50% of the population. 48% of the population Dude you're fucking trolling right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:16 PM
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Bingo. Even worse the hobbies that men do have often have some women at them, yes sometimes partnered women, but guess what... those women have single girl friends and YES they will set you up if they vet you as a 'good guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:10 PM
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You've set yourself up for failure at every single turn. Congrats, you played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:10 PM
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Again there are many different types of progressives. You'd need to investigate other positions they take on things to see if they're truly progressive or if they misunderstand what the socio-political word progressive means. If I talk to someone and they lay out that they have 20 different conservative/right wing positions and 2 left wing positions, and they call themselves a progressive, I can call them out for bullshit. If they have 20 leftist positions, and 2 traditionalist ones(in this case…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:50 PM
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Then they're not actually progressives. To be anything you have to also put forth the actions, not just rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:51 PM
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i have little issue with that now, though i’d prefer a man who wouldn’t mind treating me time to time, and i’d do the same for him. That's how it should be. I treat you. You treat me. This is something I've done with most of my partners and its definitely led to an overall better dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:49 PM
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I'm easily the most progressive person that posts here.(My r/samharris cred for example). I'm also progressive for men's actual causes if you want to go over those. Many progressives are. Admittedly we don't put it on a top 20 list of problems within global human society, so it doesn't get focused on as much. There are bigger fish to fry, but rhetorically speaking if you can come up with a progressive issue for men, I'm likely on your side on it or have my own prog take that I think we should do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:44 PM
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He had multiple accusers. He likely did what he was accused of. He also was abused by the main accuser as well. They both seem extremely toxic for one another. You can be both an abused and abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:38 PM
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My husband can go to the store without asking me for a list and will surprise me with my fav candy, a face mask and a hair clip because he noticed my current one was broken 💁‍♀️that's why he got upgraded to husband Where my hairclip bros at?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:21 PM
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I feel like a lot of people replying to this post are projecting past bad experiences or annoyances onto our relationship. I mean of course you can't fit a whole relationship history into one Reddit post and strangers won't know our dynamics but I'm not sure where all this frustration and hostility is coming from. I might have come to the wrong place for advice Lol troll. FYI if your adult girlfriend will break up with you due to buying the wrong chocolates, y'all had serious deep issues that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:15 PM
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You'll be back in 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:13 PM
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There's a thousand meta topics within feminism to talk about, that doesn't reject the tenets of feminism itself. Just like there's a dozen different types of communist thought, libertarianism, conservativism, liberalism, anarchism, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:09 PM
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Why would they not exile terfs or 1st and 2nd wavers? It's 2023 dude, time for those radical idiots to grow up and join mainstream feminism. 3rd wave and above only.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:07 PM
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I'm sorry but if someone is jilling off to Shakespeare and you're r/gooning it to 16 different videos at the same time, yeah that lady is a fucking saint of masturbation compared to your junkie fentanyl addict behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:21 PM
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Correct. That 21% stat is a future prediction, not what is currently true about 40+ year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:04 PM
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New fetish unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:02 PM
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I don't like giving people hope where there is none. This is idiotic. You cannot see the future. Therefore hope for positive change is a justified and reasonable position to take. Pessimism will literally create a self fulfilling prophecy where you fail because you never tried to do something positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:51 PM
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95% maybe 98% of functional adults absolutely have another adult(maybe more) people that they could functionally romantically be involved with and be happier with that person than alone. Yes this does mean some poly relationships in societies with a gender or LGBT imbalance in attraction. Even dysphoric assholes can gain love and acceptance if they make genuine connections with romantic minded folks, although it'll go a lot smoother if they work on their mental and physical issues in the meantim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:45 PM
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No fucking way a 70 year old is on reddit and posting in that sub on that topic. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:37 PM
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Back in the days of our parents, this used to be 1% or maybe 2% tops. Incredibly false right from the get go. I forget that posters name but the one guy/lady that posts here that keeps a spreadsheet of all these talking points has thoroughly debunked this with historical statistics on sexless people in the past. Also we know that by the age of 27-28, the sexlessness and relationshipless drops to less than 2% with modern surveys on this, including I believe a large study from last year on this. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:16 AM
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I think most of us are focused on group dynamics not individual anecdotes. There's no personal preferences within global group statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:10 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9HDiWKAo8lE Hahaha these are all so true. Boy Math truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:09 AM
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He had no issue with that. This particular man is apparently abusive and manipulative and Destiny attempted to prevent her from further harming herself emotionally and physically over this dude. She's dumb and is siding with the other guy instead of her husband. Poly and open relationships most of the time work out well for everyone. The drama around this is purely due to how monetarily successful Destiny is, and the way he met her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:49 AM
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They aren't. The journey matters and I'd even argue the end goal isn't just climaxing to an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:36 PM
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They are absolutely "better" in this context because what they're engaging in is much more akin to the actual relationships that people form with life partners. Those romance stories have the full spectrum of interaction, where most porn(not all porn... as I've given some examples of porn that can be considered akin to women's smut) is absolutely bottom of the barrel of healthy human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:36 PM
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Easy going is submissive and is defacto an agent taking the control out of their power and giving it to another person. If you have an opinion that "ketchup is the best condiment" and your partner's opinion is "its disgusting and the sight/smell of it makes me vomit" you're at an impossible impasse. Someone will have to submit to the other on whether it's allowed in the household or at dinner. There are no reasonable compromises to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:21 PM
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No one has been solely brought up on charges for just having a doll. quickedit: It appears that the UK does have a law that governs dolls under 'obscene materials'. I imagine such a law may get knocked down if the UK's justice system follows similar behavior as the American system followed in the 19th and then 20th century with obscenity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:18 PM
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Healthy mature men generally want more than just sex from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:15 PM
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Have you actually read those stories? They are in fact deeper than most porn videos. Just like the incredibly romantic or even themed porn films are much deeper than just "Sis got stuck in a dryer, I gotta pound her pussy to get her unstuck" bullshit you see on pornhub's main page. If you genuinely cannot acknowledge that an entire story with many interesting details, or a porno that is hyper focused on the romantic touch and verbal nature of two people really into each other, is different than …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:00 PM
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Spanish is not only romantically useful, it adds $$$ to any career you have since you're gonna be able to use that skill to go for higher pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:22 PM
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That's awesome! I figured cafes would also be a decent spot, or frankly even just trying to reach out to english-thai forums that (used to?) exist. Is there no thai equivalent of meetup?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:14 PM
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That twitter account is nothing but a troll, ignore it. Privilege is for any dominant group(black, asian, latin, indigenous, white, etc) in that majority country that have political and social power. In America white people have historically had privileges that other groups did not have, or had to fight harder to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:36 PM
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HAHAHA that's the chef's kiss to this. Fun fact: unless the person can show actual physical or monetary damages by what those women posted, this is a frivolous af lawsuit and I hope he gets SLAPP'd. Hope he has to pay the defendants not only money for attorneys fees but emotional pain and suffering damages to have to go through this dumb ass lawsuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:28 PM
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I eagerly await your update in r/choosybeggars... the balls on that dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:27 PM
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Willow confirm/deny: The smell of manpiss no longer wrinkles your nose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:25 PM
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More specifically you united around some weird niche hobby, political aspirations, or otherwise personality based quirk. Today people's initial impression of you is visually based and maybe slightly your personality(what are you saying or doing in the video/text of your photo on insta?)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:10 PM
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Unless your argument is that women never overlook flaws, you can certainly have this conversation without mentioning looks. Women, and men, as large groups do not reject anyone based on one single factor above any others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:08 PM
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Both. I've had crushes on girls before. Although I would say this goes away with adulthood/maturity? I don't think I've crushed after anyone, even girlfriends, since 18ish years old. I treat a crush as an irrational infatuation with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:52 AM
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It means she's super submissive so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:09 AM
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More like "meet me in goldshire for RP".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:08 AM
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If they're pretty liberal/progressive, this can be seen as a genuine positive status thing. Normies find it off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:08 AM
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Yes, and other acts where its more grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:07 AM
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This is absolutely correct. False. The majority of all men across the globe will have multiple LTRs before they die. 99% of women don't view people as "ugly betas."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:04 AM
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I agree with many of your points, but you're missing the greater point that should be mentioned: Men can't get away with being autistic because OTHER MEN are extremely negatively judgy towards those guys. Of both groups, there is a sizable amount of women and a tiny fraction of men that are cool with autistic-acting men. Most men and some/large chunk of women are hateful towards autistic people and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:03 AM
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Also the women in this sub that post regularly that also have said they are autistic are mostly in successful relationships, and post here in the attempt to help out dudes that are having trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:59 AM
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This isn't a place to vent or troll or hyperbolize. Its supposed to be to debate by some level of reasonable discourse standards on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:58 AM
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There's also an increase in younger people using this kind of thinking. While I don't mind it when leftists do it, because in general they're correct about their overall point even if I don't like their rhetoric of how they're getting there, I definitely mind it when its a bunch of angry young men that want to take that anger out on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:48 AM
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Women with PCOS usually have an abnormally high sex drive. Go gay and date a FTM dude and have a stupid amount of sex. Women that work out regularly usually have more T or more "usable" body T and are hornier. Women that read lots of smut/erotica or watch tv shows/movies that get them in that mindset are highly sexual. They may still want you to initiate, but once you do, saddle up cowboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:25 AM
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Loosely speaking, the whole complex form of consent where it can be withdrawn by either party at any time during sexual / romantic actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:38 PM
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Both. Even blue pill guys sometimes get things 'wrong' when questioned about complex modern consent "traps."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:25 AM
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Also car insurance rates being higher for men ect. You just destroyed the insurance industry in one simple trick. Insurance premiums are based on a complexish formula for risk assessment. Men sadly are riskier drivers. Multiple factors for why men are, but ultimately it's very reasonable to adopt this understanding. Thus, men should be charged more due to this statistical variance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:24 AM
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TO be fair there is an additional problem of buy-in with these vehicles. IF every car on the road was say, a Tesla, then the autonomous features would be so fucking amazing that 99% of wrecks and hitting pedestrians would be eliminated over night. Which would cripple the insurance industry(in theory.) I do agree with you that fully fledged sex bots are a long way off. However lonely desperate people will suffice with tech that's quickly being created.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:20 AM
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Also signals this guy only wants to fuck me, instead of "oh he's genuinely interested in me."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:04 AM
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Group 1 "the anti golddigger" this is a women that doesnt find a dude more attractive because he is rich or high status, zero impact on her. This is by far the rarest group and 99% of Women dont fit here. Lol this is definitely the largest group. This is where most women are at i would say 95%, will they fuck a 90 year old billionaire just because he provides the lifestyle? no. Will they pick a 6/10 nba player over a broke 8/10 hot dude? yes, no doubt. Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:06 PM
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I'm not just a member of No Ma'ams, I'm the president! - PPDmen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:14 AM
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I am. Throughout history we have seen many times where debate and consensus led to positive outcomes for change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:04 PM
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You never loved your grandfather, father, cousins, brothers, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:57 PM
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Its not hard if you genuinely love the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:27 PM
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Then she topic shifts again. It felt like I was chasing after her in conversation. She could have done this out of pure nervousness, or genuinely wanted to find out your take(or give her own take) on other subjects. Also how much can you really stretch out "ok I'm learning to snowboard" as a conversation? Couple paragraphs at most imho, and that's only if you're REALLY into snowboarding Physical hobby stuff needs to be 'done' not talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:17 PM
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Immature people seem to suffer from hard lives of misery, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:11 PM
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Can someone confirm? Deny. Most people are co-habitating to a large degree, and of the ones that don't, they often go on trips + stay over at each others places all the time. You get to know someone, and all those nasty worts and all, over time. Yes as a teenager or very young adult this may be true. College / working stage of life for adults? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:29 PM
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on one hand, good communication. Other hand, why the fuck is hair washing day that big of an ordeal??? This being reddit, please divorce/break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:17 PM
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Redditors being cuck enablers never suprises me. im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:08 PM
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PUT ME IN COACH IM READY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:00 PM
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Seriously. Women like sex, think about sex, want to have sex, listen to sex-filled audiobooks, listen to sex-positive podcasts, all the time. They're just usually not hypersexual where its the only thing on their mind, like some men get / pretty much every guy that goes through puberty gets for a period of time before most of us learn to control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:44 PM
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If they're complaining about logical things, then no they're not at fault. If they're complaining about irrational or silly things(as subjective as they are...) then they're an additional actor but not solely at fault. Modern dating issues are a shared fault. Men are causing a ton of it. Women are causing some of it. Women's changes are gonna be more generational and a bit harder to implement, but still we should make the effort to do so. Men's issues are quickly fixable if we decide to do so. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:09 PM
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Human brains don't seem to work that way, at least normie brains. I will concede that there may be some people that genuinely can't manage to balance things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:37 PM
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nd gay women largely do not. Because most cis hetero folks don't know many lesbians. Younger lesbian communities also have fuckbois and this has increased in recent decade or so as it has become more normalized for lesbians to "own" their hypersexuality. Women have a high sex drive when they're in a relationship they're passionate about. When not in that sort of relationship, it's more in the background than foreground. Men tend to maintain a high sex drive or low sex drive regardless of relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:44 AM
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The truth is people need to do BOTH. Jerk off to cute chicks online AND spend a fuckton of time chasing women that may want to fuck you. Right now I keep asking PPD men "How many hours a week are you spending talking to women?" and whats the main answer? "I don't know any or very little." That's fucking stupid if you're serious about finding a mate. You need to log HOURS of talking to women to find one that actually gets interested in you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:40 AM
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Men in the past didn't have 24/7 access to pictures and videos of surgically enhanced bodies doing depraved stuff. They absolutely did. Our imaginations have been used to get ourselves off for tens of thousands of years, and recent written records(6000 years till today, with a major increase in the 1500s till today) prove this from the type of erotica that floated around at those times. People have only been flouring and deep fat frying meat for a relatively shorter period of time. Since then th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:37 AM
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Men supporting each others mental health, physical health, and actually working towards meeting women interested in them is what I'm talking about. When men start dating women they learn really fast what women like and don't like. Women don't like a man who is a burden. Women love vulnerable men but don't like incompetent men. We know this is false. Some women do like those types of guys, and some hate those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:56 PM
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They fuck to their hearts content, whether its one time or for a decade. Statistics across the globe, for the past 50+ years these surveys have been done, say this is entirely not true. All women, and all scientists studying this, aren't lying to you bro. Is a sexually/romantically unsuccessful guy, one that has been unsuccessful for a long time, is he supposed to be all smiley and act like it doesn't bother him? Yes because its the morally correct thing to do. It's also logical and rational to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:23 PM
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This basically never happens. The "stuff" guy gets to explore the depths of that cavern much more often than some other dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:19 PM
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Not sure what you mean, exactly. Most women do indeed want exactly that. When we say women control the dating market, we mean that women monopolise both the romantic and sexual relationship and can set any standard for them they want and men have to either accept it, or not date At any time a man can refuse any of these things, and the woman is completely shut down. If every man in her life shuts her down, she's just as fucked the reverse where every woman shuts down a man. The truth is, men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:18 PM
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Women are struggling to find good men(in their eyes/pov). Women in the meantime seek solace in their friendship and hobby groups, and thus keep their happiness levels above other groups. This sub's men that are upset, why haven't y'all formed a group to cure(as much as humanly possible) your loneliness? Why haven't you all combined money and social power to find foreign women that would like you because their standards are different than western women that expect "too much out of us."? Why are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:12 PM
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What a sad life and group of experiences. I hope one day you see the positives you've been missing out this entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:36 AM
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Yes. The clone idea above is kind of a cool idea in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:08 AM
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Well if women have harder lives, then surely they must kill themselves more often than men. Inverse is true, and yes its paradoxal to a degree. The people in the world with the hardest lives almost never commit suicide. The sickest, most downtrodden, most abused people don't kill themselves, almost never get help for their issues long term, and live awful lives outside in quiet desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:04 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:52 PM
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Women on SSRIs and women off SSRIs are dating and staying single and roughly the same rate though. About a 4-11% difference overall depending on the study you want to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:48 PM
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From my personal observations, I don't see women having the capacity to truly love anyone but themselves or their children to an extent. The irony that you then follow with "select sociopathic men" when this statement is pure sociopathic in its intent. Show us on this doll where all women hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:46 PM
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Pretty sure there was a long thread on him a while back when this got posted. Dude is hyper cringe and genuinely feel sorry for the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:18 AM
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men say disgusting things to her This is the problem. girl looks weird (on purpose for her aesthetic) Not this. Even framing it as 'weird' is a minor issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:15 AM
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If they can be proven to have capacity for moral thought, yes. Same thing for Aliens that visit earth. Same thing for advanced AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:32 PM
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Which is why both groups should ultimately fall back on statistics, expert analysis(not amateur analysis... hint hint), data, and ultimately shared lived experiences that match up with 'normie' worldviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:28 PM
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Majority of men globally are having casual sex between those ages, that's a statistical fact. We can quibble about 'regular'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:47 PM
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Of course those guys were ignorant about that fact. Now that they have access to that knowledge, it's going to lead to global conflicts if that incel movement keeps growing and converting guys that could be good men into being bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:55 PM
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For example, I know an autistic guy who's wife is in a wheelchair. Not that there's anything wrong with that of course, but I mean that's an example, since most NT guys would date an autistic woman, but they would not compromise on it if the woman cannot walk. Can you explain in detail how this is a negative? We know wheelchair people are more mobile than ever before. We know people in wheelchairs don't seem to suffer from a quality of life issue like in the past. If anything they often have dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:38 PM
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Most men have some amount of casual sex between 14-34. It benefits everyone. The people not having casual sex now weren't having casual sex before the revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:36 PM
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Arguably you can do it, but you need roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:39 PM
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Do you watch any of the eastern russian very asia-culture youtubers? Especially the ones that live in the super cold places? Very interesting lifestyles and an eyeopener for myself to the geopolitical struggles non-Moscow russians have to face within the vast Russian ogligarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:38 PM
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Different women, due to different experiences, have different levels of issues with various things in life, including cheating. For some, emotional cheating isn't really a bad thing. For others, it's the worst thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:40 PM
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Depends on the issue. Women's issues often are imposed by others(men in power currently, but women in power if they don't change things as well). Men's issues are often imposed by other men, or their own individual actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:58 PM
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Also having a dilapidated house, which does happen from neglect, can in fact "kill".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:54 PM
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Alimony has been, at least in western countries, become something that pretty much only legitimate cases + cases where men refuse to hire a lawyer. I bet if we had a list of a thousand divorces with some sort of alimony we'd agree on 99% of them being reasonable, or cases where the man refused to hire a decent lawyer and frankly I think a reasonable person can say that's their fault ultimately. example of a silly reason for a divorce in my opinion is "my husband has lower sex drive than me" This…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:51 PM
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Ding ding. There's a huge difference and it's also generational. Gen Alpha and Gen Z seem very content by themselves, likely due to growing up with so many hobbies at their finger tips and so many pseudo-relationships like becoming a big time poster on a particular subreddit, forum, or twitch stream. They get enough interactions with people or their hobby interests to not need a bad relationship. People like my mother, she needs a bad relationship or she just disintegrates to nothing emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:11 AM
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Leads to a fruitful relationship where you grow and become a better person to some degree. Can be short, medium, or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:54 PM
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1 marriage where the man had a good paying job, married a pretty barista, and had to pay alimony. They were not married very long and had no children. He was very bitter about it. He supports alimony theoretically as a way to support older women who have dedicated their lives to homemaking and struggle to enter the workforce in their 50s, but in his case he feels it was inappropriate and I agree. He was screwed over Guarantee they refused mediation and then hired either no lawyer or the cheapest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:47 PM
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Ding ding ding. Road rage that ends in violence is something like 90/10 or some ridiculous number for male-perp and male-victim. Likely a lot of other crimes of that sort are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:05 PM
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Are both of you actively trying to date single moms? I'm sorry but at your age it's most likely your best bet for finding a mate. Some chubby single mom would be all over both of you in a split second. Instant adoration and genuine deep affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:16 PM
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All due respect, I'm calling bullshit on this. If OP is attractive, lets it be known he's an engineer up front, that he plays piano at a better than amateur level, and isn't a complete fuckup in text conversations he should be getting first dates. He admittedly might not get many 2nd dates if that's all he is and is boring, but he should be getting first dates. Which imho means there's more to this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:39 PM
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Your profile sucks, your texting ability sucks, you lead an uninteresting life(past/present tense). There's no way most women are turning down, at the minimum a date, with an engineer in any country on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:37 PM
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They obsess about 99% of things they're not currently experiencing and actively fighting the ability to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:23 PM
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Pay up, sugar daddy. I guess in a roundabout way the US Gov is all of our sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:22 PM
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Which isn't true when adjusted for age of the surveys on this topic. Gen Z and Gen Alpha women and girls have very few issues dating bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:30 AM
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But I'm a shy, sensitive, inexperienced man who doesn't prioritize his career, why can't I find a woman like myself? They're at hobby yarn clubs and shit like that. Do you hang out in those places? If so, you'd probably find a woman like that. Whether she's into you or not is going to be another set of questions, but locationally that's where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:26 AM
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Certain negative traits can outweigh all the positive traits or achievements you have. You might be a math genius, have a good income, be well-read and whatnot, but if you're socially awkward or have a lack of social skills, boring/unpleasant to be around, can't read social cues, etc. A lot of people won't even try to get you closer so they could actually fall for you. Take a quick look at any mathematicians or nobel prize winners or anyone you can get a good synopsis of their married/dating lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:17 AM
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Theres a lot more to it than pure birth rates. The farmer class in Japan are having kids that are moving away to the city, and city folks are refusing to become farmers. They've also set up a nasty housing crisis that will crash when the Chinese housing crisis crashes. It's a giant house of cards ready for a stiff wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:49 AM
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Progressive ones view all humans as equal in their shared humanity and rights. "Value" is probably a poor term due to the multitude of definitions and understandings around that term. Hitler and the Dalai Lama are equal humans deserving of equal love. Hitler however should be punished for bad actions he created, and the Dalai Lama should be praised for positive actions he has created.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:36 AM
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That's sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:24 AM
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Replacing apples and oranges does not lead us down a good philosophical pathway for figuring out these hypotheticals. A man is a broad group that cannot be discriminated against in this exact scenario. A black person is a much narrower group that can be discriminated against in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:18 AM
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Nah they wouldn't even hack it in China or Saudi Arabia. They just need to move to Utah and join some horrible mormon compound, stop posting online forever, and live out their lives with their sweet virgin barely 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:52 PM
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It's a grass is greener issue, also humans are really poor at understanding regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:07 PM
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Interestingly can you make a list of things that people are able to sell their services for? Can you then make a list of services you cannot legally sell?(for example to be a hitman is illegal) If you can do that, you might see why certain things are ethical to sell and certain things are unethical to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:35 PM
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It's in surveys after 1 year together though... still in honeymoon phases of a relationship and women are still quick to be very detailed about non-looks/genetic factors for what attracts them to their current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:53 PM
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I don't need to deeply research every car to know any one that hits me will likely severely injure or kill me. That's kind of a giant problem though, as technology has made cars less lethal to pedestrians. In theory we could design a car that will never harm another person. In that reality, you'd be grossly irrational if you think cars can still harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:58 PM
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The outliers, are by definition and statistical analysis, rare as we know they are. Very few people in the world are doing absolutely horrible. Most people in most countries are mostly doing good-to-great. This is based on happiness ratings, criminality ratings, moral questionaaires, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:57 PM
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The statistics back this up. Most people have multiple very long term relationships that are happy and fruitful/productive for that part of their life. When you ask people even after a single year "why are you with current partner" almost always the first 5 reasons are much more personality/values based than just purely looks based. Looks get you in the door, personality/values keeps you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:54 PM
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Awesome post, could be its own OP honestly. Autistic guys fail at each of these steps without learning the tools to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:30 PM
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Some disabled people do lack the motivation and drive to go to physical therapy and become more mobile, same thing with depressed people refusing therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:26 PM
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Because Danny Devito would not be successful without the fame/money. If this hypothetical danny had the same charisma as our danny, yeah he would. Would he be banging 10/10 chicks? No, but whatever city he was in he'd be banging 5/10 maybe even the rare 7/10 chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:24 PM
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I see quite a few masculine hetero couples that are gym buddies and that's the lifestyle they love to live. I don't know if those relationships last forever, or how happy those couples are in general, but in public appearances they seem like they're both motivated for the same goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:02 PM
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Sounds like the type of woman that's like "I'm fucking you, you're not fucking me." Funny enough I saw a "death by snu-snu" bumper sticker the other day and it was a chubby chick in a truck. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:35 PM
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Fit women might not be into you for various reasons. Your fitness compared to other men in your area might not mean you can get with the type of women you're most attracted to. It means you need to be flexible and have a WIDE variety of women you're into, including yes fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:34 PM
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Lonely + he was truly a nice dude with a niche hobby interest she also shared. They sound like they'd be good casual friends. They don't sound like lovers or married couple. They sound like roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:59 PM
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It's not reasonable in say, the island of Samoa. If you're the fittest bro ever and you live on Samoa, yes you might have to date a fat chick. I'm sorry. Thems the breaks. The fit ladies on the island might not be into you on a looks/personality basis. Fat chicks might think you're the chaddiest chad. Take what you can get, help your partner work on positive things to change about themselves, or enjoy the time you have with them while you actively look for a better LTR in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:52 PM
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Lilith come give me presents for Xmas!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:49 PM
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"All men lie about their n-count and inflate their numbers, all women lie and under-report their numbers."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:45 PM
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I dunno how but I think we should come up with a blood or saliva test and sell it to losers that are obsessed with virginity for $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:43 PM
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Friend is secretly into feederism, wants you to get fat and jolly. Resist bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:42 PM
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Using AI and paid-for-data across the globe, we likely could figure out how to get the majority of people struggling to date some type of solution for their problems. The reality is most people are looking for fairly reasonable things that are obtainable for them, if only the net was wider and the linking up was more instantaneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:00 PM
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Yes although more on his leftists positions than his more rightward ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:36 PM
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You seem to be conflating two different things together. What you posted about has jack shit to do with sapiosexuality. Girls that feel they're sapiosexual genuinely do get off on learning new interesting things, and really do love guys that are within that intellectual online or academic world. They admire men that are very smart or very learned on the particular things they're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:37 PM
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Yeah I saw that documentary on sex workers in australia and netherlands that work with disabled clients, and it seems so sweet and a wholesome thing for people to do for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:28 PM
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Then you need to tell us what a better system for figuring out moral actions would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:27 PM
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Don't act like men, especially young men, aren't suffering from porn addiction. This is 100% a separate issue. Most people don't suffer from porn addiction, and use porn the way it is intended to be used: watch to enjoy a fantasy to jerk off to and reach climax and then go on with the rest of your day being a productive adult/teen. Don't act like young girls are being coerced/groomed into doing sex work through social media. Lmao women have been doing sex work for roughly 6000 years that we're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:10 PM
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Secular morality that we've so far theorized to be true and developed axioms or rules for, sex work is absolutely moral. The complex reasoning revolves around the fact that we are primates that enjoy sex, we enjoy being desired for sex, and we enjoy the benefits of sex work(money/time spent/quality of life/etc). Safe, sane, consensual being a backbone to this. Removing any of those three concepts we can reach an immoral stance on an experience a sex worker is having.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:08 PM
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Many of these are not normal. OP is displaying attachment disorders and catastrophic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:44 AM
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Why is she even dating me? She likes you more than other guys at that moment. I have to be perfect; one mistake and she’s gone. Ok from this and previous question, you're showing some limited signs at having attachment disorders. No one is perfect and your partner understands this. She might be my one and only chance ever. On average globally low 90% of all people will have multiple LTRs by the time they die. You will, statistically speaking, have multiple "ones". Is she going to use me for mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:43 AM
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Many women in america are not picky. Unless you're using the word 'picky' to mean something from the modern definition of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:52 AM
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I've actually stopped half way during sex twice and told the girl I want to wait Fundamentally this makes zero sense, assuming you both were of sound mind to lead up to said disrobing and partial sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:51 AM
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Flipside is a decent amount of women already do accept being a sugar mamma or sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:45 AM
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If you're not talking about dating experiences in the last 2 years, it's outdated information. No you're not. People are still human and societal expectations to date have not shifted dramatically in 2 years without anyone noticing this or documenting it. n. Women are a lot less open to talking or meeting men irl and especially at bars and clubs. Literally zero data says this. Women and men that do the bar crawl thing are as open as they ever were to meeting people that interest them. Outside of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:00 PM
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Yeah this is pretty normal for Thanksgiving in my family, and my family isn't even a big football fan type family. After dinner most of the guys go to the living room and watch football and talk about whatever, women clean up and talk about whatever. After clean up everyone moves about the house or outside if the weather is nice and form little cliques to talk amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:47 PM
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Pretty sure scrambled eggs go pretty fast at breakfast buffets. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:34 PM
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She probably thinks you look cool/seem cool, and yeah you can pursue a friendship to see if she's into it. Is she going home and lady fapping to the thought of you ravishing her? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:33 PM
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Not a single society on earth, including actual matriarchal societies in Nepal and a few other small enclaves, do women have 100% of the power. In some societies on earth men have legal and practical 75%+ of the power. In western societies historically men had most of the power, however egalitarian policies enacted by men have created much more power sharing. Still, women do not in any way shape or form have the hold on 100% of anything in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:20 PM
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Humans for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:06 PM
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So a woman in Myanmar is extremely picky? Nigeria? Tonga? Really? Lol this just tells me you don't really associate with people from around the world and don't pay attention to english-translated information that can be obtained about life in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:36 PM
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I've seen facial abuse + water sports + gaping posts before. Very rare but it does seem to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:47 PM
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Men are demonstrating their fucked up behavior regardless of women involved or not. The fact that you think the 'woman' in this story is the problem is an issue with your understanding of the issues. He should have told her to go get a pizza herself, like a good friend would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:48 PM
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Your post just proves how fucked up in the head some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 01:53 PM
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Merry Chrysler!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:55 PM
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Heck they could go gay/bi for a while to get over the pressing present sexlessness. They could form poly groups and get a mail order bride. They could seek out positive masculine role models to help with their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:37 PM
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Sadly yes, any guy that is a total virgin(not even kissing, zero girlfriends) usually has some genuine major issue with their psychology and emotional adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:02 PM
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It can't be primal, most liberal and progressive dads don't act this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:34 AM
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Also there's a type of conservative father that says shit like this dad. Liberal and progressive dads don't act this way. They support the idea of having a healthy happy boyfriend. When my cousins were little and would talk about girlfriend or boyfriends, my family encouraged them and put out positive language around it. We'd reinforce "your boyfriend that treats you well." while naming off positive traits and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:33 AM
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Men are rarely called landwhales. Obesity is not a personality defect. It's a medical condition brought on by multiple factors, not entirely within the control of the patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:29 AM
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Well for many women they disagree and they do find the acts degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:27 AM
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Some type of veggies that really soak up the saltiness of the pretzels as well would be an interesting way of designing this dish. Potatoes classically do well with saltier dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:44 AM
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C's and B's and you're going in late...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:40 AM
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You're being penetrated by someone, cum inside of, usually held down to some degree, also socio-cultural virtues/sin that gets wrapped around those acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:27 AM
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This is still a bad argument that gets made a lot. Boys performed at a superior level for most of the 19th and 20th centuries. Even in places where girls had equal educational attainment and even decent amounts of post-high school education pathways. Almost all classes globally in the 19th and 20th centuries were very much based on sitting still for longish periods of time, learning things, and applying those things via worksheets and eventually testing. Boys excelled. Boys can, and do all aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:56 PM
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r/ScienceBasedParenting/ used to have some really good recommended reading lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:51 PM
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You may not like it, but this is what a true Sigma male looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:50 PM
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Gen Alpha Problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:49 PM
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Pink Ranger making them go the gay way!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:47 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/science/comments/18m56xt/the_satisfaction_gap_at_first_sex_is_one_of_the/ Pretty cool commentary and study, tear it apart PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:44 PM
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I have and we had a veeeery short fling, like less than 2 months. I'm not a bar person, she was(and lowkey alcoholic-tendencies), but we meshed for a brief time. In general you're not gonna luck out very often unless you build up a positive rapport with the bartender and they're in that 'single and mingle' mode(or a serial cheater.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:59 PM
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Alright that's pretty legit reason to have some trauma around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:55 PM
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All of america was in serious mourning for a while, so I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:29 PM
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Staying the night with my uncle, woke up early and went downstairs to turn on the tv and it was on every single channel just about. I knew who Diana was, but didn't know how big of an event it would have become. Was a sad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:29 PM
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r/tifu version? We must know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:24 PM
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Grab a thick towel, take a shower after. Earn your red wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:23 PM
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Dryer ain't gonna unclog itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:21 PM
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There's no good answer here. It's subjective. I'd say if you can have an intense desire to fuck the same person all day, you're a horny sum of a bitch. Another person could say you're not really horny in a broad sense of the word, just infatuated with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:20 PM
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If you can visually inspect it, the more fatty-veined one. If not, Sirloin should in theory be a better cut. Eye of Round is fairly tough cut, unless you have a sous vide machine(psst go get a sous vide machine.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:18 PM
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Strangers in vans will give you money too! Are they your parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:16 PM
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Confirmed. Source- celebrity marriages and CEO tell-all-books that explore when this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:15 PM
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its a goddamn piece of cloth wear it right now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:14 PM
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Women love sex. They just don't put the same kinds of emphasis on its perpetual attainment as often as men do. However, it does seem higher testosterone plays a significant part in this "uneasy" horniness that most men, most/all FTMS, and some women go through. Men with low libido tend to be in the same 'league' as women with normal or lower libido themselves. And if you have a dick u/Ainsleygz will wanna blow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:13 PM
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An actual good debate should further cement your positions or help you come to a new better position due to new compelling information coming across your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:11 PM
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Isn't this extremely dependent on what side of the country you're in? Southern tip and western Indians seem to be a lot more libertine with sexual norms and information out in the public, but of course I don't live there so I'm getting this info 2nd or even 3rd hand from friends +bollywood media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:06 PM
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I think for the most part it's pretty good. Obviously the better more open teachers are gonna connect with the students better on this information, but that's true for all subjects. I think more "advanced" concepts should be taught a LOT earlier, and I think it should be a year-round education instead of just a day/week of it, often at the end of the school year. How about 1-2 days a month for 1 class have students go over their sexual knowledge gaps and help fill them in. Keep doing this so by …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:04 PM
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Yup, or well-paid engineers, doctors, lawyers, business owners, etc. Most poly folks in the South definitely aren't on the dorky side, although yes there are poly nerds too in various college towns. Quite frankly being poly seems to take away a lot of anxiety some men have. They might still be nerds but they're confident ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:14 PM
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Raise hand. I'm pretty far left and have mostly dated conservative women, and ended up marrying a fairly conservative republican. There's far more of us out there than the statistics say we are, mainly due to the fact soft conservativism is still very popular. Gen Alpha and Gen Z may buck these trends as they get older and maintain being modern liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:12 PM
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Most men are really bad at communicating on dates. So many women report that the date she was on had a guy talking about negative shit all the time. Guys handle this just fine, women don't. Men are horrible at being empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:03 PM
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I mean, technically everyone are attracted to the "top 20%" of men and women, due to the fact those people are attractive due to social and possibly genetically influenced reasons. People that use that "stat" in this sub mean it in a negative way, that women are only desiring of Chads and will betabux anyone less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:48 PM
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To be fair that's unusual. Engineers globally tend to make more than any random other career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:41 PM
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"Honey you were in prison for 2 years, how did you get pregnant?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:22 PM
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Yes. You love the person you're interacting with, not the hypothetical of something biologically abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:09 PM
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Absolutely can. Lust vs love/deeper interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:31 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RhWXPcKBI8 Now I want him to do Lilith and whatever the biggest -cel here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:18 PM
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xbiz had some interesting analysis of the average porn buyer in the 2000s-2010s, and from the little bit I recall its mostly older dudes and conservatives of all age groups. Libs get our shit for free like god intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:01 PM
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It's pretty amazing that Billie Eilish is a spoiled rich kid that has successfully pulled off the dorky quirky theater punk chic vibe, when real girls like that have failed at it on a bigger stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:58 AM
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Nah most people on the right are still denying it across the board, or try to claim "women don't work as much" even when shown individual and groups of women with relevant backgrounds and hours worked compared to male counterparts and they're still being paid lower. This is especially noticable in blue collar industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:26 AM
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He's spending thousands and ultimately will still be bald. Embrace nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:18 AM
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The horrible shit these women go through though...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:17 AM
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Have you ever eaten cincinnati chili?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:14 AM
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His success isn't a surprise to me. Just make a woman Tinder profile and you'll see that that most men (80%) have a profile worse than his. People here deny it but it's 100% the truth. Most male profiles on even Bumble are really bad at conveying the best version of the guy's personality. I'm super average looks-wise but personality/quick wit wise I'm way above average, and I did well on dating apps for years. Admittedly it was a bit of a grind, upwards of a hour+ a day messaging women at any gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:13 AM
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Unironically yes, probably. Take the gay pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:09 AM
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And the female roommate will do awesome little things for each other, tend to have a great friendship that gives emotional nourishment to each other, etc. Lesbians!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:09 AM
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I love how you admit that there's a pay gap, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:08 AM
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Oh look it's a good dad in the wild! This is what every dad should do, but sadly a lot don't and as a society we should be clear about how messed up it is that they see it the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:07 AM
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Yet this negative cycle can be broken and replaced with positive cycles if the person is introspective enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:00 AM
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Personalized gifts like necklaces, bracelets, cute fuzzy stuff, custom t-shirts with in-jokes between you and her, etc. Just make it super personalized and you'll hit a homerun every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:46 AM
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Pretty sure hair genes are dominant on your Mother's genetic side...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:43 AM
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If matches are tripling, you've got a bunch of women that aren't really into you but are into your body coming after you. Now, yeah you might want that. Then sure, do the topless thing. IMHO if you're on an actual dating site like Bumble, I would hope you're looking for LTRs more than casual fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:42 AM
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I mean one of my uncles basically married an age-similar version of our grandmother, and they've been happily married for over 30 years. Yes we pick on him a bit about it over the years, but ultimately he's happy with the arrangement and she's extremely happy with it. If that's what people want and they're honest from the get go, then fine. The issue women are having is that some men lie and obfuscate that they want that early into the relationship, and keep the lie up post marriage nuptials, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:50 PM
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Globally there's still a lot of anti-feminist, anti-egalitarian types. In the west alone you're looking at about 40-60% depending on country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:39 PM
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Those living, working, and dying in the west are going to spend more time fixing problems here than elsewhere. This is normal. At the same time, western feminists support their international sisters in their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:04 PM
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I think on average women are much more adapted to modern global culture than average men are. Men tend to have too many "go it alone" personality characteristics, and that directly conflicts with the rest of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:34 PM
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Free meal, sadly. Dudes like that are ironically pretty good about paying for a date thinking it'll get them somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:32 PM
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Well, quite a few of the men didn't disclose certain things that she would have instantly called off any future plans with had she known, so that's deceptive on their part. It sounds like she's thorough enough to ask them as well, in pre-date chats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:59 PM
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Nah that genuinely seems like 85% of those guys are really shitty. However, a couple of them seem like they could have been long term potentials. Would love to know more about the one that "she really liked but had a freakout". What kind of freak out? Cycling dude seems like a catch for any chick into that sport/hobby. There are definitely some women that post shit like this and you can tell they are 100% the problem, but this post imho didn't come across that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:58 PM
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when we have a crush or an attraction, the neurochemical bamboozlement going on in our brains is a biological impetus to perpetuate our species. It shuts down neural pathways to the parts of our brains responsible for judgement. literally. love makes you stupid. yes. it does. not you. everyone. nature has a job to do. Who the hell talks like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:54 PM
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Depending on where you are geographically speaking, it might be fairly normal to be working and out on your own at 18-25 range. I was. She's also smartly going after the exact types of guys she wants to be with, dudes with their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:53 PM
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You're just naive that you believe that is all feminism was created to do. Those were just the most immediate steps for women's liberation. If you want to be loose goose and get knocked up before marriage…you can. There are a ton of legal and social consequences for doing so. If you want to abort that life…you can. There are a ton of legal and social consequences for doing so. You can thank Republicans / SCOTUS for adding to even more legal problems around this recently. If you want to act like …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:40 PM
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Feminism is a global concept. All women need to be on an equal legal and social footing as men have been able to achieve for the past 6000 years(depending on which culture we want to focus on.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:34 PM
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We already have possible solutions to those problems, the problem is always conservatives and fence sitter dumb ass "centrists" preventing progressive solutions from being small scale tested and implemented wider if they're successful. What's pretty damn clear is that 90% of the people working on solutions to those problems and pushing for real world solutions are almost all feminists or egalitarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:33 PM
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Any time I see a woman with one and its a bright day, I feel like she's probably having the best day of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:03 PM
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All subs are self-selected for a certain type of person that: speaks english, has money for internet, has heard of reddit, cares enough to make an account, cares enough to search for various subs of this ilk, finds this sub, begins to post in this sub and follows its rules, etc. That self-selection I wouldn't be shocked at various unique and weird statistical anomalies for women AND men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:59 PM
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This is a genuine problem, but its also partially self created. Guys will swipe on everything and will message everyone. Imagine women didn't get 1000x the amount of messages as men do. If men would collectively agree to a truce, then women would be more willing to engage the men that do message her instead of ignoring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:58 PM
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That's not how life works when talking about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:56 PM
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I was joking lol, but yes The Hu are pretty awesome from the little I've seen on youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:56 PM
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Maybe? Once they learn he/she is no longer game, if you get them interested in you, then you'll have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:55 PM
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To be fair, if the dating scene continues the way it is going, average and below average men are going to have to become saints to get into healthy long term hetero relationships. If a woman has her pick between an asshole chad and an asshole beta dude, she's gonna choose chad most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:50 PM
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She's either going after some of the biggest losers around, or she genuinely has something off putting for guys that's why they're bailing. The dude that's shacked up with a woman with 4 previous kids, obviously would have had a relationship with her if she wasn't XYZ that's off-putting. edit: Haha she's in Montana, no fucking wonder. Most guys out there aren't looking for 'reddit' posters. They're looking for bible-thumping or just generally dumb party girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:46 PM
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Heck we have a massive forum for anonymous posting that is free from consequences(short of breaking international law): 4chan. You can go to 4chan, say the most awful shit idea that pops into your brain, and get feedback on it from other dumb asses that will love or hate your idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:44 PM
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Its hard as a man to sweep someone off their feet on the first date. We've been backed into a corner to a certain extent by the way first/second dates are "supposed" to work as a meta sense of it. Sweeping someone you know very well vs random person you don't know well its a huge crap shoot. If you want a true sweeping of the feet, you're gonna need multiple dates with the best guy that you have some chemistry with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:38 PM
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What specifically would be remarkable? Interesting past life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:37 PM
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Tarantino enters the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:32 PM
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I mean they are, just inside religious conclaves. It's kind of amusing though that above poster still hasn't gone to church yet to meet The Virgin One to rock his world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 PM
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Day 350 on a deserted island: I still haven't found a virgin gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 PM
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If they booked the time, they better pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:31 PM
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I only like electric polka, incomprehensible jazz, and mongolian throat singing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:26 PM
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From Deleted: This PPD addiction needs to stop, good bye guys. Oh shit who left?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:24 PM
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Perfect wingman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:19 PM
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Need a giant flashing "COUNTDOWN TO PURGE WEEK" sign. I feel like the next one will be a boiling point for something crazy happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:18 PM
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You could pull 4 guys from Amazon in a day. Dudes be horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:16 PM
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Like any other relationship, you find a balance you're both comfortable with. For me 51/49 works, with me taking the lead on things a bit more since I'm naturally more dominant and frankly more "worldly" than anyone I've had a relationship with. u/Jaded_Interaction162 response is also very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:13 PM
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Sex on demand is literally what a bang maid is. Thanks for proving their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:10 PM
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TO be clear, molestation is different fundamentally than rape. Both are bad. Both involve sexual misconduct. Rape is, at least worldwide for the past few thousand years considered more damaging than just molestation. If you want to disagree, make the argument why. You have a ton of burden of convincing most people of this. It's very possible female molestation of male and female victims is much higher than what is currently reported. What isn't possible(without some crazy conspiracy...) is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:16 PM
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I mean for a lot of us, yes, the potential for more violence and more permanent violence is a bigger threat than less violence and minor injuries vs major. A woman gets really pissed, she might throw some random object at you that you half ass dodge but still hits you and hurts. She's in the wrong for doing so and society would tell her that. A man gets really pissed, he might treat his partner as a punching bag and leave multiple bruises, concussions, large damage. Society would be upset with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:09 PM
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Imagine getting rejected by a sex bot. Blackpill fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:20 AM
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Adult can buy one and pimp her out legally to teen boys. Nothing illegal about a teen boy having sex with an inanimate object. The money exchanging hands isn't illegal. Yes we could enact laws preventing this, but just imagine how many cases will have to pile up before that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:19 AM
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What will open the door to it is if some major celeb comes out as a sex-bot lover, and this celeb is so cool any taint of the sex-bot usage won't be looked at as a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:18 AM
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At the same time, this could also positively change male and female sexuality expression. Women may collectively realize they need to change their behavior to attract human male mates. Men may also realize they need to tone down their hyper sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:10 AM
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As pink pill leaning person, it doesn't bother me at all that someone might be happier with an android rather than a flesh and blood woman, no one else is hurt by that decision at all. What if someone with a crystal ball can look to the future of this society and see it crumble from within due to this single major change in how we form relationships? I think ignoring potential issues with lonelier men obsessing over robotic women(or children for pedos, or animals for bestality proponents) is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:04 AM
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Because women, as a group, don't have the same opportunities currently that men have. This is especially more apparent looking at world-wide statistics instead of hyperfocusing on one particular country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:57 AM
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Most women make less than their partners , this is a statistical fact that will not budge for a very long time. Most women also don't make "pretty damn good wages". Nothing in the outlook says this will change within our life times, probably not even gen alpha's lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:46 PM
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As an average-looking man I’m finding most divorced moms are even more picky with who they have sex with or date with their limited free time. Just like in our 20s, I think most men will only get to choose between an LTR or nothing. This may be on you, or your dating market specifically. I'm in the South and divorced women were eager beavers for no strings sex, if they had physical chemistry with you. They are also looking for Mr Right too, but that doesn't mean she wants to rope her fuckbuddy i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:40 PM
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More specifically the lower your standards are, the more likely you'll find a compatible person within that grouping of people you know as well as friends-of-friends that people absolutely still introduce people to nowadays. Yes a little bit less statistically than say the 70s, but still a solid 20%+ chunk of people find a partner through another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:33 PM
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No matter how many people I meet, connect with, befriend, it has never led to success with dating. At all. This doesn't jive with statistics with groups of men in your position. You could just be the outlier in the data set. It's possible, if improbable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:26 PM
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I mean equivalency is decent if she's using romance smut as a substitute for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:30 AM
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Most trades, a decent chunk of trucking, etc. are former or current criminals of some flavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:25 AM
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Then you decide its a fetish and start fucking sheep whilst crossdressing Hey those were private videos I sent you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:19 AM
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Money, power, bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:18 AM
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You're the raddest femme.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:18 AM
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Make sure to get a clean jar and save any duck fat that gets rendered. Reuse that shit for as long as its still good. Duck fat is amaaaaaaaazing on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:12 PM
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Udon or flat rice noodle, dark soy, fried shallot, whatever beef is on sale, veggies you like, and make an amazing stirfry with said ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:42 PM
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The feminist woman who hates the fact she is attracted to dominant, anti-feminist men By and large they aren't though. Look at the men that feminist women end up with, fellow feminist or mainstream men. They aren't ending up with Joe Rogan or Andrew Tate dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:46 PM
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People have a problem overall with excess. Male sexuality is, at times, all about going to extremes. To over indulge. To give into base desires over more higher brain desires. Of course such things will be looked at negatively by a global society that still relies on the crutch of religion and puritan behavior to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:30 PM
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More specifically, younger women have less issues than older women. The idea that "oh he's bi, he'll cheat" is less prevalent in the younger generations. Heck, almost half of younger people are some flavor of LGBT and high 80% are cool with LGBT people/concepts/nonheteronormativity. We're gonna see these "women hate bi men" things drop like flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:24 PM
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Except from records we know women did help engage in big-game hunting, from a recent study it was far more women than previously thought. In "Caveman" days, everyone seemingly helped out including pseudo-dangerous hunting expeditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:59 PM
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This is pretty accurate in terms of what we know from anthropological records. Patriarchal societies did warfare better and formed alliances better than matriarchal and alternative societies. They took over and subjugated non-patriarchal societies. One interesting aim that I wish schools would spend more time on are non-patriarchal societies that still exist today, and how they evolved independently as possible from other societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:58 PM
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He doesn't understand that different people have different rules and those rules are very consistent between one another. Which is a 'duh' moment if I've ever seen one. OP you'll never get everyone to agree with anything like this, especially in the modern time frame. Figure out the type of women you're into, then find out if those women are into types of men like you are. If its compatible, great. If it isn't, fix whatevers incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:52 PM
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Specifically, they often find equally dysfunctional people in high school, then college, then post-college or post-divorce in places that dysfunctional people interact with other people in higher frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:46 PM
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It would heavily depend on the actual scenario we're discussing. Sometimes friendzone is a good thing, sometimes it isn't. In cases where it isn't a good thing, you gotta shoot your shot at a time that your friend is at her most open to it. To know when to time it, you gotta know who she is inside and out and what motivates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:35 PM
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It's kind of like those "here are three things you want, choose two" scenarios. Good, fast, cheap. You can't have all three just due to the way humans work. I think 'settling' for men and women means making a hard choice of what you truly deeply want, and when you find someone that has those things, you swoop in and snatch them up. You deal with the qualities they don't have. No perfect person exists and ultimately we all "settle" to some degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:23 AM
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Men can see the subtle signs that another man may be an total loser, and I think women can do it for other women as well. Cross-sex heteros, we have a bit of blinders on when dealing with the opposite sex and we miss obvious red flags. Which further gives us a clear winner for people that have extensive friend groups that can help them navigate pitfalls in the local dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:20 AM
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Do men actually believe that women are actively seeking out potential partners who are bad people? Let’s remove the concept of friend zone. If you are a male friend then you never had a chance anyway. Some women do. My Mom has since my Dad's premature death. I have cousins that are poor white trash and they actively seek out some of the biggest losers they can find. Many women do tend to be hyper focused on men that other men can identify as future abusers, and even if you explain this to a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:16 AM
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In some dating markets you might have trouble on the apps, since most women on the apps usually have at least a 2 year degree or have lucked into white-collar jobs and want a white-collar guy. Most markets though aren't that way and you'll do fine with any long term career.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:14 AM
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If I went to a restaurant and almost every time the food was mediocre and crap service, and it was overpriced, would I be wrong for not wanting to go back based on each experience being subpar? Yes you would. The honest truth is not all 30 year olds are the same, so acting like they are is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:11 AM
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Being human is baggage. We all have baggage. You do have to choose the type of baggage you deal with in a partner, but make no mistake about it, 18 year olds have the same amount and intensity of baggage as a 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:58 AM
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That 25 is also checking boxes too, she just might not do it as quickly up front though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:57 AM
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Nah it ain't most men at all, just a subset of very vocal guys. Most men are normies that love their mothers/sisters/aunts/daughters/wives and treat them as well as they treat their male peers and family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:55 AM
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Link? Cuz I'm calling bullshit. A pure 1 to 1 ratio of users that posted in both threads I can guarantee you that everyone that said X in one thread continued to say X in the other thread, assuming they were genuinely 100% swapped stories and not stories with significant changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:44 PM
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Is horny an universal concept or a concept that could vary meaning between people? It seems to me modern women think about sexual scenarios constantly throughout the day. The same way men do, but much more elaborate. Men tend to get satiated with masturbation or sex. Women tend to want more orgasms and more sexual exploration, they very rarely get 'full' from it. Modern women are, in general, hornier than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:40 PM
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Ding ding. They associate with women, often other neuro divergent women, they form bonds with those women, then they date those women, and eventually marry one of those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:25 PM
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Or simply that single women have extensive family and friend groups that help keep them hyped up on hopeium. Single women that are recluses are likely exactly in the same mental hell as many incels/volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:47 PM
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Internet version of the "stick your fingers in your ears and yell lalalala i cant hear you" is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:45 PM
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Kill - ? There’s plenty of obnoxious ppl here but I don’t want to kill them Its ok, how about a "choke the shit out of to wake them up from their fever dream"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:48 AM
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Girl get yo damn grades up. You got one job right now and its making As and Bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:41 AM
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FIrst off, sorry that's happening to you and your family. My personal advice is that you should do everything you can do to help him, while realizing that none of it may 'stick' and help him permanently, but mainly out of a selfish reason for your own mental health. If he does kill himself, you don't want to have regrets about what you "could have done". You'd rather cope with any loss with "I know I did everything I could have done." It's better to err on the side of doing than on not doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:38 AM
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Virtually none of the men who want traditional gender roles want women to have fewer rights than women do. This is not only historically wrong, but factually wrong even in this sub. Trad gender men absolutely want women to have fewer options and rights. There's no propaganda to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:27 AM
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I think history and tribal studies prove that this most likely is the case, especially with anyone with higher than average testosterone. Rubbing penises/clitorises feels good. Rubbing it against other humans feels better. Rubbing it against specific people is the best, but in a pinch rubbing it against anyone feels great. I suspect our future human civilization will be very bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:33 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/user/Hydrathos/comments/181tpwt/f19_i_feel_like_i_was_born_to_be_raped/kaekmyc/ Imagine being a human being and leaving this comment on that kind of OP post... fucking hell. The kids are not alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:40 AM
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"I hoped for snow on my birthday and I got 12 inches!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:38 AM
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"GTA went woke!" lmao. what is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:30 AM
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Because when people see 1 in 25 they believe that that is a fairly frequent occurrence, when they see 4% they know it's very fucking rare. We in general don't legislate based on 4% chances of something to happen. We in general don't make decisions based on 4% chances of something happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:14 AM
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4% is a TINY percentage of global births. "1 in 25" is incredibly misleading, twisting the statistics to appear to be more than what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:58 AM
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I'm working on a prototype PPD that mixes Magic the Gathering style mechanics with our favorite unhinged posters ideas on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:49 AM
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Again the top brass at the pentagon all have mental health issues on their record, it doesn't prevent them from succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:36 PM
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What is your overall budget for clothing? IMHO it could be reasonable or unreasonable depending on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:23 PM
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Maybe it'll scare you but did you know even our nuclear silo guys have mental health issues in their past and that it isn't a disqualifying event? Like, there are almost no true career paths that are gonna neg you for having treated medical issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:16 PM
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People date and marry in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and even 60s. Most people are delaying such things in their 20s and are focusing more on very late 20s, to late 30s for marriage. Guys shouldn't be told to 'wait' but at the same time, it's not the end of the world if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:52 PM
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If you believe you're being recorded, in general how do you act? Do you look MORE into the camera, do you look more at the surrounding area, or do you look completely away?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:13 AM
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The video on her tiktok is of a dude that leans into the other chair, displays open body language, stares at her legs and chest area(you can look at where his pupils are focusing on with head movement showing what he's looking at) and just generally looks to be eyefucking her. He has every right to eyefuck her. She has every right to find it creepy and post it online for 'awareness' which is why she said she posted it. You have every right to say he did nothing wrong. We have every right to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:13 AM
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Traditionalist parents give birth to future progressives. By and large most liberals are born in to conservative families, arguably that's why when they're teens and adults they switch from right wingism to some flavor of leftism. We extremely rarely see the opposite happen, and when it does happen that liberal-to-rightist is most likely a center-right moderate than hardcore traditionalist. Progressive men do have less children, but it doesn't affect our recruitment either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:54 AM
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No one is looking for the complementary person to share their life anymore. You missed the glaring complementary person to share things with: Social media friends. We(sub 40 year olds) get far more fulfillment from sharing on social media than they do sharing with a potential wife/husband. Women especially get their fulfillment from their friend groups, and the ones that require physical intimacy occasionally have FWBs that knock that itch out for them on the regular to keep them 'sane.'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:43 AM
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Asian women by demonstrating who they form relationships with are 2+ billion strong in showing they don't give two shits about height when it comes to attractiveness in LTR mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:23 PM
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Its supposed to prove that your ideology isn't universal and that there are giant gaps of wrongness with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:08 PM
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Every white person that wanted to move has already done so by the late 2010s. Everyone else are diehards or genuine poor ass whites that won't ever move. Also the "its awful for white people in SA" thing is mostly overblown. They still own the majority of the good land, and employ thousands of people that genuinely like working for them, and are the richest people in SA as a group. Almost all the killings were really awful people that would have been killed if they were black. Major "fuck around…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:04 PM
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Redneck girls would be all over him. Dude looks like a fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:56 PM
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In every culture men are attracted to traits that signal fertility. These signals are different in every culture. Some cultures have similar cross contamination of signaling but ultimately have some subtle differences that are unique to that culture. In every culture women like taller, stronger, higher status men. So the 2.5-3.5 billion asian women are just settling for shorter dudes and opine for tall european and african men? We know from global studies in every culture that almost none are he…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:14 PM
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Have you actually sat down with your mom and gone over a very blatant example that 99% of people would go "yeah the woman is a shitbag on this issue" and seen why she thinks the way she does? What does she think of that case of the girlfriend cutting her boyfriend's head off a while back?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:45 PM
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Male sexuality is different in every culture, and every era of human development. Trying to act like these things are hardcoded vs softcoded is a futile argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:38 PM
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So cheating men view their affair partners as more "parental" attractive and their actual partners as "physically more attractive?" Think about this before you answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:36 PM
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Yes, but it becomes more occasional than every time. My wife will get my door or pull my chair out for me occasionally too, when she's in an exceptionally frisky mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:35 PM
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If you ask those women why they think so, bi liberal women will specifically mention irrational fears around their partner's attractions and some bad info around STD rates as their complaints. Once you explain to women that they're being irrational on those issues, they usually switch to being OK with bisexual men as dating partners. This is more of an ignorance issue than genuine "ick."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:51 AM
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There are far more, to borrow Kinsey Scale reductive idea, 2s thru 5s than there are hard 1s and 6s. However current societies are "post-Pagan" and our bisexual past is ignored heavily in most cultures. IMHO it seems from primitive tribal studies that bisexuality is far more prevalent in humans, and we have to actively suppress it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:49 AM
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Wrong wrong wrong. A parent knows to form other parenting groups and family groups that they can pawn the kids off on to those other guardians, because everyone needs breaks in life even from intense in the moment parenting. I'm that 'uncle' that takes my family members kids in for a night here and there very month. Yes there are more families today that aren't able to do this as efficiently as we did in the past. Yes its a problem that needs to be solved. But no, I don't think its a big enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:41 AM
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Or we just understand global statistics when it comes to dating for the vast majority of people. Most people on planet earth by the time they die(roughly 60-80 years of age) will have multiple long term, medium term, and short term sexual-personal relationships with multiple partners. Most humans are heterosexual/closeted bisexuals, and form pairings based on this fact. Very few people remain life long virgins, and of the people that do, they usually have severe issues of the physical, emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:25 AM
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Statistically OP is correct, roadrage is up globally. The main theory I've seen is there is an uptick in "I'm the main character" syndrome, perhaps due to social media focused folks trying to "live their best life" that is coming into conflict with older social norms. I'm sure there are other theories that are more mundane to this(more people driving + old road sign and road placement infrastructure = more chances at conflict.) The vast majority of road rage is male-dominated. However, females d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:18 AM
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Some of this spike are people turning to apps during global covid lockdowns. In theory, we may see this higher % start to slowly fall until it reaches an equilibrium. Gen Alpha and Gen Alpha's kids will decide the fate of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:15 AM
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Exactly right. When I was on the dating apps, including tinder, I spent a reasonable amount of time per week talking to random women until agreeing on some number of dates. Of those dates, most turned into some sort of fwb or medium term relationship(1+ year.) There are some genuine issues with dating apps, especially the monetization issue where its in the app-makers best interest to keep you perpetually unhappy, since happy people find a partner and never use the app again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:11 AM
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Again the OP lays out reasons why someone would be disrespectful to a husband, boyfriend, cousin, brother, dad, etc. and still respectful to her Boss that pays her a living wage that allows her to not die. I will preemptively agree with you that you would hope for women to be able to balance both loving and respecting your non-boss male peers. For some women, this is difficult. It's a problem, but its a rational one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:07 AM
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Where I have to verbally dump a resume of my pros and cons. What you get and the cost. I'm sorry but this is one of the main benefits to dating, especially as we begin to develop AI to help people narrow down exactly what they're looking for in a partner. I want to know the pros/cons to everything I decide to interact with in life, including people. If someone is a giant walking red flag, I want to steer away from them not towards them. In the past, people hid that shit so well they'd be married…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:59 AM
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On a first date, I'd react poorly. On a 5th date, I'd react much more favorably. It's the context and perceived value in why she is saying that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:57 AM
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I mean it does make you, you. It doesn't matter the origins for your thoughts and ideas and actions. Philosophically speaking, you are still the driving actor in what you're deciding to experience. We are an amalgam of the totality of what we experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:56 AM
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Dates feel like job interviews Always has been. People have tons of relationship baggage Always has been. Lots of gold diggers Lmao outside of maaaaybe some very specific areas of the world, no this isn't the case. Tammy, 26 female with 1 kid, is not looking for anything but a working class dude that can emotionally and physically provide for her while she also works a working class job. Requiring a minimum income Lmao no. There are even some women that put up with deadbeat dudes with no income.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:53 AM
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Those guys get laid too, they're just outgoing enough to meet women in similar circumstances and they date/cheat/have dysfunctional relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:10 PM
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"I've been height and racepilled since birth". Roughly 1.1 billion indians in the world. Almost all of them are dating or married. Seems like "racepilled" might just be a debunked concept!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:06 PM
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Fun fact this pretty much goes for any obsessive hobby. Could be bike riding. Could be rock climbing. If you skip your kid's birthday party to go play chess, yeah you're being an obsessive asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:01 PM
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Sometimes I get shocked by subreddits that haven't been quarantined, holy shit what the fuck is that sub? 9 hour session today. Feels like home. (i.redd.it) <= meth? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:57 PM
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Did your new bf cheat on you already? :O
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:52 PM
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Are blackcels that bird that mimics chainsaws and shit? "Hey baby, makes reving noises that would scare 99% of female birds. you wanna mate?" "no you just unlocked a new ick!" flies away
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:49 PM
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The problem with these harem ideas is that, outside of a handful of places with actual legal polyamory, almost every person on earth is currently dating or have been dating a single monogamous person that also was only dating a single monogamous person. In general most people, most of the time, are dating 1 person. This is backed by all statistical evidence. Even when people cheat on someone ,they often leave person A(cheated on) for person B(cheater).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:43 PM
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It gets more fucked up than that, L&C expedition got into some really wild shit that I don't think a modern audience could handle outside of a HBO miniseries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:32 PM
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Even some of the dumbest most abused women can pick up on how pathetic some guys are and even they will reject those guys for being losers. Blatant misogyny is definitely one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:31 PM
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If it's normal i should be able to find a virgin gf. It's abnormal over the age of 27 or so, based on the latest statistics around this topic. Before that it's normal and yes there are women in their 20s that are PIV virgins. The thing to realize is that just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean you'd be compatible with them. Your virgin or her virgin status says nothing about who you are and any long term prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:23 PM
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most men don't mind women in higher education, most men don't mind women having careers, most men don't mind women making bank, most men don't mind sharing home chores Definitely not true. If we look at political polling and sociology surveys, we know that a slight majority of men(60%ish) definitely do have problems with respecting educated women, don't find them attractive to date, and just generally don't think positively about almost always educated liberal women. We know in other surveys tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:04 PM
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For women that genuinely enjoy sex, or for women that are in absolute dire straits and just need decent (unreported...) money to live off of, sex work can do a lot of positives in that woman's life. Same for men that are able to do sex work. Promiscuity is lambasted by popular media. Sluts almost always are the butt of the joke / get screwed over by their actions. Rarely do sluts actually become the hero of a tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:17 AM
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No it doesn't. Being a strong independent woman means "doing what you want to do with the assets you acquire from hard work." If a woman loves traveling, then she's gonna travel. If she loves buying makeup, then she's gonna buy makeup. It's not much deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:11 AM
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