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Main ones are: dancing, gym, fashion, photography, traveling. If those aren't hobbies to you, then just think of them as hot girl activities. Honestly, what boomers consider "hobbies" are typically just boring money sinks anyway. Give me a good vidya to play or a rave to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:09 AM
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My 6 pack shows around 11% (unlucky), what about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:44 AM
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Probably the closest thing would be a pick me or those slightly overweight women on TikTok who talk about being "invisible" because of their weight/face, and it's so hard for them to find a boyfriend. People seem to be generally empathetic towards them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:33 AM
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Yeah it's kind of disgusting that a lot of women hand-wave it away by saying it's just "in response to misogyny." I always try to call out sexism inrl when I hear/see it, but I'll get these deer in the headlights look when I call out sexism towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:51 PM
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I don't really agree with this as someone with a lot of female friends who info dump on me constantly. My friends who don't get much attention have extreme self-esteem and ego issues compared to the more conventionally attractive ones. They also hate when the prettier friends complain about getting that attention. I don't think women realize how much positive attention they get alongside the negative attention, and how much that positive attention builds up your self-esteem and confidence. Belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:05 PM
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Social events, school, cold/warm approaching, work, and their circle of friends. It's also possible to get lucky on a dating app from the few matches you get. I had to force my friend off the apps to wingman him at clubs. He was struggling hard on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:50 AM
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Women are encouraged to share their feelings often with their friends, and I think this gives them the impression that they can handle their boyfriend/husband spilling his guts too, but the dynamic is completely different (since attraction is important in that dynamic). So while they might think they can handle it due to their experiences opening up to their friends, they don't understand they are not as emotionally intelligent as they think. That was my logic anyway, I could be giving these typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:00 AM
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I think for the most part average men are doing fine, just not on dating apps. I've seen so many average to semi-attractive men with decent profiles get nothing on Tinder. So if an average man only uses dating apps, yes, they will most likely struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:46 AM
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They're typically invisible because they never initiate, nor do they put themselves in situations where a man would ask them out. And even when they do, they'll put zero effort into their appearance while their friends are all smokeshows. These women also might refuse to use dating apps. If they did use them, they would be getting all the attention they ever wanted, or at least the attention they thought they wanted. It's kind of similar to dudes who claim to be invisible but don't ever actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:50 AM
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I feel like most of the "feminist" subreddits are just redpill for women. Only difference is that they get zero pushback for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:56 PM
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I can see why it might raise some red flags given context, but I don't personally have a problem with it if they're both consenting. I always assume a relationship is non-toxic until proven otherwise. The OP was just framing her "nature doesn't mean it's correct" argument for finding 18 year olds physically attractive. I'm not really sure how you can shame someone for finding a teen who has gone through puberty attractive. Seems chronically online to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:49 AM
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No offense to the straight men here, but I don't think this applies to them. A lot of these men are short and autistic. They can't even get their foot in the door with most women I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:15 AM
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There are more female teachers, but in my experience, my male teachers were a lot better at actually teaching the class. Even in college, it felt like female teachers phone-it-in extremely hard. There is no better way to put it. Just my personal anecdote, though. With that said, I don't think one gender is "superior" to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:09 AM
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Well, finding an 18 year old physically attractive is not only natural but not really something you can attach morals to. It's not like the person is a pedophile for finding them attractive lol. Unless you mean "pursuing" an 18 year old when you're older is not okay. Which is completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:55 AM
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This is the issue with the "power imbalance" arguments. If you take them to their logical conclusion, almost any relationship can be toxic. My boyfriend is 10 years older than me. He's also an introvert and doesn't have much relationship experience, while I do. He's not a man-child or anything, but he didn't mysteriously turn into a boring adult the second he turned 30. I'm 6'5 225 pounds of muscle, he's 5'7 145. I make slightly more than him. People have told me to my face that he could be taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:13 PM
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For dating? The broke guy, unless he's super attractive. The whole "fat women are invisible to men" thing is grossly exaggerated. My friend is 80 pounds overweight and can have a date from Tinder any time she wants. She's also approached by attractive men in public all the time. I don't think I know a single fat woman that isn't in a relationship or easily dating. In general? Idk, both suck. I do think losing weight is easier than finding a 70k+ a year job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:47 PM
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I do think social media has created a sort of "attraction deflation" that affects men more than women (since men are hornier). I argue with my girlfriends all the time about the looks of men. They'll call some buff 7/10 on Tinder "mid" or whatever. But you have to keep in mind that the average person in the west is becoming fat/obese. Like a true "average" person might be someone you consider a 3/10 just because they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:39 PM
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Rap is the only genre that gets away with men absolutely shitting on women, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:30 PM
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Just don't do it at the gym if you like going to that specific one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:08 AM
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They've already done countless Tinder experiments. The results are pretty predictable. I'm an attractive gay man on dating apps, so it's basically the straight female experience but on steroids. I've taken over my friend's Tinder to help him. The app just doesn't feel usable, there's no other way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:21 PM
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This method also relies mostly on luck. You're putting so much time into a friend who may be incompatible with you for whatever reason. If it happens naturally because you like hanging with that person, that's fine, but like I said: luck. Dating is mostly a numbers game. It's honestly much more time efficient to just cold or warm approach women you see out in public or places you frequent. If getting a date as a gay man wasn't so easy, there is no way I would have met my current boyfriend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:42 PM
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Probably a mix of these reasons: Young men tend to not care about their looks, a lot start to care around 23-24, and it takes a good amount of time to look your best as a man (especially if you have no foundation for muscle or skincare/haircare routine). Young women care a lot more about looks than older women, and young men are sort of lied to in this regard. Women tend to date older, 2-5 years. This can make dating as an 18-23 very difficult if you're not already very confident/attractive. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:27 PM
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I think it has to do with society constantly telling women that they're the more emotionally intelligent sex, when in truth, most people just are not ready to see their partner truly vulnerable. They do not have the emotional maturity to support them. It's why you have that shared experience of men saying that they opened up to their girlfriends/wives about depression or something a bit more serious than "my boss is being mean to me", and they lost respect for them or got the "ick". I've actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:11 PM
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That he was bald and a chinlet, that's what I saw mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:59 AM
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A slightly slimmer nose I guess? But honestly your nose fits your face. You just have very masculine features, I feel like there's a lot of women who would find that very attractive. But idk, your shirtless pic with that haircut is really hot. I'm a gay man so maybe I don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:29 AM
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Nah, women like a tight black shirt on a man with muscles. Don't believe the lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:31 AM
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Wouldn't that also be a death sentence to the budding relationship? I feel like most women would assume the man doesn't find them attractive and bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:13 PM
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I've noticed this myself about admission bias between men and women, and I wonder how much it affects self reported data. Men tend not to give a shit at all about being honest if they aren't talking to the person they wronged, and they feel there's no consequence (like anonymous surveys). But one of my girlfriends recently had her relationship of 2 years end because she had sex with one of his friends. She has convinced herself that it wasn't cheating because she believes he cheated on her first…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:10 AM
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The filter seems really good at going from male to female because it smooths out your skin and adds makeup/pretty hair. The female to male just adds a bit of masculine features and gives you a whack haircut (usually). But I do agree that both men and women tend to overrate the average woman, while men and women will think the average man is "meh". I started to notice this more when lurking in "rate me" subreddits. It's why I tend to take "I see beautiful women with ugly men all the time" with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:10 AM
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The filter seems really good at going from male to female because it smooths out your skin and adds makeup/pretty hair. The female to male just adds a bit of masculine features and gives you a whack haircut (usually). But I do agree both men and women tend to overrate the average woman, while men and women will think the average man is "meh".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:33 PM
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Never claimed otherwise. Beards just tend to grow thicker the older you get. They tend to hide bad jawlines, so it can increase your attractiveness if you couldn't grow one in your early 20s. I personally like beards on attractive faces. That's definitely a preference thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:21 PM
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Damn friend 2 is fucking brutal. I don't think I've ever met a woman who would say that to a friend lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:56 PM
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That's been my experience too, it's become a misnomer. Women will comment how they love my "dad bod" when I'm at the height of my bulk. I have about 30+ pounds of extra muscle on me, dads do NOT look like this LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:54 PM
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Beards, muscle mass (takes a bit to build mass naturally), higher income, may have their own place now, etc. Men with a lot of potential tend to waste their early 20s. But yeah, if they were already hot or put no effort into their looks, they will probably look worse at 30. Just comes down to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:02 PM
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I wouldn't listen to the red or blue pill on here, they're basically just very bitter people, and most of their arguments boil down to "men bad" or "women bad". I will say though, red pill does have some decent dating advice on the surface (for straight men). But it's basically just 90s dating guru/pick-up artist shit. Blue pill advice would be absolutely useless to give my friends who struggle with dating. But back on topic, I just wouldn't take it too seriously. If it affects you negatively, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:00 PM
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Well some guys are just objectively creepy. But I will admit that when a guy approaches me and I don't find him attractive, I'll get the "ick", which isn't really the same as them being creepy. I think a lot of people don't know the difference. I mean, women have accused me of being creepy. One woman reported me to my gym's manager because I was being "creepy," setting up my deadlift behind her (there was no place else to set it up). So yes, being attractive matters in some of these examples, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:42 PM
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You don't even need to go to those strip clubs tbh. My friend who doesn't get much attention from women in America has the time of his life whenever he goes to an Asian or South American country for vacation. It's not about finding a wife or spending money, the women there just find him more "exotic" I guess? When we went to Brazil for a friend group vacation, I was being flooded by women when we went out to clubs. I've been approached by women in America, but not at that level. If I was straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:50 AM
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I could probably do this honestly. But I'm 6'5 and gay men are also obsessed with height. I'm not sure about the average gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:29 PM
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The "blue pill" side of this sub always comes across as more deranged than the red pill side (which is saying a lot) whenever this topic comes up. The amount of female posters saying that 30 year old men are unattractive and cannot pull younger women is insane to me. I feel like I live in a different reality than these people. All of my girlfriends date men 5+ years older than them, sometimes 7-10. Also, assuming a 33 year old dating a 23 year old is automatically predatory is just terminally on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:55 AM
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I don't think "the wall" is an actual thing, but I don't agree that men look more unattractive when they get older. In fact, I think it's the opposite. They tend to look more masculine when they get older. Bigger muscles, fuller beards, some sun damage, wrinkles that make them look a bit "rougher", streaks of silver in their hair (mmm). Not to say women all become ugly or anything, I just don't think femininity really benefits too much from aging. But then again, I don't find women sexually attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:43 AM
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5.5 inches and 5 minutes sounds good to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:07 AM
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I don't personally care about body count, but I dont see how it's different than any other preference. One of my friends recently rejected a guy she was digging because she found out he was a virgin. She thought it was a red flag that he's 24 and still a virgin. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:02 AM
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I think it's more, a lot of straight men are so lonely and desperate that the first person who shows genuine attraction to them will become their "type". They may not even see that it's a bad match or notice any red flags. But you could probably make the same argument for women too. They get so used to the pump and dump, that when a guy finally sticks around they just latch onto them, ignoring how toxic they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:10 AM
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I think we're just programmed to see tall/big as masculine and short/petite as more feminine. Women underestimate how attracted they are to masculine traits a lot of the time, even if it's subtle. Most straight women just want someone taller than them (some don't care at all), but I think social media has turned height into a fetish to some degree. Even in the LGBT community, height is super important in dating. Taller and masculine gay men are seen as the "tops" and are highly sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:26 AM
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I honestly only used Tinder for hookups, seems like most gay men on there weren't interested in anything more. But I guess I was adding to the problem lol. I'm pretty tall so that probably helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:01 AM
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You'd be surprised how easy it is to find tall men on dating apps. It really is like a buffet for straight women and gay men. Although a lot of these men have no intention of ever committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:04 PM
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Some of my friends will have moments of self awareness where they realize how shallow they're being, but I think a lot of it is them compartmentalizing. For example, one of my friends is on the taller side and will not date anyone under 6'3. But when she rejects a guy who walks up to her, the reasons are always "he wasn't funny/he was boring/he was creepy". When I know damn well she is only physically attracted to the concept of a 6'5 Timothee Chamalet. I think it's easier for her to just blame …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:35 PM
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I'm a gay man with a lot of girlfriends, so maybe I can give a more objective perspective since I have no dog in this race. Yes, women are very shallow when it comes to physical attributes. No, I don't think most of them realize that they're being shallow. If you could see the way my girlfriends swipe on Tinder, you'd never use the app as a straight man. They're just fucking brutal when they know they're not being judged for it. Guys who I think are insanely cute will be dragged for the smallest…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:18 AM
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