FeatherWorld Archive

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1	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? Whatever helps you sleep better at the end of the day. Maybe you should actually read women's answers in this post. Trying to force a narrative doesn't make it fact. The reality is that women have different sized vaginas and we aren't open caverns that can take anything and always want big dick. There's so much more to partners then their genitals. A giving partner who is invested in your pleasure is everything and far more valuable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 12:24 AM
6	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? Absolutely. I've hurt men with my tightness before too. Our parts come in all shapes and sizes and there is definitely incompatibility at times and to make even that work, a lot of modifications need to be made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 12:44 AM
9	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? That's specific to you, like you said. Any genitals in my mouth is erotic and a turn on, no matter the size. Much easier to play with and maneuver my tongue around if it's not choking me and hurting my mouth and throat. You can believe what you want. Ultimately each woman is unique with her own preferences and grouping us all together isn't going to go the way you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 12:42 AM
22	Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference? Yes and we're just incompatible. I'm very small and it requires longer foreplay for penetration alone and there's a larger risk of tearing and blood. Then having to heal from that and being sore for way longer as a result. Way less spontaneous. No quickies there. Plus hitting my cervix far too easily/quickly and hurting me. I'd rather have average or smaller. I care more about their mouth and fingers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:12 PM
3	Is it a red flag for a guy to have a high opinion of his ex? Yeah I'm sure it was just the wording. A year is plenty of time and it's good that you clarified that you wouldn't go back to her if she came back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 03:22 AM
4	Is it a red flag for a guy to have a high opinion of his ex? Maybe she took it as you would still be with her if you could, if she hadn't moved, so more likely to be still harboring feelings for her? Depends on how long ago the last relationship ended and if you have healed from it fully and processed everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:50 AM
3	What guys really want Yeah they absolutely do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 10:18 PM
22	Q4W: Are you protecting yourself or just avoiding difficult conversations by ghosting? That's just fading away naturally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 04:24 PM
20	Women who ask their male partners to not use condoms are in the wrong morally. I'm usually dealing with the opposite problem. A lot of men don't want to wear condoms. They want me to be on birth control and I have to be the one who insists that they put one on. Not anymore though. Any reluctance and I leave. Stealthing is far too common. Any woman who says that is weird af and risky. Leave immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 01:32 PM
1	"If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round? For sure. And all this talk like being single is a bad thing when plenty of people are miserable in unhealthy relationships. They would rather stay for years and years than leave. Anything but be single. The challenge isn't finding a relationship so much as finding someone you are truly compatible with who is honest and will treat you with respect. I was engaged myself, but I'm genuinely so thankful I ended it. I'm single by choice and focusing on myself for once. So many hop from relationship t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 01:08 AM
13	"If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round? For sure. And no group is ever a monolith. As much as this sub tries to make it out to be. Just a lot of people with bad experiences and luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:26 PM
144	"If they're still single in their mid-30s there's a reason" - why is it OK for women to say this about men, but not the other way round? It's just immature people from both sides saying it. Intelligent people know that everyone comes from different circumstances and are single at any age for a number of reasons. People often project their own insecurities and frustration onto groups of people to make themselves feel better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 04:57 PM
2	Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex? I'm so sorry about your sister :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 05:16 AM
10	Would you take a lie detector test to prove you love your partner? Right? If they want children or have them they are not even an option to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/25 10:14 PM
1	There is no hypocrisy if a guy for LTR wants sex , problem is different Far too common :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 02:58 PM
–	Men Should Reconsider Long-Term Relationships (LTRs) with Women Who Don’t Offer Sex After the First Date You see it as a sign of worth for yourself when that's an entirely wrong way to look at it. Safety is far more important. Blind trust is a sign of immaturity and you shouldn't be giving it to anyone either. Wanting women to be naive and ignorant is a huge red flag. Then you complain when they are less trustful because they've been assaulted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 08:15 AM
8	Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life? And his sperm by then may give birth defects to your children. Far worse end of the deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:43 AM
–	Men Should Reconsider Long-Term Relationships (LTRs) with Women Who Don’t Offer Sex After the First Date People also forget that trust is so important and giving blind trust to someone you just met can put you into extremely dangerous situations or killed. You can desire someone so much and yet they can masquerade as someone decent and respectful on the surface. Once behind closed doors, the mask falls off and consent is no longer respected. It's not a simple matter of choosing wrong. I like the idea of fast intimacy in theory, but it's so easy to be burned and suffer trauma as a result if you just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:28 AM
8	Do men prefer no makeup/surgery, and should women tell when they've had surgery? A lot of us do use tret, eyebrow tinting or microblading, use eyelash extensions or lengthening serum. As for makeup, I do it for myself and enjoy it. I love color coordinating and it's art. I love experimenting with fashion. You have to be very careful with always using sunscreen or you can wreck your skin if you use retinol. A lot of people are lazy with it so it's best to stay far away if they aren't diligent with skin care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/24 12:10 AM
16	If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately. Honestly in the end it's completely situational and depends on the people themselves. People will stay together for years even though they slept together fast and other people have waited months and it fizzled fast or someone bounced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 03:32 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad You seem young, but there's men out there who are low libido and asexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:47 PM
–	Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being bad Yes, women get dead bedrooms in their relationships too. As in, the man not wanting sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:23 PM
–	People work harder to impress you when you have more options I know. More like I accept that I won't be the only one prior to exclusivity. Like content with the possibility. I know plenty are alone and have bad experiences. Plus men massively outnumber women in the first place on apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 01:17 AM
–	People work harder to impress you when you have more options I don't know what average is anyway, but I don't really want to date someone who is dating a ton of other people. don't feel any need to compete. Obviously I know I have the privilege of having way more options and I have no shortage of interest. I assume everyone is dating multiple people and that's expected, but someone who's only hobbies are dates and sex is a big ick. And I've known plenty of people like that. I love to see intelligence and passion for their hobbies. The more people in their…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:58 AM
3	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous Yeah most of us are not getting the chance nor would take it for our own safety, unless we had money going into account for our security. Even if you are pretty many still wouldn't accept that because it's too risky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 05:50 AM
6	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you Exactly. Nice is just a basic compliment and it has nothing to do with attraction or not other than furthering it in someone I like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 05:46 AM
8	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Yeah with this sub being such an echo chamber of "all women" this or that of course a lot of those men will be looking for shallow af relationships that are transactional and not looking for depth, since they already are assuming the worst in the first place and end up seeking a certain type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:44 PM
7	Q4W: Why do you only swipe right on the minority of men? Yup tons of middle fingers. It ruins the whole profile. Some even have multiple pictures with just that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 10:42 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Don't listen. They don't know you. People project their own shit on others all the time and it's a reflection of them. So many toxic bullies in the world that just want to spread hate and tear people down to be miserable with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 02:23 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Move on to the next, but don't seek external validation from someone else. You have to believe in yourself. Confidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 01:36 AM
2	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them Haha I know it's pretty much an echo chamber here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 09:06 PM
2	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them So many men forget that most women have already been sexually harassed since childhood and many of us have been sexually assaulted. Of course we would be more aware of our surroundings and keeping ourselves safe until we can trust someone, especially men. Blind trust has burnt us so many times and that just adds to the trauma. Of course we will be warmer and more open to women when opening up more easily to all has already put us at risk so many times. Women haven't followed us home on a regular…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:12 PM
5	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them We might find sexual partners easier if we wanted, but so many think we have it easier in all ways and it's just a given that we are somehow believed and that we need to be be taken down a peg. When in reality for the vast billions we are invalidated constantly and even doctors and medical professionals won't take us seriously. To the point of death so many times. Not being given equal respect because it's assumed that we are shitty people immediately who somehow have a huge support system and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:02 PM
8	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them Yeah only discovering empathy for the opposite sex upon having a child is pathetic. With the internet at our fingertips and all this knowlege. Nah. That's just sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:38 PM
32	Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for them Also men tend to give other men the benefit of the doubt immediately while questioning the woman and her actions. It's sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:57 AM
–	Women aren't attracted to dad bods, they can't keep up with fit men's standards. Tons of people know what they want to eat and will answer truthfully when asked. It's not a woman only thing if some are indecisive in the moment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:29 AM
–	Women aren't attracted to dad bods, they can't keep up with fit men's standards. Women know what they want and then they aren't believed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 05:28 AM
9	WTF is "Emotional Intelligence" For some but also lose them too. Being open and vulnerable and willing to communicate is everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 05:19 AM
15	Women: What do you bring to the table? Where is this 80% from exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/24 06:27 PM
–	Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids? So fucked up :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 06:06 PM
1	Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair) Oooh very cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 07:39 AM
1	What happened to "if she is like that, she's not really worth being with"? Awful	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 03:51 AM
9	Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age? My dad was 40 when he had me. I definitely think it contributed to my mental illnesses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 01:53 AM
0	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? Yeah, some people do lose attraction with time in a relationship, yes if people gain weight or age that can happen most definitely. Just as many in loving relationships find their partner even more attractive with time. It's more than just the outside, it's the years spent together and growing as a team over the years. It's the adoration you have for them where they are genuinely so beautiful in your eyes and your love for them seemingly bottomless. You notice far less flaws and see the beauty i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 10:55 AM
18	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? People can grow on you. Sometimes you aren't 100% attracted right away, but you want to get to know them better and give it a chance anyway, especially if you like their personality. A good personality can make someone way more attractive. Just as how a bad one can make someone far less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 07:57 AM
3	What does the term "man child" exist but not "woman child"? I've been called little girl condescendingly myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 11:38 AM
–	Women aren't happier single. Same. Very rarely do I come across any healthy marriage where both partners take on equal amounts of emotional labor and effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/24 08:24 PM
37	Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30s Yeah people start all over at any age. I spent basically my whole 20s with one person and I've started again. Shit happens all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 06:38 AM
2	Do women want their partner to say yes to their wants? Nah that's only a blanket statement. And only some women. Someone who is demanding all the time is a turn off anyway. It's about compromise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 06:25 PM
11	In the current year, do you think men should pay for dates? Why or why not? Yeah that's why I pay. Even when people insist you still get some men who feel entitled to sex or that you owe them at least a blowjob for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 12:55 AM
7	Women generally want men desired by other women I know many women who don't want to date a man seeing multiple woman because the STI risk goes higher from there. I'd much rather see someone who wasn't involved with multiple people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 04:16 AM
3	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching Or it could have been a drive by compliment, which is very much appreciated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 11:55 AM
2	Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blame That's what I'm struggling with now. I just want human connection without expectations and want to meet people and have decent conversations and just hang out. Some wholesomeness and maybe meeting some friends that I can hang out with more regularly. I just hate how I can say hi at all and it will immediately be seen as flirtation more often than not when I just want to chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 06:03 AM
4	The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world. Exactly. This is what makes me so apprehensive to be intimate with anyone. I don't have enough financial stability to risk it on top of being strangled randomly during sex or being cohersed in the moment and risking anger and escalation if I say no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 05:41 AM
3	Should sex toys be permitted in a relationship It's not a matter of being permitted. Everyone has their own agency. I wouldn't be jealous, I have my own sex toys and people should know what they like and experiment on their own. They should be in tune with their own bodies and sometimes sex can be a big effort and you want something quick. As long as our sex life doesn't suffer in any way, I'm cool with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 05:32 AM
10	Should sex toys be permitted in a relationship There is no head, it's a partnership.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 05:28 AM
2	CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on dates If there isn't a vibe, there isn't a vibe. No one should be forcing themselves to be intimate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/23 04:38 PM
1	Have any of you stayed with a guy, even though he wasn't good in bed? I was with my ex for nearly 6 years and he was pretty much asexual, but in denial. Sex is extremely important to me, so I broke up with him. He seemed perfect for me, but I couldn't take the false promises for effort and not feeling desirable. Masturbation can only do so much, even with good toys. We communicated so well in areas outside of sex, but he clammed up especially around the topic and avoided the numerous discussions I initiated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 04:24 AM
1	Should men love their women more? Should it be the other way around? Or equal? That's all you took away from that? Most women don't cum from PIV, even if they are turned on. The clitoris needs to be stimulated one way or another. It's more important than jackhammering with your dick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 07:52 AM
6	Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock I think it's luck, because sooner or later amidst all her partners, it's just a matter of time before she's abused by someone, let alone kidnapped, sex trafficked, or killed. She maybe had close calls that she wasn't aware of. SO terrifying to consider. Especially with all her traveling in foreign countries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 02:15 PM
10	Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock Yeah sounds like rape and murder just waiting to happen. Dangerous af.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 11:32 AM
3	The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and women Same and hookups aren't worth it if only the guy is getting off 100% and ignores your needs. My vibrator is a guarantee vs risking my life getting murdered or strangled with no warning because they saw it in porn. Or rape. I am not here to just be masturbated into while pretending I don't have a clitoris. Maybe I'll just stick to women in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/23 05:20 PM
18	Womens body count People will always have their preconceived notions :/ Or they assume you are a certain way because you have a resting bitch face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 05:05 PM
18	What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)? They also wear hip pads and shapewear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 11:45 PM