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I'll translate for you: she was hitting on men several points more attractive than she was, so they treated her as an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:49 PM
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I am making a comment about the FDS tier slop you're posting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:16 PM
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Haven't been able to find a new home since FDS closed, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:18 PM
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Whenever someone mentions the alpha stuff or the wolf study in any context, there's always 10 million of the most obnoxious "UMMM ACKTUALLY that study was le debunked, sweatie", as if anyone cares about the input of some Adam Ruins Everything dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:00 PM
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Hmm. I haven't seen this source before. I'll look it over. Thanks for the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:40 PM
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Again, as I said, women are generally in and out on dating apps which helps keep those numbers down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:24 PM
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That's a complete misunderstanding of the numbers. That's only at A CERTAIN TIME. When women get on dating apps, they spend about an average of two weeks (iirc) on there before finding someone and deleting their account. Men languish on dating apps sometimes for literal years, so the numbers are inflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:28 PM
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It's actually INCREDIBLY obvious to other men when a guy is an abuser or narcissist. Women just tend to think they can fix him or get dazzled by how hot he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:27 PM
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she doesn't think men love futas Oh, sweetie...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:51 PM
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In a survey with 446 autistic men and 552 autistic women showed that 40% of men were virgins and 32% had never been in a relationship, in contrast to 23% and 14% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:57 PM
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You literally have brain damage if you think repealing Roe v Wade is even slightly comparable to punishing LGBT people with death for being queer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:20 PM
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Nobody believes your lies hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:44 PM
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Literally not true. Please cease your lying Islamic grift, buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:26 PM
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LGBTQ+ rights in Turkey face significant challenges, as homosexuality is legal but there are no legal protections against discrimination, and same-sex relationships are not recognized. The country is generally conservative, with negative attitudes towards LGBTQ+ individuals, particularly outside major cities, and public displays of affection can be risky. In addition, Turkey ranks 47th out of 49 countries for LGBT rights in Europe. So uh, yeah. Thanks for playing, buck. Try your grift again with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:57 PM
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Yes, that's because Muslim countries like Iran force sex changes on LGB people so that they can proudly say that there's no gay people in their country. Oopsie, did I just give away your grift? Aw shucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:48 PM
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Yes. Don't delude yourself into thinking anything slightly close to that could ever pass. You are quite literally delusional if you believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:16 PM
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Well, anti immigrants are just racists as it is shown again. Uh, you're the one making the argument, not me. Like trump withholding rights of trans people, forcing them to inhumane treatment, restricting their freedom of movement and speech? Not really. It's not good, but it's far from us queers being sentenced to death like we would in Islamic nations, and once again, you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:51 PM
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1) you're unintentionally making a pretty solid argument for America to have certain races not in it, which is pretty hilarious 2) you're deliberately conflating acts of individual violence with acts of state-sponsored culturally supported violence. There are many, MANY Islamic countries where simply being gay is still a crime, with some punishments including death. This is not at all comparable to a single individual person committing an anti-LGBT hate crime, and you know that too. Don't be dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:26 PM
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You're not gonna like it when people do the research and notice that 99% of cases where transgender women are killed are black/hispanic transwomen killed by men of their own race due to their culture's hypermasculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:18 PM
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...because they don't? It's 2025, all the things you're describing don't exist anymore and haven't for a long time. Women are literally validated by every single part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:28 AM
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Nerdy girls have been dating nerdy guys since college and high school. Lmaooooo Nerdy guys want to date nerdy girls. Nerdy girls want to date anything EXCEPT nerdy guys - popular kids, future criminals, jocks, etc I remember in high school, there was this cute nerdy studious girl I was really into. We shared a lot of the same interests, passion for activism, etc. Her boyfriend was a complete degenerate who said homophobic slurs and almost got expelled for having a knife on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:16 PM
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thought you said you didnt like experienced people, you called them low value. This is how dating works when you don't use apps. ...I think you've confused me with someone else. I've not said anything even close to that. what kind of person signs up for a sex study on penis sizes? Someone who likes getting paid to answer some questions for a few hours? nah, I think youre missing it. Women generally don't care as long as they are satisfied. If they did, the first date would always end in hanky pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:28 PM
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Oh boy, another thread where women and bloopers all pretend that women don't prefer big dicks and you're insane if you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:13 PM
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You don't know what that word means. If women in his social group know he has a big dick, that means he's not an inkwell. Because they've seen his dick. Because they're fucking him. You can't just use random words to mean whatever you want. Also, you really think that "reprehensible guy but with a monster cock so he still gets laid" is an unthinkable scenario? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:10 PM
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Most my friends find their partners organically still. A friend's friend or someone at church , family friend, etc. That's incredibly rare and most relationships are formed via online dating now. That's been the case for years. People love to be "b-but the pandemic!" but the numbers were already trending that way, it just accelerated it. Proven studies?? What the hell kind of sex studies are going on ? Seems like an ethics board nightmare. ??? Why is that? Do you really think that there aren't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:07 PM
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I'm shocked you think it isn't. As soon as word of a guy having a big dick gets out, everyone wants to try it. Women will openly admit this too. It's not a coincidence that the term is "big dick energy". Pete Davidson has even outright said he gets ton of women begging to see his big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:05 AM
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So you're saying you've honestly heard women go "Oh, his average sized dick was so good! I loved how completely average it was! In fact, it was probably even a little below average, it was soooo good!"? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:44 PM
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Yes I am, it's a public service!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:42 PM
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Not one woman has ever bragged about having good sex with an average sized man? Nope. You'll hear "omg the sex was so good" and that's it. But if the guy has a big dick, you'll fucking know. In my 20s, there was one guy who literally fucked over half of the women in my social circle despite him being a completely reprehensible person (and this isn't an up to debate thing, he would do stuff like drop hard R n-bombs "as a joke". He wasn't my friend, to be clear.) because he had a huge dick (and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:13 PM
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Yes, rare as they are, which is why I wrote the entire second part. It literally addresses that exact point. if they do end up with a woman who for whatever reason really just can't take that dick, guess what? That larger dick will drastically increase your pool of women which means you're far more likely to find a woman who can take that dick. No woman has ever bragged to all her friends and fondly remembered for years the sexual encounter she had with a totally average-to-below average nondesc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:55 PM
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No, and you're deliberately misunderstanding the question. The "pain" from sex with a big dick isn't pain in the way that pain normally is. It's actively desired and enjoyed and sought out. You can literally see people in this thread talking about how women would love the feeling of still being sore the next day, etc. I've known multiple women who have said much the same thing, that they loved that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah, but you can theoretically become rich. You can't go from a 5'7" with a 5 incher to a 6'1" with a 7x5 cock no matter how hard you try, that's pure genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:31 PM
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1) that's not the average experience for those men, the women will put in the work for guys with big dicks - I literally had a partner tell me about how big her other partner (she was doing the open relationship thing) was to the point that sex with him hurt her every time, but she still kept going back for more and loved it. THAT is the standard and most women will admit to that eventually. 2) if they do end up with a woman who for whatever reason really just can't take that dick, guess what? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:30 PM
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Psst They're bragging. Or take a look at the big dick sub and the issues some of those men face when having sex (things like no oral, no anal, or rougher sex is pretty common) Now compare their posts to small dick subreddits. This is like when people compare tall men subreddits (it's hard to find clothes that fit) to short men subreddits (extreme loneliness, depression, mockery) and say "well both sides have problems, the grass isn't greener!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:16 PM
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They're in a very small minority and you know that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:03 PM
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"You don't have to have a large dick! You insecure men are so silly. Yes, there's proven studies that show that women orgasm far more often with larger penises and prefer them, but those don't matter. Look, all you have to do is spend 45 mins minimum every time eating her out with expert cunnligus and fingering techniques." There, I just saved you all 8+ hours of posting by summing it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:00 PM
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Considering that there's studies that show that women prefer larger dicks for hookups than they do for long term relationships, this is a real silly route to go down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:58 PM
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Men have never once denied that big tits are preferable. The guys who like flat chests are a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:56 PM
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A woman might gush over a video or pic of a dude with a huge dick but she could also be totally satisfied with her boyfriend’s totally average penis. Here in the real world, we call that "settling" or "coping".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:55 PM
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As long as a guy can use a toy, tounge, or hand to finish her off- it's not really an issue. Usually if it is an issue it's because it big and hurts her or she can't get off. This should be a bedroom discussion where the use of toys/ oral / etc. "You don't have to have a large dick! You insecure men are so silly. Yes, there's proven studies that show that women orgasm far more often with larger penises and prefer them, but those don't matter. Look, all you have to do is spend 45 mins minimum eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:45 PM
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True, you can also be very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:42 PM
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100%, always happens every single time these types of threads are posted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:41 PM
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Penis size was never even something women knew before having sex with me. This alone should tell you what is and isn't important to women. If they do not even check for penis size before getting into bed, now important can it be? And yet, if one woman in a friend group told everyone else you had a big dick, you could watch the DMs and hookups just roll in. Funny how that works, innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:38 PM
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"You don't have to have a large dick! You insecure men are so silly. Yes, there's proven studies that show that women orgasm far more often with larger penises and prefer them, but those don't matter. Look, all you have to do is spend 45 mins minimum every time eating her out with expert cunnligus and fingering techniques." There, I just saved you all 8+ hours of posting by summing it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:29 PM
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Okay, but like, none of that has anything to do with how you're blatantly being disingenuous and condescending. You're doing the classic woman thing right now of pretending your ideas and thoughts are so great that the only way someone could disagree with you is if they don't understand them. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:16 AM
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1) I'm not American 2) You're very clearly just being a disingenuous troll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:10 PM
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Just Google for it, not my job to educate you sweaty ;) Yeah, that's about what I thought lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:12 PM
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What a nonsensical response. Obviously I'm asking for an article that shows actual definitive proof of the thing that's being talked about, as opposed to a "scientists maybe might have found something that sort of suggests (based upon one study that's tangentially related)". Do you always ask completely disingenuous questions like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:58 PM
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Surely you'll be able to link to articles proving this then, right? PS - please do your best not to link to an article like this https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/early-women-were-hunters-not-just-gatherers-study-suggests-180982459/ You know, the kind that doesn't expect you to read beyond the headlines and is merely based off of a singular study of women from the 1800s, aka NOT HUNTER-GATHERER TIMES
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:28 PM
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his wife's girlfriend has a bigger dick than him lmao okay that one really got me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:52 PM
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Well if you're hooking up with your friends then you're not really at all about what the OP was talking about, are you? You have established yourself as a sexual being within the social group instead of being an sexless oofie-doofie R*dditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:49 PM
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You know the exact type I mean, don't be coy. As someone who is also a leftist, they're pretty much all blackholes of humor who think the height of edgy comedy is faux-racist jokes about Italians and talking about how much straight white men suck. It's what you'd call "Cards Against Humanity edgy", it's "safe edgy".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:44 PM
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How long did that take you to get that girlfriend, buck? Your name is literally "grandpa". And they don't literally think of you asexual; rather, a better term is "sexless" in the sense that you are not a sexual being. That is not a good thing and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:41 PM
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I'm sure you tell only the funniest jokes about Italians not being white and Karens being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:37 PM
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By the way, why would you think women don’t like sexual conversations? Because it's incredibly conditional. It's entirely based on your appearance or vibes that determine if you're "allowed" to be sexual or not. Tall jacked Chad can talk about how much he loves anal and "jokingly" tell a woman to suck his dick. Someone who is a short guy or more feminine looking or a fat guy can't even get away with merely saying a woman is attractive. You're not allowed to express any kind of sexuality or desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:09 PM
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And they will introduce him to other women who will ALSO think of him as a gay asexual bestie. This is what you call "winning"? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:55 PM
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There’s a whole cliché about the short guy sleeper who is somehow always taking girls home. Has anyone ever actually seen this in their lives? This is the same as the supposed cliche of the fat funny who cleans up with women - it's a thing of media, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:46 PM
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Meanwhile, most women are probably imagining Edward from Twilight. You mean the guy who breaks into a teenage girl's house and watches her while she sleeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:06 PM
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get a good enough job to afford your own place Lmfao, this is not within reach for the vast majority of men, especially young men. The vast majority of men do not have 1.5k+ to spend on rent alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:23 PM
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"The nail that sticks up gets hammered down"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:56 PM
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Because it'd be like being the only person in the company going on strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:03 PM
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Maybe things are different for you in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:04 PM
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The "independent evidence" is that she said she was felt scared. I'm serious, if you're a woman you can literally do that and get anything you want. Any women reading this, just try it - next time anyone argues with you or disagrees or doesn't do what you want, just say "You're scaring me." and you'll win the argument, get whatever you want, etc. It's actually insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:01 PM
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And everyone DOES claim that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:53 PM
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Prenups are completely worthless and get thrown out all the time. All the woman has to say is "he forced me to sign it, I didn't know what I was signing", and bam, it gets thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:09 PM
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Yeah, you're not funny. And the worst part is that I can tell you're the kind of person who's cackling right now thinking you're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:15 PM
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Look, if you're just gonna troll and meme, don't bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:04 PM
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<image> Bluepillers will literally try to tell you this is a "sex symbol"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:17 PM
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Based on reality, based on previous experiences, based on literally everything. What a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:50 PM
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Uh, what? You have zero clue what you're talking about. WOMAD members reportedly advocated for revenge against men, advocated for disliked people to commit suicide, and some threatened violence and committed crimes against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:17 PM
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You regularly post in the 4B Movement subreddit and your current thread on your profile is about how low your self-esteem is. I'm pretty sure those are the factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:16 PM
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Quibbling about the exact hard number of people on OF is just ignoring the huge amount of women who engage in soft sex work. I know about 7 or 8 women - in real life, mind you - who have engaged in soft sex work (foot pics, findom, clothed JOIs, selling panties, etc), and I'm just a totally normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:14 PM
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"What's water? What's air? What's the English language? What does 'the' mean?" This isn't cute dude, knock it off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:55 PM
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For all of life, not "hooking up". Come on. It's actually almost impossible for a woman to screw her life up beyond like, outright doing crack, because she'll always get bailed out, and you know this. Also if you wanna be cheeky, women don't face any consequences for hooking up either lol. Abortion, the championing of high body counts and sex work, hell, even the championing of having STDs - Ali Wong made millions off of saying "if you don't have herpes, you're a nerd."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:50 PM
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The problem is that women's criteria is off. It's hypercalibrated for short term flings and hookups. There's also the fact that women spend most of their life never facing any consequences for... pretty much everything, so as a result they tend to mistake people's inability to think ahead as "confidence", because to them, the concept of facing a consequence for one's actions and behaviour doesn't exist, so the guy who just treats people badly and does dangerous things like get in fights, drive r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:56 PM
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And what were they doing with those "fat stacks of cash", miss? Were they using that money to purchase a home, develop close ties within their community, investing in the NASDAQ, building a family, etc? Or were they blowing it on blow, booze, video games, sports cars, strippers, and other assorted largely asocial creature comforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:52 PM
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Care about what? Others? Do you have to have a wife or child to care about others? I care about my individual friends. What you're asking me to do is care about "society" as a whole, and one that has made it abundantly clear that it does not care about me. Nobody is given anything. Everyone has to apply and try to create their life. You really won't like it when you find out that the average woman is a net drain on taxes from birth till death then lol Because they live in society and benefit fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:48 PM
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Haha but like here's the thing, I'm just like haha, I'm not gonna go haha! I knooooooww! I knooooowwww, but just like, I'm not gonna go haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:31 PM
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The military defends the entire country. Not just your wife and children. Okay. As a single man living in a shared apartment with no wife or kids, why should I care? A dangerous job benefits the entire country. Not just your wife and children. Okay. As a single man living in a shared apartment with no wife or kids, why should I care? Once again, the argument becomes, "men won't do anything without the promise of pussy." It has nothing to do with "the promise of pussy". If men aren't given any wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:22 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of people going "oh you're just bitter blackpilled engagement bait etc" but I'm not seeing anyone saying he's wrong. Very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:14 PM
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Yeah, that's completely different in every way and you know that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:16 PM
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Yeah, and she's not gonna like him when she finds out he lives at home. It's not the 1950s anymore, I hate to be the one informing you of this - when you have access to such a huge selection of guys, you're not gonna settle for some broke dude who lives at home still.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:36 PM
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It does not - why settle for a guy who still lives with his parents when you can pick a guy who has his own place? Things like that have always been dividers, and with such an abundance of options, it's even more noticeable. I mean, let me ask you; let's pretend you're 22. Who are you going to date - the guy who still lives with his parents and has to deal with them if you'd ever come over (or even worse, hang out in his room like you're 14), or the guy who moved out? I'll give you a hint: the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:00 PM
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I hang out with friends all the time, men and women. I can't think of anything that would make a pussy drier than finding out a guy still lives with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:40 PM
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Friend groups don't really have SA allegations going around. Lmao, wrong. My mid 20s friend group had a dude in it who had like a bunch of allegations/groping/etc but he was tall and good looking so he got away with it a lot. Sometimes the women in the friend group who said he SA'd them would still hook up with him again even lol (For clarification, I was not friends with this guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:35 PM
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Bullshit. Lots of people are still living at home. Most people understand that this is a reality for lots of twenty somethings. Not quite. That's fine if you're a woman. If you're a guy, you will never ever get laid while you still live at home. The rules are simply different and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:05 PM
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You uh, you don't actually know what gatekeeping means, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:05 PM
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No, it's not. It's a free to play mobile game. Free to play mobile games ARE the Marvel movies of games jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:00 PM
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...no, it's saying that there's a difference in design, target audience, marketing, budget, community etc between dedicated enthusiasts and casual fans. It's the difference between people who know a few Eminem singles and people who know a J Dilla beat when they hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 PM
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Okay? Saying people who play Dark Souls religiously and people who play Candy Crush on the toilet are both "gamers" is like saying people who watch 3 Marvel movies a year and people who know who Tarkovsky is are both "cinemaphiles".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:31 PM
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And I bet when you met in college and you were both broke, you still weren't the one paying for things, were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:30 AM
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It’s still much easier to live on two incomes than one income. Sure, but you're not going to get that unless you're both upper middle class making six figure salaries. The average man is just going to be paying for 90% of the expenses in a relationship and end up in a worse situation. Right now, I make more money than I ever have in my life but I'm broker than I ever was in the past because dating means you have to buy so much useless shit and extra frills. Even just going out for a cheap order …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:08 AM
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This OP presumes men who want to take on the primary financial burden are the norm It IS the norm. If you're a man, you pretty much finance your girlfriend. "His money is our money, my money is my money", after all. we both make around 200k or more You are absolutely NOT the standard, hence the disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:11 AM
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Right. The first dates aka the ones that the man will have to go on the most and form the majority of most people's dating life until they find a solid partner. Who do you think you're sneaking this one by?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:51 PM
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Again. You. Don't Know. What. Social. Shaming. Is. It's absolutely hilarious though to see you completely make up an entire false narrative about me saying that I think all women are hookers and that the entire reason a man would date is sex (something I never even came close to), whilst in the same post saying you didn't socially shame me lmao. You're straight up doing the exact "EWW WEIRDO CREEPY LOSER UGH LOOK AT THIS CREEP UGHHH" shit I just fucking called you out on lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:36 PM
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See? Here you go making weird assumptions again. She was a chubby nerd girl a year younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:34 PM
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You don't know what social shaming is, hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:33 PM
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I never said anything of the sort. Take your soul sister le empowered BS rhetoric back to 2XC, this ain't fucking Tumblr. Nobody's buying the junk you're trying to sell. What I said, once again, was that a woman who deliberately tries to make a relationship highly transactional, as you advocated for, is a woman likening herself to a prostitute. Please go find the part where I said that the only value that men see in dating etc is sex. Go on, do it right now. You've so confidentially said it, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:30 PM
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You believe taking a woman on a date is the same as going down Figueroa street to pick up a hooker. No, I never said that in a million years. What I said, if you'll go back and stop disingenuously putting words in my mouth, is that a woman who wants you to pay for ALL the dates, as you advocated for, is a woman who's actions are likened to that of a prostitutes. Again, BS attempts to put words in my mouth and BS social shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:25 PM
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I went back through this conversation thread to check because while I have seen women say words to that effect, I didn't remember this woman as having said that, and I am in fact correct. So if she said that somewhere else in the comments please point me at it. YOU said it. Right there, in the post you quote next. An example. Of one way that a dude could show he was willing and able to give his date "good treatment". Not for the purchase of her time regardless of her enjoyment, not to purchase h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:24 PM
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Yeah, see, check this out gigabrain: that doesn't work as a snappy comeback because I haven't been online since I sent that message, as you can see from my posting history, while you were actively posting for hours on the rest of Reddit. I literally just got off work like 10 minutes ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:11 PM
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You understand you're ridiculous, right? This is not "two people trying to get to know each other" because they're not approaching on an honest level. This is someone with an ego the size of the sun saying "My mere presence is so valuable that you should pay me for spending time with you". You are completely failing to understand how that is almost identical logic to that of a hooker - "I have something you want, and that something is me - pay me for it".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:34 AM
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Yoohoo, @PracticalControl2179, what's going on? I see you've been posting nonstop, commenting up a storm, yet I still see no explanation how "men should pay for the dates" is different from being a hooker. Just thought I'd give you a friendly reminder since I'm since it slipped your mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:31 AM
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You do realize just because someone is tall doesn’t make them attractive right? Half the women in my mid 20s friend group were fucked by a guy with crooked af teeth who would drop hard R n-bombs in public and slip the condom off during sex but he was 6'3". I'm 5'7" and one time I was talking to a girl, it was going well, then he showed up to the party and she started ignoring me to talk to him instead for the rest of the night. It's actually insane what an aphrodisiac height is and most men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:31 PM
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Nothing is more dangerous to a woman's argument style than a high functioning autistic man like myself. We're completely immune to the social shaming bullshit and they just straight up shut down every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:09 PM
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So, just to sum up: the main difference between a hooker and her dating approach is that the hooker actually offers a guaranteed ROI and everything is laid out openly on the table instead of being a covert narcissistic transaction? Interesting. Not sure if that's the point you meant to make, but... interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:08 PM
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See, here's the thing - you didn't actually explain how it's different, though. You're essentially saying "I'm so good that I deserved to be financially compensated for my presence", and then acting with shock when you find that these actions are being likened to that of a prostitute. Surely, you'd be able to explain the difference between these two sets of behaviour if the difference is so self-apparent, right? But instead, you make weird social shaming insults and just go "oh well if you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:11 PM
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Okay well that's a stupid thing to think because it literally has nothing to do with the discussion topic at hand whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:31 PM
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I didn't know crying in front of my now ex-gf about the death of my father on the day he died was "unleashing the tension from my hardships".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:16 PM
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"Men have hardships, women most affected" 🙄 😒 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:05 PM
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"Serious question: what are the downsides of gambling? And don't say losing, that's a different thing." Absolutely incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:00 PM
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Explain in your own words how "men should pay for the dates" is different from being a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:58 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:55 PM
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You are not a leftist. Whatever you say 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:57 PM
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It's amazing how you so completely lack any level of self-awareness and think you don't look like the most pathetic joyless lump right now lol. Look buck, take your sad little finger wagging elsewhere, alright? Not playing your game. Which, by the way, I have to remind you again, was all you spazzing out about a joke shitpost tweet that I didn't even originally make. You're literally the iconic obnoxious cancer that kills every single actual leftist movement and I fucking hate seeing people like…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:48 PM
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So like, are you just combing through my entire history to try and find shit that might even slightly fit? You know how pathetic that is, right? This is kinda what I meant when I said you're exhausting and joyless. Also keep in mind that your whole weird screed is in reply to me posting a shitpost tweet I didn't even originally write, you goober.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:35 PM
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Cuz it is? Hell, even in that old thread you pulled up, I'm not hating women or anything, I'm just sad and feeling like I missed the boat. You've literally demonstrated nothing at all that says I'm "bitter" towards women in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:23 PM
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See, here you go making weird self-righteous assumptions about me based upon nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:16 PM
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Yeah you're pulling up a post I made years ago when I was in the midst of suicidal depression after I lost my job and my housing due to COVID. You really owned me bro 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:48 PM
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You seem like a really exhausting and incredibly joyless person to deal with. You know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:29 PM
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I'm a leftist social democrat, so yes, I would actually love to know how you can apparently tell this!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:06 PM
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"If all the populations immigrating were only petite Asian women and thick Latinas, liberal women would be forming SS squads overnight."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:44 PM
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OP... You're dating an abornmally tall gender fluid AFAB. Your understanding of the "average person" is flawed as well, because that is far from the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:59 PM
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Yep, preppy good girls never ever date thugmaxxed guys to piss off daddy. Nope, never happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:57 PM
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Very sane and nuanced post, not bait at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:40 PM
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Are you claiming that you have never seen anyone on this sub argue that if someone doesn't suck his dick soon, Godzilla is gonna crush the city? Please debate against my completely fictional proxy fae I pulled from the ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:32 AM
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This entire post is completely pointless. Any time someone says "this is illogical" or "nobody is saying that", you just reply with "LE REDPILLERS SAY THAT". Not even particular redpillers or anything either, just some vague strawman ghost. You're not even actually debating, you're making people debate a fictional person via proxy. It's pretty ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:40 PM
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Dude, it's completely irrelevant if a guy in his 60s met his wife 40 years ago. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:36 PM
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You mean the site where leaks revealed that there's almost no actual women on the site and it was a combination of bots and paid employees?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:34 PM
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Because they got married back when they were 28 and kept thinking they still had the marketplace value and attractiveness of a 28 year old only to be hit by reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:25 PM
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And I did address your sexist lies and you had no response whatsoever. Interesting. Almost as if you're a misandrist troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:50 PM
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"Her money is her money. His money is our money."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:23 PM
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No sweetie, men don't care enough to fight their own problems. No one is stopping you from opening a shelter. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman This man opened the first (and only) men's shelter for men suffering domestic abuse. In response, he was constantly mocked, refused any form of funding, and subject to protests, leading to the shelter's closure and his bankruptcy, leading to his suicide. So my question to you would be why you're spouting such a brazen lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:53 PM
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a lot of men also overstate their financial value. 70k a year, there’s not much gold to dig for. This is, yet again, a complete failure to understand how gold digging works. You don't need to have a lot of money - you just need to have more than she does. A homeless woman could gold dig a guy working at McDonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:33 PM
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Sack up and grow a backbone, unless she’s holding you at gunpoint, you’re not being forced to part with your money. The same way that landlords or grocery stores or hospitals etc aren't forcing me to part with my money on a "technical" level?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:23 PM
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Look at the men in kpop groups, c/kdrama romances 1) the women who are into those are teenage girls, not women 2) most of those guys aren't feminine anyway - women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "feminine" and the way a lot of asian sex workers aimed at women act and dress. That's a completely different cultural thing in part because in places like Japan, big muscle manly men are the gay stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:43 PM
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Ummm, source? Uhmm, source please? Peer reviewed study please? 🤓 Why don't you ask for scientific peer reviewed papers about the sky being blue while you're at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:39 PM
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Smart money says she bailed because she wanted you to sub to her Onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:37 PM
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Some women prefer overly masculine men while others prefer a moderate amount of masculinity and some may even prefer a more feminine one. And some women would be delighted if you shat on the floor in front of them but let's not pretend that they make up anything even close to a reasonable amount. Same thing as women who like feminine guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:36 PM
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All the time because it's literally true. As a shortish twinky looking guy, I've had to deal with it all the time. One time I was staying over at my (now ex) gf's place and she thought I was asleep - I literally heard her apologize to her friend for me not being masculine enough. Most women assume you're gay or asexual. It sucks. There's no body positivity movement for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:35 PM
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No, nerd girls aren't lusting after the guy on the chess team, they're lusting after the quarterback - and they'll get to fuck him at least once, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:52 PM
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You know, except for them reporting record levels of unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:40 PM
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Your being intentionally um……….whats the nice word for dumb. I think the term is "willfully ignorant". You could also say facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:36 PM
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Haha like why is the general well-being of 50% of the human race something you care about? Lmao like how does the actions of those who make up the fabric of society affect you personally dude???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:31 PM
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Playing a lot of Deus Ex, op?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:39 PM
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Hell I'd go beyond "modern woman" and just outright be a slut. There's no downside whatsoever to it in this day and age - in fact, it's rewarded. You're far more likely to be "prude shamed" than slutshamed unless you live in like, Saudi Arabia or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:22 PM
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We're comparing villainous characters, so it makes sense to stick with Harley, Lady D, Juri, etc. It's not the same thing because, once again, men are jerking off thinking about fucking them, not having relationships with them. Women are looking at Christian Grey, Loki, Khal Drogo, J.D. from Heathers, Kyle Ren, etc and they're not thinking about having torrid fuckfests with them, they're fantasizing about being the one who dates and tames them. Drogo is maybe one of the most obvious ones - his e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:10 PM
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Guys jerk off to Lady Dimitrescu because they like being stepped on by a 12 foot tall vampire lady, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Guys jerk off to Juri Han because she's just Harley Quinn for foot fetishists, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Guys jerk off to Ada Wong because she's a sexy aloof Chinese woman with long legs, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Etc etc etc. Are you getting the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:38 PM
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You have completely and fundamentally missed the entire point I was making. Guys jerk off to Harley because she's hot. They simply imagine fucking her. Women are inserting themselves into the 50 Shades of Grey story, they imagine having a relationship with Christian Grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:29 PM
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And then the audacity to use Fifty Shades of Grey as an example of women being attractive to abusive assholes, but then give excuses why Harley Quinn being a top porn tag doesn’t show that men like psycho girls who date abusive psycho men. This is a terrible comparison. Guys jack off to Harley Quinn; they don't fantasize about dating and marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:00 PM
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I've never been to a gym that lets guys work out shirtless. I'm pretty sure those only exist in Billy Herrington films.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:10 PM
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If you want to do OLD, I've found that Instagram and DMs have a 10x better result rate when you have a good profile. I have never understood how you would ever use Instagram as a dating tool. Like, what? First off, you have to live in a major city, and then what? You search by a hashtag for some location or event, see people who posted under that hashtag, then try to DM them? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:38 PM
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And? We live in a world where that's fierce and empowering and if you somehow ever did get fired for it, all you have to do is make a GoFundMe and roll in the pity dough and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:35 AM
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For example, if I see Her at a party, I can just go over and start talking about anything. I don't even need to introduce myself, lay out my intentions or create some excuse; it's fully expected that strangers will socially interact. You could not be more wrong if you tried. The result is actually "Uh, why are you talking to me? Who the fuck are you?". If women could block people and set their accounts to private in real life, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:13 PM
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Only if she’s an idiot. Women don’t just want to fuck, they want to fuck and do activities together and enjoy spending time with one another. That’s really important to women. Yeah, that's why they date multiple guys at once. Or just do the acitivies with their friends. Like a lot of guys, my best features can be gotten by just being my friend, so why date me? It makes more sense for a woman to get banged out by a himbo on the Saturday and hang out with friends on a Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 PM
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"Women have two eyes and 10 fingers." "Nuh-uh! How can you make such a blatantly false blanket statement?! I know a woman who has 9 fingers!" This is you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:45 PM
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There's something else those two women have in common besides being women - they're both rich and powerful nepo babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:20 PM
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What is "around your age" for starters?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:07 AM
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1: that's absolutely insane time investment that relies entirely on pure luck 2: I'm pretty sure most women would rather say they met their boyfriend while doing lines in a club bathroom than say "My grandma met him while they were both doing volunteer work"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:57 PM
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Well, that depends what type you’re joining. There’s activity and age focused ones out there and ones for singles. As I said; you've literally never gone to a Meetup group. The groups for singles are for middle aged people or like Christian/Muslim/etc groups. All the activity focused ones are young guys and middle aged women. I'm focusing on "one of your points" because the rest of your points are equally as vapid. Do you know any MEN (not women, MEN) who met their partner by "getting a hobby" o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:56 PM
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My gf is so tiny when we haven't seen each other for a few days I always pick her up in a bear hug and just swing her around or carry her a bit. It's adorable and she loves it. Sometimes I also tease her by putting stuff on high shelves where she can't reach it. She says she hates it but I get a laugh every time. It's never about the actual gf or their attribute bragged about, it's always about meeeee lmao no man has ever said anything like this, this is how a woman speaks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:49 PM
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Way more average men with attractive women everywhere in the world. The other way around doesn’t remotely happen as much. Because you're a woman and to you every other woman is a 8/10 at minimum and every guy except the one you're currently dating is a 5/10 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:25 PM
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Join meetup groups I swear to fucking god. People who say this have never actually gone to a Meetup group. The only women who go to Meetup groups are middle aged married moms looking to get out of the house a bit. You will never EVER see a young woman at a Meetup group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:40 PM
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You can affect things all you want, that doesn't make it your fault if you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:48 AM
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It's nobody's fault, it's just a thing that happens sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:21 PM
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The more women in a friend group, the more likely you are to NEVER date them because they don't want to deal with the drama that would come with dating someone in a friend group and breaking up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:04 PM
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Casual friendships are awesome, that doesn't mean we want a relationship or sex, see this is why we have to be careful and even a little bit closed off and bitchy around men because y'all will interpret us being nice to you and engaging with you as us wanting you. Or, you know. Just say "Aw, that's sweet but I'm not really interested, sorry!" and move on with your day? Why do you think the only two possible options are "say yes to fucking him" or "be an incredibly rude and mean person"? Given th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:00 PM
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You absolutely have the right to say no. You don't really have the right to insult him and tell him he has a tiny limp dick. My point is why was he asking out a 19 year old girl AT WORK? 1) How could he have possibly known your age 2) Because you kept having polite conversations about shared interests and he thought maybe you actually enjoyed his company, so he nicely asked you out? If I'm being honest, if it was an 18-25 year old boy I was attracted to would I have been all over it? Yeah idk if…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:46 PM
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"Had he done something completely different that literally would not have been him taking a chance in asking me out, I'd have been happy!". He wasn't TRYING to just give you a random baseless compliment and leave, he was trying to ask you out. You have incredibly strong "But how does this affect me, the most important person in the world?" energy to you. Men you don't personally consider your 10/10 dream Chads still exist in this world, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:23 PM
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He had lots of conversations you and one day he thought he'd ask you out for coffee because he thought you were also enjoying those conversations and assumed you were a well-adjusted normal human being and not a person who appears to literally get off on being cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:29 AM
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Please answer a question for me: Are 18+ women adults with the ability to make their own decisions, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:20 AM
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Just because I lusted over early 30s Green Day didn't mean boring Bob in finance had a shot with me. This isn't really a fair comparison at all. Boring Bob in finance was probably ALWAYS boring, even when he was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:22 PM
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Dude I literally said the thing I would say. If I had to hit on woman who literally has no information, I'd just say a shitpost to her as an ice breaker because what else should I say? I have nothing else to go on, so you really shouldn't be trying so hard like in your messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:36 PM
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Yeah I was making a joke. If someone has nothing to go on for a profile I wouldn't bother talking to them because I'm not so desperate for a whiff of pussy that I need to make a jester out of myself for a woman who can't even post a clear picture of her face or any real personal details on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:21 PM
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Uh, I was? She was a nerdy STEM major. Women SAY they want men to open up and cry and blah blah blah, but even the most self-declared feminists I know will tell guys who are depressed to man up etc. It's straight up unattractive behaviour and every man will tell you a story about how he made a mistake opening up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:07 PM
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"My dad fucks me 😎"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:01 PM
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In my longest term relationship, I cried about my dad dying on the day it happened in front of my girlfriend. It completely killed my relationship. I've had other girlfriends straight up say things like that they "hate that women are expected to do emotional labor in relationships" completely out of nowhere. Women don't want to see that shit and it WILL ruin your relationship, no matter what they say. Every man will tell you they made the same mistake of opening up to their gf and it cost them e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:00 PM
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Really strong "please m'lady, just a whiff! A mere crumb..." to your suggestions bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:21 PM
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I just don’t see this world of shy, quiet women wanting super sociable men that you describe. The nerdy guy in school dreams of being with the nerdy girl in his drama class. The nerdy girl in school dreams of being with the quarterback.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:59 PM
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assuming every woman wants the exact same thing in a partner You're right. Some women want tall jacked chad, and some want tall skinny chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:01 PM
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They advocated to stop the draft when women became eligible for the draft. And as for the former, I'm still circumcised, so they didn't do a good job of that. Frankly I've never heard any feminist talk about male circumcision tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:34 PM
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No, that's one very specific Chad archetype. There's many and many types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:21 PM
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Yeah. You can fuck someone without being in a serious relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:21 PM
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Wow, that's a LOT of projection about the relationships of someone you literally know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:10 PM
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What do YOU think Chad is then? A Chad is an attractive masculine man who is good with women. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:09 PM
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I'm not even a redpiller. I literally asked the question earlier - if fat average dick was so great, why was he just a hookup while biggus dickus was the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:08 PM
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What else is there to say? "I will never date an attractive man because I grew up with a father". Uh, okay. Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:05 PM
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Then the point is still the same!!! You're just playing stupid word games!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:01 PM
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I have a father and therefore no Chads will ever get near me. Lol Lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:59 PM
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That's not a gotcha. I'd fuck lots of people I wouldn't take life advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:58 PM
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Okay, so what IS the other way to interpret it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:57 PM
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Yes? If you can't get any dates, it's a you problem, not a society problem. Presumably you feel the same that if someone can't find work or housing, it's a "them" problem and there's nothing wrong with society, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:56 PM
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What are you getting out of this disingenuous bullshit? You described one guy as being dated, and one as a hookup. That's literally the only way to interpret things. If that's not the case, you don't get to improperly use English and then have le epic clapbacks when people take your words at face value. Words have meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:53 PM
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Probably the part where you said she dated the latter for a while and hooked up with the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:48 PM
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You're literally one of the most bluepilled contrarians on this sub, you'll have to forgive me if I don't believe you in the slightest. If Chubby McAverage Dick was so amazing, why was he a one night stand while Biggus Dickus got to be the boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:44 PM
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Shots fired
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:25 PM
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So if a man came up to you and complimented your shoes, you wouldn't think he's either gay or a foot fetishist? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:59 PM
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So it's a bookclub, on university campus, using university campus rooms and supplies, ostensibly FOR university students, but you don't have to be a university student at all to go? That makes sense. Also, how would you know it's all students and young professionals when you just said you have no idea how old the people who go to it are? You're really having trouble sticking to one story here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:44 PM
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They also require you TO BE A MEMBER OF THE UNIVERSITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:31 PM
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Then how do you know they're "definitely not forty year olds"? Your contrarianism can't even be logically consistent!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:28 PM
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I've said it a million times before and I'll say it a million times again: It's funny how everyone always "knows" some balding 5'4" janitor who slays, but nobody ever actually IS that bald midget janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:25 PM
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Larry David isn’t a sex symbol I agree, but he never had a problem getting a hot girlfriend even before he was rich. Larry David looked like this <image> Somehow I doubt the man was crushing pussy because he was just oh-so-funny. Interestingly enough, this was actually directly mentioned by Gottfried! It was something like "Oh, you think funny guys are attractive? You know who's hilarious? Larry David. I'll hook you up with a grumpy old ascerbic Jewish guy who's balding, I know a million of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:07 PM
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Age is incredibly relevant - we're talking about DATING. If someone is looking to meet a partner, you don't tell them to go check out their local diner at early bird special times. See, this is something you do a lot and it's frankly kind of annoying. Everything you post, say, and experience has to be the exact opposite of what everyone else has experienced, and even presented with evidence from the bookclubs themselves, you still have to be a contrarian. In what way are the bookclubs around you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:03 PM
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What bookclub do you think is attracting young single women? BookBrowse, an online magazine for book lovers, combined responses from its annual survey last summer with its fifteen years of experience with book clubs to create the white paper entitled, “Book Clubs in the USA.” The results may give libraries some insight into how they run or provide for local book clubs. Of the over-3,600 responses, 80 percent were over age forty-five, and 93 percent were female. You can pretend that there's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:41 PM
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That doesn't mean they WANT it to happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:27 PM
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Even bookclubs complain about how old all their membership skews, dude. Do you think you're gonna find 25 year old women at a bookclub? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:25 PM
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They literally don't. Funny HOT guys pull hot girls all the time. When you're hot, women will literally laugh at anything you say. Larry David is one of the funniest people who ever lived. But women aren't touching themselves to pictures of Larry David and wishing they could marry him. Even famous comedians like Gilbert Gottfried have called out the "women love funny guys!" narrative as bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:24 PM
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That'd be a great way for him to meet a 68 year old retired granny, but I imagine he wants to meet someone who isn't elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:30 PM
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But when actually approached, they hate it and complain. I've never once heard a single woman say they wish that more random men would approach them in public, and I don't think most men have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:26 PM
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Women can get dates literally doing anything anywhere. Why would a man want to date a woman who is so unlikable and unattractive that she has to rely on singles events to find a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:15 PM
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"She has a great personality", "He's actually really funny", etc are all just nice ways of saying "they're ugly" and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:12 PM
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Keep in mind that when women "who are introverted go out of their comfort zones", what it actually means is they just stand in a corner at a party and let the endless streams of guys approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:11 PM
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You didn't have to say that directly. The fact that you think most guys don't pay entirely for the dates or don't want to commit says it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:10 PM
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No, it's not. It's a very common archetype that people meet everywhere. You've literally never known a woman who is SO sure that "this guy is the one!" and then is crying two months later about how all men are fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:08 PM
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It can honestly be something as simple as complimenting a part of a woman’s outfit, like her shoes, rather than commenting on her overall appearance, and maybe asking where she got them to engage her interest in further conversation. That's a great way to come off as either gay or a footchad to random women. Lmao, come on. Edit: just saw you're a woman. That makes sense you'd suggest this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:56 PM
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The average man does NOT date with no issues. This is why there's significantly more single men than there are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:22 PM
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How many guys with "female friends" do you know who have ever bought over a 6 pack for the boys, ordered takeout, helped them move or mow the lawn, wingmanned them, etc. Because those are all things that guys do for their guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:18 PM
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??? Women think if they matched with a guy, they're in. I mean, they're 10/10 queens who deserve nothing better than the best, and Chad is the best, so therefore it's love forever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:14 PM
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And? That doesn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:08 PM
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You also can't leave the military when you feel like it. It's not just a job you can quit on a dime without severe penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:44 PM
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Did you miss the other user's flare? That's a woman you're talking to, not a man. That explains everything now, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:37 PM
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That's a lot of ways for you to say "I only date top tier guys who won't commit to me". Nearly every male friend I have would love nothing more than to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:56 PM
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They do those user base percentages as snapshots at the moment, they're not averaging them out over two years and removing duplicates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:51 PM
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But it is something you can do, compared to height/penis size/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:50 PM
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What are you talking about? Brad is tall and hunky and dreamy, he's gonna be the one!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:48 PM
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"Is there a significant relationship between being a jacked muscular guy and getting women?" What an odd thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:46 PM
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No, he has to keep using it to set up other dates because there's a huge chance she'll just ghost when a better option for her comes along. I once set up four dates in the same week and I was glad I did because three of them ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:42 PM
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This is pretty similar to something I've asked before: What do you think a woman is more likely to remember, cherish, and talk about with her friends - the time a jacked tall Chad jackhammer fucked her hard until HE came then kicked her out to the cab, or the time Bobby Beta ate her pussy until she came? There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:40 PM
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there’s some childhood shit that they need therapy for Have you MET white women in a big city? That's literally all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:37 PM
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You can’t undo a baby. Um.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:35 PM
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I think they made a typo and meant "attracted".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:24 PM
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Because most people will tell you that's not the case? There's been tons of discussion about this before. If your personal experience differs, then sure good for you. Even celebrities have weighed in on this - Amber Rose infamously tweeted "Women fuck who they want. Men fuck who they can. Remember this."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:20 PM
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Congrats? I don't know what you want me to tell you. As someone who has had a lot of female friends over the years, things have been very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:10 PM
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Strange how so many women have stories to tell about hooking up with "fuckboys" who ghosted them afterwards but you've never heard a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:04 PM
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How could you possibly know who is having one night stands with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:59 PM
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Okay. Couples are literally not relevant to what I was saying. I said "sleep with, not date" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:55 PM
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Based on...? Because that is definitely a major issue with online dating especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:37 PM
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No, that's not the case. Most average women can land above average guys. Of course, this is almost always just for them to sleep with, not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:24 PM
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An insane and unhinged point, but a point, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:42 PM
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Like I mentioned before older people have nieces and daughters and granddaughters. I have seen fix ups occur in my volunteer work. And that would be basically the MOST embarrassing way to meet a guy. Can you imagine being a young woman and having to tell your friends that you met a guy because your aunt talked to him a bunch at a soup kitchen or something? Most women would rather tell their friends they met him in a club bathroom than that ffs. Not to mention she likely wouldn't even want to mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:09 PM
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Nobody was ever saying that you walk up to a woman and say "You hot. We date now?". But you're looking at this from the perspective of a woman where you never have to do any kind of approaching and it's really annoying tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:57 PM
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Yes, because the women don't have to stay on the apps, they can snap up a guy quickly and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:42 PM
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Most people are not software engineers and corporate people though, despite what Reddit might have you think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:56 PM
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(esp with most male dominated jobs being remote nowadays unlike female dominated ones like teaching) Lmao WHAT Yeah lemme just go "remotely" fix my client's HVAC system and repair their chimney liner via a Zoom call My buddy can fix your car engine via Slack, then work his second job as a line chef and give you your food via MS Teams. His brother does a great job of working on an oil rig and repairing power lines over Google Chat btw! You have zero clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:59 PM
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You're a queer WOMAN. Don't act like it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:55 PM
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As a queer guy who has gone to gay bars in the past; no. Stop invading our space.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 PM
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Because they like to force their way into our spaces. Straight women hate being told "no" and will literally grab gay guy's cocks "as a joke".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:42 PM
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Because that's rare and tbh a bunch of women deliberately ditching their boyfriends to go out clubbing would be a HUGE red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:50 PM
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Uh... mmm... really? Yep. If anything the main thing that sticks out about her in my mind is just how incredibly "normie" she was. Like, loves Starbucks drinks, Pinterest, and Marvel movies. As normie as normie can be. Wut. Not... not sure what you want me to explain. She saw me sob in front of her a bunch about my dad and she no longer saw me as a cool and collected protector-type or whatever. Sexual attraction to me went 📉 and never recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:43 PM
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She was a totally normal average woman. Most guys will tell you similar stories. Once I cried in front of her over my dad dying, she rapidly lost all sexual attraction towards me. We went from having sex twice a week to maybe once a month and she became more and more distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:37 PM
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Going to a club with your girlfriend isn't even in the same ballpark as someone going to the club with their single friends and leaving their partner at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:19 PM
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This is a really fun little narrative you've completely crafted wholecloth about me. You done yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:18 PM
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I live in a college town, I go to the bars all the time. Boston ain't a sexy town What's "sexy" about the hipster bars you went to? Young people, alcohol, and dancing, compared to fat boomers in their 50s yelling at the TV
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:17 PM
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It's not really lying, it's just putting your best foot forward. If I get a really flattering haircut + shave that suits my face perfectly, am I "lying"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:13 PM
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Trick question there's no such thing as a non-boomer sports bar. The point I was making is that going to Chilis to have a few Budweisers while people yell at the football game isn't even remotely the same thing as going to a sleek hipster college bar, even though they are legally both "bars".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:57 PM
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We're talking more about clubs than bars, but a bar 100% can be a very sexually charged environment. You're thinking of boomer sports bars and extrapolating that to all bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 PM
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You understand the overwhelming majority of relationships start other places right? Actually that's not true at all, close to the majority of relationships are started online. https://news.sky.com/story/finding-love-online-more-than-half-of-couples-set-to-meet-via-the-internet-11871341
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:47 PM
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How did a white man being in power of the country prevent me from being poverty-stricken and homeless for a chunk of my life? (It didn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:45 PM
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Right. They go out to meet strangers in a sexually charged environment where there's lots of alcohol (and drugs) involved. Not hard to see why people would see that as code word for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:43 PM
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Because that's what the whole point of bars but especially clubs are - to meet other people. If all she wants to do if have a few drinks and dance with her friends, she'd just host a party at her place and invite her girls over. Much the same way where if all I wanted was a drink with my buddy, I'd pick up a six pack instead of going to the bar and paying three times as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:31 PM
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That I couldn't say but I watched it happen with my parents' own marriage even. It's very common across many cultures - in Japan, they say "the man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck" because she actually controls everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:20 PM
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I literally had my longest relationship collapse because I cried in front of my girlfriend about my dad dying twice, one of those times on the day he died. So no, it's absolutely a real problem and lots of men will tell you they experienced the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:14 PM
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No, super low value men with no standards or perspective say "men would be happy to date anyone". I am not one of those men - I have a lovely girlfriend whom I care about deeply and she meets most of my standards (not all, because nobody is perfect), and I meet most of her standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:06 PM
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Yes absolutely. Cheating is never justified - even in a sympathetic situation like cheating on an abuser, the solution is to get away from the abuser, not link up with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:04 PM
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* Won't give you the EXACT same sexual experience as her previous bf (or else she doesn't really want you!) This one is 100% true so weird to start off with it. * Travels (because she's traveling to CHEAT on you!) Depends on the trip. A trip to go clubbing with the girls in Ibiza or Jamaica is very different from a trip to backpack through Japan. * Goes dancing (because she's looking for men to CHEAT with) Yeah pretty much. She's going out clubbing and drinking with her single female friends. * …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 PM
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She won't know you cooked her dinner unless you tell her? She can't tell from the pots on the stove, the lack of boxes, the fact that you invited her over to cook dinner? This one is a bit more obvious then the taco one, I'll grant you that. But she has no way of knowing you didn't just dump some Olive Garden in a pot It literally isn't and the fact that you assume it is really explains a lot. It literally is! As I just said, you can find hundreds and hundreds of examples all throughout media an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:49 PM
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I... I literally just answered your question very directly. I don't know what else you want me to say? You asked me what card I thought you were playing, and I answered that directly - you're playing the "women are perfect and pure little angels who don't know what sex is and men are dirty perverts" card. Like what question did I "skip over"? Tell me and I'll answer it on a spot. Also, not a redpiller lmao. Not everyone who disagrees with you is a redpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:23 PM
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You are very hung up on being required to spend three hours making a sauce despite me already telling you that's not a requirement. The point is to make an effort. And MY point was that she won't possibly known you made that effort unless you tell her. Believe it or not, not everything is code for sex. But asking someone to come over to your place "for a drink" or "for dinner" literally is code for sex! It has been since before the time of our parents. For the absolute longest time, it wasn't po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:16 PM
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Because you probably would have! "Wanna come over to my place for a drink?" has been a known quantity since before our parents were born. Everyone knows exactly what it means. I ask you, how many times have you gone over to a romantic interests' place for dinner and it didn't result in sex? And again what "card" am I playing? That nothing sexual or romantic is ever implied when a woman goes over to her man's place "for drinks" or "a movie" and that anyone who thinks otherwise is a dirty minded c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:04 PM
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Bro, if you don't want to cook for women, no one is forcing you. Nobody said that they were forcing you! Because she likes hanging out with you. Are we really doing this shit where we're gonna pretend that nobody knows exactly what it means when a romantic partner is invited over to someone's house "for drinks" or "for a movie"? Come the fuck on. Next thing you know you're gonna tell me that when a rockstar invites a woman to his hotel room after the concert, it's just to play dominoes and there…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:11 AM
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No, I didn't, but I'm confused about your entire point now. You talked about things being "high effort". I said that she has no way of knowing how much effort you put in. You protested a bunch and now you agree that she has no way of knowing how much effort you put in. So I'm frankly just very confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:07 AM
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No, YOU'RE making a strawman argument. I never once ever said you were "leading people on". But how many times have you gone over to a romantic partner's place for a dinner date and it didn't end in sex? Or you went into it without any possibility of having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:06 AM
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So in the end, you agree with me? Interesting. Took a while but at least we got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:04 AM
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...Yes, exactly. How would she possibly know that you spent tons of time and effort finding the perfect local taco place, combing through reviews and menus and word of mouth, unless you outright told her (Which is obviously a huge no-no)? As far as she knows, you just punched in "taco places" into Google Maps and picked the first result.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 AM
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They don't always ask, but she cares that you took the time (whether it's 3 hours or 30 minutes) to make something. In my experience, women were generally very curious about how I make the sauce and pasta. Being curious about how you let pasta sauce simmer for three hours =/= turning them on Not only is that not true, but even if it is, you think you're going to entice her to come over to your place so you can eat Michelin star takeout? Why would she even be coming over to your place if that was…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:59 AM
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No, she cares that you showed her something interesting and enjoyable. Right. My point is how would she ever know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:55 AM
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What? What are you even talking about? Are you having a stroke or something? I said that if you come over to someone's place "for dinner", it means the covert social contract is that sex is on the table. Your interpretation of this seems to be that I assume that sex is GUARANTEED and I will lock the door and assault her otherwise. You're absolutely fucking ridiculous and I don't know who you think you're trolling or fooling right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:41 PM
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Okay you're being ridiculous. If someone comes over to your place "for dinner" or "for drinks" or "for a movie", it means the covert social contract that sex is on the table (and in fact is likely) is in place. It does not mean that sex is a 100% confirmed thing and they consented to sex by coming over for dinner. Come the fuck on. Stop being fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:35 PM
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If you're expecting to be "rewarded" on a date, yeah it probably doesn't matter where you take her. You're the one who literally was talking about effort. You called it "high effort". You know what putting in, quote, "high effort" with no return or acknowledgment makes you? A sucker. It's always great when red pillers acknowledge they have no idea what they're talking about without even realizing it. I'm not even redpilled at all. Also, this isn't actually a rebuttal. Do you think she cares or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:33 PM
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Yeah man there's totally women out there getting wet and horny because a guy simmered a pasta sauce for three hours. 1) How would she even know unless you told her? (this is very low value and unattractive behavior) 2) If she's coming over to your place for dinner she's already gonna have sex with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:31 PM
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For dinner like I said? Riiiigghht. Just like how an invitation to come over for a beer and a movie is just a movie and a beer, nothing else! Do you even believe what you're saying right now? Assuming any of this automatically means sex will happen is a good way to get put in jail lol Uh that's a bit of a jump, innit? How do you figure that? Everyone knows what it means, stop trying to pretend that the implications aren't obvious. Or are you the kind of person who would agree to meet a celebrity…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:27 PM
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Why else would you be going over to his place for dinner? Come on, don't play that card. Everyone knows what it means when you invite a romantic interest over for dinner or drinks or "watching a movie" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:19 PM
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You should never splash the cash that much on a first date because you don’t even if you like her that much yet. If you don't, someone else will. Dating is all one big prisoner's dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:17 PM
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If you were coming over to his place for dinner, you were already gonna fuck him anyway. The pasta is completely ancillary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:15 PM
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Lmao "Hey babe wanna come over and try my homemade pasta recipe? I spent three hours making the sauce simmer!" Bro that sauce is gonna be the only thing wet that night 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:12 PM
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Not if they can't be resold. Boomers can't even pay people to take away their china sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:10 PM
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Taking a date to a hole in the wall that has the best tacos in a 5 mile radius you found after asking people, checking reviews, or posting on your local social media pages is high effort. You think she'll realize that and reward you for it? Bro, she won't even acknowledge it, let alone care. Making pasta by hand and cooking the sauce for 3 hours is high effort. Same thing. She will not care or acknowledge it. And if you have her coming over to your place for dinner, you're already in anyway so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:09 PM
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That's wild. I'm in my 30s and I'm finally just now making more than minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:48 PM
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I don’t know about the women you’ve been dating (and I’m truly wondering why since you claim to be monogamous) I just told you. It's either that or nothing. I'm a fucking old man in his 30s and I don't want to keep being alone and sad. but polyamory is about relationships, not random dick. Poly and swinging are two different things. Could have fooled me. I've dated four poly girls now and it was all always about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:42 PM
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Perhaps you've never heard of raises. Or promotions. Or that a career lasts.....30+ years? Most people haven't. Tbh the fact that you made $35/k a year right out of college is insane. I don't know a single person with a college degree who is making more than slightly above minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:32 PM
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things that concern women are disingenuous lies, but things that concern men are immature and insecure. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:29 PM
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You know, there was a guy in this sub very recently claiming that poly men are hogging all of the women and creating harems. That dude is insane. He's confused two separate things; covert harems by guys with overt poly relationships by women. Oh, wait! You said you’re staunchly monogamous. Guess not if you’re dating a poly woman and have in the past. 😂 Yeah, so as a result I'm miserable every time but it's either this or remain alone forever. Not really an own. I mean, it kinda is, but it's a sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:24 PM
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Just shows you believe be it to be true because you want it to be. Are you not doing this exact same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:19 PM
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No, I'm asking you for your opinion on what "blue pilled beliefs" are so we can have a baseline before you start playing weasel words. It was the Plymouth Shooting but Inc*lExit rapidly scrubbed his account afterwards so I'm trying to find backups of his posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:18 PM
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Okay, and how many guys have you had on the go? And how many women have those guys had on the go? Because I'm IN a poly relationship and I have been in the past. And it's always been shit like I go to meet up with a girlfriend and she pops off about all the new strange dick she took on the weekend and shit like that, or tells me about the other three guys she's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:17 PM
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I'm dating poly women right now and I have in the past, I think I have more than a cursory understanding of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:15 PM
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There's a huge discrepancy because red pillers want to take the single statistic that supports their world view and ignore everything else. ...How would that affect the fact that far more men report being single than women, though? Nope. Okay. So in your opinion, why do you think that it means "the guy I'm with isn't going to harm me"? Do you ever think it's odd that no woman ever lovingly describes some pudgy nerd as "making her feel safe"? Not to mention "guy isn't going to harm me" is kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:15 PM
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What would be your standard of "reliable evidence" then? I'm doubt I'm gonna get a fucking peer-reviewed study on this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:11 PM
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Telling OP the truth, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:10 PM
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What do you consider "blue pilled beliefs"? Everyone on that subreddit, especially the mods, certainly practiced blue pill beliefs. But I suppose because he didn't write a manifesto it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:08 PM
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Lmao Have you ever actually encountered anyone in a poly relationship ever? That's literally how it fucking goes, every single time, without fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:06 PM
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I'm saying she's clearly spent a lot of time pussywhipping him so she can pull an AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:06 PM
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I am absolutely not "suiting myself" lol. What a weird response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:05 PM
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Every woman is just going to tell you yes they would happily date a broke man, anon. It's not true but true gonna say it. What was even the point of making this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:55 PM
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Maybe in the 90s. Not anymore. There's no reason or benefit for women to want monogamy and as a deeply monogamous man it fucking sucks. I'm basically forced to date poly women or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:49 PM
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Except every single poly relationship is a woman with three or four people on rotation and oodles of hookups and the guys maybe score one extra lay a year. Poly works better for women, it's encouraged for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:48 PM
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I feel the same way about red pill takes, but the difference is my takes aren't driving people to killing sprees. I would point out that Inc*lExit which is bluepill central has a confirmed murderers linked to it soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:44 PM
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Kristen Bell had a great anecdote on a podcast that when they were first dating, Dax Shepherd insisted, like you are, that women want to be protected and he went out of his way to make sure she knew he would fight any guy who tried to hurt them. Her response: "That doesn't make me feel safe. That makes me feel incredibly unsafe." You mean the couple where Dax posts approving tweets about his wife fucking other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:42 PM
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And yet poor, short, weak, or low status men get dates every single day. No they don't lmao, that's why there's such a huge discrepancy between single men and single women. "Feeling safe" around a man doesn't mean "the guy I'm with can beat up any other guy," it means "the guy I'm with isn't going to harm me." Wrong! It 100% means the former, and as for the latter, women love a bad boy. What they want is "the guy will beat up anyone but he won't beat me up". Neither gender is "wired" one way or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:38 PM
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Did every single man on this subreddit grow up in a mega liberal metropolitan area I mean, I did and I've 100% witnessed it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:30 PM
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I am woman and I'll tell you outright that charm/confidence/charisma are the most important factors in getting your foot in the door with a woman. You don't need height, you don't need a good face, you don't need a lot of money, you don't need a good body, you just need to be charming. Except she's not going to talk to you in the first place to get your foot in the door if you don't have a good face/body/height/etc. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:25 PM
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Didn't know I had to deliver you a multipart essay. How many women have YOU met that fit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:20 PM
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If there's so much of it then it should be easy to post an example, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:01 PM
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You asked how many women are like that. I said lots and gave an example. Sorry you think that anything that doesn't agree with you is irrelevant 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:01 PM
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Exactly! That's what I meant! Not that casual sex is evil, but saying "look at how nice I am! I could have done so many evil hurtful things but I chose not to" does not speak well to one's character.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:48 PM
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Not that anon but LOTS of them. I would say that's actually the default tbh. I've watched things like a female friend I knew talk about how she was probably gonna turn down this guy who asked her out because he didn't make enough money for her tastes, meanwhile she told me the other day about how she picked up some guy from the bar and got fucked by him while he literally held her out of a window.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:47 PM
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What do you think is an example of misogyny on this subreddit then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:45 PM
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The idea there's any actual real misogynistic posting on this board that doesn't immediately get shut down by the mods is pretty laughable ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:32 PM
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Great explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:29 PM
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Lmao okay yeah buddy Reddit, one of the most neoliberal bugmen hives ever, is pro-slut shaming. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:29 PM
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Whenever people say stuff like this I have to assume they live in like a small Bible belt town or something because if anything I see the opposite with women getting "virgin/prude shamed"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:25 PM
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I think that's a big part of how we got in this mess in the first place, bucko
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:24 PM
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I just meant that for a lot of guys, casual sex isn't even on the table anyway, so it's not really a direct comparison point, that's all. I don't think it's any more or less "fair", I think it's just a reality, that's all. If I'm being unclear in my words, I apologize for that. I totally agree with this btw; a guy trying to get casual and failing isn't any more compatible with me than a guy who had casual because it fell in his lap It's about intentions, not actions. Well, it's about actions as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:22 PM
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I was busy and couldn't get back to it. If you don't wanna continue it that's totally fine by me, just wanted to reply. I will just quickly say; Just keep complaining that women are all yucky sluts and it's not fair you can't find the woman of your dreams. I'm not doing that though. Please stop putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:08 PM
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Ah I see, you're one of those "that's not real 'merica" people. You know, those fly-over country people say the same thing about you and they're just as wrong as you. And again, no, it's not even all men and women in cities-- you pick who you pick, and you have a bias. I don't have any problems with smaller cities or the people in them. I'm just telling you that what you describe only exists in smaller cities, that's all. Seeing as how I live in major cities, it's relevant. In what way do I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:19 PM
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I can't speak to other countries but that is absolutely not the case here. If they try to tell you they're not into casual sex, 99/100 they're lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:06 PM
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Idk happiness, travel, how many times you've seen your favorite band in concert. So... income, income, income? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:29 PM
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People who have irrational confidence are generally called "delusional". Or narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:24 PM
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"Come back with at least 5 peer reviewed sources from famous respected feminists or your argument is forfeit"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:18 PM
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My point is that you're just gonna keep refuting every single source he comes back with as "not being a real feminist".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:34 PM
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I'm in my 30s, I'm long since past the point of being able to date or find someone. I'm kinda just resigned to being alone - I even expressed that to my last girlfriend. Seems like it's better for everyone that way anyway at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:33 PM
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Yes to all of your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:30 PM
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It's a valid choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM
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Lmao, not every woman is an ex party girl Lol Lmao, even. Nice girl Becky from church got married 15 years ago to her high school sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM
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shrug it is what it is. Either get used to it or die alone. Not sure which one I want to do yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:19 PM
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I'd say around 5 to 10, maybe more. It's very common for women in large cities to have partner counts in their 40s by like 25 so so I imagine as you get older and become more financially secure, those numbers go up. The oldest person I know whom I also know her body count is 29 and hers is in the triple digits, pretty standard stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:17 PM
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"Real feminism has never been tried"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:13 PM
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Maybe not in your generation. Or if you live in a small rural town.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:41 PM
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Well, we'd probably have a lot more Assasins fighting against the Templars if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:36 PM
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Then the fact that you've been disowned for being outed should tell you something????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:46 PM
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I've never heard of a straight person losing their job because a random person said they were gay on Instagram. Then you don't really understand the world outside of your leftist corporate office world. I'm currently running my tongue over a chip in my tooth that got there because I got jumped when people spread a rumor that I was gay. Get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:25 PM
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No, but you're missing the point. Also, there's where they are and what they do and a million other factors. I work in the trades and I'm actually queer. I'm well aware that if people ever found out about this (people as a whole, not individual coworkers I trust), my career would essentially be over. So someone going on stream and telling everyone I'm gay, even with no basis or proof (and even if I wasn't actually queer) would be kind of a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:19 PM
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I think he's saying that the women who are capable of loving their partners selflessly go off the market really early so most men never encounter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:25 PM
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I've literally turned down women for a second date in the politest way possible and received a string of insults as a response. Please stop acting like the average woman just goes "oh okay" and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:08 PM
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Okay let me just go on your social media and tell stories about you how you touched my little brother. I mean, it's just a random story with no proof so it's cool, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:06 PM
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And I don't date women who have had casual sex in the past, so that part was not an issue. So you're perpetually single then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:59 AM
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Nobody said it's the only way women find hot guys. You're just bragging. It's fine, everyone does it. But why try to justify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:30 PM
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Before meeting there I had a ton of casual sex with younger hot guys, and even arranged a cheeky threesome :p None of this has any relevance to the thread or your post, it's just you blatantly bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:05 PM
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The most internet-addicted generation that was raised by cellphones and the internet is absolutely not healthy and well-adjusted. I went back to college during COVID and I literally hear zoomers talk about blackpills and ___maxxing and etc in real life all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:50 PM
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No, the majority of women have not had dozens so sexual partners. The median partner count is something like 4-7, depending on the survey. You’re somehow consistently picking women who are pretty far out on the spectrum. That's because the median partner counts include bumfuck nowhere towns and and your 75 year old granny. If you're in a major city and under 35, the numbers are VERY different and you know this. Social shaming, rape, violence, ineanted pregnancy (with vanishing abortion rights), …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:20 PM
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I didn’t say men can get any woman they want. I said they choose who to approach. You always had a choice. You only approached the very small subset of women that you wanted to approach, so your sample is very biased. Yes, women with tattoos and in bondage gear are not the only women who have casual sex. But you’re somehow still selecting those women anyways. Yes, because that's the majority and that's how statistical odds work. Lol, literally wrong. You just cannot imagine it because you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:14 PM
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You've only dated the women you have chosen. Not true if you're a man. "Women date who they want, men date who they can". Someone's hobbies and BMI are not their values or personality. I was trying to illustrate the wide array of people I was dating and how they weren't like, some club girl baddies or wearing bondage and covered in tattoos where you would reasonably expect high counts and attitudes. There's lots of reasons not to. There literally isn't. Women will be shamed by other women for NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:41 PM
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Well, my dad hasn't died multiple times, so that's kinda hard to answer. But most guys will tell you that they made the mistake of crying in front of their girlfriends and it completely destroyed their relationships tbh. As a man, I'm expected to listen to the most extreme trauma dumping and think nothing of it without getting the same in return. I'm shown their self-harm scars on the first date but I'm not allowed to express any kinds of doubts or fears or sadness. I'm not saying that you're ly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:43 PM
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What world do you live in where you think fat women have LESS sexual experience? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:18 PM
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Not true. All but one woman - or hell, person I've dated since I'm bi - has turned out to have insane body counts and ridiculous sexual pasts. I've dated people like overweight math nerds whom I found out afterwards had a body count in the triple digits, a shy artist who later told me she regularly fucked for money in high school and college, a clean-cut political activist marketing major who told me firmly that she always waits for sex - only to tell me about all the one night stands she's had …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:11 PM
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There are lots of women who don’t fuck on the first date and don’t have casual sex Nobody is talking about 65 year old spinsters, they're not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:16 PM
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That's literally every single one though. I couldn't even cry about my dad dying on the day he died in front of my gf without her losing all sexual attraction to me and killing the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:37 PM
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Vs the woman, who probably spent at least an hour getting ready, not counting travel time, often 3x that LMFAO What are you even talking about? Women are apt to show up to dates in sweatpants and slide sandals these days. You really think women are spending up to 3 fucking hours getting ready for a date? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:43 PM
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You don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:41 PM
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This idea all women have e unrealistic standards is bull. Except, you know, the part where it's statsically proven. Not all women of course but the majority of them do. Stop putting yourself down, being a doomer because you went single a few years from your teens to early twenties. Most of us are. True for men, not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:39 PM
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It literally would not be because those are all masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:35 PM
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There's lot of women who direct porn. I can really see the feminist female gaze mindset when Proxy Paige films another woman putting an 18 inch horse dildo up her own butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:44 PM
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I think he means they all want 9/10s so they would prefer to share like that instead of going without the HMVs they obviously deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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I don't think that's what I said...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:50 PM
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True, sometimes the guy is tall with a big d!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:47 PM
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Because they're tall and sexy. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:47 PM
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I don't think I've EVER asked a woman what she does for work on a date. Hell, I have friends I've known for years and I only vaguely know what they do for a living. I literally can't think of anything I care less about than what someone is forced to do for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:35 PM
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Because they want to know what level of resources they can extract from you and how much of their life you'll finance. I mean,what answer were you expecting dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:34 PM
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Because we live in Kali Yuga and it's just another way to indulge selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:41 PM
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Okay, well I'm not asking you what you THINK the reasoning is, I'm telling you the fact that the majority of women will no-go you from ever dating for even having hooked up with a guy once in the past. Frankly, your attempt to justify biphobia with LITERALLY THE MOST STOCK BIPHOBIC STATEMENTS POSSIBLE (that we're all insatiable sluts who can't stop cheating and fucking) shows an almost cartoonish lack of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:20 AM
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Okay, cool. That doesn't change the fact that most women won't date bi men. Or in fact if you look at the data, men who have had ANY kind of same sex contact in the past. You can have sucked a dick once in college and decided you don't like it, and that would still disqualify you from 63% of women if they found out!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:01 AM
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You've just said yourself that physical appearance of a man has "no factor" in whether or not you date him. You've entirely removed one of the bars! Your whole argument of "well you said every woman, and I'm a woman and I don't feel that way!" is silly and meaningless when we're dealing with such a small minority. "Every woman has two legs" doesn't mean that disabled women don't exist - it means that 999 out of 1000 times, she'll have two legs and anything else is a weird edge case, a margin of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:52 PM
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Of course not. But the discussion is about what women find physically sexually attractive in men! So obviously the fact that you do not feel physical sexual attraction towards men is very relevant! Would you trust a flaming gay guy to tell you about what straight men find sexually attractive in women? Would you trust a vegetarian to tell you what makes for a good steak?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:37 PM
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He probably does slay with a group of women. I... are... are you being serious here? You really honestly believe a fat bald midget janitor would slay with multiple women just because he's funny? Holy shit. Professional comedians will literally be the first to tell you that it made zero difference to their dating. Larry David is one of the funniest people who ever lived, but there's no women out there touching themselves to Curb Your Enthusiasm. Gilbert Gottfried even wrote an entire essay about …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:25 PM
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Uh I'm pretty sure the fact that you don't feel sexual attraction to men is very relevant in a discussion about what women find sexually attractive in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:03 PM
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The majority of bi men are closeted The majority of women won't date bi men Gee I wonder if these two facts might be related
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:52 PM
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Women don't actually care about muscles though. Lol Lmao, even I bet you think that if you do one more set of your 5 pound shaping weight, you're gonna look like Gina Carrano. You literally don't understand the amount of effort and work that goes into a man having "average" muscularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:48 PM
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The bar is on the floor for men THAT SHE FINDS STUPIDLY ATTRACTIVE. That's it, that's the cause of all the confusion. Women keep saying "the bar is on the floor!" because they think the 6'1" Chad who pumps and dumps them is the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:42 PM
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It literally is. This is when you present some weak evidence about that one fat balding 5'4" janitor you know who like totally slays because he's so hilarious btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:40 PM
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You're literally asexual. You should probably start off by saying that or add it to your flair before you go this deep next time so you don't waste another user's time with your absolute fringe takes on things that don't apply for 99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:37 PM
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Maybe if that woman didn't have the ability to completely ruin a man's life without any evidence or proof, he wouldn't be so afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:31 PM
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One of my friends nearly killed himself over false rape accusations. As in he literally had the drugs in his hand ready to OD and I had to talk him out of it over the phone. She told all her friends he raped her because she had the rep as a cool lesbian at college and didn't want her lesbian friends to find out she was actually bisexual, so when they got caught hooking up at a party, she told everyone that he forced himself on her. But yeah, no, you're totally right. All made up scenarios that n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:30 PM
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I'm not really sure how that relates to the part I was quoting at all, but yes, absolutely. Modern technology has enabled us to fully unleash the great narcissist within us all. Sex bots, AI partners, cammers, even just plain old social media, all have created ways to wedge themselves into a situation and replace the human interaction with feel-good algorithm and monetization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:42 PM
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I agree that in some religious circles male libido is seen as dirty, but generally it’s boys will be boys and they get away with a lot of hinky shit. Snapping bra straps, saying filthy things from cars, cat calling, grabbing women’s waists when they walk past them in crowded spaces, demanding hugs, etc. I swear to God everyone on PPD still lives in the 1950s. Unless you're in fucking Dubai or some shit, that's not how society is and it hasn't been that way in a long time. If someone snapped a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:33 PM
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Breaking the ice is the most important thing though, so I don't really get your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:50 PM
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Proof? Souce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:40 PM
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Just ask men here if they remember a time a woman they cared (or found attractive) about made a genuine non trivial compliment about him as a person/looks rather than his utility. Hell, you don't even need that. I still vividly remember the time 6 years ago that a random gay dude hit on me and said I "looked like an angel". I really honestly don't think women understand how truly starved for any kind of compliment or attention men are. Guys are cherishing the memories of the time that a granny i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:38 PM
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The only people who can go for dates at 3 pm are rich salaried businessmen who make their own hours You're constantly telling on yourself with every post you make lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:56 PM
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She didn't say mini golf, she said muni golf, short for municipal. She's going to expensive private country clubs for golfing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:44 PM
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"None of these things are expensive", says woman who primarily dates men who belong to country clubs and makes an insane amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:32 PM
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Activities are also super expensive so I'm not surprised you'd prefer them. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:40 PM
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"Hey babe, I'm kinda broke so we'll be having separate checks" Yeah that'll really get her wet 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:38 PM
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Your mistake is thinking the thought process is anything more complex than "I'm a woman and I'm a perfect queen and therefore I deserve free stuff".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:37 PM
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Right, but how have you not realized by now that only social norms that benefit women are good and the rest all need to be changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:25 PM
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And yet, it works for those women, so why would they ever stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:23 PM
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Great advice if you're 22 and still in college. Otherwise, not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:22 PM
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Yep, that's why when my buddies invite me out to the bar I expect all my drinks to be paid for. Oh wait, no I don't. Only insane and/entitled people would expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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When the odds are so stacked against them, can you really blame them for drinking water instead of holding out for the 0.01% chance of fine wine?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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Cool, have fun being alone forever I guess? Look, I don't like the rules either, but it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:09 PM
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You won't find out what she adds to your life or makes her different if you don't get the date because of how cheap the date is compared to the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:43 PM
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Well, if you're not gonna picked, you probably should care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:39 PM
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Sure, but that only works if you're the only guy asking her out. There's ten thousand other guys in her inbox offering to take her out for dinner and drinks - "would you like a coffee in the park???" isn't gonna cut it in comparison. She can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:36 PM
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There's a million other guys in her inbox who can do better than just coffee though. While you're coming at her with "how about coffee in the park???", she's getting dinner and drinks invitations. Which one do you think she's gonna take?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:35 PM
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I feel like this entire thread was just made so you could brag you lost your virginity to a hot pornstar tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:25 PM
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Answer the question I asked you: If you were using the very small amount of free time you have to go out to a bar with your friends, would YOU want it suddenly interrupted by a stranger? ESPECIALLY in a post-COVID world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:25 PM
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Did you even click the link? It says it right there at the top of the graph - the percentages are only reflective of people who think the action/statement is "Always" or "Usually" sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:15 PM
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Except I just said those numbers aren't for people who said the context matters. The 25% is explicitly people who said it is ALWAYS harassment, regardless of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:06 PM
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So here is the fundamental disagreement then - you straight up don’t see it as a problem, however, many others do. Do what you want, though don’t bitterly complain when others don’t reciprocate. No. It's because you haven't explained why it is a problem. I cannot make this any clearer. I have stated this twice and now this is a third time. You say it is a problem, and I have asked you to elaborate as to WHY it is a problem, and just refuse to do so. The issue is, people go to these hobby groups/…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:38 PM
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I didnt say a woman being very attracted to me is a turn off, im saying a woman unwilling to explore herself and do stuff she enjoys because she’s overridden by her attraction to me is a turn off. To me this shows a lack of individuality and potential for serious emotional dependency. What? That has nothing to do with what you said. I can't even begin to understand this. "This woman wanted to meet a hot guy, so she joined a hobby to meet hot guys, and she saw me and thought I was hot so she aske…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:30 PM
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Imagine spending tons of money and time on something just for the sake of finding a romantic partner - it frankly comes off as desperate. "Spending time and money to get something you want is desperate, because... it just is, okay???" Though I would counter this by saying guys actively enable it because to many guys all that matters is “wow she’s so into me” - speaking for myself, that’s a turn off. ...What? A woman being very attracted to you is a TURN OFF? I can't even begin to parse that. Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:19 PM
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There are plenty of confident short bald men that get women out of their league, and if you just listen to the way they talk... they have confidence and don't let their looks get in the way. I've said this before, and I'll say it again. It's interesting how someone always knows a short balding janitor who like totally slays because he's "hilarious and confident", but nobody ever IS that short balding janitor who slays...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:13 PM
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You are not going to successfully manipulate women into anything in relationships. Lmao, same vibes as "advertising doesn't work on me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:01 PM
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"I don't have any advantages going for me! All I have is being 6'1", a healthy weight in the fattest era ever seen, and making nearly double the median salary in America!" Do you people even listen to yourselves speak
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:57 PM
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"Read the room" is a cop-out nonanswer and you know it. Anything goes wrong or doesn't play out exactly as you said? "You didn't read the room! Read the room, dude."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:46 PM
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The secret is going to these third places and doing these activities without the primary intent on hitting on someone. Dating and relationships should be a natural result of third places, not a calculated end goal. I think that’s what you’re missing out. "You should spend tons of money and time and effort doing hobbies but it shouldn't be for any romantic interest but also it needs to be a hobby you have a legitimate interest in but also it has to be a particular set of hobbies that are appealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:43 PM
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That’s literally what happens tho. One person in one group notices a guy or girl. They give “the look” the flirting starts, some from one group go say hello. Lol Lmao, even! "It's easy to go meet people at a bar! All you have to do is already have a huge group of people and be sexually attractive and then have another huge group of sexually attractive people notice you and then have someone come over and talk to you!" Yeesh. Sometimes it’s as simple as “hey this place is crowded can we share thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:40 PM
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Watch him say the exact same thing I said. I'm not speaking for him, I'm saying that I think it's bizarre that you can't comprehend the world most people live in, which is that all their friends they know are from their early/mid 20s. Most people don't make new friends after that unless it's out of circumstances like moving to a new city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:37 PM
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It's acceptable everywhere. Nobody is going to be offended, that their future husband approached them in the gym or while waiting for the tram, or while dancing to her favorite song. This is ridiculous incel justification to not approach anyone and just focus on online dating which doesn't work for them. About 25% of young people think asking someone to go for a drink is "always" sexual harassment, and that was back in 2017. https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2017/11/17/over-friendly-or-se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:35 PM
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Because everyday, people are getting together in hobby groups, bars, clubs, volunteering, at work and especially in social circles. And they're all STAYING WITHIN THEIR OWN GROUP THERE. People go to bars etc not to meet people, but just to go out with their friends and not have to clean up the dishes afterwards. You're not gonna walk up to a random table of people at a bar and spark up a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:30 PM
2

Like most people, I imagine he met his current friends back in his early 20s. I'm not sure why this is confusing to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:24 PM
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You're talking about people having affairs at one point dude. Stop with the toxic world fallacy. It's just as bad as the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:48 PM
3

Yawn. "Nobody in the past ever had a happy normal stable life!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:21 PM
2

Man, that's not that old. People of all ages date. I'd be dating if I wasn't married (23 yrs)and I'm way older than you. Yeah, but if you got divorced you'd have already had LTRs, a marriage, probably kids (if you wanted them), etc. At this age, you won't get those things. That ship has sailed. I wonder if a lot of the dudes here go after women that are superficial as fuck simply because they are hot. There's no future in that, imo. That's everyone. Nobody is picking and choosing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:13 AM
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Mate, I'm in my 30s. We're kinda long past the point of being in the dating game anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:33 PM
3

I'd tell you it gets better over time, but it doesn't. Maybe when we hit 60 and we have no more T, it'll be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:47 PM
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Does it matter? Dating is actively a race to the bottom. I've been actively punished in relationships/flirting phase for being respectful and thoughtful, meanwhile one guy fucked half of the women I knew in my 20s friends group despite being a literal rapist racist. He treated them like dirt and they LOVED it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:42 PM
20

Most men will never get genuine interest from a girl in their lives though, so what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:40 PM
6

That dating is a race to the bottom where the worst and most toxic behaviors are richly rewarded. Either join them or drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:39 PM
3

Well, I had already interacted with those women beforehand many times and they showed zero interest when I was my usual polite and courteous self. For once example, when I was depressed and pissed off and I literally told the girl who was talking to me to stop fucking bothering me and go away, insulted her a bit even, she reached out to ME the next day to try and set up a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:48 PM
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I've literally gotten women interested in me because I was rude and distant (unintentionally). A lot of guys have had similar experiences. If I had to guess why, it's something like "oh why isn't he giving me the attention that everyone else gives me???" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:27 PM
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Great work refuting anything I said! So, what are these books? The ones that prove factual data as reported on by the government, NGOs, multiple studies, etc. I'm very curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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It is 100% true. The average woman is a net negative on taxes from birth until death. Women are in college 1.5x the rate of men. There's dozens upon dozens of scholarship opportunities for women that don't exist for men - a female friend of mine literally got paid to work in the trades. As in, the government paid her to go to work and then the job paid her again. I've been seriously physically assaulted by a woman and when I reported it, the police outright mocked me. The majority of the most da…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:20 PM
0

Men don’t care about what women think even when it is about them, so why should we? Literally all of western society is set up to benefit women and accommodate woman's desires and complaints lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:05 PM
1

Think back in school to the guys you knew who got laid despite being sub5 Uhhh I didn't know anyone like this? And I don't think most people did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:58 PM
1

You could catfish your nationality/ethnicity pretty easily. Like you meet a hot girl who wants someone to bring home to Nona so you pretend to be Italian-American.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:47 PM
2

The blackpill insecurity nueroticism matrix completely dies out when places against objective reality. Didn't you literally just tell him that his actual lived experiences are BS and that je needs to go do research to truly "understand" the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:44 PM
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Tell that to the women, they're the ones who don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:54 PM
3

As someone who hates Elon... lmao. If Elon was broke he'd still be a 6'2" good looking white guy with a strong jawline. He's have no problems getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:52 PM
2

The kind of "emotionally vulnerable" that women want doesn't actually exist. It's a performative vulnerability that only boots the women's egos and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:44 PM
3

You LITERALLY became uncomfortable because your boyfriend cried in front of you because you were diagnosed with a serious medical condition. A man caring about you so much that the thought of you dealing with a life-long medical issue made him cry - and you thought that was uncomfortable and unwanted. And yet, you still have the gall to act like men aren't punished for crying in front of their partners and it's all in their head...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:24 PM
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Don't forget the kicker - at the time she told that story, she was forcibly retired from her own UFC career because she severely damaged her knee from never protecting her own body during fights lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:19 PM
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What tf are men doing? If they did more everyone could have a little slice of it all. Working at their ACTUAL JOBS in careers that are VITAL to society. How many women do you see in masonry? Electrical? Carpentry? Oil rig workers? HVAC? Getting the idea here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:37 PM
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Not all dating is online, even now No, just the majority. I read an article that stated the best OF men with a straight woman following had a lot of humorous content Something tells me these hilarious men running Onlyfans with lots of straight women followers don't look like Danny DeVito.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:37 AM
1

I'm sure your boyfriend would love to know that you gave affection and sex just as freely to random people you didn't even find attractive as you did to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:10 AM
1

Except that's not the case at all? Like statistically. It's very well known that most autistic men are single while most autistic women aren't. So they're obviously dating non-autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:27 AM
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who's going to cook, clean, and make them feel like a respectable provider? Well, it's certainly not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:59 AM
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Then why did you have a torrid hookup with a fling if you apparently didn't lust after them???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:26 AM
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Uh, what? It's not the 1950s, I've never known a single woman who did all those things. Not even my own mom. If anything, women are proud to not know how to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:18 AM
1

You see posts like this one? That's the kind of posts that make people think you just ask ChatGPT to write your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:17 PM
9

Do you really think maintaining your basic physical health and nutrition is the signs of someone "obsessed with their appearance"? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:58 PM
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Right, and not working out or maintaining your diet is a choice. Just because something becomes harder to do doesn't make it impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:30 PM
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People being fat, which is a natural part of getting older. Nope. This is just something people who are fat tell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:23 PM
2

Looks aren't the only thing important to women, we have a study to prove it Lol Lmao, even! Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:53 PM
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I mean, the article just says that women settle for men they don't find attractive. It's not exactly refuting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:24 PM
1

Umm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:11 PM
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And yet, the average woman is statistically a net drain on taxes from birth to death, while the same is not true of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:10 PM
1

Well the subreddit is literally called "Purple Pill Debate" sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:22 AM
1

Your argument doesn't make any sense. You just say "things are totally this way" without having any actual proof or reasoning behind it. You just keep saying "source: trust me bro" even though it doesn't match up with reality at all or make any kind of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:41 AM
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Dude, what do you want me to tell you? You basically just ignored anything I said to be condescending and then gave advice on the level of "Are you poor? Try having more money!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:58 AM
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No, if you're a short guy everything you say is creepy. There's literally a thread right now about a guy who joked to his coworker that he was stalking her and knows where she lives and she liked it because he's hot. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/187ktw3/light_creepy_behavior_can_be_flirtatious_and/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:53 AM
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"Don't wear grease-stained clothes, shower, don't talk like a caveman who has lived underground for decades." Great, thanks. I already know how to do all that, just like the vast majority of men who struggle do. I literally said that it is hard to make your sexual desires known without coming off as creepy, and you basically just completely ignored that to tell me to not go out with food on my shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:45 AM
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And I'm disagreeing with you on that. Just because a woman is 5'10" doesn't mean she'll magically stop finding a 6'3" man drool-worthy. You're also creating a false equivalence - a 6'3" will also be confident BECAUSE he's tall and has gotten lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:42 AM
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The point wasn't to do with that but to do with your inane suggestion that a confident short man will clean up more than a tall guy who's only trait is that he's tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:39 AM
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One thing I would advise is to make your sexual desire known, without coming off as creepy Pretty fucking hard to do if you're a short guy like me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:33 AM
1

There's three possible subjects you could be asking about here. Ariana is Ariana Grander. The guy is Pete Davidson. The original speaker of that is just a Tweet that went viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:30 AM
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Nope. Ariana had to learn the hard way what all women find out eventually: that sometimes you think a guy is amazing and funny and loving and sexy, but it turns out he’s just tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:25 AM
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You end up on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:30 AM
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Yep. A big part of it is that it's functionally impossible to fuck up your life as a woman. Anything short of being a cracked out prostitute won't affect anything - and even then, you'll get bailed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:13 PM
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I should have road the cc. Well, yeah. No reason for a woman not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:43 PM
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Which means not having a terrible personality. You can be “ugly” and you can absolutely get laid, so long as you aren’t fucking awful to be around. One guy in my mid 20s fucked half the women I knew. He was also a racist rapist. One of the women even did a public song about his abuse, and then went back to hooking up with him. And then he hooked up with her best friend too. But I guess he just was a racist rapist with a heart of gold and that's why he got laid like a brick and not the fact he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:40 PM
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What does it matter at that age? Like legitimately, who cares? Who are you trying to impress?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:46 AM
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How can I possibly believe there is a “height REQUIREMENT to get your foot in the door” if me and all of my female friends and family have dated (and married) men of all shapes and sizes?? What you’re saying literally cannot be true for the majority of women. And yet, there's literal hard statistics proving that's the case and that not just dating but life in general is harder for shorter men. Literally ask any woman what she wants in a man and the first word out of her mouth is "tall". Go ask s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:01 AM
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You did. You just did that. I read your whole story. For example, you literally talked about your friend deciding she will no longer date men who make less than 100k - which happens to be like 18% of the total population, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:58 PM
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As a short guy (5'7") who has many friends over 6 feet tall, I have literally witnessed it happen many times. I have literally experienced women going from being interested in talking to me at a party/bar/etc to talking to my 6'3" buddy when he showed up to the conversation. Like she went from talking to me for like an hour to outright ignoring me to talk to him when he showed up. There absolutely are height requirements to get your foot in the door. Yeah, sure, that guy had a terrible personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:55 PM
2

...I'm saying you just finished laughing at the poster for suggesting that the average man is holding out for a top tier rich man, and then immediately followed it up with a story where you LITERALLY did that and said you know lots of women who do it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:21 PM
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Right, and you're not gonna be introducing them to something new past a certain point. Do you really think there's women after 25 who haven't seen it all and done it all with sex? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
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You never did answer the question btw, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:22 PM
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laughs at the guy talking about how the average woman is holding out for top tier rich men .. tells a story about about holding out for high income men while rejecting average men and says she's known lots of women who do this what did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:13 PM
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What? Adam Driver is jacked and 6'2"! Pete Davidson is 6'3"! What are you even talking about? The fact that they both look weird yet they're insane sex symbols because they're really tall isn't making the point you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:08 PM
2

The minority of women have a hoe phase You can't actually believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:18 AM
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I live in NYC and they're everywhere. NYC is one of the very very few places in North America (hell, probably in the west in general) with a significantly higher amount of of women compared to men. The rest of the vast majority of locations lean towards majority men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:45 AM
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They live through statistics, some demand lists of what women want, as if all women want exactly the same thing. Yes, that's why male sex symbols are so diverse. I mean, there's the tall jacked blonde white guy, the tall slim white guy, AND the tall jacked black guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:43 AM
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A lot of men take online dating stats and apply them to everything. Probably because it's the only way to meet people to date in this day and age?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:42 AM
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No, my point was that those are all examples of sex acts that women like and enjoy doing but don't lead to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:14 AM
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I engage in casual sex does this make me someone who has casual sex Again. What did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:19 AM
1

Yes usually during sex! Or do you think women orgasm from blow jobs, or titfucks, or having her nipples sucked, or anal, or hell, from vaginal intercourse? Most women report not cumming from direct intercourse itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:15 AM
1

The attractiveness of the man and his cock make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:13 AM
2

I do indulge in casual sex am I someone who has casual sex? What did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:12 AM
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Women can like lots of things they don't orgasm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:10 AM
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You're assuming a lot of things, like that she was the one who broke up with them, that she isn't just passing the time with you until someone better comes along, etc. And you didn't actually answer the question lmao. I have never dated a woman who needed to “brag” about their exes. Most women are glad to not be dating their exes. Most women have told me about their exes in detail the first two or three dates. That's just how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:09 AM
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If it's with a big dicked Chad, definitely. I mean it's why I brought up that comparison thing in the other post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:08 AM
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Look, I'm just telling you what was said. I don't claim to know why they said it or their thought process. But I have noticed this before in multiple situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:04 AM
2

Right But the pain is coming from being stretched out. So it's a good kind of pain to them, I've found.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:56 PM
1

No, gold digging is explicitly faking romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:36 PM
4

Yeah that's what gold digging is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with being rich. Gold digging is relative - a guy working at McDonalds can get gold dug by a homeless woman. You just have to have more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:27 PM
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most women don’t have casual sex though Lol. Lmao, even. Every woman I've never known has casual sex. Out of the only three who haven't, two are asexual and the third is super religious. If you really think most women in cities aren't having casual sex, you're fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:24 PM
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Men's interests are literally injected into all media. Women's is very "underground". laughs in Barbie becoming the 14th highest grossing film of all time laughs in The Eras tour making 800 million in box office
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:42 PM
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Nah. I feel like you don't get women. Let me put it this way. Which do you think a woman is more likely to remember, cherish, and brag about to her friends: The time a tall jacked Chad jackhammer fucked her with his big dick until HE came, then called her an Uber or The time that some Bobby Beta ate her out until she came ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:05 PM
2

Well, it seems Iike she preferred that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:43 PM
2

Uh, literally yes? Who likes being told they have a small dick? "I'm so glad your dick is smaller" is not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:24 PM
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No once you’re in your 30’s you barely remember what you did at 21. I literally don’t remember my first partner’s face. Maybe that's just you? I remember the faces of everyone I've ever dated, let alone sexual partners. Most people don’t LIKE their exes. They don’t want to be with them. That’s why they aren’t together. I really don't think that's true. Pretty much everyone has an ex they wish they were still with. If a woman dates you, it means she thinks you have something that makes her compat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:23 PM
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Yep. I mean I literally had one of them even say the other guy she's dating has a cock so big that it hurts her every time, so she's glad my dick is smaller. Good stuff. Dick size really does seem like an end-all be-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:20 PM
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I don't have a "type", there was nothing connecting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:19 PM
3

Sure seems like it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:16 PM
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Nah, they've all said I've done good jobs. For two partners I gave them their first orgasms ever, even. It has nothing to do with skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:56 PM
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You can rock their world all you want, they'll still think of their ex. At this age (late 20s onward) you're pretty much not gonna be their best because they've had better when they were younger and sex was better and more passionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:55 PM
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I actually objectively don't, that's the weirdest thing. It's 5.6", slightly above average. But yes, I would. Or hell, just lie and say it's so big lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:49 PM
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Uh, yeah? Why wouldn't I? Do you think a woman would want me to tell her how loose her pussy is, or how her tits are too small?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:48 PM
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It happened with three different partners, actually. So I think it's just really common with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:45 PM
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I think being told that your dick is smaller than the other guys is a bit beyond "worrying".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:07 PM
6

do you not understand what metaphors are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:06 PM
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Sure, but those other guys were bigger. And both women made sure to let me know. So sex she's having might be "okay". But it was better with the other guys. That's where the alpha widowing comes from. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:45 PM
5

I'm just explaining the logic about being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:43 PM
2

Who gets the better deal The guy who got to drive a brand new Porche for a few years Or the guy who paid the same amount of money to drive around a used Porche for keeps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:17 PM
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It's the current year, they're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:03 PM
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Because you're misunderstanding the point. It's not her most recent ex, but her best ex. Why do you assume you're the one, of all the people she's dated, that is the WORST in bed? Because it's very very rare that'd be the case, no matter how good you are at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:01 PM
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I've personally had two women both tell me how much bigger their ex/other guy they're seeing's dick is completely casually. Women are just like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:59 PM
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What. I can't even begin to understand why you think this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:39 PM
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Only 3 is really accurate tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:34 PM
2

What about all the women constantly complaining about men hitting on them all the time? Every single woman's space is filled with that - "men only want one thing and it's fucking disgusting" and all that. I've never met a woman who wasn't completely overinnudated with male attention at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:58 PM
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How is that rage bait? Every woman I know is upset about how men never stop approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:11 PM
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You're LITERALLY doing the just world fallacy that was mentioned before right now! You're assuming that someone who isn't good with flirting/women must be a cave dwelling trogdolite who never said 5 words to a woman before. "Hey, I really need some help learning how to run". "Clearly you must not be good at walking." "I'm asking for advice on running!" "Have you tried being a better walker?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:00 PM
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It means stop treating women as some alien other and communicate with them as anyone else, and reserve the romantic or sexual projecting for the woman who actually returns the interest. Uhhhh How is she "returning romantic/sexual interest" if he's treating her like everyone else and not making move?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:51 PM
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“Today in America, women expect more from men,” Levant said, “and unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.” Lol! Lmao, even!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:39 PM
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A literal pig photoshopped to look like a woman still got a bunch of likes. There is no way your friend is getting zero likes. I think what your friend actually means is "I get no likes (from hot guys)".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:32 PM
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It depends entirely on how hot he is. There was a guy in my 20s social group who was a racist AND a rapist. He loved yelling out the n-word with a hard R in public "as a joke" and would regularly do things like slip condoms off during sex and force sex acts when they were drunk without their consent. He was tall and good looking though so he fucked over half of the women in my social sphere, including the most leftie feminist women. In fact, the most leftie feminist woman of the group performed …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:30 AM
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Sex is pretty pointless past your mid/late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:29 PM
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If a man has woman friends I would presume he’s also heard them say something about the topic before. In real life, in the flesh realm, I’ve heard many women desire for someone to approach them. My gf’s sister wants to get hit on in a grocery store. I've literally never heard this in my life. I've heard women express their wishes that a specific man in their life would hit on them, but never ever that men in general would approach them. And I feel that it is unfortunate but necessary the way we …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:46 PM
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I know that am a respectful person, so I would approach as a respectful person and shoot my shot. Now realize how every man has had it drilled into his head since birth that the respectful thing to do for women is to NOT APPROACH at all and there is no "respectful" way to approach them (except outside of dating apps) and you'll understand why creeps are the only ones approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:28 PM
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But it is that simple. That's the thing lol. I have literally had multiple female friends who have told me they have to make an effort to STAY SINGLE. Not to find guys, but to stay single. And let me tell you, these women were mostly not particularly hot. You simply have to be slightly, mildly approachable, and there you go. You've even admitted that guys have approached you, they just haven't been respectful. If you put your headphones in and look at your phone and give everyone a sneer, then n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:17 PM
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So you are conceding then? I will need to take SOME action in order to attract the opposite sex? It’s not as simple as “be woman”?? AGAIN. If we go back and read what you said, you've actually said that men have hit on you, they just haven't been respectful. If you make yourself completely unapproachable, then only creeps with no concept of boundaries who don't care about how they make you feel will approach you. You are doing the classic woman fallacy of "I want x!" "Okay, here is x!" "No, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:12 PM
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Right, you're saying you'd like to be approached now that you're older and the hottest guys around no longer gravitate towards you so you can "slowly develop crushes over time" on them. Also not to be rude but you're literally a recovering drug addict. I'm glad you're trying to stay strong against your addiction and recover but did you ever think that maybe the reason you only ever get men approaching you who aren't being respectful is because your social groups are fellow hard drug users and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:09 PM
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How is a stranger at a party not a stranger lmao? Because they're an acquaintance, not a stranger. You either already know them in some way or know their friends. And like I said, dating apps is like shifting through shit looking for a diamond. I’m fucking trying. I really am. Almost got to the date stage with one guy until I found out he sold his car so he can pay rent. I asked him why he didn’t just get a job somewhere and he responded: “I’m focusing on music and writing” guy was in his 30’s. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:05 PM
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No, look closer. She's said that she's never been approached respectfully. If every man is told that only creeps approach, then guess what? All the polite, well-mannered men won't say anything and only the creeps will approach!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:02 PM
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Well, now you can fully and completely decide who is allowed to approach you, when, and the contexts of the interaction thanks to online dating. You'd think you'd be happy about that! You have all the power in the dating world, congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:54 PM
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Probably because every single woman will tell men how much they hate being approached. Every woman and piece of media screams from the rooftop for men to not approach women, and then women got exactly what they wanted, and now they're upset about it. They say "women want fried ice" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:49 PM
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Right. So you never wanted strangers to approach you, no matter how respectful they were, because you'd rather "slowly form a crush on an IRL person", which is a luxury only women get to enjoy. Glad we could settle this!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:48 PM
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And a huge number of them do and that's part of their problem tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:46 PM
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Probably because all men have seen it happen and/or heard a million stories about it from their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:44 PM
1

Well, did you ever actually want random guys approaching and hitting on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:42 PM
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Yep. Women got what they wanted and now they're upset. Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:27 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? Both Billie and Ice are overweight and rude and aggressive in not only their songs but their day-to-day life. Billie Eilish famously talks in interviews about how women should never give ugly guys a chance and loves to talk shit about how guys who wear Converse or own big houses have tiny dicks. Her most famous song is about how she'll fuck your man and then fuck your dad on top of it. Ice Spice's most famous song is about how she uses and toys with naive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:25 PM
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If they give some $100 and they give me cheesecake in return when I was buying steak, that's justified in saying "I got nothing out of it", regardless of the quality of cheesecake. Making friends is easy. Relationships are nigh-impossible. Nobody has ever said "I don't wanna grab a drink with you after work dude, you're 5'7"."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:44 PM
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I’m 33…I have literally never had a random dude come up to me and ask me out, respectfully. Not once. I honestly sincerely doubt that. You've never once in all your life had a guy offer to buy you a drink or whatever? Come on. How have your relationships even ever started then? Your profile says you used to be married. To your second part, literally every single man bitching that they “can’t get laid” can pay for a prostitute. I don’t want meaningless sex. I want a relationship. The point was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:41 PM
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Then don't go on an app. Go out and do literally anything and just exist and you'll get interested men hitting on you. yes I know I can jump on an app and find someone to fuck me but finding a well balanced quality man looking to have a healthy relationship is easier when you meet them in IRL through normal social interactions Also, you're literally complaining about how you only got cupcakes instead of a real cake when men are nibbling on moldy bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:12 PM
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If you're a woman, no. If you're a man, yes. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:34 PM
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It's an actual famous ex-boyfriend and situation but as far as I know she never set him on fire outside of the music video. Think that Kayne video where he buried Pete Davidson's corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:14 AM
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Olivia Rodrigo's entire character is being an angry psycho who sets her ex boyfriends on fire for breaking up with her. Sabrina Carpenter is literally the woman that Olivia's ex boyfriend broke up with for lmao. She's currently enjoying a blacklist from the BBC for impromptu singing about the OTHER meaning of BBC during a live performance. I don't know anything about Madison Beer. The whole Jenner/Kardashian family are like maybe the biggest example of the aggressive #GirlBoss stuff though. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:21 AM
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lmao what? The vast majority of young women are overweight, aggressive, rude, and masculine. For example, can you think of a single zoomer celebrity who is actually feminine in any way? They're all women like Billie Eilish and Ice Spice. Aggressive "baddies".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:43 PM
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Unless everyone goes on strike at once, it's not a strike, you're just a guy skipping work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:15 PM
1

And how many women are feminine these days? Particularly young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:14 PM
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Although I've yet to experience these women who bring nothing. My ex planned dates, always bought me little gifts, gave massages, took care of me when I wasn't doing well, supported me through rough times etc. That's very rare. None of the women I've ever dated have even ever complimented me, let alone made food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:14 PM
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They absolutely do not lmao Like are you kidding me right now? Women get attention by existing, men get attention by doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:06 PM
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You can't actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:38 AM
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Yep. And this has only become more and more obvious over time and especially via the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:30 AM
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*2% of women are PROFESSIONALLY DIAGNOSED with BPD. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:10 AM
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It was just a general social circle made up of all different people leaning vaguely towards hipsters and artsy types I guess. He would slip the condom off during sex and do sex acts without their consent when they were drunk. This was publicly known, with one of the women even writing and performing a song about it, and her best friend still proceeded to hook up with him after that anyway. Hell, SHE went back to hook up with him after that performance too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah, pretty much. Half the women in my mid-20s social circle were nailed by one guy who was a literal rapist racist. And his toxicity like that was no secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:57 PM
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Well, this the same woman who said: "Why is every pretty girl with a horrible looking man? I don’t understand. Listen, I’m not shaming people for their looks, but I am though. You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world. Literally, I swear to god. Because they got a hot girl they can be horrible? Like, you’re still ugly though. Can’t change that. Maybe that’s why. Maybe that’s why, like, guys with small dicks get like huge mansions." So her statement is very obviously full of shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:45 AM
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Just existing as a woman on an online dating site gets you guys. An empty woman's profile gets as many matches as the best curated men's profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:50 AM
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If you are competing with 50 other guys, you are probably shooting too high, dude. Those are women all the men want. Literally every woman has that number of guys competing though. Did you forget about the infamous Pigwoman experiment where they literally photoshopped a pig to look like a woman and "she" still got dozens and dozens of matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:30 AM
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From what I can tell, people fuck first and THEN decide if they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:16 PM
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Great argument 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah that was my experience in my mid 20s too. One dude who was a racist and rapist nailed half of the women in my friend group because he was tall and hot, despite being openly criminally toxic. Women are essentially validated and defended for picking toxic hot guys though so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:30 PM
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Metaphorically or literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:42 PM
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In my experience, most women are of the "I get 99%, you get 1%, and you should be grateful for that 1%" mindset. Probably comes from every single piece of media telling you you're amazing and flawless since birth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:42 AM
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You don't just engage in any and all relationships that come your way. That's the reality for most men though. They'll take whatever scraps they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:39 AM
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Except the majority of autistic women don't want to date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:16 AM
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Except it's literally true. Nearly every single male sex symbol is tall, masculine, and muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:29 PM
1

I'm not a Chad or anything Say the line, Bart! just tall Yaaaaayyyyy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:28 PM
1

Literally the awful "I am the table" response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:40 PM
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Lmao what that's insane If my buddy asked me to get drinks with him after work I wouldn't be expecting him to cover my tab. Either you're rich or your "friends" are fleecing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:27 PM
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I have a similar theory about women who demand men pay - they don't like the guy and have to be bribed to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 PM
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The guy said it was his first date in three years. You really need to be told explicitly that he's like most men and unable to get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:22 PM
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This is always such a silly argument. There's four billion women on earth but I'm not interacting with most of them. You'll be interacting with people within 100 miles max of where you live for most of your life. Maybe the women in Jakarta or Helinski are different but how the hell would that be relevant to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:20 PM
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But... why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:09 PM
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Because your advice is on the same level as "Homeless? Try buying a house!". Most men will struggle to get even one woman to date them, they're not gonna have multiple women on the go.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:07 PM
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So most women are shitty partners then? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:04 PM
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Well, men don't get the chance to just exclude the majority of women by filtering for that. So it doesn't benefit me much. I learned my mistake and I won't open up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:04 PM
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Men being emotional is acceptable for deaths in the family I had to find out the hard way that even that isn't okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:25 AM
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I feel sad for guys who really believe this. I believe it because it happened to me. My girlfriend lost pretty much all attraction to me because I cried about my dad dying on the day he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:24 AM
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Most guys don't want to date meth addicted trailer trash, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:41 AM
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Because going to go see Britney Spears perform isn't a "girls' trip". Going to Jamaica or Ibiza or Goa or Berlin etc for a week to go clubbing with your girls IS a "girls' trip" and that's what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Mate getting two headshots in a row gets you death threats, death threats are like insanely normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:04 PM
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You're using a person who is LITERALLY known for being a socially awkward creep! This is the person who went to jail for raping their own mom for fuck's sake. This is like saying "all men are racist" and then your evidence is "look at Hitler"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:14 PM
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Why the fuck is your core example case CHRIS CHAN Are you kidding me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:02 PM
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You're literally just making shit up lol. "Women and children first" came about from Victorian ideals of chivalry. It was wrapped in the masculine self-mythological idea that a "real man" would know his life is worth less than a woman's and would sacrifice himself instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:44 AM
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A lot of women would straight up never get a date if they were men with the same personalities. A lot of women would straight up get their teeth knocked out all the time if they were men with the same personalities tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:41 AM
1

Ain’t No Fun (If the Homies Can’t Have None)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:16 PM
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And finally, social stigma is also a pretty big reason. Even when I was single and wanted sex without strings attached, I wanted a fwb and not many one night stands because I didn't want my count to go way up or to be labeled as a slut. Maybe this is a difference in age or location. I remember in my mid 20s that I knew women who were shamed (by other women, no less!) for NOT having hookups and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:42 PM
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Most people don't go to parties for the primary purpose of flirting ??? Um yes they do. Do you think people try to get into frat parties so they can meet like-minded highly intellectual fellows? There's a reason why finding out the party is a sausage fest is a death sentence for ANY party.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:36 PM
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Okay, try showing up to your friend's birthday party in a slutty leather bikini and heels. Or a New Years party. Or Thanksgiving. Etc etc Do you see what I'm talking about? Halloween is the only time for a party where a woman dressing insanely revealing is not just allowed, it's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:34 PM
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We intend to get married when we finish college and establish our careers. You're probably like 22. So your posts make a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:32 PM
1

Try showing up to a Christmas party in a slutty leather bikini and heels and see how people treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:30 PM
1

Have you been to parties? That's ALWAYS the reason people under 30 go to parties. Or do you think house parties, frat nights, clubbing, and music festivals are for people to hand out their business cards and make valuable media and educational within the local community?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:28 PM
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Choose better, since they literally have all the power and control in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:38 AM
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But then how would they make money, OP? Think of the shareholders!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:20 AM
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Because I'm 5'7", I've got a babyface, and I come off as gay apparently. I've done all this introspection lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:01 AM
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As has been expressed before; women date who they want, men date who they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:40 AM
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Love how women can subtly detect misogynistic auras from posts but still end up in abusive relationships because the guy was a Master Manipulator™️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:38 AM
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She didn't break up with me over it. She just started taking longer and longer to respond to texts, stopped having attraction towards me etc. It was a very slow death. Guys don't get to have the luxury of waiting for the perfect unicorn woman who will be okay with him crying. Not sure what else to tell you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:37 AM
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Also, a lot of guys don't handle their insecurities in a sympathetic way because they're afraid to show emotion or vulnerability in general, so we don't always know when a guy is feeling insecure until he is being an asshole about it. Yeah, because they want to keep having them as their girlfriend lol. My longest relationship literally ended because I cried about my dad dying in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:01 AM
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I bet it's the experience for way more men than you think. Like I said, women don't have to compliment their boyfriends, so they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:00 AM
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...And? It's incredibly common for women to insult men's masculinity all the time. "Man up already", "grow a pair and stop being a pussy", etc. Fuckin' Greta Thunberg talked about Andrew Tate having small dick energy. And women are honestly very homophobic. There was a study that showed that 63% of women wouldn't want to date a man who ever did anything gay. This is especially notable because 31% of the women in the study also said they've hooked up with other women before lol Also imagine your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:44 AM
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You could be hideous looking, but extremely socially aware, social and hilarious and a woman wont take the approach the wrong way and just reject you gracefully. lol lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:37 AM
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Planet earth lol. Women don't even compliment the guys they're with. In all my relationships, I've never been complimented a single time. Not even something as simple as "that shirt looks nice on you" or something. I can't even begin to count the amount of times I've cooked for my girlfriends; I've only ever been cooked for once by a girlfriend my whole life, and it was frozen chicken nuggets. You know why? Because women don't have to. Simple as. And a guy wanting compliments from his girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:07 AM
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I love how we've all accepted "Women will randomly be rude and disrespectful to you to judge your reactions" as a totally normal thing that adults should do and not the behaviour better associated with BPD nutbars and 8 year olds pulling pigtails in the schoolyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:02 AM
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What does the fact we live to 80 have to do with anything? I'm not saying I'm gonna die in 5 years. I'm saying I'm past the point where I could accomplish the things in life I wanted to, like starting a family. Those are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:08 AM
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Why don't you get back to me in a decade then? Because when I was your age I certainly didn't feel this way. What makes YOU think there's any time left?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:04 AM
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Yeah you're a full decade younger than me with plenty of time to actually enjoy your life and get good things out of it. What the fuck was even the point of your post, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:59 AM
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No shit I'm "bitter". Why wouldn't I be? And how old are you, bucko?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:54 AM
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Well I'm 5'7" and I literally had an ex who thought I was born a woman due to my height up. So you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:04 AM
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So your solution to everything is literally "just ignore it bro". Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:01 AM
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When you said that I didn't take it as you wanting kids but women rejecting you because they think you're too old for healthy kids & that you're too old for pre menopausal women. Well, I do. I have literally brought myself to tears many times thinking about how I'll never get the chance to be a father. If you find someone next year, 34 they could be 29 you could have kids when you're 36. That's a lot of "ifs" and "coulds", bucko. What do you really think the chances of finding someone are at thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:32 AM
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Well I don’t think you mentioned that before. ...It was literally the first thing I mentioned. At this age? You can't have kids, they won't really be attracted to you, there's no more energy or fun, there won't be any new shared experiences Come on, man. We JUST talked about it. It's saying that you can have kids with someone. Menopause is at 40. And I'm saying you don't get married and have kids on the spot. JFC. You can lose fat and put on muscle. I'm not fat, I'm 140lb. Muscle doesn't go to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:00 AM
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I don't want some childless older woman to just fuck. What I wanted was a happy family and the joys of being a father. I'll never get to experience that. Life is very serious because you only get one shot at it, and I blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:36 AM
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Some women don't want kids. ...What? What does that have to do with ME wanting kids? Most women would go for someone 6 years younger than them. Again, what does that have to do at ALL with what I was saying? Then become more attractive in other ways. Become more masculine. You can't really change your height but you can change other variables. I have a babyface. I can't really "become more masculine" without drastically reshaping my entire face, dude. Why do you think people are comparing all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:31 AM
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You can. Mens sperm degrades but there's no male menopause. Right, which increases autism etc. But women go through menopause and most men aren't going to be marrying women a decade younger than them. I don't know why you think at 33 women won't be attracted to you if you look attractive. I feel like you're not really getting the point. The only women who would be interested in a guy who is short and feminine looking are women who are drastically settling. I've literally had two relationships no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:48 PM
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You can. No, no you can't. You don't have kids with someone the week you meet them, dude. Why wouldn't they be? If you're unattractive fix it as much as you can. Because there's no passion or attraction. You're being settled for, simple as. Nobody ever had a whirlwind romance where they finally found the love of their life in middle age. None of this is true. Why not? You didn't offer any reason why. There's going to be no new shared experiences because they're just jaded at that point. They've …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:56 PM
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At this age? You can't have kids, they won't really be attracted to you, there's no more energy or fun, there won't be any new shared experiences, they've seen it all and done before with someone else and done it better etc. So it's just a roommate you share a bed with. Who cares, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:50 PM
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Too early for...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:36 PM
1

Because people generally don't still envision themselves becoming a rockstar astronaut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:11 PM
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don't have to "give back" anything to society or people around The No Pussy No Work No Pussy No Taxes movement gains another recruit, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:34 PM
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I'm 33, I already have failed. At this age there's no real point in getting into a relationship for the reasons you mentioned in the last paragraph. At a certain point, us men need to realize there was a time to find love, and we missed it. Being angry about it is like being angry that you weren't born with wings to take flight with. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:46 PM
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I don't quite understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:16 PM
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"Women date who they want. Men date who they can."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:43 PM
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There are plenty, plenty of women who are in serious relationships in their early/mid twenties. Maybe if you live out in Amish country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:50 PM
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I'm being sarcastic. Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:57 PM
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Yikes, my dude. Did you just do a heckin' racistarino? Ugh. Mods, we have a CHUD here! It's called maybe, just maybe, being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:46 PM
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Well, first off, "being rich" isn't even in the same ballpark as "having a job". Second, isn't that LITERALLY what the whole #GirlBoss phenomenon was?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:12 PM
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There aren't enough 6'5 white Chads with 6 packs and million dollar salaries to go around for all women. Hence why so many women are childless and alone, duh. They don't stop being available because they had sex with Chad. They do, because they consider themselves to be in a relationship. This is how you end up with such a huge gap of single men and partnered women. Your competition is other average guys for the same average women that GigaChad wouldn't even look at. Right. But the women don't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:04 PM
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I've interacted with MANY intelligent women. They don't want to hear about any of that shit lol. Unless you're hot, in which case they'll listen to a 6'3" guy describe paint drying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:10 PM
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Lmao what? Do you really think men are congratulated just for having jobs? How on earth did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah that was an entire subgenre and a key part of the pop punk/emo/scene movement. All the women were basically "not like other girls unlike that bitch Stacy". Paramore's "Misery Business" is probably the greatest example, as is Avril's "Girlfriend". Both songs about stealing Stacy's man and fucking him better while eviscerating Stacy for being Stacy - "She's got a body like an hourglass? It's ticking like a clock."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:58 PM
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Even on places like Instagram or Snapchat you can see plenty of content of women making fun of men for thinking liking flowers is gay or whatever. I've literally never seen this in my life. Let me guess, you're polling a bunch of queer fat positive terminally online types?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:54 PM
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Are we really gonna pretend that the vast majority aren't the former instead of the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:14 AM
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Everyone's trying to get better employment but most people aren't gonna give you bad advice for resumes and interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:08 PM
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Hey, that's great! Too bad that has nothing to do with biased court systems always giving the money and assets to the woman without fail :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:04 PM
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Yeah. Like sex won't ever feel as good as it did in your early 20s, you're not really horny anymore, she's just gonna be jaded and uninterested in trying new things ever, you're too tired and exhausted to ever have the time or energy for sex much, you'll have issues with erectile dysfunction and other stuff, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:44 PM
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That's literally not how it works. It's not a "requirement" that you don't swear like a sailor on shore leave but it's a good idea if you actually want to get a second date. You're being wilfully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:32 PM
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No woman has ever turned a guy down because he paid for the date. Many women have turned down guys because they didn't pay for the date. Dating as a man is all about hedging your bets. And I've heard multiple women (whom I wasn't dating) express such a viewpoint anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:20 PM
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The logic is two-fold 1) "he doesn't respect me enough to pay for it all, what an ick" 2) if you don't pay for the date, there's 100 other guys in her inbox who will in a heartbeat Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:15 PM
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the man would be granted half of her assets in a divorce Hahaha hahaha Oh wait, you're serious. Let me laugh even harder. I bet you think men also get alimony lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:14 PM
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Clicking on your profile, it looks like you're from Texas. I'm from Canada, the most degenerate hellhole around. And I say that as a leftist. So I'm not surprised we had different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:10 PM
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Uh I don't think I ever said that. At 33 I'm kinda too old for sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:16 PM
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Except the vast majority of women still hyperfixate on those types and are never, EVER told off about it. Meanwhile guys say "I'd like a woman who isn't rude, respects me, and isn't obese" and they're told they expect a MPDG.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 PM
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So she wants fried ice, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:40 PM
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They inherently know that sensitivity and etc is deeply unattractive, no matter what they say otherwise. And thus it's reflected in their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:34 PM
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A lot of them saw their parents—both mom and dad—share financial burden of the household, meanwhile mom was still primarily responsible for the majority of domestic labor. Mom did 80-90% of the cooking, cleaning, tidying, school supply shopping, doctors visits, parent-teacher conferences, etc. Lmaooo what??? I'm a core millennial (mid 30s) and I've never known another millennial where the mom even put in half the work the dad did. This idea of the mom doing cooking or cleaning is completely fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:24 PM
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Actions match words. If there's a mismatch in your mind, it's because the woman who says she wants a sensitive guy is a different woman from the one who dates players. This is absolutely not the case. I've known tons of women who constantly say they want kind sensitive guys, yet still continue to go along with distant cold boyfriends. Very rarely do women's actions match their words tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:14 PM
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Why would her making good money stop her from fleecing the lad for all he's worth? You don't turn down a raise because "Oh I already make too much money".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:42 AM
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But in western dating it's not expected anymore. It is if you ever want to have a second date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:38 AM
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Can vouch that it's super common. I once had a woman whom I had scheduled a first date with complain to me about how her FWB came over for a weekend and they just hung out. They'll complain to you about their exes etc before the first date even these days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:30 AM
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I remember even at 15 when girls spoke about a guy his penis was an extension of his attractiveness. They liked him——> they loved his dick. If he was hung then yeah they’d rave about that too. I was far more endowed than my exes next boyfriend and she still loved him so much and told me “I’m happy with Brad, I love his penis I love everything about him”. The last person I dated literally told me about how much bigger her FWB's dick is compared to mine right after we had sex. That's not the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 AM
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Oh boy, he gets to pay for all her food and expenses while Chad just had to give her a $3 PBR to get her to blow him in a club bathroom. What a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:28 PM
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We had similar senses of humour and interests, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:24 PM
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You can't really vet or screen partners in the first few dates dude. But none of these women were like wild party girls if that's what you're getting at. The only real connection between the three of them is that they were vaguely nerdy and vaguely artistic I guess. But I don't think the second one I mentioned even ever drew or painted anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:29 PM
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It absolutely is? I met all these women through different ways at different ages. Maybe it's not typical woman behaviour where you are, but it is in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:26 PM
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How do you figure I'm screening for them? They were all different age groups, ethnicities, and met through different ways. Also how do you figure I'm shallow? I have no idea where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:25 PM
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I don’t come from Canada, but come from another western country that’s similar, most women I know don’t have a body count that high. Canada is very different. It's got an extreme celebratory of sexual aggressiveness and for lack of a better term, sexual degeneracy. Imagine if the entire country had the same sexual climate as NYC or the Bay Area and you're on the right track. And I say this as a far leftist lol Are you going for women who are very attractive and outgoing? Or women who move very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:05 PM
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Why do so many dudes think this? It's the most defeatist thing I've ever heard. Why is it assumed that even if you get a girlfriend, she won't like you? That she obviously must have liked someone ELSE more than you and secretly want them instead. I mean I've literally experienced this. First gf, cheated on me with a tall jacked guy. Another gf told me all about the guy she hooked up with on vacation like 10 minutes after we had sex for the first time (we had waited for sex). Another ex told me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:43 AM
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That's blatantly false lmao. No one here meets people through dating apps. People just occasionally use it for hookups, and that only rarely. No one stars a relationship through dating apps(the few that do that are seen as weirdos). And men outnumber women 4 times in dating apps,so no,most young people don't meet there. Touch fucking grass. Uhh it's literally and statistically the way that most couples meet https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/online-dating-now-most-common-way-couples-meet-dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:56 PM
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You're missing the point. She COULD pay for those things, but she doesn't want to or have to. Simple as. She's still financially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:20 PM
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I've literally not seen them. I don't know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:18 PM
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I mean I've literally never seen that said by any woman who is an adult. It's not a "narrative" lol. When have you seen them? Myself I've literally heard directly from mutiple women that if a guy doesn't pay for their date, there's no second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:09 PM
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Dudes here really don't grasp how important economic independence is to the vast majority of women. The narrative that women are all demanding men be providers to them is baffling. There's no contradiction here. They want to have the ability to pay for things but still have the man pay for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:06 PM
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The only time women say that's not the case is when they're teenagers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:02 PM
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What? How do you figure that's comparable? It's a choice to be fat. I can't hit the gym to gain height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:02 PM
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I seriously doubt anyone would seriously call a woman shallow if she didn’t want to date a man who was unemployed living with his parents. No, but most women would call a man who doesn't want to date a fat woman shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:51 PM
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So give up something that makes her happy for the sake of a man that makes her miserable? Why would he make her miserable? I'm saying that the women you mentioned are all self-inflicting their own loneliness and then going "Well I'd rather be alone than be miserable dating someone". They're not "choosing their own personal happiness", they're justifying their own negative choices and reframing it as some kind of virtuous positive self-affirmation by catastrophizing the the entire situation withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:43 PM
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Still taller than me lol, I'm 5'7". I dunno. Your experience is far from the common one for non-masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:39 PM
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If a woman doesn't value casual sex or relationships with men who do t treat her as relationship material, how are these things better than just not being in a relationship The same way you might want a steak but McDonalds is better than starving. The woman who is obese does feel sad and unwanted. So something that is entirely her choice and within her control. I know a woman with the most hectic lifestyle. She literally made travel a hobby. So something that is entirely her choice and within he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:35 PM
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...Most guys don't get to "just hook up". Jesus Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:26 PM
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It's better to eat grass and bark than languish on an empty stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:21 PM
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And all those women will still regularly have sex with far more attractive men and find themselves in short-term relationships very often. Meanwhile men - who are already inherently low value - become even lower value through things completely out of their control (height etc). Do you see the difference here? I once was friends with a woman who was literally obese, homeless, and severely mentally unstable. This didn't stop her from having multiple super hot guys on the go at once. And would stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:15 PM
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Because most men don't get that option like women do. The choice for the majority of men - particularly low value ones - is either be in a bad relationship or be cripplingly alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:07 PM
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You mean the guy who had openly said he couldn't get laid to save his life before he became a world-famous wealthy musician?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:05 PM
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I don't know anyone who's thought "I really like this person so want to stay with them long term, and I like to sleep with people early into meeting them, guess I'll not sleep with them". ??? This is literally the vast vast majority of women, you do know that right? They'll literally see it as "Well I like this guy so I need to make him wait for sex so that ~we can grow to appreciate each other~ but this other guy won't work out long term so I might as well fuck him on the first date in the mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:38 PM
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women date down in looks all the time lol lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:35 PM
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A healthy and happy relationship is always a great thing to strive for, but wouldn't being single be a preferred alternative to being with someone you don't actually enjoy being around? No, absolutely not. Tell me you're a woman without telling me you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:17 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/WhxpdJu Man you got some REAL wack ideas if you think this guy has a "feminine facial structure"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:15 PM
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I actually have a very strong jawline as well (other people have told me this) and I work out a fair amount as well. How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:06 PM
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And here I am, a feminine-androgynous guy who has a terrible dating life explicitly because of that feminine-androgynous stuff. I've literally had women tell me they thought I was gay and/or trans multiple times. I literally went on three dates with a woman and she straight up thought I was ftm for the entire three dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:42 PM
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How the hell are tatted-out rappers with dreads your example of "androgynous heartthrobs"? I can't even begin to understand your logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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There are many androgynous looking men who are celebrated but they usually appeal to the younger crowd. Timothée Chalamet comes to mind as a modern Hollywood example. Chalamet is NOT ANDROGYNOUS. https://imgur.com/a/CT7jClm You would never, EVER mistake this for a woman in a million years. People literally think that anything short of Chris Hemsworth is "androgynous and feminine", it's really aggravating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:36 PM
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As a feminine-looking man, we're seen as gay, asexual, or trans. None of these are good things if you're looking to attract women. I've been explicitly told my multiple women that they thought I was gay and/or ftm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:34 PM
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Also who goes to a spa with their opposite sex bestie? Well, gay guys, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:32 PM
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There's not scores of men out there thirsting after Taylor Swift What.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:01 PM
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Taylor Swift is widely considered one of the hottest women who ever lived and she's 5'10". Tall women just get called "leggy" or "statuesque".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:00 PM
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Uhhh Pretty much every relationship starts with sex and then dating afterwards. I've been mocked multiple times for expressing confusion on this or thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:08 PM
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You're really playing dumb here and frankly it's annoying af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:00 PM
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I don't think the point was "Lots of women will treat short men as asexual homunculi so it's totally fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:50 AM
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I've literally been cheated on by two of my partners with tall jacked guys. Another one literally apologized to her friend when she thought I was asleep for me not being masculine and big. Yet another one told me all about the tall jacked guy she fucked on vacation right after we had sex for the first time. It is absolutely NOT "all in my head" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:36 AM
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Question: in all your life you’ve never come across a couple of women who were at least indifferent toward short men, if not treated them well? I don't think anyone has tbh. Maybe if they're really lucky, they'll be indifferent. But I've never had that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:16 AM
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I have no issues with my partner or any male friends crying in front of me and I definitely don't think less of them for being vulnerable around me. I literally had my longest term girlfriend lose all attraction to me and eventually break up with me because I cried a bunch in front of her about my father dying on the day he died. There's a reason why most guys have these stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:23 PM
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They're all sharing the same small group of women, as was shown by the discrepancies in single men vs single women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:18 PM
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Nah, that's just Canada. I've lived in multiple cities across the country, same situation no matter where.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:52 AM
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I am VERY close with these people. For some of them, I used to even BE in relationships with them. It's very common in Canada and as I said, there's no reason not to be in an open relationship if you're a woman. Any man who feels jealous or uncomfortable about it is told by society that he needs to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:36 AM
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Oh no, I definitely am. I even know people who are married while still dating other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:33 AM
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Like only 8% of American HOUSEHOLDS make 200k a year. It is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:33 AM
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Not all, just the vast majority. And there's no way to tell if she's one of the very rare few who aren't ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:28 AM
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Oh no, you're misunderstanding. It's open relationships FOR THE WOMEN. Every open relationship is the woman having a bunch of guys on the go at once and one guy might maaaybbbbeee get a fat chick to come back with him from the bar once or twice a year. And as for their boyfriend being jealous, they're just told that they need to grow up and get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:27 AM
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They still do them anyway, even if they can't handle them. Sometimes even openly so! Again, there's no reason to not do an open relationship if you're a woman. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:22 AM
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Wait, are you implying that 200k isn't rich? The average US income is like 30k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:20 AM
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Do you honestly think that if you're the perfect boyfriend they'd be like, "nah, I'm looking for something casual,fuck off. As someone who is also Canadian, that actually IS the reality, 100%. There's no reason for the women NOT to be in open relationships - why have just the perfect boyfriend, when you could also have the perfect boyfriend, and a different perfect boyfriend, and some other guys on the side? I literally know one women who straight up gets handed off from one partner to the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:19 AM
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Yes? You really think guys over like late 20s aren't seen as weirdo creepy pests at bars? You really think people still hold house parties after 25? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:30 AM
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I'm 5'7" and I look like a feminine pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:58 PM
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You are better off meeting women in person. That doesn't happen anymore in this day and age. Maybe if you're still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:51 PM
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The point is that flaws and failings are not only forgiven but even seen in positive lights for them. A low value man cannot ever do anything but be the most perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 PM
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There is no famous actress at Robert Deniros age who is cast as a lead. Uh... Meryl Streep? Helen Mirren? Julianne Moore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:09 PM
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Yeah bro everyone always knows some 5'3" bald janitor who slays because he's so charismatic and funny Yet nobody ever IS that 5'3" bald janitor. Curious, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:48 PM
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A funny, charismatic man who dresses exceptionally and can make everyone laugh, but who is also average and isn't "hideous"? I would bet my life on the average guy. A funny, charismatic man who dresses exceptionally and can make everyone laugh will make lots of FRIENDS. He won't get lots of women. He'll make them laugh and smile while they wait for their dick appointment to arrive. Half the women in my entire mid 20s friend group was laid by one guy who was tall and jacked and that was his only …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:40 PM
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See my other post about the tall jacked guy I know who is brain-numbingly boring - even according to the women who have dated him - but still gets laid like a brick. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16w80r1/i_think_that_being_a_smooth_talker_is_the_best/k2vm4f4/ He could get 3x or 4x times the number of dates/ hookups if he was socially adjusted. It's about missed opportunities that are not charming would bring about And who do you think is getting more women? A very attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:30 PM
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Yeah, she didn't care about anything he said because of how attracted she was to him. That's what real attraction looks like. The vast, VAST majority of men will never get to experience a woman being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:23 PM
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So you have no actual reply or response and never intended to reply genuinely. Got it. Like at no point have you ever actually answered anything I asked you or even stayed on topic, as soon as you were asked any question about a subject, you just moved to the next subject instead. It's pretty fucking transparent, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:15 PM
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Wait, hold on. I thought were talking about social status. Now we're talking about making women "feel emotions". Are you even reading my posts? 1) So you've personally seen a social group where it was an ugly/fat mofo leading the group and he wasn't also rich, then? 2) Why would "actually talking to a girl in actual real life" be something you think is possible if you are an unattractive man? Do you really think women will welcome an ugly short guy walking up to them at a bar and trying to chat …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:10 PM
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I LITERALLY KNOW HIM PERSONALLY AS WELL AS THE EX AND HAVE WATCHED HIM RECITE WIKIPEDIA PAGES ABOUT MARVEL MOVIES AS "FLIRTING". You didn't even read the post, did you? https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16w80r1/i_think_that_being_a_smooth_talker_is_the_best/k2vm4f4/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:07 PM
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Do people really think some dude who gets his dick sucked randomly in a club bathroom was talking about Roman geopolitics in 1st century AD or reciting the entire Pokedex from Gen 1-Gen 8 from memory? If he looks good enough, yes. I've watched it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:06 PM
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but an attractive guy with poor social skills just hanging out isn’t going to pick anyone up. See my post about the jacked tall guy who was so boring that his ex broke up with him explicitly because he was boring. He still has no trouble getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:04 PM
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One of my exes's exes. The dude is so dull that my ex literally said the reason she broke up with him was because he was so boring that she couldn't take it. We all went out to a bar one time together. I was making the rounds, greeting the regulars, chatting with everyone, dancing, singing karaoke, shooting pool, chilling with the bartenders, the works. The exes's ex? He literally sat in a corner and stared at the wall while drinking. A woman came over to him in his corner and grabbed his thigh …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:03 PM
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Ugly dudes don't get social status, bro. When you ever seen a social group and it's an ugly fat mf who's leading the pack? Unless he's like stupid rich and they're all his entourage or clout chasers, you've never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:57 PM
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You tell them that women like tall, attractive, wealthy men and have absolutely 0 preferences beyond that. Uh, it's WOMEN who say that. Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:51 PM
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An ugly but confident, funny, socially smart, charismatic guy can certainly be sexually attractive to women and elicit the "hot guy" responses from women. If he's ugly, he won't get his foot in the door. You're being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:51 PM
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and it is met with glowing approval Kinda glossed over that part, didn't ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:49 PM
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And again, the "decided to be poly" thing is so rare as to be an internet curiosity. It is absolutely not. I have had two separate relationships completely fall apart because the woman suddenly decided she wanted to be poly. I currently know about half as many women in open relationships/poly/etc shit as I do in monogamous relationships. It is FAR more common that you think, especially under 30. There's literally no reason for a woman not to be in a poly relationship, as she gets the best of eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:43 PM
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Is this literally all you can post? Sorry you got called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:40 PM
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Do the ordinary men realize they’ve been settled for and do the hot guys realize their wives are insecure? The ordinary men never realize because most men have no idea of what actually being desired by a woman feels like. Hot guys don't care because they can replace those wives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:32 PM
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So by the time they have tons of baggage with their exes, lack any kind of energy or spontaneity, no longer want to (or depending on age, CAN) have kids, etc THAT'S when you "crave stability". That's men's reward for "working hard in their 20s". Less for more. And you think this is a good thing that will motivate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:30 PM
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Because the experiences of those who tried in earnest and still failed are just as valid and helpful. If you only listen to success stories, you never get a full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:19 PM
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I can tell you’ve never been in a relationship with someone who was into you. Oh yeah, I'm very well aware. I'm inherently a low value man (short [5'7"], somewhat feminine looking, old [in my 30s], poor), so of course I haven't. Men like me who aren't high value aren't going to be in a relationship with someone who actually is into them. I've never once received a single compliment from anyone I've ever dated in my life, and that's probably pretty common for low value men like me. You're speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:57 PM
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I never said that women are never attracted to men. I said most women aren't attracted to most men and that's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:41 PM
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The majority of men can't play the field. You're dealing with an extreme minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:32 PM
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[_] - Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:31 PM
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Because you're trying to use the existence of one thing to prove something else. Physical attraction is different from attraction. Thinking someone is hot doesn't mean you're attracted to them. I simply said it couldn't be based on physical attraction. Does that change your argument? Attraction without physical attraction isn't attraction. Simple as. Most people are attracted to someone if they think they're hot. Nobody goes "Oh she's so hot, I'd just absolutely hate to fuck her!" They still do.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 PM
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Go ask most men what they think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:51 PM
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I didn't say there is anything to do about it. I just stated a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:45 PM
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You really just bailed on your whole argument because you can't link the tinder study? lol No, I'm saying you're asking me to provide proof of a study about attractiveness while also not having the study be based on attractiveness. It's like saying "Tell me what 2 + 2 is. And don't say 4, give me a real answer!" The fact that the average man will have multiple sexual and monogamous relationships in their lifetime. You being way below average doesn't change the reality. For one, the average man U…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:34 PM
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Please feel free to link to anything that isn't based on online dating or physical attractiveness. "Please show proof that the majority of women don't find men attractive without using any evidence based on attractiveness" Yeah okay buddy I'll get right on that Again, this is pure c*pe. I get that it's all you have, but it's true. Uh, what makes it so? You've given no evidence or reasoning except "haha you're wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:17 PM
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Except it's been studied that the majority of men find the majority of women attractive, but the majority of women see men as unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:10 PM
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Guys don't find the majority of women attractive either. That doesn't change the fact that people still find partners that find them attractive. Yes, they do. This is a proven fact. Most men are attracted to most women, but it doesn't go the other way around. A man finding a parter who is truly attracted to him instead of being a settling option is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
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Except most men DO find most women attractive. This is literally statistically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:07 PM
3

Because most of those men get divorced, get cheated on, and express frustration at feeling unloved etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:06 PM
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No, it's just accurate. Just because you don't like how it makes women look shallow doesn't make it "projection".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:05 PM
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Everyone is someone else’s 10. That's a just world fallacy that has no basis in reality. In real life, the people who receive all the attention for being attractive share all the same characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:04 PM
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Most men will experience it. No. No, they will not. Why do you think that the average instagram model is the average woman? Because the average woman does have tons and tons of guys in the waiting. A friend of mine, she was literally homeless, very psychotic, and had previous drug addictions, but still had multiple guys on the go at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:03 PM
1

The high rates of divorce and/or cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:01 PM
3

You've already shown earlier that you're not engaging honestly and in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:01 PM
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It absolutely is though? Women don't find the majority of men attractive and most men will go their entire lives never knowing what having someone truly attracted to them feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:59 PM
1

I didn't say that but thanks for the silly strawman argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:56 PM
2

Not really when money is just a number on a piece of paper that has no practical real world value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:22 PM
2

The majority of men I've met dream of being in relationships. Lonely men don't dream of banging out every girl at work or something. They dream of being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:11 PM
1

I'm Canadian. Nobody gives a shit about men here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:09 PM
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Those men could ask their docs instead, but you know... stoicism and toxic masculinity prevents some men from seeking the medically approved help they need. I've done that. For as much as people love to talk about how doctors don't give a shit about women's health, they don't give a shit about men's health either. I've seen two separate doctors, as I have the T levels of a man in his early 50s. Both of them basically said "yeah your T levels are low. That sucks. Well, see ya." I should just say …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:02 PM
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I firmly believe the latter is true. Most men will go their entire lives never really knowing what being desired feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:56 PM
1

How so? They're very comparable. They're both great examples of conflating underutilization with proper utilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:54 PM
1

Kinda. People don't "just" gain 10kg in 6 months out of nowhere. There were certainly lots of signs beforehand - he had no confidence or care for his body, he lived a very sedentary lifestyle, he had incredibly poor eating habits, etc It's the same thing when guys are like "oh man she just became such a toxic bitch after we got married". No dude, the red flags were always there, you just ignored them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:53 PM
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I didn't think I needed to link to the data from the Pew Poll study since you're clearly familiar with it and we've been discussing it this whole time. That's like saying I need to always post a link to an article about BEDMAS before talking about anything math-related.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:51 PM
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You also have no evidence to back it up. You literally said "the data can't be right because there's no way it adds up!". I explain a very logical way that data would be valid and you just go nuh-uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:50 PM
1

Do you consider a bunch of men to be working 15 hours a week at McDonalds to be gainfully employed and the sign of a fully functioning economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:49 PM
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She's posting online and getting sympathy, cheating on him, messaging old boyfriends, what have you. Look at it like this; think about how many stories there are about women in loveless marriages committing adultery and their feelings are completely justified. Titanic is considered one of the most romantic movies ever made and it's literally all about a woman openly committing adultery with a literal bum she met the day before. Have you EVER seen a story like that with the genders flipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:45 PM
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Not really. I'm saying if a woman marries a slob because he's hot or rich or whatever, it's her own fault. Same thing with the genders flipped. But most men don't get the opportunity to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:43 PM
1

Maybe like 90/10. Some people say 95/5 but that's a bit nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:40 PM
1

If a woman marries a man who can't even brush his teeth or clean his dick properly, isn't that the woman's fault, not the man's fault? Same thing if I marry a fat psycho slob woman, that'd be my fault, not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:39 PM
1

Okay, show me it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:38 PM
1

Nobody said that all of those 63% of men were the top tier Chads. Are you dense? That's just an quick explanation of how the numbers differ so much. The majority of the men in that 63% are actually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:38 PM
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No, it's called the Pareto Principle. That OK Cupid stat is just yet another representation of it. If anything, the number is much worse than 80/20 in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
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Uh yeah you kinda do Unless you consider to desperately having sex once a year with a drunk fat slob to be "not being sexless". That's like saying the economy is fine when people are stuck working part time at dead end fast food jobs because they're technically employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
3

Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
1

Yeah, and then you look deeper into those threads and it's almost always a cold relationship where the guy is treated as a provider with no love given, yet the women is complaining "whhyyyyyy doesn't he make me feel beautiful anymore???" when she has given him no love or affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
5

I'm beginning to think you don't know what basic math skills or reading comprehension is, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
4

As a man, I was molested by a drunk female friend and then made to apologize to her for making her cry after I confronted her about molesting me. So uh, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:30 PM
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Where do you think the 80/20 stuff even came from? It wasn't just made up one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:28 PM
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Because they settled for guys they weren't attracted to do and they show no affection to him, making them dead bedrooms. This isn't some gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:28 PM
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Either large numbers of men lied or large numbers of polygamists were surveyed. Also no. 5 women date 1 top tier guy. The top tier guy sees himself as single. The women all say they're dating. Therefore, 5 partnered women and 1 single man. Boy that was hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah, most single men are sexless. Unless you're arguing that most men are actually regularly getting laid with one night stands and hookups, in which case lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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It pretty much is though? Unless you're really arguing that most guys are actually playboys getting laid a lot with hookups in which case lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:25 PM
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Completely baseless, except for all the evidence about it both in dating and general distribution principles. Yeah okay buddy. Tell me you're really into hustlebro culture
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:21 PM
5

Aka a lot of women settling for provider guys they're not really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:19 PM
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That's literally not true and you know it. The rate of single men 18-29 is 63%. The rate of single women 18-29 is 33%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:19 PM
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Haha like you're right but like who cares man haha just like man up man haha can't get pussy if you are one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:09 PM
8

Except for, you know, the huge record numbers of sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:08 PM
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Women settle for men, this results in a dead bedroom for the man. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:07 PM
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If you have to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:39 PM
2

And then they'll die happy. I think you're really underestimating how nihilistic the average person has become, and especially the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:23 PM
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Most men have been in love. But most men have never BEEN loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:22 PM
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Who cares about that either? All a single man needs is enough money to cover rent, food, and a bit of booze or weed. You'd be stupid to care about having "a career" when the world is constantly on the precipice of complete economic collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:21 PM
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As was mentioned earlier, most women don't mind most men attractive at all. The good ol' 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:20 PM
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Oh no, they got to have lots of sex with attractive young women, I'm sure that will go horribly for them. They're just really gonna regret that sooooo much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:14 PM
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Average guys and even ugly guys have kinky sex too. Certainly not in this generation. Did you forget about all the studies showing how many men are single and/or haven't had sex in a year? The men who are having sex aren't the ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:13 PM
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The high numbers of male loneliness, dead bedrooms, divorce, and sexless men (while women aren't even close to the same numbers) would suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:11 PM
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That's why you need to pursue someone who's attracted to you? Except most men don't experience this and will never experience it? You're speaking from the perspective of a woman who will always have 20 guys in the waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:01 PM
3

in my experience from the time guys are 16 and beyond they only date for sex I think this is called telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:43 PM
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Quite a lot of women disagree. I politely flirted ONCE at a party with a friend of a female friend after me and her had had a 30 min+ conversation about shared interests. She went and told all her friends what a creep I was and nearly nuked my social group because I hit on her without being attractive enough in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:20 PM
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Oh lol it's just a really famous Youtube video, sorry. I was just saying that you were describing a perfect world scenario which doesn't bear water, but spicing it up a bit with a meme. Sorry about the confusion! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl3H4vMqYNo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:49 PM
1

In a perfect world <span class="md-spoiler-text">men like me would not exist</span> But this is not a perfect world...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:15 PM
1

Nothing about that implies you were friends though? It doesn't even imply that he thought you would be good personality-wise and instead just thought you'd have the same skill sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:13 PM
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"30+" can and does include your 85 year old grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:12 PM
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You made it sound as though you didn't make any connections, romantic or platonic, for those seasons. If that wasn't the case then my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:04 PM
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After a couple of seasons of lesson, I was invited to join a men's tennis team. You're literally talking about wasting years of your life hoping for the chance to meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:51 PM
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Cool, that's a great anime speech 👌 if you had integrity, honour, and nobility, you wouldn't openly allow people to rip you off and take advantage of you. You're confusing being a timid pacifist with being kind and generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:44 PM
5

Spotted the guy who calls people "stingy" when they enforce boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:43 PM
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The knowledge you did "the right thing" doesn't matter one lick to society or the world. I really hope you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:40 PM
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Over 50% of men from previous generations. You can't compare people who got married in the 80s to the marriage rates as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:29 PM
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Yeah. And it's when kind people draw boundaries that they get called "nice guys", "fair weather friends", etc. Genuine kindness where one expects nothing back is actually of great value TO PEOPLE WHO CAN EXPLOIT IT. A friend of mine used to host parties all the time, food and drink included, and was packed with people saying what a great friend he was. As soon as he stopped hosting them, suddenly those same people were saying how stingy my friend was and badmouthing him. The idea that it's someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:29 PM
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I agree! However, the latter doesn't really exist outside of angsty 15 year olds and 4channers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:17 PM
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You can just be an actually kind person and people will often respect you for it Actually, that's absolutely not true. Most people don't respect someone who is nice - or did you not notice that modern society is basically designed to breed and champion self-centered sociopaths? There's a reason why 1 in 5 CEOs are like that. An actually kind person just gets taken advantage of, and when they express "hey, you're taking advantage of me buddy", then they get told they're nice guys and if they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 PM
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I'm not a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:01 PM
1

I don’t see your situation as being normal. Because most people don’t live gender segregated lives Most single men do, especially lower SMV men. To quote a Chris Rock bit; "All my black friends have a lot of white friends. And all my white friends have one black friend!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:09 PM
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He's literally NOT, that was my entire point. In what world does a 6 foot tall shredded rockstar covered in tattoos count as "extremely feminine"? This is my entire fucking point; women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "cute" and "feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:49 AM
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You mean the 6 foot tall rockstar with shredded sixpack abs covered in tattoos? https://imgur.com/XocPI1x This isn't helping your case at all lol. And this is when you go "Oh but what about all the times when he wears dresses!", ignoring that he only does that for photoshoots and red carpets as a gimmick. You will never find a candid image of Harry Styles looking like that ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:18 AM
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Keep a tally of women who notice you in public Lmaoooo Women don't "notice" guys in public. This is your 6'3" butt thinking your experience is anything similar to 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:06 AM
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Girl, timothee chalamet has probably the biggest thirst fanbase out there and he has the physique of a child lmfao. You know a lot of 155lb 5'10" children with hunter eyes and a chin like Gigachads? I swear to god, women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "cute" and "feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:30 PM
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Because women can pretty much ALWAYS do better than the guy they're with, while the same isn't true for men. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:30 PM
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"Planning" a date, i.e. picking a place to go and when, takes five minutes and isn't expected. If you really think that it takes a mere "five minutes" then you've never planned a date in your life lol. Or your idea of a date is taking them to McDonalds. And it absolutely IS expected, what are you even talking about? A man can't just be like "Hey wanna do something at some time this weekend?" and get any kind of results. You have to plan dates in a way that would allow them to naturally flow and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:32 PM
5

What even are men doing in relationships that's sooooooooo hard anyway? Everything? Planning dates, paying for them, escalating things each level...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:16 PM
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No real point in dating after your mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:07 PM
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I must be then. I thought you were divorced and remarried but I guess I'm thinking of another user. Somehow I doubt you're "goblin like" though. EDIT: Also if you've been married for over 20 years, you married before online dating so your experiences aren't really relevant anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:34 PM
0

Aren't you literally divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:28 PM
1

Bro, people can't just "pull an extra shift" whenever they want. Nor can they just "do a side hustle". What the fuck do YOU do that makes you your money?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:10 PM
1

"bro just make that bag bro! just win the lottery it's easy bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:46 PM
1

If a dude doesn’t want to spend 50 bucks twice a week then he doesn’t ask out 2 times for that week. How hard is that?! Even once a week. $250 a month on a mere slim chance is a lot to most men, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:38 PM
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And if you go on a date with a girl you like you get to “go on a date” with a girl YOU asked out. And if that’s what you expect then you are probably gonna be happy you did that not “well why wasn’t sex rewarded”. Like seriously bruh. Maybe you misunderstand. The "NFL game" isn't the sex, it's the girl herself. You really expect guys to go out to bars and blow $50+ a night twice a week for the hope they MIGHT meet a girl. It's dumb. And alcohol sales have gone down by volume. The prices of drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:29 PM
1

If I buy an NFL ticket, I know I'll get to see an NFL game or I'll get my money back. If I attend a concert, I know I'll get to see the band or I'll get my money back. I'm not paying $80 for a concert ticket for the POSSIBILITY of seeing a band perform - and not the possibility of seeing the band I want to see, but the possibility of seeing ANY BAND perform. the prices of drinks at bars and clubs What are you even talking about? Alcohol sales at bars/clubs have been steadily and consistently goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:22 PM
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Whatever happened to going out and seeing what happens and partying with a girl just to let the day/night carry you two? Multiple economic crashes meaning that most men can't afford to blow tons of money and hours and hours of time on maybe-whatif-couldbe theoretical situations, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:08 PM
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But if he's single, yeah, on average I'd think at least 2-3 women a year might be interested in a normal guy. Maybe before the internet, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:35 PM
1

Maybe 2nd wave and radfems. A lot of Hollywood A-list actresses identify as feminist, and they are some of the most beautiful women alive. Probably because it'd be social suicide for them to identify as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:31 PM
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Most people don’t think of sex as a reward Hahaha! Oh wait. You're serious? Let me laugh even harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah they're setting you up with other chicks because you're hot, not because you're "one of the good guys" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:28 PM
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Fat chicks, yes. Ugly dudes, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:23 PM
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I suppose that's an angle that I wasn't thinking of. Sorry you're dealing with that. As long as you're consistent with all guys, that's some bullshit and not fair to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:35 PM
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I'm not saying you're shamed for both. I'm saying I've only ever seen women being shamed for NOT being sluts, and it's always by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:08 PM
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You really think women are being slut shamed in 2023? I've met more women who were shamed by their friends for NOT being sluts than I ever have met slut shamed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:05 PM
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I'm also neurodivergent myself. You really don't understand what a safety net being a woman is when you socialize. You can commit outright faux pas and get away with it, while as a man I literally have had to drag a female friend along to events in the past she didn't want to go to just so I would have a chance to talk to people without them thinking of me as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:04 AM
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Yeah, you really don't understand what a difference being a woman makes when you're trying to join new social groups. You're always welcome and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:48 AM
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Damn it, I somehow missed all this time that you're a woman. Should have paid attention to your flair. No wonder you had no problems getting into a new social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:31 AM
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Uh-hun. And I bet you've known those people since you were in your 20s, right? Meeting small close knit groups of older people is not actionable advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:21 AM
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I'm 33. Those subcultures don't exist after your mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:15 AM
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Uh, yeah. That's what I meant by them NOT being that age. That subculture doesn't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:07 AM
1

I really find it hard to believe that "I like your dress" got anyone anywhere. At best, it's a go-nowhere say-nothing throwaway comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'd face other barriers if I did that lol, like the cultural and language barriers. Also I'm not in my 20s, I'm 33. I'm old by western standards and ancient by Japanese standards. (For dating obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:05 AM
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Oh, you say they were DEEEEEBBBBOOOONNNKEDDD, eh? Please, post these deboonked studies so I can see them too! I wanna be the one screaming AHHH IM DEBOONNNNKKKKINNNNGG!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:00 AM
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Women genuinely don't care what you look like to a large degree. You can't... actually believe this, do you? Like holy shit. If you are in a social circle with a woman and she loves your personality, she will statistically speaking be interested in dating you at some point in that friendship. SHE WILL NOT GIVE YOU THE CHANCE TO DEMONSTRATE YOUR PERSONALITY IF YOU ARE NOT HOT. God damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:58 AM
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Looks only get you in the door with someone, they don't keep people there by and large. Personality and morals is what people are attracted to long term. What does that matter if someone can't get through the door in the first place though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:44 PM
1

I wasn't saying that hot guys don't eat pussy. I was saying that hot guys don't HAVE to eat pussy if they don't want to. That's very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:35 AM
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Maybe that's how it works in other countries or with attractive guys? In Toronto telling someone they have a cool shirt and trying to talk to them about it just results in - at best - sheepish smiles and one word answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:46 AM
1

??? Caring to do something has no affect on it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:45 AM
1

Yeah, you'll find the elderly there. And you're not gonna make new friends going to open mic nights or community theater dude, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:54 PM
1

I rarely ever see anyone that age at those things. And they're never ever single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:43 PM
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He was tall and attractive, and he was the bestie of one of the main organizer types of the group. He wasn't my friend exactly for the reasons I mentioned earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:19 PM
0

I'm short, have a feminine babyface, I'm rarely seen with women in a romantic context, and I wear black nail polish and eyeliner sometimes. I don't need women thinking I'm any gayer than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:16 PM
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Not anyone in I was ever in a relationship, no. The only one who ever complimented me was my first ex, but that was after we broke up because she openly cheated on me, so that was probably just weird mind games lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:17 PM
1

Congrats, instead of sounding gay you just sound awkward. Much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:55 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:54 PM
1

Yeah, that just makes you seen even gayer dude. Imagine thinking being super attuned to women's fashion enough to compliment random women on it would make you seem MORE straight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:54 PM
0

Yeah, somehow I doubt that. What kinds of things have they said? "That's a lovely blouse you have" just SCREAMS hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:52 PM
1

Fine, we'll play your scenario instead. So, why? Anyone could lick you out until you cum, that's nothing special. But a 10/10 jacked chad aggressively and animalistically fucking you is a unique once in a lifetime thing. That's absolutely something you'd brag about to your friends and remember, not some Bobby Beta "with a really good personality" who ate you out a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:44 PM
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See, I don't. Other than the elderly, I constantly see Gigachadesque types with less attractive women. I never see any average men out there with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:41 PM
2

The same way you can be a biblical scholar and still be an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:34 PM
8

The girl is kinda still laughing but senses her friend is being hurt and gets into a bit of a verbal spar with the guy hitting on her and bullying her friend. See, this isn't what would happen. In reality, she'd be turned on by the guy and her friend, now throughly dominated right in front of her eyes, would never have a chance with her ever as he is now in permanent "ick" mode in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:29 PM
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Well, the guy who laid half of the women in my mid 20s friend group was a tall jacked literal racist who would drop hard R n-bombs "as a joke", insult and demean people, and slip the condom off during sex. So the guy who fucked the majority of the young women I've met also happened to be criminally toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:07 PM
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If she's in her 50s and still pining for her high school sweetheart, he was probably a pretty decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:49 PM
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Based on what? Why on earth would spending a bunch of time and money on a degree in some random field make him far more likely to be a kind/empathetic/thoughtful/etc person? This is literally just textbook elitist classism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:49 PM
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The part where you're taking a story about a man who was apparently a totally fine decent guy, and making incredibly negative assumptions about him in order to spew vitriol about men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:35 PM
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I've literally never been complimented once by a woman in any of the relationships I've been in. It's very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:34 PM
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Complimenting women is even LESS likely to get you anywhere though???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
1

Posts like these are why the other Redditors were calling you bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
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This is the dude that always takes the bit too far 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:31 PM
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Crime is steadily going down because of a reduction of what is considered a crime + advanced police techniques, not because criminals are breeding less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:30 PM
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That's great, but the scenario in question was about knowing a woman who was heartbroken she broke up with her high school sweetheart, thinking she could do better than him. You're the one who started going off about him being an abusive asshole slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:28 PM
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It always amazes me that the sadsack side of red pill doesn't just get woke and hang out with us weird artsy/indie/alt kids. Because they're not 23 and those subcultures don't really exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:25 PM
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We're the expendable gender for a reason. "Women and children first", after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 PM
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Uh nobody said anything about this. You're changing the criteria and hypothetical so fast you've probably got whiplash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:15 PM
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He's saying that it's unreasonable of you to expect a man in his 40s to be both completely childfree and single. It's not about him being single in and of itself. And your first one is very elitist, yeah. The fact that you are considering a degree as a sign of intelligence as opposed to simply a sign of someone who dumped out some cash to sit in classes says a lot. Why do you assume that someone who has a four year degree in Communications is inherently intelligent and educated, while a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:13 PM
1

Once again, not answering the question and substituting their own scenario instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:02 AM
1

How do you figure that? They're all above-average for their area in one way or another. That's the 63% thing, the women are sharing the top group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:20 AM
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If you were Chad and she was actually attracted to you, you wouldn't NEED the dilating anyway. Look at DJ Khaled - he openly says that as a HVM, he doesn't need to perform cunnilingus, not even on his own wife. Also just personal experiencing, switching between intense fucking and oral is a super turn on for women. You're missing the point. Which between those two scenarios would she remember, cherish, and tell all her friends about more? The time some mid guy licked her out until she came, or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:17 AM
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Well, when twice the number of men are single under 30 compared to women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:42 PM
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"Everything is the man's fault and women are perfect and infallible". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:31 PM
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Uh, that's literally and factually untrue? More than half of men under 30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:29 PM
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Except thanks to social media and online dating, her social circle is "every straight man in a 15 mile radius", so you are very unlikely to be the most attractive person in her social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:12 PM
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Uh, it's simple math. If you put $500 into a slot machine and win $50, you're not winning $50. You're losing $450.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:10 PM
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Pretty much. They're in relationships because they either have above-average wealth, above-average status, or above-average looks. That or they're 35+ and it really doesn't matter anymore. And she'll resent him for that anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:09 PM
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I've literally been called creepy for politely flirting with a woman at a house party after we had talked one-on-one for over half an hour. Women will just call you creepy for any reason if you're ugly, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:05 PM
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"Just repeatedly subject yourself to rejection until you become completely numb from it. I can't imagine why men are dropping out of the dating game!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:02 PM
1

Wait, you're not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 PM
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You're essentially describing a scenario that doesn't exist. If you're plain as day, average height, netural face, and she isn't aroused by your looks, then you're never going to get the chance to show her what a "genuinely great and fun guy" you are anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:49 PM
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Easy. The average guy ISN'T in a relationship. We know this for a fact. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:42 PM
1

No, it's not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:42 PM
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I say this as someone who enthusiastically goes down on women; I'm well aware that if I was Chad, I wouldn't be expected to do so. What do you think a woman is more likely to remember and cherish and tell all her friends about; the time that Bobby Beta ate her out until she came, or the time Chad fucked her hard in all sorts of positions until HE came, then called her an Uber? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:40 PM
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Only by men. When a woman golddigs, she's a bad bitch getting her bag. "Every woman should have four pets in her life. A mink in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a jackass who pays for everything!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:27 PM
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You're literally citing articles DECADES out of date. The world, the average mental health of a man, the dating scene, etc was so completely different in 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:19 PM
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I think women using men for meals is vastly over reported. Most women do not think a free meal is worth spending time with a person she’s not interested. Over 1/3rd of women report going on dates with men they have no interest in for free meals. That's literally self-reported data lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:06 PM
0

Non-Chads have to do everything they can to stack the deck in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:02 PM
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Ahhhh! I'm deboooooonnnkkkinnnggggg! You can't "debunk" the Pareto principle lmao. How was it "debunked"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:31 PM
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Oh, I agree. But those women still see those top men as POTENTIAL options, and therefore that affects the way they treat "lesser men".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:18 PM
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A guy is boring when he is isn't hot. I knew a guy who was tall and jacked but was so insanely boring he'd literally recite Wikipedia articles about Marvel films as conversation. He'd still go home with girls even though he bored them to utter death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:15 PM
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Women have far too many options now to ever simp for anything but the top of the top, and men can't become the top of the top if they're not already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:09 PM
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Because those kids are free labor and they live with their grandparents and other relatives who can take care of the children while the parents till the fields or whatever. The extreme individualism of the west makes this impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:52 AM
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Men dropped tools on female co-workers or deliberately turned on electrical power when they began working on lines. "Casual banter" Somehow I doubt men were regularly ATTEMPTING MURDER on their female coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:43 PM
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For example nurse and flight attendants were once women's jobs. Now it's common for men too to do these jobs. If you view them 'less of a man' it's entirely your problem and honestly ridiculous. Would you view a woman who works in tech 'less of a woman'? Hopefully not because women in tech are as feminine as any other woman. It's all in your head. Yeah see here's the thing though - it doesn't go both ways. To women, another woman who works in roles that were traditionally masculine is a #BossBit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:41 PM
1

How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:55 PM
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I had to talk one of my best friends out of su*cide because of completely false rape allegations that even she later admitted were false. He was literally holding the drugs in his hand and I had to talk him out of overdosing. So excuse me if I don't particularly care if you believe that preventing more tragic situations like that is "gross".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:29 PM
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Most men have an overinflated perception of their own attractiveness and the sexual interest that women might have in them. What? If anything, the vast majority of men have incredibly low standards and very poor self-image.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:22 PM
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No, that's red pill bullshit. If they only had sex to motivate them, then that is a flaw with them, not a problem with society. The vast majority of men are able to have motivations in life beyond where they're going to stick their dick. So if men can't own a home can't own land can't have a family can't have a partner what IS there to motivate them to do anything other than the bare minimum for survival?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:20 PM
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Until AI can reliably make the connections and single you out based off of years of archived data. Sure, but when that happens, it happens to EVERYONE so it's kind of a mutually assured destruction and everyone goes back to square one. It'll be hard for some woman to complain about a guy who said misogynistic things on 4chan in 2017 when she has a bunch of Reddit posts about how much she hates certain races, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:00 PM
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Good thing it's not the 1920s anymore and big daddy government will step in to make sure your existence is subsidized if you're a woman and you break up with your husband. Or hell, even if you were never married; in 2020 Canadian courts decided that even if you never married and never lived together and never had children, the man can still be on the hook for alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 PM
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Well, half the women in my friends group in my mid/late 20s were laid by a super toxic guy who was fond of dropping N bombs as a "joke" and slipping condoms off during sex. But he was tall and good looking so his literally CRIMINAL levels of toxicity didn't actually matter. And these women ranged from everything from stoner hippies to uptight LARPer literature geeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:30 PM
1

it’s definitely not most women. In the past, perhaps. Now it's celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:40 PM
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I don't think it IS a big thing tbh. It's like a baby boomer/gen X thing. I bought a very attractive girl in a club a drink once, and she was at that club every weekend for like years. She said it was the first time anyone ever bought her a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:13 PM
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My friendship circle has multiple people who have previously dated a member of the group. How old are you? That's some high school shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 AM
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And how many of those women are actually even slightly attractive or youthful, as opposed to being 48 year old alcoholics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 AM
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No, it's very on topic. Introverted women don't have to deal with introverted men, and frankly they don't want to ime either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:27 PM
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Introverted women can go to a bar, stand in a corner, and still get men approaching them. Introverted men are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:16 PM
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I'm her best friend, that's how I know lol. And I guess? She has a singular small tattoo on one shoulder. I don't know what "nonbookish looks" would be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:56 AM
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Military service gives equal opportunity for cheating, it's just there's a lot more men enlisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:31 PM
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Yep. And she decided I was creepy entirely because I'm short and not masculine looking, therefore I'm creepy for expressing any kind of sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:31 PM
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I don't think anyone is talking about health insurance or even welfare when talking about "big daddy government". Here in Canada it's out of control. There are dozens of programs that will literally pay women just to exist, I'm not even joking. For example, there's programs that literally pay women to go to trade school, then guarantee them jobs via paying them AFTER they graduate if they can't find rapid employment in the trades. There's a reason women are universally a net negative on taxes fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:30 PM
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And now the military is bled dry and guys know not to even bother dating while enlisted because they WILL get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:25 PM
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Uh, calling tall women "stallions" is a very well-known term, particularly in southern and black communities. It's not a thing unique and specific to her. The first time I remember hearing it was in Future's "Turn On The Lights" where he croons "She's got a pretty face and stands up like a stallion" and that song is a bit over a decade old now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:24 PM
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I've posted about it a lot before. Basically we were in the same friends group, at a house party. We started talking about shared interests (skateboarding, music, etc etc) like one on one for like 45 mins or so. Later on in the night, she went out for a smoke with a friend, and I made a flirty joke about "Oh, were you guys talking about me?". She bantered back with me a bit, even. I later found out that at the next party, she told every woman in the friends group how I'm "creepy" for saying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:19 PM
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Yeah, they met much younger and things were much cheaper so they could have parties. All my parent's friends made fun of my parents for dating so long without being married, they pretty much all universally agreed they were never actually going to get married or start a family. My parents married at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:15 PM
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What? The "Stallion" part of her name is literally a reference to how tall she is! Taylor Swift's long leggy height is a well-known fact and a key part of her image - https://www.j-14.com/posts/10-photos-of-taylor-swift-towering-over-other-stars-16582/ EDIT: Sorry I can't get over this. Her name literally means "Megan The Tall Chick" and you're arguing that nobody knows that she's really tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:05 PM
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been socially ostracized from a group completely because you asked a woman out? Had this one happen, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:02 PM
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Because in your day, they needed a man to rely upon for money. Now they no longer need that - thanks in part to big daddy government backing them- so they would rather be single instead of dating a normal average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:57 PM
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Uhhh Yes they have lmao For example, chances are most people's parents met via work. That's no longer allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:56 PM
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No but due to many men's laziness and desire to only use online dating to meet women - where appearance is by far the most important variable to get an initial date - I think they're having a harder time getting in the door, so to speak. And this sub is their whine-fest. Where else do you think they're gonna be meeting them, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:46 PM
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But for white-collar jobs, it’s an entirely different matter. Right! They're completely outperforming men in the fields of things like HR, "Business Administration", "Consulting", etc. Aka make-work paperpusher roles that don't actually do or create anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:44 PM
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Women legitimately have no concept of anything to do with muscle building tbh. They literally think if they do one more rep of their 5lb shaping weight, they're gonna turn into Schwarzenegger. Remember the infamous FDS quote? "All it takes for a man to get muscles is pick up something heavy and put it back down."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:41 PM
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I guess I don't understand why you think a gap of 30 years which included the creation of the internet, smart phones, and social media wouldn't have any kind of impacts on what women look for? They were attracted to those "average height, average looks man" because the pools was much smaller and there wasn't the illusion of choice nor the pressure to have a partner you can show off for social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:36 PM
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You're making like a million assumptions and it's a completely poisoned disingenuous argument. You start defining "shy good guys" as actually being "mind-numbing hypocritically judgemental bores" solely to suit your originally framed argument. It's ironic that you end your post with "the fantasy land of Reddit debate posts", but you've literally gone and created a complete strawman with absolutely no redeeming qualities in an attempt to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:10 PM
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Don't most men know some guy who is average looking who still manages to do well with women because he has confidence or charisma? Nope lmao However, I have known multiple guys who had the personality of a brick yet still got laid like one because they were 6 foot+. Hell, one guy in my mid-20s friends group fucked half of the women in it despite having an absolutely abhorrent personality - he was fond of dropping hard r N-bombs as jokes and would slip condoms off during sex. But he was tall and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:06 PM
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I'm not ignoring the stats. Women outnumbering men in college degrees makes perfect sense! Now compare the education that women are getting compared to men. How many women do you think are going into electrical, HVAC, oil workers, IT, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:50 PM
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Probably. Guys are into everything when it comes to women. There's a reason why there's no flipped gender equivalent of guys who are into BBWs, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:48 PM
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Yes, a huge amount of women taking useless degrees to work "lazy girl jobs" is part of the problem, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah, and they don't make any money. Men don't get the luxury of taking those degrees and then getting bailed out. Or did you think it was a coincidence that women are a net negative on taxes from birth until death?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:09 PM
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I didn't say he was evil or abusive at all. I just said he was stereotypically hypermasculine physically, which he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:02 PM
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What? Breast size and facial structure can both be changed via cosmetic surgery, especially the former. What are you even talking about? I feel like you've just completely lost the plot here from your original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:37 PM
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Too old for military at this age. I thought about it before, wish I had done it. Ah well. What kinds of course? I'm going into HVAC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:36 PM
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Okay, WELL MEN CAN'T DECIDE TO BE TALL. Height is one of the key things that makes Chad a Chad. Probably the biggest thing tbh. And it can't be changed at all. So what is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:29 PM
1

The star rugby player at my high school was known for his love of Backstreet Boys and Kingdom Hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:20 PM
1

The bean pole part doesn't matter though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:19 PM
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There's very very few fields of study that have even gender ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:18 PM
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Women get together with people from their d&d group, study groups, etc. Those are 1 woman to 30 men ratios generally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:49 PM
1

Okay, so you got into trades, which is what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:38 PM
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If that really is the case, you're in the absolute minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:28 PM
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It is at this age. I'm not sure what advice there even could be to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:27 PM
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Being tall is quite attractive to women. Thanks, we had no idea until you filled us in. Much appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 PM
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Socializing is a million times easier for women across the board in all contexts. You're complaining that medium difficulty is too hard to people stuck on Dante Must Die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:21 PM
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Well the obvious implication was that I was 'avin' a laff because you literally can't think of a way to select for men besides hypermasculine physical attributes. The obvious suggestion would be to consider other things besides those.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:18 PM
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The football guy could just as easily be into D&D lol, this is such a bizarre argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:15 PM
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But a man who likes to spend his time quietly in the library wouldn't enjoy the company of a wild dirt-bike girl. He probably would. That's literally the entire point of the manic pixie thing you mentioned earlier! What you seem confused by is the fact that there are intorvert girls who also like to spend time quietly at the library reading dry "intellectual" books. But, like their shy bookish counterparts, no one notices them because they're quiet and just reading instead of running around ridi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:13 PM
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Women aren't negatively affected by being introverts in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:07 PM
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I'm really confused how you think MMA is somehow alternative and more nerdy leaning when it's literally just two dudes beating the fuck out of each other until the other blacks out lol. It's like the most stereotypical hypermasculine sport there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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I work minimum wage telemarketing. Before that I worked minimum wage retail. That's why I'm going back to school. I'm actually pretty good with money - I have to be because I come from generations of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:01 PM
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"If I can't judge men solely on hypermasculine physical attributes, what am I supposed to do? Just pick men at random???" Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:57 PM
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Bro, seriously? No man is in his prime in his 30s. That only happens if he's super wealthy, and I'm broke as fuck and going back to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:56 PM
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So instead of being a tall jacked guy playing sports, he's a tall jacked guy playing combat sports. I see the difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:54 PM
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I'm 33. There is no next time lol Unless you count reincarnation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:50 PM
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The women that introverted nerd would be compatible with is less likely to be at bars/clubs, Tinder, etc. Nope! What on earth ever made you think that? Introverted nerd girl is still doing all those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:48 PM
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"Nerdy Chad" is just the quarterback wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:46 PM
6

Well there's only 5 things in the fucking list to pick from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:38 PM
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But at the same time you guys seem to mainly focus on women who are attractive, popular, extroverted, etc. And wondering why they chase essentially their male equivalents. If you think that's any different with the "shy bookish girls", you're fooling yourself. The shy bookish guy dreams of being with the cute nerdy girl in his algebra class; the cute nerdy girl dreams of getting railed by the quarterback. One of the biggest Chad-chasers I ever met was a LARP nerd who was obsessed with Victorian …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:38 PM
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I like how we're at the point now where "going to the library" is considered "feminine behaviour".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:28 PM
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Do you see what I mean? We're at the point where a guy who looks like THIS https://imgur.com/a/4uXmIbK is "feminine-ish".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:31 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:51 PM
1

HVAC. I have zero interest in it but I hope it makes me money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:48 PM
1

I don't qualify for anything better due to my lack of education. That's why I'm going back to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah but you see YAAAASSSSS KWEEN feminism tells them they can have it all 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:39 PM
2

Well, it's too late now anyway. I worked basically every department (invoice, unloading, stocking, post office, etc) but that experience was years ago and wouldn't be considered on a resume. Now I work a remote call center job with no hope of advancement at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:37 PM
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I wasn't going to get an assistant management position if hadn't been an assistant manager elsewhere first though. There's no reason for them to hire someone unproven like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:30 PM
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Most people Don’t have joint pain in their thirties or even forties. I got hurt on my first day of martial arts and my elbow never recovered. Why did you stay in a minimum wage job (or barley over min) Because I had no choice? I couldn't afford college until very recently. Why didn’t you leave and look for a higher position or upskill. But even retail workers can work Their way up to manager then area manager then keep going up and if your specific company doesn’t promote you then leave!! There …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:19 PM
3

It's sourced from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology Journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:49 PM
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It's anecdotal (of course) but my entire life's experience strongly suggests otherwise. This is Bizarro-world thinking. My life's been far more adventurous over the last ten years (after I stopped working) than it was previously. Apparently there are exceptions to your thinking. How could that possibly be - and why would it be true anyway? Yes. You're employing pretzel logic. You have a favorite meal. You've probably had it hundreds of times. And, despite that fact, you still go back to it becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:49 PM
1

Take a poll of men about this and see what the results are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:45 PM
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https://nypost.com/2019/06/21/a-third-of-women-only-date-men-because-of-the-free-food-study/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:45 PM
2

If it was possible to have non-disabled children at this age, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:44 PM
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Sounds like they still won. They got to live a life of hedonistic luxury while still in their relative youth. They're certainly doing better than the men they're bilking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:43 PM
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Sometimes they straight up tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:27 PM
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Encouraging people to waste their time and money and energy for a futile goal isn't something to be lauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:56 PM
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There's no age-dependent component to this statement whatsoever. Uh, yes there is. Do you really think you can offer someone in their 30s/40s etc something that they haven't already done with someone else but much better? Nobody remembers the 1834th time they saw or did something, they remember the first time they did it. Sex, companionship and adventure? Sex is pretty meaningless to old people, companionship is extremely unlikely and "too little too late", and as I mentioned above, there's gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:55 PM
1

I hope you understand that your experiences there don't represent the vast, vast majority of male-female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:50 PM
4

You were on the right track there but then blew it at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:45 PM
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There are many women [...] that just have been unlucky with love. No such thing when they control the system, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:41 PM
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Walking is "exercise" for senior citizens. For folks in their thirties it's an activity. Like golf. Do you really think the average 30-something walks 5+ miles a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:39 PM
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lol I'm 41 and even without the money involved I get atttention from 10-15 years younger girls Uh-huh. Are you also 6'9" with a 20 inch cock and a billion in the bank?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:38 PM
1

"I won the lottery and so can you!" I'm glad you got to have kids that are healthy, but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:37 PM
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How would a woman ever be settled for? They have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Ok but men have an age limit for this as well though. Oh I know and I agree. Just adds to the pointlessness though, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:36 PM
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Outside of celebrities? Not really. There's no shared past history and nothing new or exciting you could give her, no memories to make. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:34 PM
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Answer the question, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:33 PM
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Yeah this whole board is anecdotes. What's your point? I exercise, I walk about 5 miles a day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:10 PM
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Well, why would she be interested in a man that age except for a bailout?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:05 PM
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Do you think some mechanism exists to where every good woman finds someone? Yeah it's called society and the internet You realize there’s plenty of people who are good but who never end up finding anyone just by happenstance, right? Plenty of good men, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:03 PM
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There's also a chance the woman is being settled for, too. Women don't get settled for, hope this helps. why would being 30+ mean you should remain single? It just seems... so dumb. As I said in my other post; what would be the benefit of a roommate you share a bed with? Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:58 PM
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People act like your life is essencially over at 30. Because it is? Most people still have their health, except now they have more perspective and money. You can do anything you could in your 20's. People in their 30s don't have health anymore. I'm a completely healthy weight and I'm still tired all the time now. I have permanent joint injuries that wake me up every morning. And I don't have more money either, I'm still working a slightly-above-minimum wage job because if you're already a good w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:53 PM
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Dude, 30 is not too old for women. It is if he doesn't want to have severely autistic children. I say this as someone on the spectrum, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:51 PM
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Once a guy turns 40, no woman at any age would want to have anything to do with him other than being a payday
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:46 PM
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