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I'll translate for you: she was hitting on men several points more attractive than she was, so they treated her as an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 05:49 PM
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I am making a comment about the FDS tier slop you're posting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:16 PM
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Haven't been able to find a new home since FDS closed, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:18 PM
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Whenever someone mentions the alpha stuff or the wolf study in any context, there's always 10 million of the most obnoxious "UMMM ACKTUALLY that study was le debunked, sweatie", as if anyone cares about the input of some Adam Ruins Everything dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:00 PM
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Hmm. I haven't seen this source before. I'll look it over. Thanks for the link!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:40 PM
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Again, as I said, women are generally in and out on dating apps which helps keep those numbers down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:24 PM
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That's a complete misunderstanding of the numbers. That's only at A CERTAIN TIME. When women get on dating apps, they spend about an average of two weeks (iirc) on there before finding someone and deleting their account. Men languish on dating apps sometimes for literal years, so the numbers are inflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:28 PM
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It's actually INCREDIBLY obvious to other men when a guy is an abuser or narcissist. Women just tend to think they can fix him or get dazzled by how hot he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:27 PM
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she doesn't think men love futas Oh, sweetie...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:51 PM
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In a survey with 446 autistic men and 552 autistic women showed that 40% of men were virgins and 32% had never been in a relationship, in contrast to 23% and 14% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:57 PM
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1) you're unintentionally making a pretty solid argument for America to have certain races not in it, which is pretty hilarious 2) you're deliberately conflating acts of individual violence with acts of state-sponsored culturally supported violence. There are many, MANY Islamic countries where simply being gay is still a crime, with some punishments including death. This is not at all comparable to a single individual person committing an anti-LGBT hate crime, and you know that too. Don't be dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:26 PM
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You're not gonna like it when people do the research and notice that 99% of cases where transgender women are killed are black/hispanic transwomen killed by men of their own race due to their culture's hypermasculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:18 PM
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...because they don't? It's 2025, all the things you're describing don't exist anymore and haven't for a long time. Women are literally validated by every single part of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:28 AM
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Nerdy girls have been dating nerdy guys since college and high school. Lmaooooo Nerdy guys want to date nerdy girls. Nerdy girls want to date anything EXCEPT nerdy guys - popular kids, future criminals, jocks, etc I remember in high school, there was this cute nerdy studious girl I was really into. We shared a lot of the same interests, passion for activism, etc. Her boyfriend was a complete degenerate who said homophobic slurs and almost got expelled for having a knife on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:16 PM
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thought you said you didnt like experienced people, you called them low value. This is how dating works when you don't use apps. ...I think you've confused me with someone else. I've not said anything even close to that. what kind of person signs up for a sex study on penis sizes? Someone who likes getting paid to answer some questions for a few hours? nah, I think youre missing it. Women generally don't care as long as they are satisfied. If they did, the first date would always end in hanky pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:28 PM
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Oh boy, another thread where women and bloopers all pretend that women don't prefer big dicks and you're insane if you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:13 PM
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You don't know what that word means. If women in his social group know he has a big dick, that means he's not an inkwell. Because they've seen his dick. Because they're fucking him. You can't just use random words to mean whatever you want. Also, you really think that "reprehensible guy but with a monster cock so he still gets laid" is an unthinkable scenario? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:10 PM
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Most my friends find their partners organically still. A friend's friend or someone at church , family friend, etc. That's incredibly rare and most relationships are formed via online dating now. That's been the case for years. People love to be "b-but the pandemic!" but the numbers were already trending that way, it just accelerated it. Proven studies?? What the hell kind of sex studies are going on ? Seems like an ethics board nightmare. ??? Why is that? Do you really think that there aren't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:07 PM
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I'm shocked you think it isn't. As soon as word of a guy having a big dick gets out, everyone wants to try it. Women will openly admit this too. It's not a coincidence that the term is "big dick energy". Pete Davidson has even outright said he gets ton of women begging to see his big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:05 AM
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Yes I am, it's a public service!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:42 PM
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No, and you're deliberately misunderstanding the question. The "pain" from sex with a big dick isn't pain in the way that pain normally is. It's actively desired and enjoyed and sought out. You can literally see people in this thread talking about how women would love the feeling of still being sore the next day, etc. I've known multiple women who have said much the same thing, that they loved that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah, but you can theoretically become rich. You can't go from a 5'7" with a 5 incher to a 6'1" with a 7x5 cock no matter how hard you try, that's pure genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:31 PM
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1) that's not the average experience for those men, the women will put in the work for guys with big dicks - I literally had a partner tell me about how big her other partner (she was doing the open relationship thing) was to the point that sex with him hurt her every time, but she still kept going back for more and loved it. THAT is the standard and most women will admit to that eventually. 2) if they do end up with a woman who for whatever reason really just can't take that dick, guess what? T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:30 PM
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Psst They're bragging. Or take a look at the big dick sub and the issues some of those men face when having sex (things like no oral, no anal, or rougher sex is pretty common) Now compare their posts to small dick subreddits. This is like when people compare tall men subreddits (it's hard to find clothes that fit) to short men subreddits (extreme loneliness, depression, mockery) and say "well both sides have problems, the grass isn't greener!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:16 PM
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They're in a very small minority and you know that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:03 PM
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"You don't have to have a large dick! You insecure men are so silly. Yes, there's proven studies that show that women orgasm far more often with larger penises and prefer them, but those don't matter. Look, all you have to do is spend 45 mins minimum every time eating her out with expert cunnligus and fingering techniques." There, I just saved you all 8+ hours of posting by summing it all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:00 PM
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Considering that there's studies that show that women prefer larger dicks for hookups than they do for long term relationships, this is a real silly route to go down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:58 PM
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Men have never once denied that big tits are preferable. The guys who like flat chests are a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:56 PM
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A woman might gush over a video or pic of a dude with a huge dick but she could also be totally satisfied with her boyfriend’s totally average penis. Here in the real world, we call that "settling" or "coping".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:55 PM
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As long as a guy can use a toy, tounge, or hand to finish her off- it's not really an issue. Usually if it is an issue it's because it big and hurts her or she can't get off. This should be a bedroom discussion where the use of toys/ oral / etc. "You don't have to have a large dick! You insecure men are so silly. Yes, there's proven studies that show that women orgasm far more often with larger penises and prefer them, but those don't matter. Look, all you have to do is spend 45 mins minimum eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:45 PM
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True, you can also be very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:42 PM
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100%, always happens every single time these types of threads are posted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:41 PM
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Penis size was never even something women knew before having sex with me. This alone should tell you what is and isn't important to women. If they do not even check for penis size before getting into bed, now important can it be? And yet, if one woman in a friend group told everyone else you had a big dick, you could watch the DMs and hookups just roll in. Funny how that works, innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:38 PM
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Just Google for it, not my job to educate you sweaty ;) Yeah, that's about what I thought lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:12 PM
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What a nonsensical response. Obviously I'm asking for an article that shows actual definitive proof of the thing that's being talked about, as opposed to a "scientists maybe might have found something that sort of suggests (based upon one study that's tangentially related)". Do you always ask completely disingenuous questions like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:58 PM
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Surely you'll be able to link to articles proving this then, right? PS - please do your best not to link to an article like this https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/early-women-were-hunters-not-just-gatherers-study-suggests-180982459/ You know, the kind that doesn't expect you to read beyond the headlines and is merely based off of a singular study of women from the 1800s, aka NOT HUNTER-GATHERER TIMES
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 04:28 PM
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his wife's girlfriend has a bigger dick than him lmao okay that one really got me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:52 PM
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Well if you're hooking up with your friends then you're not really at all about what the OP was talking about, are you? You have established yourself as a sexual being within the social group instead of being an sexless oofie-doofie R*dditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:49 PM
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You know the exact type I mean, don't be coy. As someone who is also a leftist, they're pretty much all blackholes of humor who think the height of edgy comedy is faux-racist jokes about Italians and talking about how much straight white men suck. It's what you'd call "Cards Against Humanity edgy", it's "safe edgy".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:44 PM
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How long did that take you to get that girlfriend, buck? Your name is literally "grandpa". And they don't literally think of you asexual; rather, a better term is "sexless" in the sense that you are not a sexual being. That is not a good thing and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:41 PM
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I'm sure you tell only the funniest jokes about Italians not being white and Karens being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:37 PM
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By the way, why would you think women don’t like sexual conversations? Because it's incredibly conditional. It's entirely based on your appearance or vibes that determine if you're "allowed" to be sexual or not. Tall jacked Chad can talk about how much he loves anal and "jokingly" tell a woman to suck his dick. Someone who is a short guy or more feminine looking or a fat guy can't even get away with merely saying a woman is attractive. You're not allowed to express any kind of sexuality or desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:09 PM
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And they will introduce him to other women who will ALSO think of him as a gay asexual bestie. This is what you call "winning"? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:55 PM
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There’s a whole cliché about the short guy sleeper who is somehow always taking girls home. Has anyone ever actually seen this in their lives? This is the same as the supposed cliche of the fat funny who cleans up with women - it's a thing of media, not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:46 PM
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Meanwhile, most women are probably imagining Edward from Twilight. You mean the guy who breaks into a teenage girl's house and watches her while she sleeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:06 PM
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get a good enough job to afford your own place Lmfao, this is not within reach for the vast majority of men, especially young men. The vast majority of men do not have 1.5k+ to spend on rent alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:23 PM
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"The nail that sticks up gets hammered down"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:56 PM
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Because it'd be like being the only person in the company going on strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:03 PM
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Maybe things are different for you in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:04 PM
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The "independent evidence" is that she said she was felt scared. I'm serious, if you're a woman you can literally do that and get anything you want. Any women reading this, just try it - next time anyone argues with you or disagrees or doesn't do what you want, just say "You're scaring me." and you'll win the argument, get whatever you want, etc. It's actually insane lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:01 PM
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And everyone DOES claim that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:53 PM
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Prenups are completely worthless and get thrown out all the time. All the woman has to say is "he forced me to sign it, I didn't know what I was signing", and bam, it gets thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:09 PM
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Yeah, you're not funny. And the worst part is that I can tell you're the kind of person who's cackling right now thinking you're hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:15 PM
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Look, if you're just gonna troll and meme, don't bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 05:04 PM
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<image> Bluepillers will literally try to tell you this is a "sex symbol"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:17 PM
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Based on reality, based on previous experiences, based on literally everything. What a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:50 PM
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Uh, what? You have zero clue what you're talking about. WOMAD members reportedly advocated for revenge against men, advocated for disliked people to commit suicide, and some threatened violence and committed crimes against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:17 PM
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You regularly post in the 4B Movement subreddit and your current thread on your profile is about how low your self-esteem is. I'm pretty sure those are the factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:16 PM
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Quibbling about the exact hard number of people on OF is just ignoring the huge amount of women who engage in soft sex work. I know about 7 or 8 women - in real life, mind you - who have engaged in soft sex work (foot pics, findom, clothed JOIs, selling panties, etc), and I'm just a totally normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:14 PM
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For all of life, not "hooking up". Come on. It's actually almost impossible for a woman to screw her life up beyond like, outright doing crack, because she'll always get bailed out, and you know this. Also if you wanna be cheeky, women don't face any consequences for hooking up either lol. Abortion, the championing of high body counts and sex work, hell, even the championing of having STDs - Ali Wong made millions off of saying "if you don't have herpes, you're a nerd."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:50 PM
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The problem is that women's criteria is off. It's hypercalibrated for short term flings and hookups. There's also the fact that women spend most of their life never facing any consequences for... pretty much everything, so as a result they tend to mistake people's inability to think ahead as "confidence", because to them, the concept of facing a consequence for one's actions and behaviour doesn't exist, so the guy who just treats people badly and does dangerous things like get in fights, drive r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 06:56 PM
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And what were they doing with those "fat stacks of cash", miss? Were they using that money to purchase a home, develop close ties within their community, investing in the NASDAQ, building a family, etc? Or were they blowing it on blow, booze, video games, sports cars, strippers, and other assorted largely asocial creature comforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:52 PM
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Care about what? Others? Do you have to have a wife or child to care about others? I care about my individual friends. What you're asking me to do is care about "society" as a whole, and one that has made it abundantly clear that it does not care about me. Nobody is given anything. Everyone has to apply and try to create their life. You really won't like it when you find out that the average woman is a net drain on taxes from birth till death then lol Because they live in society and benefit fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:48 PM
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Haha but like here's the thing, I'm just like haha, I'm not gonna go haha! I knooooooww! I knooooowwww, but just like, I'm not gonna go haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:31 PM
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The military defends the entire country. Not just your wife and children. Okay. As a single man living in a shared apartment with no wife or kids, why should I care? A dangerous job benefits the entire country. Not just your wife and children. Okay. As a single man living in a shared apartment with no wife or kids, why should I care? Once again, the argument becomes, "men won't do anything without the promise of pussy." It has nothing to do with "the promise of pussy". If men aren't given any wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:22 PM
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I'm seeing a lot of people going "oh you're just bitter blackpilled engagement bait etc" but I'm not seeing anyone saying he's wrong. Very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:14 PM
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It does not - why settle for a guy who still lives with his parents when you can pick a guy who has his own place? Things like that have always been dividers, and with such an abundance of options, it's even more noticeable. I mean, let me ask you; let's pretend you're 22. Who are you going to date - the guy who still lives with his parents and has to deal with them if you'd ever come over (or even worse, hang out in his room like you're 14), or the guy who moved out? I'll give you a hint: the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:00 PM
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I hang out with friends all the time, men and women. I can't think of anything that would make a pussy drier than finding out a guy still lives with his parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:40 PM
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Friend groups don't really have SA allegations going around. Lmao, wrong. My mid 20s friend group had a dude in it who had like a bunch of allegations/groping/etc but he was tall and good looking so he got away with it a lot. Sometimes the women in the friend group who said he SA'd them would still hook up with him again even lol (For clarification, I was not friends with this guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:35 PM
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Bullshit. Lots of people are still living at home. Most people understand that this is a reality for lots of twenty somethings. Not quite. That's fine if you're a woman. If you're a guy, you will never ever get laid while you still live at home. The rules are simply different and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:05 PM
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...no, it's saying that there's a difference in design, target audience, marketing, budget, community etc between dedicated enthusiasts and casual fans. It's the difference between people who know a few Eminem singles and people who know a J Dilla beat when they hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:50 PM
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Okay? Saying people who play Dark Souls religiously and people who play Candy Crush on the toilet are both "gamers" is like saying people who watch 3 Marvel movies a year and people who know who Tarkovsky is are both "cinemaphiles".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:31 PM
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And I bet when you met in college and you were both broke, you still weren't the one paying for things, were you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:30 AM
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It’s still much easier to live on two incomes than one income. Sure, but you're not going to get that unless you're both upper middle class making six figure salaries. The average man is just going to be paying for 90% of the expenses in a relationship and end up in a worse situation. Right now, I make more money than I ever have in my life but I'm broker than I ever was in the past because dating means you have to buy so much useless shit and extra frills. Even just going out for a cheap order …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:08 AM
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This OP presumes men who want to take on the primary financial burden are the norm It IS the norm. If you're a man, you pretty much finance your girlfriend. "His money is our money, my money is my money", after all. we both make around 200k or more You are absolutely NOT the standard, hence the disconnect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:11 AM
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See? Here you go making weird assumptions again. She was a chubby nerd girl a year younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:34 PM
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Yoohoo, @PracticalControl2179, what's going on? I see you've been posting nonstop, commenting up a storm, yet I still see no explanation how "men should pay for the dates" is different from being a hooker. Just thought I'd give you a friendly reminder since I'm since it slipped your mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:31 AM
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You do realize just because someone is tall doesn’t make them attractive right? Half the women in my mid 20s friend group were fucked by a guy with crooked af teeth who would drop hard R n-bombs in public and slip the condom off during sex but he was 6'3". I'm 5'7" and one time I was talking to a girl, it was going well, then he showed up to the party and she started ignoring me to talk to him instead for the rest of the night. It's actually insane what an aphrodisiac height is and most men will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:31 PM
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Nothing is more dangerous to a woman's argument style than a high functioning autistic man like myself. We're completely immune to the social shaming bullshit and they just straight up shut down every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:09 PM
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So, just to sum up: the main difference between a hooker and her dating approach is that the hooker actually offers a guaranteed ROI and everything is laid out openly on the table instead of being a covert narcissistic transaction? Interesting. Not sure if that's the point you meant to make, but... interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:08 PM
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See, here's the thing - you didn't actually explain how it's different, though. You're essentially saying "I'm so good that I deserved to be financially compensated for my presence", and then acting with shock when you find that these actions are being likened to that of a prostitute. Surely, you'd be able to explain the difference between these two sets of behaviour if the difference is so self-apparent, right? But instead, you make weird social shaming insults and just go "oh well if you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:11 PM
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Okay well that's a stupid thing to think because it literally has nothing to do with the discussion topic at hand whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:31 PM
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I didn't know crying in front of my now ex-gf about the death of my father on the day he died was "unleashing the tension from my hardships".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:16 PM
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"Men have hardships, women most affected" 🙄 😒 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:05 PM
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"Serious question: what are the downsides of gambling? And don't say losing, that's a different thing." Absolutely incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:00 PM
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Explain in your own words how "men should pay for the dates" is different from being a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:58 PM
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OP... You're dating an abornmally tall gender fluid AFAB. Your understanding of the "average person" is flawed as well, because that is far from the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:59 PM
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Yep, preppy good girls never ever date thugmaxxed guys to piss off daddy. Nope, never happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:57 PM
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Very sane and nuanced post, not bait at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:40 PM
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Are you claiming that you have never seen anyone on this sub argue that if someone doesn't suck his dick soon, Godzilla is gonna crush the city? Please debate against my completely fictional proxy fae I pulled from the ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:32 AM
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This entire post is completely pointless. Any time someone says "this is illogical" or "nobody is saying that", you just reply with "LE REDPILLERS SAY THAT". Not even particular redpillers or anything either, just some vague strawman ghost. You're not even actually debating, you're making people debate a fictional person via proxy. It's pretty ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:40 PM
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Because they got married back when they were 28 and kept thinking they still had the marketplace value and attractiveness of a 28 year old only to be hit by reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:25 PM
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And I did address your sexist lies and you had no response whatsoever. Interesting. Almost as if you're a misandrist troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:50 PM
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"Her money is her money. His money is our money."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:23 PM
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No sweetie, men don't care enough to fight their own problems. No one is stopping you from opening a shelter. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Earl_Silverman This man opened the first (and only) men's shelter for men suffering domestic abuse. In response, he was constantly mocked, refused any form of funding, and subject to protests, leading to the shelter's closure and his bankruptcy, leading to his suicide. So my question to you would be why you're spouting such a brazen lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:53 PM
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Sack up and grow a backbone, unless she’s holding you at gunpoint, you’re not being forced to part with your money. The same way that landlords or grocery stores or hospitals etc aren't forcing me to part with my money on a "technical" level?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:23 PM
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Look at the men in kpop groups, c/kdrama romances 1) the women who are into those are teenage girls, not women 2) most of those guys aren't feminine anyway - women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "feminine" and the way a lot of asian sex workers aimed at women act and dress. That's a completely different cultural thing in part because in places like Japan, big muscle manly men are the gay stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:43 PM
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Ummm, source? Uhmm, source please? Peer reviewed study please? 🤓 Why don't you ask for scientific peer reviewed papers about the sky being blue while you're at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:39 PM
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Smart money says she bailed because she wanted you to sub to her Onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:37 PM
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Some women prefer overly masculine men while others prefer a moderate amount of masculinity and some may even prefer a more feminine one. And some women would be delighted if you shat on the floor in front of them but let's not pretend that they make up anything even close to a reasonable amount. Same thing as women who like feminine guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:36 PM
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All the time because it's literally true. As a shortish twinky looking guy, I've had to deal with it all the time. One time I was staying over at my (now ex) gf's place and she thought I was asleep - I literally heard her apologize to her friend for me not being masculine enough. Most women assume you're gay or asexual. It sucks. There's no body positivity movement for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:35 PM
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No, nerd girls aren't lusting after the guy on the chess team, they're lusting after the quarterback - and they'll get to fuck him at least once, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:52 PM
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You know, except for them reporting record levels of unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:40 PM
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Your being intentionally um……….whats the nice word for dumb. I think the term is "willfully ignorant". You could also say facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:36 PM
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Haha like why is the general well-being of 50% of the human race something you care about? Lmao like how does the actions of those who make up the fabric of society affect you personally dude???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:31 PM
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Playing a lot of Deus Ex, op?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:39 PM
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Hell I'd go beyond "modern woman" and just outright be a slut. There's no downside whatsoever to it in this day and age - in fact, it's rewarded. You're far more likely to be "prude shamed" than slutshamed unless you live in like, Saudi Arabia or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:22 PM
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We're comparing villainous characters, so it makes sense to stick with Harley, Lady D, Juri, etc. It's not the same thing because, once again, men are jerking off thinking about fucking them, not having relationships with them. Women are looking at Christian Grey, Loki, Khal Drogo, J.D. from Heathers, Kyle Ren, etc and they're not thinking about having torrid fuckfests with them, they're fantasizing about being the one who dates and tames them. Drogo is maybe one of the most obvious ones - his e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:10 PM
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Guys jerk off to Lady Dimitrescu because they like being stepped on by a 12 foot tall vampire lady, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Guys jerk off to Juri Han because she's just Harley Quinn for foot fetishists, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Guys jerk off to Ada Wong because she's a sexy aloof Chinese woman with long legs, but they don't fantasize about dating her. Etc etc etc. Are you getting the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:38 PM
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You have completely and fundamentally missed the entire point I was making. Guys jerk off to Harley because she's hot. They simply imagine fucking her. Women are inserting themselves into the 50 Shades of Grey story, they imagine having a relationship with Christian Grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:29 PM
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And then the audacity to use Fifty Shades of Grey as an example of women being attractive to abusive assholes, but then give excuses why Harley Quinn being a top porn tag doesn’t show that men like psycho girls who date abusive psycho men. This is a terrible comparison. Guys jack off to Harley Quinn; they don't fantasize about dating and marrying her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:00 PM
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I've never been to a gym that lets guys work out shirtless. I'm pretty sure those only exist in Billy Herrington films.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:10 PM
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If you want to do OLD, I've found that Instagram and DMs have a 10x better result rate when you have a good profile. I have never understood how you would ever use Instagram as a dating tool. Like, what? First off, you have to live in a major city, and then what? You search by a hashtag for some location or event, see people who posted under that hashtag, then try to DM them? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:38 PM
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And? We live in a world where that's fierce and empowering and if you somehow ever did get fired for it, all you have to do is make a GoFundMe and roll in the pity dough and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:35 AM
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For example, if I see Her at a party, I can just go over and start talking about anything. I don't even need to introduce myself, lay out my intentions or create some excuse; it's fully expected that strangers will socially interact. You could not be more wrong if you tried. The result is actually "Uh, why are you talking to me? Who the fuck are you?". If women could block people and set their accounts to private in real life, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:13 PM
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"Women have two eyes and 10 fingers." "Nuh-uh! How can you make such a blatantly false blanket statement?! I know a woman who has 9 fingers!" This is you right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 05:45 PM
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There's something else those two women have in common besides being women - they're both rich and powerful nepo babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:20 PM
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What is "around your age" for starters?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:07 AM
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1: that's absolutely insane time investment that relies entirely on pure luck 2: I'm pretty sure most women would rather say they met their boyfriend while doing lines in a club bathroom than say "My grandma met him while they were both doing volunteer work"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:57 PM
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Well, that depends what type you’re joining. There’s activity and age focused ones out there and ones for singles. As I said; you've literally never gone to a Meetup group. The groups for singles are for middle aged people or like Christian/Muslim/etc groups. All the activity focused ones are young guys and middle aged women. I'm focusing on "one of your points" because the rest of your points are equally as vapid. Do you know any MEN (not women, MEN) who met their partner by "getting a hobby" o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:56 PM
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My gf is so tiny when we haven't seen each other for a few days I always pick her up in a bear hug and just swing her around or carry her a bit. It's adorable and she loves it. Sometimes I also tease her by putting stuff on high shelves where she can't reach it. She says she hates it but I get a laugh every time. It's never about the actual gf or their attribute bragged about, it's always about meeeee lmao no man has ever said anything like this, this is how a woman speaks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:49 PM
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Join meetup groups I swear to fucking god. People who say this have never actually gone to a Meetup group. The only women who go to Meetup groups are middle aged married moms looking to get out of the house a bit. You will never EVER see a young woman at a Meetup group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:40 PM
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You can affect things all you want, that doesn't make it your fault if you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:48 AM
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It's nobody's fault, it's just a thing that happens sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:21 PM
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The more women in a friend group, the more likely you are to NEVER date them because they don't want to deal with the drama that would come with dating someone in a friend group and breaking up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:04 PM
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Just because I lusted over early 30s Green Day didn't mean boring Bob in finance had a shot with me. This isn't really a fair comparison at all. Boring Bob in finance was probably ALWAYS boring, even when he was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:22 PM
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Dude I literally said the thing I would say. If I had to hit on woman who literally has no information, I'd just say a shitpost to her as an ice breaker because what else should I say? I have nothing else to go on, so you really shouldn't be trying so hard like in your messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:36 PM
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Yeah I was making a joke. If someone has nothing to go on for a profile I wouldn't bother talking to them because I'm not so desperate for a whiff of pussy that I need to make a jester out of myself for a woman who can't even post a clear picture of her face or any real personal details on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:21 PM
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Uh, I was? She was a nerdy STEM major. Women SAY they want men to open up and cry and blah blah blah, but even the most self-declared feminists I know will tell guys who are depressed to man up etc. It's straight up unattractive behaviour and every man will tell you a story about how he made a mistake opening up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:07 PM
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"My dad fucks me 😎"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:01 PM
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In my longest term relationship, I cried about my dad dying on the day it happened in front of my girlfriend. It completely killed my relationship. I've had other girlfriends straight up say things like that they "hate that women are expected to do emotional labor in relationships" completely out of nowhere. Women don't want to see that shit and it WILL ruin your relationship, no matter what they say. Every man will tell you they made the same mistake of opening up to their gf and it cost them e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:00 PM
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Really strong "please m'lady, just a whiff! A mere crumb..." to your suggestions bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:21 PM
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I just don’t see this world of shy, quiet women wanting super sociable men that you describe. The nerdy guy in school dreams of being with the nerdy girl in his drama class. The nerdy girl in school dreams of being with the quarterback.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:59 PM
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assuming every woman wants the exact same thing in a partner You're right. Some women want tall jacked chad, and some want tall skinny chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:01 PM
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They advocated to stop the draft when women became eligible for the draft. And as for the former, I'm still circumcised, so they didn't do a good job of that. Frankly I've never heard any feminist talk about male circumcision tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:34 PM
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No, that's one very specific Chad archetype. There's many and many types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:21 PM
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Yeah. You can fuck someone without being in a serious relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:21 PM
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Wow, that's a LOT of projection about the relationships of someone you literally know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:10 PM
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What do YOU think Chad is then? A Chad is an attractive masculine man who is good with women. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:09 PM
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What else is there to say? "I will never date an attractive man because I grew up with a father". Uh, okay. Good for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:05 PM
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I have a father and therefore no Chads will ever get near me. Lol Lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:59 PM
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That's not a gotcha. I'd fuck lots of people I wouldn't take life advice from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:58 PM
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Okay, so what IS the other way to interpret it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:57 PM
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Yes? If you can't get any dates, it's a you problem, not a society problem. Presumably you feel the same that if someone can't find work or housing, it's a "them" problem and there's nothing wrong with society, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:56 PM
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What are you getting out of this disingenuous bullshit? You described one guy as being dated, and one as a hookup. That's literally the only way to interpret things. If that's not the case, you don't get to improperly use English and then have le epic clapbacks when people take your words at face value. Words have meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:53 PM
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Probably the part where you said she dated the latter for a while and hooked up with the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:48 PM
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You're literally one of the most bluepilled contrarians on this sub, you'll have to forgive me if I don't believe you in the slightest. If Chubby McAverage Dick was so amazing, why was he a one night stand while Biggus Dickus got to be the boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:44 PM
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Shots fired
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:25 PM
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So if a man came up to you and complimented your shoes, you wouldn't think he's either gay or a foot fetishist? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:59 PM
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I've said it a million times before and I'll say it a million times again: It's funny how everyone always "knows" some balding 5'4" janitor who slays, but nobody ever actually IS that bald midget janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:25 PM
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Larry David isn’t a sex symbol I agree, but he never had a problem getting a hot girlfriend even before he was rich. Larry David looked like this <image> Somehow I doubt the man was crushing pussy because he was just oh-so-funny. Interestingly enough, this was actually directly mentioned by Gottfried! It was something like "Oh, you think funny guys are attractive? You know who's hilarious? Larry David. I'll hook you up with a grumpy old ascerbic Jewish guy who's balding, I know a million of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:07 PM
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Age is incredibly relevant - we're talking about DATING. If someone is looking to meet a partner, you don't tell them to go check out their local diner at early bird special times. See, this is something you do a lot and it's frankly kind of annoying. Everything you post, say, and experience has to be the exact opposite of what everyone else has experienced, and even presented with evidence from the bookclubs themselves, you still have to be a contrarian. In what way are the bookclubs around you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:03 PM
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What bookclub do you think is attracting young single women? BookBrowse, an online magazine for book lovers, combined responses from its annual survey last summer with its fifteen years of experience with book clubs to create the white paper entitled, “Book Clubs in the USA.” The results may give libraries some insight into how they run or provide for local book clubs. Of the over-3,600 responses, 80 percent were over age forty-five, and 93 percent were female. You can pretend that there's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:41 PM
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That doesn't mean they WANT it to happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:27 PM
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Even bookclubs complain about how old all their membership skews, dude. Do you think you're gonna find 25 year old women at a bookclub? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:25 PM
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They literally don't. Funny HOT guys pull hot girls all the time. When you're hot, women will literally laugh at anything you say. Larry David is one of the funniest people who ever lived. But women aren't touching themselves to pictures of Larry David and wishing they could marry him. Even famous comedians like Gilbert Gottfried have called out the "women love funny guys!" narrative as bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:24 PM
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That'd be a great way for him to meet a 68 year old retired granny, but I imagine he wants to meet someone who isn't elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:30 PM
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But when actually approached, they hate it and complain. I've never once heard a single woman say they wish that more random men would approach them in public, and I don't think most men have either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:26 PM
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Women can get dates literally doing anything anywhere. Why would a man want to date a woman who is so unlikable and unattractive that she has to rely on singles events to find a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:15 PM
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"She has a great personality", "He's actually really funny", etc are all just nice ways of saying "they're ugly" and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:12 PM
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Keep in mind that when women "who are introverted go out of their comfort zones", what it actually means is they just stand in a corner at a party and let the endless streams of guys approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:11 PM
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It can honestly be something as simple as complimenting a part of a woman’s outfit, like her shoes, rather than commenting on her overall appearance, and maybe asking where she got them to engage her interest in further conversation. That's a great way to come off as either gay or a footchad to random women. Lmao, come on. Edit: just saw you're a woman. That makes sense you'd suggest this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:56 PM
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The average man does NOT date with no issues. This is why there's significantly more single men than there are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:22 PM
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How many guys with "female friends" do you know who have ever bought over a 6 pack for the boys, ordered takeout, helped them move or mow the lawn, wingmanned them, etc. Because those are all things that guys do for their guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:18 PM
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And? That doesn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:08 PM
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You also can't leave the military when you feel like it. It's not just a job you can quit on a dime without severe penalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:44 PM
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Did you miss the other user's flare? That's a woman you're talking to, not a man. That explains everything now, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 05:37 PM
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That's a lot of ways for you to say "I only date top tier guys who won't commit to me". Nearly every male friend I have would love nothing more than to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:56 PM
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They do those user base percentages as snapshots at the moment, they're not averaging them out over two years and removing duplicates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:51 PM
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But it is something you can do, compared to height/penis size/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:50 PM
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What are you talking about? Brad is tall and hunky and dreamy, he's gonna be the one!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:48 PM
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No, he has to keep using it to set up other dates because there's a huge chance she'll just ghost when a better option for her comes along. I once set up four dates in the same week and I was glad I did because three of them ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:42 PM
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This is pretty similar to something I've asked before: What do you think a woman is more likely to remember, cherish, and talk about with her friends - the time a jacked tall Chad jackhammer fucked her hard until HE came then kicked her out to the cab, or the time Bobby Beta ate her pussy until she came? There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:40 PM
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there’s some childhood shit that they need therapy for Have you MET white women in a big city? That's literally all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:37 PM
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You can’t undo a baby. Um.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:35 PM
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I think they made a typo and meant "attracted".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:24 PM
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How could you possibly know who is having one night stands with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:59 PM
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Okay. Couples are literally not relevant to what I was saying. I said "sleep with, not date" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:55 PM
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Based on...? Because that is definitely a major issue with online dating especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:37 PM
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No, that's not the case. Most average women can land above average guys. Of course, this is almost always just for them to sleep with, not to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:24 PM
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An insane and unhinged point, but a point, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:42 PM
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Like I mentioned before older people have nieces and daughters and granddaughters. I have seen fix ups occur in my volunteer work. And that would be basically the MOST embarrassing way to meet a guy. Can you imagine being a young woman and having to tell your friends that you met a guy because your aunt talked to him a bunch at a soup kitchen or something? Most women would rather tell their friends they met him in a club bathroom than that ffs. Not to mention she likely wouldn't even want to mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:09 PM
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Nobody was ever saying that you walk up to a woman and say "You hot. We date now?". But you're looking at this from the perspective of a woman where you never have to do any kind of approaching and it's really annoying tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:57 PM
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Yes, because the women don't have to stay on the apps, they can snap up a guy quickly and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:42 PM
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Most people are not software engineers and corporate people though, despite what Reddit might have you think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:56 PM
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(esp with most male dominated jobs being remote nowadays unlike female dominated ones like teaching) Lmao WHAT Yeah lemme just go "remotely" fix my client's HVAC system and repair their chimney liner via a Zoom call My buddy can fix your car engine via Slack, then work his second job as a line chef and give you your food via MS Teams. His brother does a great job of working on an oil rig and repairing power lines over Google Chat btw! You have zero clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:59 PM
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You're a queer WOMAN. Don't act like it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:55 PM
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As a queer guy who has gone to gay bars in the past; no. Stop invading our space.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 PM
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Because they like to force their way into our spaces. Straight women hate being told "no" and will literally grab gay guy's cocks "as a joke".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:42 PM
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Because that's rare and tbh a bunch of women deliberately ditching their boyfriends to go out clubbing would be a HUGE red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:50 PM
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Uh... mmm... really? Yep. If anything the main thing that sticks out about her in my mind is just how incredibly "normie" she was. Like, loves Starbucks drinks, Pinterest, and Marvel movies. As normie as normie can be. Wut. Not... not sure what you want me to explain. She saw me sob in front of her a bunch about my dad and she no longer saw me as a cool and collected protector-type or whatever. Sexual attraction to me went 📉 and never recovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:43 PM
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She was a totally normal average woman. Most guys will tell you similar stories. Once I cried in front of her over my dad dying, she rapidly lost all sexual attraction towards me. We went from having sex twice a week to maybe once a month and she became more and more distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:37 PM
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Going to a club with your girlfriend isn't even in the same ballpark as someone going to the club with their single friends and leaving their partner at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:19 PM
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This is a really fun little narrative you've completely crafted wholecloth about me. You done yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:18 PM
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It's not really lying, it's just putting your best foot forward. If I get a really flattering haircut + shave that suits my face perfectly, am I "lying"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:13 PM
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Trick question there's no such thing as a non-boomer sports bar. The point I was making is that going to Chilis to have a few Budweisers while people yell at the football game isn't even remotely the same thing as going to a sleek hipster college bar, even though they are legally both "bars".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:57 PM
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We're talking more about clubs than bars, but a bar 100% can be a very sexually charged environment. You're thinking of boomer sports bars and extrapolating that to all bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:49 PM
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You understand the overwhelming majority of relationships start other places right? Actually that's not true at all, close to the majority of relationships are started online. https://news.sky.com/story/finding-love-online-more-than-half-of-couples-set-to-meet-via-the-internet-11871341
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:47 PM
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How did a white man being in power of the country prevent me from being poverty-stricken and homeless for a chunk of my life? (It didn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:45 PM
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Right. They go out to meet strangers in a sexually charged environment where there's lots of alcohol (and drugs) involved. Not hard to see why people would see that as code word for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:43 PM
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Because that's what the whole point of bars but especially clubs are - to meet other people. If all she wants to do if have a few drinks and dance with her friends, she'd just host a party at her place and invite her girls over. Much the same way where if all I wanted was a drink with my buddy, I'd pick up a six pack instead of going to the bar and paying three times as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:31 PM
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That I couldn't say but I watched it happen with my parents' own marriage even. It's very common across many cultures - in Japan, they say "the man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck" because she actually controls everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:20 PM
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I literally had my longest relationship collapse because I cried in front of my girlfriend about my dad dying twice, one of those times on the day he died. So no, it's absolutely a real problem and lots of men will tell you they experienced the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:14 PM
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No, super low value men with no standards or perspective say "men would be happy to date anyone". I am not one of those men - I have a lovely girlfriend whom I care about deeply and she meets most of my standards (not all, because nobody is perfect), and I meet most of her standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:06 PM
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Yes absolutely. Cheating is never justified - even in a sympathetic situation like cheating on an abuser, the solution is to get away from the abuser, not link up with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:04 PM
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* Won't give you the EXACT same sexual experience as her previous bf (or else she doesn't really want you!) This one is 100% true so weird to start off with it. * Travels (because she's traveling to CHEAT on you!) Depends on the trip. A trip to go clubbing with the girls in Ibiza or Jamaica is very different from a trip to backpack through Japan. * Goes dancing (because she's looking for men to CHEAT with) Yeah pretty much. She's going out clubbing and drinking with her single female friends. * …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 PM
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Bro, if you don't want to cook for women, no one is forcing you. Nobody said that they were forcing you! Because she likes hanging out with you. Are we really doing this shit where we're gonna pretend that nobody knows exactly what it means when a romantic partner is invited over to someone's house "for drinks" or "for a movie"? Come the fuck on. Next thing you know you're gonna tell me that when a rockstar invites a woman to his hotel room after the concert, it's just to play dominoes and there…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:11 AM
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So in the end, you agree with me? Interesting. Took a while but at least we got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:04 AM
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...Yes, exactly. How would she possibly know that you spent tons of time and effort finding the perfect local taco place, combing through reviews and menus and word of mouth, unless you outright told her (Which is obviously a huge no-no)? As far as she knows, you just punched in "taco places" into Google Maps and picked the first result.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:01 AM
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They don't always ask, but she cares that you took the time (whether it's 3 hours or 30 minutes) to make something. In my experience, women were generally very curious about how I make the sauce and pasta. Being curious about how you let pasta sauce simmer for three hours =/= turning them on Not only is that not true, but even if it is, you think you're going to entice her to come over to your place so you can eat Michelin star takeout? Why would she even be coming over to your place if that was…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:59 AM
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No, she cares that you showed her something interesting and enjoyable. Right. My point is how would she ever know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:55 AM
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If you're expecting to be "rewarded" on a date, yeah it probably doesn't matter where you take her. You're the one who literally was talking about effort. You called it "high effort". You know what putting in, quote, "high effort" with no return or acknowledgment makes you? A sucker. It's always great when red pillers acknowledge they have no idea what they're talking about without even realizing it. I'm not even redpilled at all. Also, this isn't actually a rebuttal. Do you think she cares or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:33 PM
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Yeah man there's totally women out there getting wet and horny because a guy simmered a pasta sauce for three hours. 1) How would she even know unless you told her? (this is very low value and unattractive behavior) 2) If she's coming over to your place for dinner she's already gonna have sex with you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:31 PM
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You should never splash the cash that much on a first date because you don’t even if you like her that much yet. If you don't, someone else will. Dating is all one big prisoner's dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:17 PM
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If you were coming over to his place for dinner, you were already gonna fuck him anyway. The pasta is completely ancillary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:15 PM
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Lmao "Hey babe wanna come over and try my homemade pasta recipe? I spent three hours making the sauce simmer!" Bro that sauce is gonna be the only thing wet that night 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:12 PM
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Not if they can't be resold. Boomers can't even pay people to take away their china sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:10 PM
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Taking a date to a hole in the wall that has the best tacos in a 5 mile radius you found after asking people, checking reviews, or posting on your local social media pages is high effort. You think she'll realize that and reward you for it? Bro, she won't even acknowledge it, let alone care. Making pasta by hand and cooking the sauce for 3 hours is high effort. Same thing. She will not care or acknowledge it. And if you have her coming over to your place for dinner, you're already in anyway so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:09 PM
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That's wild. I'm in my 30s and I'm finally just now making more than minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:48 PM
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Perhaps you've never heard of raises. Or promotions. Or that a career lasts.....30+ years? Most people haven't. Tbh the fact that you made $35/k a year right out of college is insane. I don't know a single person with a college degree who is making more than slightly above minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:32 PM
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No, I'm asking you for your opinion on what "blue pilled beliefs" are so we can have a baseline before you start playing weasel words. It was the Plymouth Shooting but Inc*lExit rapidly scrubbed his account afterwards so I'm trying to find backups of his posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:18 PM
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There's a huge discrepancy because red pillers want to take the single statistic that supports their world view and ignore everything else. ...How would that affect the fact that far more men report being single than women, though? Nope. Okay. So in your opinion, why do you think that it means "the guy I'm with isn't going to harm me"? Do you ever think it's odd that no woman ever lovingly describes some pudgy nerd as "making her feel safe"? Not to mention "guy isn't going to harm me" is kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:15 PM
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What would be your standard of "reliable evidence" then? I'm doubt I'm gonna get a fucking peer-reviewed study on this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:11 PM
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Telling OP the truth, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:10 PM
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What do you consider "blue pilled beliefs"? Everyone on that subreddit, especially the mods, certainly practiced blue pill beliefs. But I suppose because he didn't write a manifesto it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:08 PM
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Lmao Have you ever actually encountered anyone in a poly relationship ever? That's literally how it fucking goes, every single time, without fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:06 PM
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I'm saying she's clearly spent a lot of time pussywhipping him so she can pull an AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:06 PM
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Every woman is just going to tell you yes they would happily date a broke man, anon. It's not true but true gonna say it. What was even the point of making this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:55 PM
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Maybe in the 90s. Not anymore. There's no reason or benefit for women to want monogamy and as a deeply monogamous man it fucking sucks. I'm basically forced to date poly women or be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:49 PM
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Except every single poly relationship is a woman with three or four people on rotation and oodles of hookups and the guys maybe score one extra lay a year. Poly works better for women, it's encouraged for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:48 PM
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I feel the same way about red pill takes, but the difference is my takes aren't driving people to killing sprees. I would point out that Inc*lExit which is bluepill central has a confirmed murderers linked to it soooo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:44 PM
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Kristen Bell had a great anecdote on a podcast that when they were first dating, Dax Shepherd insisted, like you are, that women want to be protected and he went out of his way to make sure she knew he would fight any guy who tried to hurt them. Her response: "That doesn't make me feel safe. That makes me feel incredibly unsafe." You mean the couple where Dax posts approving tweets about his wife fucking other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:42 PM
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And yet poor, short, weak, or low status men get dates every single day. No they don't lmao, that's why there's such a huge discrepancy between single men and single women. "Feeling safe" around a man doesn't mean "the guy I'm with can beat up any other guy," it means "the guy I'm with isn't going to harm me." Wrong! It 100% means the former, and as for the latter, women love a bad boy. What they want is "the guy will beat up anyone but he won't beat me up". Neither gender is "wired" one way or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:38 PM
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Did every single man on this subreddit grow up in a mega liberal metropolitan area I mean, I did and I've 100% witnessed it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:30 PM
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I am woman and I'll tell you outright that charm/confidence/charisma are the most important factors in getting your foot in the door with a woman. You don't need height, you don't need a good face, you don't need a lot of money, you don't need a good body, you just need to be charming. Except she's not going to talk to you in the first place to get your foot in the door if you don't have a good face/body/height/etc. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:25 PM
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Didn't know I had to deliver you a multipart essay. How many women have YOU met that fit that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:20 PM
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You asked how many women are like that. I said lots and gave an example. Sorry you think that anything that doesn't agree with you is irrelevant 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:01 PM
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Not that anon but LOTS of them. I would say that's actually the default tbh. I've watched things like a female friend I knew talk about how she was probably gonna turn down this guy who asked her out because he didn't make enough money for her tastes, meanwhile she told me the other day about how she picked up some guy from the bar and got fucked by him while he literally held her out of a window.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:47 PM
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What do you think is an example of misogyny on this subreddit then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:45 PM
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The idea there's any actual real misogynistic posting on this board that doesn't immediately get shut down by the mods is pretty laughable ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:32 PM
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Great explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:29 PM
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Lmao okay yeah buddy Reddit, one of the most neoliberal bugmen hives ever, is pro-slut shaming. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:29 PM
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Whenever people say stuff like this I have to assume they live in like a small Bible belt town or something because if anything I see the opposite with women getting "virgin/prude shamed"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:25 PM
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I think that's a big part of how we got in this mess in the first place, bucko
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:24 PM
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I can't speak to other countries but that is absolutely not the case here. If they try to tell you they're not into casual sex, 99/100 they're lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:06 PM
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Idk happiness, travel, how many times you've seen your favorite band in concert. So... income, income, income? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:29 PM
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People who have irrational confidence are generally called "delusional". Or narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:24 PM
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My point is that you're just gonna keep refuting every single source he comes back with as "not being a real feminist".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:34 PM
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I'm in my 30s, I'm long since past the point of being able to date or find someone. I'm kinda just resigned to being alone - I even expressed that to my last girlfriend. Seems like it's better for everyone that way anyway at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:33 PM
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Yes to all of your questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:30 PM
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It's a valid choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM
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Lmao, not every woman is an ex party girl Lol Lmao, even. Nice girl Becky from church got married 15 years ago to her high school sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 PM
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shrug it is what it is. Either get used to it or die alone. Not sure which one I want to do yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:19 PM
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I'd say around 5 to 10, maybe more. It's very common for women in large cities to have partner counts in their 40s by like 25 so so I imagine as you get older and become more financially secure, those numbers go up. The oldest person I know whom I also know her body count is 29 and hers is in the triple digits, pretty standard stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:17 PM
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"Real feminism has never been tried"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:13 PM
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Maybe not in your generation. Or if you live in a small rural town.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:41 PM
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Well, we'd probably have a lot more Assasins fighting against the Templars if that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:36 PM
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I've never heard of a straight person losing their job because a random person said they were gay on Instagram. Then you don't really understand the world outside of your leftist corporate office world. I'm currently running my tongue over a chip in my tooth that got there because I got jumped when people spread a rumor that I was gay. Get some perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:25 PM
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No, but you're missing the point. Also, there's where they are and what they do and a million other factors. I work in the trades and I'm actually queer. I'm well aware that if people ever found out about this (people as a whole, not individual coworkers I trust), my career would essentially be over. So someone going on stream and telling everyone I'm gay, even with no basis or proof (and even if I wasn't actually queer) would be kind of a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:19 PM
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I think he's saying that the women who are capable of loving their partners selflessly go off the market really early so most men never encounter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:25 PM
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I've literally turned down women for a second date in the politest way possible and received a string of insults as a response. Please stop acting like the average woman just goes "oh okay" and leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:08 PM
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Okay let me just go on your social media and tell stories about you how you touched my little brother. I mean, it's just a random story with no proof so it's cool, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:06 PM
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And I don't date women who have had casual sex in the past, so that part was not an issue. So you're perpetually single then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:59 AM
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Nobody said it's the only way women find hot guys. You're just bragging. It's fine, everyone does it. But why try to justify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:30 PM
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Before meeting there I had a ton of casual sex with younger hot guys, and even arranged a cheeky threesome :p None of this has any relevance to the thread or your post, it's just you blatantly bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:05 PM
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The most internet-addicted generation that was raised by cellphones and the internet is absolutely not healthy and well-adjusted. I went back to college during COVID and I literally hear zoomers talk about blackpills and ___maxxing and etc in real life all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:50 PM
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No, the majority of women have not had dozens so sexual partners. The median partner count is something like 4-7, depending on the survey. You’re somehow consistently picking women who are pretty far out on the spectrum. That's because the median partner counts include bumfuck nowhere towns and and your 75 year old granny. If you're in a major city and under 35, the numbers are VERY different and you know this. Social shaming, rape, violence, ineanted pregnancy (with vanishing abortion rights), …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:20 PM
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I didn’t say men can get any woman they want. I said they choose who to approach. You always had a choice. You only approached the very small subset of women that you wanted to approach, so your sample is very biased. Yes, women with tattoos and in bondage gear are not the only women who have casual sex. But you’re somehow still selecting those women anyways. Yes, because that's the majority and that's how statistical odds work. Lol, literally wrong. You just cannot imagine it because you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:14 PM
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You've only dated the women you have chosen. Not true if you're a man. "Women date who they want, men date who they can". Someone's hobbies and BMI are not their values or personality. I was trying to illustrate the wide array of people I was dating and how they weren't like, some club girl baddies or wearing bondage and covered in tattoos where you would reasonably expect high counts and attitudes. There's lots of reasons not to. There literally isn't. Women will be shamed by other women for NO…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:41 PM
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Well, my dad hasn't died multiple times, so that's kinda hard to answer. But most guys will tell you that they made the mistake of crying in front of their girlfriends and it completely destroyed their relationships tbh. As a man, I'm expected to listen to the most extreme trauma dumping and think nothing of it without getting the same in return. I'm shown their self-harm scars on the first date but I'm not allowed to express any kinds of doubts or fears or sadness. I'm not saying that you're ly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:43 PM
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Not true. All but one woman - or hell, person I've dated since I'm bi - has turned out to have insane body counts and ridiculous sexual pasts. I've dated people like overweight math nerds whom I found out afterwards had a body count in the triple digits, a shy artist who later told me she regularly fucked for money in high school and college, a clean-cut political activist marketing major who told me firmly that she always waits for sex - only to tell me about all the one night stands she's had …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:11 PM
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There are lots of women who don’t fuck on the first date and don’t have casual sex Nobody is talking about 65 year old spinsters, they're not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:16 PM
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That's literally every single one though. I couldn't even cry about my dad dying on the day he died in front of my gf without her losing all sexual attraction to me and killing the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:37 PM
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Vs the woman, who probably spent at least an hour getting ready, not counting travel time, often 3x that LMFAO What are you even talking about? Women are apt to show up to dates in sweatpants and slide sandals these days. You really think women are spending up to 3 fucking hours getting ready for a date? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:43 PM
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You don't have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:41 PM
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This idea all women have e unrealistic standards is bull. Except, you know, the part where it's statsically proven. Not all women of course but the majority of them do. Stop putting yourself down, being a doomer because you went single a few years from your teens to early twenties. Most of us are. True for men, not true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:39 PM
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It literally would not be because those are all masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:35 PM
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There's lot of women who direct porn. I can really see the feminist female gaze mindset when Proxy Paige films another woman putting an 18 inch horse dildo up her own butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:44 PM
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I think he means they all want 9/10s so they would prefer to share like that instead of going without the HMVs they obviously deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:53 PM
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I don't think that's what I said...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:50 PM
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Because they're tall and sexy. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:47 PM
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I don't think I've EVER asked a woman what she does for work on a date. Hell, I have friends I've known for years and I only vaguely know what they do for a living. I literally can't think of anything I care less about than what someone is forced to do for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:35 PM
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Because they want to know what level of resources they can extract from you and how much of their life you'll finance. I mean,what answer were you expecting dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:34 PM
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Because we live in Kali Yuga and it's just another way to indulge selfishly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:41 PM
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Okay, well I'm not asking you what you THINK the reasoning is, I'm telling you the fact that the majority of women will no-go you from ever dating for even having hooked up with a guy once in the past. Frankly, your attempt to justify biphobia with LITERALLY THE MOST STOCK BIPHOBIC STATEMENTS POSSIBLE (that we're all insatiable sluts who can't stop cheating and fucking) shows an almost cartoonish lack of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:20 AM
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Okay, cool. That doesn't change the fact that most women won't date bi men. Or in fact if you look at the data, men who have had ANY kind of same sex contact in the past. You can have sucked a dick once in college and decided you don't like it, and that would still disqualify you from 63% of women if they found out!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:01 AM
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He probably does slay with a group of women. I... are... are you being serious here? You really honestly believe a fat bald midget janitor would slay with multiple women just because he's funny? Holy shit. Professional comedians will literally be the first to tell you that it made zero difference to their dating. Larry David is one of the funniest people who ever lived, but there's no women out there touching themselves to Curb Your Enthusiasm. Gilbert Gottfried even wrote an entire essay about …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:25 PM
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The majority of bi men are closeted The majority of women won't date bi men Gee I wonder if these two facts might be related
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:52 PM
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Women don't actually care about muscles though. Lol Lmao, even I bet you think that if you do one more set of your 5 pound shaping weight, you're gonna look like Gina Carrano. You literally don't understand the amount of effort and work that goes into a man having "average" muscularity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:48 PM
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The bar is on the floor for men THAT SHE FINDS STUPIDLY ATTRACTIVE. That's it, that's the cause of all the confusion. Women keep saying "the bar is on the floor!" because they think the 6'1" Chad who pumps and dumps them is the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:42 PM
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It literally is. This is when you present some weak evidence about that one fat balding 5'4" janitor you know who like totally slays because he's so hilarious btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:40 PM
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I'm not really sure how that relates to the part I was quoting at all, but yes, absolutely. Modern technology has enabled us to fully unleash the great narcissist within us all. Sex bots, AI partners, cammers, even just plain old social media, all have created ways to wedge themselves into a situation and replace the human interaction with feel-good algorithm and monetization.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:42 PM
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I agree that in some religious circles male libido is seen as dirty, but generally it’s boys will be boys and they get away with a lot of hinky shit. Snapping bra straps, saying filthy things from cars, cat calling, grabbing women’s waists when they walk past them in crowded spaces, demanding hugs, etc. I swear to God everyone on PPD still lives in the 1950s. Unless you're in fucking Dubai or some shit, that's not how society is and it hasn't been that way in a long time. If someone snapped a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:33 PM
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Proof? Souce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:40 PM
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Just ask men here if they remember a time a woman they cared (or found attractive) about made a genuine non trivial compliment about him as a person/looks rather than his utility. Hell, you don't even need that. I still vividly remember the time 6 years ago that a random gay dude hit on me and said I "looked like an angel". I really honestly don't think women understand how truly starved for any kind of compliment or attention men are. Guys are cherishing the memories of the time that a granny i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:38 PM
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She didn't say mini golf, she said muni golf, short for municipal. She's going to expensive private country clubs for golfing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:44 PM
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"None of these things are expensive", says woman who primarily dates men who belong to country clubs and makes an insane amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:32 PM
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Activities are also super expensive so I'm not surprised you'd prefer them. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:40 PM
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"Hey babe, I'm kinda broke so we'll be having separate checks" Yeah that'll really get her wet 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:38 PM
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Right, but how have you not realized by now that only social norms that benefit women are good and the rest all need to be changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:25 PM
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Great advice if you're 22 and still in college. Otherwise, not helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:22 PM
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Yep, that's why when my buddies invite me out to the bar I expect all my drinks to be paid for. Oh wait, no I don't. Only insane and/entitled people would expect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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When the odds are so stacked against them, can you really blame them for drinking water instead of holding out for the 0.01% chance of fine wine?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:21 PM
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Cool, have fun being alone forever I guess? Look, I don't like the rules either, but it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:09 PM
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You won't find out what she adds to your life or makes her different if you don't get the date because of how cheap the date is compared to the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:43 PM
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Well, if you're not gonna picked, you probably should care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:39 PM
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Sure, but that only works if you're the only guy asking her out. There's ten thousand other guys in her inbox offering to take her out for dinner and drinks - "would you like a coffee in the park???" isn't gonna cut it in comparison. She can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:36 PM
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There's a million other guys in her inbox who can do better than just coffee though. While you're coming at her with "how about coffee in the park???", she's getting dinner and drinks invitations. Which one do you think she's gonna take?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:35 PM
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I feel like this entire thread was just made so you could brag you lost your virginity to a hot pornstar tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:25 PM
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Answer the question I asked you: If you were using the very small amount of free time you have to go out to a bar with your friends, would YOU want it suddenly interrupted by a stranger? ESPECIALLY in a post-COVID world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:25 PM
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Did you even click the link? It says it right there at the top of the graph - the percentages are only reflective of people who think the action/statement is "Always" or "Usually" sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:15 PM
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Except I just said those numbers aren't for people who said the context matters. The 25% is explicitly people who said it is ALWAYS harassment, regardless of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:06 PM
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So here is the fundamental disagreement then - you straight up don’t see it as a problem, however, many others do. Do what you want, though don’t bitterly complain when others don’t reciprocate. No. It's because you haven't explained why it is a problem. I cannot make this any clearer. I have stated this twice and now this is a third time. You say it is a problem, and I have asked you to elaborate as to WHY it is a problem, and just refuse to do so. The issue is, people go to these hobby groups/…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:38 PM
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I didnt say a woman being very attracted to me is a turn off, im saying a woman unwilling to explore herself and do stuff she enjoys because she’s overridden by her attraction to me is a turn off. To me this shows a lack of individuality and potential for serious emotional dependency. What? That has nothing to do with what you said. I can't even begin to understand this. "This woman wanted to meet a hot guy, so she joined a hobby to meet hot guys, and she saw me and thought I was hot so she aske…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:30 PM
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Imagine spending tons of money and time on something just for the sake of finding a romantic partner - it frankly comes off as desperate. "Spending time and money to get something you want is desperate, because... it just is, okay???" Though I would counter this by saying guys actively enable it because to many guys all that matters is “wow she’s so into me” - speaking for myself, that’s a turn off. ...What? A woman being very attracted to you is a TURN OFF? I can't even begin to parse that. Be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:19 PM
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There are plenty of confident short bald men that get women out of their league, and if you just listen to the way they talk... they have confidence and don't let their looks get in the way. I've said this before, and I'll say it again. It's interesting how someone always knows a short balding janitor who like totally slays because he's "hilarious and confident", but nobody ever IS that short balding janitor who slays...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:13 PM
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You are not going to successfully manipulate women into anything in relationships. Lmao, same vibes as "advertising doesn't work on me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:01 PM
1

"I don't have any advantages going for me! All I have is being 6'1", a healthy weight in the fattest era ever seen, and making nearly double the median salary in America!" Do you people even listen to yourselves speak
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:57 PM
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"Read the room" is a cop-out nonanswer and you know it. Anything goes wrong or doesn't play out exactly as you said? "You didn't read the room! Read the room, dude."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:46 PM
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The secret is going to these third places and doing these activities without the primary intent on hitting on someone. Dating and relationships should be a natural result of third places, not a calculated end goal. I think that’s what you’re missing out. "You should spend tons of money and time and effort doing hobbies but it shouldn't be for any romantic interest but also it needs to be a hobby you have a legitimate interest in but also it has to be a particular set of hobbies that are appealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:43 PM
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That’s literally what happens tho. One person in one group notices a guy or girl. They give “the look” the flirting starts, some from one group go say hello. Lol Lmao, even! "It's easy to go meet people at a bar! All you have to do is already have a huge group of people and be sexually attractive and then have another huge group of sexually attractive people notice you and then have someone come over and talk to you!" Yeesh. Sometimes it’s as simple as “hey this place is crowded can we share thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:40 PM
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Watch him say the exact same thing I said. I'm not speaking for him, I'm saying that I think it's bizarre that you can't comprehend the world most people live in, which is that all their friends they know are from their early/mid 20s. Most people don't make new friends after that unless it's out of circumstances like moving to a new city.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:37 PM
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It's acceptable everywhere. Nobody is going to be offended, that their future husband approached them in the gym or while waiting for the tram, or while dancing to her favorite song. This is ridiculous incel justification to not approach anyone and just focus on online dating which doesn't work for them. About 25% of young people think asking someone to go for a drink is "always" sexual harassment, and that was back in 2017. https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2017/11/17/over-friendly-or-se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:35 PM
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Because everyday, people are getting together in hobby groups, bars, clubs, volunteering, at work and especially in social circles. And they're all STAYING WITHIN THEIR OWN GROUP THERE. People go to bars etc not to meet people, but just to go out with their friends and not have to clean up the dishes afterwards. You're not gonna walk up to a random table of people at a bar and spark up a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:30 PM
2

Like most people, I imagine he met his current friends back in his early 20s. I'm not sure why this is confusing to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:24 PM
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You're talking about people having affairs at one point dude. Stop with the toxic world fallacy. It's just as bad as the just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:48 PM
3

Yawn. "Nobody in the past ever had a happy normal stable life!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:21 PM
2

Man, that's not that old. People of all ages date. I'd be dating if I wasn't married (23 yrs)and I'm way older than you. Yeah, but if you got divorced you'd have already had LTRs, a marriage, probably kids (if you wanted them), etc. At this age, you won't get those things. That ship has sailed. I wonder if a lot of the dudes here go after women that are superficial as fuck simply because they are hot. There's no future in that, imo. That's everyone. Nobody is picking and choosing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:13 AM
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Mate, I'm in my 30s. We're kinda long past the point of being in the dating game anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:33 PM
3

I'd tell you it gets better over time, but it doesn't. Maybe when we hit 60 and we have no more T, it'll be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:47 PM
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Does it matter? Dating is actively a race to the bottom. I've been actively punished in relationships/flirting phase for being respectful and thoughtful, meanwhile one guy fucked half of the women I knew in my 20s friends group despite being a literal rapist racist. He treated them like dirt and they LOVED it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:42 PM
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Most men will never get genuine interest from a girl in their lives though, so what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:40 PM
6

That dating is a race to the bottom where the worst and most toxic behaviors are richly rewarded. Either join them or drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:39 PM
3

Well, I had already interacted with those women beforehand many times and they showed zero interest when I was my usual polite and courteous self. For once example, when I was depressed and pissed off and I literally told the girl who was talking to me to stop fucking bothering me and go away, insulted her a bit even, she reached out to ME the next day to try and set up a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:48 PM
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I've literally gotten women interested in me because I was rude and distant (unintentionally). A lot of guys have had similar experiences. If I had to guess why, it's something like "oh why isn't he giving me the attention that everyone else gives me???" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:27 PM
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Great work refuting anything I said! So, what are these books? The ones that prove factual data as reported on by the government, NGOs, multiple studies, etc. I'm very curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:18 PM
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It is 100% true. The average woman is a net negative on taxes from birth until death. Women are in college 1.5x the rate of men. There's dozens upon dozens of scholarship opportunities for women that don't exist for men - a female friend of mine literally got paid to work in the trades. As in, the government paid her to go to work and then the job paid her again. I've been seriously physically assaulted by a woman and when I reported it, the police outright mocked me. The majority of the most da…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:20 PM
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Men don’t care about what women think even when it is about them, so why should we? Literally all of western society is set up to benefit women and accommodate woman's desires and complaints lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:05 PM
1

You could catfish your nationality/ethnicity pretty easily. Like you meet a hot girl who wants someone to bring home to Nona so you pretend to be Italian-American.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:47 PM
2

The blackpill insecurity nueroticism matrix completely dies out when places against objective reality. Didn't you literally just tell him that his actual lived experiences are BS and that je needs to go do research to truly "understand" the situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:44 PM
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Tell that to the women, they're the ones who don't understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:54 PM
3

As someone who hates Elon... lmao. If Elon was broke he'd still be a 6'2" good looking white guy with a strong jawline. He's have no problems getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:52 PM
2

The kind of "emotionally vulnerable" that women want doesn't actually exist. It's a performative vulnerability that only boots the women's egos and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:44 PM
3

You LITERALLY became uncomfortable because your boyfriend cried in front of you because you were diagnosed with a serious medical condition. A man caring about you so much that the thought of you dealing with a life-long medical issue made him cry - and you thought that was uncomfortable and unwanted. And yet, you still have the gall to act like men aren't punished for crying in front of their partners and it's all in their head...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:24 PM
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Don't forget the kicker - at the time she told that story, she was forcibly retired from her own UFC career because she severely damaged her knee from never protecting her own body during fights lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:19 PM
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What tf are men doing? If they did more everyone could have a little slice of it all. Working at their ACTUAL JOBS in careers that are VITAL to society. How many women do you see in masonry? Electrical? Carpentry? Oil rig workers? HVAC? Getting the idea here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:37 PM
1

I'm sure your boyfriend would love to know that you gave affection and sex just as freely to random people you didn't even find attractive as you did to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:10 AM
1

Except that's not the case at all? Like statistically. It's very well known that most autistic men are single while most autistic women aren't. So they're obviously dating non-autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:27 AM
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who's going to cook, clean, and make them feel like a respectable provider? Well, it's certainly not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:59 AM
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Then why did you have a torrid hookup with a fling if you apparently didn't lust after them???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:26 AM
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Uh, what? It's not the 1950s, I've never known a single woman who did all those things. Not even my own mom. If anything, women are proud to not know how to do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:18 AM
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Do you really think maintaining your basic physical health and nutrition is the signs of someone "obsessed with their appearance"? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:58 PM
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Right, and not working out or maintaining your diet is a choice. Just because something becomes harder to do doesn't make it impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:30 PM
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People being fat, which is a natural part of getting older. Nope. This is just something people who are fat tell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:23 PM
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Looks aren't the only thing important to women, we have a study to prove it Lol Lmao, even! Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:53 PM
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I mean, the article just says that women settle for men they don't find attractive. It's not exactly refuting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:24 PM
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Umm
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:11 PM
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And yet, the average woman is statistically a net drain on taxes from birth to death, while the same is not true of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:10 PM
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You end up on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:30 AM
1

I should have road the cc. Well, yeah. No reason for a woman not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:43 PM
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Which means not having a terrible personality. You can be “ugly” and you can absolutely get laid, so long as you aren’t fucking awful to be around. One guy in my mid 20s fucked half the women I knew. He was also a racist rapist. One of the women even did a public song about his abuse, and then went back to hooking up with him. And then he hooked up with her best friend too. But I guess he just was a racist rapist with a heart of gold and that's why he got laid like a brick and not the fact he wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:40 PM
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What does it matter at that age? Like legitimately, who cares? Who are you trying to impress?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:46 AM
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How can I possibly believe there is a “height REQUIREMENT to get your foot in the door” if me and all of my female friends and family have dated (and married) men of all shapes and sizes?? What you’re saying literally cannot be true for the majority of women. And yet, there's literal hard statistics proving that's the case and that not just dating but life in general is harder for shorter men. Literally ask any woman what she wants in a man and the first word out of her mouth is "tall". Go ask s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:01 AM
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As a short guy (5'7") who has many friends over 6 feet tall, I have literally witnessed it happen many times. I have literally experienced women going from being interested in talking to me at a party/bar/etc to talking to my 6'3" buddy when he showed up to the conversation. Like she went from talking to me for like an hour to outright ignoring me to talk to him when he showed up. There absolutely are height requirements to get your foot in the door. Yeah, sure, that guy had a terrible personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:55 PM
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Right, and you're not gonna be introducing them to something new past a certain point. Do you really think there's women after 25 who haven't seen it all and done it all with sex? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
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laughs at the guy talking about how the average woman is holding out for top tier rich men .. tells a story about about holding out for high income men while rejecting average men and says she's known lots of women who do this what did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:13 PM
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What? Adam Driver is jacked and 6'2"! Pete Davidson is 6'3"! What are you even talking about? The fact that they both look weird yet they're insane sex symbols because they're really tall isn't making the point you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:08 PM
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I live in NYC and they're everywhere. NYC is one of the very very few places in North America (hell, probably in the west in general) with a significantly higher amount of of women compared to men. The rest of the vast majority of locations lean towards majority men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:45 AM
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They live through statistics, some demand lists of what women want, as if all women want exactly the same thing. Yes, that's why male sex symbols are so diverse. I mean, there's the tall jacked blonde white guy, the tall slim white guy, AND the tall jacked black guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:43 AM
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A lot of men take online dating stats and apply them to everything. Probably because it's the only way to meet people to date in this day and age?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:42 AM
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I engage in casual sex does this make me someone who has casual sex Again. What did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:19 AM
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I do indulge in casual sex am I someone who has casual sex? What did she mean by this???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:12 AM
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No, gold digging is explicitly faking romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:36 PM
4

Yeah that's what gold digging is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with being rich. Gold digging is relative - a guy working at McDonalds can get gold dug by a homeless woman. You just have to have more than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:27 PM
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most women don’t have casual sex though Lol. Lmao, even. Every woman I've never known has casual sex. Out of the only three who haven't, two are asexual and the third is super religious. If you really think most women in cities aren't having casual sex, you're fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:24 PM
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Nah. I feel like you don't get women. Let me put it this way. Which do you think a woman is more likely to remember, cherish, and brag about to her friends: The time a tall jacked Chad jackhammer fucked her with his big dick until HE came, then called her an Uber or The time that some Bobby Beta ate her out until she came ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:05 PM
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No once you’re in your 30’s you barely remember what you did at 21. I literally don’t remember my first partner’s face. Maybe that's just you? I remember the faces of everyone I've ever dated, let alone sexual partners. Most people don’t LIKE their exes. They don’t want to be with them. That’s why they aren’t together. I really don't think that's true. Pretty much everyone has an ex they wish they were still with. If a woman dates you, it means she thinks you have something that makes her compat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:23 PM
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I don't have a "type", there was nothing connecting any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:19 PM
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Sure seems like it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:16 PM
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You can rock their world all you want, they'll still think of their ex. At this age (late 20s onward) you're pretty much not gonna be their best because they've had better when they were younger and sex was better and more passionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:55 PM
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Uh, yeah? Why wouldn't I? Do you think a woman would want me to tell her how loose her pussy is, or how her tits are too small?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:48 PM
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I think being told that your dick is smaller than the other guys is a bit beyond "worrying".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:07 PM
6

do you not understand what metaphors are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:06 PM
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Sure, but those other guys were bigger. And both women made sure to let me know. So sex she's having might be "okay". But it was better with the other guys. That's where the alpha widowing comes from. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:45 PM
5

I'm just explaining the logic about being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:43 PM
2

Who gets the better deal The guy who got to drive a brand new Porche for a few years Or the guy who paid the same amount of money to drive around a used Porche for keeps
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:17 PM
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It's the current year, they're the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:03 PM
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Because you're misunderstanding the point. It's not her most recent ex, but her best ex. Why do you assume you're the one, of all the people she's dated, that is the WORST in bed? Because it's very very rare that'd be the case, no matter how good you are at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:01 PM
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I've personally had two women both tell me how much bigger their ex/other guy they're seeing's dick is completely casually. Women are just like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:59 PM
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What. I can't even begin to understand why you think this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:39 PM
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Only 3 is really accurate tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:34 PM
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How is that rage bait? Every woman I know is upset about how men never stop approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:11 PM
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You're LITERALLY doing the just world fallacy that was mentioned before right now! You're assuming that someone who isn't good with flirting/women must be a cave dwelling trogdolite who never said 5 words to a woman before. "Hey, I really need some help learning how to run". "Clearly you must not be good at walking." "I'm asking for advice on running!" "Have you tried being a better walker?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:00 PM
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It means stop treating women as some alien other and communicate with them as anyone else, and reserve the romantic or sexual projecting for the woman who actually returns the interest. Uhhhh How is she "returning romantic/sexual interest" if he's treating her like everyone else and not making move?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:51 PM
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“Today in America, women expect more from men,” Levant said, “and unfortunately, so many men don’t have more to give.” Lol! Lmao, even!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:39 PM
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A literal pig photoshopped to look like a woman still got a bunch of likes. There is no way your friend is getting zero likes. I think what your friend actually means is "I get no likes (from hot guys)".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:32 PM
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It depends entirely on how hot he is. There was a guy in my 20s social group who was a racist AND a rapist. He loved yelling out the n-word with a hard R in public "as a joke" and would regularly do things like slip condoms off during sex and force sex acts when they were drunk without their consent. He was tall and good looking though so he fucked over half of the women in my social sphere, including the most leftie feminist women. In fact, the most leftie feminist woman of the group performed …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:30 AM
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Sex is pretty pointless past your mid/late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 07:29 PM
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So you are conceding then? I will need to take SOME action in order to attract the opposite sex? It’s not as simple as “be woman”?? AGAIN. If we go back and read what you said, you've actually said that men have hit on you, they just haven't been respectful. If you make yourself completely unapproachable, then only creeps with no concept of boundaries who don't care about how they make you feel will approach you. You are doing the classic woman fallacy of "I want x!" "Okay, here is x!" "No, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:12 PM
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Probably because every single woman will tell men how much they hate being approached. Every woman and piece of media screams from the rooftop for men to not approach women, and then women got exactly what they wanted, and now they're upset about it. They say "women want fried ice" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:49 PM
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And a huge number of them do and that's part of their problem tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:46 PM
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Probably because all men have seen it happen and/or heard a million stories about it from their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:44 PM
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Yep. Women got what they wanted and now they're upset. Many such cases!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:27 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? Both Billie and Ice are overweight and rude and aggressive in not only their songs but their day-to-day life. Billie Eilish famously talks in interviews about how women should never give ugly guys a chance and loves to talk shit about how guys who wear Converse or own big houses have tiny dicks. Her most famous song is about how she'll fuck your man and then fuck your dad on top of it. Ice Spice's most famous song is about how she uses and toys with naive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:25 PM
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If they give some $100 and they give me cheesecake in return when I was buying steak, that's justified in saying "I got nothing out of it", regardless of the quality of cheesecake. Making friends is easy. Relationships are nigh-impossible. Nobody has ever said "I don't wanna grab a drink with you after work dude, you're 5'7"."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:44 PM
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I’m 33…I have literally never had a random dude come up to me and ask me out, respectfully. Not once. I honestly sincerely doubt that. You've never once in all your life had a guy offer to buy you a drink or whatever? Come on. How have your relationships even ever started then? Your profile says you used to be married. To your second part, literally every single man bitching that they “can’t get laid” can pay for a prostitute. I don’t want meaningless sex. I want a relationship. The point was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:41 PM
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Then don't go on an app. Go out and do literally anything and just exist and you'll get interested men hitting on you. yes I know I can jump on an app and find someone to fuck me but finding a well balanced quality man looking to have a healthy relationship is easier when you meet them in IRL through normal social interactions Also, you're literally complaining about how you only got cupcakes instead of a real cake when men are nibbling on moldy bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:12 PM
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If you're a woman, no. If you're a man, yes. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:34 PM
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It's an actual famous ex-boyfriend and situation but as far as I know she never set him on fire outside of the music video. Think that Kayne video where he buried Pete Davidson's corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:14 AM
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Olivia Rodrigo's entire character is being an angry psycho who sets her ex boyfriends on fire for breaking up with her. Sabrina Carpenter is literally the woman that Olivia's ex boyfriend broke up with for lmao. She's currently enjoying a blacklist from the BBC for impromptu singing about the OTHER meaning of BBC during a live performance. I don't know anything about Madison Beer. The whole Jenner/Kardashian family are like maybe the biggest example of the aggressive #GirlBoss stuff though. Just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:21 AM
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lmao what? The vast majority of young women are overweight, aggressive, rude, and masculine. For example, can you think of a single zoomer celebrity who is actually feminine in any way? They're all women like Billie Eilish and Ice Spice. Aggressive "baddies".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:43 PM
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Unless everyone goes on strike at once, it's not a strike, you're just a guy skipping work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:15 PM
1

And how many women are feminine these days? Particularly young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:14 PM
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Although I've yet to experience these women who bring nothing. My ex planned dates, always bought me little gifts, gave massages, took care of me when I wasn't doing well, supported me through rough times etc. That's very rare. None of the women I've ever dated have even ever complimented me, let alone made food.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:14 PM
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They absolutely do not lmao Like are you kidding me right now? Women get attention by existing, men get attention by doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:06 PM
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You can't actually believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:38 AM
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*2% of women are PROFESSIONALLY DIAGNOSED with BPD. Very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:10 AM
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It was just a general social circle made up of all different people leaning vaguely towards hipsters and artsy types I guess. He would slip the condom off during sex and do sex acts without their consent when they were drunk. This was publicly known, with one of the women even writing and performing a song about it, and her best friend still proceeded to hook up with him after that anyway. Hell, SHE went back to hook up with him after that performance too!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah, pretty much. Half the women in my mid-20s social circle were nailed by one guy who was a literal rapist racist. And his toxicity like that was no secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:57 PM
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Well, this the same woman who said: "Why is every pretty girl with a horrible looking man? I don’t understand. Listen, I’m not shaming people for their looks, but I am though. You give an ugly guy a chance, he thinks he rules the world. Literally, I swear to god. Because they got a hot girl they can be horrible? Like, you’re still ugly though. Can’t change that. Maybe that’s why. Maybe that’s why, like, guys with small dicks get like huge mansions." So her statement is very obviously full of shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:45 AM
1

Just existing as a woman on an online dating site gets you guys. An empty woman's profile gets as many matches as the best curated men's profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:50 AM
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If you are competing with 50 other guys, you are probably shooting too high, dude. Those are women all the men want. Literally every woman has that number of guys competing though. Did you forget about the infamous Pigwoman experiment where they literally photoshopped a pig to look like a woman and "she" still got dozens and dozens of matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:30 AM
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From what I can tell, people fuck first and THEN decide if they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:16 PM
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Great argument 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 PM
4

Yeah that was my experience in my mid 20s too. One dude who was a racist and rapist nailed half of the women in my friend group because he was tall and hot, despite being openly criminally toxic. Women are essentially validated and defended for picking toxic hot guys though so it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:30 PM
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Metaphorically or literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:42 PM
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In my experience, most women are of the "I get 99%, you get 1%, and you should be grateful for that 1%" mindset. Probably comes from every single piece of media telling you you're amazing and flawless since birth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:42 AM
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You don't just engage in any and all relationships that come your way. That's the reality for most men though. They'll take whatever scraps they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:39 AM
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Except the majority of autistic women don't want to date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:16 AM
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Except it's literally true. Nearly every single male sex symbol is tall, masculine, and muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:29 PM
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I'm not a Chad or anything Say the line, Bart! just tall Yaaaaayyyyy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:28 PM
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Literally the awful "I am the table" response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:40 PM
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Lmao what that's insane If my buddy asked me to get drinks with him after work I wouldn't be expecting him to cover my tab. Either you're rich or your "friends" are fleecing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:27 PM
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I have a similar theory about women who demand men pay - they don't like the guy and have to be bribed to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 PM
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This is always such a silly argument. There's four billion women on earth but I'm not interacting with most of them. You'll be interacting with people within 100 miles max of where you live for most of your life. Maybe the women in Jakarta or Helinski are different but how the hell would that be relevant to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:20 PM
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But... why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:09 PM
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So most women are shitty partners then? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:04 PM
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Well, men don't get the chance to just exclude the majority of women by filtering for that. So it doesn't benefit me much. I learned my mistake and I won't open up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:04 PM
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Men being emotional is acceptable for deaths in the family I had to find out the hard way that even that isn't okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:25 AM
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I feel sad for guys who really believe this. I believe it because it happened to me. My girlfriend lost pretty much all attraction to me because I cried about my dad dying on the day he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:24 AM
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Most guys don't want to date meth addicted trailer trash, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:41 AM
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Because going to go see Britney Spears perform isn't a "girls' trip". Going to Jamaica or Ibiza or Goa or Berlin etc for a week to go clubbing with your girls IS a "girls' trip" and that's what he's talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Mate getting two headshots in a row gets you death threats, death threats are like insanely normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:04 PM
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You're using a person who is LITERALLY known for being a socially awkward creep! This is the person who went to jail for raping their own mom for fuck's sake. This is like saying "all men are racist" and then your evidence is "look at Hitler"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:14 PM
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Why the fuck is your core example case CHRIS CHAN Are you kidding me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:02 PM
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You're literally just making shit up lol. "Women and children first" came about from Victorian ideals of chivalry. It was wrapped in the masculine self-mythological idea that a "real man" would know his life is worth less than a woman's and would sacrifice himself instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:44 AM
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A lot of women would straight up never get a date if they were men with the same personalities. A lot of women would straight up get their teeth knocked out all the time if they were men with the same personalities tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:41 AM
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Ain’t No Fun (If the Homies Can’t Have None)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:16 PM
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And finally, social stigma is also a pretty big reason. Even when I was single and wanted sex without strings attached, I wanted a fwb and not many one night stands because I didn't want my count to go way up or to be labeled as a slut. Maybe this is a difference in age or location. I remember in my mid 20s that I knew women who were shamed (by other women, no less!) for NOT having hookups and one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:42 PM
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Most people don't go to parties for the primary purpose of flirting ??? Um yes they do. Do you think people try to get into frat parties so they can meet like-minded highly intellectual fellows? There's a reason why finding out the party is a sausage fest is a death sentence for ANY party.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:36 PM
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Okay, try showing up to your friend's birthday party in a slutty leather bikini and heels. Or a New Years party. Or Thanksgiving. Etc etc Do you see what I'm talking about? Halloween is the only time for a party where a woman dressing insanely revealing is not just allowed, it's expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:34 PM
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We intend to get married when we finish college and establish our careers. You're probably like 22. So your posts make a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:32 PM
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Try showing up to a Christmas party in a slutty leather bikini and heels and see how people treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:30 PM
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Have you been to parties? That's ALWAYS the reason people under 30 go to parties. Or do you think house parties, frat nights, clubbing, and music festivals are for people to hand out their business cards and make valuable media and educational within the local community?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:28 PM
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Choose better, since they literally have all the power and control in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:38 AM
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But then how would they make money, OP? Think of the shareholders!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:20 AM
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Because I'm 5'7", I've got a babyface, and I come off as gay apparently. I've done all this introspection lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:01 AM
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As has been expressed before; women date who they want, men date who they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:40 AM
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Love how women can subtly detect misogynistic auras from posts but still end up in abusive relationships because the guy was a Master Manipulator™️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:38 AM
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She didn't break up with me over it. She just started taking longer and longer to respond to texts, stopped having attraction towards me etc. It was a very slow death. Guys don't get to have the luxury of waiting for the perfect unicorn woman who will be okay with him crying. Not sure what else to tell you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:37 AM
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Also, a lot of guys don't handle their insecurities in a sympathetic way because they're afraid to show emotion or vulnerability in general, so we don't always know when a guy is feeling insecure until he is being an asshole about it. Yeah, because they want to keep having them as their girlfriend lol. My longest relationship literally ended because I cried about my dad dying in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:01 AM
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I bet it's the experience for way more men than you think. Like I said, women don't have to compliment their boyfriends, so they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:00 AM
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...And? It's incredibly common for women to insult men's masculinity all the time. "Man up already", "grow a pair and stop being a pussy", etc. Fuckin' Greta Thunberg talked about Andrew Tate having small dick energy. And women are honestly very homophobic. There was a study that showed that 63% of women wouldn't want to date a man who ever did anything gay. This is especially notable because 31% of the women in the study also said they've hooked up with other women before lol Also imagine your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:44 AM
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You could be hideous looking, but extremely socially aware, social and hilarious and a woman wont take the approach the wrong way and just reject you gracefully. lol lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:37 AM
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Planet earth lol. Women don't even compliment the guys they're with. In all my relationships, I've never been complimented a single time. Not even something as simple as "that shirt looks nice on you" or something. I can't even begin to count the amount of times I've cooked for my girlfriends; I've only ever been cooked for once by a girlfriend my whole life, and it was frozen chicken nuggets. You know why? Because women don't have to. Simple as. And a guy wanting compliments from his girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:07 AM
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I love how we've all accepted "Women will randomly be rude and disrespectful to you to judge your reactions" as a totally normal thing that adults should do and not the behaviour better associated with BPD nutbars and 8 year olds pulling pigtails in the schoolyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:02 AM
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No shit I'm "bitter". Why wouldn't I be? And how old are you, bucko?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:54 AM
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Well I'm 5'7" and I literally had an ex who thought I was born a woman due to my height up. So you tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:04 AM
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I don't want some childless older woman to just fuck. What I wanted was a happy family and the joys of being a father. I'll never get to experience that. Life is very serious because you only get one shot at it, and I blew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:36 AM
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You can. Mens sperm degrades but there's no male menopause. Right, which increases autism etc. But women go through menopause and most men aren't going to be marrying women a decade younger than them. I don't know why you think at 33 women won't be attracted to you if you look attractive. I feel like you're not really getting the point. The only women who would be interested in a guy who is short and feminine looking are women who are drastically settling. I've literally had two relationships no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:48 PM
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You can. No, no you can't. You don't have kids with someone the week you meet them, dude. Why wouldn't they be? If you're unattractive fix it as much as you can. Because there's no passion or attraction. You're being settled for, simple as. Nobody ever had a whirlwind romance where they finally found the love of their life in middle age. None of this is true. Why not? You didn't offer any reason why. There's going to be no new shared experiences because they're just jaded at that point. They've …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:56 PM
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At this age? You can't have kids, they won't really be attracted to you, there's no more energy or fun, there won't be any new shared experiences, they've seen it all and done before with someone else and done it better etc. So it's just a roommate you share a bed with. Who cares, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:50 PM
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Too early for...?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:36 PM
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Because people generally don't still envision themselves becoming a rockstar astronaut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:11 PM
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don't have to "give back" anything to society or people around The No Pussy No Work No Pussy No Taxes movement gains another recruit, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:34 PM
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I'm 33, I already have failed. At this age there's no real point in getting into a relationship for the reasons you mentioned in the last paragraph. At a certain point, us men need to realize there was a time to find love, and we missed it. Being angry about it is like being angry that you weren't born with wings to take flight with. It just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:46 PM
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I don't quite understand what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:16 PM
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"Women date who they want. Men date who they can."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:43 PM
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There are plenty, plenty of women who are in serious relationships in their early/mid twenties. Maybe if you live out in Amish country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:50 PM
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I'm being sarcastic. Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:57 PM
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Yikes, my dude. Did you just do a heckin' racistarino? Ugh. Mods, we have a CHUD here! It's called maybe, just maybe, being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:46 PM
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Well, first off, "being rich" isn't even in the same ballpark as "having a job". Second, isn't that LITERALLY what the whole #GirlBoss phenomenon was?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:12 PM
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There aren't enough 6'5 white Chads with 6 packs and million dollar salaries to go around for all women. Hence why so many women are childless and alone, duh. They don't stop being available because they had sex with Chad. They do, because they consider themselves to be in a relationship. This is how you end up with such a huge gap of single men and partnered women. Your competition is other average guys for the same average women that GigaChad wouldn't even look at. Right. But the women don't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:04 PM
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I've interacted with MANY intelligent women. They don't want to hear about any of that shit lol. Unless you're hot, in which case they'll listen to a 6'3" guy describe paint drying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:10 PM
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Lmao what? Do you really think men are congratulated just for having jobs? How on earth did you come to this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah that was an entire subgenre and a key part of the pop punk/emo/scene movement. All the women were basically "not like other girls unlike that bitch Stacy". Paramore's "Misery Business" is probably the greatest example, as is Avril's "Girlfriend". Both songs about stealing Stacy's man and fucking him better while eviscerating Stacy for being Stacy - "She's got a body like an hourglass? It's ticking like a clock."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:58 PM
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Even on places like Instagram or Snapchat you can see plenty of content of women making fun of men for thinking liking flowers is gay or whatever. I've literally never seen this in my life. Let me guess, you're polling a bunch of queer fat positive terminally online types?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:54 PM
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Are we really gonna pretend that the vast majority aren't the former instead of the latter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:14 AM
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Everyone's trying to get better employment but most people aren't gonna give you bad advice for resumes and interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:08 PM
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the man would be granted half of her assets in a divorce Hahaha hahaha Oh wait, you're serious. Let me laugh even harder. I bet you think men also get alimony lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:14 PM
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Clicking on your profile, it looks like you're from Texas. I'm from Canada, the most degenerate hellhole around. And I say that as a leftist. So I'm not surprised we had different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:10 PM
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Uh I don't think I ever said that. At 33 I'm kinda too old for sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:16 PM
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Except the vast majority of women still hyperfixate on those types and are never, EVER told off about it. Meanwhile guys say "I'd like a woman who isn't rude, respects me, and isn't obese" and they're told they expect a MPDG.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 PM
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So she wants fried ice, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:40 PM
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They inherently know that sensitivity and etc is deeply unattractive, no matter what they say otherwise. And thus it's reflected in their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:34 PM
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A lot of them saw their parents—both mom and dad—share financial burden of the household, meanwhile mom was still primarily responsible for the majority of domestic labor. Mom did 80-90% of the cooking, cleaning, tidying, school supply shopping, doctors visits, parent-teacher conferences, etc. Lmaooo what??? I'm a core millennial (mid 30s) and I've never known another millennial where the mom even put in half the work the dad did. This idea of the mom doing cooking or cleaning is completely fore…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:24 PM
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Actions match words. If there's a mismatch in your mind, it's because the woman who says she wants a sensitive guy is a different woman from the one who dates players. This is absolutely not the case. I've known tons of women who constantly say they want kind sensitive guys, yet still continue to go along with distant cold boyfriends. Very rarely do women's actions match their words tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:14 PM
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Why would her making good money stop her from fleecing the lad for all he's worth? You don't turn down a raise because "Oh I already make too much money".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:42 AM
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But in western dating it's not expected anymore. It is if you ever want to have a second date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:38 AM
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Can vouch that it's super common. I once had a woman whom I had scheduled a first date with complain to me about how her FWB came over for a weekend and they just hung out. They'll complain to you about their exes etc before the first date even these days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:30 AM
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I remember even at 15 when girls spoke about a guy his penis was an extension of his attractiveness. They liked him——> they loved his dick. If he was hung then yeah they’d rave about that too. I was far more endowed than my exes next boyfriend and she still loved him so much and told me “I’m happy with Brad, I love his penis I love everything about him”. The last person I dated literally told me about how much bigger her FWB's dick is compared to mine right after we had sex. That's not the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:41 AM
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Oh boy, he gets to pay for all her food and expenses while Chad just had to give her a $3 PBR to get her to blow him in a club bathroom. What a great deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:28 PM
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We had similar senses of humour and interests, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:24 PM
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You can't really vet or screen partners in the first few dates dude. But none of these women were like wild party girls if that's what you're getting at. The only real connection between the three of them is that they were vaguely nerdy and vaguely artistic I guess. But I don't think the second one I mentioned even ever drew or painted anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:29 PM
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It absolutely is? I met all these women through different ways at different ages. Maybe it's not typical woman behaviour where you are, but it is in Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:26 PM
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How do you figure I'm screening for them? They were all different age groups, ethnicities, and met through different ways. Also how do you figure I'm shallow? I have no idea where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:25 PM
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I don’t come from Canada, but come from another western country that’s similar, most women I know don’t have a body count that high. Canada is very different. It's got an extreme celebratory of sexual aggressiveness and for lack of a better term, sexual degeneracy. Imagine if the entire country had the same sexual climate as NYC or the Bay Area and you're on the right track. And I say this as a far leftist lol Are you going for women who are very attractive and outgoing? Or women who move very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:05 PM
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Why do so many dudes think this? It's the most defeatist thing I've ever heard. Why is it assumed that even if you get a girlfriend, she won't like you? That she obviously must have liked someone ELSE more than you and secretly want them instead. I mean I've literally experienced this. First gf, cheated on me with a tall jacked guy. Another gf told me all about the guy she hooked up with on vacation like 10 minutes after we had sex for the first time (we had waited for sex). Another ex told me h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:43 AM
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That's blatantly false lmao. No one here meets people through dating apps. People just occasionally use it for hookups, and that only rarely. No one stars a relationship through dating apps(the few that do that are seen as weirdos). And men outnumber women 4 times in dating apps,so no,most young people don't meet there. Touch fucking grass. Uhh it's literally and statistically the way that most couples meet https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/online-dating-now-most-common-way-couples-meet-dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:56 PM
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You're missing the point. She COULD pay for those things, but she doesn't want to or have to. Simple as. She's still financially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:20 PM
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I've literally not seen them. I don't know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:18 PM
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I mean I've literally never seen that said by any woman who is an adult. It's not a "narrative" lol. When have you seen them? Myself I've literally heard directly from mutiple women that if a guy doesn't pay for their date, there's no second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:09 PM
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Dudes here really don't grasp how important economic independence is to the vast majority of women. The narrative that women are all demanding men be providers to them is baffling. There's no contradiction here. They want to have the ability to pay for things but still have the man pay for it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:06 PM
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The only time women say that's not the case is when they're teenagers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:02 PM
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What? How do you figure that's comparable? It's a choice to be fat. I can't hit the gym to gain height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:02 PM
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I seriously doubt anyone would seriously call a woman shallow if she didn’t want to date a man who was unemployed living with his parents. No, but most women would call a man who doesn't want to date a fat woman shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:51 PM
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Still taller than me lol, I'm 5'7". I dunno. Your experience is far from the common one for non-masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:39 PM
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You mean the guy who had openly said he couldn't get laid to save his life before he became a world-famous wealthy musician?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:05 PM
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I don't know anyone who's thought "I really like this person so want to stay with them long term, and I like to sleep with people early into meeting them, guess I'll not sleep with them". ??? This is literally the vast vast majority of women, you do know that right? They'll literally see it as "Well I like this guy so I need to make him wait for sex so that ~we can grow to appreciate each other~ but this other guy won't work out long term so I might as well fuck him on the first date in the mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:38 PM
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women date down in looks all the time lol lmao, even
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:35 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/WhxpdJu Man you got some REAL wack ideas if you think this guy has a "feminine facial structure"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:15 PM
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I actually have a very strong jawline as well (other people have told me this) and I work out a fair amount as well. How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:06 PM
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And here I am, a feminine-androgynous guy who has a terrible dating life explicitly because of that feminine-androgynous stuff. I've literally had women tell me they thought I was gay and/or trans multiple times. I literally went on three dates with a woman and she straight up thought I was ftm for the entire three dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:42 PM
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How the hell are tatted-out rappers with dreads your example of "androgynous heartthrobs"? I can't even begin to understand your logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:39 PM
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There are many androgynous looking men who are celebrated but they usually appeal to the younger crowd. Timothée Chalamet comes to mind as a modern Hollywood example. Chalamet is NOT ANDROGYNOUS. https://imgur.com/a/CT7jClm You would never, EVER mistake this for a woman in a million years. People literally think that anything short of Chris Hemsworth is "androgynous and feminine", it's really aggravating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:36 PM
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As a feminine-looking man, we're seen as gay, asexual, or trans. None of these are good things if you're looking to attract women. I've been explicitly told my multiple women that they thought I was gay and/or ftm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:34 PM
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Also who goes to a spa with their opposite sex bestie? Well, gay guys, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:32 PM
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There's not scores of men out there thirsting after Taylor Swift What.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:01 PM
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Taylor Swift is widely considered one of the hottest women who ever lived and she's 5'10". Tall women just get called "leggy" or "statuesque".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:00 PM
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Uhhh Pretty much every relationship starts with sex and then dating afterwards. I've been mocked multiple times for expressing confusion on this or thinking otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:08 PM
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I don't think the point was "Lots of women will treat short men as asexual homunculi so it's totally fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:50 AM
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I've literally been cheated on by two of my partners with tall jacked guys. Another one literally apologized to her friend when she thought I was asleep for me not being masculine and big. Yet another one told me all about the tall jacked guy she fucked on vacation right after we had sex for the first time. It is absolutely NOT "all in my head" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:36 AM
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Question: in all your life you’ve never come across a couple of women who were at least indifferent toward short men, if not treated them well? I don't think anyone has tbh. Maybe if they're really lucky, they'll be indifferent. But I've never had that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:16 AM
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I have no issues with my partner or any male friends crying in front of me and I definitely don't think less of them for being vulnerable around me. I literally had my longest term girlfriend lose all attraction to me and eventually break up with me because I cried a bunch in front of her about my father dying on the day he died. There's a reason why most guys have these stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:23 PM
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They're all sharing the same small group of women, as was shown by the discrepancies in single men vs single women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:18 PM
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Like only 8% of American HOUSEHOLDS make 200k a year. It is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:33 AM
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They still do them anyway, even if they can't handle them. Sometimes even openly so! Again, there's no reason to not do an open relationship if you're a woman. Not a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:22 AM
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Wait, are you implying that 200k isn't rich? The average US income is like 30k.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:20 AM
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Do you honestly think that if you're the perfect boyfriend they'd be like, "nah, I'm looking for something casual,fuck off. As someone who is also Canadian, that actually IS the reality, 100%. There's no reason for the women NOT to be in open relationships - why have just the perfect boyfriend, when you could also have the perfect boyfriend, and a different perfect boyfriend, and some other guys on the side? I literally know one women who straight up gets handed off from one partner to the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:19 AM
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Yes? You really think guys over like late 20s aren't seen as weirdo creepy pests at bars? You really think people still hold house parties after 25? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:30 AM
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I'm 5'7" and I look like a feminine pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:58 PM
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You are better off meeting women in person. That doesn't happen anymore in this day and age. Maybe if you're still young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:51 PM
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The point is that flaws and failings are not only forgiven but even seen in positive lights for them. A low value man cannot ever do anything but be the most perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:47 PM
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There is no famous actress at Robert Deniros age who is cast as a lead. Uh... Meryl Streep? Helen Mirren? Julianne Moore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:09 PM
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Yeah bro everyone always knows some 5'3" bald janitor who slays because he's so charismatic and funny Yet nobody ever IS that 5'3" bald janitor. Curious, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:48 PM
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A funny, charismatic man who dresses exceptionally and can make everyone laugh, but who is also average and isn't "hideous"? I would bet my life on the average guy. A funny, charismatic man who dresses exceptionally and can make everyone laugh will make lots of FRIENDS. He won't get lots of women. He'll make them laugh and smile while they wait for their dick appointment to arrive. Half the women in my entire mid 20s friend group was laid by one guy who was tall and jacked and that was his only …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:40 PM
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See my other post about the tall jacked guy I know who is brain-numbingly boring - even according to the women who have dated him - but still gets laid like a brick. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16w80r1/i_think_that_being_a_smooth_talker_is_the_best/k2vm4f4/ He could get 3x or 4x times the number of dates/ hookups if he was socially adjusted. It's about missed opportunities that are not charming would bring about And who do you think is getting more women? A very attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:30 PM
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Yeah, she didn't care about anything he said because of how attracted she was to him. That's what real attraction looks like. The vast, VAST majority of men will never get to experience a woman being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:23 PM
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So you have no actual reply or response and never intended to reply genuinely. Got it. Like at no point have you ever actually answered anything I asked you or even stayed on topic, as soon as you were asked any question about a subject, you just moved to the next subject instead. It's pretty fucking transparent, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:15 PM
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Wait, hold on. I thought were talking about social status. Now we're talking about making women "feel emotions". Are you even reading my posts? 1) So you've personally seen a social group where it was an ugly/fat mofo leading the group and he wasn't also rich, then? 2) Why would "actually talking to a girl in actual real life" be something you think is possible if you are an unattractive man? Do you really think women will welcome an ugly short guy walking up to them at a bar and trying to chat …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:10 PM
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I LITERALLY KNOW HIM PERSONALLY AS WELL AS THE EX AND HAVE WATCHED HIM RECITE WIKIPEDIA PAGES ABOUT MARVEL MOVIES AS "FLIRTING". You didn't even read the post, did you? https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16w80r1/i_think_that_being_a_smooth_talker_is_the_best/k2vm4f4/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:07 PM
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Do people really think some dude who gets his dick sucked randomly in a club bathroom was talking about Roman geopolitics in 1st century AD or reciting the entire Pokedex from Gen 1-Gen 8 from memory? If he looks good enough, yes. I've watched it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:06 PM
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but an attractive guy with poor social skills just hanging out isn’t going to pick anyone up. See my post about the jacked tall guy who was so boring that his ex broke up with him explicitly because he was boring. He still has no trouble getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:04 PM
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One of my exes's exes. The dude is so dull that my ex literally said the reason she broke up with him was because he was so boring that she couldn't take it. We all went out to a bar one time together. I was making the rounds, greeting the regulars, chatting with everyone, dancing, singing karaoke, shooting pool, chilling with the bartenders, the works. The exes's ex? He literally sat in a corner and stared at the wall while drinking. A woman came over to him in his corner and grabbed his thigh …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:03 PM
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Ugly dudes don't get social status, bro. When you ever seen a social group and it's an ugly fat mf who's leading the pack? Unless he's like stupid rich and they're all his entourage or clout chasers, you've never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:57 PM
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You tell them that women like tall, attractive, wealthy men and have absolutely 0 preferences beyond that. Uh, it's WOMEN who say that. Are you joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:51 PM
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An ugly but confident, funny, socially smart, charismatic guy can certainly be sexually attractive to women and elicit the "hot guy" responses from women. If he's ugly, he won't get his foot in the door. You're being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:51 PM
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and it is met with glowing approval Kinda glossed over that part, didn't ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:49 PM
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Is this literally all you can post? Sorry you got called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:40 PM
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Do the ordinary men realize they’ve been settled for and do the hot guys realize their wives are insecure? The ordinary men never realize because most men have no idea of what actually being desired by a woman feels like. Hot guys don't care because they can replace those wives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:32 PM
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So by the time they have tons of baggage with their exes, lack any kind of energy or spontaneity, no longer want to (or depending on age, CAN) have kids, etc THAT'S when you "crave stability". That's men's reward for "working hard in their 20s". Less for more. And you think this is a good thing that will motivate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:30 PM
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Because the experiences of those who tried in earnest and still failed are just as valid and helpful. If you only listen to success stories, you never get a full picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:19 PM
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I can tell you’ve never been in a relationship with someone who was into you. Oh yeah, I'm very well aware. I'm inherently a low value man (short [5'7"], somewhat feminine looking, old [in my 30s], poor), so of course I haven't. Men like me who aren't high value aren't going to be in a relationship with someone who actually is into them. I've never once received a single compliment from anyone I've ever dated in my life, and that's probably pretty common for low value men like me. You're speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:57 PM
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Go ask most men what they think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:51 PM
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I didn't say there is anything to do about it. I just stated a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:45 PM
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You really just bailed on your whole argument because you can't link the tinder study? lol No, I'm saying you're asking me to provide proof of a study about attractiveness while also not having the study be based on attractiveness. It's like saying "Tell me what 2 + 2 is. And don't say 4, give me a real answer!" The fact that the average man will have multiple sexual and monogamous relationships in their lifetime. You being way below average doesn't change the reality. For one, the average man U…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:34 PM
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Please feel free to link to anything that isn't based on online dating or physical attractiveness. "Please show proof that the majority of women don't find men attractive without using any evidence based on attractiveness" Yeah okay buddy I'll get right on that Again, this is pure c*pe. I get that it's all you have, but it's true. Uh, what makes it so? You've given no evidence or reasoning except "haha you're wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:17 PM
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Except it's been studied that the majority of men find the majority of women attractive, but the majority of women see men as unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:10 PM
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Guys don't find the majority of women attractive either. That doesn't change the fact that people still find partners that find them attractive. Yes, they do. This is a proven fact. Most men are attracted to most women, but it doesn't go the other way around. A man finding a parter who is truly attracted to him instead of being a settling option is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
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Except most men DO find most women attractive. This is literally statistically proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:07 PM
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Because most of those men get divorced, get cheated on, and express frustration at feeling unloved etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:06 PM
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No, it's just accurate. Just because you don't like how it makes women look shallow doesn't make it "projection".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:05 PM
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Everyone is someone else’s 10. That's a just world fallacy that has no basis in reality. In real life, the people who receive all the attention for being attractive share all the same characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:04 PM
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Most men will experience it. No. No, they will not. Why do you think that the average instagram model is the average woman? Because the average woman does have tons and tons of guys in the waiting. A friend of mine, she was literally homeless, very psychotic, and had previous drug addictions, but still had multiple guys on the go at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:03 PM
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You've already shown earlier that you're not engaging honestly and in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:01 PM
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It absolutely is though? Women don't find the majority of men attractive and most men will go their entire lives never knowing what having someone truly attracted to them feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:59 PM
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Not really when money is just a number on a piece of paper that has no practical real world value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:22 PM
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The majority of men I've met dream of being in relationships. Lonely men don't dream of banging out every girl at work or something. They dream of being loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:11 PM
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I'm Canadian. Nobody gives a shit about men here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:09 PM
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Those men could ask their docs instead, but you know... stoicism and toxic masculinity prevents some men from seeking the medically approved help they need. I've done that. For as much as people love to talk about how doctors don't give a shit about women's health, they don't give a shit about men's health either. I've seen two separate doctors, as I have the T levels of a man in his early 50s. Both of them basically said "yeah your T levels are low. That sucks. Well, see ya." I should just say …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:02 PM
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I firmly believe the latter is true. Most men will go their entire lives never really knowing what being desired feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:56 PM
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She's posting online and getting sympathy, cheating on him, messaging old boyfriends, what have you. Look at it like this; think about how many stories there are about women in loveless marriages committing adultery and their feelings are completely justified. Titanic is considered one of the most romantic movies ever made and it's literally all about a woman openly committing adultery with a literal bum she met the day before. Have you EVER seen a story like that with the genders flipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:45 PM
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No, it's called the Pareto Principle. That OK Cupid stat is just yet another representation of it. If anything, the number is much worse than 80/20 in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
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Uh yeah you kinda do Unless you consider to desperately having sex once a year with a drunk fat slob to be "not being sexless". That's like saying the economy is fine when people are stuck working part time at dead end fast food jobs because they're technically employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
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Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:34 PM
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I'm beginning to think you don't know what basic math skills or reading comprehension is, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
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As a man, I was molested by a drunk female friend and then made to apologize to her for making her cry after I confronted her about molesting me. So uh, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:30 PM
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Where do you think the 80/20 stuff even came from? It wasn't just made up one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:28 PM
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Either large numbers of men lied or large numbers of polygamists were surveyed. Also no. 5 women date 1 top tier guy. The top tier guy sees himself as single. The women all say they're dating. Therefore, 5 partnered women and 1 single man. Boy that was hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah, most single men are sexless. Unless you're arguing that most men are actually regularly getting laid with one night stands and hookups, in which case lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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It pretty much is though? Unless you're really arguing that most guys are actually playboys getting laid a lot with hookups in which case lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:25 PM
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Completely baseless, except for all the evidence about it both in dating and general distribution principles. Yeah okay buddy. Tell me you're really into hustlebro culture
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:21 PM
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Aka a lot of women settling for provider guys they're not really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:19 PM
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That's literally not true and you know it. The rate of single men 18-29 is 63%. The rate of single women 18-29 is 33%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:19 PM
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Haha like you're right but like who cares man haha just like man up man haha can't get pussy if you are one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:09 PM
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Except for, you know, the huge record numbers of sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:08 PM
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Women settle for men, this results in a dead bedroom for the man. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:07 PM
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If you have to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:39 PM
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And then they'll die happy. I think you're really underestimating how nihilistic the average person has become, and especially the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:23 PM
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Most men have been in love. But most men have never BEEN loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:22 PM
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Who cares about that either? All a single man needs is enough money to cover rent, food, and a bit of booze or weed. You'd be stupid to care about having "a career" when the world is constantly on the precipice of complete economic collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:21 PM
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As was mentioned earlier, most women don't mind most men attractive at all. The good ol' 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:20 PM
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Oh no, they got to have lots of sex with attractive young women, I'm sure that will go horribly for them. They're just really gonna regret that sooooo much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:14 PM
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Average guys and even ugly guys have kinky sex too. Certainly not in this generation. Did you forget about all the studies showing how many men are single and/or haven't had sex in a year? The men who are having sex aren't the ugly guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:13 PM
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The high numbers of male loneliness, dead bedrooms, divorce, and sexless men (while women aren't even close to the same numbers) would suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:11 PM
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That's why you need to pursue someone who's attracted to you? Except most men don't experience this and will never experience it? You're speaking from the perspective of a woman who will always have 20 guys in the waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:01 PM
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in my experience from the time guys are 16 and beyond they only date for sex I think this is called telling on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:43 PM
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Quite a lot of women disagree. I politely flirted ONCE at a party with a friend of a female friend after me and her had had a 30 min+ conversation about shared interests. She went and told all her friends what a creep I was and nearly nuked my social group because I hit on her without being attractive enough in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:20 PM
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Nothing about that implies you were friends though? It doesn't even imply that he thought you would be good personality-wise and instead just thought you'd have the same skill sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:13 PM
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"30+" can and does include your 85 year old grandparents
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:12 PM
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You made it sound as though you didn't make any connections, romantic or platonic, for those seasons. If that wasn't the case then my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:04 PM
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After a couple of seasons of lesson, I was invited to join a men's tennis team. You're literally talking about wasting years of your life hoping for the chance to meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:51 PM
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Spotted the guy who calls people "stingy" when they enforce boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:43 PM
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The knowledge you did "the right thing" doesn't matter one lick to society or the world. I really hope you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:40 PM
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Over 50% of men from previous generations. You can't compare people who got married in the 80s to the marriage rates as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:29 PM
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Yeah. And it's when kind people draw boundaries that they get called "nice guys", "fair weather friends", etc. Genuine kindness where one expects nothing back is actually of great value TO PEOPLE WHO CAN EXPLOIT IT. A friend of mine used to host parties all the time, food and drink included, and was packed with people saying what a great friend he was. As soon as he stopped hosting them, suddenly those same people were saying how stingy my friend was and badmouthing him. The idea that it's someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:29 PM
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I agree! However, the latter doesn't really exist outside of angsty 15 year olds and 4channers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:17 PM
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You can just be an actually kind person and people will often respect you for it Actually, that's absolutely not true. Most people don't respect someone who is nice - or did you not notice that modern society is basically designed to breed and champion self-centered sociopaths? There's a reason why 1 in 5 CEOs are like that. An actually kind person just gets taken advantage of, and when they express "hey, you're taking advantage of me buddy", then they get told they're nice guys and if they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 PM
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I'm not a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:01 PM
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He's literally NOT, that was my entire point. In what world does a 6 foot tall shredded rockstar covered in tattoos count as "extremely feminine"? This is my entire fucking point; women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "cute" and "feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:49 AM
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You mean the 6 foot tall rockstar with shredded sixpack abs covered in tattoos? https://imgur.com/XocPI1x This isn't helping your case at all lol. And this is when you go "Oh but what about all the times when he wears dresses!", ignoring that he only does that for photoshoots and red carpets as a gimmick. You will never find a candid image of Harry Styles looking like that ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:18 AM
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Keep a tally of women who notice you in public Lmaoooo Women don't "notice" guys in public. This is your 6'3" butt thinking your experience is anything similar to 99% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:06 AM
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Girl, timothee chalamet has probably the biggest thirst fanbase out there and he has the physique of a child lmfao. You know a lot of 155lb 5'10" children with hunter eyes and a chin like Gigachads? I swear to god, women think anything smaller than Chris Hemsworth is "cute" and "feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:30 PM
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Because women can pretty much ALWAYS do better than the guy they're with, while the same isn't true for men. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:30 PM
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"Planning" a date, i.e. picking a place to go and when, takes five minutes and isn't expected. If you really think that it takes a mere "five minutes" then you've never planned a date in your life lol. Or your idea of a date is taking them to McDonalds. And it absolutely IS expected, what are you even talking about? A man can't just be like "Hey wanna do something at some time this weekend?" and get any kind of results. You have to plan dates in a way that would allow them to naturally flow and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:32 PM
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What even are men doing in relationships that's sooooooooo hard anyway? Everything? Planning dates, paying for them, escalating things each level...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:16 PM
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No real point in dating after your mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:07 PM
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I must be then. I thought you were divorced and remarried but I guess I'm thinking of another user. Somehow I doubt you're "goblin like" though. EDIT: Also if you've been married for over 20 years, you married before online dating so your experiences aren't really relevant anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:34 PM
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Aren't you literally divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:28 PM
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If a dude doesn’t want to spend 50 bucks twice a week then he doesn’t ask out 2 times for that week. How hard is that?! Even once a week. $250 a month on a mere slim chance is a lot to most men, believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:38 PM
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And if you go on a date with a girl you like you get to “go on a date” with a girl YOU asked out. And if that’s what you expect then you are probably gonna be happy you did that not “well why wasn’t sex rewarded”. Like seriously bruh. Maybe you misunderstand. The "NFL game" isn't the sex, it's the girl herself. You really expect guys to go out to bars and blow $50+ a night twice a week for the hope they MIGHT meet a girl. It's dumb. And alcohol sales have gone down by volume. The prices of drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:29 PM
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If I buy an NFL ticket, I know I'll get to see an NFL game or I'll get my money back. If I attend a concert, I know I'll get to see the band or I'll get my money back. I'm not paying $80 for a concert ticket for the POSSIBILITY of seeing a band perform - and not the possibility of seeing the band I want to see, but the possibility of seeing ANY BAND perform. the prices of drinks at bars and clubs What are you even talking about? Alcohol sales at bars/clubs have been steadily and consistently goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:22 PM
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Whatever happened to going out and seeing what happens and partying with a girl just to let the day/night carry you two? Multiple economic crashes meaning that most men can't afford to blow tons of money and hours and hours of time on maybe-whatif-couldbe theoretical situations, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:08 PM
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Maybe 2nd wave and radfems. A lot of Hollywood A-list actresses identify as feminist, and they are some of the most beautiful women alive. Probably because it'd be social suicide for them to identify as anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:31 PM
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Most people don’t think of sex as a reward Hahaha! Oh wait. You're serious? Let me laugh even harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah they're setting you up with other chicks because you're hot, not because you're "one of the good guys" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:28 PM
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Fat chicks, yes. Ugly dudes, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:23 PM
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I suppose that's an angle that I wasn't thinking of. Sorry you're dealing with that. As long as you're consistent with all guys, that's some bullshit and not fair to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:35 PM
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I'm not saying you're shamed for both. I'm saying I've only ever seen women being shamed for NOT being sluts, and it's always by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:08 PM
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You really think women are being slut shamed in 2023? I've met more women who were shamed by their friends for NOT being sluts than I ever have met slut shamed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:05 PM
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Damn it, I somehow missed all this time that you're a woman. Should have paid attention to your flair. No wonder you had no problems getting into a new social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:31 AM
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Uh-hun. And I bet you've known those people since you were in your 20s, right? Meeting small close knit groups of older people is not actionable advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:21 AM
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I'm 33. Those subcultures don't exist after your mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:15 AM
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Uh, yeah. That's what I meant by them NOT being that age. That subculture doesn't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:07 AM
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I really find it hard to believe that "I like your dress" got anyone anywhere. At best, it's a go-nowhere say-nothing throwaway comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'd face other barriers if I did that lol, like the cultural and language barriers. Also I'm not in my 20s, I'm 33. I'm old by western standards and ancient by Japanese standards. (For dating obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:05 AM
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Oh, you say they were DEEEEEBBBBOOOONNNKEDDD, eh? Please, post these deboonked studies so I can see them too! I wanna be the one screaming AHHH IM DEBOONNNNKKKKINNNNGG!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:00 AM
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Looks only get you in the door with someone, they don't keep people there by and large. Personality and morals is what people are attracted to long term. What does that matter if someone can't get through the door in the first place though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:44 PM
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I wasn't saying that hot guys don't eat pussy. I was saying that hot guys don't HAVE to eat pussy if they don't want to. That's very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:35 AM
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Maybe that's how it works in other countries or with attractive guys? In Toronto telling someone they have a cool shirt and trying to talk to them about it just results in - at best - sheepish smiles and one word answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:46 AM
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??? Caring to do something has no affect on it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:45 AM
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Yeah, you'll find the elderly there. And you're not gonna make new friends going to open mic nights or community theater dude, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:54 PM
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I rarely ever see anyone that age at those things. And they're never ever single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:43 PM
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He was tall and attractive, and he was the bestie of one of the main organizer types of the group. He wasn't my friend exactly for the reasons I mentioned earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:19 PM
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I'm short, have a feminine babyface, I'm rarely seen with women in a romantic context, and I wear black nail polish and eyeliner sometimes. I don't need women thinking I'm any gayer than they already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:16 PM
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Not anyone in I was ever in a relationship, no. The only one who ever complimented me was my first ex, but that was after we broke up because she openly cheated on me, so that was probably just weird mind games lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:17 PM
1

Congrats, instead of sounding gay you just sound awkward. Much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:55 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:54 PM
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Yeah, that just makes you seen even gayer dude. Imagine thinking being super attuned to women's fashion enough to compliment random women on it would make you seem MORE straight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah, somehow I doubt that. What kinds of things have they said? "That's a lovely blouse you have" just SCREAMS hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:52 PM
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Fine, we'll play your scenario instead. So, why? Anyone could lick you out until you cum, that's nothing special. But a 10/10 jacked chad aggressively and animalistically fucking you is a unique once in a lifetime thing. That's absolutely something you'd brag about to your friends and remember, not some Bobby Beta "with a really good personality" who ate you out a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:44 PM
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See, I don't. Other than the elderly, I constantly see Gigachadesque types with less attractive women. I never see any average men out there with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:41 PM
2

The same way you can be a biblical scholar and still be an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:34 PM
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The girl is kinda still laughing but senses her friend is being hurt and gets into a bit of a verbal spar with the guy hitting on her and bullying her friend. See, this isn't what would happen. In reality, she'd be turned on by the guy and her friend, now throughly dominated right in front of her eyes, would never have a chance with her ever as he is now in permanent "ick" mode in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:29 PM
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Well, the guy who laid half of the women in my mid 20s friend group was a tall jacked literal racist who would drop hard R n-bombs "as a joke", insult and demean people, and slip the condom off during sex. So the guy who fucked the majority of the young women I've met also happened to be criminally toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:07 PM
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Based on what? Why on earth would spending a bunch of time and money on a degree in some random field make him far more likely to be a kind/empathetic/thoughtful/etc person? This is literally just textbook elitist classism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:49 PM
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I've literally never been complimented once by a woman in any of the relationships I've been in. It's very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:34 PM
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Complimenting women is even LESS likely to get you anywhere though???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
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This is the dude that always takes the bit too far 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:31 PM
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Crime is steadily going down because of a reduction of what is considered a crime + advanced police techniques, not because criminals are breeding less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:30 PM
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That's great, but the scenario in question was about knowing a woman who was heartbroken she broke up with her high school sweetheart, thinking she could do better than him. You're the one who started going off about him being an abusive asshole slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:28 PM
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It always amazes me that the sadsack side of red pill doesn't just get woke and hang out with us weird artsy/indie/alt kids. Because they're not 23 and those subcultures don't really exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:25 PM
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We're the expendable gender for a reason. "Women and children first", after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 PM
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Uh nobody said anything about this. You're changing the criteria and hypothetical so fast you've probably got whiplash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:15 PM
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He's saying that it's unreasonable of you to expect a man in his 40s to be both completely childfree and single. It's not about him being single in and of itself. And your first one is very elitist, yeah. The fact that you are considering a degree as a sign of intelligence as opposed to simply a sign of someone who dumped out some cash to sit in classes says a lot. Why do you assume that someone who has a four year degree in Communications is inherently intelligent and educated, while a man who …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:13 PM
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Once again, not answering the question and substituting their own scenario instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:02 AM
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How do you figure that? They're all above-average for their area in one way or another. That's the 63% thing, the women are sharing the top group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:20 AM
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If you were Chad and she was actually attracted to you, you wouldn't NEED the dilating anyway. Look at DJ Khaled - he openly says that as a HVM, he doesn't need to perform cunnilingus, not even on his own wife. Also just personal experiencing, switching between intense fucking and oral is a super turn on for women. You're missing the point. Which between those two scenarios would she remember, cherish, and tell all her friends about more? The time some mid guy licked her out until she came, or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:17 AM
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Well, when twice the number of men are single under 30 compared to women...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:42 PM
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"Everything is the man's fault and women are perfect and infallible". Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:31 PM
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Uh, that's literally and factually untrue? More than half of men under 30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:29 PM
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Except thanks to social media and online dating, her social circle is "every straight man in a 15 mile radius", so you are very unlikely to be the most attractive person in her social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:12 PM
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Uh, it's simple math. If you put $500 into a slot machine and win $50, you're not winning $50. You're losing $450.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:10 PM
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Pretty much. They're in relationships because they either have above-average wealth, above-average status, or above-average looks. That or they're 35+ and it really doesn't matter anymore. And she'll resent him for that anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:09 PM
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I've literally been called creepy for politely flirting with a woman at a house party after we had talked one-on-one for over half an hour. Women will just call you creepy for any reason if you're ugly, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:05 PM
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"Just repeatedly subject yourself to rejection until you become completely numb from it. I can't imagine why men are dropping out of the dating game!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:02 PM
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Wait, you're not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 PM
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You're essentially describing a scenario that doesn't exist. If you're plain as day, average height, netural face, and she isn't aroused by your looks, then you're never going to get the chance to show her what a "genuinely great and fun guy" you are anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:49 PM
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Easy. The average guy ISN'T in a relationship. We know this for a fact. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:42 PM
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No, it's not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:42 PM
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I say this as someone who enthusiastically goes down on women; I'm well aware that if I was Chad, I wouldn't be expected to do so. What do you think a woman is more likely to remember and cherish and tell all her friends about; the time that Bobby Beta ate her out until she came, or the time Chad fucked her hard in all sorts of positions until HE came, then called her an Uber? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:40 PM
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Only by men. When a woman golddigs, she's a bad bitch getting her bag. "Every woman should have four pets in her life. A mink in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a jackass who pays for everything!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:27 PM
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You're literally citing articles DECADES out of date. The world, the average mental health of a man, the dating scene, etc was so completely different in 2003.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:19 PM
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I think women using men for meals is vastly over reported. Most women do not think a free meal is worth spending time with a person she’s not interested. Over 1/3rd of women report going on dates with men they have no interest in for free meals. That's literally self-reported data lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:06 PM
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Non-Chads have to do everything they can to stack the deck in their favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:02 PM
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Ahhhh! I'm deboooooonnnkkkinnnggggg! You can't "debunk" the Pareto principle lmao. How was it "debunked"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:31 PM
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Oh, I agree. But those women still see those top men as POTENTIAL options, and therefore that affects the way they treat "lesser men".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:18 PM
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A guy is boring when he is isn't hot. I knew a guy who was tall and jacked but was so insanely boring he'd literally recite Wikipedia articles about Marvel films as conversation. He'd still go home with girls even though he bored them to utter death.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:15 PM
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Women have far too many options now to ever simp for anything but the top of the top, and men can't become the top of the top if they're not already there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:09 PM
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Because those kids are free labor and they live with their grandparents and other relatives who can take care of the children while the parents till the fields or whatever. The extreme individualism of the west makes this impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:52 AM
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Men dropped tools on female co-workers or deliberately turned on electrical power when they began working on lines. "Casual banter" Somehow I doubt men were regularly ATTEMPTING MURDER on their female coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:43 PM
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For example nurse and flight attendants were once women's jobs. Now it's common for men too to do these jobs. If you view them 'less of a man' it's entirely your problem and honestly ridiculous. Would you view a woman who works in tech 'less of a woman'? Hopefully not because women in tech are as feminine as any other woman. It's all in your head. Yeah see here's the thing though - it doesn't go both ways. To women, another woman who works in roles that were traditionally masculine is a #BossBit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:41 PM
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How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:55 PM
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I had to talk one of my best friends out of su*cide because of completely false rape allegations that even she later admitted were false. He was literally holding the drugs in his hand and I had to talk him out of overdosing. So excuse me if I don't particularly care if you believe that preventing more tragic situations like that is "gross".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:29 PM
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Most men have an overinflated perception of their own attractiveness and the sexual interest that women might have in them. What? If anything, the vast majority of men have incredibly low standards and very poor self-image.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:22 PM
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No, that's red pill bullshit. If they only had sex to motivate them, then that is a flaw with them, not a problem with society. The vast majority of men are able to have motivations in life beyond where they're going to stick their dick. So if men can't own a home can't own land can't have a family can't have a partner what IS there to motivate them to do anything other than the bare minimum for survival?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:20 PM
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Until AI can reliably make the connections and single you out based off of years of archived data. Sure, but when that happens, it happens to EVERYONE so it's kind of a mutually assured destruction and everyone goes back to square one. It'll be hard for some woman to complain about a guy who said misogynistic things on 4chan in 2017 when she has a bunch of Reddit posts about how much she hates certain races, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:00 PM
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Good thing it's not the 1920s anymore and big daddy government will step in to make sure your existence is subsidized if you're a woman and you break up with your husband. Or hell, even if you were never married; in 2020 Canadian courts decided that even if you never married and never lived together and never had children, the man can still be on the hook for alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 PM
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Well, half the women in my friends group in my mid/late 20s were laid by a super toxic guy who was fond of dropping N bombs as a "joke" and slipping condoms off during sex. But he was tall and good looking so his literally CRIMINAL levels of toxicity didn't actually matter. And these women ranged from everything from stoner hippies to uptight LARPer literature geeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:30 PM
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it’s definitely not most women. In the past, perhaps. Now it's celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:40 PM
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I don't think it IS a big thing tbh. It's like a baby boomer/gen X thing. I bought a very attractive girl in a club a drink once, and she was at that club every weekend for like years. She said it was the first time anyone ever bought her a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:13 PM
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My friendship circle has multiple people who have previously dated a member of the group. How old are you? That's some high school shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:36 AM
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No, it's very on topic. Introverted women don't have to deal with introverted men, and frankly they don't want to ime either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:27 PM
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Introverted women can go to a bar, stand in a corner, and still get men approaching them. Introverted men are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:16 PM
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I'm her best friend, that's how I know lol. And I guess? She has a singular small tattoo on one shoulder. I don't know what "nonbookish looks" would be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:56 AM
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Yep. And she decided I was creepy entirely because I'm short and not masculine looking, therefore I'm creepy for expressing any kind of sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:31 PM
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I don't think anyone is talking about health insurance or even welfare when talking about "big daddy government". Here in Canada it's out of control. There are dozens of programs that will literally pay women just to exist, I'm not even joking. For example, there's programs that literally pay women to go to trade school, then guarantee them jobs via paying them AFTER they graduate if they can't find rapid employment in the trades. There's a reason women are universally a net negative on taxes fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:30 PM
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And now the military is bled dry and guys know not to even bother dating while enlisted because they WILL get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:25 PM
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Uh, calling tall women "stallions" is a very well-known term, particularly in southern and black communities. It's not a thing unique and specific to her. The first time I remember hearing it was in Future's "Turn On The Lights" where he croons "She's got a pretty face and stands up like a stallion" and that song is a bit over a decade old now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:24 PM
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I've posted about it a lot before. Basically we were in the same friends group, at a house party. We started talking about shared interests (skateboarding, music, etc etc) like one on one for like 45 mins or so. Later on in the night, she went out for a smoke with a friend, and I made a flirty joke about "Oh, were you guys talking about me?". She bantered back with me a bit, even. I later found out that at the next party, she told every woman in the friends group how I'm "creepy" for saying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:19 PM
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Yeah, they met much younger and things were much cheaper so they could have parties. All my parent's friends made fun of my parents for dating so long without being married, they pretty much all universally agreed they were never actually going to get married or start a family. My parents married at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:15 PM
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What? The "Stallion" part of her name is literally a reference to how tall she is! Taylor Swift's long leggy height is a well-known fact and a key part of her image - https://www.j-14.com/posts/10-photos-of-taylor-swift-towering-over-other-stars-16582/ EDIT: Sorry I can't get over this. Her name literally means "Megan The Tall Chick" and you're arguing that nobody knows that she's really tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:05 PM
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been socially ostracized from a group completely because you asked a woman out? Had this one happen, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:02 PM
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Because in your day, they needed a man to rely upon for money. Now they no longer need that - thanks in part to big daddy government backing them- so they would rather be single instead of dating a normal average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:57 PM
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Uhhh Yes they have lmao For example, chances are most people's parents met via work. That's no longer allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:56 PM
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No but due to many men's laziness and desire to only use online dating to meet women - where appearance is by far the most important variable to get an initial date - I think they're having a harder time getting in the door, so to speak. And this sub is their whine-fest. Where else do you think they're gonna be meeting them, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:46 PM
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Women legitimately have no concept of anything to do with muscle building tbh. They literally think if they do one more rep of their 5lb shaping weight, they're gonna turn into Schwarzenegger. Remember the infamous FDS quote? "All it takes for a man to get muscles is pick up something heavy and put it back down."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:41 PM
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I guess I don't understand why you think a gap of 30 years which included the creation of the internet, smart phones, and social media wouldn't have any kind of impacts on what women look for? They were attracted to those "average height, average looks man" because the pools was much smaller and there wasn't the illusion of choice nor the pressure to have a partner you can show off for social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:36 PM
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You're making like a million assumptions and it's a completely poisoned disingenuous argument. You start defining "shy good guys" as actually being "mind-numbing hypocritically judgemental bores" solely to suit your originally framed argument. It's ironic that you end your post with "the fantasy land of Reddit debate posts", but you've literally gone and created a complete strawman with absolutely no redeeming qualities in an attempt to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:10 PM
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Don't most men know some guy who is average looking who still manages to do well with women because he has confidence or charisma? Nope lmao However, I have known multiple guys who had the personality of a brick yet still got laid like one because they were 6 foot+. Hell, one guy in my mid-20s friends group fucked half of the women in it despite having an absolutely abhorrent personality - he was fond of dropping hard r N-bombs as jokes and would slip condoms off during sex. But he was tall and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:06 PM
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I'm not ignoring the stats. Women outnumbering men in college degrees makes perfect sense! Now compare the education that women are getting compared to men. How many women do you think are going into electrical, HVAC, oil workers, IT, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:50 PM
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Probably. Guys are into everything when it comes to women. There's a reason why there's no flipped gender equivalent of guys who are into BBWs, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:48 PM
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Yes, a huge amount of women taking useless degrees to work "lazy girl jobs" is part of the problem, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah, and they don't make any money. Men don't get the luxury of taking those degrees and then getting bailed out. Or did you think it was a coincidence that women are a net negative on taxes from birth until death?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:09 PM
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I didn't say he was evil or abusive at all. I just said he was stereotypically hypermasculine physically, which he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:02 PM
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There's very very few fields of study that have even gender ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:18 PM
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Women get together with people from their d&d group, study groups, etc. Those are 1 woman to 30 men ratios generally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:49 PM
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If that really is the case, you're in the absolute minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:28 PM
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Being tall is quite attractive to women. Thanks, we had no idea until you filled us in. Much appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:26 PM
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Socializing is a million times easier for women across the board in all contexts. You're complaining that medium difficulty is too hard to people stuck on Dante Must Die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:21 PM
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Well the obvious implication was that I was 'avin' a laff because you literally can't think of a way to select for men besides hypermasculine physical attributes. The obvious suggestion would be to consider other things besides those.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:18 PM
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The football guy could just as easily be into D&D lol, this is such a bizarre argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:15 PM
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But a man who likes to spend his time quietly in the library wouldn't enjoy the company of a wild dirt-bike girl. He probably would. That's literally the entire point of the manic pixie thing you mentioned earlier! What you seem confused by is the fact that there are intorvert girls who also like to spend time quietly at the library reading dry "intellectual" books. But, like their shy bookish counterparts, no one notices them because they're quiet and just reading instead of running around ridi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:13 PM
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Women aren't negatively affected by being introverts in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:07 PM
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I'm really confused how you think MMA is somehow alternative and more nerdy leaning when it's literally just two dudes beating the fuck out of each other until the other blacks out lol. It's like the most stereotypical hypermasculine sport there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:04 PM
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I work minimum wage telemarketing. Before that I worked minimum wage retail. That's why I'm going back to school. I'm actually pretty good with money - I have to be because I come from generations of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:01 PM
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"If I can't judge men solely on hypermasculine physical attributes, what am I supposed to do? Just pick men at random???" Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:57 PM
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Bro, seriously? No man is in his prime in his 30s. That only happens if he's super wealthy, and I'm broke as fuck and going back to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:56 PM
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So instead of being a tall jacked guy playing sports, he's a tall jacked guy playing combat sports. I see the difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:54 PM
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I'm 33. There is no next time lol Unless you count reincarnation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:50 PM
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The women that introverted nerd would be compatible with is less likely to be at bars/clubs, Tinder, etc. Nope! What on earth ever made you think that? Introverted nerd girl is still doing all those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:48 PM
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"Nerdy Chad" is just the quarterback wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:46 PM
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Well there's only 5 things in the fucking list to pick from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:38 PM
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But at the same time you guys seem to mainly focus on women who are attractive, popular, extroverted, etc. And wondering why they chase essentially their male equivalents. If you think that's any different with the "shy bookish girls", you're fooling yourself. The shy bookish guy dreams of being with the cute nerdy girl in his algebra class; the cute nerdy girl dreams of getting railed by the quarterback. One of the biggest Chad-chasers I ever met was a LARP nerd who was obsessed with Victorian …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:38 PM
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I like how we're at the point now where "going to the library" is considered "feminine behaviour".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:28 PM
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Do you see what I mean? We're at the point where a guy who looks like THIS https://imgur.com/a/4uXmIbK is "feminine-ish".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:31 PM
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I don't qualify for anything better due to my lack of education. That's why I'm going back to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah but you see YAAAASSSSS KWEEN feminism tells them they can have it all 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:39 PM
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Well, it's too late now anyway. I worked basically every department (invoice, unloading, stocking, post office, etc) but that experience was years ago and wouldn't be considered on a resume. Now I work a remote call center job with no hope of advancement at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:37 PM
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I wasn't going to get an assistant management position if hadn't been an assistant manager elsewhere first though. There's no reason for them to hire someone unproven like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:30 PM
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Most people Don’t have joint pain in their thirties or even forties. I got hurt on my first day of martial arts and my elbow never recovered. Why did you stay in a minimum wage job (or barley over min) Because I had no choice? I couldn't afford college until very recently. Why didn’t you leave and look for a higher position or upskill. But even retail workers can work Their way up to manager then area manager then keep going up and if your specific company doesn’t promote you then leave!! There …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:19 PM
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It's sourced from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology Journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:02 PM
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Yeah, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:49 PM
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https://nypost.com/2019/06/21/a-third-of-women-only-date-men-because-of-the-free-food-study/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:45 PM
2

If it was possible to have non-disabled children at this age, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:44 PM
2

Sounds like they still won. They got to live a life of hedonistic luxury while still in their relative youth. They're certainly doing better than the men they're bilking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:43 PM
0

Sometimes they straight up tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 09:27 PM
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There's no age-dependent component to this statement whatsoever. Uh, yes there is. Do you really think you can offer someone in their 30s/40s etc something that they haven't already done with someone else but much better? Nobody remembers the 1834th time they saw or did something, they remember the first time they did it. Sex, companionship and adventure? Sex is pretty meaningless to old people, companionship is extremely unlikely and "too little too late", and as I mentioned above, there's gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:55 PM
1

I hope you understand that your experiences there don't represent the vast, vast majority of male-female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:50 PM
4

You were on the right track there but then blew it at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:45 PM
0

There are many women [...] that just have been unlucky with love. No such thing when they control the system, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:41 PM
2

Walking is "exercise" for senior citizens. For folks in their thirties it's an activity. Like golf. Do you really think the average 30-something walks 5+ miles a day?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:39 PM
3

How would a woman ever be settled for? They have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:37 PM
1

Outside of celebrities? Not really. There's no shared past history and nothing new or exciting you could give her, no memories to make. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:34 PM
-2

Answer the question, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:33 PM
2

Yeah this whole board is anecdotes. What's your point? I exercise, I walk about 5 miles a day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:10 PM
-2

Well, why would she be interested in a man that age except for a bailout?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:05 PM
9

Do you think some mechanism exists to where every good woman finds someone? Yeah it's called society and the internet You realize there’s plenty of people who are good but who never end up finding anyone just by happenstance, right? Plenty of good men, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:03 PM
5

There's also a chance the woman is being settled for, too. Women don't get settled for, hope this helps. why would being 30+ mean you should remain single? It just seems... so dumb. As I said in my other post; what would be the benefit of a roommate you share a bed with? Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:58 PM
4

People act like your life is essencially over at 30. Because it is? Most people still have their health, except now they have more perspective and money. You can do anything you could in your 20's. People in their 30s don't have health anymore. I'm a completely healthy weight and I'm still tired all the time now. I have permanent joint injuries that wake me up every morning. And I don't have more money either, I'm still working a slightly-above-minimum wage job because if you're already a good w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:53 PM
-1

Dude, 30 is not too old for women. It is if he doesn't want to have severely autistic children. I say this as someone on the spectrum, mind you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:51 PM
-1

Once a guy turns 40, no woman at any age would want to have anything to do with him other than being a payday
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:46 PM
1

"Getting into med school isn't like winning the lottery" Yeah okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:44 PM
6

sweats in finally could afford college at 31
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:20 PM
8

My source is that men don't marry women the same month they met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:20 PM
2

I'm hella fuckin' neurodivergent myself, it ain't about that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:07 PM
3

No shit! The point was that you're arguing that someone should win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:07 PM
1

This guy gets it. Logan's Run had the right idea tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:54 PM
8

sweats in 33 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:54 PM
7

Men who marry after 30 have been dating the same woman since their mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:53 PM
6

It's never too early or too late to learn the truth tbqh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:38 PM
3

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/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:36 PM
5

See, this is that disingenuous behaviour again... There's obviously nothing wrong with homosexual sex - if you're not heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:31 PM
9

HETEROSEXUAL MEN WANTING TO HAVE HETEROSEXUAL SEX IS NOT A GOALPOST BEING MOVED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:29 PM
2

Pretty much, yeah. At least in the western world, I can't speak to the rest of the world. We're in the age of Kali Yuga for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:28 PM
3

My source is literally every other time I've brought the subject up on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:27 PM
12

As a man in his 30s? Yes. At this age they're not really going to be attracted to you, there's going to be zero cuteness or femininity or spontaneity at all, there's going to be no new shared experiences, there's no chance of having kids together, etc. So it's just a roommate you share a bed with. Who cares, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:25 PM
3

Agree or disagree with the following statement: Most people are fairly content despite the fact they're not getting the very best - in their eyes - of everything 100% of the time. 100% completely disagree with it. As I said, you're thinking of a pre-social media world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:16 PM
14

If 1/3rd of a bowl of M&Ms were poison, would you try to eat around the poison ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:12 PM
3

It doesn't end well for women because: In the end, if she settles down with a male she considers inferior, she will often ask herself "How did I, who slept with so many hot, self-confident guys, settle down with this man with no balls?" Women tend to forgive bad boys for their character flaws, while blaming other men, especially unattractive men, and definitely a man who accepts being Beta Bucks from well-used women, just because they don't think so they are capable of better things and therefor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:11 PM
0

But to suggest “most are realistically unable” to find a truly loving partner stems from a really myopic, pessimistic view that is unhelpful to people who want to be loved, respected, appreciated, etc within a relationship. And I want to become rich but most people are realistically unable to do that. "Wanting" something doesn't affect the realistic chances of it in any way. Entertaining falsehoods like that to sooth an ego is literally behaviour aimed at children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:07 PM
0

People here are weirdly opposed to the notion of just finding a partner who you love and who loves you back. Because it's the current year and social media/online dating completely laid bare what a falsehood that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:04 PM
1

2) she becomes more attracted to you with time as you see each other more That's kids stuff tbh. For your early 20s at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:02 PM
5

Because the women say "jUsT bE yOuRsElF ;)" and the RP/pickup/etc creators say "Here's what you need to do if you want to get that girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:01 PM
1

Doesn't end well for men but works out GREAT for women. So I'm tagging this for the reply later.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:59 PM
3

Right. Except here's the thing: They're not loving eating those $10 cheeseburgers. They're eating those $10 cheeseburgers because it's all that's in their area/all they can afford. And while they're eating that $10 cheeseburger, they're flipping through Instagram looking at pictures of tasty $75 steaks wishing they could have them. Get it now? You're describing a pre-social media world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:59 PM
3

"Just become literally the best in the world at something and you can get an average woman to be interested in you, bro! It's simple, bro!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:56 PM
9

In the past, maybe. These days, every single stepdad I know never had kids of his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:54 PM
4

Chop suey.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:54 PM
1

Once again, all the responses in this thread show what an absolute minority that average PPD woman is. Every guy can tell a story about how he was shit-tested, but almost no women say they shit-test? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:53 PM
10

I have no response to it because it's a nonsense argument! It'd be like if I was telling you about the plight of a farming community and you just went "Yeah, but a farm is just one letter away from a fart."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:51 PM
4

tastes are more varied, and usually, two different women will have different ideas of what they find attractive What are you even talking about? This is only because women consider anyone less jacked than Chris Hemsworth to be "feminine". I literally see people talk about how women like "feminine guys" like Harry Styles, and I'm like... You mean the 6 foot tall rockstar with rock hard abs covered in tattoos? Women's idea of liking a wide variety of men is "I don't like the tall jacked white guy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:49 PM
17

Nobody gives a shit about your resources. Over 1/3rd of women report going on dates with guys they don't like for free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:45 PM
5

Relationships aren’t transactions Wrong from the get-go. Society operates within a highly capitalist framework, and that obviously extends to relationships. The only people who don't have transactional relationships/friendships/etc are literal children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:41 PM
2

You're confusing giving someone extra attention and friendliness with cruelty and meanness for some reason. It's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:38 PM
11

This is always the DUMBEST most DISINGENUOUS argument. EVERYONE: STOP MAKING IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:31 PM
7

you'd never see the equivalent of top tier woman competing to marry a super attractive morally bankrupt man. Jeremy Meeks, a Crips member, robbed a teenager at gunpoint and beat him half to death. He then went on to marry and knock up a heiress worth over $100 million. Then divorced her after cheating on her. You don't know what you're talking about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:06 PM
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??? If a woman wants to have sex, she can right now. Like within 30 minutes. A guy can go years not knowing if he'll have sex or not. Women being the gatekeepers of sex is very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:01 PM
1

If a random man said your ugly or unattractive would you care? Of course I would. Who wouldn't? I still remember insults from a decade+ ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:01 AM
2

So your argument is that unless every single person in the world personally tells someone they aren't attractive, it's not true? I guess racism is solved unless someone is personally called the n-word by everyone in existence too. We did it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:27 AM
2

Why make such an obvious disingenuous post like this? You know what was meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:22 AM
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Why is everything in this sub focused on online dating? Because if you're out of college that's basically the only way to find women anymore. It's literally the most common way that relationships start, followed by bars which aren't much different. Most women aren't even ON online dating. That's because they sign on, make an account, get a guy within a week, and close their account. It's only guys who have to languish forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:19 AM
2

What about when everyone else and the world tells you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:17 AM
2

Find one woman you like and who likes you back and you won’t have to constantly play a “game”. "My advice for getting out of poverty? Win the lottery!" Yeah okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:13 AM
0

Is she desperate to date me because she finds something about me completely captivating? Hell fucking yeah, I'm down. Is she desperate to date me because she's desperate to date anyone? Uhh, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:28 AM
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Men who are successful with women are friends to women. Lmaoooooo One guy smashed over half of the women in my mid-20s friends group despite being a literal rapist and racist (he liked to slip condoms off during sex and was fond of dropping n-bombs "as a a joke"). But he was tall and good looking so even though one of the women LITERALLY DID A PUBLIC SPEECH ABOUT HIM RAPING HER, it not only didn't affect his success with women at all but even that woman in question went back to him a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:25 AM
2

He would ascend and showermaxx from a mere Ranjeet to a full-blooded tiger god Sanjeet!
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 09:47 PM
2

BPS (Bro Postscript): bro.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 09:46 PM
1

Well. That was a very unexpected detail. But more importantly, has it WORKED?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:56 PM
1

So if you were in line for coffee and some guy said "Hey, how's it going? Oh, it's so hot today!" and then asked you for your number, it would work on you? Come on. Has this actually happened to you and worked, or are you just talking about a hypothetical where it "could" work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:11 PM
1

Dating is absolutely not better in your 30s. Unless you're an extremely successful and rich man, there's little to no point. If anyone was worth dating in their 30s, they'd already be partnered up. At 32, I'm basically forcibly checked out of dating. Sucks I never got to meet anyone. Thanks, depression and poverty!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:35 PM
1

Wait, 6 of them? So one set of them divorced and remarried I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:38 PM
1

This doesn’t really make sense to me because if you look around most men aren’t wealthy and they probably never will be but I don’t particularly agree that most men end up single. I mean it's a literal fact. You can disagree with it all you want but that doesn't change it. A lot of men get through dating either by being passionate about something and impressing a partner that way, creativity is linked to mating behaviour in humans (men writing songs for women), lots of women like humour and char…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:26 PM
0

You can be attracted to him but he is absolutely not "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:23 PM
1

If he was interested in going to a workout class on a weekly basis he'd already be doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:06 PM
1

And that's how we ended up with record numbers of loneliness and a plummeting birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:57 PM
0

Imagine telling a man to waste 12 weeks of his life and a bunch of money on the possibility of a chance and thinking it's a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:56 PM
1

Would any of those actually work on you though? Would you really honestly be receptive if a guy walked up to you and talked to you about the weather?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:57 PM
1

Only if they're hot. Otherwise there's no chance in hell they'll be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:38 PM
3

It's funny because one of his top comments is him literally acknowledging that the median salary is 30k-40k and how he's tired of people pretending to be so rich on Reddit, only for him to bust out that "I make 80k and I'm broke" line, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:00 AM
-1

Well it was our 3rd date, we barely lasted a month before we broke up. I don't know if that even counts as a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:48 PM
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The issue is the fact that there's no consistency. Women will fuck a guy they like less on a one-night stand and make a guy they "actually like" wait for sex and not see how they're literally just internalizing the Madonna/Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:39 PM
1

My last girlfriend had us wait for sex, only to literally tell me about the time she hooked up with a guy on vacation while we were lying in bed together naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:37 PM
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I’m a broke as shit (only making 80K) lmao dude the median income in the USA is like 32k, you are not "broke as shit", you're making 2.5x the average income
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:15 PM
1

In prison you LITERALLY have nothing else to do but work out. Like, literally literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:17 PM
1

You should want a good job because it gives you freedom and access to cool shit. The vast majority of men would be happy living in a shack with a 6 pack and their buddies. If we were suddenly all completely completely chemically castrated, what reason would men have for grinding to buy expensive clothes, fancy haircuts, nice cars, big houses? There's no actual practical benefit. People sense when you’re only doing something to get laid. It bleeds through your sub communication. No, they fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:57 PM
6

Wife beaters get girls because either they really mean to be a good person but have serious issues and turn into a piece of shit when they’re mad, or they’re complete narcissists/psychopaths who are so good at lying that they believe their own bullshit. Or they're just hot and people ignore red flags for hot people. Jesus Christ, you people are ridiculous sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:54 PM
7

I'm describing the situation that literally JUST played out. What's with this grade school level retort
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:02 PM
5

"It's not true stop being crazy lmao" "It literally is true, we've seen the proof" "Okay well maybe it is real but who cares lmao" classic
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:51 PM
3

Peter Dinkelage You mean this guy? Lately, Dinklage, 43, is standing out as a sex symbol, a status he says he takes “with a grain of salt.” “They’ll say, ‘Oh, he’s sexy,’ but women still go for guys who are 6’2,” he says in the mag’s new issue, on newsstands Friday. “It’s nice that people are thinking outside the box, but I don’t believe any of it for a minute.”
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:35 PM
1

Probably, yeah. There's a reason why even religions like Catholicism that have very strict anti-divorce laws will still be okay with a divorce if the reason was due to the marriage not being consummated.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:07 PM
1

Because the government subsidizes from from cradle to grave. Women literally spend their entire lives being a net negative. At no point do women ever actually contribute positively towards taxes. The closest they ever come to that is when they're in their 50s and 60s - the average woman at that age is only a mere -$40k net negative towards taxation.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:03 PM
10

I literally couldn't tell it was a joke lol. Not on you, it's just WAY too accurate to the stupid shit bloopers actually say.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:43 PM
2

The divorce rate has steadily fallen with each generation. Boomers get divorced the most. Gen X is second. Gen Y last. Gen Z will reliably have even lower divorce rates if the falling divorce trend continues on its current trajectory. Yeah, because they're not getting married to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:14 PM
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Because people are far more willing to tolerate weird niches and interests if they come from women. Perhaps it's a reflection of the social infantilization of women? But think about it. Think about how things like magic spells and seances and etc are almost exclusively the domain of women. In fact, even very comparatively mundane mainstream things like astrology are almost exclusively women - have you ever met a guy who legitimately believed in astrology? The only one I ever met was also a liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:00 PM
6

Because things like being shy or quiet or obsessive about particular niches are seen as cute in women but are detriments for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:48 PM
1

If you don't approach me, I'm probably in my own little world and not noticing anybody in any meaningful way. And how would someone go about approaching you anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:20 PM
1

a not so good looking guy can get an “eh” response in looks, but be clever, knowledgeable and funny and get in the friendzone. Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:17 PM
3

Not directly because he reads no, but the reading indicates that he’s likely to be smart and knowledgeable, interesting to talk to, and all of that in turn indicates high value. No, it doesn't. It indicates he has basic literacy skills and attended grade school. Nothing more. Women aren't getting turned on by seeing a shy quiet guy reading on the bus. Women are also not getting wet because he has a tan and a lot of instagram followers and makes his entire life revolve around that They literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:34 PM
1

Majority of women don’t want to or have engaged in casual sex. Easy access to casual sex doesn’t mean women engage in it. what. most settle down with their first or second serious bf WHAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:22 PM
3

Women date who they want, men date who they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:05 PM
5

Yawn. Not this again. Women aren't out here getting wet because a shy man reads like, so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:00 PM
1

I'd say 0. I look fairly good/healthy BMI, emotionally intelligent, funny, etc, but I'm older (early 30s), 5'7", don't have a car, and I still rent with roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:39 PM
1

We were literally still lying naked in bed even lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:55 PM
5

Bl*ckpill. Mother was incredibly abusive towards both me and my father, my dad just took it. Was bullied and demeaned at school as well because of my small size and how unmasculine I looked. I've had three relationships. One was an 8 month relationship but they broke up with me every other fucking weekend, then sucked another dude's dick and tried to kiss me without brushing their teeth, then a 10 month relationship but it was long distance and I cried about my dad dying on the day he died so sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:28 PM
2

"jUsT hAvE a sOlId pErSoNaLiTy" People don't gain confidence from being in shape unless they were really fat or they gain crazy muscle. I'm in shape and it's never made me confident once.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:31 PM
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Most things are tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:29 PM
1

Style and fashion isn't necessarily about price, it's about matching certain styles, shapes, textures and colours with each other. That can be done without a lot of money. It 100% is about money. Even a single pair of fitted jeans will run you $80 a pop. Yes if you actually bother to get professional photos taken or at least take some with more effort than someone taking a low quality picture on a night out with bad lighting, guess which profile will get more hits. Nobody's photos are that bad b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:02 PM
3

Guys can't just end a relationship and move onto the next one because they don't have good sex. The average guy gets laid maybe once a year if he's lucky. You think he can just throw that away because the sex he gets is lousy? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:04 PM
1

Could be style So, rich. could be quality of pictures Really? REALLY? Come on. could be something to do with his job that exhibits competence or intelligence So, rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:50 PM
2

aka he's showing off he's rich
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:54 PM
3

Good for you and your friends, but the post still applies, just aimed at your boyfriend instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:52 PM
5

Maybe you're just tall and hot shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:49 PM
3

...She's the one laying there and not putting in effort. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:48 PM
3

LMAOOOOOOO tell me you know nothing about fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:38 PM
0

A fling IS sex. A hookup IS sex. Nobody was talking about ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:05 PM
-1

Women literally do no work in sex because they don't have to, that's part of the issue. One of my exes, I'd eat her out all the time and figure out the best ways that worked for her, etc. She'd give me 15 seconds of a shitty blowjob and then just go "haha guess I can't give blowjobs, oh well". That's about the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:05 PM
0

Because the average man has to. That's what you're not getting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:02 PM
3

Hobosexuals still look good. They're like van life/boho/hipster types, not actually broke and poor. If they were actually broke, they wouldn't be able to afford the food that gives them their look and physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:01 PM
1

It's not something that can be looked for, however. I generally found a woman expressing she has no sexual/romantic interest in me to be very freeing, because I can finally be myself and be more open tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:59 PM
1

You don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:59 PM
7

Not really. To date them, money is a factor going to them. To fuck them, money is still a factor; it just goes to the bartender, the clothing retailer, the car dealership, etc instead of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:53 PM
1

Why should anyone be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:52 PM
2

Have you ever actually volunteered? Because I have. Do you know how many women I was alongside when I volunteered at soup kitchens, or worked with Habit for Humanity? A big fat 0. Churches meanwhile have basically no youth in them. I have a singular religious friend, and she is often lamenting how she is the only person in her church under 45. Community and civic centers are for FAMILIES and THE ELDERLY, not for young single people. They also by and large don't exist due to expensive property co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:50 PM
2

I actually don't know a single one, and I've never known a single one outside of high school. Why would it? You have an INCREDIBLY narrow window to make a move on a woman before you're friendzoned. Sometimes that window is so narrow that it's literally the first night you meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:44 PM
9

I would say "date someone for months and spend hundreds of dollars on them for starfish sex twice a week" is a pretty valid thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:42 PM
1

And yet, it has never been explained how these guys all just KNOW that every single girl they date (or fantasize about dating) apparently liked her previous boyfriend more than him, that he was an asshole and that she gave him better sex ect. Easy; the women will tell you. My first ex told me how much bigger their ex's dick was. My most recent ex told me all about the guy she hooked up with for a one-night stand after we waited a while to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:41 PM
2

That doesn't matter though. Being the selector of step 2 doesn't matter when step 1 has to be done first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:40 PM
2

Such places do not exist, however. This is why so many lament the death of third spaces. Outside of college, they're a non-starter. As a result, women look for those kinds of guys even less than they previously did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:37 PM
19

Dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:36 PM
3

But while women are gatekeepers of sex and of the first dates, men are gatekeepers of relationships. What does that matter, when relationships are STARTED via sex these days? He's gatekeeping something nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:33 PM
26

I love how you consider "the average man wants to be in a relationship and have sex" to be as fanciful as a child dreaming of being Superman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:32 PM
0

That's VERY rare, and really only for the very young. Like some high school shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:29 PM
11

So women are just glorified hookers in your opinion. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:26 PM
1

Nobody is ignoring or insulting them. it's just that no woman is pulling up OLD or hitting the clubs with her girls to find those guys. "Girl, oooh I can't wait to find me a man of his word! I'm gonna revere the hell out of him!" is not a sentence that has ever been said. You're describing a woman that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:25 PM
39

So if you're broke, you're just not deserving of love. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:23 PM
1

What do you mean by one-sided effort and why would that make it feel like a failure? It's pretty obvious? Men have to put in everything in the relationship and women don't do jack. Making the moves, arranging the dates, paying for things, etc. Do you know how many women I've cooked meals for? I've completely lost track because I've done it so much. Do you know how many times women have cooked meals for me? ONCE. And they were frozen chicken nuggets. That's every woman I've dated combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:21 PM
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You can do that afterwards though. You can't be good friends BEFORE they're your partner. Real life isn't a teen romcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:20 PM
1

Women aren't rubbing themselves silly thinking about how great a guy's similar principles are. No woman opens up online dating or goes to a bar or a party or a night out with her friends hoping to land a guy "with similar principles". Come the fuck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 07:17 PM
1

You're a decade or so off. When you're 25, you can still easily date younger high quality women if your degree pays off. Now, if you're 35, then yeah, it's fully over. There's quite literally zero point dating past that age if you're not already with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:39 PM
4

However this is NOT how you attract your wife or a girl that you will have a long-lasting and meaningful relationship with, as any masculine man should aspire to have. You can make a girl feel emotions and have excitement without being a dickhead or super mysterious or toxic. Be man that she respects and reveres, that includes being dependable, kind-hearted, a leader, intelligent about an array of things you can speak passionately and confident about, be a man of your word and a man of your prin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:29 PM
4

Let's say that was the case. Does "This guy was too polite when he hit on my friend, so he shouldn't come around to my parties anymore?" strike you as logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:02 AM
1

Do you treat your friends the same way, only expecting benefits? Friendships are very different from relationships in a million ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:30 PM
7

Tom Cruise is one of the richest and most famous people in the world, he's also constantly and relentlessly made fun of in the media for his height and has been for decades Zac Efron is average height and impossibly jacked (he himself said it was brutal and unsustainable, even), and Dave Franco is the same. Also nobody thinks of these people as sex symbols anymore, with the possible exception of Efron. Your MOM thinks Cruise is a sex symbol, nobody under the age of 40 considers him to be attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:57 PM
9

It wasn't a joke tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:34 PM
4

Why wouldn't they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:33 PM
22

I'm in my 30s. I absolutely have seen guys suddenly become excluded from parties/get-togethers/etc because they asked a girl out from the friend group and they now become persona non-grata. It 100% happens at all age groups. I used to get invited to parties by this one girl a lot. Then I thought there was a connection with one of her good friends so I politely hit on her at one of the parties. And I do mean politely. She didn't seem into it at all so I said alright see ya, went back to the party…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:30 PM
10

The "OMG he wanted to date me why is he so weird" shit only happens with teenagers, not grown adults. LMAO. You don't actually believe this, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:16 PM
15

Perhaps things have changed since it was done in 2015 tho. Well Tinder only hit the mainstream in 2014 so uh, yeah. You think?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:10 PM
5

Plenty of model tier short celebrities obviously. Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:10 PM
26

I guarantee he’s very emotionally available and treats women “like people” too. He also showers three times a day and watched Captain Marvel like 80 times!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:09 PM
15

Yes, I would love more reasons to hate myself so I'd like to see the chart as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:02 PM
9

For most men, single and sexless are the same thing. After all, don't people love to toss out how most sex is had in a relationship anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:06 PM
7

It does for men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:00 PM
9

They're not sharing them knowingly. Don't confuse it with poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:08 PM
1

Now start to figure out the average life expectancy differences between gender and these numbers start to get grim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:06 PM
10

If that were the case, we would see an equivalent boomarang back with the numbers in the the next age group, but 30-49 still has a notable gap (25% single men vs 17% single women).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:57 PM
17

Except that the majority of relationships are within less than five years, usually 2-3 years at the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:47 PM
11

It's from the most recent Pew Poll study. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:18 PM
7

Sure, here you go https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:18 PM
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No, it's a combination of two things: 1) A lot of women dating the same small group of guys 2) Guys are considering themselves single while the women think they're in relationships (see above, it connects really well)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:12 PM
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From the get-go, you're factually wrong. 63% of men under 30 are single, while only 34% of the women in that group are. So no, there aren't. In my own life, the only (straight) women I've ever met who are single are because they're deliberately choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:06 PM
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Most people don't exist in a complete bubble and only meet people online. Well you know except for the fact that it's literally how the majority of relationships start?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:47 PM
2

No, he's saying they're the same thing. He's not confusing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:35 PM
17

Anyone who is nice and doesn't succeed or, horrors, dares to express frustration about that, instantly never actually was a nice guy, he was just pretending to get sex. Just a proxy for the Just World fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:34 PM
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Lol. Lmao, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:30 PM
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Because all that's done is create a convenient proxy for the Just World fallacy. Anyone who is nice and doesn't succeed or, horrors, dares to express frustration about that, instantly never actually was a nice guy, he was just pretending to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:30 PM
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It basically all ties back into the fact that women never ever have to face any kind of social consequences for their actions, which inflates their idea that they're amazing people readers. I once asked a female friend for advice on pursuing a particular girl and her advice was deadass that I stalk her. Like no joke, she said I should figure out this girl's work schedule and always come by the coffee place whenever she's close to getting off work so I can talk to her on her way out and try to sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:28 PM
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Why did you start talking to her? Who starts talking to strangers in a Wendy's? This is literally the time for a sir this is a Wendy's meme. The rest of the post is fair but this one is silly. You've never just made casual chit-chat with a stranger if the line is slow? I once had a whole ass 15+ min conversation about New Jersey in another province with total stranger while we were waiting for our food.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:20 PM
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It could just be that there’s something about your mannerisms or way of talking to people that’s extremely off putting. Yeah. He's autistic (as he said so in the OP). The best case scenario is that we come off as gay, the worse case scenario is that women find us creepy and off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:17 PM
2

Lifting just puts you in manlet tier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:14 PM
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These are the only men you know who have sex and relationships? You're telling me all the men you know are sexless and alone? Not him, but yeah. I only know two male friends in a proper healthy relationship, and the rest are all single constantly, sometimes for years at a time. Comparatively, a literal racist rapist fucked half of the women in my friend group when I was in my 20s because he was jacked and tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:57 PM
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self-esteem is something that is validated by others but it is also an internal process. if you think and believe you are hot shit then it doesn’t matter what others think about you. But that's only true if you were the only person on earth. Unearned self-esteem is heavily mocked and ridiculed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:21 AM
2

To paraphrase Trump: "If you're famous, women let you do anything. You can grab 'em by the pussy."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:59 AM
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The problem is that there's no reason for factually low SMV men (like myself, natch) to HAVE self-esteem in the first place though. It just gets filed under "short man syndrome" and you're mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:58 PM
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But how many big dick dudes out there will also have EVERYTHING else you have? Not many! Probably most of them. All the things I have (sense of humour, thoughtfulness, kindness) are a dime a dozen. And if you have a big dick, you don't NEED to have all those other things anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 10:30 PM
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It's not my definition lmao it's the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:01 PM
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No, but the bar is significantly lower. Women can literally stalk a guy and a lot of people - men and women - won't consider it creepy. One time, a female friend of mine literally offered the advice that since I know where my crush works, I should figure out her schedule by looking at the posted timetables on the chalkboard at the store and make sure I always go to the coffee shop when she's on duty. I had to explain to her how this was literally telling me to stalk her, and she still didn't und…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:33 PM
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Yes, because I've personally experienced this first hand, as most men have. "Creepy" is just a generic term for that, much the same way that "inc*l" is now just a generic term for "guy who disagrees with woman". FFS, people call Henry Cavil the "I" word all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:17 PM
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That's great. Nobody cares about the literal definition though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:03 PM
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Creepy means that you’re causing an “unpleasant feeling of fear of unease” No, "creepy" means "Anything an unattractive guy did that I don't like".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:57 PM
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Definitely not. I would tell her something akin to the words of "Babe, you know I dreamed of that Ted K life when you met me." I don't share my location with anyone and I lock my phone turned off in a drawer when I get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:04 PM
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Why not? It absolutely is. I've even been outright mocked multiple times for thinking otherwise lol The average relationship starts with two people hooking up after meeting at a party/bar/off an app/etc, maybe repeating that once or twice, and THEN figuring out if they want to date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:32 PM
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It absolutely is. I've even been outright mocked multiple times for thinking otherwise lol The average relationship starts with two people hooking up after meeting at a party/bar/off an app/etc, maybe repeating that once or twice, and THEN figuring out if they want to date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 03:03 PM
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Intent doesn't change how they start. I had to find out the hard way that relationships all start with casual sex and then figuring out if you want to date afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:58 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. Relationships form from sex though, so uh, the result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:49 PM
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How can women control a dating market? A market requires two parts to function: Someone with a product. Someone who wants said product. Except when the "product" is a necessity, the seller has all the power in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:48 PM
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Yeah, and in the modern dating world, relationships almost uniformly start as casual sex and then go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:39 PM
1

Whoops. Haven't had my morning coffee yet. My bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:42 PM
2

Craig Ferguson? You mean the guy who started off being a punk rocker in multiple bands, partied like crazy before becoming sober, and performing standup as an edgy racist nationalist character named "Bing Hitler"? That's the best example of a "arguably too nice, placid, and potentially boring" guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:26 PM
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women really out here getting courted by Stan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:36 AM
7

Yeah because the dating habits of an 80 year old grandma aren't relevant to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:49 PM
3

penis pushups
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 04:18 PM
1

a woman approaches you/flirts with you This is where the problems begin.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 12:15 AM
1

Men don't get approached, dude. Like what?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 11:40 PM
1

But realistically he can't though. That's the point. You even hinted at it yourself by letting the mask slip a bit with "attract average to below average women".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:15 PM
1

Their ability to work themselves to death and give themselves away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:48 PM
1

Why would an average looking guy be confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:48 PM
2

They like to talk about "golden retriever" types, but they don't actually like them or hook up with them.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 10:19 PM
2

Try a thought experiment. If you're a straight male, imagine how you'd feel if random gay/trans guys kept hitting on you everywhere you went, while just minding your own business... I'd feel fucking great. A gay guy once hit on me and I still think about how good that felt every now and then. And that happened 5+ fucking years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 10:11 PM
8

there's no excuse for having a tiny dick, hit the gym
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 10:08 PM
2

Either things that photograph well on Instagram or things that can potentially lead to huge amounts of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:03 PM
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Why do you restrict your analysis of modern age dating to online dating exclusively, even though it's a known fact that most women don't even use online dating? Oh god not this shit again Those numbers have to do with CURRENT USERS, not LIFETIME USERS. The average woman can get on a dating app, receive a million matches, get a guy, and delete the app within two weeks or less. The reason for the gender imbalance on dating apps is that the guys are just stuck languishing there forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:01 PM
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If your perception is that many women are engaged in sex work, that says more about your experience with women than any particular trends as a whole. I'm just a regular normal guy. I've personally known four soft sex workers and one "hard" sex worker (does dominatrix shit count as hard sex work?) I think you're underestimating how many women are doing things as simple as selling feet pics on the DL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:49 PM
1

Only a tiny minority of weirdos would attempt to shame someone for not wanting to date a sex worker. There's more Canadians than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:44 PM
2

Literally all the OP posts is stuff blatantly obviously written by ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:40 PM
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If a woman sacrifices her prime earning years from 25 to 45 to raise four children as a stay at home mom Do you actually think this is a common or realistic scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:36 PM
2

It's nothing about "not looking for positivity", the OP asks an inherently loaded question that the vast, vast majority of people haven't had happy outcomes with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:32 PM
5

I'm pretty sure it is a fair assessment. I don't think I've ever heard a single good story about a man crying or being upset about something in front of his partner and it going well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:28 PM
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Zero. I cried in front of my girlfriend about my dad dying - on the day he died, no less - and it ruined my relationship. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:12 PM
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Poor/average men know that they will never be able to get gold diggers and they feel resentment because of that. This is, as I often see on this subreddit, a core failure to understand gold digging. You don't have to be rich; you just have to have more money than she does. A guy working full time at McDonalds could get gold dug by a homeless woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:36 AM
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This is blatantly obviously written with ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:51 PM
0

"I hate calling the women bitches, but the bitches love it." - Drake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:28 PM
2

If there is a co-ed social situation with the clear goal of connecting likeminded men and women, men are very, very much welcome in that space. I don’t know much more I can break this down for you. No, this is not the case. Women are welcome in all situations at all times. A woman can go up and talk to someone in line, walk up to a random table at a coffee shop or bar, etc etc and will be met with warm smiles and welcomes. The same is not true at all for men. Women have infinitely more opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:15 PM
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No, there aren't. Because men aren't universally welcome in all situations and scenarios the same way women are. It's so bizarre that women will say it's justifiable for women to be afraid and cautious of men by default one second, and then not understand how men aren't welcome or are looked on with harsh suspicion in a variety of situations the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:28 PM
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Yeah, because you're a woman. You are welcome in every situation and you can talk to anyone in any way and it's not only accepted but encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:08 PM
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Lol what? Gay people shit talk other gay people ALL the time. I have literally and unironically heard "I wish I was straight" from my lesbian friends once or twice. I have a lesbian friend who says shit about women straight out of some of the worst parts of the TRP manosphere. Gay dudes bitching about how they're tired of fuckboys, etc etc. You only see more posts with straight people complaining about the opposite sex because there's more of them, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:25 PM
1

Never. It's very important to me to have a child. If I don't get that opportunity within the next decade, I'll just completely drop out of the dating world in my 40s since I literally see no point. Getting together with someone at that age with no kids and no connection is just a roommate you fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:13 PM
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It's not about them being naive, it's about them not being jaded and bitter and just wanting to have fun and experience things for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:36 PM
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LESBIAN DATING DYNAMICS ARE NOT COMPARABLE TO STRAIGHT DATING DYNAMICS Sorry to yell but come on. What makes you think you're able to tell men that what they're openly experiencing doesn't actually count? I don't go around telling queer women about how their stressors with dating women are bullshit. But it also doesn't answer my question of where is this actually occurring? Like do you have the statistics of the actual number of women who will not date a man below 6', the women who prefer not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:19 PM
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They know how the algorithm works; people who swipe the maximum profiles each day without getting any matches are unpopular since they never bother to take the time to attempt conversations Uh How are they supposed to be having conversations if they're not getting matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:13 PM
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I am so curious where this trope that every woman wants a tall man comes from. I almost never see that, and I've been on pretty much every dating app there is. You're also literally a woman and not a man sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:10 PM
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Then I guess most women aren't "normal adults"? Not sure what to tell you. I've literally even been told directly by a partner that me asking for consent killed the mood and completely turned her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:41 PM
2

I'm not really the type of guy who is allowed to choke during sex anyway (or interested in it for that matter), but asking her for permission like some afterschool PSA will also make her dry up. It's a real catch 22. "Just know without asking!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:36 PM
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First of all, no woman wants you to be more "dominant", trust me, if anything, they would be extremely excited if you asked whether they like choking during sex before trying it. Great way to make her more dry than the Sahara.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:32 PM
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I just wanted to say that I always really appreciate your posts and I understand SO fucking much of what you've gone through. It is nice to see that you are able to accomplish something and it gives me some hope for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:39 PM
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That is very much not true in the slightest. Marriage and relationship rates are lower than ever before and continue to plummet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:58 PM
2

We die sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:06 PM
3

What makes it so awful? You yourself even just mentioned they call it getting lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:48 AM
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The amount of single mothers in this day and age would show how much more desired pure alphas are, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:09 AM
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A 2013 study by Redpath Centre (one of the very very few facilities specializing in adults with autism) found that only 32% of autistic people have been in a relationship. Not that only 32% of autistic people are in relationships currently. Have EVER been in a relationship. The odds are significantly worse for us than your assumed stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:31 AM
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Plenty of women get ignored if they play the "demisexual", low libido game. Lmao, wrong. Very, very wrong. And why would the sex be terrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:24 AM
1

Demisexual people are not necessarily neurodivergent firstly They're very closely connected though, like there's been lots of research done into this. Something like 30% of NDs are also demi/ace which is very significant. secondly demisexuality has nothing to do with passivity. It just means sexual attraction builds slowly or is only present with a stronger emotional or romantic connection first. I guess I'm confused. Why would you actively purse someone you have no sexual attraction towards? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:23 AM
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Who is more likely to win the lottery - the guy who studies all the most statistically lucky numbers to pick and the hours that are most probable to give out a winner and buys a single ticket, or the guy who buys 500 tickets?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:09 AM
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Why does jack being demi mean he has to be passive? Because that's what demi entails? Do you not understand the huge amount of mental energy it takes neuroatypicals to flirt or ask people out? Not to mention it'll cost Jack so much money to constantly ask out women he may not be attracted to. For Jane, both of those factors aren't issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:55 AM
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It is very easy to be social and autistic. Socializing with people platonically is much easier to do as someone on the spectrum. There is no innuendo or careful timing and wordplay and complicated rulesets in friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:05 AM
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But given the choice, they'll take alpha over beta any day. And most men aren't that combination, hence the dual mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:55 PM
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Yep. "The rich get richer, the poor get dead."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:54 PM
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