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| 0 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?You're not being tricked into sex. If you're voluntarily having sex, that's a choice. If you need more validation, wait longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:34 PM |
| 0 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?No... it's not 🤣. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say that holds true to you. Food dates are so common that it's a coinable term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?There's zero stigma behind pursuit. Fucking and pursuit are not synonymous 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Men open up to other men. We have our "safe place". You're describing a niche male. The verbal, sexually frustrated male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeablenessI'm curious were these statements are pulled from? Is this just anecdotes? I didn't pay for 1st dates. I needed to see I was dealing with a competent woman. On the flip side, now that I'm actually committed, my wife doesn't even know what the word "bill" means anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.Not going to lie... you cooked on this one. Solid logic 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.Y'all should up your adjective game. Lol. Going for the "creme of the crop" isn't synonymous with "good men". For an examples, you can literally go for the creme of the crop & a shity person at the same time. It can be the same person. These descriptors aren't antagonistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 03:29 PM |
| 2 | If women need men to survive, all heterosexual sex is unethicalYou're not understanding the point I'm making. Even if women are feeble-minded, your premise doesn't hold weight. It falls under invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:33 PM |
| 6 | If women need men to survive, all heterosexual sex is unethicalThis is where you're being disenguous. The argument is women need men for survival, but your framing that statement and trying to argue that the social nuance is women need to FUCK men for survival. This is overwhelmingly untrue. Maybe in some barbaric nations, sure, but this doesn't represent the majority of the world. Your whole argument also shows your genuine lack of understanding how men operate. Most men want to be helpful, have the means to be a net postive to their communities, and a lar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:12 PM |
| 2 | If women need men to survive, all heterosexual sex is unethicalPlaying Devil's advocate by agreeing that women "need" men to survive. Women aren't children and are fully autonomous. Consent is the defining factor between ethical and unethical, not the notion of needing men to survive. There's no implication as you stated. Just because women need men to survive doesn't mean she needs "the" man she's fucking to survive. There's father's, brother's, cousins, friends, acquaintances...etc. Relationships between humans aren't exclusively sexual. There's different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:50 PM |
| 0 | On a date, men are just trying to not mess it up. But, women enjoy dates. What does that feel like?I enjoyed my dates. Idk what you're talking about. I purposely planned invites I enjoyed. I wasn't putting on a show. If I "messed up" who gives a fuck? There's other women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Asking women for advice does not work.In other news, the sky is the sky 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.I understand what you're saying, but I have input. I want to say your general premise is absolutely correct, but there's a dark side. Before getting into the dark side, breaking down your premise into two categories would make this more digestible. Raw attraction & disability not based on commitment The desire of commitment based on exclusivity and some sort of provision/investment into a woman. Most men can EASILY obtain number 2. For me, if my only option was number 2, it would be a hard pass.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 03:47 PM |
| – | Many women use sex as a reward in dating and relationships.Couldn't be me. I told my wife looooooong before we were anything close to being serious that no sex = no relationship. Doesn’t matter if we're 1 day in or 100 years in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Men are spinning narrative about them being desperate but they are desperate for top percent of womenI'm officially getting old. Approaching mid 30s and everything you just named as a standard was pretty common when I was single 🤣 The toughest one was maybe fat, but if you weren't fat yourself, there was plenty. Honestly, if those were my options the only 2 choices for me would be 1. Stay single. 2. Level up to get something better. I don't even consider that list as options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The term "ran-though" needs to end.Not that series. If the shoe fits, oh well. Either way, it's not like these people opinion really matter. Only the ones you're dating specifically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 10:29 PM |
| 28 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?I don't get where the disconnect is. Both men and women are staying single. Idk why I comment on these pill forums. Y'all speak in absolutes, false statistics, false narratives, and agenda pushing. Evident by your response. The vast majority of HUMANS do not have that mindset you just mention. Almost everyone understands they need to be attractive to get someone who is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 02:50 AM |
| 47 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?You frame your question as if there's genuine suprise. There's not. I'd argue that most adults understand this, and this where alot of insecurities and coping mechanisms stem from. What we see is a pushback from men to fall into the bb role. That's where most of these conflicts are coming from. There was a time people were oblivious to it. Although I'm not a fan, I say the red pill did a great job in pulling back that curtain to the ignorant. And again, like I previously mentioned, now we're see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/26 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Other than physical contact, there is no difference between a friendship and relationship.There's a night and day difference between my friendships and romantic relationships. Can't relate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 19 | People say “demisexual” when they’re really describing the normal sexuality of a typical femaleVery few people are genuinely demisexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:19 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.I've been fucking the same woman for the past 10+ years. I literally don't care who you do or do not fuck 🤣 I'm strictly talking about the concepts on the thread. That being said, your logic is flawed. Time doesn't ommit relvancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 04:05 AM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.I don't care who you fuck. Not my monkey, not my circus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:03 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.If you're basing the sum total of men based of a subreddit, idk what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:31 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.Men are horny. Women are horny. People fuck. Sometimes there's alcohol, sometimes there's not. Your "most" claim isn't valid. The vast majority of people aren't bashing women that their tendency is to wait for relationship. The criticism is from the switch up. One set of rules for this person, yet another set of rules for another. If you're fundamentally on that bs, people will notice and comment on it. This entire post is disenguous (like most of the post here). Y'all need to forget about all t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?Humans beings are selfish and selfish serving. Most women and men are. We just "care" about different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The whole concept of fighting over someone is dumbI'm speaking on actions. My actions will reflect the opposite of what I "feel". I'll help her pack, be sad for awhile, and move on with life. The point is if she wants out, I'm not "fighting" for the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:45 AM |
| 5 | The whole concept of fighting over someone is dumbFirmly disagree. I love my wife more than anyone, including myself, but if she wants to leave, I'd help pack her backs. No fight. No drama. Just go. It's a relationship, not a jail cell. You're also adding a layer that he didn't say himself or even imply when you say "But not feeling any stress...". He's talking about his actions and not feeling the need to go against the grain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validationThis is not a requirement of a successful relationship. Humans aren't a monolith. What works for some won't work for others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validationThere's no one way to have a successful relationship. These absolutes need to stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 04:40 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessYour self worth is 100% on you. You're an adult. Stop blaming society and own your shit. This lack of owning up to your own actions and mindset is a character flaw that directly correlates to what you qualify for. Again, if you could do better, you would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:30 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessWe need to throw out "settle" in the context of dating. People get exactly what they qualify for. If they could do better, they would. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:26 PM |
| 5 | “Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women.You're one of those. Got it. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:45 PM |
| 3 | “Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women.Yes. I used chat gbt with the prompt "make this grammatically correct". I can give you the raw version and you'd go from "Humanity is over" to "thank you for presenting content that's more digestible". Anyway, do you have an actual rebuttal or are you the typical Redditor that argues just to argue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 04:26 PM |
| 8 | “Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women.I have been out of the game for some time. I have been with my wife for over nine years. When I was dating, I went out with all types of women, and my personality was very flexible, changing rapidly as I gained new life experiences. That was simply a byproduct of being young and exposed to so many new things. That being said, I developed many different points of view. I am tall. I started at 360 pounds, lost 150, and gained back 20 pounds of muscle. At my physical peak as a single man, I was def… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | You have two options - which one would you go for?Get with option 1 today. Break up with option 1 today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why:That proves his point. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 06:28 PM |
| -1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedBeing a provider isn't exclusive to money. It's one small aspect. He can provide without being the bread winner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 11:46 AM |
| -1 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”If you're partaking in casual sex, by definition, you're using the other person—but you're also being used—and that's perfectly fine. This concept applies to everyone, and your sex isn't relevant. The confusion arises because "using someone" is typically spun in a negative context, implying that one party is being manipulated. But it's not mutually exclusive. Two people can use each other and both benefit, with full transparency. The relevance in this particular topic is that one sex (men) tends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 03:32 PM |
| – | Women do not have ridiculously high standards in menWhat people say and what people do rarely align. This concept is not exclusive to women. Actions are a better indicator than words. In a social context, political "correct" answers tend to shine as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/25 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy/women's nature falsely seen as the problem with online datingQuantify "many" and if it bares any relvancy towards said guy getting what they want out of the dating apps. When I was single, I simply put " I'm 6'4". I love Chipotle and the Gym." That's it. I got exactly what I wanted out of dating apps 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:41 PM |
| 4 | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingYou're skewing the premise. The premise is she did "x" desirable acts inside previous relationships, so don't be the sucker that commits to her and is simultaneously told no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 02:09 AM |
| 12 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I have a body count to the moon and in my anecdotal experience, most (so above 50%) women aren't good at sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Do conservative men prefer liberal women?I don't care. I wouldn't neccesarily say I'm conservative, but I vote red more often than not. My wife is liberal. We get along just fine. Your maturity level bares more relvancy than your political affiliation and being conservative or liberal isn't a monolithic on how you behave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 09:33 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wivesShe knows me better than I know myself. She 100% knows. That particular concept isn't even all that relvant. She gropes me more than I grope her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wivesIf that's how you interpret that, it's fine by me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 08:57 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wivesI'm not exactly keeping an excel spreadsheet on this. It's not that complicated. If it's more often than not incongruous and the behavior doesn't change back, then I'm out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 08:55 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wivesOf course it does but if it's incongruent, consistently, for what I want, then she gets the boot. Compatibility matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 08:45 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Husbands should not feel entitled to touch their wivesIf my relationship isn't at the point that I can't freely touch my wife, then she's an ex wife. Life is too short. I'll give her all the space and hands free action she needs 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?I told my wife that I won't watch porn if we have sex virtually anytime I want. She agreed. So now I don't watch porn. If she disagreed, then I would still watch porn. I'm horny all the time and need a release. For me, it's either sex or porn to satisfy that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:09 PM |
| 9 | Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene.People are so dramatic 🤣 Go outside, breathe fresh air. The vast majority of humans aren't worried about this pill shit 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Best case scenario for everyone involved! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Happy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Good thing you don't have to date one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 11:43 AM |
| 11 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?Mid-30s is too old for me when we're talking about marriage. Well... let me clarify. I'm in my mid-30s now, and if I were magically single, a woman in her mid-30s would be a non-negotiable deal breaker for a long-term commitment. So no other variables are needed to make this decision. My wife and I are in our mid-30s, but we met in our early 20s. Starting over with someone the same age is a no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?"I refuse to believe that something between every man’s legs can dictate his every action in life, even in the romantic aspects." That's your choice to refuse to believe this. Most (not all men) primary focuses is centered around this. There's more to life, absolutely, but doesn't take away from being the "main" drive. As for emotinal support, it's not something that most men look for on a regular anyway. We deal with our shit, vent to a handful of people if needed, and keep it to a minimum. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Men: What romance would you like to see from your woman?It seems you don't understand what romantic means. People answer, and you ask "what makes this romantic." Romantic definition "Conducive to or characterized by the expression of love." So for clarity, there's no specific cliche behind what's romantic. For alot of men, what's romantic will have a formula of The person they're interested in + and activity and or service. Ergo.... be nice, considerate, and do things that they find enjoyable with them (added benefit if you do it without being asked)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Context matters. I love sluts. When I'm single, I want most of my free dating time spent with sluts. I want a large number of them on the regular. That's exactly what I did/had as a single man. Relationship, on the other hand. No chance in hell. Sluts be gone lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 7 | The people at the top of the patriarchy are men, but that does not mean they have the best interests of their fellow men at heart.It's way less than 1%. It's virtually statically irrelevant It's so low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:10 AM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendI just went for it. Going for it and forcing yourself on someone isn't synonymous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriend5 times is stastically nothing. Get rejected 500 times in-person. Then you'll have a better scope of your abilities and what level of success you can achieve. You're not going to have luck on dating apps, so why are you on them? Dating apps rely almost exclusively on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendStop thinking, and just do it. I don't care how it "feels". You get better at anything with practice. You're going to look and sound like a dweeb starting off. After you done it an x amount of times, it'll be clock work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:51 PM |
| -2 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendSure thing, buddy. You're right. If anything, getting women is impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendPursing hobbies, goals, and being social. People complain about not been able to get dates/relationship. When you get into a relationship, you're sharing your life with a person. Alot of you don't even have a life to share (not aimed at you specifically). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendMy debate towards OP is that their 4 main bullet points actually work, and it's not a deterrent (per their claim) from the "unattractive man" which in this community heavily implies or directly states is most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendYou know what, I'll answer your question in ample detail, but before I do, I'm curious. Are you trolling, purposely being ficticious, or do truly don't understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendBack to scenario, if you're out dancing, an activity that you enjoy: women by proxy will be there. Dance and interact with them. Eventually you'll dance with a group of women or maybe just woman 1 v 1. Physically go for a kiss. Stop being a pussy. Physically go for a kiss. They'll go for too. If you get that kiss, there's a good chance you can fuck that night. Alot of women will ask to back to your her place. If she doesn't, you can ask. No date needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendWomen are everywhere. If you're out let say dancing, you don't have to wait x amount of days to see if she wants to sleep with you. Go for right there and then. She knows if she wants to fuck you, you don't have to spend 5 buisness days texting/calling and $80 on dinner to make that happen. Women like men who have balls. Women like men hho goes for things. You will get rejected. Boo hoo, it happens, but if you're having fun, enjoying life, doing activities that you already like: women will be th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendI rarely asked women out on dates. I've done it, and I stopped fairly early in dating. Dates are too formal in early stages of dating in my opinion. I "date" my wife, I didn't date and ask out randoms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 04:02 PM |
| 32 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendYup. When I was single, I spent next to no time actually pursing women. My time was spent chasing my goals, getting in the gym, and participating in hobbies/social life. I had more women than I could handle romantically. Chasing/pursing women is a poor use of time. You get way more of of life and women when you're putting yourself and the structure of your life first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateIt's just physical. They're literally more attractive, and less jaded (on average). Lots of energy and enthusiasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you choose love or sex?Sex. Without a second thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?I too have had my ass grabbed, sexual harassed by medical professionals, and raped (by both men and women). I don't hold billions accountable for that. I got over it and moved on with my life. This world is tough, G. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?I genuinely care about none of that, honestly. I'm just having conversation. You are presenting a false delimma fallacy. You're presenting extreme behavior vs 100% no complaining. The truth is, there's no shortage of middle ground bitching. Also, I don't think you realize the irony behind your statement "If men don’t like hearing about fuck boys, rapist etc. maybe they should stop being fuck boys and rapist?". I'll break it down for you. Most rapist are men. We can agree on that BUT most men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:15 PM |
| 10 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?I was being generous with my comment. Lol. We all know it's far more popular for women to be vocal/complain about men than the other way around. It's normalized. When men started to match that energy, an example being the Red Pill, the niche became hyper viral because it wasn't the norm. At least that was a major contributing factor to the vitality of the niche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:32 PM |
| 18 | Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them?When you leave the world of internet, you'll find way more women complaining/men bashing then the other way around, simply for the the fact that it's socially acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Is the redpill about generating wealth to be attractive, or is this a misreading?Y'all over think. There's no "Goal" outside of education to understand the nature of people, both men and women. Outside of that, the "Goal" is contingent on the creator. There's a difference between the concept (Red Pill) compared to a Red Pill content creator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seemI mean from a literal context. Those apps only show you 20% of men. That's what I mean by "Top percentage". The vast majority of male profiles aren't even shown to their female counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:28 AM |
| 0 | Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seemAlmost every guy you're talking to on those apps have access to almost every woman on the app. Almost every male profile gets buried in the algorithm. The apps don't even bother showing them. So you're talking to the top percentage of guys on hookup apps and you're suprised you're getting ghosted? Ma'am lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 03:21 AM |
| 1 | If all men prefer young women what should wifed up women do after the age of 40?Most men use to prefer Rhianna and Beyonce, that doesn't mean they had even a spec if a chance. Live your life like usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 12:19 AM |
| 0 | Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners.You don't want to waste your time with these type of women anyway. They weed themselves out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.Everything affects everything, but the concept doesn't have enough relevance to me, personally. I don't spend much time thinking about what society does, what society expects, or what is good or bad about society. It's too big of a topic to tackle. I focus on the specific problems of my loved ones and myself—things I can actually change. It's amazing how great of a life you can live when you're not spending too much time worrying about the expectations and faults of billions of people. I have my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 03:12 AM |
| 12 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.It's a societal problem, it's not "my" problem. This entire post is ficticious. You can have a conversation about a problem, and not be the solution to said problem. Actually, that's how most problems will be structured. Man, woman, komodo dragon... I don't give af. I wasn't put here on earth to be a sacrifice to be the solution to a problem I didn't create. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 25 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.It's a societal issue, that doesn't mean they're going to be a cuck to fix someone else's problem. It's an unreasonable request. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Is asking out a friend only going to ruin your friendship if you're not attractive?I'm just not about that life. Friendship and romance will always be separate for me. I doesn't really matter to me if two friends date, I just can't relate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?That's your particular algorithm. The overwhelming majority of men aren't concerned with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.She's ugly. She's not authentic. She's a buisness woman that knows her niche. Men believe her authenticity as much as we believe politicians are telling the truth. Red pill men, as in the content creators you're referring to want a woman that will get on their program. Pearl has her own aka her buisness. Pearl is a talking point that disqualify herself from men that truly believe in the red pill. She's ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men demand obedience over collaboration in a marriage?That's an added layer that wasn't apart of what I'm saying. When I say collaboration, I mean so by the definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.My circle is broad and my environment is diverse. I live in the most populated metroplex in my country. That and my friends range from hyper successful real estate investors/entrepreneurs, to regular blue collar workers, and unmotivated restaurant staff. Some are like me, working out 5 to 7 days a week, and others are putting that same effort into Tacos and beer. My circle is fairly diverse lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.My circle is broad and my environment is diverse. I live in the most populated metroplex in my country. That and my friends range from hyper successful real estate investors/entrepreneurs, to regular blue collar workers, and unmotivated restaurant staff. Some are like me, working out 5 to 7 days a week, and others are putting that same effort into Tacos and beer. My circle is fairly diverse lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.That's funny. I'm in my early 30s and my friends of relative age are either married or dating women in their early 20s. There's no in-between. They're different ethnicities, income level, and fitness level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Almost every guy will pick 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:53 AM |
| – | Obesity and general slovenliness of the population are large factors in why people are strugglingWe would have happier people of most people were at a healthy weight. That alone would correlate to a more postive dating environment, let alone having better options to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Do men not care about having female friends?I'm speaking for myself. I can't speak for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 12:00 PM |
| 4 | Do men not care about having female friends?Friends that are impossible to be romantic options like family, yes. Outside of that, my rule of thumb is if you're hot, I'm not interested in being your friend. To pretend otherwise os disenguous. If you're 300 lbs. Hell yea we can be friends 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 03:17 AM |
| 8 | 50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only men"Feeling" something isn't relvant. I can "feel" I'm worth a billion dollars, but my bank reflects reality. Speaking of reality, most people "settle" with their equal. Even if 1 party "feels" they should have better, that doesn't matter. They obtained what they qualified for. It's typically an equal exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 11:53 PM |
| 7 | 50/50 relationship are one sided benefiting only menYou're blantly ignoring that 50/50 men aren't receiving what a traditional provider use to receive (e.g. Greater level of respect, a virgin, someone to take care of the house, a more feminine woman...ect). Let's take a step back for a second. Your argument doesn't have a leg to stand on. You directly stated in a traditional framework, men offered less value, and compensated by being providers. This is false. My advice to you, lay of all this "pill" bullshit. At this point, I don't even know if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Men shouldn't dismiss so quickly the idea that unequal distribution of housework/childcare contributes to divorcesThis just fall under the umbrella of lack of communication. My wife does all the household chores, and will do the brunt of childcare. In return, she literally doesn't have to work a job for the rest of her life (nor does she want to). However, this was discussed long before marriage. We know our roles, and are happy to play them. Any couple in the situation either: A. Never discussed roles, meaning both parties are "assuming" B. They discussed the roles, didn't agree on it, and got married anyw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 08:53 PM |
| -3 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.You're entire rant is one giant assumption 🤣 If your takeaway from my commen is "men are dumb" as you're insinuating that's the meaning behindmy words then you're either trolling, low IQ, or have the burning rage of misandry in your soul that's utilized reddit to post nonesensical dog shit, like this post. Your entire post is none factual, blanket statements that doesn't reflect reality. The issue with all you "pill" people is that you refuse to except that men and women are virtually equals in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:16 AM |
| -5 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.This entire rant is comedic. Men are calculated. We're not assuming shit. "Some" men will fit this mold, but it's going to be the overwhelming minority, and more so prominent in extremely young, and inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Any man that sees women and sex as rewards is automatically an entitled misogynist.Well I was the asshole, getting alot of women (married now) and I was literally rewarded for me POS behavior. It is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:48 PM |
| – | Hypergamy Ultimately Causes Successful Long Term RelationshipsYou never get her fully if she believes that she had to lower any standard to make a relationship work for. Idv rather be single at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Why do you think you were able to behave this way for so long? Prior treatment that I received before I became conventionally attractive, which didn't happen until the age of 21. Did you feel guilt at the time? Not a shred. Did you stop because you started feeling guilty or was it more because you got sick of the drama? I stopped because I reevaluated what I wanted. I decided to start looking for a long-term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 10:27 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Women are expressive. They cry their heart out. They tell you how you've hurt them or at least how they feel. I had a lot of these interactions. I don't miss all that crying. God the passionate balling your eyes out cry. It's an ugly sight. I would say a solid 8. I would consider myself a more jacked, and attractive version of Dwayne wade if you know who that is. We're the same height, similar build, I just naturally weigh more. So proportionally broader shoulders, bigger arms, and legs, but sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:51 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I cannot communicate how much I respect that. Well played lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.100% agree. Too many pussies (men) not willing to put in work to be "the guy" but that's not really relvant to what my original comment was saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:32 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I guess I didn't get that treatment as a young man. My folks spent more time teaching me on how not to be perceived as dangerous vs having confidence. Either way, women throw around the ahole card left and right. There more likely to overassume than under. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:16 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I'm going to agree to disagree. It's abundantly obvious when someone is being an asshole. Adolescence and up typically can understand the differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 04:02 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I dated women younger, same age, and up to 20+ years older. The point is, being an arrogant asshole yielded a more efficient return. However, even as a none adult teen, I could tell if someone is being an asshole, and I was objectively, and intentionally being an asshole. I'm not going to insult a grown womans Intelligence by saying they couldn't tell the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Well my anecdotal experience is different. I don't date men, but the general consensus between male friend and colleagues isn't about just 1 woman, it's a trend. Outside of that, I don't know what to tell you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:46 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I am tall 6'4. I'm also in good shape. I meal prep, workout regularly, dress simple, but sharp. My main advice, take care of your physical appearance. So get into good shape, dress well, smell good. Make sure you're being sociable. The highest quality women I've dated were recommendations from female acquaintances. You need a solid network not just for business, but your social life as well. Use all online tools, optimize them, put a small amount of leg work with those, daily, with the end goal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:45 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I'm adding relvant supporting evidence to support my premise (being an assholes yields more ass) If you don't understand, I don't know what to tell you. I'm a blunt guy, I don't sugar coat things 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 03:20 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Nope. I was just bored. I didn't really care at the time. I was getting women being nice too, I'm just emphasizing my experience with women was "easier" when I wasn't. Let's say with everything included, when I wasn't a dick, my success rate with women was around 70%. When I was a dick, easily above 90%. I wasn't "adapting" I was just being a dick. Nothing more, nothing less. Those numbers are just for context as I'm not sure how to get a literal calculation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 02:59 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.I started treating women like emotionless objects. Keep in mind that the only goal I had was to see what the outcome would be. I was neither trying to drive them away, nor was I trying to attract them. -I would invalidate anything they'd say. -I would only hangout with them if sex was guranteed. As-in, I would bring it up in conversation. If they had any pushback by saying they were tired and just wanted to hangout, I'd say something along the lines of "I'm having sex tonight. It can be with you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 02:56 PM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.This isn't an indication of immaturity. It's a reflection of not having an example outside of what what society marketed to them. If anything, this is a sign of maturity, as you need real life experince to make these claims. So said person has put in x amount of effort, had an x amount of impressions that lead to whatever. Point is, they're going through a stage of growth. One chick? Try alot of chicks. This isn't a "one chick" dilemma. This is literally our entire ******* childhood. You have ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 02:03 PM |
| 8 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesIdk why guys take advice from women on how to get women. The only person a man should ask is another man that actually gets women. Preferably someone who wasn't a natural, and had to learn themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Very, very bad. Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Keep going. I was 360 pounds at my heaviest. Progress is a lifelong endeavor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Then don't be nornal. My *** was in the gym 5 days a week, going to school fulltime, in a career fulltime, worked in side hustles, and made a solid effort to keep my social life going, and to network consistently. All of these tied together to make me above average. If your "normal" you only have yourself to blame. Don't bitch to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?It happened to me. Kind of. I was a playboy, actively dating a whole roster of women. Then I said "fuck it" and blocked probably like 15 women that I had in the rotation. I was tired. Tired of dating, planning, talking to that many people...ect. I decided I'd spend that extra time with the boys, video games, my buisness, and just have time to myself. I was only 2 days in until one of my few female friends that I have to this day texted me. Conversation: Friend- Are you single? Me- Yup. Why? Frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does Polyamory get so much hate here?It doesn't "offend" people, it's just clowned on. Big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 12:49 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Lol yes. I do love hoes. It's no understatement when I say they were my favorite pass time when I was single. I have zero hate for promiscuous women. I'm glad they exist. I just wouldn't get into a relationship with one. Which is fine, because in the real world, plenty of hoes get wifed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:55 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Level with me here. I'm not sure what you mean lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:27 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Not offended, just repulsed under the specific context of getting into a relationship. I always said, I love hoes. Just not for a relationship 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 03:17 AM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingPeople underestimate the power of social circles in life, and in the dating game. Even more valuable is a female friend that you treat only as a friend. Pick a social female who likes to play match maker. Here's the thing, NEVER engage in any romantic activity. She's primarily a plug for women 🤣 You need to ev a real friend to her though. The woman who introduced me to my wife sent 20+ women my way. My wife she sent me a picture and asked if I thought she was hot. Of course I said yes. She sent … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:44 AM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingSad that it does, but you are 100% right. My standards (now married) was way higher than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:25 AM |
| – | You can have everything going for you as a man and still struggle, the just world fallacy that says otherwise needs to dieNot suggesting that. That's how you took it. Regardless, my statement stands. You objectively don't have everything going for you. You're not who you think you are in the dating game if you're struggling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:17 AM |
| – | You can have everything going for you as a man and still struggle, the just world fallacy that says otherwise needs to dieIf you're struggling, you don't have everything going for you. You might have put a considerable amount of work into yourself, and even have great results. That's not synonymous with having everything going got you. I'm 6'4, in-shape, well payed, well dressed. Charming personality that's both innate, but also honed with practice/dating a lot of women. Even though I'm married, it's annoying how frequently I need to take the initiative for women to leave me alone. That's an understatement. Heck, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.My timing for Real Estate wasn't ideal, nor was it a reflection of anything from 2008. The buisness is simple. Buy a list with filters that indicates a need to sale (e.g. Recently divorced, tax liens, fire damage... ect), skip trace the list, and call. My first list cost $20 and made me over 250k in 3 months. I took that experience and replicated myself hiring 3 solid sales guys. Ultimately they would bring me a passive 67k in my pocket (that's after expenses and taxes). This is a Real Estate co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.I didn't get lucky. I had a strategy that the math was in my favor. I took advantage of a time sensitive opportunity. Everything I did was calculated. Even before Crypto, I had a networth above 2 million. Working hard doesn't get you rich. Being smart doesn't get you rich. Taking calculated risk, and utilizing leverage will. Literally most people can get rich. The major difference is the willingness to go through the growing pains, and risk is associated with that. When risk payoff, reinvest and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.I wouldn't call myself lucky. I had a strategy that was mathematically in my favor, and it worked well for me. Before that, I was already making bank between Travel Nursing and Real Estate. I've always been calculated when it comes to money. Lol. Now I'm chill because I don't have to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 03:53 AM |
| 11 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?If my only option was a single mom, I'd just stay single for life. I could always just pay an escort to get my needs fixed. Lol Dating a single mom just sounds like torture. Might as well take the L and accept its just not happening for me. This is all hypothetical. I'm happily married. You also have to remember, even desperate, low option people have dealbreakers and a kid is no small matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What's the difference, in principle and in morals, between pump-and-dump and serial monogamy?If the emphasis is time, the concepts bare very little difference. I would argue, keeping someone around, getting them emotionally invested, and then leaving would yield far more emotinal damage than just a pump and dump. At the end of the day, though, we're all adults. Don't engage in any activity/relationship dynamic that you're both fully prepared to accept the negatives & unknowns. I don't feel bad for anyone in that regards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Men feel that women will not allow them to have preferences but where do they get this idea?Did you listen to like 5% of the argument that's been made around this topic? Personal, being scrutinized for my dating preferences has always been 100% irrelevant to me. An outside opinion means nothing, and I've always got exactly what I've wanted out of dating/my love life. I'm getting a bit off track, but there's tons of examples that's being crossed reference when this topic comes up that actually happens on a regular basis or at the very least, for more frequently than it should. Some popu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.I'm not evading anything, I wasn't asked how did I retire. Long story short, I got into Travel Nursing young. On the side, I had a small, but highly profitable Real estate wholesale company. In 2020, I got aggressive and obsessed with Crypto, and put alot of money into shit coins. One of the coins exploded. I cashed in, bought a small Multifamily property in cash (40 units). Took the remainder and put it into low risk investment accounts (minus a lump sum for emergencies) and now I live off of c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 06:13 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.I'm married. I haven't dated new people in over 7 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:46 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.But you are attracting them. You're attracting them through finicial means. You're not sexually arousing them, but you're certainly attracting them. That's why Hugh old ass was surrounded by dimes. Money and status drew young, hot women in. Where these women dying to fuck him for his sex appeal? Absolutely not, but that doesn't change the fact he was able to attract them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 06:02 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.Dependent, yes. Do most men? Also, yes. Do they progress as drastic as they should, no? But it's hard to argue that an average 18 year old is a better dating option than the average 30 year old man. In theat 12 year gap, there is noticeable improvement, especially finicially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.That's a major contributor, but you can't deny that b on average as a man, you've increased your stock just by time. When I was 18, I was making $7.75 an hour. I'm 31 now and I'm retired. Even if you took the biological clock out of the equation, I would be a more desirable option to my 18 counter part by default. Now I know the financial gap for most guys isn't that extreme, but I'll definitely argue that most men make more at 30+ than their 18 counter part. My point is, 30s for men get waaaay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Contrary to popular belief, I think meek, beta guy and dominant woman can create successful marriagesYou've "seen"them work, but do you know what goes behind closed doors. Every guy that I know that's in this dynamic is getting cuckholded, per their wife's drunk confessions. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 05:01 PM |
| 20 | CMV: Dating apps are becoming the only socially acceptable way to get a relationshipStop being a pussy and approach women you don't know. You win some, you lose some. This is life. Get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.That's pretty much what I'm saying, but shorter and simpler: so I have no counter argument on my end lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.A woman will want to be with a rich man, but if he's ugly, it doesn't mean she's magically wants to fuck him based off the premise he has sex appeal. She knows she has to fuck him (typically) to get access to his money, and be associated with his status. There's a BIG difference between the two. Regardless, an ugly man with money is more desirable than a man without money. So a 4/10 might now be an 8/10, but those 4 points aren't attributed to sex appeal. It's attributed to a lifestyle she other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Should paternity tests be mandatory?No. Don't be a pussy, get the test. If she's mad, let her be mad. Actually, if she's mad, she doesn't even value you, my guy. My wife has zero issue with taking one. On the flip side, there's 1st world countries that it's illegal. That shit isn't right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:16 PM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?You're purposely deflecting. Men, traditionally, were promiscuous before marriage compared to their female counter parts. A "man slut" isn't "None traditional" by any means. That's why you here in modern movements women saying "We're doing what the men do no" in relation to women sleeping around. To circle back around, a man can definitely get a traditional woman if he himself is a "man slut" (I'm just using your verbiage) do to the fact that being promiscuous as a man doesn't = none traditional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:36 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?You're missing my point. The point is they tend to overlook promiscuity in men. It doesn't hold the same weight when it comes to vetting. Men place a higher importance. You can 100% get away with being a man shut if your relationship with her is traditional. And if we're talking "tradition", traditional women are no strangers to marrying man sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:24 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?Lust and disre for a human being isn't synonymous. The hot whore aren't wife material. I highly doubt you don't understand that but a man will get the hottest wife that aligns with his values that he can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:21 AM |
| – | Why do red pill men dislike attractive women?Eh. I'm married to a traditional woman and we joke about me former hoe days all the time. My body count is so high, I genuinely don't know the number and I've been with my now wife for the past 7 years. The reality is, women care waaaaay less about a man's past if said man checks their boxes, brings ample value to the table, and carries himself well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 06:20 AM |
| 5 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?Personally, I'm all for people having high standards. My philosophy is reality will dictate if an individual standards are too high. Meaning you're not getting the results you desire because you're shooting too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 02:39 PM |
| 5 | To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men?Opposites attract. Women tend to want an experienced, competent man; preferably more so than herself. Men want the hottest option they can get, and there's a direct link to age in that category. Women tend to be at their peak, physically (in terms of their attractiveness) at younger ages. This is why the cosmetic industry is so fing huge. Another component is biology. Fertility decline and complications is a real thing. This is coming from a medical professional (Nurse Practitioner. Well... a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Is asking out a friend only going to ruin your friendship if you're not attractive?Depends ont he maturity level of both parties but I don't see why you'd be friends with someone you want to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menWomen don't like most things. Just live your life 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:17 PM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their willYea, they definitely will. I've had women try pulling off a woman I'm actively making out with. The reaction is always the same. Us telling the friend to go away 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?Men have been accepting far less for some time now. We're starting to see a small pushback and the world is having a hard time dealing with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatThat would be all good and dandy if we were in a survival of the fittest like atmosphere. We're not. A gun is a great equalizer, which is one of many weapons. The reality is, the ability to "protect" transcends biology with modern day human application. The most powerful men aren't those who are physical capable anymore. The one with the most control use their minds, money, and influence to control and protect what they deem important. This is coming from a guy who has good genes. I'm 6'4, broad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:57 PM |
| – | Would you be with someone who accuses you of cheating for no reason?Nope. I also won't be in a relationship that someone lacks the social awareness that certain situations can be perceived as cheating or more accurately, put themselves in situation that cheating has a higher probability by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadWe're talking about a specific social context, not one individual. I've never had issues socializing, nor am I lonely 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 04:30 PM |
| 11 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadThe world is digital. It's too late. If we eradicated video games off the face of the planet, nothing would change. Now If we got rid of smart phones and social media, then you'd have a leg to stand on. However, that will never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:54 PM |
| 0 | How do men and women do these chores?"Fell free to add on whatever applies to you". I was just answering the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:14 AM |
| 13 | How do men and women do these chores?I just pay people to do it for us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?If I find out she can't have kids after 5 years, I would pay for a surrogate. However, she'd have to be ok with that, otherwise it's a deal breaker Any pregnancy can be a headache, yes, but I'm not willingly signing up for a high probability headache. Basically, I'm ok with rolling with the punches but I'm not going to run straight into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:49 PM |
| -2 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?No. Of course not. Those are your words, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?At 40, I'm not going to want to have more kids. So in that hypothetical, I'm not taking any woman seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:07 AM |
| 3 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Anytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:04 AM |
| 4 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Physically, no. I legitimately find woman in their 60s attractive. Not many but there are some. That doesn't mean I'll commit to one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 05:03 AM |
| 0 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:59 AM |
| 4 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Main reason is biology and I mean that in the most literal way possible. If I'm dating someone seriously, my intent is marriage and children. That being said, I'll want atleast 5 years with that person before having kids Back tracking to me saying I'm being literal. I have my Doctorate in Nursing. So I'm confident in saying it's 100% possible to have kids later in life as a woman but that's one side of the coin. The other side is ugly in almost every single category. I prefer to skip that predic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:57 AM |
| -3 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?A drop in value isn't synonymous with no value. I met my wife when she was 22, and she's almost 30 now. She's still and alwaywill be the most valuable woman in my life. To play Devil's advocate, however, if I magically turned single today at the age of 31, I wouldn't take a woman seriously over the age of 25. So the age of when you meet and get into a relationship with a woman bears more relevance than her current age when the term "left over women" is used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:37 AM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.That's thing, that's not what happened. He literally gave her an hour and a half of his time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.His response wasn't rude. They met up for sex. She didn't want sex boundary was set). He asked her to leave as their intended purpose/reason for meeting became null and void (a boundary was set). It was established at the very beginning he/they didn't want anything but sex "We decided to meet for sex and keep it strictly to that-no strings attached". That's not even a FWB. FWB are still friends. They hangout, talk, know about each other's lives...ect. They were strictly fuck buddies and both par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:43 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.His response wasn't rude. They met up for sex. She didn't want sex (boundary was set). He asked her to leave as their intended purpose/reason for meeting became null and void (a boundary was set). It was established at the very beginning he/they didn't want anything but sex "We decided to meet for sex and keep it strictly to that-no strings attached". That's not even a FWB. FWB are still friends. They hangout, talk, know about each other's lives...ect. They were strictly fuck buddies and both pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:40 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.It's not rude. Lol. I've been asked to leave a woman's house before. It's her house. If she doesn't want me there, for any reason, it's her right. It's not rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 07:06 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.She's not a friend. She's not a FWB. Their fuck buddies. They meet, they have sex, and they part ways. There's zero attachment or relationship. If she switches up (which she has a right to) that's fine. However, the other party can ask that person to leave. They don't have to be tactful, nor are they morally obligated. This goes for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:25 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.Lack of coddling isn't rude. It's just not accommodating. It's neutral. He wasn't rude, forceful, or disrespectful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:07 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.I've done it on occasion. I wasn't rude or nice. Now often than not, those same women hit you back up for a booty call 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:04 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.Exactly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:44 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.The guy asked her to leave. It wasn't rude or overly nice. It's literally neutral. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:44 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.He didn't need to be charming. Lack of charm doesn't = asshole. What's more important was he wasn't forceful. He listened, talked, respected her wishes, and asked her to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:23 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.His communication was literally acceptable and none aggressive. He entertained conversation but eventually asked her to leave. She's a grown *** woman. There's no need to baby get as of she's a child. He wasn't even aggressive or rude in his approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:22 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.NTA. They made an agreement, get feelings changed but that's not his problem. He wasn't rude, he asked her to leave. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:19 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.The guy wasn't rude. He asked her to leave. It's neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itIdk. Lol. They're far and few between | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itSome claimed to be but I took it with a grain of salt. Women lie lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 04:03 AM |
| 2 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itNever said you couldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itYes, of course. People obsess over what they can't have but too much of a good thing in most context is detrimental. It's neither good for women or men (most that is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:29 AM |
| 4 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itI was actively apart of hookup culture. If I could go back, I wouldn't have participated. My rotation was 5 women a week and I subbed out 2 of them for a new woman each week. Not worth it in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men demand obedience over collaboration in a marriage?This issue with your entire statement is that you're saying it's either or (obedient or collaborative) when in reality, relationships can and in my opinion have a combination of both. That's what I have in my marriage and it works incredibly well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 02:45 AM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?They might or might not care for the particular interests. For an example, I love Taylor Swift but it won't stop me from making fun of someone who likes Taylor swift. The act of teasing is the emphasis vs the interests itself. I do agree that if you hand trouble attracting women, you don't really have the same luxurious with women but I'd argue time would be better spent making yourself more attractive, opposed to tiptoeing around a woman in any stage of relationship/courtship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:36 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?Regardless, none of this is relvant to my orginal response. The point was to answer the question on "why" she's experiencing what she's experiencing, not to to debate/draw up an efficient gameplan for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:26 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?I'm not a fan of switching up. Be yourself from the beginning. The way I treat my wife now is the same way I treated her the day we met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 12:11 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?I neither know, nor care what men on this thread are saying. Lol I'm not talking about them, specifically, as the average guy will be very different than he average reddit user. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 11:24 AM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?Men and women communicate differently. Your actual interests are irrelevant in this particular context. Men will "make fun of" anything and everything. It's default humor and more often than not, if he's not teasing, he either considers you painfully fragile or he simply doesn't want to be around you. In short, it's not even personal, and 9 out of 10 times, not only are we not being malicious, we're being endearing. I clown my wife 24/7. Lol. It doesn't matter what she's into, she's getting made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 11:00 AM |
| 0 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?I'm giving you enough credit that you're not that stupid. Anyway, I've given you (a loser who probably can't even get a date) enough of my time 🤣 Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?If she slept with you, it wouldn't be willing on her end. If that's the case I'd offer you a body bag instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderThe Red Pill highlights female loneliness and even make jokes like "Time to invest in chewy". Often, I see it's more women that deny this than men but I'm sure both parties can be guilty of it. Either way, I don't personally care. If a male or female is lonely, it's on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:28 PM |
| -2 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Texas. Come on down, you might have to stop using your hand 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:20 PM |
| -8 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?100% male. I got hella woman. Probably more in a year then you have in your lifetime. Now I'm married to a bombshell that's going to give me beautiful babies 🤷🏿♂️ If you suck at dating, it's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:13 PM |
| 0 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Dating is easy. Stupid easy. Be the best version of yourself, have aspects that appeal and cater to the sex you're attracted to, and date with intention. You beat 90%+ of the same sex you are. People are just lazy, stubborn, and have an ego that haven't earned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Male Behavior Toward Female Success is a Supporting Case For Hypergamy.Stop being fallacious, that has absolutely nothing to do with what I'm saying. Of course both sex cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Male Behavior Toward Female Success is a Supporting Case For Hypergamy.Research is giving a bias delivery, just like all these "pills" do. It doesn't reflect how women behave towards their male partners when they reach a certain level of success. I have married women in my DM (knowing I'm married myself) bluntly trying to cheat on their male partners because "They feel they put grown him" in turn, I bet they treat their husbands less than ideal at home. I've blown up a few marriages just by sending the husband's the screenshots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating successThe majority of people on this planet, man or woman will be enticed by the superficial, first. The rest comes later. Anytime I approached a woman, I never thought to myself "man. She has a fat personality". 10 out of 10 times, it was her looks. I didn't give af about her personality. During the dating process, that's when you get to learn if their personality was worth a damn or not. How a relationship starts isn't am indicator on how the relationship will continue. So when I flipped the script … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 15 | Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating successEffort in what context? You don't need to put in effort to court a woman. You just need to put in effort to be attractive. When I was single, I put all my effort into gym, career, and marketing myself on social media strategically. The end result was women approached me in-person and online. I no longer had to approach them myself. Literally focus on the superficial and woman will come to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:36 PM |
| – | The wall does exist but there are misconceptionsOver exaggeration on your take. Your quote "She can't physically attract a man after 30" isn't the foundation of the concept of "The Wall". It's the diminished ability to obtain a man of quality and be less sexually desirable in comparison to her youth. It's commononly agreed upon that women of virtually of any age can get sex whenever they want. The wall is in reference of diminished value of being a long-term candidate for monogamous relationships. This stage a woman will also see a decline in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?Yea, I would. My mom wad the woman men wanted to be with and my dad was the tall, athletic, intelligent scholar with everything going for him. All this in the confinement of a small town. They would have found each other, regardless lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | men need to stop projecting and understand/accept that women’s sexuality will never be the same as theirsThe only context I can think of from your comment is the ability to get women. If that's the case, women give the worse, hot dog water dating advice. It's genuinely laughable. 9 out of 10 times, the only credible source of knowing how to get a woman is an who actually gets a lot of women. Why? Experience and the knowledge of truly knowing how women tic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:57 PM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?I've seen a general rise of men transforming fron SIMP to no longer being pushovers. I wouldn't call then resentful, they're just playing the game better now. What I've seen this the most, actually, is on the younger generation. These young dudes aren't playing that ish and it's a beautiful sight to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | men need to stop projecting and understand/accept that women’s sexuality will never be the same as theirsThis is a human thing. Women are equally as guilty of this. This stem from people not being able to truly understand that others are wired differently from them. I would argue that there are more men understand the differences between the sexes than women. Usually it's younger men who are still confused. Women will go a whole lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 01:49 PM |
| – | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %It's not that complicated. Eat in a caloric deficit and move more. You'll lose weight, testosterone will increase. Now eat slightly above maintenance and lift heavy ish. You'll gain muscle and increase your testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 12:56 PM |
| – | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Body fat percentage plays a huge role in attractiveness for men and women. I travel alot but I'm a United States native. At face value, women in foreign countries seem far more attractive than American women but the reality is, the women are just overweight/obese in my country. So yea, those leaner men were more attractive. Weight matters. Man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?I want people to get what they deserve, man or woman. My motto is, the only unrealistic standards a person can have are standards that doesn't match their desired outcome. Since we're talking about women, specifically, I'll focus on them. Scenario #1- If a woman is aging herself out of the dating market due to her standards, that's on her. She can cry to tiktok, pop one prozac a day, constantly poison herself with alcohol on the weekends under the disguise of "having fun"... ect. Makes me no dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ?It has to happen frequently and both parties actually have to be into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesI picked an amazing woman. My dream woman (which I stated) both physically and mentally. That's not the point that I'm making. Actually, my entire response was centered around that the woman herself is irrelevant, it's the LEGALITY that's scary, not the settling itself that men are afraid. It's abundantly obvious you're using the all but 3 brain cells you have to respond to just respond, opposed to taking a spec of time to understand and give meaningful responses. I would say "sorry" but I'm not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesDid you read my comment. I stated I have one. Well... technically two but prenup get thrown out all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesFalse. Men are afraid to settle because of marriage laws. This is coming from a married man that risked it (with prenuptials). I got my dream woman to the letter, which was virtually statically impossible. Pulling the trigger to settle down was still a mental fck. I lost sleep over, was sweating, had heart-to-heart with my boys, family... ect. Nothing is scarier then building yourself up, acquiring assets, and one day, you're woman can up and leave and take your ish. Her leaving isn't scary, it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?No. That doesn't fall under the definition of predatory, nor is 1 night stands or casual flings is said person "partner". This is all word vomit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:59 PM |
| 3 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It doesn't matter what we "believe" as a belief doesn't have to be factual. It's not predatory. They're not being exploited or oppressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 12:32 AM |
| 4 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?Nope. Women are consenting adults. They're perfectly capable of saying no and subsequently dropping their value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceFfs that's not my point lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceYou're not refuting my argument. I'm simply saying she'll leave your ass if you don't have money. That attraction will not Trump your pockets in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experience"Both results are the same" that's an end result. You're full of 💩. One of these no kitty getting dudes that blames everything on female nature, opposed to taking accountability for their inadequacies. I neither have the time, nor patience for your kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceWhat part of "end result" you don't understand. I'm not saying there isn't a process be the RESULT will be her leaving him (hot or ugly) if he stays broke. Marriage is a perfect example. It's literally the biggest deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceThe homeless guy from Tinder is an anomaly of an anomaly and now way indicative of am accurate representation of hot guys. In realistic application, hot or ugly, women aren't going to stick around with a guy with no money. You're just being hella disenguous at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceBut the results are the same if either guy doesn't have money lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?There's not a good reason not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?These would be two different accusations, thus the frequency would different. A false sexxual harassment claim is a easier claim to make/throw around compared to a false sexual assult claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 02:11 AM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical advicePoint 1. No. It has not. Point 2. Has nothing to do with being horny Point 3. Not up for debate. You're objectively not. Point 4. Biology, A&P, and development that follows from physical and mental standpoint will dictates who you are above almost anything. Human beings are painfully predictable just knowing a small amount of information about them. Most people like to think they're this free, independent thinker which is just false. Point 5. Don't care. It's religion. You can make whatever accu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:00 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceI'm not calling you stupid, just ignorant, and I mean that in a literal sense, not as a derogatory remark. Development is science, not opinion or belief oriented. You're literally not fully cooked yet. When I mentioned your brain being underdeveloped, I'm not calling you stupid. When I mentioned hormonal changes, I'm not downplaying you. When I mentioned environmental changes/experiences, that conxept alone objectively affects you to your core. I understand these concepts alot deeper than most a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:57 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceThat's fine. You're 20. I don't expect you to have that level of insight, understanding, or comprehension. I'm not placing that expectation on you, nor do I have the patience to wait 9 years to say "I told you so". Lol. Just keep living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:32 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceIt doesn't matter what you want. You'll literally be a different person, for better or worse. Your brain isn't done developing, your hormone balance will change to a significant degree (Both control centers of the body), and time molds a person mentally & genetically based off experiences. A combination of nature and nurture will mold you, just like it has for every human being that has ever existed. You're not special in that regards. A person can have the same core values throughout their life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:52 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceYou're 20. You just started your 20s. You'll be a different person at 25 compared to 20. A different person at 29 compared to 20. The phrase is 20s, not a 20 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?I've never visited a sex worker but in all honestly, I don't see much of a difference in dates that were casual hookups. I'm paying for all the activities and sex is what came next. You're paying for it either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:52 PM |
| – | Pick-up artistry is faking emotional connection to get casual sexEnough of this. Women aren't this dumb, intellectually inferior creatures that are being preyed on by pickup artist. I would told about 80% of women that I dated, bluntly, that I didn't want anything serious. I told a good majority of them that wpuld try to see if there could be more (after the initial disclaimer) "I only want you for your body" and they would still keep having sex with me. Women are more selective than men when it comes to sex but doesn't mean they don't enjoy sex/are just as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 12:22 PM |
| – | When we talk about the "average" person - realize you're talking about a 50 year oldThis is not one of those "differences". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:34 AM |
| – | When we talk about the "average" person - realize you're talking about a 50 year oldNo. It's not. You're saying it's different for men but the concept is the same. Two consenting adults. Nothing more, nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:00 AM |
| – | When we talk about the "average" person - realize you're talking about a 50 year oldNo. It's literally fine. I'm a 30 m and I dated a 45 year old woman when I was 21 and nobody cared. We were two consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsI'm just using the phrase. I'm not trying to start a rap career lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 07:00 PM |
| 5 | I feel like the red pill teaches the right things for the wrong reasonsRed Pill emphasis intersexual dynamics and self-progression. They don't have all day to cover every angle. There's riches in niches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 01:48 AM |
| -1 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Easy choice. The 21 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 7 | Bullying women to lower their standardsThe reality is, most people marry in their range, and most people are fcking average. By definition. If you're reading this, you're most likely average. Average people date average people. If you're average, dating someone well above average, you're sharing them. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?I tire of morons who automatically assume that correlation = causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:08 PM |
| 19 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?In this order: 1. Easy access to contraceptives 2. Life is expensive 3. Men and women can't get along. Women play their part but it's disenguous to say they're the sole reason. Edit. I have no idea why that's showing in bold letters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.Like I said, you vet for whatever you want. I require a woman of substance but I don't require a woman with money. These two things aren't synonymous. If I don't have enough money on my own to put a roof over my head and meet my basics needs, I wouldn't even attempt to get into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:40 AM |
| 3 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.Most people have to work but that doesn't mean they're making a lot of money. How much money they're making doesn't equate if that person does or does not have substances. One of the most beautiful souls I've dated was a missionary. She got paid next to nothing but she traveled via her church, helping people across the world. Her lack of money didn't disqualify her to me. One of the funniest, quirky, passionate women I ever dated worked at a plant shop because well... she loved plants. Her lack … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.Nah. I'm not responsible for your assumption. I require someone of substance but not caring how much someone makes isn't synonymous with dating a 10 out of 10, gold digging bumb. The worth I see in people isn't monetary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 4 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.I don't know anything about those men. I require a woman of substances but how much she makes doesn't fall into the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.I clarified in my post that even when I was broke, I didn't care. I never have, never will. That's just me. You and your friends are entitled to look for whatever qualities y'all want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:54 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It's reasonable to want your partner to be "on your level" financially.She's more than welcome to require whatever standards she wants. I (30m) never even thought of the idea of picking a SO based off of their income, even when I was broke. To would have virtually zero dating options now if I had the same stipulation, requiring someone to be relative to my income. I make too much. It would be almost everyone but if I date a woman who makes her own money, I'm indifferent about it. I don't hold it against her, nor does it give her brownie points. I always looked for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to keep wife sexually attracted? Are these things true?Have time apart, stay fit, learn to say "no" and mean it. Fundamentally, she needs to know if she every crosses a boundary, her *** is out the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | 70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men areNot by a substantial margin. There's a 6 year gap at most and that's raw numbers. Married men live longer than their unmarried counterparts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman?Do boyfriend type shit for them and they'll make you your "friend". Basically, almost always, male and female friendships are subpar at best. The nature of extracting resources from men isn't limited to sexual relationships. Women typically take from male friendships too. Someone to dump emotional bandwith to, get free food, someone to help them build furniture they don't want to put brain power towards and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalLazy. You're making a claim without substantiated it, which is the primary point of CMV. Might as well left the text blank. Weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:36 AM |
| 28 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalYou haven't given anything of substances to back up your claims. No examples, proof, generally accepted knowledge. There's nothing to "refute" here as there's not a single premise that isn't a generic, non description opinion. If you're going to make a claim, at least present a solid case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:28 AM |
| 8 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenHaving kids never has and never was primarily suppose to be a "benefit". They're a sacrifice across the board, for everyone, including none parents lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I'm not red pill. So it's not really a rebuttal to what I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:03 AM |
| – | Today society is PERFECT for menNothing I said has to do with entitlement, nor does it even imply that women are sex toys. The only pathetic thing here is your reading skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:38 AM |
| 9 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.They're equally delusional. Men love with less stipulations but there's still conditions placed on their love. The issue is people aren't using the right words. They can't articulate their thoughts, let alone communicate an accurate message/statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:45 PM |
| 30 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.I just think you're under the illusion that love is unconditional. For men and women, there will be a condition to love. That doesn't mean said party doesn't love their partner. This is why it's important for a person (man or woman) to continue to being the best version of themselves and actively reinvest back into the relationship. Nobody will simply love you for you. Conditions have to be met, thus is the nature of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?Cause they're rich and have clout 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Today society is PERFECT for menClassic example you don't understand the male experience, not even remotely. For an example, you stated the average man can get on Tinder and essentially get sex in demand via swiping. Out of 100% users on Tinder, 85% are male. On top of that, most male accounts will be buried under the algorithm. Then when they're actually shown to women, women swipe no more than 80%+ of the time. Casual sex is encouraged, sure but only a small portion of men are getting casual sex. Run an experiment. Get some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Absolutely. I was a dick. I own up to it. Lol. Her eyes are weird. I want to say blue but depends how the light hits they look green or maybe a combination of both. Idk hot to explain it. Oh yea, our personalities sync together very well. We're very different people but we have the same fundamental desires in life. It's a combo that works well for us. Yea, they're real. Later in life we might get her a reduction or maybe implants because her back pain will probably get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?When I say I was dick, it was a bit more than being unavailable. It was a strong "my way or the highway" attitude, combined with me going out of the way to display I do not value your opinion or how you feel. I'll give an example. I was dating a woman. We always had sex when meeting up. One night she communicated she wasn't in the mood, that she feelt bad we had sex so frequently but we weren't in a relationship. It was hard for her to see herself continuing to have sex without one. I said "That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?I'm 30m. I'd pick the 5/10 woman because: -I'm a heterosexual male that's attracted to the average woman and up and 5 is average. My brain doesn't place a stigma on the word "average" like most people do. I don't care how hot a woman is, I do not tolerate crazy/disrespectful manner at any stage of a relationship, even casual. -A nurturing characteristic is one of the requirements I have on a relationship. All-in-all with the options you gave, the answer choice is easy. As for my wife, sure! I'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Why is the sub have at least some men telling women what they are attracted to?Men care about what women do, not what they say they want. When I was single, I was dick. As-in I'd intentionally be a dick, despite my nature of being kind because being a dick yield better results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:49 PM |
| -1 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menWho cares? If women want to live their life paranoid, and demonizing a demographic that would protect them from the monsters, and subsequently incentives them to simply mind their buisness, even if they're in trouble. Let them. It's not our problem 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Disparity between male and female age gap relationshipsMen are simply more appreciative for having the dynamic. Women like to demonize when the relationship doesn't go their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?Sex with th 50 year old. Commitment to the fat 20 year old. Just playing Devil's advocate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 12 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?The "issue" and I use that word loosely because if you're failing in the dating game (man or woman) you're the problem. You're the failure and it's not whatever you're attracted to fault but the main "issue" is that relationships in western society lack incentive on both ends to commit. Women can legally rob you, monkey branch, have their ex husband finicial support them financially and get the next sucker to float their lifestyle as well. So there's a built-in reward mechanism (legally) to leav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeThese podcast are breaking people's brain. It's almost like you've never socialized, ever, nor had an orginal thought of your own. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:01 PM |
| 6 | What exactly should one change or improve upon if they're called "too nice" as a negative?You don't need to "change" your nice nature, you just need to add more to your arsenal that stands out. You're like unseasoned chicken to both men and women alike if the primary adjective to describe you is nice 🤣 Become more dominate of a personality, get in the gym, have an interesting job or career or have some sort of consistent adventure in your life that's tied to your personality that people will associate you with. There's no issue with being nice. You will have social issues if you lack… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Men dont NEED casual sexLol at the very least, it was my anecdotal experience. It got to the point that I realized my personality was virtually irrelevant. Being in-shape and having money = winning the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Men dont NEED casual sexUp until 19, I was obese. We're talking 300 pounds plus. That's relvant because I naturally have the social & comedic skills the cliche fat kid uses to over compensate for physical Inadequacies. But I lost the fat and gained muscle. I went from the obese funny guy to the tall (6'4), jacked, tall dark and handsome archetype and my funny factor magically became "charming". Go figure. So being tall, in shape, and payed ( at the time I was dating my wife, I was making 81k), it was easy for me. Stupi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men dont NEED casual sexIt was easy for me. I'm not saying it's easy for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:02 AM |
| 11 | Men dont NEED casual sexI'm married, but when I was single, casual sex was easy for me to get. However, when people compare one problem with a more severe problem, that's just being disenguous. The reality is, the only relevant issues to individuals are ones they deem important. The whole comparing one problem vs another is never ending. For an example, the phone I'm using is literally built off of slave labor. Actually, child slave labor too and I literally don't give af. Everyone reading this with a smart phone share… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV : Game is just harnessing the anxiety of insecure women to make them chase your for validation for a bitGame creates attraction, as in by definition. Attraction definition- The action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, liking for someone or something. As for the "why" someone is attracted to you, the "why" is irrelevant in l-context of deciding if they are attracted to you or not. I'm 6'4 and I've been on plenty of dates with women who bluntly said "I only date guys over 6 ft" and plenty women I went out with were attracted to me. Using your logic, they're not really attracted to me, they're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Bahahaha. 1st, who the actual fck gets into a relationship as an experment? Second, how is any of that "pick me"? Sound like you were nice to guy, didn't use him as a wallet, and had sex like adults do. Is this what women consider pick me? That's bare minimum treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 12:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.It all depends on the person. People are going to judge your anyway, so what's best for you. I could never be a step-dad, but I don't speak for all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthOnce again, you're being fallacious (false dilemma fallacy). Not only is guy 1, 2, & 3 you mentioned not the the 3 only options, they're not even the top 3 most common. I'm neither 1, 2, or 3. And to clarifying, guy 1&2 literally isn't applicable to the conversation. Just how disenguous do plan on being? You're adding a pile of 💩 to the conversation that's not applicable. We're talking about moments of weakness when someone expresses themselves in a vulnerable state. You know what? Further conve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthYour conflating instances with habits again. My point is on instances, only, not habits. Habits has no place in this conversation. If you want to emphasis habits, emphasis it with someone else becomes it's not a concept that adds or takes away from my argument, and I have zero interest in it. Habit vs instances isn't ambiguous. There's set definition that one can read if they get confused. Also, your assumption game is strong. How you describe my wife is 100% false. Either way, that has noting t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthWho said anything about "constantly"? We're talking about moments, not constant hibitual traits. A habit vs having a moment aren't the same. You can combine them, sure, but that's a different conversation. That being said, my point is for most women, their tolerance is far lower than they think. It's even low enough that the risk to reward makes no sense for us to vent to y'all, which is why most men won't. Reality have consistently shown that there's more downside than upside for us. The proof … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthI have more time to respond, so I'm going to add mor to the conversation This conversation is turning extremely disingenuous, almost steering the conversation to something entirely different. Actually, it's fallacious in nature (false dilemma) and I'll explain but first I'll say, scenario 1 and 2 presented does not fit in the context of my argument. I'm talking about men being emotionally vulnerable. As-in the act of actually being emotionally vulnerable. Not someone being reserved, nor someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthI'll change my verbiage. Most women, as in bare minimum more than 50%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthI literally have no idea what you're talking about lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 6 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthThat's for you personally. Guy 3 will turn plenty of women off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 16 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthIt's almost like they're a human being struggling. Ick lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:20 AM |
| 38 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthI honestly don't blame women for their innate, biological response. I'm assuming that's what the "ICK" is. I always tell guys, not only are you doing yourself a favor by not being vulnerable with your woman, you're doing her a favor too. You know how there's concepts of a person/group of people not wanting to do an activity, but they'll verbalize that they do: but in reality, they just didn't want to be told they couldn't. That essentially applies here. Women think they want their men to open up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:19 AM |
| 2 | The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling”All you're doing is jumping to conclusions by stating the obvious with your "you should know". That information isn't evident that Jonah is an abuser. Knowing how a process works doesn't mean you get to slap someone with a label that objectively doesn't fit the mold (with the "proof" provided). There's a degree of frequency and severity that has to be established, neither are present just from the screenshot she shared. What we have here is a classic Texas Sharp shooter fallacy. Building an agen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?I wouldn't date anyone that wears revealing clothing, but my wife is a gym girl, and that was one of the main reasons I dated her. So my opinion of them is high, because I respect that dedication. However, revealing clothing and attitudes for any archetype is a smash only girl for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveNo matter what side of the coin you're on, can we stop making arguments centered around one example pertaining to a conglomerate of behavioral trends? No matter what subject we're talking about, especially with relationships, there's outliers to everything. I'm not even picking on you specifically, but taking one example and using it as a representation of billions is a Texas Sharp shooter fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:22 PM |
| 2 | The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling”The definition of boundaries can be applied in many context, but the raw definition is "a limit of a subject or sphere of activity" or "a line that marks a limit of an area". Boundaries can be internal, external, physical or conceptual and Jonah boundaries (not coercive control) were perfectly reasonable. Every relationship, regardless if it's romantic, professional, or simple friendships will have an amendment to behavior and each party needs to communicate what those are. For an example, I'm m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:44 PM |
| 12 | The Jonah Hill discourse is a display of many men not knowing the difference between “boundary” and “controlling”Every single boundary stated in that text is 100% reasonable. Even if the recipient disagrees with a view points, they're literally not being controlled. This isn't even debatable. It doesn't fall under the definition of controlling. In a clear and concise manner, Jonah laid out his boundaries and gave her a CHOICE. That's the polar opposite of controlling. This is a perfect example of an entitled generation conflating boundaries with controlling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:25 PM |
| – | 2 years of online dating. Here are the things I've learned about womenBig facts on the plausible deniability but after you have sex the first time, you don't have to play the same game. You can explicitly state you want a booty call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?You don't date those women. I agree with the statement with the general application that women lie, manipulate, gaslight... ect. Those women are smash and dash only. When you find a woman worth a damn, that's who you take seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.I don't see the theme you're claiming. A person can have all the bullet points you're mentioning, and still be "lonely" if they don't have a significant other to come home to. It's a BIG part/desire of being human that's innate and definitely can leave a void in your life. I'm just not seeing the mentality that people are expecting their significant other to be there everything like you're claiming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:47 PM |
| – | Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle.Nothing you said is remotely close to misogynistic. You're abusing that word. Misogynistic definition- feeling, showing, or characterized by hatred of or prejudice towards women. Putting yourself, not being clingy, and being willing to walk away is objectively not misogynistic. You're calling it misogynistic. You're calling shitty. Neither are true. There's nothing wrong with a man deploying tactics morally sound tactics in social situations that benefit. Men and women do alike and it's fine. Ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:28 PM |
| 15 | CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsulePerfect example that people perceive algorithmic bubbles, fortified the best of the best a person has to display as "real life". Of course you're seeing attractive people post. It's systematically intentional by these plateforms. The people posting post their best, so their ups, opposed of the downs. People like yourself conflate this with "normal" and base their entire reality off of it. And this is why social media is detrimental. If you walk outside, travel, and pay attention to surrounding a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 17 | Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle.There's manipulation tatics, sure, but it's not the focal point of redpill; it's just what you're emphasizing and focusing on. It's not even needed. Don't put her on a pedestal, stop texting/calling so much, put yourself first; dont tolerate bad behavior, and be willing to walk away. It's not like these guys are deploying advanced psychology techniques or even doing anything immoral. It's just giving yourself better social leverage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 02:41 AM |
| 35 | Most dating advice directed at men is about being as generically attractive as possible. This has a lot to do with why many struggle.When I read this, it fortifies they woman genuinely don't grasp there's very little "middle class" for women. You're either a dude that gets with women and have an abundance of success or you get almost if not zero play. Hitting superficial metrics is the way to go. More accurately, it's your ticket to get to play the game at all. I'm 30, married, and I've been with my wife for 6 years now. When I was younger, there wasn't redpill, this pill, that pill... ect. Actually, I'm sure these communitie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 12:25 AM |
| -3 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.She has to be attractive though. If she's hot, then yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 12:21 PM |
| 7 | Is there even a right way to express vulnerability and self doubt with women?Just don't. It's almost never worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?From personal experience, if you have your ish together, they're all easy. Young, peer, or older. It doesn't matter. I do find it funny with accusations such as being a predator, wanting to manipulate, can't get a woman your own age... ect. It's all people projecting with a bias against men. Nobody said ish when I was 20, dating a woman 20 years older than me. It's just society complaining. Their opinions are irrelevant. Clap younger cheeks if you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 10 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingNah. You're pulling a red hearing fallacy, picking one sub-subject (and purposely misrepresenting it) and ignoring the many premises of my argument, trying to shift the conversation into something it's not. I explicited stated there's suddle but blunt high frequency, socially accepted hateful acts women partake in a regular bases that is met with again acceptance, indifference, and or praise. Then I gave one example for context to lead into my main argument. I never said men aren't more violent.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:29 AM |
| 16 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingYou're straying away from my argument. Actually, you're turning the argument into something differently entirely. Which is falcious af. I'll indulge just because I have the time. Most killers are men. Most people killed by other people are men. The majority of violence as a whole, men are recipients. This has nothing to do with hatred inside the dating market, nor is murder socially accepted. You're also conflating severity with frequency, which isn't synonymous. Now. Get back to the actual argu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:06 AM |
| 12 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingThere's an equal amount of hate, and if I had to pick, I say women take the cake and does so easily. There's plenty of negative, hateful behaviors women habe toward men that are genuinely socially accepted and fortified. There's a sense of numbness, and indifference making it "not a big deal" but hate is hate. Heck! Even the phrase "Omg. I hate men" it's typically praised when verbally expressed. Anyway, I'll agree that it's not healthy to hate either sex, but the only way it'll impair dating pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?Family only, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Stop comparing yourselves to men who are better than youThat's literally competition! He's undercutting the competitor! It doesn't matter what you believe should or should not happen, the reality is it's competition. My mentality is a reflection of what actually happens. I don't have to live in fantasy land. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Stop comparing yourselves to men who are better than youHuman beings aren't the only humanoid species that have existed, and human beings aren't a by-product of those humanoids species sharing DNA. We wiped them off the face of the earth. Aka competition. Inside of our own species, I never said cooperation isn't also important, but competition can be found at every single level of life, imcluding collaboration. To cooperate, you have to be competitive and useful for said niche. Truck drivers have to compete for jobs and business. Power companies have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Stop comparing yourselves to men who are better than youSubpar take. Life is competition. Objectively, right down to the microscopic level. It's a competition for resources, and inferior specimens are bound to be prematurely eliminated. This is history. This is biology. This is life. If you're genuinely below average in ever aspect of life, you're going to have a below average life. So start comparing and GET BETTER. Evolve like every other relvant creature before you, and stop using lame 1st world philosophies that you can only afford to have beco6t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.If you're in a relationship, you're settling and settling down. This is English lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 0 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Not really. Certainly not like you're implying. Definitions from Webster: Settling Down- to begin to live a quiet and steady life by getting a regular job, getting married, ect. Settling- To come to an agreement or decision concerning the details of. Settling down is for the context for relationships, but you're also doing plenty of "Settling" in that process because two people need to be on the same page for a marriage/relationship to work. Everyone settles. Everyone settles down. These aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 04:45 PM |
| -1 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.Although I agree with your statement, I'll openly admit I'm the exception. I'm married now, but when I was single, if I wasn't able to get into her pants in the first 4 hours of a 1st date, I'd just end the date and talk to someone else. More often than not, I was successful. I would say I had like an 80% success rate give or take. Ironically enough, my wife was an exception. It took like 4 to 5 dates to bed her, which is extremely long for me. If she wasn't a unicorn (using that word as a place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 7 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.People take "settle" out of context. The word is stigmatized. Doesn't matter if your with your dream person or someone that ranks below you, you're literally "settling" down together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:39 PM |
| 15 | Do men like plus size women?Fear of rejection. If she's not as hot, she's easier to approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:57 PM |
| 36 | Do men like plus size women?When given a choice, most men are going to pick a woman that's in shape. The keyword is choice. If his choices are limited, he'll take what he can get and just v learn to appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - How would you advise your daughters to navigate the dating scene?I would take a step back and talk about the concept of dating, first, before addressing this guy specifically. I'd ask her what are her goals for dating/life in the long-run because those two factors go hand-in-hand. For an example, if she wants to play the field for the rest of her life vs wanting to start a family, those are two different conversations, but for the sake of argument let's say her end goal is marriage and children. I'd let her know she has the most leverage the younger she is. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceI'm going to structure my response in a painfully textbook manner. I might sound robotic- Almost but first I'd like to note this. It would do you a bit of Justice to take a critical thinking class to better present your arguments. Premise number Number 1- Women Hyper sensitivity to social awkwardness is not rooted in survival instinct. Premise number 2- Their privilege is the root cause. Conclusion- Therefore, it can't be concluded privilege and abundance is the only real reason women are intole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:22 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolWe understand, but more importantly, we don't care. We don't care due to just because someone makes the claim that the age preference is due to a fetish, it doesn't make it true. Actually the association to school isn't even relevant. It's not attach to the desire. The desire for most is strictly a subconscious, biological mechanism. So let people complain, their opinions aren't even relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:02 PM |
| 9 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?Subjective. Nothing more nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Gotcha. I'm married now, so that wouldn't be a good idea. Lol To play Devil's advocate, I wouldn't. I have a certain imagine that I portray online, and thirst traps would be detrimental to my professional image. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Most men won't fit into that category, objectively. My argument isn't what "could" work but what method is the most practical for most men. Thirst traps for most men doesn't yield postive results the majority of the time. At the very least, it's a waste of time compared to other things that work better. This is why you don't see as many thirst traps by men in comparison to women. If it worked for most men, most men would do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 3 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Most men won't fit into that category, objectively. My argument isn't what "could" work but what method is the most practical for most men. Thirst traps for most men doesn't yield postive results the majority of the time. At the very least, it's a waste of time compared to other things that work better. This is why you don't see as many thirst traps by men in comparison to women. If it worked for most men, most men would do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?The post is about "men" and seeing how there's more men that are overweight (in my country and progressively becoming everywhere) it's a good idea for men as a whole to just keeps their shirts on 🤣 Of course, I'd advocate getting in the gym instead but I'm looking at what is vs what I believe people should do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:20 PM |
| 3 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Facebook, Instagram, snapchat, and dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:44 PM |
| 10 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?I've done it. It's a waste of time. Again, men will do that yields the best results and thirst traps aren't it. This is coming from someone that ticks things like height, muscles, attractive face... ect. On top of that, the last thing you want to be known as is the dude posting shirtless/provactive photos all the time. You're signaling that's all you have to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:25 PM |
| 44 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?If the goal is to get female attention/opportunities, thirst traps are far less affective than flaunting success and or money. If thirst traps were efficent for men, they would do so. Men will adapt to whatever gets them laid, and thirst traps aren't the route to least resistance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?AA = African American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:07 PM |
| -1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?Learn to dance. It's soooooo easy to get women when y'all match up on the dance floor, you broke the touch barrier, and you're having fun. Also, learn to "hunt" in packs. The most attractive guy of your group, preferably someone who is over the top hot, use this guy as bait for women. I'm attractive but I'm a type. I'm 6'4 AA that's in shape, but when I use to go to bars and clubs, my best friend looked like a more muscular David Beckham. For shits and giggles, we use to see who could get the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:55 PM |
| 23 | Should men be friends or even partners with women who claim to hate men?I don't associate with these women unless I have to, like a professional setting. Even then, the communication is concise, to the point, and borderline robotic. I owe these women nothing. I genuinely don't care how they feel. I have no intentions in accommodating them in any fashion. This attitude of mine has cost me nothing, but it has cost some women in my anecdotal experience alot of money because I'll either won't do business with them, or they don't get the same bare minimum treatment as ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys aren’t really that niceI have no idea what you mean, but to be completely honest, I don't care. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Nice guys aren’t really that niceI understand. Women and men are polar opposites in that regards. That's why I emphasized "as a man". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Sexy selfies on IG more empowering? Or more self-objectifying?There's zero empowerment. People that believe it's empowering via participating genuinely have nothing to them/going on for their life. By default, it's more self-objectifying for provocative photos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:55 AM |
| 6 | Nice guys aren’t really that niceI would hate that for my existence as a man. Lol. Not being good enough for casual sex, but being picked solely solely for relationships/marriage? I'd rather stay single 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.The verbiage is off. Lol. I had less success when I left that phase, but I didn't care. The trade-off wasn't worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.I disagree it's hyperbole. It genuinely works. A person not liking something isn't synonymous with not seeking something out. I don't know a single guy that had a "I'm a dick phase" and it didn't yield better results on getting women. That being said, it's not a phase that makes you feel good or fulfilled, so it's usually short lived. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Perplexed by some men's insistence that, societal conventions about treating romantic interests with respect caused their lack of romance/sex and subverting that by not caring about them is the way.I had a period in life that I was a dick to women. Well not just women, but everyone, and I was drowning in tail. So there Merritt to their stance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Is the "you can have it all" narrative actually doing women more harm than good?Overly optimistic, for sure. I'm married, so I haven't thought about this for some time but I'm young to play devils advocate. I'm a 30m, that's established in life. Let's go into a dream world and lets say I'm single. I wouldn't even consider a woman 28 or older as a viable dating option for marriage. As I get older, that number wouldn't change. And this isn't even personal attack. I need an x amount if time dating a woman before popping the question, and then having kids with her. Realisticall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Nursing was my first stable income. I got my masters. It's a great career, high in demand, and if you're willing to travel, you can make big bucks. I'm not a nurse anymore, however. I have a buisness that I put roughly 4 hours a week into, and I love off of primarily passive income. I still love the world of nursing though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?I make sure to have my ducks in a row. The lifestyle I want, I can float with my incomes (I have multiple). I have zero expectations that anyone needs to come in and contribute an additional income source. The reality is, there's very few people that I could date that their income contribution would even have an substantial impact on my life. But even when I was poor, and I wasn't where I wanted to be financially; I was waaaaaaay to busy on my grind to entertain a serious relationship. I had big… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 12:01 PM |
| 7 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Never have, never will. Like... it literally does not compute in my brain that a person's career makes them more attractive. I don't mind a woman that places importance on her career, but if it's one of the most important pieces of her life, then there's a solid chance I won't be interested in anything long-term. Dating those women short-term is usually a fantastic experience, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: would you enter a marriage where finances were not mingled and costs were split 50/50?Too transactional. Takes the shred of organic feeling out of the relationship. A dual represented prenup will suffice. Nickle and diming everything, I'd rather stay single (I'm married). As for working, I genuinely don't care if my wife does or does not work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you enter a marriage where finances were not mingled and costs were split 50/50?No. Waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughThe friendzone is a thing because those guys are too much of a wuss to literally stop talking her. Move on. She's not interested and you want something different. It's not that complicated. Ironically enough, if more guys did this, women would take men more seriously as male attention wouldn't be so easily accessible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.Playing devils advocate, I'd marry someone that works at burger king. No matter how much money I did or did not make, I never cared how much the women I dated made. My wife had a trade when we first started dating, but we're married now, and during that marriage is when I started making big money. Now she doesn't work because she doesn't have to, and I don't mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.You do you. I'm married and make more money in a month than most people will make in a year. Objectively that is. Men with money understand if you attract with cheddar, you're going to get rats. 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.That's a plus, for me. The point of a date is to get to know each other. Not play "do everything in my power to impress this person". If her mindset is that skewed, I don't want her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.I purposely planned low effort dates in the beginning stages of dating. One of the best daying tweaks I ever made. There was literally zero downside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Guys who try and have sex quickly with women (first date), is it because you already ruled them out as gf material?Your theory has no merrit. I'm married now, but I went for sex quick because that's what I wanted. A lot women personalities weren't tge time and effort without sex. I know, shocker. Also, as an experienced man, having sex with her on the first date isn't what disqualifies a woman for a relationship. It's how she behaves after you've had sex is the make or break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Porn and sex robots are unlikely to ever replace biological women for heterosexual sexSexual robots will be the option for men that can't get women, which is most men. That being said, most social leverage women have wpuld also dissappear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 27 | Is Fresh and Fit over? Is the Red pill movement taking another loss? Is Aba and Preach going to make a video soon?This feels like a female gossip blog. If they're still on YouTube, racking up views, and making millions; then FNF are not "over". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:12 AM |
| – | Rant: Men on here have not touched grass in their life.What a waste of time, but you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Would someone's family make you dislike the person or reconsider them as a partner?I don't care. I don't even need to be defended. There's no title a person can hold that I'd allow disrespect. I don't beat around the bush. I'm direct, and have no issue telling a family to go **** themselves 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Western women, globally, are considered the least desirable women. American women being at the very bottom. This isn't me throwing shots, that's just where they rank. You're not going to get a lot of men from other countries dying to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:09 AM |
| 7 | What effect do you think video games are having on male dating and mental health?Zero. The issue isn't one particular hobby, it's a combination of their personality type & the dating market itself. If they didn't have video games to distract themselves, it would be something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Where's the insentive for a woman to have low body count?People will take what they can get aka rhe best option on the table. Most women will end up with an average guy or be shared by a high value guy. Very few women will have a high value guy for themselves. The caveat to that, the women that get high value guys to themselves, the overwhelming majority were with that guy prior to him living up to his potential. As for the average guy, if the average woman has a body count to the moon; he only has a handful of options. Level up, so he can attract a h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desiresEnglish speakers don't even English, bro. Obsessed and many other words are applied incorrectly all the time. I'd argue most people don't understand the severity of obsession, and conflate the word with having an interest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 12:16 PM |
| 7 | How safe is it for a guy to get black out drunk in presence of girls?A handful of reasons. Reason #1- I took a strong degree of accountability. It's not my fault someone decided to drug me, but it's my fault for placing myself in that situation. It was my choice to go to a bar, a scene infamous for illegal, immoral, and roudy/dangerous behavior. I also payed zero attention to my surroundings, and placed zero cognitive effort into the possibility that my drink would or could be spiked. I consider that to be arrogant on my part. At the end of the day, people talk "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 7 | How safe is it for a guy to get black out drunk in presence of girls?I ultimately decided not to get the police involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 7 | How safe is it for a guy to get black out drunk in presence of girls?It was a life lesson, for sure. I started to be way more cognizant of tampered drinks. Now I don't even drink. There's little pros to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:47 PM |
| 38 | How safe is it for a guy to get black out drunk in presence of girls?It's not safe for anyone unless the person you're with is someone you 100% trust. I'm a 6'4, muscular, and a physically active male. I was drugged at a bar in Dallas, and woke up in a woman's apartment who I literally did not know. The the only thing I remember from the night before was the 1 drink I had, and a blurr of dancing and loud music. I was scared that I contracted an STD and or be susceptible to an unwanted pregnancy that I literally did not participate in. I got "lucky" neither happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Conception should be based on consentMen should be allowed to walk away if they don't want the child (women can even if they give birth) but you can't force an abortion on a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Question regarding why men are less pushed to have kids than women👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Question regarding why men are less pushed to have kids than womenI don't pay mind to how things "should be" more so what actually happens. Those are two different conversations, you know? It's just the reality of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding why men are less pushed to have kids than womenThe majority, and I mean that literally; the majority of men literally don't have the opportunity to procreate. Only 40% of men in history has passed down their DNA to the next generation while more than 80% of women have. The equivalent to this is clowning men who can't get laid which is extremely common. Women on the other hand can get sex with zero effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:47 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Men, do you genuinely like/liked your female partner?I'm currently married but anyone who I ever been in a relationship with (not many because of high standards) the answer is, yes, I enjoy who they are/their company. To clarify, that's not synonymous of giving a rats about their education level & accomplishments in terms of "why" I'm dating them as it holds no relevancy, nor does needing a plethora of things we have in common. I've had plenty of women I've casually dated that I genuinely couldn't stand being around but the sex was next level, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 12:20 AM |
| 0 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousGo make excuses somewhere else. I was dressing really well back in my early 20s as a broke college student. First thing first, get into shape. Clothes looke better on a chiseled body. Wear fitted clothing. Know what styles look best on you. Know what colors look best on you. Understand bare minimum fashion concepts and now you're literally dressing better then almost all men. If you're looking for excuses, tell them to yourself, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:14 PM |
| 0 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousThat's not synonymous with being rich 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:04 PM |
| -1 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousIt literally is. This is how lazy the average person is and it shows. All it takes is consistent work and your guranteed a result. You know what's not easy? Starting a buisness and realistically going to fail despite how much time, money, and energy you put into it. That's hard. Not going to gym. Not putting on clothes. Not making more than the average income. This is fing LIFE. It requires efforelt to get something worth while. It's always been that way. Actually. It was waaaaaay harder. Effort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:34 AM |
| 0 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousI didn't say gwlet rich | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:31 AM |
| -1 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousGet in the gym and be in impeccable shape. Dress well. Like really well. Get your money up. Be social competent and dominant. I get it, some people hit the genetic lottery but doesn't change the fact that most dudes are easy to out compete with sheer dedication of constantly improving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 02:28 AM |
| 2 | The problem with dating isn't women being hypergamous, it's men (trying) to be polygamousThe bigges problem about dating is that y'all suck at dating and continue to point the finger at whatever gender you're attracted to. It's EASY to outperform the competition in this environment, man or woman. If you're love life sucks, you suck at dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the stereotype that woman are deeply complex creatures with a myriad of wants and needs whereas men are simple creatures that are very easily satisfied?It's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorPeople are having less sex because relationships are failing but people are objectively having more sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockTaking out ambiguity, that's definitely below a 6/10. She's below average. Average on a scale of 1-10 is mathematical 5.5 which most people are. Even if everyone magically became todays objective standard of 10/10, we would all drop to 5.5 by default. Anyway, point is, most people are 5.5 (on a scale of 1-10) but rhe description you gave, she's below that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:16 PM |
| 7 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock5 is literally the average. Most people should give a solid 5. For some reason that's stigmatized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:30 AM |
| 20 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockHe's talking average looking and if she's overweight, he's giving her far too much credit with 6/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | The reason why older male/younger female age gap relationships are shamed:The average teenage boy is stronger than the average adult woman. Meaning there's no relvant power difference if a man is dating an older vs younger woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think having a wildly different worldview from others can affect a person’s personal relationships?I don't care about being top dog. I don't value peoples opinions enough to make that my mission statement in life. Lol I've dated probably an equal amount of white, black, latina, and Asian women in my life: with lets say "Miscellaneous" in the mix but black people as a whole are only 14% of the US population. So the statical odds I'd end up with a black woman were slim as my criteria for marriage where very high, and subsequently weeds out most women in the states. Basically white women are a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you think having a wildly different worldview from others can affect a person’s personal relationships?Your choice. Your perspective wouldn't hold any relevancy, so do what suits your fancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think having a wildly different worldview from others can affect a person’s personal relationships?Maybe but not for us. I'm a black conservative, she's a white liberal. We have polar opposite upbringing/societal treatment. We've never voted for the same candidate. Our relationship is just fine. We just don't have sticks up our arses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think having a wildly different worldview from others can affect a person’s personal relationships?They need to have the same views for relationships, specifically, fortified by respect. My wife and I are polar opposites on almost everything, including politics and our relationship is phenomenal. We understand and accept out of billions of people, there will be far too many variations on what someone finds important and trivial and we don't subscribe to the notion that you have to believe what "I" believe. Only thing that matters is that we have a clear understanding and expectation on what w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Wanting a woman with a high sex drive + low BC + is attractive is odd, to say the least.It amazes me that people don't understand you can have a high sex drive but a low body count 🤣🤣🤣 For starters, there's people with discipline. But also, there's people who have a lot of sex, just not with a lot of people 🤦🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:15 AM |
| 11 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Why would you date someone doing either? Both are unacceptable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 2 | To advise men to "just be confident" is useless.Competence is key but what that entails is a conglomerate of personality traits & behaviors that's not political woke to support. So "confidence" is massively spread, which we all know is artificial and pointless without competence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:48 PM |
| 4 | The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous.I'm sensible enough to know men and women aren't the same nor treated the same in that category. Heck, you hear women complain about it all the time that they're shamed for promiscuity vs men being praised or at the very least shamed to a far less extent. That's just life. I'll be the first to admit that being promiscuous, man or woman, inhibts your abilty to be satisfied with just one person and can be a strong indicator said person will cheat. The negative Physiological effects hits womem far … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:54 PM |
| 3 | The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous.That would make sense. You'll have to loosen up your parameters if the general public has different expectations and a higher body count on average. It's just adaptation to surroundings. Basically, supply and demand. You can go for a virgin if there's more virgins in supply. For me, personally, and maybe this is a bit ironic; when my body count was low, I had a high tolerance for promiscuity. Now with a body count in the triple digits, I have a rule. If I can't count her body count on one hand, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Hot crazy scale sums it up 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Being sexually satisfied in todays society is EASYThere's people who get sexually satisfied from digital products? I figured concepts like porn are more of a means to get by. For me, there's zero substitute for real sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:45 AM |
| 3 | I feel like social media users need proper education on gender equality, human rights and issues genders have.Men were equally screwed over if you actually read your history books, opposed to cherry picking info or reciting propaganda like a robot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:41 AM |
| 5 | I feel like social media users need proper education on gender equality, human rights and issues genders have.Funny how when the topic of gender equality comes up, the default is men are bad an need to do xyz. You don't want gender equality, good sir; only compliance in whatever you deem important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?You can debate that with those who conducted the studies. I value their data over your none factual opinion. I stand by my statement but believe what you want. Makes me no difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 03:14 AM |
| 16 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?That statement isn't biased. There's extensive studies on that very concept. Both men and women are affected when they're promiscuous. Our brains literally change and our capacity to be satisfied in a relationship takes a massive decline 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:57 AM |
| 60 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Bro, people can still be attracted to each other even if they ended on bad terms. The end of a relationship means two people weren't the right fit. Human beings don't feel one emotion at a time. You can love, hate, be frustrated towards, and feel appreciative towards someone at the same time. You have to remember, we're mammals and only 4% of mammals engage in any form of monogamy and human beings aren't particularly good at it. We get into relationships/marriages for the betterment of society. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?If they aren't explicitly stating early on they're talking to you and only you (after the first date), then you're just an option more often than not. For me, those are the only women that I took seriously (I'm married now) but most people actively dating are exercising options. Anyway, that's the level of desire you want out of a person. Being their first option isn't a complement, it just means you're first right now. You want to date someone who can focus on one person when they feel like it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenExactly and this is what I preach and lives prior to even finding the RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 07:21 PM |
| 3 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenAllow me to change my verbiage via an example (I'm not sure if I'm using the right word when I say subconsciously). Lets say you see a busty woman across the bar with a big butt, small waste, all the right curves; good looking facy but kind of have a trashy aesthetic. Not over the top but you know she's not even middle class, nor has the plan to do much in life. She gives a man the look that says "Sex. Right now" and the message was clear/not confused by the recipient. Cardinal desire, most men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:31 PM |
| 4 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenI have an extremely high libido and almost everyone I've dated matched or even higher and they didn't have much in common. You have to be "The Man" to get that cardinal desire out of women. Be fit, well dressed, well-spoken, competent and dangerous but controlled. There's a difference in characteristics that women are are "attracted to" vs characteristics that they subconsciously can't help the desire to procreate with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:17 PM |
| 4 | CMV: trying to convert BPers or hardcore RPers is a wasted effort and it benefits normal men that they’ve effectively removed themselves from the dating poolLmao. It's funny how people think if they have an opposing view, those who don't agree with them are "lost causes". I'm 30 and when I was single, The Red Pill wasn't popular like it is today nor was I on the internet that often. So I didn't have a guru in my ear telling me what to do and not to do. At age 18, it was all anecdotal/trail and error. The more I dated, learned, and adapted the more "red pill" I became. Again. I didn't even knkw what tf it was. However, when I found the red pill (at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a meth addict?Absolutely not and the answer is abundantly obvious. The #1 reason men file for divorce isn't because of cheating, money, isolation... ect. It's when his wife gets addicted to substances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The new era of gender identity, new gender roles and new ideologies associated with life, family, relationships and social constructs.I like how dudes have been stupid enough to fall into this crap, becoming more feminine and making themselves close to undatable. More 😸 for me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?If she's a traditional woman, then I have no issue paying for dates but if she have none traditional traits & beliefs and expects me to pay for dates, I'll politely show her to the door. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?That's objectively false, as in by definition. The literal definition of relationship doesn't even imply that. The people involved have the ability to determine what kind of relationship it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:38 PM |
| -2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?What are you calling a relationship? I will date casually if I like a person enough but they know exactly what the dynamic is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?I never mislead. I state my intentions if we have a potential future or not. Some women are ok with just dating casually, some aren't but I give them that choice. Basically, I'm not misleading someone but if the relationship doesn't work out then it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:20 AM |
| 10 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?I'll have sex with a woman in her 30s but I won't take her seriously. It's not personal. If I'm going to get into a relationship, kids will be the goal. It makes more sense to date younger for that reason. Yes, people are having kids older than ever but as a medical professional, I'm able to understand in vivid detail just how much more complicated the process is when a woman is older. That being said, I'm going to have to date someone a minimum of 3 years, preferably 5 before I'll marry/have ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:57 AM |
| 8 | Young men reveal why so many of them are single: ‘Dates feel more like job interviews’You're missing the point. Finding out this info is easy without treating the date like an interview. Those are the women with a personality of a cardboard and stay single for a looooooong time even though they're actively looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship?0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Does status indicate sexual success?It's very accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:50 AM |
| 6 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesPeople will advocate for laws that benefit them. They genuinely don't care if said law contradicts another believe set; so much so they fail to even acknowledge it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:00 AM |
| 6 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Your stance is assuming that most are "crying" about the system. People are having discussions, online, and people who are truly red pill aren't "crying" about it, they're adapting to the landscape. When I (30 male) was single (I got into a relationship at 24), red pill content wasn't popular. I never heard of it and it had zero influence on my dating life. I found the red pill around age 26 and it was interesting to hear because my anecdotal experiences/adjustments lined up with their philosoph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I tried Andrew Tate's method. It worked. Now I understand why people love him.Manosphere tatics objectively works but people just want to hate on the messenger and how it's delivered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Is paying for love actual advice for men?You do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Is paying for love actual advice for men?Don't be dull. It's the same skillset to get laid and to get a relationship. If you don't have the fundamentals down, you won't get either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Is paying for love actual advice for men?I'll give you advice that actually works. First thing first, if you're looking to get women, get advice from MEN who actually get women. Not your mom, sister, or gal best friends; not some random Joe or dude that has a body count of 3 and has been married for 10+ years. You need advice from a guy who actually gets women, who actually gets the desired outcome you're looking for. There's no better source. You'll know you're getting the right advice when you think to yourself "I have a lot of work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 01:47 AM |
| 8 | Serial monogamists are worse than sexual promiscuityThere's no correlation. Both groups can lie/be deceitful and both can be honest. You're painting the narrative that each group is synonymous with one behavior but it's a roll of the dice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:51 AM |
| 6 | Artificial womb, solution to abortion?Sounds good in theory but the reality is those who get an abortion don't give af about the life they're ending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 04:45 AM |
| 2 | How would you react if your (potential) girlfriend/boyfriend saw your posts and comments on this sub ?I wouldn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:14 AM |
| 3 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?That's a given, I'm talking about dating, not prostitution. You can still get a prostitute easily these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?Don't care what I'm labeled as and I'm definitely not "chad" because chad is referencing white males, which I'm not 🤣 All-in-all I'm simply stating I'm 100% happy with current dating market. I get what I want, when I want and the world wouldn't care if I didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 06:11 PM |
| 9 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?Use to be, if you wanted to have sex, you literally had to marry a woman. If you wanted cheeks, you had to put a ring on a committe your time, money, resources, and life to said woman. Then you're limited to one woman when it comes to sex. If she's not feeling it, oh well. If she's depressed and it's unethical to even try in that moment, oh well, and so on. Modern day, it's a mans dream (men who easily can get women). I have diversity and essentially sex on demand. If I'm bored at any part of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 05:58 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?Idk. I don't want a solution. Hookup culture/promiscuous women and how the dating market currently is benefits someone like myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 05:44 PM |
| 13 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?I'm just saying there will be an unspecified increase of men who will have more respect from themselves and opt out on leftover women. The dating market won't have a substantial change in our lifetime. It'll take generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 03:35 PM |
| 30 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?There will be less men getting into relationship with women that didn't give them the time of day when she was at her peak. That's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Women complain that men are too influenced by porn, but women are more influenced by romance novels/TV showsYou make a solid comparison that I never considered. That being said, I do expect suprise blow jobs on dates and it happens often 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:45 AM |
| 3 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?Sexually, no. However they're far less satisfied inside relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Gifting a massage and saying the therapist has to be a certain genderTrue. my comment assumes he/she are in a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Gifting a massage and saying the therapist has to be a certain genderThere's nothing wrong with setting a boundary. If she/he makes a big deal out of it, trust me, she/he is not someone you want to pursue any further anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, to what extent are you willing to sacrifice basic morality in order to win over/impress women?I don't compromise my morals or words for anyone and I'm not intrested in building a relationship off a lie anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:31 PM |
| 2 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherNo it's not. People are creatures of habit. The same people spreading their cheeks to the mass will continue to do so and the reserved will stay reserved. The realities is, Red Pill Ideologies always existed. There just wasn't a name for it. A man who's actually red pill aren't going to wave the red pill flag. Their actions will do the talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?I'm not really arguing anything. I was relaying what red pillers say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 04:28 AM |
| 4 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?Red pillers say all the time "The majority of women will settle". The high status, high income males are less committed. Meaning women marry their backups. They might think they're settling but they're really finding their equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Men being Insecure over sex toysI've never had anyine even bring up toys and my body count is at the moon. Lol. That being said, I have zero interest in toys. If she wants to use them, use them alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | A man's asset is what he brings. A woman's is who she is.What's ironic, I never thought I required much (I'm in a 6 year relationship). This is prior to watching any red pill, purple pill, black pill... ect content. I just wanted a woman who I was attracted to, younger than me, had similar values, a low body count, and was ride or die. You'd think those criteria weren't hard to meet but the values and body count part ruled out soooooo many women. Anyway, I found the woman I was looking for and the rest was history. I knew I wouldn't have too much trou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend of 3 months consumes Red Pill ContentSounds like The Redpill layed out a philosophy that lined up with his anecdotal dating experience. Nighest indication was y'all talk about marriage & money, in which you said most of his exes used him for money. As ridiculous as the redpill can be, their are truths to it and although there's women out there that don't fit the red pill mold, there's alooooooot of women out there who do. Guys who aren't naturally good with men struggle to distinguished between the two and I'm betting good money th… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | what was the most beautiful thing that your red pill phase took from you?Nothing. I gained alot of good ish from the red pill but I don't think it's healthy to always submerge yourself in 1 ideology. That and there's concepts I can't get on board with. Overall red pill was a postive experience but it's too 1 directional | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 11:50 PM |
| 0 | What are your main problem’s with the red pill?The only issue I have with any content is consuming too much of it. Like a balance diet, you need to consume different things and not commit to just 1 ideology. I don't have an issue with redpill content in itself. There is alooooooot of truth to it. I'm just against consuming too much and making it your identity. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 04:31 PM |
| 2 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?This is a perspective issue. Of course the fit people of society will be in the gym lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?Those percentages are almost identical for women too, when it comes to obesity. That being said, men are going to be less motivated to get into shape (which is a shame) due to the overweight options for females. That and money is a great equalizer for men, which will hold more relevancy for his life in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in datingDon't call me "Babe". Please keep the conversation respectful as you don't see me using pet names for you. I don't find them funny, cute, tactful, nor respectful. Now back to the discussion. That's just one example. I understand "you haven't heard it" but people like myself, the orginal poster, and many others have heard people literally use their childhood as an excuse for bad behavior. I hear it frequently. It's a common occurrence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:48 AM |
| -3 | Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in datingYou don't have to be self aware to look for an excuse for bad behavior and the general public exhibits this trait in mass, which a popular excuse is blaming their upbringing. None of thag takes therapy. Now you're just making stuff up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:38 AM |
| -3 | Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in datingThat's your anecdotal but the main point is people say and do. The most prominent memory I have of that exact phrase was back in HS. I (a black male) was hanging out with my football buddies, which was ethnically diverse group One of the black guys was dating a white woman. Her racist parents found where she was, came into the house with a loaded shotgun, threatened adults and minora alike. The dad stuck to his guns (no pun intended) but the mom explecited stated she knows it's wrong but that's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:28 AM |
| 4 | Blaming your childhood is no excuse for shitty behavior and shitty choice in datingPeople verbally blame their childhood for their bad decisions and ideology all the time; a common phrased that's used (one of many) is "I'm sorry, that's just how I was raised". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Y'all are deluding yourselves if you think height matters more than facial attractivenessBoth matters and that's all that matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?I didn't increase the font. I put "#" and a number and I believe it did so automatically. Anyway, I know you didn't call me out because there's nothing to call out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?Ohhh. You're offended by my verbiage. Now your comment makes sense. A few points: 1- I did not refer to single moms as a "drag". I objectively did not say that, you're putting words into my mouth. I said "I'm not raising someone elses kids" which automatically rules out single mothers but also not limited to either. That can include adoption, being a god parent that has to fill the role if their parents had an early death as so on. 2- Yes, I did say "fat chicks" but if that's rude or not is pure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?Both can change. Lol. I'm not sure about the relevancy of the personality comment though. It's not apart of the picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?The post is for fun. Pick one! I wouldn't accept either option either in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:20 AM |
| 18 | Start a family with fat girl or marry a single mom?I'd rather start a family with a fat chick. Lol. I'm not raising someone elses kids. Plus, I can make a healthy variant of almost any meal. She'll drop a few lbs dating me without even realizing it 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as themWomen like sex just as much as men, they're just more selective about who they have sex with. Women are having sex with the same guys, not every guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI didn't care about feelings, including my own. I was a bit one track minded/obsessive over progressive change. The goal/grind was the only thing that mattered to me at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThanks, bro. Changed my life for the better! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI agree but that's my point. Physical attributes breed more opportunities than personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsNot if you're 360 pounds, bro. That amount of weight is understandably repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI was self absorbed. I didn't care how people felt/had zero empathy. That's the biggest takeaway. I treated everyone, including women like actual human when I was overweight. I lost the weight and treated everyone as disposable (not including family). I was rude in my tone, the things I said, and would toss people away for the smallest things. If you expected any type of consideration from me... good luck. I was genuinely a terrible human being during that stretch. I now recognized and corrected… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsYour height queen statement is debunked because I was still tall when I was fat and I got zero sex 🤷🏿♂️ Yes, by BMI standards I'm indeed overweight but there's a reason the majority of health professionals won't go off of BMI. Can you guess why? It should be common knowledge/sense. Seriously, you should of learned this in HS. BMI does not account for body fat percentage, which is just as relvant as someone height to weight ratio, which are the only variables considered for BMI. So I'm not lying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsYou're missing the point entirely. The point and I'll make it as clear as possible: Main point. It was my looks that got me women. 1a. I went from fat and unhelathy (which is obvious/doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that) to skinny and unhealthy. At 210 pounds, my body fat percentage was too low, I was malnourished and dehydrated from under eating/drinking and I simply became unhealthy in a different, extreme fashion. Luckily I snapped out of if and put on an additional 5 pounds of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:14 PM |
| 22 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsThat's not true. I'm 6'4 and went from 360 pounds to 210 pounds in 1 year. My personality towards women objectively worse when I lost weight and I couldn't handle the volume of women who came at me. My personality didn't get me tail, it was definitely my looks. Women are just as superficial as men and if you're physically someone they want to have sex with, you're not going to have to put in too mucb effort or any at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsOk? I said in my orginal statement "If your love life sucks, it's on you" so whatever outcome a person is looking for, for almost every person on the planet, theres a path they can take to a satisfactory love life. Enough of the excuses. I'm disinterested in hearing them. 99.9999% of people simply have a choice. It's on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI got over abuse for the first 18 years of my love, a cargo van being my "residency". Abuse isn't something that a person has to carry around, nor does it make a person defect or someone that can be dated. You can take actionable steps to be a regular, fully functional adult and even the people who can't, they can developed appropriate communication skills so their partners can come from a place of understanding. You can't beat a disability but you can move forward in life and date people in sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsNone of these are potential new dating suitors fault or even proble. Everyone has something and your life doesn't need to be perfect. Get over it and overcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI actually do if you're interested but I'm not going to waste time on someone who's only here to argue, opposed to listen. So your move. Want the evidence or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:44 PM |
| 5 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsLocation is definitely important. I'm in Texas,so k there's a strong mix of... well everything. Lol. However, lets say my location was/is hurting me, I could always move. Not wanting children will certainly eliminate an x amount of people. How many? I'm not sure, honestly but birth rates are at an historic low. I'm 100% with you on not playing step-daddy. Doesn't matter if the mom is hot or not 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsI got women when I was super broke (I should have been allocated time elsewhere) but I had value in the since of being extremely fit, even funnier, and taking the time to learn different archetypes (personalities). I spent just as much time dodging relationships as I did having casual sex. It's not that difficult to get into a relationship if you're socially adept and you're not painful to look at, even as a man. If your love life isn't panning out, it's up to you to determine why and if you're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsIf you're looking for a scenario that your love life sucks that's not your fault, it doesn't exist. Here's what people women do (l'll break down men too) . After HS they'll sleep around and or focus on their career/job. They'll rack up their body count and at the same time, lose their ability to efficiently bond to someone. Now they're phyiscal run through, less capable emotionally from a romantic standpoint and they're far less appealing than their younger self (to men). Now they're pushing 30 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsSaid person waited too long to settle down. That's their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsThere's suitable partners but there's also what you qualify for combined with a person standards. If their standards doesn't align with what they qualify for, that's on them. There's a lot of single, lonely, average people who think they deserve better than the average. There's also a value discrepancy. Men and women are confusing what they value in a partner as symmetrical attraction triggers, which isn't the case (more often than not). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 08:59 PM |
| 12 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsPeople are inherently idealistic, which isn't necessarily bad but it has turned into delusion on a mass scale. I always tell people, if your love life sucks, you suck at dating. There could be many variables as to why but it's up to the individual to determine. Perhaps their socal skills aren't up to par. Maybe they don't exhibit fundamental attraction triggers to the opposite gender. Some people don't even take the time to truly understand what men or women are looking for and accepting they ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Funny that's what you think therapy is to everyone. Lol. Society is interesting. It accepts drinking every weekend, people smokong weed or watching porn all the time as normal/functioning even if those aren't habits they participate in themselves. Yet they think someone who's going to therapy is looney 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.To each their own. I'd rather have someone who excels in every area of their life but you do you 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.I do too. Everyone should. It's like working out except for the mind. To be fair, people here in the United States don't even give af about their physical health, let alone their mental. That's something I learned quickly via my short time working as a Nurse Practitioner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.There's no shortage of that either. I grew up in one of the richest cities in the country (United states) and there's no shortage of trash people from pristine, stable backgrounds. Lol This guy will crash and burn on his asinine "standard" unless he's truly the top echelon of the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.There's plenty of both and the point it's not a predictor on current behavior. My dating experience is different than others but I've been on at least 600 dates with new peopke and I got into a committed relationship at 24. Anyway. You do you, man, makes me no difference but if I was gamblin man, I wouldn't bet on your success 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 03:08 AM |
| 10 | Dysfunctional homes are equally as toxic as people from divorced homes.Honestly, if you never find someone to settle down with, with the "standard" you've placed, then you 100% deserve it and I'm not saying that to be mean. You've eliminated 50% of your options from divorce alone. And being super generous, you've eliminated at least a other 30% of your dating pool with the dysfunctional home rule. 80% of your options are now gone based off one standard that isn't necessarily a predictor on how they behave in the now or the future. You should literally be looking at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Traditionalism and biology is used as an argument by women when it supports them but is dismissed when it doesn’tSolid point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Why is sex as a reward seen as a bad thing ?I'm not living my life committed to a woman that believes sex is a reward. The level of self-entitlement, alone, would make me want to vomit. Sex is a mutually beneficial exchange. I have an incredibly high sex drive and I can honestly say women easily match it or even surpass it, depending on the woman. Your vagina isn't some magical rare concept. There's billions of them. I've always told the women that I date (currently in a 6 year relationship), I'm having sex and having sex often. I like yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on men who are older than 30 dating women who are 18 to 25 in age?I think it's s none issue. The only people who have an issue are those who are extremely hateful ant ironically enough don't realize they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI can't speak for all men but I'm looking forward to aging 🤣 I've always wanted a big white beard. Now although I'm being literal in my humor, I'm not worried even a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenI love this thread. It invokes actual thought/interpretation. That being said, I'll like to refute some of your takes as I find them inaccurate, however, I'll start by clarifying what I agree with to clear up confusion. Things I agree with: 1- RedPillers start in a default state if mistrust 2- RedPillers trust is earned through behaviors (although I disagree with the example you gave). 3- RedPillers assume the worst. Things I disagree with: 1- Your statement "They believe that ignoring the risks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 04:54 AM |
| 5 | Men settle for me due to my tall height :(First thing first, remember in todays dating market; men and women are having a hard time connecting. There's less marriages, babies, and even sex in the younger generations. So your struggle is more of a by-product of the times than your height. To answer your question, well... I'll put it like this. I'm 6'4. If I could magically snap my fingers and make the average woman height your height, I'd do it in a heartbeat. For physical standards, tall is my #1 preference. I'm a sucker for a tall woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How does science influence your decisions about dating and sex?She does. She knows why I pursued her from a logical perspective and emotional. She knows that I make big life decisions off of logic and emotions come second. You think so? When I was single, I ran the numbers myself. Lol. I dated, a lot, and started tracking trends and put percentage values on them. Since I got around, my anecdotal statistics was somewhat reliable but it's all I went off on. It wasn't until 3 years into my current relationship (pre engagement) that I even heard what the red pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 04:39 AM |
| 0 | How does science influence your decisions about dating and sex?It affects everything, for me, combined with statistics so I can make the best, calculated decisions. This has worked beautifully for me; so much so that I'm willing to marry/ I'm engaged in this crazy dating world. For an example, I won't date a woman with a high body count do to the mental drawbacks. To play devils advocate, if I was single, I wouldn't date a woman over 30 or more accurately, I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with a woman over 30. For context, I'm 29, but regardless o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menContext isn't your strong point. Lol I'm not shaming you or anyone for treating attractive people better. My response was directly tied to an inaccurate statement made by the OP, so clearly it's not that "obvious" 🤣 Bro, do yourself a favor. Read and reread prior to responding 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menMy point was people will treat you differently because of your appearance/if you don't want to be labeled as creepy, get in shape 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menLets end this conversation. You're missing the point. Lol. Have a good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menI'm not refuting scenario and social ques. Everything you're saying is genuinely not relevant. We're talk about a nich3 scenario that everything is the same, with one noticable difference being physical appearance. That's it. That's the only difference and it has a drastic change im outcome. Growing up as the fat kid, I developed a decent, humorous, can calculated personality. I knew when to back off and when to pursue, so even the ignorance of social readings, settings, awareness... ect doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:53 PM |
| 19 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menHow about being an adult amd saying "I'm not interested" opposed to be an elementary schooler being indirect. Anyway, like I said, the only thing that changed about ke is my physical appearance. Fat me is a "creep" and fit me is "so what are we". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men are good or bad people based on how they treat women, women are bad/ good people based on how they treat everyone beside menThere's a flaw. A "creep" often times for men are simply men who are unattractive attempting to socialize. I'll give you an example. I'm 6'4 and 29 years old. I grew up as tve fat, chubby kid and in my adult life, I topped off at 360 pounds. I'd approach and talk to women, in a respectful manner and I was labeled as creepy, gross and predatory. I literally do the exact same thing, same demeanor, they way I talk/approach and I get numbers, sex, and women chasing me. The only difference is that I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Average men being rejected by women that they’re not attracted to isn’t an issue.The way I see it, if you're not getting the results you want in your dating life, YOU'RE the problem. I'm 29 and I find it hilarious how many women I've previously dated (relative to my age) are essentially harassing me for a relationship. They set their standards so high (I'm one of the few people who actually meet them) and now they've seen that they shot themselves in the foot. 30 is knocking and they're panicking but they made their bed and it's time for them to lay in it. I'm dating someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather add two inches in height, gain two inches in length, or add two figures to your income?Money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...I'm a medical professional. I've spent countless hours... well years studying the microscopic world and literally everything revolves around sex. Lol. It's required to fulfill the biological need that almost every person has and, yes, health is also a factor. Lack of sex can affect your hormones that can lead to anxiety, insomnia, depression... ect. Lack of sex can have a major impact on your immune system as well. This can vary person to person but I stand by my position and there's certainly z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:30 AM |
| 0 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Agree to disagree. I'm going of the definition of need "Require because it's essential or very important". It's not rocket science. Sex is a need. More accurately, it's a biological need, not a want. It's engrained in us down to the molecular level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 11:04 AM |
| -2 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Sex is a need. You as an individual won't die without having sex but if we're going to continue the species, it's a must unless you want to.get technical by adding artificial insemination to the mix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanWe can agree to disagree. I was just stating a postion, not trying to influence your viewpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanAll plastic surgery will do is give older women what they've always, the opportunity from sex from higher caliber men but it doesn't secure marriage and that's the "wall". Meaning you've aged to the point that you significantly have to drop standards in terms of quality for long term commitment. Men carw about age for conscious and subconscious reasons. If a woman wants to bank on plastic surgery, I'd say do so at your own risk of you're leaning on plastic surgery to give a certain outcome. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Men without money hit the wall way harder than the average womanA wall is referencing the inability to overcome. A woman who is aged can't turn back time. A man who's broke can still go out and make a substantial amount of money. One can be controlled and changed another cannot. Money is a great equalizer for men. I'm heavily involved in Real Estate and I have plenty of people in my network who are multimillionaires. Some young and attractive and some old and fugly but all of them still pull drop dead gorgeous women. That being said, men being broke is empha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicI'm not RP, I just like having sex. Lol. I'm not wasting time waiting for sex either. Fron personal experience, the longer the wait, the less it's even worth it. Not saying that's a rule, just my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicMaybe or maybe not but I wouldn't care either way. Relationships are pointless without many things and sex is one of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 01:18 AM |
| 18 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicIf I'm not getting sex, I'm ending the relationship. I'll find someone who's more enthusiastic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxicIn any stage of a relationship, if I'm not getting sex, the relationship is not worth my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 12:22 AM |
| 7 | What percentage of men do you think is in relationships or married to promiscuous women and why?Men don't want women with a promiscuous past BUT that falls under preference, which you have to consider this: A. The average guy is so 😺 deprived that he settles, just like she's most likely settling for him. B. When he's telling these women that, you have to remember, those women are gunning for the upper echelon of men. He's not saying you won't be a to marry at all but to their standards, it won't be close to the guy they actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Opinion: women and men treat each other equally as badBoth men and women treat each other less than human in different ways, so I agree, but when it comes to marriage; a lot of men are backing of that (marriage, and some what relationship but primarily marriage) because in case of a divorce, they stand no chance in family law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 12:19 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Criminalizing prostitution is silly and misogynistic.Bans on prostitution doesn't exist for the "sole" reason of protecting women. That's just a blatant lie/skewed since of reality you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:37 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Criminalizing prostitution is silly and misogynistic.Why do people throw out words they don't understand. The love or hate for prostitution itself literally has nothing to do with misandry; as prostitute doesn't = woman. There's prostitutes of all Genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexCondoms are 99% affective when used right and I made sure to do so. If I was too drunk and wasn't confident ony ability to use them properly, I wouldn't have sex. I'm not that hard to find on social media, either. If there's one thing these ladies are going to do when they have kids out of wedlock, it's collect a check (child support) and nobody came looking for me. That being said, I'm 99% sure I don't have any little "me" running around. 100% certainty is callef abstinence. It's a bit silly to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Girls say im very coldCan you provide more context? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Why do men generally marry younger women?Can you be more accurate with "many". That's not really a postion. There's roughly 3.97 Billion males on this planet. Even if 1% preferred an alternate (I'm sure it's higher) that's 39.7 million people with an alternative preference. That being said, men with alternative preference aren't relevant to my statement. My postion is on the MAJORITY of men, who objectively has that preference and is WHY the statistics she posted/asked about has the outcome it does. If you can even understand that, a c… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Why do men generally marry younger women?I'm not intrested in what you do or do not find offensive or your anecdotal preference. None of that is relevant as my statement is not directed towards you, specifically; I even went out the way to mention there's exceptions. My comment is derived from empirical data and cross referencing history. That's literally what men as a conglomerate whole want/choose IF they have the ability to be picky. There's also been a modern global study showing age preference for men and women. Universally, women… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 10:08 PM |
| -4 | Why do men generally marry younger women?There's a factual answer. Men are far more attracted to youth, beauty, and fertility. Those 3 things typically go hand-to-hand. Is there exceptions to this? Of course, just like most concepts but men aren't complicated. We're visual creatures. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Are there possibilities to discuss with people who believe in the red pill?Most people are too fragile and conceded to listen to a postion opposite of their beliefs. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/22 09:16 PM |
| 3 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonWhen did I say "Move to Texas"? I said "Move" and mentioned where I live. Read and reread. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonWhatever helps you sleep at night, bro. None of this is relvant to the orginal postion. Find someone else to entertain your strawan arguments. I'm not interested 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonI'm not a child, so I'm not phased by petty name calling. Lol. Whatever makes you feel better about yourself though, I'm all for it. You have a good day. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonWe can agree to disagree. I stand by my statement and I'm sure ypu stand by yours. Regardless, your opinion holds zero value to me, so this conversation is pointless. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonOk? That's your anecdotal. That doesn't speak for the emtire population/experience. As a young black kid that grew up in Texas, I experienced PLENTY of racism. I never complained about it but I'm not going to pretend it's not consistent. Your statement saying Texas isn't racist is objectively false. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 02:58 PM |
| -6 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so common100% false 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 02:53 PM |
| 4 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonI'm a college student lol | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are people against "fetishiszation" when online dating is exactly that?I learned not to care what other people think. I've never had an issue with my dating life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:42 PM |
| 13 | My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so commonMove. I live in Texas, one of the more racist states and I know men that fits your description verbatim and literally none of them has this "issue". Either it's the environment you're in or there's something that you do (action base) that genuinely detours people | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Can we just let people do what they want and want what they want, without being hypocrites?I'm a guy with a body count to the moon but I didn't take a woman seriously if her body count was high also. I'm currently in a 5 year relationship but when I tell people about my preference (if asked) it's followed up with shaming language. I'm not sure why people ask and get upset at the answers. There's billions of people on the planet, I don't see why it's so hard for people to find those they're compatible with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:56 AM |
| -3 | My Ex Redpill Boyfriend Killed My Self Esteem…but I’m Healing.That's not RP, your ex was just a POS. Sorry to hear this | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Men, what is one thing you wish you could freely share with your other male friends about your mental health without judgement?It's fine. I'm not much of a venter. I prefer to work on my problems but I'm human and do have my moments that I turn to people once in a blue moon. Not everyone has people who care about them, so I count myself lucky. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Men, what is one thing you wish you could freely share with your other male friends about your mental health without judgement?There's nothing on their end they could do, honestly. I trust my male and female friends in equal capacity but it's not about trust, it's more about comfort and relatability. My male friends usually can personally relate to my issues because they've gone through something similar because they're men themselves. So when I'm venting to them, it's a combination of venting but also cross referencing their similar/same experiences which strengthens the bond between us. With women, they're not going t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Men, what is one thing you wish you could freely share with your other male friends about your mental health without judgement?My real make friends, there's literally nothing I won't share. Female friends, I'd withhold certain information | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?I'm not pretending anything. Although I disagree with MGTOW as a whole, that doesn't change the fact most are harmless. The purpose of the group is to go their owm way, not to hate on women. You just have tunnel vision and choose to focus on the individuals in those groups who take it too far. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?Stating something isn't debatable doesn't make it fact. Social media, forums, chat rooms, mainstream media.. ect are not an accurate representation of life. That's for anything. An example can be Feminism. There's no shortage of forums of blatant misandry on feminist forums. Does that mean feminism is had and they hate men? Absolutely not. It just means a select fee individuals got behind a screen and took things out of context and too far. Same principles can be applied to MGTOW. Generally spea… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 3 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?I was never MGTOW. I'm getting married soon to a lovely woman and prior to her, I got around lol. But yes, from my experiences and what I've seen most MGTOW are harmless. They're just deplugging from society and literally aren't harming anyone, nor are they even in a postion to punish women. They typically have no game or power in life. There's some that are "hateful" but there's always a chunk of people that take things too far, no matter what affiliation we're talking about. I can't name 1 gro… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/08/22 11:42 AM |
| -9 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?Agree to disagree but hope you find what you're looking for. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 11:28 PM |
| -7 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?I guess we can agree to disagree on this one. The redpill is problematic in many ways but MGTOW is essentially harmless. They're just people who aren't dating who formed a community. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 11:21 PM |
| -9 | What are the best anti mgtow youtube videos for you?There's anti MGTOW videos? What's the point? Those are essentially people who decided to... well go their own way. Like they're not even in the dating game lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 3 | What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub?Just nature, I suppose. It's not a concept that was planted in my head via an external source. It's one of those "I always knew" it was going to be that way concepts. I will admit it's unequal but I'm also indifferent about the concept of equal and fair as a whole. Life is unfair and unequal, so I'm happy about concepts that benefit me and I don't complain about the ones that don't, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:39 PM |
| 2 | What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub?Mine is pretty high, so nothing changes in the context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | What exactly qualifies as a high n count "bodycount" to people on this sub?29M Heterosexual male take. Of course what's "high" will be subjective to an individual, combined with context. For me, casual dating/none monogamous dynamics... body count is 100% irrelevant. For monogamous relationships, I personally wouldn't commit to a woman that has a body count over 10. So for me that's "high". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Are dating apps the default, most common method for zoomers to get relationships?It's statically the #1 method people meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?She'd be dead to me, regardless of who it was with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How much are you concerned with your partner's sexual history?My partner sexual history is a fundamental deal maker or deal breaker for me. I'm not sayong everyone should have the same philosophy, I'm just saying that it's relevant for me. If her body count is to the moon. It's a deal breaker. Also, if she was ever unfaithful, it's a deal breaker. Other than that, anything else is irrelevant outside of things that are illegal/immorally wrong, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?"There's no such thing as unconditional love. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 11 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"That's literally the point lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | No guy wants to be "husband material" over "hookup material"I never had trouble getting women but you're 100% right. I payed close attention to the compliments women gave me. Even little stuff. Woman A. If a woman called me handsome, emphasised my work ethic, my leadership qualities, took a huge interest in my buisness (my actual buisness that I make my living) then I never under any circumstance took her seriously. Especially if the word "provider" or phrases like "great provider" was used towards me. Woman B. If a woman called me hot, sexy, fine, and o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Do women truly prefer men with high body counts or who have been with alot of women?Verbally they'll say no but it's objective that women chase the top percentage of guys and those guys typically have high body counts. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/22 01:53 AM |
| 0 | The red pill is the Bible on how to manage toxic people?Agree and disagree. A quick synopsis: red pill, blue pill, purple pill, all the pills, feminism... ect all of them have absurdly toxic concepts and or practice of concepts but all also have valid stances/points. People tend to demonize a philosophy they don't align with, with an emphasis on the philosophy that's opposite of their beliefs system. I never placed myself in the red pill category but they have excellent examples on how to navigate a social climate that I was already doing. There's al… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillNot really relevant. There's billions of people on the planet. Some said yes, some said no, I got what I wanted regardless. Life was and still good 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillTo-date not very because I put on too much weight because I thought I was "man enough" to go off my anxiety meds 🤣 Let me tell you, big mistake but I'm getting back into shape/in a good place now. When I was single, I was in stellar shape though and I had abs. Combine that with being 6'4, being well dressed, a great conversationalist, and I had a well paying career prior prior to even graduating. I knew how to indirectly sell myself on dating profiles as well. Plus.... to be honest... being blac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI wasn't going on a lot of dates. Just had them come over more often than not. You don't have to wine and dine women. All I did was use dating use dating apps and pick up chicks on the weekends. So I'd have a rotation of women that I'd just label in my phone "Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday... ect) and made weekends free game. Every month I'd switch up the rotation between women I met on the weekends and through dating apps/Instagram. I put limited effort into dates and just invited women over instea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 02:00 PM |
| 6 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillFrom an emotional perspective, I genuinely was disinterested by the concept. That part is hard to explain because I was just naturally repulsed by it and I'm not sure how to explain in further detail. From th pragmatic side, I noticed women with higher body counts had commitment issues. 1 foot in, 1 foot out attitudes basically. Not saying that's universal just anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 3 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillYou misunderstood my answer. Lol. My answer to your question is "yes" that's a dealbreaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillYes, I would be opposed. I met a few but I was always transparent with intentions, so I didn't lead them on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillYes to your first question/ I didn't have much of a reason back then. I've been in a relationship for over 5 years, so it wasn't because of a red pill influence. It wasn't really popular back then. I guess I didn't see a point of committing to a woman who wasn't about that relationship life. I wanted a traditional woman with qualities I liked. I genuinely don't care if people judged me for my body count. It would make me no difference and wouldn't alter my choices because in practice, I had a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillFirst thing first, it's 100% legal, so yes, they're "allowed" to. However that doesn't change the fact there's negative social repercussions to well.... anyone actions. Men and women are judged the same as we care about different ish in each other. For an example, I don't know my specific body count but it's in the triple digits. I knew for a fact I wouldn't commit to a woman whose body count was over 10 and I found someone whose body count is under 5. I placed a large importance on body count a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?It's not impossible but I've never met a woman that gave good dating advice that produced results. I started listened to my best friend who's a natural and I was rolling in tail. It's best to ask someone who gets girls. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 12:19 AM |
| -1 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexAgreed but I'm 100% ok with that. My parents nailed into my head at a young age to jot get caught in the concept of fair because life doesn't care. I'm 100% ok with double standards. Some will benefit me and some won't. That's just life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 11:02 AM |
| 4 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexBecause I knew I'd want to date this hypothetical person a minimum of 3 years, preferably 5 years prior to getting engaged/married. Reason being, I refuse to have kids out of wedlock and with child bearing, the younger the adult, the better. And to clarify, the goal was to find this woman asap. It just took me time to find her. Now thinking about it... I suppose I would have never committed to anyone over the age of 30 but that's a bridge I never had to cross/consider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sexI'll try to answer this question from a perspective of a former player. Super quick background. I'm 29 and currently in a 5 year relationship, engaged as of last month. Meaning my single days as an adult were from ages 18-24. In the dating game, I had the gameplan of running through as many women as possible and settle down when/if I found someone who was worth dating. My body count as a by-product is through the moon. I don't even remember it. I was sleeping with roughly 5 new women per month, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The irony of redpill and "abundance mentality"Your philosophy definitely has zero foundation behind it. Abundance mentally is great for both men and women to have. Delusional mentality is what's negative but definitely not abundance. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I humanise men again?No, you're mixing concepts. The high body count which I'm guilty of myself in terms of having one and caring about a womans past. Body count is a predictor of promiscuity which men are also biologically repulsed by. You have to remember a big fear for men is paternity fraud and although paternity test exist now, in comparison to the entirety of the human race, they've been around for a spec of time. We're decedents of men who would kill the child and the woman if paternity fraud was established … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 0 | How do I humanise men again?Gotcha. I'm following you now. Sex doesn't equal love for most guys. It's a physical act, nothing more, nothing less. That drive to have sex with many woman is just a biological urge to spread genes but it's not a product of love. Also, testosterone is a huge influencer on sex drive and the average guy will have around 10 to 20 times more testosterone flowing through his body. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I humanise men again?It's not, all these things happen. I actually know a guy (My Fiancee step-dad) who design the blueprint and was apart of the majority of the physical labor (to save on cost) and built his wife her dream house. It has so many unique quirks in the house and I pray they'll sell it to us some day. Lol The other two, I've personally done a variation of sorts. Example. I wasn't making enough money to support my fiancee (girlfriend at the time) how I wanted, so I got put of my comfort zone and learned … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 10:32 PM |
| -1 | How do I humanise men again?That's a solid point actually. It doesn't change my fundamental view (in practice) but I can openly admit that's an angle I haven't considered with validity. I'll start off by reiterating, Men and Women don't share a mutual concept of Love. Men love Idealistically. Examples of men loving Idealistically from romantic movies. The Notebook- Guy builds a house because he promised he would An officer and a Gentleman- Man sweeps woman off feet The Great Gatsby- Gatsby is so in love with Daisy, so he g… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 09:18 PM |
| -9 | How do I humanise men again?I don't think we can have a constructive conversation if you're hung up on porn too. Lol At the end of the day, both men and women need to learn that men and women "love" differently. We're drastically different human beings. The way a woman loves isn't the same way a man loves and vice-versa. Everyone is living in fantasy land these days. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 0 | How do I humanise men again?Seeing how there's a large chunk of the male population who are virgins, the majority of men aren't even capable of addin you or any woman to their pokemon collection. That being said, you should step back and reflect on your dating choices and what alterations you can make. At the end of the day, regardless of what media you consume that poisons your brain from RP to Feminism; the majority of men are givers, providers, and would fighy & die for you and most certainly aren't trying to oppress or… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so expensive?Huh? I run it myself. I don't condone you're laziness, nor obligated to submit to your demands. You've already exposed you don't know ish about marketing 🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Why are women so expensive?Whatever help you sleep at night. I spend a fck ton of money marketing each month. A job or even running a buisness isn't the same understanding the global market because if you know ANYTHING about marketing like you claim, you'd know each and every market are drastically different even if it falls under the same category. Example being "clothing". Purchases, analytics and marketing wll be exponentially different selling jeans? Shoes, shirts... ect. Stop being lazy and do the research neophyte. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 11:54 PM |
| -1 | Why are women so expensive?Look it up yourself. It's literally not hard to find if you actually care to know. Lazy people smh | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 11:49 PM |
| -5 | Why are women so expensive?Nope. That's only one category. You're essentially cherry picking. There's individual categories in these studies/statistics on why and where they're spending and it's household items is 1 of many variables but doesn't make up the majority. Depending on the study you decide to read up on, they even break down single, married, and cohabiting of both genders. It's easier to entice women with promotions even randoms like emails. Women by a landslide buy more new vehicles (an unnecessary expense sin… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 10:56 PM |
| -13 | Why are women so expensive?Doesn't matter how much money you have. Women are far more expensive than men. They're hyper consumers and resource extractors and I don't mean that in a shameful tone, it's just the truth. 80% of money spent are spent by women (at least in the states). Women also hold 80% of the national debt. Women want a guy that brings in more resources than he consumes. You do the math on why 🤣 That's most women, not all. You can find a good, more practical woman but you also need to get your ish together | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 8 | You haven’t become man until you have kidsAnytime the statement has "A real man does" (or any variation) it's immediately follower by: A statement that benefits said individual Guilt trips someone into believing their ideology In short, there's zero validity to these statement. If you're an adult male, you're a "real man". What a man chooses to do or not do with his life is his buisness. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | You can’t have any negative opinions on men watching porn if you’ve never been a man trying to get dates/sex ,PERIODPeople have strong opinions on porn. For me, it's genuinely helpful because my sex drive is insatiable. I have sex on average once a day but I watch porn like 3 times a week well because sex 1 time a day isn't enough to satiate me but I can't realistically expect my fiancee to have sex more than once a day consistently. Women are built different and it's a good idea to lwt their body rest. When I was single, I was having sex with waaaaaaay too many people at a time and porn helped me level out a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?Flattered. Heck men ask me out, often, and I'm not into men and I find that flattering. I can appreciate anyone who's willing to put themselves out there and face rejection, especially for my sake. Most people aren't violent, so I'm not going to assume the worse of them just because I'm not attracted to them. It's dehumanizing in my opinion and if there's one thing I'm going to do, it's treat people like actual people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withPerson B by a landslide. Actually, I'm engaged to "Person B" and our relationship is phenomenal. She's a drop dead gorgeous beauty. Traits that she earned by going to the gym and some that are simply genetics like natural red hair (my weakness), beautiful face, and other traits I won't go into detail to keep this response pg13. That being said, I have a best friend and he has the same parts as me. Seeing how I don't like men in that way, it's impossible for me to be in a relationship with my bes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | To the men: Do you see women as humans?Objectively. Almost every guy, including red pull does | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 11:26 PM |
| -2 | Why Do Red-Pillers Hate Monogamy?Andrew Tate is the Kardashian of the Red Pill. His audience might claim to be red pill but they're not. They're the equivalent to delusional feminist. As for "old school" I'd say none monogamy has been more consistent in human history than monogamy lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | If your ultimate reason for wanting a relationship is sex, you don’t deserve one.Subjective at best. There's no shortage of women I flat out told I only want them for sex and would still beg for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:29 AM |
| -5 | My Boyfriend watches Andrew Tate. What should I do?Andrew Tate doesn't hate women | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 12:15 PM |
| -9 | My Boyfriend watches Andrew Tate. What should I do?Nothing. He's participating in a hobby. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularAndrew Started a course to teach people how to make money online and he heavily influence his students to create Tate theme pages/accounts on Social Media to promote the course. A student gets recruited and gets paid to recruit more people and that's how they "make money online". So his exposure is hyper viral as a by-product. We're seeing more of him because real people that's invested in his course are promoting it with his image. I agree with many of his philosophies but strongly disagree wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 0 | When did Andrew Tate start gaining attention for his red pill ideology?Has nothing to do with the culture and more for his knack for buisness. He created a course that "teaches you how to make money" and he heavily emphasizes promoting the course itself via creating Tate themed YouTube channels and other social media accounts which filters more people to his course. So those "Tate Pages" and reals you're looking at are just students promoting his product | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 03:32 AM |
| -1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?This has to be the least factual statement I've read all month and I've been diving into politics none stop here in July 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?Lmao. You're a waste of my time 🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?The evidence is undeniable 🤷🏿♂️. I already know how this will go. I'm going to guce you credible, peer reviewed cold hard facts and you're going yuuuuup choose to believe in a fairytale 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?I absolutely do. I get paid to research and talk about said subjects so be prepared to learn. I'll send them when I get home. I have them saved on my computer | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 07:31 PM |
| -3 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?Absolutely and I'm happy to send them to you but the content is extensive, so I don't want to waste my time if you're only asking to be condescending vs actually wanting to learn. If you're looking to learn. I can point you to books, studies, and empirical data. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 07:11 PM |
| -5 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?We're not talking a out you or me. There's billions of people on the planet. I'm focusing on the concept itself; not my or your anecdotal experience. For most women, it's a biological trigger that can't be helped. Human being aren't as evolved, unique, different, or woke as we lime to believe & claim. Well all to some degree will default to our programing and make no mistake, we're all programmed and behavioral statistics reflect just that. My dating life has been nothing but phenomenal but I al… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 06:22 PM |
| -8 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?Women are in it for themselves. If they see weakness in a man who's suppose to be their rock and protector, they'll naturally get repulsed and dip out on you. It's popular for people to say "be vulnerable with each other" but the harsh reality is if you're going to show weakness as a man, DON'T do it infront of your woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Men are guilty until proven innocent in the eyes of the public and even when innocent, the public doesn't careThanks for the plug. Jordan Peterson is by far my favorite person to listen to. I'll look this up. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Why is the marriage rate falling?There's no shortage of "marriage worthy men" they're just literally refusing to marry. average men, nor the average woman make makes enough money to have a comfortable retirement. They'll be "ight" in terms of surviving but the average person reality will be working until they drop dead. That's not even considereding women hold 80% of debt AND spending 80 cents for every dollar. Women are poored via cashflow, spending decisions, and debt they carry. The fact you thing the average woman makes eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Why is the marriage rate falling?There's exponentially more women who want to marry vs men. It's a common gripe for women. As for money, men out earn women at every level. Believe what you want but this is facts 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 03:35 PM |
| -2 | Why is the marriage rate falling?Men make more than women, so the issue runs deeper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 17 | Why is the marriage rate falling?The marriage rate is falling because the juice is not worth the squeeze for men. Why risk your money, assets, and way of living? There's virtually zero benefit. As for divorce rates, previous comparison is skewed because there's less marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.Whatever help you sleep at night 👍🏿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.Seeing how I'm tall, rich, in impeccable shape and place a firm importance on fitness and nutrition, I'll do just fine. There's older, more busted looking men in my network still pulling women that young. Why? Because they're rich. That's literally all you need. To play devil's advocate, even if I got divorced graped and lost 90% of my networth, I'd still be rich and new money would continue to flow. My lifestyle wouldn't change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.You're funny. Long story short with how I live life, invest, and take calculated risk; I won't even fall under upper middle class. That being said, I don't plan to trade what was the 22 year old. Opposed to the 30 year old, I got the 22 year old best years; she's traditional and didn't have as many bad habits. There's more time to get to know her before having kids. A biological clock is a real concern for men when dating. Also, I can't stress this enough, how much my significant other makes is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.Whos said I didn't. What I learned with women is that you can tell them the truth but they'll stick around because they have "hope" or they'll try to change your mind. Not all women but that mindset isn't uncommon. This woman is a high performer, so she's use to being able to influence others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:46 PM |
| -2 | A woman aged 30 earning 100k a year, is not "equal" to a man who is 30 earning 100k a year.I personally don't csre how much a woman makes and my actions reflect so. Years ago, I I got tired of mass dating. There's nothing wrong with it but I think it's the concept of "too much of anything. Anyway, I was 24, dating a woman who was 30, making 180k a year. She was fit, well educated, well traveled and had her own everything. I didn't even know what the red pill was at the time but I instinctively knew I'd never take her serious for a long term relationship because of her age and her emph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderI'm not single. I'm in a relationship but I also sleep with other women, while she's exclusively committed to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderMost of the time, it doesn't matter. I put in next to no effort unless I'm genuinely interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderYou're misunderstanding again. She tried datimg me, first, I shot her down; then we became friends. I do enjoy her company for conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in order29 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:17 PM |
| 5 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderYou misunderstand. That woman was my friend. There was no attempt of a romantic connection because I told her no from the very first interaction. Shooting your shot is no big deal. I'm not even bothered when men try. The concept that blows my mind is thay she and other women like her will literally die alome because their standards are out of this world unrealistic. It's sad but it's also their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 74 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderIt's baffling how far the entitlement has gone. I was talking to a 45 year old, obese divorce woman with 3 kids and she genuinely won't "settle" for anyone that's not a top 1% man. The delusion is a bit scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 18 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderBoth but primarily in person. I don't like dating apps because between makeup, lighting, filters, angels, and editing; you don't really know what you're getting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderSocial skill, in short, in all aspects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:47 AM |
| 142 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderWhat I've learned is that women think anything less than the top 1% isn't a serious dating option. Before anyone gives me hate for saying that, I'm speaking from personal experience being in that class. I'm 6'4, multiple 6 figure earner, fit, socially calibrated... ect. It blows my mind these overweight mid 30s women and up think they deserve a shot because with guys on my level or better because they have a "big heart" or a "PHD". There's a loooooong list of irrelevant s**t they think matters. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.I just place people in boxes. If you have a high notch count, I'll sleep with you, but I won't take you seriously. I require the best out of any commitment in life and a woman that has been ran through isn't someone I'm willing to give the keys to my fortune, life, and resources. Plenty of studies show why that will be a bad idea.now many people will have a counter argument but at the end of the day, the results you get out of life will be a direct reflection from the ideologies you participate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How many “triple 6” men do you know?I'm the only one I know. I'd know others of the 6 pack wasn't a criteria | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How many dudes in here are actually in a relationship?Yes Hell yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"From my dating experience, I definitely would rather be the hookup guy vs the relationship material guy, if I have to choose. I'm 6'4, in shape, attractive, and I have decent social skills. So bare minimum, I am the hookup guy and women typically want more when they find out I have money. Personally, I was never looking for a relationship, so being the hookup guy, being the guy women cheat with, I was in heaven (I'm currently in a relationship). That being said, nobody is everyone's "type" which… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man?High value isn't subjective. There's actual metrics. A high value man is someone who makes 100k or more for 5+ years (adjusted via geographical location), has a title that's recognized and accepted by others, and have a utility use to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 0 | The worst thing about TRP, men who just want a pity partyWhat's TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustratedSperm frozen and the snip. I'll do the dad thing in my 40s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:30 PM |
| -1 | Now that women have been sexually liberated, most men will always be sexually frustratedI loooooooove that women are sexually liberated. I can have sex with as many as I want without committing. Then they turn around and complain because top tier guys won't commit to them. Of course we're not! We're not designed to. Women are designed to want a partner to provide and protect them. I'm designed to spread seed and that's what I'm going to do 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Sex is all about objectificationI don't make friends with females anymore. Either we f*cking or not. Lol Plus, in my experience, women are terrible friends for an array of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 5 | The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most groundedAnecdotal at best. There's no correlation between being nice and hot and vice-versa. Literally. I see people saying "same for men" but the same concept applies, there's no correlation. From my anecdotal experience the "trend" is the opposite from your experience BUT I'm only 1 person, it would be irresponsible of me to claim that as the norm. Theres billions of people on the planet and in comparison, I've virtually haven't talked to anyone. This is coming from a guy who's use to being surrounded… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship?Not saying that it can't be, I'm just not intrested in anything outside of my orginal comment, that's all. I'm not trying to sway other people way of living. I'm a big fan of what this ideology has done for my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Do women need men?I never said that women don't work those type of jobs but there's not enough of them pertaining in those jobs to realistically say if we removed the men, they can support the infrastructure. If we removed the women, however, we could easily run the infrastructure. That's the point. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/22 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship?Agreed. A lot can be accomplished with transparency, boundries, and associating with people who can respect that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 56 | Should you cut off all the people you've slept with when you get into a relationship?I keep my life simple. I don't sleep with friends and I don't make friends with people I've slept with/dated. You're either one or the other and that's ok. I don't date people who don't practice the same ideology either. By-product? Friendships- phenomenal Single life- phenomenal Current 5 year relationship- phenomenal And most importantly, drama/stress free. Life is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 11:00 PM |
| -6 | Do women need men?Seeing how the infrastructure is ran by men (90% plus); we're talking the technical side which require STEM field degrees and the tough laborious jobs, not only do women need men to survive, so does other men. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Red Pillers, you aren’t single because you’re too short, your face is ugly, or because you’re not making six figures, it’s because your personality is shitI find this funny. I've had/have massive success with women, currently in a 5 year relationship and I can honestly say that my biggest win/stretch in terms of success with women was when my personality was objectively the worse, narcissistic, and lacking empathy. I came off a stretch of losing 150 pounds. I'm tall at 6'4, and I had a well paying career (still do just different kind now). I was literally a douche bag because I was self absorbed, lacked empathy, and said atrocious things towards w… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/22 08:43 PM |
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