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PT-141. Thank me later. Better than any pill you’ll take. Oh and cardio, good diet, good sleep, blah blah blah.
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:06 AM
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Her words don’t matter. Her actions do. Continue improving and continue banging her as often as you can. Exactly the way you know you should
/r/askMRP22/05/26 09:00 AM
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I was kind. And I was respectful. The cheating was its own thing. It didn’t impact how I treated her. The only thing I can blame her for, is the entire relationship it was always me after her. She never initiated anything. Not sex. Not a visit. Not a kiss. Not a phonecall. Nothing. It was always me. She’d always happily receive, but she never made the effort to show interest that I did. Which is partially why I thought she was just gonna leave like they all do, and I got a backup just in case. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:49 PM
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Women usually leave. Statistically. And so they check out while they’re still with you. By the time they leave they don’t care. Plus… women can’t actually love you the way you love a woman. Their love is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:46 PM
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No. This is the first time I’ve cheated. And me and this girl never even had an argument. It was by far the best relationship I’ve been in when it comes to maturity and respect. The rest, the girls were just… self absorbed really. Unrealistic expectations. Bad communication. Different marriage timelines. Entitlement. Etc. A woman will always do what’s best for them. But when a man does it, he’s scum of the earth. Crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:41 PM
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Lol she would’ve left anyway. They leave. That’s what they do. Unless they feel like they need you. Or unless they’re old and they just settle. I live in a bit city. Girls leave. They don’t stay. It doesn’t matter what you do or don’t do. They practically want to be worshipped and feel the feelings all the time. That’s not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:39 PM
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No. I didn’t want the hot girl. Like most western women, she was self absorbed, combative, argumentative, entitled and disrespectful. What I did was wrong, but it doesn’t matter anyway. Women leave. It’s what they do. If you’re good, they leave, if you’re bad, they leave, if you’re loyal they leave, and if you cheat they leave. They leave 70-80% of them time. In the west at least. So… meh… doesn’t really matter at the end of the day. And also, you have to accept that men are different than women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:32 PM
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I know I know. But I meant like… I was kind, considerate, respectful, affectionate, shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:26 PM
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No. I treated her well. With kindness, and respect. She’s the best person I’ve ever met. But I cheated on her with a hot girl and eventually she found out. I don’t recommend cheating. Never did it before, and have never done it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:21 PM
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I found ONE. But I messed that up because of the experiences I’ve had with so many that weren’t any good. And she wasn’t that attractive. I’ve been with many. I’m in my mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:30 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:18 PM
1

As kids/young adults = school As adults = work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:22 PM
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Stupid post. No. Women have always wanted that. It’s what they’re wired to desire for survival reasons. Millennia ago, women needed men to stay safe (they still do, but it’s less obvious, so they’re unaware)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:31 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:10 AM
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You’re rare. Usually the girl leaves. 9 times out of 10. And she moves on just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:10 AM
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It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:01 PM
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It doesn’t matter. The guy she thought was the best for her emotionally isn’t around anymore is he? So clearly she’s impossible to please. The more people a woman dates, the harder it is to make her HaPpY. Men don’t leave relationships that often. Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:50 PM
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Typically, yeah. Our instincts even drive us to do so. But the way women are today? No. U shouldn’t. Mind your business. Might get you into trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:21 AM
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They don’t. That’s strictly a female endeavor. They don’t do it on purpose. It just comes down to the way they’re wired. My brother has a saying: “Todo el mundo es maricon con el culo de los demás”. Which translates to: “Every one is gay when it’s with other peoples assholes”. It sounds crazy in English, but it makes sense in Spanish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:47 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:22 PM
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Nice try. No. Men have always been, and will always be, more visual than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:09 AM
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You’re right. Difference is… Being stubborn, and overly/aggressively opinionated tends to be a masculine quality. Not a feminine one. Which is why it’s repulsive to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:59 AM
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Spin it any way u want. I said what I said. Society at large caters and placates to women. If u can’t see it you’re blind. Men don’t want a know it all combative woman who’s not open to what he has to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:01 AM
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Women will never not expect things to magically happen to them. Because things magically happen to them. Men pursue them, so in their mind “it happened organically” when in reality, It took one of us to have the courage, and know how to court her. Most of the manifestation bs, tarot card readings, horoscope things, all female supported. They’re like kids. They believe in magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:43 AM
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Women who don’t listen or take into account anything a man has to say. Femininity = reception. The vagina takes IN a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:13 AM
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Wife thinks she can do better because she already has an option at work, or her divorced friends are making her think so. Wife doesn’t respect husband Wife/husband doesn’t want to sleep with wife/husband anymore. Finances
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:02 AM
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-high body count -fat chicks -aggressive/combative/argumentative overly opinionated chicks. -disrespectful chicks -entitlement -single moms -no accountability -not receptive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:09 PM
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-pregnancy test -paternity test
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/23 05:27 AM
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Women care more about how u make them feel than how u look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:19 AM
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For men, It’s practically necessary (I’m in my 30s). For women it’s counter productive. Many a man has been left by a woman he spent years with in his 20s only to be back on the market with very little dating experience. This significantly hinders a man. It does not hinder a woman. And statistically, women do most of the leaving. As far as a hoe phase for a woman, this is counter productive. Without fail, in my experience, and others, women with a lot of dating experience are harder to satisfy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:08 AM
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From my experience it’s true too. Women with a higher body count are all fucked up mentally and emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:03 PM
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Don’t mess with nature. If you do, these are the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:44 AM
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I’d do it without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:27 AM
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Women become almost obsessed with their friends sometimes. Friends are everything to them. They’re social creatures. Men are different. They don’t understand that. They expect men to be like them. Which is why they mention their degrees, travel, and home ownership status on their dating profiles while weighing 180lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:30 AM
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Thank feminism. Before, men had to marry you to bang you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:26 PM
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Sex is sex. Marrying, respecting, admiring, is something else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:44 AM
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Unfortunately, to most men, whether u like it or not, place value on a woman’s chastity. The less sex she’s had, the more valuable she is. It’s not a conscious thing. It’s instinctual. Men value purity, youth, beauty. Always have, always will. Times change. Instincts don’t. I can logically reason that it doesn’t matter. Intellectually I’m aware of that. But my visceral reaction, my gut feeling towards a promiscuous woman, isn’t good. It’s disgust. To put it in girl terms you’d understand, it giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:59 AM
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Nuns don’t sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:55 AM
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In South America, a lot of the women there are naturally beautiful and NOT fat. Since they have to walk everywhere. I’m Cuban. I know Colombians, Brazilians, Venezuelans, Hondurans, etc. So idk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:10 AM
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Some guys like fat chicks. Most do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:56 PM
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No. Misogyny = hatred or prejudice against women. Women will refer to anything a guy does or says that makes them feel bad as misogynistic because they don’t misuse the word and like to shame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:55 AM
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The women in those images u attached would look even less attractive if they were fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:24 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:04 AM
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Doesn’t mean they’re happy about it. Times change. Instincts don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:12 AM
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It’ll never happen. Women want a guy that just “gets it”. “Knows it”. “Is it”. They believe in magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:03 AM
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No It’s not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:53 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:36 AM
2

Wow. Trying to make someone else feel good and happy makes them like you more. Who would’ve thought?! (Men. Men would’ve thought. It doesn’t occur to Women for some reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:35 AM
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Not true. I’ve tried. I’ve tried to like ugly girls who are wonderful people. Doesn’t work. Penis just won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:41 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:24 AM
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Experience. Unless you can get her to stop hanging out with her whore bestie, and stop desiring validation from others on ig, she’s just gonna be a headache. Women are followers. Are led by their emotions. And therefore tend to do before they think. If u wanna keep her around, do it, along with others. You’re the prize. You sound exceptional. She sounds typical. She should earn you. Is she doing that?
/r/askMRP22/07/23 08:50 PM
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She’s for the streets. Go date more women
/r/askMRP22/07/23 08:43 PM
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I stopped reading at bartender. As an ex bartender myself, and male, I can say it gives you super powers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:23 AM
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I’d immediately think she’s gonna leave and/or is already seeing someone else. Because that’s how it usually works. But let’s say that’s not the case, I’d be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:06 AM
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Maybe she has an android 😂 iPhoneForLife
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:15 AM
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I assumed that at “casino”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:11 AM
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“I am sexy and beautiful, but fat as fuck”. “I make minimum wage but can buy any house I want”. These sound the same. Also, it doesn’t sound like you’re all the way done with your husband. And I’m not sure why you lied about being divorced up front. It looks bad. “Here is this married woman giving me her number and drinking with me” he might’ve thought. All of those are things married women shouldn’t do. All in all I think his behavior is due to a dip in attraction. Maybe you looked better less …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:07 AM
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That’s fine. I’ll bicker with you too. Don’t care. Go walk around and ask 20 women if they rather date a virgin, or a man with experience. Accept their first answer. Don’t try to convince them to agree with you (cuz they won’t instinctually)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:09 AM
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Infidelity and abuse, the only 2 reasons to divorce in my opinion, are clearly opposed in the vows you make. “To honor her and only her” blah blah. U can’t honor someone u slap the shit out of. And it can’t be “her and only her” if there’s another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:03 AM
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Idk. They can buy a cake. And Invite their friends to witness them temporarily commit to each other on their bf/gf day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 10:09 PM
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Chronically dissatisfied creatures who then blame men for their dissatisfaction. It’s how they’re wired
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:11 PM
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Women love calling anything that makes them fEeL bad abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:04 PM
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Right but there was no violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:03 PM
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Don’t care. Again…. The concept is the concept. People who can’t, won’t, or don’t want to stay together for life, should not get married. There is no point. Just get into and stay in a long term relationship until you decide you aren’t “hApPy”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:29 PM
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I wasn’t talking about religion. And I wasn’t talking about legalality. I was talking about the concept’s purpose. Which is for life. Not leaving. That’s the whole point. Abuse and infidelity aside (both of which go against traditional vows), there is nothing that can’t be worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:21 PM
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Marriage with divorce is just a long term relationship. End of story. Vows: in sickness and in health, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, until death do you part. Don’t wanna stick to these? Want the possibility of leaving? Cool. It’s fine. Don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:00 AM
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Yes. I was. And? Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:59 AM
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Not gonna have this debate. Find yourself a virgin, then report back. I’m sure you’ll say something along the lines of “we just didn’t have chemistry” or something when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:54 AM
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The west is retarded. Even though it’s self evident that our progressive views DONT WORK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:30 AM
1

No. It’s not. But “hi, thought you were beautiful and wanted to introduce myself” if you’re attractive, is. Means the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:22 AM
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Your flair is tell it how it is. That’s what I’m doing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:21 AM
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You SAY that, but a man’s lack of experience is a turnoff to women. When he doesn’t know how to touch you and cums in 3 minutes, you’ll be singing a different tune. As always, what women say they like, are ok with, are not ok with, etc, are often worlds apart from what they actually respond to and how.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:19 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:13 PM
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She can’t. She’s just fEeLiNg her way through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:36 AM
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See?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:35 AM
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No. Virgin women aren’t deemed as less attractive by men the way virgin men are usually deemed less attractive by women. Virgin women are fine. And in some parts of the world, even preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:18 AM
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Entitlement. Simps. Society. Feelings over logic. Nature. Long list really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:56 PM
2

You don’t seem to comprehend that men are also disgusted by women they don’t like back. But most of us wouldn’t be RUDE or cruel. If that post was made with the roles reversed, the men’s comments wouldn’t have been even close to the female comments in that thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:45 PM
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Right. But the assumption that ANY guy that came up to them they wouldn’t be interested in is what got me. And the harsh comments. Men wouldn’t be so harsh with their responses to day chicks that hit on them. And u didn’t have to go with “gay”. Could’ve used the same example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:39 PM
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It’s how they are bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:30 PM
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Here we go. No that’s not what I meant. Save your shaming for the ask women sub. Also, there’s no such thing as a woman who would mind a man she’s attracted to coming over and saying “I thought you were beautiful and wanted to introduce myself”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah I agree. But their comments were so… anti men. Like how dare they approach us kinda thing. So I commented and said “this is why men don’t approach women anymore”. And then got called an incel and got banned
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:43 PM
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Idk. The sub just banned me lol Just look at their post that says “what do you respond to a guy that says “you’re hot” at the bar?” It’s a long list of insults they have ready for men who compliment/approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:15 PM
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Never. Was just having this conversation in the ask women sub. Terrible place to visit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:56 PM
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What they say they want and what they actually respond to are often worlds apart
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:48 PM
4

Yup. Whenever I switch mine to Colombia, I match with beautiful and NICE/KIND women who aren’t fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:49 PM
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No. Can’t be defined clearly. And women think with their emotions. Not logic. They also lie a lot and perceive things subjectively instead of objectively. The law should be black and white. No grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 10:26 PM
2

This post is NOT misogynistic 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction13/07/23 07:34 PM
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This is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:49 PM
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A woman will forgive you for cheating. She’ll forgive you for being a jerk. She’ll forgive you for being unavailable. But she’ll NEVER forgive you for being a “nice guy”. Ignore this at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:44 AM
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Yes. But what I meant was that in the US, putting emphasis on the way a woman looks gets you shamed, insulted, criticized, etc. In other parts of the world it’s just a given
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:39 PM
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Yup. I’ve always said that women seek to disqualify men, whereas men seek to qualify women. Man: she’s crazy, but she’s hot Woman: he’s a great guy, but I don’t like his green shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:24 PM
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I didn’t say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:00 PM
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I’ve never met a girl that does gymnastics as an adult. That’s how common that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:04 AM
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I’m not a “red pill guy”. I’m Cuban. Born in cuba. With MANY friends from other countries. I’m in south Florida which is a melting pot. A lot of people down here came recently from Venezuela. Argentina. Colombia. Cuba. Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:47 AM
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They push themselves to go. They don’t need a group. Again, im generalizing. And this isn’t about what I want. It’s about what works. Well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:38 AM
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That’s cool. Not sure what your point is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:29 AM
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Yeah except nothing sculpts a body more than just lifting, cardio, and eating. They prefer that because they need the push I think. And the social aspect. Men just push themselves. The hottest women I’ve seen, workout like men. Alone. Weights. 4-5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:38 AM
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Yup. In other parts of the world, it’s still accepted that female beauty is important. Colombia is a prime example. But in the US and the west for some reason, it’s almost taboo to care about what a woman looks like. But a dozen different standards can be placed on men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:26 AM
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Most women don’t take care of themselves though. Every gym I’ve ever been to, has been 80% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:23 AM
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I like them. They’re hot. Men are simple. The problem is the ego thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:00 PM
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Yes. Most women are poison. We’re aware
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:49 AM
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Be as physically attractive as you can be. Do not be combative, loud, obnoxious, argumentative. Be feminine. Soft. Easy to get along with. Do not be promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:44 AM
1

It’s common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:21 PM
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No. They shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:55 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:08 AM
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I just read the title. Correct. Beautiful AND hyper sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:16 AM
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Women think everything “just happens”.‘notice how many times they say dumb shit like “I want it to happen organically”. They believe in magic and have no idea how things work. Men make an effort. They plan. Scheme. And design the entire experience when they can. They bypass their internal anxiety just to make progress with a girl they like. But to the girl “it just happened”. Must be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:10 AM
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Just read the title. Didn’t bother to read the essay. I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:42 AM
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🤔 how do u fix the gram? I wouldn’t even know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:36 AM
1

My Instagram SUCKS. Smells are fine. No BO, and I’m always told I smell good. Smells never been an issue. The cologne I use is awesome and all the bitches love it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:26 AM
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Physique: jacked. Social proof: depends. When I’m tending bar, through the roof. Otherwise, non existent since emu full time gig is running an online business from home and I’m an introvert Dating game: I do pretty good once I’m out on the date. Comes naturally to me. When I was a kid I brainwashed myself with the mystery method and other books like it. Hygiene: I visit my barber every week and have the most beautiful beard the world has ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:58 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:19 AM
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Attractive high earning guy here! World is not my oyster lol maybe I should earn… more?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:55 PM
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Depends on the bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:23 AM
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*sole Yes. Are you hot enough? And pleasant enough to be worth that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:56 PM
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Neither. Fuck that. Edit: I’d have to pick the 10 cuz I can’t get aroused by someone I’m not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:39 PM
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I wish that’s all it took. Getting jacked is easy if you like science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:36 PM
1

Looks, respect, and pleasantness to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:25 PM
5

Lmfaoooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:08 AM
2

🤦🏻‍♂️ ppl don’t even know what trp is anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:08 AM
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No it doesnt. And if they’re manipulated into wanting it, they want it. It’s no different than when a guy that’s naturally good with women gets them to want it. He’s hitting the same attraction triggers and doing the same things. He’s just doing it unknowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:15 AM
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Age? Where did u get the most actual DATES?
/r/seduction03/07/23 11:15 PM
2

How long have you both been together?
/r/askMRP03/07/23 11:08 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askMRP03/07/23 10:32 PM
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Which is true sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:04 AM
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No. Men say the average woman CAN have tons of sexual partners. And she can. Women have TONS more options than men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:05 AM
1

Growing old alone is worse I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:42 PM
1

Maybe I would. Reluctantly. I’m 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:16 PM
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I only date child free ppl. But I HAVE considered marrying someone who wants kids just so that I’m able to have that love.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:37 PM
2

I think you’re hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:30 AM
1

Stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:55 AM
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Money. Investments. Nicer car. I don’t care whether or not a woman has money. Or a nice car. Or investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:54 AM
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No. But I’m not surprised you twisted it that way. U guys are good at that. It’s not disingenuous to do/be what the opposite gender finds attractive. Gyms exist. Make up exists. Boob jobs exist. Fake eyelashes exist. That’s way more disingenuous than a guy making sure he becomes successful, competent and confident
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:01 AM
2

Men do not think that women think the same way we do. Most of the things we strive to achieve in order to attract women, we know we ourselves wouldn’t really care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:07 AM
1

Yes. We do like low maintenance women. As long as they’re ATTRACTIVE. The women I’ve been attracted to the most are attractive without make up or Anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:04 AM
-3

Sometimes they do, yeah. Because they’re naturally solipsistic. So they view everything from their own perspective and think men think the same way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:53 PM
1

Men value beauty. They always will. Even the guy that likes you for who you are, became interested, because of how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:17 PM
1

Do you go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:48 AM
1

EXTREMELY important. If you’re convinced it’s not, you haven’t experienced a woman’s behavior when you possess these traits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:23 PM
2

No. When I was 25, I was really cool with a 40 year old dude. And a 53 year old dude. Learned a lot from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:02 AM
1

It’s true. And it is one big joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:42 PM
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Title should read: women have it easier than men. Women with any kind of deficiency have it easier than men with that same deficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:55 AM
1

I’m not gonna argue with you only because you called me a jabroni. I have to respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:12 PM
1

Women have always, and will always, love men in direct proportion to how much they need them. Most relationships are ended by the woman. Most of the “I’m not happy anymore” or the “I just don’t feel the same” phrases are uttered by women. Not men. It’s far less so when they need their men. Women were built for survival. That’s why they’re so ruthless when it comes to mating. Men are a tool to women on some level. Like a Swiss Army knife. Women are just one thing to men. Sex and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:58 PM
1

Like in liberal societies. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:50 PM
1

Men are the expendable ones in a liberal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:19 PM
3

The west is better for men? Yeah ok. And I believe the sky is purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:18 PM
1

🤦🏻‍♂️ you don’t get it. Which is ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:06 PM
2

Jay Z seems to be doing just fine. Women date across and UP. The men they date are usually a little bit older. And have more going on for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:56 PM
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Older = more time has passed = more experience + more money = superior Also, women don’t care as much about looks as men. They care about competence. Resources. Experience. How he makes her feel. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:19 PM
4

He makes/made more money than she does/did. He’s also older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:21 PM
1

Listen, you can argue and point out all the little details as much as you’d like. The bottom line doesn’t change. The “boss babe” attitude is not attractive nor is it conducive to a healthy relationship. All relationships, even homosexual ones, work ONLY when there is POLARITY. Been that way since the beginning of time. This new shit we have going on, where women behave like men, is new. And it doesn’t work. No one is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:15 AM
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Men are very visual. Men also look for reasons to qualify women whereas women’s default is to disqualify men. Man: “she’s crazy but she’s hot and smart” Woman: “he’s a great guy, but I don’t like the way he dresses”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:27 PM
0

I have a great girl. We’ve never had an argument. We understand each other. She’s the woman. I’m the man. We respect each other. I cater to her, and she caters to me. Because we have polarity. Which is necessary for love and attraction. Something those boss babes wouldn’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:10 PM
0

I stopped reading after the first paragraph. These traits are attractive and necessary in men. Not in women. We are not the same. Never have been. Never will be. Women crave these traits in men. Strong. Assertive. Aggressive. Etc. Men do NOT crave these traits in women (but get them anyway, and that’s why they’re usually exes).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:54 PM
0

Im not a “redpilled man”. Just an experienced one. And again, its not about her having a career. It’s about the personality traits necessary to excel that she then brings home. Being assertive. Disagreeable. Combative. Etc. Those traits make having a harmonious relationship with a woman impossible. Are there feminine, agreeable, kind women who also excel in demanding careers? Sure. But they’re rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:27 PM
-1

Correct. But women don’t understand that. It’d the equivalent of a man being whiny. Overly emotional. Insecure. And lazy work wise. The same way women don’t want a feminine man, men don’t want masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:52 PM
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I just read the title. It’s true. As long as she’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:20 PM
2

She’ll act more submissive the more she likes you. Which fluctuates. Women’s attraction level always fluctuates. Your behavior has a lot to do with it. Which sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:10 PM
1

It’s not “preying”. Regardless of age, men usually pursue the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:44 PM
1

Well I mean you’re assuming the older guy doesn’t want anything serious with her. Which is not necessarily a correct assumption. Most men would marry a younger woman if they could It’s funny because when the age gap is the other way around, older woman, no one accuses her of anything predatory or not wanting anything serious. I probably wouldn’t care. My job was to raise her right. Not control her. But I’d have a long talk with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:13 PM
1

You might not be that picky. That’s great. You’ll do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:06 AM
8

“You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen and I think we should get married”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:41 AM
2

What you’re describing is nice. And something most of us aspire to. But it’s unrealistic. They ARE utilitarian. Women value resources, competence, and strength. And men value beauty. Relationships end all the time (what a joke) in modern society. People “fall out of love” without realizing that love is ultimately, and eventually just a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:39 PM
1

Communication. Respect. Compromise. Girl has to have a good relationship with her father. Ignore this one at your own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:09 PM
1

Yeah, no, sorry. I’ve dated women my whole life. And they always end it. They don’t try anything. They THINK they tried. Half the time you won’t even know what’s wrong. They expect you to read their minds. Women go off emotions, and emotions, by nature, are erratic. Not constant. You won’t always FEEL like staying. Men know this and stay anyway more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:05 AM
3

Talk to her. Maybe you’re not attracted to her at the moment. Maybe it’s the trying for a baby thing.
/r/askMRP18/06/23 01:53 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 AM
2

Yeah bitches here are all fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:12 AM
1

“These men are too narrow minded to look for them”. No. It’s just that they’re very RARE. When the ones that exist, aren’t much to look at. Whereas in other countries, even the beautiful ones know how to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:09 AM
1

I only read the title. Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:28 PM
2

Can? Sure. Do they? Rarely. Unless you’re young
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:55 PM
1

All relationships start off as just hooking up. So women having a plethora of sexual options = women having a plethora of romantic/relationship options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:29 PM
3

Learned this the hard way.
/r/askMRP14/06/23 08:46 PM
2

I’m above average in terms of attraction. But I don’t have any luck on OLD.
/r/seduction14/06/23 08:18 PM
1

Damn. What happened in your marriage? 10 years is a long time. I’m turning 36 this year. Just came out of an LTR, and I feel like I ran out of time
/r/seduction14/06/23 07:58 PM
2

I was asking about you. Not him.
/r/seduction14/06/23 07:46 PM
3

This. Yup.
/r/seduction14/06/23 07:26 PM
0

Never ended up married? LTR?
/r/seduction14/06/23 07:15 PM
6

Lol! Cmon. I’ll go first. I’m 35. And I feel like that’s old.
/r/seduction14/06/23 09:58 AM
21

How old are you?
/r/seduction14/06/23 09:39 AM
3

No. There’s ALWAYS something to tolerate. Everyone is flawed. That’s another thing, women with high N counts are combative and argumentative usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:06 AM
5

That’s you. That’s great. But no. Women with a lot of experience tend to be worse partners than women with less. Always looking from the perspective of “what he gives to me” instead of “what can I give to him”. They tolerate less, and relationships are about understanding and working with the other. Not just bailing when it’s not easy. The higher the number, the worse it is. Also, you’re older. Maybe you finally just settled. Maybe you’re calmer than you used to be. Or maybe you’re just an excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:51 AM
4

The issues start past 6. Gets progressively worse past 10. Women with more than 10, can’t bond. Always want more. Never satisfied. Moody. Anxious. Initiate breakups. It’s bad. Women with 6 or less, nicer. Calmer. Easier to get along with. Easy to please. Just… better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:25 AM
1

Just read the title. And yes. They definitely do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:14 PM
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Agree. Been normalized for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:35 AM
1

And that’s why girls find it so easy to leave nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:34 PM
6

I should’ve done what you did. Instead she got rid of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:39 AM
9

Sucks but that’s exactly how they are. And “fuck off” is exactly the response they need. Hard to do when u love them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:33 AM
9

Used to be a beautiful woman to call my own and maybe a family. Now… idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:28 AM
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Agreed
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/23 01:10 AM
2

An accountability question?! HA
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:42 AM
2

I started lifting cuz of a woman. That was 15 years and 40 lbs of muscle ago
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:36 AM
1

Hot wife who’s also nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:55 AM
1

I’m a man. And I’d never do anything for a woman that I did for any of my exes that left, they left.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:21 AM
11

What was the point of this post? If you think only red pill followers care about sex, you’re mistaken. Men have cared about sex since the beginning of time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:43 AM
6

The men that chose that are probably already in sexless marriages and/or they have kids. Once a person has kids, it’s all worth it in their opinion. I’ve heard people after 30 year marriages have ended say “it was all worth it because I have my kids”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:40 AM
14

Not the same. Remove sex from the equation, and men will always choose the option with sex. Males across multiple mammalian species risk their lives for sex. What you’re proposing is dumb. Of course everyone picked the option that involved sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:36 AM
8

Not how that works. Sex releases certain bonding chemicals. You can kiss, cuddle, and hug a friend too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:31 AM
21

A relationship without sex is a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:26 AM
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Short answer: yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:08 AM
1

Find it. It’s out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:01 PM
0

No. It’s been proven that women desire a man they deem superior to themselves. Bigger. Taller. A bit older. More money. More knowledge. More competence. Everything. As far as the second thing I said, the traits required to be successful (aggressive, disagreeable, relentless) are not feminine traits. They’re not attractive traits. This is not me saying that women should all be losers. That’s not what I’m saying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:55 PM
2

Sounds nice in theory. But women don’t want an equal. They want a superior. Also, the women who are successful, are not very ladylike or feminine. Most are headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:48 PM
1

Answer: yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:22 AM
1

Scarlett Johansson. Zoe Saldana. Young Selma Hayek (even though she is STILL hot)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:38 AM
1

But they CAN. Which was his point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:57 AM
-2

I see exactly this all the time in that sub and in r/marriage. Anything blaming the man gets hundreds of upvotes. Anything even slightly holding the woman accountable gets downvoted to hell. It’s so obvious, and yet if you call it out, it gets you banned from the sub for being red pill content, misogynistic, u name it. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:11 PM
2

Briffaults law
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:02 PM
1

Money Social influence pick something that will make you very well paid. cultivate, maintain, and constantly increase your social reach (connections)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:10 AM
2

You’re twisting my words and combining parts of my comment. Not surprising. It’s bad when she’s masculine. Most women who are confident, assertive, and self proclaimed “independent”, are aggressive. Combative. Argumentative. Etc. Masculine. It’s just not attractive to men. It’s not “bad”. It’s just not attractive to men. The same way a man who’s unsure of himself, overly emotional, with low self esteem, and with not much going for him would be unattractive to a woman. It’s not “bad” that he is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:58 AM
0

If you’re a woman, you wouldn’t understand. If you’re a man, you haven’t dated enough. And in my comment I specifically said a hot Instagram chick. You’re taking the part I used to describe the possible and probable behavior of the hot ig chick, and applying It to what was said further up in my comment. You combined 2 things that weren’t meant to be combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:33 AM
1

It will always feel a bit uneven. Pressure is made for shoulders, not hips. Her problems, are your problems. But your problems, are your own. Everything you just described sounds pretty good, maybe you’re just nit picking. But like I said, do less. Just do less. And if she brings it up, casually mention that you don’t have time, and doing the things u stopped doing, has been setting you back. Casually. Not pouty. Not passive aggressively. Very non chalantly.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/23 05:08 AM
5

Men and women are attracted to different things. Usually opposite things. Women like men bigger and taller than them. Men like women shorter and smaller than them. That’s a good example. Women often make the mistake of thinking men are attracted to the same things they’re attracted to. Resources. Independence. Confidence. Assertiveness. But in reality, men are attracted to the opposite of those things. Soft spoken. Modest. Shy. Soft. Etc. Also, consider women think emotionally most of the time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:49 AM
5

Yes there’s a difference. Guys would. Most Women wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:44 AM
12

Everything you described yourself as, is attractive to men. Your behavior. Your modesty. Men like this. Women don’t understand that. They think men are attracted to what they themselves (women) are attracted to (confidence, assertiveness, “independence”, etc). And nothing could be further from the truth. Sure, a hot girl on Instagram is hot. Nice to look at. But probably a pain in the ass to deal with, self centered, entitled, and constantly seeking attention from everyone. That’s not attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:36 AM
3

Through action. Do less. She’s not gonna “understand” anything. She’ll just get defensive and find a way to blame you. She’s feeling. It’s what they do. They feel their way through life. You have to figure out why she’s FEELING what she’s feeling. How does she treat you? Does she respect you? Why or why not? How have you been showing up in the relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/23 02:12 AM
3

No. There is no good way to word it without sounding weak and unsure of yourself. You have to figure it out on your own.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/23 01:48 AM
0

This can be easily fixed IF the US becomes a third world country. When things are hard, everyone goes back to normal. Why? Traditional gender norms make survival more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:16 PM
2

I agree 100%. We need you to clone yourself. We need more of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:20 PM
-1

A woman with logic? Making a rational argument? Calmly and clearly? No shaming language? Imposter. Cross dresser. I kid, I kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:59 AM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:54 AM
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Short answer: yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:12 AM
1

They’re not wrong though. That IS how it works. Numerous studies back it up. So does anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:08 AM
1

I had this once. Convinced I’ll never have it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:08 AM
15

A buddy of mine lives in Vietnam, and confirms this. I have another friend in Thailand, same. Japan, same. Costa Rica, South America, same. So.. yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:03 AM
1

Assuming your husband made more than you? Or are you one of those rare exceptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:43 AM
-1

And most of them still don’t do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:42 AM
2

I just read the title. Correct. Because men and women are different and value different things. Most men wouldn’t reject Mrs. Perfect if she was short. But most women would reject Mr. Perfect if he was short.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:54 AM
2

Women are dating the same men. I’ve dated, and am usually dating, multiple women for extended periods of time. But I also worked on myself A LOT during my entire youth. For reference I’m 35 now. But I’ve been lifting since I was a teen. And have always been an absolute nerd when it comes to self improvement. Before all this red pill shit. My bookshelf was full when I was 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:30 AM
1

What he’s trying to say, is that having money is just a prerequisite, so much so, that to those women, it’s normal. And expected. And common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:00 AM
9

I’m not the person you’re asking to explain, but I agree with them, so I’ll explain. The human condition isn’t to be “happy”. Being “happy” is just like being sad, mad, excited, bored, confused, etc. It’s an emotion. Which is temporary and fleeting. This “happy” shit started in the 60s and has ended lots of relationships in the pursuit of “happiness”. Marriage used to be about duty and family. Relationships were formed at one point based on necessity. Teamwork. A common goal. Survival. Unwaverin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:26 AM
0

Lol It’s beautiful to see such elegant and indirect shaming language.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:06 AM
4

Well, most men value a woman who cares about the count. Some don’t though. So you’re in luck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:07 PM
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