~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Complete mind F today by my ex.Glad she found something she can’t choke on! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone else find it difficult to want to have sex due to their spouse’s infidelity?My difficulty with sex is that it turns out I’m bisexual: If I want sex I have to buy it. I put my energy into more important things. My sex drive disgusts me at this point. Between my job, kids, and elderly parents … I have no time or energy to start anything meaningful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/25 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?This is a tough one, because how is she treating the guy now, and does all that lovey dovey stuff get turned off as soon as the honeymoon is over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:55 AM |
| 9 | Men that were cheated on- How on earth did you ever regain your sexual confidence?By the time I divorced my ex, I had reached the point that her infidelity and such said a lot more about her character than anything about how I performed sexually. I had gotten involved with an absolute smoke show during the process, but she had her own problems. I ended up punting her out too. My last GF in 2019 was odd. I now understand the dynamic was anxious attachment on her part with fearful avoidant attachment on my part. These days, I have three things to pour into: my career, my childr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?Nobody is owed “a chance”. But turning down someone doesn’t need to be an excuse to be a rude prick about it. The right thing to do is set your boundaries, and respect the boundaries of others. And be kind. Kindness is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?Child support. I love my kids, but hate paying her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Want to Divorce but have 2 young kidsWhen my ex and I split, my youngest was 2. He has no memory of the before times, which my oldest refers to as the golden age. You’re going to need counseling. In some states, the court is going to require it before they’ll consider letting you divorce. It may fix some things. It may not. And if it does not, you can present evidence that you tried. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 02:15 PM |
| 16 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?My ex was still pretty hot when we got divorced, but the straw that broke my back was when she threatened a dead bedroom for me and that she’d do whoever and whatever she wanted. 50/50 custody, lost half my shit, had to live in a dumpy apartment, etc. So yeah, she was still physically attractive, but every other attribute was just shit. The feeling was mutual, so it was an easy court case to settle out. We were both done. In a few years when the CS ends and my youngest is launched, then I won’t … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Alimony laws force men to provide after the relationship ends. Men seek sex and affection. No laws force women to uphold that role in or outside of the relationship.I was on the filing side of divorce and have been divorced almost 11 years. No amount of sex from my ex would be worth the outlay of funds. What needs to fix it is the end of no fault divorce, but that won’t happen until society collapses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Wife Wants Divorce, Affair?Bitches be crafty. My ex slipped up in a couple major ways which is how I caught her. Cheaters often have some sort of support network now, which helps them hide much more easily. All it takes is a missed email, open browser tab, a slip up from a coworker and you’ll have her dead to rights … if her crew aren’t already covering for her. As far as the fight goes, hold the line at 50/50. The justice system isn’t an egalitarian entity, so go in cold and get your half of the assets, and split custody… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsEliminate the sexual component, and you just have a friend or a roommate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Are there any tangible steps being taken to change divorce laws?No fault should involve no money beyond shared asset decoupling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Now wife works out and loses weightIf she’s lost 20 pounds now, once she moves out, you’ll have lost another 100! All joking aside, it’s how things go one the post-divorce mind normalizes. I managed to get down to my high school weight by the time my divorce was final. I took up running to deal with the anxiety of it all. It was good for a few years until I busted my ankle. By then, all the emotional stuff was settled. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 08:38 AM |
| 8 | Super depressed about moneyI remember how this hit me when I got divorced. From my nice house to probably the worst hovel in town. Those were dark times. On finances and the court, stick to the absolute letter of your agreement. The Department of Revenue is right behind the IRS when it comes to fucking you. Your purpose is your children, and they don’t really care who does the trips so long as you love on them when you have them. Eventually, they figure it out. You can be honest about how you feel about the divorce to a p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How long did your divorce take?You know how Subway has those 6’ party subs? Kinda like that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 12:35 PM |
| – | Men’s sexual desire has been socially castratedWhat a crock of shit. It’s only “homoerotic” if you equate any kind of love with sex. A prime pitfall of the English language is that we use only one word to describe a range of emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:07 PM |
| 2 | How long did your divorce take?Just under 6 months from filing to closure. The shit sandwich to get there was a saga, however. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Financially ruined after divorceSo much depends on the state you are in. I had to live in a hovel with my kids for 5 years before I could buy a house of my own. It was a very humbling experience. Going from a nice house to a place I’d kill a few mice per night was a depressing adjustment. The kids were resilient, fortunately. They need more of your time than what you can spend on them. I now have about 5 years left on the clock unless my youngest wants to go to college. It will move on by, and you’ll be stronger than you thoug… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Keeping your last name.Not worth the fight, unless you have insane leverage or just feel like burning money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimonyA lot of that depends on the state you’re in. I’m surprised there isn’t an end like when you go to collect social security at retirement. I got divorced in the DPRMA (Democratic People’s Republic of Massachusetts) 11 years ago. Since we were only married for 11 years at that point, I was liable for up to 7.5 years of alimony. However, child support was higher so that was the option she went with. Just over 5 years to go unless my youngest goes to college. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/25 11:34 PM |
| 5 | How many wives admitted they regret the divorce?I’ve been divorced for 10 years now. I filed and have not regretted it. She has been off and on with her AP through all this time such that their time together exceeds the length of time that we were together. I don’t think she has any regrets beyond getting caught and won’t likely feel any additional pangs of regret until child support shuts off once my youngest child launches in 6-10 years, dependent upon college. Most parts of my life have become pretty good in this time. I have made huge gai… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/25 07:05 PM |
| 6 | How and where did you tell her you want a divorce?I hope you have seriously considered what lies ahead of you before you pull the trigger. I was 39, and it was a saga that led to me declaring a divorce. But she had her AP as a distraction through and long after so things were not hotly contested. I told her right to her face that the arrangement we had was not working for me and I was done. 6 months and half my shit later, we were divorced. Lots of child support which will be around $250,000 post-tax by the time my youngest leaves the nest. Liv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Many men losing interest in womenI’m 50 and I gave up 5 years ago. I got ghosted for the last time and decided that I was done from that point. I had two kids with 50/50 custody and an intense job with a lengthy commute, leaving precious few hours in any given week to get anything done, much less any me time after errands and house chores. It has allowed me to get a lot of things in order, which makes for a peaceful life. Crushes come and go, and I enjoy the feelings as they pass through. Like many older adults, I put in a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell my ex-wife’s family the truth about why we separated?“Nothing happened” … bruh. My advice: Say nothing until your divorce is final. There is no mention of children so that makes things far less complicated. When it’s all said and done, walk off into the fucking sunset like a boss. You can cut off her and all her family and get on with your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 12:35 AM |
| 2 | I’m starting to think that being single is the way to goThe last date I went on was at the turn of the decade, right at the dawn of COVID. People are exceptionally maladjusted now compared to even then. I’m not sure what can change, or if society is hopelessly broken at this point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/25 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Any success with staving off divorce by making a list of demands to radically change the marriage?You’d have better luck playing the lottery than getting an ultimatum to stick. Prepare to be broke though. There’s a reason the phrase “cheaper to keep her” exists. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 07:52 PM |
| 8 | A man aloneWell put. As has been said before: A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Is it worth getting married?Unless you’re going to have children of your own, absolutely not. The marriage contract is one of the few where the parties involved are both subservient to the state. With no-fault divorce being the norm, the party who ultimately cares the most is the one who loses. Your spouse can be a serial cheater and still walk away with half your shit and child support and leave you picking up the pieces of your life for years after. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Why do men take divorce so hard?Happiness is your job. Happily ever after is the biggest lie ever sold to children in the western world. Marriage is a fucking ton of work. A lot of it is drudgery and mediocre days. Happiness comes in small doses. A smooth cigarette, a 10-second orgasm, and a chocolate chip cookie. (Props to anyone who gets the reference.) Just GTFO while he still has a shot at salvaging his dignity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/24 04:54 PM |
| 18 | Her boyfriend reached out to meAs much as we want to kick his ass, it was her choice. Bro is doing you a solid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | It wasn’t an accidentI feel very much the same! While I am not an avid church goer, my faith and character were refined in the fires of struggle. I’ve still got a long ways to go, but the more I have placed in His hands the more I have been blessed. Were I married, I would not have been able to take my current job which has allowed me to follow the purpose I believe I was put on this earth to fulfill. There is still much work ahead for me, but my mind and soul are at ease in ways I would not have considered possible… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Wife left me after 6 years of marriageYou were a stepping stone on the hypergamy highway. It hurts, and were I a betting man, I bet your replacement was already lined up when she let the bombs drop. NGL, this is going to take a long time to heal from. Being dropped like it’s no effort on her part can really fuck up your own sense of value as a partner. It’s okay to grieve the loss, and it’s okay to get therapy so someone outside yourself can help sort things out. There are brighter days ahead. If you haven’t filed yet, it is time to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Dating during divorceShe stated “dating” well into the marriage. It took me far too long to find my balls and construct a backbone, but it did happen. AFAIK, they are still seeing each other. 🤷♂️ This is a good thing though because it keeps her distracted and largely off my case. It can stay that way until I am unbound from the state Department of Revenue. I love my children and support them, but I really do not enjoy the paycheck withdrawals. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/24 11:14 AM |
| 10 | Women are not entitled to anything from menIt’s a case of Schrödinger’s feminist now: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered until something happens and she chooses which state benefits her most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What are the top things that you don’t missFacts. I’m fortunate that she keeps herself distracted by her former AP now BF. I suspect the lack of respect follows the lack of accountability. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | What are the top things that you don’t missI do not miss being lied to about a “late night at yoga.” I do not miss being minimized because I am not as attached to a clean sink. I do not miss having only shitty TV speakers because surround is a “waste of money”. I do not miss being called lazy because my job requires a ton of mental energy during the day that leaves me exhausted. There are sooo many more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | After a failed marriage and seeing vows broken out of anger, I struggle to see the benefit of marriage. It seems many women's loyalty is conditional, depending on their options and the state of the relationship.I think there is an inability to see past a certain point in time for the long term, particularly where loyalty is conditional. I hope she has planned well. I have 6-10 years left of child support depending on what my youngest does after high school. Then the faucet will be shut off, finally. The support cost alone will be between $250-300k when it’s all said and done. Funny though … she could have stayed loyal and not only would the house have been paid off, but she could have actually retired … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | “Marriage saves money. You will be on a double income and get tax breaks. So many economic advantages.”There are advantages as there as it’s cheaper for two to live under the same roof. But that’s about the end of it. If it works out, that is fantastic. However, it is spinning the roulette wheel: with each successive spin, there are even greater odds that you lose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 11:56 PM |
| 2 | First GF after divorceThe last GF I had sounds similar. I just could not actually believe she wanted to be with me at all, so I spared us the grief before things got too deep. I have only recently come to realize that between my ex wife, rebound, and negative experience in the dating market that those aggregate experiences have trained me to be avoidant. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/24 12:27 PM |
| 10 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Once you realize that two people getting married is not a contract of equals, but rather two parties inferior to the state … that should be sufficient. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 12:51 AM |
| 6 | My wife mentioned divorceLet her go and once she is gone, weld the door shut. It sounds like you avoided having kids with this woman, so you are incredibly fortunate to find out now than when you are two kids deep and 5 years into a mortgage. Play it cool. She has set the tone, and at this point things are just business. I can’t downplay how much it sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 06:25 PM |
| 4 | I hate my wifeOne thing you need to do is get yourself into therapy for yourself and couple’s therapy for the two of you. For yourself: You need a place to vent and stew and strategize and cry if you need to. Not to say your anger isn’t justified, but you need to let that pressure valve out with someone who isn’t your partner. Being able to let that out and process it will allow you to be cool and collected. For the two of you: You need to give this an honest shot. If she doesn’t want to go, that will be on h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I just found out that I’m going to be forced to sell my house and pay around $1,500 monthly for alimony, child support, and health insurance. I only bring home $3,000 every month. How am I going to survive?What else did we expect to get for a rib? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 09:48 PM |
| 9 | A random surprise this morning.Pay her no mind. It’s okay to be pissed though. The anger from betrayal takes a long time to recover from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Divorced Men: With what you experienced, would you ever remarry? If you could go back, would you have ever married knowing what you know now?It’s a tough question for me since I love my children. As far as remarrying goes, I will never let the state be a part of my relationships ever again. Knowing what I know, if I found myself back in my 20s in the 90s, I would have chosen someone else since I know who the loyal ones are now. The great many things I would do differently would create a different reality, and I really like being a father. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/24 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you want to find a new partner?Nope. I’m turning 50 and have been divorced for 10 years. I have dated a little bit during this period, but find I don’t get past the 90 day mark. Since I still have my kids to care for, the free time I would need to spend on building a new connection is far too much. That, and I like my peace. It was around 45 that I concluded it wasn’t worth the pursuit for me. I won’t involve the state in another relationship of mine and I don’t want any more kids. Most women I encounter who are single want m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Remind me never to get married againThe government handjob is nice, but that family court strap on is so often ignored. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/24 01:34 AM |
| 5 | How long have you guys stayed single?Going on 5 years single now. It’s not what I expected, but I’m not terribly disappointed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Did you sleep with your x-wife after the divorce?Nope. As soon as she threatened a dead bedroom, it was all over. I moved to the couch for a couple months, then the basement once the weather got warmer. It hasn’t come up. It’s been over 10 years, and she’s still in the situationship with her original AP (from at least 2006) as best as I know. 6ish more years until my little guy turns 18. If he doesn’t go to college, my period of servitude will be over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 12:22 AM |
| 7 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?Personality may be important, but it is not the only factor. That’s the piece that seems to be often forgotten. The biggest lie I fully believed coming of age in the 90s was all I needed to be was a “nice guy”. The elements that make up a visceral attraction are not usually tied to logic and widely vary. Yes, there are some generally accepted aesthetics that contribute greatly to if one is perceived as attractive to another. Friend group dynamics can strain things as well depending on the weight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Dating post divorceI noticed that too. Talk is cheap and at that distance, there is no rubber to hit the road. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/24 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Dating post divorceIt was a shitshow when I got divorced 10 years ago, but things are a whole different game now. The apps are a disaster except for the top 5–10 percent. That’s on what women perceive as top, as the notorious OKC study found that women do not grade on a bell curve as men do. That is also a looks-based market, which is shallow by nature. I have dated very sparingly post-divorce. My job and my kids take up the lion’s share of my time, so what is leftover is premium time. I got to resenting my last e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/24 12:08 AM |
| 4 | How much money did you lose in your divorce?Less than a bunch of the crew here. About $200k at the split. She kept the house, and I kept the stock which got me through about 5 months of unemployment a couple years later. Even at 50/50, I have still paid around $150k after tax over the last 10 years. I got a big rise a year or so ago and have kept the bills down and mostly paid off a new car (old one totaled due to a wildlife incident). I’ve got 7 more years to go before I am eligible for parole from family court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Anybody here regret not staying for the kids?No regrets at all, and it has been almost 10 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Dying alone... We shouldn't be scared of that.I expect to die alone. I hope to be fit enough such that my death will be relatively sudden … instead of years of drawn out suffering. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 01:46 PM |
| 9 | Letting the F#%$ GoWhat few people say about the grief process is that the stages are neither linear nor final except when you get to the very end. I’ve healed to the point where I am functional quite well, but I had kids with my ex. The closest I expect to get to healed will be when my youngest is emancipated and the final child support payment has gone out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 01:35 PM |
| 2 | I found out on Christmas day that my wife slept with someone and never told me about it. The text message that he sent gave it all away.There is nothing to be salvaged from this dumpster fire. That’s what the burning sensation when you pee is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | How bad did your retirement accounts get a shellacking during your divorce?I was lucky. My ex and I had accounts of roughly equal value, so they were untouched. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Dead bedroom is not a one-way street. Either partner can check out for a multitude of reasons. In any case, the power sits in the hands of the one who cares the least. Any relationship is doomed once it is one-sided. The woman may think she has her meal ticket. The guy may think she’s too fat after kids. Whatever the reason, this isn’t limited to a just men getting the short end of the deal. Time for some generalities. My suspicion we hear about this more from men is that a notably higher percen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | If sex and relationships were off the table: do women find men appealing in any way? Are we funny or interesting?The best friendships I have with women are when sex and relationships are off the table. Essentially, it’s mutual unattraction (e.g. age differential, lesbians, etc.) that kills any sexual tension. Or at least that is what I have observed in my own slice of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 49 | Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man?It’s somewhat humorous. I found this piece of brilliance a while back: Yes, I know. This belief is all the rage right now. Poor women trying to get their men to open up about their emotions, but they just won't. Too stubborn. Too emotionally underdeveloped. Must be all the male-power fantasy media they consume. Here's an unfortunate reality: Women, in general, have very little patience for men's emotions that don't suit their needs. Our emotions aren't really concerned over, except insofar as th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Why did you pick the wrong woman?In short, I’m not really a guy with options. The ex and I were compatible in most facets of life, so it was like hitting the jackpot. No loyalty on her part, and very clear in retrospect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Do you warn AP’s wife?Fuck yeah. Second time around, I gleaned enough information to definitively find out who he was (quite a common name, it turned out). That led down a twisty rabbit hole and I was able to find his wife and drop some bombs. My world was destroyed. No way he was getting away without a scratch. I almost filed an ethics complaint with his company since my ex worked for one of their suppliers, but figured nuking his home life was going to be enough. I don’t know the full end result, but like me, he lo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomWomen don’t need men for survival anymore, which is a very new phenomenon in the short time it has been a thing. Without a need, there is no grounds for even semi-permanence. Big daddy government is an effective surrogate, at least in the lower tiers in the hierarchy of needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:41 AM |
| 25 | Told my wife I want a divorce.Divorce is like brandishing a firearm. If you pull that out, you better be willing to act on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/23 09:43 PM |
| – | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?Generally speaking, women would rather share a king than have their own peasant. They have their own freedom and means to make a living, so having a man of their own is not a requirement. And if it’s optional, why not shoot for the best you can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?It’s not so much the job, but personality red flags I look for. I have been out of the dating market for a few years now, but these are a few that have thrown up the most problems: Clinical psychologist Social worker Adult entertainer As hobbies go, any kind of activist is a clear nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?Nope. If anything, they have been saboteurs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:04 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps are not designed for womenDating apps are designed to extract attention, engagement, and most importantly money out of the user base. A couple matched is customers lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?If they are reasonably sane, none. I’m all about that monk life. The squelch is turned up so high no signals can break through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What was the hardest thing for you to deal with in the divorce process?9 years out. The hardest part was sleeping on the couch, followed by months in the basement on a twin mattress. This sucked ass at 6’4”. The next culture shock was the apartment. It was the only place in town, but it would serve its purpose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Divorce... only 29Do what your lawyer advises. This is already getting confrontational, so going at this alone would be unwise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 11:40 PM |
| 13 | Question involving infidelity...When a woman asks you to open things up, it is not for your principal benefit. It’s for hers. What did you really think was going to happen? Of course she was going to fuck someone else! You were set up. That’s the hard part to admit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 11:28 PM |
| 21 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniablePushing 50 now, with the big head fully in charge, any woman competes directly with my peace and limited free time (after work / kids). That is going to require much more sex than most women around this age are going to be willing to provide. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up countryLet’s not gloss over the years of indentured servitude to follow the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep trying?Get your own therapist, for one. You need someone who can help you sort out the emotion soup going on right now. As the decision goes … the thing only stays together if you both want it. This is not the case, so you need to manage as best you can. There are a lot of good replies here on how to do that. One thing to put on your list is finding an attorney. You need someone to fight for your rights in all that’s about to come to make sure your split is fair. If you think attorneys are expensive, g… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 10:01 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"And there is nothing new under the sun. Most women would rather share a king than be married to a peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | When your wife left you for someone she said to not worry about during your marriageThis is a hard one not to take personally. It’s so common, there are tropes about it. The one she tells you not to worry about … worry about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Gents, what did you do that was definitely "wrong" to cause your marriage to end?Lots of things. However, the one that comes to mind was taking her up her suggestion that I should “get a girlfriend” which was a trap of the most devious kind. For in that trap, she would later use “If you can have a girlfriend, then I can have a boyfriend” as a means to get back with her AP. Of course, that blew up spectacularly in a way neither of us expected. I filed for divorce less than a year later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/07/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again?No regrets. I divorced my ex for her lack of loyalty and derisive attitude towards me at the end. Unlike most of the replies here, I have had zero sex in either mind blowing quality or quantity since. However, the peace in my personal life is unrivaled. Peace comes before pussy as the dictionary intended. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a man who has sex with you is truly sexually attracted to you?For some men, sex is as rare as running water in the desert. In the middle of the Sahara, a bottle of tap from Flint, MI will do the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | My ex-wife is talking pretty serious about suicide and I have no idea what I am supposed to do with that information.Talk to your lawyer if you think she is serious. Suicidal mothers are more renowned for taking their kids with then when they go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys think "creepy" guys exist?Your second sentence confirms the first, followed by a full list of examples. The guy at the store was the least creepy, of all of them. You handled it well. The old guys are probably the creepiest, but they also care the least. I pray that I don’t succumb to such dementia when I get to that range. I see this as the largest problematic end result of PUA, in that so many guys are convinced it’s a numbers game and don’t quit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest here. No macho answers, and no judgement. In reality, how many guys here would be happy to get validation from your ex that the divorce was not your fault?I don’t care what she thinks. I know about my share of the marriage problems, but she’s the one that ultimately blew it up to the point where I filed. Most things are better than they have been. Occasionally, it gets lonely, but life is mostly peaceful and that has a lot of value for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Just recently got contact info on one of my STBXW affair partners.The only person worth dropping a note to is the AP’s wife, if he has one. Fucker helped blow up my world, so I tactical-nuked his. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career?I am living option B. Looking good may be nice, but I’ll keep a roof over my head, food in my belly, and a skill set that is not easily attainable while working for a world-class non profit. Besides, the wall comes for everyone. There needs to be substance for when the surface wears down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | How it feels to not get married and live a single life?I’m surprised nobody else has mentioned this, but at 27 you’re the provider for your parents? Did they have you super late in life or something? Is this a normal part of your culture? I’m in the US, and this is not the norm over here. I think it’s honorable to take care of your folks, but most young women will likely see your divided time and resources and hedge their bets with someone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Yes, but they are very few. The key is that we are mutually unattractive to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Does Everyone Hate Their Ex?Hate? Not really. I used to. About 10 years out now, and it’s a sad situation. The kids won’t have as good of an outcome and neither will she, most likely. I have redirected my energy into my career, and God willing, will make it to full retirement age. Each passing year, I care less and less beyond whatever impact her decisions may have on our kids. She got the life she wanted with her high-rolling AP at the time while I adapted and have been rising above the shit sandwich I was served. I don’t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/23 07:01 PM |
| 3 | It HappenedShe checked out long ago. So many other replies here put it very well. Most everyone here has gotten their custom shit sandwich. But now, it’s a new game. The thinking that got you into this mess will not get you out of it. You need to take some time and clear your head this weekend and start calling lawyers on Monday. The first reason is to get the ball rolling. Now is the time to strike first. You need to be willing to go maximum Putin and nuke everything. The second is that any attorney you t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/23 01:14 PM |
| 3 | How much did divorce cost you?The initial lawsuit on both sides came to about $6k. That was because the divorce was uncontested. The last support modification was around $5k. I wrote most of the stuff for my lawyer, so that saved me a ton on round 2. But that is the surface. CS has been around $150k so far, with at least 7 years to go. There was also half the assets, which was in the area of $150k. We won’t get into the cost to mental health and the massive trust issues it has left me with. All told, I am in a much better pl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Wife just announced last week over text that she’s leaving me. I feel so lost, hurt, and betrayed.You were a stepping stone to her. Fortunately, you are still young so the lessons you learn here can have a longer dividend if you apply them. However, the emotional burden is unreal. It’s a tough road to recovery, but when you get through it nobody will be able to hurt you the same way again. There is no shortcut. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/23 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?Found the automod! OP’s location makes it all make sense. Here in the US, so much of the culture is different. Skewed beauty standards aside, much of the population is overweight or obese. I’m not talking medically so … some people are literally wrecking balls with legs. No matter how much our propaganda says so, being fat is not attractive to most people. But big food and big pharma and big medical don’t get paid when people are taking care of themselves and being well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here feel like they're just never gonna date again?I relate. I haven’t been on a date in 3 1/2 years. With my kids 50/50, I end up using my off days for my own errands (groceries, yard work, laundry) and typically working late so I can further refine my skills / craft. There is also the “nothing” box. Some days, all I want to do is nothing at all. Last ex couldn’t understand that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else cry and do a bunch of embarrassing shit when their wife asked for a divorce?I filed for my divorce and did all kinds of cringey shit. But that’s how those emotionally charged things tend to go. The fact that you see it as the cringe it is shows how much you’ve grown since then. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 03:18 AM |
| 2 | why should women date you?It is a calling, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 02:03 AM |
| 4 | why should women date you?For the sake of answering the question: they shouldn’t. Thankfully, they don’t. I don’t even present the opportunity. For the unfortunate souls who may develop a crush: know that this too shall pass and your life will go back to normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry again?I would say this is an emphatic “NO” from me. The divorce and all the fallout from it has left my perspective beyond repair. Or maybe better is that it’s impossible to unsee reality after being awakened to it. Beyond the surface-level niceties, I have come to believe through my experience that anyone flirting with me is simply being nice or they want something. I also turn 50 next year and most of the women in the dating pool seem to demand the dividends that come from a long established relatio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 12:05 PM |
| 4 | Do you know any one 65 yrs old , going through a divorce, and an heated one at that. This supposed to be my golden years instead, I’m losing weight stressed out . Living at my job, do you wanna hear his crazy? I love my wife, but I don’t know the devil in her because that’s not her. Iost at 65They’re golden all right … she takes the gold. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 08:31 PM |
| 19 | Why is the man I didn’t have sex with not committed to me?The biggest mistake of his life … so far. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/06/23 08:40 PM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingMy experience has seen enough to be fully aware that none of the flirty examples from the OP are actual indicators of interest. In not too distant history, an acquaintance was getting flirty and then turned it into a joke. I played it off cool and turned it right back around on her, but I was deep-down pissed for days. Marty put it best, “Ma, sooner or later, there comes a point in a man's life when he's gotta face some facts. And one fact I gotta face is that, whatever it is that women like, I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:06 PM |
| 2 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?He doesn’t … not these days. It came to an end when the Internet started to ramp up and people could get attention without the drudgery of having to meet someone in person. These days, there’s a backup option or three in an electron shell orbit. Many women would rather be in the harem of a king than in the home of a peasant. I suspect that has always been true, but social media in particular connects us in ways we never could before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | There really is no upside to marriage, is there?The only contract where both parties are inferior to the state. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 09:22 PM |
| 5 | How to kick soon to be ex out of marital home once she takes name off deed…do I need to evict her?Yup. And courts let women get away with it. He tries this, and he fucks his case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Hooking up ok?In your mind state, wait until the divorce is over with. You got one bitch to deal with, why juggle two? Besides, channel that energy into some sweet self-improvement and enjoy the moments of peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/23 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.I did something similar before I got to divorce land. I simply stated that neither her husband nor my wife were going to continue seeing each other without consequences. She didn’t reply, but after my life got nuked, he was going to have a hell of a time, too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 05:33 PM |
| 4 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?The sweeter tasting anecdote: Women would rather be in the harem of a king than have the company of a peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Seeking Advice: Moving On From a Long-Term Marriage?She is not willing to commit long term. Otherwise, it would have happened already. And kids are a “hell yes” item. For myself and many men on this sub they are, which is why we fight like hell against our exes for them. This foundation will go to shit if you wife this one up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 07:01 PM |
| 3 | First month of Financial freedom in almost 30 years, child support is over.I have about 7 years left if my youngest does not go to college. I’m pushing them to do the trades. AI can’t take it over and a trade can’t be taken away. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/23 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Maybe I really am the problem?The key is most women. Any one man isn’t fucking most women. So the venting and emotional vulnerability is not for an intimate partner, but for anyone else who cares. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a single woman in her 30’s and above is a Red Flag?It’s worse than that. Marriage is a contract between two people as inferior parties to the state. It’s the state that is the problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/23 10:10 PM |
| 8 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Women would rather be concubines of the king than the wife of a peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | My libido is alive again and I'm struggling to stay logical.If the STBX is at all unhinged, she will use anything he does against him. Family court is a battlefield where men have every deck stacked against them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | My libido is alive again and I'm struggling to stay logical.It’s called “don’t give the STBX any ammunition to use against you in court ever.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Tell me it comes back aroundThe thing about the karmic payback is that when it does come around, you’re not necessarily going to have a front row seat. That, and it works on its own timetable. Being so easily replaced hurts, but the double standard has existed long before and will exist long after these days have passed. This is a tumultuous period, and is a rite of passage of its own. When things are sorted, the next phase begins. Once you are out and have the kiddo 50/50, this is the long haul. It’s you and the kiddo … t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is cheating/adultery not a crime?That would also require perjury to be treated as the crime that it is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Men need women more than women need men.How much child support is going to come from the Chad ATM, though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Relationships seem like a boring & annoying waste of time now.It’s the disruption of peace for me that changes the cost/benefit analysis. I haven’t been on a date in over 3 years now, and I do not miss being the dancing monkey for it. The lockdowns seem to have made many people even more dysfunctional than they were prior. In that volcel time, I have kept close relationships with my kids and my elderly parents. I am at the highest peak in my career so far. I have rekindled my spiritual faith. I am back to reading books again of the dead tree variety. I’m n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/23 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Have anyone of you guys completely left dating since Divorce?It took me about 5 years post-divorce to hang up the towel. I have grown very comfortable with my peace. I may change my view after the kids are adults and are on their own, but right now my free time is premium time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Life isn't the sameOne day at a time. It does get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 10:56 AM |
| 0 | How did you guys deal with the guilt in regards to your kids financial support?Look at the 2-2-3 and the 2-2-5-5 schedule. When my kids were younger, I did the former. 2-2-5-5 this school year has been amazing AF. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 11:13 PM |
| 7 | How did you guys deal with the guilt in regards to your kids financial support?The only parties that win in a divorce are the lawyers. 50/50 custody is what you need. Kids are much more adaptable than you think, and what matters is you are present. I lived in a hovel for 5 years before I could scrape up the pennies for a down payment. The point is, everyone’s lifestyle is going to take a hit. But, you have a chance at getting your sanity back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a Toxic Ex and Absences from Kids' Activities While Co-ParentingBe there for your kids as much as you can. That said, I hope your separation agreement requires you to agree to these kinds of scheduling demands. As for the things you miss … are these on her days or yours with the kids? This distinction makes a difference. You will likely need to push back. Yeah, the kids want to do all the things. However, you can’t do it all. I’m not sure how your work arrangement is, but off-days are used for catch up more often than not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Do RP men who are extremely discouraged by dating ever consider how their attitudes come across to women?The woman of my dreams … technically, nightmares are still dreams. My ex wife fit nearly all I could have wanted in a woman and things ran very smoothly for a long time. But it still ended. My post-divorce dating experience has been underwhelming for the most part. The most common factor in that is me, of course. My kids and my career leave very little energy to attend to any kind of relationship. I’d rather spend an off day visiting my parents or taking care of the yard. Crushes come and go, su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:11 AM |
| 5 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockIf you equate the end game of dating to be getting laid, then your view stands. She is on easy mode. However, I’d hazard to guess that most people consider building some kind of relationship along the way to be of higher importance than getting laid on its own. It seems everyone struggles to find something genuine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Considering Divorce: 2 kids under 4Right over the target. Happiness and fulfillment are internally driven. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/23 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Life isn't the sameGet cozy with your solitude, because the only one who is going to be there every morning is you. It’s a long road though. You can’t let her live rent-free in your head, but that takes a lot of time to die down. Eventually, it does and it won’t bother you any more. When you get to that place, you’ll find your tolerance for BS goes way down. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 12:33 PM |
| 12 | Why is r/FemaleDatingStrategy allowed but r/MGTOW not?Alas, the shaming is nowhere near as effective as it was a decade ago. The subculture is much closer to mainstream today than it was, though the name is rarely mentioned. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I'm drowning today. I can't handle this. It hurts so bad.Been there. There is no easy path up, but day by day you will get stronger and it will get easier and the pain will fade. Mourning the loss is a massive undertaking, and it takes time to grieve. There are going to be bad days, but they are temporary. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/23 12:37 AM |
| 19 | Feminist doesn't understand why she is only attracted to Chad after riding the carousel while she should be attracted to nice guys according to feminist logic, proceeds to get counceling. Any hints?There is no hope for her. Attraction and desire are not negotiable rationally. She will end up destroying any good man who decides to wife her up. I don’t think she has the patience to get that far. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/03/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualityWho needs clothes that fit? This shit is camouflage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 12:04 AM |
| 11 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualitySocial media has widened the net, by a lot. The ability to select isn’t restricted to your immediate social circles, routines, or geography. You could be competing at least regionally, if not nationally depending on the search criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:59 PM |
| 7 | The current dating situation is the result of women's free sexualityAttraction is not negotiated rationally. It’s there or it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:55 PM |
| 9 | There is a horror movie being made about your ex. What's the name of the movie?Strong Independent Woman | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How did divorce change you emotionally?Bad analogy, if I may. If a healthy approach to dating and relationships is like a raw steak, the time up to and including the divorce was cooking sous vide. The rebound was onto the cast iron to get that good sear on the outside. Dating is an experience of failure and chaos. I never dated much post-divorce because the process is soul draining with the little free time I have after work and my kids. Nobody has been able to convince me that their presence is worth more than my peace. I don’t try … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/23 11:31 AM |
| 3 | How did they react when you told them you want out?I was threatened with a dead bedroom, so when the papers came she wasn’t surprised. By then, both of us had enough anyway. Terrible wife, but a good mother. Probably the best divorce outcome. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What did y’all do about your social media? Scrub it? Start over?I got rid of it all for years, but I ended up missing a few friends dying of various things. I use FB to snoop and keep tabs on town events. And post memes. I use Twitter and LinkedIn for professional networking. Twitter is much better for this than LI is. SC is for pithy stuff since it’s gone in 24 hours. No account mining. I still spend too much time on them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What states have the most favorable for divorce laws?If their adolescence runs through college, it sure can. The newest form accounts for children over 18 now which affects the multiplier of the order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | what expenses is CS supposed to cover?I’m effectively paying two mortgages. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What states have the most favorable for divorce laws?The DPRMA used to be much, much worse. At least CS is formulaic and predictable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | It finally clickedThe truth more likely is that she was going on with this guy before your separation, or at least had plans to. You’ll never get an honest timetable. If you have any intention on healing up, you really need to go non-contact for a long time. You’re divorced. What else is there? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | My wife just filed for divorce. I told her to settle this on our own, but she went ahead and hired an attorney anyway. The only assets we have right now is in my bank account. I have around 8k, our joint account have around 8k, and my 401k account has around 10k.There is so much info missing here. No house or kids in the picture? However, time to get a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Are divorced court proceedings public?They are indeed public. You’ll want to dress well and sit in one of the court rooms in the back. Take notes. You’ll see all sorts of testimony. While it’s sad that your long-term partner has bolted, having the state as part of your relationship only amplifies the pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone want to actually reconcile?When I filed for divorce, things were broken beyond repair. Both of us recognized that fact and minus a few skirmishes with DOR and family court, it has been pretty low key. There were years of shit on the pile. Terrible wife at the end, but a reasonable coparent and relatively non-confrontational divorce. It’ll be nice when the CS is all over and done with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?The collapse is a slow-motion event in full swing. It takes a while with a large and complex society. Calhoun’s experiments always ended in total failure. However, given the wide dispersal of humanity, I don’t think we will disappear completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Alimony done! An inspiration for other menDodged alimony, but just over 7 years left of the child support clock. I love my kids, but don’t love paying her for 50/50. There will be an endzone dance and a tailgate BBQ once it is officially over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Waffling on moving forward with divorceWhen you put money over your sanity, you’ll always be crazy. There are two options for you: 1: Cheaper to keep her. Just do your thing, whatever it may be with the time you have left. 2: Get out of dodge and take the hit. I’m surprised your therapist hasn’t kicked you off the fence yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Apparently "reading the room" is harder than people here claim it isSociety has grown cold to the point that someone being polite is easily misunderstood. Of course, that’s just my take on it. It doesn’t help that a couple years in lockdown have really damaged people’s ability to communicate in person. The room is hard to read because nobody really knows how to act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 02:38 AM |
| 2 | For those who's divorce has been finalized for a year or more.Beyond getting DOR involved during a period of unemployment, nothing. Terrible wife, but a rather reasonable coparent. More than half my time has been served until CS ends depending on what the youngest does after HS. College can extend it in my state. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Talk some sense in to me. Smokeshow is giving all the signs she's interested...That smokeshow could set your life on fire. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Trying to help my Dad who’s going through his second divorce. UTCertainly they all think about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Ready for divorce, need help understanding my wife. Please advise. Don't hold back.The worst part of this is that when you do split, it’s going to be a massive drop in lifestyle for everyone involved. That’s why the phrase “cheaper to keep her” exists. As to why … she’s comfortable and has been for too long. She wants a house, but hasn’t done jack shit. You need to take away the credit card. She can’t manage a house, get a job, or effectively contribute … and you think she is going to come up with a viable business idea? What you have is a household with three children, one of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What did you do with your old wedding band?This is the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Seperated but don't want too *GAY*Both. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Pre-D-word announcement, day-2-dayBy the time divorce came up, the relationship was beyond any hope of repair. I filed once I was sure there was nothing to salvage. From announcement to divorce was around 9 months. I lucked out in that there were only a handful of skirmishes along the way. The result is that we are effective coparents. The 50/50 split has worked well for us and our kids. As others have pointed out, you have to handle this as a stoic. Any emotional outburst can be used against you to your detriment. You and the S… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Wife left and took my son. I can't find them.Why is divorce so expensive? Because it’s worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 11:45 AM |
| 5 | Anyone elses ex or stbxw really hot?My ex was hot AF. However, no amount of good looks can polish over the abuse once you reach your limit. She may do better for a period, but the wall comes for us all. As your own relationship status going forward, you need to put this at the bottom of your list. You should focus on your kids, your purpose, and killing it career-wise. After 12 years you need to rediscover yourself and adjust to what clown world has produced. I “retired” from dating over 3 years ago. I found the return on my time … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | what happens in divorce with 2 houses, especially if one is overseas?If a couple can’t agree on the value of the property, the court will probably order a third party appraisal of value, which will be factored in the asset split. There is no reason to force the sale of one or the other unless an asset split can’t be paid out without the sale. No mention of children, which would really throw a wrench in the works. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 08:24 PM |
| 8 | My ex may be in dangerThis is a sub for divorced men who have usually been dragged through the real nightmare of family court. Not simps who had a boring relationship. You had a dream. Get the fuck over it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 08:14 PM |
| 3 | divorced men of reddit, for those of you with grown children who are cently divorced, do you stay in constant contact with your ex about things unrelated to your children? I'm in. 8 month relationship with a newly divorced man and I feel disrespected by the emotional connection he maintains with herWhen my children are finally grown and on their own, and when I am free of the albatross of family court, I hope to never say another word to my ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/23 07:59 AM |
| 19 | How do women benefit from having a hoe phase?Who is to say they aren’t doing both? There is a joke along those lines: Ladies, find a man who is a great cook, a skilled handyman, a strong support, and an exceptional lover. Then make sure these men never meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Does cheating solely involve physical acts?The physical act is the final rubicon. Once passed, there is no undoing it. There are scores of actions and decisions that lead to it, so there is plenty of opportunity to back out. I’d say they are all preventable if you guard your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 11:30 PM |
| 0 | "Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting menI disagree with the notion that this is gaslighting. I do think it is an overall dismissive trope which fails to give any sort of actionable advice. Each man is different, and the truth is often hard to hear, as there are very few spaces now that are truly for men. It depends on the man’s purpose, which each of us needs to find. Work should serve the purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | STBX moving out of house with the help of common friends. Feeling so sadI’ll come out and say it. You are the majority shareholder of this disaster. The primary fault lies with you and now you get to atone for it. I was on the other side of this with my ex (friends helping me move out, etc.), though her only regret was the mistake of being caught. You have a lot of work ahead of you. I can only hope your experience in family court is fair and just and you can be civil with your ex and maintain a 50/50 split without ending up destitute. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/23 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Meeting ex’s new boyfriend.Your kids are old enough to know better. Make sure they know your home is always available to them. Just maybe they’ll want to live with you full time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 10 | Contacting AP’s spouseI did. I had to do some internet sleuthing to find her, so I set a short facebook message. I wasn’t about to let his life remain all happy and blissful while he and my now-ex were ruining my life. Somehow, they APs are still together. Boggles my fucking mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | We are getting a divorce and i don't really know why.You are not friends, and you never will be. This is a ploy to keep you as a backup. At best, you can be civil coparents. Though that makes me wonder about the foster situation. Are you the legal guardian at this point? What ages? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How are you guy’s dating life going nowadays?It’s not possible to divide by my dating life. It makes for a mostly peaceful life. For example, I did dishes, and going to do some laundry and will bury my face in a good book for a few more hours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Going through an “uncontested divorce” and on 3 it states “This marriage is irretrievably broken” and I don’t agree with this. Can the wording be changed to reflect that she believes this but I don’t? Or is this just standard language that’s needed to file an uncontested divorce?If one side is checked out and the other is not, then it is irretrievably broken. No pleading or perspective on your part is going to changer her mind. Consider yourself lucky you have a low-conflict situation. Don’t misunderstand low conflict with repairability. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Ok now that I have accepted my new reality of divorce, what is a good dating app? Why isn’t there a filter for the females weight? Tattoo? Piercing filter ?? :-)The best line from that: Don’t be surprised to find that you don’t have the time to date once you’ve started enjoying your new found freedom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/23 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Welp, looks like I'm joining this communityOne plus is there’s no property division. You need an attorney for this one. Custody between coparents is not super common yet, but I expect it will be the norm someday. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How long realistically does it take to move on ?Probably about half the time you were together: I was married for 11, together for 13. Took a number of years. I still have 50/50 custody and a high-engagement career which is where my peace is. The idea of dating has lost pretty much all of its appeal at this point. I’m not getting married again, I have had my kids, and life is pretty good. I don’t see how someone adds to that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Filing from the Couple that "had it all."Whatever you do, don’t let her rope you into her emotional drama. It sounds like she will try like hell, but you have to keep that steel persona. Once it all starts, you are strictly business. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Huge fight over filing taxes....This is why you get your attorney lined up and file already. Once the docket is in court, the financial order will limit what can be done with everyone’s finances. In my state, I had to provide all financial paperwork for 7 years prior. CS will probably not be an issue, so you luck out there. In most states, assets and debts are split evenly between the parties. If you think tax returns for this year is a fight, wait until property division and valuation comes up. In your case, you can refuse to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/23 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Getting marriedReminds my of some classic Garth: Mama was a looker, Lord, how she shined Papa was a good'n, but the jealous kind Papa loved Mama, Mama loved men Mama's in the graveyard, Papa's in the pen | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/22 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Getting marriedA marriage is a contract between two people who are inferior parties to the state. She’s already applying pressure tactics to get what she wants. Unless you think she is dumb as a post, she knows right well that she can pull the lever for cash and prizes at any time, for any reason. Or she could just start serially cheating on you, possibly to your face, because she will know it’ll be financially devastating to you. If you’re lucky, you’ll be able to find a hovel in the same town with enough spa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/22 11:25 AM |
| 8 | If a 35-year-old father lived with his parents and expected monogamy from a valuable woman, he would be labeled a loser.There is still a part that is irreconcilable in the monkey brain. Cognitively, she may not think down on the guy because of the lot he’s in, but it’s not going to get her going. Might as well fill the room with nitrogen because that desire is never going to light up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/12/22 10:51 PM |
| 5 | For those men that filed first, what was the final straw?My ex wife threatened a dead bedroom. I can be not getting laid quite well all by myself. Divorced 8 months later. I made a similar proposition with 50/50 or it would be scorched earth. This was 8 years ago, and our youngest child is 10. I’m eligible for parole in 8 more years. Things are largely civil. I’ll be glad when I’m not paying her any more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Anyone’s ex wife not like giving blowjobs?I had the same problem. Coworker? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/22 11:59 AM |
| 3 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?There is no substitute for loyalty. Assuming my relationship was pretty good, a pretty face isn’t sufficient reason to bail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Dating post-divorceI’ve been off The Rock for over 8 years now. Full on monk for almost 3. For me, I went through a lot of mind games. I found dating after divorce to be underwhelming. It wasn’t the folks I met that I didn’t connect with that bothered me. It was the few I connected with that strung me along a bit, though I got wise to it quick. Between my kids, work, and things I need to take care of in between … I found the little free time I had was being quickly spent with nothing to show for it. It is what it … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Dating post-divorceEnough failed interviews and HR eliminates the position. Energy gets redirected. Purpose is discovered and self-actualization occasionally happens. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/22 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you wife up a slut who you're REALLY connected to?Nope. Even with the condition of the exercise as defined. She may not cheat (🤣), but where else does she have a problem with impulse control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Post-nuptial agreement to waive spousal support?The wrong judge is going to look at your reason for divorce and call it superficial. Society as a whole doesn’t see anything wrong with her pulling the pin on the fat grenade. I’m not sure what state you’re in, but unless she agrees to the split, it might be a hard sell. The kid situation complicates it, but that’s par for the course here. As much of a trope as it is, you should attempt couples therapy. If she gets it together, then great … but if not, it’s a piece of evidence that you tried. It… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Signed papersI got divorced after 11 years married, 14 together, with two kiddos. Immediately after, it was tears of relief because the legal process was over. NGL, some of the fictional depictions of divorce get a minor emotional reaction from me. This is the most recent one: https://youtu.be/5WueprlxCdg | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.I disagree on point 2. The game is so difficult now that any work done specifically with the aim to find a partner is often wasted effort. I’m also on the border of old, so I find the returns aren’t there. I haven’t been on a date in almost 3 years and I can’t say I miss it. But I will grant you point 3. My kids, house, and career take care of my free time and needs for purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | How do we "choose better partners"?Unless both people are genuinely asexual, this achieves absolutely nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Should I turn the ex in?And that’s before the judge gets a hold of him… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/22 11:09 AM |
| 5 | RingsRing: $$$$ Having that bitch out of your life: Priceless There’s some things money can’t buy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/22 03:12 AM |
| -1 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenTrue. Highly unlikely to happen again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenRed pill philosophy would have had me kick her to the curb the first time she cheated on me, instead of taking her back repeatedly like a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Wife using texts from ExThis is the way. This is also what matters most. It’s the kiddo that counts. If you must burn it all down, do it for him and don’t let her try and make you into a deadbeat. As you STBX goes, she and the ex GF seem intent on poisoning the well wherever you go. Once the divorce is final, I’d suggest going dark or severely limiting your social media use. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/22 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenWas, troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenBeing a blue piller has cost me over $250/wk for the last 8 years, with at least 8 more to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen; For those you you who are divorced, did your wife ever give you the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech? If yes, did she end up initiating divorce or did you?My ex used different words, but more or less threatened me with a dead bedroom. It took a couple months to get things lined up and I filed for and was granted a divorce. Best move I ever made. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/22 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: what type of money is more attractive for you in a partner?Awww man, it’s gonna be awhile before I can get into any of those camps. No debt though … that is huge and a goal everyone should aspire to! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone changed their dating habits as a result of SCOTUS reversal ON Roe v. Wade?Wasn’t dating before. Not dating after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 2 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?First mention of it and the relationship is over. Full stop. Non-monogamy is a non-starter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Usually, I’m used to bigotry of low expectations. But this was something I’d have expected from Blazing Saddles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 11:20 AM |
| 2 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?Described her very best friend in a very racist manner, which shocked me coming from someone as left-leaning as she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone gone back and challenged amount of child support?Yup. She got DOR involved while I was unemployed so when I got my offer letter, my lawyer filed in court. Dropped about $60/wk. The rate has stayed the same for a bunch of years, and with what inflation is doing, I’m not going to disrupt the status quo. Oldest turns 18 in a couple years. And will leave it alone until my youngest is of age if I can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.And of the 5% that responded to the question affirmatively, what percentage were just being polite enough to end the interaction? That’s a thing to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?This was a popcorn-worthy post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | People don't seem to care about men's nudes and intimate content (e.g. leaks), and men don't really get solicited much. As men do you consider this a positive?I find it absolutely to be a positive. I can’t imagine being a woman. I’m post-divorce and pushing 50. No way anyone really wants to see that anyway. Nobody with any sense about them anyway. Then again, I have taken well to my invisibility over the last few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 12:27 AM |
| 35 | Should I move out or cohabitate?Don’t leave the home until you have a child care agreement in place. 50/50 or you go scorched earth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/22 11:17 PM |
| 11 | ex changed 401k contributions after I filedGrey area. She has stopped contributing to a marital asset. Not likely anything will happen, but you know who you are dealing with. Better keep tight notes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | The idea that women will hit the wall and will suddenly need men and give lower SMV guys a chance seems like a bluepill fantasy to meI think the OP needs to question if it’s really a good idea to date someone who “needs” you instead of genuinely wants you. This is particularly present since a lot of us (rightfully) complain about being walking ATMs when we didn’t choose to be one for halloween. Can’t wait to see what the discourse is here in 5-10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Advice on finding a place to sleepI slept on the couch, then in the basement until a parenting plan was agreed upon. Like many others have stated, do not move out. Otherwise, by the time you get to your hearing, the kids will already have precedent with mom as the majority custodial parent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/22 11:54 PM |
| 0 | She wants to work things out, but she's seeing someone and doesn't know I knowYou could ask during counseling who so and so is by name. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | My wife realizes she is going to lose the divorce she filed for. Can she withdraw it?Stay the course. She wanted this fight, and there is no magic rewind save point. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Men would be better off having female friendsHere we go … the beloved automod. As female friends go, I only have them where there is zero sexual interest or tension, so it’s only a handful. Even then, I have much more in common with my male friends. Where the tension is non-zero on both sides, it never endures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Men must be traditional while women have options because men love women as women while women only "love" men as toolsApparently I rank on the Harbor Freight tier, if we’re talking tools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Best dating sites recommendationsYou are in for a world of disappointment, unless you are filthy rich. Then best of luck to you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | If you want women to give more nice guys a chance, won’t that get expensive for women who split the bill?I generally go by the guideline that the one who asks first is the one who pays, but an offer to split should not be refused. Anyhoo … I was one of those NiceGuyTM folks in my late teens. The big lesson was that being nice was never enough on its own and there needs to be something else to back it up along with an ounce of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 01:37 AM |
| 0 | including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose?Interesting question. I would still choose my life as a man. Born poor, die rich. The struggles have made me much more resilient than I would have been otherwise. It has allowed me to get to the pinnacle of my career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 32 | I’m 59 and about to be single for the first time in 30 years. When looking for single women my age how do you know when women want to be approached? What are some tell tale signs?Take time off and find your peace. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/22 01:02 AM |
| 17 | Woman; do you think the dating market has become better or worse for Woman due to the advent of dating Apps?My take. OLD is worse for everyone. For men, it’s generally impossible to be seen. The population imbalance is real. Additionally, a lot of fake profiles or chatbots. Sites weigh the algorithm to entice men to keep the whole charade running. For women, every creepy dude who just got done his PUA online course playing the numbers game and matching/messaging everyone. Lots of choice though if you get through the cruft. For both: nobody willing to compromise, so people waste a ton of their own time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 01:42 AM |
| 12 | Papers filled, now she wants to work things out.No impact, especially in a no-fault filing. Wait until you are in the clear. Otherwise your STBX could make life much more difficult than it needs to be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 01:30 AM |
| 4 | Happy Divorced Dad Sunday “extra money” lunch!I’ve been out 8 years, and know all the peace you describe. Little victories are abundant! Last weekend was a kid-free one for me, so my bros and my parents got together for some drinks and filet down by the water. One of his neighbors came by in the party boat and we all went around the lake and got to hang with a bunch of his neighbors. It was as perfect as a fall day could get! This weekend, my boys and I chilled around the fire pit and burned up our collection of pizza boxes after a bunch of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 12:33 AM |
| 2 | told me she wants to be with other people a year ago, and now is divorcing me and blaming it on my attitude.Okay. That’s pretty close to half. That said, you need to get a lawyer as soon as you can manage and get the ball rolling. At a minimum, you need to get the childcare agreement in writing and in front of the court. Depending on the state, you may be required to have some record of counseling, or an attempt at it. Paying a lawyer is no fun, but it could potentially cost you more otherwise. They also know all the legal requirements and things you need to do. It sucks, but you can’t make her stay. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 11:42 PM |
| 6 | told me she wants to be with other people a year ago, and now is divorcing me and blaming it on my attitude.I hate to say it, but she sounds checked out and is reaching for excuses to blame you. It’s a shocking blow. The most important question right now: What is the childcare arrangement with the kids? So much of what follows will depend on this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Mask off, bracing for the worstThe first thing you need to do is accept that it’s over. Each story is different, but what tipped me over was when she threatened me with a dead bedroom. A couple months later and I filed. You need to be dedicated to that path before you walk down it. Life is going to get difficult for awhile. The peace is worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for rejecting a request for ex to have breakfast with our daughter and her boyfriend without me for child’s birthday during sports trip.Petty for sure. I get it, but this is not the time to get salty. Ex made the effort to be close by, so agree on a few hours and keep to that. If the ex demanded you return home, then I’d side with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Now she wants to work on it, lol.Tough ho to row, there. Good thing your son seems to see right through it, and it’s great that your mom can help. That will shield your kiddo through a whole ton of the bullshit. He may well choose to live with you when he is old enough to decide for himself. The default I personally advocate for is 50/50. It won’t get you out of the CS trap, but it is the best split to keep her from poisoning the relationship with your son. It puts a huge burden on her to prove you as an unsuitable parent if yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Best thing to do after a divorceThe Democratic People’s Republic of Massachusetts even ties the college contribution to be half of the flagship: UMass Amherst. I hope he takes a gap year or goes into the trades. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Best thing to do after a divorceI’ve been out for about 8 years now. The thing I enjoy the most is my quiet time. When the work is done and the kids are with their mother, I can just enjoy the peace. Others: I have two sons. We listen to music that would have their mother clutching her pearls, or rolling her eyes. We don’t do trips often, but we go big when we do. I can take my time on house projects. It took me close to a year to finally fix the broken fan box. Didn’t bother me in the least. I finally set up the 7.1 surround … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | 1 year since Divorce was finalized, I (30M) would like to hear from others, what has been their experiences and updates after the one year mark?I’ll add my take. Time that is gone is gone. The only thing that comes with mourning the lost time is losing more time. Turn your head around and look forward. You have a lot of runway ahead of you, unless WW3 starts. You need to get to a place of near apathy. You should not care one ounce about your ex outside of how it affects your daughter. Telling her she is a piece of shit only lets her live in your head rent-free. A lot of this healing happens quickly, but that last chunk could take a long… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Now she wants to work on it, lol.My ex is not shown a shred of remorse. Not that it would matter at this point, really. I expect the tune will change after the kids are grown and the CS ends. If not then, probably after the long-term AP/boyfriend dies. (He’s 16 years older and they have been involved in some manner since at least 2006, but probably longer.) | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Any good book recommendations for the grief and loss that happens from divorce?The shock cannot be understated. It sticks around for awhile. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | is every divorce complaint/petition full of slanderous crapIn my case, it was not. This is because I filed the first shot and stuck to the facts and kept all my paperwork organized. It also helped that my ex remained distracted by her AP, so he was keeping her happy enough that she didn’t make much of a scene. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/22 05:14 PM |
| 14 | Child support and deductionsDo not toy with the CS order. You will get bent over backwards. Take her back to court on contempt charges for violating the agreement. Point it out by the section and bring receipts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/22 08:50 AM |
| 10 | What advantages does men have in the dating game?A top-tier man has all sorts of choice. However, this only applies to the top 10 percent or higher. The average man is invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?Commitment is about the only thing a man can bring, but it’s hard to vet if that’s even something she wants. What unbalances the market is that men want sex and prostitution is still illegal and prosecuted in most places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 5 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”Life is fucking us every day … who has the time and/or energy left for sex afterwards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?No amount of hot could make up for that dumpster fire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Some men low in emotional intelligence give women the 'ick'. Are there any things some women do that give men the 'ick'?I’m not sure this is an EQ thing, really. EQ is what will produce a socially acceptable response. It does not make turn offs less so, whatever they are. Though I guess by “ick”, you mean instant turn off, halon-level fire extinguisher. Usually, these are personality issues for me. Though I did have one date back in … 2000 or so. This woman was nothing like her pictures, her toddler was a monster, and to top it off, somehow she stole my credit card. The only reason I didn’t drive off was because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Four things that people say that are generally true, but not for losersWoohoo! At the center of another Venn diagram! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 6 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......Sadly, the world the thought experiment requires will not exist until the division is no longer economically exploitable for the industries that thrive upon it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 8 | What do you guys do with pictures?I rarely delete pictures. They are snapshots in time, and most of those were not bad times. But, I have no attachment to my ex wife, so it doesn’t affect me one way or another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Expect From Your Bf/GfRetired, so I don’t expect to be in another relationship (hence the automod). I would expect direct communication and an honest character, if I had to pick. But I find I am way too broken to be able to judge a person’s character which leaves me unable to effectively vet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 02:14 AM |
| 4 | Why do they love bomb you when you call it over?They’ll only do it if they think they can control you with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.Before I retired, it was quite difficult. As much has shifted to an online presence, the way people vet each other has also changed. Red flags have been replaced with tripwires. As I close in on 50, I have to ask what possible benefit outweighs the risk. My family, faith, and career fill my life with wonder and purpose. My home is quite peaceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himThis kind of event would get a referral to my optometrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?One. The only other one other than the ex wife who wanted the girlfriend title. Didn’t even last 90 days. The last hurrah, as it turned out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?When I was married, I indulged in both. The dynamic was unbalanced, especially after we had kids. It was later that I found out she wasn’t really LL, but was having a long running affair. That hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | UltimatumInvite the state to be the superior power in my relationship? No. Never. The tax break is not worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Who Should Leave the HouseThis is where your lawyer gets involved. You need to know your rights and obligations with relation to the state. She’s trying to coerce you now … imagine how she’ll try and play the court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Best method to pay alimony?Utilize your state’s department of revenue. Once set up, it won’t change without a court order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been cheated on? How did you react?Good on everyone who found out and bounced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 12:07 PM |
| 12 | Single mom is crazy about bad boys, but now needs $omeone to accept her daughter.Mommy can’t keep her legs closed, so the child that didn’t ask to be here is going to have a much harder life than she deserves. That’s what disgusts me the most about these. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/09/22 01:55 AM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherNot difficult at all. Keeping it silent is not profitable for the clickbait news system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?And she recently unalived herself, which is too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?The social circle validation is massive. Once I got divorced, all the invites to virtually all the couples things disappeared. It was a massive hit to the friendships, though I somewhat expected it. Otherwise, it’s no fun being the odd wheel. I consider myself one of those men who has checked out, or retired as I prefer. Why talk about it? Nobody cares. I’ve got a pretty nice life, even after all the losses, so it’s still a win to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Every man has his breaking point. This guy reached his.The breaking points are never pretty. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.Interesting question, but something of a false dilemma. I’d choose my children, even though they are the product of a relationship which is your principal claim as a requirement for greater happiness. I know them, love them, and fight for them. The other things can be rebuilt. It does not change my view that a relationship is required for happiness. Happiness comes and goes. To have contentment and peace is an underrated treasure. Perhaps a better question is this: Would I take the risk again, k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.Making the assumption that greater happiness can only be found in the context of an intimate relationship is where I take issue. Happiness comes and goes, like most other emotions. Having peace and contentment isn’t something to be underestimated or dismissed. I have already been biologically successful and have two pretty good kids. Granted, the circumstances are not what I had originally planned or hoped for them, they are no worse for the wear so far. In effect, this has satisfied the reprodu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.I used to believe that the value and risk proposition was worth it. However, my experience has shattered what I believe is an illusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Do younger women actually like older men?I’ll just toss in a data point. The ex wife is still seeing the man she started her affair with long before we got divorced. He is 16 years older than her. 28 and 44 when they first got it on, if my memory serves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | My ex wife and sisters have turned my daughter against me.I can’t speak to your situation, but I’d all of them off and cauterize that wound sooner than later. Drastic, but the pollution won’t stop otherwise. They are set in their minds and are just draining your energy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.It is one of the few things I have gone out of the way to save off in case the post were to disappear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | While women are sexually objectified, men are emotionally objectified, they're both wrong.Time to dig this up out of the notes, on men’s emotions: Yes, I know. This belief is all the rage right now. Poor women trying to get their men to open up about their emotions, but they just won't. Too stubborn. Too emotionally underdeveloped. Must be all the male-power fantasy media they consume. Here's an unfortunate reality: Women, in general, have very little patience for men's emotions that don't suit their needs. Our emotions aren't really concerned over, except insofar as they affect wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Romantic/Spousal relationship is redundant if you've found peace/contentment in being single.It’s not a myth just because you don’t fathom how it could be possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 07:41 AM |
| 2 | The five-star rating for divorced menI have never felt ashamed of being divorced. Any woman that shrugs me off based on that alone just does us both a favor. Then again, by the time I got divorced, I knew I was at the end of the road. I take a sort of amusement watching people in their relationships now. I see worlds of dysfunction nearly everywhere, with rare exception. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it hard to admit that you weren’t dateable when you were younger?Not at all, though the criteria is different now. In high school I wasn’t dateable because I was the pinnacle of oblivious. In retrospect, I passed up on a lot because I didn’t catch the (now) obvious hints. One major hit of very public humiliation. College. Not dateable at all. Engineering majors with no game get no play. Met someone who set off a very unhealthy obsession. Dropped out after 2 years, went to work. Early 20s, hella dateable, but got scooped up for a few years. Got crushed when I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of a lawyer?!Close. The judge fucks you, and gives you financial herpes which eventually goes away but you won’t fully recover from. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is effectively broken already.Online dating is best thought of as eBay for people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?That’s not the point. The point is that if she isn’t doing for me, I’m not going to waste a year of her life by letting her think she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Men would you feel insecure if a girl wanted to incorporate dildos/penis sleeves in the bedroom?I’d be insecure about the relationship because of the lies of omission. After a year? Sorry honey, what else have you been lying to me about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 09:36 AM |
| 3 | The EntitlementFacts. Marriage is the only contract two people sign as inferior parties to the State. Nobody talks about this anywhere near as much as they should. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | q4a does your perception/definition of love changed with age and experience?As I have aged, I have come to respect its power. I have experienced its highs and lows, and its chaos. As I approach 50, I find the notion of romantic love matters less to me with each passing year. I have become accustomed to the peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?It has not been an easy journey, but it has been worth it. You do, however, have youth on your side. So if a future partner is what you desire, then get and keep yourself in order. Make sure you know your dealbreakers and know when to cut your losses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 11 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?I found that having no partner was much more peaceful of a life. I have my two boys half the time, and a high-level job that keeps me fulfilled. I do errands in my off time and have been reading and working on my professional skills. My rebound was a dumpster fire, and dating attempts have been largely a well of disappointment. As clown world accelerates, so has my interest in relationships in inverse proportion. Also 48M, so the big head is always in charge. Edit: incomplete wording. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 40 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?From the mighty pen of Roger Waters: “No one told you when to run / You missed the starting gun” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 11 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?Sorry … first thing that came to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel about your children struggling with dating?10 and 16. The oldest has no notion of getting married or having kids, but someone will capture his attention unexpectedly and he won’t be prepared for it. Dating isn’t a behavior I model. I work, do the errand shit, and take care of them. Their mom … pretty much has had the BF around since the divorce, though they are long distance which is why I assume it hasn’t crashed yet. He’s not a regular fixture during her half, visiting during the days I have them. It seems increasingly likely that I wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel about your children struggling with dating?We’re not the top 1% in either the looks, money, or popular interest department, so they will struggle. That’s the lot assigned to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 01:24 PM |
| 30 | How would you feel about your children struggling with dating?Things are a lot more difficult now than they used to be. The pond is a lot bigger now, with the connectivity that people have now. I expect both my boys to struggle, and it will hurt to watch when they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Sell house before final settlement? [Advise & Recommendations]Nope. Do not sell. Your STBX doesn’t want to play ball. She can come to the table on the 7th, or she waits until January. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Today is a partucularly hard dayI remember the first few days I spent in my apartment after the childcare schedule was agreed upon. It was the only 2BR shithole I could rent within the bounds of the school system at that time. It was like “how the fuck did I fall this far?” It was hard, particularly since the filing was no fault, but she most definitely was. My replacement was long lined up (which was the primary reason for the divorce), which seemed particularly unfair. But the thing was … the feeling passed. I had my kiddos … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 9 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?Not just the VCR, but porn won the VHS / Betamax battle, IIRC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Divorce online?Pay a mediator. They’ll be familiar with all your state’s laws and requirements. It’ll cost more, but you’ll only need to show up in court once. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 06:47 PM |
| 6 | You can't make this shit up.Usually, the story doesn’t end as well with this kind of title entry. But man … can’t stump the Gump! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Is sex actually an issue?We are biological creatures at the core, so it will be an issue for some time to come. The progress of civilization is awfully short compared to the evolutionary timeline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit. Have you ever agreed to a date or gave a guy your number from cold approach?For a counter answer, there was never a point in my life where a cold approach has ever worked. That kind of sales pitch persona isn’t part of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Do I have to pay alimony?To be fair, there are a lot of us who have a very real view of the Family Court ride that wasn’t advertised in the Marriage brochure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | At what number of bad dates/relationships does one become “jaded”?I am currently retired. My last date was right before the COVID mania started. It went well, but was a touch awkward. Then, poof! Ghosted. I thought about that one for a while. I was more upset at the time and hope I wasted, but otherwise I didn’t care as much. I didn’t find much of a point continuing, and it hasn’t been too much of a loss. There are some times where I’d rather not be alone, but my life has an unmatched peace. I don’t see how adding anyone into my life can make it significantly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 6 | How do you avoid the rage?You need to find a safe avenue to let the rage out so the pressure doesn’t build up too much and ultimately kill you. I picked up running, which was fine until I broke my ankle. Many of the other commenters here have stated it well. So long as you put that energy to good use, the anger won’t be wasted. The place you want to get to is apathy / indifference, but it’s going to take you quite a while to get there. That elusive place of peace is a treasure when you find it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 2 | [question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did?It serves next to no purpose. When it comes down to brass tacks, she has no real interest. Paul Elam did a fantastic video on the topic of “pathogen disgust”, which I thought was spot on: https://youtu.be/CpAwU84Hv9k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 42 | I still love my wife, she broke my trustTime is your friend in this, and it’s going to take time. A relationship won’t work with effort on one side, no matter how much you want it to. But once she’s gone, weld that door shut. Since you have no children, you have no duty to her beyond what the court requires. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | [question for red pill] what strategy would you advise for a woman seeking a relationship to be able to meet your standards and not be either ghosted or placed as “recreational use only”? How could she prove she meets your standards if she really did?I consider myself retired, but I will add a few things that I consider requirements at the start: Has spent at least a solid year of her life alone. No casual sex, no steady FWB, no abusing the friend zone. Just her, working on her purpose. Has no regular contact with any of her exes, with the exception of a coparent and only in how it relates to her child. Needs to accept that my vulnerability is compartmentalized to a very short list of people, of which she is unlikely to be one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Last Alimony PaymentOnce that last check goes out, you can let it go. She’s in your head when you’re paying rent. She better brace herself. Eviction is coming! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/22 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Is cheating and infidelity inevitable?The tools available for communication today make it all too easy for cheating to occur. Cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s the final step in a long process which starts when people don’t guard their hearts and protect their relationships, and likewise don’t respect the relationships of others. However, the availability of no-fault divorce probably did much more damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is cheating and infidelity inevitable?Wait until this guy is 40 with a divorce under his belt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.So glad I am retired from this game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 10:44 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to women choosing men, look is way more important than Personality or Intelligence.My fat suit grants me the power of invisibility! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 10:23 AM |
| 11 | AP is a douche canoeAPs usually don’t last, but my ex is still with hers. They have been together now longer than we were married. It disgusts me. But, it keeps her distracted and the drama very low. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/22 10:16 AM |
| 16 | What makes you remarry?No idea. My best friend gets married for the third time this coming Monday. His first wife was dumb as a post, and his second one put him through hell. I’m just going to wish him the best this time around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If a very desperate person finally got into a relationship, what kind of abuse or mistreatment do you think they'd tolerate?It’s individual, I think. A crafty, dark triad abuser will maximize the return for their efforts and will adapt as necessary to keep the abuse going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Is it easy or difficult to be just friends with a person you are attracted to?If I find them attractive, they get to acquaintance level only. I wasted way too much of my life in the friend zone before I wised up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Give it to me straight fellasNot so sure your quest for happiness is going to yield the fruit you expect. If you think happiness is going to be a new partner, I might have a tunnel for sale in Boston. By the comments, I think there is too much concern about your wallet here. The court would generally love nothing more than to keep it empty. I am looking for your “why”. I get that you’ve fallen out of love and people change and all that. What have the two of you done to try and fix things? Or maybe, what broke things? If you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 29 | Wife admits divorcing good man who worked hard to provide because she was lonely and thought there was something better out thereShe’s a lot more self-aware than many. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I want to be petty and go full ballistic on social mediaIf you’ve read enough stuff on here, calling her out could very well work against you. Go ice cold. She is one day closer to out of your life. There is no ho phase … it’s ho lifestyle. As the religious convictions go, leave the vengeance to God. He has a way of making things right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menHello popcorn, my old friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days?I had an interesting experience in a large city that changed my view on the cold approach. I was walking to Target to grab a snack before a meeting and there was a small group of younger people trying to sign me up for something, to which I politely declined and went about my way. I was profoundly annoyed. Later that day, it occurred to me that how I felt in that moment would have to be similar to how a woman feels being approached by someone she is not interested in and/or in an environment she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Judge increased my overnights but refused to decrease CS. Can I get credits for that later and reduce CS amount ?Take the PT. That is what matters most, especially since you are in process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.It took way too long to find the AutoMod. Not sure the OP is wrong, but dating while older sucks. After the house, kiddos, errands, and work, there is limited patience and time to really connect with someone. That, and if I look in the mirror and ask if I’d date me … that shit’s a resounding no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | In terms of Women's Interests, Can Men (and Monogamy) Be Saved?There will always be scarcity, simply because people are fickle. Widespread monogamy is unlikely to return without a catastrophic event. Medical technology has removed nearly every consequence for promiscuity, and much of society celebrates such hedonism. The social controls that used to maintain order have shifted dramatically and the Internet is where the information flows more freely than ever. When it comes down to it, what are the incentives to return to this so-called monogamous society? S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 9 | In terms of Women's Interests, Can Men (and Monogamy) Be Saved?You can choose monogamy, but that doesn’t mean your partner will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Is this a mistake?Massive mistake. You’ll never get beyond it if you’re hanging out. I have seen it put that healing time takes about half the length of your relationship. The best thing you can do is learn how to be alone, and self improve. There is a lot to do and you need something as a spacer between you and your ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/22 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced MenShit … glad I’m posting rookie numbers at around 1300/mi. My youngest just turned 10, so I’ve got about 8 years to go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Custody Question50/50 is not “too hard” on the kids. My boys were 7 and 2 when I split. Fight for the time. You need to find something within the same school system if at all possible. I ended up renting a dump on the south side of town before I had enough saved to buy my own house. The three of us lovingly refer to it as The Hovel. The point is, we had our half of time together and there were brighter days ahead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?Bi? No thanks. Since I have had kids, I’d rather go asexual and turn that part off completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Who else has no desire to date anymore?Even before COVID, it was a lot of effort for little return. After work, my sons, and errands, I don’t have the time or energy to spare. My last date, while fun, ended up with me being ghosted. A lot of time went right down the drain which made the whole experience underwhelming. I don’t so much care these days. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Filed on FridayDepending on the state, the kids are old enough to decide. At least in the DPRMA, 12 is about the age for consideration. That said, you should encourage a 50/50 split, and be willing to go to war over that if the children don’t have a preference. The parent that makes their child choose will ultimately lose in the end. I have never seen or heard otherwise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Filed on FridaySince you have paperwork in flight, be aware that you are now under a financial restraining order. You have to account for every dollar that goes in or out until the divorce is final. Don’t do even one ounce of anything shady, or the judge could rip you a brand new asshole. Until you have a separation agreement, do not move out of the house. Sell the house if you must once the divorce is final. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Is it more difficult for transgender women to get dates, relationships and casual sex from straight men considering that men tend to be more homophobic and more transphobic than women?Unpopular opinion incoming. This is not a phobia. A phobia is an irrational fear of something. Example: I check the level of the propane tank for my house. I open the lid and find a basketball-sized wasp nest, nearly shit my pants and beat Usain Bolt back inside my house. The proper emotion is disgust, which is a reaction to things that are perceived to be unnatural. It’s likely a combination of natural and cultural factors. This is especially true where some folks in the transgender community i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Announcing my divorce by email. can you give me feedback?YTA. Firstly, your lawyer should handle getting things filed and put through the court. Second, sending something like this through email is cowardice. I hate the term “man up”, but this path is serious enough that you should have the dignity to sit down and tell her face-to-face and deal with how it unwinds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)In all its (archived) glory: https://web.archive.org/web/20100725135317/http://blog.okcupid.com:80/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Cheaper to keep her?Not all costs are monetary. How much would it benefit your state of mine to have her out of your life? How much better will the children do? You haven’t told us where she is right now or what kind of involvement she has with the children, or how long you have been married. CA has some weird laws that might sting now, but are a whole world of hurt later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/22 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Does our current attitude towards sex indicate the downfall of civilization?Wait until she meets Woody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Why? I’ll bite. Because men generally do most of the heavy lifting when getting the relationship off the ground. There is time, money, energy spent in order to get a real connection going. It is generally a long road to get from barely knowing someone to being physically intimate with them on an exclusive basis. It’s not about the sex, per se. It’s about the trip to get there along the way. Once the lie is revealed, the faith in the whole journey is shattered. Everything is questioned. The lens … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?All by design, I suspect. Without strong men, the power structure will remain in place. Everyone will be subjugated and escape will become even more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?To think that free and available porn only gave men unrealistic expectations … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 15 | My kids hacked STBEXW emailAs much fun as it is to gloat, try and keep it as level headed as possible until the divorce is over. At least your kids are solidly on your side. This woman and her attorney will make your life harder than it needs to be. Just trying to save you some headaches, my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | (28M). Been together for 8 years. Not legally married. 7 year son.At least she is clearly telling you that your marriage would definitively end. IANAL, but I would be decoupling finances except for a joint account for common bills. The shit we go through for our kids though … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | if you're single but dont want to be, why?I am quite content in my single status, with my current run hanging about 3 1/4 years. Prior to my current run, I’d put things between points 2 and 3. I don’t connect with people too easily, and there isn’t much time to spare after the kids / work / house. Then the improvement train just never ends, even though it gets tiring. My divorce and the immediate rebound left me quite damaged and cynical, but that has given way to more apathy. Life is quite peaceful for me now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Confronting an APThe chief problem is that you’re coming at this way too late in the game. You need to strike while the iron is hot. Confronting the AP’s spouse, if they have one, can be more effective. No guarantees, though. The trust issue remains, however. If you can’t put it behind you, then how can you stay together? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | 2 years post divorceIf she’s messing around with a higher rung on the ladder, there is nothing he did to contribute. Not everything is the man’s fault. These hoes ain’t loyal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree?Ever since 50 Shades hit the shelves, a slice of the population actually thinks Christian Grey exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Feeling alone even around friends and family.30 and kid-free is still a largely blank slate you can start over with. It will take time, but it’s really a blessing. You do need to find your purpose, a task that faces every man. It’s just staring right at you at this point in time. It is better to face this at 30 than to find it with most of your life in the rearview. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reasonOh yeah. And it took far longer than I care to admit to grow a backbone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Close to an agreementIt’s always good when everyone accepts that it’s over and acts like adults. Best of luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/22 01:53 PM |
| 5 | inflation and salaryIt depends on the state. IANAL, but usually alimony is based upon a standard of living at the time of divorce, so if you get a big jump after the fact, she is not entitled to anything more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/22 11:14 AM |
| 2 | $750 consult fee, am I being robbed?The cost is representative of the location, and can vary widely. My attorney was around $300/hr, and would have been higher if I was in a big city. The divorce itself was low conflict, so there was no other BS to worry about. How complex do you think it will be? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | The bitterest pill of all to swallow : Your Ex cheated for a reasonIt will be a grand day when the last support check goes out and that financial tie is gone. I hope she hasn’t been squandering it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 3 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?Woah … she’ll have to do something else in order to secure the bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?Excellent question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?The uncomfortable question to follow is: If a person does not want their partner to watch porn, are they willing to satisfy their partner’s urges whenever they arise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 10 | Is dating actually fun for you?It used to be fun, especially in the first couple years after my divorce. I can’t pinpoint when my attitude changed. The last date I was on was plenty fun, but then I got ghosted and that was it for me. I have no intent to get remarried, have more children, or have a domestic partner, so I am not going to waste someone’s time or energy. I don’t need the drama to follow, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | I hate her, how can I forgive?Job 1 is your kid. You have filed, but this is a long, long journey you have ahead of you. You are nowhere near ready to even start thinking of a new relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 6 | why do women get most of the government benefits in my country.Simple. Men are disposable, particularly in the eyes of governments. It has been so for nearly the whole of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Looking at studies and looking at this subreddit will not improve your dating life, it will at best make no difference or make it worse.Thankfully, since my dating life is zero, it doesn’t matter how it’s factored. My presence here is a combination of amusement and post-mortem analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut that would require spending less money on the military-industrial complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | single guys, do you spend time with girls you're not attracted to?I have a few female acquaintances that I’ll find myself in lengthy conversations with. None of them are candidates for dating as there is mutual unattraction or they’re lesbians. It’s kinda neat since there is no sexual tension or any of the complications that go with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:58 AM |
| 7 | My ex sent me a message about looking at her AP on Social MediaWhen I found out enough about my ex’s AP, I sent a cute note to his wife on FB. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 11 | When to get a lawyerStart looking now. You want someone ready to answer the summons once you get served. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, would you more intrigued by a potential guy to date if your guy acquaintances or lady acquaintances vouched for them?When I rolled my vault dweller, I heavily loaded intelligence … like any respectable lone wanderer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 02:38 AM |
| 12 | "neck tats win my heart", said the new single mother on Tinder.Seems like a long-winded way to say “I let losers cum in me.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | settling even with a strong caseYoung kids … tough row to hoe. The forensic report could probably weigh in as leverage for you to get the most out of your separation agreement. However, 50/50 should be contingent on the STBX keeping her end of the deal, so whatever that means you have to keep her to the letter of it. 50/50 is the second best outcome for children (next only to a stable intact home) unless the neglect is pervasive. It gives you a chance to decompress and do errands and other adulting crap when she has the kids, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 10 | And that’s a wrap, folksThe lawyers are who wins. Be sure any changes to your agreement are approved by the court and merged into the separation agreement. Congrats on the upcoming start of your next chapter! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/22 03:41 PM |
| – | Still prefer being a man…I agree, particularly with the human lifespan as it is. It is better to start poor and die rich than start rich and die poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Any 6'3 guys for a double chin girl?6’4” and would still swipe left. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.No way in hell. Tried this at the suggestion of my now ex wife in 2013. It was a series of failures for me, and I never found anyone to click with. I know now that she used the premise to get her old AP back into her life. I filed for divorce the following year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Struggling With Dating Post SplitA whole lot has changed in the last decade. I don’t even recognize this shitshow that is called “dating”. My theory is that the whole online social media experience has artificially elevated people’s standards to astronomical levels. Consciously, we know that we are looking at the highlight reel, but our monkey brains don’t know that. Your saving grace is that you are young and you don’t have kids to tend to. You have lots of time for reflection, improvement, etc. I got divorced when I was 40. T… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/22 11:59 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.If my experience is an indication, a relationship may not be a source of happiness … but a bad one is definitely an abyss of misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.How should he feel? Deceived. An intimate partner has the right to choose boundaries they are comfortable with. The issue is the lie. The question then becomes “What else have they been less than honest about?” How it gets discussed depends on a lot of factors. As far as where to go? Trust may be broken. If there are no strong ties that bind, then it’s best to leave. IMO, lots of people are better off single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Im just ready for the next part alreadyYou are still fresh. 3 weeks into a very long haul, my friend. If she wants this, you need to shift your mental state to the role of a coparent. She is the mother of your child. That is all you must allow her. Any more than that is purely manipulative. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 17 | What percentage of people ever find out their partners cheated?I got into a drunk romp at a party when I was 21. The regret from that was incredible, so I confessed after 4 days of a worsening mental state. I never did it again. I got cheated on multiple times in my marriage. Thought about blowing my head off the first time I found out. It was with a coworker and right after my first child was born. That mess ended in 2014. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedA corollary to the OP’s statement: “Just because she finds you interesting, doesn’t mean she is interested.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Male entitlement is the sole reason for their widespread lonelinessMy loneliness is entirely on me. I wouldn’t date myself, so why would I expect anyone else to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Men and women both are afraid of being used by the other gender. And there's an easy way to fix this.One piece I’d like to highlight on the technological advances: advanced medicine. The medicine is something we take for granted now and has reduced the fear of STIs considerably as they can be managed (viral) or cured (bacterial). The rules of the old religion were also about how to keep your population alive and healthy. Virgins getting married weren’t going to get any unpleasant surprises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Help Please How do I make this go awayOuch. In that case, I would stick to the facts in the letter of the agreement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/22 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Help Please How do I make this go awayThat’s a question for your lawyer. You aren’t expecting her to play fair, are you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflectionA certain amount of charisma is required before the door even opens. Its a combination of looks, personality, and presentation. The illusion of choice makes it harder to stand out among the vast sea of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menI have had that happen to me. I always see it as fishing for a better tip, so I generally oblige. That job is not one I would ever want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Intelligence and personality matter A LOTThere are two rules: * Be attractive. * Don’t be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:42 AM |
| 6 | When did you knows it was over the idea of divorce just gives me the chills but at this point almost feels like its what i need to do, feeling so unhappy that almost don't want to go home at the end of the day.Another couple poisoned by “the lifestyle”. Sorry to say it, but this one is over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | When did you knows it was over the idea of divorce just gives me the chills but at this point almost feels like its what i need to do, feeling so unhappy that almost don't want to go home at the end of the day.The day she threatened a dead bedroom was the final straw. Moved to the couch, then the basement, then out. It’s been a rough road, but I am happier and more at peace than I ever have been. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/22 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Is there much difference between prostitution and paying Tinder for casual sex?Tinder is the pimp that doesn’t actually care for his bitches, nor does he pay them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 12:15 PM |
| 5 | Dragging in a dead cat--Men can we encourage each otherYou are not wrong at all. Kudos for standing up for yourself. It is a long story, but after years of bullshit I finally pulled up stakes when she threatened a dead bedroom. By the time the issue was settled in court, we had been married 11 years with her AP shadowing 7 of them. Tried hanging on for the kids, but 50/50 has been much better for them. I have peace, and it is glorious! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/22 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Anyone here want more kids but are afraid of the risks of what the mother might become afterwards?I had my two, considered a third after the divorce. However, the woman I was seeing flaked out majorly in a few short months. That was 2014. I dodged a bullet. I got the snip in 2017 just before I turned 43. I decided that I want the option to retire someday. When the youngest leaves the nest and my CS obligations are complete, I will need all the time I have remaining to try and catch up with what I was unable to save. I expect that the total after-tax bill will be around $250k USD. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 17 | The most powerful lesson I learned during my divorce recoveryGood stuff. One tip that I want to add: add more discipline to your life. That means doing the things that need to be done, even on the days you don’t feel like it. Then add to the things. Small returns compound over time, kings. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How much did you end up paying in child support?2 kids, 50/50. Initially $340/wk, but got that reduced to $261/wk after 2 years due to income changes. Really hate the courts, so I am paying off as much debt as possible before the next adjustment, probably in 2 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do most rejections, like most relationships happen between people in the same league?The OKC study was interesting: Your Looks and Your Inbox That study found men graded women on a bell curve, which is quite rare for raw data. Women were much harsher grading men. If you have 13ish minutes, Coltraine took a very different approach to the same data set, using S-curves. That method of analysis shows a very stark difference. Gender Attraction Differential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Hello! A few questions for the men in hereLots to unpack here, but I’ll see what I can answer. I feel blessed in that the women in my family come from largely wholesome stock. I believe that their love for me as a son, an uncle, and a cousin is not clouded by the dilemmas of modern society. I don’t have any daughters, so I cannot speak to that part of the question. I have been through the meat grinder of divorce court. Retrospectively, there were clear warning signs that it was a dysfunctional relationship. Not necessarily huge issues, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 06:57 PM |
| 16 | Can a manchild reasonably want a feminine woman?He can want all day long, but rigid expectations often result in disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Men value beauty less as they get olderThere is still a minimum threshold of acceptability, even as we get older. Looks still matter, but by no means as much as they used to. Granted, this is individual and subjective. Otherwise, I agree. Having peace in life is thoroughly intoxicating that disturbing that has to be worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Woman tells her boyfriend that he has a "boyfriend dick", and that bigger dicks from past hookups leave her sore so she needs time to recover from it.True, but it is her cover when she ultimately gets caught. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/21 11:11 AM |
| – | When a woman makes a man jump through hoops for sex, he should immediately discard her and find another womanThis is interesting, and I think it heavily depends on the hoops presented. Sometimes this behavior can be used to amplify desire and get the anticipation juices flowing. The mental foreplay can be just as important as physical foreplay. Where there is a problem is when this dance is done enough times without the ending that is not necessarily promised directly, but is often insinuated. Poor communication, mismatched expectations, and outright manipulation (by no means an exhaustive list) can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4All Why do you think it so that liberal wow no refuse to date conservative men even though they are more masculine and chivalrous? Also why is it that conservative men get so upset about this?So glad I quit dating when I did. This circus just keeps getting crazier and crazier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Woman tells her boyfriend that he has a "boyfriend dick", and that bigger dicks from past hookups leave her sore so she needs time to recover from it.She is probably a horrible liar. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Bingo!!! TALLL MEN 🚩 Kid is my world 🚩Pander to me 🚩 Onlyfans 🚩 "Speaks her mind" 🚩No herpesyphighonoraids here! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 11 | Bingo!!! TALLL MEN 🚩 Kid is my world 🚩Pander to me 🚩 Onlyfans 🚩 "Speaks her mind" 🚩She will say she is the table. However, I have my own furniture already. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/07/21 11:47 AM |
| 3 | This novel length response is how to keep a women happy and she says it's not that complicated...It makes marriage seem like multiple jobs you never get a raise and your always on probation...MGTOW for life.The State is also the superior party in the contract. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys carry on without having a significant others love?I found this path as the result of a divorce. It was neither the best nor worst case divorce, but it was not as bad as many. Still, the combination of family court followed by a wreck of a rebound gave me quite an immunity to close relationships with women. I have weathered enough rejection where I don’t find enough return on the energy spent. I put that energy and time into my kids, my friends, my home, and my career. I do miss it sometimes, though. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/07/21 08:22 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys plan on doing with all the money you saved once you die?My children will get 20%, unless they can prove themselves responsible (and their mother dies first). The rest is designated to a couple charities I believe in. I am not going to need the money, certainly. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/07/21 09:12 PM |
| 9 | Interesting CaseHe let her get away with it once. It will repeat down the line. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Is it unreasonable to expect dating exclusivity today?My last major mistake in judgement cost me a house and over $100k in child support so far. When everything is all said and done, I expect that little blunder to cost me a cool $250k or more in after-tax expense. While my value is more than a paycheck, the court doesn’t necessarily share that perspective depending on your state. You can be confident and secure as hell and rock beast mode at work … and they can still turn on you and make your life hell. I filed in my case, because I wasn’t going t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 8 | Fight the Temptations gents (kinda long story)Just gotta make sure she isn’t going to turn into a bunny boiler later. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/07/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it unreasonable to expect dating exclusivity today?The good thing about being an old bastard is that I remember the days before the online dating … err … eBay for People came into being. There wasn’t quite this illusion of abundance. It seems that now, even with a pledge of exclusivity, your replacement is one right click, one text, one FB chat away. Unless you are a snoop, there is no way to know unless it’s already too late. Of course, that is how I see it though my broken lens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 07:30 PM |
| 10 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.That doesn’t take into account the amount of time to get to the subpar sex. The reward doesn’t reflect the investment required, if that is indeed the desired endgame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 7 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.*70, and disable call-waiting. I had image preview software so I could check the file in transit. Hella important at 2400bps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Men Will Always Lose To Women Legally (HINDI) (THE INDIAN BACHELOR)Username checks out, then. How long until that thing is out of your life forever? | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | I am starting to hate women. Please HelpIt takes longer than you’d expect to let this go. For me, it has taken years to arrive at a place where there is no anger. I never dated much anyway, since I get much more out of my purpose. However, the last date I went on New Year’s Day in 2020. I was ghosted immediately afterwards, and that was when I decided that I had enough. I figure I was on this path for about 6 years by the time I arrived at the serene place I currently inhabit. This also considers that I am middle aged (47), have been … | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/07/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone wanna sign up for this mess?There are consequences to sucking that herpes dick. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/07/21 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Help me be a better DadIt gets easier. I just got done a 13 day run with my sons due to the ex’s working arrangements. A little challenging, but the longest streak so far. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | We Don't Recruit...Mostly dead. The divorce took a lot of years off. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/07/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | We Don't Recruit...Ongoing affair with a coworker. Discovery was one of the most difficult things I have ever gone through. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Happy Independence Day, gents. Can you handle this unemployed, smoker, carless single mother with more mental issues than you can shake a stick at? Step right up and form one line, no pushing.Only international airports are equipped to handle that much baggage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/07/21 10:22 AM |
| 9 | We Don't Recruit...I was 32 and married when I first found out. That was in 2006. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 3 | “The Wall” hits BOTH genders, and just means the age at which your lifestyle is accurately reflected on your face and bodyThe Wall doesn’t phase me. I built mine years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't folks having sex?I’m still paying for sex I stopped having 7 years ago. If I am lucky, I will be done in 9 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:55 PM |
| 36 | Dual-Mating Strategy modified: should she be with her alpha fucks or her beta bucks? Why not string them BOTH along?Women who give up stability for dick will lose both and deserve neither. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/07/21 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Withholding sex, because the person wants a 'serious' relationship is bad if the other person is asexual and doesn't know it.OP has gifts of a god and is only now realizing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The End of My Rope.Even on the email thing OP stated, he may not be able to prove a lie, but he can use that as well as the porn to suggest that she doesn’t have it well enough together to be a sole caregiver. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Mediation vs lawyer route...Mediation works best when you both know it’s not working and you’re both okay with it. It can be cheaper. However, if there are children or there is conflict, then you need an attorney. The upfront cost is higher, but it can save a tremendous amount of money in the long run. It’s like paying for years on a car you can’t drive anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | For those with a mortgage, where did you move immediately post divorce?Absolutely this. I was fortunate enough to know a guy renting a 2br in town. I was there for around 5 years before I was able to buy a house, but with joint physical custody in the school district, she was not able to leave town. I would have sued for primary custody if she did. That said, my sons are getting older and they could theoretically choose one place or the other right now. I don’t push the issue because the parent who forces a choice generally loses out in the long run. I do, however,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 5 | If you were a catch, you wouldn’t have to announce you’re a catch. At least she posts all her red flagsA catch and release, maybe. 🎣 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/07/21 05:05 PM |
| 0 | How many of you ladies literally have few or even no guys approach you in public?Remember, the psyop continues until there are no more cold approaches. Now, if only this worked on street canvassers in the city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 12:44 PM |
| 42 | Oh wow, there’s more... A is a mega simpPoor A. To be so naïve is a curse indeed. I was that guy once. I don’t remember where I heard it, but it goes like this: “If she isn’t getting it from you, she’s getting it from someone else.” | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/07/21 12:38 PM |
| 8 | Opening windows to infidelityMy ex got her validation through social media for her decision. Double-edge sword, though. I found her AP’s wife on FB and lobbed some bombs. Why should my life be the only one turned upside down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:06 AM |
| 6 | Household assets division?I wish I only lost $6k in assets… You are entitled to half the value of the assets in most cases, but beyond that attorney fees to recover that half may not pan out. This is especially true if she is trying to bait you into a fight. Divorce can be a really expensive life lesson. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 30 | Is american culture just more narcissistic than anywhere else in the world?Everything is for sale in the U.S. Biggest fact here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 74 | We’re done with these gamesSorry, I’m not getting that far into another man’s save point. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Online dating sites don't work because they are in violation of Briffault's LawThe big mistake in the assumption is that financials are the only benefit. In the traditional dimorphic view of needs, women would get the security and provision from one man and the man would get sexual access and reproduction from one woman. That was the theory, anyway. Women can make their own livings today. If anything, larger society is bending over backwards to accommodate their whims, particularly among progressive circles. There is a willful blindness to the natures of men and women that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 6 | I’m 19 in a relationship but still do what I gotta get done done,no matter what I sacrifice is this a good start?The number one thing you sacrifice, that you can never get back, is your time. If you think of it in that way, it should be easier to see what is important. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Any divorced men over 40 had any luck with online dating? If so which?Apps are a scam designed to part a man from his money. Most of the convos I have had on apps have tried to drive me to Ashley Madison to see their profile. That doesn’t count the countless messages that gathered no response or were ultimately ghosted. The older I get, the less dating even appeals to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 9 | Another reason not to marry. Gold diggers abound.Another day in the Female Derangement Syndrome subreddit … | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/06/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Man gets cheated on by fiancé, woman most affectedWhen you wake up and find you dream life was actually a nightmare, it’s actually hard to believe. One’s whole world and identity is tied up in this relationshit. I was that guy in 2007. It too another 7 years of bullshit before I pulled the plug. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/06/21 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Horrible Father's DayAt this point, since she has filed, you need to be all business about this. Get the split done as soon and as professionally as you are able. If this Father’s Day was the worst day, I can unfortunately assure you that there are going to be much darker days ahead. But you can pull through it as I and many others here have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Book recomendation?Got banned from that subreddit for some bullshit reason. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/06/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you at any time regret divorcing your wife? How’s life (mentally) post divorce? .. 29M looking to potentially get the process started.My only regret is not doing it sooner. However, that might have meant my oldest son would have been an only child which would be screwed up. I long for the day my youngest is emancipated and I never have to deal with my ex again. I am throwing a massive fucking party once the support order is terminated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Even Polyamorous Relationships are No SolutionIt’s not possible to make one woman happy, much less two. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/06/21 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Are LGBT MGTOWs a thing?The issues that bring most men into this philosophy are due to the complications in a heterosexual relationship and all the inordinate bullshit that entails. However, the essence of going one’s own way isn’t strictly limited to such constraints. While alternative sexualities do not have the traditional pressures that heteronormative relationships have and present to men, it does not mean that those subcultures are without their own uniqueness to keep men controlled. One of the great things about… | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 6 | It's Friday - let's have some funThe detailing work though … | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/06/21 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Women Uphold Toxic Masculinity in Dating More Than Men DoThe plus about my divorce and subsequent attempts at dating … they make me realize just how much more peace I have when I am alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 22 | "AP is a great guy, I think you would really like him,"Met my ex’s AP once after the divorce was final. It was sprung on me while I was out having lunch with my children. We ended up getting out sit-down order to go, because if I had to be anywhere near him for more than 5 minutes, I was going to be leaving in silver bracelets. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 5 | We have an self proclaimed "confident,sexy, independent," hispanic, single mother who only wants "big tall sexy black man or a big tall sexy Country man!!" ..... And you better be a gentleman otherwise she will put you in your place. Make a line boys.Before even getting to the pictures, the lack of spelling and grammar is a turn-off. Gonna have to pass if she fails class. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 3 | WTF WHY ARE PEAPOE SO SHITI believe that breaks the site-wide rules against brigading. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 8 | "24.5% of women in the U.S. had some type of mental illness in the past year"Came here looking for this comment and was not disappointed. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/06/21 11:00 PM |
| 24 | Well , it finally happenedThe fight has only begun. Do not give her an inch at this point, and work through your attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/21 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Any good mgtow youtube channels?huMan is obligatory. Also if you look for his older stuff, Groundwork for the Metaphysics of MGTOW, which is much deeper in philosophy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/06/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Don’t save herWow … she tried to get him on the diversity and inclusion program. However, my man doesn’t need that static. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 7 | 1 year since my divorce and think I finally found bliss boysTook me 5 years to get out of the hovel I has post-divorce. It was worth it, though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Prof Population will drop drastically to Dangerous Levels in 4 Generations from Boomers to Generation Z will be the last Generation of Humans.Even the third world is losing its fervor. Still above replacement, but for how long? | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Another great day as a single man. LIFE IS GOOD and we are the lucky ones. ^_^Here’s to the lucky ones, the MGTOW, those who keep peg D away from the insanity of slot C. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/06/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Level 5 MGTOW... you are basically isolated from the rest of the world. Too Extreme?MGTOW isn’t really a series of levels, but rather a series of skill trees. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Don't marry without a PrenupI’d need to find an old dot matrix printer for a prenup so I could print it on a roll of toilet paper. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?It’s an invisibility cloak. /s I busted my ankle pretty good about 4 years back, which sucked because I really loved running. The chronic pain is largely gone, but I don’t want a disabling injury which is a risk. The second factor is that I love food. Lockdown gave me plenty of time to up my cooking game. I’m giving intermittent fasting a whirl again. Hoping it sticks this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?It’s pretty much over. At this point, it is by choice. The ROI that comes from any improvements, specifically for the purposes of dating, is extraordinarily low. My energy and time have a much more expedient and tangible return when spent with my children and my employer. Surrendering my little bits of free time is a hefty ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.The good news is that bitterness fades. Takes awhile, not gonna lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: For men who believe your looks are the primary reason you struggle with women, please describe your physical looks?4/10 being my own worst critic. 80 or so pounds overweight. Bald because the pattern was reminiscent of George Costanza. Not a flattering caricature. Most of the remaining hair has been permanently removed. Late 40s, so I am an old bastard more or less. Even at 6’4”, height can only do so much. I don’t let my cheeky personality out much in the meatspace since there is no real benefit to doing so. I have been divorced for about 7 years now, single for 6 1/2 of those. The last couple years I have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 02:43 AM |
| 3 | My wife wants a divorce..Let her have the divorce. The head games are way too much at this stage. Clearly, you are extremely unhappy with your current setting. However, do not agree to take on any of her student loan debt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 09:52 AM |
| 6 | How important is sexual intercourse to a human's well-being?Sex is optional. I haven’t had intercourse in over 2 years, but the state mandated child support guarantees a fucking every two weeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:39 AM |
| 28 | Getting divorced after almost 2 years of marriage. I let her stay in our house that we have added 200k of value now worth 850,000 (sweat equity, new kitchen, driveway etc) she wanted to buy me out for $8,000. I’m in a 50/50 state. I don’t want to ruin her but I’m entitled to more right?She has no issues with ruining you and robbing you blind. Get your half of the total value and be gone. If it ruins her, it’s her own damn fault. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 41 | Simp Story Saturday: When I travelled some 120km just to get rejected.Most of us learn the hard way, bro. But you are learning without being in state-mandated shackles, so there isn’t much to laugh at. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts guys?Speaking for myself, I thought I was loved but my ex was cheating on me behind my back for years, then pulled the open relationship card so she didn’t have to sneak around it. As such, I don’t trust anyone who says they like me. This philosophy along with the clown world we live in confirms it. While I don’t seek the drama of the person in the post, I actively stay away from what I perceive as extremely dangerous. Addendum: I cannot separate the good outcome from the bad because of the people wh… | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts guys?Relatable, in its own way. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 2 | US birth rate sees biggest fall for nearly 50 yearsMy mind is solidly anti-this-vax, for a great many reasons. Everyone else can be a lab rat if they choose. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 115 | A gentle reminder to avoid marriage and paternity test your kids... He could still be on the hook in some states.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/06/21 10:28 AM |
| 5 | What do I do?In uni … one false accusation away from losing all your academic success without a shred of due process. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | US birth rate sees biggest fall for nearly 50 yearsFrom the CDC 2020 provisional data; The provisional general fertility rate (GFR) for the United States in 2020 was 55.8 births per 1,000 women aged 15–44, down 4% from the rate in 2019 (58.3), another record low for the nation TFR is in the shitter (from the provisional release): The provisional total fertility rate (TFR) for the United States in 2020 was 1,637.5 births per 1,000 women, down 4% from the rate in 2019 (1,706.0), another record low for the nation Source: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/da… | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How do large age gaps work?I have no idea, actually. My ex has been involved with a guy 16 years older than her for at least 15 years now. My guess is it’s because they never spend enough time around each other to allow familiarity to breed contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Can Chad ever be deserving of a happy ending?If Chad goes to the right places, he certainly can get a happy ending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Custody optionsI run on a 2-2-3 schedule on a two week rotation, so 2 on, 2 off, 3 on - week 1 2 off, 2 on, 3 off - week 2 This works really well when the kids are young. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 42 | Don’t date single mothers!There would have been no date 3. A woman who brings a toddler with her on the initial dates has something wrong upstairs. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Stupidly tried to explain MGTOW to my mom and she laughed in my face. Just thought you guys should know.Years ago, I showed my mom the video that Professor Popp made about it. https://www.mgtow.tv/watch/what-is-mgtow-popp-culture_Ai5tGOmXdtxscUF.html | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Just curious, what do you think about guys who still women, dating and everything else?I came across the philosophy when I was going through my divorce in 2014. As one of the other posters has said, it’s one of those things that is less of an issue as we get older. Big brain is in charge pretty much all the time. Otherwise, I can get what I need from a fleshlight when the moment strikes. Crushes come and go though. I don’t try to deny them or grow them. Usually the truth and time kills them outright. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | One More Reason To Stay MGTOW Bro!! - Emoticons = Marriage Like Relationship now.No more heart emojis! | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | How to handle post divorce relations?A bit of empathy would have been nice, but it didn’t turn out that way for me in my first year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | What is the ideal male body type?And too fat won’t fit through the door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 12:28 PM |
| 5 | What is the ideal male body type?OP is still under 6’, which is still invisible. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 11:31 AM |
| 3 | What counterarguments do you guys have to go against the whole “Get married, have a child and be a provider with more responsibilities” so you can be mature?I think the collapse could come fast and furious. Unlike the 1970s, the government has so much debt that it can’t touch interest rates without effectively defaulting. As such, it cannot contain the rate of inflation. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | how true is the thing about men with female friends?I can only speak for myself, but the only female friends that I have of any substance are possible because of mutual unattraction. With zero sexual tension or interest, it can work. For me, this is generally older women, much younger women (where I am old enough to be her father), and lesbians. I have a fair number of acquaintances, but I keep that light because the tension is just an imbalance, or trouble waiting to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 07:06 AM |
| 6 | It's not an issue if women don't want to date you or sleep with youThe issue isn’t what women want or don’t want. They do as they please. The issue is that guys were lied to about it because society needs a productive source of labor and excess of provisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 06:56 AM |
| 4 | What counterarguments do you guys have to go against the whole “Get married, have a child and be a provider with more responsibilities” so you can be mature?Quite possibly. Fortunately, I have two boys, so they will be able to get by on hard work, but it is something of a downer to see what might be the end of my line. At least until this shitshow collapses, which it will. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 06:49 AM |
| 5 | What counterarguments do you guys have to go against the whole “Get married, have a child and be a provider with more responsibilities” so you can be mature?Of course, because in this era of equity, some people are more equal than others. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 06:43 AM |
| 4 | What counterarguments do you guys have to go against the whole “Get married, have a child and be a provider with more responsibilities” so you can be mature?That doesn’t sell it. The maturity? Probably comes with the chains forged at the altar when you change from a free man to a wage slave whose excess production is absorbed by society’s takers. The old folks home … where if the staff isn’t doing the bare minimum, the governor will put sick people in with you to relieve the state of its burden of caring for you now that you are no longer useful to them. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 10 | What counterarguments do you guys have to go against the whole “Get married, have a child and be a provider with more responsibilities” so you can be mature?In traditional society, both men and women were held to account for their roles and responsibilities to the social order. These days, the social paradigm has become far less cohesive and atomized. Women are more or less free to do whatever without fear of criticism or consequence, which has left men holding the bag. We see how we are treated and are unloved except for what we can provide, often coming to despair or rage at the realization of these truths. That was before the extension of the CRT… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 06:30 AM |
| 7 | Noob questionThe reason marriage is more or less “forbidden” is because marriage is a contract between two parties and the state. What is almost never mentioned is that the people are inferior parties to the state, who can impose its will on the parties with the sanctioned use of force. This is a sort of lock in which is ineffective given how society more or less treats everything, including other people, as disposable. While it can go both ways, usually it’s the man who gets blindsided when he gets served d… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/05/21 06:13 AM |
| 9 | The most effective Blue Pill Strategy is exposure + timeFor men, what does this mean? Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 05:59 AM |
| 16 | Just short of asking the big question😂🤡The sixth one nails it. Dating is indeed a chore. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/05/21 10:43 AM |
| 13 | A tip for brothers to witness firsthand how men are regarded in modern relationships by applying some objective psychological observation to their social media posts.Well put. It’s harder to monkey branch with another monkey in the background. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 1 | " Married men live longer" than single men. Is B.S.I’d wager this is less true today. Married men get worn down like a pencil eraser and get replaced. I know very few people who are married today where one partner inspires the other to become a greater being. I call it the equity of misery. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 8 | Who Is "The Gray Man?" And Why Every Man Must Be it, In Today's Clown Society?Grey Man is accepting that the overall working of a societal system is largely broken, but one still needs to interact with the system. He blends in and hides in plain sight, keeping to himself, raising no attention to himself. The circus is starting to go off the rails. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Stocks to invest inI have some money in a few long-term dividend stocks in a DRIP. XOM, JNJ, AMT, T are a few I am in. I’ll do more as resources free up. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/05/21 11:43 AM |
| 3 | How should I move out?The fear is not unwarranted. And now you know the level of volatility you are dealing with. You need to retain an attorney sooner than later. Based upon her behavior, I would be sure to file first and be the plaintiff. It’s hard, but there is no honor in dealing with a terrorist. She is clearly an adversary, and must be treated as such. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 6 | I feel this belongs here brothers.Thankfully, yes. The divorce was final in 2014. Overall, the most difficult, yet most rewarding thing I have ever done for myself and my children. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/05/21 01:45 PM |
| 21 | I feel this belongs here brothers.Slow boil and incremental escalation over a long period. Crazy out of the gate is a lot easier to deal with. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/05/21 09:07 AM |
| 37 | I feel this belongs here brothers.Fear of being further marginalized in your own relationshit. Accept the terms or deal with whatever crumbs you get, or the inevitable divorce raping after you are psychologically eviscerated. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/05/21 09:03 AM |
| 7 | How should I move out?MA divorcee here. DO NOT MOVE OUT YET. You are at the starting point of this process and I would highly advise getting competent counsel. If your STBX cries over this, tough shit. Unless you are very well-versed in the law, you want an attorney to protect your interests. The upfront expense of retaining one will save you a world of hurt and money down the road. You have no mention of couple’s therapy, but if you have not tried that route, the judge may not look favorably upon the divorce. You sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/21 08:48 AM |
| 26 | I feel this belongs here brothers.Definitely weak, but also driven by fear. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/05/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | 15 y/o female here :) Just a few questions about the nature of MGTOWI’ll give you my take on the questions posed. Almost every sub has its groups of preaching to the choir. The original MGTOW sub under quarantine is definitely worse now that the mods kicked a lot of us old timers out who just wanted a few laughs. It is not too hard to get from caution to “bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks.”. The truth that is hard for a lot of folks to get is that a lot of men who identify as MGTOW have gone through some pretty severe betrayals, and nearly insurmountable em… | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Took a lower paying, less stressful job so I can focus on a writing career dreamSlice of heave there, my man. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/05/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Tax claiming questionShould have gone for 50/50, but to change that you’ll need a modification to the final judgement. If you remain highly involved in their lives, it should not come across as unreasonable. It depends on how much that changes the support amount, however. She might flip on that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Downfall of my father.This is what happens when we surrender our testicles. Tragic, for sure. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 9 | Time bombI hate to say it, but it sounds like you will need to strike first. You should be aware that she can strike at any time and without warning. If you can get a new place in the same school system, that would be beneficial to your case. You cannot negotiate with terrorists. When I got divorced 7 years ago, I demanded split custody. If she wanted more, I was prepared to burn down every joint asset we had to get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 7 | Downfall of my father.I cannot fathom going from having two homes to getting into a trailer, beyond a conscious decision to minimize. The ability to say “No” is almost a superpower these days. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Time bombGo 50/50 on custody. If you are in the same town, it’s a bonus because their school system will always be stable. DO NOT LET THAT GO. Kids don’t really give two shits about their childhood home, so long as the ones they have are stable and loving. You are better off broke and living in a hovel with your children half the time than allowing her free reign to manipulate them all the time, or give her reason to then sell the house and move and take them even further from you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/21 12:55 PM |
| 25 | I don’t know why alimony still a thing in 2021.They may be 60% of students, but if economic viability were important, a lot of social science would virtually disappear. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm a 27 yo man an was inspired by a post here to get a vasectomyGot mine done about 4 years ago, but that was an easy sell given how I already had the kids I wanted. I called it cheap insurance against being stupid. Make sure you empty your balls before the procedure. The doc isn’t fucking around about recovery time, which was a week in my case. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | 2 acres with cabin in Western New York for $40,000Once Starlink is out of beta, that sort of place becomes much more viable. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Post divorce relationship timingSo she gave you an ultimatum with a countdown on it. That is red flag enough. However, if she has indicated that she wants to get married and have her own kids, you are not the one for her. This isn’t one you can fake until you make. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | I’m not sure if this has been shared before but it seemed fittingBabysitting is on her. I’m not buying the $50 for babysitting she is offloading onto family. She’s gotta have some skin in the game, figuratively, at first. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 18 | Bad nightsBeen there. It is going to hurt for awhile, but the pain does fade. Don’t end your life over this pathetic wench. The thing you need to accept is that she chose to be cavalier about what you shared with her. When ypu are able, you need to get a full and clean break from this woman. Forgiveness may come eventually, but reconciliation is insanity. You know where that road leads. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Anything I can do?Brutal. Small claims might be the path forward then. I’m in MA. Very different laws here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 14 | Anything I can do?It could be argued that she disposed of marital property without agreement. Not usually a good tactic to put in front of the judge. I hope you have already filed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Female hypergamy is out of control.It is. Adapt. Improvise. Overcome. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/05/21 05:50 PM |
| 16 | Anything I can do?Keep a list if everything you remember you had. When the marital assets get split, have the replacement value taken out of her half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Hey, I'm a woman who respects men and maybe I can give some hope.The thing about this sort of hope is that it’s like when a lottery winner gets in the paper. We can be happy for the winner, but the math doesn’t work out for most of us. I found this philosophy later in life. I have adjusted to the solitude and peace, such that I don’t really want to tip over that apple cart. After my divorce and failed rebound, I have a higher immunity to attraction. Crushes come and go, and that’s about as far as it has gotten in the last few years. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/05/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | If I start contributing to an IRA, is that money still counted as “income” when it comes to child support figures?Income is generally considered before any deductions, except health and dental insurance in some states. The judge has usually seen every scam under the sun, so keep that in mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 11:36 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of the population truly do not want to couple? How many can maintain a ‘happy’ marriage 30 plus years?The current condition of society does not promote any sort of lasting power or cohesiveness. Almost everyone and everything has become disposable. Nothing gets fixed anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/21 09:31 AM |
| 10 | Just another reason there are no good men - because he won't take her to the lake.To be fair, when fishing it sometimes helps to chum the water. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | The housing market (US) is designed for womenThe white left is pathetic. They are the most racist, sexist, exclusionary folks on the fucking planet. The biggest expense a town has is the school system. They don’t the rabble in with the rest of them. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | The sex ratio between young (18-40) men and women are increasing, per census 2020Allow a bunch of fighting-age males through the porous border … what could possibly go wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Want to spend time with you and we need space in the same sentence. Know im busy with a new job but still not happy about it. Although If i lose my job and spend more time with her, i have a feeling she wont be happy either..When she says don’t stop trying … stop trying. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Introducing myself (32/They). I'm looking for likeminded people who want to discuss how to detach from society's expectations and pressuresDepart Facebook altogether. I rounded up all my critical contact info first and bailed. Zero regrets. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Real word divorceBookmarked. I will give this horror tome to both my sons when they are old enough. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 12/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | What kind of plug is this? It’s for a neon sign from Russia but the light is too bright and I want to change the adapter to something dimmable and a North American plug.Unless you know for certain this is a dimmable device, mismatching a power supply could cause permanent damage. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | The housing market (US) is designed for womenThere is a thing in my state called snob zoning, which more or less is a minimum land requirement, usually an acre or two. So with fewer plots to build on, larger houses go in because the profit margin is higher. It might take longer to move the house, but it’s the money that counts. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/05/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Anyone work as an engineer at a big tech company? Are they tolerable for MGTOWs/red-pillers?It really depends on where you work. I am stuck in blue state hell and there are quite a few based people in my organization. We have to keep very mum about our belief systems though. Big Tech companies … they get you in golden handcuffs and that will keep you muzzled. I usually advise folks to do the work they love and not go for the money. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Mega ThreadI was lampooning the use of the word accident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Mega ThreadAccidents … like she trips and just happens to fall on a dick. Or he is out for a run and just falls balls deep into pussy. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Trouble with relationships after divorceI divorced my ex because she had multiple affairs and never expected me to grow a backbone after years of being beaten down. I tried dating a few times, but nothing sticks. I can’t allow myself to get too invested. Partly because I am too old to start over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Another Female Telling all About How to Hode Cheating.In this case, past performance does suggest future results. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/05/21 11:54 AM |
| 3 | STBXW isn't acting like a motherKeep notes and talk to your lawyer. If she is gone that much, she should pay you and you should have primary custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | CMV Social media and dating apps have skyrocketed womens SMV - Hollywood celebrities, billionaires, athletes have open access to pretty much all attractive slim women in their 20'sThe online ecosystem of apps and communication effectively lowers the barriers to entry that were previously in place. Rant incoming: Instead of being limited to an extended social circle where you live or work, now you have access to a much wider range of people. It is a false abundance. It’s the difference between being top 10 in your town, and now you look at the top 10 in your region. Then top 10 in a 1-hour radius. It reminds me back in the days when there was actual variety among radio sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Seeking Advice from Other Men - Is My Marriage Over?I live in the Democratic People’s Republic of Massachusetts. I can be on the hook up to age 26 if you can believe that horse shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/21 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Can I quit my job ..Beware of “imputed income.” This is the reasonable amount of money you can be expected to make when considering things like child and spousal support. But you need to consult a lawyer on this one. If she gets half of the assets, you may find it awfully difficult to day trade. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/21 08:57 AM |
| 9 | Seeking Advice from Other Men - Is My Marriage Over?Decide what you value. Your kiddo has at least 4 years of college ahead. Until that is done, a lot of states won’t consider your duty to be fulfilled. It sounds like your spouse has refused to compromise all along the way. The kindest way I can put this … you get the behavior you allow. Your sense of duty, which is a righteous trait, has been long weaponized against you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Alpha widow complaining about being used/abusedI have seen a number of these rants, and I think her phone is recording in mirror mode, which is why it looks like she is in the wrong seat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 11 | Alpha widow complaining about being used/abusedWith that solid morality, you don’t entertain things that could become options. Guard your heart is the phrase I have often heard. It’s a good way to live. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 19 | Don't waste my time, just man up and take the consequences of my bad decisionsSo did my dad. Told me one day some many years ago that if he ever met his real dad, he’d have knocked his ass out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Are we heading towards a polygamous society?Nobody really cares as long as the bills get paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 54 | Don't waste my time, just man up and take the consequences of my bad decisionsCame here to say this. Boys need their fathers. Full stop. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/04/21 03:03 AM |
| 9 | Economic truthsThis was a truly fascist plan. Corporate had more wage slaves to keep the cost of labor down by virtue of a larger pool. Government had more mules to collect taxes from. The nuclear family is something of a misnomer now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Story: Census: US population growth 2nd lowest in historyIt’s a lot worse than they are reporting. Birth rates continue their downward tumble. Provisional data from Q3 2020 shows a birth rate of 56.8. The asterisk next to the number indicates a significant change from the same quarter in the prior year. This would be alarming data on its own, but births in this time were already in the oven when the lockdowns began. Q1 2021 will be the first data entirely post-lockdown. Q1 2022 will be the first data entirely post-vax. Source: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How to find purpose - The hard way.Thanks for the recommendation. I picked it up in hardcover this weekend and will digest it over the coming week. I was on SSRIs for about 4 years, and the side effects, particularly the brain zaps were very real. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/04/21 01:38 AM |
| 11 | Tinder Files. : Post-Wall women comes with pre-made family that is the priority (not you). She’s looking for someone to love them and join in their fun. Anyone up for the thankless task?Interesting. This one claims to still want fun where so many others openly admit to having already had fun. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/04/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Claim: "If you need a prenup to get married it means you dont 100% trust your partner."And the state is the superior party in the contract. That bit gets left out a lot. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/04/21 10:08 AM |
| 2 | An eloquent message appealing for partnership from a 45-year old homemaker for your dignified perusalI regret to inform her that due to what appear to be numerous grammatical errors, I must feel compelled to swipe left as I cannot divide by the numeric value of her personality with standard mathematics. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/04/21 10:05 AM |
| 3 | How to find purpose - The hard way.I started reading point 3 and heard the rest of the list in Jordan Peterson’s voice. Humor aside, this is a great list. Point 1 being the hardest. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/04/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Living in the same neighborhood as your ex and kids - good idea?I have stayed within the same school system since I got divorced. It was the principal reason the joint physical custody was approved, as there would be no impact to the school system if either myself or my ex wanted to move. The downside is if one of us moves out of town, the other can sue for primary physical custody on the grounds of maintaining the same school system. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 3 | [F4M] 50, post-wall with drinking problem and sketchy employment wants to be your "Princess", note the 1000 cock stare and artificial rack. This one won't last gentlemen! Act fast!Those cost 25 schmeckles. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 4 | The ONLY two choices for mgotwGrey man. Just blend into the shadows. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/04/21 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Learning how to Cook , despite the lack of materials ( i am still living with my parents , Mom has only basic cooking mats) preparing for the sweet lone life ahead of me :)Learning to cook is one skill you never regret learning. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 26 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?I found this piece of brilliance a while back: Yes, I know. This belief is all the rage right now. Poor women trying to get their men to open up about their emotions, but they just won't. Too stubborn. Too emotionally underdeveloped. Must be all the male-power fantasy media they consume. Here's an unfortunate reality: Women, in general, have very little patience for men's emotions that don't suit their needs. Our emotions aren't really concerned over, except insofar as they affect women. Literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What are my first steps?Good luck, man. It’s a tough road ahead. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What are my first steps?Divorced in the Democratic People’s Republic of Massachusetts. No-fault doesn’t mean effortless divorce, and it sounds like this one is going to have a lot of points contested. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What are my first steps?Generally, I agree with you. However, the courts do want the divorcing couple to have shown some level of effort before calling it quits. This is especially true if OP decides to be the plaintiff in the case. I was the plaintiff in my divorce in 2014, and having gone through that step twice previously (I was a slow study) made it a much easier strait to sail. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What are my first steps?First thing I recommend is getting in couple’s therapy. It will cost you a lot less than a lawyer initially. Depending on your state, you may be required to make an honest attempt at couple’s therapy. If not, it will show you both what makes the differences irreconcilable. You will need to be able to explain this to the judge. If you do decide to go the divorce route, the financial discovery colonoscopy would make the IRS blush. Don’t do anything dumb that will make you appear suspicious. Family… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Are attractive guys actually less creepy?Creepy is solely determined by the recipient of the action. While the original topic suggests that it is men who are creepy, it can apply to women as well. Attractiveness as perceived by the recipient can do a lot to shape the initial impression of creep or not. Being a creep can be a product of desperation, pervertedness, inexperience, or any other undesirable trait. However, because this is individual, the definition of creep can become subjective. Being called a creep without knowing why can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself to be a good catch? Do you think the typical person would consider him/herself lucky to have you as a partner?TL;DR: Not in the slightest. The pros: 6-figure salary at a world leading company. Own a home in a private neighborhood nestled around conservation land. Easily navigates a kitchen and cook most of my meals. Almost debt-free, short of my car payment. 6’4”. Above average endowment. The cons: No ability to form a lasting attachment after the one-two punch of my divorce and dead-cat bounce rebound. Two kids I have half the time, which means my attention is always divided. The job is high level, whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:54 AM |
| -2 | Heated debate on r/pussypassdenied on cheating and violenceI don’t agree with it, but I understand it. Few betrayals incite such a visceral rage. IMO, they are fortunate that the only thing that happened was they got slapped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | q4m do you guys pay all the bills in your relationships, how is your financial situation with your partner?My ex still siphons about a grand a month. Can’t wait until my children are successfully launched so I can turn off that spigot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 31 | When Hypergamy Goes Wrong...I think the new term for this is consequence culture. She crunched up her relationship like a piece of paper. try as she may, it will never be back to its original form. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 16 | I think the MGTOW movement is not inherently bad if you approach it with maturity.It does. Took me much longer than I care to admit, but it is so nice to be apathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?Reminds me of my ex who told me she would never have sex with someone old enough to be her dad ... but then goes and starts a long running affair with a coworker, who was technically old enough to be her father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 11:49 AM |
| 38 | So... here's an LTR fuck up of epic proportions.Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The BPD actresses with moist holes. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/21 11:08 AM |
| 17 | Step right up boys and get in line for this beautiful prize.And still a 49er! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | With high unemployment, how are you going to prepare?I am encouraging them to think of the trades, especially since a trade once learned can’t be taken away. But if they think I am going to let them major in basket weaving, they are in for a shock. I love my kids, but despise the legal tether to their mother. The family court won’t likely be out of the shadows until both kids are launched. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | With high unemployment, how are you going to prepare?I am trying like hell to pay everything off. Unemployment sucks, but the coming inflation is going to be a critical blow to the monetary system. Unfortunately, the chains of child support weigh heavy and I have about 10 years remaining on them. It is not fun to consider. I will need to keep participating in the system until that expires. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Practically speaking, is there anything wrong with increased promiscuity in society?If you toss out any moral arguments, then increased promiscuity is neither wrong nor right. Rather, it is just an outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 02:16 AM |
| 6 | [Free eBook] A Man's Guide To Surviving Marriage In The 21st CenturyThis is the best April Fool’s joke I have seen today! | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I save my money if divorced?If you hide a marital asset illegally and the judge finds out, you will probably lose the whole thing. If you take a sudden departure from your career, you could be hit with imputed income calculations. This represents your earning potential and stops an account from taking a barista position at Starbucks to dodge the financial calculations. If a split is coming or us inevitable, pony up for a lawyer. Personal accounts are still considered marital assets when division is considered. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/03/21 12:57 AM |
| 182 | Never been whaling? Now's your chance, but you better have a car.I’m not a licensed heavy equipment operator. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/21 12:37 AM |
| 4 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.I got divorced 7 years ago, but that financial tether is still there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 9 | There is a disconnect between men and women. Online dating is deepening the divide.And my “professional” ex wife decided to hook up with her coworker, repeatedly, in spite of me working a crazy job to keep the lights on and the bills paid. But she was not as clever as she thought she was. Once our children are adults, she can either fully take care of herself or try and latch onto some other sucker once the CS ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:56 PM |
| 26 | Hypergamy is on full display in so many moviesEver her character said, “I’d rather be his whore than your wife.” | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 3 | MGTOW appears to be such a small minority, does it have much of an impact on society?The philosophy of MGTOW is usually handled with the first two rules of Fight Club in the real world, so it is really not possible to get an accurate assessment of how large we are. Big Tech censorship also tries to get in the way of the philosophy, but it doesn’t seem to be having too much of an effect. Looking at the source of our lovely red pill metaphor, Morpheus wasn’t hunting with a huge band of people relative to the total population either. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/21 12:32 PM |
| 5 | A misandrist modern society is not a bug, it's a feature, or why I'm not a MRA or tradconMarriage also used to be a serious commitment, and when the country was more religious, there was a much more common premarital counseling. Pre cana, IIRC in the Catholic tradition. However, with no fault divorce, the person who cares the least can pull the plug at any time for half the assets. This makes no mention of spousal or child support burdens (which is BS in joint physical custody, IMO). Add in the selective enforcement of the rules. The whole mess will descend into even more chaos befo… | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Have you guys ever dated a woman so damaged, she just "Flipped" on you?Thankfully, this has not happened to me. I have seen it happen to a few of my friends, though. It makes the single life really easy when I watch the shit that happens. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Independent woman ☑️ 33 ☑️ got kid(s) ☑️ single 5 years ☑️ not just wantin' fuck ☑️ not wantin' feelings either ☑️ don't waste my time playazz ☑️ not 'ere for joke ☑️I would have more fun conversing with a wall. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Life ...is goodNice. Definitely need to get steak next time I do a full shopping trip. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Is there too little focus on sexual performance, functioning, and pleasure?It’s like people who work harder at their jobs because they aren’t overflowing with options for employment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | What patterns have you noticed in the people you tend to date and/or attrract? What kind of conclusions could you draw about that?Patterns? Shit goes downhill and explodes before the 90-day warranty expires. For my cartoon-loving readers, my relationships are made from the best Doofenschmirtz materials. Clearly, I need one of those hazmat signs on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why have traditional gender roles suddenly become an unspeakable topic?The society has been deliberately sabotaged by the ruling class in order to seize more power and control for themselves. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/03/21 12:51 PM |
| 7 | She cheated on her gym routine tooTitle is wrong. She can’t cheat on her gym routine if she doesn’t have one. 🤔 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Are we actually insane?“Extremism” is being tossed around so much lately that the hyperbole is dulling the edge of the word. I guess I’m a sexist, misogynist, extremist because i don’t want a second helping of divorce rape and grand larceny at the order of family court. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 7 | Male students forced to apologise to female students for ‘sexism’Reminds me of what I believe is an African proverb: A boy who is not embraced by his village will burn it down to feel its warmth. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/03/21 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Men can't seem to stay married..It is absurd, really. Men are waking up to how disposable they are, and adapting accordingly. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | WhY cAnT i FiNd A mAnThey are wearing their own scarlet letters these days. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 8 | Am I wrong?The only thing you did wrong was waste valuable energy when it got heated. You have said your peace, though. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/03/21 03:02 AM |
| 12 | Here is the OkCupid DataColttaine breaks this down rather brilliantly: https://youtu.be/7vqRbScCIPU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 13 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.I would rather be cultivating friendships with bros who have my back in whatever season I am in. I can only speak of my own experience, but the only women I have been able to truly be friends with are where there is mutual unattraction. As soon as there is a hint of innuendo or attraction, the friendly dynamic gets thrown off balance. An off-balance friendship is unfair to everyone involved. Edit: Cannot proofread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Primal Rage To Destroy Pussy declining at 35.I noticed the same after I turned 40. Not that the poon wasn’t good, but having already been reproductively successful, my interest fell off a clip. The amount of work for a few minutes of sticky friction is of insufficient value to pursue. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Fathers here what do you teach your daughters?Fish heads, fish heads, rolly polly fish heads. Fish heads, fish heads, eat them up, yum! | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/03/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | What brought you to mgtow?I’m down over $100,000 because I didn’t switch soon enough. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the average relationship duration for you?Excluding my ex wife, less than 3 months. Equipment with a 90-day return policy has better odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Any takers for last place?Last place? You need to reframe your mind. Second place is the first loser. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you couldn’t have sex with your wife/partner ever again, would you still choose to be with them?This would largely depend on if we had children together. If yes, I would move into my own room. I will not share a bed with someone if we are not using it. Why would I torture myself? No guarantee this would last, however. If no, I would be out. I would rather live a life in peaceful solitude than with a roommate any day of the week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 8 | Worth a readI read that a while ago. Really, really good stuff. Entanglements with the state are real though, and absolutely should be minimized to the fullest extent possible. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 3 | How often would you say women lie about their own sex drives?When she says she has no sex drive I believe her. My presence kills it. It’s like an EMP or a vaginal desiccant. I wish I had this level of self awareness in my 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 21 | Poor guuuurl. 38F divorced for 10 years and just can't find love. Cystur feels like giving up. 😢She has the equality she was promised. Hopefully she can now better understand how men feel. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 6 | Seriously. This is the current state of affairs.Why are you not lining up?!? /s | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?He can still better himself to get the income. That’s one 6. He can still work out and get those abs. That’s another 6. Concentrate and build up some wealth, and pick up a muscle car. >600HP . Another 6. And he’ll be at least 6 months single anyway. Focus on what you can control, folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 07:24 PM |
| 20 | Red flags galore. Green hair. Chest Tattto. Single mom of 2 young children. Close to 30 than 25 aka danger zone. Over 200lbs. Snapchat on display. And after all of that, now she's looking for something serious...Orbiter by gravitational pull. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Coworkers are not your friendsAdding that to the list of wisdom! | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Coworkers are not your friendsAllegory: Don’t shit where you eat. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW even possible in the West now?It was turning into another FB when I left it 4 years ago. When it was professional networking, it was great. But once it started getting both political and personal, I pulled the plug. Maybe things have changed, but I am highly doubtful. Edit: clarification | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Just in time for the weekend! Master these 14 ultra-easy to achieve traits, and this this kween trainer won't ghost you! 🤣She could live in NYC and still find nobody who matches her criteria. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 21 | Is humor allowed on the weekends?When push came to shove, Marge didn’t choose the bowler. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 9 | Another girl asking for everything, while contributing absolutely nothing.So we have to pass the bill before we can see what’s in it? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/21 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Guys got this from MensLib your opinions?Most therapists aren’t worth shit, for starters. Then there are too many who aren’t skilled enough to help someone dig into the issues. Then the overwhelming majority are women. And biological interference can really throw things off here. Then there is mandatory reporting in some cases which can cause real problems beyond therapy itself. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 45 | Is MGTOW even possible in the West now?Yes, it is possible. However, that requires maintaining strict boundaries in professional settings everywhere. I am also one for cutting out social media with a real identity traceable to it. It reduces the attack surface. Anything you have ever said can and will be used against you. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/03/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m seeing the knowledge of MGTOW in TV showsHit the wayback machine and go for some Blue Cat Blues. The messaging has been going out for a long time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/03/21 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?I know Epstein didn’t kill himself, but WTF is with rule 5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:50 AM |
| -1 | Now that this sub has had its balls hacked off, where on Reddit can we go to discuss the current bullshit feminist agenda that turned us all MGTOW to begin with?I got banned from r/mgtow for no discernible reason. Most mods on this shithole are tyrants anyway. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Gravitational pull of the ham planets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Sex is how women reward men. Any other thing a woman can do for a man is relatively worthless to most guys.Most men pay, one way or another. I love my kids, but by the time the child support is over, I’ll have spent Stormy Daniels kinda money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 123 | Stereotype - Open Marriage (cheating), Meets Chad, Fucks Chad, Leaves Husband, Now Single Without Husband or ChadScarcity mindset. He hasn’t figured out that having no relationship is superior than being in a toxic relationship. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/03/21 09:04 PM |
| – | CMV: If polygamy became cool or trendy, more women will be willing to openly participate in it.As of there are enough super rich men to go around ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 02:21 PM |
| 9 | I was promiscuous in the past and now I can’t pair Bond with men. Why is that? LolBut with wording from the Department of Redundancy Department. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 5 | I think some men here have wrong ideas about independence (mistaking isolation to be independence) and self-improvement: READ MY VIEWPOINT #devil's advocateThis deserves a more thorough response than i can currently give at the moment, but this is a well-written piece. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | It is what it isTwo weeks prior to the breakup, more likely. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/03/21 12:26 PM |
| 1 | The time when a woman can control my life.Beginning. I will make my own exit if before I devolve into a vegetable, provided I have that option. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/03/21 01:27 PM |
| 29 | Kevin Samuels is anti MGTOWKS has a whole schtick that is largely incompatible with MGTOW. He is demanding that women get realistic. Most of us just demand that women leave us alone. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/03/21 01:23 PM |
| 16 | Parading diversity in the workplace is a meaningless gestureIt’s been going on longer than that. My super liberal ex sister in law actually called it out. I bailed on LI a few months later. It devolved from a professional network into a shit ton of political dick and tit waving. Edit: That was 3 years ago. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 5 | International Women's Day SpecialAlternative story: Man emotionally gets beaten by a woman. It’s okay because whatever she did it is his fault anyway. Man files divorce after finding his backbone. Society laughs at him, but he no longer gives a fuck. Man rebuilds because that’s what a man does. Starts paying off debt and stacking riches while never leading on to the ladies about anything he has accomplished. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | [55-F] looking for someone extraordinary! like a chad that is a best friend, playmate, lover, and partner, no hookups!30 years too late. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/21 08:54 AM |
| 5 | At what age did finally leave your parents to live your life and why?I moved out when I was 23. It took a bit to find a decent career, but it was worth it to strike out on my own. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 6 | For those where it's applicable, who hurt you and what did they do?Ex-wife was a serial adulteress. Post-divorce rebound was an emotionally manipulative nutcase. I rarely date now after that one-two punch since I tend to attract broken women. However, I am the common denominator there. Accepting this has been both difficult and liberating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Literally she doesn’t even want to fuck.To quote the Lorax (theatrical edition): That’s a woman? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/21 01:54 AM |
| 52 | This is the first picture on her dating profile and she has the nerve to say "marry me or stfu"? And then there is the problem with keeping her hands to herself.Add a hitting problem on top! What’s not to love? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Stardusk on YT ... axed?I hope so. It’s YT so it is only possible to tell in retrospect. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Stardusk on YT ... axed?That’s the one. Strange enough ... it looks like they are all back now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 23 | Biden excludes MenThat’s why it is key to go in, do your job, then go home. It sucks, but being right of center precludes me from having my real name on almost any social media. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 8 | Covid led to a baby bustThe wage slaves are being imported again, so they have that covered. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Covid led to a baby bustI am preparing to gloat about this as soon as I get my mits on the CDC provisional data. It should come out in May. 2020 is not the year to watch, however. Yes, the rate will be lower, but most of the children born last year were already in the oven before the coof. The 2021 numbers will be the big drop. Things are still in the shitter in most places, so even if things magically cleared up by the end of the month there would be no results until January 2022. The uncertainty is going to kill the … | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Was I Tricked or Used for Pregnancy?Point 2 should have been red flag #1. Point 3 was cheese in the trap. Get your own test and have her use it in your presence. Women sell those on CL. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/03/21 01:07 PM |
| 4 | A Man That Goes His Own Way Eventually Finds His Way - I am a man who loved myself enough to take a season of solitude to heal, be still and find out what brings me joy. I had to travel through the unknown to find something new.Good article, but after my divorce beating, I will be staying in my comfortable place. The state of women has not improved over the last 7 years, something I do not expect to improve any time soon. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/03/21 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Imagine being 300+ pounds and saying "I know my worth and I’m not settling for less.".I don’t know how much artisan soap sells for, but I bet she could help come up with a lot. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 28 | Dating apps are absolutely brutal for men.Ah yes ... the 49ers! | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Work ethics in MGTOWThere comes a time to strike it out on your own. Sucks starting at the ground floor though, but the sense of accomplishment is second to none. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 4 | New Sexual Harassment/Assault Accusation EVERYDAYThe thing is ... civilization is fragile. The system is bound to collapse, but there is a growing cadre of people who are more than willing to burn the whole thing down and start over. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 8 | Interesting article that is not completely against 'men going their own way' without partners. Pretty based. (german)Yup ... and the state will collapse under the weight of their entitlements. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/02/21 12:53 PM |
| 11 | When did you know?I am in the minority of men who filed for divorce, so the question really requires a two part answer. It took a lot of shit before I got to that breaking point, though. It was an easy decision once I knew my ex wife would never be loyal. The divorce itself was uncontested and took about 6 months. Getting past it took me until I got out of the shithole I was living in and into a house that was not a shanty. Once I had a decent place, a lot of the anger dropped off the radar. I am looking forward … | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/02/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome a fear of dating because you're scared of a crippling breakup?I’m not afraid of the breakup per se. I have had a couple glorious letdowns. In middle age, I ask myself if this is worth my time. I am far more afraid of wasting the limited time on this rock with someone I can never hope to satisfy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | If men always have to pay...Legal in NV, but not in the city limits. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Is anyone else sick of the “women don’t owe you sex” narrative?When I bust my ass on the honey-do list on one or two of my full days off, you do not respond to my needs with your headache. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 11 | any feminists on this sub?If you believe in equality of opportunity and equal protection under the law, that is called being egalitarian. Feminism is a philosophy that consumes, devours, and subjugates until only the feminine prerogative remains. It is ruled by solipsistic emotion and eschews logic and reason in its current form. However, it has freed men from the chains they never knew they had. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Should i..should I report her 😂Such a charming and attractive personality! Can’t wait to see how this one is 10 years out. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | At 29 years old I’m done with the games, where’s the Nice Guys?I find those three places somewhat humorous. Most men I know involved in spiritual, charitable, or physical activity are there for a purpose now. /#metoo really poisoned the well for a lot of people. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/02/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you rather have a successful career or live where you want to live?I have the successful career. It makes a whole lot of other things in life bearable. I am in the burbs, and it’s okay, but i would rather be further out. With Starlink on the way, viable remote work at a distance is much more likely in the years to come. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Need male red pill relationship advice - ideally from top 5%ersMy personal advice for the BF is to start taking online courses and get his BS/IT or BS/CS. If his professional network is small, he needs appropriate credentials to get through the HR filters. It’s a long slog, but it’s full bonus if the megacorp has some kind of tuition reimbursement. As life coaches go, my favorite one on YouTube that i have followed for almost a decade is Eric Thomas. The dude is a legend. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 3 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.By the time I am free of all my obligations, in about 10 or so years, I will have paid my ex around $250k USD. Not going to get cashed out twice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Once you get taken to the cleaners and lose half your shit, you will find the desire pretty much goes away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | On an individual level, do you think men "need" women more than women "need" men, or other way around?My parents were pretty normal, all things told. My K-9 peer group was a whole other flaming pile of shit. Had I not moved and gotten a clean slate at 15, I am certain I would have offed myself. One of my best friends put it well: I am a starving puppy who wags his tail for anyone who will open a can of Alpo. It’s just that in midlife that I have no desire to be repeatedly beaten with the can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here lies about having a FWB to avoid dealing with resentment from family, work and non-MGTOW entourage?I embraced being a weirdo long ago. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Women don't like men as much as men like women.One of the best videos on YT. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Good to see an actual 50/50 custody go through for this guyWomen only want equity when it benefits them. Color me shocked! When I got divorced in 2014, I told my ex on day 1 that the kids were going 50/50. If not, there would be no assets to split because I would burn the motherfucker down. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/02/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".Let’s just make prostitution legal and let the problem solve itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 12:53 PM |
| 5 | On an individual level, do you think men "need" women more than women "need" men, or other way around?The product of several years in reflection (and a couple years in therapy) is that the root issues are so deep that they are beyond repair. Unlike Sisyphus, I have stopped pushing the boulder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Found this on Instagram. It took her 12 years to realise that she made a big mistake. Lucky for her the dude is still simping for her after all those yearsProper advice for any man: Never let an old flame burn you twice. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/02/21 12:15 PM |
| 4 | On an individual level, do you think men "need" women more than women "need" men, or other way around?Ah yes ... equity. Time for me to share. When I was married, my ex wife loved equity whenever she was the beneficiary. Additionally, what was equal only counted if it was what she thought was fair. Emotional vulnerability I have shown to women has been universally used against me, usually in the form of withdrawal of affection. However, I at least have the insight to realize that I am the greatest common factor in these experiences, regardless of the reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 12:11 PM |
| 8 | 35 going on 60, 3 kids, a neck tat (not pictured) and facial piercings. Who wants to buy this prize? Having a hard time keeping a straight face with this one.But the makeup is her truth! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Can't find herself a "real" manAnd no monkey business. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 11 | The Pussy was Good: How I ended up dating a woman, her kid, and her ex-husband.Confucius say, “Man go to sleep sexually frustrated wake up with solution in hand.” | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | The Pussy was Good: How I ended up dating a woman, her kid, and her ex-husband.The power of pussy is undeniable, and the downfall it causes can be tragic. At least you don’t have to pay CS for this one. | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/02/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Economist on Incentivizing Safe SexThe incentive for being moral is losing half your shit in divorce court. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 09/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 18 | How I became MGTOW. I loved her to no end. Moved mountains to keep her happy. She left me on a whim without a reason. I blamed myself for 4 years after she broke up with me. Today, I asked her why andOne quote, which I forget who to attribute to: “The one in control of the relationship is the one who cares the least.” | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/02/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.Joining the work force had nothing on dating disruption. The smartphone, social media, cancel culture, and the viral court of public opinion have done far more to alter the dating landscape in a much shorter period of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:15 AM |
| 20 | She Admits Committing Every Sin Except Murder and Now Wants a Man to Put A Ring On ItAnd her continued single status shows that God has delivered us from evil. She could recognize that her position is a penance for her sins, but that requires a high dose of self awareness. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/21 08:58 AM |
| 29 | How do you deal with being single?When it comes to being single, I simply reflect on the alternative and rather enjoy my freedom and solitude. I don’t miss the shit tests, or the neediness, or the random obstacle courses just to get in a few minutes of sticky friction. I don’t miss sacrificing the little free time I truly have after kids / errands / work. I don’t miss blowing money on a system that only values me solely based on my ability to provide. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/02/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlAt the end of it all, you end up paying. One way, or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlAt the end of it all, you end up paying. One way, or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 2 | To young men... why you should not marry ....Cue the Iron Maiden. Specifically, “Run to the Hills”. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/01/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on therapy? Why is it or why is it not effective?I found it to be quite effective when I needed it. Sometimes you just need to unload. I got lucky and had a great therapist who didn’t take any of my shit, particularly when it came to the meatsack (shout out to RPM). It’s also good to have someone else’s point of view who isn’t going to run a bias filter because they are a friend or anything. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 39 | The first pic on my profile is me in my underwear and bra, but I'm not here for sex. Also I haves another man's kidS, and I'm trying to get married. "Romance me".Nature’s warning signals are on full display. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/21 09:00 AM |
| 17 | How did you get over a breakup with someone you loved?Time, distance, and distraction. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/01/21 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Any nice men left for a plus size glamour content creator of 37? Must be ok with her “job” since she is getting sick with all the pervs messaging her.Why do I suddenly think about making soap? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 133 | Why does everyone assume that I can't get a women or a girlfriend when I said I plan to be single and not get married at all?It’s a shaming tactic because they cannot fathom a life where a man is free to live as he chooses. | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | What's your thought? Just saw this on a girl's post who's a conservative and supports Trump in Canada.Had me in the first half, not gonna lie. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Gents, do you think MGTOW, and in a broader sense , the manosphere is a kind of fad for old men to live their fantasies ? What are your predictions, if any, for the state of the MGTOW2 subreddit by the end of the year 2021?It may seem like a fad for old men. I am almost one of them. This may stem from the fact that some of our most prolific content creators are older men. Thoughtful words are delivered from a place of wisdom derived from experience. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/01/21 02:49 PM |
| 9 | "You won’t get no action from me unless I know it’s definitely going somewhere"I think she is unlikely to changer her tune. While it is possible for an entitlement princess to have an epiphany and come to her senses, I think it is unlikely. After all, many of these queens do not believe in settling. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 21 | "You won’t get no action from me unless I know it’s definitely going somewhere"Beta Billy, while stable, won’t get those tingles rolling. It would be like running a Porsche on low-octane fuel: heading for ruin. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Jealous of other girls and would rather have anyone rather than money3 months is enough to maybe build a solid habit. Mastery of the self is a life long process. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/01/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Please tell me I did the right thingJust because you did not commit, doesn’t mean there was not an emotional connection. The monkey brain is really pretty stupid. This is like mourning the loss of a stock you should have sold at the peak. All your emotional investment is gone, and you can expect no future dividends if she remains committed to her husband. I think your rationalization is throwing your cognitive assessment off. It’s not the 5 guys (probably not of the burger variety) that would bother me, but the willingness to chea… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Has the "keeping your options open" method worked for you?The only winning move is not to play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | The pandemic is speeding up the mass disappearance of men from collegeAll the trades seem to start off with relatively low pay. That is part of the price of apprenticeship. My dad didn’t start his apprenticeship as an electrician until he was 40. He did pretty well for himself once he got his journeyman license. Depending on my field of interest, I would probably squeeze in college classes at night. Continuing education departments aren’t as full of shit as the daytime professors. it’s probably worse now than when I finished my BS/IT in 2007. One important thing t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/01/21 08:58 AM |
| 68 | The pandemic is speeding up the mass disappearance of men from collegeThis is no sudden-onset crisis. These young men should get into the trades. Getting a licensed trade under your belt is a hell of a way to freedom. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Yes, I'm obese. Yes, I'm entitled. Yes, I will put others down to make myself better. Now here is my bio that equates to a list of demands.I guess she rounded out while getting that list of requirements. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | How has gaining weight impacted your dating life?My fat is my invisibility suit. It took me a long time to accept this superpower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 03:56 AM |
| 11 | Short fat 5' 2" troll at the wall demands a tall man with green or blue eyes ONLYThe ultimate punishment an English teacher could levy would be to diagram the run on sentences that make up this profile. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Outsider here, no facetiousness or mocking intended. Serious questions I have to get to know the community better, is all. No need to reply if you don't want to :)I am a practicing monk-mode adherent at this point. I have no real interest in dating, but when the urge comes along, about 4 hours on OkC will top off the tank for a year. My associations with women beyond what my profession requires are next to none. I chat with a couple friends I have had for decades, but that is it. I thought I married the right woman, and we were largely compatible, or so I thought. I was wrong in so many ways. The appeal of the community is knowing I am not the only one wh… | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 12 | You are planning and paying. BTW, she has a 8-9 inch VaginaOver the hill? More like Tuckerman Ravine on the southeast side of Mt. Washington. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 4 | For those guys, who're still "dating": straight from the horse's mouth. That read rivals a good horror movie, IMHO...Sauce: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/kj93lm/redditors_that_worked_with_a_dating_company | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men should wait for your indicators of interest before they approach or do you think that would prevent a lot of potential relationships from happening?The joy of not being attractive is that IOIs make it clear to me who the liars are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 11 | Someone is displaying “baggage” behaviour. What a catch. No pics but complaining. The anger on the bio shows how sweet of a catch. Who’s willing to save this one?Probably more air freight than baggage. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Should i leave Instagram?Digital heroin. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Study: MGTOW lifestyle is better for your financesOne thing which I admired about my ex wife was that she was not a spendthrift with her money. The state’s take in child support is automatic and fixed, which makes budgeting far easier to manage. However, the total costs of owning the home we once shared are going to hurt and she is in over her head. I expect her to sell the place as soon as my youngest flees the nest. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Am I welcome?Many get thrown out or modified. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 217 | We need a real man to step up and be a father. Anyone here volunteers?Episodes of Maury just write themselves ... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Should i leave Instagram?Just because you know that it’s bullshit on a cognitive level doesn’t mean the monkey brain gets it. That was part of the reason I left. I know it’s just everyone’s highlight reel, but below the cognitive level it was fucking with my head. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Am I welcome?True, but the judge isn’t going to throw out a well-written contract where a prenup isn’t usually worth the toilet paper it is printed on. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Am I welcome?Usually, the contract with a business partner is more fairly defined. | /r/MGTOW2 | 16/01/21 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Why no relationships?To be fair that guy went ahead and played the married role almost completely. Not sure what he was expecting. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you date a single dad/become a stepmom?I have a 2-2-3 schedule and a demanding job. The free week only comes twice a year for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 12:37 PM |
| 11 | Q4W: Would you date a single dad/become a stepmom?Single dad here. Your comment is on point. What I will add is that the single parents I know that actually have it together between their kids, work, and homes generally don’t date. There is next to no time for it when all the responsibilities are taken care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Goodbye “Friend” LettersThe only time a man and a woman can actually be friends is when there is a mutual unattraction. Under no other circumstances does this work. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/01/21 01:06 PM |
| 41 | Poor guy! Hopefully things turn out well for him! Let’s hope he finds this community! Love you guys ❤️None of those options has lasting power though. Generally speaking, women would rather be in the harem of a king that be married to a peasant. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Women - Juice ain't worth the squeezeRare indeed. I am sure that has been immensely helpful with raising the kiddos. You are truly a blessed man. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 15 | Women - Juice ain't worth the squeezeAt least your unicorn wasn’t repeatedly fucking coworkers... | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | If it were suddenly possible to change your sexuality, do you think most people would still remain heterosexual?I would switch to Ace and not turn back. Ever. No biological urges or their pent up frustrations. No residual fallout or drama. Much lower likeliness to be manipulated from any kind of sexual angle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 02:04 PM |
| 7 | What’s the opinion here on gay men?No opinion, really. I am glad they are by and large accepted in most of mainstream society. It makes life in monk mode easier because the whole shaming tactic “No woman? You must be a faggot!” doesn’t even get off the ground now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 5 | The "layers of criminalisation, stigma and illegality" and not receiving emergency support from the government, has left sex workers destitute. We need a state mandated Pussy Patrol!It’s a stem job: service the erect meat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Guys, will you take the vaccine?I have heard of at least one prominent hospital where the medical staff rejected the vaccine at a rate of 50%. I can’t say where, because the data isn’t public. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Guys, will you take the vaccine?That one isn’t mRNA, so this is one I am curious about. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 15 | Nervousness and anxiety abt vasectomyRub one out before you go. And when the guys says don’t do shit for a week, don’t do shit for a week. | /r/MGTOW2 | 09/01/21 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Dark Days Are AheadTo his credit, Bejing Basement Biden told us there was going to be a dark winter. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | My Braveheart mommentCongrats! | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/01/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Do men have any relationship value outside of sperm and money and would you ever let yourself become a forever girlfriend?I at least get some mode of gratitude from my boss, so that helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Do men have any relationship value outside of sperm and money and would you ever let yourself become a forever girlfriend?Thankfully, I am very well employed. I forget the way this is put ... unconventionally attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:31 PM |
| 57 | Are you gentlemen ready to start a family with a couple of babies? Then here is a 44 yo who has decided she isn’t, anymore, into hookups, ONS, poly, and ready to be loved by a tall real man.Poor planning on her part is not an emergency on my part. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Do men have any relationship value outside of sperm and money and would you ever let yourself become a forever girlfriend?FWIW, I stopped dating when it finally occurred to my dumb head that I was just a resource to be mined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys ever wonder what it would be like if you never went your own way.We want the misery to end. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever wonder what it would be like if you never went your own way.Had my serial adulteress ex-wife decided not to do what she did, I would not have found this path. Continuing on became a losing game as each “success” came at an increasing cost. Between my children and my career, I have very little time to effectively build something new. I no longer bother. While the red pill rage has subsided since I found this philosophy 7 years ago, I still feel a profound loss from time to time. It brings wisdom I can offer my sons that my dad never had for me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Who watches coach greg adams?Kevin has got style. The suit is so rare to see these days that busting one out as he does is pretty slick. He drops all kinds of bombs in a way that nobody else can. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/01/21 03:57 PM |
| 3 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?Being nice is never enough to stand on its own. That’s why it’s important to stack cash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 12:50 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Men Report More Opposite-Sex Sexual Partners (N-count) Than Women?A key that can open any lock is a master key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Apparently, Women Aren’t Getting Married Anymore Because Of A Surplus Of Broke MenNo, thankfully. That is the total since I started paying a support line item. This year was about $14k. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 11 | What a Catch, I'm really missing outEven if I could handle her at her worst, why would i choose to do so? The differential between her worst and best doesn’t seem to be much. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/12/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | ... do I really need a title?With rare exceptions, many luxuries are just depreciating assets. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, Women Aren’t Getting Married Anymore Because Of A Surplus Of Broke MenMy guess would be another 2/3, with 1/3 involvement. Probably double if I had no custody at all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 28 | Dating Coaches Discuss their Experiences with WomenWomen: Guy must be 6’ tall. Men: Girl must not be obese. reeeeeeeee | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 24/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 40 | Apparently, Women Aren’t Getting Married Anymore Because Of A Surplus Of Broke MenTruth. I have been divorced for about 6 years now. My bill for having the kids 50/50 is just south of $105k after taxes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | If a woman is single, but has sexual desire and is not able to get into a satisfying relationship, what do you think she should do?Oh yeah ... That whole experience left quite a mark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | If a woman is single, but has sexual desire and is not able to get into a satisfying relationship, what do you think she should do?My ex wife chose me to be option E while choosing others for option B. It took an embarrassingly long time to figure out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 10:05 PM |
| 12 | Single mum, at 34 looking for the unicorn manly man, muscular groomed and rugged. But really an old school gent. Ah and 6ft+.She will advertise her OF, or IG, or even try to get you to sign up in Ashley Madison so you can check out her “profile” ... after you waste some time talking back and forth. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/20 02:47 PM |
| 6 | I got prematurely banned from the original MGTOW sub reddit for calling out a racist post.At least you have an idea. A lot of us got no explanation. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | My MGTOW YouTube channel where I upload red pill clipsAdd yourself to mgtow.tv as well. YouTube is no friend of ours. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 0 | There is a M and an E in marriage, but it is a lie.Remove the M and it is just misspelling arrange. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | For those who want financial independence or to retire early, but like the idea of sharing a life with someone else, remember what's at stake.True ... the court will let a guy choose between a home and food to eat on a good day. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | For those who want financial independence or to retire early, but like the idea of sharing a life with someone else, remember what's at stake.$800/mo in alimony? No thanks. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/12/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Which aspect of your gender do you feel is most misunderstood/deserves more empathy from the opposite gender? What is the barrier to mutual understanding?When I have spent all day competing with the world, I do not want a competitor or score keeper at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Time to save money and still going my own way. 2020 evictions December millions gonna lose homes and apartmentsYup, and if there is a full scale nationwide lockdown, the chaos will be everywhere. It is an authoritarian wet dream really. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/12/20 01:34 PM |
| 34 | I recently came across the MGTOW movement, & I feel its something I can really get behind.This is a philosophy, not a movement. The closest thing to rules here are: no marriage, and no cohabitation. A lot of us have gone monk, but that is because we believe it is the safest option with the current state of society. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/12/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | I got an epiphanyThat influence extends beyond the dollars. Though in a couple, what she earns is her money and what he earns is their money. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 6 | For men who grew up with stepfathers and single mothers how does this "you shouldn't date women with children" feel?The single mother issue automatically knocks you into third place at a minimum. It might have a better chance of working if the kids are young enough (under 10) and she takes her meds. Otherwise, it can be playing with fire. I have seen good guys get crushed when things go sour. The woman crushes him twice: once when she leaves and once when she breaks the bond between the kid and stepdad. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | What does your social life look like now that you're going your own way?The friends that I have and can reasonably count on I have had for decades. As new friends go, I usually find them through work. However, that is pretty rare. I was meeting some people via trivia night, but the plandemic put that on ice for awhile. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/11/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Advice on my RelationshipA woman with multiple baby daddies is a huge red flag in and of itself. Be careful. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I quit too easily because I hate myselfWhy go on? Because there is still a lot to see and do. But you need to find your purpose. You should definitely seek a counselor. Depression is way overlooked in men. Get your Vitamin D and thyroid levels checked as well. That can make a huge difference. One quote my 5th grade teacher had on her wall put it well: Life is a mystery to be lived, not a problem to be solved. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Swedish MGTOW:s?Swedish MGTOW, marching ashore Based with the red pill, they are thirsty no more! Out of Asgard, our viking ship sails Never to simp once again! | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Trying to fix my sleeping pattern and hopefully getting my ex gf of my mindThe two things I have worked for me in these cases to restore some kind of normal functioning are time and distance. You are in a legal proceeding, so you really can’t start an effective time away from her. On distance, same thing. Once the proceeding is settled, you can cut her out of your life and then the timer on both counters can really begin. As to the total amount of time to recover, that is unique to the individual. However, this woman was significant to you, so buckle yourself in. It’s … | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Question for men who are unhappy with their dating optionsOptions? It is pretty hard to see anything as a legitimate option once the true nature of the game is exposed. I am disappointed about all the lies I have been exposed to over my lifetime, however. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 02:19 AM |
| 10 | Got a king bed for my dog and II got a CA king last year. Money very well spent! | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/11/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Harsh but TruthBut going monk is somehow a cope ... It’s the only sane move. | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 91 | Crazy feminist boss ruins my first job, so I ruined her whole damn career.Self respect and facts go well together. This is fantastic work. Jajaja, indeed! | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 19 | Traumatic experience that made me MGTOWThat is a heartbreaking story. One thing I will offer is that while some things are worse, it is all relative. We don’t come across or embrace this philosophy without having encountered some sort of severe trauma. The beatdowns are different for all of is. Loss can be profoundly painful and it isn’t always logical. That isn’t meant to diminish the pain any, and it sure as shit hurts. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Company owner keeps 6 hour shifts ... everybody wins !It’s easier to focus for 6 hours and roll it all. The quality of life with 2 more hours a day is quite an incentive. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/11/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV:Given that most men are unattractive,it's better if women gave up monogamy and openly shared the top menThe rapid online communication pretty much makes it 95/5, not 80/20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who thinks the covid-19 vaccines are sketchy as hell?I am hopeful, but given how many usual hoops are required to get FDA approval in a normal case, I am going to pass. Polio took years of trials and data before it was approved, and that was a far worse normal than where we are now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/11/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I like seeing lefties with a ton of student loan debtProgressives are bitches. So now let’s review some Briffault: Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. The votes have been cast. There will be no delivery upon those promises. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 11 | Facts! 💯No, he has been an MRA for ages. However, it is good that he at least understands why we are the way we are. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 56 | Why does my dad hate that I’ll never chase women?You are perfectly well adjusted to survive a sick society. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/11/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Unaware of this has been brought up here but it does have a huge bearing on going your own way. What's the general consensus here?I am in this boat as well. Kinda pisses me off, TBH. I think I recently passed the $100k mark in support costs. All of it is after-tax dollars. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/11/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Question for those with first or second hand experienceBeyond your own resources, there is nothing available from an organizational perspective. Your network is your most important asset. I was fortunate that my folks’ next door neighbor had an apartment coming up and he needed a tenant right when I needed it. It was a tiny shithole, but it was enough for me and my boys. It would have been much more difficult if i had to leave town and live outside the school system. It took me years to regroup, but the house I have now is far and away better than t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 10 | What if Biden wins, what does this mean for MGTOW in the USIt means MGTOW is going to be more important in order to survive. Big tech social media has already psychologically enslaved the minds of most folks. A Biden win will usher in the social credit score in the West before the end of his first term. Due process, already denied to many men, will accelerate to all those who don’t toe the line. If there is a time to prepare to be a grey man, that time is now. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/11/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Next time you have a compelling argument for not being "chivalrous"No sense in opening doors with all the power locks these days. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/11/20 10:49 AM |
| 4 | What positive things did you learn from your past relationships?I learned that freedom is a wonderful thing, albeit frightening at the same time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/11/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: Why do some men wish for lots of casual sex but shame women who have lots of it?A key that can unopen any lock is a master key. A lock that can be opened by any key is a useless lock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 4 | There's still hopeHope is the only thing stronger than fear. However, there is nowhere near enough of these kinds of articles or judicial actions to turn society away from its degeneracy. Heck, even the ability to make a test on suspicion is a very new development that we have not begun to really wrap out minds around. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Taking joy in rejecting womenI find greater joy in my indifference as my life is very peaceful. I sometimes toy with the idea of sadistically turning tables, but that accomplishes little. It does remind me of this passage from Isiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 5 | How is lockdown gonna effect relationships?Here is another thing to consider, and something I am watching as the data rolls in: We are 7 months in to when the lockdowns started to really take hold. I predict a sharp drop in the birth rates come January. Pretty much anything that was in production prior to the pandemic will finish, but I suspect any baby making plans most people had were put on hold. | /r/MGTOW2 | 31/10/20 12:36 PM |
| 93 | She literally expects you to fill out an application?! She's in the mood, but what happens to you when she's not?In the meantime, she is still getting some on the side. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Covid ConspiracyPower grab. That’s all it is at this point. The survival rates are extremely high for a pandemic, as if people forgot what life was like when polio was a real thing. But suggest working towards herd immunity and you are some kind of heretic. I am not a doctor, but it is amazing to me how many of them line up to eat at the trough of their own bullshit. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/10/20 11:26 AM |
| 1 | [Legalized Fraud] Finnish Court Orders Man to Pay Alimony for Child That Resulted From His Wife CheatingPut me in prison, and you better not let me out, because I will have nothing to lose at that point. | /r/MGTOW2 | 28/10/20 11:19 AM |
| 29 | Almost paid for this woman’s grocery’s...A good deed was preemptively punished. It is tough to disengage sometimes, but it is easier with time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/10/20 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Decisions decisions!Debt, then stack for a bit until you settle on your next move. If you have something you’re good at, become the best you can at it. All the more power to you if you can get paid for it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/10/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand being MGTOW and "fear of loneliness" when you're olderIt’s not so much of a fear at this point, but from a health perspective, I expect I will outlive my actual friends. Almost all the crew I have and have known for the last 20-30 years are developing some serious issues. I am not far behind, but I am faring better than most. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/10/20 08:03 AM |
| 15 | MGTOW sounds good in your 20s, even 30s, but what about later?Mid 40s here. I won’t lie ... it does get lonely sometimes. However, the peace in my life is unmatched. Finding the intrinsic motivation can be difficult sometimes, but I have two boys who keep me grounded. I expect to launch my children into their own lives without being a tether once they have become their own men. I only hope that my decline in the twilight of my life is swift and with a minimal of suffering. | /r/MGTOW2 | 26/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | How could anybody resist. 😂😂“She don’t eat meat, but she sure likes the bone.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Activism needed or not?MRAs have been trying the activism thing for years, and it has yielded very little fruit for the effort put in. As MGTOW, however ... This is the way. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/10/20 11:08 AM |
| 98 | That's it! I'm 32 and no one wants to build anything with me. Time to get off the carousel and ghost all the horsies on it!Always hated that phrase ... “I’ve had my fun.” So you’re no fun anymore? Is that what you want me to sign up for? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Phil Collins sues his ex-partner after she secretly got married to someone else and they locked him out of his own mansionLOL I find it funny in a sense because some of his stuff helped me in my red pill rage so many years ago. But its a cautionary tale that so many men are one blowjob away from the plantation. (Edit: spelling) | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/10/20 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Sperm donations are not anonymous anymoreIslam is also extremely blue pilled in some aspects of Sharia law. Once some of that feminism leaks into their society and takes hold, they will fall just as well. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/10/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Any other lawn guys here?Usually those are good batteries. Any chance you have some warranty time on it? | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/10/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Grooming my nephewBe present, and live by example. That is all there is to it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Freudian Red-pilling... An isolated event?Dear Lord, that was the perfect quip! | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Any other lawn guys here?I had a push reel mower. Great cut, but if you don’t keep up with the lawn, you are going to be in a world of hurt. I have a 40v Ryobi mower. The batteries suck when they run down, but it is light AF since the whole mower deck is more or less plastic. And it won’t rot out on me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/10/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts, Gents?And when he finds his wife is out fucking the Chad from work and continues to do so, I am sure his lovely caricature will tune to a minor key. It will probably destroy him. He is right about the energy wasted in the dating game, however. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/10/20 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Just turned down a girl i had alot of feelings for, i feel empty and sad... Could someone give a word to calm me down?Reminds me of the following: —— Dear Ernie, First, some background. My best friend (let's call him Al) started dating this girl about a year ago (let's call her Alex). Throughout this I have become the "sounding board", if you will, for lots of their problems and fights. They broke up for a few months about midway through this year of dating and got back together. Alex and I have become a lot closer through these months, and she's become one of my few close friends. Hell, I got all the details f… | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Just turned down a girl i had alot of feelings for, i feel empty and sad... Could someone give a word to calm me down?This girl won’t ever be just a friend. Trying to be friends when things are unbalanced is really dysfunctional and unhealthy. What I have found helpful is knowing that crushes come and go. Enjoy the feeling and let it pass through you. If you try to deny it, the pressure can build up like a dam. That dam will break and the misery will consume you. Keep these women in your contact list so you know who they are, but disengaging is the best forward strategy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 6 | This honestly is the best take on the OnlyFans phenom plaguing modern womenBirth rates are continuing to go into the tank. This just accelerates the trend. The data is going to be glorious in the next decade. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a video to red pill my brother.Winning? Nooooooo! | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a video to red pill my brother.Popp is the best because he interweaves the serious subject with humor. Buuuuuut ... | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/10/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | In a real world dating scenario, how much do the stereotypes play into how you perceive the individual?Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Every time I dip my toe in the dating pool, it reminds me that all I face is a cesspool. Given my universal string of failures, the problem is clearly me. It’s better to focus on what I am good at anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | how to gain closure from a relationship?Getting closure can be an elusive, unsatisfiable task. What you need to do is insulate yourself from her. Cut all ties. She does not need to heal. You do. Accept that you cannot be friends. Things are over and the why does nothing to bring you joy. Sometimes things just do not work, and while we may see those things as failures, that doesn’t mean they are. Time is the ultimate healer, and the sting fades if you can get enough distance. | /r/MGTOW2 | 09/10/20 07:26 PM |
| 18 | What lessons have you learn from this lifestyle ?If you are not happy with yourself, you most certainly will not be happy with others. | /r/MGTOW2 | 09/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Libido killerNobody wants to see the scabs under the rim ... | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Interesting DataSo ... women are the primary victims of MGTOW? I am sure they read as little as they could under the guise of “protecting the researcher”. Certainly, accepting the core of a MGTOW perspective would shatter their own crystalline academic safe space. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/10/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | If you’re consumed by hatred, you aren’t on your purposeWell said. Actual hatred and anger consume a massive ton of energy, which is better spent on other pursuits. But it is for each man to work through. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Interesting DataGrant money doesn’t come in for fluff pieces. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/10/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming your needsYeah ... biology is hell to deal with in the 20s. I don’t miss that aspect of my youth. | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 53 | At 41 with 2 kids time to find me a nice man. WAATGM gone? But better be tall. And if you are unsure you want a single mum with expensive hobbies don’t bother me.She aged out of finding that category of man 15 years ago. But these dating apps have fueled a false abundance mentality. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/10/20 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Ended my relationship after almost a year today, feeling happyAn amicable split is rare, it seems. It still hurts a bit, but is pretty easy to recover from. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/10/20 11:16 AM |
| -1 | How would you react to being treated by female healthcare staff at a hospital? Would you trust them with your care?They are licensed professionals, so yes. Healthcare spews a lot of the equality bullshit we are used to hearing, but they don’t fuck around when it comes to anything that could be a liability. Insurance and lawyers don’t give two shits about the genders they will be suing when shit goes south. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Married & divorced MGTOW’s, what was the moment you knew your relationship took a turn for the worse?The final straw in the long string of bullshit started when she told me some 7 years ago that I should get a girlfriend. It was a trap, and I fell right into it. We were divorced just over a year later. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/10/20 11:10 AM |
| 12 | Marriage rates plummet in U.S.And when it comes to just sex, she can keep monkey branching well beyond 32. It might not net her the results she really wants, but it remains ridiculously easy if she just wants to get laid. | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/10/20 11:05 AM |
| 4 | Overcoming your needsI’m not sure how old you are, but I am in my mid 40s, and monk mode is generally pretty easy. However, I don’t consider masturbation to count against the efforts. Since dating apps are a sewer, those are easy to avoid. The urges are real though, and this crazy year has kept me largely isolated which makes it tougher. I have a standing offer a few states away from a long term friend / occasional crush. I am going to need to take some time off since I am at the top of my time bank. Fighting the ur… | /r/MGTOW2 | 05/10/20 11:02 AM |
| 10 | At this point you're a genuine fool for getting married. I consider American men the dumbest on the planet. AThe worst marriage and divorce laws and still getting married. Crazy. Can't even look at relationship advice subs or adultery subs the bluepill simps make me sick.At one point in time the parasitic relationship used to be symbiotic. These days, it’s all one-way. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Need to work on finalizing the planning and then enacting my exit strategy, but am feeling too lazy to actually do it...The spoils eventually go to the ones with the hunger to go after the things they want. The situation you are in is not ideal, but it isn’t unbearable enough either. As other guys said, put in your apprenticeship and start studying now. You can probably keep the job you currently have though you may need to shift the hours around. I’d totally go the IBEW route today if I were starting over, and would probably still study networking on the side. Tons of shit is getting the low-voltage treatment th… | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | **NEW VIDEO** Lets have a discussion. DOES A WOMANS BODY COUNT MATTER IF YOU ARE GOING TO DATE LONG TERM??A master key that can open any lock has high value. A lock that opens with any key is a shitty lock. | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 51 | Guess why she is 40 yrs old and has a bunch of catsI have had this happen to me more than once. It’s like nothing they say can be trusted anymore. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Most Men Aren't Husband Material 🤣🤣🤣It is almost self-aware: We trade up jobs all the time. We trade up our iPhones, our furniture, and at times, even our friends. Sadly, our generation also tends to take this attitude with significant others. While this isn’t always a common sentiment, it happens frequently enough that certain guys just don’t realize what they had until they are old, alone, and traded out. And that is what leads to point 11, when men lose interest. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 6 | How is this shit not similar to the main mgtow subreddit but for women, then too they haven't been quarantined? This double standard is really preposterousIt really stands for Feminist Derangement Syndrome. Men that meet their arbitrary criteria have plenty of options. | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/09/20 07:39 PM |
| 52 | Come to the point of ignoring women all together.I ignore any of the extra attention beyond what is due in the matter of an interesting conversation. I also work for an SJW infested institution, so I keep everything strictly professional at all times which is really pretty easy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Never Agree to Split the Bills, an ebook for women on how to find men who are providersThis ought to be a fun read! | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/09/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do some red pilled men consider tattoos on women be a red flag?I don’t generally prefer women with ink, but I have some acquaintances who have some incredibly high quality detailed art. I still tune in more attentively and am rarely disappointed in the red pills I receive. | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | New to MGTOW. Didn't know what I was doing was widespread. Delayed Ejaculation and my naturalized journey to MGTOW.The last sentence is absolutely on point. Sex is great, but there needs to be more to the equation. So many women now reject the traditional roles in their entirety, yet expect men to keep our end of the bargain, and have an equal share in their duties, which is an even larger workload. I won’t even go on about the honey-do lists that many of us former husbands used to have. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 7 | Do any of you guys have female friends you hang out with?I have one female friend that is truly platonic. It exists as such because we find each other mutually unattractive. She’s cool. Otherwise, all of them have some sort of sexual tension between them. The innuendo gets weird sometimes, especially when the tension is unbalanced ... so I tend to keep them at the acquaintance level only. On the plus side, its a steady stream of red pills. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 33 | The event that planted the seeds of MGTOW in my brain.It is scary how hostile things are getting, particularly between men and women. The thing is that every time they cry wolf, every time they falsely accuse without merit, it weakens them in the long term. In retrospect, this environment has freed men from the chains they did not know they had. A woman will keep you from being your very best self because she knows a man at his very best has options. You are fortunate to have learned this at a young age. The compound interest on your self investmen… | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | If a girl wants you to be a provider (just provider), Run as fast as you can!!Unfortunately, most of us don’t learn this before we are burned. | /r/MGTOW2 | 20/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Every king must master his emotionsI will add a corollary: Allow yourself to feel your emotions, and if necessary, allow them to wash over you. Denying them and walling them up is creating a dam that will only burst with time. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 5 | I just realized my father is gynocentric towards my sister and my toxic mom who used and abused himWhat do you expect from a rib? | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to get this off my chest.Staying humble is always good life advice, along with under promise / over deliver. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Sandman has lost itI’ll cut they guy some slack. A 10 minute video, even if it is voiceovers on stock photos takes a long time to script, record, and edit. Doing this day after day, year after year, is going to have its fair share of duds. There is not much new to cover at this point, and YT probably doesn’t want this subject to be too popular. He is one of the OGs in my view and is a good introduction to the philosophy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 18/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I just got divorced, she cheated on me then took my money, my house, and my kidsI’ve been divorced for 6 years now. But I let her keep the house. I got a better one. Kids are 50/50. | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 38 | Bear paw is still single 😱. Try making sense of her explanation for why she's still single 🤣 I wonder.... 🤔Chin2 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 29 | So if the UK makes misogyny a hate crime and conflates MGTOW with misogyny, then does going your own way become a hate crime in the UK?Women created MGTOW by their actions. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 6 | MGTOW helps you avoid..It is in a sense. I love my sons, but I despise paying their mother for the privilege of having them half the time. If my youngest son enlists in the service, this could be over in under 10. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Birth Rates continue to sink.I apologize, but the scenario is a touch fictional. Pre-COVID was my married life, which I got out of in 2014. The COVID scenario just has no wife and only kids half the time. The list is just house stuff, but it’s my house, so it’s not do bad. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 42 | MGTOW helps you avoid..Family court sucks. I know I have future appearances as my kids hit milestones, but it will be over under 15 years. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 5 | Axe the Negativity in Your LifeGot rid of all my social media tied to my real identity except Snapchat ... because my dumb shit gets purged after 24 hours. It was tough at first to adjust, but it was worth it to put real work into my real friendships again instead of just clicking the like button. | /r/MGTOW2 | 15/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 11 | Can someone tell me how do i get around this?I got banned recently as well. No explanation. Mods probably got infiltrated. I’d consider that sub to be compromised. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women are so kind and good-hearted but unintentionally abusiveIn the absence of rational thought snd consideration to future consequences, they fall back on their “good intentions” as a way to dodge any sort of responsibility. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Man Ordered To Pay Spousal Support Even Though He Wasn’t Married, Had No House Or ChildrenSaw this one. Dude should have bailed the moment she said no. He brought this on himself, sadly. | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Birth Rates continue to sink.Let me toss out another idea that was applicable when I was blue pilled. Pre-COVID: Work at job. Get home around 6 pm. Start the multi-hour ritual of “warming the oven” and get through the honey-do list. Maybe get laid around 9 pm if getting the kids to bed was without fuss and I danced like a good monkey. COVID: Work from home. Even more honey do list because I have no commute. Get continuously interrupted by wife and crotch fruits. Struggle to maintain any sort of productivity. Worn down after… | /r/MGTOW2 | 14/09/20 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Birth Rates continue to sink.There have been a number of articles published that suggest there is a divorce boom in play, and there are the huge numbers of cancelled weddings. That is where I expect the continued crash to come from. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Birth Rates continue to sink.I was wondering how the Roman empire fell so quickly. I didn’t expect to ever have to witness it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Birth Rates continue to sink.Firstly, happy cake day! These are actually the numbers from last year. We can’t expect to see any 2020 numbers until at least May or June of next year. If the lockdowns keep up, the 2021 numbers are going to be even worse. Gestation time is the ultimate lagging indicator, so if people were bumping uglies on the regular until March or so then it will be about 3 more months until we start seeing a more noticed drop off. All the babies on the way are still coming, but I am suspecting the pipeline … | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Arnold's Two Sons, One raised by a man, Another By a Woman, notice the difference?The maid’s kid didn’t grow up pampered and spoiled. He quite literally became strong as a result. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Baby is not mine so I dumped her after the baby was born. Then posted the paternity test on facebook.Still, one mistake a lot of us make is making the assumption that the court is both fair and sane. Her situation could change any time and she can try and nail the guy for retroactive support. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Can't get over her?Yup, and that made up story can be extraordinarily hard to part with, even when your cognitive functions know the story was built on lies. God knows I have wallowed in that pit of misery for many years over my lifetime. I do not miss my blue pilled ways. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 12 | Birth Rates continue to sink.Europe has been flourishing under such a system. /s | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 30 | Baby is not mine so I dumped her after the baby was born. Then posted the paternity test on facebook.$300 is cheap money for confirmation. Still, keep a cushion aside if she tries a legal challenge. Court ordered DNA tests get much more expensive because of how chain of custody is handled and tracked. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | New MGTOW subI wouldn’t put some яeddit fuckery beyond question, either. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Ridding Myself of my Sex Drive?You pretty much have to age out of it just enough that the big head remains in charge. That was early 40s for me. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | New MGTOW subI got banned from there as well this past week. No rhyme, reason, or explanation. Whatever. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 23 | Ontario court awarded a woman spousal support even if they had no home or kids togetherFrom the article: Latner proposed several times and Climans accepted. He often referred to her by his last name. However, he insisted she sign a marriage contract and came up with several drafts. She refused. The first time she refused, he should have shown himself the door. Otherwise, he just enabled her and is now paying the price for it. And of course, set a new precedent for the rest of the plebs. | /r/MGTOW2 | 11/09/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Vice is attacking MGTOWVice is a wretched hive of scum and villainy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 08/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 5 | The crux of the problem is the abundance of choice that women have.Which remind me of this humorous take on the absurdity of such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | If a man doesn't want kids, why does the amount of times he has sex, or if he hasn't had sex, matter to people?The question implies the presence or absence of other traits. So while it is adolescent and childish, it is actually a deeper probe. Let’s remember Briffault’s Law: The female, not the male determines all the conditions of the animal family. Therefore, in order to bed a high number of women, there must be a number of attributes to a man which make him appear worthy. This can be the obvious show or fascade of resources, but can include charisma, social capital, assertiveness, extroversion, or oth… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 15 | My friend tried to make me take care of a baby thats not mineSounds like you dodged a wrecking ball. What you were sold was not delivered, and you tried to get through the first round of disappointment only for it to so much worse. Any man with self respect would dip too. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | People often say single life is a pointless existencePeople living the single life get to choose the road map they want, and not the commonly assume same path that they are “supposed” to take. They mock and fear what they don’t understand. | /r/MGTOW2 | 04/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 11 | Universe 25- John Calhoun's NIMH experiment proves MGTOW !It’s quite a fascinating experiment. In the video summary by TL;DR towards the end suggested that one of the possible factors leading to the collapse was the loss of privacy. Best comment I saw over a few of these videos: Mice Going Their Own Way. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | QuestionThe one thing going for Pat is that his girlfriend was with him long before he became rich and famous. He might have a decent shot. | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Relationship leading to marriage and kidsMy advice is to not invite the government into your relationship as the superior party. Legal marriage is a contract with the state. Keep your relationship to yourselves. One of the only things you cannot do while unmarried that I know of is have one person get the health insurance. Every other legal protection can be spelled out with things like a will, a medical proxy, power of attorney, etc. Edit: spelling | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting an opinionIt’s a neat idea, but the “Old Boys Club” is definitely one of those ideas that is executed in the meatspace. Groups of this sort are harder to find now, and the existing lockdown measures don’t help any. There is huge value in the IRL network built up with true face time. Online forums are more of a complement than a replacement. | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | You stop feeling attracted to women once you realize they're all the sameI have one platonic female friend. The reason this works is she sees me as an old man like her dad, and she is a hamplanet. The mutual unattraction is the only way this works. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Divorce rates in America soar 34% during COVID; surge not unexpected, says Rose Law Group Partner and Family Law Director Kaine FisherThe official stats are going to be something incredible by the time they actually get published in a year or two from now. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Conservative Millennial women: What do they want?One thing I have always told people who will listen, and I probably picked it up from somewhere else: The weapons you invent today may be used against you tomorrow. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 3 | #metoo has rendered every woman potentially toxic - not one of them is worth it. Preserve your self-respect and dignity, do not seek their "love" or approval, and live life on your terms - not anyone else's. Go Your Own Way, away from them.I can respect this signage. In fact, I don’t feel it as much of a loss these days. The fucked up part is the retroactive withdrawal of consent. I still don’t get that. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 18 | #metoo has rendered every woman potentially toxic - not one of them is worth it. Preserve your self-respect and dignity, do not seek their "love" or approval, and live life on your terms - not anyone else's. Go Your Own Way, away from them.Definitely a chameleon. She burned her fame candle nice and brightly. She will spend the remainder of her lifetime dealing with the fallout of her stunt. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:50 PM |
| -4 | Getting labeled an asshole for trying to keep his cousin from becoming a prostitute.He’s an asshole for the blackmail. She’s old enough to make her own decisions, and face the consequences should they ever come to pass. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Once every few months i start thinking about this one girl.One days at a time. It’s funny how some of the positive emotions can run out the memories of hell from time to time. I don’t deal with this too often now, but what works for me is to let the feeling run it’s course and it passes on its own. The more I try to deny it, the harder it is to control. Certainly, a run will help. | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | What the JesusPrior to his career as a comedian, he was a preacher. https://youtu.be/8IsFAmIpa0I | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Feeling suicidalFirst of all, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It sounds as if your sister was raised as daddy’s little princess. This was a disservice to both of you, truth be told. I don’t know enough about your situation, but you need to be working on an exit strategy. That might be school, career, military, etc. You need to stake your own claim to this life because none of your nuclear family plans to help you. It’s a brutal rejection, and one you don’t likely deserve. One thing I wil… | /r/MGTOW | 01/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 8 | back to the kitchenFunny as hell. The great thing about being divorced is that I have picked up some cooking skills that are well beyond any other period of my life. I don’t want someone else in my kitchen unless they have proven themselves worthy of it. | /r/MGTOW | 31/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Selfless people who help others have more sex with more partnersThe Republican might offer me a reach around, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 5 | I feel like a naive idiot when I talk about sexThe only ones that get to openly talk about sex are women. What you want / desire / prefer as a man is unimportant and verboten in the current clown world. God help you if you talk about it at work. HR is never your friend. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/20 05:29 PM |
| 4 | In case you forgotEgard Watches had the best response to this, IMO: https://youtu.be/x_HL0wiK4Zc | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 8 | FDS member being r*pey, entitled and homophobicCan’t wait to see this one when she is a post wall roastie... | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 80 | Am I the only one who notice that women have life better?Once the wall is in the rear view mirror, a lot of women become aware of how invisible they are. After having had a lot of things handed to them for years, they crumble when that well of attention dries up. | /r/MGTOW | 30/08/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Single Guys, Be HonestMy five: My peace has been amazing. In the nearly 6 years I have been divorced, I have become accustomed to the lack of drama and chaos. My free time is at a premium. I spend a chunk of my free time relaxing more now than before. I am attachment adverse. I am not interested in getting crushed again once the novelty wears off. I chase greater things now, usually career related. I have already been reproductively successful. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | God Tier SIMPIndeed. These men get the upcoming poverty they deserve. That kind of money gets left on the dresser. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Apartment complex with women/simpsNot sure on the house thing. I am inclined to do the traveling, if only because it doesn’t bother me. Also, no crazy bitch vibes getting up in my place. Home is one of those peaceful centers for me, and I have no interest in anyone messing that up. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | This is simpery of the highest degreeI disagree. I’d rather be born poor and die poor than be born rich and see all that wealth stripped away. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | This is simpery of the highest degreeThe shirt is truth. But what isn’t said here is that men can hold whatever standards we want. I prefer my women to not be landwhales and be born with their vagina. Oh yeah ... if we aren’t having sex, there is no relationship. Some people consider these preferences to be hate speech, unfortunately. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | hOw dArE mEn aSk mE qUeStIoNsJoin a male dominance hierarchy and you will get interrogated to determine your place in the hierarchy. Men do this to each other all the time, and if you think being a woman is hard, you should see what we do to cocky little bastards who have insufficient experience but act like they’re industry veterans with decades of experience. Why does this happen more now? Diversity hires. We need to know what we are working with, and in some cases what to work around. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:43 PM |
| 6 | When you realize feminism in not for old hags, AKA WOMAN OVER 25.Misery needs company in this case. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW and DepressionThe tough part about being MGTOW is there is no blueprint for what that way should be. It is the precipice on the edge of what is known. That can be a scary place. The known blueprints of career / family / children is well known and has been done for generations. However, those ways have been destroyed and once one sees through the illusion the notion of having to forge your own path can be depressing. The thing, however, is to keep moving forward. In my own state of mind, I sometimes think of j… | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | GOP Passes Landmark Resolution Refuting “Legitimacy of the Southern Poverty Law Center to Identify Hate Groups.” (SPLC has labeled MGTOW a male supermacist group and a hate Group as well).SPLC used to have an original righteous mission, but it went astray a long time ago and uses its power to shape the narrative. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What kinds of music do you like, gents?First, props on the KD! I first looked into King after I saw the video for “The Family Ghost” on Headbanger’s Ball way back in the late 80s. The Eye is my favorite album by him. There is something about the production and the story that appeals to me. Lateralus is destined to be one of the greats. It’s one of my favorites overall, but Parabol/Parabola are probably my favorite two-song combo next to Home by the Sea/Second Home by the Sea by Genesis. I listen to a lot of stuff across genres. I hav… | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Thank you, you saved a life.Quick! This sub must be banned! /s Once the rage phase dissipates, the peace that comes in incomparable. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 17 | Recovery after divorceMy ex wife went full libtard. Always has these “women’s march” goodies and “she resisted.” I’m sure her tone will change on the CS spigot gets turned off. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Fuck this shit already!Interesting. I have only been warned of upvote wrongthink so far. Reddit is dying, for sure. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Speaking For All WomenI got two jobs through LinkedIn. Then people got butthurt a few years ago and the whole thing went to shit in the political sewage. I cancelled a 10-year old account. I missed the days when it was purely professional. | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/20 01:12 AM |
| 46 | Go your own way, Get what you want in lifeAt least the community doesn’t have the mindset of taking half his shit later. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 11 | Jesus Christ!In this case, his body may have been dead for three days, but he died inside long ago. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys in marriage - reevaluate your position in it!There are no good options. Nothing for nothing, the third option is manipulative. Who wants a woman that doesn’t want to be with you of her own volition. I wouldn’t keep a person as a friend under those circumstances, much less a wet hole. | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/20 01:14 PM |
| 9 | Market: RNC v DNC?Only if they steal the election. They’re still butthurt about their 2016 loss. Instead of regrouping and maybe delivering a platform America as a whole could buy into, it’s been double down on clown world. Positive messages sell to voters, particularly when times get rough. Bill Clinton and Barack Obama ran on messages of a better tomorrow. Granted, both of them came after the end of two disastrous Bush presidencies (Gulf War, “Too Big to Fail” Economics). Unfortunately their highlight achieveme… | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Fellow MGTOW, what favorite places of yours have been destroyed by the millennial socialist culture?There was this great tavern in Boston. One of those kinda divey sports bars. Good cheap beer and bar food. Whole block is being razed and there will probably be some trendy bullshit in its place in a couple years. | /r/MGTOW | 27/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 21 | Mgtow keywork got banned from google?According to Google trends, we are back to 2015 levels of interest. No doubt in my mind that this is being buried. | /r/MGTOW | 27/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Fact check: LGBTQ community rejects false association with pedophiles.Like Jessica “Wax my balls” Yanniv? | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 22 | Thots gonna thotOne of them already has a cat. It has begun. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 20 | Mom and Stepdad are getting a divorce.If a person gets married more than once, they get what they deserve. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 22 | Don't date single momsThis is the way. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Some questions for MGTOWMost important to know is MGTOW is a philosophy. Movements have more of an organization to them. We also don’t recruit. Men find their own way here. As far as your questions ... Nobody talks about the disposability of men directly, and the mainstream doesn’t care about our struggles. The whole emotional needs and depth of men are ignored by most of this society. Women need to be aware of the long term consequences that come with their life choices. However, most of them are more likely to run on… | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 07:40 PM |
| 14 | Can't handle hardware that's not an iPhone 11.🤣 Touché. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 14 | Can't handle hardware that's not an iPhone 11.Why have two monitors when I got an UltraWide? | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 21 | We just get bigger..... Obviously this is a hit piece, but it still spreads the word.Sometimes, toxins are necessary to treat the disease. Funny ... no mention of how we don’t recruit. Men find their way to this side of the manosphere usually after being harshly treated or abused at the hands of the so-called “fairer sex.” It’s been a long time since I saw any reference to the “levels” of MGTOW. I thought that was long-buried. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 09:50 AM |
| 12 | She knew the Cheat Codes!Imagine the shitshow that could have happened if you were unaware. We all have our moments of weakness, however. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Stolen from the feminist sub. This is perfect blue print on how they plan to ensure the power to throw you in jail or ruin you with a fake rape allegation when ever she feels like it.Consent is revocable. That’s why I got a divorce! | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Just in case you feel the itch to get married...Keep their numbers so they can be blocked. Once my kids are launched adults and the CS order is rescinded, I look forward to adding my ex to the blocked persons list. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 3 | 🤡 🌎Jennifer Lawrence at least doesn’t seem to be a pedo freak. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Thot Using Kids as a Weapon... I Feel for the GuyBring her ass to court. This guy needs red pill therapy to rebuild that spine. No way I would let that shit just fly without jail time. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Random girl i added from quick add, snapchat, its this common now?$80 does seem cheap, but I think we are seeing this due to excess supply and constrained demand. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or does anyone else feel like covid-19 is keeping sluts in line?It’s temporary. Once things loosen up, they might make for some lost time. I think the lockdown is going to have an extensive lingering effect. | /r/MGTOW | 26/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 12 | They're afraid.Wow ... finally suspending people for wrongthink ... that they won’t even tell you what item it was. Яeddit is certainly dying. | /r/MGTOW | 25/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | InappropriateGovernment will not ask. Government will double down on the bullshit exponentially. | /r/MGTOW | 25/08/20 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Beta is unsure if he wants wife's bf moving into house he owns. Writes in to mainstream media advice columnist. Advice comes back: This is totally abnormal, wrong and unfair..... to the wife and other dude!I couldn’t stand Slate’s liberal bend ... but now it’s a pile of hot garbage. | /r/MGTOW | 25/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 15 | Vote for trump like your life depends on it. he may not be the best candidate of all time by a long shot, but he is the best candidate we have at the moment. Read the feminism sub. The left wants to burn this country to the ground.I miss the days when the parties had more in common than different. | /r/MGTOW | 24/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 8 | why?More or less. But it is good to be able to find solace in your own comfort and counsel. It’s always good to be able to sit and just be. | /r/MGTOW | 24/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | I got deluded and now regret itThe reminders of harsh reality always hurt. Those kinds of reminders are what keep me on this philosophy. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 116 | The comedy is off the charts over in cat lady land...Damn, that’s pretty funny. They don’t even respect those sorts of mega simps. Woman worship doesn’t make pussies wet. Put a woman on a pedestal, and don’t be surprised if she looks down on you from there. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 17 | Have you ever been cheated on?I’ll answer. Man. I was cheated on. As it turned out, my now ex wife had a thing for an older, richer coworker. I caught her twice, but it had been going on since before we were even married according to some people I know. I cracked during year 10 and filed for divorce. At this point, I am largely apathetic. Beyond a couple female friends I’ve had for decades, I have no interest in interactions beyond what my profession requires. Edit: spelling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Recently fucked over by universityDepending on how short of a term you have, military may be a viable option. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Do women exaggerate the pain they get from periods?Just to play devil’s advocate ... I might be in pain too if I was bleeding for 5 days and didn’t die. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Cheap electrician certification programsThat’s actually cheap money to invest in yourself. For that path, I’d really try and focus on industrial / commercial and try and get in the union. Depending on the local, they provide some of the best training you can get. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 7 | The feminism narratives are now universal in American society...Feminism thinks it liberated women. The end result is that is actually freed men. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Maybe not the best subreddit to ask this but - for the guys still in grade school, how does the heavily gynocentric system feel about Trump supporters? Do you pretty much have to hide your opinion from everyone in fear of being ostracized?High school ain’t shit. The social order sucks, and so do the libtard teachers. I’m in the adult world and the place I’m at is getting pulled farther left with every passing month. I have to keep my opinion to myself or risk being fired. With the economy being what it is, attracting attention is not a risk I am willing to take. I am hoping the tide starts turning in the coming years, but I expect that will not happen. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 04:29 AM |
| 29 | Impress me you mediocre fucks! (LOL)I am not a twi’lek, so I’m not dancing for a Hutt. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/20 12:35 AM |
| 6 | So, Lori Loughlin and her husband bribed the same people, together, to get the same daughter into college - he gets more than double the prison timeShould be fined up the ass and kiddo loses out on college. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | You’ve probably already seen this, but it doesn’t make it any less true.That is funny shit! I’m saving this for later! | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 11 | Disposable huMEN to the rescue.Yup. And they don’t give two shits about the color of your meat suit either. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Trying timesGod damn ... I can only pray that his soul is now at peace. I am sorry for your loss. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 37 | Cucks and whores will say: stop slut shamingMaybe if it’s a Honda Civic or a Toyota Camry... | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:44 PM |
| -2 | So, Lori Loughlin and her husband bribed the same people, together, to get the same daughter into college - he gets more than double the prison timePrison ... over fucking college?? | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | MGTOW/WGTOW is now the MAJORITY strategy/view of single adultsI haven’t collected any articles, but I’m sure there’s going to be a mini divorce boom. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 24 | Simp finds out why an irresponsible mother is also an irresponsible person. Disgusting behavior, getting the children in danger.If isn’t making an exit strategy by now, he gets what he deserves. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 8 | MGTOW/WGTOW is now the MAJORITY strategy/view of single adultsI’m still waiting on the provisional birth data from 2019. I’m expecting a new record low rate. 2020 rates are going to take a hit, but 2021 is going to crater. I expect it’s going to take a lot of people by surprise. | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I still miss my ex... It's been a whileI miss my ex ... but my aim is getting better! | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Any Takers Lads?Dude is probably tired from busting his ass all day, | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Real freedom is not when you do whatever you want but when you mind is in peace.The overall solitude I experience is quite nice. My kids are chaos when I have them, but that is only half the time. | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 4 | One tried to end it 'cos she watched a comedy play. Strike a light!How weak of a mind do you need to have in order to allow that kind of spiral? The entitlement of these fucking crybabies makes me sick. | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 20 | Skank huntHave these women gotten more brazen over the years? No honor among witches. | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 96 | Cuck probably still married herShe had her fun. Dude made the right call. | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Some self awarenessThe quote is right though. We must always be evaluating what is important. It just so happens that relationships with the opposite gender are at the bottom of the list. | /r/MGTOW | 19/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 2 | "kill all men"Heart disease and diabetes don’t combine well. | /r/MGTOW | 19/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 7 | HobbiesFrying my brain at work. I fucking love engineering and coming up with new shit. Otherwise, grill time is a personal favorite. Got two steaks with an applewood seasoning in the fridge right now. One is marinading in Italian dressing. The other in balsamic vinaigrette. Both hit my grill around 6:30pm tomorrow. | /r/MGTOW | 19/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 34 | Oh No! Teenage Boys Taking the Red Pill in Response to Rabid, Man-Hating TeachersImagine that, our philosophy is helping young men watch out for themselves! And these teachers are pushing a liberal agenda. | /r/MGTOW | 19/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Marrying a college educated woman sounds like a great idea /sIt’s good to be a 10% then! | /r/MGTOW | 19/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | What’s the minimum amount of money Japanese women want their husbands to earn? Survey investigatesTIL, I’d be a millionaire in Japan! | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 8 | Thank Reddit, badge of honorI, too, prefer my woman to have been born with their vagina. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 11:57 AM |
| 31 | Clown world: Cheating made me a better motherThe comment section isn’t siding with her bullshit for the most part. I’d like to thank my ex for being the cheater that she was. I survived the whole ordeal, filed for divorce, and found this philosophy. And unlike her boys who are kept in the dark, my sons are getting the age appropriate red pills. If this is the end of my bloodline, then so be it. The world does not deserve it. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Thank you very muchEngineering and simping are very tightly correlated. The kinds or brains that build things have wasted very little power on “game.” | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Found this on 9Gag on thought I would share it with you guysThe journey on that film though ... gave me a huge justice boner which was dashed before I had to call my doctor. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Post-wall woman asks her boyfriend for a gangbang as birthday gift. He obliges like a foot soldier and rationalizes away the feeling of unease as "performance anxiety" and the worry of the "celebration not living up to her expectations"I remember this when it came out. Seems there isn’t an iota or caring for a man’s mental health. This dude will end up offing himself one day, and it will have been entirely avoidable. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Disney used to be based as f. Daisy, the original man-eater (full clip)So many of the classics warned us through the veil of animation. Blue Cat Blues remains one of my favorites. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Divorced my wife this month. I have some questions and am looking for some guidance/advice.They are all crazy in their own way. So none of them will ever be like your ex. Some aren’t as bad. Some are worse. However, all of them are allowed to be monsters. They will he cheered on by the sisterhood, the simpanzees, and the unwashed blue pilled masses. There is no undoing the red pill. It is okay to mourn the loss of the life you were promised and to feel wrath at the lies of what you used to hold as truths. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The only question I have left.They do this as a manner of showing control. After all, a queen talks down to her subjects. First relationships are the worst when they crumble because there is no other point of reference. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Found this on 9Gag on thought I would share it with you guysMen are the only ones that truly are capable of love, especially where children are involved. Ever see Law Abiding Citizen? I highly recommend it. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Found this on 9Gag on thought I would share it with you guysThey hide their stripes for years if it suits them. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | My sisters have been cared for all their lives while I’ve had to work non-stop — society generally seems to care and provide for women while expecting men to go out and work our tails off — so that we can turn around and care/provide for womenAs sad as it is, your family has nothing for you. Hopefully, you will be in a position someday where you can fade out and ghost them. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 10 | Being afraid to question this behavior shows you how sad it is to be blue-pilled.A man with no boundaries gets no respect. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls follow male feminist like r.h.simThey will get their fill of validation from anybody, simps included. But none of it will get their panties wet. That’s Chad’s job. | /r/MGTOW | 18/08/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | I got assaulted by a Simp under orders of a THOT...Prank? I’d have kicked the shit out his drunk ass right there. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Dreaming of Your Unicorn?The best you can do is call 911 and record from a safe distance. Let the trained professionals sort it out. | /r/MGTOW | 17/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I really don't get marriage..seriouslyI divorced my ex when the kids were 2 and 8. No regrets. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW will be bigger with future generations.And #metoo made the risk very expensive. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | We've reached peak thot delusionThe low shirt is like the window on a package of Hormel. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 12 | “The Girl With your Perfect Little Political Ideology doesn’t exist.”-Samuel Hyde, Paraphrased.40-100: What eggs? | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Whats with the rise of young girls liking simpsYoung men are born poor and die rich. Young women are born rich and die poor. The notion of fairness has to be tossed aside. Accepting the reality for what it is and working within that system will make you successful. Granted, you may need to work at the fringes of said system. When I was 20, I was nailing a hot private school chick when she was 16. Relative to her experience, I was that bad boy that lots of others loved to hate. My mistake? Giving in and eventually simping. Got dropped as soon… | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Road to hell!Long walk off a short pier indeed. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 8 | Former teen mom needs serious relationship or something casual.She and her brood would probably benefit from a reasonable keto diet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 9 | What percentage of women do you think are marriage material?It’s not just the potential to become a monster that is a problem. It’s that the current societal environment rewards and glorified the monstrous behavior. It is this despicable nurture component that makes marriage unsafe. Their very worst possible behavior is rewarded. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 07:37 PM |
| 8 | Words that have no meaning anymoreUsed in a sentence: When Billy was asked by HR why he grabbed Sally’s behind: “She said no, but harassment yes.” | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone to relate?Sometimes, the lessons are not learned until you are ready to accept their wisdom. Who you were then is not who you are now. Knowing these things, you can start making up for lost time. Just try each day to be better than you were the day before. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 7 | It's correct to judge potential partners based on their weight.Truth. But height means more to women. Taller men generally got that way due to better nutrition, thus are better for resources for offspring. Add in some evolution favoring those traits, and there you have it. Being on the heavier side has been like an invisibility cloak, which is perfect in monk mode. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 21 | TX judge orders that mother can gender transition 8 year old son after all, a complete reversal of a previous ruling.Right with you. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 02:45 AM |
| 31 | Whats with the rise of young girls liking simpsYou are in HS. Real world rules don’t quite apply. This 20 year old simp probably has a car, a job, and is spending at least some money on her. In her sphere, he is way up in the dominance hierarchy. Once she hits college, then she will see what kind of power the pussy truly holds. Your simp is going to have a bad time. A really bad time. I know those shoes very well. | /r/MGTOW | 16/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | The women and cucks in the comment section approves this idea (not my pic)I was thinking more like spit-roasted. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | College MajorWhat are you the most passionate about? That’s what’s going to drive your excellence, and help you learn about lots of the little things that connect to your career. I’m a network engineer by trade and there is nothing I would rather do for work. The additional specialties of IT that I have minor exposure to are way too numerous to list. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck does everyone get political about everything...even when no one brought anything upI miss the days when it was possible to be somewhere without the scourge of identity politics permeating everything. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 8 | Website sells fake dna tests“For entertainment purposes only.” That’s why independent verification is necessary. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 41 | This is women in 2020 (x-post from r/memes)The women are today, I’d probably be bored after 4 days. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 16 | Wanna see the end result of pussy worship?South America is going to be in for a chill once their sexual harassment court of public opinion catches up with ours. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 8 | How to become invisible to women at work and life in general?Stick to work. The best way to repel women is to be unattractive, which isn’t a problem for us at the bottom 90th percentile. The next is to be obvious to any sign of interest. | /r/MGTOW | 14/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Women are horrible when it comes to consent.I’ve had a few over the course of my life who have been unable to take no for an answer either. They don’t quite get it. | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | It's not enough that she wants to cheat, you have to be ok with her 4-legged second boyfriendObligatory soundtrack: https://youtu.be/1faGNp9xvNQ | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Welp boys it looks like women and simps control this world. I didn’t want to say it but Trump isn’t going to win the election. I’ve accepted it :( What do you think will happen when/if Biden wins in regards to women?Biden won’t win because he isn’t selling a positive future for America. Clinton ran on hope countering the disaster of Bush 41 and the Iraq War. So many people hated Bush that Perot was able to significantly split the vote. Bush 43 would not have gotten in if it weren’t for so many of us who remembered the Gore family from their PMRC days in the 80s and 90s. I can’t prove it, but I bet there were enough votes cast for W over Gore to be within the margin of the swing. John Kerry was an inept stoo… | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 4 | More fds goldI don’t think I dropped that much on a single meal in all the time I was married. I cook so much at home now due to COVID that taking my kids to McDonald’s feels like a splurge. | /r/MGTOW | 12/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 33 | Because you are stupid as fuckBecause the only safe option is enthusiastic consent, and that isn’t even enough to protect a man in the current climate. | /r/MGTOW | 10/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Let's face it!For work, don’t shit where you eat. Having this attitude and not budging on it will save you a ton of risk. Originally, I rolled this way to keep drama and emotional unrest away from where I earn a living. These days, it seems a requirement to hang onto a living. | /r/MGTOW | 09/08/20 09:33 AM |
| 11 | There is something beautiful in the way a man can love a woman, and tragic in the way it can never be reciprocated.Society has moved from gratitude and sympathy to apathy to utter disdain for these sacrifices. The more I think about it, the more I suspect these things were a cheap veneer on this relatively new thing called civilization. “Blue Cat Blues” is one of those earliest red pills wrapped up in a cartoon. It is one of two Tom and Jerry episodes that ever stuck out to me as a child. Anyone can see in this that Tom gave all that he had, and none of it would ever be enough. Even Jerry wasn’t safe. The re… | /r/MGTOW | 09/08/20 09:26 AM |
| 21 | How is it like working with women in computer engineering/software development?Complaining is the job of Karens. You should focus on being the best engineer you can be. Your output should be undeniably superior. Argue your merits for promotion. Sometimes promotions are jobs at new employers. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 10 | Most men naturally WANT to do things like open doors for women, dote on them, and protect themBeing a gentleman is universal. But I am so far removed from going out of my way for someone based on their gender. Lots of women still misunderstand it. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Fat Girls are always so hornyUnlike skinny, pretty women, fatties have nothing else to offer besides orifices. They’re kinda like mopeds ... fun to ride, but you don’t want your friends to see you. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Hawaii proposes "A Feminist Economic Recovery Plan for COVID-19". Contains dozens of women only benefits, including a higher minimum wage (only for women) and better healthcare (only for women).In the centuries of old, men used to get shit on with a bucket at a time. With modern technology, the manure spreader is running at full blast, 24/7. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4M Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO was not that physically attracted to you, but just like you for your personality?The great part about being emotionally destroyed by a couple exes is that both of the following work for me: If she says I’m not attractive enough to be with. She’s right. I’m old, overweight, and don’t dress in my tax bracket. If she says I’m attractive, I assume she is a liar or desperate. See previous point. As such, the question posed by the OP is about as likely to happen to me as winning the lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 10 | Why do women complain about gender inequality?You need to fight this, and be willing to exhaust whatever resources you have. Your attorney also needs to get the message, or fire his ass. You cannot let this vile woman control the narrative, and you can bet your ass that she will. She will raise your daughter to hate you, though you won’t deserve an ounce of scorn. At the end of it all, you need to be able to sleep knowing you tried the absolute best that you could. As a dad’s love for his kid goes, here’s my favorite part of Eminem’s “Headl… | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Life with women is AustraliaWhy on God’s good earth would any guy agree to cohabitate at all then? That’s not even digging for gold. That’s practically handing it over. | /r/MGTOW | 06/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 37 | 2 scenarios, tell me the differenceIn scenario 2, Lacey despises Andrew for not being man enough to command a higher salary. She regularly fucks Chad who works for one of her company’s suppliers during her lunch break or after work when she is “out with coworkers.” Andrew has no idea this is going on. However, he beats himself up doing most of the housework and bringing Emily to practice when Lacey is getting her insides rearranged. In fact, the more he does, the less his own wife respects him. As such, he retreats to his hobby w… | /r/MGTOW | 05/08/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | The WallBut the resulting fallout caused the kingdom to collapse, killing mostly innocent citizens. | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 18 | How much do relationships cost?Even the soul stone has a 1:1 exchange rate. | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | The ultimate woman. Line up men!There is clearly plenty to go around. | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | How do you keep your defenses up?I fuel up for the year by hitting up OKC or Tinder in the fall. The scene gets sadder with every passing year, and is easy reassurance I am on the right path. | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Tinder Profile: Age 28: No Kids; Eataholic; and Animal Abuser (Horses’ Lives Don’t Matter)That FUPA at 28 is going to be truly beastly by 35. | /r/MGTOW | 04/08/20 03:37 AM |
| 63 | Why and what do women mean when they say “you’re a great guy”?It’s worse than that ... you could be conventionally attractive, but she has no “tingles”. | /r/MGTOW | 03/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Belly fatIntermittent Fasting is not a bad practice. But that’s just having a larger non-eating window. It is also largely compatible with whatever diet position you ultimately choose. IF works for me when I keep to it, but that can be tough some times. Keto can work out well because once you’re burning ketones for energy and have adjusted to it, then fat becomes the primary fuel. It’s pretty restrictive, and can also be tough on the liver and kidneys. | /r/MGTOW | 03/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else ditch your simp friends?Fortunately, ditching most of them was as easy as getting rid of Fakebook. I have maybe two friends I keep in regular contact with. I have a pretty full life. | /r/MGTOW | 03/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 11 | How much do you think mgtow has grown currently worldwide.Teenage pregnancy is at record lows. From the CDC: Teen birth rates have declined each year since 2007 in the United States, with the national rate in 2018 at 17.4 births per 1,000 females aged 15–19, and the provisional rate in 2019 at 16.6, a record low (1,7). This is going to be even lower in 2020, like a stone in the sea. | /r/MGTOW | 03/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How much do you think mgtow has grown currently worldwide.The idea is out there, but big tech continues to ratchet up its censor game. | /r/MGTOW | 03/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 37 | Strong independent whaman, scared she'll end up alone.Women date laterally or up. By her stated accomplishment, she has absolutely limited her dating pool. I dated a hot PhD after my divorce, but she wanted to pull some shit, so that came to a halt really fucking quick. It turned out life handed her a major shit sandwich a few months later. I was relieved that I dodged a bullet. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Should my dad sue for unpaid child support?Your dad needs to be free of this deadweight girlfriend and her crotch fruit, first and foremost. She sounds worse than your mother. However, so long as there is a support order on record with the state, he can probably go to the Department of Revenue and open a case. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How does it feel to watch everyone else get married?You won’t feel so far behind in life once those men get dragged through the family court system. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | She's doing so well. Just got a raise, even.A story all too common, unfortunately. The pain subsides, brother. Sooner than you know it, she’ll be far enough in the past for it to be inconsequential. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 4 | If only the top 20% of guys get all the women. How do I see so many women both white and black have children with hood dudes, and bums?Self control is often developed in the light of the consequence for it. Forethought also helps, which many women are not capable of. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Something funny for Saturday!Usual run of course for pedos like her. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Therapist want all men to be cucks. "Will smith is modelling for other men its ok for your wife to have sex with other men and not be offended"Run, don’t walk. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Donating her hard earned divorce rape money.He saw it way back in 1994, so he dug his own grave with this. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | You should read the comment section.Can confirm. Often they revel in the misery they cause their beta provider. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Question for dudes who live aloneLoud movies. When I can justify the cost, I’ll move from a 7.1 surround to a 7.1.4 Atmos setup. Dishes pile up until I feel like cleaning them. That’s how it is. Clothing is in two piles: clean and dirty. However, all i’m wearing right now is T-shirts and shorts. WFH has been beautiful in this regard. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Smoke myself some short baby back ribs I butchered myself to get plenty of meat on top. Jalapeno rub. Some at 150 in the Weber. BBQ sauce with pomegranate molasses and chipotleLooks fantastic! Few things are as savory as meat cooked in the presence of flame. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Tradcuck - Don't be left holding the bag!And women are also content to freeze up and break the container you made to their liking. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 18 | We don't wanna date/marry a woman. That is highly shocking and offensive to people.When one considers what any woman can get away with, the whole encounter becomes very high risk. Interestingly, the lopsided application of equality under the law is transitioning the western world from a high trust society into a low trust society. | /r/MGTOW | 02/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 12 | Problems with parentsHere is how you can turn this around: “Dad, how can you expect me to find a suitable wife until I can finish my education and establish myself?”. So long as you have your grind on, he should be unable to argue with you. Use his capability to process logic against him. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/20 01:45 PM |
| 8 | Interesting idea someone should make a petition to legally declare marriage a form of prostitution. See what happens.☺That’s an interesting way to go about making prostitution legal, at least by the traditional definition. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Can you cross post to this sub?I believe all cross-posting was disabled some time back because a bunch of leftist bitches accuse us of “brigading”. That’s part of why this sub hasn’t been wiped out yet. Best practice is to post up an archive link of what you want to share. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/20 01:32 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter