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I'm not OP but he most probably has rejected some. Have you heard of gay/bi guys?? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:40 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:38 PM
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Oh yeah, they really must do all that before 30, otherwise the door is closed forever!!!1!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 08:50 AM
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You're probably not going to "go wild" at this point, you should think about looking for a steady girlfriend Lol why not? Bullshit advice, don't start a relationship just because of some arbitrary age and be frustrated at said relationship because of FOMO
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:57 AM
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Yeah, plenty of places where younger and more looks-conscious guys go have a lot of attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:19 PM
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Breaking news: you're most definitely not remotely close to a top 1% attractiveness woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:16 PM
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They can demand, they just can't satisfy their demand. Stay old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:13 PM
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Bf/husband material gets more slack bc there’s more to them than sex. The gaslighting you guys do is crazy We're not the one gaslighting lol But thank you for your honesty, that's what's being said for a long time, now from the horse's mouth. The husband material is often unsexy, unattractive, chosen by financial and/or affection reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:12 PM
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You're a gay guy, your standards are different. Average looking, well-groomed, in shape men are usually attractive to gay/bi guys. That's not enough to be hot in most women's opinions, though, they usually want the more naturally attractive guy, and grooming have a very limited effect in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:08 PM
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Yeah, so there's a quantitative mismatch, not just a horizontal difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:52 AM
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It is for plnety of "females", most probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:41 AM
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Are you demi?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:40 AM
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I agree most demisexuals are definitely women. Straight, gay and bi men tend to be quite visual in their attraction, whatever the preferred gender is. Though, I don't really think most women are demi, I'm pretty sure most girls are attracted to guys before talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 02:39 AM
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What?? High n-count is not considering prostitutes and, God forbid, rape. It's about men who had a lot of willing, non paid for, women for sex. Yeah, casual sex exist, and plenty of women are quite into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:07 PM
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Good insight with the youthfulness study. Makes sense, it's not like women are attracted to wrinkles and sagging, it's just that status, wealth tend to be found on older men and these factors also influence which couples pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:20 PM
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Women want bigger height differences than the average and status is not just wealth, it's how a guy is perceived socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:41 PM
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That's not how logic works, bro. If a woman hooks up with a guy, she found him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:56 AM
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Plenty of guys with standards are not in happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:11 AM
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It's not like people will be preoccupied with social tact in an anonymous forum, Lilith. That, ironically, doesn't say well about your social tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:03 AM
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Most people start their relationships in a short term thing that evolved to a LTR, especially in a more liberal setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:43 PM
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Not really. There's a higher than general population amount of virgins, but it's definitely not 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:22 PM
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What do you mean by someone who "hasn't arrived"? Do you think someone who's a late bloomer in relationships is that, even if they're in shape, look good, are financially independent, mature? Also, who said the guy who's single in his 30s have nothing going for him? If he has th traits I cited, he probably can enjoy a better single life now than he did a decade before with less money, worse social skills and less self-knowledge. Are you some small town farmer where people marry early or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:42 PM
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Most couples there are close in age, bad faith argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:09 AM
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And what's the difference between attractive and sexy? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:07 AM
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Well, if both people are well aware of the dynamic and are okay with it, then nobody's being used. The guy with a pretty woman is most likely handsome/hot too, BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:09 PM
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Lmao blatantly shaming guys to keep them simping and in a worse position, instead of getting in a better situation. Don't be so overt, girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:05 PM
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Yeah, people conflate status with money. The prestige you have in a context or to a subgroup of people can really help a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:27 PM
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But to which point are women attracted to status and money and at which point is it a rational, pragmatic decision to get with the guy who will bring the most comfort even if they're not into him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:25 PM
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There is a big difference between a woman being a gold digger and deliberately targeting you because of your money, and a woman being attracted to you in general with your money and status being a big part of the appeal. Is the difference that big?? 🤔 I wouldn't like the money to be a big part of my appeal to a woman, at least not a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:14 PM
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I think he meant more about the time wasted, not as much that she's older.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:09 PM
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Are these the menest things you can imagine? Lmao I'm sure you can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:56 PM
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You don't like sex and relationships? Men also have to navigate a shitty scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:29 PM
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You don't need to belong to a category to defend and fight for the people in it, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:58 PM
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Yeah, they're tryna justify it and just make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:48 PM
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Thats a this guy thing, not a bi man thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:43 PM
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Well, plenty of straight men are quite like that, it doesn't have to do with being bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:38 PM
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Good to hear lol And I agree. But many women say they rarely find a guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:15 PM
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I'm glad if you find a silver lining in it, but I'd rather 7 years between options. It would be safer, easier, and would not make me feel like I'm only attractive to men who are gross. You sure? Wouldn't that be depressing if you wanted sex and relationships? Also, what makes these guy gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:54 AM
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No, she said that these guys haven't had any in 10 years, so since high school, considering they're all 28. I still don't believe the story, the vast majority of guys don't have it that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:53 AM
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And? If most people are fat, most will be unattractive for that. Also, younger people are not mostly fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:38 PM
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Blackpill is not just about gym, but okay lol
/r/seduction13/06/26 01:33 AM
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Did you read the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:32 PM
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Yeah, but women often don't see other women as unattractive and are very flattering on the way they treat each other's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:07 PM
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Every woman? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:00 PM
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Men don't care much about height. Also, I think men are very okay with their age and fitness match. Women who are more picky about guys faces, even if the guy is young and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:11 PM
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The percentage of men women want is even tinier, even accounting for the same age range, body type and socioeconomic similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:58 PM
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What? No, you should have sex with whoever consents and you want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:36 PM
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By average he means women on his day to day life: classmates, coworkers, friends, acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:53 PM
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Uh, no, that doesn't happen in large scale, let alone "all ugly males". Just reminding that your LARP is supposedly a "male" too, or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:13 PM
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Blaming bi men for society's, men and women, homophobia/biphobia, is a low, crap move, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:53 PM
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Do you really think it's just man on man? Do you think women are some super accepting, liberal group that are OK with male bisexuality? Many bisexual guys avoid talking openly about their sexual orientation to not lose their chances with women, who are often biphobic and homophobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:51 PM
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There actually is, the guy is being short-sticked. He has the alternatives of finding someone who's actually sexually attracted to him and marry said person, living casual relationships, paying prostitutes when he wants to get off. All of those are better than attaching yourself to someone who's not into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:55 PM
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Whether she hates or not is secondary, nobody wants to be with someone who's not deeply attracted to them. Do you want to be with a guy who's only with you because you're a good girl or is good at domestic chores and is not attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:48 PM
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It also has a pretty high chance to tank the guys quality of life. Almost like committing to someone and living with them is a huge decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:44 PM
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You're purposefully confounding the statistic that married men on average live more and happier as if some betabuxx cuck who would also have those benefits. Men in good marriages tend to fare better, not relationships where the woman is not into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:42 PM
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He's not being abused, nor saying he is. Just following the saying that's better to be single than in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:39 PM
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The larping as gay guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:38 PM
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You say that on every comment. Maybe many of those married men are with women who are actually attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:36 PM
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Nah, my preference is to fuck people I'm strongly attarcted to who are also strongly attracted to me. You got it mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:29 PM
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Yep, such many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:04 PM
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Yeah, considering multiple factors. A 30-35 year old guy can easily date mid-late 20s women, maybe more easily than when he was that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:40 PM
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Nah, men get older and worse looking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:27 PM
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He did address, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:23 PM
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Time? Aging?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:34 PM
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Yeah, I can only imagine that women who subscribe to this: A. Don't like sex. B. Are not sexually attracted to their partners. Sex is supposed to be fun, spontaneous and mutually beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:01 PM
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I don't disagree with you, but you would have to tell a lot of women that they don't need providers and protectors in 2026, and it won't be a fun conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:52 PM
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Definitely not a world where things meant to be fun are only done as a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:47 PM
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how straight women find other women more attractive then men. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:00 PM
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When that attraction, relation and communication happens smoothly, often enough, in a fun and mutual way, where you feel desired, yeah it's pretty good. But when it happens sparsely, if ever, has a jestering tone to it from the guy, feels like another job for someone he's not even all that into, then yeah, the whole dating thing becomes disenfranchising. Especially for a young man with a lot of libido and small experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:56 PM
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Wow!! Slay kweeeennnnn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:45 AM
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Not everyone has to do the same sacrifices in a marriage you're supposedly doing. Don't try to rationalize your decision in other people's lives. Telling a 22 year old he will just become older, lower libido, and in a marriage with kids is not the big advice you think it is. Let the guys have their hoe phase, know what it is and take their own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:49 PM
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LOL Why unlike young women? And that's in the eyes of a group of straight women. Some are different, gay/bi men are not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:22 AM
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"We" = a 4 billion group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:29 PM
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Even if women believe it, it's still a bad deal for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:28 PM
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Which privilege? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:23 PM
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You're lesbian/bi, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:49 AM
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There are plenty of women's bodies who are very, very far from that, the majority actually lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:48 AM
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Lmao you're doing it at the end of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:45 AM
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You question the straightness of the guys but not the one of the women who bow down to women's bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:37 AM
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Oh, great question. Gay guys love male bodies and aren't simps for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:26 AM
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Do you ask men who say female bodies are more attractive the same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:22 AM
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That's not inherent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 03:19 AM
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That's not really the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:19 PM
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Oh, women don't like it and also use homphobic slurs when they get rejected or when a guy's standards exclude her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:28 AM
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They're not necessarily on the "down low". That's just the insult the woman used. Nobody has to say and show which people they're having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:58 AM
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Lmao that's the core bullshit that all this stems from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 04:22 AM
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Women also pursue sex when not looking for romantic relationships and because they want to have fun. Where do you live that that isn't true? Men would also like a woman buying him things. Putting that as "hvaing fun" is the most leech thing I've heard in some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:55 AM
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Congrats, you're a lesbian-leaning bisexual woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:28 AM
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No, people use 7 as somewhat attractive, but not very attractive.
/r/seduction22/03/26 04:19 AM
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So yeah, just let trash take itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:22 PM
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Look at this, people who say it doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:21 PM
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I get what you're saying, but the more I live, the less patience I have for all that. Someone who can't accept that they're a sexual person who likes to fuck and doesn't know what they want is not someone I want to wrestle the sex out of her. Of course it can be socially unintelligent to straight up ask to fuck, but I need someone who's comfortable with their sexual side in my sex/romantic life.
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:46 PM
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Like your mom? Who got fucked by your dad to shit you down?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:21 PM
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No need to be an asshole about your frigidity though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:20 PM
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Huh? Everybody wants sex, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:19 PM
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There are other reasons too if actually think about it. If he's into the girl, yeah, he will probably agree. Big if, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:15 PM
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In the love/dating aspect? Definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:17 AM
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Eh, no? It's not like people are going to be sweet to you when you're an asshole to them, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:48 PM
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I'm appreciating beauty and it turns out naked women are more beautiful...that's why there's significantly more art of them. Huh, no?? That's very individual, and Greek and Roman sculptora would like to have a word with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:45 AM
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Okay? What if you told everyone you like to fuck rhinos but not dolphins in this case and had the same perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:43 AM
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It's almost if you prefer women to men people will think you're lesbian or, at least bisexual y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:42 AM
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That says a lot about where you live, I'm sorry for you. Guys here are often gym goers and have good or great physiques. There is a lot good about the male form, mine included, you just don't like it, although even then you still should be able to recognize beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:40 AM
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Women don't value looks less than men at all, they just value it and other aspects more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:50 AM
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Nah, what men are told from society is a pretty vanilla thing. The idea that a woman who's truly into you will have it at forst sight is a more obscure, controversial one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:05 AM
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Nah, I don't see that. If a guy's hot, a woman is definitely aroused by seeing him. Attraction is definitely not a decision either, far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:03 AM
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To be honest, it varies a lot per woman. Some don't need that "hard work to create emotional attraction at all" before sex. And they're not some rare unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:59 AM
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And what is the "normal female sexuality" that you talk about? That's not demisexual but not like most men either? Also, women who have a stronger, visual, lustful sexuality are also normal, and not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:57 AM
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Women aren't much different, if those are your standards. You do think most guys, your age are ugly? Do you think of yourself as more attractive than them? More interesting too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:12 PM
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I don't think so, at least not as young(ish) men. Straight guys today take quite a bit of care of themselves, good haircuts, flattering clothes, keeping fit by lifting at the gym, etc. Your thought exercise led me to another one: put a group of gay men in a room and let them rate several men and say how hot they think the guys are and then get several straight women to do the same. The gay men will have a much higher frequency of finding a guy sexually attractive and rate guys higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:08 PM
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Oh there aren't, the number of hot women and men it's pretty close outside of "you're beautiful, queen" fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:59 PM
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I don't think these concepts are time-appropriate anymore. Young guys today take quite a bit of care of themselves, and if it doesn't result in them looking markedly above average, it doesn't help much their dating and sex lives, at least with women. While women are often out of shape, wearing unflattering clothes and still can get more attention than a good looking guy. That is also why there is such a visible gap between attractive gay men and straight men. And why so many women end up liking …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:53 PM
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Even the good types of smiles will be unwanted by most women coming from most men, even though most women are very far from a bombshell themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:34 PM
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Since you mentioned it, gay and bi men find men much more physically attractive in a higher frequency than straight women do, and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:27 PM
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If a woman isn’t dating to marry, she usually isn’t dating for a relationship at all. She’s either living her life or not prioritizing commitment yet. If by living her life and not dating for a relationship at all means having flings with guys she's attracted to, that might or might not become something more, then yeah, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:38 PM
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What you're noticing is a lot of the hot guys turning average the more they age. No, he's talking about the average guy, who's always been average for his age. How he gets more options after he and women becomes a certain age for a certain kind of relationship, in a different way than a decade before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:31 PM
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And that's exactly why, I do (and recommend other men to); Filter for women who are actually viscerally attracted to me, and don't invest much into trying to make a girl into me, if she is, she is. Sex will happen sooner than later in that way. Run away from provider dynamics, don't usually pay for women, and expect the interested woman to do her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:09 PM
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If a guy needs to show his love towards a woman in an almost unilateral way for her to supposedly be into him... yeah, not good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:59 PM
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No, men don't settle for women they aren't attracted, false premise. Did you just assume women do this, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:57 PM
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You seem to never respond about it: is sex one of the big topics of your conversation with friends? As in, the conversations would be much shorter if it wasn't for it? Do you talk in detail about sexual details of guys you've been with, exposing their privacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:18 AM
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Unless he tells me otherwise, I just assume he is. Interesting. What makes you think of that? Even if the guy is single? it's always been so bizarre seeing so many guys assert we care if they are virgins. In which sense: that you don't care if he's a virgin and that's not a problem? Those guys are usually talking about a woman dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:08 AM
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Oh no, don't use a gay couple as an example of an absence of raw attraction in a couple. They're the ones fucking more easily, and being attracted to each other in the highest rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:01 AM
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The average childless guy doesn't have a child to pay off for, has more freedom and can easily intimidate the single mom without her having much to be done on her part besides cower down...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:48 AM
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parasitic 50 50 rrelationships Lmao that's prostitution marketing, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:46 AM
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Women also require men to provide sex in relationships, usually, and wouldn't get close to starting a relationship with a guy who doesn't fuck her. The hur hur and mrr mrr sounds retarted, bro, tone that down. But yeah, sex is mutual, financial provision is not, sex has to be had for a relationship to exist for both sides, but financial provision from a man to a woman is not really needed for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:44 AM
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Do men claim that? How many, which percentage? Do you that as an excuse to try to leech of someone's resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:41 AM
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Lmao epidemic. Stop watching Buzzfeed videos
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:39 AM
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He's not trolling and I agree with him. Consensual sex is a mutually agreed upon activity, if a woman consented to it, then she's as into it as the guy. I take it as a self-own of not having found a girl who actually wanted to fuck you or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:38 AM
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Some people don't enjoy sex but still have it because others like it and they like the other people. Why does everything have to be transactional? Why can't you accept that some people just want to be happy with someone that makes them happy? Sounds like projection, honestly. God frees me from those women, amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:35 AM
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It comes as news to me. If you like someone but there's no sexual satisfaction, there's this thing called "being friends" and there's no need to emprision yourself in a bad sex relationship. Most people start relationships with people they are sexually attracted to and like having sex with, or at least it's how I perceive the world. I'm probably more intelligent than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:34 AM
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It's not like a single man is pairing with us without plans for access to sex. There is nothing altruistic about seeking regular supply of pussy yet complaining about the resources one needs because they gave you said pussy. The sex is being desired and had by both the man and the woman, so the woman also plans access to sex with that guy. Unless you're talking about prostitution or you just don't like sex and use it as a bait for keeping some guy(s) around. Also, have you heard of contraceptive…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:26 AM
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If I keep interacting with them and they show traits and personality I'm attracted to I will start to find certain things I like about their physicality that start to look more attractive to me. Usually smile, eyes, hands etc Why didn't you notice those features before?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:53 AM
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That's your UMC bubble, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:59 PM
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Facial attractiveness is almost deterministic of how much success a guy is going to have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:59 PM
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No, that's not his point. He feels women hate men and despise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:46 AM
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You basically argued against the point in your title. The side chicks are being so for a few men they're very attracted to. You even go as far to say that women only feel visceral attraction to a top 1% of men, which is more bleak than what many black pillers say. I dunno, smells like some troll post in a 4D chess, ironic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:39 AM
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No, you don't. Most average fat dudes have plain, fat girlfriends, wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:28 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/seduction16/12/25 02:15 AM
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Dude, don't post John Travolta lost gif when you can't just read what's wrote. Focus on literacy first, men, then maybe one day you can go into sarcasm and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:49 AM
2

We can use the same argument for women too, right? If they complain too much about how men are supposedly horrible and unattractive, then it's only logical, like you said, to think that she's lesbian, right? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:46 AM
1

Not my experience.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:56 AM
4

Are relationships fixed forever? I mean, there's a huge chance of being ended if you lose your attractiveness in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:58 AM
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Lmao sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:45 AM
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Lmao that's not what he's saying and he's not upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:10 PM
1

No, not really. People are often wary of you and are less likely to help you if you're in danger, lost or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:44 AM
2

Which age is that (at least the range)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:46 AM
11

But what that has to do with the "finish line" thing? It is not about being domestically good, it's mostly about job and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:26 PM
14

Being visible for your "sexuality" instead of having to pay or show assets and degrees for it must be great. It is, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:30 PM
0

So you think women shouldn't fuck guys they're into? Where the line is drawn and you think women are OK having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:58 PM
6

Male and female sexuality involves being sexually attracted to someone, often as a first thing. Other interest might or might not come after. Most people aren't demisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:54 PM
1

What if the woman didn't know that fact about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:05 AM
0

Who said that's all he's able to offer? If she's with him, she finds more of him than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:04 AM
6

I don't. Halfway med student, though, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:59 AM
1

I don’t hate women. ...yeah. I just think women look at men as meal tickets. Some women do, some don't. Sometimes is not that she looks at him as a meal tocket only, but she primarily values him for financial provision, it's pretty common. Average looking men who intentionally use and hurt women for casual sex Huh, no, ma'am. The casual sex is mutually wanted by both parties. Now you got me thinking: do you believe average looking guys can't or shouldn't get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:59 AM
2

Because there's a parallel to that. The man is often expected to pay for the date and pay for most of the bills if they start a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:35 AM
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I bet he isn't, since he's well off and the vast majority of men are not. And no insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:33 AM
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Lmao 4B hag talking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:10 PM
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He's not saying men can't, just that it won't be effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:13 AM
2

It's just obvious, broski
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:11 AM
1

Kinda outside the topic, but how acessible is a BMW in it's origin country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:45 PM
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So many young men saying they don’t want to spend their money on women but that’s a foreign thing for a young 20 something to say 10 years ago, Lmao That wasn't a foreign thing for a man, let alone a young man, to say 10 years ago. I mean it was 2015, not 1960. after all what else would a 23 year old spend their money on??? Lmao is this bait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:17 PM
5

What? You believe relationships are basically long term prostitution contracts? Not sure if you know, but there are women who are into sex and have it because they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:34 PM
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Oh, but that doesn't exist, all marriages are composed of women who love and have raw attraction to their husbands!!1!!1! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:21 PM
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Not really, it's very stated that attraction is amoral, and that being a "Chad" or "Stacy" doesn't mean said people are bad morally. Being a good person is not leading to sexual attraction, and guys who complain about this are not treated well AT ALL lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:10 PM
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So when men started retreating to online toxic and anti female spaces women didn't want to sleep with them? Who could have seen that coming. Wow, how sarcastic!! It's almost like it's the opposite, if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:58 PM
6

Almost like those terms are reserved for online anonymous discussions and are not used in real life aka social calibration.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:48 PM
0

If anyone who's into you comes with a lot of effort and they take a long time to start to get with you, then that feeling might be justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:19 PM
1

Yeah genius, the 18 yo doesn't have bux, that's why he barely get any if he's not an "alpha fucks". He'll only get his when he's older with some money. It fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:47 PM
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Does the guy get the sex he wanted? No dead bedrooms? Yeah, we can't all be Chad and Stacy, but why would you sacrifice your self-worth to be with someone who's not very attracted to you and pay for it? Why can't Joe and Becky also be very into each other and think of each other as very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:42 PM
1

This, intimacy, sex, dating. Although I think I'll want to a have a child or two in my late 30s or 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:48 AM
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Is it a unicorn for a guy to want a mid-20s girl who will "help him learn him the ropes" and enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:11 AM
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Huh, maybe the woman moving things forward? Reassuring him it's okay? Soothing him because he's probably anxious about, y'know, his first time having sex?? Do you believe men can be uncomfortable, anxious, afraid of things? Or do you think those emotions are outside the realm of what a man can feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:04 AM
4

Yep, people are sounding mad to me on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:11 PM
9

"Willing to give them a chance" is exactly the mindset of a girl who's not much into the guy, so thank you for illustrating that LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:10 PM
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Huh, it's actually pretty common where I live. The women I've fucked have done it even faster than that, and you don't need to be "sex-obsessed for that" lmao, just enjoy sex. There is little chance that she is going to get pleasure, let alone an orgasm in this scenario you have created. Not my experience, again. Why do you think women should risk themselves for thirsty men who only want sex? Women like sex too, maybe not you apparently, but they often do. And the guy doesn't necessarily just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:08 PM
1

Yeah, but isn't the guy who value your individuality and humanity lustful too? What's the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:58 PM
1

Not exactly motivational lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:20 AM
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Not much "pursue" (sometimes they still do, though), but women definitely show signs of attraction to guys that they're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:19 AM
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Your anecdote is saying the opposite of your title, broski. Oh, and just a reminder that there isn't a 6'3" (190cm) fit doctor for every overweight woman working retail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:49 PM
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Did she actively done that or people pay more attention to big boobs than acting? Even if it was on purpose, what's the problem? Sorry, you can't disguise the fact that you're just jealous of her and the attention she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:26 PM
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At least where I live, a majority of the guys who look 38-42 are fuckable. How old are you? That's one of the most flattering affirmations towards men's looks, especially towards 40-year-old fellas I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:22 AM
1

Good, but you still have to take DHT blockers after for the rest of your hair to not fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:18 AM
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Men look their best somewhat after 20, that's a bit too boyish for most guys. Money doesn't create raw attraction, you just attract more golddiggers later in life. Maybe, but it's not just money per se, but what it signals, the confidence and social skills a man that age has, and the fact the dating market gets a bit easier at that age. For plenty of guys their looks peak doesn't bring them much shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:41 AM
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I love how you refer to "old men" but most definitely wouldn't really like if women if the same age were called old. A guy has to be attractive to have women into him, and being young is not exactly a guarantee of that. A not so young, attractive guy us going to have a much easier time in his dating life than an average looking young fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:47 AM
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It's easier to have casual sex too with a nice car, financial stability, confidence and competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:33 AM
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Most men start doing drugs and smoking vapes since boys. Oh, they don't. However a man who regularly exercises and doesnt do drugs or drink or any of that is in his prime from 18 till his somewhat late 20s it only starts declining shortly into his 30s. He's still not at his prime at 18, and doesn't need to completely abstain to still look pretty great in his 20s and 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:10 AM
2

Women and males 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:03 AM
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I love how you didn't disagree with him that the ugly and likable has a 95% failure rate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:36 PM
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Some guys will just look good at or after high school, sometimes even after college. Good social skills and being relaxed at socializing might only come later than that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:33 AM
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Never seen any red piller say that a guy's physical looks prime is between 40 and 60.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:48 PM
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What do you attribute that higher flow in attention to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:26 PM
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The fact that you go to "arsehole" just because he didn't find a partner at Starbucks working there is quite telling. Are you the type to think that unsuccessful guys are assholes? Not unlucky socially anxious, or met with disproportionate standards by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:54 PM
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Hahahahahah when a man has standards, women like you seethe, I wonder why. Maybe a fat girl who doesn't want to be punished by it and wants fit guys? Pretty sure you wouldn't say the same if it was a woman asking for things that she has. So, hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:52 PM
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Eh no, Jack wants girls who have the same traits as him, decent looking, in shape, educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:45 PM
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I don't think they are all dating the top 10%, but a disproportionate amount is in "situationships" with them. fit, college-educated, average-looking women A man with these same traits has a harder time than expected to find this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:33 PM
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It doesn't make sense. OP meant settling as in, accepting someone below hisblevel, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:17 PM
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Lol in that case most women are ugly too, cause both genders are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:15 PM
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There are tall and handsome Bolovian men, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:08 PM
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"To have dating options"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:01 AM
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Something benefiting women, isn’t strange… or at least it shouldn’t be?? I think he meant benefiting women at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:41 AM
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It often is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:37 PM
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I can sorta relate lol I don't like asking for help or having to depend on other people other than close family. The whole approacing ritual that society and biology expect of men is kinda lost on me, unless the girl is attractive to me and showing that she's quite attracted back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:14 PM
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It's people with no sex/dating/relationship experience assuming that women look at men and want to fuck them as badly as they look at attractive women and want to fuck them Its happens often if the guy looks good enough. At the very, very least make out with the guy if she likes what she sees. The way y'all try to make it up as if all women are demisexual is very sus in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:33 PM
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Which percentage of women do you think ascribe to this type of sexuality and how many you think have a more visual, instant attraction type?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:45 AM
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Every young-ish woman knows this - when you walk past a family and the man is a step behind his wife and kids, 8 out of 10 times he'll ogle you. A full double take, often break his neck as you walk past him. Embarassing Wow, y'all must be gorgeous!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:38 AM
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You just need to be attractive to the right woman that you wanna spend your life with and looks are not as important when women are looking for a life partner. Maybe, but guys still want to live out their young years, to have sex with multiple women before settling down with one. In another comment you asked why men are preoccupied with a woman's N-count, so you're not against having had mutliple partners through life. We value financial security, emotional maturity, political and moral alignmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:15 PM
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We both know they have some correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:01 PM
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The MILF and cougar categories are hot, above-average looking older women. Not your average saggy, chubby middle-aged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:49 PM
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If he improved his life he would stop being average, and wouldn't be the subject of this conversation. Are you implying only above average guys deserve decent dating lifes? Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:28 PM
0

But he's straight. And what's the problem with his "issues"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:18 PM
1

What? You're saying that if they don't mesh well, he's somehow responsible for her food after that? Yeah, she will do her "impromptu salad" or whatever she wants to eat after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:15 PM
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What makes you affirm that? You're talking shit, because there's no way to orove that from the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:07 PM
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Funny, I don't see it. Most couples are looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:06 PM
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Yeah, Hollywood selects for American men, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:56 PM
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So it seems like you're projecting the narrowness of your attraction on other women in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:51 PM
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Are you hot and wealthy yourself? Cause you sure sound like you are. If you're not, that's going to be a rough ride, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:07 PM
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Not "never" have sex, but go a full calendar year without sex? Yeah, I think it's 25-33% like the other guy said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:58 PM
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It really, really depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:32 AM
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It's almost like there's a balance between abusive father and a father who spoiled his "princess daughter", y'know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:15 AM
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Like men who watch porn do it everyday Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:43 PM
2

How did you feel about that? Did you want to have been the party girl in your younger years or currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:56 PM
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Is there a "woman in the relationship" role? I thought gender roles were out these days! The "woman in a relationship" only has perks? What are their obligations?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:44 PM
3

Wow, so many nights of sleep lost on the possibility of being called an incel!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:32 PM
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What????? Women are the ones into marrying, usually. Kids can be hit and miss, since women have been more aware of how much work it is and childfree is growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:58 PM
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All those former party girls end up marrying the extroverted, fun, handsome guy. Not really, there isn't a handsome, fun, extro guy for every party girl. The hot, extroverted ones might get that, but the average and below looking ones are gonna have to aim lower, especially on the looks part. This is where a plain looking guy who might or might not have been a party boy comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:45 PM
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That's the first thing I thought when I read "dating down" as a man. Although I will probably consider success and finances more when settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:24 AM
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A woman in her early-mid 20s is probably at her most attractive in her lifetime, doesn't mean she's top league. If she's a "Stacy" then she's at her league by being with a Chad. A guy in his early-mid 20s is also probably at his peak physical attractiveness too, I dunno your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:46 PM
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If he's fat, plain looking, yeah he is in her league. If he's not, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:33 PM
1

The fact that you're creating an analogy between being attracted to and buying expensive things... is something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:32 PM
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Or not, it comes from average women having a hard time being attracted to their male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:25 PM
1

The men are not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:18 PM
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No, they're just talking it out in an anonymous forum. It's not that deep. You're doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:56 PM
2

"Be female, young-ish, not obese."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:54 PM
1

🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:37 PM
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Like 10%? Usually women who were always attractive and kept some of it, and/or women who have a good financial life and can afford to look good even at middle age. I'm 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:34 PM
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I'm sorry you're balding and have not done anything to curb it, but nobody cares about your respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:31 PM
1

guys claim they do it for women but ignore what women actually like. Do they actually claim it? Not exactly what I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:29 PM
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Thank you lol But I don't think the comments of "muscles looks bad, women don't like it" are very common anymore, lots of women like it, especially the ones who also lift like you. It's kinda established that only huge and shredded steroid abusers are not attractive, and even those guys who are relatively rare have their niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:22 PM
1

Well, it's kinda to be expected that the person you're with are mutually sexually attracted to you. What you're saying really validates RPs Beta Buxx concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:24 AM
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impressing other women Now that you said it, this is a great base for pre-selection, although following up in that would be cheating or open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:22 AM
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You're confusing external validation to being validated by your sexual partner. Dun goofed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 04:20 AM
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They can afford, they just don't wanna pay for the woman. You don't really need to be rich to be explored for your money. A bit too much on the laughter, sounding desperate ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:56 AM
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women don't actually just marry the secure experienced man Which percentage of men do you think are "secure and experienced"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:00 PM
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Most women do So do you think most guys fit OPs description of attractive, charming guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:58 PM
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No. But you'd look 100kg, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:51 PM
1

Yeah, but in a good relationship, both coexist. Usually sex comes first and love after.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:38 AM
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Sonthey use their brain and become attractive, and stick their finger at shittalkers asses, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:26 AM
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Looked into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:48 AM
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Yep, there are the carrot-danglers, attention whore, gold diggers making things murky for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 03:59 PM
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Yeah, they're sexually attracted to them, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 02:17 PM
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women may use those slurs if it actually applies, and if the woman has done something to them. Eh no, women often use said slurs inappropriately in a fit of jealousy or rage. Sometimes the girl just existing is enough. Women are not angels always justified in their actions while men are bad or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 01:59 PM
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just as men get away with worse looks Oh no, not anymore. Young men are pressured to look good and can't get away with being bad looking if they want a semblance of a dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:57 AM
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What??? Who's "we"? I see a plentiful adult person when I see a 25 year old. They're often more mature and wise than middle aged people, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:17 AM
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Women can and do get attracted to a guy by just looking at a picture. That's a strawman, it's not about only wanting to turn women on sexually, but having that as a baseline for any kind of relationship. They actually do give a fuck, a woman wouldn't like to lose the WEW privileges, hence the manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 09:50 AM
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Yeah, when 95% of guys are "average and below" that's not exactly hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:35 AM
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Is youth and fitness that much more important for men evaluating women's attractiveness than the opposite? Women aren't known for being into out of shape and wrinkly guys. Also, we hear all the time here, maybe not from you OP, women here saying that older guys are mostly disgusting and unattractive in the eyes of young women. So, being and looking young as a man is an important marker if he wants to get with those young, 18-28 girls you mentioned, not required, but definitely helpful. Maybe not…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:50 PM
1

How old are you, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:35 AM
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Is that thickness mostly distributed on her hips and ass and not that much on the waist? If that, it's kinda expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:25 AM
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That's your very personal taste, not the general outlook in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:38 PM
3

That's a bit too much lol Guy can't be short like her? And fat ass = attractive, hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:33 PM
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If a woman saw a guy that fulfilled the 3 criteria you initially listed on an app she wouldn't bother to give him the time of day Why she wouldn't? Thats weird. but if she saw him on a regular basis while spending time with the same people/friends he has a chance to win her over with personality or other qualities. Lmao the guy looks good, has a decent to good financial situation and is a sociable person. Needing a repeated exposure to "win her over" with other qualities sounds like a lot of hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:19 PM
5

If a guy has those qualities... isn't that his equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:12 PM
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A man who has a lean BMI and a high income is not average. He is above average. Yeah, and he has a hard time finding his female equivalent. Although OP didn't say high income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:00 PM
5

I rarely come across slim built men on dating apps compared to slim built women What age range are you selecting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:44 PM
8

It's not fall in your lap and beg to marry you. It's more like showing you interest and a relationship organically forming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:14 PM
2

I notice women look less at body to determine someone's attractiveness, although that changed a bit with more fitness consciousness in current day, but still stands. Style and grooming seem to be complimented by both sexes in their friends, but in terms of a potential suitor the end result is what determines if one's attracted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:24 PM
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OK? If someone is trying to attract the opposite sex, truly believing your best friends and bros about how gorgeous you ate might lead to too high expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:08 PM
10

I don't see how it would be punishing to women. The information is actually a bad thing for men, they're just now informed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:02 PM
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Actually, the mid guy who lowers his head to mistreatment and accepts being put into a lower place is much worse than the mid guy being a douche in the some situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:46 PM
1

It makes all the sense if he observes the way women react to him and the ease he has getting dates and sex compared to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:26 PM
4

if you gonna be doing that the next day your gonna be a car dealer ship paying for a new car for her. Lol what????
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:27 PM
2

In grandma's days? Yeah. 2020s? I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:35 AM
1

You think 41 and 29 is icky??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:29 AM
4

just a chubby 27 year old single mom Wow, like a true RPer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:28 AM
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Nah, women in their 30s already get separated, in terms of looks, among those who take care of themselves and/or have good genetics and the ones who don't. The first group is as attractive as the ones in their 20s or even more, the second group goes into aunty, mom looking unattractive. In their 40s and 50s they're mostly pretty obviously less attractive than in the past couple of decades, and probably meh to unattractive looking. If you're talking about being able to be attractive to guys in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:47 AM
1

I mean one where one person is like 24 and the other is 29. Yeah, cockblocking that is a little bit (I mean a lot) too stupid and nosey. They're both young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:09 AM
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No, we don't. Plenty of women with oily or acney skin out there, some wearing ill fitting clothes or having bad hair for us to assume that. Cute of you to think men assume women have naturally better looks or something, when that's not the case. I'm not even going into the epidemic of fat/obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:56 PM
2

She still didn't want to work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:41 PM
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Eh, no? He wants to get an idea of how ugly the ugliest guy she's dated is, so it's worth asking. We're also not talking about crime and serious abuse here, just heartbreak and messy breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:57 PM
0

Or you can just go to open bar parties, where the beverages are included in the price you paid to enter, and you don't have to play drink payer jester to get a girl's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:44 PM
2

The fact he's ugly, balding and crooked absolutely cancels that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:39 PM
6

If the 6', fit guy is also facially pleasant, then yeah, he's a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:09 AM
6

Is there any guy who posted his photo and larps as Chad here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:08 AM
3

I would love to see the looks on those lol Pretty sure they're probably ugly fatasses projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:45 AM
1

Some women, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:30 AM
1

That's why your relationships and interactions at sex/love life shouldn't start by doing or meaning something to a girl. Her clear attraction must be there before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:26 AM
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Not really, I take a lot of pride in my looks and care of it. Best experiences I've had were with women who were strongly physically attracted to me, which isn't asking that much, really. Of course in a relationship I expect her to ALSO like my personality traits. (Not the one you asked, but...)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:19 AM
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They often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:05 AM
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20 year old people don't look like kids. They have pretty obvious secondary sexual characteristics. They're also adults and mostly behave as such. 20 year olds look more womanly than, say, 50 year olds who look aged and out of shape, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:04 AM
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Thisbis one guy's opinion. Don't act like there's some committee or somethjng giving info.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:45 PM
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Eh, no. Other pillers have also said it. So, calm your tits down with the irony and sarcasm. The extent to which you can do something is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:35 PM
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Yeah, just lower your head and accept your lot in life. Maybe one day in your late 20s/30s something might happen. /s I know there's a lot of shitty advice and content in the Manosphere, but I can't blame some young man, in the peak age for dating and libido, who's not being successful at it, to try and seek resources to turn it around. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:43 PM
1

Yeah, which is not a bad thing. Most people are open to both things. If you have genuine desire you have a fundamental point of both casual sex and LTR. If you don't then you can't do any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:24 PM
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It happens all the time with guys that are decent looking or better. That sounds sheltered of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:16 PM
1

If you're compatible with a girl but she's not attracted to you or vice-versa, you two can be great friends at best. The girl might be attracted to you but not be compatible too. The physical attraction has to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:15 PM
2

I think other aspects are important too: life goals, worldview, sense of humor, etc. But mutual sexual attraction and treating each other well are huge foundations that are non-negotiable. They are basic important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:07 PM
3

I think he also wants to give back to her. To lick her pussy and bring her food too. I don't know what about that isn't a real relationship. Of course, major incompatibilities are bad, but mutual attraction and kindness are big foundations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:01 PM
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Nah, they want a mutual, reciprocal relationship where both give to each other. Splitting a date is not "like friends", plenty of women pay for their food and outings with the guys they're with sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:58 PM
2

Do all these women don't like sex? Like, are all these women asexual? Or they're repressed or married guys they're not attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:11 AM
3

Betabuxxed is not only about money but also about behavioral traits. Sometimes the guy thinks there's an equal partnership, but she is not that attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:06 AM
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So if she doesn't have that high level interest and the guy can't identify it, he's prone to falling to the "beta bux nonsense", my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:48 AM
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Pointing at him for why a specific individual fumbled an attempted date doesn't help the guy. Nobody does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:45 AM
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Do you think that's women's life? They can't work, qualify themselves? Wtf is that financial future depending on 18-26 looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:29 AM
2

I was completely single for almost a year Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:15 AM
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What did these guys have that the Bible Belt girls would find feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:34 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:07 PM
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Sore? So you want people collectively talking behind your back without any obligation to prove what they're saying, right? Are you one of the ugly, fat, middle-aged women referred to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:02 PM
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Having one crazy ex who's damaging your property is not a good thing, pal. If it was like some decently attractive, interesting girl who never dated him but wanted something with him, it would be good (aside from the keying), but some ex-girlfriend you don't wanna see anymore wanting to get back desperately sound dauting and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:58 PM
1

You can raise your own children without being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:11 PM
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You know what these guys had and you don't? They were not Chad, they created romantic weekends and we had lots of fun play time. That is what casual sex for single boys not looking for a new baby daddy go for. They are still out there, but you shoot yourself in the due to repetitive invasive thoughts about being the beta bucks, instead of the, old phrase. "Good time Charlie", because you don't think you could ever be that guy. What is this personal, salty collection of remarks? Do you know OP fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:56 AM
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Yeah, that catches my attention lol Men make it pretty damn friggin easy for women to date, unlike the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:26 AM
2

I'm sorry, go to therapy to talk about how your exes treat you and not take complete reading of all men based on those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:25 AM
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This is not an academic discussion, boyo. If you look around, there's no one citing scientific sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:20 AM
1

Almost like guys, especially super young ones, like casual relationships, pictures that might excite them, and looking at sexually available girls with nice bodies! The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:08 AM
2

Does that actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:55 PM
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Yeah, she has more bargaining power than him. Also one guy might be dating several women in a timeframe, more than most guys. The one per one doesn't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:53 AM
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Yeah, it just shows how looks are HUGE thing in dating, people often underestimate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:43 AM
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It's quite shitty to be ignored or treated with contempt before it gets shown that you do something a woman value or that you have social proof and now she will treat you nicely. I always like "nah, fuck you, let's keep the hate going, I'll definitely do my part" when that happens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:33 AM
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Do you think the guy is the one who will have to send those texts always or it would be more of a back and forth thing where the woman will take the initiative some of the time? In your way of view, women don't have sex in their mind by themselves and direct that want to their partners? It's always on the guy to turn the sex box in his partner's brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:14 AM
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And what's the problem with sex? Are we talking about love languages?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:07 AM
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There's no swiping in OkCupid, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:39 AM
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Considering they're probably somewhat attractive themselves being under 30 and suburban... that shouldn't be a gotcha or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:38 AM
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Yeah lol Old women in PPD saying "young women are above average, the average woman is 40yo" and forgetting people simply tend to date in their own bracket is something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:37 AM
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The same could be said for women, though. So you think women are not bell curve distributed in terms of attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:32 AM
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I have heard a bazillion times in PPD that the average woman is 40 and overweight so if you want someone in shape and young, you want a girl that's quite above average. Okay. People just forget that guys that want young and in shape women are most often young and in shape themselves, like me, making them above average by your own logic, not some obese 50yo fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:27 AM
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That's not the general concept of unattractive people were talking about, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:10 AM
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because I think reducing the entire opposite sex to their sexual appeal is dehumanizing Do you think most men reduce women to their sexual appeal? I would feel morally icky to constantly be sexually assessing men Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:11 AM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:53 AM
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No, it's very different. Any woman who takes some care of herself will receive that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:52 AM
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If there's connection, it isn't exactly sexual objectification anymore though There's no objectification in finding a person hot even without connection, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:43 AM
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We all have twice the number of female ancestors. Which means abour 50% of men never reproduced Which has more to do with being clubbed in the skull than female sexual selection
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:53 PM
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Nah, lots of women have it, most of them, to the point that they complain about it, and it becomes a common place. I mean, I'm also scared about the level of women that still can get a lot of male attention. It's abysmal. And yeah, it's a gender thing. For a guy to get a lot of female attention passively, he has to be very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:43 PM
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A DATING/SEX/RELATIONSHIPS sub not allowing looks to be debated and relegating the subject to some weekly dusty thread is... definitely something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:52 PM
5

Do you talk that way to women who claim that women are more attractive than men, or you're just a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:27 PM
2

Are those guys the ones to blame for supposedly repressing their wives sexuality? Why didn't these women propose the sexually adventurous shit she used to do? Why did she only wanted to do it when divorce was happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:25 PM
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started minoxidil and grew a beard and really got in shape and improved. Since this year I slept with 4 women. While last year I was an incel. That's me some years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:45 AM
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Eh, you don't define what is or isn't trauma ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 01:34 AM
1

Interesting. How do you think those two groups differentiate themselves in terms of behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:28 AM
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Yep. The advice to find a young woman who doesn't have kids is more aimed at young-ish guys in their 20s and 30s who don't have kids themselves and probably wish to have their first one. Not to some senior citizen who had 4 kids, some of them adults, before marrying again in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:03 PM
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It's not like all guys are allotted as hot or not for life at the age of 12 WTF LOL Lots of guys get hotter as older teenagers or adults. Also, you can go in or out of looking hot depending on how you take care of yourself.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:28 AM
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I would say yeah. Do you consider yourself a woman like that? Or are you comparing your opinion as a bi woman to straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:58 PM
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For some women, yeah, definitely. But that percentage is smaller than women in their 20s. The wall is not just about looks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:43 AM
11

Metrosexual and simps have very different definitions, though?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:25 AM
3

It is. Or you're affirming Windmill is a larping troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 05:28 AM
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No, we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:15 AM
2

Yeah some people are just assholes — and some of those assholes just happen to be women. You’d think this nuance would be obvious but this is PPD I guess lol Actually, this nuance is more recognized at PPD than in mainstream talk, where the "Women are Wonderful" effect goes pretty strong. PPD recognizes that women can not rarely be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:37 AM
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But weak willed and passive men and docile men. Aren’t really going to keep trying to interact with a woman that hates them or is mean or pushes them way. Men with self respect* and decent self-steem* probably won't keep really going for those bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:03 PM
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I (a beautiful woman) Lmao For the n-th time, you don't need to be rich to be in the beta-bux or be used for your money, a convenient free meal and ride is enough for some women to take from guys they're meh about. A decent salary, higher than the woman's, and paying all the bills while "her money is hers" is enough for a betabux dynamic at a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:37 AM
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Oh, looks like we have some pseudoscience here. Why are some people more attractive than others and attract any more people than others do? No, it's not all equal and random. Some guys are in a much better position than others when it comes to attracting women, and that's pretty damn obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:42 AM
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Yep lol Too many women thinking they're super clever with "We don't men to come back 🤣" but they're on a fucking dating subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:11 AM
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Why would the younger person have to be a caretaker? Is the older going to get invalid and in disability? Also, I really didn't understand why the younger person is supposed to divorce the older one when they're in their 40s and the older is in their 50s or 60s, that's a pretty common age gap, and divorces are somewhat likely, age gap or not. Do you plan on divorcing your partner in the next decade since you're un your 30s and have an age gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:16 AM
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Oh, this one's old. Mem rate themselves higher than women rate men, but they also rate women higher than the women rate themselves, contradicting what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:08 PM
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6.5 on some random Tuesday. 7.5 if I get a fresh cut + beard lineup and my barber gets it good and I get groomed to some event.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:00 PM
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when men talk about harsh beauty standards against themselves, they're talking about what it takes to be desired enough by women that dating is a matter of mutual effort in which they have actual options outside of "take whatever comes along" and "be alone", whereas when women talk about harsh beauty standards against themselves, they're talking about what it takes to get men to effectively pay to look at them through favors, perks or sometimes just straight up money. 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:54 PM
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Morals favor men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:07 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:00 AM
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I knew it was a Cjaylyle post before clicking it lol. The pedestalizing of women doesn't lie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:01 AM
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Have you ever taken a look at the men that gay men like? They literally cover the whole spectrum of looks Yep. And guess what? Women are the same. Haha, nope. It's less varied and less intense, and the standards for visceral attraction are way higher. Know what’s feminine and annoying? Constantly whinging based on nothing. This is a debate sub, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:14 PM
1

Middle ground between flat ass and Kardashian ass:
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:49 PM
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Nice. That's good for you in your relationship. Just don't try using what you do as a model for what other people should or shouldn't be doing, OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:13 PM
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Yeah, I have this impression in my mind too that men being adamant about sex is going to be seen as a bad thing, while women can just have their standards. Pleasantly surprised that people are not being a pain in the ass to the guys here, though, I mean, it would be very hypocritical to do so too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:10 PM
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Sounds like a personal defense lol Do you watch lesbian porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:37 PM
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Eh, not really, most couples are looksmatched, if you wash the makeup men and women are equally attractive. Go see all attractive and pretty girls and their boyfriends are borderline mid or ugly. Go see all the attractive and muscular guys and their girlfriends are mid or fat. I mean, I can also nitpick?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:50 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure that's the average couple. Models and CEOs, that's the people we talk about when we talk about most people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:48 AM
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No, not really. Tou must have a pedestalizing women fetish or something. Lots of women don't have many dimorphic traits, lack boobs and butt, hips don't have feminine faces, etc. The average five foot ten man who is not fat but not muscular and has an average face literally registers as totally neutral on the sexual dimorphic scale. There is nothing “masculine” about that at all. 5'10" is a sexually dimorphic height, mostly found in men and six inches taller than the average women in the US and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:47 AM
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You think having sources for what one is saying is a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:35 AM
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What do you think changed about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:35 AM
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Yeah, pill spaces attract a lot of guys who will have their peak well into their 20s, or over 30. It doesn't select for guys who peaked in high school or college, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:32 AM
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I don't think there are many guys who think that 30+ men best attract young women on average. I often see guys who think that a men in his 30s is in the best position in his dating life, though. Also those "some" women that are into the older guy might be more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:16 PM
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Ok this peak femcel. Mods, please....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:46 PM
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Middle grounds: don't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:25 PM
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whatever man she deems to not be interested in sex or not be misogynist or not sexually objectify women or etc etc. This is really strange to me, and sounds like what a sex-negative, prude women who don't really like doing the deed. It reminds me of teenage girls in middle school being shocked and in horror by the fact the boys are sexually attracted to women and their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:25 AM
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society that completely caters to male heterosexuality What? Where's this society???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:42 AM
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Most women don’t have the external motivation if they’re already decently attractive. And while the external motivation isn’t necessary, it is the jumping off point for a LOT of people before they gain internal motivation. Had to scroll down a bit too much before finding this LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:12 AM
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Yeah, but not because the person wore a given set of shoes or sang a music in a silly way like people who "get the ick" do.
/r/BlackPillScience10/06/25 03:41 PM
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Those dudes can if they put effort? They haven't been doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:15 AM
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Most of them are not sociopaths, and even if they were, I don't know how that would affect their sexual behavior. But I'm pretty sure your tirade sounded super clever in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:07 AM
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Yeah, same thing. That "priority change" includes sexual attraction taking a backseat 🤷🏽‍♂️ Not ideal for a guy who wants to be desired by his partner and who doesn't want to be in a DB
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:22 AM
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Yeah, I think people who don't believe that Beta Bucks happen often take it to the extreme as in a situation where the woman is repulsed by the guy. Instead, it is more like a woman who wants to settle down and feels like time is running out, and then choose a convenient, reliable guy she's meh about in terms of sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:06 AM
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Most guys here are young, more like 25 themselves, and they don't really have a supermodel as an standard, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:39 PM
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Yeah, but it has different width cameras, which is given away by his neck getting thicker. Some of those surgeons/aestheticians use this dirty trick to make it look like the result was bigger than they actually were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:38 PM
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Is she going to be open to talk to these average guys IRL if she has better options in her pocket? Isn't the standard for her to actually give these guys attention going to be somewhat related to the guys she can get on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:34 PM
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Dude, you turned 26 half a year ago, and you're still undoubtedly young at that age. Most likely, it was your hair and beard change that made you look not as good now, not getting months older.
/r/seduction06/06/25 12:48 AM
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It's kinda funny to see this considering your last post where you say you only see a really attractive man once in a blue moon. If you analyze women's looks with a lot of leeway and men's looks in a way that makes an eugenist jealous, yeah, you'll see all these "attractive women with unattractive men". Out there in the real world, the majority of couples I see are looksmatched and similarly attractive, at least in young (under 35) cohorts. It's not rare to see a couple where the guy is attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:06 AM
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Don't be ironic here bro, he said below 5'8", 6' is 4 inches above that, this is gonna make you look dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:53 AM
1

What the fuck?! He's explaining to you there's not that much difference between average and ugly in terms of results and you're retorting this??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:50 AM
1

The majority of woman are "attractive" to men based on their looks. They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:51 AM
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The immense majority of men don't "attract women" with their appearance. Don't? At least for young guys, their looks are usually their main attractor, and they often get girls based, in big part, because the girl is attracted to the way he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:47 AM
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blackpillers don't go outside because all their arguments are based on the idea the the world is entirely made up of chads and hideously ugly manlets. Oh, their arguments are not like that. They recognize that most guys are around average, I can tell you haven't watched their content lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:30 AM
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The first one is definitely benefiting from angle. Take a side pic of her and pictures from further away and is most likely not gonna look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:03 AM
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And even then, it's like being shown a nice photo or something. I appreciate the person aesthetically, but I'm not attracted to them. So, when do you start feeling attracted to someone? The only time I really notice someone's attractiveness is after being introduced to them. You don't notice someone's attractiveness just from observing and looking around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:41 AM
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Funny how you questioned the "extreme" part, but didn't question the social violence part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:57 PM
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I'm pretty sure you feel the same towards makeup, waist trainers, hair and eyelashes extensions, so you're not a hypocrite, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:48 AM
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So you agree with him! 🚀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:45 AM
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I feel good for checking most items of this Gorlock's list.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:28 AM
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It's quite weird how a bit of attention and having the spotlight at you can get some attention from women. It would be much better to just exist passively as a decent looking person and get interest, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:11 AM
1

They actually are, if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:52 AM
0

Lmao that criticism is definitely also directed at Gen Z. Hookup culture existed and was stronger than it is now with Gen Z youngsters, as you can see in statistics about sex. The "built different" at the end makes it look like some boomer Facebook post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:40 AM
1

What if one can't become an attractive man? How would one do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:19 PM
3

Yeah, but you still thought it was going to be a big percentage of women to the point of affecting a guy's dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:17 PM
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Yeah, most people had bad experiences in dating, including straight men, gay men, lesbian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:16 PM
3

It's pretty well known that younger women have a different approach to dating than older women. In which ways?
/r/BlackPillScience26/05/25 09:42 PM
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I don't really wanna need or care very much about a woman (in my dating life) who doesn't think I'm hot and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:21 PM
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I think it was obvious he meant that their logic is subdued temporarily and they're in an emotionally charged state when they say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:04 PM
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Are there any considerable amount of women actually simping for this Caseoh guy? This Nick Eh30 doesn't really look bad. Don't forget that there's some status play going on for these guys who seem to be relatively well known YouTubers. If they were just random guys walking around, things are probably going to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:33 AM
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Do you think timid, quiet guys are not into sex unless they actively show it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:02 PM
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most men expecting to date a young woman are young themselves. I love how the "young women are a small percentage so you have high standards if you go for them yadda yadda" crowd conveniently ignore this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:30 AM
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Yeah, the whole "75% of people are overweight so just be fit" is not that true on younger and more fitness concious circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:52 AM
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Yeah, OP tried to give advice to terpers and correct their ways but forgot one of the main things about the whole movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:10 AM
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I don't think an early 30s decent looking guy is old and aged to an early 20s girl. Mid 30s in the eyes of teenagers, yeah, most definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:49 AM
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It's... a joke. An exaggeration for making a joke, not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:12 PM
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He doesn't look a lot younger than 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:10 PM
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Are you dating a guy because of his potential? Aren't you attarcted to him and you like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:14 AM
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That's not really an objective rating that most people would agree with. They're looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:04 AM
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And who's worried about marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:10 AM
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He probably believes his looksmatch is a young and slim and beautiful “average” woman. I feel this is a big strawman of "young, decent looking guy who's in shape complains of having a hard time getting girls with the same features".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:56 AM
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Yeah, she's not much higher than that lol But did this guy said the man is a 6 too? Because that would be necessary to make it a looksmatch, so I don't know your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:52 AM
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What about when a guy wants to get better at talking, flirting, moving things forward? Is that a huge problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:02 PM
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She looks like the drug addicted uncle of a friend of mine. Calling men mediocre while looking like that... the self-steem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:38 PM
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You’d expect men to wanna date within their own fitness level, but I guess not. Don't want or can't? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:01 PM
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Is this serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:01 PM
3

Lol standards going wild (joking)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:44 PM
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Yeah, youthfulness is not nearly as much of a premium in men as it is in women. For a lot of guys, their 30s are better dating grounds than their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah, but getting in a relationship with someone you're not strongly attracted just because of stability and providing is a road that doesn't lead to a nice place... Ideally you have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah, I think I see more chubby/fat young women in the uni and bars/parties than guys. Seems like guys feel pressured to keep in shape to have a better chance at dating, or a chance at all, while girls don't feel as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:33 PM
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If they ignored as in, he tried talking to them and they literally ignored him, then yeah, he's right to laugh at their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:49 PM
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He's the guy who came up with the gas station worker who's fat and ugly dating a tall doctor. All his (assuming this is actually man) threads are basically glorifying women and shunning men. There would be many guys who wouldn't "creampie" a woman to get her pregnant, for the obvious fact she could get child support out of him for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:45 PM
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I mean they have talked about kids for a long time and dream scenarios of how they would look. Oh yeah, they definitely did, man! 👨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:37 PM
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OP doesn't put asshole girls who openly talk shit in their place, and give too much importance to what they spew. Two instances of it in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:33 PM
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“He looks like he’s wearing his body” is my favourite quote ive heard from a girl in reference to a mid height uglish guy who was jacked. And why do you give so much credit to some random girl who's probably not in shaoe with a hot body for the shit she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:15 PM
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Lol not at all, even unattractive women have options, nevermind Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:04 PM
3

preemptively control the sexual tone of the relationship, as beta bait and to set the sexual tone. Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:46 PM
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If there's a smile, even a slight one, or repeated eye contact yeah, I agree. But if the woman looks down seriously it looks like she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:56 PM
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Imagine being a relationship where your woman doesn't show her love and lust for you regularly and you're kept in a chasing position.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:45 PM
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Looking down without a smile sounds like she's protecting herself, avoiding contact, not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:41 PM
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Most tall doctors in their 30s are not, I mean, are NOT going to date some fat, unattractive, gas station worker. They're probably dating some attractive woman who's similarly educated or a looksmatched doctor. I don't completely desbelieve your story, but that's more an exception than the rule, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:46 AM
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Young or young-ish men? I think most can get that with a couple years of looksmaxxing, like you said. “wow what a hottie” Getting this kind of reaction by a lot of women every day doesn't seem achievable by most guys, who would be filtered out by genetics, and basic features.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:25 AM
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Yeah, the nationality and culture observation is often important to be made in a place where most people are from US and we're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:14 AM
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So unfair that men just get…swiped right on for having a decent job. Oh yeah, they definitely do, dating apps are known for putting a premium on a man's job, and it being decent is definitely enough lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:02 PM
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A young guy who's in good shape is not comparing a girl to the entirety of female population, just the ones in his age bracket that he sees around. Of course that woman is well above 6.5, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:47 AM
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Why are the blue pillers in this sub the most successful in dating/sex/relationships if black/redpill works?? They aren't? Blue pillers are the least angry, struggle the least, and relate most to normal people. But no one wants to learn from them, why? Some of them are pretty angry, coming from you, the Sharp something girl with a stick up her asshole and that wannabe sarcastic bully guy. They often relate struggling, both guys and girls. Their advice is often too superficial and wishy-washy? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:45 AM
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Use that time for some healthy cooking and exercising a bit, it's gonna help you and your dating prospects 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:42 AM
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That's not what he wrote ma'am. He said he only goes after Stacies and has some succes on that. But most average guys are okay with average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:37 AM
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There's not "our own". Are you responsible and accountable for this guy's behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:31 AM
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Yeah, when you give average men a chance, being an average woman yourself, he gets too tired to record videos late at night 🥱🥱 It’s better to got for a man who’s leagues hotter because then you know he picked you. Eh, I'm afraid you can't do that being mid yourself 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:28 AM
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She's not exactly a Stacy, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:22 AM
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Yeah, they aren't. But they have an influence on a guy's dating life and thus are being discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:07 PM
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I've had men telling me that I'm just in denial. In denial of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:12 AM
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Probably, yeah. The guy is a 3/10, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:07 PM
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they're looking for casual/short term/long term relationship. They literally list all three lmao. I don't see what's wrong about that, a guy might be open to all these kinds of arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:49 PM
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Oh, other people expect shit from me they aren't entitled to?! Oh my God, what a shame!
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:19 AM
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Nobody cares what you would date or not, the world doesn't revolve around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:18 PM
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That's not vice versa. The post is about behavior and personality, not about beauty. The inmates in question are definitely not 10/10 looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:42 PM
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Does that apply to every group out there? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 08:55 PM
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Women are required to respect men around them, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:06 PM
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Yeah, but that's not what she means. She's comparing dating (including online dating) vs just consuming manosphere content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:56 PM
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I don't know that you as a man can dictate the difference. If someone thinks something is seductive towards a man then it is that and that makes the man to whom it is directed a morally wrong person if he responds positively in that third person's opinion. Or maybe that third person is not a sex negative or jealous asshole and just mind their business or feel good for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:25 PM
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How's your experience dealing with women in the dating realm as a woman with Aspergers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:12 PM
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That's not the difference. The categories are "guys who would only fuck you but not date you" and "guys who would fuck you and date you". Are the guys you want to date, guys you also hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:00 PM
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Yeah, I think the main thing making him look better in the before is not his physique, but the better styled hair, more casual lighting, and the stubble. Both bodies look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:26 AM
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The analogy is more like: they never tell you that you have to show up earlier than your shift and they will also do regular surprise drug tests, including alcohol. Is not something basic as showing up on time and not being drunk, it's something well above the average and expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:37 PM
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Both are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:11 PM
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Yeah, people also don't have to like or tolerate your frigidness too, they can just tell you to fuck off or even take more action if you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:06 PM
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No, the end result is not the same. China had a one kid policy for a lot of time, and couples often favored having a boy, creating a big disparity in sex ratio for the subsequent generation. That doesn't really happen in most of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:50 AM
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Lol not really. He's the one who could settle down with these women, he just doesn't want most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:48 AM
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Yeah, if you include women from all age brackets and socioeconomic backgrounds I can see that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:45 AM
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I think at that point the guy has a fetish/preference for obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:38 PM
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The narrative these types say is that women start out with value and gotta work to not lose it. I don't completely disagree with it, but they ignore that men's looks peak is usually somewhere around their 20s, and that is a big component of a guy's value. If a girl doesn't lust after you when you both don't have much going on financially, then she's not into you and you probably shouldn't give her much of a thought when you're stablished years after if she seems interested. Also, a guy who worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:35 AM
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And yet y'all aren't 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:18 AM
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Some BDSM and DDLG have a lot of its popularity coming from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 11:05 PM
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I know that despite looking fucking scary Lmao this is a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:45 AM
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We're pretty lucky to have such an intelligent know it all as you with all your humbleness now in this sub!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:44 AM
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Try looking at the flairs before vomiting your attempts at sarcasm boy. You were responding to a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:00 AM
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Looks don’t fade in your 30s. Oh, for a lot of people they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:17 PM
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If he's getting 2-4 matches a day he's not mid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:05 PM
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I agree with this, although some women have a problem when a guy thinks like this. Those are probably the ones who want to suck the soul out of guys (and not in the good way) through receiving their validation and, maybe, resources, while carrot dangle the possibility of them getting together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:30 PM
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Children don't demand sex, if one does you should seriously investigate the conditions this child is in. And I don't think there's a man who demand sex every second, if a woman feels like that maybe she just married a guy she's not into, or just have a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:37 PM
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Men don’t have to work that hard if the woman is naturally attracted to him, Original topic aside, this is the genuine, raw attraction that guys often talk about on the sub, and some women don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:28 PM
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and i would rather go out with a fat guy than a guy with a strong 6 pack. That's a minority for sure. most girls dont like body builders or insanely muscular guys Yeah, but when guys talk about getting in shape through the gym they're talking about getting a body like a swimmer, moderately muscular, which comes with years of effort, not a pro bodybuilder body, which most couldn't get even if they wanted. It's kinda obvious most women are not attracted to the huge bodybuilder look, but most women…
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:49 AM
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So you do attract the lip filler, breast implants type of girl at that look?
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:41 AM
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Wdym?
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:26 AM
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Yep, they can, y'know, not do porn 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:38 PM
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I don't really see how this relates to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:20 PM
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Aw, are women passive beings that are socialized into that, something is done to them? Or maybe they also have a part in keeping the WAW effect and keeping society thinking that they're more virtuous and illuminated than the disgusting, evil men, while their actions reveal what they actually want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:22 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:46 AM
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Most women I know are usually dating guys leagues under them because they love them and their personalities and find them to be attractive. I don't think that's possible. Considering what I've seem.about women rating other women and men, these couples are most definitely looksmatched, for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:18 AM
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Plenty of men also work on themselves and the group you're criticizing endorses self improvement. There are also women who only complain and don't do nothing that make them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:14 AM
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That's a pretty bad faith or just dumb as fuck interpretation of what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:51 PM
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Just ask gay men how beautiful and built and toned and tanned and young they have to stay for THEIR world, Just be decent looking and they have a plethora of other guys into them. The hotter they go above average, there are more guys who are into, and the easier it gets for them, but they don't need to look anything special to receive a LOT of attention. That's not true for straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:20 AM
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Maybe they're just not thinking about buying a prostitute when they see someone's dating profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:23 AM
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You don't know shit about other people value, so don't talk about it, okay? You seem too pressed on making fit, hot, educated men feel bad and accept shit deals with shit, fat, loser women. Seems like there's a personal component there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:39 AM
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Slim thick is at the top So the "looksmatch" of a skinny woman is a muscular tall guy That's asking for too much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:13 AM
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Yeah lol This post feel forced and wishy, taking one anecdote as if it was remotely common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:21 AM
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Lazy and unattractive women expect handsome and successful men and get them. Which world y'all live in? In the one I live handsome and successful men either fuck around with decent looking to hot women, or have a beautiful girlfriend in a similar socioeconomic class. Maybe they do both, cheating on their poor GF. Lazy and unattractive women definitely don't get handsome and successful men at any considerable rate for a relationship and probably not even for casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:53 AM
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Your single anecdote of a chubby coworker doesn't really work as a rule. Most single women who are overweight, not attractive and uneducated with a kid would love to be able have good looking, high income, caring guy in a relationship, but they can't. Don't get that as an example. As a young guy, at least decent looking, in great shape, and on my way to higher education and a good salary I'm not gonna settle for shit, ma'am, thanks but no, thanks, it didn't land.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:45 AM
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So, that's why a lot of girls have that committee to see if they gonna date a guy or not? Lol Doesn't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:07 PM
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You must be really, really, really hot yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:46 AM
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I don't really think anyone is defending a 24/13 age gap here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:04 AM
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Nor women. I don't know why you gendered this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:07 AM
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most of those attractive men lie and lead on women to secure the sex he wants Not really lol They don't really need it. Plenty of women are eager to fuck them casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:20 PM
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They rarely get NSA sex. They get casual sex What's the difference? The fact they can't just go "wanna fuck?" like some gay dude on Grindr and have to talk to the girl some, get to know a bit more about her and vice versa, before having sex with her, doesn't mean it's not NSA, which is basically the same thing as casual 💁‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:19 PM
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they want "their looksmatch" which are cute skinny girls they see on tiktok. If the the guy is young, cute and in shape, yeah, that's their looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:51 PM
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When two people who barely know each other decide to fuck in a drunken state after a party or something, it's pretty clear for both that it's casual sex, I don't know what's not mutual about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:39 PM
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not thinking about what women or whoever thinks about you shows poor social awareness Yeah, let other people completely determine your self-worth and behave accordingly to what they want and what they think of you! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:02 AM
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i remember two guys who approached her and both were older and kinda ugly i would never in my life consider either yet she gave them a chance and gave them her number, women might not see men as sexual visually as men do but they still do see men as prospects for more than just sex. That's not exactly a good thing lol "Gave them a chance" as if she's above her and not seeing them sexually are not compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:58 PM
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He actually posted links in response
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:30 PM
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also believed what chad said and that’s why she got pumped and dumped. Chad DOES NOT need to lie to have casual sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:27 PM
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it’s men who’ve came up with 80/20, hypergamy, low value/high value, it’s not women who complain about height. Yeah, but men came up with it to describe women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:11 PM
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I know TONS of attractive happily married men If you know TONS of attractive men, then the standard for a men to be considered attractive isn't that high, which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:10 PM
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Most are arguing for women not to care about looks. I don't see many guys here doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:21 PM
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Lmao we're also talking about what social status means. It's not just profession and money, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:10 AM
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The Walmart thing is a pretty good one. Taking currently unattractive middle age/older people who formed their partnership decades ago, in a different dating market, when they looked better as an example of inspiration for some young, lonely guy today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:44 PM
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Yeah man, I know her too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:34 AM
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No, men aren't aware of something that's a blatant lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:32 AM
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Look here OP and similars 👆🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:16 AM
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Yeah, I think most young-ish guys are decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:14 AM
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She is obese, though. Wouldn't say disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:13 AM
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Yep lol Couldn't be me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:12 AM
4

Unrelated to the post, but how it is to be a black pill woman? What do you believe in about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:18 AM
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You mean, before mid 20s they're more standoffish?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:41 AM
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You just came in here to tell a bunch strangers that you’re just looking for the human equivalent of a blowup doll, How tf did you get that from what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:20 PM
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This is all very upsetting, because he's still a massive fucking dork. I don't think men should be allowed to deceive unsuspecting women in this manner. Your outside needs to reflect the inside so that women can make an informed choice wrt your fuckability Sounds baity. How's he a dork? If the outside is hot, then the outside is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:10 AM
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You're fatphobia pilled and call her average?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:15 AM
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I'm pretty sure she's below avg, especially when her body comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:13 AM
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Gym became hyped up around the world. Almost nobody knows Joe Rogan in my country, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:11 AM
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And what's the difference? Isn't 80/20 a good way to put majority/minority? What about top percents? Say what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:08 AM
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Random point, but when people say "older men dating younger women" they're not talking about 28 years old guys with a 24 year old lol That's almost the same age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:47 AM
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Stop infantilizing women, that's sexist. She can consent to sex of that's what she wants and stop having it if she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:09 PM
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Not really. She can ask for a relationship id that's what she wants, and if he makes it clear he doesn't want, she can take her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:07 PM
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There's a Brazilian funk singer that is pretty big on media who's dating a girl that was seen on several pics with Bilzerian and other women. And I mean, married with a kid. He recently was caught beating her. Crazy stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:09 PM
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You're non responding to what he said. What's the problem if a young, hotter, tighter girl wants to go out with a guy who's considerably older than her? Does it make old women feel bad? Their skin get harsher? They get fatter? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:30 PM
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OK? So why women in their 30s won't go date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:15 PM
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Why do you conveniently skip out the 20s? Do mid-20s adult women date guys 3 years younger than them? Is it bad bad evil if a mid-30s guy date a girl who's in her mid 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:10 PM
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It's not like he's trying to convince anybody either, that can't even be done, BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:39 PM
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You defend women too much for a supposedly gay guy. You think women don't have a facade but men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:42 AM
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Women are more likely to give a guy a chance who meets their personality criteria but not looks. Men rarely do that. Thus, lots of studies show in pie charts of traits needed for a LTR, much more of men's pies (a very decent chunk) are for looks compared to women "Studies" actually show that men say looks are very important for them, and it really end up being. Women say they're not that important, but their actions contradict it and looks are the most important too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:39 AM
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Oh, some warriors out there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:36 AM
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Oooh, how witty! Why is it often portrayed as if women's interests were about a guy's sense of humor and how she treats her and other cute traits, and it's said that looks aren't important or even considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:34 AM
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I think because it's applied to blackpill/red pill think spaces. As in it's exclusionary to ALL men except these ones that are the typical shallow standards (rich, high standing, and attractive by manosphere metrics). It's not really actually that person's preference. Why does it hurt so much when RP or BP are right? Lol Yeah, these are the guys that most consistently are attractive to women in a general sense, so it's absolutely natural that they're generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:09 AM
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Yeah, you can't get Chad for a LTR if you're far from Stacy yourself, are you surprised by this, or do you feel like it is unfair? When we mean effort, we are still talking about in your league. And yeah, we don't like to make unilateral effort, effort should be mutual, not one-sided from the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:45 PM
9

Yeah it might happen to 10/10 guys too. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:32 PM
3

Yeah, people here seem to be forgetting that the main difference is not on jadedness, but physical attractiveness. But at 27 you're still young and it is quite expected that you would still be dating girls in their mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:14 PM
16

Yeah, people often forget that men and women are, on average, not seeking exactly the same in their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:46 PM
5

Yeah, imagine being pressured into settling down after building yourself in the first three decades of your life and not enjoying much in these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:45 PM
3

Proximity 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:02 PM
6

The strategy is just holding out? No self-improvement? Losing weight, treating good guys better, taking better care of their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:30 PM
38

It's okay, you're just not attracted to them, they don't have to be bad.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/25 02:11 AM
3

Yeah, TRP has lost itself, or at least guys who consider themselves RP are often far from its original point. OP sounded to me more like some radfem manhater lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:06 PM
23

Expecting women to pay for themselves on the first date/any early meeting You thought we wouldn't notice you put this in the list lol Thank God plenty of women are OK with paying for their food and entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:41 PM
8

were easier to talk to and set up dates with and easier to figure out if there was interest. That's definitely a peculiar opinion about dating both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:05 PM
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I don't wanna generalize, but I feel like there's part of society that doesn't want men to feel confident in their looks and sexuality, to feel sexually attractive, to vet the women they come in contact with, to get in arrangements with women just based on your physical attractiveness and mutual interaction, to go 50/50 or, God forbid, the woman paying. They wanna make you feel bad and ugly and not comfortable with the fact you have a dick and libido, so you're a better paypig and is more prone …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:48 PM
6

You're forgetting that the fact they don't want to date those guys is massively linked to these guy's appearances. If they looked a certain way, such women would want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:14 PM
6

Paul Dano being average and this Hechinger guy being quite attractive lol The memes write themselves. The poster being drenched in filter is the cherry on top
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:58 AM
2

Yeah, she's chubby, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:42 AM
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The best part is when OP says she's 29 and happily single and Emily responds she's scared she will end up like her lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:02 PM
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Yikes. Reverse Madonna/Whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:53 PM
2

Is your flair a joke considering your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:15 PM
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Hm, so you think the average guy isn't worth it and only the ones better than average are deserving of attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:28 PM
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Yeah, that's the bitch's fault, not the guy. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:25 PM
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That doesn't guarantee being sexy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:27 PM
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You can find someone hot and show it without knowing them, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:23 PM
2

Have you been with a male "butterface"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 AM
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but don’t imagine that it has anything to do with you and “visceral attraction” Oh, it definitely does, even if she's ok with having sex with strangers she still will only do it with a minority of guus that shes viscerally attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:08 AM
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That's your conclusion after reading everything was said?
/r/BlackPillScience10/02/25 04:32 PM
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You don't need to kiss ass, just do your job. Sounds like the girl didn't get the attention she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:17 PM
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You don't need to kiss ass, just do your job. Sounds like the girl didn't get the attention she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:17 PM
3

Male fitness channels are flooded with male lifters and wannabe bodybuilders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:20 AM
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Only fucked up women think crimes and bigotry are sexy. Absolutely NOBODY said or implied this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:08 AM
0

Briffault clarifies that this rule applies only to nonhuman animals, and not to humans: “There is, in fact, no analogy between the animal family and the patriarchal human family. The former is entirely the product of the female’s instincts, and she, not the male, is the head Are we still in a point where we have patriarchal human family with a head male?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:18 PM
5

Yeah, these people don't want people THAT touch adverse either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:12 PM
9

Well, it's pretty obvious. Older men often delay and deny the need of medical appointments and their wives end up responsible for these guys health. That's less prevalent among younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:01 AM
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That's a complete strawman, if I ever seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:11 PM
3

And they started dating, engaged, married and some had kids in a one year timeframe, and that happened with several guys you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:08 PM
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Men hit on fattie chicks too they don't care. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:00 AM
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If she's 5'5", he's like 5'10-11". That's a solid 5 inches difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:42 AM
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To be fair, the video says "girls" which means girls in general, not just this Stacy. That's probably what the OP interpreted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:41 AM
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So they ignore the criminality of a guy, if he's (supposedly) powerful and charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:24 PM
20

This is probably true, kinda stark that being socially awkward is worse in this sense than being a really bad person. People who give "work on your personality" could make it clearer that they're talking about social prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:10 PM
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I never understood the need for some women to act virtuous and not just accept reality that height matters a TON. Gotta maintain the WAW effect going in their favor, the perception of sophistication and deepness in their attraction, not raw, excluding looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:05 PM
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Oh, great that fictional men in movies and sitcoms have it better than their equivalent women 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:57 PM
2

You're probably short and insecure about it. Being tall is not as important as being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:35 PM
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You really didn't think about you wrote, huh? They have face requirements, you just cant type it in a number but you can look at it in the pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:33 PM
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Don't complain about abortion laws, domestic violence, grape, etc., OK?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:01 PM
2

I don't think there's anyone saying all men will look better in their 30s, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:51 AM
1

He's not attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:43 AM
2

Yeah, you can extend your peak pretty long if you take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:42 AM
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You are black pilled bro, not red. For some guys, most maybe, being at their peak hotness means horseshit in terms of leveraging a good dating life. They have their best time when they develop other qualities, if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:41 AM
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Date 6-7s who are quite somewhat attractive, just at their level. No one is talking about unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:41 AM
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The post is a good idea per se, but then I saw that OP weaponised these questions that are a bit too specific in some points, and that she and others somehow think men are the ones exclusively doing this shit, ignoring obvious female negs at their partners and lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:06 AM
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Yeah, I don't know why this woman think that these behaviors are typically male. In the matter of listing bad features of their partners I see women doing it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:01 AM
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I think men are more likely than women to put up with other shit, but tend to be pretty cutthroat about a woman cheating. Within reason, since she's probably not attracted to him or much more attracted to the lover, nevermind the disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:48 PM
1

Are you in the "women hate sex" mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:34 PM
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If you look at the stats that we're presented to you, there are actually foodie diggers out there and they're not rare. Also, a man might go out with a woman, they have sex without any relationship matters aligned, and he can be not interested in her after that, just like she can too. I don't see how you could villanize a guy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:29 PM
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???? The guy who's okay with not being treated as hot, is the one who's the last on the list, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:22 PM
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That doesn't justify victim-blaming the guy when a female asshole acts up, broski.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:12 AM
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It's sorta obvious if you look at you know, the world, and several parts of media and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:07 AM
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Yeah, but these guys are mostly in her league or below. Guys don't throw their dick at any and everything, especially if they're desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:26 AM
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I swear we have many trolla here Where's the hate in his comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:27 PM
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Which restrictions?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:02 AM
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If you go for that logic you won't get a 1 to 1 pairing in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:39 AM
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Even if the guy himself is in good shape? Is it unrealistic to expect someone in similar shape? Also, in the younger age cohorts the percentage of being in a normal BMI are much higher. Being 19-21 BMI doesn't guarantee she's anything close to being a top girl, ahe might just be a plain skinny curveless woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:33 AM
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Male fertility is not that linked to attraction and plenty of roided guys are very attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:28 AM
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Which tiny bubble is this? High IQ people just socialize normally?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:01 PM
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I didn’t get vaccinated cus I'm built different Lmao tell me this is sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:55 PM
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Guess I have lived porn in my life many times. But yeah, women will get physical with a guy if they're attracted to him and not have any barrier to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:18 AM
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Dude, what's the problem with y'all? She wanted to suck her husband, who was the second shortest guy in the group, when he was very competent at the game they were playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:24 AM
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I think you didn't really read and comprehend the post, mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:23 AM
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Oh, plenty of women definitely are screening for the guys resources and often have it as their primary trait in a guy. Do you live in Europe to say something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:08 AM
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Not really lol Most of the time they're matched
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:48 AM
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He doesn't look bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:56 AM
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Extreme status might surpass looks, but the vast majority of people won't come close to it. Status is still pretty important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:13 AM
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That's not status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:58 PM
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You're probably not that young...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:33 PM
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Lmao yeah, very equitable to pay professionals to fuck you. There are pleny of women outside sex work into hookups and FWB arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:33 AM
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What the supposed conflation has to do with hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:00 AM
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Have you seen the divorce rate? Marrying someone doesn't really mean it will last 40 years or anything close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:13 AM
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I love analogies 🫶🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:02 AM
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it feels like Millenials are still the overwhelming majority when it comes to socializing and this I can only imagine is very frustrating for Gen Z as you dont wanna just have to go all in on someone for dating all the time. What do you mean? Millenial people are more about serious relationships given their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:58 AM
1

Which aspects of Argentinian culture would you say make men redpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:51 PM
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It's better to have sex and relationships with a mix of controllable and not controllable traits. Are you a remotely hot woman by any chance? Cause, I mean I'm most likely better looking than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:21 PM
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I definitely agree that most guys physical prime is in their 20s and I'm not trying to convince women to date older. That said, for lots of guys their physical prime doesn't guarantee shit for them in their dating lives, and they get more bargaining power some time after with more money, status, confidence, social skills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:17 PM
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Why is an old guy like you hanging out in Gen Z boards? Projection, anyone? Aren't you a woman in your 50s or 60s or something? Also, this is not a Gen Z board, people of all ages can come here, like you ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:41 AM
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Yeah, tell that to the people who benefit from Women Are Wonderful effect and make effort to keep it going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:20 PM
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Did you fuck that many guys to get that percentage? I'm sorry your partners are bad, but I'm definitely in the good side. This is not an invitation by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:58 AM
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Do you mean any of the guys look like this? Do you think the 10 options the guy has are any more attractive than that of a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:43 AM
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I would say yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:27 AM
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Oh yeah, the aging of mid 20s men lol Guys at their peak physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 03:47 PM
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Any data to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:48 PM
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Another example of the intersection of incel culture and closeted men lmao antisocial men are far more obsessed with how men look than women are. there is no bar for looks that women are talking about, that’s a narrative of your own invention. Oh, amazing comment. Homophobia and "you're gay haha" joke mixed up with straight up denying that a woman has her looks standards for partners. Yeah there's no bar for looks, you fuck any guy whether he's old, ugly, fat, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:10 PM
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Curly hair can look pretty damn good, provided it is cut and styled in a nice shape. If it's too short or kind of a blob around the head and neck it doesn't look very good IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:08 PM
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I agree many guys should focus on making more friends and also deepening their bonds with said friends. But I don't think it completely, or not even nearly, substitutes the benefits of dating and sex. It also irks me how some people in these kinds of conversations want a guy to be happy and actualized without a satisfactory dating and sex life, just via confidence and phrases like "you should be happy by yourself", offering platitudes to people who are not in a good position when the thing that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:54 PM
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Yeah, but people being nicer to you came first. It was caused by the improvement in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:11 AM
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Especially if he’s still doing that past the age of like, 30? Non-promiscuous people know that sleeping around for a long time is a sign that you’re doing it as an unhealthy coping mechanism for something else. What made you think that the guy sleeping around after 30 started it a long time before that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:06 AM
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It's more about how a lot of women say their standards are like: ✨ a man who makes me laugh and treats me well ✨, virtue signaling as if they didn't have appearance standards and on top of that, implying that if she doesn't like a guy is because he's sort of a bad person who doesn't treat her well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:46 AM
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Women may want men to date within their social circle so that their reputation gets tarnished. I've thought about this before. It feels like women want to know guys more from their social circle and not guys they and their friends don't know. It feels like they want to have the power to punish guys in their reputation if said guys act in a way they don't like, justified or not. I always like to keep my dating and sex somewhat distant from my immediate social circle, to avoid awkwardness and keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:06 AM
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Yeah, it blows my mind how some people in this sub will say that the average guy is gonna find himself in a marriage someday, so everything's okay, ignoring that the topic of the matter is having a fulfilling dating and sex life throughout life, especially youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:49 AM
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It's not an odd thing to call desire as to want to have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:22 AM
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Also, if we were to judge men's sexuality based on how women experience it, we would get that men are only attracted to 0.5% of women. How would that look like? Never thought about it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:59 AM
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"I see many beautiful women with ugly guys!!" 💅🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:45 AM
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Yeah, they want to be found desirable, not necessarily to get into the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:30 PM
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It added a lot to the conversation actually, considering that very unattractive women have the nerve of saying that there were no attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:26 AM
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Even at 50 they only want women ages 18-25. That's not remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:02 PM
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OMG, can't believe shit like this is spewed around in 2024. Do y'all go outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:52 PM
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Well, how long do you think is okay to have kids with someone from just meeting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:54 PM
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Yeah, it's been my experience that average girls in high school tend to be ignored and even made fun of, and that they get more dating power in their late teens and early twenties. I think what might explain that is that they often grow into their looks by that age, and get thrown in the wider circle of college, dating apps, parties/clubs and have a higher chance of finding guys who are attracted to them, without the stigmas of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:56 AM
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There is a perception, that the avarage guy is a terrible boyfriend, because the avarage guy, is inattentive, doesn't listen and too self centered, who thinks giving basic human decency is a privilige and not a given thing. (among other things) I don't think the average guy is that bad at relationships, but, anyways, you're only proving his point: "women tolerate a lot of bullshit from guys they're attracted". That's not a low bar if very few guys are attractive to said girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:05 PM
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And how do they get into these relationships in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:39 PM
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Lol at Taylor's boyfriend being anything close to ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:05 AM
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Yeah, just pay for women and you will start having success (I'm assuming you don't have success, for whatever reason)! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:29 AM
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If she was truly independent she would be single, and if she was truly appreciated and adored by her man, she would be provided for) Lmao so women date guys just for some kind of long term prostitution con?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:46 AM
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the guy gets to choose exactly how much investment, time, energy, and money they put into the "relationship". Every person, man or woman, gay, straight gets to choose how much investment they put into the relationship. I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:33 PM
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What if the girl just wants to have sex with this guy and not give him (or receive) much emotional investment? There's no imbalance in this specific scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:31 PM
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What? You know there's a trillion dollars prize for the winner, right? And she's not supposed to get with him, she's like a friend building him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:40 PM
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All the ones he fucked, for starters? The ones he will fuck in the future, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:20 PM
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Most women won't marry Chad, since those are rare and few. Only a very attractive woman will be able to marry Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:20 PM
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I remember when I did a cutting phase last year. Going to sleep somewhat hungry many days and doing quite a bit of cardio for 8 weeks. I couldn't get myself to approach or receive well the approach of even a kinda chubby girl. I became much more strict on my preferences considering how I looked at the end of the process and how much abdication I put into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:22 AM
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Sounds like you activate preselection and triggers the interest in these women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:59 PM
2

Can you keep at the argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:39 PM
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Please, let's not act like this woman is not arrogant in the way she expresses how she wanna date. She wasn't going to become a meme if she was respectful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:56 PM
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In the first video she's throwing shit at other people and telling other women what to do. It's not like she's just innocently doing her thing without criticizing other people's ways to live, so she's just getting back what she does. But yeah, I think some manosphere guys can be really bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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The number of women in hobbies and activities you participate in can be very limited. When you filter down for the ones who are single, who you're interested in, who are interested in you back, that number can be down to zero. Another thing is that trying to date in social circles you regularly participate in can make things awkward pretty fast and can poison the well for being around. So yeah, while dating through hobbies and social circles can get you around girls who like the same thing as yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:23 AM
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Also, I envy how men can look anywhere from super ugly to super handsome and they will always be treated with respect as long as it’s earned. That doesn't happen. People can disrespect you as a man, you might be surprised how often a guy can be disrespected in public. I wouldn't want to be in the shoes of a super ugly guy, as I bet he's treated with disgust by women just by existing and doing his thing. A super handsome man is surely harassed in his day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:27 PM
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Okay, this is peak "women think any woman is beautiful and think men are ugly even when they're not". Just googled this Mann woman and she's like, slightly above average looking. You put Steve Jobs in the "ugly as fuck" category, while he looked pretty good for his age and have nice features.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:13 PM
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I don’t know if you look at social media at all, but there is a whole activist movement from women who deliberately expose their armpit hair for no other reason than to discourage unwanted male attention. Have you heard about algorithms? The vast majority of people are not getting hairy women on their social media apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:56 PM
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Being left alone. Being able to blend in and go out in public without being bothered. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:52 PM
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Yep, most couples are looksmatched. The whole "I see beautiful women with ugly guys all the time" seems quite schizophrenic IMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:38 PM
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Lol looks like you lost and want to run away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:58 AM
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Yeah, I wish it was that fuckin easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:42 AM
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Ok, so Harvey Weinstein and Trump are within the top 50% of men in terms of looks... You gotta be kidding. Bringing up super rich and powerful men in a conversation about average people. He's obviously talking about average guys you see in the street, and that these guys you find unattractive are often in the top half of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:38 AM
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You probably just judge male beauty with very harsh standards and is much more lax with women. I frequently see good looking guys with mid girls in my young, college bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:35 AM
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being used for sex Lmao, I love this phrase. You have sex with the person you're attracted to and claim to somehow being used by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:28 AM
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No trolling, it's against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:23 AM
5

Just assume you're lesbian at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:20 AM
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Eh, he's talking about how he, an attractive guy, feels towards some UNATTRACTIVE women. That's not a compliment. As a very fit guy with a skincare routine, frequent haircuts and beard lineups, it's visceral attraction for how hot I am or just fuck off, bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:18 AM
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So she's fat and still can have a lot of suitors for FWB and casual fun and you're acting like that's a bad thing? Do you know what her male counterpart has to go through to find a shred of intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:12 AM
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If they have a functioning brain and get called at 2am occasionally to just have sex, I think they know damn well that this is not a serious, committed dynamic. But you don't need to worry for them, they do it because they have that thing called libido, horniness, y'know? And then they use they free will to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:09 AM
1

“Nowadays women act like how men dated” Except men didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:46 PM
2

Yeah, you can work on those. It doesn't mean that you will end up in a good situation for your dating life, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:05 PM
3

You only need one person that finds you attractive Oh no, you need many more than that to find a person where you're mutually attracted to and also have lifestyle and worldview compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:03 PM
2

Maybe you would really regret it if it became true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:58 AM
5

Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:05 AM
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"online dating is not reality" 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:10 PM
0

If there was no exclusivity established, then he might be fucking other women 🤷🏽‍♂️ Now, if he lied to them and alluded to a bf/gf relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:56 PM
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Plenty of women have trouble attracting guys they're attracted to. Telling women to lower her standards means "you're not as hot as the guys you want, get real or get hotter"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:34 AM
-1

Like really, you're asking why a group of people have bias towards a certain demographic? And why young, fit as fuck men like me bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:30 AM
4

Maybe because this sub, as most subs, is not a representation of general society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:28 AM
5

Money??? Did you actually read?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:13 AM
5

Because they're not (as) attractive? I don't see your point. What's attractive... attracts, I guess?! Why do girls look at my young, muscular, well-groomed ass coming back shirtless from the gym with a pump but not at obese guys or average middle age ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:41 AM
1

Accusing people falsely is creep behavior. It's very verifiable if it's a false accusation if the video doesn't show proof of what she's accusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:34 AM
4

Men aren't predatory in the situations talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:24 AM
7

He didn't put into practice his teenage crazy dreams He wants to fuck his wife/GF a lot Those are two big differences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:42 PM
2

I've had serious boyfriends I didn't fuck. ???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:41 PM
2

I've had serious boyfriends I didn't fuck. ???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:41 PM
1

Women tend to experience diminishing returns when adding more to the table. Self esteem takes a real hit when the quality of men doesn't increase proportionately with the exerted effort. Oh, the opposite is also true, speaking by experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:41 PM
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I don’t know why dudes keep professing incomprehension of this very basic logic. They do the same thing, after all The women here, from many different camps, are not agreeing with your "obvious" view on this 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:02 PM
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I remember more than once pointing out a bigger girl with a face I thought was very pretty and being checked by my friends. By the time I hit high school I was mostly looking for rail thin girls. Did you change your taste in women because of peer pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:21 PM
1

Humans also have a solid libido, they don't become dogs for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:21 PM
2

Yeah, it's not like it's the same thing. Sex is a part of dating, money transactions are not a part of it, for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:18 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:50 AM
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Women aren't scanning each man for a potential mate. They scan very very few men for a potential mate. I think it's more contextual than anything. Meanwhile, men seem to scan every female as potential mate. Yeah, and many are instantly dismissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:06 AM
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Oh, they don't. They're mostly different. I'm young, ripped, with a well cared "Spartan" beard, weekly fresh haircut and groomed eyebrows, and lately tanned too. If a woman thinks I look like any other man she can check her hormone levels or kill herself. I'm also most likely above her level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:05 AM
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I don't pay attention. Most women don't. We just go about our days. Why do you speak for women, in a collective sense? Everyone with functioning eyes can recognize WHAT'S conventionally attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:02 AM
1

wanting to have sex with a lot of women means you are exploiting people ??????
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:00 AM
2

Who would do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:50 AM
1

You really think a man wanting casual sex as the same as a woman wanting to use a guy for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:49 AM
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For women, men just look like men. They all look more or less the same. This doesn't make any sense, and they definitely don't act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:12 AM
4

Women are aware that men will fuck almost any willing woman No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:32 AM
0

actually fixing my problems and having a good dating life that makes me happy, which I could have done years ago if not for people like you giving me this kind of advice. What has changed your dating life for better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:30 AM
1

He clearly said "most 35 year old women". the beautiful/pretty ones still in great shape That's like, top 5% for that age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:33 AM
1

They don't. Mid looking middle aged women definitely don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:27 AM
1

any woman no matter how old she is, can be picky about the men that try to date her. His point is just that if all the men that try to date her are chubby and plain, she can't be picky in overall terms, since they're all mid. No personal attacks, it's against the rules and make you look old and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:25 AM
1

Maybe late 30s woman could take personal responsibility and take care of herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:18 AM
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They’ll flirt, they’ll dance, they’ll do whatever’s appropriate for the environment they’re in. They may even have sex on the first date. Those are already demonstrations of visceral attraction, and that's enough to satisfy the people in this sub preoccupied with it, at least is enough for me. But few people are going to be so incapable of helping themselves that they rip each other’s clothes off and fuck then and there. And that’s okay. Yeah, that's a strawman, I don't think anyone here is expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:14 AM
1

I'm not really getting your point. What's this thing that's expected in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:51 PM
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No, your logic is flawed. You don't speak for all women. Why do you think your specific actions determine how a guy should navigate his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:52 PM
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To get their lifestyle financially supported, to get some companionship and love, to keep up with friends and same aged peers who are in relationships and marriages, to get kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:19 AM
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Situationships and having sex with a guy she's going on dates? I think the majority of women have done and do that repeatedly when not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:38 PM
3

I think it's more about the big, scraggly, bleached beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:58 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:39 PM
1

What do you think changes with age? Shouldn't a younger girl, higher libido, around younger hotter guys find more men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:26 PM
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Porn stars are not an example copied by the young generation, girls are not being influenced by them at any meaningful rate. Also if these girls became promiscuous it would resolve the loneliness epidemic to an extent, not aggravate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:15 PM
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Yeah, I think a subset of women just hate male sexuality per se, except the few guys she's sexually attracted, and want to "scientify" that feeling, akin to scientific racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:51 AM
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The fear of BB is just men wanting a woman who is sexually attracted to them, who he's also sexually attracted to. Nothing more, nothing less. Obviously a guy would feel insecure if his partner was not into him. I hope you're not using "insecure and validation" as some kind of weapon to diminish men. Would you like to be in a relationship with a woman who's meh about you sexually, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:41 PM
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Most people (woman included) are reasonable, they don’t dump a potential good partner over literally nothing, there was a reason for it, and usually a good one. That includes men too when they dump a woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:27 PM
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I love your confidence to call people delusional while you're the one obviously being it. The guys considered over muscled were probably obviously on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:00 PM
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All I can say is I've seen male friends reach a point that most women considered "too much" in 6 months to a year of training (no steroids) and saw their interest from women evaporate. This didn't happen. A guy training naturally won't become muscular enough to get to that point in 6 months, nor 6 years. Either these guys were hard on steroids, or they never had interest from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:58 PM
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I think I asked the other dude, not you, sorry. Only he will be able to know if it was the only factor that changed in that time, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:12 AM
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How do you know it was your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:41 AM
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Unless you’re getting on T or Anavar there’s not a lot you’re going to be able to do to gain an aesthetic body type That's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:40 AM
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Like someone pointed out, there's only so much one can improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:22 AM
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If the guy is lonely in general, then yeah, making friends would help him a lot. But if he already has some friends and has a non existent dating life, then yeah, "just make friends" is not great advice and attacking the actual problem would be what might resolve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:07 PM
3

Oh really? What is gonna happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:28 PM
1

"They" who?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:21 PM
5

Yeah, you're being a bully, or a wannabe online bully. You're always responding in an insulting way when a man complains about something in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:20 PM
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Ok, that's an effort to interpret shit in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:57 PM
2

Yeah, if you had "seriously bad social skills" that's gonna hurt you. But if you were attractive and had decent, not great, just decent social skills, it would be enough to get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:17 PM
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No, he's not. He recognized the importance of social skills in his first comment. No ad homs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:01 PM
3

Yeah, this is PPD, guys here will talk about sex in one way or another since it's basically the central topic of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:26 AM
1

It's kinda funny to see you calling someone loser, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:11 AM
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Who defines it as unnecessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:11 PM
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So you don't like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:11 PM
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I'm really curious as to how one would see his post as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:06 PM
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Nice sarcasm bro, but that whole ideology is pretty small and not socially accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:30 PM
2

Dude, they're talking about Peter Crouch now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:01 PM
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Not all, but plenty of them actually don't desire their husbands, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:17 AM
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Do you think 80% of men are ugly too? Cause the guy in the video is somewhat above average, barring his hairstyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:36 PM
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No, they aren't. They're average, by definition. Do you think most women are ugly too?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:30 PM
1

Which suggestions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:14 PM
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Men have endless options in their 20’s Who are these guys with endless options? Models, actors, sons of billionaires? women have endless options of poor low quality men Low quality? Young, fit guys in their physical prime or an older guy who's more experienced and well-off if they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:30 PM
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men only pay attention to the dating habits of (single) Stacies Stacies? Stacy mean a highly attractive girl and OP described girls who were not so attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:20 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:59 AM
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What's your point? Where do you wanna go with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:22 PM
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you’re thinking like a man that basically anybody with a hole is roughly equivalent and all sex is good sex No, not really, men don't think like this. In most cases, if a woman is willing to be causal with you, it means your dick is “meh” at best, and she could take it or leave it. Uh no, there's a lot of competition for that, she wouldn't take it for meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:47 PM
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Yeah, you're a very shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:46 PM
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More like the opposite, only very bottom women can't monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:37 AM
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Q4W: do you don't register men you walk by in the street/sidewalk, even if it's not crowded?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:17 PM
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I love how you didn't point "love" at women, but money instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:33 AM
2

So the qualities you were pickier about were mainly about behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:11 AM
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Did it impede you from getting with guys you wanted? The vast majority of men find it attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:40 PM
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Don't forget that this sub is overrepresented by sexually/romantically unsuccessful guys. I mean, the last census showed that something like half the guys here are virgins or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:12 PM
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So what made you hate sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:54 PM
2

Lol if you're attracted to a woman's body you're not nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:53 AM
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Makeup aside, they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:10 PM
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female bodies do have a better shape Do they? It depends a lot on individual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:06 PM
5

If daddy issues was a thread:
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:08 AM
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You can be direct without being a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:57 AM
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That sounds like prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:23 PM
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most couples are looksmatched Yes. people automatically pass the looks test for their match Haha, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:43 PM
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He's looks pretty good, face tattoos aside
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:22 PM
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Yeah, some women are demisexual, but they're not all women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:49 AM
2

That seems very bitter. Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:37 PM
1

Women when focusing on relationships would go more for compatibility. And just forego physical attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:15 AM
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I don't think that's what the word "maturing" means
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:14 AM
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There's no using when two adults consent to having sex, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:22 AM
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If some handsome fit man is running shirtless, quite a few women are probably going to stare too I love how PPD women ignore this in these kinds of discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 07:21 PM
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The guys clamoring for young, in shape women are usually the same themselves. If you're a young guy your social circle (assuming you have one) is probably mostly consisting of girls with such traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:10 AM
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That would be the trash taking itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:03 AM
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What makes you think fit guys can't attract a non obese woman? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:49 PM
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So you think men have to be able to support a household on their own and hand his money to his wife to have a young, childless woman? You think those are related?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:54 PM
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And why did she responded well to his flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:20 PM
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You're a little too old to be the average. Wdym? A 28 years old guy is too old for average? Where, in a college campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:28 PM
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Maybe it's not the same guys doing that 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:19 PM
1

Can't you just keep at the topic? Doesn't have any argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:44 AM
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That's like, just the basics, and a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:53 AM
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Butt ass ugly men and extremely short men are minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:52 PM
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I would say that's the equivalent to a woman with scrunch shorts and a bra-like top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:59 PM
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Uh, his outlook on life, the way he views himself, and especially his flair don't seem very positive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:52 PM
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It's still being widely used in 2024 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:18 PM
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There's a profession where the woman gets paid for... dealing with men. It suits some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:50 AM
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More like 95/5 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:16 PM
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Dude, your supposed "best friend" doesn't need to know that you fucked another girl. Also, there's a saying in Brazil that goes "you either shit or you get out of the bush". If your friend doesn't want to enthusiastically and fastly get with you, well, her loss, other girls you. She can't be mad over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:05 PM
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Plenty don't. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:59 PM
1

You think any guy with a non unattractive girlfriend is exceptional?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:34 PM
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Being normal would solve their problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:32 AM
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Dude, how does your body look like? What's your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:30 AM
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My boyfriend's friends started to get married en masse last year also with their partners they've been together for years. The leftover market is getting very real now. What age are the people in this social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:24 AM
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Not really. Maybe she has gotten less attractive over time. Or she was playing in the casual sex league and now can't have the same guys for LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:31 PM
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Yeah, the majority of women I see in their 30s aren't these beautiful, in shape specimens extending their 20s, unfortunately LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:46 PM
1

(there is also the issue of thirsty men's aggression, but ir's slowly being dealt with, as men are being sedated...) How are men being sedated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:50 PM
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You're free to disagree and show your own arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:23 AM
1

I'm curious, how did you stop being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:23 AM
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They probably won't cry in the interaction with you, though WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:16 AM
1

Well, it's pretty straightforward, he said someone who's borderline obese (29.8 BMI) is worse than medium-ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:13 AM
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obese, ugly, crazy, or single moms If he's not any of these things then it's... bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:03 AM
2

What would you describe as "Machiavellian masculinity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
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This is just an aside, but I'd almost go as far as saying the gay male community has higher standards for how men look than hetero dating. Imagine the lust levels of men, but then projected on the body standards of other men. The amount of gay men who are in great shape, groom super well, and dress amazing is so damn high for a reason. It is much easier to attract a gay guy than a straight woman through mere looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:59 AM
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I think the guys reacting like that, want: a. to have a hoe phase before getting in a LTR b. they're afraid the women in their 30s are choosing them out of desperation and need of a provider and not actual desire, and that these women had a lot of casual sex in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:04 PM
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they're really the easiest and safest way to find someone interested in dating you. They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:19 PM
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Not really, some guys want to be single. Also, there's plenty of women a guy wouldn't commit in his dear life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:45 AM
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Talking to each other and looking at them, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:37 AM
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good-looking women get the lions share of mens’ attention Nah. Male attention is quite well distributed among women. Not equally, obviously, but the average woman gets quite a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:34 AM
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making what just about everyone else sees as reasonable efforts. What are reasonable efforts, in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 AM
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don't play male status and hierarchy games with females. What are male status and hierarchy games? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:15 AM
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And being flirty is often mistaken for being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:16 PM
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If you read his comment you'll see he's talking about social media and smartphones, not women working, which has been happening for more than a half century.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:12 AM
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I don't see how that would make guys here mad. Also, can't believe that guy who's a bit into the chubby side weighs only 155lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:31 AM
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In general women tend to experience responsive desire What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:14 AM
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Which is EXACTLY what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:29 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:30 AM
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Don't be disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:20 PM
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Why are trying to shame men for that? Why it has to be one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:08 PM
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If you actually read you will see he's talking about low n counta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:02 PM
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Anyways if you need that type of “passion” to get into a relationship or marriage you likely will simply end up alone. Women get a LOT of offers for sex to think that you would be better than all those options is ridiculous especially in this day and age. As a man you either accept the reality for what it is or you end up alone. What? You're saying most men can't have a passionate relationship that started with casual sex? I dunno where you from, but here it seems that most relationships are fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:58 PM
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You changed, the guy didn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:38 PM
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You mean to curb the anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:06 AM
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How are you so fucking sure about him wanting a Stacy? What makes you think average looking women don't do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:57 PM
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I can find an attractive woman who will pay for the food she eats too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:53 PM
1

I think black pillers are usually a. young guys, b. seeking young women, c. in venues like dating apps and parties. Those three factors put the weight of looks on steroids and colour their perceptions. Not that looks aren't important in other age ranges, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:56 AM
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The weirdest thing in this story is a 20 year old not being allowed in a bar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:54 PM
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Can't tell if trolling 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:14 AM
1

I would like to think there are more women out there exploiting white knights than there are men exploiting insecure women. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:33 AM
1

How tall are you, bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:18 AM
0

I realized that in the long run I'm lucky. Sounds like cp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:42 PM
0

Why do you want young, fit and muscular guys to go after old, unfit, overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:56 PM
1

What do you call chasing? And what makes you like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:50 PM
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Q4W: Do y'all expect men to carry the conversation when you're first talking and mutually interested in a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:08 PM
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This is gaslighting. Aside from demisexual women, they damn sure get are able to get attracted to a guy from first sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:02 AM
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The only difference in standard for FWBs was that they had to be hotter You wrote all this but still assumed the FWBs had to be hotter than the relationship guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:28 AM
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Might as well not have responded the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:53 AM
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But he's vetting exactly for that when going for the women who wants to have sex quickly with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:52 AM
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Hair growth medicine bring problems in a man behavior? Lol Which shady supplements?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:49 PM
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No. The vast majority of women aren't educated enough about steroids to talk about trenbolone. I'm not sure if you're trolling with such a phrase, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:47 PM
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So you think people tell guys who struggle with dating to go to the gym so these guys get better at small talk, that's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:38 PM
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The gym is not really a good place to meet people and form a social circle. When people tell men to go to the gym they're talking about the guy getting in better shape and becoming more physically attractive through it. Another point I disagree with is the cheeto dust, friendless, basement dweller strawman of the guy who struggles with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:27 PM
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Vulnerable? That's what you call adult women when they decide to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:44 PM
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If you can get women without it (which you easily can), 🤔 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:27 PM
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It's not the same. It's kinda obvious who's more conventionally attractive and who isn't. An average woman is often not into an equally average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:08 PM
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What?? Two years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:33 PM
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Not wanting a relationship with you is not being entitled. Women love fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:23 PM
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No. The guy is probably not going to dead bedroom down the line and have lackluster (or zero) sexual attraction towards his partner, even though she's not 22 yo. a woman who married "beta-bux" is actually a woman who married a man with the mental maturity necessary for a good relationship? If she's not strongly sexually attracted to this mentally mature guy that's what's referred to as BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:26 AM
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depending on where you live you can go weeks,month without seeing an attractive dude Sounds like a really weird place to live, or extremely high standards to call a guy attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:37 AM
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Oh, women are so wonderful and men are so bad /s can’t see them in a sexual way. You should remind some older women that. women feel a maternal instinct towards younger men They often just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:21 AM
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Yeah, it's most definitely false
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:15 AM
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Try imagining, because that's true. Just use Google to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:30 PM
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What makes you think she's kind of gross looking? Yeah, she's uncannily pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:06 AM
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Also please familiarise yourself with term 'the ick' Why would he do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:03 PM
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What did you change?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:20 AM
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5-6/10 Seems chubby and average, but also quite well-groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:04 AM
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but TRP has an explanation to why most men over 30 are married. Why most guys under 30 aren't having an abundance of sex and dating in their dating lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:52 PM
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What if you're a guy who meets those three requirements? You expect fit young childless guys to get with fat, old women with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:03 PM
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men they want How does she want these men in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:19 AM
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A cute girl that’s not fat and low body count is wayyy above most men league Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:12 PM
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So, since rates of obesity are similar between the genders, a man who isn't overweight is also above average, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:03 PM
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The average woman is not attracted to men based on the info you've shared Oh yeah, they definitely don't care about a guy being good looking and having a high income
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:17 PM
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What do you work with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:15 PM
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Do you think women are attracted to most young, in shape dudes like men are to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:10 PM
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Oh what an amazing interpretation of the situation: she liked sex more with her ex, which means she values her current partner for more than sex, how cute 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:05 PM
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Girl dropped the "I'm not in that phase anymore" at 22 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:59 PM
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Tall men are far from being the same, as tall guys can be unattractive and they're still men even if they're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:51 AM
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That's... stark, if true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:34 AM
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Don't you think there's a problem with the market at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:44 AM
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I think most guys complaining are young and thus don't have any problem about dating women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:33 AM
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If the women who wants him are well below him then there's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:26 AM
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Do you preach that to women too? To be celibate until they can comfortably afford to raise a child? Do you expect people to lose their virginity at 30 or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah, but that's already expected in a relationship, even before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:46 PM
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Just watched the video. Lol please don't play dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:42 PM
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Most Chads are not celebrities, just regular guys that look good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:06 PM
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Tom Cruise wasn't sexualized by his shortness, but by how handsome and charming he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:13 PM
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What that has to do with the topic at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:19 AM
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the rising amount of relationship where men are more attractive I've seen this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 02:28 PM
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Which concepts do you think work for normie guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:40 AM
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How old are you and her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:38 PM
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How would it help?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:50 PM
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Medium ugly = average looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:19 AM
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And? What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:32 AM
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I'm really curious about what you consider to be ill intentions or entering a relationship for the wrong reasons? Sounds like some just word fallacy, like the other user pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:31 AM
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Keep paying, good boy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:23 AM
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Lol why the hyper focus on marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 01:06 AM
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Women often say their care about their appearance is for themselves and even make fun of the men who dare to say it's done to get male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:57 AM
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The gap between attractive and average women in terms of how many people are attracted to them is much smaller than the gap between attractive and average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:00 PM
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What's the problem in not marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:03 PM
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I can see what you're saying but that sounds like an already formed family of Gen Xers or older people. For young and/or single people dating it doesn't apply much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:19 PM
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Sounds like he's a pussy or an excuse maker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:38 AM
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A woman’s n count isn’t going to impact my genetics or my kids’ genetics. Yeah, you're not reproducing with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:35 PM
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Why did you ignore the rest of his comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:31 PM
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People that have a problem with the guy being in the cared for position are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:56 AM
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I'm pretty sure this person is being facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:44 AM
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What did they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:32 AM
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average face with hot body On a partner? This one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:37 PM
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It's also biological to like pretty young women with a low WHR, big boobs and high agreeability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:25 PM
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Women are also like that, even more, when it comes to male obesity 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:21 PM
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It doesn't seem to make a difference for him. You're not on his league ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:09 AM
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Just stop dealing with men if you don't think they're worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:05 AM
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It's kinda scary how dating apps favors one side
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:04 AM
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That's not how statistics work, ma'am. It's about the minimum a woman would accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:47 AM
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a woman who is ok with an open relationship only on his side, I don't think most men realistically want this. will have and give him full custody of “his” kids Most guys don't ask for full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:31 PM
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No, that's just a FWB arrangement. She will survive. No, he might be a great partner and still have a dead bedroom. I don't believe people still use just world fallacy to this point. He seems to be quite successful in his dating life, I don't think he is alone. Oh, and don't vomit the term incel like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:25 PM
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There are things that don't need to be asked for. If she was as sexually attracted to him as she was for her past partners she would spontaneously do it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:22 PM
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Women do initiate. That's just an expression, "going crazy". He probably already knew someone could love him, why are you handing out this neg?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:19 PM
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He might be looking for an exclusive relationship... just not want it with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:13 PM
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We don't want commitment and exclusivity from most women out there, that's not a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:13 PM
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If you have that hard conversation instead of thinking it and assuming she gets it This is a good point, although I often assume people would get it without it having to be said out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:22 AM
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Speak for yourself 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:24 PM
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Where's the mistreatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:06 PM
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Tell me you're a prostitute without...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:56 PM
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Uh, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:43 AM
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a 6ft guy’s chin will easily rest on top of my head while a 5’11 guy will have to tilt his chin up ever so slightly. I can tell lmao This is satire, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:19 AM
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Yeah, stomach fat is unhealthy, while breast and butt fat deposits are not, and they also signal fertility and sexual maturity. There's no reason to get mad at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:31 PM
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Some women say Lizzo is attractive. But they don't really like being told they look like her 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:24 AM
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What happened? Did anyone mingle?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:59 AM
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a fit, good-looking 5'4" guy would rank above a morbidly obese, ugly 5'6" (but not a ugly, obese 6') guy, I think you're overestimating the importance of height here, bro. A short Adonis, IME, always has an easier time than most attracting women, while I never seen a tall, ugly and obese guy not struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:57 AM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:30 AM
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I would like to believe this. There are plenty of counter examples in this very thread, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:24 AM
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And I'm sure the women who don't mind not being celibate in between relationships wouldn't mind being excluded from the dating pool of men who think they should be. Eh, no, this is not the point? The guy is just expecting the girl he's going on dates with to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:04 AM
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When you are evaluating someone for a very important role, you take your time. That includes sex. I'm glad plenty of women don't have this dual mating strategy and will fuck guys and be around them to the point they know if they will get into a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:00 AM
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So you do it? And also expect the guy paying for dates to behave like a good guy in an obvious AF/BB scenario? Also why are you purposefully giving out bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:59 AM
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Several women can be FWB with one guy. It's not necessarily a one to one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:33 AM
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Seems to competitive for that to be the case. for women it’s about you being the least bad option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:52 AM
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Most men don't/can't hookup with women more attractive than their GFs if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:39 AM
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i didnt choose men, men chose me, some guy would engage me and if we had chemistry wed talk and drink for a while then go home together. Did you gave these guys approaching signals (showing interest via body language)?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:29 AM
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Stories like these is why I hate when someone in this sub separate hookups/casual sex and relationships as if they didn't meshed with each other and plenty of LTRs started out as hookups/FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:23 AM
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He understood and had a different interpretation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:54 PM
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It's not about not being able to handle shit, it's just not being into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:27 PM
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Men know who beautiful made up women are, but we also know at the same time that very few women are actually that beautiful. Meanwhile men simply need to be tall and broad shouldered. No make up required to be attractive. Men don't need one of the beautiful ones to be attracted, the average young woman is inundated with options. And lol is not like you choose your height and skeletal frame. A man's face is also more important than height and body. I’d say the game is extremely balanced. Almost l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:25 PM
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No lol definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:20 PM
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The difference is that divorce will involve lawyer work, papers, assets division, etc. It means that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:57 AM
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physically attractive males This bar can be very, very high, depending on how you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:24 PM
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Anyone who can afford to eat can save up enough money to pay for one extra meal/coffee/etc if they are interested in potentially dating someone. It’s not a matter of ability to be generous, but willingness to be generous, even in a small way. So, you often pay for your dates, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:00 AM
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Your appearance is quite controllable. Also most women aren't prostitutes so, yeah, most are paying for what they eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:56 AM
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Being expected to pay for dates when you’re the one who gets to decide where you go (within reason) isn’t a burden. Sounds like two burdens. Why should women pay for dates when that is the reality we live in, especially when we still get stuck doing the majority of household chores and childcare? Why should some young guy going on a date with a woman pay for the date be impacted by the fact she will maybe have children one day, probably not with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:43 AM
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Why would you date a physically unattractive man? Would you be attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:38 AM
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Lmao okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:17 PM
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Do women start being raw sexually attracted to meek guys after having kids? I think the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:04 PM
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Conaidering you're not trolling, which is a hell of a consideration, they have a divide where he brings all the money and pays for the food she eats, the electricity and water she uses, the clothes she wears and she does the home chores and take care of the kids most of the time. Will she work if he they get the home care in a 50/50 divide?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:25 AM
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Different people face different challenges and have different likes and dislikes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 AM
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Did this came from TwoX or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:53 AM
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You can also be interested in long term dating, but wanting it to start via a more initial, immediate attraction too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:30 AM
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Eh, no, actually the vast majority of men live their entire lifetimes without committing any homicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:41 PM
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Are you trying to tough-guy your way out of sexual harassment towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:24 AM
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While he’s sleeping with hot women in college Is he?? Which guy you're talking about? Does his name starts with 'C'? He isn’t as attracted to you as the women he hooked up with He is as attracted to her as the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:16 PM
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It's more like... logic, y'know. Why are you trying to press guys into OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:21 PM
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Sounds like your friend is higher than a 5.5/10, even if tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:17 PM
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I see your point, but sometimes one is willing to make compromises that they wouldn't do if they had some information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:16 AM
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Do you try making the guy feel special in the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:32 AM
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Oh yeah, they definitely only wanted that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:18 AM
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You sure you responded to the right comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:23 PM
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The "see what happens" is not supposed to be a guarantee for a relationship. That's not manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:22 AM
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No, most men won't be annoyed by it. All you described is bound to happen to anyone who appeoaches, man or woman. Also X to doubt about your super model friends getting rejected left and right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 AM
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It's not necessarily shitty men, just men who don't want a relationship or don't want it with some of the women they're seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:49 AM
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You conveniently ignored the "10 decent options vs 1 decent option" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:27 AM
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Talking shit about those things don't make it non-existent bro nor it reduces their value, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:49 AM
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Men also claim they will take any old fattie Nah, we don't, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:50 AM
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Why are you negging the guy? Any pictures of yourself to share?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:53 AM
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Good point. Do you think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:28 AM
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They should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:17 PM
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Most people aren't rich at all, but most people get to have some action in their dating lives in their young years. Don't compare those two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:34 PM
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Demisexuality it's not true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:42 AM
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Nah, don't say that. It's much, much less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:28 PM
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What's the cutoff to being a really short guy, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:48 PM
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Yeah, I find that 15-20% body quite attractive. When a woman is skinny she might still have a hot body if she has a bit of curves on her hips, and a bit of plumpness on her butt. When the woman is skinny and completely straight and flat is where it gets neutral/a bit unattractive. She is plus sized and has a lot of sexual experience including with men who were cheating on their slimmer partners (not as thin as the girl I linked). That's not an achievement that demands a lot of effort lol She als…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:40 AM
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That definitely means he’s chasing a 10/10, which is fine as long as he’s rich or hot too. No, it doesn't mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:43 PM
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The mid girls are not exactly pining for their male equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:32 PM
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She's looking for a relationship with a man she's not as attracted as men of her past? Then yeah, he dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:17 AM
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Is this limitation rule of yours restrained to countries? Or does it also extend to guys who go for groups, places, situations where they are better favored in their own country?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:40 PM
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Ah OK, so guys should go for environments where things are harder for them instead of adapting themselves and seeking a better alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:38 PM
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Buying dinner and drinks isn't a direct transaction for sex. It's simply an attention-grabber. Yeah, but it's a sad and pathetic attention-grabber.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:20 PM
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Do you think not being fat is being obsessed with your appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:58 AM
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She dated average to cute guys? Ok, just don't call these guys ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:28 AM
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A woman isn't "nagging" you, she's telling you to get your act together, pick your behind up from that couch, and start acting like a man. He's talking about negging, not nagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:21 PM
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It's verbatim from OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:44 PM
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Yeah, they're all autists, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:22 PM
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Men also have to pay for their appearance care. Also, don't expect people to pay for the care you choose to take with your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:01 PM
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Maybe she's an asshole? Maybe women are not wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:55 PM
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Yep, I prefer a honest, hardworking, kind guy who would treat her well, making a decent wage, than a high earneing sleazy guy who doesn't. Oh, and I would also expect my princess daughter/sister/niece to work, learn a job and do her own contribution too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:48 PM
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Lol she's a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:44 PM
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Would you like your brothers, sons and nephews around broke women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:43 PM
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So, she still took advantage of him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:38 PM
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Isn't that people in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:03 AM
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I think young men are the least pushed to be traditional in their dating interactions with women. Of course, we have our own set of challenges, but I would say older guys are pushed more towards traditional male duties of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:22 AM
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I don't think tradcon is a materialistic dating strategy per se. However plenty of golddigger women like to hide themselves behind that term, when actually they don't want to have their onus in the traditional system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:13 AM
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You seem dismissive of a guy's preferences. Would you act the same towards a woman's?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:13 PM
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Its pretty damn common for young women to read erotica and fanfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:56 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:36 PM
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using a young woman to piss older women off Why do you assume he's trying to piss older women off and not just living his life as he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:56 PM
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Bro, women can sniff your intentions from a mile away. /s?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:55 PM
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Any source? Just want to check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:04 PM
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It's even dumber to not consider the guy's age and own fitness level when he doesn't want fat chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:52 PM
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Makeup is not part of you. Also, there's plenty of handsome, kinda handsome, fit guys in younger people circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:50 PM
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Do the men who like you now only like you based on your financial and emotional provision and aren't strongly sexually attracted to you? I guess not, which yeah, not qualifies for beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:11 PM
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Czech?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:42 AM
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They still are selecting for men they find attractive in terms of body type, face, height, etc. so I don't see her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:28 AM
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