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it's natural to feel envy at what others have so easily. men have always been envious at the ease at which women get attention, at their power, at their ability to be an absolute force of nature. women, on the other hand, have always been envious of men's physical prowess, of our ability to dominate and conquer, and at our inborn status as men on the social hierarchy (historically, women weren't even players in the game).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:04 PM
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everyone has their advantages and disadvantages. don't understimate the appeal of a high self-confifent man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:20 PM
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you don't have to improve, you *get* to. so she's a cum-socket for horny men? wow great accomplishment. as a result, she'll never have to accomplish anything in her life. she'll never have to build self-esteem, she'll be catered to. this is why so many of them have bitchy personalities. not a great accomplishment for your life existence. she does not get the opportunity to go through the struggles that craft strength and make you a force of domination
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:13 PM
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get over it by becoming the prize so sex for you is as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:43 PM
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the Nietzchean answer to a lack of meaning in a nihilistic world is to create meaning yourself. What that means in 2023 is what we are exploring here at TRP
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 04:50 PM
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> the Red Pill has unfortunately fallen short of it's grand promise to Red Pill you this state of this sub in a nutshell
/r/TheRedPill27/03/23 03:33 PM
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people don't realize how much you can get away with as an audacious, self-confident man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:30 PM
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you do not understand how monstrous and awful many women are to normal guys. it is almost incomprehensible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:30 AM
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lol the redpill has transitioned to psychoanalysis, gtfo out of here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:58 PM
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it says a lot that people here are so clueless that my anodyne comment saying "what's your name is a bad opener" riled them up, when it is clearly poor social etiquette
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:21 PM
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you're blue pill? no surprise there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:19 PM
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apparently a blind man answers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:10 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:09 AM
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I could not care less how society "works." What I care about is accomplishing my goals and pursuing my dreams. I am better able to accomplish these my effectively communicating with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:53 PM
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high social intelligence is the difference between you being at the bottom of the social hierarchy and you being at the top
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:36 PM
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that's reasonable, and your logic is correct. if they were in earshot, I would have said "yes of course we're friends!" in this situation, he snuck in close to me and asked, and I was weary of giving a stranger an in a lot of comments and responses on this sub are based on our own interpration of how the situation appears. my point was simply that it has been depressing to watch the level of how bad many guys are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:35 PM
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what a weird comment, bizarrely creating an odd scenario where I "wrestled" with him for access. I wanted my seat back and told him to move back they weren't my friends, so why would I lie. moreso, why do you feel the need to put others down. it's depressing how often people here do that. I would never even imagine doing that to a random commenter, as it wreaks of insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:00 PM
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developing great social skills opens the door to better relationships, both at work and romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:57 PM
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lol it's about building attraction, not just relying on the random whims of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:53 PM
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you have a lot of thought processes that you need to change. you don't realize how easy it is to get high quality pussy once you understand girls well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 06:08 AM
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all I'm saying is for years I had the mentality of I have great day game but bad night game because I can talk to girls IRL, but that's changed because I learned to create opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:18 AM
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I was the same way, and worked on my nightlife game. nightlife game is its own dynamic, it's all about creating effective and good opportunities. things like "hey take a picture of us" then making an observation, escalating, building rapport. on the dance floor, it can mean going up and dancing with her friend and having a blast, and then doing a switch. if you're just going to a bar and hitting on a girl, you'll hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:35 AM
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exactly. you're giving her too much power, and now she has the ability to make a yes/no decision. and when given that decision, women usually say no, unless youre Chad. an observation is a good excuse to start a convo, and slowly build some rapport until she says yes easily. people don't really realize how easy it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:05 AM
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if you aren't getting frequent IOIs youre doing smething wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:03 AM
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yes, and no. hard to say from this post
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:00 AM
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what does this have to do with what I saaid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:00 AM
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I don't know, is getting a high-quality job worth it? nothing worthwhile in life is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:39 AM
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yes, women find it very refreshing when you speak to them like a normal human being. part of normal human interaction isn't being autistic and saying "what's your name" to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:39 AM
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you are anti-redpill and are actively pushing that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:31 PM
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no the second one wasn't terrible, but not effective. this isn't about "getting a girlfriend," rather it's about getting what you want - the highest caliber relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:30 PM
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because a lot of people simply don't know how to interact with others. they have low emotional IQ. so they need instructions. asking someone their name is fine, once you've started an interaction. going up to someone and say "hey - what's your name" is an ineffective way of starting a convo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:28 PM
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jesus christ dude. there are rules to social interactions. some things work, others don't. historically, this stuff was taught, either by parents, teachers, cotillion. otherwise, you end up with people who have no idea how to interact with others, like we have with so many now. I talk like redpill dudes because we agree on fundamental premises of attraction, because they're true. women like certain traits in men. that's not a nice or pretty truth, but it is true nonetheless. female nature exists…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:27 PM
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and I also want to point out that, as I suspected, your advice is all about your agenda, not what actually works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:03 PM
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here's the problem though, you made a gigantic assumption of my intentions/personality based on your own pre-conceived notions and past experiences. my 'game' all derives from empathy with women, the second I stopped listening to others and began observing and empathising with how women think, act, and feel, I started doing much better. its not that hard when I give guys advice, I give it because it has worked for me redpill "advice" is rather toxic but it exists because women *are* inherently a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:02 PM
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men have always had to game, there's a reason stories like DOn Juan exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:42 PM
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I enjoy talking and discussing topics online, beyond meeting girls around me? what a bizarre response thread. I'm not sure if anyone has told you this, but you're a pretty judgmental (and, to a degree, adversarial) person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:40 PM
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it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:38 PM
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why do you judge yourself by a number
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:36 PM
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they think that by getting your number, they've already got it in the bag. from my experience, no high quality girl gets with a guy that easily. escalation, tact, and high social intelligence are necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:35 PM
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observing how bad men are at interacting with women isn't toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:32 PM
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lol no, they're not great pick-up lines. they convey far too much interest for someone you have literally never met. they will work at a much less lower rate than organic escalation, which is how natural relationships and sexual attraction is built
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:30 PM
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thank you for this response. "what's your name" is an awful way of opening a conversation, it really shows no tact and will almost immediately make the girl close off. there are a billion other ways to start a convo, and then organically get to "what's your name." by that point, that question becomes a great way to build rapport and get a hook
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:27 PM
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I never said women have game, I'm talking about men here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:17 PM
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why don't you spend more time engaging the conversation and less time acting like a dick and attempting to bully your opponent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:16 PM
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saying "what's your name" to open a girl is bizarre. "do you want to dance" is better, but in this case these were uncalibrated questions. Like anything, there's a right and wrong way to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:06 PM
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I run a very good combination of super nice kind chill and almost childlike, mixed with dark triad. essentially a mirror of what any hot woman does. can't tell you how well it works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:17 PM
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let's not kid ourselves though, men do it as well. men look at the top girls, and ignore the vast majority of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:11 AM
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because when women think of men, they think of the top 10%, who actually are insanely privileged. the other 90% are invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:35 AM
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sure he can get lots of girls via Tinder, but the dark triad guy wins the second they're out in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:42 PM
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because women are more attracted to certain expressions of dominance than looks, as historically this would have been correlated with better survival for her and her children. She will chase a genuine dark triad psychopathic alpha male who is a 6-7 on the looks scale over a hot, 10 guy even if he has okay game. Solid game is more than about being smooth. It's also about subcommunicating alpha traits. and in a free for all situation, the top men can get almost infinite pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:19 AM

yah, sadly and stupidly brought up fight club with my mom. "where do you come up with these insane theories!!" what insane theory did I bring up? simply the notion that even a very average looking girl will always have some guy, somewhere interested in her, whereas average men do not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:03 PM
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it's called calibration. Getting into fights with the wrong people will get you killed. With that being said, I have yet to get f'd with on the subway here in Manhattan because I do my best to project high self-esteem. Not that it will save you, but you are less likely to get harrassed.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 05:31 PM
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part of dark triad is the illusion of being sweet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:44 PM
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game isn't just about being funny or charismatic. it's also about creating opportunities to engage a random, unknown woman and escalate effectively, while not being perceived as aberrant (rather, having *her* wonder whether she's acting wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:58 PM
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false. even the most shallow woman is susceptible to solid, dark triad game
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:52 PM
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what gets your foot in the door is cold approach and and being okay looking/in shape. that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:51 PM

the reality is that OP is upset because Chad doesn't want her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:34 PM

men in general are predators of women and children? just another example of neurotic psychopathy that is the modern woman. A miniscule percentage of men are predators. The average American woman is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:33 PM
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The main issue with "acting" dominant/assertive is that it's done for the explicit purpose of attracting girls. Aka it's just another form of simping. Better just to become genuinely dominant and assertive, which often means communicating those traits through subcommunication.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/23 04:34 AM
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I think there's a bit of both. Entitlement is a dark-triad narcissistic trait but also a woman's natural way of thinking because of her experience having guy after guy come after her. Male celebrities have a sense of entitlement too. For women, though, it has gotten excessive, because society has enabled it. Let me clarify what I mean by "be her." Be the masculine version of her. Think and act like she does. but do it in your masculine frame To give a better example, let's talk about one special…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 06:26 PM
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well firstly, why should *they* have that special status and protection? take it for yourself. How? the same way they do...by, at your core, believing you are entitled to it. believe it with every grain of your being, and exude this (while being socially calibrated, obviously. you can't just "act" entitled). nothing really wrong about approaching as a man. that still works, especially in certain day game approaches. and this is all context dependent. I'm talking about upping your game to the nex…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 05:36 PM
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if you are following core red pill principles...working out hard, having testosterone flowing through your system, following your passion, and being strong physically and intellectually...you will exude masculinity. and you will attract women with this masculinity once you have harnessed that, the next step is augmenting your ability to interact with the world. what I'm talking about is meshing your masculinity with the intrinsic advantages that allow women to be so successful in the mating game…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 05:12 PM
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another great example of the absolute idiocy that we have to put up with on this sub. no shit you need to be masculine. You're thinking, acting, and interacting with the world the way a woman thinks, acts, and interacts with the world...in a masculine frame. You're not being feminine. I had assumed you were smart enough to get that if you're on this forum
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 05:00 PM
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essentially nothing is cringy and transactional if done with non-cringy and non transactional intent (aka subcommunication). It can misperceived this way on Tinder or text, but in person the intent will become clear, hence why cold-approach is so great
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 04:43 PM
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The mistake that many, many red pill men make is trying to act alpha and "hold frame." Sure this works and can be effective, but why make things so hard on yourself? Just emulate the thought process of a 10/10, hot woman, and you will almost always get what you want (just like they do). In fact, you'll have the opposite problem...girls stalking you, girls simping, creepy comments, jealous guys. In other words, think of someone like Kate Upton. Don't do actions to get her. Rather, do actions to b…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/23 04:23 PM
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you're probably so alpha that you know how to speak deceptively, manipulatively, covertly, and via subcommunication like a woman to get what you want. oh no wait, you downvote people on a subreddit while likely jacking off to fatties even the chadliest chad doesn't have nearly the same power in manipulation and covert communication as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:29 AM
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so you can learn to communicate better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:19 PM
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best way to make female friends... stop acting like a man interacting with a woman, start thinking like a woman whenever I deal with a woman, I imagine myself as a woman. I talk to them in womanese. I'm not explicit or weird. I'm fully on board with their vibe. if there's sexual tension, it happens organically. and when I act like this, ironically girls are always attracted to me, even if I'm not attracted to them If I don't do this, I end up trying to hard, even as a "red-pilled" man. better to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:29 PM
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Don't underestimate how many low value/weird guys there are out there. Not defending women, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:36 AM
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Is this a joke? You have 1000x better chance with cold approaching than anything else. All my best relationships have come from cold approaching, it gives you a huge leg up on everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:01 AM
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You have a very foolish argument. The vituperative attacks against "nice guys" is just an explicitly gynocentric, misandric mechanism (while at the same time being implicitly sexist against women) to try to defend women for bad decisions. You're surprised that genuine, nice guys get annoyed when they get treated like shit while total dbags who routinely cheat and abuse get rewarded with sex by the same girls? This would never fly for men who treated a nice girl like dog shit, as it shouldn't. Pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:42 PM
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It all depends on what you mean by being nice. I get rewarded with lots of attention from girls (and strangers) because I'm charming, warm, and nice. Girls (and strangers) do nice things for me because I'm kind and show genuine concern for their problems, while also having boundaries. For example, while everyone was out bullying this obese woman, I was kind to her (just cause I felt like it), and later when it turned out she was in charge of recruiting for a corporate position, she immediately g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:17 PM
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If you're low SMV, you'll wonder how anything could ever be so difficult. If you're high SMV, you'll wonder how anything could ever be so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:30 AM
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What men think women are "not really people"? The vast majority of men absolutely adore women, and even simp like crazy. There are plenty of women that *are* bitches. Talk to women about what? Advice about attracting women? Even nice women usually have no idea what they are sexually attracted to.
/r/askTRP20/02/22 02:22 AM
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I appreciate the kind words. I never said that women choose based on status, job, height, looks, etc. I was disabled for a long time and got some of the most attractive, coolest, kindest women I know. But that's because I had certain "red pill" traits down to a tee...most importantly, I was mind-blowingly self-confident because of all my suffering and what it forced me to become. I also had lots of other girls interested (pre-selection). I was very DGAF and non-needy. I was also able to develop …
/r/askTRP14/08/21 09:54 AM
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I don't think you understand what it is but whatever. It's not dark or light, it just is.
/r/askTRP10/08/21 03:33 AM
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Female nature exists in terms of what women are biologically attracted to. Things like pre-selection, hypergamy, attraction to men higher in 'perceived' status, etc. Even aspects like Dark Triad. That's really what I'm referring to. And it's absolutely accurate.
/r/askTRP06/08/21 11:54 PM
8

I don't know or care whether the trp *sub* has a grasp on female nature. Sure there are plenty of incels. That doesn't change the fact that the "Red Pill" theory that describes female nature is pretty accurate. While women can have a billion different types of personalities, from kind to malevolent, female nature and female sexual desire isn't even remotely complicated and it's very easy to see the patterns once you have enough experience.
/r/askTRP06/08/21 09:18 PM
4

there's an account on youtube.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:11 AM
10

No, but part of TRP is understanding that women like a man with a purpose/mission. I recommend 'Alpha Male Strategies' account.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:43 PM
3

Women are women, the difference with modern american women is the fat and ugly ones act like they have a SMV of 10.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:42 PM
30

At its core, TRP is about understanding female nature. There's plenty of self-improvement advice around the web. TRP gets into a deeper understanding of women.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:44 PM
9

You know what's low SMV? Intentionally choosing not to help others because you want to smash the meat curtains of some slut.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:12 PM
1

Fair.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 05:42 PM
4

It's not all negative tbh, shows you how easy it is to get laid.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:03 AM
4

“they were seniors and have cool cars.” Depressing how shallow some people are.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 01:58 AM
23

I think what bugs me is women's complete lack of self-awareness or any reflection beyond base instinct. In other words, I'm fully aware that I'm more attracted to a hot girl and that I may treat them better accidentally. I'm pretty aware of male nature, including violence and the drive for dominance. I try to treat less attractive girls the same. I think about my actions, I am very pensive and I wonder what it's like to be on the other side. Meanwhile, all she thinks is me-me-me "hot alpha= lust…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:48 AM
1

true, maybe I'm just coping?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:25 AM
1

People have predatorial instincts, so yes. Everyone bullies the weak.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:12 PM
2

do orbiters not realize they're orbiters? Who would consciously choose to be an orbiter? If she's genuinely your friend, I get it...but an orbiter?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:27 PM
8

Yes, this is exactly how many men think. Don't underestimate blue pilled thinking, not to mention complete pedestalization.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 10:26 PM
12

Is that a joke? Of course I don't treat ugly girls like shit. Why should I? I'm suppose to treat someone differently because their facial aesthetics are slightly asymmetrical? What a fucking dumb rule. If there's a super hot model and a fat chick, I talk and chat with them equally. I don't give a shit how hot she is, I'm not talking to her any differently than the obese chick until she earns my time. Of course I date the more attractive girl, but that doesn't mean I treat the unattractive girl p…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:43 PM
3

Yes and no. In big cities, women get hit on incessantly, but they often struggle to succeed beyond that because most men have abundance. That being said, they get hit on so much that they are utterly deluded about their SMV. However, because of men's abundance, their delusion gets checked. Further out in the country, most men have much less abundance and therefore the women have a lot more power. Thus, their SMV delusion isn't checked. That being said, these women aren't hit on as much so their …
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:45 PM
5

Why are you friends with these people? They're not your friends.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:38 PM
8

I treat ugly girls nicely, but whatever. Why would you treat someone who is ugly worse? This means that you're putting a female on a pedestal because of beauty. Should treat them all the same.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:38 PM
3

simps are bad too
/r/askTRP15/06/21 09:32 AM
5

Dumb guys are some of the most successful at women. They don't think about it they just do.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:02 AM
1

You don't have to be insecure. Focus on yourself (raising SMV, becoming a better person, etc.) and learn to vet. While female nature exists, there are plenty of women who show restraint and respect others. Learn about the importance of vetting. And don't feel bad, even literally the top SMV men in the world can get cheated on or betrayed. Russell Wilson's gf does not stop bringing up Tom Brady, and even Neymar experienced a false accusation. These women don't matter: someone whose feelings are m…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 07:05 PM
1

If you're advanced enough, you can use girls in a set for pre-selection for the target girl. In other words, let's say there's a 9 on the other side of the room who you really want. Open up and start having a great time with other girls in her view. Honestly, I tend to do this anyway as I speak to everyone. The point is, the 'target' girl can sense that you have pretty girls around you all the time.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:02 PM
1

Amused mastery and general DGAF attitude. If it were me, I would either stop interacting or have sex with the girl and then immediately drop her. The last thing you need in your life is someone with that type of attitude, because eventually you'll lose the dominant position. Better to get out while you can.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:57 AM
0

Some pre-selection helps too.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:30 PM
6

I mean obviously it depends entirely on the woman, plenty of women have stayed with men who lose jobs. That being said, it is not an uncommon phenomenon where she leaves you simply because you lost the job. Pretty sure Napoleon's mistress even began doing this when she thought he was losing in Egypt. It's also dangerous because there's a stereotype that men do this and that women are more empathetic, hence many men put their guard down.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:19 AM
1

Bingo. Tell her when and where to meet, not only will it turn her on but it gives her an excuse if things don't work out (oh, well it wasn't *my* fault) so she'll happy oblige.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:43 AM
6

Just keep in mind that you might not be spinning plates, but she is.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:40 AM
2

Yes, women are absolutely attracted to DT because it signals good genetic fitness. DT people can conquer the world and get resources better than the average normie, hence they are seen as attractive. Keep in mind that this isn't a comment on the morality but rather a comment on how attractive they are perceived.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:31 AM
1

Why is that? Why are so many people predators? It is depressing. As I have heard it said, it is a mog or be mogged world.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:28 AM
2

Depressing to see someone be this dumb and naive, and more depressing to realize many of us were like that too back in the day.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:59 PM
2

You don't know what you're talking about. Women's behavior is predictable. They like men who have good genetic material or who can acquire resources. Status or fame are attractive because they allow access to resources. Good looks infer good genetic material. Dark Triad predicts the ability to acquire resources, so in of itself is attractive. You think that hot German girls weren't banging genocidal Nazis even if they were ugly? Anyway, why are you putting these creatures on a pedestal ? Spend s…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:17 PM
2

Lookmaxxed or lift, look at your retarded terminology. Who gives a shit. Genuine dark triads could be an ugly MF and get plenty of 10s. If you don't understand this, you don't understand female psychology.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:58 PM
1

Absolutely false. Dark Triad evil psychopaths do very well for themselves in the sexual market place, that being said it robs them of their soul so it's not a positive thing for them. It just means they're sexually attractive because they're giving off signs of sexual prowess.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:25 PM
1

What do you mean by easily manipulated?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:24 PM
1

I've met DTs, for all the veneration they get, it's not a good life. A life full of selfishness and psychopathy robs you of your soul. That being said, you will have plenty of sex.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:23 PM
10

Exactly. Most of us were fun, kind, genuine, and decent people who cared about others deeply and went out of our way to assist others at all times. And it's not like we were some losers, most of us had good jobs, good social lives, etc. Then you get stepped on and fucked over by others who simply do not give a shit and are more than happy for you to die. You also learn that most women (and people, really) don't care much about your kindness or decency, what they care about is that your life is g…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:19 PM
3

Perfectly said. There has to be a congruence on what you are selling.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 04:38 AM
2

Some people argue I'm the best statesman in history. Sadly, I couldn't even figure out a way to spell my name correctly when I created my account :/.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:25 PM
4

Dude this how it always work. You work insanely hard, put in your time, and it still doesn't matter. Welcome to life. Nothing is fair or given.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 09:06 PM
7

Dude I was permanently disabled at 21 and lost a great deal of my youth. Don't whine to me about this shit. Life sucks a lot.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:21 PM
5

Until you see a real-life dark triad, you'll believe it's a myth.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:54 PM
2

Yah it's like a Syrian kid being threatened with genocide since he was 7 comparing his reality to that of an American college student going to a frat party and getting laid. One lives life on Holocaust-mode, the other on tutorial mode. That being said, this is life and maybe the Syrian kid is the lucky one? He gets to overcome something insane, whereas the other one is just going to a random frat party like a billion other drones.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:34 AM
1

Sorry you had to go through that man. The irony is that you probably only texted her cause things were so bad and you just wanted some connection, and meanwhile if things were even 1/1000th as bad for her she would be crying and screaming. Depressing that this is so common. I think we all imagine these horrible people to be some evil stranger far away, but the truth is they're all around us. Interesting that it is usually the ugly girls (and ugly guys) too. If it makes you feel better, people ha…
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:25 AM
10

Some girls genuinely brag about hurting people. Facts like this radicalised me.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:10 PM
1

I meant it. It's absolutely the truth. The only people that most people care about dying are high SMV people. If you're a low SMV person, no one will care, and if you're unlucky, you might even get bullied/mocked/attacked for dying.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 09:19 PM
12

The worst is a 5 who thinks she's a 9/10.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:36 PM
2

There's way way more to getting girls than 'SMV credentials.' She has to feel STRONG attraction, and that has a lot more to do with charisma, game, and confidence.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:50 PM
3

read about AMOGing.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:28 AM
6

just assume that everyone hates you and won't care if you die. Suddenly, you'll stop caring what they think.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:30 AM
24

There is no end point. The point is to remove blinders from your eyes, not to give you magical meaning. With the illusion gone, you can move through the world. If you happen to find a woman worth staying with, then good. If not, at least you didn't ruin your life hitching it to a low-quality woman (as you would have w/o the red pill).
/r/askTRP01/06/21 11:10 PM
22

Ironically, the culmination of the red pill journey is the blue pill: finding someone you enjoy being with and growing old together.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 10:34 PM
4

It goes even beyond that. My favorite is when she acts like a totally different person to you completely dependent on how wet she got. She rejected you yesterday and treated you like shit but now you show up with pre-selection (a hotter girl) today and she realizes you have high SMV, and she does this little head shake "what was I thinking!" and gives you 'lubby-dubby' eyes. I've actually seen it now 3-4 times. It's literally the same look "what was I thinking. What is wrong with me!" why? becau…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:30 AM
15

To go beyond this, incels are also upset because when they complain for being treated as sub-human, they are told they are 'entitled.' And because of sympathy for women (due to many reasons), they are framed as 'bad men.' Meanwhile, Chad cheats and even hurts people and is rewarded by society. I empathise with incels because I've had low SMV myself due to a disability, the way many women treat men with low SMV is so cruel and villanous that it borders on Nazi-level hatred. You have to experience…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 02:17 AM
2

Re-frame it so you're going out of your way to speak to a girl knowing you'll likely get rejected, rather than hoping for a success. This will make you less nervous. Still assume the sale, but my point is you're not outcome dependent.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 07:51 AM
0

Good, f those girls
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:58 AM
1

Has this ever worked?
/r/askTRP29/05/21 12:28 AM
9

I recommend to newbie guys to get rejected in brutal (legal) ways. Will really lower your approach anxiety.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:25 AM
1

Chad is definitely a mindset.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:37 AM
2

What interesting creatures. And men think *we* are the masters.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:27 AM
2

There are goals, and then there is this. True purpose right here.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:25 PM
3

The deference they show is depressing. They will do anything to be with you. Meanwhile, they were being horrible to you before for having low SMV. Goes to show how shitty people are how it is nothing about you, it's all about them.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:09 PM
3

It's an interesting phenomenon and it is something many of us have noticed. Low value people suck. It reminds me of business - the $17/hr client treats you like shit, whereas when you start doing very well and get the $10000 client, they treat you super well.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:44 PM
4

I've gone out of my way to be very kind and decent and not shallow to less attractive girls on OLD and have always been punished. Better to just go for the hotties IRL.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:35 PM
1

You don't.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:08 AM
3

OLD is mostly a screener for Chad. I'd rather just go to the source.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 05:04 AM
3

Men here simply do not understand how many 'applicants' women get on OLD. You may be the greatest and hottest Chad at your school. This doesn't matter, she has the other 50 hottest Chads from all other schools in the city. It is almost unimaginable how much attention she gets. Imagine getting hit on constantly, every 15 seconds for years. Of course they'll treat randoms on OLD like shit. But in the real world, you can establish your frame and stand out. Suddenly, she's just another random women …
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:23 AM
5

The empathetic, selfless gender.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 12:13 AM
1

Become addicted to yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 07:20 AM
1

Let's reframe this. Let's imagine you are extremely poor and destitute and meeting this girl meant your family's survival. She's pretty- perhaps impressing her would allow you to build connections with her parents or friends, who are no doubt successful. Could you have accomplished this? I'm sure you would have found a way. So the answer is yes. I would have found a way to start up an interaction, and done it for the sake of my own enjoyment. Could have been a direct approach or an indirect comm…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:15 PM
2

Fair enough, honestly they aren't worth that effort. From my experience, many of them completely suck and are comically shallow. ​ Well sure because that type of stuff is highly illegal, but it still hits the same attraction triggers.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:06 PM
2

Totally untrue, and very self-defeating. I was crippled for years and I got huge amounts of girls, once I learned that girls don't care about all the BS you think they do. I guarantee Ivar the Boneless, a man without a leg, got more pussy than many Chads, because he was a warlord.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:45 PM
12

I learned how to spin plates, but then again I'm also a very analytical person.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:41 PM
9

Dating apps are screeners for Chad.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:27 PM
0

It's not hard once you learn how to do it, it will be a joke.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:25 PM
2

They're not stupid terms. Alpha male means a real thing- that you are selected by women and get many mates. Game is also not hard to quantify - it's quantified by how well you do. If you are getting 1000 numbers but no dates then you are not doing well. Also just my opinion but you should stop framing things as "getting them to go on dates with you" as it puts her as the prize. Ideally, you should be the selector, not the other way around. When you're good enough at it, she will make it clear sh…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:57 PM
2

That's because your game isn't solid enough and you aren't yet an alpha male.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:56 PM
1

She has to see you as a high value option, which happens when she's aware you are higher on the social hierarchy than her. And you don't have to be Leo.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:42 PM
14

There are far better places to meet girls than a bar. Today I was in a CVS line with one of the hottest girls I've seen in months, and I literally chatted her up and got her number while my mom was with me. Why? Total and complete DGAF, plus I made the girl feel like she was part of our little group. I've done this type of thing so many times it's second nature and my hit rate is like 95%. Compare that to a bar, where I still have to find the correct dynamic and even then I'm at more of a disadv…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:14 AM
6

Most of the guys on here still have not experienced true abundance with women. True abundance is when you experience as a man what hot girls experience every single day: the subtle little "goodbyes" or "it was so great meeting you" when you leave a room, the IOIs, her finding ways to touch you, her just feeling like there was a "great connection" even though you hardly met for 5 fucking seconds, her still talking about you literally months later even though you don't even remember her, you const…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:53 AM
2

Makes game very very easy for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:29 AM
7

The ideal man however would be a Dark Triad who is capable of turning on empathy centers, as women still want certain emotions triggered. Women don't want a robot. A lot of DTs are capable of doing this, hence why they are so attractive. One of the key features of many psychopaths is their capacity to emulate empathy and turn it off and on. So yes, having no empathy can definitely be a bad thing. Also, most men "without empathy" are not some hot dark triad type, they're just a random guy w/o emp…
/r/askTRP15/05/21 07:48 PM
1

5'9
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:05 AM
3

"I often broke frame due to feeling bad." Pretty much something anyone with a conscience faces, meanwhile the other party could not care less.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 07:55 PM
2

I struggled with an insanely severe disability throughout my 20s. While at first it destroyed me, eventually I started getting more pussy than I could imagine. Why? Because fighting the pain and unimaginable agony created a strength and confidence in me that was beyond anything most of these girls had ever seen. I was unlike any other guy they had met, as my confidence was unreal. And that's what girls really care about at the end of the day...crazy level confidence.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:21 AM
9

Yes it is definitely possible, by developing dark triad game you can go from an incel to getting whatever you want.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:18 AM
12

It's only weird because you have alternative motives. Actually *be interested* in whatever you ask the person about, and the transition to an actual convo will be 1000% easier.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:32 PM
10

This is what I've come to realize. I will ponder for hours why people suck. I will think about how I could be shitty, but choose not to be. I will go back and forth wondering about whether I have inadvertently been shitty to someone. Whereas these other people don't think about it for even half a second. No self-awareness or thought process. Don't ask why a scorpion is a scorpion, it just is.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 07:32 PM
35

Don't expect things to be better cause you're dating a 5 or 6. She'll still think she's a 10. Better to just go for hotter girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 05:44 AM
3

When the bar is so low, how is it even possible to be out of that 10-15% unless you are not really in the game? (jail, crippled, mentally retarded, homeless, etc.) How can the vast majority of men just sit there and be content to be losers?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:58 AM
8

Always found it funny how some guys unironically have a "I want to get in a fight mentality." Bro you're going to get murdered, you're the biggest pussy I know, I saw you crying last week when that girl rejected you. These are the same guys who will try to bully you without a second thought.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:48 PM
23

You care too much. Go become an alpha and follow your passion, and eventually the hot girls will find you.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 07:33 PM
1

The mask comes off.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 07:17 PM
148

There seems to be a male instinct to protect and do nice things for women. Meanwhile, there seems to be a female instinct to exploit men. Put it together, and this is how we get here.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 08:17 PM
7

Sad but true. I know some very average women who would be incels if men but instead get tons of attention.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:27 PM
1

It existed in ancient times because of infection. Illness doesn't care about morality. Now it seems pointless but has been broadly accepted due to religion and social norms. If you want to change that, try changing people's minds instead of castigating everyone as evil.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:32 PM
1

No, the problems with ugly/average guys being pieces of shit. Not sure what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:17 PM
3

If there was a crippled ugly/fat girl, would any of us really stop to empathise? To be honest, doubtful. We'd try but we'd still see her as ugly and fat and crippled as if that's explicitly who she was, not that she could be pretty in a different world. So I don't really blame women, they're just going on instinct. What annoys me is their total lack of introspection. They just think "crippled, ew, I'll treat him like shit" not who he may have been 1 year prior. All this experience red-pilled me …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:04 AM
0

7s are some of the most miserable, horrendous bitches I've ever been around. Most of them think they are god's gift to mankind. Why? Because they get approached a ton, because guys think they will be easier. They are mostly stuck up, standoffish, and treat you like shit. Meanwhile, most 9s I know have been very nice, even if they're not attracted to you. And in my opinion they are easier to attract, because if you have developed your game, it will more naturally show around them. Around 7s, you …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:33 PM
10

To add onto this: I've mentioned before that I got severely injured when I was younger. When out of desperation I asked for help from this one girl (who I had been friends with the year before and since I was blue-pilled at the time, I believed a woman would be more sympathetic to my tragedy), she took it upon herself to treat me as prey and act like a predator and started emotionally torturing me in the most evil way imaginable. The level of genocidal hate this woman had for me was like a Nazi …
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:48 PM
46

That's the absolute worst. When you go out of your way to be nice to a low SMV woman because you don't want to be shallow, and she turns around and is horrible to you. Biggest life lesson: go after the hot young girls, both the hot and ugly girls have tons of orbiters and are just as entitled. In fact, the hotter girls might be less entitled because they have less insecurities.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 04:18 PM
1

You haven't ever been beneath these girls in social status. They will try to hurt you.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 07:21 PM
1

permanently paralysed
/r/askTRP19/03/21 06:54 AM
1

neither, just responding to the previous response
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:37 PM
5

Sometimes you just lose, life isn't always great. How do you deal with actual L, not just a temporary L but a REAL L. I think it changes you become you become more appreciative of situations that are temporary, more appreciative of life, as well as learning you simply cannot frame or control your way into winning every time. If you can actually lose, gotta give it your best shot. I know its cliche but in Dark Knight Rises, he's finally able to make the leap when he's threatened with a real L.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 11:44 PM
2

You're only choosing to see one small microcosm of the world. Go on twitter and look at all the people engaged in art or in music or in technology. Broaden your horizon from your shallow friends.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:44 AM
8

Yes. I've 'felt bad' dropping a girl before or not giving her a shot, and then suddenly the shoe is on the other foot for a second and not only is she ghosting me but she's talking shit on me and being bitchy. Lesson has to be learned.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:06 PM
2

And a Karen is born.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 10:19 PM
3

It's interesting you say this. Some of the bitchiest, meanest women I knew in my early 20s look like ghouls now, and I suspect that they're bullied by guys. It's such an interesting phenomenon. Celebrity to dog-shit in several years.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:35 PM
1

not that I can think of, moreso I just follow accounts on twitter and to try reading some books. but no forums. I liked it too, but it started to get overtaken by the altright. not the 'altright' but genuine nazi-esque people
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:25 AM
1

Yah. That was a while ago now!
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:58 PM
3

but a blue haired girl on my newsfeed said women are being raped by the lack of equity in video games
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:28 PM
7

Good, I don't want losers who come in and insult others to procreate. How is that beneficial to our species?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 05:48 PM
2

Some people truly suck and are validated by your misery. I think it's especially so with women, but only because they *can* because they have so many options. Don't underestimate how shitty men can be, speak to female friends and you will learn how shitty guys can be. Anyway, it is very depressing to learn, but that is life. It will teach you to take care of yourself and look out for your self-interests first. I just assume AWALT now.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:40 PM
19

It goes beyond that. It's not even that most people are banal and vapid, it's also that many are simply NPCs. Even many 'smart' people I know, those I've met at the top of the corporate ladder, are still NPCs. With that said, I've met some plenty of regular guys who are capable of being very red pilled and are not NPC at all, so I don't think there may not be a correlation with IQ. Not to circle-jerk but I do appreciate this forum and you guys as it's a good outlet and lets me know I'm not crazy…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:34 PM
3

I've tried being super nice to the cunty friend and still got stabbed in the back by both girls. Bitches cannot help but being bitches. The lesson I've learned is run 10000 miles away from cunty friends and girls who even remotely associate with them.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:54 PM
51

my brother is dating a girl, and when my brother and I talk about Trumpism and meta stuff happening in our country this poor girl is completely bewildered. "None of my friends talk about any of this, this is so interesting!" Her friends literally only talk about how hot some guys are and bully guys/girls that don't reach their standards. Her guy friends only drink and fuck girls. Absolutely no care about anything else in the world, no self-awareness, not even recognition of their solipsisitic or…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:46 PM
2

My favorite is when they are absolutely next-level horrible to you or cheat on you, and then once your SMV improves they come back later as if absolutely nothing happened, and are bewildered you are even upset or don't want to talk to them.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 09:22 PM
1

why don't you ask her this the next time and tell us how it goes
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:04 PM
1

I'm not saying you should have a napoleon complex. There's a famous PUA mantra which says "don't do her job for you and give her reasons not to fuck you." In other words, don't have insecurity yourself and give her reasons you're not good enough, people will already find reasons to hate you so why give them ammo, I'm saying this for you in life, you should never give someone ammo to bully you. I've had people hate me and literally want to end my existence for a disability. A disability, the abso…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 01:05 AM
3

I've had women who will only date celebrity baseball players date me, a normal guy, because of very strong game and strong frame. Attraction isn't a choice.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 10:30 PM
3

If I started making fun of you and mocking you over your height, what would you say? 'Oh my god, he's right! I'm so pathetic?' Or would you want to fight back, be mega self-confident, and make *me* feel small? Just imagine your enemies mocking you, and fighting back. Don't give people reasons to belittle you, they already will.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 09:14 PM
2

Life experience shows you how much people suck. When I was younger, I was super nerdy so I always had high empathy for others and went out of my way to be anti-shallow. Meanwhile: When I was nerdy and academic, people laughed at me and didn't take me seriously. When I went from 135 lbs, glasses, and no social life to 175 lbs., contacts, six pack, ripped, great job, and hot girls in my bed, these same people said: He's trying super hard to be 'alpha,' this isn't the real him, etc. When I was inju…
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:19 PM
4

the irish?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:32 PM
7

I literally knew this by his post title.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:05 AM
2

"Man burned to death in car crash, area woman affected."
/r/askTRP05/03/21 01:05 AM
2

the difference between me and a woman is this video doesn't make me petty, jealous, or mean, I'm just impressed
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:41 PM
0

You were depressed because you couldn't get a hot gf!? Bro wtf? You think having a hot girlfriend will solve all your problems. I promise you it won't.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:30 PM
4

this is why he was shot. grammar police takes no prisoners
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:02 PM
1

Vet people. You are the alpha in your life, and people are only allowed in if you feel that they have truly earned a spot. If they have, reward them. If they have not, drop them. Don't just include people in your life because you are "nice" or because you want to f**k them. And don't feel bad, they will drop you like a tissue or bully you if the situation was reversed.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:07 PM
2

I have a hard time dealing with this. How to move on from it?
/r/askTRP20/02/21 09:09 PM
78

It's not just that the average man underestimates how much attention a woman gets. It's that an average man underestimates how many low value men and simps there are.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 01:38 PM
1

You obviously should not have rated her, as she was looking for an ego boost. After you said she was a 7.5 and she whined, rather than trying to appease her you should have downgraded her to a 6.5 and mentioned how the prettiest girls also are self-confident or something like that.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:20 PM
2

Sure, the best way to piss them off is to not care and to treat them like an insect. People who are bullies thrive on the power them have over people. It is what makes them feel good: making someone else feel terrible. When you treat them as completely invisible, it takes away all their power and makes them feel like shit. Now all they are is someone with an ugly soul who is a joke. It's one thing to be a horrible person that puts others down, it's another to be a horrible person who is laughed …
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:59 PM
2

yes, rather than let it consume me and turn to hatred, I used it to build myself up.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:51 PM
2

when I was younger, I had self-doubt. even when I was decently confident and doing very well with cute girls in college, I still had the typical insecurities of a frat boy (being around some 6'4 alphas). I compared myself to the most alpha 10/10 guys. my self-confidence came from those who thought little of me (which was usually the more insecure guys). somehow, it brought something irrational out from me. every rejection, every little insult. every time someone thought I wasn't quite good enoug…
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:01 PM
9

just be alpha in all your interactions. what that means is you don't give a shit what other guys do. there will always be other guys who try to AMOG you. that's literally the vast majority of men. they will go out of there way to attempt to dominate you, especially insecure men. honestly, in my experience, almost every loser I meet has tried to AMOG me. it's just a facet of being a guy. part of getting past this is learning genuine alpha traits. 'amused mastery.' not giving a shit. being mysteri…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:41 PM
2

The vast majority of women in their prime like bad boys. They're simply incredibly attracted to them because bad boys are hot. Bad boys don't give a shit and exude confidence, something the vast majority of blue pilled guys don't have. Why are bad boys cringey? The only cringey "bad boys" are try-hard alphas, and those guys aren't really bad boys.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:51 PM
2

So I was relatively blue-pilled at the time. There were two girls I was very friendly with. I was very high value myself so I was completely sheltered from how people treat low value people. After my disability developed, I reached out to them a year later. I had expected the girls would side with me because I was such a genuinely kind and nice person (I didn't realize they had liked me because I had had higher SMV). By a year later, they had forgotten about our friendship and so I must have jus…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 03:36 PM
1

thanks for this. can't tell you how many friends I had in college who would actively seek out fights. "I want to get in a fight." At the time, it immediately made me think "this person is a try hard or an anti-alpha." Instinctively, even wayyy before I knew about the term alpha, I could sense the difference between someone who tries to act tough and someone who genuinely is tough. Someone who genuinely is tough wouldn't seek out a fight, and would only fight when absolutely necessary. Of course,…
/r/askTRP14/02/21 02:58 PM
5

Dude I got a severe disability when I was 21 and was close to death, and people were literally emotionally torturing me in the most insanely wicked way possible. I had people drop me like nothing. Then when I started doing better, everyone tried to come and latch onto me. Learn that no one really cares about you, just your mom and dad and maybe 2-3 friends. It's just reality, we all deal with it.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 12:29 AM
1

what do you mean
/r/askTRP12/02/21 05:49 PM
94

the same girl who has 2000 simps on Tinder and would reject you without a hesitation could actually simp for YOU if you guys meet in person, because you control the frame in that interaction.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:12 PM
4

When muh kween who gets 4000 guys on her Tinder profile weekly gets ignored by you, it does something to her brain. "This does not compute." She cannot handle it. sadly, by that point you usually genuinely don't care so there's no real satisfaction except the dumb look on her face.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:02 AM
1

Of course this is how hot girls feel. One of the problems hot girls deal with is that the vast majority of guys don't want them cause of who she is, they want them because she is a "hot girl." Take away that beauty, and the same hideous male would mock and deride her cruelly without a second thought. Everyone is so obsessed with getting a "hot" mate that they don't even for a second consider the person underneath. It's not at all about the other person, it is solely bout you. As you transition t…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 04:11 PM
3

Jealousy. Your loser 'friends' will try to negate your success and fit you back into a box. Women will be deceptive and cunning in order to gain your favor rather than to hurt you. They will present an image of themselves that is not at all congruent with who they are. Rather than weaponize your friends/social dynamics against you (when you are low value), they will attempt to use your friends/social dynamics to get you. High SMV problems are basically learning how to qualify people. Everyone wa…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 02:29 PM
5

It can be worthwhile to ask a girl for some help regarding an exercise, but it has to be an extremely organic interaction and no hint of 'wanting more.'
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:04 PM
1

I have to wonder if blue pilled people simply didn't grow up with girls. I was a nerd in high school and even I was well aware of women and their lasciviousness. In college, I was in a frat and girls were fucking horny and crazy. Where do you guys learn the opposite?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:55 PM
1

I mean come on man, you can't be that naive.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 03:33 PM
1

yes. same reason women tear down other women (who they are threatened by).
/r/askTRP08/02/21 11:49 PM
2

I'm very aware but that's not what I said.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 10:27 PM
1

good advice. thank you
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:06 PM
2

It is awesome when you discover how well women react to irrational confidence. they LOVE it.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:03 PM
2

this is also why frame is so important. It literally can be the difference between her thinking you are a loser omega and you being an alpha.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:44 PM
6

Why does making others feel worse make themselves feel better? I'm the opposite. I feel better when I make others feel good about themselves. But maybe that is male logic?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 07:56 PM
4

most of the times they're mediocre at best and think they're the most amazing thing
/r/askTRP08/02/21 07:04 PM
6

It's not just that, but the sheer number of repulsive men coming at them. Hence, it's easy for a woman to categorize you the same way as a genuine weirdo if you do one of 1000 things that ticks this box.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:13 AM
2

Without fail, literally every time I have been angry about a ghost, I realized later it was just my ego and that I was actually relieved she had ghosted me, since I would have found it hard to drop her myself (I'm too nice).
/r/askTRP08/02/21 04:26 AM
1

being alpha isn't really about what you do or don't do but how you do it.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:49 AM
11

whoooosh
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:49 AM
1

saying a guy "pulls" means he is able to get girls. "Pulls better than me"= he is better at getting women than I am.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:27 PM
4

I didn't say someone under 5'6 is an incel, rather that being short is a legitimate reason for being an incel. if you are an incel and not short, you're doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:21 PM
3

no I was not meaning to sound edgy. I just meant short guys can struggle with dating and I think it's a legitimate reason instead of a BS reason. some short men are kings. but if a 5'2 guy comes onto this forum and starts to bitch and sounds like an incel, I'm not gonna correct him. but if a 5'2 guy pulls better than me, good for him
/r/askTRP06/02/21 11:20 PM
1

How can someone even be an incel in 2021 unless they are 1) deformed, 2) disabled (mentally or physically), or 3) below 5'6?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:36 PM
2

absolutely based
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:21 PM
3

No, in fact I suspect there will come a time when Biden administration goes after masculinity. The current administration is fully on-board with the feminist narrative. Thus, at least half of the population would consider RP to be evil. Perhaps if it gets recognized enough though, the frame will eventually change when a new admin is in office.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:37 PM
3

you should get to the point where you don't have to ask a subreddit forum full of strangers this question. some will say yes. some will say no. personally, yes I think it is fine, however there are always repercussions to your actions. Personally, I don't put pussy so high on the pedestal that I want to risk my own safety cause of some nut bag. additionally, massive abundance mentality means I can just find another hot girl instead.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:21 AM
1

I happen to agree with this actually. Solipsism allows someone to treat another human absolutely horribly because you simply don't consider their existence. A low-value male doesn't really exist in the mind of a woman, so when she is brutal and evil it doesn't matter because the person inside of that mind isn't even seen as an existing person. I know this because of experience. I've had girls treat me terribly when I became low value, and then suddenly I'm high value again and they're like "wait…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 05:13 PM
1

just a metaphor. but I was thinking more like casinos
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:46 PM
0

haven't been smoking at all sadly. maybe that's the problem
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:45 PM
1

define sometimes
/r/askTRP31/01/21 04:29 AM
1

yes a casino is a much better metaphor. My point was that at the end of the day, you're in her frame as she is the one in control. Of course this is different for men that understand frame, but I was talking about the average person.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:47 AM
2

Yes and I also understand that shorts provide liquidity. I was just making a metaphor, perhaps a casino was more apt.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:40 AM
1

I'm very DGAF in general. You could call me whatever and I would laugh. but given how nuts the left is these days, calling me that really hit bro lol
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:23 AM
0

I'm an analytical type and enjoy assessing and discussing world dynamics. Just how I am. Do you feel that these posts are unwanted here?
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:05 AM
-1

Did you even read the context for that sentence? I was using hyperbole. Come on man.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:49 AM
1

Thanks for the response. Of course, if the game is rigged you can take advantage. The more the game is rigged for them, the more interest they have in you if you are an actual alpha male or at least can spit game like one.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:38 AM
1

Oh definitely, not denying that. Just curious.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:13 AM
3

also thx for the follow-up
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:51 PM
2

My game is, in reality, probably better than 99.9% of my guy friends, yet I am always the one who is told how to act while I usually keep quiet about my strategies. Just amazing how everyone knows exactly what to do and what to tell you when they don't know shit. Also the worst bullies I had were the biggest pussies the second the tables were turned, I've seen them cry like little bitches from a pin-prick whereas I could take massive pain and not whine (this was back in my nerdy days when I was …
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:31 PM
2

Interesting. It makes sense, it just sucks when you're experiencing it. Especially because as a high value man, I didn't mind raising up these girls. How would average or low value men act? I noticed that quite a lot of them treated me poorly too, because they were insecure so bullying someone beneath them was a cheap way of feeling good. Then the second you are higher value than them, they want to latch onto you.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 05:55 PM
13

It's depressing. What's even more depressing is what happens. You grow up being chill, you genuinely like people, you treat others with respect. You care about others because you're not a tool. You're most definitely not a piece of shit. At a certain point, maybe in a moment of weakness or simply because you're too genuine so you invite them into your life, these pieces of shit cause you massive problems. In order to defeat them, you become even worse than them and you yourself become what you h…
/r/askTRP29/01/21 04:46 PM
2

There are cheap ways to improve confidence and ego too, and there's nothing wrong with that. Do whatever it takes to build up genuine confidence, you'll be much happier in life
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:07 AM
3

Yes, it's true. Confidence is the greatest gift in the world. For me, it has been the difference between being an omega male and being a dark triad that has infinite self-esteem and feel I can deal with any adversity. For me, this was accomplished because I faced a life-changing disability, and had to decide to die or survive. Obviously that won't happen to everyone, but the point is that fighting through adversity really transformed me. I'm probably the most self-confident person I know, and it…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 12:31 AM
1

Social media, especially Twitter and Instagram, and the 48 Laws of Power are not mutually exclusive. You have the most powerful humans in the world on this platform. However, I agree that this specific post seems a bit small-minded.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:57 PM
1

Reminds me of this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nm-ZF9AfN40
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:46 PM
2

when do I get paid? ;)
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:32 PM
4

It's true and kinda sad. My friends from college all hang out with the same 3-4 people as they did 10 years ago. I, on the other hand, am a 'free agent' in the sense that I have no super close group but many close friends that count on me. I have learned how to be extremely social. I make that many new friends in a day, because I can talk to anyone. Additionally, I've travelled extensively and have friends all around the world. My point is not to be self-aggrandising but rather that you can buil…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:49 PM
1

'treated like shit' is pretty self-evident to me. It doesn't mean dominating, it means actions that are malevolent or intended to harm and put down. Disrespect, maliciousness, etc. I'm sure people on that thread wouldn't understand but I'm sure you do.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 01:49 PM
4

Sure. But most men are completely oblivious to this dynamic or willingly choose to deny it. A lot of guys in that thread want to look like "the good guy." Who wants to be associated with a group considered misogynistc and hateful? It must be so nice to have that many deceived people.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:28 PM
19

Read the posts. They don't know what redpill is. They assume it's about being dominating, rude, sexist, bla bla bla. Some are men virtue signaling. Others are women talking about how rude, sexist, etc. the men were. I actually do feel for young women who are treated like shit, but a redpilled man wouldn't do that. Fascinating though how a young women being treated like shit is a big deal, but a young man being treated like shit means nothing.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:45 PM
3

It makes you more invested in them than they are in you. When you do things for people, your mind backwards rationalizes and actually makes YOU more invested in them. Which is fine, just be cautious because they won't be invested in you. A big life lesson is only help people who want to be helped.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:17 PM
1

Don't be magnanimous. People don't appreciate it for whatever reason.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:05 PM
1

whatever, if he doesn't want to have sex then more for me!
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:02 PM
2

It's not that they don't understand that bothers me, but rather that many *choose* to not understand. It's oftentimes willing ignorance.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:55 PM
3

I've seen wayyyyyyy too much to ever be plugged back in. Probably my favorite thing to learn was subcommunication.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:28 PM
3

Good question. Firstly, only a small subset of men even experience what you're saying. I remember the first time I had a hot girl lust over me as if I was a piece of meat, it was awe-inspiring because it was just so *physical* and I had to do no wooing. You could see it in the way she moved, but even more importantly, her entire body chemistry changed. Suddenly, her eyes glazed over, she started putting out pheromones, she started walking in a more feminine way. Why? Because I had gotten pre-sel…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 07:08 PM
1

Exactly. Once you understand the rules of the system, you understand how to manage it. The question stops becoming: how do I approach or blah blah blah but what should I do with all this power? *should* I be moral? how should I manage it? etc. It's like you're the game-master.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:18 PM
5

Improve your game, up your SMV, etc.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:59 PM
1

nah, they're a good metric to compare yourself against. That's not what a real alpha male is. I also watch for *real* alpha males, and those are the ones I feel like I'm competing against.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:05 PM
0

wtf is a "league."
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:28 AM
14

It's depressing to find this out, especially when you learn how much of a difference you can make in others life with a simple compliment. This girl I spoke to to ask about directions mentioned that she was overweight (she was talking about COVID and risk-factors) and I said "no you look totally fine" and she started literally glowing. It made her entire day, especially because it came from a high-value guy. Alternatively, I could have made fun of her for being fat. But why?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 08:08 PM
2

I have tons of experience after getting the number, my game is pretty solid and I know all about the unanswered texts, calls and flakes. But for whatever reason, I have a mental block with numbers right well and I'm not even inexperienced, just rusty.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:01 PM
13

Outcome independence. You're too focused on getting women to like you.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 08:15 PM
23

Why would you care about what another creature with different sentience thinks about you?.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:02 PM
3

When the enemy speaks he replays the past. When God speaks he plays the future.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:18 AM
306

I know what tragedy feels like, brother. Life can be brutal. I'm not sure what to say but hang in there. You can DM me anytime.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:43 PM
5

I don't get the obsession with Emma Watson either, she's very meh to me.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:00 PM
1

As someone who has had a disability for years, at first there were rarely any scenarios in which telling people helped. In fact, it gave a green light to people to bully me, disqualify me, etc. Eventually I learned to only tell people at the point at which it benefited *me* to tell them...for example, if I wanted accommodations. I was only able to tell girls from an alpha position.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:51 PM
0

An alpha male wouldn't worry about how he's coming across.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 05:25 PM
5

Definitely, plus most people can tell what type of person you are and if you are shallow as fuck you'll get a quick reputation and people will not want to associate with you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:10 AM
2

Don't be beneath women in the social hierarchy no matter what. That's what I've learned from life. They have too much power and essentially zero empathy for you.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:35 AM
16

I go after the absolute most beautiful women and do very well for myself. However, I have plenty of fat female friends because a lot of them are genuine people and care about me. Beauty is important for sex but once you have abundance, you'll want good friends too even if they aren't the hottest.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 01:23 AM
7

I forget which rule it is but the story is about a guy who has a great job at a company and helps his loser friend get a job there. The loser friend gets a promotion above his friend and then looks down on him. The point of the law was that if you help the wrong person, you'll be no more than a reminder of how big a loser they were. It may be the "don't place too much trust in friends" law but I don't remember, it was an example in the book.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:36 PM
3

Rather than women complaining, they should learn to code.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:14 PM
5

Yes, women hate low value men with a burning passion.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:12 PM
47

This should be like a red pill rule, it's something that many of us have experienced. There seems to be some aspect of being a high value male where you want to be magnanimous to low SMV people, only for them to stab you in the back in the most brutal way. Also be careful who you help, lest you a reminder of their previous condition. It's a story from the 48 Rules of Power.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:45 AM
4

Yes this is on the sidebar. The person most attached has the least power and vice versa. What is your point?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:31 PM
3

I was a nerd growing up, always the shortest in class. It was always the tallest guys who were the nicest and best to me, whereas the guys just a bit taller than me but still short were absolutely nasty. Wasn't until college that my SMV got much higher and I became attractive, and of course at this point the taller guys wanted to hang out with me as a peer and the shorter guys were envious and made remarks about how I'd "changed" or whatever dumb shit they could think of. If there's one thing I'…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:31 AM
1

Yah why do you think people aim to put you down?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:15 AM
1

posted on OC
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:20 PM
3

One of life's red pills is to stay away from outcasts and low-status people. People with low self-confidence tend to treat others in really shitty way, they desperately need validation from high status, 'hot' people so they will treat anyone they perceive as lower in the worst way possible. It destroys you when the loser who you stopped from getting bullied turns around and bullies you the second you're in a rough situation.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:49 PM
1

It's depressing
/r/askTRP10/01/21 09:47 PM
2

I'd rather have more and more rejections, because that means I am actually taking shots.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 05:24 PM
5

Asking if an experienced alpha screws up approaches would be like asking 'does a major league baseball player screw up an at-bat.' It's almost an inherent aspect of the dynamic. In baseball, there is a reason that players have bad at-bats the first time they see a pitcher and usually far better at-bats by the third time through the order. Every single pitch is an opportunity for them to re-adjust, even if it is a missed pitch. I'd say I'm a pretty experienced approacher but I definitely screw up…
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:40 PM
24

Think about what you would do if you were as busy as the president of the united states. Of course you would leave people on Read half the time, not even on purpose but just cause you're super busy! Yes it is effective and she will often wonder why you don't respond. One thing about leaving someone on read is that it is keeps them wondering, whereas a message always sends a response even if it is simply subcommunication.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:00 PM
2

what can i say? I was asked to write a post about this, then I get downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 01:22 AM
1

thank you for sharing
/r/askTRP04/01/21 04:22 PM
1

I should have written as a caveat that it is important that these friends give you constructive criticism and are candid with you.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:25 AM
2

Absolutely not. You can increase your hit rate but I guarantee even Brad Pitt would get rejected by some women, for being too old/celebrity/etc.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:37 PM
1

Make new friends. Make friends that see you the way you see yourself. The difference is night and day. If you need some advice or help on making new friends, DM me.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 04:09 AM
3

You have a friend that doesn't see you the way you see yourself. Drop him. You have a friend that sees you the way you see yourself. Run towards him. You're not doing as well on Tinder as you deserve. Stop using it. You're doing super well when approaching girls in public. Keep it up. Everything that can accentuate your frame...from your job, who you date, what you read, who you spend time with, and even how you think should contribute to that frame. If it doesn't play to my benefit, I simply dr…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:57 PM
1

Yes but it's also about frame. An experience that doesn't enhance my frame is simply eliminated because it doesn't serve my interests.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:37 PM
1

Question I have for you. What percentage of people are even CAPABLE of perceiving the red pill? I've spoken to many friends and even when I try explaining concepts (w/o being explicit about the sub), they simply don't get it or laugh at the existence of these concepts. For example, I tried explaining subcommunication to a friend but he actually laughed at the concept! Meanwhile, other people pick it up almost intuitively. I have to wonder why some people are capable and others simply are not.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:25 PM
30

Something I've learned as a narcissist: Anything that doesn't make me feel better about my reality is eliminated, and anything that makes me feel better is accentuated. Hence, I create a reality for myself with constant positive feedback. If Tinder is not good for your mental health, drop it.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:12 PM
2

To add onto this, one reason the HB system was created in the first place (during the PUA years) was because it's highly predictable how a woman will act depending entirely on her HB categorisation. For example, when you sit down in a room, a girl that is an HB8 will automatically sit on a couch opposite you whereas an HB6 will sit much closer or even next to you. Why? Because the HB8 sees herself more as a prize and will make you jump through an extra hoop. How can HB8s, who don't know each oth…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:51 PM
1

epic comment
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:39 PM
9

You can use emojis but it's in how you use them. They should be used in a cocky-funny way, not in a lubby-dubby way.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:57 PM
6

I'm an attractive guy, but not crazy attractive. What an incel would call a 'chad-lite'...very 'cute' features, girls always liked me like how they liked Justin Bieber or something. I bring this up because of how important frame is. When I have been needy, clingy, or low-status, women have seen me as invisible. They hardly notice me. I've had girls turn me down saying 'I like your physical appearance but am not attracted to you.' When I have been super confident and had a very strong frame, wome…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 01:45 PM
2

as long as you can frame it in a good way, it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 11:12 PM
3

You should really be doing this with COVID or no COVID
/r/TheRedPill01/01/21 06:59 PM
6

Dude if he's just dancing with her and you're getting pissed then you need to work on your insecurity. If he tries kissing her though, just AMOG him and throw him out of the social group.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:17 PM
3

It's more than that. Waiting is a turn off. Go for it and stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:28 PM
-2

I suspect that people's don't like you in real life either.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 08:12 PM
3

People also underestimate how quickly it happens. One second you're the most healthy person you know, next you have cancer.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:55 PM
1

Yes I understand what they're doing and how it works.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:27 PM
4

I will, on the main sub
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:30 PM
10

no, by 'tutorial mode' I'm making comparisons to a video game, where tutorial mode is super easy. If you have very solid game, getting women is a joke
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:32 PM
14

No. Cold approach is harder so you just need to take advantage of all extended interactions. For example, yesterday I had a long interaction with a hotel concierge because I needed some help on an issue, and by the end she was eye-fucking me and touching herself. Just force more and more interactions like this, where the interaction is extended. If your game is solid, you will have adequate time to create attraction. And because she's not getting any other attention outside of dating apps, you a…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:27 PM
4

Human nature is evil; its good derives from conscious activity. I'm not arguing against the rationality of her behavior from an evolutionary perspective, just that it is malevolent. Under this logic, genocide is justified because of dilution of resources. And you can justify this under the laws of human nature. It's still considered evil. No, I hate feminists because they're intentionally trying to alter the power dynamics not so that things are equal but so that it is in favor of women.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:10 PM
3

but it goes way beyond that. I'm talking about very particular things, like the way she rejects you when you're too needy vs the way she rejects you when she thinks you're unattractive. Sometimes I wonder if I'm talking to the same girl, it is so similar also, you're only 18, don't let the cynicism and even (hate to say it) more misogynistic impulses get to you. it's good to be optimistic about women
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:04 PM
15

lol imagine being this hostile about a random comment on a Wednesday night. I'll add a caveat- she's fat and ugly because of something out of her control, like severe depression or cancer. I thought that that was obvious. Who would stay with someone who got fat and ugly from laziness?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:21 AM
20

wtf are you talking about. It's not a simp mentality to be faithful to your wife. I would never choose a fat and ugly girl, however if she got some disease and got fat and ugly, things would be different. How am I am simp for standing by her?
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:34 AM
25

1) Women are naturally dark triad. The theory I have heard is this helps them select the best mate. This means they are Machiavellian, narcissistic, and even have some psychopathic traits. This is because they are alphas and they are intrinsically high value due to their innate sexuality. Hence, you can expect them to act in dark triad ways. Obviously women, like all people, differ on their morality. Some are really great people. However, in my experience, even those women are on the spectrum of…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:24 AM
27

absolutely. There are MANY really wonderful women out there who stick by their husbands. But I think a lot of that has to do with how they are raised, their husband's previous SMV (in other words how attracted to him she was before), and who they are as people. I'm pretty narcissistic, but if I were to make a commitment to a woman then I would stand by it. It's just an extension of my narcissism. Hence, why I am so careful with my selection. I'm not a scumbag.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:32 AM
43

It is nothing personal. Once you realize that, you stop caring.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:33 AM
42

1) That women are dark triad. 2) The level of evil and malevolence held by some women. When I first encountered it, I thought it was a joke it was such a foreign concept to the way I was raised. 3) AWALT
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:32 AM
30

and yet, if you do have solid game, it's like living on tutorial mode
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:20 AM
2

if she was my wife, yes
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:20 AM
1

The same story as always...you become outcome dependent. Once that happens, you start changing your behavior because you NEED her. Yes I definitely surpassed the first guy, but I was running dark triad game so it's almost an unfair fight. Even the most confident, successful, jacked guy will lose out to a dark triad frame. It's like a cheat code because you're not playing on the same level. Of course it's not worth spending that much energy, there's plenty of other girls out there and she is comp…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:36 PM
2

We broke up because I got needy. I got her over him by being insanely alpha and literally never even considering him in my mind, this however led to a problem because once I broke frame she stopped being attracted to me. Yes it was worth it because I learned a lot about developing an alpha frame. Before this, I was just a reasonably confident guy, but her expectations made me develop a very strong alpha frame. In a certain sense, she molded me into it. While eventually I broke frame and got need…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:06 PM
1

when I was 21 I had a severe accident leading to a disability. I was basically in a state of unconsciousness, and out of desperation I reached out to a girl I had dated for some support. She gaslit me, treated me like absolute shit, and bullied me to infinity. Obviously her friends supported her evil. But my own friends took her side and even my parents and sibling made me out to be the bad guy who they were protecting from himself. To everyone, she was the victim. Meanwhile, I was asking for ab…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:44 PM
21

The more you interact with women, the more you start getting deja vu.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:36 PM
2

Yes. A girl I dated in my 20s was alpha widowed. When I was visiting her (she lived in North Carolina), we met up with him to see the dog they had mutually had. The look on her face was just nuts. It looked like she had been intimidated by the sight of a ghost. It was the first time I had seen this type of look on a woman. Meanwhile, I was obviously not affected by the guy, he was just a whatever. She's standing there looking like she has been run over by a truck. It took very solid alpha game t…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:24 PM
1

how do you know its Clausen?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:19 AM
1

Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:33 PM
1

It's definitely a valid question. My response is a response itself. In other words, I'm not saying "why do you care" to reprimand or look down on him or *just because*, but asking "why do you care" from a DGAF perspective. At least in my opinion, a red pill perspective would essentially be "who cares." If a woman has 10 million followers I personally don't give a shit. I don't care. I don't care about her followers, her ego, how amazing she thinks she is. I'm going to qualify her, not the other …
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:17 PM
2

Why do you care?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:31 AM
1

wow I'm really sorry man. this sucks.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 07:16 PM
2

It's the same with fishing. You have to learn how to reel a fish in. This takes practice...knowing how much attention to give, when to draw back, and when you've got a hook. I believe Mystery spoke a lot about this.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 06:55 AM
0

Uh oh, that means you are a gay
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:11 AM
3

Look, you came onto my post and said something hostile and rude, hence my hostile response to you. If you wanted a respectful conversation (and even to attempt to educate me or kindly explain to me why my post was problematic) you could have done that. But no, you were hostile and accusatory. And you're surprised when I react defensively? That is not reasonable. I've read your post history and can see you really despise TRP. You're making some strong judgments about others without fully understa…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 07:27 PM
3

“While, of course, not all dimensions of narcissism are good, certain aspects can lead to positive outcomes. This work promotes diversity and inclusiveness of people and ideas by advocating that dark traits, such as narcissism, should not be seen as either good or bad, but as products of evolution and expressions of human nature that may be beneficial or harmful depending on the context.” Kostas Papageorgiou, researcher stop conflating a conversation about this with 'domestic violence.' making t…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/20 08:50 AM
1

lol of course it is a sign of excessive narcissism. Why do you care? who the hell is this person? just laugh and go on your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 12:41 AM
1

fucking disgusting how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:23 PM
5

your post is dangerous for re-framing survival techniques for 'domestic violence.' This is a tough world, and learning how to navigate it includes looking out for yourself, and part of that is learning how to integrate the Jungian 'shadow side' to make you a complete person. I would be strongly against them using it for immoral actions. Conflating that with 'domestic violence' is not only completely stupid, it is dangerous because it tells boys that showing self-interest is going to lead to them…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 08:45 PM
2

Congrats on this.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:48 PM
3

Imagine that the people whose opinion you care about absolutely hate you. They hate you despise you, bully you, mock you, etc. At some point, to fight back you will realize "wait why do I give a shit what they think?!" That's how you develop a DGAF personality. By experiencing people judging you and hating you, and realising they're idiots (for example, they completely misjudge you). In other words, the negative pressure from bullies will allow you to fight back by just not caring.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:05 AM
1

I think it's a combination of 'mean' and 'gross.' There's something animalistic and repulsive about it.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:26 AM
0

It's tough man, but there's no givens in life. Humans have always dealt with completely unfair situations. The Jews were framed by Nazis as the oppressors while they were meanwhile being framed as subhumans whose existences did not matter. They were hunted for the crime of existing. Really ponder that. You need to develop alpha traits, including creating and establishing your own frame. TRP gives you an understanding of what's happening and the tools, but you will have to develop yourself and le…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:09 PM
2

It's not just that they're entitled, they are then told that they are the true victims in our society.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:24 PM
-5

Why do you care? Stop being a bitch and go develop these skills.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 08:10 PM
2

I don't blame women at all for that part. but the explicit desire to cheat immediately is repugnant
/r/askTRP20/12/20 12:20 AM
17

The problem is that he comes off like a supplicative little bitch, so of course it annoys her and makes her less attracted. He also framed her as the prize. To the bluepillers, she just appears unthankful. And it is true that she is a bitch. But even a nice girl would not be attracted by a comment like that.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:15 PM
1

not sure why you were downvoted. this was good advice
/r/askTRP18/12/20 10:15 PM
2

The Red Pill was originally founded in 2013 because the dating discussions on reddit were horrendous, because many men were noticing patterns about women that went completely against the Blue Pill talking points of "treat her like a person" and "have empathy/respect her." Imagine going on reddit in 2012 and seeing "women like dark triad men" or "women like status." That would seem immediately toxic and misogynistic. And we're not even talking about more extreme concepts such as "dread game." Any…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:52 PM
1

Not only that, it causes blindness as well. Be careful.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:07 AM
6

I found it went away once I had the opportunity to cheat, and didn't.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:01 AM
11

Would you feel this way about a really cute dog? No, of course not. Cute dogs are super cute, but you're of a higher species so you don't really even think about them as equals. Do the same with women. Are they pretty? Sure. But you're of a higher breed so even a 10/10 is just whatever to you. Admire her, enjoy interacting with her, but don't forget you're above her and don't let her forget it. And this doesn't mean being an arrogant dickhead, it means being extremely self-confident and KNOWING …
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:09 PM
5

The more you deal with women, the more you see the exact same patterns to the extent that I started getting deja vu in a lot of my conversations. They would almost seem like the exact same person, depending on the scenario. I once had an interaction with a girl and felt deja vu, and went back into my texts from 7 years before and another girl had said the exact same thing even though the situations were extremely complicated. It was like they were programmed robotically.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:29 PM
17

You're coming at it from the wrong frame. You're still trying to impress them. You may be redpilled but you're blue deep down. THEY should be paranoid about YOU, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:20 AM
2

oneitis sucks, there's a reason it's called -itis. Consider it a severe disease, like deafness or Alzheimer's. It's a shitty disease. It won't be easy to get over, in fact it will be very hard. Let me ask you: what advice would you give to someone else in your shoes?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:55 PM
11

Now you see how f*ing annoying it is to be a woman. Imagine this shit all the time from men everywhere, since you are 12. Weirdos, stalkers, creeps, simps, etc. The vast majority with extremely low self-esteem and with low self-awareness.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:51 PM
8

He's put more effort in naming his now 'banned' accounts than self-improvement.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:36 PM
2

Do you remember when you were a kid, and all the adults looked really big and overwhelming? Imagine an adult male who still sees the world like that kid. Everyone seems scary and bigger than him. He's the lowest on the totem pole, even below a janitor. That's an omega male.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:44 PM
1

I was always very high SMV since high school, and I always treated fat and ugly girls well because I was a nice person. I could only see my way of looking at the world.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 09:42 PM
8

This is something that shocked me as well. It wasn't just their evil, but just the level of evil combined with the complete lack whatsoever of guilt. Even lots of Nazis had more guilt. Female nature is a red pill, but so is human nature. My suspicion is that besides a few nuances particular to attraction (hypergamy) women aren't special, the way they act is just how alphas act, and women are naturally alphas because of their inherent SMV.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:38 AM
1

and all the great men of old have been metaphorically castrated, so now even religion can't manage them.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:20 AM
4

I never understood this, not even as a boy. I honestly thought it was kinda gay, almost gayer than 2 gay men.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:16 AM
1

fair enough
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:09 AM
11

not even my mom. I pick up things she says too. I accidentally injured myself and my mom said 'I can understand hurting someone else but not yourself.' but is it that self-evident? Some people would struggle more to hurt another human being than even themself because it would be so horrible. I don't believe my mom is sadistic, just rather solipsistic and bit dark triad, which automatically predispose you to her thought process
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:45 AM
8

why are you an omega male? I was an omega male because I had a major life catastrophe and, having realized how completely horrible my situation was, had confidence at negative one billion. Meanwhile, my enemies, two dark triad girls (who I had been higher in status 1 year before and was always magnanimous with) were in their primes, with thousands of oribeters, and came at me with EVERYTHING (they had masks they took off, they used their orbiters against me, used my family against me, etc.). But…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:00 AM
43

What causes the low self-esteem? This is an interesting dynamic. I have also learned, she hates omega validation, it just shows how low she is.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:55 PM
3

Being funny is good but doesn't guarantee a sexual frame. IF you are a bit unsure and not ready to make an explicit move, you can say things which will elicit a response that will clarify the situation. The more info you have, the easier your next move is.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:39 PM
1

You're essentially diving off HEAD FIRST a 200 foot building. Dude I get nervous on my 3 ft diving board. 3-2-1...! They tell you that if you don't go for it right then, you never will. Skydiving...you are attached to someone else, Very little effort on your part, except dropping like a rock. No volition, plus the ground is so far away that you might as well be in space. It's like comparing public speaking in front of the entire world with all eyes on you including the people in the arena, vs a …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 10:14 PM
3

I will concur with this. Skydiving was relatively tame. Bungee jumping was 10000x more thrilling.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:46 AM
2

you're completely fu**ed. you're bound to remain a virgin for eternity.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:39 AM
2

No, unless you expect to hold frame for the rest of your existence.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 10:30 PM
1

I mean, she's might just be trying to see if you're okay... Or she might be a manipulative bitch, in which case you can deal with it "the right way" by just maintaining frame, not being overreactive but also not being underreactive. In other words, act how someone would act when a grandma dies...upset but dealing with it.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 05:20 AM
1

I agree. I'm just talking about red pill concepts being verifiable. A lot of the crap on the main sub is laughable.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:11 PM
1

I'm sure that's true but that doesn't negate the truths of the actually red pill content, which have lined up with my own inter-sex experiences.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:47 PM
3

that's true everywhere and with everything
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:29 PM
1

how so?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 08:01 PM
1

Don't even get me started on gynocentrism. Gynocentrism should be labeled a societal disease or disorder, especially when these perfect angels are running around sucking Chad's d., Also, I agree about the red flags, and it makes me think more of my female friends who are genuinely good people.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:16 PM
3

Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People is good, it teaches you the notion of offering value. I'll try to think of others.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:32 AM
6

The truth is, we just exist in a different reality. If you think about it, we exist in a different reality in the same way that women exist in a different reality to the average male normie, who dates in a blue pilled way and has fundamentally no knowledge of the alphas that his female friends have been aware of since they were 12. Once you see it, you cannot unsee it. It took me a long time to understand and accept concepts like SMV and hypergamy and human interactions such as subcommunication …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:31 AM
5

USA, White/Jewish
/r/askTRP13/12/20 02:44 AM
1

get a dog
/r/askTRP12/12/20 10:44 PM
7

It's just gonna take experience. 8 years ago I made it a mission to talk to approach women in public. I was nervous and could barely say anything. Now after tons of approaches, gains and losses, calibrations, etc. I completely dominate conversations and intimidate girls with my confidence within seconds.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:58 PM
13

What are you talking about. They are literally *everywhere* dude.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:46 PM
1

Think of frame as your worldview or your perspective of the world. Let's just think of contending frames...Frame A: The United States is structurally racist and sexist and we need to dismantle structural racism/sexism through bureaucratic action. Frame B: The United States is the most equal country in history and focusing on race/gender is actually in of itself racist/sexist and bureaucratic action is actually structural racism/sexism in play. Which frame is "right" Both, neither, one or the oth…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:16 AM
3

why are you asking this when you know the answer. Find a better girl.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 11:12 PM
-1

Incels aren't maligned solely because of feminists, they also have shit branding. The average normie thinks of Elliott Rodgers, not a nice guy who is a 3. That's just the reality of branding. You wouldn't be surprised if someone thought poorly of tobacco companies even if in reality they were curing cancer. It would be better if they had a different name, or worked to change the brand's negative affiliation. And of course I'm aware that what they say is very truthful, in fact it is quite insane …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:51 PM
3

Yah, I get it. But it's best to live in your own frame rather than theirs. Terms like 'looksmatch' is just her frame. It is true that many women not only want men that are more attractive than them, but they feel entitled to it and that it is morally justified. I'm very aware of this, there was a time in my life where a bunch of average girls brutally dropped me and treated me like a subhuman because I fell into their frame. However, the same girl started stalking me once I re-asserted my own fr…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:39 PM
0

I don't care if he complains about women, it's the incel frame that is retarded
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:36 PM
1

I didn't say you were an incel. I said 'incel shit' which is what the term 'looksmatch' is. Your entire post is what I would read on an incel board.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:36 PM
0

This isn't inherently bad. It means women feel a sense of comfort with you, which is actually very important especially if you're not a beta. You just need to build a sexual frame and you should be golden.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:32 PM
-3

why is this Incel shit on here? why do you care? why do you come up with dumb terms like 'looksmatch'? honestly, who gives a shit what entitled women want? yes, I'm aware as well that women regularly act entitled to guys way more attractive than them. at the same time, I find many of those girls to be ugly so I DON'T CARE. if a 6 get super chad, good for them. go after what YOU want.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:28 PM
3

it's not the confidence. it is because a narcissist looks after himself and his family first.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:03 PM
8

precisely. My belief is that narcissism exists because it is evolutionary advantageous. Mix it with dark triad, and you have someone that is essentially fully capable of survival in this crazy, dangerous world. That is why women like it. Not because they are crazy, but because they want someone who can survive.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 07:34 AM
25

From someone who has gone through a severe trauma and developed narcissism to survive: Narcissism is not necessarily feeling that other people are losers. That is how shitty people see others, not high-functioning narcissists. It's not about being a bad person or a judgmental person. It's feeling that you are *different* and *special*. Other people are just ants working in the colony, while you are the king. You are the only real human out there, or at least the only person that matters. You har…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 02:56 AM
1

You're taking your opinion on this matter and selling it as fact. Let us know how it works before being so sure of yourself.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 01:05 AM
3

There's a difference between vulnerability and weakness. Women don't mind vulnerability. For example, there was a time when I was dating a girl and I had to get a medical treatment. I told her straight up- I might be very emotional tonight. Her response- "that's completely okay, and I totally understand!" And she meant it. And she was awesome. But later I started to divulge more of my weaknesses and it slowly started to tire her and wear her out, ultimately killing the attraction.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:00 PM
5

Why would you even wait for a 'choosing signal.' AMS only talks about that as a way to expnd your knowledge on game, it doesn't mean you actually need it to be successful. What type of man waits for a sign to go after something. I create my own luck.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:19 AM
1

what do you mean?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:42 PM
1

I know we're on the same side. But you're telling me they don't know better when they treat a low SMV guy like absolute shit? Of course they do.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:08 AM
1

I think your problem is that you don't have a purpose. You're doing self-improvement just cause you know you should. However, you don't have a purpose, so you're not excited about it. Find a purpose, and you'll enjoy the self-improvement that makes you achieve your purpose.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:05 PM
1

For some reason, men are too magnanimous. I have made that mistake too. You are in a situation in which you are higher than her in status, and rather than use that power to just dump her, you actually sacrifice for her. And then the second the tables turn and she is higher in status than you, she drops you without a second thought. And not only does she not appreciate your sacrifice, now you're just a bad memory to her.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 11:02 PM
1

Amused mastery is where you just laugh things off like the people who you are in confrontation with are ants. You don't want to come off smug or condescending, rather just that you could not care less about negative comments. Hence when a girl shit tests you (which is a confrontation), you laugh it off like it's your kid sister making a dumb comment. It's pivotal you don't act smug or above her, as that will just make you disliked. Rather, just act like you don't care...or better yet, just don't…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:49 PM
1

We care about beauty in order to date a girl. I don't judge ugly people as inferior to me, I just don't want to fuck them. Also, if a girl I'm dating gets a zit I'm not gonna drop her.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:23 PM
3

I heard it on talk radio this week. I live in SF. This woman was talking about how she moved to SF for a job, and her boyfriend (who was successful) loved her so much that he dropped his job and moved there with her. She kept saying "I don't know what's wrong with me. He did such a huge move. I just don't know if I'm ready for someone that is that dedicated. I think I need to break up with him." Meanwhile, this man deeply loved her and was incredibly dedicated. I told my Uber drive my red pilled…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:21 PM
3

The shallowness just amazes me. Like even if I completely went out of my way to be that shallow, I couldn't approach it. It's pretty repulsive to be honest.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:10 PM
4

Amused mastery
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:58 PM
3

This post is inspiring. You should go into writing. I'm not even joking.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:38 PM
2

Amused mastery. You need to look at the interaction as an experience that you're doing for your own entertainment, as opposed to looking at it with any outcome desired. I've seen the most badass, ripped alpha men approach women and even they feel nervous, because approach anxiety is a natural element of intersex interaction. The only way past this is amused mastery and to view her more as a little kid or puppy or something non-threatening, as opposed to intersex.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:33 PM
2

Firstly, don't be so hard on yourself. You can get where you want with focus. Go study successful and great men and emulate them. This means focusing on your body, your mind (reading and studying), your status, etc. Focus on your studying and your school. Find a passion and pursue it. Develop self-confidence. Essentially, build yourself up and become a strong man.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:14 AM
1

The ideal is for him to become a monster and then develop empathy.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:14 AM
1

I don't think you have to break him down, just teach him humility. I'd have him read some of the Greek mythology stories about excessive hubris (maybe have him play some video games with Kid Icarus and teach him that story). Show him disabled people and poor people and ask him how he would handle it if he was injured too. There are some biblical passages in Christianity and Judaism that would be beneficial too.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 11:25 PM
3

Yes but women have a hard time dealing with red-pilled men, because they rarely come across them. Women may be pros but they have no idea what to do when they come across someone who plays the same game but better.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:49 AM
1

A lot of it has to do with de-programming what he learns growing up. For example, when you're young, if you fall on the stairs you don't care what people think of you. That shame comes as you grow up. I believe the same is true with women. As.a child, you're innocent and don't think about stupid concepts such as SMV and value. You're not insecure. You just have fun and play with girls, and you like a lot them. Don't let all the stupid social conditioning get to his head. Have him think naturally…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:49 AM
3

Because they can.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:13 AM
13

what the f is this question?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:36 PM
1

there's no shaming. they can do literally whatever they want with no consequences.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:56 PM
1

what do you mean?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:54 PM
2

Dude since day 1 they are told they are oppressed and victims. Good luck convincing someone in that position that there's another dynamic going on. All they see are the top 10-20% of men. These men are successful and these men often do drop women for another one at the slightest inconvenience, because they can. Women are told to stand up for themselves, feel empowered, go after what they want unapologetically. Unfortunately, they don't see how this damages the other 80% of men, who are essential…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:02 PM
6

All men, even alphas, get oneitis. It seems to simply be a feature of the male romantic experience. Some men get it for years, or never get over it. Just accept it as part of your reality, accept that you'll have those feelings, and move on. You need to meet new women and create new experiences.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:46 PM
6

They're all insecure, and will often actually make a comment about it if they think you're an alpha. I've had girls show me a picture and qualify it..."that was me at my heaviest, it was devastating" when she is like 2 pounds overweight.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:37 PM
1

that's the advice women get, right? "you are number one." At its core, RP just plays the same game but to win
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:32 PM
2

The real issue to me is societal expectations, not biology. Sure biologically women are programmed to drop you. That sucks, but I can fully accept that, it's just nature. It's the societal part. Society would shame you, fairly, for dropping a woman if she had cancer or shit. But there's no such expectation when it comes to men. If anything, she is told "you don't need this," "you are the victim," etc. We definitely don't need this shit.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:25 PM
1

developed after 21. basically, I asked for help from two female friends and they used the opportunity to prey upon me and throw every psychological abuse at me as possible. It was legitimately evil and satanic and monstrous. As a 21 year old fighting for my life, it was obviously terrifying. I didn't know things like that existed. They looked down on me with hatred. Misdirection, manipulation, cruelty, lying to my family about me, etc. They targeted me for destruction, because I was an omega at …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:07 PM
2

Use your illness to develop extreme confidence. Hard times create strong men. If you have dark triad levels of confidence, would will throw themselves at you. Also, I'm sorry you are going through thi.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 05:13 AM
3

As I've mentioned here in the past, I had a severe, severe disability since 21. The level of bullying I received was almost too much to imagine. It should have killed me; it was cruel, sadistic, nasty. I was psychologically tortured. It was the first time I witnessed true monstrosity and evil, and at my weakest point and when I was barely a man. Yet it actually made me a lot stronger. I realised that even if I was on my death bed, nobody (but my family and a few friends) would truly care about m…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:45 AM
3

Having a serious health issue doesn't make you low SMV.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:37 AM
1

For a long time, I thought I was the *only one* experiencing this. I thought I was crazy. When I discovered TRP, it validated my experiences. I used to feel bad for these women because it ruined their souls, but maybe I'm wrong. Maybe there is no negative to them. The only negative I can see is that the ugliness inside really starts to show on the outside when they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:55 AM
1

yah. looking back, I don't even know what I was thinking. some of the women I spent time with were literally evil, and somehow in my naive and egotistical state I simply missed it. honestly, I think they were at the level of murderers. my parents did a disservice to me as I was unbelievably sheltered (come from an amazing, loving family). I had such high status that I simply missed it. I actually believed in things like "friends for life" or "treat people how you want to be treated." I was magna…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:02 AM
1

Yah. It's not that hard to see the signs once you know what to look for. The problem is that when you're young and from a good family, you don't even know these creatures exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:48 PM
1

If your SMV is high enough, absolutely horrible/monstrous women will seek you out. This is one problem high-status males face that lower-status males don't. Monstrous women tend to have high egos and high self-esteem, and of course they want the best of the best. Additionally, while all women are wired to want the alphas, monstrous women seem to be wired to want monstrous or high-status men. If you become that, get ready for 1) those women to show up, 2) those women to hide their true selves, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 05:24 AM
1

someone downvoted me
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:41 AM
1

> I was bullied a lot Bullies judgment of you should mean absolutely nothing. I got a job offer out of college at a top stock trading firm for several hundred grand per year. On track to make a million by 25. Got the hot blonde girl's number in the lobby. As I walked out of the building, this did not stop a bunch of fat, uneducated girls from bullying me because I was wearing glasses that day. It's nothing personal. Bullies are just looking for fun and you're their next victim. They perceive you…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:48 PM
1

Just watch how they treat others and what they talk about. Even some things like physiognomy, how they move, how they speak, etc. can tell you a lot about people. As you become higher value, it can be harder for you to identify shitty people because they will treat YOU well (since you are high value, hence they want you to like them). The question is, how do they treat others around you, especially those who they consider beneath themselves. Sociopaths wear a mask. Learn how to see through peopl…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 09:12 PM
1

you...downvoted me lol? weak
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:58 PM
43

It completely depends if they are a little bitch or are cool. I always respect nice guy/quiet guys who are chill.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:48 PM
0

truthfully, I don't want to explicitly say what my exact personal problems are on an internet board so I can't be tracked down. providing personal information, especially the type that is serious and potential known in the community, makes it much easier for malicious people to dox you, so I make it into a similar situation. this is true for a lot of my stories. I'm paranoid, and that is because we're entering a very anti-red pill time period. maybe I'm too paranoid about being doxxed, so my acc…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:30 PM
1

what connection is there between red pill and the future of the country?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:53 PM
1

You need to stop being a bitch, to be honest.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:33 PM
30

How is this even the case? Why would anyone want to be average? I don't even get what is going on in these people's heads. It always boggles my mind that living, breathing humans exist who are so functionally different than me.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:37 AM
1

Because while everyone is looking to her for attention and to supplicate (because they are simping for her, they are begging for her attention), she's looking to someone to whom she can supplicate and to whom she can simp. She wants a higher value male, it's that simple. Bad boys just don't give a shit about her.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:44 PM
1

This. I legitimately have had the same girl call me ugly one day and hot the next when I was beta/omega vs. alpha. It's actually a rule I would add to TRP. If you are sufficiently alpha, girls will actually suddenly find you physically more attractive, whereas if you not sufficiently alpha, they will see you as uglier. It must be a glow or something.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 09:32 PM
1

Looks status charisma confidence. A high value man. Sadly, the amount of women I've been around who say the shallowest shit in the world would shock you. It would be an incels nightmare. I've had girls say unbelievably shallow things that would surprise even the most cynical incel. "Don't you hate it when you end up liking ugly guys" was one of my favorite recently.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 01:25 AM
1

I just can't do cheating man. Maybe I'm a pussy, but I wouldn't even cheat on a fat girlfriend with a hot girl. I'd just break up with the fattie first. My suspicion is the reason they have less problems with cheating is because they're wired to still need the beta provider.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 12:07 AM
2

It did *completely* alter my view of women, though. You can't come out of that blue-pilled. I actually figured out VERYYY quickly what was happening: excessive female narcissism from feminism and "female emancipation," Eat Pray Love culture, hypergamy=empowerment, no consequences for women, etc. Inflated egos. Massive simping from men. Women's HATRED for low-status men. Solipsism and extremely strong frame from the woman. This all happened in 2010 so I had to put it together before TRP came out.…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 11:04 PM
3

Misdirected me, told me to call them then lied, told lies to my family about me, played victim, looked down on me like a dying animal, mocked me, psychologically attacked me and psychologically beat me up. Ostracised me from any and all events going forward, including years later. When I ran into one of them, the burning hatred was beyond anything I have ever seen: just massive hatred. To be fair, I was acting as an extreme omega (needy, extremely low value, no pre-selection, extreme weakness) a…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 07:25 PM
1

It's such a great look. That one or the one where she has a hard time looking at you because she's so attracted.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:32 PM
2

Did I tell you the story where I had a stroke at 21 and asked for help from 2 female friends and they brutally psychologically attacked me with as much malevolence as possible, without considering for even one second that they were even potentially morally wrong? They then spent the next 4 years making my life a living hell at every turn, even when I had completely 100% forgotten about them. It was *sport* for them. Just me 'asking' for help seemed to trigger a sense of utter disgust. No, they d…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:15 PM
3

They've also been conditioned that men are bad, their feelings are the only thing that are important, literally anything is acceptable (cheating even) for empowerment, etc. etc.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 06:06 PM
2

I've had girls before where I wake up the next morning and think: what was I thinking! this girl has a tiny stache and is not as cute as last night when I was drunk. Actually she's not cute at all! The next week she makes it clear we're breaking up cause she thinks she's hot shit. these girls truly are delusional. actually, the hotter girls don't even act like this. It's like a weird thing that 5s and 6s do. 9s don't even bother with it
/r/askTRP23/11/20 05:56 PM
1

Can being an intimidating, beautiful women scare off some men? Of course. same reasons
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:13 AM
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A lot of it stems from the full emancipation of women after the 1960s civil rights era and the backlash against the patriarchal norms. Every patriarchal norm was challenged and women were essentially told a) they were oppressed and b) they should always do what's in their best interest. Add to that all the natural immense interest they get from men, the simping from the media, etc. and you create an absolute monster. Masculinity faded and men became simps and bitches, meanwhile the women became …
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:09 AM
4

Absolutely. I come from a 'nice Jewish family' where family takes priority. I was always taught the importance of family/LTRs/etc. From school, I was blue-pilled: taught feminism. After getting absolutely demolished by a few women at my lowest point (and I mean completely tortured and obliterated), I naturally came to the red pill mentality even before entering this sub. And when the predator that attempted to destroy my life saw me with much hotter girls and a genuinely alpha/DGAF attitude, she…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:50 AM
3

You only fuck up if you think you fucked up. Your frame is everything.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:03 PM
11

You're 21, what the fuck are you talking about. It's not like you were falsely imprisoned in jail for 40 years.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:26 AM
1

you put is so aptly and yet there is such a complete lack of awareness with these girls. They have no idea how predictable that are.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 06:53 PM
1

can you expand upon this?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 02:01 AM
2

One thing I honestly love about women, is that when you finally figure it out, you realize that they're just little girls deep down. All that gigantic ego, all that narcissism, all that treating guys below them as invisible...once they meet an alpha male, they become essentially beta males. They deeply seek your validation. Like a child, they're ashamed when they disappoint you. I've seen signs of shame and humiliation on their faces that look like my puppy dog. Of course, only a minuscule porti…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:42 AM
3

Another cool dynamic I noticed was when I started approaching really really stunning girls. I would watch as this super ripped alpha male would build up the courage to go speak to the hot blonde. He would build up his resolve and confidence, and go talk to her and try to hit it off. I realized that I didn't want to play that game. So instead, I learned a different approach. I would just circle in from above and laugh at what she was doing and decide to pursue or not. In other words, instead of s…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 10:54 PM
1

Having that many men fawning over them gives you an advantage. You just have to be high value enough to get her attention (from an approach, let's say), and then just not give a shit about her. I can't tell you how many girls I've used this approach on. They are used to thousands of messages, some from high value men. The second you just treat them like a kid sister or just ignore them, they light up. Obviously you have to be seen as attractive/high-value already. I can't tell you how easy it is…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:43 PM
1

I definitely believe so. While some alpha males are born, others are made. However, you have to achieve a very specific thought process which can take years to get to. Lifting is just one aspect. You also need to learn how to face challenges with bravery and be strong in the face of danger. Most importantly, you need to learn how to assert your will and take charge.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:27 PM
9

Yes once you figure it out it is a complete joke, you live in a world much like women do (with abundance reality). Suddenly the advantage shifts to you. It's actually a crazy thought. Here are these people who have thousands upon thousands of worshippers. They are much like celebrities, they can get whatever they want. And yet, here comes an alpha male and they are forced by biology to submit to him. It's like a cosmic joke. One girl I knew would get 2000-3000 hits on tinder in a day. I was very…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:53 PM
2

do you need to desensitise yourself to cute cats or cute puppies? Just don't think about them as anything more than that.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:41 PM
1

You need to get over approach anxiety and get over the fear of talking to women. Talk to your female neighbor, your female grocery store worker, etc. Just ask questions. Slowly build up the confidence so that you're comfortable speaking with women in general. Eventually you may ask the phone number of one, at which point you could get rejected. You will learn that rejection is no big deal.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:50 PM
1

I am amazed that someone else has come to similar conclusions as I have. We live in a predator infested environment, and at the very least you need to learn the skills necessary to defend yourself. Becoming a predator yourself is a great way to understand how predators think and defend yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 06:48 PM
3

People expect WAY too much of relationships and the other gender. I don't really get it, and frankly I never have. People were always obsessed with the concept of dating. Who cares? Be happy with yourself, maybe someone will or won't come along. And with TRP knowledge, you can even fuck at will.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:40 PM
1

It is hard for me to relate to this.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:10 PM
1

yep maybe 3
/r/askTRP16/11/20 06:10 PM
240

Newsflash: you're completely alone in the world, except for your mother and father. That's why it's such a big deal when they die. At the end of the day, it is just you taking. on the world. Once that realisation kicks in, you will feel much better. Also, everyone faces this, and you've been blessed with some great "cheat codes" of understanding alpha behavior and how to act upon rather than be acted upon.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 12:17 AM
2

That's enough, man. The problem comes when you make *her* your purpose. Making the family your purpose could conceivably be different if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:30 PM
1

She's not even pretty. Why is it always the 6's like this that cause the most damage.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/11/20 07:23 PM
2

Of course. Some of the most social people in the world were absolute loners, which is why they understand the game so well. The question is: are you a loner because you are an insecure loser, or because you are shy/introverted/don't know how to make connections/etc? As long as you have strong inner game, you should be fine eventually. Also, feel free to message me if you to need to 're-affirm' your world view.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 07:19 PM
11

cute dogs *are* their children
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:31 AM
20

not just her own survival but that of her children.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:15 AM
9

A man showing weakness is like a woman showing she gained some weight. It's not her fault she's not as attracted. Obviously, of course, different girls are going to act differently. I personally wouldn't drop a girl just because she had gained 15 lbs after her mother dies. However, some guys would, just as some girls would drop a guy for crying when his dog dies.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:49 PM
123

It is the exact opposite of how we were brought up. I was told that women were the empathetic gender.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 11:45 PM
1

That is fundamentally not true. Being an alpha has nothing to do with being nice, hence why dark triad is so successful. The Nazi SS were complete alphas, and they were some of the most evil human beings alive. That being said...we should STRIVE to be nicer.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:09 PM
0

Introduction manual to PUA. Once you understand TRP, these concepts make sense.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:06 PM
4

I actually find it a positive that 4s act like 9s. It is much harder to tear down someone who has a healthy ego. With someone with an inflated ego, it's a joke. While I don't like tearing down people's egos in general, there is something appealing about tearing down the ego of a girl who emotionally abuses guy and is a POS.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:05 PM
3

people still think you have to establish that you're interested? usually the girl will make it clear through subtle signs, and then you have to make a move and show her you're interested AFTERWARD. otherwise, you're telegraphing your interest
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:19 AM
1

Women are attracted to men who are high value. A high value man does not give a shit about women's validation because he is self-validated. You probably didn't attract anyone because you weren't high value enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 09:23 PM
4

Hard to say, but we're pretty sure it was linked to an anti-depressant and mixing some medicine. I was really sloppy and took some drugs with my anti-depressant without realizing how fragile that shit was and without appreciating my health. It completely disabled me for several years.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 12:26 AM
3

once you're able to develop some dark triad traits for yourself, and once you understand the purpose of women (to create the strongest humans), it makes a lot more sense. I can see now the way this woman saw me. I can understand her desire to exploit and drop, to look down on someone with physical inferiority, to see a member of the opposite sex (who has very low status) as invisible. and once that person returned to being healthy and high status, to suddenly see him as very visible and desirabl…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:22 AM
1

I was directed to the sidebar. I will now delete this thread.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:08 PM
1

asktrp sidebar or trp?
/r/askTRP01/11/20 11:07 PM
2

fair enough. but I feel like I'm going out with them for a unique reason, which is to meet people and learn new stuff, not cause i'm simping for pussy. Sometimes non-conventionally attractive women have unique insights into life.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:38 PM
1

do you care if your puppy has a high ego? no. why do you care what a woman thinks of herself? just ignore it
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:37 PM
3

it wasn't so fun to learn this lesson when I had a stroke at 21. She spent years treating me like prey: ostracising me from parties, talking shit about me to others, humiliating me as much as feasibly possible, and looking down at me like a Nazi looked at a jew...all while I clung to life. Why? because the stroke had made me non-functional and I had 'omega' status and I committed the crime of asking her for some help. of course, I recovered from the stroke and gained infinitely higher status tha…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:27 PM
23

You forgot some other aspects. Academia and media constantly re-enforce her and the fact that she is "oppressed." The narrative is entirely on her side. She is genetically designed to be self-serving and solipsistic. Feminism has convinced her that she can do no wrong andthat there's no such thing as accountability. She, for having a vagina, is essentially a celebrity. Pretty powerful. And yet, all women are vulnerable to the man who can look at all of that and laugh at it.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:33 AM
12

It's interesting you say this, because many years ago I saw this dynamic. This 6 I knew would get plowed by the alphas of my fraternity. The guys would talk shit behind her back non stop, talking about how ugly she was both inside and out (she was a truly horrible human being). They were typically repulsed by themselves, but horny is horny. As a result, she grew an increasing sense of narcissism and genuinely felt entitled to the Chads. She genuinely thought she was hot. Meanwhile,she treated no…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 02:49 AM
3

they just exist in a different reality. that level of privilege is almost unfathomable and yet those same girls go INSANE and willingly make themselves your slave-girl if you are truly an alpha. it's just such an interesting dynamic. they have infinity power, but are powerless against the alpha male (who truly has infinity power) most women don't even know this, by the way. Most of them haven't met a true alpha male but once they do all their shitty shenanigans, dark triad behaviour, cruelty, na…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:42 AM
3

I'm sorry man, that sounds rough. I hope that you have come out doing okay
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:39 AM
2

"not hot enough not to pay for my frappucino"
/r/askTRP01/11/20 01:10 AM
14

how is this even possible. even in high school when my game was bad and I was really dorky, never for one second did I put these hot girls on a pedestal. They're humans who shit like you and I. It's just a foreign concept to me. maybe some guys are just hornier or more desperate. I'd rather not get any than simp
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:45 PM
1

oh definitely. she met my threshhold of attractiveness
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:12 PM
19

The high HBs are a different dynamic. The HB6s are just a joke. They get absolute tons of male attention and they think they are qweens, and a lot of them become narcissistic bitches who entirely lack any sense of self-awareness. A lot of them are extremely shallow too, despite not being anything special themselves
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:47 PM
59

I think some of us, even now, underestimate the amount of betas and omegas out there. I always forget how many genuinely weirdo and strange people are out there, the types that have no self-awareness and will always be low value. Even most of us see these people as invisible or have no interaction with them, but there are a ton of them, and women experience all of them hitting on them. None of us have a problem talking to women, but think of how many guys out there that can't even say hi to any …
/r/askTRP31/10/20 07:15 PM
3

If I was a 5 I would be less likely to go out with a 5. I think out of insecurity I would always be shooting for the stars, which would be like a 6 or 7. But in my current situation I don't really mind going out with girls beneath me in looks because they often have interesting insights to offer.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 06:59 PM
8

At first I felt like I had accomplished something great. The validation of pretty girls felt great. Then I realized I didn't care at all about their validation anymore, which only made the girls more interested...but at that point I stopped caring. Once you get what you dreamed of, you don't even care any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:54 PM
11

I stopped getting angry at people, even psychopaths, when I re-framed it in my head. Would I get mad at an alligator for being a predator? Would I get mad at a scorpion for trying to sting me? No. If I lost my arm because a bear attacked me because I went into its lair, should I be mad the bear? No. So I don't get mad at people for being people, I get mad at myself for putting myself in those situations and not paying attention to the signs.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:39 PM
3

America was a relatively patriarchal, Christian society until the late 1960s. A lot of this changed during the civil rights era. One of the 'civil rights' that was focused on was female rights. From the 1970s on, women were 'emancipated.' No one knew where this would lead to, so we can't really blame anyone as it hadn't be done yet and it was a good cause. But essentially, they were 'emancipated' with absolutely NO limits on their actions, no accountability, no expectations, and while still reta…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 04:36 PM
1

I was so glad when I originally found TRP because I thought I was the only one! All my life I had been told about the oppressedness of women and the goodness of women, and I had stupidly believed it. There had been some curious signs over the years but nothing that stuck out. When I came across dark triad behavior for the first time, it was like finding out about the Nazis or something. It blew my mind that some of my female friends could be so incredibly intentionally cruel and evil. Once I cam…
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:16 AM
4

It's actually quite interesting. I had a few female friends whom treated me so terribly when I was younger. I always thought "the wall is gonna hit them especially hard" but that seemed SO far off. Well, jesus christ did it. They are both so ugly now that I am ashamed at ever feeling bad about them (and I'm not even a shallow person. I wouldn't call them ugly if they don't deserve it! But jesus are they ugly!) It never seeks to astonish me how some of the bitchiest and meanest girls become some …
/r/askTRP31/10/20 12:27 AM
4

yeah its shocking when you find out your good friend Ally is actually a dark triad psychopath. What's interesting though is I can tell much earlier now. I can see on their faces and the way they act if they are dark triad wayyyyyy before they act like that.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:47 PM
32

It does train them, it trains them that *they're* the potential dangerous ones! I never even considered that women could be dangerous until I saw it with my own eyes. Keep in mind that women are taught this too, hence why they get awy with a lot of horrible stuff. It's easy to justify horrible stuff when you don't think you're capable of being horrible. "self-interest/self-defense/empowerment" bla bla bla
/r/askTRP30/10/20 05:48 PM
112

Imagine coming from a good family and thinking people are kind deep down, and then encountering this when you go to your dream school. We really don't prepare children for malicious and dark triad people (although women are trained about dangerous men).
/r/askTRP30/10/20 04:13 PM
8

Bullies, malevolent people, and narcissists only understand one language: strength. It has been like this since the dawn of man. Don't play to people's mercy. > I've never hesitated from getting into violent situations (both physical and verbal) with those who are my enemies or those that I do not care about You shouldn't be getting into violent situations with others if you can help it. It's dumb
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:20 PM
0

50? this 6 at my school got 200 the other day in under an hour.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:47 PM
2

I always felt that MeToo put women at the biggest disadvantage. Normal guys will be too fearful to approach. The only ones willing to approach would be either creeps or men so confident that they simply don't care. The problem is that while women will meet some truly confident men, they will also meet a lot of creeps.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:32 PM
11

nice man. well I am proud of you for making so much progress!
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:29 AM
-8

yes I was aware it could come off that way, hence why I made it clear in the first paragraph that I was no Chad.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:45 PM
2

I didn't understand *why* I got it. As dumb as this sounds, I just thought I got it cause girls liked me. Not cause of SMV, hypergamy, pre-selection, etc. etc a lot of other things that I would learn about through times where my value plummeted. I also like talking on redpill forums to expand my knowledge (for example, understanding dark triad behavior).
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:17 PM
1

"Obey?" Wtf are you a slave-holder? I think what you're truly asking is, how do you make a girl desire to submit entirely to you. The answer to that is you must become an extremely high-value man.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:20 PM
21

imagine 100 years of warrior men, from the Americans to the Brits to the Germans to the Japanese to the Soviets, fighting over every inch of this world, being gassed to death in trenches, fighting in concentration camps, etc. etc. only so Joe Simp can beg for a scrap of a land-whale 3 from his computer box 80 years later
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:11 PM
7

A lot of it depends on her background. My mom came into the business world when women were not that involved, so she is more SJW inclined. She has no exposure to modern women. When I bring up that women suck these days, my mom doesn't get it because she genuinely thinks women are oppressed and therefore cannot suck.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:07 PM
-1

yes I agree that like 90% of what incels say sucks. However, sometimes they do come across some great observations. I think the fact that many women are hateful creatures is not exactly a new observation.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:07 AM
2

Did you play vidya growing up? Once you get the game guides, it changes everything. Same with the red pill. Women are no longer mysterious.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 02:04 AM
12

Narcissism, selfishness, and dark triad traits are great for you. They're bad for everyone else, which is why we condemn them.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 04:46 PM
3

bingo. it's entirely stupid logic to think "omg this person sucks, why do they suck so much!" I don't care if they suck or if they're great, that's their problem and I'll act accordingly to take advantage. for example, it used to anger me how narcissistic women were. It stopped angering me when I realised that their narcissism made them extremely vulnerable to being manipulated. All I had to do was ignore them and this bitchy, nasty, horrible human being was sucking my dick 20 minutes later. sud…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:20 PM
1

There really are two different existences for men: as an alpha male, and as something else. In the latter world, you work out, build up game, etc. just for the chance that she might say yes. 90% of the time she won't. Usually it's just a "shoot your shot" random game. Even if she does like you, it's usually temporary. You go say some line to her in the hope she'll like it. The other mode, alpha male mode or simply Chad Mode, is existence on tutorial mode. Girls you once dreamed unattainable simp…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 11:46 PM
1

absolutely. Actually having a disability has taken away most of the seriousness I used to place on life. In other words, everyone else is so stressed out about things being uber perfect. Me...I realize life just kinda happens and the vast majority of shit most people would go INSANE. about isn't a big deal. I don't really even care much about dying anymore, just enjoying life for what it is.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:46 AM
2

It's been almost *entirely* internal. In other words, the shift has happened on the inside, which has affected how I view the outside world. And it's not conscious: I don't think "damn those girls are easy now." I just look at the exact same picture or comment section and think, what was I thinking back then? That girl I was obsessed with (and even intimidated by) is objectively so far beneath me that I have trouble of thinking of her consciously (this is similar to how women think...men who are…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:35 AM
1

sigh I have a pretty bad disability. Posts like this make me sad. I get to live in tutorial mode era on mega hard mode. I guess on the good side, if I lived 100 years ago I would just be dead.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:23 AM
1

I don't really care what women want. They can talk and if something interesting is said I will listen, however I don't listen to someone just because they have a vagina. Bring value or stfu
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:22 AM
12

trp males and other males really live in alternative realities. I remember when I was more blue pilled, just the thought of having sex with a girl seemed like an impossibility and life that only super alphas got. It was unimaginable. now it's a joke, the same girls I thought were goddesses I now see as completely invisible (which shows how much my frame has changed).
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:36 PM
1

trp males and other males really live in alternative realities. I remember when I was more blue pilled, just the thought of having sex with a girl seemed like an impossibility and life that only super alphas got. It was unimaginable. now it's a joke, the same girls I thought were goddesses I now see as completely invisible (which shows how much my frame has changed).
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:36 PM
13

another thing men are better at women than? colored me shocked.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:33 PM
8

This is the just the female way of thinking. She will make herself the victim almost no matter what. You could be a Jew getting gassed by Nazis in WW2 and asking your female friend for a lifeline of help, and if she found you sufficiently annoying or low-value she would actually make herself into the victim not just in her own eyes but in those of others. Suddenly you'd be this annoying man acting needy and desperate. The best way to "show them" is just not to give a shit and fall back in your f…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:28 PM
0

your text wasn't funny enough for a response or something qualifying of that nature
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:14 PM
1

its just evident in all your interactions and ways you speak and talk
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:11 AM
3

You may not be able to get over it for a while, and that's okay.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:52 AM
2

Dude, in general the answer to all these type of questions is just "frame." Re-frame things where you're the prize. If he attempts to humiliate or bully you, just re-frame things to AMOG him. This is true in all aspects of life. Hypothetically, your ability to frame should be so powerful that you could convince onlookers that being a cripple is more powerful than a bodybuilder. The point is frame is extremely powerful, use it to your advantage. People immediately pick up on your frame.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:35 PM
3

This scene from The Mask where the dog puts on a mask and gives a goofy grin always reminds me of women. Only women can be that cartoonishly goofy. https://youtu.be/EfDNTbSMBc0?t=82
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 07:35 PM
1

what happens when you are high status (attractive, in shape, and have a good job), but are a nice person? sure I knew the nerds did not get the girls, didn't mean I thought girls did not care about kindness.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:55 PM
1

yes but my point is I was taught *specifically* that women like kind men. that women are the moral agents of our society and men are the bad ones.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:47 PM
1

not everyone thinks things through
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 04:08 AM
1

normally I could not care less actually. however, literally the only way he even knew of her existence was because I was kind enough to bring him along to family events. He waited until I was sick and then talked shit on me to her and explicitly tried to use my moment of sickness to swoop in through underhanded means, even though I actually wouldn't have cared much if he had just gone for it
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 08:53 PM
2

Get as much experience as you can. Literally do everything you can. The more experience you get, the more you will fail and learn from itl
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:30 AM
1

I'm not denying I fell for it.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 08:36 PM
1

I don't know. Thats my point, it just affects my frame. Not sure why
/r/askTRP08/09/20 05:23 PM
1

I start reading about rape and my empathy for women kicks back in and it knocks me back to a blue pilled mindset.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:42 PM
3

I think that 5'7 is the cutoff where people don't look at you differently. Sure. a 5'7 man is shorter than average but you'll still live a normal life. 5'3 men have a different existence.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 07:42 PM
-4

5'7 isn't short
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:37 PM
6

one big difference with women is that they've been told a lot of this is "empowerment." even if they don't literally cheat, they find it empowering to branch swing to the next hottest guy and dump you even if you've been dating her for 5 years. they've actually been TOLD to do this. it ruins a lot of good women. "Eat, Pray, Love" was a manifesto of this type of woman (already almost a decade old). sadly this was the advice given to them: "selfishness is self-interest." It's sad to see them misle…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:34 PM
1

honestly, absolutely nothing
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:30 PM
3

Alpha Male Strategies has an excellent video about this. Essentially, the women you cheat with will often go out of their way to make sure your gf finds out, even subconsciously or purely just for the sake of it. Whereas the men that she cheats with won't give a shit.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:31 PM
3

don't directly compete with him on his terms, create a frame where you're the most socially dominant. maybe this will include off-field aspects too. maybe he's the chad on the field but you're the top dawg of it. basically, create a frame where you are the prize and act within that frame at all times. the fact that you even consider him already means you are falling into his frame.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:19 PM
2

It's not just being in the circle. It's also the pre-selection that comes with a top Chad liking you. if he likes you, she'll like you.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:16 PM
1

what is your specific goal? you want to be at the top of the social hierarchy? get the girls? what is it?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:13 PM
2

yah it is objectively an odd phrasing. I meant he does the work for me of bringing resources and girls.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:12 PM
0

did you downvote me for that?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:08 PM
2

In a similar way to how women do it (except without sex obviously). Don't be a direct threat. Be likeable. Bring value. Be the prize. Be extremely confident and have a very strong frame, you'll be surprised how often people *want* something from Chad and your lack of neediness will be good. that's if you want him to your resource. if you just want to get the same girls he's getting, then make friends with that group and don't be a direct threat and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:08 PM
0

Don't try to out-chad him. Play to your advantages. There are serious negatives with being the Chad...massive expectations of you, you're out in the open and can't accomplish stuff in the shadows/behind the scenes, you're a target for jealousy, etc. I'm 5'10 and pretty attractive but I'm no Chad. I love not being the Chad, in fact a lot of my game is to manipulate the Chad so he becomes my pet. When that happens, I get all of his benefits (women, social influence, etc.) without the negatives.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:59 PM
2

good point
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:52 PM
0

Men are the true empathetic gender. Men are the caring gender. Men may be capable of evil, but we are also capable of incredible magnanimity. Women are not capable of anything but inflicting suffering and cruelty. The amount of women in my life who I've met that are capable of selfless action is not more than 10.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 06:03 AM
1

Lol 'love' is simply neurotransmitters firing, and it only exists as a mechanism to ensure pair-bonding so that people have children and then stay together for enough time to raise them. You can deny science all you want, like a flat-earther, but it still exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:13 AM
1

I can't speak for FDS since I don't haven't read much of their stuff. I know that TRP and FDS have different definition of 'high value.' High-value to TRP is essentially SMV value, it has nothing to do with morality. For FDS, they would look at a high SMV shitty person as "low-value" even if he has high SMV. These are simply generalities about how mate selection words. Of course there are nuances and people are infinitely complex, and TRP will continue to evolve to understand the complexities. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:54 AM
1

It's supply and demand. Attractive women have thousands of option, hence they are the gatekeepers of sex. In other words, if he wants to have sex and she doesn't, sex will not happen. If she wants to have sex and he doesn't, it still plausibly *could* happen. However, this dynamic shifts when it comes to commitment. High value men have plenty of options, hence she is working for more than just sex. She wants his commitment. He is the gatekeeper of commitment. These ideas don't pertain to lower S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 01:04 AM
1

the media has absolutely no incentive to report on 'facts.' the media has its own priorities, such as manufacturing customer demand (for which it can then satisfy), keeping the media relevant, partisan propaganda, etc, etc. It also simply has narratives it follows as part of the popular zeitgeist. these dark triad types just utilize the media for their own benefit, but I'm sure they would do the same with something else if the media ever became unbiased. the problem is that is INCENTIVIZES peopl…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:56 PM
1

When the red pill sub started in 2013 (Heartiste and other blogs started earlier), Obama had just won his second term, the Progressive Left was ascendant (people took Jezebel seriously), kangaroo courts were in power on campus, and the ill-effects of feminism (convincing women they are the always perfect while also being oppressed, convincing men that women are oppressed and should be treated with kid gloves) were implicit but not explicit. Now in 2020, Trump is president and the Right is catchi…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:23 PM
1

it's even worse than that. glorifying victimhood directly encourages Dark Triad behavior. dark triads exploit the exaltation of victimhood to transfer resources to alleged victim groups. meanwhile, the average person is just completely clueless about these things. only a very small sample of people even have the capacity to "get it."
/r/askTRP01/09/20 06:10 PM
3

agreed
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:27 PM
1

I told my brother's girlfriend that for her birthday, he should make her "a promise to have a six pack in several months." It'd be good for her, good for him. She said "several months? doesn't that take a few days?" She was then shocked when I told her getting a six pack was hard. "I thought that was easy."
/r/askTRP01/09/20 05:16 PM
10

you have the right mindset. in your frame, you would only move forward with investment if she was truly incredible and worthwhile of it. it would take a lot. you would only move in together at the very end. these are things that trp explicitly preaches. don't worry what other people do. also keep in mine that historically, relationships were more necessary because the world was a brutal place and people needed to bond. different world now
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:49 PM
125

It's interesting you bring this up. When I go on dates now, I always try to enjoy it the same way as I enjoy a sunset, whereas my date is looking to see "if we are a match." Once you understand the laws of dating, you understand that it's more important to enjoy the experience while it's happening than to romanticise the relationship. As for your question, yes there is a reason to get in a relationship, but it's entirely dependent on the situation. Getting "in a relationship" for the sake of bei…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:25 PM
1

why do you give a shit. if you're a high value man, all these things come naturally
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:29 PM
2

Californication does a decent job of it. Sure it's a bit glorified and excessive but that is because it needed to sell for an audience. I think when you see Hank Moody game women, it does a decent job of showing how women genuinely react. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zorEMHb3o0Y
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:17 PM
2

dude, get over it. are you American? then your experience is infinitely better than that of someone in some shithole country in Africa, yet you don't even recognize it. women don't even know that the male experience is so different, they only know their experience and they think it is the default experience.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:34 AM
10

people with huge egos are targets. when I look to exploit someone's weaknesses for my own gain, I always look at people with huge egos. American women are the easiest marks because they have gigantic egos, especially women in this generation. all I have to do is ignore her and speak to her friends, and she'll be interested in me. imagine being THAT predictable. I can also exploit male ego by using it to my advantage. additionally, people with egos do things that are dangerous/problematic because…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:02 AM
2

no. most men are bitches. a lot of them are just super angry and reactive. some of them are dangerous. some of them are creepers. some of them are assholes. you rarely find attractive men who are self-confident and non needy and have massive abundance.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:15 PM
2

when you go on facebook and you see the men out there in every single comment section, especially the comment sections with thousands of men commenting (let's say on a sports story), consider that if you are a women, literally every single one of those men would sleep with you if given the opportunity. many of those men would cut off an arm to be with you longer term. the level of abundance is almost unfathomable
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:12 PM
4

because you still have a weak frame. strong men don't want pity
/r/askTRP29/08/20 04:48 PM
0

Why are you asking permission from this sub? Of course it's okay. Do whatever you want. Female friends can provide a valuable perspective on life. In general, I like hearing from varying perspectives from all different people. I also like having my life made better by quality people. Just don't set yourself up to get exploited (which is the main concern with female friends).
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:12 AM
2

I usually use the line "excuse me, I thought you were pretty/looked interesting and I would have regretted not saying hi," which is a bit less needy than "I had to meet you." also, don't overuse direct approaches. direct approaches are for situation where you can't meet the girl otherwise. if there's a way to make an observation or find another way into a convo with her (without coming off as obviously trying to game her), do that. as for direct approaches, I can already see some flaws. firstly,…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:29 AM
1

Firstly, for sets involving groups, you should be focusing the conversation on the other group members. Ideally, you should be talking to the alpha of the group, as once you have their approval it will make everything 1000x easier. Don't direct your focus on your target. Eventually, you can shift and start talking to her and build some reciprocal comfort and then get the number. In my experience, if she thinks her friends like you then once you start texting her she will be open to talking. the …
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:15 PM
1

it's actually quite amazing what rejection and humiliation from multiple experiences does to you, you start to be able to "see" things in people, especially body language and you can read people's intentions pretty quickly. additionally, you can see rejections coming and you know how to re-frame them or AMOG the situation. you also realize that a lot of girls reject because of their own internal frame, there's no reason to take it personally.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:20 PM
1

It is not an apt comparison. Women are much more attracted to a strong frame then men would ever be from a woman. I am curious to what literal extent this is true, and I hope one day to do an experiment on this (see if I can pull hot girls with an insane frame even if I am wearing pajamas or something).
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 07:05 PM
2

"You are selfish"= "you are not meeting MY needs" "You don't think about anyone but yourself."= "you don't think about me enough"
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 07:02 PM
3

how would women act if they could be replaced by female androids?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 05:35 PM
3

exactly. It's actually interesting that you bring this up. when a girl catches me off guard with a manipulative comment coming out of absolutely nowhere, my old response was just to come up with a witty remark or something defending myself. now I usually go on the offensive and accuse them of ill intentions for even making the comment. ​ the "fuck you" mindset is great for life
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 01:59 PM
10

getting back frame in an argument or conversation is going to be 1000x easier than in a long-term situation of course. getting frame back in the long-term is about how long it takes to have a full reset, in my experience. for example, I was the most beta person in the world with this girl, possibly even an omega due to a stroke I had. I think she thought I was the most unattractive man she had ever met at that point (she was an idiot and just judged me on the fact I couldn't function and was sup…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 06:34 AM
30

Beyond just required reading, you also need to adopt a mindset that allows you to be in control so you can answer these questions without thinking. Women are sometimes so damn machivellian and manipulative with their words that unless you know exactly HOW to think, you'll be caught off guard. As for getting frame back, I just find something she said or recently did and re-frame it in a way that re-establishes my frame. A lot of times women will go to far with their attempts to frame something, s…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 03:14 AM
2

why do you enter the frame of women. "average and ugly men." this is the female frame of your reality. why would you allow another person to define you. define it for yourself and build as strong of a frame as possible. wanting to be what a woman wants you to be because you think it will get you ass is ironically why you're not getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:12 AM
1

I've gotten "revenge" before by 'living my best life.' By the time you get it and was chased by a hoe who treated me below garbage, you won't care anymore.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:37 PM
1

I don't mind people not being as knowledgable or skilled. That's just the diversity of talent and experience that is part of life. What I find annoying is the wilful decision to be mediocre.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:34 PM
1

I'm doing better than ever. I think that is the core of my problem. I have begun experiencing exponential success and it has awakened me to many social realities. Just like when someone becomes more aware of police oppression, business corruption, etc. I am finding that it makes me more cynical. I don't care what the red pill is or isn't, just what my own observations are.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:57 PM
2

because their entire purpose is to select the best men so they know instinctually.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:13 PM
2

women can tell more about you almost instantly than you can tell about yourself after decades
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:37 PM
2

ironically it makes gaming them a joke. All you have to do is not buy into their frame and not play into their ego and they go absolutely nuts.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:33 PM
5

answer whatever you want as long as it's not in her frame "fuckboy=bad"
/r/askTRP14/08/20 04:08 PM
4

I actually have pondered this too. I think the main reason is that there is an expectation that the natural impulse is to be selfish, thus 'be nice to others' addresses this concern. The advice was never meant to be standalone.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:53 PM
1

think about you having that notion, and the reverse being true for women due to 'empowerment' speak. 'he has to impress me because I'm better (by default).' It was the defining characteristic that made me go "wow, I am not alone." watching how completely average/ugly chicks acted as if they were superior than you for no other reason than them existing, and then coming across that on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 02:09 PM
6

how did guys do this pre-Internet
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:42 AM
6

he must have missed some red flags there
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:52 PM
2

I'm so redpilled now I just tune it out. I don't even process what they say anymore.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:19 AM
2

can you give an example of how we were lied to? not because I don't believe you, but at this point I am so red pilled that I don't even remember what we were told
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:01 AM
2

Abundance. It's hard to care when you have infinite options. With that being said, alpha widows definitely have a tough time. Some girls i have met were crying over their ex when they first me (they were pragmatic and wanted to move on post-breakup, but you could hear the shattered emotions in their voices). The body language on alpha widows is insane when they see their exes, as if they just saw their dead child after 30 years...total intimidation and overwhelmed with emotion.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:07 AM
9

Why do you care? You're dead...so what? It's something that literally tens of billions of others have experienced. Literally everyone goes through, so there's no reason to get upset about it. There are many people out there that have died early that in there dying moments wished they could be in your shoes right now, being alive. Stop bitching and start living.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:17 PM
1

a few years
/r/askTRP05/08/20 12:45 AM
1

Yes. Finasteride helps slow down the miniaturisation of hair follicles, and then you get a hair transplant later. Key to hold on to as many hair follicles as you can now. Haven't had any side effects, but I take it at a low dose and responsibly.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:02 PM
1

thanks for the great advice
/r/askTRP04/08/20 09:29 PM
1

Yeah and that's what she does, she's from a traditional family and cooks and clean. He tried to learn it to take some of the load.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:41 PM
1

She comes from a pretty wealthy family in South America and met him at a high end business in the US, but tbh I think she used her beauty to snag him in a similar way as you mentioned. He admits to me that he simped in the courtship phase. Also, thanks for the other insight.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:11 PM
2

It's the same as life as a woman.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 07:02 PM
1

This ^ right here. Hopefully at some point the Republican party can come up with a coherent ideology. The ideology would be anti-immigration, pro-worker class, pro-industrial, pro-American identity, pro-environment, anti-corporate.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:22 PM
7

I have had some very serious health issues in my life. From my experience, it doesn't matter to girls. What matters is confidence. And confidence can be acquired by navigating the health issues. It takes courage to navigate it at age 17, and you shouldn't forget that.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:07 PM
5

Identify the alpha in the group and address him -make an observation and pivot to a question. It's best to target the alpha and let him talk a bit. Then, start to expand the conversation and let it naturally flow. Eventually you can pivot to the girls as they will feel comfortable once the men feel comfortable with your presence.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:49 PM
-1

whatever I'm not gonna change your mind but you really don't understand the tribe and its motivations, and I hope you will consider that others in the past have made the same mistake of misunderstanding motivations and regretted it later
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:19 PM
-1

I don't even mind you blaming the same group as you have for 1000 years, but at least be creative this time. otherwise it's just boring.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 06:10 PM
1

it is called 'TFW No GF'
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:18 PM
11

One of things that really opened my eyes was TikTok. Pretty much any video of a cute girl has hundreds of guys simping. It made me realize that women have been experiencing this for eons, and that many men are just blind to it because it's so far from their reality.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:10 PM
1

Who cares? The world is a tough place. People are competitive and lied to about dumb shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:05 PM
1

you need to stop whining. make the most of what you have and enjoy your lfie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:32 PM
7

This is actually exactly what I told my cousin recently. Weight is the single biggest attraction factor for men. Unless you're uniquely ugly, the vast majority of women are fuckable if they're at a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:40 PM
2

it is deterministic but so is becoming the King of England. You don't see me getting upset because I can't become that. go and improve yourself to become the top 1% you just won't be literally the top 0.0001%. to some degree, your response is what I'm talking about. men don't really have time to "feel doomed in life." A man who feels doomed will end up doomed and without any interest. A woman who feels doomed will probably still have quite a bit of interest knocking at her door and thus never fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:57 PM
5

what do you find depressing about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:43 PM
15

If anyone is reading and wants to see why so many men struggle in dating, just read the replies here. Look at how many men want to be women because they think it will be an easier life. what a joke. the reason these men struggle in dating is because they are hardly men F**k that. I love being a man. Having a harder life comes with some serious benefits. Firstly, adversity makes you much stronger. I can tell you that the adversity I have faced as a man has made me stronger than virtually every wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:30 PM
6

Wow this sounds like my life to a tee. I had.a massive stroke when I was 21. "Best friend" I was always weary about stabbed me in the back and tried to fuck my cousins literal first chance he got. It was hard to even contemplate someone being that much of a scumbag. Many other "fun" friends also disappeared, including a former girlfriend. In their eyes, I actually became a liability to them. Made me appreciate the 1-2 friends who stuck by me. These guys not only did a million things for me, but …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 06:11 PM
1

how is what I said 'burning the bridge'? I'd be using her beauty for business.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:09 PM
1

No I would make it worth her time. I'm not going to pay her explicitly, but it would be an event where she gained as well from the exposure. In other words, bring her along for an event that benefits both of us and use her for social proof. She's a very attractive girl, I feel like it's a waste of talent to just drop her. I could use her as great pre-selection to impress clients and get business connections. The pre-selection for other women is an added bonus.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:09 PM
1

One of my thoughts was rather than wasting time trying to screw her, simply be explicit and literally use her for social proof to get other women.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:06 PM
2

negging works incredibly well on women who say "it doesn't work on me." it just works well when the situation is right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:49 PM
2

Just treat all people the same: as vehicles for your self-enjoyment (Don't treat them as NPCs, however). Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 12:37 PM
10

once you see how lame it is, you really start to feel for women. so many lame ass pickup attempts
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:07 AM
1

you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:47 AM
2

this really got me pumped up for my day
/r/askTRP15/07/20 10:58 AM
1

Many women I've met feel you owe them something simply for their presence. I always feel bad for them, for their utter lack of awareness. it's gross.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:08 PM
1

Yeah the control of information has always been important to those in power, who desire to keep their position of power. Women benefit from the status quo, it is vital to their imperative to shut down anything that may pose a threat. Yes I have heard JP talk about this. It is important to be able to be a monster and dangerous but choose not to be. To just be "nice" isn't much of an accomplishment. I agree that social media exposes the reality of human behavior. One example: there have been multi…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:42 PM
1

good advice. I think I have failed in the past to recognise bad behavior because of a) being a good person and giving the benefit of the doubt and b) a lack of imagination for how horrible some people can be.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 06:16 PM
1

you're probably also just a good guy, and women are experts at breaking down good guys' barriers. it's literally their purpose, to convince you through good sex, flattery, attention, etc. read up a bit on female psychology. if she likes you, it's her job to manipulate you into emotional dependency. some of that includes push-pull but it can also include mirroring your actions, flattery, etc. you need to set and enforce boundaries because once you are emotionally dependent, she holds a lot more p…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:29 PM
1

I agree
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:25 PM
1

how about to keep them clean. just wash them?
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:16 PM
1

it's imperative you don't fall for them, it makes it 1000x harder to enforce boundaries.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:14 PM
1

gotcha. suddenly I got self-conscious about my finger nails haha
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:09 PM
2

what do you mean by "dirty"? literally dirty? or dirty as in a hoe
/r/askTRP14/07/20 02:07 PM
1

dude she's just following the female imperative to try to confuse you and ensnare betas. it's a feature not a bug
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:05 PM
5

I think the thought process is red pill. Do what it takes to save your family. Strength and conviction> pussyfooting
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:17 PM
12

you don't know how bad it's gotten. I was in a French class this year and we spent a huge amount of time learning about male privilege and how women are better at empathising and creating a peaceful society. IN FRENCH CLASS
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:28 PM
4

what's your point? that men are more capable of murder? you win that argument However, everything else is the inverse of what you stated. women attach little value to male life. the only reason I made the comment in the first place is because your entire essay basically aligns perfectly with red pill beliefs almost word for word, to the extent that some of the sentences seem like they were taken from that subreddit. except the genders are reversed. feminist theory sounds nice but it's just theor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:11 PM
-2

exactly this but replace men with women and female with male
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 02:40 PM
1

It's interesting that you say this because I have struggled with it too. It could be but is most likely not oneitis- oneitis is when you are strongly attached to the a girl or the thought of her, not when you are ruminating. If you have strong feelings for her, it could be oneitis. However, if you simply have strong feelings about the experience, it's most likely rumination and dwelling. I think it's just the way our brain works. Rumination and day dreaming are powerful experiences. Try to keep …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:10 PM
4

Yes, I'm in America. Ironically, most of my friends are from abroad.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:21 PM
1

I think I just didn't really understand how shallow people were and it has come as sort of a shock to me. I'll get over it, I'm just still struggling with the shock kinda like how people go through the anger phase.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:19 PM
5

I don't blame women for not being attracted to unattractive guys. That's totally understandable. I feel gross that they are shitty to unattractive guys. I am also repulsed by men who treat fat or disabled girls as subhuman. I recently saw a Twitter thread of this stunning woman who had lost 150 lbs, and she showed the texts from her husband and how he went from bullying her and mocking her when she was fat to simping and begging for her attention and calling 50 times once she lost the weight and…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:50 PM
9

yes but I didn't treat fat chicks as sub-human, I just didn't want to date them.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:16 PM
2

No, they're attracted to the equivalent of Stacys. Attractive men with some masculinity.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:00 PM
1

Have a strong frame.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:46 PM
2

Look up Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. It will explain to how to escalate with humans when it comes to intimacy. For example, if you touch her face and she is okay with it, then it is acceptable to kiss her.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:24 PM
2

I don't have a huge problem with the fact that people view you differently. That's just human nature. I've viewed it from both the top and the bottom and it's definitely worse from the bottom. From the top, everything looks super easy; it's essentially a complete joke. Things come easy. From the bottom, it's impossibly hard and people are absolutely horrendous to you, especially when you need them the most. That being said, even people who aren't shallow are going to view you differently. As I s…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:34 PM
1

it's the simping that is annoying
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:23 PM
1

I've also noticed that people get mean and bitchy when someone tries to break out of their place in the social hierarchy. In other words, when a 'low SMV' person tries to increase his status
/r/askTRP05/07/20 12:57 PM
1

why are they so horrible to low SMV males?
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:08 PM
1

this is it. Women are simps to alphas, and that's what I dislike because it's annoying
/r/askTRP04/07/20 08:21 PM
9

dude fine she treats you like a hot guy she's attracted to. that's different than treating you like you're a super-celebrity
/r/askTRP04/07/20 03:17 PM
3

you want her to treat you as a regular guy
/r/askTRP04/07/20 03:09 PM
5

dude this is like every person in the world.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:41 PM
10

the final red pill
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:48 PM
18

Start meeting new girls outside of the apps. Start talking to everyone, including non sexy women, when you go out. Start getting numbers from the cute girls you meet. Go to events and meetups that have girls with whom you have things in common.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 08:26 PM
3

but if you have a positive outlook, there will be women who take an interest in you, even if you're physically not conventionally attractive. can you just stop. stop. it's so tiresome. this isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:58 PM
1

yes I am aware that it is dumb. I am saying that I hate that people function like that.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:53 PM
1

so I'm going to explain this from the other side. for some context, when I was younger i thought I might be bi so I went on a few dates after checking out a gay bar. It's really quite amazing how controlling some guys are. Guys would be supremely bossy and try to tell me what to do, and when I was like "WTF no" because I had developed core inner game by then or showed even the slightest resistance, they would become so insecure it was very hard to watch. like they became a bitch within seconds. …
/r/askTRP02/07/20 01:51 PM
1

Responses like this are why women are treated as a special class in the West. Women for a long time were treated like this throughout many regions of the world. As a result, a sort of counterculture developed and the power reversed under the auspices of "oppression." Women are now socialised in the West to believe that anything and everything is appropriate because of previous oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:12 PM
2

sometimes the TRP stuff scrambles people's brains. The whole idea of TRP is that people act in ways that are conflicting to the Blue Pilled belief of "kindness=reciprocal affection." Thus, it turns out that women actually like men that can get other women, are somewhat disagreeable, and that are DNGAF. The Blue Pilled world says the opposite: "focus on her, be as kind as possible to gain her affection, and definitely care" However, this should not make you toss out common sense. If you're a huge…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 12:28 PM
2

My main goal in life is making a substantive impact on the world.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:00 PM
4

I've also had them come up and ask for a picture. A group of girls will think you are cute and then will build the confidence to send one of the girls over to ask you if you can take a picture for them, hoping to start a convo. I've also hung out with women before and then will go and ask guys for a smoke to start a convo with the guy.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 01:28 PM
16

Dude this is the real world. Not everything is going to match up perfectly with red pill theories. Yes women generally like more dominant men. However, some are going to be scared of them. Watching your boyfriend essentially disable someone else is pretty traumatic. Just because it could be a turn on to some women doesn't mean it will be to all. Some women might go the other way. You know that women are illogical. This is a good lesson that not every single thing about TRP will be true in all ca…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:06 PM
1

Look up some improv tips online. It would be good for you to go to an improv class in the future.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:39 PM
65

People don't like it when things are unfair. It is fundamentally unfair for a woman that after age 30ish she loses the ability to compete with younger women. There is literally nothing she can do about this. She can't roll back time, she can't game with confidence, etc. She has to adapt to her new reality? Does this seem fair to you? No. It's completely and utterly shitty. However, us men cannot help that we are more attracted to younger women. So older women attempt to shame men about their pre…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 07:26 PM
1

Best blue: Girl visits me from Czech republic (I had studied abroad there the previous semester). I had really liked her but she was dating a guy the whole time. She arrives to my home city and tells me her and her bf just broke up. She stays at my place. At a party, this Chad comes in trying to swoop her. As she is unsure what to do, I grab her bringing her back into my apartment. I start telling her she is being unsafe, running around a foreign country by herself. She starts crying. I turn her…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:02 PM
1

This is good advice. Thank you. It is better to lead by example than change society.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:57 PM
1

no JQ from me. GLO is a good resource but he has a very different perspective due to his ethnic background.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:56 PM
1

When I spend time around people or in class, the focus is always on social justice. There is a lot of division. I really dislike that. I don't have a problem with desiring social justice change but the focus should be both a liberal and conservative dynamic. One thing I like about the Visegrad countries is the importance they place on family, tradition, and honor. They study their history. They respect and cherish their families and feel pride in continuing their lineage. That doesn't happen in …
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:54 PM
1

How can you sleep at night after eating a cow that was murdered (beef)? I think you over-estimate most of them. They just do it and don't think about it. They just don't care.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:10 PM
1

absolutely. That was the real take-away for me from that situation as well as others. Frame is everything. I've thought about that a lot, and it is the advice I give other men who struggle with women. It's interesting that we both came to that same conclusion, separately.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:20 PM
1

I've told this story before: when I was 21 I had a stroke, and was very close to death. I became very needy with my oneitis, who I had dated the year prior. This girl proceeded to bully me into oblivion and literally act malevolently; she was Dark Triad to a tee. She baited me, ostracized me, shamed me, etc etc. A few years later I recovered. I developed Dark Triad traits myself. While I was on a date with a HB9 (pre-selection), I ran into this malevolent girl one day at a local bar. My self-con…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 06:20 PM
1

Reminds me of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4oMiT1fGCw
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:50 PM
2

Heartiste is amazing and incredibly accurate about women. His content is inspiring to read. It's just annoying as a Jewish person to watch his slow descent into extreme anti-semitism. I never cared that he didn't like Jews but he went full blown 1488 and it became hard to read.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:19 PM
1

Or even think events such as in about The Last Samurai. Man who defeats enemy takes his wife.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:16 PM
1

thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:41 AM
3

Exactly. You almost have a duty to yourself and your family to learn it. I can spot dangerous and malicious people much more easily than my family can. "Oh he's a nice guy!" "No, mom, he's a piece of shit who is trying to coerce your niece through affection." It has essentially allowed me to see things on the same plane at manipulators. From my experience, Machivellians can recognize other manipulators. I've had people back off when they know I can read their intentions. Why go up against me whe…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:06 PM
13

https://illimitablemen.com/power/ https://illimitablemen.com/2013/11/17/understanding-the-dark-triad/ Also read the 48 Laws of Power. The general notion is that understanding Machivellianism important in order to defend yourself against those who would harm you. There are many people out there that are manipulative. Think of it like learning karate or krav maga. It is a way to protect yourself from predatory behavior. If you also want to apply some tactics for your own benefit, that's fine too. …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:16 PM
7

have you met people? who *doesn't* think the world is against them?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:31 PM
7

You feel bad because you're normal. It is a normal human emotion to care about others you are intimate with. Red-pill 'plate spinning' isn't average, it's something that only the top percentage of men do. Most men will never reach that level, and many women are not used to dealing with it with men. You have opened up a new world for yourself that isn't average, but there are consequences for that because it goes against your psychology and training...such as women getting upset and your ability …
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:46 PM
2

come on man. this post says nothing substantive.did you play her?
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:37 PM
30

u/IllimitableMen's run as a top poster. He single-handedly taught me the concept of Machivellianism and being able to recognise the Dark Triad traits. This really helped me understand manipulation and coercion and defend myself against them.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:36 PM
1

I am absolutely not saying they don't have disadvantages. Just noting the advantages.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:31 PM
2

Yeah. The only time I might not have sex is if you really feel like it would change the relationship dynamic and genuinely make you a pussy in her eyes because you "gave in." Otherwise, just do what's best for your own pleasure.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:40 PM
3

In my experience, yes. You're turning down your own pleasure to 'get back at her.' It seems like a good idea from a 'frame' perspective, but it ends up just being a self-own. I've done it a few times and always regretted it after.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:41 PM
10

Sure, who cares? If you're not horny, don't do it. However, don't do it to "get back at her." I've made that mistake before. "Oh, I'm going to withdraw affection because she withdrew it first." It ends up being the biggest self-own in history.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:29 PM
6

I considered that when writing this post. The truth is that I am not just looking at the life of an HB9. I am looking at the life of the average women in 2020. The average women benefits far more than the average man in 2020. And I'm not saying women don't have challenges. They face many, many hurdles. However, that doesn't negate female privilege.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:58 PM
1

Men faced lots of hurdles, but so did women. They were essentially second class citizens in many societies. Historicaly, the world was ruthless and dangerous, and smaller people were more of a target and were less able to defend themselves. But I do agree with you that men still had lots of challenges.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:55 PM
1

I'm not mad at women, I just think it is an interesting phenomenon.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 01:52 PM
5

a) how is this misogynistic? b) wtf are you talking about. nothing you said negates what I said. I never said that there are no disadvantages to being a woman (although I don't agree with the 'disadvantages' that you stated)
/r/askTRP28/06/20 12:04 AM
1

I shouldn't. It's just something that has been bothering me of late and it felt like I could get over it by writing a post and putting down my thoughts
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:34 PM
3

it does. it's also not entirely bad that they have that degree of privilege and we don't. Having everything handed to you makes you weak in my opinion. People who face adversity tend to be much stronger
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:30 PM
7

great, more privilege there. if you dare to speak about her declining beauty (let's not pretend woman won't talk about a man losing his job), you can have your life destroyed
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:26 PM
8

No you're just talking about commitment from high-value men. Most women retain their beauty privilege for much longer.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 10:20 PM
1

I was bullied in high school for being small. Eventually I grew into myself and became attractive and successful. I always was super nice to people because the bullying I had experienced gave me empathy. Boy...was that a mistake.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:58 PM
1

But do these people even go really that far? Users don't tend to go very far, as they're not adding any real value. It just seems like a bad strategy even from a selfish perspective.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:53 PM
1

That is something I have learned from some nasty experiences. Treating insecure people well is a recipe for disaster. If anything happens to your status, you are suddenly a liability because they are insecure about your relationship.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:46 PM
3

this is also why subconsciously you would be skeptical of a free iPhone. when something is too cheap, it seems like there's something wrong with it.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:20 PM
1

why is this the case? recently I basically told a girl who was pursuing me hard and was looking for a relationship in general that I didn't want a relationship but we could still hang out. she didnt just say no, she actively friendzoned me. never again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:12 PM
3

They're like this because it works. Try to understand that every animal on this planet wants to survive (and propagate its genes). In order to survive, animals have adapted to have certain characteristics. You have lean muscle mass and a muscular frame that allows you to survive and hunt. A tiger has claws and a body that allows it to hunt and kill. In a world with the selfishness and danger of men, women have adapted in order to survive. Or would you rather they just die? Should women, smaller …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:27 PM
1

this is what I meant. not that experienced men act more feminine. rather, that they act masculine but that they emulate certain behaviours that come along with the feeling that you are the prize. and yes, I have an easier time talking to women, which is interesting because I used to struggle to talk to women. I am certainly much better at speaking to women and ascertaining how they think. men are less straightforward and I struggle more to figure out their motives. but once you understand woman'…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:45 PM
1

very interesting post. I think this past date has convinced me I need to trust myself more. In other words, I knew I wasn't feeling it. There were just things that she said that already annoyed the shit out me, moreso patterns in her way of talking and how her thought process worked. These annoyed me because they demonstrated that she had a closed off personality. what do you think about the concept that as men get more experience and increase their SMV, that they actually start to think and act…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:58 PM
1

yep I agree with you. and even though I'm not overtly uncomfortable with her, I'm not actively creating tingles
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:11 PM
2

Let me be more clear since it does sound entitled. 'Deserve' as as in I think what I can get based on how much work I put in. I don't really feel like I am owed anything but what I can get.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:49 PM
2

They're not ugly, they're just below what I believe I deserve.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:43 PM
17

There are quality women everywhere. The better question is where do you want to move.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:17 PM
11

That makes sense. While on my date, I passed by this stunning woman who was taking pictures with her fiance. My thought was simply "I should be with a woman that looks like that" but not in an entitled way but rather than as a manifestation of my self-confidence and game. I went to the workout when I got home and started thinking about how to pursue my mission. In other words, she got me thinking about how *I could become the high-value man* I want to be.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:31 PM
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That was possibly my explanation too, although the better I've gotten at game the better I've gotten at covert communication. I think the problem is that somehow I just find it easier to connect with hotter girls with covert communication. I am able to be much more cocky, make fun of them more, but still have a good time. It comes off that we are having fun. There is some disconnect with the 6s. Somehow I am just 'trying too hard.' When I pass up the opportunity to text because I am disintereste…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:34 PM
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their egos genuinely blow my mind, and there is 0 self-awareness
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:19 PM
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why do all moms say this? Do you think they genuinely believe in the myth of "the one"?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:54 PM
1

This post is a meme, including the part where humblebrag
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 05:19 PM
1

good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:58 PM
1

if it is explicit, it is likely that would just get her to break up with him as it is an explicit sign of disrespect and she will be upset even if its purely out of ego. However, if he's loyal but it is clear from his actions that other women like him and she's aware that he *could* replace her then she'll be more attracted to him and she will try to make her like him more. it's kind of hard to explain the difference over text but one is explicit disrespect and the other is just the fact he's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:51 PM
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TRP would work on you for the same reason that make-up works on me even though I say "I can't be manipulated." It plays to our attraction triggers. Just like make-up well done, TRP well done doesn't look like anything but attractive traits. A smart TRP man doesn't play games and he doesn't act "alpha." He acts in a high-value way that will make you attracted to him. Also, don't let your ego get in the way. In general, people with egos who think "that can't happen to me" are the most likely to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:15 PM
2

Don't a lot of men still think women don't like sex? The amount of blue-pilled men out there is the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:07 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy sub. Men love women and want to know how to get them. Because women are so foundational to a man's life, he wants to understand what it takes to get them. However, you are correct that it can still be a gynocentric view. The truth is that the same things that attract women also lead to a successful life. In other words, women are essentially the ultimate evidence that you are leading an alpha life.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:30 PM
2

you need to give yourself your own closure
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:49 PM
1

I differentiate them based on a lot of factors. Obviously how she looks is quite important, and some of that is subconscious. How she moves and how she holds herself is important. Then, whether she is receptive to being approached is important as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:02 PM
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spoke to this girl for 6 months with a very confident frame. She became my very close friend. Stayed with her in new york and acted very beta the first few days. She let me down nicely, telling me she was not interested in dating. She then not so nicely ghosted me on our plans for the next day, though I was still staying at her apartment so I would need to come back to her place for my flight. My entire attitude changed and I become non outcome dependent. Given her attitude, I proceeded to enjoy…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:38 PM
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you sound like a beta/white knight who discovered the red pill and can't handle it. While you have learned some red pill tactics, you have yet to actualize a red pill mentality. Hence, you don't understand what you are doing. Why are you leading on women at all? This is a retarded mentality that is hard for me to even understand. Stop wasting other people's time. If you can't fuck a girl without leading her on, then you are not red pill. And you don't verbally tell women upfront that you just wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:19 PM
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I pretty much want to fuck all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:02 PM
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Yes. As I have mentioned in other posts, I had a stroke when I was 21. I was a high-value male which I totally took for granted. Looking back, I had tons of pre-selection, great social circle, making 100000k at 21, etc. Thus I got tons of female attention, with girls pining. I was very blue-pilled because I grew up in a really good family. I treated everyone well and with respect, and never thought twice because people genuinely liked me. I had a stroke at 21. It completely altered my personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:16 PM
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thank you for this comment. You are absolutely correct, and i will point out the multiple reasons why that moment in the commercial was absurd and toxic Firstly, attractive women like to be approached, especially by attractive men. I once dated a woman who spoke to me on the phone while she went from point A to B in New York (she was addicted to my self confidence- another HUGE red pill), and she would get approached 5-6 times on our calls in 20 minutes. She was always SO giddy after each approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 01:16 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I literally over-analyzed myself into paralyzing myself, so I guarantee I have you beat. I literally thought my way into a car accident. This is why high IQs are a genetic anomaly.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:00 PM
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you understand that the vast majority of men do not have the confidence to talk to a random attractive woman on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:38 PM
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the "punch me" face is an awesome descriptor. Mine usually comes from a different place though. I am attractive and girls have always liked me. However, due to a tragedy when I was younger, I developed some insane level confidence and dark triad traits. As a result of that, I get that reaction you are talking about. It is like a punch to her face because her entire face just sits still. I believe that it comes from visceral intimidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:18 PM
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great. this is a really insightful response, I appreciate it. I agree with a lot of this.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 09:02 PM
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hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:45 PM
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you're a woman. what do you know about dating as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:44 PM
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I want to date some random female stranger, I think I will walk down a random sidewalk downtown, hit on anyone attractive, and see if I can get a date"? Because that's frankly a ridiculously stupid dating strategy. I'm not walking down the street looking for women but if I see a woman I find attractive and that looks interesting, I'm going to go speak with her. I don't care if it's in school or in a random street.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:44 PM
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that's why I'm asking
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:05 PM
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Oh I'm completely aware of this. I actually became aware of it before I was introduced to the red pill 7 years ago but couldn't put a word to it. Once I heard the term NPC, I knew it fit perfectly. Many women see you as an NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 03:19 PM
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I feel bad when a woman is attractive and throwing attention at me and I have to filter her out. It's not easy for me to be a dick and just ignore her
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:35 PM
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thanks. I know this is going to sound really pathetic but how do I get over the feeling of feeling bad or guilty about filtering her out once I've met a girl that is like that and we've become friends.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:14 PM
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how do you handle women who say they are looking for a relationship in general? I get quite a few of these. attractive late 20s women who are "looking for a relationship." But that's about as far away a thing I want as possible. Do I just completely filter out these women? I've noticed that some of them *say* they want a relationship but when they meet someone who is a lot of fun and is open and honest about dating other women and prioritising his purpose, they decide they're okay with just havi…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:56 PM
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actually, women are *encouraged* to do it via the term "empowerment." but yah, I think you're right. that blue pill conditioning still runs deep
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:36 PM
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re-read it. I didn't say that. I said that I am capable of getting what I want, which has the potential to corrupt how I act. not that "women come too easy." it's still a challenge
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:20 PM
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how do they select who they want to give their attention to, given the multitude of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:05 PM
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I'm not even talking about visuals though. I'm talking about men who seem like they run the business, are assertive and self-confident, etc. In other words, men who she might be interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:04 PM
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but don't pretty women get approached quite often? how do they differentiate then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:59 PM
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I think it's normal for men to see almost any pretty woman as an option. do women simply ignore or see as invisible most men? if so, how does a man catch her eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:30 PM
1

what is the greatest cheat-code
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 03:05 PM
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The truth is that there are definitely women who, in my head, I put in the marriage box over the "just fuck them" box. I see her more as kindhearted and not the type of girl I'd bang right now. However, I guarantee that girl does not want to be seen that way. And to expect her to want that is a recipe for failure. If I had any empathy for her, I would know deep down she does not want that. She wants to be seen sexy AF in her 20s. That being said, I've changed my perspective now. I prefer the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:40 PM
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what I don't get is why men give a shit. Just go do what you want. Why would I adopt the frame of another random person who treats me like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:38 PM
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if you are talking about a gigachad, then sure I agree with you. I'm talking about your normal chad frat boy who is like an 8.5
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:35 PM
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there are plenty of chads who will dumpster dive down to a 6 if he is horny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:11 PM
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It is really interesting how they can sense it so acutely. A lot of it are subconscious cues like the way you move.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:10 PM
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why do you care. do what you want
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:32 PM
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they can even sense it from miles away how so
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:22 PM
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There is no reason. We just exist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:35 PM
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it exists because men found young women to be overly egotistical and self-absorbed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:10 PM
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weird I was just listening to this song this morning
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:05 PM
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I've had women approach me multiple times and I've rejected them for a myriad of reasons even though I would have been interested. I always felt bad and they seemed somewhat crushed. The reasons for rejections included: I was extremely busy and focused on a task at hand and could not talk, I was already dating someone, etc. However, if the situation were appropriate, I would have been completely open to these same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:56 PM
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I didn't say that they were pathological. I said they have the personality traits of narcissism, egotism, and self-absorption. It's s common amongst young women, who have infinite male attention and infinite praise from society. Not sure I can blame them...what is it like having 1000 men in your Tinder every day wanting to fuck you. Hell, if you post something on reddit, 100,000 messages would seem feasible. What does that attention do to a young women? What is it like having men ecstatic you co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 11:58 PM
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now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 11:57 PM
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this is the lamest shit I have ever seen. who the hell is some person with a vagina to tell someone else their worth. why would define yourself by another human being, especially one that does not care for you? if you want hot pussy, then be fearless and get it. and even when you get it, who cares. it doesn't define who you are. being a man is about being fearless not subjugating yourself to the whim on some dumb broad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:42 PM
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it's not a lack of enthusiasm. it's being a huge piece of shit. it's narcissism that evolves into monstrousness. you're a woman? then you haven't experienced how many horrible many young women are. I'm not going to tell you how men act, because I'm not dating them. however, I will tell you how many young women act, and that is in the most entitled, self-absorbed, and narcissistic way possible...that eventually evolves into cruelty and monstrousness. these aren't signs of people who feel negative…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:53 PM
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because you were talking about the potential for rape. my point is that if we lived in the universe where women saw the attention they received as a negative, then they would be acting differently. if, for example, they were worried about their safety, they would be more timid and cover themselves up more. instead, many young women are narcissistic and self-absorbed, with their egos overflowing. they love the constant and endless attention they get. they feel empowered to treat people like shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:19 PM
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no. that women are cruel, narcissistic, unempathetic, and comically self-centered and inherently act as if they are better than you. unless you're attractive and charismatic, then they throw themselves at you. can confirm, because I've been on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:19 PM
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yes but blackpillers think they have a better take on reality, and I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:02 PM
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no, it's not that you don't know what you're talking about, it's that you're not self-aware enough to understand what works on you because to be that self-aware would be essentially impossible. and let's be honest, if you *were* turned on by dominance and cruelty, would you even admit it to yourself? of course not. you're a good person. why would you be attracted to those traits? and why would you admit it if you were? however, redpillers have noticed that this is a common facet amongst women. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:53 PM
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it's the same as how men are attracted to nice tits and ass. also, you're a woman, hence can not to be trusted to give honest feedback about what she's attracted to. also, love is different than lust
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:22 PM
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wtf this isn't incel and I'm definitely not an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:06 PM
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all women are sexually attracted to Dark Triad traits. that makes him a good partner for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:02 PM
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No. I like being a man. While being an average woman is far better than being an average man, being a higher-tier man will always be better than anything else because you are simply so unique. By even understanding covert communication and Dark Triad traits, I outpace 99% of the population including women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:49 PM
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not OP, blackpill is simply not reality. however, neither is red-pill. the truth is that it's somewhere in between. yes, appearance is a huge element of attraction and there is simply only so much you can do about it. but so much of attraction depends on frame, dark triad traits, as well as other factors such as her country of origin. looks matter but women have different sexual preferences than men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:22 PM
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actually this is something that Jordan Peterson spoke about. first, men had to work and women could not. then, men had to work and women could choose. then, men had to work and women had to work. we're getting to the point where women have to work and some men are opting out. eventually, we'll get to the point where women have to work and men choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:16 PM
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they actually spend negative energy. as in, they're aware and they go out of their way to mock it and not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:12 PM
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based on how many women act, they're pretty self-satisfied with how much attention they get. they don't seem too scared
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:11 PM
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since they basically grow up getting validated sexually by chads all their lives. you think this is true for even the 6s and 7s? or does chad just pump and dump her and then she thinks she's great > Also true. Which is why I find it so weird how women in this sub have this aura of smug superiority in all these discussions. you find it weird that people are so self-absorbed that they never consider what it's like to be on the other side? have you met humans? they wouldn't last a day in our shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:10 PM
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you...disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 07:05 PM
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in my opinion, it's a thought-process. 'Reds' seem to see the world in a more cynical, amoral way. 'Not reds' see the world through the prism of morality (and see 'reds' as bad).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:16 AM
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she's a superstar politican because she's female. that comes with additional scrutiny, including from malicious actors. if she was male no one would care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:50 PM
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it's the opposite, AOC gets more interest because she's a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:10 PM
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'Society' is currently set up against them. how so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:41 PM
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it's good that you have that experience with sociopathy. I did not, and I was completely blindsided by it when I experienced it. I have had to train myself to understand it. I've developed a lot sociopathic tendencies as well, but I work on those since I have standards for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:19 PM
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women can be disgusted by men who hate women but that has very little to do with attraction and more to do with not wanting to be treated poorly. even in that case, women can say one thing and act differently (no one is gonna *say* they want a man who hates women, but she may still find him hot). regardless, this is just a dumb feminist talking point based on academic analysis of the world as opposed to how people actually function. plenty of women I've dated thought I hated women (I don't, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:45 PM
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for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:16 PM
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what would you want as one of these woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:43 PM
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this is one of the most shallow things I have ever heard. it's one thing to not be attracted to you, but what a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:42 PM
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> you're a good person what does this even mean? I'm not being critical of you, I'm asking in general. why do people always say this? being a bad person or a good person has nothing to do with whether the person deserves a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:36 PM
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went for baseball tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:11 PM
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I've seen the exact same women be extremely attracted to me, then be extremely repulsed by me to the extent that she tried to physically attack me, then be infatuated with me. What changed? Initially she liked me for me (being a good guy), then I developed severe oneitis and it made her go insane with resentment, then I moved on and ran into her 3-4 years later and by that point has become the ultimate alpha male in her eyes...attractive, ripped, DGAF, two 10s on my arms. Her eyes glazed over an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:31 PM
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women always have their own agenda. most men are surprised to find this out. however, women not only have their own agenda, but they don't even consider or care that you have your own agenda. they're so self-absored and solipsistic that they don't give a shit. yet, when they meet a man that has his own agenda and who finds her replaceable, that's when they get the most attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:10 PM
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This was well known during WW2. The army needed men who would go and do things that would scare the average American civilian. They often wouldn't punish these men for war crimes, because they needed them. Band of Brothers does a good job of showing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:43 PM
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women tend to fold when up against a man who is good at manipulation. Because 99% of men suck, she almost always has the power. However, when she goes up against the 1% of manipulators, she does not know how to handle it. Most women have no idea what to do. Her solipsism is her biggest weakness. I've only encountered a few women who are better at manipulation than myself (in terms of game, I don't manipulate people outside of that). When I meet them, I stay the fuck away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:34 PM
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can you elaborate on how women treat other women who are threats?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:09 PM
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no. all of my oneitises were women with whom I previously had relationships, and where they subsequently lost interest. I've had about half of them like me back again after I left and returned when I was attractive again. what's interesting is that in that scenario, they tend to get oneitis as well. they become attracted to the new image that I project, the new attractive version of me. we're in a mutual oneitis, where neither of us actually loves the other person but likes the idea of the perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:07 PM
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you realize that this is already how (young) women treat men by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:00 PM
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probably good I didn't see what was said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:17 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:16 PM
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Life is cruel. We are surrounded by dangers and pretty much everything around you is a threat, including many people and including yourself. You need to pursue your self-interest. Take care of yourself first, and then you can help others. Never expect other people to return the favor, even if you are literally dying. With that being said, don't be scared to create, develop, and foster strong relationships. Find people who are genuinely caring and thoughtful. You are not special, so how they trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:18 PM
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such a dumb game. would rather just not play and find another girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:02 PM
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after reading this, I really wonder about life on tutorial mode. I can't even imagine having life this easy. On the other side, having a harder life really does shape you into a stronger person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:25 PM
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I got my confidence because I was in a severe car accident when I was 20 and almost died and the trauma made me dark triad. I'm attractive enough to get a lot of attention when my game is on, but not attractive enough to get approached regularly. The dark triad is the differentiator. Without it, I would be pretty normal. With it, girls find me very "pretty."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:58 PM
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spend enough time amongst beautiful women and you'll stop giving a shit. if anything, I do view them slightly differently, as I tend to view them as inferior due to their horrible and boring personalities that you encounter when you're around pretty women enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:29 PM
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why. they're literally just bags of human flesh like anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 01:25 PM
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I'm hardly an apex male. Just an average guy with explosive self-confidence, dark triad tendencies, and abundance mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:37 AM
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I actually agree. but I have an addiction problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:36 AM
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thanks :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 02:31 AM
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permanent. but technology is improving and I'm optimistic there will be treatment starting in 5-6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:28 PM
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It's good you haven't turned bitter. I will tell you from experience that most women suck and are not worth anything, definitely not worth affecting your personality. I'm sorry to hear that you hate yourself, but we all often feel that way. As I mentioned in another post, I accidentally paralyzed myself below the waist last year and so I have been dealing with self-hatred as well. Hope you come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 10:08 PM
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I'm definitely no Chad. I do have a very attractive face though, which gets me a ton of attention, so I'm probably a Chad-lite. More importantly, I have 0 approach anxiety and do not give a single shit. I also have incredible game and have extreme self-confidence. Since my physical features are not a hindrance, I am able to be very successful with my superb game. Yes I understand why men struggle. I've been there when I was younger. However, I still don't understand why they view women different…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:31 PM
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> At best he’ll have about 7 partners his entire life how is this even possible. I'm talking to 7 girls on Instagram today
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:05 PM
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You get that as a man too. When you're a prize, women will treat you as "OMG a hot guy." It's an interesting feeling but kinda dehumanizing, because it's solely based on circumstances. I've been on the other side, where I was treated as less than human (actually, by the exact same person- an ex-gf). When the tables turn and you're better than them, suddenly you're like this ethereal object that they lust after. What you come to realize is that it has nothing to do with you, it's all about them o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:53 PM
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Love is a deep, romantic connection with someone. Oneitis is an obsession with the concept of another person; it's not based in reality, it's your brain creating an unrealistic fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 07:48 PM
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I've never been in love. But I have had a few very severe oneitises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:50 PM
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Men find youth attractive, This doesn't have to do with "feeling sad for them." It's just the truth. It's an attraction mechanism. Obviously there are a lot of variables to be taken into account, but in general a 20 year old is much more attractive than the 30 year old version of herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 05:05 PM
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thank you for feeding my ego
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:56 PM
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The BP dating advice is mostly about overt communication and prioritising her comfort. This doesn't work for multiple reasons. Firstly, a lot of communication that women pick up on is covert (in other words, what's being said without being said). It's important to be able to communicate in this medium, as women intuitively pick up on it. Being too explicit means you give away much of the game. Additionally, prioritising her comfort doesn't work to your benefit because the uncertainty is part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 04:15 PM
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Family and specific friends. Women that you're romantically close with tend to punish you for asking for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:32 PM
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perfectly said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:30 PM
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I'm in support of the ferocity against police killings, however I'm not in support of the insane level of virtue signaling. That was my point, that these causes become overwhelming and stop having to do with the actual cause at hand. The amount of ridiculous virtue signalling I've seen in the past week is immense. And my point was that I had an epiphany that there will never be a "men's rights" cause because it would get destroyed by virtue signalling. I've actually supported this cause, as that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 10:48 PM
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no, I don't think in terms of race
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:43 PM
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does it make you feel powerful to insult a stranger who you know nothing about? of course I care about equality, I'm aware that what was done to this man could be done to me. also, this was a human being, and his death was horrifying and preventable. so why don't you take a moment and think about why you felt the need to make your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:43 PM
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this is a great post. thank you. I hope you'll post more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:42 PM
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it just takes a lot of experience to get to a place where you understand the red pill. If you spend enough time dating women, you will eventually reach that place. The 'pattern recognition' part of our brain will guide you to red pill truths. For example, I had this situation where a women from across the country, in NYC, dumped me after a long period of talking. But there was never any closure so it was kept in limbo, with her unsure of whether she made the right decision. A few months later, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:56 AM
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great. thank you
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:39 AM
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Hey I have a question about this too. A lot of times I get in my own reality in my head. It's almost a completely alternate reality to the real world and I can drift there for hours. The problem is I like it. It feels great. I create these complex fantasies and scenarios and work them out in my head. How do you suggest breaking this cycle? Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:10 PM
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Thank you for this reply, it is very well written. I think it goes beyond being "emotional people." I think they believe in the duality of good or bad. TRP comes off as pretty bad, so they feel like they are on the right side by fighting against it. Given the way I was raised, I would have definitely been blue-pilled before my awakening. The Red Pill has a lot of what appears as-disgusting misogyny all over it. Anyone associated with it would be publically crucified. However, just because it wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:34 PM
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There's just too much positive incentive. The woman doesn't even have to be fully aware of how big of a piece of shit she is. For example, look at James Franco. His career was destroyed because two women accused him of rape. Do you know how big of an ego boost that gives a woman? To destroy a famous man's life? Way more of an ego boost than fucking him. She might not even realize it consciously. She might backwards rationalize it like the Aziz Ansari situation. There need to be systems put in pl…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:28 PM
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I have dealt with this problem before I started lifting. He doesn’t care and they don’t care. Stop bringing them around
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:20 PM
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'Hating' women is giving them too much power. Most of them don't even deserve 'hate.'
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 02:55 PM
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It's easy to not give a fuck when you have all those things; not only is life easy so you have a million other things going for you, but everyone wants your attention: easy to not care. it's hard when you have nothing, but that is when you grow the most and when you find out who actually cares about you.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:07 PM
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and if you arent doing these things, you are invisible
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:40 AM
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yah, it's just so counter-intuitive to how I was raised. it took me a lot of horrible experiences to come to terms with TRP logic.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:07 AM
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thanks. this is what I needed to hear
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:56 AM
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probably. I'm aware I'm being a little bitch here, and I hate it, but wanted to ask anyway since its a nagging problem
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:32 AM
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Interesting. I've heard this can happen with hot girls and ugly guys too, where hot girls get caught up on ugly guys who reject them.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:02 AM
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thanks. trying to find way to prevent future suffering. My kindness always seems to get the best of me, as apparently expecting people to return kindness is not a great bet
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:01 PM
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it does confirm a lot of my red pill perspectives though: the world is a dangerous place. you need to be strong and be able to defend yourself, including in the social world. you need to have a good understanding of social dynamics and be aware of your surroundings at all times. cops are oftentimes men with violent proclivities who seek authority. women are more attracted to violent men than meek ones, and these riots show why (in our world, violence can burst out at any moment). humans are, for…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 10:30 PM
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thanks. I'm just trying to understand it. I've faced some monumental issues in my life, and every one has been of my own causing. they all happened when things were really good. it wasn't intentional self-sabotage as much as accidentally directing damage at myself. at the same time, every thing I've overcome has come from me, too. I always thought maybe my brain was unique in attacking *something* at all times, especially myself if everything was good. I guess it's part of human nature.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:39 PM
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so why turn it on yourself?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 08:20 PM
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ugh the 4/10 girl who is convinced she is a goddess. that alone makes life a joke
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:52 PM
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no, some people are just bad people. I think what the redpill shows isn't that women are bad, but that women are no less bad than men.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:51 PM
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I had this exact same feeling while watching the riots this past week. It wasn't just that people were looting, it was the absolute stupidity of it and how ridiculous they looked. I weeped for humanity.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:48 PM
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life experience should teach you this knowledge though. I learned it not through TRP, but through being wrecked by other people, especially women. by the time I found TRP, I had put most of the stuff together. TRP was just the final puzzle piece I wonder if that is a common theme with men who find their way to TRP. society's 'path' is so different than what happens in reality that when men get destroyed, they look for answers and find TRP I think a lot of other men are just dumb or want to be "n…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:42 PM
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> it turns around and start shooting its own ship. why are we wired like this? seems evolutionarily disadvantageoud
/r/askTRP02/06/20 04:05 PM
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"learning cold approach" sounds somewhat autistic, which is probably why it makes you feel uncomfortable. rather than that, just learn how to talk to people/strangers in general. assuming you're putting the work in, you have so much to offer and they have so much to offer you, and there are millions of them. most people will feel very at ease if you speak to them in a natural way. it's when you look like you're trying to get something from them that the problems start. it's a great skill to lear…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:50 PM
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it's not that fun though once it's easy
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:39 PM
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I was as close to being in a coma as someone can be without literally being in a coma. In other words, going in and out of consciousness. Anyway, where did I say I was treating her like my partner. I was treating her like a close friend I needed help from, because we had been close friends before the dynamic shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:14 PM
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I'm okay being called an asshole for unintentionally crossing someone's boundaries when I was essentially in a coma on the brink of death. in addition to the lack of cognisance, the feeling of solipsism is hard to overcome (in other words, you hardly know there are other people in the world existing. your reality is the only reality). I'll leave it up to you to decide whether someone on the outside, with full knowledge of the happenings, should act better
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 03:09 AM
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dude some people are just assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:52 AM
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it wasn't about boundaries, it was because I had become an omega male, attaching himself to a hot woman in peak fertility. That woman was sleeping with athletes and movie stars. The fact that she had been chasing me the year before when I was a hot shot multimillionaire was forgotten and her current emotional state told her I was an omega.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 01:42 AM
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I was paralyzed right before she broke up with me, so in my head she wasn't my ex. in other words, I never really processed the break up. I was stuck in the pre-break up time-frame in my head. the other ex was a long-time friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:24 AM
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It’s a bad idea to look for support like that from an ex. It often comes across like you’re guilt tripping them into spending further time with you. I happen to agree with this. at the time, I tried making it clear that it was not about getting back together. but I think that a girl that pretty was so used to that dynamic (guys trying to get back together), that she acted that way. she basically treated me as an annoying loser ex. she was young, so I'm not sure she really understood the gravity …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:12 AM
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when I reached out, she actively told me to contact her while telling people behind my back something entirely different and refusing to tell me to stop calling her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:51 PM
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there are some people out there that genuinely enjoy causing pain and suffering to others. I dated a very pretty girl who pursued me and showed me great affection. at the time I was very high-status (very attractive, ripped, great job), and she was interviewing for new work. her best friend showered me with attention as well. I was paralysed from the waist down in a totally random and avoidable car accident. without knowing this, she acquired a new job and broke up with me. I reached out to her …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:37 PM
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just be careful. it's easy to want to believe being as actual asshole is bad, but you need evidence. in my experience, being an actual asshole is bad because you eventually shut out the wrong people. in other words, you're not just as asshole to people you think are low quality, but you are accidentally an asshole to people who are actually high quality. and they always remember. I'm very very cautious how I treat people, I've made the mistake of treating people poorly before. However, I've made…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 11:20 PM
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I was paralyzed from the waist down right after we broke up, and her and her friend went out of their way to commit as much emotional harm against me as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:17 PM
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I am a man. It's a bit hard for me to categorize other men because, ironically, I don't interact with men at the same level of intimacy as women. I know women, as a group, much, more better than men. However, I believe that many men, by nature, are violent and destructive creatures. Especially alpha males. Since most women deal with a) alpha males or b) low-value men pretending to be alpha males, it's not surprising that they encounter many of these men. I think that there are many men who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:14 PM
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wtf are you talking about. there are many women who absolutely like actual assholes.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 10:24 PM
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It says nothing about a girls character for not being attracted to you, but it says a lot about people how they treat others depending on whether they're attracted to them or not. Ideally, you should treat a hot woman and an ugly woman the same, except you want to fuck the hot woman. In reality, you're more likely to fuck the hot woman if you treat her as an ugly woman. So it works out for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 10:14 PM
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'rake in pussy' doesn't mean you can get a girl (which would be an improvement on the average reddit user). It means you have multiple options of attractive women and no problem getting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:11 PM
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yes I meant what is your feeling about men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:08 PM
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Treat people respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:07 PM
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What is your feeling about men? That they enjoy raping and killing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:19 PM
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Have you considered that many men were brought up by great fathers and got absolutely demolished when they started dating? I was brought up in a great family with good roles models. I treated women very respectfully. I also took care of myself and understood that attraction was important. None of that mattered though. The second I got dumped or lost social status I was treated in the most horrible, cruel way imaginable. Like I was George Floyd and that I should be extinguished. For a long time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:18 PM
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social status wise. Think about a class with the cool boys and the not-so cool boys. Women give resources to the cool guys, whereas the cool guys give resources to everyone below them. I will see if I can find the study for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:31 PM
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But the men in my social circle are just solidly normal, lovely people who probably don't rake in pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:27 PM
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no there's also a psychological difference. in studies regarding schooling, men tend to share with the entire class including women below him. women only share with men above her. women treat men who they perceive as below them as absolute dog-shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:25 PM
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so you think it's intentional? when my mom gives me horrible advice, she appears earnest. I think they just don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:22 PM
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These also tend to be the bitchiest to low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:05 PM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 03:51 PM
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why would you even say that when you know nothing about me? it worked the opposite way. At first I was pretty average; sure I always got pretty women but it was due to pre-selection, not visceral lust. As I became physically dominating and confident, I started noticing very similar situations play out. Women would react in very similar manners; I started noticing a lot of patterns. Eventually, I could predict their reaction almost perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:58 PM
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I have found cockiness more effective than simple confidence. Girls like guys that aren't just confident but think they're the shit. Arrogance is annoying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:49 PM
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no, because I'm talking about pre-coitus dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:47 PM
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Why would someone complain about women not asking you out? It's one of my favorite parts of being a guy. The thrill of approaching a woman, being suave, and building a connection. What's more fun. That? Or being a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:46 PM
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Surprised it’s not more
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:18 PM
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cockiness isn't always bad. i think arrogance is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:07 PM
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how often are you hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:01 PM
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I'm a man. I've been complimented a lot. It doesn't mean anything to me anymore when it comes from a woman that is below a 7, because I'm so used to it. I always thank them (because I grew up as an ugly kid, so I appreciate the attention I get now), but it doesn't mean much to me. I've also been complimented by a lot of hot women but usually it's moreso on my style/confidence/demeanour. That means more to me but not much, still. What actually does mean something to me is when a hot woman looks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:00 PM
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Yes but 'extreme confidence' has a physical effect on women. They become quiet and intimidated, and go into a defensive crouch. Chateau Heartiste used to call this "defensive posturing." I didn't really understand the concept until I had women respond to it with me. Their entire body language changes and they want to have sex almost immediately. It's a physical reaction, it's not about her liking you as a person; I've had some of the meanest, bitchiest, most horrible women I know react this way …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:56 PM
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how so? are you more initially attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:58 PM
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people definitely notice. self-confidence is a very important feature to have in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 06:58 PM
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sounds a bit like a humble-brag
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 05:18 PM
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Oneitis is just very rough. It is a major source of women’s power (but a huge vulnerability). Just remember that all men suffer from it.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:27 PM
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She saw the video and did the math. Get out now.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:52 PM
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Don’t be too hard on yourself Elon
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:11 PM
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LOL at expecting anything of women
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:07 PM
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I've definitely considered that, which has allowed me to put less blame on myself.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:52 PM
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Thank you for the kind words. > It’s man’s nature to compete. To compare. I think it's natural to compare yourself to other men as well. I see all these other guys standing up and it just makes me feel inadequate. The guy could even be a total loser or a scumbag and he can still do something I cannot do. But whoever said life was fair in that regards. >It’s not the physical realm they mastered; it’s mental their superiority Yes it has helped to read about these people. They were always afterthou…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:52 AM
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Thank you. I was in a really bad accident as a kid so this isn't the first time that I have hit a tragedy. To some degree, I think I thought I was immune because I had already "paid my dues" with my other accident. I remember the grief from that tragedy just being mind-blowing and unbearable, while this one has sucked but it's moreso the "it's life" manta. But I agree with you, you learn to adapt and you change your purpose. It makes you far more resilient.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:45 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:39 PM
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How do you let go of the need to "tell people how it is." I accidentally started speaking about hypergamy to my brother and he scolded me for making generalities. For some reason, I *want* to tell the truth to people. But they don't just reject it, *I* get rejected. I'm not talking about speaking about taboo topics to work colleagues, I'm talking about speaking about pretty mundane topics to people I'm close to. Like "if you are perceived as lower in status than her, she won't be attracted to yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 10:36 PM
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how are you not chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 10:21 PM
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some people just like intellectualising
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 09:42 PM
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good point. do you think that that is true with theredpill, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 08:42 PM
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The wall is pretty brutal; I looked up some girls from college who were absolute complete and total bitches back then due to their level of attractiveness. I mean, they were the epitome of cuntiness. At the time, I had a sense that the wall would be brutal to them. They weren't actually that attractive, they just had a "fertile glow" about them that made them somehow shine. Well, lo and behold, they are genuinely repulsive now at age 29. That "shine" is gone and they are just simply ugly. I wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:14 PM
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Yes, and no. Most western, White women have an astonishingly easy life. The amount of romantic opportunities are endless, which means that the amount of offers are endless. Dates, tickets, etc. These are endless. There is also an obsequiousness that many men have around women, so women are just treated better in general (the vast majority of men are not alphas). Also, assuming they are reasonably attractive, women can latch onto the highly successful men simply due to their beauty. So yes, compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:01 PM
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"Men" aren't in charge. Rather, those at the very top are men. That's a very big difference. I think that average and high-tier women are below these men but above the average men. The current state is different than in the past. The bottom 80% of men are backed into a corner. Their lives are relatively meaningless, and worse they are told they are told they are privileged. I think you will eventually see physical violence. You will get more and more 'incel' type attacks, which will just create …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:30 PM
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Thank you for this. I think we can bring this back to the 'fear of masculinity.' In the West, there seems to be a fear and demonization of masculinity. It is seen as uniquely dangerous. My suspicion is that because we have not had an existential war in such a long time, we have lost the perceived need for masculinity. The positive aspects of masculinity, such as honor, sacrifice, loyalty, and even violence in the face of threats have been re-cast as unnecessary, reckless, and dangerous. Add onto…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 10:31 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:58 PM
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sorry meant to post in red pill. I will delete
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:58 PM
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haha I thought I did post in the red pill sub. my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:58 PM
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what is 'entitlement' anyway? I am extremely self-confident and I feel 'I deserve' a hot woman but I also believe I need to express the right game/seduction and work ethic. I'm not just 'entitled' because I'm me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:37 PM
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I went out walking today and thought of the experience being a female in my city of 2 million. Literally every single male you walk by would fuck you. Doctors, lawyers, bums, homeless guy, waiter, etc. Log onto Tinder, and you can have 1000 hits in an hour. If you're hot, then all the top men would commit to you. The experience of a young, attractive woman is basically impossible for us to understand. What does that attention even do to you? Which is why red-pilled game is so awesome and the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:59 AM
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> “I didn’t give him a second date don't we get tired of having the female determine the situation? the man can be just as much the chooser. give me 20 options and he'll have no problem being the chooser with this female
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 02:36 AM
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good point. it's essentially the expectation that she'll be into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 02:41 PM
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done
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 02:36 PM
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women are not only the least emotionally mature, they also lack any self-awareness. I've caught myself thinking some interesting thoughts of late just naturally disqualifying older or unattractive women or of seeing myself as the prize. I at least have the self-awareness to consider it. a woman has never had that level of self-awareness. she just thinks she's superior for existing, which I don't mind because girls with big egos are the easiest to game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:32 AM
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I am, thanks. interestingly enough, it gave me a lot of dark triad traits. that might sound weird but when you go through an extreme trauma where you fight for survival, it re-wires your brain. the suffering seems to develop certain dark triad traits. I've heard this true from war too. something about suffering is what creates like these. I bring this up to mention how well it's made me with women. picking up girls is essentially a joke for me now. I'm not the "he's super self-confident guy that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:17 PM
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yah, I feel bad until you're on the other side of things. wait until you're in the position of weakness and she's still manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:11 PM
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growing up I was a very very very successful student. attended ivy league, got a job at Goldman's. tons of talent. Had a stroke at age 21 that completely incapacitated me to the extent of being essentially immobile. I was cast aside without hesitation. female friends especially dropped me in the most cruel, inhumane, and almost eugenic way as possible (eugenic as in trying to elimate me from the gene pool), with the constant refrain being that I was a burden on their life (and everyone knows how…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:37 PM
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at some point, I think men really need to say enough is enough. for some reason, we've decided as a society that women should just get certain privileges *because.* Are young men's lives not worth as much as young women's? I thought we rejected the notion that gender determines worth, but when we flip the script and it's women now it's fine? What if we just flipped it back and went pro-male? Because that's what *already* exists for a pro-female bias. I was always pretty pro-feminist until I witn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:40 PM
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sure. you're only dropping them if they're truly putting up red flags or they're not a potential option. what I'm saying is it makes things a billion times easier when you have tons of options. a penny lost means nothing if you have a truck of pennies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:55 PM
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the more abundance you have as a man, the more you can drop women when they show even the slightest hint of a (genuine) red-flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:06 PM
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people will *always* desire women, however there is a massive difference between desiring women and putting up with the high maintenance costs. female arrogance and privilege is simply not sustainable. there's too much anger from low-value men and low-value men have too much power and motivation to re-stack the deck. you simply cannot have a functional society where 80% of men arent doing well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 02:54 PM
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how can we build power in a way that women cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:56 PM
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a young man you can focus on building power in your life in a way that women in our modern culture can’t how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:50 PM
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As a young man you can focus on building power in your life in a way that women in our modern culture can’t. Take advantage of that and the women will follow. how so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:43 PM
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I think it's relatively mainstream. you see it a lot on tik tok. slowly people are becoming red pilled about female nature. the oversupply of entitled cu*ts certainly hasn't hurt. most people are like me. they thought it was just them and that they had a bad experience. soon they started hearing more about it. then they started hearing a ton about it. then it was near ubiquitous, as if the MAJORITY of experiences were bad. it's almost like it's the default state of modern dating. western women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:33 PM
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you should be well socially-calibrated so you intuitively know the answers to this. you'll get this with some experience, I believe.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:46 PM
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great addition u/yasee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:28 PM
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the fact that it is uttered so commonly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:15 PM
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if literally everyone feels this way, isn't there something to be done. I mean my god how can there be such universal loathing of modern women and absolutely zero effort at fixing this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:36 AM
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I had a stroke when I was 20. discovered what "you and your life are essentially their play-things" really meant after this girl I had dated almost tried to kill me a variety of ways while I was already literally on the cusp of death. after I recovered, I got extremely swole and got a great job on Wall street. ran into the girl 5 years later at a bar and I had a 10 on my arm and was in my nice suit. said hi, walked away, didn't make a scene just moved on. our mutual female friend sent me a text …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 11:23 PM
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> The way you talk and how you frame relationships and women, people can sense that. the poster is absolutely correct here, but not in the way she thinks. The way you talk and frame relationships comes across through a lot of subconscious cues. when I hear you say things like >All i want is for one to give me a chance that is a big red flag for me. you're already framing women as the prize. I would never ever see it the way. why is she the prize? if you don't see yourself as the prize, then she …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:59 PM
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AWALT is definitely "have the potential" as opposed to all women are like that. Even that nice girl that is has the potential to be a legit sociopath and branch-swing quickly once the mask comes off. ​ As for your previous question about bothering with RP, at some point it should be internalised to the extent that you do these things naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:06 AM
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There's not a huge benefit to women, to be honest. They're with you when you're at your best (and at that point you don't need them), and drop you when you're at your worst. And once you unlock the key for sex, the whole thing is an absolute joke because they all have the same attraction mechanism and they're entirely replaceable. And in my experience, most of them suck and have horrible, entitled personalities due to men's thirst. Some women I've met have been worse than Lucifer. So yes, they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 12:26 AM
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is it nature or nurture? are women this way because of nature or because the god-tier amount of attention they have starting age 12
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:11 PM
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it still always messes with my reality that women have such crazy abundance. I never had a problem meeting girls but I didn't realize until after college that many men simply don't easily meet many women. I never understood why some of my very average female friends acted so insanely self-absorbed until I saw how much demand there was for them (outside of my own interest, which was minimal). In other words, I wouldn't think twice about some girl in my social network but she would have a huge ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:59 PM
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the worst part is that it is seen as a form of 'empowerment,' so the narcissistic behaviour is actually rationalised as a *good* thing. one of the problems these women don't understand is how often they are screwing over good potential mates. I've had women be awful to me because of the guidebook, only to totally regret it later when they realize they had discarded a genuinely good partner..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:25 PM
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I'm not talking about standards, I'm talking about behaviour. the way she acts and thinks about things. for example, it's a pretty well-known phenomena that many women just kinda don't really care or do anything for a friend when they get sick. I never really understood, it seemed simply mean, until I started experiencing it myself. I started noticing that I was becoming so successful with women and had so much abundance that I simply didn't have to care. I didn't have to go out of my way to giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:36 PM
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to add onto this: he is so valuable that he can *easily* replace her, which she can clearly sense. so she tries to get him, but he doesn't care because there's a million other ones out there. which just makes her think he's even more valuable. basically, the fact that she knows that he knows that she knows that she can be replaced drives her exceptionally crazy. t the next level of this is if you don't even find her that attractive while every other guy does (which is important because she'll ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:29 PM
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the idea that we should stop cold approaching for you is ridiculous narcissistic. are black men suppose to walk on the other side of the street so you don't feel in danger, > But if there was some kind of cloaking device that obfuscated all that and made me look like a 250 lb 63 yr old woman I'd probably use it 9/10 times I left my house lmao you'd miss the attention after 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:11 PM
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can I get some input given your knowledge of dating dynamics? One thing I've noticed as I move up in SMV is how *my own self-perception and POV* actually changes. I bring this up since you said "and I also guarantee that they'd get defensive and reject my feedback." When my SMV was lower, I was more defensive and often rejected feedback. Women were also...hotter. Almost any female that wasn't a landwhale was hot simply due to possessing SMV. Women were simply a bit more mystical. Nude images wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:00 PM
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If you go into it with a chip on your shoulder against women/feminism, full of paranoia and skepticism, then unsurprisingly you're going to find that women are shitty. If you go into it with pure intentions and an open mind, giving women the benefit of the doubt and following the golden rule, they tend to reciprocate. hahahaa. if you go into it with pure intentions you'll be destroyed. if you go in understand female nature, you'll never be surprised, and you may even be delighted when a woman is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 01:15 PM
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it's very hard when you're naive and brought up in a good family. takes some soul-draining experiences to learn to identify a manipulator
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/20 02:33 PM
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why would I deny myself pussy? I'm talking about situations in which a rejection is in order. maybe I have another girl I'm on a date with and I run into a hot ex girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:44 PM
42

it's the only one you can have. the party that loves more has more to lose, and it has to be the woman. if it's the man, it won't work
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 04:04 PM
10

you and your life are essentially their play-things.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 01:56 PM
5

rejecting attractive women is one of my favorite things to do, because it happens so rarely to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:18 PM
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it's quite amazing actually. some of the most hideous girls I have ever met act like Stacys. these are girls that were so ugly that I actually felt bad for them and so maintained friendships with them purely out of guilt (I felt very bad for not being friends with them). all they had going for them was a decent BMI. that seemed to be enough for them to think they were a QUEEN and deserved Chad. these were also the most horrible human beings I've met. just really cruel, mean people. they treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:43 PM
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Being a man in dating is awesome. You get to hand select which women to go after. There's literally 0 ceiling. At a Vegas hotel party, I can go and start speaking with the most attractive woman in the venue. I can do a cold approach on the street with the most beautiful woman around. The only catch is that you have to have very solid game, otherwise you're not getting much attention. Women, on the other hand, have to wait for the man to make the move. Sure they're part of a lot of social circles…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:23 PM
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The sad thing is I used to have a very similar mentality except with more confidence. In other words, I used to be a 'female ally' while still getting girls for myself. I was blue-pilled but still got girls. In other words, I treated women as the blue-pill teaches but thanks to some charm, status, and good looks, I got girls. And because of this, I was fully blue-pilled. After all, I got girls and thought it was cause of how I was treating them. I never put together that they liked me for my sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:04 PM
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I love a girl for who she is, I respect her for her actions. what's hard to get about that? If she's a kind-hearted person who hasn't lived up to my expectations for her behavior, then I do not respect her. but I still may love her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:03 PM
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I've had this talk with several people and they simply cannot FATHOM that men and women think differently in regards to attraction. My mother genuinely thinks men are shallow for liking younger women and cannot accept that men are simply more attracted to them. "I could go for younger men, but I want a real man with experience." When I try explaining the difference, it goes in one ear and out the other, like it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:00 PM
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It’s kind of funny to be honest. Try being more light-hearted. Women do shit like that all the time with shit tests
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 11:19 PM
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and society
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:40 PM
1

I think there was a sense amongst women that something was wrong. they were bored at home and felt they deserved more. it was a common feeling amongst women. they wanted to pursue their ambitions. this unease is probably how men feel now to be honest. men feel like there's just something *off* about how society is running, but can't put our finger on it as for relationships, I simply don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:56 PM
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thanks. sadly I have a lot of experience. I learned the hard way unfortunately. it took a lot of pain and suffering to finally understand women. it's pretty simple: "ME." that's how you can explain every shitty behavior, every double standard, etc. in her head, it's always "ME ME ME." women will literally use someone else's death twitter validation (I saw this happen during the coronavirus: a woman faking her husband's death for twitter 'likes'). it's always about her. the question is no longer …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:29 PM
2

we're talking past each other. women are red-pilled in sexual dynamics. from experience, they understand a lot about game. they aren't naive about what men want. they can size up different men very quickly, literally within a second. they're almost impossible to trick. they're manipulators, they know how to use dread game, covert signals, etc. they understand AFBB, although not necessarily explicitly. however, they're also very stupid. don't underestimate the stupidity of the vast majority of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:59 PM
1

it's just a maxim that the blue pill espouses. there's nothing wrong if she's your best friend, but it's just an odd maxim. it's just sentimental advice. truthfully, you're not really dating your BFF
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:22 PM
2

highly desirable women are into dark triad guys. that's the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:20 PM
1

women are red-pilled in the sense that they understand the mating dance. they have been sexualized since age 12, if not younger. they get what's up. they understand game far better than the vast majority of men. only a very skilled man knows more than the average woman. however, stupid feminist advice has convinced them to have as much fun as possible now, through 'muh empowerment.' ME ME MEEEEEEE be as comically narcissistic and selfish as possible, and re-frame it as empowerment. anyone critic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:11 PM
5

Casey Anthony was an extreme case, kind of like when a radical Muslim slits the eyes of an infidel because the Muslim disapproves of his religion. But that doesn't negate the underlying culture that enables the atrocities. Just as even moderate Islam is intrinsically anti-infidel, modern female culture in intrinsically narcissistic and hedonistic,
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 03:34 PM
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the thing is that there could be a female dating strategy subreddit that is more like 'The Rules.' It would teach women how to have female game. It would talk about what men are attracted to and how to maximize her assets. Instead it just talks about how women are QUEENZ and what they're entitled to. And yet that is seen as 'empowering.' It really does make you angry when you think about how women are treated in our society. Why do they get this privilege? Are they somehow better than us? More i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:44 PM
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I know, I was agreeing with you. sorry if it came off another way It's really quite horrible to experience. How did we create this world where everything is catered to women because of an overrated body part? It's toxic to both parties. It turns women into entitled, narcissistic monsters. It destroys men. There's no reason that there should be a double-standard. It is failing a shit-test, and eventually society will pay for it. You can already see that happening with the creation of the red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:25 PM
3

Lying and manipulation is not illegal and never will be. wtf are you talking about? fraud is definitely illegal. blackmail is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:20 PM
2

even hot dudes have to be more careful about what they 'say.' they can think differently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:11 PM
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> Funny how the whole world censors men, but not women. dude FDS has been FEATURED in the Wall Street Journal. They're not even close to censoring, they're actively promoting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:08 PM
2

yes but 10 is not very many. An average woman could have 10 in a day if she wanted. A guy with decent game can have 10 in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:03 PM
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once you get it, you won't care. I've been in stages of abundance with girls simping and it's completely pointless because you understand that it's not you it's just her attraction to you. the second that attraction goes out, so do you. chad is easily disposable when he is mogged or shows flaws. so why be happy when you have a moment of simping if its not even real? you place too much value on female attention. it's a nice thing to have but don't let it impact how you value yourself. they're mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:31 PM
3

yes. believe it or not, there's an Internet connection in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:23 PM
2

why pretend? why not just learn not to give a shit and to have abundance mentality. then you won't be 'playing this stupid game,' you'll be authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:13 PM
0

billy beta doesn't register on her radar as a human. if she's even considering swiping or not, he's already in the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:12 PM
2

there's really only three categories. incels, normies (who have 5-10 partners in their lifetime), and Chads/Chadlites who are capable of having 100+. so extremes are pretty much the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:09 PM
1

is that you Addison Rae? you're on PPD now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:04 PM
3

historical fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:02 PM
3

a documentary posing as a movie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:47 PM
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it was essentially a documentary on female teenage behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:21 PM
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no one denies individual men use cunning and deceit. that's been well-known for ages. however, men also have standards amongst themselves and try to enforce it. the blue pill, however, covers up that women are, at their essence, lieing creatures. it reframes them into goddesses that do no wrong. *Mean Girls* was essentially a documentary on this. notice how in that movie the guys are the chill ones, some sketchy behavior, but nothing that someone would surprised at. compare that to women, who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:48 PM
3

don't forget her instagram post titled 'QUEENZ'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:11 AM
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lieing is many woman's #1 hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:10 AM
2

yah I understand. my point was that it's sad when the oppressed becomes the oppressor. they have absolutely 0 self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:48 PM
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growing up under a culture of men vs women who thought this was a good idea? given enough derision, inevitably people side with the side that supports them even if they are more extreme. feminists seem to be pushing men into this situation as fast as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:38 PM
1

it's a term
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:15 AM
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that's what you took from this, even after I derided incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:32 PM
1

wow what great insight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:38 PM
2

Dude Heinrich Heydrich was a notorious womanizer and he was ugly AF. It's all about the dark triad and power
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:38 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:36 PM
1

do you understand what an alpha is. If some incel literally become the ruler of America, he would be the alpha by definition even if he was ugly AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:35 PM
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I said 'to their alpha potential.'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:16 PM
1

do you know who this is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:14 AM
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do you find it interesting that women, humans who were the most oppressed and had the least-status throughout history (often seen as cattle) and should thus have more empathy than any male in existence, are actually the least empathetic? some of my experiences have made me wonder if they were less empathetic to me as a man than a Nazi would be to me as a Jew. you would think that they would understand being oppressed or at the bottom, instead of ridiculing low-status people. and being treated li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:50 PM
2

I do understand what you're saying. the other poster is ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:43 PM
1

it's a multi-faceted problem. firstly, due to rampant hypergamy, the SMP really has gone nuts. as a man, what would have made you a normie only several years ago now makes you borderline incel. many normies also lack an understanding of female attraction triggers and then come off as socially incongruent. they always, almost inherently, see themselves as the prize with my rock solid game, narcissism, and irrational self-confidence, I'm probably a 7 although I do have the "cute factor" which can …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:04 PM
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> The only one responsible for you, is you this is, at the end of the day, all the advice that is and ever will be needed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:28 PM
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> I feel as though sometimes they do that just to see how you will react and when they can see that you really give a shit if they would date you or not, they get annoyed rule #1: never care about what women think, and you'll be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:45 PM
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when the guy who is a 4 gets more love letters than every non-celebrity on this forum combined
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:39 PM
1

yes if you're comparing them without the 2/10 having dark triad traits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:13 PM
1

this is why men with abundance do so well. due to abundance, they don't take shit from hot girls. and hot girls, not being used to this, go crazy for him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:43 PM
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hope she sees this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:42 PM
0

"Men are shallow" because men judge based on looks. This seems shallow. And women were always seen as not-shallow because they cared about things that extended beyond looks aka personality. But it turned out that women don't care about "a good personality" but rather care about certain SMV factors such as dominance, status, etc. and are insanely shallow. . Another thing men have noticed about women is that they cannot be expected to rise above their shallowness. They are enslaved to their biolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:50 PM
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