Remy_me_me Archive

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1	"The Hoe Phase" Agreed. I do know of a girl who bragged about banging a university's entire men's lacrosse team (50+ athletes) over a single spring break (~2-3 weeks). So there's that. She was also dating my buddy at the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 04:18 AM
1	Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock On a somewhat relevant note, i know of a transwoman who said she had experienced both sides: As a man previously, he/she had 0 matches on apps and 0 attention from women... pretty much was undesirable/unfuckable despite putting in the effort and listening to advice from women. Then after her transition, she did get endless matches on the apps as a woman, but that came with a fair amount of creepy and inappropriate messages from guys. HAVING SAID THAT, when asked to choose between life as an unde…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 08:24 PM
2	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Haha, my favorite is (first) getting into a debate with the girls in my friend group over things like: girls vs guys having more difficulty with dating, what girls actually go for in a guy vs what they say, why girls seem to mostly have sex with/date guys with stereotypical red flags (and proceed to blame the guys somehow for the girl's choices...), etc. THEN, I randomly send a picture of a stereotypical hunky guy in the middle of the debate (We're in a group chat). In the next literal moment, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 04:06 PM
2	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Slightly off-topic, but what would u say are the top/most effective resources that got u success with women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:27 PM
1	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Alphas bone, betas friendzoned	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:04 PM
14	To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense? Heck, if anything, she'll continue to add more male-model looking guys to her rotation, then proceed to emphasize (i.e. gaslight) that it's about a guy being himself and his confidence. And to top it off, she'll double-down that girls have it worse with dating than guys do somehow. I also realized that girls today will go on & on about how a guy being nice isn't inherently attractive... but she's doing this bc she's hoping ppl won't notice that her decisions and preferences ultimately come down …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 02:44 PM
1	Women put virtually zero effort into dating, and certainly far less than men Men run the race while women get to wait at the finish line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:59 PM
1	Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable? Slightly different topic, but i think a common complaint is when it seems ok to height-shame guys and/or when it's not recognized as such in the context of dating. It's normalized, where we see it by girls who are active on social media, dating apps, forums, and even by girls and toxic guys within a guy's own friend group. I think physically, it's a lot more difficult to gain height vs losing weight (for both guys and girls). But then, these things get treated like equivalents when it comes to d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 06:54 PM
1	How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait? Off-topic, but i have an acquaintance whose gf went behind his back and banged an entire men's collegiate lacrosse team over a 2-week spring break. We know cuz she bragged about it i.e. this shit is real	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 07:57 PM
2	The patriarchy and toxic masculinity exist, but women play a role in it too by selecting men with toxic traits. True, women aren't obligated to fix or help them, but it's toxic male behavior that negatively affects and bothers women too (in the form of misogyny or just him being an asshole to society). It's not women's intention, but the effect is that toxic guys end up succeeding the most with women, which is based on acknowledging women's choices. This ends up reinforcing the tenets of toxic masculinity, where women play a role in perpetuating the very thing they complain about. Whether we believe it or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 12:35 AM
6	Women are just as shallow as men when it comes to what they find attractive 100%. The girls in my friend group will try to sound all empathetic about heavily emphasizing a guy's personality, then in the next LITERAL second they'll be oggling at shirtless pics of some hunk in the group chat. Lots of locker room talk to go with it too. (Must be because of his huge and muscular personality...) Remember, it's always their actions/reactions/decisions that speak louder than their words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/22 05:38 PM
10	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. The fact that he quit altogether says enough. He took the experiences of seeing that average girls can easily MATCH with above-average guys and not ever have to settle for less, and then he compared those experiences to his own as an average guy. My guess is that they're opposites. Like most guys, he probably barely (or ever) gets matches with girls who he swipes "yes" on, regardless if they're above or below average girls. Lowered self-esteem is just one of the side effects of all the obvious n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 05:21 PM
1	CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in him True. In my friend group, there's a clear difference between how the girls respond to guys they find handsome vs hot. A handsome guy for them is like... passing by a piece of art in an art gallery. On the other hand, a hot guy is someone they can't wait to get pictures of his abs and shoulders, then send the pictures to her friends asap to facilitate their locker-room talk of him. I know one of these girls is on the dating apps and made it clear to us that she only hooks up with guys with abs an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 07:49 PM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell The amount of times in my extended friend group that a girl cheated on her boyfriend, simply over him being in a tough chapter in his life that was completely outside his control... (and if things were happening the other way around, I knooow these girls wouldnt have been able to handle what their boyfriends were going through nearly as well.) And then, there's girls when they hear these things, they try to throw stereotypical assumptions that the guy "must have" been toxic or abusive. Like holy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 04:38 PM
2	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe The girls in my friend group will bash and gaslight guys who express struggling with getting dates (or any real attention) etc, but will assert that girls deserve and are owed orgasms. I guess that's easy to say when girls don't ever have to resort to porn when they're horny, but they instead can just call the next hunky guy in line via their DMs/dating apps. When sex is so readily available to you, you can afford to nitpick the quality of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 07:36 PM
7	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe I think the most important hobby that they're missing here is lifting (with a focus on muscular aesthetics, preferably).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 04:24 PM
22	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Girls will vaguely refer to that ickiness as not liking the guy's "vibe". And girls usually are unable/unwilling to truthfully elaborate on what that exactly means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 04:21 PM
37	The importance of male look shouldn’t be a topic of controversy. I have a friend whose roommate is a male model. Apparently, after hooking up with some hot girl he met on tinder, she admitted to him that she accidentally swiped left on him the first time. So she created a whole new dating profile, hoping to miraculously come across his profile again to swipe right on it. (I'm quite a desperate guy on the apps, but i never thought to go this far... and I've seen some really hot girl profiles). I agree that's where looks can get you. Anyway, i think the confusi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 05:06 PM
3	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards I think with online dating today, a greater portion of girls can afford to have high standards. Let me explain: I know girls whose dating profiles are quite low-effort and "meh". Like, their 4 photos are blurry, they use awkward angles, etc. BUT these girls are swimming in matches with hunky dudes. My thoughts are that even the top-tier guys have more down-to-earth standards, possibly bc men largely experience dating from a scarcity mindset. This one girl in particular told us she has a really s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 04:51 PM
1	Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards Eh. I know ppl who say rihanna is attractive but not beyonce, and then vice versa. More of a type thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 03:16 PM
2	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men Too true. The guys that i personally know who get laid the most (in the most unlikely of scenarios and under the tightest of time constraints) are also blatantly misogynistic and unapologetically rude in all other social situations. And they get with pretty hot girls imo. (It also helps that these guys are relatively tall, have good facial features, and come off as bad boys/fuccbois.) A girl that I was seriously dating ended things with me bc i was "too witty"(???)... Turns out a bunch of hunky …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 08:32 PM
1	“Women are mind readers” we can “tell whose mysogynistic” but “can’t tell whose an asshole” I think i agree. Most of the guys i know who hookup the most (in the most unlikely of situations and tightest of time constraints, impressively) are also blatantly misogynistic and unapologetically rude in other social situations that don't involve getting into a girl's pants. (I even heard one of these guys choke-held(?) a girl in his friend group cuz of some small argument they got into.) However, these guys are on the taller side, have decent facial features, and carry a bad boy/fuccboi vibe …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 04:16 PM
2	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? 8.5+ I'd say	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 06:52 AM
14	It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine. I know girls in my friend group who will get confused as to why certain celebrities date each other (e.g. kim k and pete davidson), and one of the actual reasons they will mention is that the guy probably has a huge dick. Female comedians also use this in their stand-up. They go on casual rants about some toxic ex-boyfriend and that they needed to escape asap, but the punchline is that "asap" equated to something absurd like 2+ years, which sarcastically had nothing to do with his big dick. (Hah…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 07:52 PM
1	Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my life And thus begins the hero's journey	/r/seduction	29/07/22 09:39 PM
3	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD Try 1 match every few months	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:35 PM
5	Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to be There's an (unintentional) disconnect between what girls tell guys about what they find attractive vs. what girls actually respond to in terms of attraction. (Tldr: Rules 1 & 2) I have a very liberal group of friends, and they're not afraid to assert their thoughts. Now, whenever the girls are among themselves and fawning over some guy they spotted, they're 100% reacting/responding to his looks (face, muscles, height, abs, etc) WITHOUT any mention of his personality, interests, or confidence. Ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:11 PM
1	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? I would look great wth A) the right amount of plastic surgery and B) not having a hopelessly injured body that prevents me from safely exercising and building muscle ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:18 PM
9	Discussion : Women moving on faster than men. I posted something earlier in this thread with more details, but yeah. I know a girl who broke up with her long-term bf because she realized how many convenient options were around her. She said she was always curious about hooking up with "fuccbois" in particular. And online dating converted some other girl I know from looking for a relationship to exclusively hooking up/fwb stuff. (She ONLY filled up her match lists with muscular guys with abs. She was particularly proud to brag about this.) A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 04:07 PM
12	Discussion : Women moving on faster than men. Oh boy is this the truth. I knew a girl who specifically broke up with her long-term bf to bang her other guy friends, her (married) coworkers, her fitness trainer(s?), regulars at those latin dance events, and just generally other guys who she was already hanging around with before breaking up with her bf (although she did mention times when she didn't even get the stranger's name). Out loud, she said she started out with something like banging 9 times divided among 6 guys in 2 weeks, and there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 03:09 PM
2	Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sex Oh, def different standards for guys they seriously date tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 08:10 PM
20	Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sex Most girls I know say they'd rather hookup with dumber guys. They feel these guys would be more in charge in the bedroom, masculine during sex, intuitive, etc (rather than overthink and be awkward).	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 06:22 PM
18	Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta Bux This type of thing essentially defined the dynamic I had with a girl I was dating for about a year. I learned about the phrase alpha fucks, beta bucks YEARS AFTER I experienced it myself: She and I were deliberately taking it slow and casual at first, but after a few months we started being more serious about each other and had a couple of unofficial talks. This next part I don't blame her really for, but she started suddenly going kinda wild with hooking up with other guys, like a knee jerk rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 06:52 PM
1	A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating. Yup. I knew a few girls who started out as "it's about his personality" and looking for something long-term. Then once they got on the dating apps, it was suddenly all about "v-shaped bodies and abs only" and fully abandoning the search for a bf because hookups/casual flings were that much more fun and easy. These girls' profiles consisted of no more than 4 "meh" photos of them, but their lists of matches were almost exclusively tall hunky guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 09:01 PM
2	Have you seen a handsome and successful man struggling in his romantic/sexual relationships? Just to add to this, my friend's roommate is a male model looking guy. This guy went on a date with some hot girl he met on tinder. And on their date, she admitted that she accidentally swiped left on him, and so she immediately made an entire new profile. She was hoping to miraculously come across his profile again with her new profile (which she did) and swipe right. Like. I've come across some of the hottest girl profiles I've ever seen that I've accidentally swiped left on. But it never occu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 06:39 PM
4	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. I would also add that even if a guy wanted just hookups or casual flings, this lifestyle is overwhelmingly more accessible to the average girl (rather than to the average guy) with barely a fraction of the effort. Even rebounding after a breakup is the opposite experience for the girl vs the guy. (This is especially true among all my friends. The guys will struggle like hell to rebound, while the girls have it so easy that some abandon anything long-term bc they found hookups and casual flings t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 03:29 PM
4	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. Since girls have tons of options, they don't/won't/can't comprehend what it's actually like to be rejected as the one doing the approaching. AND even if a girl does try to imagine what it's like as a guy, 1) it's done so mockingly and disingenuously, 2) they assume inaccurately that the average guy already lives a lifestyle of having a lot of options before approaching the next girl he sees. Thus, she's not gonna fully understand this type of rejection since most guys don't have the experience o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 02:50 PM
1	Would you rather be rejected over your personality or your looks? I think it depends on your resources and your situation. For Looks: If you have the $$$, the time, and a flexible career lifestyle, then you can get the personal trainer, gym membership, home gym equipment, dietitian, semi-expensive skincare routine, and/or plastic surgery (along with a job that can accomodate the time you take off to recover). Dating is much more competitive visually these days, considering how others present themselves on social media and how much more accessible your "compe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 03:50 PM
1	The only people having fun in dating is men with options My friend is roommates with a male model guy. This chad roommate is apparently so gorgeous, some hot girl that he went on a date with admitted that she accidentally swiped left on his profile... and so she made an entire new account to find his profile again. They also banged soon after the date. (I'm thinking it's bc she's so used to getting the match almost every time she swipes right, that this was worth the effort for this super attractive guy. Cuz I've def seen some unbelievably hot girls o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:00 PM
1	The only people having fun in dating is men with options With online dating, I def know of average-looking girls who've had helicopter ride first dates, purposefully did the free dinner thing if the guy was rich but unattractive, and/or exclusively swiped right on tall guys with abs + shoulders, etc. On the other hand, my friend is roommates with a male model guy. This chad roommate is apparently so gorgeous, some hot girl that he went on a date with admitted that she accidentally swiped left on his profile... and so she immediately made an entire new…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 08:38 AM
6	Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them? True. Even for a girl looking for a LTR, at minimum during the journey she can easily hookup with the guys she wasn't compatible with on a personal level. (Also, some girls I know couldn't believe how long some guys go without sex, relative to themselves. So it makes sense that girls have gone with the above approach). That's a baseline win that most guys won't ever experience. And that's exactly what other girls i knew did. They were hesitant about getting into online dating at first (understan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 09:24 PM
0	What do men feel emasculated on / double standard? The debate around online dating and whether it's fair (for argument sake) that guys are prompted to list their height on their profiles vs girls not being prompted to list their measurements. I personally list my height as a guy, just to avoid the inevitable question when a girl and I are messaging, but it's still something my friends argue over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 08:12 PM
16	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Yooo I'm in a similar boat. Requiring other worldly charm is what exhausted me finally. So my friend did win the genetic lottery in terms of his face BUT especially his natural extraversion, his very audible voice tone, and way of flirting with girls. It's kinda unreal how automatic he is, and how the really shy girls in the room suddenly start saying and doing more risky things with him... in front of everyone. (He's also got a lean body type and is maybe 5'8")	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 06:32 PM
–	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? I agree with everything except for women not being as horny as men: I (somehow) had a fwb who's libido eventually outpaced mine. I legit would want to go to sleep, but she'd regularly beg me to stay up to bang more than we already did that day. More background on her, she ended her previous long-term relationship bc she wanted casual sex experiences instead. That was mainly it. I also know a girl who is fairly social, assertive, yet still somewhat soft spoken. She went from being super hesitant …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 06:11 PM
–	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Exactly my experiences. I've taken sobering advice from others in terms of optimizing my dating profile. (This is all in spite of my long-term physical injuries that have prevented me from safely exercising and building an attractive masculine physique.) However, 1 match every 6 months sounds about right, even though I hit the right-swipe limit daily. Then, getting her to see my message among the sea of hunky guys she's already matched with is a whole other challenge. The girls in my friend grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 05:06 PM
12	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? Interestingly, women can experience all of these negative things, yet simultaneously have no problems cultivating their spontaneous, fun, & busy sex/dating lives with hunky men. The external factors (that you listed out) will relentlessly stress and weigh down the average man's dating life and potential (casual, long-term, etc), while the average woman has near-limitless & financially-affordable access to dating experiences towards "finding herself"... as a convenient option to unwind from life'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 04:29 PM
33	What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast? I think the one caveat is about having a good job and degree. There are guys who don't focus on these things who also tend to attract more girls (where these girls themselves have good jobs and degrees). These guys have instead focused their lives on gym, fashion, masculine charisma, game, etc. My buddy lost count after 100 sexual partners in a span of 2 years or so, and he was homeless and the biggest underachiever i know. (Perhaps his casual sex lifestyle became more of a "hobosexual" lifestyl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 03:30 PM
4	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? Just to add to this: Even if a girl truly doesn't value a guy's height/looks/muscles as much, her list of matches from tinder, etc will be exclusively filled with hunky men. Why would she ever settle for her own perceived standards if objectively-better is so readily available? I'd argue that technology seems to reveal more about true human nature than it does change it, at least in this context. So, a girl (perhaps unintentionally) is only telling half the truth or is missing the point of your …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 04:13 PM
5	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? The ancient art of hustling simps, going strong to this day	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 03:20 PM
18	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? For real. In my friend group, the girls will be doin so much to convince us guys that height/muscles/looks etc don't really matter. Then somebody posts a picture of some shirtless male model in our group chat and suddenly all the girls go wild... literally right after our debate smh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 03:01 PM
9	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? Agreed except for the money part. I know guys who were complete whiny bums who lost count of how many girls they hooked up with. Were these guys fit and handsome though? Well ofc. If anything, there was a woman who was cheating on her rich husband with my broke-ass friend. Money can get a guy fake loyalty, at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 02:55 PM
19	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? Yup. The girls in my friend group will argue tooth and nail with me over how height and muscles don't really matter, then in the literal next second be ogling at a picture of some generic hunky guy that one of them texted in the group chat, messaging things like "He fione", "WHO DAT", and some drooling face emoji... all of this obliviously in the same argument/discussion. So if the girls who are saying these physical attributes don't matter will end up behaving this way, then what about the girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 02:40 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Anyone familiar with the debate between a guy putting his height on his dating profile vs a girl putting her weight on her dating profile? (My friend thinks guys should list their height but doesn't agree that girls listing their weight would be a fair equivalent, etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 02:08 PM
1	Sex on the First Date, How to proceed? I'd still be cautious about being too available thru text (or even being just as available as you were to her before the 1st date). It can be quite the turnoff, speaking from experience and when this one girl told me that explicitly	/r/seduction	08/12/21 05:25 PM