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| 1 | You nearly always know within 5 minutes if you have chemistry with someoneI would say it's three categories not two. 1st category is the women we're immediately attracted to. 2nd category is women who we don't find immediately attractive but we don't find them unattractive either. If we got to know them, then they could potentially become a yes. 3rd category is women we think are ugly from the get-go. If someone is in this category from the start, they're not breaking out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm really starting to wonder if it's even worth it. I'm on a massive as dry spell guys. Is this what hookup is about?5 ft 6 isn't that short. You're still taller than the majority of girls. Short stature doesn't really start becoming a problem until you're shorter than 5 ft 5. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 14 | College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day GameThe thing with life experiences is that somebody's age doesn't always predict their maturity and life experience with 100% accuracy. For example, there are 30 year olds who are unmarried, in college, and have never had a full time job before. In contrast, some 20 year olds are currently married with a kid and already have a full time job. Yes, generally speaking, older people are more likely to have more life experiences, but that's not always true. People are individuals and there are varying l… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 06:04 AM |
| 22 | College Campus is still a gold mine. 34yr old back after five years Day GameI feel like once you're 30+, you should be focused on pursuing women who are 22 and older. Try to go for the older looking girls, because the girls who look fresh out of high school might think you're too old and are more likely to reject you. I could see you having success with some 23/24 year old girls. There's plenty of people in college at that age. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:06 AM |
| -4 | Is she not interested?According to ChatGPT It sounds like you had a nice time on the date, but I understand why you're feeling uncertain. From what you shared, it seems like there are a few dynamics at play: The date itself: You had a good connection, good conversation, and some laughs, which is a great start. The fact that you didn't physically escalate might feel like a "miss" to you, but not all first dates involve physical affection beyond a hug. Holding hands or kissing can be great, but it depends on the vibe a… | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Approaching a girl at high schoolThe best way to approach her would be a situational opener. A situational opener is starting a conversation with someone based on something that has happened in an environment which you're both a part of. For example, if you two share a class together, then starting a conversation based on the upcoming homework would be a situational opener. If you're both in tennis class together, then commenting on something about tennis would be a situational opener. Alternatively, you can try an observationa… | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | AdviceIf it feels like you're pulling teeth just to get a girl to go out with you, then she's probably not into you all that much. With a girl who likes you, talking to her and getting her to meet up will feel (relatively) easy and effortless. She won't ignore your texts, or claim to be "too busy" to meet up all the time. A girl who really likes you will want to spend time with you. As soon as you realize this, you'll no longer be wasting your time with girls who are little to no interest. Now, if you… | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 05:18 PM |
| 5 | AdviceAsk her to meet up with you. If you're having problems with figuring out how to word it, here's a suggestion. "By the way, would you like to go do (name of activity in your city) or (another potential activity in your city) sometime this week? What day works best for you?" It's simple, to the point, authentic without being too gamey, and it lets her choose from one of the two activities that she might enjoy more. Now here's the important stuff that you should pay attention to. Pay attention to h… | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 04:51 PM |
| 58 | Are Flirty Baristas Always Just Trying To Get Tips?I want you to take one good hard look at yourself, and then ask yourself the following questions. Realistically, how objectively attract are you? How often have women expressed interest in you NOT within a setting where they're paid to interact with you? If you're objectively a 6 or lower and you don't get a lot of women initially interested in you, then the chances of a barista genuinely flirting with you is going to be quite low. On the other hand, if you're an objectively attractive guy and y… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 11:44 PM |
| 11 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??If you're average in looks, you better be above average in extraversion, charm, and/or charisma. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 08:33 AM |
| 10 | Why don't I get horny around other people?Honestly, that's not always a bad thing. When I was 20 to 23, I was practically a walking viagra. I was horny ALL THE TIME. But guess what? That was also the source of my depression too. Having a high sex drive is only a good thing if you can actually get women. If you're terrible with women, then having a high sex drive can actually make you extremely frustrated and depressed. You have this strong desire to be intimate with a woman but because you can't find someone to date, it can lead to a lo… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:18 AM |
| 7 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal AttributesChurch can be a great way to meet women. There's plenty of cute girls that go to church. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the reason woman reject you90% of women reject me on height alone. (I'm 5 ft 2) 90% of women reject me on autism alone. There's your answer. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 10:27 PM |
| 0 | The worst part about rejectionYou get rejected because whatever it is she's looking for, she doesn't feel like you possess these qualities. If she wants a clean cut christian boy who reads the bible everyday, and you're a pot smoking atheist, you're getting rejected. If she wants a tall white handsome family man who she can take home to momma and you're a short fat Asian who smokes weed and gets drunk every Tuesday, you're getting rejected. If she wants a built country boy who loves Trump just as much as he loves pickup truc… | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesor simply stop mid conversation and leave and ghost them. Of course you can, it's happened to me quite a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashThe truth is that what works for one guy, won't necessarily work for another guy. Shaquille O'Neal is very good down low in the paint but if you asked Shaq to play guard and shoot 3-pointers he would completely suck. What I am trying to say is just like there's multiple ways to succeed at basketball, there's multiple ways to succeed at dating but in order to succeed, you have to play to your strengths. If you're not the most attractive man, then maybe Tinder isn't for you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trashTinder was better 10 years ago. Back in 2014/2015, even decent looking guys could get dates back then. You didn't have to be a 10, but as long as you were at least a 6/10 and had decent text game, you could get a date. I used Tinder back in 2015 and could never get a date, but that's just because I was scrawny and below average looking at the time. But I had buddies who were average and slightly above average respectively who could get dates on the regular. One of my friends was getting dates on… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Excited about Paul? Well I've got some good news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:44 PM |
| -1 | I feel like giving upSave some money and become a passport bro. As long as you're not chasing the 8s and 9s, you can find a decent looking filipina who'd love to go out with you. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceI'm going to give you an example of why lying is never a good idea. Let's say you meet a girl you like who's a Christian and you're non-religious. On the second date, she asks you "how often do you go to church?". You haven't been to church since you were 15 and you haven't read the Bible since vacation bible school when you were 9, but you really like this girl and want to impress her. So you lie and tell her that you go to church once a month and are serious about your faith. Eventually you tw… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if it’s your looks, your personality or both?Take a trip to The Netherlands. The average man over there is 6 feet and you'll find plenty of tall dudes willing to give you a chance. | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | anyone ever use that site fetlife or BDSM sites?What works for some guys doesn't necessarily work for other guys. I had a buddy who could always get dates off of Tinder, meanwhile I was always getting left on read. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 08:19 PM |
| 5 | anyone ever use that site fetlife or BDSM sites?It was late at night in a city that was 2 hours away and it was in a hotel room that someone had rented. I didn't know anybody from the group and I'm also a pretty small guy (112 pounds at the time) so 95% of grown men could overpower me just based on size difference so i'd have little chance to defend myself if someone wanted to harm me. So because of these reasons, I decided not to go. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 05:07 AM |
| 12 | anyone ever use that site fetlife or BDSM sites?It's funny because I remember signing up in January of 2020, a few months before Covid hit the US. I was a virgin and I thought that maybe there were some women on FetLife with a virginity fetish that I could lose my virginity to. I got invited to a gang bang but decided not to go mainly because I was scared and didn't know what to expect. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I have aspergers, am I screwed for life when it comes to day game?Day game work best for men who have the following attributes: You have a good ability to deal with romantic rejection. Since you'll be approaching many different women, the ability to handle constant rejection is important. If you have poor rejection coping skills, then day game approach will probably leave you feeling worse off. A good ability to read women based on their body language and facial expressions. You need to have a good ability to determine whether or not a woman is interested in t… | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Tips on Autistic WomenAnyone have any game experience on extroverted, high forward, undocumented Autistic women? I got set up on a blind date with an autistic girl once. She was 22, in a sorority, and talked about how much she enjoyed drinking, smoking, and making out with random guys in a bar. She eventually told me that I was ugly and she didn't find me sexually attractive. I was pretty devastated by those comments. I was 26 at the time and I had gone through a series of rejection after rejection that lasted years … | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysI would say that's true for the majority of women under 30. It's not that hard for a woman who's under 30 to be at least a 6/10 looks wise. But once you get past the age of 30, and especially past the age of 40, it gets harder to be considered conventionally attractive. A lot of women get obese as they start to age, and this is partially because the metabolism slows down and partially because a lot of people have young kids in their 40s so they simply dont have as much time to exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 07:46 PM |
| 264 | How to lose your virginity in 2024How to lose your virginity in 2024 Get a hooker. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys cope?You know what? You're right. I'm a 60 year old broke and balding pot bellied grandpa and if I just be confident and not be a "super low self-esteem pussy", I can even attract 21 year old smokin hot blondes with ease. All I have to do is just be confident bro. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys cope?Even if you're allowed to, you assume that she would be into you. If a woman is super hot, and you're super not, chances are she probably wont be. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysOnly attractive women have life on easy mode. If you're fat and ugly, that's not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | It's honestly ridiculous how much easier dating is for the average woman these daysMaybe because your sister is hot but she has some sort of major personality/lifestyle flaw that is preventing her from being in a long term relationship. My sister was conventionally attractive too but she's a fucked up high strung alcoholic so it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why she isn't married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Any complaint a man has about the dating market immediately assumes he is strugglingDerek Jeeter certainly isn't struggling. I recently saw a photo of all the women he's ever dated and there were tons of famous and attractive celebrities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it a red flag if a woman says that none of her exes or guy's she has slept with treated her nice?I would say it's more of a yellow flag than a red flag. If she's only had 1 or 2 exes, then that doesn't necessarily mean she's the bad one in the relationship. If all of her exes were 5+ years ago and she's been single since then, then maybe she has changed as a person and isn't an asshole anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think someone with autism could play this game?You can always true SE Asia. | /r/seduction | 24/06/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Older women over 30 and revenge fantasyNot all women become "ugly and undesirable" by the time age 35 rolls around. Both of my female cousins still look good and could find a new man with the snap of a finger if they ever divorced their husbands. My mom was quite attractive at 35. My sister, to be honest, has health problems because of bad drinking habits, but is still a pretty girl and could find a guy if she wanted to. The belief that "women over 30 before ugly and undesirable" is just cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 06:45 AM |
| 1 | How will these dating issues affecting Gen Z and young Millennials affect housing in the future?There needs to World War 3. We've got too many people on this Earth, let's wipe some of them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themYes but you assume that even if someone had access your data, they would even care about you enough to use it. Imagine if someone found out that my Pornhub username was "ObiLongShlong" that didn't have any videos on it and they leaked that information online, with my real name being tied to my pornhub account. Well maybe aside from a few people, nobody would give a shit. Because nobody cares me enough to give a damn. People might give a damn about someone's information being leaked if they fall … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Korean men are turning to AI to get dates for themOk let's say the government has collected personal information of millions of different people. Would they even care about a single person? Would they even care that Jimmy from Pittsburgh has 2 kids, has a pet cat named Garfield, and is currently cheating on his girlfriend? The point is that unless you're famous, people don't care about you as much as you think they do. I doubt the government is thinking "Oh my god! "nightofthesunkissed" likes kpop and lives on 321 xx street!" They don't give a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?8.1% of people said no to her. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?She was the woman with the highest percentage of men who said yes. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?Here's the link to the results. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1VcrgAfeBUX-pg1C4mlBHldlWqkznYaqA7yppQ2-ch1U/edit#responses | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?I purposefully chose a diversity of different women. I really wanted to see what kind of different women that men find attractive. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?I purposefully chose women of various attractiveness levels. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?I'm asking for which people you would consider dating based on what they look like. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Do men really have different physical preferences in women they would date?The reason I added captions to each woman was because if you want to view the results, it's impossible to view the images of each woman with the results. To compensate for that, I had to include captions with each woman so that way, when the viewer goes to the results page, they have a better idea of which woman they're reviewing. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | For men: early detection for bad (financial) behavior?Feelers are more likely to make bad financial decisions than thinkers. This is because a feeler is more likely to make decisions based on a feeling or impulse, while a thinker is more likely to think rationally before making decisions, especially big decisions. In the context of money, feelers are more likely to make poor financial decisions. People who tend to live in the moment without thinking about the future are more likely to make poor financial decisions. In the moment thinkers may lack t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesNot all women. Some women continue to look good into their thirties, and maybe even into their forties. That all depends on a woman's genes and lifestyle. Both of my female cousins are in their mid thirties and still look good. They avoided smoking, hard drugs, and heavy alcohol consumption (at least that I know of.) They also have good genes. On the other hand, someone like my sister is a hardcore alcoholic. And while she's still pretty, she's extremely unhealthy and underweight to the point wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 3 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?Very true. A young woman who's at least a 4/10 in looks can find a new guy within months if she really wanted to. 95% of women can't comprehend what it's like being in romantic poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:40 PM |
| 9 | I genuinely can't understand men who try to coax/convince a woman to give him a chance, even after he has been rejected. Like, not all guys do this, but men who have done, it, where’s the infamous male ego?I think it's possible to get a woman who wasn't initially into you. BUT it depends on why she wasn't into you. If she doesn't like you because she's not attracted to your looks, then forget about it. You can't convince a woman who thinks you're ugly to think you're hot stuff. Don't waste your time with girls who aren't attracted to your looks. Also if she doesn't like you because you possess qualities that are deal-breakers to her (for example, she's a die hard Christian and you're a pot-smoking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:29 PM |
| 12 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesIt really depends on the woman to be honest. 30 is the age when your bad habits start to finally catch up with you, and a lot of women around this age start getting fat and/or unhealthy due to poor lifestyle choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | About to see long distance girlfriendWhy are you in a long-distance relationship? Because for some people, they don't have any other choice. If your only choices are dating a woman who lives in a different country, or being an angry and bitter 40 year old virgin, then many people would choose the former. Not everyone has the privilege of having dating on easy or medium level difficulty. Some people are in romantic poverty, and when you have no good options, all you have are bad options. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:21 AM |
| 2 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursBlue pill believes that anybody regardless of their circumstances can find a partner. For those who subscribe to the blue pill, it doesn't matter if you're ugly, poor, disabled, everyone has the capability of finding a partner and that there is someone out there for everyone. They believe in the idea of true love and they tend to place a high importance on personality and character rather than surface level qualities such as looks or money. If someone is struggling with dating, then it must be b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualOk, go watch track and field videos on Youtube of female athletes and scroll down to the comments section. It will be full of men saying how hot she is, and commenting on her nice ass. Olivia Dunne also instantly disproves that most men are demisexual. She's a famous gymnast from LSU but she didn't get famous from her gymnastic abilities; in fact, she's quite average by college standards. She got famous because she's super hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualJust because a man is aroused by images of attractive women doesn't mean that he wants to have sex with those particular women. I disagree. For a lot of men, when they watch a porn video of a couple having sex, they imagine themselves in the man's position and they're the one having sex with that particular woman instead. So in a way, the woman is having sex with the viewer of the video too. If men had no interest in sexual activity with with that particular woman, they simply wouldn't watch her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualPretty privilege and women experiencing cat-calling instantly disproves that most men are demisexual. When a guy is cat-calling a girl, he is sexually attracted to her despite not knowing her all too well. If most men were demisexual, then cat-calling would be something that simply doesn't exist because these men wouldn't be sexually turned on by women who they don't know. Yet cat-calling exists because as we all know, men are highly visual and turned on by pretty girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 06:11 AM |
| 18 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualIf most men were demisexual, then porn wouldn't be nearly as popular. Men watch porn because they're turned on by hot naked women. It's not like these guys know who the women in the video are nor have they formed an emotional connection with the girl either, yet they have no problem with watching it and being turned on by it. If most men were demisexual, they wouldn't see the appeal of watching hot naked girls who they don't know getting it on. The popularity of porn instantly disproves the theo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 06:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingIt depends on whether or not the 5 ft 2 guy has a gun. If the short guy has a gun to your head, he's 100x more dangerous than a 6 ft tall unarmed guy. In fact, you could argue that the smaller a guy is, the more likely he is to carry a weapon. This is because a small guy knows that a large percentage of men could overpower him, so he needs some sort of weapon to protect himself. This is in contrast to a big tall guy who knows he could defend himself easily, so there is less need to carry a weapo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:47 PM |
| 14 | Do you think someone with autism could play this game?As someone with autism, this is my advice. I don't think that most guys with autism would be successful with meeting women through bars or nightclubs, or through Tinder. In those type of avenues, it's mostly about looks and charm, style over substance. And most men with autism lack the social skills to pull off the charming or suave personality. Even if you could come off as charming or socially suave, you would have to do A LOT of masking which overtime, would be extremely draining. Most autist… | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingEven a 5 ft 2 guy who does weight training is stronger than the majority of women. A 5 ft 2 and 120 pound man could easily bench press his body weight with training, and many of them could 1 rep max around 150 pounds, possibly even more. Some really strong guys could probably 1 rep max 180-190 but this is more rare for a guy who's 5 ft 2 and 120 pounds. I would say a 5 ft 2 120 pound man is stronger than 75%-80% of women. Women who are naturally big and bulky could probably outlift him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?If a 6/10 woman walked into an auditorium with 100 single guys, I bet you that at least 75 of them would say yes to sex, and half of them would be open to a relationship. So yeah, women have wayyyy more options, and it's not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:17 AM |
| -1 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?Only applies if you're a woman who's decently cute. I doubt obese ugly women have much options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:14 AM |
| 7 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?Hell yeah I would. Dating would be 50x times easier if I were a woman compared to if I were a man. If I were born a woman, no way would I be a 30 year old virgin. I wouldn't even have been a 22 year old virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:12 AM |
| 12 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?I'd have gone in a date with a guy looking like him in my younger 20s if he had a decent fun personality See what you did there? You basically said you would only go on a date with him if you liked his personality. His looks aren't enough for you to go out with him so you need to be attracted to his personality in order for you to give him a chance. Ed Sheeran is not a conventionally handsome man so he can't exclusively rely on his looks to get girls. His appeal in terms of dating market value c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?MrBeast didn't take off because of Jimmy's level of charisma. Jimmy isn't known for being super charismatic, all of the guys from Sidemen are more charismatic than Jimmy is. No, the channel took off because the premise of each video was interesting (What the video is about), and the videos had good pacing without being too long or being too short. Worlds Largest Game of Dodgeball is a good example. The premise of the video is interesting and gets the viewer initially hooked. The video is 11 minu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 10:19 PM |
| 14 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?MrBeast is a great example of an average looking guy. He's not a handsome man but he's not the ugliest guy you've ever seen either. It just proves that you don't know need to be good looking in life to be successful. Albert Einstein wasn't much of a looker, Abraham Lincoln was widely described as homely, and Bill Gates isn't going to be winning any beauty contests anytime soon, but all of these men changed the world in significant ways. Sure, contributing to the gene pool is probably easier if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?That's because Ed Sheeran is a famous musician. If Ed were some random guy working at Walmart, there would be few women who would have the hots for him. MrBeast is a great example as well. He's not a great looking guy either but because he's famous, there are many women who have the hots for him. If Jimmy (his real name) were some random guy working for Walmart, I doubt he'd be able to date models that easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:33 PM |
| 40 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?Ed Sheeran is not a good looking man. If he were a random worker at Walmart, I guarantee you that few women are going to have the hots for him. People only think he's attractive because he's a famous musician. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Hitting up girls from classLet's break down the risks and rewards of hitting up a girl after school is over. Rewards: She could say yes to going out with you. This could eventually turn into a sexual relationship, a short term fling, or it could even turn into a long term relationship as well. Who knows, maybe she is "the one" and she is the girl you will eventually marry. None of this is possible if you never shoot your shot and her out on a date or send a text message. Risks: If you ask this girl out, there is a good ch… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Because autistic people are more likely to use a sub like purplepilldebate. We're overrepresented here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?If you're an autistic guy, your only options are obese chicks, hookers, or mail order brides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How to find a girlfriend ?Well the worst answer you can get from the quiz is get a mail order bride. Out of the 1000 people who have taken the quiz, only 2-3 have gotten that option. This makes sense because the mail order bride route isn't a good fit for 99.5% of men. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How to find a girlfriend ?Your result is one of the more rare results of the quiz. This makes sense because the majority of guys wouldn't be a good fit for meeting women who live in different countries. It's been 5-6 months since I made the quiz, so I am trying to remember what exactly you would have to say about yourself in order to get that result. Describing yourself as traditional, a non-conformist, and willing to try unconventional things. You're looking for a woman who's traditional and conservative. You're willing… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | She ain’t replying to me 😭If you're getting this upset about a girl leaving you on read, you're going to have a hard time being successful in today's dating market. In today's dating market, getting ignored or left on read is extremely common. In fact, if you texted 100 girls, the vast majority of them would leave you on read within the first couple of weeks. For reference, I frequently use a filipino dating site, which is one of the easiest countries IN THE WORLD to meet women. And even then, I still get rejected and le… | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 03:50 AM |
| 24 | How to find a girlfriend ?Here's a quiz which will give you a good idea on what is the best way to meet women based on your personal attributes. Whichever method it comes up with for you, I would recommend starting there. https://www.opinionstage.com/page/b950b2b9-b80b-48c2-8fa5-e9fb25bf94c7 | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Any tips to attract women as a rising seniorBe decent looking Be neurotypical Don't be ugly Don't be fat. If all four of these apply to you, all you need to do is ask out 5 girls and 1 of them will say yes. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 02:42 PM |
| 3 | After what date can you start discussion about exclusivity?You start talking about exclusivity when the following conditions are met. You like him enough to the point where the thought of seeing other people doesn't even cross your mind. If something in your gut is telling you to see what else is out there, then that's a sign that he's not the one for you. You feel like you know him enough as a person to see that he is a good fit for you as a romantic partner. He doesn't possess any deal-breakers and there's no huge incompatibilities that you're seeing.… | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Miami vs. Fort Lauderdale for game?So you want to move just for girls? I mean if you're moving just for girls, you're better off moving to SE Asia. Easiest region in the world to meet women if you're a white guy. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I already rejected and GhostedOnline dating is ultra competitive for straight men. The girl you're talking to right now probably has dozens upon dozens of guys in her dms right now trying to hit her up, and she simply found one she liked more. To be honest, online dating is pretty useless for sub7 straight men. (Being a sub7 means on a looks scale of 1-10, you're below a 7). The only place where online dating is viable is SE Asia. How's your social skills? If you have above average interpersonal skills, then meeting women th… | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are cold to me but warm to other guysIf you're white, just take a trip to The Philippines and you'll find plenty of girls who are interested in you. Sure, they most likely want you for the green card, but you most likely want them for their sexy body, so it's a fair trade. | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 06:02 AM |
| 1 | So, how to approach a girl I like in my workshop class?You can use either a situational opener or an observation opener in order to strike up a conversation with her, if you don't want to go with the "hi i'm josh, what's your name?" line. A situational opener is opening someone with a situation that you both are experiencing. For example, if the teacher hands out a tough assignment, you might talk about how tough the assignment is. An observational opener is opening someone based on an observation about them. For example, if they're wearing a casper… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Reaching out to a classmate from a year ago?When it comes to making decisions, you have to think about potential risks and potential rewards. If you feel like a decision has very little risk with the potential for big rewards, then it's not a bad decision to make. The reason is because there is no risk to making that decision that you have to worry about. In the context of reaching out to a former classmate, let's look at the potential risks and rewards. The reward of reaching out to an old classmate is it's someone you can potentially ge… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How good is the dating world for Indian Brown guys in California (or the United States in general)Yes, you are at a disadvantage because of your race. Just on your race alone, a good portion of women will automatically write you off. It's unfair but you said you wanted an honest answer, so I give you an honest answer. However, if you can successfully make up for your race disadvantage, then you should still be able to meet women. You're tall which is an advantage and you're reasonably fit which is also an advantage too. So now you need to work on your social skills and in addition, look for … | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl is mad cause she wants me and i don’t want herThe question is, would you put this particular girl in the friend zone or the fuck zone? The fuck zone refers to a girl you would sleep with but not get into a relationship with. The friend zone is someone who you're not attracted to and have no interest in sleeping with. If you put this girl in the fuck zone, then you can try to sleep with her. But be honest about your intentions; don't tell her you want a relationship when you really don't. Just tell her that you're only looking for something … | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Few words for my short friendsDefinitely not me. I'm 5 ft 2 and a hard gainer. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How can I attract a woman with a BBL?My guess is that the type of people to get a BBL are the type of people that care a lot about their appearance. We tend to congregate with other people who share similar values to us. So if a woman with a BBL cares about her appearance, she probably wants a guy who also cares about his appearance as well. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Best Smaller Dating AppsNo, if you're dating a woman from The Philippines, you have to be the one to fly out to visit her. Most Filipinas simply can't hop on a plane and come visit you, and this is especially the case if you live in the USA or many other European countries where there are requirements to even get a VISA in order to visit you. And that's why I only recommend meeting women from The Philippines if you've gone YEARS of consistently trying but can't seem to meet a woman. If you're capable of meeting a good … | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Best Smaller Dating AppsOh it's legit. But i'd only recommend going this route if you've been trying to meet a woman for years and haven't had any luck. Also, you will need some money. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Best Smaller Dating AppsFilipinoCupid. You can send out 100 messages and get at least 40 replies back. But you have to be okay with dating a woman from The Philippines. On the bright side, they're very nice and make great girlfriends (if you find the right one). | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Difference between a 6 and a 9?A 6/10 woman is still cute, she's just not drop dead gorgeous. She's cute, but in a more normal looking way if that makes sense. They usually have some sort of flaw that makes them not an 8 or 9, but they're not ugly by any means either. Guys will pursue a 6/10 looking girl if he's attracted to her particular type. An example of a 6/10 is Serena Williams. She's not the most conventionally attractive woman but if a guy is attracted to that particular type, he would give her a chance. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 02:48 PM |
| 7 | how do i put myself out there after a rejection?In my experience, dating requires a lot of emotional resilience and emotional toughness. Think about it. When you're starting to date, you're going to get rejected a lot. You'll be left on read, stood up, friendzoned from time to time. If you don't have the ability to handle rejection very well, then dating is going to be an extremely brutal and heart breaking experience and you'll quickly give up. I think one of your issues (and I had this issue too when I was around your age) is that you tend … | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 06:11 PM |
| 23 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)I wouldn't even attempt to do this until after you've graduated. Also make sure he's actually single. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I can easily make female friends but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend?Yeah maybe be a good friend and tell him to remove that quote off Facebook… and guide him to some of the books mentioned. I'd tell him to become a passport bro. That's the only viable way he's going to find a wife, if he doesn't want to settle for a 3/10 obese girl. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 10:02 PM |
| 0 | I can easily make female friends but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend?It's one of the possible scenarios. You're not attractive enough. Your standards are too high relative to what you offer You have some sort of visible disability which makes you appear "special" I know a guy who's extremely nice and extremely friendly. All of the girls know who he is and he's well known with guys as well. Yet he's 32 and never had a girlfriend before and it's pretty obvious why. He's an autistic Asian guy who works some shitty minimum wage job. And I know he wants a girlfriend b… | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 06:00 PM |
| 120 | Dating Apps Are Strictly About LooksIn other news, water is wet. The question is, are the physical traits that make you average or below average looking fixable? A 6 ft 2 broad shouldered but obese guy has more potential to be physically attractive compared to a 5 ft 1 balding guy. Why? Because the thing that makes the tall fat guy unattractive is fixable. If he lost some weight, he would probably be quite the handsome man. The short bald guy cannot fix his height nor his bald problems, so therefore he has less potential to be att… | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I flirt on a study date?Are you sure that this is a date? If not, I would recommend just using this time to get to know her better. Ask her questions about herself, try to make conversation with her, throw in the occasional joke. The goal of doing this is 1. To see if you two have any talking chemistry, 2. To gauge whether or not she likes you and 3. If you have enough in common that you think she's a good fit. Signs that she does or doesn't like you like you: Conversations that feel forced or one-sided is bad news. Wi… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | 19M about to hookup for the first time......Advice needed19 is still a normal age to be a virgin. I bet you that if you got 100 guys who were 19, at least 30 of them would be virgins. So I doubt a lot of women are going to be put off if you tell them you're a virgin at 19 years old. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Be careful who you pursue a long term relationship withnot a lot of guys are aware of the subtle red flags out there. Some guys are so desperate for love that they overlook red flags. I was one of those guys. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Be careful who you pursue a long term relationship withBack in 2021, I got set up on a blind date with another college student. We were set up because we're both on the autism spectrum. When I met her, she wasn't like most autistic people; she was an extroverted party girl who was in a sorority. She admitted to me that she was crazy, a big time hoe, and she smoked and did drugs. At the time, I was extremely desperate, a 26 year old virgin, so I continued to chase her and was completely devastated when she said she didn't find me sexually attractive … | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | You Can Approach Women AnywhereYep, that's why many guys like me are destined to never experience dating. We're not attractive enough for dating apps, and we're not sociable enough to approach women. Brutal You have to play to your strengths. It's that way with life in general and it's true with dating as well. Ok so you're not traditionally handsome nor are you an extrovert. The question is, what attributes do you have going for you and how can you leverage that to find a partner? For example, some men are traveling to other… | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 10:04 PM |
| 37 | You Can Approach Women AnywhereIf you're going to do cold approach, (talk to women anywhere), then it's important that you have the below qualities going for you. - You need good interpersonal skills and a high level ability to read people well including their facial expressions and body language. The reason is because if you're approaching random women, a lot of them will put a guard up and not want to talk to you. Without the ability to pick up on this, you only put yourself in a bad situation. In addition, having the socia… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most? Being a white guy in The Philippines, any profession. I'm a 5 ft 3 autist and even if I could get girls from The Philippines. I love it there. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Prostitutes They probably get laid more than porn stars do. Pro athletes A-list level actors Models (But only because models are usually pretty hot already) A-list level music stars. Think Post Malone, Ed Sheeran, Elvis, etc... | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?This is the true answer. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:36 PM |
| 160 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Only applies if you're attractive and decently social. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 10 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Only applies if you're decently attractive. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:34 PM |
| -51 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?Only applies if you're attractive. I doubt my short scrawny ass is getting laid on a cruise ship. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 07:34 PM |
| – | Is there a dark side or negative side to being a "High Value Woman"?Is there a dark side or negative side to being a "High Value Woman"? Yes. One of the biggest disadvantages of being a really hot woman is you can never be invisible, like you can if you're a normal looking guy. Me being an average looking guy, I can go to a bar, a sports game, and go play pickup soccer with a group of guys and I know that nobody is going to bother me because nobody cares about me. A really hot girl doesn't have that luxury. A really hot woman can't just go play pickup soccer wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 10:56 PM |
| 3 | how do you not let rejections affect you?how do you not let rejections affect you? As a guy who used to struggle with handling romantic rejection in the past, here are some different methods that helped me and may help you. - Sometimes the rejection is not because of you but because of circumstances outside of your control. For example, she may have had a boyfriend, or her mom just died 5 days ago, or she's a lesbian, or she just broke up with her boyfriend 5 days ago and they're probably going to get back together again. These are all… | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:27 AM |
| 4 | “Do you do this often?”The fact that you get dates and sex so easily and effortlessly tells me you're probably chad tier in terms of looks. Let's put it this way, you're probably not a sub5. | /r/seduction | 07/02/24 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Advice for hookups during Spring BreakYou're a tall chad. I think you'll do just fine. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 02:22 PM |
| 3 | If a dolphin can bag a 10/10 baddie, so can you. Believe in yourself kings! ☝️That’s a 10/10 baddie huh? If she grew out her hair and didn't cut it like a boys, she'd be a solid 7 at least. Clearly above average looking. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.The quiz probably won't be as accurate if you're a woman since the norms and dynamics of dating are different for men and women, so just keep that in mind. For example, being under 5 ft 5 would be a penalty in bars and nightclubs if you're a man but not if you're a woman. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 02:21 AM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.You're probably above average looking with above average social skills if you got this option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:20 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.Iv'e noticed that the mainstream dating apps result isn't always accurate for some of my test-takers. Here's why I think this is the case. Rating yourself as average looking would normally result in a negative score for dating apps. However, if you wrote you're mostly looking for short term relationships or hookups, you wrote "oh well, next" to the rejection questions, you're introverted, you don't have much free time, you prefer to meet a woman online yet you're not open to meeting someone who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.Iv'e noticed that the mainstream dating apps result isn't always accurate for some of my test-takers. Here's why I think this is the case. Rating yourself as average looking would normally result in a negative score for dating apps. However, if you wrote you're mostly looking for short term relationships or hookups, you wrote "oh well, next" to the rejection questions, you're introverted, you don't have much free time, you prefer to meet a woman online yet you're not open to meeting someone who … | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:15 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.There's no hopeless option in the survey. The worst option you can possibly receive is Mail Order Bride. In order to get that option, you would have to be below average looking, be a 1 in both extroversion and social skills, check yes to having money, say you have autism or social anxiety, and are open to meeting a woman who lives 100+ miles away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:07 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.If you got bars and nightclub option, it likely means you said you were above average looking, were looking for hookups or short term relationships, rated yourself as having good social skills and extroversion, said you like going to bars, and checked yes to "oh well next" on the rejection questions. If you did most of those answers, that's why you got that option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:28 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.The quiz won't be an accurate if you're a woman because the dating dynamics for men and women are different. For example, I put anybody having a height below 5 ft 5 as a disadvantage in online dating and nightclubs. You won't have this disadvantage if you're a woman. On the looks question, I put anyone below a 6 as having a disadvantage in nightclub, bars, and online dating. But these disadvantages wouldn't be there if you were a girl. I also put introversion as a disadvantage for meeting women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:20 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.You can actually meet someone in an online community who doesn't necessarily live 100+ miles away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 06:45 AM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.In order to get mail order bride, you have to be a 3 or lower looks-wise, be a 1 in extroversion and social skills, be okay with a long distance relationship, and check yes to having money. Your chance also go up if you checked yes to having autism and saying you're waiting until marriage to have sex. Most people aren't going to get mail order bride which makes sense because a mail order bride isn't the right choice for 99% of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 06:41 AM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.It's possible to get mail order bride as a result. So far, 1 person has gotten that result. I feel bad for them haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | It's not always your fault when you lose a girlWas your grandpa apart of the silent generation? Their generation is known for getting married young and tending to conform to the majority belief. They were also fairly religious as a generation. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting fit was the greatest change in my life. Has anyone else noticed the social changes?I relate to your experience to the point where it could have been me writing this post. If you're anything like me, you'd probably be more successful in SE Asia. Being short isn't quite as big of a disadvantage in Indonesia, Thailand, Vietnam, or Philippines compared to more western countries. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:33 PM |
| 2 | What do you currently lean on for success with women?What do you currently lean on for success with women? Being a white guy in SE Asia. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:18 PM |
| 7 | It's not always your fault when you lose a girl"Women are like buses. If you miss one another will come around in 15 minutes" Your grandpa must have been a chad when he was young. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Sleeping with a white woman as a touristSan Jose - San Francisco California has the highest percentage of Indian Americans in the USA with 4.87% of the population. This is followed by New York, Dallas, and Sacramento. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Sleeping with a white woman as a touristI'd avoid the American Midwest, especially if you're trying to go after the pretty girls. Women in that region (especially if they're attractive) tend to date tall white guys. If you're not white, neurotypical, and at least 5 ft 9, you might as well be invisible to a large chunk of them. And you can't pursue the short girls either as they tend to be bigger height queens than tall women. I would imagine a 5 ft 7 Indian guy would face a lot of discrimination in the dating market. Not all women are… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Are college campuses good for picking up chicks?I know my experience isn't the norm since I'm 5 ft 2 and was fairly skinny in my early twenties, but I remember approaching women in college a lot, and half of the time, they'd either look at you with disgust, walk away from you mid conversation, or find a way to end the conversation early within 5 minutes. Other times, I would talk to women and they were easy to talk to and friendly, but I was always friendzoned. Every single woman I asked out on a date, every single one of them rejected me. I … | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Are college campuses good for picking up chicks?I remember at a community college, I just walked up to a random girl and asked for the time. Although I was doing it just to practice talking to girls. She got so creeped out by it, she went up to two teachers and they started yelling at me for randomly walking around talking to girls. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Are college campuses good for picking up chicks?Are college campuses good for picking up chicks? Depends on your level of social intelligence/awareness, your looks, and your age. If you're a 31 year old socially inept male with autism who's a 4/10 on the looks scale, I can only see bad things happening. In fact at my school, a older guy in his thirties got "creep zoned" and well known by the school because he would wait outside of classes and talk to girls when they got out. He did that enough times that he drew negative publicity and got ban… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Is personality more important to men or women?Late twenties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is personality more important to men or women?I wouldn't say that. They have a pretty good relationship. They've been together for 30+ years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Is personality more important to men or women?Yeah. They're a pretty good couple together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Is personality more important to men or women?Women. If a man is good, kind, caring, is emotionally open, and has a thoughtful personality, women will get turned off. If a man is rude, uncaring, mean, savage-like, and only thinks of himself, women will get turned on. When it comes to dating, assholes are the sprinters. Sure, they may be able to win in the short term, but when it comes to going the distance, their relationships will rarely last. Because it turns out that being mean and being selfish is not good for a healthy long term relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Is personality more important to men or women?That's how my dad got my mom. My mom was fairly attractive when she was young while my dad was pretty average looking. But my dad was smart, made good money, and my mom had just been through a nasty divorce with a bad boy chad, and now she needed provider type to settle down with who could raise the children. I was a result of their marriage. The problem is that I didn't inherit my moms above average looks or my dads above average intelligence. That's genetics for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:24 PM |
| 17 | Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S.I agree, if you're a 6 ft tall white man who's reasonably good looking, you face the least amount of discrimination in the dating market. However I do know plenty of black guys who have wives and girlfriends. The difference is that these men are either good looking or they have positive qualities about themselves that women like. I know this black guy who's outgoing and reasonably attractive and he never had any problems with girls. I also know this (not so good looking) black guy who has a wife… | /r/seduction | 17/01/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Sex Robots will fix the dating marketIf flying cars ever become widespread, it would be bad for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?online dating and modern society have made it really easy to casually date multiple people. Only if you're a chad or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Am I attractive enough to do well online? (Asian male)You're not a bad looking guy. Let's put it this way, I don't think your looks are going to prevent you from getting girls. Tinder is just EXTREMELY competitive. And hey, if you're not having any success with women, you can always just look for girls in SE Asia. They'd want to go out with you for sure. | /r/seduction | 13/01/24 03:47 PM |
| 11 | Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date?A hot girl agreed to go on a date with you, then proceeded to tell you she wasn't interested, and then showed you pictures of guys she wanted to fuck? Is this some cuck fantasy? I could actually see this happening. Iv'e gone on a date with a girl who knew she wasn't attracted to me, then proceeds to talk about all the guys she makes out with at the club. I think if a girl starts talking about other guys, you know she's probably not too interested. | /r/seduction | 09/01/24 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date?Why would a girl who's gone on 6-7 dates with you refuse to get physical with you? That's the part I don't understand. Because if a girl doesn't like you, she likely would have either ghosted you after the 1st or 2nd date, or it would be nearly impossible to get her on a date because she'd claim to be "too busy" to meet up with you. Of course, some women will continue to text you even if they are not attracted to you. Maybe because they either feel bad or afraid about outright rejecting you, the… | /r/seduction | 09/01/24 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls ask me out regularly... and I hate itDid Kanye West make this post? | /r/seduction | 07/01/24 10:18 PM |
| 54 | A lot of men waste time on women who don't really appreciate them.Well to be honest, I think many men are so mesmerized by a woman's beauty and private parts that they completely ignore red flags or fundamental incompatibility. Because there are plenty of women who are hot but are not a good fit for the man. The way I see it, if they're the kind of person who you wouldn't even like if they were a man, then you should probably not date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators?As an autistic guy myself, my advice to your brother would be to look in places where women are more likely to find autistic men attractive. Listen, I was in college and most "normie" girls arne't into autistic men. The girls at church, the sorority girls, and the girls at bars, oftentimes want normie guys. In the Midwest USA where i'm from, that was being tall, good looking, neurotypical, and preferably white. If you were in any way different from this norm, ESPECIALLY if you didn't fit the ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 05:33 AM |
| 6 | What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators?Agreed. I'm a short autist and when I was in college, the attractive "normie" girls from church and the bars would never give me the time of day. People tend to date people who are similar to them. These hot sorority girls are dating tall good looking chads more often than not. It's the same with church girls; church girls are some of the pickiest women on Earth; most of them won't even look at you unless you're a tall white normie. That's why as an autist such as myself, it's best we play to ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain your dating struggles to your parents?Nobody in my family has ever commented on why I don't have a girlfriend or have never gotten married yet, not even my extended family. I think it's because they know I'm not capable of getting married or finding a girlfriend. Think about it, you're not going to ask your kid why they haven't gone to college if you think they're not capable of it, right? It's the same concept. I'm pretty much a walking talking birth control and it's obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Is the Difficulty of the Current Dating Market for Men an Exaggeration?To be honest, I think it is a bit of an exaggeration. For reference, I'm 28 and when I look at my high school class and the kids who were around my age, a good chunk of them are already married and many of them have a kid. Some of them are tall and good looking but even the guys who were just average looking, a lot of them managed to find partners. | /r/seduction | 12/12/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | The best advice for men when it comes to dating and relationships is to stop chasing and approaching women.If you stop approaching women, unless you're a really good looking guy, you're going to be single for a very long time. Terrible advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.It depends on how you define success with women. Yes Andrew Tate can get women to sleep with him no problem, but your ability to sleep with lots of women doesn't correlate to your ability to be a good husband or a good father. My money is on Andrew Tate not being able to keep a woman for longer than 10 years and being a shitty husband and father. So in a way, he isn't successful with women at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | People focus too much on “gaming” the dating market.If you go in on the first date talking about your comic book stash, then she is going to walk out Then she wasn't the right girl for you. The right girl won't care or she'll be into geeky interests too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 03:39 PM |
| 6 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?Go to school for computer science and proceed to invest realistic looking robot AI girlfriends who will give you sexy time at a moments notice, and then release it to the public. One small step for nerd, one giant leap for nerd kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:24 AM |
| 8 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?My grandpa's brother's son went to Thailand when he was in his 40s and got himself a wife. 20+ years later and they're still together. I heavily suspect that he's somewhere on the spectrum and he wasn't that good looking of a guy so that's why he struggled. But he found a wife that loves him and that's all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Rejection SensitivitySometimes, romantic rejection isn't about you, it was simply the wrong place or the wrong time. If you're in college, you likely pass by a few people everyday walking on campus who you would be compatible with as romantic partners, but you will never know because neither of you are in a place where you two can meet one another. That's an example of wrong place. Timing is also very important as well. You can meet a partner who you would be very compatible with as a romantic partner but it was sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Rejection SensitivityRejection sensitivity is definitely a problem that some men face. From my observation, the men who have a hard time dealing with romantic rejection usually have some sort of inner insecurity about themselves when it comes to dating. For example, lets just say you're 5 ft 5 and really insecure about it and you believe that no woman wants to date a man that's 5 ft 5. So every time you get rejected by a woman and especially if you get rejected by multiple women, it confirms the belief in your mind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The quality of women’s dating app profiles in Europe is far superior to the profiles of women in USA.American women are some of the worst on the planet. That's something iv'e learned over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?I said screw american women and started pursuing filipinas instead. You can get a higher quality woman from the philippines with half the effort compared to the USA where every 5/10 thinks she deserves an 8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?He's probably a chad if just saying "hi" works for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?At least 4 inches below average height for the men in your country. In the USA, that would be 5 ft 6 or under for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys with girlfriends, How did you land them?If you're extroverted, have decent social skills, and you're not autistic, you can eventually meet a girl. It may not come as easily as your chad friends but meeting women is possible for normies. Problems start happening when you're very shy or autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?True. Some men have a very caring and nurturing nature and if they see a broken women, their instincts is to take care of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?I think one reason why men are attracted to bipolar and BPD women is because women with these traits are often bound by their emotions. That means if they're in a good mood, they'll be happy and lively, and laugh and joke around, and men are oftentimes attracted to this behavior in women. We like women who love to laugh and have a good time. The problem is once the tide shifts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:14 PM |
| 11 | You'll Find Love When You Stop Looking: Fact Or Fiction?If you're a female that's reasonably social and extroverted, then finding a relationship without looking is a possible and realistic scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird for a guy for never have any dating/sexual experience at all?25+ and especially 30+ If you're a dateless virgin at 30, I would definitely start lying about your dating and sexual history. Tell girls you had an ex 4 years ago and it's been a while since you've dated. That way if you're bad in bed, it can be explained that it's been a while. Once I make it to 30, i'm definitely lying about being a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 10:01 PM |
| – | The reality of dating for menThe reality of dating for men The reality of life is that complaining about the system isn't going to fix the system. You can sit and complain about how much women have it easier in dating but complaining isn't going to solve the problem. All you can do is try your best with the cards you've been dealt. Take your advantages in life and use them to your advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.No comment on her musical talent, as I'm not her intended audience, but she's not exactly a looker herself. She's kind of cute, but not drop dead gorgeous. Maybe a 6/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Iv'e watched Taylor's documentary on Netflix. Although she's a feminist, she's definitely not as controversial as someone like Billie Eilish is. Taylor Swift is fairly tame in comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 03:15 PM |
| 7 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.Sounds to me like Billie has a weird relationship with men in general. She hates men but at the same time, is jealous of them and wishes she were a man. You know who else has this strange relationship with a particular gender? It's a six letter word that starts with an I and ends with an S. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:32 AM |
| 14 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.I personally think that Billie has some sort of mental health problems and possibly some trauma problems. That's why she spews all this information about how "men have it much easier" and "nobody cares if you're an ugly guy" but at the same time, started bashing ugly guys back during the spring of this year. It sounds to me like she's either jealous, or she's had some traumatic experience in the past and that's why she spews all this bullshit. Some guys hurt her in the past and she's taking her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:23 AM |
| 113 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.This was the same girl that was bashing ugly dudes back in May. She sounds extremely delusional and hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:16 AM |
| 2 | What advice would you give your sons to help them have stable healthy families in the West?You can do everything right as a parent and still wind up with a kid who struggles in life. Sometimes it's factors outside of your control, like if your son has low functioning autism and needs a lot of support. Other times, your kid could wind up being addicted to drugs or alcohol, or they go to prison. Having kids is like rolling the dice. In terms of personality, traits, and strengths and challenges in life, you never know what number your kid is going to land on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality?Most autistic women are ugly, that's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Drop the ten-point scale. Adopt the binary.I rate women on a scale of 0 to 2. 0 are the women I don't find attractive at all. I will never consider dating women in this category. 1 are women who I don't ugly but aren't necessarily my type physically. I'll give them a chance if we have a lot in common and hit it off. 2 are women who are my type and I immediately find attractive. | /r/seduction | 01/11/23 09:42 PM |
| 6 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menAs an autistic man, I feel like I was born the wrong gender. If I were a woman, there's no way i'd be a kissless virgin past the age of 22. If I were a woman, i'd be a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menPlenty of scrawny dorky autistic guys get women. It’s that: The scrawny dorky autists who get women tend to have extremely low standards in terms of looks. My former roommate was autistic and extremely introverted and all of his girlfriends were ugly and extremely overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menYou're also a woman. Dating is easier for autistic women than it is for autistic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:36 AM |
| 0 | The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado menI went on a date with an autistic woman once. Probably the worst date I ever been on. She showed up drunk, talked about how much she liked to make out with random guys at bars, and was smoking during the date. Also after the date, she told me point blank she wasn't sexually attracted to me so this won't be going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating would be so much easier if there were wholesome communal meeting places for younger peopleDating would be so much easier if there were wholesome communal meeting places for younger people At the same time, you can still join these groups, but it's not going to do you any good if you're socially awkward and never talk to anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching doesn’t workCold approach works if you're in the right environment and the woman finds you attractive. If a guy who looked like Henry Cavill walked up to random girls at a party, a few of them would be highly receptive to his advances. If cold approach never works for you, you're probably not attractive enough. You're most likely a 6/10 or lower on the attractiveness scale if most women you talk to give you the cold shoulder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesIf you're short and struggling to get girls, your height isn't the sole reason why you can't get girls. Don't get me wrong, being short is a disadvantage in the dating market but at the same time, plenty of short men have girlfriends and get laid. The short men that get girls have other positive qualities about themselves that make up for their short stature. It could be anything from having an attractive face, having an attractive physique, being naturally charming and extroverted, and/or havin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How would you design an online dating app to make it a good experience for both men and women?A matchmaking system that both genders have to fill out. You would then be matched with 5 people, and you're only allowed to message those 5 people. If you don't like someone, you can replace them with a new match but you can only do this a couple times per day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 05:45 PM |
| 9 | What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success *besides* hypergamy?Autism Autism is one of the biggest barriers to having a successful dating life and this is especially true for straight men on the autism spectrum. Autism affects communication ability, level of social skills & social intelligence, and even career prospects. All three of these traits are criteria that women oftentimes use to evaluate the romantic potential in men they wish to date and deficits in these areas can make finding a partner, or even a hookup, much more difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?We don't know anything about these women so we have no idea which woman would be the best for a long term relationship. Woman A is attractive but for all we know, she could be a serial cheater and will cheat on you in two years. Woman B is slim and pretty but she might be bipolar and have an unhealthy relationship with alcohol that will reel it's ugly head in 5 years. Woman D has an amazing ass but maybe a not so amazing personality. The sex is great but you better treat her like a princess or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 4 | If men had as much standards as women did, would anything really change?If men were just as picky women were, there would only be 1 billion people in the world, not 8 billion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | How much do looks matter?How much do looks matter? Generally speaking, the less conventionally attractive you are, the harder it will be to find a partner. The opposite is true the more attractive you become. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:29 PM |
| 4 | How much do looks matter?The short answer: Being good looking gives someone an advantage but it's not required to be in a romantic relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menIn the dating market, men are usually the initiators where they're the one's that approach first and ask the woman out on a date. This is fairly difficult if the man is very shy, introverted, has a lot of anxiety, or suffers from rejection sensitive dysphoria, so these type of men will be at a disadvantage compared to more outgoing and talkative men. However, the better looking a man is, the more he can compensate with his looks. If a man is considered to be conventionally attractive by the majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women?Sometimes, it's shared values and lifestyle. I know this woman who is extremely attractive. Tall, long legged, and a model tier face. She's attractive enough to be a model. Her husband on the other hand is also tall, but otherwise not very attractive. He's overweight, out of shape, and doesn't put a lot of effort into his appearance. Why is she with him? It's because they both have a strong Christian faith and they both lead bible study ministries together. She was probably attracted to his stro… | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Autistic men struggle to hide their keenness/attraction and this puts people off.Autistic men tend to be less attractive (on average) compared to neurotypical men, and I think this is one reason why men on the spectrum tend to struggle with dating. A big reason why is because many autistic people don't put a lot of effort into their appearance. Let's face it, if you never work out, dress like a slob, and have no fashion sense, of course you're going to be less attractive. Many autistic men tend to also dislike sports and exercise. A big reason for this is because many autist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 05:04 AM |
| 9 | Autistic men struggle to hide their keenness/attraction and this puts people off.Autistic people tend to have a reduced theory of mind which is our ability to understand the thoughts and feelings of others and how our words and behavior affect other people. For example, someone who is autistic may fail to pick up on cues that a woman is not interested in going out with him. As a result, he may continue to pursue her and creep the girl out even further until she leaves him on read or blocks him. The autistic man, who may not understand why this happened, may take it extremely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:58 AM |
| 4 | Dude ghosts girl after first date what can we learn from this?A good way to decrease the chances of being fuck zoned is to not sleep with men on the first date, or even the second date. Most men who are only in it for the sex will want to sleep with you fairly quickly. They oftentimes lack the patience to court a woman for a month or two without getting intimate. So sleeping with him on the first date was a mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?The reason that dating is better in your 30s for a few reasons. When you're older, you (usually) have more emotional maturity and experience. If you get rejected, left on read, or your crush doesn't reciprocate your feelings, it's not that big of a deal and you can move on easier and quicker. In the teenage years or early twenties, you would have been absolutely CRUSHED if that happened to you and would have continued thinking about them months, or even years later. Plus (most) people are not as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | James Potter is a perfect example of women preferring "bad boys"Books and movies aren't representative of real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Physical attractiveness is extremely important for choosing a romantic partner because our society expects monogamyThe younger you are, the more looks matter. As you get older, looks start to matter less. If you're single at 45, your dating pool may consist of people who are similarly overweigh and a bit wrinkled. In addition, you may have been through a nasty divorce and the hot girl/guy who you thought was so hot and charming as a horny 25 year old turned out to be a physically and emotionally abusive jackass that ran away from parenthood when the going got tough. So now, you're less focused on the looks a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I have never seen a young woman dissatisfied in a relationship with a traditionally attractive manCMV : I have never seen a young woman dissatisfied in a relationship with a traditionally attractive man My female cousin was married to an attractive man that lasted for 6 years. The marriage was quite toxic during the last 2-3 years. There was alcohol addiction along with mental and physical abuse. She was in the hospital for severe alcohol addiction and refuses to get help while he was physically and emotionally abusive to her the last year or two and he likely had a drinking problem as well.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal. It depends on where you live and the society you grew up in. If you're a part of a traditional or conservative culture, then it's normal for people to get married before 27 and have their first kid before the age of 30. The average man where I'm from is married or living with a partner by their 30th birthday. So no, it's not normal to be unmarried by the time you're 35, but that doesn't mean it's bad either. People who can't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Is the focus on male height mainly an American thing (or region-specific to any extent)?In countries where women tend to be short, height doesn't matter a much. Being a 5 ft 4 man in The Philippines for example, is going to be less of a disadvantage than being a 5 ft 4 man in the USA, assuming both men are equal in everything else. This is for a few reasons: - Most women want a man that is taller than they are. If you're a 5 ft 4 man, you're shorter than 60% (approx) of women in the USA but only shorter than 15% (approx) of women in The Philippines. This gives you a larger pool of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVHeight is the most influencing factor to a man's SMV I disagree. While height does affect a man's sexual market value, there are factors that are much more important in determining a man's SMV such as: - Fame and wealth - Facial attractiveness - Level of social skills and social intelligence Fame and wealth is the most influential because if you're rich and famous enough, you can offset any other physical or mental disadvantage. I doubt Jack Black or Steve Harvey are going to struggle getting wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:50 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?A large majority of college girls want tall white men. The higher her attractiveness, the more likely she is to enforce the tall white man requirement. Short women are more likely to exclusively date tall men compared to average and tall women. This is partially because short and petite women are highly desirable so can afford to be more picky and date a highly desirable guy. There are likely other reasons as well. Because of point number two, short men should consider dating tall or average hei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakIf he's wealthy but short, then what's stopping him from looking for love in a different country where women are shorter? In many South American and SE Asian countries, the average woman is only 5 ft 2 and there's plenty of sub 5 footers. As a 5 ft 5 man, he'll find plenty of women that are shorter than he is in Mexico or Thailand. Suggest that to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menYou tend to attract what you are. If you're a 4/10 fat autistic man who's nerdy and likes to play video games, why would an 8/10 extroverted sorority girl with a bangin body and who's never touched in a video game in her life give you the time of day? BUT that 4/10 autistic man might be compatible with a plain looking and similarly nerdy kind of girl and they would probably make a better partner anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menIf you want to be successful in the dating world as an autistic man, you either need to be fairly good looking if you want to date good looking neurotypical girls or you go for plain looking nerdy type of girls. The autistic men I know who have girlfriends weren't dating pretty neurotypical girls. They were dating plain, sometimes even ugly, nerdy kind of girls. These girls weren't necessarily autistic but they might have different or quirky kind of interests. That's your best bet as an autistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.It really depends on the age and demographics of women you're going after. Women in their 20s, and especially college-aged women tend to put a bigger emphasis on looks. But as women get older, especially as they reach 35+, they start to relax their standards a bit. This is partially because there's less options and also because men in their 30s tend to get less attractive with age. They go bald, get fat, get a big belly, etc... Finally, women may want to settle down so they'll choose the average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Which Person Would You Choose To Date?You might have some demisexual tendencies. Someone who is demisexual doesn't feel sexual attraction to someone until they have formed an emotional bond with someone. So for demisexuals, emotional attraction is more important than sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Personality can't compensate for looksPlenty of ugly people have partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?Finding relationships and sex is easier for autistic women compared to autistic men. The only downside is that autistic women are more vulnerable to getting into abusive relationships because they may not pick up on red flags quite as easily as neurotypical women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:58 PM |
| 16 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?OP is a woman and dating is considerably easier for autistic women than it is for autistic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a good thingOnline dating apps work best for good looking introverts. People who may lack the interest or the social skills to go out, but are still attractive enough to at least get some initial interest from the opposite sex. You also have to be fairly thick skinned to use online dating because you will be rejected, ghosted, and left on read quite frequently and you have to be able to handle this without being devastated. Not everyone can handle rejection but I believe it's essential to online dating, oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?I was taught that women have a low sex drive and they aren't visual by nature so looks don't matter all that much for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?I don't think my parents ever gave me much dating advice. They knew fairly early on that I was screwed. The only real dating advice my dad gave me was "get rich" but that's just because that's how he got my mom. So I guess he's not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:00 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterIf you're concerned about your girlfriend's looks, just ask her to go to the gym or play sports with you. The #1 factor that makes a woman less attractive is getting too fat. You don't even have to tell her she's getting too fat, just tell you're going to the gym and asks if she wants to come. If that's not her thing and she's not motivated to do any sort of physical activity with you, then it's ok if you want to end it. Or an even better idea, don't date someone who dislikes sports or exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:40 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterIf you're short and autistic, just go to SE Asia. The average filipina is only 5 ft tall and they're VERY open to dating foreign men. Yes, it will be partially because they want a better life in your country but if the only other option is to be a kissless virgin at 40, then what choice do you have? Plus many of them make great partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:31 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterI think men are more likely to chase a 6 or 7 out of 10, than for a 10/10. Most men want an attractive girlfriend but if they feel like the girl is super hot, she will likely reject him. So guys will chase the slightly cute girl instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:29 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterThat's because the pretty girls with amazing personalities tend to be taken quickly and their marriages are more likely to last, so you're less likely to find them the older you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:28 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterThere's plenty of hot girls with amazing personalities but they tend to be snatched up quickly and in the chance you happen to find one who's single, you better take your chance because she won't be single for long (unless she wants to be) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:23 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterI'd take a 6/10 with a nice personality and common interests over an 8/10 who is high strung and I have nothing in common with. My only requirement looks-wise is to find someone who I am at least a bit attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 05:21 PM |
| 53 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. I don't think (most) women are intentionally looking for these kind of men. It's just that men who are secretly sociopathic and abusive are very good at hiding it initially. They lure women in with their charm and only after some time spent together does the woman start to realize the man's true colors. Some of the abuse can also happen because of an underlying mental illness that the man may have, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 08:25 PM |
| 64 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.Honestly, the only people who say "just be yourself and the right person will come along" are people who always had dating on easy mode and never had to work to attract a partner. It's usually women or really good looking guys who give this kind of advice. | /r/seduction | 30/04/23 11:01 PM |
| 31 | You're not in a job interview, you're the employer.Many hot girls, not all of them, don't have the greatest personalities or that interesting of a life. And I think a part of it is because many attractive women who have been an 8+ since their teenage years, never had to develop a personality because guys always wanted to date them. | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherNot everybody has the potential to be a 7+. A lot of what makes someone physically attractive is facial features or body features they have no control over. In some cases, it is possible but only if the thing that is making someone unattractive is fixable. For example, someone who is tall and broad shouldered with a masculine face but is 60 pounds overweight, would likely become a 7+ with a gym membership and better diet. On the other hand, a 5 ft tall balding man with a crooked nose is never go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherAgreed, women who are objectively a 6 are oftentimes very picky as well. And I think there's a few reasons for that. A 6/10 woman on online dating gets messaged by 100+ guys and many of them are an 8+. Because of the sheer amount of options, she chooses the most attractive men and sleeps with them. As a result, 6/10 woman thinks she's more attractive than she actually is and doesn't want to date men on her level. Men are more likely to approach the 6/10 than the 8/10 because men will assume the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Why Are You Single?Look for women in SE Asia. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.There are such things although these are typically more available in larger cities or large colleges. For example, my former college had a smash bros and league of legends club. | /r/seduction | 12/04/23 07:52 PM |
| 22 | Figure Out What Kind Of Person You Are And Then Look For Women In Places That Find Your Type Attractive.Tall good looking chad would still benefit from meeting women with similar interests as these relationships are more likely to last, assuming chad is looking to have a relationship and not just a short term fling or hookup. | /r/seduction | 11/04/23 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?Autistic men are much more likely to be single and to be romantically and sexually inexperienced at older ages compared to autistic women. So it appears that autism has little to no impact on a woman's dating prospects but only under the condition that the woman is at least decently attractive. However, autistic women are more vulnerable to entering abusive relationships and the reason for this is because autism affects one's social intelligence along with the ability to read intentions of other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:51 AM |
| 2 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.No | /r/seduction | 10/04/23 08:22 PM |
| 38 | Passport bros is the only optionIf you can't get a woman in the USA, that just increases the chances that if you go to a 3rd world country specifically to meet women, you're being used for money or a green card. Because the honest truth is that many of these women are dating you because you're their ticket to a better life. Plus with a lot of countries, i'll take Thailand for example, if you enter a relationship with a girl and you wish to take her back to the USA, it's going to be VERY hard. Like it may take years for her to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some blue pills?Any guy can get laid easily thanks to hook-up culture and dating apps. The only people who say that are people who have never done online dating before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually have it better dating wise ?Do men actually have it better dating wise ? The top 5% of guys (in terms of sexual market value) have it better than women and they're at the top in the dating hierarchy. They don't have much difficulty with dating attractive women and sleeping with them or getting into a relationship. But unlike hot girls, they don't deal with the negative consequences of being hot. High value guys don't have to worry quite as much about being cat-called, sexually harrassed, stalked, to the extent that women g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:12 PM |
| 17 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.As an example, I used to talk to women in my class and a lot of them were not receptive. For reference, I'm anywhere from a 4 or 5 out of 10, and some of the women I talked to would just be super uncomfortable. Again, everything is easier the more attractive you are. If I were 6 ft, had a cute face, with a nice haircut, the women would probably be more receptive. I also knew another guy who was very nerdy looking and he looked like your stereotypical nerd try to talk to some girls in class and t… | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 04:19 AM |
| 50 | It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do.Yes and no, it depends on the context. If you hit on a woman pumping gas at the gas station, she's probably going to think that's weird, especially if you're an old ass 50 year old dude talking to a 21 year old. Another example is if a girl is walking late at night in a shady part of town, do you think she's going to appreciate being approached by a guy? No, especially if you're big and look like a hobo. It also depends on your age and level of attractiveness. If you're hot, you can get away wit… | /r/seduction | 07/04/23 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockSimone Biles is cute. She's not drop dead gorgeous but she is by no definition ugly. It really just depends on your type. If you're into petite woman with cute faces, you'd probably like her. If you're into tall skinny blondes, she'd probably not be your type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is this bad dating advice for me to give fellow autistic guys?Iv'e said this a few times but I know that some autistic men should go the SEAmaxx route. If they can afford to travel and have the time and experience, then meeting a woman is SE Asia can be a good option for some dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is this bad dating advice for me to give fellow autistic guys?I think a relationship with your age gap is the exception, not the rule. It can happen but a lot of 22 year old's don't like the idea of dating someone who's old enough to be their dad. When I was 27, I was still in college, and the 18/19 year old girls wanted nothing to do with me. Once you get past 8-10 years older than the women, then many of them will consider you too old, and this is especially true for 20 year old girls. But there are definitely exceptions of course. I think better advice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:59 AM |
| – | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.Well at 30, a lot of women your age have already been married before and some have young children of their own. And this is especially true if you live in a rural or conservative area since people there tend to get married younger. You're still 30, you should date women in their mid or late twenties without it being too weird. You probably have 6-7 years left to date women in their twenties without raising any eyebrows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.It's your environment. City people tend to be more attractive on average compared to rural folk. If you went to a random small town in the middle of the USA, the average guy there would not be very attractive. A lot of small town folk look a bit grungy, but that's also possibly because many of them work blue collar/manual labor jobs, and people in that industry tend to look more grungy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.I agree, but I also think that being unattractive is more of a disadvantage when you're under 25. Many college-aged women are still in their "party and hookup" phase and want to date and sleep with hot guys or "bad boys". Plus most 21 year old girls aren't even thinking about marriage. Once you get into your thirties, a lot of women want to start settling down. Maybe they've been pumped and dumped by the hot but non-committal guy, or they've been though a divorce and that "hot guy" they were so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.I think you should still try to meet a girl. You may be more fortunate than I am and manage to meet a cute girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:56 PM |
| 29 | Most men would have no issues dating if they had a lifestyle that allowed them to organically meet women.In my early twenties for around a few years, I was in college and took it upon myself to join as many clubs and organizations as I possibly could and try to meet a girl. I dressed up nice, consistently got a hair cut, tried being more social, and attempted to talk to women and make friends. I was in perhaps 4-5 different organizations and many of them had a fair share of women. And you want to know what happened? Nothing but rejection... I remember walking up and talking to girls and about 25% o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsIt's possible that the average or ugly looking guys in relationships were actually above average looking when they first met their girlfriend/wife. If two people have been together long enough, they will eventually look different from the first time they met. For some people, particularly if they don't exercise and eat like shit, they start to pack on the pounds. So maybe that "fat balding neckbeard looking guy" with his cute girlfriend, was once a tall sculpted chad with a full set of hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 26 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsI believe there is a correlation between personality type and risk of being perpetually single. Extraversion and prone to risk-taking are both positively correlated with dating success for men. Due to societal gender roles, men are expected to be the primary initiators when it comes to dating. This means a man who is more outgoing and extraverted, and is willing to take that risk and go talk to a girl he likes, has a higher chance of being successful even if the guy is not that great looking. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:31 AM |
| 6 | Dating seems more punishing than ever for guys in particular, and yet you constantly meet very 'average' guys in relationshipsThe "average looking" guys and even the below average looking guys in many cases, oftentimes don't struggle with women just because of their looks. There is usually something else going on that is preventing these guys from finding girlfriends. A very good example is being on the autism spectrum. Autistic men are disproportionally more likely to be romantically and sexually inexperienced at older ages compared to the neurotypical population. Autism can make an otherwise average looking guy strug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?The rise of passport bros is coinciding with the rise of male loneliness and virginity. The dating market in the USA is particularly competitive for straight men, and some guys are looking for easier and better options outside of the country. In fact, if I don't get a girlfriend this year, I'm going to pack my bags and go find a girlfriend in SE Asia. Finding a girlfriend in Asia won't be too much of a problem, it's 10x easier there than it is in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Do men even enjoy dating women?Do men even enjoy dating women? NO I hated every aspect of dating when I was trying to go about meeting women. Lots of rejection, lots of getting left on read, lots of getting ghosted after the first date. It didn't really help that I took rejection particularly harsh. A normal guy would get left on read by a girl on Tinder and maybe be hurt a little bit or not even think much about it, I would always be devastated every time. That was when I was 20 and new to the game and very naive. You need t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?Well I think if you're someone's final resort, then they're not really into you all that much. Ideally, you want to be someone's first option, maybe even second option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?The reason why men become a "steve" is because even though he is nice and is a good friend, she's not sexually attracted to him, therefore could never picture herself dating or sleeping with him. And this isn't just a woman phenomenon either as many men have a "steve" in their life as well. It's the older women in our lives who are nice to us and are friendly to us, but we could never picture dating because we're not attracted to them. At the end of the day, people don't want to date you because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Do most single women have a "Steve"?She keeps "steve" around because even though he is nice and is a good friend, she's not sexually attracted to him, therefore could never picture herself dating or sleeping with him. And this isn't just a woman phenomenon either as many men have a "steve" in their life as well. It's the older women in our lives who are nice to us and are friendly to us, but we could never picture dating because we're not attracted to them. At the end of the day, people don't want to date you because you're nice. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a meth addict?I would fuck her, but not get into a relationship with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What's your take on hypergamy?I think in many cases, hypergamy is true and practiced. My parents are a good example. Dad had a good job and was very smart and that's a big reason why my mom liked my dad. My sister married a man that's smart and makes good money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 03:01 PM |
| 4 | 2023 PPD Survey Turned into a Dashboard, v1.0This sub tends to attract men who are unsuccessful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Pretty privilege and admitting (acknowledging) the very LIKELY "truth" about how it affects dating resuluts.Rules To Dating: Be attractive If you can't be attractive, then be rich, funny, or lower your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Pretty privilege and admitting (acknowledging) the very LIKELY "truth" about how it affects dating resuluts.People who grew uo as unattractive or overweight often have better conversational skills and more charisma. I don't think this is necessarily true. Personality and looks have no correlation. I have met attractive people who are very funny and outgoing, while I have also met unattractive people who are shy and boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating is better for liars due to the lack of vettingModern dating is better for liars due to the lack of vetting In the short term, yes. But in the long term, no. Let's just say you meet a girl who's a devout Christian, and when she asks you if you believe in God as well, you say yes. You don't really believe in God and you can't even remember the last time you've read the Bible, but you say you're a Christian because you want to get with this girl. As a result, you become a couple. The problem is that you can't put on the act forever. Every time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadHe shipped it back to Amazon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?Well being on the autism spectrum, I know a lot of autistic guys (including myself) that are forever single and can't get a girlfriend, and it's usually for a variety of reasons. Some are below average looking, others have extreme anxiety and hardly talk, and some have no interest in dating whatsoever. As for me, the first half of my twenties, I pursued quite a few women and was rejected by all of them. I could get "dates" if you want to call them that, but women just were not interested in me w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 02:20 PM |
| 3 | If you're talking too much with a girl, does she have no romantic or sexual interest in you?In my experience, most women don't bother with communicating with a guy they don't like. I mean they will communicate, but they'll take like 24+ hours to respond to text, leave you on read, tell you they're too busy to meet up, etc... If a woman is willing to spend time with you, there's at least a decent chance that she likes you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | “Women are emotional and men are logical” - how much of this is explained by biological factors?I think men can be fairly emotional too but we tend to express our emotions differently than women do. Men tend to cry less often than women but we're also more likely to express our emotions through anger and aggression. I'm not saying that men are as emotional as women are, but to think that men aren't emotional at all is simply untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 12:30 AM |
| 4 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayWell it kind of makes sense. One night stands are based on physical and sexual attraction and has nothing to do with personality or character, aside from the surface level stuff. If you're an ugly or dorky looking man, unless you're very well known, bar game or nightclub game isn't for you. Avenues that are less about looks and more about personality and connection is a better strategy, such as meeting women in real life through activities or social circles. The dorky guy in this story was the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?You should be making plans to meet up within 1-2 days of talking to them online. If you wait too long, they will simply lose interest and move on. Remember, women have dozens of other men trying to hit them up, so if you don't make a move, some other guy will. If a woman isn't willing to meet up with you, then chances are she doesn't like you that much or she's on there to validate her ego and has no intention of meeting up. A woman who's at least a bit interested will be willing to meet up. Pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:52 PM |
| 14 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayYou must be good looking if women approach you and are forward with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 15 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayI've seen women approach men before, but these men were usually fairly conventionally attractive. 6 ft tall, broad shouldered, masculine looking, etc. One time, I was hanging out with a group of friends that were both guys and girls, and the girls noticed a guy they thought was hot. So they went up to him and tried to get his number. Oh, and one of the girls in this group was a solid 8 too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:54 PM |
| 8 | If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everydayIt's pretty easy to piss off a bunch of feminists. Just call a woman a "female" and they'll have a keyboard seizure on the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?I think if you're ugly or average looking, then going the friends first route is the better option. It's rare for a woman to be immediately attracted to you if you're not that good looking. But if you can build up a social and emotional rapport with her, and then pull the trigger and ask her out, I think your chances are better that she says yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I think you're making a lot of generalizations about what men want in your post. Although some of what you're saying can be true, men are also not a hive mind and can be attracted to different qualities and aspects about a woman. I wouldn't be attracted to women with certain mental illnesses. I lived with my sister for many years who suffered from bipolar and substance abuse, and I know that is something that I don't want in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 11:31 PM |
| 18 | Your personality is irrelevant if you fall below someone’s threshold for what they find physically attractive.This is probably true for most people. If someone finds you ugly, they're not going to consider you as a romantic or sexual prospect no matter what your personality is like. I do have a few notes though. - People tend to be attracted to different types of people and what you might find hot, I might find ugly. Physically, Taylor Swift doesn't do much for me as she's too tall and skinny, while other guys think she's hot. So the point is that, there is a good chance that at least someone will find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you?Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you? For one thing, my dating life would be the complete opposite of how it is today if I had been born a woman. Assuming I had the same love and sex drive as a woman compared to how I am as a man, I likely would have had several boyfriend and perhaps several hookup situations. This is in contrast to me being a guy, who is fairly romantically and sexually experienced. I may have met a guy a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:28 AM |
| 2 | PPD blind spot on "asia"I have a distant relative, who we suspect is on the autism spectrum, but was never diagnosed because he came of age during a time where autism wasn't widely diagnosed. Anyways, he struggled heavily with dating most likely due to his personality and his autism, so when he was in his 40s, he travelled to The Philippines and met a plain looking woman in her 30s, and they agreed to get married. 25+ years later, they're still together living in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 11:25 PM |
| 3 | PPD blind spot on "asia"I knew these two cute short asian sisters, and both of them were dating 6 ft 2 white guys. Being a tall white man is an advantage in dating for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | PPD blind spot on "asia"When I went to Japan, I didn't get 500 matches in 2 days like I did in the Philippines, but I got a lot. How good looking are you? Because that will likely affect the results. If you're at least 5 ft 10, and broad shouldered with a decently good looking face, of course that's going to affect your results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:25 PM |
| 0 | PPD blind spot on "asia"I think The Philippines continues to be the easiest country to get a girlfriend for white men. If Alex Minassian had taken a trip there, he'd no longer be an incel, hence lives could have been saved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 02:21 PM |
| 0 | You’d be pretty guarded and picky too if everyone from the opposite sex who approached you was trying to penetrate youI’m a male, there’s a female coworker who has been trying to have sex with me since I started working at this place. I’ve rejected her advances multiple times and she’s started treating me poorly because of it. She’s attractive, she’s funny, she’s out going. ' I would only believe you if you were famous. If Tom Brady was like "yeah, iv'e had hot girls hitting on me since I started working" then it would make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 02:46 PM |
| 2 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableAs a foreign man who does have some experience with women from The Philippines, I would only recommend dating a woman who lives in The Philippines if: - You have the money, the means, and the travel experience to visit The Philippines in person. Most Filipinas will be unable to visit you in your country as getting a VISA to come visit you is very difficult, especially if you live in Europe or in the USA. - Either you want to live in The Philippines OR if you prefer to live in your home country, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.I also knew this 5 ft 2 asian man who had no problems with meeting women. But the reason why he was successful was because he had that cute e-boy look that many girls found attractive, his style was always on point, and he was very charming and extroverted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.So wtf are short men supposed to do? Look for women in countries where women are traditionally shorter. If you speak Spanish, you essentially have all of South America to choose from. If you only speak English, then SE Asia is where you'll find plenty of shorter women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about foreveralonewomen community on reddit?I knew one girl in particular who was "foreveralone". She was extremely overweight, had autism, was on SSI because she didn't want to work, and had a very hot-headed and fiery personality. She's in her forties now, and I doubt she ever found anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepyBeing confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepy In high school? Yes In college? Maybe But I feel like as you get older and into the "real world", this logic doesn't really apply all that much because people tend to mature as they get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I truly believe that if sexwork was decriminalized, and normalized, a lot of people would be happierIf sex work is legalized in the US, it should follow a Nevada brothel-style model, and only be legal in select brothels. That way, at least the practice is regulated and sex-workers are required by law to get STD testing and both the worker and john are more likely to be safe. Street prostitution should still be illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The group photo of the Men's PPD Meet Up! Thanks for coming everyone! Great fun was had and interesting opinions on women were shared.No, I was there. This was in LA just a week back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships.Mental health issues is the biggest thing preventing men and women from getting into and staying in happy relationships. I 100% agree, but only for maintaining relationships, not necessarily getting a relationship. For example, my sister was very attractive growing up and had ZERO problems getting relationships. However, my sister also has a pretty severe alcohol addiction, and has undiagnosed mental health issues which I think is either Bipolar or Borderline Personality disorder, and on top of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isPersonality is important, not for getting a relationship, but for maintaining one. Someone who is good looking is going to find a partner regardless of what their personality is like. However, someone with obvious personality/character flaws will oftentimes find that maintaining a relationship can be quite difficult and sometimes, can even turn toxic. My cousin is a really good example. Growing up, she was hot. But she's also very high strung, bipolar, and addicted to alcohol. Someone like my co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about the type of job you have?It depends on the woman. For some women, a guy who makes a lot of money is very important! While for other women, they don't want a guy who can't take care of themselves but they'd be okay with dating a guy who makes 30k, 40k, 50k a year. The biggest mistake you can make is lumping all women into a single category because there is so much variability in terms of preferences! The key is to find a woman who's preferences match what you offer as a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationshipsI don't think it will completely kill marriage and relationships, because there will still be a large majority of people who like the idea of a traditional marriage or a relationship with a real person, over some realistic sex doll. Y | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Think About “Multi-dating”What Do You Think About “Multi-dating” It doesn't matter what I think because "multi-dating" isn't really a possibility for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Men in relationships, how would you feel if you and your SO were cited as an example of a "ugly/meh looking guy with a beautiful girl" couple?I already know I'm unattractive so I don't think it would hurt my feelings too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approach is useless for 90 percent of men.Cold approach is useless for 90 percent of men. It only works if you're hot, or at least somewhat attractive. I was at a college getaway event about 2 months ago, and there was this tall, broad-shouldered, very facially attractive guy there, and he talked to girls there and by the time the event was over, was already dating this really cute girl. Being attractive is and will always be, a HUGE advantage in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 06:08 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men who are inexperienced with relationships/sex should just lie about itCMV: Men who are inexperienced with relationships/sex should just lie about it I think it depends on the woman as well on whether or not you should be upfront about your virginity. For example, if you're dating a girl who is either very conservative or considers herself quite religious and serious about her faith, she is less likely to reject you for being a virgin. In fact, many of them would consider it a bonus for you to be sexually inexperienced. After all, in many religions, sex outside of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?Because in the past 10-15 years, being thick and curvy has become more socially acceptable. In the 90s, it would be an insult if you said a girl has a big butt, but nowadays, lots of guys are chasing after thick girls with thick asses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | a lot of high value men did not work for itIf you were born into a rich family with the genetics to be smart and good looking, yes that's a huge advantage in life. But you can still fuck up your life, if you get hooked on drugs and sometimes alcohol. Because one thing about being really attractive and popular is that sometimes, these attributes can also predispose you to being introduced to drugs and alcohol addiction. Because if you're really attractive and popular, you may be more likely to get invited to parties or get involved with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Getting Likes on TinderYou will be? You should sign up for Tinder and FilipinoCupid while you're there. You'll definitely have women be willing to meet up with you, and cute girls too. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How Long Does It Take For You to Decide If Someone Is Attractive/Looks?2-3 seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Going out to a nightclub with 3 chicksGoing out to a nightclub with 3 chicks They allow animals at the nightclub? | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 04:26 PM |
| 29 | So what are you fellas doing for first dates these days?I take them out to mcdonalds and buy them a happy meal. Then afterwards we go play on the Play Place. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 11 | Getting Likes on TinderThere's plenty of white guys that suck with women, so being white isn't necessarily going to make you a chick magnet. Being a white guy in the dating market is like being in a college class and doing really good on one assignment. It definitely helps with your overall grade, but if you do bad on all the other assignments, you're still going to get a bad grade in the class. For example, you can be white, but if you're obese, ugly, with low social skills, then the white advantage you get in dating… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Getting Likes on TinderThe filipina route works best for Australian or New Zhealand men because those countries are (relatively) close to The Philippines. I'd really only recommend going this route to meet women (assuming you're looking for a serious relationship) is if 1. You're unable to meet a suitable woman in your home country and 2. You're 100% ready to settle down. And the reason for this is because, if you're a filipina citizen, you can't just hop on a plane and go visit a 1st world country. In order for a fil… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveI agree. I once went on a date with a girl who wasn't that attractive, she was around a 4 out of 10. Her face was definitely below average, and the only reason she wasn't ranked lower was because she wasn't overweight and had big boobs. Now I'm not much of a great looking person either. I'm probably around a 5 if we're being honest, so I thought that I should give her a chance, considering I'm not a super good looking guy myself. Anyways, we go out on a "date", and she starts talking about all o… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 05:10 PM |
| 38 | Getting Likes on TinderThe easiest way to get 100+ matches on Tinder is to swipe in Manilla Philippines. It's a cheat code if you're a white guy. I'm like a solid 5/10 and I still get 100 matches in a week. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:29 PM |
| 27 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveI think a lot of people, regardless of their own attractiveness, only want to date attractive people. Both guys and girls are equally likely to be like this. | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 03:23 PM |
| 33 | What are some good ways to tease (by touch, or “make her melt”) a girl when you’re in a bar/pub/in general?What are some good ways to tease (by touch, or “make her melt”) a girl when you’re in a bar/pub/in general? The best way to get a girlfriend at the bar is to throw pokeballs at girls you like. Although be warned, the girlfriend pokemon can be very hard to find and catch, some trainers have to wait years before getting one. The bar is one of the best places because you can usually find a horde of level 21 wild females there, so you can throw many pokeballs at them. However, watch out for level 23… | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Myth of Online "dating" ruining the SMV: It was bad in the 1990s alreadyMy dad was a young man and single in the 80s and 90s. He was pretty average looking; he was about 5 ft 10, had an average looking face, and was white. Pretty much the average American guy. Dad was never a "Don Juan" who was really good with the ladies but he had an okay dating experience. He had a couple girlfriends between the ages of 18-25, before meeting my mom at 27, getting married at 28, then having me at 30. What my dad had going for him was above average intelligence and an above average… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way aroundI think one reason is because adult men are seen as more of a physical/sexual threat than women are. Because of that, some women will put up a "wall" around men, meaning they act cold, rude, standoffish to men who they don't know. This is something that I have experienced a lot and it's definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?How bad is it being a tall girl romantically? My aunt and her two daughters (my cousins) are all tall, with each of them being at least 5 ft 9. None of them had any problems with dating, despite being just as tall as the average man, although they had a few things going for them. All of them are fairly attractive, not drop dead out of this world gorgeous, but they're all at least a bit above average looking. Secondly, I think guys tend to be more open minded when it comes to height, so going for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How bad is it being a tall girl romantically?How bad is it being a tall girl romantically? Not as bad as being a short man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsEven women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girls Definitely true. My sister is 34 years old and recently single and is quite picky. She once admitted that she thinks that indian men are ugly, and when my parents suggested that she should date a guy they knew, she said "ewww he's ugly". My sister exclusively dates 6 ft tall white guys. She could get away with this in her twenties because she was the ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | If a man goes to third world country to find a younger, virgin wife, does he risk her becoming brainwashed by feminists into despising him?I think you can find virgin women at 25 in a third world country, but most likely, the women who are virgins at that age are so because of religious reasons, and many of them are wanting to wait until marriage. If that is something you're okay with, then it shouldn't be a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:09 PM |
| -1 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipIf you can attract a woman who is a 4 in the west, you can probably attract a 6 in a country like The Philippines. You might be able to date an 8, but she'll likely be using you for your money. Sometimes I watch this Youtube channel of an american-filipina couple (i'm not going to say who it is) where the guy is probably a 4 or 5 out of 10, and the girl is a solid 8+. They seem pretty happy together and have been together for a while. I guess it helps that they both appear to be around the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:07 PM |
| -1 | The Philippines Is A Potential Solution For Loveless Men To Find A RelationshipWith The Philippines, there usually isn't a language barrier, since most of the young population in that country knows English. It's also a reason why I brought up The Philippines due to the language barrier generally not being an issue if you're an English speaker. However, this can definitely be an issue in other Asian countries where speaking English isn't that common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | If a man goes to third world country to find a younger, virgin wife, does he risk her becoming brainwashed by feminists into despising him?Just because a woman is from a traditional country doesn't mean she is traditional. I'm sure there are women from Saudi Arabia who think religion is bullshit but only follow it due to their culture and also the fear of being different. So in the case of Bob, assuming he is going the route of finding a wife from another country, he would want to make sure he is getting a woman who actually shares his beliefs, and not just because of the culture she grew up in. Also, why go for 18 year old girls? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Maybe your dating failures, are your parents faultLevel headed thinking, Autism isn't always a death sentence for your dating life. Sadly it was for me. There was once a time when I had hope, but that time has passed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 11:31 PM |
| 15 | Do women ever make the first move?Do women ever make the first move? It happens although not very often, and usually only happens if the guy is fairly attractive. I remember when I was in college, there was an event at the college rec center and I was going with a group consisting of me, another guy, and two girls. Anyways, two of the girls spotted a guy they had a crush on, and after the guy in our group encouraged them, they actually approached him and one even offered her number. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Maybe your dating failures, are your parents faultMaybe your dating failures, are your parents fault They are, but not in the way you think. You see when my mom and dad had me, their genetics combined in such a way that their offspring (me) wound up being super short and on the autism spectrum, which indirectly put me at a massive disadvantage in dating and caused me to struggle really badly. So in a way, yes, it's my parents fault that I suck so bad at dating. But it was never really their intention, how were they supposed to know I would be b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 08:25 PM |
| 3 | What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do?What’s the major difference between guys that can attract women and guys that cannot attract any woman no matter what they do? A combination of different things. I doubt it's one single cause, rather it's a combination of different issues that come together to make dating harder than average for certain individuals. And the reason I say it's usually a multitude of different things is because a lot of people say that they can't meet a girl because they're too ugly. Well guess what? Plenty of unat… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 5 | "Autism Acceptance" is largely hypocritical virtue signalingUnfortunately, in many cases, but certainly not all cases, autism can be a "death sentence" when it comes to having a normal and healthy dating life. I've met too many young men with autism who are in their twenties and thirties who have never even dated before and have yet to be in a relationship. The autistic men who struggle with dating the most tend to be below average looking in appearance and visibly come off as autistic. From the moment these men talk to women, something is "slightly off"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?I wanted to date but I have aspergers so even finding someone to date was incredibly difficult. I'm also significantly shorter than average which also makes finding someone to date problematic at times as well. Finally, I don't have the natural outgoing and extroverted personality, and I pretty much have to "mask" every time I want to talk to people which can be draining when doing it long term. I dabbed a little bit in international dating sites, specifically women from The Philippines with pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?I know a lot of people on the autism spectrum, and many of them are "omega males" at least by your description, due to a combination of unfavorable traits. I won't list them all the people I know, but I will list a few. The first is not a man, but actually a woman. She is on the autism spectrum, very overweight, and not very physically attractive. She also lives on SSI because she refuses to work, and also has a very fiery temper. As a result, she is one of the few women that will likely wind up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."I'll be peaking when i'm 80 years old and picking up shawtys at the retirement home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?What is the worst thing about being a man? One disadvantage that hasn't been brought up yet, is the fact that being short is more of a disadvantage for men than it is for women. If you're a woman, your height has little to no impact in the dating market. If you're a 5 ft tall woman, you won't be penalized for being short. However if you're a short man, this isn't the case at all since height is more of a factor in your overall physical attractiveness if you're a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | The Rise Of International Dating (And The Opposition To It)I think that looking for love in SE Asia is a potentially viable option for white men from 1st world countries. An average looking white man in America can make an online dating profile, send out messages to 100 women, and expect only around 5-10 to respond back. But in The Philippines, that same man can expect to hear back from half of them. Finding a woman from SE Asia who is not only more willing to chat, but is also more receptive to you compared to women back home, is so much easier. I am n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneWomen fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzone And then wonder why these men either turn out to be shitty/abusive husbands or disappear after the baby is born. This is what happens when you make decisions purely with your heart and not with your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?The problem with that is even short women will often prefer tall men. This is also something that I have noticed as well. I live in the Midwestern United States and the short women I know who are moderately attractive, tend to be in relationships with tall men. And my theory is that women who identify as more traditional/conservative, are much more likely to enforce a tall/average man dating rule, even if the woman is fairly short herself. I used to go to church fairly frequently filled with you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Are romantic relationships even worth the trouble in the modern age?I don't really know if I want to get married. Imagine you met someone at 23, and got married at 25, and then live to be 75, you would be married to someone for 50 years! Within 1.5 years of meeting someone (which really isn't that long of a time) you've already decided that you like them enough that you want to spend 50 years with them and never date or have sex with anybody else ever again. Yeah sure they drink a little too much, have a temper problem, and have no interest in going to college, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Are romantic relationships even worth the trouble in the modern age?The amount of toxicity I'm seeing everywhere nowadays off and online is just so tremendous. So many men hate women and so many women hate men, more and more people getting into blackpill and FDS like subreddits, which to me, are just really toxic and serve to spread hatred. I still don't think this is the majority of people though. It's just that because you're into these kind of subjects, you're more likely to encounter people with these type of beliefs. That doesn't mean they're the majority o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is effectively broken already."average women aren't attracted to average men. They're soooo picky!" In many cases, this is actually true, although I would say that average women and men can both be like this. The only difference though between average men and average women, is that average women can still find partners quite easily. The inability to find romantic and sexual partners is more commonly a male phenomenon, hence the reason why in-sells are mostly men. As an example, I knew a girl who to be perfectly blunt, was no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:13 PM |
| 20 | Tinder is effectively broken already.Tinder is effectively broken already. Tinder has a severe gender imbalance problem that's only gotten worse over the years. The average man gets a 1% match rate which is very pitiful, compared to a 50% match rate for your average woman, just to give an example on how bad the gender imbalance is. Tinder as a straight man is extremely competitive and realistically, you need to be a top 10% guy (looks and profile wise) in order for the app to even be worth it, otherwise you simply won't get enough … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateThe True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debate It's definitely an important aspect of dating for sure, and many women have height preferences and requirements when it comes to men they choose to date or be in a sexual relationship with. However, most men are NOT at a height where their dating life would be significantly impacted by their short stature. A 5 ft 7 man for instance, while below average, is still taller than 75% of women that he meets, and can easily make up for his stature… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps the default, most common method for zoomers to get relationships?Yes, and it's a reason why men from generation z are less likely to be romantically and sexually intimate compared to men from past generations. They have done studies on this and it's revealed that men in their twenties today are LESS likely to be sexually active today compared to men in the past. Dating apps, especially mainstream sites such as Tinder and Bumble, are heavily looks based. You get 3-5 pictures plus a short bio to convince a woman to swipe yes on you, of course it's going to be m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:13 AM |
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