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Not sure who you think I am, but my youngest is 12, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:35 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:50 PM
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Indistinguishable at this point. Once the redpill grifters shifted over to capture the large amount of dejected immigrants (with very traditional views) and was found to still resonate with the regular loser men in the west (who love the idea of controlling chicks), the entire focus changed to this nonsense as the money pours in The red pill is locked in with trad cons for the foreseeable future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:48 PM
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There better be more than that...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:46 PM
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If you can't achieve any of the above, to include a relationship, you're a complete loser and that's on you and no one else...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:40 PM
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So, you wouldn't do anything for love. Just say that, it's easier...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:14 PM
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Free money? Probably grab some crypto primed for a good pump and dump and see if we can't make some (more) money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:45 AM
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The usual. Roadtrip to the grandparents and spend 4-5 days there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:02 PM
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Yeah, this isn't uncommon my house is the same way. Most dudes could probably devise a better way to get shit done, the problem is most dudes are quite simply, fucking lazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:30 PM
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You square your shit away and get it done, nothing feminine about knocking out tasks efficiently and effectively...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:17 PM
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Yeah, that's the best part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:20 PM
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I had drinks with the dudes I work with last Friday. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:49 PM
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Were you showing that you wanted them? Or did you even want them? Sounds like just a lukewarm situation all around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:23 PM
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Does your not "needing" just look like not caring?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:18 PM
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B
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:01 PM
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Yeah, pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:01 PM
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Not particularly, no. Bro was talking shit, so I thought that's what we were doing today...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:05 PM
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You ever gone to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:46 PM
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There's therapists that are dudes. Fuck man, go outside sometime...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:42 PM
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Anyone who can't get with attractive women reliably is also a loser, so y'all are already there taking L's every fucking day Might as well talk to a therapist about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:38 PM
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Probably because they enjoy that the most. Why would someone settle for less than what they enjoy most, when it's not necessary to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:14 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:19 PM
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Believe it or not, I've been in far more dangerous situations than a drunk guy getting into an Uber that's not his. Haven't disappointed myself yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:29 PM
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Nah, dude needs to not be a fucking coward, but it is who he is and now his girlfriend knows it...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:23 PM
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As a man, with that significantly better grasp of aggression, I understand that 9/10 that situation doesn't escalate much beyond getting the drunk dude outta the uber and on his way and I would definitely rather be there instead of my chick, if it does escalate beyond that. Me, my chick, the passenger and the uber driver vs one drunk dude. Come on, it'll be fine. Dude is a textbook coward, which unsurprisingly is championed around here as this level of risk-averse at all costs mindset often corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:38 PM
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Never help someone who won't help themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:58 PM
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I want a partner, not a child I have to help not eat fucking garbage and not be lazy. No thanks, there's plenty of motivated hotties out there, I'll just choose one of them...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:42 PM
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It won't last and she'll be morbidly obese with several health complications before she hits 40...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:34 PM
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You don't build shit on a bad foundation and there's very little worse than being lazy as it just fucks every aspect of your life...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:03 PM
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Nah the lazy combined with horrible eating habits means her health/fitness will take a plunge in 5-10 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:43 PM
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Do y'all post as much/more on the weekends? If so, yeah, y'all need to go outside...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:01 PM
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Alright, looks like I've gone from top 20% to top 5%...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:37 PM
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Not a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:47 AM
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Of course you don't and obviously you're not alone in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:41 PM
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This mindset combined with laziness is why...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:29 PM
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I've worked with a few grown adults whom I had to give the shower talk to, so they're out there But if you're coming across them enough to think that it might apply to men at large... oof
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:06 PM
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Yeah, it can become a problem in a hurry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:04 PM
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Not you personally, you as in whoever is coming across all these dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:01 PM
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You know, because it keeps happening. You catch one dude who stinks or who can't figure out basic shit like hygiene, no worries, it happens... You come across multiple. Yeah, you're low tier
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:58 PM
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Yes, there are plenty of good looking dudes and chicks that are bottom tier because they don't fix relatively easy things like hygiene. If someone doesn't do basic shit like that, whatever reason is behind that, is the reason they're bottom tier. And it is tiered because, again, the vast majority of men don't stink when they go on dates. If a chick is routinely catching stinky dudes, messy dudes, generally disheveled dudes, then they obviously have something preventing them from access to the du…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:49 PM
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He stinks and lacks the self awareness to realize it or just doesn't care. Yes, that is bottom tier His looks alone weren't everything, or else she wouldn't have given a shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:36 PM
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Yeah, dudes with hygiene issues and no self awareness, dating chicks with unresolved trauma and probably some sort of weird collection of shit they call a hobby. They don't mesh, but it's all they can get...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:28 PM
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It's the caliber of men they're attracting. The vast majority of men will shower and put on deodorant before a date Bottom tier chicks complaining about bottom tier dudes and then trying to apply that trash to men in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:21 PM
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Pure protection. That's what YOU would do. The vast majority of people will not abuse or walk over nice people. They will just be nice back...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:45 AM
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Yeah, probably should have used gloves then too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:10 PM
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So glad I'm old enough to not require some sort of social media. I'm all over hers, while mine is non-existent...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:54 PM
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Rookie move. Glove up next time...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:48 PM
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He did something scummy as fuck but you're focused on people calling it rape vs sexual abuse? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:50 PM
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It easier for a single mom to find a dude without kids than it is for a single dad to find a chick without kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:47 PM
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I think single parents, dad, or mom would prefer their partner to not have any kids. It's just a lot easier for single moms to pull it off...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:45 PM
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Cool, but again, politically, this admin is more likely to further incentivise big trucks...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:33 PM
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One day, y'all will learn... https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/11/01/pickup-trucks-men-masculinity-rural-symbols/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:30 PM
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The ev trucks sales tanked here when people realized they couldn't even tow a boat to the lake on a single charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:23 PM
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MAGA likes big trucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:21 PM
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Can it tow/haul with good range? If not, it's just as dogshit as the others...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:17 PM
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If anything this admin will incentivise it more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:16 PM
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Only if you want to deal with her eventual mental breakdown (that may or may not involve leaving you) and you can afford the therapy bill...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:19 PM
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It's something a dude would say because it's not readily apparent he's not a loser, so he's gotta point out shit like that Gives off that same energy when a chick says it...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:02 AM
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I've been kicked out of places before, its not all that fun. I advise walking up to that line, but not crossing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:07 AM
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I live in reality sooo...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:04 AM
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Yeah, buy rounds, chat up everyone and get a group going, cause a scene, whatever you gotta do to get something going...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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Always worth it, but when I go to a club, there's going to be an awesome story at the end one way or the other. If it ain't fun when I get there, I'll make it fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:32 AM
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I'm not sure the Senate is gonna let that one fly...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:15 AM
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Maybe, but the response from men on the internet says even the threat of those women going off the market hits dudes in the feels...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:08 PM
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And we're back to "whatever you gotta tell yourself" Bro, you said some lame joke and I talked a little shit back. Next time, just throw out the cat equivalent of 😒, downvote me and press on...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:07 PM
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I get that this shit is really fucking with you, but damn, save some for when he actually gets inaugurated and can start really making shit happen...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:03 PM
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Nah, that requires there to be a reality where a significant number of women are undesirable and unable to get laid, making their whining just sour grapes. Is PPD willing to accept such a reality? I don't think it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:00 PM
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So if you wanted to, you could successfully date women and have sexual relationships with them, start a family etc, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:51 PM
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Big girls gotta eat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:46 PM
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You trying to make the best of it doesn't magically make it voluntary. You're just accepting the fact you have no other option...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:41 PM
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Social places with low/soft lighting and places to sit down Bonus points if there are food trucks nearby as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:35 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:35 PM
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I believe there's is voluntary tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:32 PM
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Just get an Audi RSQ-8 and then free up a spot for something cool...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:46 PM
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Bentley? Boring...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:43 PM
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1 is best for the world, but 2 is best for myself individually. I guess we'll go with 1...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:41 PM
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Vs the fucking nothing you came out the gate with...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:25 PM
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Studies show most men think they look better than they actually do, so what you're saying is bullshit...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:23 PM
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I know right, we don't need to hear the B team chirping while the top dawgs sort out the roster changes...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:21 PM
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Looks to be the height of the typical blackpiller...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:52 PM
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But that was the policy they put in...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:22 PM
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Haha, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:19 PM
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Not your place to parent other people's kids, so don't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:43 PM
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You don't tell other people's kids shit like that. Know your place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:32 PM
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No. it was the economy and immigration. These fringe ideas weren't moving the needle...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:54 PM
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What even is the question here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:30 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:22 PM
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I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:47 PM
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You should probably wash your face before you go to bed. I can't imagine sleeping with makeup on is good for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:35 PM
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She's a great chick, I care for her deeply, but I already had a "love of my life" thing going, with my late wife, so what can ya do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:15 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:47 PM
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Towards the end of my dating escapades, I started going exclusively for women with no kids, who didn't want kids of their own, but were open to dating someone with kids. I, of course, have kids. Thought I was flying too close to the sun with that one, but I was still able to find several women who met the criteria, to include my current chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:31 PM
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I would tell her "squidward isn't real sooo" while shrugging and then bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:52 PM
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Yeah, a chick has to get that arch going and it's a pretty basic position, so that's a pretty valid let down... The rest sounds typical of a porn fried brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:54 PM
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High
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:31 PM
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Name one thing I said in my proposal that would take control of the uterus from the woman. She can do whatever she wants, the man just would have a window of time where he can opt to not financially support her decision. That window of time would still allow for the woman to have an abortion, should she choose to do so, or continue to carry to term, either way it's still 100% her choice...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:42 PM
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So, just to be clear, you're pro-life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:23 PM
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If there isn't enough time to get an abortion then there wouldn't have been enough time to opt out anyways. Two weeks is plenty of time to schedule an abortion, if not, time to open more clinics, establishments that specialize in the procedure Damn, I'm improving the economy too now. This thing is the gift that keeps on giving...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:15 PM
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Just set it to two weeks prior to whatever the state law is and the rest will sort itself out through legislation. Even as it is now, dudes can always move to a state where it's already 20+ weeks and vice versa, women could move to a state where the dude wouldn't have time...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:00 PM
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Implementing this would all but ensure the laws would be changed to 20 weeks at a minimum. Even the most woman hating punish all females type likes the idea of financially opting out...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:54 PM
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Yeah, and women KNOW that sex makes babies blah blah blah. Stop repackaging tired pro life arguments and trying to control men My solution is equitable and allows for both parties to get what they want, provided what they want isn't control over the other person...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:48 PM
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Fine, then take the state law subtract 2 weeks and set it there. Problem solved, no need to get hung up on details that are easily modified, the overall intent is what's important... Every woman in 2024 should have a plan in place for an unexpected pregnancy anyways. She would only have to modify it for if the dude nopes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:52 PM
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Something she'll have to factor in when making a decision. It's her body her choice after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:52 PM
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Dude should be able to ditch out up to 16 weeks It's not a child at that point, so all your "best interest" shit is moot The woman at that point can abort, so it then becomes her choice to become a single mom or not The man gets to keep his financial autonomy intact AND the woman maintains her autonomy. Fucking win/win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:17 PM
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Hey
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:11 PM
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Right, the ultimate weapon of war, but hey, let's just fuck ourselves up...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:10 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:03 PM
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There's people who think a political party is creating and sending hurricanes to destroy their own country and creating wildfires with a satellite, again, in their own country...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:02 PM
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Nah, that chick purposefully puts shit in her quips to trigger the losers and then feigns ignorance...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:32 PM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:24 PM
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But are you actually going to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:21 PM
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She won't be a totally different person, nor will you, but you both can change/grow significantly. If you both don't make the effort to do that together, than your nightmare scenario will likely unfold. Your best bet is to find a chick with a good foundation (calm people tend to be calm their entire life, flighty people stay flighty, etc) and make sure you're adaptable in your thinking/happiness...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:48 AM
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Damn, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:46 AM
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You can try and downplay it as much as you want and throw superficial in there (like being uplifting and agreeable can't be superficial), but that doesn't change the fact charm is a skill and a dude IS lacking something important (in the context of this place) if they aren't charming...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 09:10 PM
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Being your genuine self is the cheat code to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:27 AM
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Makes sense. Can't be a beta bux if you have no bux and you can't go bang hot dudes with kids in tow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:26 AM
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Campaigning takes a toll. Look at how unhinged Trump is getting at his rallies. The last stretch always drains the candidates...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:23 AM
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Oh geez...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:22 AM
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Are you even going to vote? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:20 AM
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She also seemed confrontational off the bat and not personable So she fit right in on Fox. Gotta play to your audience after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:20 AM
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The daily is all that matters...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:37 AM
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You just can't help yourself can you? Too easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:10 PM
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Because it's being used to say that men, as a group, have it harder than any individual woman's struggle...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:50 PM
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Drink some water...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:45 PM
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Many men here believe they are wholly oppressed in society and also do absolutely nothing about it. So either what you're saying about "men would rather" is bullshit, or what they're saying is bullshit...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:42 PM
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When men say the shit the OP posted, those "different men" never seem to push back on the narrative, but they magically appear if a woman says the same shit. So it's either as the OP says and it's only ok when men say it, or it actually is the same group of men saying two different things... Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:24 AM
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I don't concern myself with shit like that. If I think you're attractive, that's where the analysis stops...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:16 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:39 PM
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They just don't want some kid fucking up the ceremony. Maybe in the past when children, in general, were better behaved, but now a days? I get it...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:17 PM
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If that's the reason she's doing it, yeah. Transactional behavior is very unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:51 AM
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I've cut these two yellow flowering shrubs down to the base 3 times now, trying to kill em off and they just won't quit Turns out, that's actually what you're supposed to do to keep them healthy oh well, the hummingbirds like em at least...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:33 PM
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If you owned a car that could realistically do 150, you'd be one step closer to doing well with women...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:56 PM
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My chick knows my phone password and all that shit already, and we have that life360 family plan, so she knows where I'm at as well. I guess if I ever knock her up, I should get a complimentary DNA test with all the credit I've built up...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:36 PM
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According to y'all, women live life on easy mode, so being better than them is a pretty low bar...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:25 PM
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Which is why being the unsure lovable doofus won't work. Women grow to resent men who lack self confidence and that's as real as it gets...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:22 PM
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Yeah, fuck that, just find a chick where there's no doubt...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:13 PM
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The lack of confidence will fuck up your chances in the end anyways then...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:12 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:09 PM
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No need for games. If you're unsure, she ain't into you enough regardless...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:06 PM
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You don't, not even close...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:48 PM
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And you are so socially stunted, you lack the knowledge/experience to even begin to understand complexities surrounding the relationships we form with one and other... You're at one level 1 thinking you figured out the whole game...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:46 PM
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You have oversimplified human relationships to the point of brainrot... Just stop
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:32 PM
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For you maybe...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:12 PM
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They hate incompetence, to the point it overrides any desirable traits. Math competitions are chocked full of highly intelligent, but ultimately incompetent men, hence, most are not desirable...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:06 PM
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Size of a labarador, but probably only weighs like 25-30lbs due to hollow bones. The claws and teeth would hurt, but it's not lasting long at that weight with me bashing it into the ground with extreme prejudice. Definitely dropping that thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:03 AM
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Or, he'll do them, feel good about it, because 100 squats a day is something when starting at zero, and keep going...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:00 AM
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100 bodyweight squats throughout the day > squats he's not going to do at the gym...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:32 PM
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They'll work just fine, relax...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:26 PM
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Haha, a group of 20 dudes with bad intentions ruins that society in about a week...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:14 PM
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They're neurotic as fuck and highly irrational because of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:09 PM
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Those aren't "tactics", so what hell are you even rambling about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:06 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:04 PM
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Corn? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:02 PM
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Sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:41 AM
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Using my PPD logic, we know that Chad has all the casual sex. We also know that like 60% of women do not orgasm from casual sex Therefore, Chad types mostly suck in bed...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:40 AM
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Sounds like a shitty way to go about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:17 AM
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Uh ok...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:31 PM
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Most of them are pretty neurotic so they can't help themselves. The anxiety of it all eats away at them, or something...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:08 PM
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If they're not in high school, it won't ever come up unless the virgin steers the convo that way, which of course, they like to do...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:04 PM
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Tough to tell, they're very dramatic though...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:52 PM
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Detox from all the hate you're consuming would be a good start...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:01 PM
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Why not change?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:53 PM
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Well several people on here lament that good looking dudes are in often relationships with mid looking women So regardless of what anyone believes these women's "league" is, it clearly works out for them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:49 PM
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Women wouldn't have to care at all for men to have plenty of support if other men even gave a little bit of a shit about it. But we don't and that's on us, not women...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:44 PM
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Sounds exhausting to carry such malice and a poor use of energy, but you do you...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:38 PM
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Because the vast majority of support for women, comes from other women. There's no support for men because other men don't care Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:37 PM
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Because men, in general, don't give a fuck about other men...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:30 PM
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They put you in your place because they know you're weak and will just take it...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:06 PM
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It's pretty bad I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:39 PM
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I knew the French were cuck inclined, but they went full in and legislated that shit....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:35 PM
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Good call. I've had the thing for years, so maybe there's a better brand out now, or something cool I don't even know about yet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:33 PM
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Damn, my instantpot is acting up, so I was going to get a new one, but guess I'll look elsewhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:29 PM
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Hello
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:27 PM
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Yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:30 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:16 PM
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4 month vacation? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:14 PM
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Like the dudes here have gf's....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:13 PM
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You believe the people with more autonomy to do what they want with their bodies have less privilege than those who do not? And that the government hates men by allowing such freedoms for them? Not sure what circlejerk you've been down in to reach that conclusion, but it's time to come up for some air...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:46 PM
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Men aren't forced to give sperm and are able to actually profit on it. Women don't get that sperm for free and would not be able to profit from surrogacy. Not being able to profit from your own body is not a privilege...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:30 PM
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I think you got that backwards...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:20 PM
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Im the exact opposite in that the music takes me away from the moment and causes my mind to wander
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:40 PM
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I guess, it's just distracting for me. I know my cadence and how to adjust to hers in any given moment, no need for outside influence...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:36 PM
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Get with ugly chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:31 PM
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Ain't no music except what we're making in the bed...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:29 PM
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At least y'all are starting to admit you're low tier...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:02 PM
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No, it's still a red flag, even your example you describe a guy who's socially anxious and doesn't open up to people, that's a red flag for anyone looking for a healthy relationship Doesn't mean he's a bad dude, just that he would very likely suck at a relationship due to his issues. This also applies to adults, past college age, who live with their parents, single mothers, people with BPD. They could all be "great" people and shitty partners Opening up a prospective "pool" of people to include …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah, and it seems like way too much effort for a Saturday to try and split the hairs you're trying to split...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:36 PM
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The Smithsonian disagrees, but sure thing random reddit guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:21 PM
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So she didn't make Wifi, she just helped make it possible... ok, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:08 PM
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The extreme sides, who keep aligning more and more, just for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:04 PM
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They're trying more and more to change that horseshoe into a circle...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:03 PM
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Haha, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:00 PM
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Nah, but I think there was a correlation between Vegan and being anti-vax, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:55 PM
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Covid killed a bunch of them off, the rest are probably too tired/sickly to keep up the rhetoric...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:53 PM
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Are you arguing math, or are you arguing about something not so concrete? Just because you believe what you're saying is as definitive as 2+2=4, the reactions you're getting says it probably something subjective that you're trying to say is the truth...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:39 PM
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The "truth" You probably want others to recognize and see your truth, because there is no objective truth to what you're arguing (deep down you know this) and them accepting your truth would validate it and validate your belief you're right. That's my take based on absolutely nothing. It's probably right tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:24 PM
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Damn, I'm topped out in my pay scale. Time to start looking for a promotion...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:01 PM
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Didn't know it was all pretend, it's pretty indistinguishable from the source material Kudos for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:24 PM
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Well, you said "men" not RPR, so... But fair enough, thanks for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:17 PM
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Don't speak for men, please, it's fucking embarrassing...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:14 PM
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Not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:16 PM
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Any version of "its over", that crops up on here in some form every damn day....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:12 PM
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Depends on what kind of physique he had to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:56 PM
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They would react poorly... very poorly. Like 2012 being on a bus in India, poorly... The women would be justified though, you can't negotiate attraction after all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:19 PM
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Pretty selfish, but easily remedied
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:54 PM
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"Nice guys" have to do with how the guy responds to rejection in either scenario. The scenarios themselves, or getting rejected, doesn't make someone a "nice guy. Ultimately, It's not a defense mechanism, just an observation...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:52 PM
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Out there ruining lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:02 PM
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A family structure that creates "herbivore men" ain't that tough Bunch of mamma's boys too, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:49 PM
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Some day, when you're all grown up and not grossed out by icky girls, you'll see how that shit ain't that important...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:20 PM
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Impeccable editing to say the least...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:57 PM
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Sounds hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:54 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:50 PM
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6k, dude better have gotten laid. Multiple times. If not, they should still leave them for being such a sucker...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:27 PM
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She should be making you feel that way about everything she's doing in that context, or she ain't the one...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:51 PM
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If it's between overweight with a nice booty vs skinny and no booty... guess we're living large today
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:45 PM
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No ass, no care...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:37 PM
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The USAF already hooked me up with that one, so I'm good to go...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:34 PM
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Just a question, because how else would you even know the motivation of the men who give those women attention? But to be honest, regardless of the why, my point still stands. It works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:41 PM
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Just a dude who is actually operating in the real world and understands how it works. The actual attention those women get speaks for itself...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:35 PM
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You speaking from experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:29 PM
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Or They're just into a big chick with a big rack "The simplest explanation" and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:28 PM
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No choice but to comment lewd shit on their pictures? No choice but to give them attention over their slimmer, flatter counterparts at the bar? Definitely leans more towards preference than desperation...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:20 PM
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It works tho... dudes dig big chicks with big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:16 PM
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I'm flattered, but I'm not gay, sorry bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:29 PM
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You're telling this to group of guys who are significantly underdeveloped socially and extremely prone to black/white thinking They just cannot understand the nuance you speak of, only be a dick, or be a doormat...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:57 PM
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Can't leave the door open. We'll walk in everytime...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:54 PM
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Nah, I think most are content overall, just bits and pieces are not ideal...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:36 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:01 PM
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You really like her and you hope it works out doesn't sound like you're spinning plates here...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:49 PM
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That doesn't sound like plate spinning behavior...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:40 PM
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Assuming most of your other traits are average and even a few are below average, you will get laid and find a chick We know this to be true based on the fact the vast majority of men are getting laid and have relationships with women throughout their lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:30 PM
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I have no doubt you believe that, but you're quite simply wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:31 PM
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Ugly no, I said ugly will struggle, though can you truly be ugly with those traits? I doubt that...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:12 PM
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All those women find that dude attractive, but I guarantee they're most attracted to different qualities (eyes, smile, hair, jawline, etc) that he has. In a really attractive person it's irrelevant, but for us regular folks it matters and that's where "taste" comes into play If a chick loves a jawline you can have an atypical nose, and she won't care. If she loves eyes, then that weak chin isn't a huge issue, etc. A lot of y'all operate believing that you have to have a lot of those traits to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:00 PM
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A lot of guys on here have one half of an argument with a woman running through their heads and are desperately looking for a surrogate to be the other half. It's the PPD way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:36 PM
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It is on them, they could have simply decided to not engage with you. They apparently didn't have the capacity to do that either though...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:01 PM
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Yeah, that's the best way to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:52 PM
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A tenet of red pill to basically always be in control of a situation with a woman in a calm collected manner. Getting into petty arguments with women on the internet is the opposite of holding frame...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:49 PM
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A couple of alleged red pills arguing about dumb shit with women. Way to hold frame fellas...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:44 PM
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I mean, the delivery is harsh, though the context revolves around her rejecting him first based on just his looks or some shallow shit like that, but his logic is sound. Fool me once and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:13 PM
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Y'all need to quit giving attention to trash women... damn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:57 PM
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That's a very niche group
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:58 PM
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Below average* Y'all need to stop describing these situations where clearly the dude is significantly unattractive and then attaching "average" to it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:14 PM
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Well time to retire and go boomer it up in the old folks home...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:48 PM
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Are you saying you're doing this, or someone else is doing this and you want to be like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:09 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:16 PM
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So people that run and/or lift weights are sedentary now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:51 PM
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Damn, another metric for y'all to be below average on while claiming to just be a regular guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:49 PM
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Uh oh, you're bringing logic into it... that's not good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:00 PM
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They understand, but that circle ain't gonna jerk itself...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:43 PM
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It happens
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:08 AM
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The hell does that have to do with knowing if a chick is funky without banging her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:32 AM
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Guess I'll stick to cherishing and riding off into the sunset with a low value woman then...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:09 AM
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Did you make a move before she says that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:42 AM
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It's not that serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:40 AM
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Doesn't take sex to figure that one out, come on bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:11 AM
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Nah, lean muscle is the way to be. Some pill dudes, who actually do the shit, not just talk about it, overdo it because it's the easiest way to get attention (good or bad) which feels good to them since they've basically been invisible their whole life. But lean muscle (swimmer, surfer, Fight Club Brad Pitt example gets used a lot) has always been the standard The muscle bros get praised, sure, but by other dudes, not women, which is the first indication that it isn't red pill, which is solely f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:04 AM
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Basically the same thing, maybe a little more bulk on the swimmer...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:53 AM
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I believe the swimmer's physique is close to the ideal...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:43 AM
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You don't like fit confident dudes who feel little need to conform to the standards of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:28 AM
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Yeah, but loser men are trying to convince you of this, right? Or are the men telling you this people you personally would consider high value? I ask because the behavior you describe doesn't sound very valuable, or would come from someone who has a high value. If I have a high value item, why do I need to go around trying to convince people to buy it by making promises and what not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:37 PM
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So middle class adult that goes to the gym and is mentally sound is high value? And it's a flex to get these guys to want to "commit" without sex? What does this "commitment" entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:27 PM
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What makes them "high value"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:18 PM
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So you get angry and it's all about who is or is not getting fucked? She could have crossed because she thought you could mug her, or murder her, but you went right to sex. Again, she might have been right to cross...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:15 PM
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I mean you evaluated her as a rape candidate so maybe she was right to cross...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:12 PM
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Eating lunch with a person is a waste of time now? You gotta eat regardless...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:34 PM
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Should have just ate lunch with her and friend zoned her...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:15 PM
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When an argument gets heated, I start upvoting the person I'm going up against, so they think someone out there has their back. Gotta keep the fire going...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:39 PM
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Big mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:27 PM
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All this shit is about a woman, it's dumb to barge in all belligerent with a "men" statement Doubling down on it, doesn't change that...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:25 PM
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The post was about a woman, lilly says the woman being talked about is as dumb as the paternity nonsense You come in with "men hate it when..." We're talking about a woman here, the fuck that gotta do with "men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:23 PM
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Yeah but the statement about men is dumb in this context, because, you know, it's talking about a woman on some dumb shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:10 PM
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So you didn't actually watch the video...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:53 PM
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Well, it sounds like today is the day to change that. Time to get out there...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:03 PM
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It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prize Sure in western society it's clear that women are the prize but it's not true in all societies Sounds like you're almost on the same page yourself. Western society is really all that matters within the context of red pill / blue pill. This shit didn't start in India, or the Middle East or Central Africa or China for a reason. Those other societies have little relevance to the topics at hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:45 PM
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They were raised in a commune or a cult somewhere? Honestly I don't think any good looking dude (according to women, not his boys, or some rate me reddit) who makes decent money and is fun to be around is struggling with women. I'd have to see several instances of this to believe it's even possible on a level worth considering... Dudes here get zero attention from women, so they're likely not good looking, are constantly threatening the collapse of society/dropping out of society, so likely don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:04 PM
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Because barring some sort of exceptional circumstance that doesn't pertain to the population at large, that simply does not happen at any sort of significant rate... especially in the modern era
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 PM
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Below average works better in the context of the "average man" thrown around here Do I think a good looking dude with a good job and a decent personality can end up unsuccessful with friends and women? No, I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:08 PM
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They have a few friends sure and I guarantee they're 99.9% other men...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:35 PM
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You can gauge they're below average from the lack of friends, relationships and sexual partners based on their ages...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:31 PM
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Of course, everyone does, but they say men ONLY care about looks and will treat a woman like actual garbage if she isn't pretty Meanwhile, women are more nuanced creatures looking for depth in a partner, it's just all men are lacking blah blah blah Just gender flip the general blackpill narrative and you've arrived at pink pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:27 PM
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It's black pill but men only care about looks instead of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:20 PM
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All of the above But mostly below average in terms of results whether that's social circle, relationships, sexual partners, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:18 PM
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Throw up blue then, you'll fit right in Also add pink to that list, for the same reason as black
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:16 PM
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They come up and start a conversation with you because they find you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:13 PM
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It is insulting, good word choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:12 PM
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If you're hot, women will approach...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:09 PM
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Blackpill is in a flat earth level of delusion over how men and women interact with one and other and bluepill will not concede that anything of significance could be wrong with women as a group. It's pointless to engage either beyond getting some lols out of watching them double down on stupid...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:08 PM
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If you're as hot as you claim, women would approach you...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:02 PM
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If it says black or blue in their flair, you can be sure they're not here a for debate, just to proselytize their beliefs...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:00 PM
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Just rare to see this occur...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:56 PM
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How is that even possible if you're so attractive? You're hurting the blackpill narrative if that's the case...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:55 PM
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This is a pretty common rad fem talking point Horseshoe effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:53 PM
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Nah, it's my conclusion based on what y'all say about your shit lives vs most stats floating around out there surrounding dating and getting laid... So unless y'all are lying then most, if not all, are below average...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:52 PM
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So you're siding with feminists that deception is necessary because men are violent and will harm women when angered? Crazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:48 PM
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You know, for a former male model who hasn't aged much past their 20's and has 10% body fat or whatever, you post like you haven't been laid in years...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:45 PM
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This entire sub is men saying *below average men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:40 PM
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male nature has more constraints on it now then ever before in history. A rudimentary grasp of history proves this pretty easily false, but sure, use it as a foundational part of your rant... what could go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:37 PM
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Calm down tryhard, it's not a comeback...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:20 AM
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Most relationships generally don't work long term, so that's a weird way to start it off. I wouldn't look to date, or not date someone based on that factor, but I don't think it's a big deal to exclude for that if you're not comfortable with the idea...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:26 AM
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It's annoying, like get it together woman, but that level of reckless abandon can correlate to more energy in the sack, so it's not a dealbreaker...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:00 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:52 PM
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How much is this going to raise my taxes? I'm all for it on an individual level, especially if it's important to you, but most people don't care, so why create the program?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:51 PM
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Covering up a weakness is not an advantage as the weakness is still there...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:16 PM
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Not being unimpressive would be an advantage...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:21 PM
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God, it must suck to be so unimpressive of a person you gotta hope you can fool a chick long enough to get with her. But it is what it is I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:14 PM
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It's weird that you, a 40yro man, are in situations where not one, not two, but several times unsupervised minors have allegedly made sexual advances on you. Then you made note of it, and felt compelled to tell everyone, and double down on the creepo factor Walks like a duck, quacks like a duck...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:08 PM
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Former coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:59 PM
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She said one middle schooler, not several, and she didn't it frame it as having a nearly 100% hit rate of unsupervised (fucking weird distinction) children coming on to her...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:59 PM
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She's not 40 talking about how much middle schoolers want her...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:53 PM
1

Bro, delete this...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:48 PM
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Haha, orbiter it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:46 PM
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So you advocate to be quiet and hope she notices you one day? Y'all love running that orbiter game...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:42 PM
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Results say otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:36 PM
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How the hell would a woman ever know unless you were stupid enough to broadcast it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:34 PM
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Not flexible enough if you're alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:32 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:37 PM
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Part of it, is that the alt right is pandering to young men and it's working to some degree. The other part is that it's natural to rebel against the system, when that system was conservative young men went liberal, now the system is liberal so they go conservative I wouldnt put too much stock in it, they ain't voting either way...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:37 PM
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I think the rising amounts of depression and anxiety in women, coupled with the fact they're just more neurotic in general, shows that despite what they're posting or trying to convince others, they don't like what they see in the mirror as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:22 PM
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Tell that to those pink pill broads and Lilith, not my fault y'all post more dumb shit by volume. Oh and drop that red flair, you're too far gone...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:22 PM
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I have a study, showing men in general, he has nothing showing fat men don't follow the trend "It's a toss up" Haha, again I expect that from people like you, but honestly not from red flairs, though he has black in there as well, so that was my bad for not realizing what that meant...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:34 PM
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I expect that sort of feminine explaining away of a study, with absolutely nothing to back it up, from a blackpiller, but he had red and black in the flair so I thought he'd give me more than what he and you just did Too much to hope for though...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:05 PM
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Not mad, just disappointed that you argue like a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:26 PM
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Y'all are worse than cult members when it comes to accepting your narrative might be wrong, at least they'll admit they might not know what they're talking about and place their faith in someone they believe does. Y'all just nitpick and offer nothing in return except "trust me bro" anecdotes... So my shit says men, which includes fat men, rate themselves higher than women rate themselves. You disagree, cool, what do YOU have that says fat men fall significantly out of line with men in general wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:54 PM
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Men in general think they're more attractive when they self rate themselves Therefore it's a pretty easy path to follow that a fat man will rate himself higher than a fat woman would rate herself... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think. Here's an article talking about it Here's the study itself (pdf) https://liberalarts.oregonstate.edu/sites/liberalarts.oregonstate.edu/files/psychology/research/sim_saperia_brown_bernieri_2015_coge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:32 PM
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Nah, I think there's actual studies that men, to include fat men, have a higher opinion of themselves than women have of themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:35 PM
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A good person sure, but she really can't be a good partner, that's delusion. That level of trauma irrevocably changes someone and not for the better, so honestly, there will always be far better options for the vast majority of men. She could be suitable for some guy who is also so undesirable that he has very limited options, but that's a far cry from being a "good" partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:12 PM
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Worse is irrelevant, they're both firmly in the threshold of "bad partner", which is all anyone looking for one would care about. If you want to take solace in men being the worst of the two horrible options... go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:41 PM
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Ok pre-birth control. Now, what evidence is there that women were easily finding loving husbands? I'm just trying to figure out how you're gaining this profound insight into marriages that occurred decades before you even existed...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:38 PM
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What old times had women easily finding a loving husband again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:31 PM
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It's precisely that survival shit and the trauma surrounding EVERY woman who sells her body, that translates to a poor partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:44 PM
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Agreed, likewise any prostitute would not be a good wife...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:20 PM
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Just outlaw all pointy objects...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:17 PM
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Lots of people hunt with a crossbow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:08 PM
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Some for sure, yes. Like those fat chicks that are so quick to cut a man down over trivial shit, like height, she absolutely hates herself...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:06 AM
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Nah, they're angry with themselves, they just project it onto easy targets like fat women...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:57 AM
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Those guys exist, but they don't have to time or energy to have a decent relationship in their 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:07 PM
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Possibly, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:18 AM
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Imagine being underprivileged AND oppressed, yet still letting opportunities like that just pass you by...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:18 AM
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My chick is like that. She periodically asks that and/or, if I still want to live with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:16 AM
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Cool, quirky is always fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:12 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:09 AM
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Yeah I agree, don't put anything on hold for some chick...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:44 PM
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Meh, "emotional labor" is some chick shit they say to reverse engineer why they don't want to have sex with their fat bf. In reality, it's not "labor" to say that sucks and listen to someone vent...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:43 PM
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It's a pretty low investment that has a (small) chance of paying off, so it's not really that hard to see why a dude would stick around...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:05 PM
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It wouldn't have been advice, just a heads up that his ugliness is likely what's holding him back. Done tactfully and with a little compassion, it probably would have helped him far more than any advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:22 AM
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Did you let him know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:15 AM
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Yeah, but people can pick up on self deprecating shit like having very low standards and needing women who desperate and it's just not a winning quality for most people No chick wants a dude who has low standards, for obvious reasons, so you gotta get them standards up, or at least present like they're up...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:06 PM
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Wash the desperation off yourself and start raising them...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:49 PM
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Yeah, she ain't the one dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:08 AM
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Dude my flair is redpill not bl@ck pill Still funny considering the meme status of "personality" in both red and blackpill circles aka the manosphere I said if you are not WILLING to cheat there is a good chance that you will have a subpar once a week sex life. This makes no sense, you don't have to be willing to cheat, you just have to be willing to leave the relationship and you accomplish the exact same thing WITHOUT being a complete peice of shit. Crazy right? Y'all always trying to weasel i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:58 PM
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This is such a weird "outside looking in" take on relationship dynamics. First, you want guys who aren't assertive to suddenly become so and start behaving in a completely different manner. This is essentially parroting the blue pill "work on your personality" narrative, which is funny given the flair Second, you seem to believe that if you don't cheat you'll end up in a dead bedroom based on "trust me bro" levels of ignorance about how relationships, especially ltr ones (to include marriage), a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:18 PM
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Not sheltered, just young
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:23 PM
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Knew that shit would be nice...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:10 PM
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Spongbob painter chick or the cow user name chick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:18 PM
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You can believe that looks are predominantly all that matters without all that crybaby doomer shit that gets mixed in and called blackpill That "it's over" mindset isn't blackpill, it's just loser shit they've always had...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:58 PM
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Sure, but I'd argue they had a loser mindset before being blackpill and they're using the blackpill to justify being a loser. They haven't really changed their mentality at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:01 PM
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A lot of blackpillers were losers before and remain losers after, that's why. If you're blackpilled and successful with women, no one is really calling you a loser...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:54 PM
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Yes, but I see how I worded that all fucked up, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:16 PM
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This place is full of above average bitter/petty people, the downvotes could be coming from anywhere Edit: that is to say the level of bitterness and or pettiness coming from the person is above average,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:12 PM
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If the end goal is doing something I love, build. If the end goal is money, buy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:53 PM
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Just girly things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:51 PM
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First, likes do not equal getting laid Second, attractive people do ok no matter what age Regular looking old chicks aren't getting a lot of interest, you keep trying to make it work, but it doesn't. No one is paying thousands of dollars to hook up overseas when there's plenty of options in their home country, they just aren't...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:35 PM
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That's a fantasy land where somehow magically "likes" and talk equates to actual dates and hookups. Not to mention, all of it is carefully edited to maximize rage, you have to realize that? In reality, there aren't a lot of young men who would actually follow through, hence going overseas..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:02 PM
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Because they, in fact, cannot download Tinder and get hundreds of young men chasing them. It's weird to think that's the case...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:43 PM
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When in doubt, whip it out...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:13 AM
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So have a couple beers first. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:35 AM
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Why not just be fun and intellectual?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:28 AM
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Interesting, I dated a chick similar to that, where she wouldn't really say much and then would say she had a great time and we'd do it all over again I never stuck with it long enough to see if she eventually opened up more tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:15 PM
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Gay dude and it's not even close...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:09 PM
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It can, but proper positioning keeps that from occurring
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:49 AM
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I assume it's how they act due to the tantrums they throw on here over trivial shit like bears...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:45 PM
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Wrap your head around this if you can. There are multiple groups of women saying different things. The ones saying muscles aren't hot and all that, aren't the ones giving you attention when you start juicing...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:39 PM
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That's everywhere in Europe. I didn't say move there, just road trip and get laid. It is a well known place to go for black dudes stationed in Northern Italy looking for an easy lay...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:03 PM
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Oh yeah? Why's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:48 PM
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Road trip to Slovenia
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:30 PM
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Validation incoming...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 12:27 PM
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Yeah, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:09 AM
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Always trying to be awesome. The rest just falls in line...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:53 AM
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How, in 2024, you can forget someone's birthday is insane to me. Put it in your phone calendar next time, fucking hell...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:58 AM
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You get banned or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:54 AM
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She advocates for men at women's expense?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:39 PM
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Ok, cool For the vent: Fuck those bitches, they're probably just mad their miserable lives suck For the actual answer: I dunno. Fuck those bitches...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:01 PM
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Are you venting, or looking for an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:56 PM
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Outdoor is preferable, but indoor can be decent if it's not like the blacklight glow ball shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:45 PM
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Mini golf?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:42 PM
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What's the weather like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:36 PM
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Noted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:43 PM
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Ah yes, the ol self fulfilling prophecy guy, a welcomed staple of PPD...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:26 PM
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Haha, yeah that's not real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:54 PM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:29 PM
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Yeah, definitely Thanks for reinforcing my point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:19 PM
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Must have a booty and not just at certain angles and positions... I know how y'all try to fake it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:10 PM
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If your gf is the type to cheat the second she can, you should learn to choose better women. If you believe this holds true for all women, you're no better than the women who choose the bear...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:07 PM
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If I had to guess, something about your body language/behavior and your boyfriend's checks off the right boxes for those dudes to think there's a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:09 PM
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No, this is clearly a rebranding attempt to distance themselves from their well known negative image of being a haven for pedos...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:26 PM
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Hopefully they both run. Most of y'all's "insecurities" require controlling a woman to mitigate which is simply unacceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:08 PM
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I mean they have a point. Look at all these dudes losing their shit because some random chicks didn't pick them in a hypothetical situation... It's fucking weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:21 PM
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High pitch woman and it's not even close...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:10 PM
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I'm going to ignore the extremely weird fact you're not including women (who you view as risk averse) as humans despite being over 50% of the population, as that's too easy. The fact we've gone to such lengths to ensure we don't have to live in a act or die environment, often at the sacrifice of individual freedoms, shows we, in general, don't want to take risks...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:06 PM
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Women being more risk adverse on average than men doesn't mean humans in general aren't risk adverse...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:26 PM
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Don't be ignorant, the vast majority of men on here are extremely risk averse. They won't even talk to a woman because of some .0001% chance they get so offended they file false rape charges or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:21 PM
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Me either, but I'm tempted to start reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:42 PM
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A really good book written in China, from what I gathered
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:40 PM
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It's good. So good I might read the book so I don't have to wait for the next season if/when that occurs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 PM
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Oppression? Fuck y'all get real out there with the framing of your lives real quick...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:00 PM
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It highlights the ignorance of the women taking this hypothetical too literally and men not understanding where the sentiment is coming from...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:52 PM
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Nope, I'm against people ditching out on their children though...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:18 PM
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They need to find a reason to tell people why they never tried to date women...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:38 PM
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The little kids want to be cool like the big boys...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:32 PM
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Guess I'll add deranged to that take as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:12 PM
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Me: "Men need to accountable for the kids they father" You: "You sadist!" Haha. Ok....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:06 PM
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Yes, some fringe, statistically irrelevant, situation is now somehow a crucial reason why men shouldn't be held accountable Disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:57 PM
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Yes I don't need to rationalize it, you either accept it and have unprotected sex with women, or you don't. That is the gambit that men have 100% choice over deciding and willingly choose to accept it. Now we need to find a way to force them to be accountable for their choices...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:22 PM
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They're your kids, you gotta run the crucible so they have the best chance at success, so be it. That's what being a parent and being accountable is about...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:14 PM
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To help raise the child by being there. The lack of a father is what is creating these problems, not a lack of financial support...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:12 PM
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Right, the lack of accountability from men is creating this problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:01 PM
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Still get 50/50 custody, men win most cases when they fight for joint custody
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:59 PM
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Well then I guess society is fucked until we figure out how to force men to be accountable... Shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:53 PM
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Nope, some have the option to not be. This disparity is well known and agreed upon. If it's not, than the man needs to simply not fuck that chick...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:41 PM
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So you're part of the problem. Good to know...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:39 PM
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They don't have to pay child support if it's 50/50 and this is about not having children raised by only one parent. All the child support in the world doesn't make up for no dad around... They need to quit abandoning their kids full stop
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:38 PM
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They agreed to those terms. You want to change that? Go for it, but until it's changed, they need to stop abandoning their responsibilities...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:31 PM
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They agree to these terms prior and sign it with their ejaculate...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:29 PM
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There is full equality in every aspect up to the man blowing his load. By doing that he gave implied consent to forfeit his equality... He fucking gave it away willingly, so guess what? Time to be a responsible adult...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:19 PM
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It's 2024, we all know that shit isn't 100% and yet they all willingly consented to roll the dice, so they need to raise that baby. That's like saying you shouldn't have lost your money at the craps table because you didn't understand the odds or because you didn't want to lose...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:14 PM
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They are accountable, they're raising the fucking kid. It's the man who isn't being held to account here...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:11 PM
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Men have the unilateral ability to not blow their load in a chick they don't want to have kids with. They 100% willingly choose to roll the dice, so there is zero reason they shouldn't have to deal with consequences. Your proposal doesn't alleviate the problem at all, so it's pointless. They are fucking up society and something should be done about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:08 PM
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It doesn't matter, they definitely consented to nutting in the chick, so that's no excuse to dodge the consequences...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:58 PM
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I never listed my height on Tinder and none of my dates ever asked... it's a largely overblown issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:15 PM
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Option 3: Fathers abandoning their kids is fucking society over...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:54 PM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:05 AM
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Oh... no, I'm not wearing that, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:54 PM
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I have a pair of Ranger panties I run in during the summer, but I don't if I'm just going out and hitting the town with em...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:42 PM
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So there ya go. You don't want them, they don't want you, life goes on...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:38 PM
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Haha, no it is not There is nothing logical about the repetitive behaviors often associated with it, or the communication problems...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:35 PM
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Autism does not equate to having logic, nor have I seen any stats showing autistic people are more productive or industrious. Plus there's the fact it develops long before anything like desirability is a factor in life. Besides, being desirable is very subjective, as we see how much it varies from culture to culture and even region to region.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:22 PM
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So you want to date these men knowing they have problematic views on women? Oof...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:16 PM
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How? Being undesirable means you wouldn't develop anything, those genes would just die out due to that undesirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:14 PM
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They evolved to become undesirable, unable to get laid, and subsequently unable to pass along those advantageous genes? Bold strategy...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:09 PM
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This sounds like when short guys complain about women with height requirements, right down to the critique of those making the comment... Why are you worried that some nerdy ugly guy won't date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:06 PM
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And it works, so why would they change?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:45 PM
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I workout for my health
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:36 PM
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Kids are just as capable of being loud, obnoxious, and dirty, so you obviously have no idea what you're talking about. Further more its by design that you don't want to go there. They don't want you as a patron and this is a simple way to weed you out...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:30 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:10 PM
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Looks like a place where people can take their dogs without getting mobbed by kids, but sure, make it about women...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:09 PM
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23k likes is niche when you have people getting millions of likes just for smiling on camera...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:25 PM
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Yeah most dudes, regardless of looks, aren't treating women well...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:20 PM
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Once you understand that looks fade, you start prioritizing other things. Most sensible guys will take less in the looks for more in other areas, understanding what has more long term benefits...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:35 PM
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Maybe you just, in general, find men more attractive than women...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:52 PM
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No, not because of the act, but because of the problematic mindset that led her to do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:37 AM
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Only haters, which you can only have if you're really good anyways, so even then...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:23 AM
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What's your usual time frame of match to going on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:18 PM
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Haha ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:57 PM
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Just not a glutton I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:55 PM
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One and a half maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:53 PM
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It served its purpose successfully (rile up women), so in that regard, mission accomplished. Other than that, just some old loser thinking he is more relevant than he is...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 01:25 AM
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Probably, but in my experience I had all sorts of women enthusiastically trying to step-up and I had to actually vet to make sure I was the main reason they wanted to date me and not my kids. The joy of being a single widowed dad in a sea of incompetent fathers...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:07 PM
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Dang, thought maybe normal guys, would finally have a chance with how many losers there are out there. Seems like things are the same as they've always been for last 40-50 years. Normal boring guys struggling...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:23 PM
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But they are going out with women and dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:14 AM
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There was a 306lbs lineman who ran a 4.71 40 time at the NFL combine in 2013. Plus size people can be athletes...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:27 PM
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I would feel like "cool, guess she won't flip out if/when she finds out I watch it too when the mood strikes me" The rest would be a sort of empathetic understanding...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:11 PM
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I disagree, I've only been disrespected by women a few times in my life and it was going to happen regardless of what I did. Usually, they're quick to, at a minimum, match the level of respect I gave them. But then again I don't have this struggle bus, adversarial relationship with women requiring the score keeping mentality that tracks who gave who what and when, so I'm not attracting (or am attracted to) those types of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:37 PM
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I give every individual I meet a level respect by default and I go from there. I don't think about this shit in terms of who goes first, or what the other person should do, etc, I just do what I do regardless and see if they fuck it up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:19 PM
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Nicely done
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:27 PM
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Haha, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:21 PM
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Haha, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:20 PM
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Naivety and ignorance is a dangerous combo. You'll be hard pressed to find ANY professional athlete that isn't putting the game before a relationship. That mindset is what got them to the professional level...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:19 PM
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You have a thing for more than a couple professional athletes? You think they're any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:04 PM
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So she not only perceived an instructor as more successful and having more status than Tom Brady, she also perceived this guy as better than herself and an upgrade? This is what AWALT and hypergamy looks like these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:04 PM
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There are slogans and organizations set up around the idea that adopting is better than buying from a breeder, so obviously, a significant number of people do, in fact, believe it is that serious. Besides, he was asking what I think about it and I don't think it's that serious whether you get a dog from a shelter, or a breeder...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:58 PM
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But that's just it. By every manosphere metric this guy isn't better than Tom Brady... not even a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:49 PM
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Just noise. Do what you want, they're dogs, not people, it isn't that serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:48 PM
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This whole story goes against so many narratives the manosphere has on what women want/are attracted to, it's fucking hilarious...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:40 PM
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It's more about them seeing themselves that way, but sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:38 PM
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But you appraise that person, and they you, in making the determination to be friends with them No different with a romantic prospect, but suddenly you feel like you have to beg and dance for them, because well... actually, I don't know why you think this is necessary, but for whatever reason you do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:12 PM
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It means we as a society have largely determined who is a man or woman, not biology...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:07 PM
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Being a "woman" has historically always been a social construct tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:02 PM
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Hate to tell you this, but you're being "appraised" in every new social interaction. How do you think friends are formed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:53 PM
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Just say you hate social interaction...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:46 PM
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I agree with the message. Hell, I even like the delivery, but when you drop some shit like that, in that manner, you gotta expect to get banned...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:28 PM
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Perhaps, but I'm guessing a place like that has more than one person who empathizes with the OP, to include many of the mods. Ya hit em in the feels too hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:18 PM
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Probably the clown emoji tbh. I'd wager its a pretty typical feeling for many black women to at least feel frustrated at their plight in the world (being black) at some point...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:10 PM
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You can only get surface level shit because we don't know you, or your actual situation, just the tiny biased sliver you present to someone when describing the situation... So no, this is not a good place for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:57 PM
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Lightly make fun of her and then go about my day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:35 PM
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Yes, they really actually do and it is clear by how they talk and what their dreams and ideals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:31 PM
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Is that happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 PM
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Yeah it looks fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:39 PM
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If it ever goes on Xbox I might give it a spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:36 PM
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Well, you definitely were in that demographic. Congrats on overcoming the weight tho, so now you're just bougie...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:19 PM
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You're one of the chicks on the video? Or you just agree with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:11 PM
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Did you see the women making that claim? They're overweight AND bougie, that's an expensive combo...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:06 PM
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If she's attractive and cool person to be around, of course... Thought the reality is that the woman would likely be unattractive physically and personality wise, due to the laziness and complete lack of ambition that is required to live such a life...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:00 PM
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Tell him to move up to aircraft maintenance and double that pay check with the same security
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:55 PM
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Whatever that feeling is after watching an action movie, where you feel on some subtle level that you could be that badass, even though you know it's all fake and you could not do those things It's that just in a romantic setting. You know it fake, but you latch on the very real feelings you have when interacting and go with that...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:02 PM
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If it was something we talked about in general beforehand, I'm game, but I'm not sure how it would play out in practice...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:26 PM
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Not at this level of popularity...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:42 PM
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Oh shit, I never thought about that. Makes sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:17 PM
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Haha, no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:07 PM
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It's an unfortunate result of a lot of guys being more isolated than ever. The only believable fantasy for them has to happen in the place they never leave (their parents' house) with the only plausible not related women they would know (step family). Everything else just isn't realistic given their situation in life...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:04 PM
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I was confused why I kept getting recommended that boys are quirky sub, but now that I've looked, it makes sense Got those pinkpill/FDS vibes all through it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:57 PM
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If we were married, no probably not, but I would do all I could to get her weight back down Just a girlfriend though, yeah, I'm out...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:28 PM
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100lbs is excessive but 20-30? No problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:23 PM
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Exterminated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:51 AM
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That just results in fewer women choosing to have kids in areas/societies with larger quantities of undesirable men. I think a lot of western cultures have a stagnant or shrinking birthrate tied to the fact so many men there are trash...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:26 PM
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Some guys are, or if you believe the OP, most guys are, but yeah, women largely aren't. Not sure what that has to do with single mothers though...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:16 PM
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Women are changing in an unattractive way, but at the same time guys are still simping over them? Yeah ok. Seems like the guys who don't find them attractive are failing to adapt and being biologically excluded, which is by design and perfectly in line with evolutionary biology...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:43 PM
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I'd tell him. He's already depressed and near death anyways, might as well go out informed...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:15 PM
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Raised that what way, but I never accepted the lesson. I would go toe to toe with anyone if I felt inclined to, I was quite comfortable in conflict (thanks to my mother). My parents did all they could, grounded, privileges revoked, etc, but it didn't matter...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:58 PM
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The shape is cool, so it really comes down to which color looks best with your skin tone. The pink looks super washed out on that model for instance, but it may look good depending on how you look...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:53 PM
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Sure, but the theory is only one aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:09 PM
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I don't know her skill level as a electrician or yours as an engineer, so I couldn't say who knows more on a individual level, but I know both skill sets are different enough that it's not a default case of an engineer knowing more. In any case, it's pretty clear y'all weren't compatible...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:42 PM
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Higher level doesn't equal useful or better. She's an electrician, she probably just wanted to know why electrical systems are built the way they are and how they function, from a practical real-world perspective You were pointing her towards shit that is really only useful at the EE level and isn't necessary to understand electrical systems at a practical level. On top of that you were trying to exude some sort of superiority on the subject, which is just weird. Guess they're an ex for a reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:19 PM
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In what context did she want to learn electrical theory? Career change? To be a better electrician? Just for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:04 PM
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Was she a licensed electrician?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:00 PM
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This professor is a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:48 PM
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This is what I imagine redpill guys were like before they started playing pretend cool guy. Probably a fake story tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:47 PM
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Oh geez... No, there are some pretty universal cultural things in America. There are different regions with cultural differences in all but the tiniest of countries...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:15 PM
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I guess in that context, yeah, that would be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:48 PM
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Desperation makes people do silly things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:38 PM
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Americans have a culture tho... a pretty fucking influential one at that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:37 PM
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A long distance relationship is like a fish in too small a fish tank. At first it's fine, but then their growth gets all stunted and they die prematurely because they never had the room to grow normally. Unfortunate, but it's practically a science at this point, shit doesn't work...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:35 PM
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Yes, nothing would change for the below average perpetual losers often found on here. The average guy would get approached, but it would probably be by the same types of women already lamented on here as undesirable...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:10 PM
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Right and just like a woman's breasts, you can wear clothes that flatter your arms and clothes that hide or obscure them When guys choose to wear the clothes that flatter their physique, they're doing that for attention from women... anything that is "well fitted" falls into that category
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:58 PM
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Haha, nah this isn't debatable. The more conservative the culture, the more simpy the guys are...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:53 PM
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I wrote a couple of sentences, no gymnastics needed, you did all the work for me. You responded the way you did because it's already out there, I'm not blazing any new trails here....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:51 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:41 PM
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Trying to control women because you can't control men, is weak, yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:30 PM
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Yes, a shirt that shows off your arms is an example You could just as easily wear a looser shirt with a longer cut of sleeve. In fact things are called "well fitting" when they accentuate your physique in flattering ways...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:27 PM
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You're a straight man, who's never worn clothes that highlights your physique when you go out? Oh wait, I'm on PPD, nevermind, this makes sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:20 PM
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It's not outlandish. The biggest simps are non- westerners, often from Muslim or Muslim adjacent cultures and its not even a debate...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:15 PM
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I mean well tailored form fitted clothing that accentuates our physique, and of course tight shirts, tight pants and shit like that. That's for women...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 PM
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Wearing clothes is cheating now, because of course it is. We've seen what the modest clothing culture looks like and the type of weak dudes that society cultivates, no thanks. And by your logic, men who dress well in public are also cheating on their partners because that is done primarily to garner attention from women. Fucking ridiculous...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:27 PM
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I moved about 5 miles out of medium sized town (110ish thousand people) in middle school, but I was living in town up until I was 11ish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:54 PM
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Interesting. Likely just a coincidence, but it would be cool if the circumstances promoted us developing in a such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:47 PM
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And he also has swagger?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:35 PM
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I guess I was hugged the perfect amount of times? I grew up a half black kid in an otherwise all white family in a mostly white town, so I knew from the get go I was different. How I took that different to mean I was awesome, I have no idea, but it worked for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:45 PM
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Nah, I've had my "swagger" since I was a kid apparently. It has very little to do with running through women and everything to do with thinking (knowing) you're fucking awesome and proceeding through life accordingly. It works because everyone (men and women) is receptive to confidence demonstrated through action and demeanor...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:28 PM
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Not RP sexualizing their own hypothetical daughters...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:34 PM
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And all I'm saying is 99% of men crying how lonely they are aren't suddenly, or ever, going to take any violent actionable steps to correct their sad plight and society can shoulder the burden of the 1% that do...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:51 PM
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They won't lose access, all trends point to greater, more sophisticated access, not less. But even if they did, they'll probably just kill themselves before they had the balls to hurt someone else, I've seen that threat on here more than a few times...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:37 PM
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Haha, first off, the vast majority of school shooting aren't lonely dudes who have nothing to lose, but let's say ALL of them were. There were 38 last year that actually hurt someone That's the uprising? Out of all the millions of lonely men, 38 did something? And that's down from 55 the year prior? Guess the rest were about to, but that new game dropped and they forgot No threat...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:34 PM
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They live for video games and beating off and they're lazy, so again, zero fucking threat If what you said was true this crybaby loneliness epidemic would be less wojak memes and online blubbering and more actual "dangerous" stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:35 PM
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No they won't, especially since they voluntarily emasculated themselves. Weak lazy people aren't a threat...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:46 PM
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Cats are feminine now? What the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:32 PM
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You posted it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:11 PM
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Things you say so other people will die for your cause. But realistically, if you believed a group (who lives all around you) of deranged, violent, evil people hated you for existing, you wouldn't needlessly antagonize them over the internet. It would be too high stakes for such nonsense...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:03 PM
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It's too late, the seed has already been planted...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:48 PM
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Dead bedroom incoming...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:44 PM
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If I really believe a group of people hated me that deeply. A group that is known for unhinged acts of violence as claimed by many posting similar things. I wouldn't be intentionally antagonizing that group, especially with these "look at me" antics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:33 PM
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I wish anyone who actually believes this would act accordingly...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:28 PM
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Calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:27 PM
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All this crying and handwringing over false accusations made against men posted on here regularly, but sure, AI won't affect men....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:21 PM
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So ugly guys can date attractive women? From what the sweaties here claim, that's simply not possible...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:56 PM
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Probably more than a few around here...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:08 PM
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I've heard that before, but I'm pretty sure it just a play on the statistical average number of kids in a family at some ideal time in America
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:12 PM
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Just an expression based on a numbers breakdown of the "average American family"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:52 PM
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Can I just be me, but unable to get laid? Or do I have to be mentally and emotionally deficient as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:30 PM
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I would now, but I've already done the married young, white picket fence, 2.5 kids thing, so I'm down for just about anything at this point In my 20's though, nah, there were plenty of better options out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:27 PM
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Men would need to police each other's behavior just to get on the same level as where women are now, so how does them creating an even larger gap help anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:29 PM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:17 PM
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Doesn't have to, my statement still stands. Women don't need to police other women, like men need to, because women aren't men...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:14 PM
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The Red Pill and the manosphere in general repeatably state that men and women aren't the same and should not be treated the same becauseof that. So why would there need to consistency here all of a sudden?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:10 PM
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Most men, haha...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:54 PM
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Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:44 PM
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It looks cool, but I wouldn't think that person is single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:14 PM
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I see that and immediately think a relationship is falling apart Looks cool though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:05 PM
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As it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:02 PM
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Fear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:45 PM
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When I hopped back on the dating scene at 37/38, that's what I did, but I didn't want more kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:58 PM
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Impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:08 PM
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That's good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:42 PM
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Nice, now you gotta make those (wonderful days) a regular thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:34 PM
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Fucking hell
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:32 PM
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Holy shit. 7 eggs and toast ham and yogurt? Fuuuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:26 PM
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To eat, every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:25 PM
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8000? That sounds difficult to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:22 PM
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And here I am, also a man, feeling like being a man is fucking awesome. You want the spotlight, you take it, you want to be invisible, not a problem. You're free to do whatever you want and be whoever you want without someone doting over you or worrying about you like they do with women. The game being "rigged against you" just makes the victories all the sweeter...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:13 PM
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It's just a sport's popularity attracting a larger spectrum of people. Those super intellectual types are fans of football, basketball etc as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:04 PM
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Get some sort of filtration system and a test kit to verify its working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:51 PM
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I've had hex clad skillet for about 8 months that that sees heavy usage. It's holding up pretty good, but I'm beginning to notice some wear. It's up by the rim, not really on the cooking surface though, which is weird...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:16 PM
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Holding hands isn't cheating...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:09 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:05 PM
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Yeah, he really told on himself with that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:03 PM
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Does this mean you're out there trying to date somebody?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:46 PM
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Haha, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:45 PM
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I'm sure it can, but the bear is bigger, stronger, more durable, has better endurance AND is a better fighter when it comes to big vs big...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:41 PM
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Male vs male the bear has what, at least a couple hundred pounds on the cat? They're made to fight big shit like other bears, which requires good endurance and defense, while a tiger is built to ambush, so agility and speed I'm sure they can pick off females and growing bears, but fully grown adult male vs adult male, good luck...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:31 PM
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Probably the same way they get out of the much stronger headlocks they put each other when in fighting. Have you even seen the level of violence and power of two bears fighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:21 PM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:02 PM
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Grizzly bear wins 7 times outta 10
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah, this is a open relationship thing, not a red vs blue thing, as open relationships are definitely not mainstream...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:24 PM
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Sounds reasonable. Pro tip: STD tests don't always check for herpes, so you may have to specify if you want to check for that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:18 AM
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Fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:59 AM
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I mean, I agree with your friend's assessment, but if you're physically attracted to guys that look like that, they wouldn't be BB for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:56 AM
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Oh, ok. And this is what you're attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:53 AM
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Just trying to picture what a Mormon sad boi looks like...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:49 AM
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Sad like emotional sad, or sad like lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:45 AM
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Yeah, I think he would too, I know I've never looked at woman in such a manner, but you never know around here...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:43 AM
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Yes, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:38 AM
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I agree. Do you think it goes both ways? Will a guy respect a woman knowing she can't replace him? Or rather, to avoid the "she can always find someone" crowd, let's says the guy knows she can't attract anyone equal or better than him, does he still respect her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:31 AM
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Nah, that's like 50...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:53 AM
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I went from procrastination/lazy/go with the flow to knock shit out asap/motivated/make my own path in the span of about 5-6 years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:24 PM
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I don't know that, this is true. I have a pretty reasonable minimum looks threshold, but once that is met, I couldn't care less if a chick is hotter than another, I'm more interested in everything else I feel like a lot of people are like this, but maybe not...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:19 PM
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Isn't that just a mockery of those guys think shit is cool/girls are lame memes? No wonder they can't get a date...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:06 PM
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What's right with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:34 PM
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Safety and stability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:25 PM
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That shit people say on the internet is also commonly believed in the real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:05 PM
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So then your original statement is complete bullshit because most men here are only loyal as their options and therefore most men in real life are the same... So which part are you making up?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:59 PM
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Prostitution does not satisfy the validation/desire needs of a cheater... And according to your logic, they should cheat more. The only reason men don't is because they can't...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:33 PM
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A lot of men here claim men are only as faithful as their options. This is MEN saying this, and they're real people, so that means, according to you, a lot of men also believe this in real life. So knowing that, women shouldn't feel bothered about cheating on a man, because he very likely would cheat on her if he could...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:26 PM
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Does that go both ways and confirm that women are right for treating every man like he's a disposable piece of shit until proven otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:20 PM
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Yeah, men and women have the same proclivity to attach themselves to fucked up characters and those characters are out there. That sociopathic Gone Girl chick had the same affect on some chicks as the Joker did for some dudes for instance...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:25 PM
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How about half the game of thrones chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:02 PM
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Like Claire Underwood from House of Cards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:49 PM
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I've seen plenty of flawed female characters in cinema and t.v. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:45 PM
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Being on that site is a plus for you. It's instant social proof that women desire you...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:22 PM
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The only way would be to stop using these platforms. Sounds like you know what you need to do...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:04 PM
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In the same social circle and became pretty good friends Never really dated before we had kids, just went out, and then had "date nights" at least once a month after we had a kid I was sleeping in her dorm room (military) because some dude broke into her room about 2 weeks before and figured since I'm already here... We'd always get chippy with each other when we were moving to a new place (again, military), but that's about it She passed away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:53 PM
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Redpill isn't religious at all, but you know what is? "Women must submit to men"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:42 PM
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Plenty of blackpillers, before they were silenced, would make claims that unless you're Chad, there's no point in trying. You must have missed it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:40 AM
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Doesn't matter, just stop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:32 AM
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Stop buying shit for someone you've never met...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:30 AM
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Doesn't make it untrue tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:14 AM
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It may be a consideration when deciding to actually pursue a chick, but the reason we are accepting of it, in general, is because the idea of a woman with another woman is not repulsive to us. That's it I don't know if the losers here are a good judge of who is more accepting and positive, but when it comes to having a bisexual partner, it's pretty clear men are more progressive in that regard...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:03 PM
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Maybe, but the foundational reason we're cool with it, isn't that possibility...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:26 PM
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He still said it though and if you've been on PPD for longer than a week you should know context doesn't matter, only how it made you feel. All you've shown here is that people on twitter can be just as easily triggered as the people on here when it comes to men vs women...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:24 PM
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He says he sees ALL men as the catch tho. Shit like that triggers the fuck outta people, this is a pretty expected reaction for social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:09 PM
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And a partner that he raised them with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:57 PM
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Yes, clickbait titles implying arrogance in men towards women will cause such reactions. Don't be as easily manipulated as the commentors...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:56 PM
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If by doing something right, you mean dating neurotic chicks and consistently failing at being in a relationship... sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:13 PM
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So find a mentally unstable chick? No thanks...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:01 PM
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Some animals sure, but my day was not made better when a skunk sprayed my dog, or when rats tried to set up shop in my shed...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:59 PM
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Not really. It's because most men are not at all threatened by the prospect of our chick being with another chick...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:41 PM
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I should have taken today off. Between the weather keeping all the jets on the ground and the fact we have been kicking so much ass lately, there isn't shit for me to do. Good problem to have, but damn this day is gonna drag...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:37 PM
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If you're reliably attracting that type of woman, it's not unreasonable. If you're not able to, than yes, it's unreasonable Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:47 PM
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Just sounds like your dad is anxious/worried about you and, shocker, doesn't know how to express himself. I say this because even if he didn't want to be, he was actually there, and he's at least trying to prevent you from making the same mistakes he did...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:31 PM
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Good so far. All presents bought and on hand, watched about 4 Christmas movies so far, weather has been nice Only one more day of work left and I'm off until the 4th of Jan...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:22 PM
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Ok, get a study to back that up I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:19 PM
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Just about every study shows sexual disfunction in young men on a distinct rise, acknowledges that something we haven't seen before is going on here and that porn is at the center of it. That's coming from the painfully slow scientific realm...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:16 PM
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Doesn't mean the data isn't out there in either case...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:06 PM
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Except there's actually data and correlation backing up these claims...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:38 PM
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It's very unlikely I would. They undoubtedly have major issues and trauma that I want no part of...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:34 PM
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Meh, my ego got me floating above the tallest motherfuckers anyways...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:11 PM
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Nope, next question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:51 PM
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The first one is in the realm of where I'm at now, and my life is significantly less fucked up than my 6'2 co worker that makes less than me, so I think I'll stick with what I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:51 PM
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Is that what you're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:03 PM
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Oh it's not, he's at a minimum a huge momma's boy and that has definitely displayed itself multiple times throughout their relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:46 PM
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Damn, y'all sure know how to pick em...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:29 PM
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The national media (which was very limited by today's standards) and some major cities like NYC sure, but the country at large? It was, "oh that's too bad" for half a second and then back to business as usual. I was 15 at the time and I literally do not remember the day or even the week it happened, which means absolutely nothing significant changed during that time period at a local IRL level in the 200,000 pop town I grew up in. So call bullshit, like that matters, but it's the truth...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:04 PM
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Nah American
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:24 PM
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I don't even remember, but nobody really gave a shit where I was from...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:21 PM
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Notoriously debunked you mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:09 PM
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Y'all keep using "harder" in place of "different" like men and women are the same when it comes to dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:51 PM
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Just doing what's easy and/or not knowing myself sounds legit dreadful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 PM
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Very important, why are you doing something you're not proud of?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:27 PM
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Haha, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:13 PM
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Nah, find somewhere else for them. My hometown has these little homeless people refugee camps that they try to get them in...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:42 PM
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Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:38 PM
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His PhD in feelings, his soft demeanor and the fact he's a passport bro advocate...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:37 PM
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Haha, bro your peers (and probably yourself) think all this shrink/therapy shit is a grift, but this dude, who is in that field, is alright because he's saying what you want to hear? Besides, the guy is clearly betabuxing through life...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:21 PM
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Just another grifter telling the average online loser guy exactly what he wants to hear...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:07 PM
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<image> Fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:29 PM
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They don't, they get all the information...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:13 PM
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I agree, I know plenty of dudes who were getting laid on the regular by random chicks, but still were lonely guys. Once a lot of these sex obsessed dudes were having sex weekly, they would realize there's so much more out there that sex does not fufill....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:37 PM
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No more insane than the value placed on having internet "followers", given how mindless the effort is to follow someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:02 PM
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I think her life unraveled to the point participating in this place wasn't important enough to continue...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:39 AM
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Nah I wouldn't be upset, I'm way better in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:12 PM
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Only the dudes that have struggled greatly, the losers, get red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:01 AM
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Well yeah, nobody wants to be a loser, but it's necessary unfortunately...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:52 AM
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She's already been sentenced to years behind bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:05 PM
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Cool, but again, not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:33 AM
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Baby switch. That was easy. But it's not about that, you obviously don't understand what it means to have principles...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:53 AM
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No, it's about knowing the baby is yours, that's it. Why really strongly believe it's yours, or trust that it's yours, when you easily can know with a higher level of certainty than anything else? It's kind of stupid not to do it unless you just don't really care all that much, which honestly most men don't. It has nothing to do with her, It truly is the principle of it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:33 AM
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Just make your intentions clear the first time the topic of kids/family even comes up and that you want one out of principle and she can either accept that it's not about her or infidelity and be cool with it Or, she can get butthurt, make it all about her, and you dodged a bullet because that immature mindset will undoubtedly infect your entire relationship Win/win
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:50 AM
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There's some country I like, but it's far from my favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:43 PM
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That's not even close to being able to have the absolute knowledge he hasn't cheated and you know it...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:25 PM
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Same shit it always was
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:17 PM
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Emo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:08 PM
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Interesting. I didn't know that was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:05 PM
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I've never seen clingy used in regards to asking a guy out, only after a date when she likes him but feels the need to moderate those emotions for both of their sakes...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:02 PM
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Not exclusive to women. My boy at work lost his shit whenever his ex started dating some other dude. The realization that it's actually over can be tough if you refuse to accept it early on...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:59 PM
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They have no drive, they almost always will admit they don't even try because "there's no point". They're obsessed with the top guys, sure, but have absolutely zero drive to BE the top guy, they aren't the dudes you're asking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:47 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:41 PM
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Competitive drive, it's a fantastic motivator. You shoot for the top and see how far you get. Win/lose there's a lot to be said for actually trying and how you feel when you know you gave it an honest shot. Shoot for the moon, end up among the stars and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:17 PM
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A wonderful evening of waiting for the other to make a move. Sounds magical...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:09 PM
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So most men are slobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:01 PM
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I feel the same way whenever I show up somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:00 PM
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I'm an American
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:41 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:21 PM
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I asked that last time and got crickets...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:05 PM
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Haha, better luck next time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:40 PM
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Yeah, you mad It's not an argument, it's a question, one you didn't answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:30 PM
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You sound salty There is more than one way to find love out there, this is known. So, why judge someone for choosing a different way? Unless you're jealous that they ended up with a better partner than you or some shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:20 PM
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So those adult women aren't equal to them because they grew up in a different country? The mask comes off...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:04 PM
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Sorry, I spend way too much time spooling this doofus up and sending him out into the world...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:56 PM
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They adapted to a losing situation and shifted to a successful plan... Where's the shame, for winning? The embarrassment would be continuing to fail...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:54 PM
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Nah, 35 and a billionaire means I have enough time and money to more than make up for anything I "missed" prior Zero to hero
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:39 PM
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I pretty much experienced the 2nd with the only difference being I was always middle class, so I'll go with billionaire short guy. Should be fun to turn that dumb shit around for 35+...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:15 PM
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Some men make fun of the shit they think is stupid and are more likely to express that to a woman because the consequences are lower than if they mouthed off to a dude. If these are the types of men you keep coming across in your dating life, figure out what exactly attracts you to these types of men and see if you can find that in a guy who isn't so stuck up their own ass...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:00 PM
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Is the average 20 something 15+ lbs overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:52 PM
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Cereal once or twice a month 2 Eggs and maybe bacon/toast for the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:49 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:21 PM
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How is this blackpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:02 PM
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This happens too much on here...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:10 PM
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Speak for yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:05 PM
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In this case, logically, the problem likely is you...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:02 PM
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Because it's a pretty well known trope of the lonely woman with no one around her that tolerates her except her smelly cats. It's a go with what ya know type thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:55 PM
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Oh, well why look for something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:39 PM
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First men, like women, are horrible at judging their peers' attractiveness, but let's say you don't fall into that category If that's who they're with, that's who they're into, men's tastes are even more varied than women's A guy I served with was built like an Abercrombie model, in fact he did some modeling before he joined the Air Force, and that guy was into big chicks. Another good looking guy loved older women like 45-50yro women (in our 20's). If they're attractive, you can't just assume t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:16 PM
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That's what my mom tells me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:59 PM
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Definitely doesn't hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:58 PM
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Luck favors the prepared
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:56 PM
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It will be over quicker than running at least...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:54 PM
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In any given group, "jocks" for instance, those 100 guys could all be part of the top 20%, so it's completely realistic that all the attractive guys find attractive women. This plays out in real life as there simply isn't an significant amount of attractive men struggling out there. It's all mid guys and unattractive guys vying for attractive women that find problems...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:53 PM
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Whenever I only have time for a quick bodyweight exercise that still gets the job done, I just do burpee pushups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:21 PM
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But that gives every "attractive" guy a legit shot at being a top 20% of whatever niche they're in and it's really only the unattractive men who want to date attractive women, left in the cold...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:21 PM
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All of this is based on the highly flawed premise that all women are chasing the same 20% of men...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:14 PM
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You still got it done and I believe that has been suggested before and met with "lifts will never work" or something similar...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:52 PM
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You're on the right track, when it starts interfering with other aspects of your life, that's when it becomes a legit problem. Like you're late to work because you just had to rub one out, or you watch porn in the bathroom at work (this has happened at my work), or you blow off responsibilities, friends, family because you'd rather just stay home and wank it...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:48 PM
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Many guys are here claim what you did isn't difficult, it's impossible...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:40 PM
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If I bring some anecdotal experience and he says nah I don't accept that, or if I bring data showing women getting held down professionally and he says nah I don't accept that, then I'm wasting my fucking time But, if he says provide data showing women's advancement is slowed in favor of men's or some shit and I present hum with that data, now we got something going. Of course this requires actual knowledge on the subject and a willingness to be proven wrong. No point in providing proof if the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:36 PM
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So you're 5'4 and have had success with women through improvement of the shit that you actually have control over? Going to need you to say that louder for those in the back...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:06 PM
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But you're the one that has to accept the proof, so you need to tell us what you'll accept. That way when/if acceptable proof is presented, you can't weasel out and say you don't accept it, or you still will, and we can pay respects to your credibility...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:50 PM
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At what level of society? You talking within a business? Local government? State? Federal? And what would you accept as proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:45 PM
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That's better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:35 PM
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Still have to put yourself out there to do that, as in, get the fuck out of the house both to allow more opportunity to be approached, and/or to curate content for whatever social media platform you want to get DM's from. The average woman cannot behave as he does and get a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:31 PM
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By going out and being social? Because that's what the average chick is doing...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:23 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:20 PM
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90% of game is based on how a chick acts, not what she looks like For that remaining 10% I would treat her like she's cute, but I'm more interested in what makes her tick, and because it's genuine, it's usually received well regardless of how hot she is...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:19 PM
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So you think a chick is a pussy if she carries a firearm?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:02 PM
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But if the loser of the race dies... who cares what's impressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:56 PM
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It's the great equalizer...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:43 PM
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No way to know based on a picture...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:32 PM
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Making false assumptions based on gender is a thing, but it's definitely not relegated to men nor is it deserving of a special definition just for one side of it. Women are just as guilty of it, it's just men don't get all uppity about it and make it into a thing. If some chick wants to treat me like I don't understand how pregnancy goes, wants to show me how to change a diaper without even asking if I know how, or my personal favorite, wants to explain my feelings to me like I'm some emotional …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:02 AM
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I didn't say they should act like someone else... I said do those things and how they act will be the only thing holding them back. They might be able to overcome that or not, I don't know them, so I can't say You know what doesn't leave a sour taste in my mouth? Having positive romantic interactions with women. Feels pretty good to be honest. I like cars, snowboarding and video games. Not exactly default things women like...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:06 PM
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I don't know if it sucks for them or not, but it certainly sucks for all their crybaby brethern on here whining that girls don't like them. Dating advice for either gender will always be to do what the other side finds attractive because what the fuck else would be successful? If someone can't figure out how to be attractive without losing who they are and can't see how doing so will get them what THEY want, so it is for themselves, then they should add "poor problem solving skills" to their lis…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:50 PM
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If being a softbody soyboy with an anime shirt and a stupid haircut is "everything about them", then yeah, change it all, cause it fucking sucks...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:33 PM
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They have a lot of potential. If they get a good physique, haircut, and some style, the only thing holding them back will be whatever weird ass personality quirks got them looking like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:29 PM
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I don't golf at all, but it sounds like you gotta just have her quit because there's clearly no solution outside of her magically giving a shit about it as much as you do. I still don't see the insulting part though, she gave it a go and it didn't work out, no big deal...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:52 PM
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Why does it matter the size of the course if you're playing off your drive/shots anyways? Give her a few pointers and let her do her thing, because again, you're just going off of your shots anyways. If she just can't even hit the ball, maybe she's not coordinated enough to play and you should tell her so and find a different way for her to enjoy golf with you that doesn't involve her playing...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:22 PM
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So find a niche within your hobby better suited for both of you to enjoy. I saw you said golf. So instead of taking her to play a round, why not just take her to a driving range? You help her out, but it doesn't really detract from you working on your swing either... Or if she insists on playing a round, just play best ball and then her skill level becomes pretty irrelevant and she won't slow you down any. Maybe check out a tournament together and soak in the atmosphere or an expo event and enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:44 PM
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Soccer, distance running, motocross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:16 PM
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That could be annoying, but I don't see how someone trying to do what you like is insulting. Just plan out the shit better so they don't slow you do as much, or find a niche aspect of the hobby that is better suited to them. It can't be that hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:11 PM
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Maybe, but I haven't come across that on here...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:23 PM
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Yes, reddit is full of losers and nerds...this is known
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:15 PM
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Why else would it be deliberately framed as something men as a group are doing exclusively to women as a group, if not to setup a perpetrator/victim dynamic? If it was just rude/sexist behavior, it could easily be addressed on an individual level and not require a rant...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 PM
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Is that the kind of woman you are trying attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:56 PM
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The misogyny part is make believe, I'm a guy, and the dudes here do that to me and to each other all the time. It's just what happens when know it all nerds post on here and you're very much playing the victim when you see this as something gender related Reddit has tons of condescending one-uppers who think they're really smart, like to present opinions as fact, and love to "explain" to you how you're wrong like you're an idiot Hell, I bet if I root around in your post history, I could find you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:18 PM
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Based off looks alone a 4 Coupled with the right personality though and I'd be willing to go as high as a 6.5...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:59 PM
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Got it. The closest for me is that I'm not dissuaded by a bigger chick if she has a big booty and some thick thighs on her Within reason of course...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:56 PM
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Do you have an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:48 PM
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Yep plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:47 PM
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They don't because they wouldn't or because they don't have the opportunity to? I think both actions and words matter here, especially when it seems fairly obvious they would if they could. It's like saying some dude with a hate filled manifesto is fine because he hasn't done anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:40 PM
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You're not magically someone else online, what is said on here is still a reflection of who you are...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:29 PM
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Nah, I bet this dude isn't even a great looking guy She clearly has issues and is with a guy who, shocker, also has issues. Like attracts like...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:26 PM
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Damn, I had to actually dig deep to not put off knocking out this work eval I have due this month. I had it all lined up perfectly too, but I came pretty close to just pushing it off to another day and having to figure out something else to eval on The never-ending battle to not be lazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:12 PM
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It's got those Peter Pan syndrome vibes...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:04 PM
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A chick who can't park? Say it ain't so...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:58 PM
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Provoked is cool though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:56 PM
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It's a pretty integral part of the human experience across every culture for all of recorded history. I believe everyone is entitled to experience it at least once simply because of that. Why shouldn't a human being be entitled to experience this? Hell, even the women who are "happy" single still experienced romance and intimacy at some point...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:31 PM
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I feel like an actual medical syringe wouldn't have enough volume to get the job done, but I guess if you just keep reusing it, it might work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:47 AM
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That's too bad, but I think even here you have to fill out a form or two to help out, depending on the event
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:21 PM
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I would keep it light and non commital to start, maybe help out with a local food drive, or volunteer at a 5k event
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:38 PM
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Why do all of these Tinder experiments always seem to conveniently forget how Tinder works? Guys swipe on everything and filter matches this is known, until you're pushing a narrative, then its fucking lobotomy time I guess. There's a reason he showed all these "good looking guys" in the likes but not a single one in the actual convos. Guess you missed that though Then you get into the convos. The first two are bots/scammers even he knew that, hence no replies back The rest, are just into big ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:59 PM
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I guess you just have to be open to having new experiences and then it really doesn't matter what the other person is into, because you're down to give it a go. But if you're the type hesitant to try something new, then yeah, having that common ground of interests is a must...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:46 PM
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No, not at all, I like spending time with her, what we do isn't the important part. Besides, it's not like she's into shit that completely bores me. I just know, if not for her, I wouldn't be doing any of those things...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:31 PM
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I don't think I have any similar interests with my chick, but that she has interests is more than enough for me work with. If my date can talk about something they like, I can make an interesting conversation out of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:21 PM
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I used to chose my wife's wardrobe because she was indecisive and I was just better at it than her. She would throw out an idea of what she was going for, and I'd run with it. In fact, I'm about to do the same for my current chick for the same reasons. I never messed around with her hair, but she would come to me when she was thinking about changing it, so we were both on board. I'm convinced y'all get your ideas of relationships from boomer memes at this point...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:48 PM
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I agree, too many fat dudes think they have dad bods This is the same thing as fat chicks thinking they're also in the curvy or thicc category...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:11 PM
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I love when the guys here go mask off, he probably asks for "empathy" when he posts on his main account...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:06 PM
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And he'd have no one to blame but himself, though of course, he wouldn't...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:03 PM
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I mean, if the dude was already getting that angry with her, he's a fucking idiot for trying to marry her. At least she was logical enough to know this wasn't going to work...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:57 PM
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Well played
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:53 PM
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Let's see some stats on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:37 PM
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I'm guessing there's a language barrier here, because you're not understanding what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:09 PM
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I think that quote wasn't about you assigning worth to others but how you can see the worth of others through what they value. In other words, you're showing your worth when you say you only value what men can do for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:51 PM
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So your worth is determined by what you value, and what you value is what men can do for you? Is this self-own Saturday or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:09 PM
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They've identified genes that put you at a significant risk for shit like schizophrenia tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:46 PM
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Isn't that verifiably untrue at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:32 PM
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If ol girl lost out to pumpkin bread it was only a matter of time...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:19 PM
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I can dig it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:55 PM
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Is it? I've heard office manager, but never that one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:40 PM
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That would require the woman to pull her head out of her ass and think about someone else other than herself, but if she can manage it and this paternity thing seems to be coming from a place that requires healing, of course... After she gets the test done, you know short term/long term
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:34 PM
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No, because clearly it has nothing to do with me, it's some sort of issue she has. I'd be worried that the woman I love requires such extreme measures to deal with her fears, so I would look to get her into therapy, but I'll do the test in the short term to keep things chill...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:16 PM
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Again, hold up a mirror...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:48 PM
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If it costs 100 bucks, is extremely accurate and can be done at home... no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:21 PM
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I've been getting hit on by middle aged women from 21 to now (41) pretty consistently. More so than any other demographic now that I think about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:37 PM
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Honestly can't relate...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:31 PM
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Well yeah, but the question was about women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:53 PM
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Blood play or anything involving actual shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:25 PM
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Really, they're just hipsters, but I call em nerds...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:08 PM
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27
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah, it's part of my charm...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:15 PM
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Matured
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:40 PM
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Nah, it gets abused too easily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:38 PM
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For love, every guy has to prove himself. You seem to just want lust/raw attraction, I can't help ya there, you either got it, or ya don't...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:26 PM
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How old a guy? Nevermind I see it below That's my age range so I'll tell you where I hangout. If I'm looking to chill I go to bars within a couple miles of where I live. Rarely am I going to some big trendy place or somewhere downtown. So your best bet is to find out where dudes my age are living and hit the bars around there at like 8:45 on a Saturday Outdoor/bigger places like dancehalls are good too, as are places with live music. Outside of that, I'll go to a pool hall, top golf, indoor kart…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:19 PM
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Love isn't contingent on them being the best. It's a feeling, not a checklist...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:18 PM
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What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
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Hopefully they don't come here...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:32 PM
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You really live in the headspace that because if the circumstances were different she may not have ended up with you, that means she doesn't love you or desire you? You honestly think human emotions work like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:30 PM
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Yeah, but the kid could be getting molested elsewhere and by other people, so if that is truly the concern, the steps taken aren't really all that effective and point to a troubled mind more than a genuine concern... In other words, she's more likely to be suffering from some sort of mental illness, and my focus would be on that instead of some sort of petty self righteous outrage over what she's trying to do to keep our child safe...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:51 PM
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So, she's going to secretly review hours of footage? What about when we're not at home, how does she know nothing is going on then? This is just as unhinged as the first scenario because it doesn't actually protect the child from anything and again I'm worried that she's lost it and would be looking to get her some help before she hurts the child
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:57 PM
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Like every time? I would feel worried that this chick has post partum, snapped, and is going to end up drowning our child or some shit to "protect them" from the dangers of this world...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:21 PM
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Nah, there's too many avenues to prevent and/or correct that dumb shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:55 PM
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2 is the only plausible one for me. It's impossible that any kid I raised would become an incel...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:34 PM
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So when your chick comes home having a bad day, you don't comfort her, maybe do something to cheer her up? You don't ever both rearrange your schedules so you can have some quality time together? Things like that require more effort than if you were single... Sounds like you just neglect the fuck out of your partner and will be just one of the many dudes who get "blindsided" when it all falls apart. Have fun with that...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:19 PM
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Having another person in your life requires more effort though, especially one you're in an intimate relationship with. The maintenance of relationship requires more effort than being single and keeping the relationship from growing stagnant requires more effort than being single...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:57 PM
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Effort is effort. The "work" people are talking about includes that effort...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 PM
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Says it's effortless Goes on to describe the effort needed for it to be effortless... Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:08 PM
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Watch some episodes of 90 day fiancé where the chick is the "passport bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:53 PM
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Nice try, but women get attention all the time, so if that was going to happen, it would have by now...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:52 PM
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She's still dating him tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:46 PM
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Yeah, the first response that came to my head wasn't productive, so I just avoided it all together...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:24 PM
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Probably much harder to see when it's happening to you due to the emotional aspect of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:52 PM
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I was still matching with chicks in their late 20's though (26-29), but that was like 4 years ago If I can do it, a younger average guy can definitely do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:28 PM
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So just date ugly chicks? No thanks...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:14 PM
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I believe in you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:13 PM
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Better clean that shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:51 PM
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I do push-ups while I'm typing...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:35 PM
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Hmm, nah, but mostly because that would entail me going back into my Tinder account that I haven't used in years...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:22 PM
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I consider myself awesome, so definitely not redpill...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:19 PM
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We're problem solvers around here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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So, like when I made a Tinder for myself and went on dates every weekend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:14 PM
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My sign mogs your sign bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:13 PM
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Well shit, guess there's nothing that can be done...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:12 PM
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You don't have to stop, but some of the people here need a break during the whole thing, or they get too amped up...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:01 PM
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She rages out if you spool her up too much. Next time let off the pressure a bit and she'll calm down Unless you want her to block you...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:52 PM
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Just be your own man. Do what you like, listen to what you like, wear what you like... Why do you feel the need to chase fads and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:50 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:42 PM
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I know you are, but what am I
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:41 PM
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I'm always working on improving myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:40 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. Just because I'm not currently sleeping around, doesn't mean I think it's bad, you shouldn't do it, or that I've never done it before...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:38 PM
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Brewing beer and going to breweries would probably be the one I have to put the most effort in to participate and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:36 PM
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Yes, of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:30 PM
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Nah not from my pov That tells me all I need to know...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:29 PM
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All the old stuff is still out there. Just stick with that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:28 PM
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Something from scratch that we can make together. Dumplings, enchiladas, things that have some prep, but not too time consuming...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:27 PM
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They're the textbook definition of a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you can't see that, you've lost objectivity on the subject...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:21 PM
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I mean when you see a guy punch himself in the nuts, you laugh. Same concept applies to incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:07 PM
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Not everyone is lazy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:54 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bubbles_(chimpanzee)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:49 PM
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What the fuck? MJ's monkey is still alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:46 PM
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Haha, what? They canceled it twice for Covid like 2 years ago...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:35 PM
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There's an active war in their region, why wouldn't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:26 PM
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Just their moms...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:22 PM
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I mean, you lost sight of the ball here...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:01 AM
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Haha, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:43 AM
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She's not the biggest, but she's obviously working a grift here...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:16 PM
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What? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:44 PM
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Forward would probably be more effective...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:28 PM
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I guess the guys here truly don't ever try...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:06 PM
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We don't have one basket we can dump all our eggs into like that. Men weight looks incredibly high when compared to women, so they can go all in like that and find success...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:05 PM
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One has nothing to do with the other, be empathetic, or don't be empathetic, but let's not pretend that post hoc rationalization is what's holding your empathy back...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:47 PM
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Possible, or they just like your vibe more in other places, but without actual interaction, you'll never know...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:44 PM
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Oh, I wouldn't put too much stock in it then...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:39 PM
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I'm sure there's a lot more to this. The whole thing reads like those clueless guys who get divorced "out of nowhere" In other words, I guarantee things weren't "fine" for 7 years..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:33 PM
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Got it. Yeah, like most things, intelligence is not the only thing required, but it is a crucial part...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:22 PM
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Do you meet up with these 7 and 8's or just match? Because if that's the case, it's probably time to move...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:21 PM
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You talking about OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:17 PM
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No, you said it isn't required, not it isn't all that is required. Unless you missed a few words in your original statement
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:16 PM
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Problem solving, especially the part where you can accurately determine what the problem is, requires a certain level of intelligence that is lacking around here Unfortunately, it seems a lot of guys on here aren't has bright as they claim to be...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:08 PM
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Shy and quiet men are men that are quite literally ignoring social rules tho... so which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:37 PM
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No, of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:32 PM
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If you're ever in a position to have to use a firearm, you would most likely have a pistol on you is all...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:27 PM
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I'm sure somebody will "vent" with you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:26 PM
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You seem like you'd do good in a cult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:25 PM
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Probably would do you some good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:19 PM
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No, they're not. Most can't even figure out how to get laid...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:09 PM
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RIP your inbox...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:06 PM
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So which sorority are you going to join?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:05 PM
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I definitely recommend. Pistol shooting is probably the most practical for a real world application, but any sort of firearms proficiency is good to have and it's all fun to do...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:25 PM
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If that's your thing, go for it, but there's plenty of ways to trauma bond that don't require such a long trip down memory lane...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:01 PM
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Yeah, he's telling you he's an obsessive stalker type, but he's trying to frame it positively. It's definitely a red flag, but he genuinely thinks it's part of his charm or something. He's only chaining you to the radiator to protect you from the cruel outside world. He would never do anything to actually hurt you...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:59 PM
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Not to the point I need it to bond with people. Kid shit is cool, I guess, but my real adventures and badass memories didn't even start until I was 19-20
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:54 PM
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Pretty sure you can just as easily "bond" over the here and now, as you build a life together, unless your life is so shitty now you can only look backwards...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:41 PM
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Haha, no, that is not doing something anymore than sending condolences or thanking someone for their service, or any other platitude. When you actually do something, you have to choose how to spend what time or money you have towards it and when you do that, you have to choose where that would be the most impactful. Your mindset gets nothing done, as it spreads resources too thin to make an impact. Helping the group that is suffering the MOST is not akin to ignoring all other groups, it's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:33 PM
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"Caring about everything is fucking pointless if you're not doing anything about it" is pretty clearly what I typed Who's cherry picking now? My thoughts and prayers go out to your credibility...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:20 PM
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You don't know they haven't made any attempt. And caring about everything is fucking pointless if you're not doing anything about it and when you do something about it, you can't do everything, so you have to CHOOSE. It's not cherry picking, it's the reality of working with limited resources...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:13 PM
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So if you can't help everyone, which you can't, you shouldn't help anyone? How would YOU decide how limited resources should be distributed towards a cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:50 PM
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Most people don't and it sounds quirky, so they'll just associate it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:23 PM
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That's a great way for a stalker to describe themselves. Sounds almost harmless...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:06 PM
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If it's significantly higher for shorter men, than it makes sense to focus on that first. Knowing that resources are limited, why wouldn't you start with the group most affected?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:55 AM
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Hey look, it's actual toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:50 AM
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Isn't the point of an insult for people to get mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:06 PM
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So dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:40 PM
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Spurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:39 PM
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Just don't horny post and you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:04 PM
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#2 vs #20 in league where money wins... I would hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:01 PM
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Fuck mandatory, but stupid chicks need to chill with the self centered "iM nOt cHeAtInG" mindset. Dude wants a test, they need to humble themselves and support their man... The world I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:31 AM
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That's not a thing? Tell that to the families it happens to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:19 AM
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Be one of the 28000 families who have their babies switched at birth every year...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:05 PM
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Not super worried about her book smarts, but the rest of the stuff you listed is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:02 AM
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Not married (anymore), but she did yes and my current chick does as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:56 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:55 PM
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Never admitting fault is a weakness tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:46 PM
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That really depends on how mediocre the person is. Some NEET who has nothing going on his life, it's razor thin even when compared to some average dude who's a project manager or some meh job and the cooler/more successful you are, the wider that line gets...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:54 PM
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Yes, but like most things, it can be taken too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:43 PM
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Hey, you want to limit yourself from dating more traditional chicks, go for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:14 AM
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And you would have still accomplished all that if you paid, but there's probably a few that you got nowhere with because you didn't And again, the women of quality that are so venerated on here would definitely be among those to nope out of a continuing to date a non-paying dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:06 AM
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You won't get a second date is the point. The chick will move on, especially if she has any traditional values. Unless you date chicks you aren't attracted to, this is not optimal...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:53 AM
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First, no "good men" are going abroad, that is pure sour grapes fiction. Guys are going abroad only after their minimal efforts yielded zero results at home. Second, you don't get anything by paying, but you could lose something by not paying. That something being any chick with strong values who was "raised right". Basically the type of chick, that all these split bill, masculine pretenders say they want, would bounce after the firsr date...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:40 AM
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The last time there was an actual argument made by someone around here that wasn't just a pity party wrapped in a study taken out of context...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:07 PM
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The Redpill...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:08 PM
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Gotta keep it simple
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:29 PM
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You know damn well the "it's over" rhetoric is how it's presented by most blackpill people, on here and elsewhere, time and time again. What it technically says isn't as important as how it's interpreted by the vast majority of its followers...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:54 PM
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Then you know what you gotta do...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:55 PM
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If it's so easy to prove me wrong, or prove that the average man can't do those things, prove it. If not, sit down...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:39 PM
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Gone girl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:54 PM
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Shouldn't it be women and not taking accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:00 PM
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Commenting dull passive aggressive shit on PPD and then deleting it. Name a more iconic duo...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:58 PM
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Because if you've had sex with a condom on and without one, you'd know the answer to that question already. So either you don't have a dick, or you do, but have never had sex with and without a condom on I don't which you are, so I just started with no dick and we'll go from there...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:31 PM
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You don't have a dick do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:19 PM
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That's a long way of saying you ain't got shit. The narrative that the average man can't get a date or a match on OLD is also unfalsifiable, and obviously just vehicle for self pity and justification to never try and/or give up, but you don't see me crying about it and saying bad faith, I just put up a counter argument on equal footing with what I'm given. Y'all make the rules, I just play the hand dealt to me (a concept foreign to you on multiple levels I'm sure) Might as well take your sad sac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:18 PM
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So basically, it's OK for you to have an opinion, based on the very little that you know, but it's not ok for someone who's dated 20 years ago and dated in the last 3 years (and matched with people from your generation too...) to have one? haha, cool, thanks for the insight into how your mind works, I think I got it from here. And if you disagree with the statement, that only below average men cannot get a date at all, or even a match on OLD, you, or any of your generation, are more than welcome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:40 PM
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Smart marketing to attract fat dudes and I like that they're using tailoring techniques fat chick clothing has been doing for years. Bout time those fat dudes get a chance to disappoint the women they trick into get naked instead of only vice versa...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:02 PM
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Good thing this energy definitely doesn't infect other aspects of your life, to include dating, that would be disastrous...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:39 AM
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Bro, I said it was a half-baked idea, the concession that it was at least partially inaccurate was in the statement. I was just using it as an example so I could ask my question. I didn't know it was going to trigger the absolute fuck out of you... shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:26 AM
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You're so spooled up you can't even through your tears of anger. I said it was a half-baked observation, that should tell you right there I understand there's more to it than that, but you just latched on anyways. Inability to see and process the details, another "obvious" reason your generation is failing out there. You still never answered what gives you better insight into the past than what old people have of the current, nor did you answer what makes your observations more valid than others…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:17 AM
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Why it can't be equally "obvious" why so many guys are losers today because they think they can succeed with women, while living at home with their parents, swiping apps with absolutely nothing of substance going on in their lives? What makes one half-baked observation more valid than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:00 AM
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How the fuck do kids who were still shitting on themselves 20 years ago know what dating was like back then? I've never understood how they have this uncanny insight into a past they never experienced, but old fucks have absolutely zero awareness about a world they still live in. Too bad that ignorant confidence can't translate to dating, I'm guessing the pretentiousness does though...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:55 AM
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Absolutely, it should be stated as soon as the relationship looks to be getting serious, but don't ask, that's just weak as fuck. If it's a principle you're going to live by, state it as such (with tact), and she can take it or leave it...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:46 PM
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Y'all need to work on the fundamentals...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:41 PM
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So we have one guy who thinks being a convict or a drug dealer is a personality and now we have you thinking shit like your interests, hobbies and slang is your personality. You guys are actually forming opinions based on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:34 PM
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You can pretty safely disregard most of things the loudest women here say, or better yet, do the opposite of. Most of the women here are measurably atypical, highly neurotic and you wouldn't want to date them, or any woman like them, so who cares what they say. They'll lie and say they're average, or their views are normal, but most people, men and women, have a mostly neutral view on dating dynamics, if one at all, so you know it's bullshit when a strong opinion comes in attached with average o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:02 PM
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Where is the line drawn here? If I say hey to someone, but I don't want to have a conversation, was I leading them on in that regard? Flirting is just flirting, it's pretty meaningless without other supporting actions...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:43 PM
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Right, that is your choice though. So it is through your choice that you have no social life and consequently, no romantic life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:05 PM
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Well that's absolute bullshit. You've already acknowledged your refusal to change, that is a choice you've made. You're choosing to not have a robust social life, which is vital for the average person to find romance. There is no fallacy here, just facts, try that weak shit on someone else...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:48 PM
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Well then quit whining about the choice you've made to be alone...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:27 PM
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It's an absolutely crucial first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:07 PM
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Quit being boring as fuck and get a social life...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:01 PM
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Everytime I see a chick with a ring on her finger... https://youtu.be/us5MGEL5W34?si=BAQGlINrMRvc_8sl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:55 AM
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So am I, from experience in competition, the military, and living in reality. Confidence comes in multiple forms and all can be "true confidence" including aggressive forms...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:12 AM
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Real life isn't a movie... confidence, even "true confidence," can be aggressive...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:00 AM
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Tell that to the ivory hunters...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:57 AM
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Especially when they could be studying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:09 AM
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Make sure she has a ring on first though...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:06 AM
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Make sure you do it at the right time of the week and the right time of the day...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:47 PM
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WW2 really did a number on y'all...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:42 PM
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So you're engaged/married and are starting to notice other guys more often? This should end well...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:10 PM
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It's by design
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:39 PM
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I always just grab some beers and see where it goes. If she ain't down (which has honestly been never), she ain't the one...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:07 PM
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I have a bunch, I act the same whether their chicks are there or not. Most of them also act the same whether their chicks are there, or not. A few don't, we give them shit about it, all in good fun though...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:55 PM
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They would have to admit it's an issue first...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:33 PM
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Yeah, some dudes, the dudes that are afraid to be themselves around women...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:33 PM
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Some guys get scared around women and clam up...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:21 PM
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Looks matched. A couple of goobers doing nerd shit...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:12 PM
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Wow, you really bought into the hype and ran with it. Only the very tippiest toppiest absolute complete package, knockout women have anything close to the "selective power" you described and even fewer have this "what can I get from you" mindset. The average young chick doesn't have anywhere near as much leverage, nor is she interested in this dynamic. The sociopathic gold digger fever dream these loser guys conjured up and you're trying to validate, just isn't significant enough for a regular g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:04 PM
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I have, usually after a break up, but not always...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:24 PM
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I mean they're going out looking to get laid, with no strings, where as before that wasn't a goal and/or they more conservative about it all...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:52 PM
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I've always seen it described as when a chick starts actively sleeping around for a period of time. It's only notable and labeled as such because it's a purposeful departure from their normal behavior and is temporary...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 PM
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Never going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:37 PM
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Nah, let them fail...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:31 PM
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Just another Tuesday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:28 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:35 PM
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It was definitely skewed and is the entire basis for the video. The actual data just shows that because there are more men and those more likely to swipe on profiles that, while both groups get matches, women get more. That's cool, and everyone would be willing to buy that. It isn't until he purposely tweaks the numbers so that those in the middle (where every loser believes they're at least in) get next to no matches, that he gives up on the data and starts creating his own narrative...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:50 PM
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Sure, but good luck convincing those with no success they're in the bottom 50%...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:18 PM
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Interesting to you, but if you haven't noticed most people here are more concerned with the "average man". But,since you like educated guesses so much, I would guess the "bottom 50%" disproportionately swipes on the top 25% when compared to guys in the top 50%. This is based on studies showing less attractive people believe they're a lot more attractive than they actually are. At the end of the day, the bottom is always going to struggle, but trying to make that struggle universal to all but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:09 PM
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Nah, numbers skew men as getting less attention than what the actual sites report, and women as getting more, why? He couldn't figure out how to get the numbers equal to the sites, nor could he figure out how to get BOTH men and women high or low? Guess it's just coincidence that it shook out like that. Not to mention the entire thing rests upon some grossly oversimplified "attractiveness" rating that isn't based in reality at all. Dude should have left it at more men than women on the app and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:43 PM
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I like when he admits there isn't much data out there and he's largely guessing and then when he had to start skewing the numbers in favor of "men get no likes" narrative This is not "pure data" not even close...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:17 PM
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God has nothing to do with you fucking up Take some accountability...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:19 PM
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Nah, that's short all around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:20 PM
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Nothing about a trophy wife implies she doesn't work hard. In fact, she usually puts in a great amount of work on her looks and social life...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:26 AM
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If that's the case it was poorly conveyed and inaccurate. I don't know a single man that doesn't want a hard working woman. A lackluster work ethic isn't attractive regardless of gender...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:20 AM
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Being hard working is not a male trait, to believe so is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:10 AM
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That being hard working is a "male" trait. That one's pretty textbook...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:59 AM
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It's such a goofy word
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:59 PM
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Allistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:53 PM
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Aircraft Maintenance for the DoD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:01 PM
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Heading down that path
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:11 PM
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Except they believe themselves to be above average as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:10 PM
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I guess because ugly and/or average women think they're more attractive than ugly and/or average men...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:01 PM
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Caffeine addiction is real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:57 PM
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Do you want to play it safe, or do you want to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:57 PM
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You can only LARP that you go to the gym for so long...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:53 PM
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Both get you laid according to the "assholes/criminals get all the puss" crowd, so what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:52 PM
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Haha, yeah that too...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:31 PM
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If you had decent options when you were younger, you likely will have more options when older due to your appeal being more widespread. When I was in my early twenties, my appeal, in general, was limited to women close to my age. Younger chicks were in high school or couldn't drink, so our world's never collided and I was "too young", "too crazy", just too much in general for the older ones looking to slow down. When I found myself "back on the market" in my late 30's, The social spaces I freque…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:08 PM
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Ah, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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You stuck one finger in your ass and it's still sore? Were you digging around for gold or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:42 PM
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So just a guy that flirts with women and they flirt back?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:35 PM
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So you would have to watch him have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:29 PM
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What would even accept as proof? You sound like you're simply unwilling to believe...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:58 PM
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How do you know it's cap? And what would you need as proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:49 PM
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Makes sense to me. Instead of going to the gym, the big dude is going to bars/parties and actually interacting with women who are DTF. Just because a bunch of gym nerds get no play, doesn't mean the big dude actually putting himself out there is failing....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:25 PM
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Still was talking shit about women, which according to y'all doesn't happen on social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:29 PM
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But it was made in response to the "girl math" trend...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:22 PM
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The life of a doormat...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:25 PM
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I see Smooth Brain Saturday is already in full swing on the ol' daily chat...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:34 PM
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A scenario, with a clear slant, that I needed some clarification on from the person who actually made it, not the cheerleaders...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:44 PM
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Did you use the word comedic in that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:36 PM
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So how am I getting harassed then? Guys generally don't harass people that can beat their ass, and they certainly wouldn't send dick pics to a dude that could stomp them out...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:32 PM
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Is there a physical threat from the people harassing me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:24 PM
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So you're pointing out that the unstable, likely ugly, trauma chick makes irrational decisions? Thanks for letting us know...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:42 PM
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Oh ok, yeah no set time for that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:17 PM
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