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I think its perfectly normal to want a partner with similiar "experience". I'm not promiscuous, so i don't want a promiscuous woman on my side. As long as you are not obsessed with wanting a "pure virgin gf" its alright. I find high bodycounts disgusting and its my right since i'm not living a double standard. Also i don't understand the common connection between body count and experience. I can have far more sex in a stable relationsship than with ONS on the weekends. And even then its fairly d…
/r/MensRights02/11/23 01:47 PM
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It's funny in terms of symmetry women are often more disadvantaged. Scoliosis for example is more common in women than in men. However I think women look more pleasing. Men can look very aesthetic, too but they have to work out a lot in order to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:16 PM
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I totally agree with you on that one. Sadly not every person understands that intelligence and educational backgrounds don't always go hand in hand and especially that not all academic backgrounds are equal in terms of difficulty and methodics.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 09:42 AM
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People boasting on the internet aren't always that smart, i agree on that. The point is, its women themselves who make the claim that they need smart partners because of their degrees, not vice versa. Maybe they don't rant like OP does but the point is almost the same.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 08:46 AM
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Who are the ones who are feeling smart? I know people (not just women) who think they are totally smart because they are "academics". However the subjects differ so much from each other that you can not treat them as intellecutally equal. My Business Informatics degree probably needed a lot more intellectual input than gender studies. A chemistry bachelor probably needs even more than my degree. I acknowledge this, because I'm not an idiot. The point is women often claim that they need an intell…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 08:40 AM
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Usually the people who never stepped into the gym are the ones that believe fake natties because they don't have a feeling for natural limits. Maybe you should look up the stack Liver King took, it got leaked months ago. This guy was full of substances we are not talking about some Testosterone only. I seriously wonder where your "expertise" comes from? I'm not a pro, just training consistently for 4 years now. I know I'm not near the end of my journey but after this time you notice what's reali…
/r/MensRights13/05/23 07:01 AM
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For me it felt like shitting on men in general has no consequences at all. Change the word "men" with "women", "migrants" or whatever and you'd get a shitstorm. I discovered that many feminist talking points get debunked pretty easily (pay gap for example). The more i read into certain topics the more obvious it was to me that their arguments stand on very shaky legs mostly. Today i see feminism as an ideology. In everyday life i don't feel that i'm privileged in any way. I'm not claiming that m…
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:49 PM
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It baffles my mind that people are naive enough to believe that people his size could be natural. Same goes with Mike o Hearn for example. People want to be fooled and the scammy marketing always wins in the end.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:37 PM
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You won't get near as big as him even after 20 years of natural training, i promise. If you want to see what you can achieve without steroids you should look at tested athletes. For example look up Berend Breitenstein. He is a german lifetime natty and founder of the german natural bodybuilding foundation. I bet with good genetics you can get quite a bit bigger than him but not that much.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 09:34 PM
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Good take. I hate it when feminists claim this to generalize men, however i can't deny that they have a point on that. I despise men who can't use their testosterone to do some more productive things. Like man, go to the gym to let out your agressions, do something productive. Don't hurt/kill other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:34 PM
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Honest question: why not Peterson? I fully agree on Tate, but what's wrong with Jordan Peterson?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:02 PM
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This exactly. The world isn't fair to either gender. But whenever a women is a affected it must be a structural problem (patriarchy and misogyny).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:20 PM
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Exactly why women who "traveled to find themselves" are red flags to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:36 PM
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Is happiness really the factor that determines whether my "ideology" or lets say opinion, viewpoints is right or wrong? Thinking about many societal problems or stupid political decisions make me kinda unhappy. If i wanted to live the happiest life i had to ignore everything and live life with pure ignorance. I'd rather acknowledge the problems young men have to face and try to find my peace than to live in ignorance. By the way: TRP offers a solution to those who remain unhappy. If you can't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:36 PM
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Honestly i tried to argue that men have basicially not more priviliege than women in our society (I'm from Germany) and all i got was insults, no arguments whatsoever. At this point i'm certain that feminism is an ideology and hast almost nothing to do with its original roots.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 03:51 PM
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I'm biased but I'd still say the left mostly. Especially since most mainstream subreddits are more left leaning. Twitter is even worse. It basically showed me that I should stop wasting my lifetime arguing online. Sometimes it can be fun but it's mostly a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:46 PM
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Autobanning people for being in certain subs is one of the most cowardish things I can imagine. Especially if you don't even know their standpoints. There are still a lot of people here who discuss in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:22 PM
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My GF doesnt want me to fuck other women aswell. Does she see me as her property? I'd say we belong to each other. No power dysbalance. Thats why i get angry if someone touches my GF and she gets angry when other girls throw themselves at me. Pretty simple and as long as jealousy doesn't take over too much totally normal in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:33 PM
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Not trying to defend hateful Incels but I think many people make a mistake with their judgment. I don't think these guys genuinely believe that they are owed something. They mostly wish that those things come natural like they were told they would do. The frustration and resentment and eventual turn to an incel comes later after a lot of rejection and lack of any success. Depending on who you ask sex is considered a basic need. I know not everyone agrees on this but we can at least be sure that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:00 PM
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Nope. Just realized tall guys are rarely single / don't have women around them that are obviously into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:54 PM
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Germany. Not many. However being taller than me (1,80+ cm) isn't that hard at all. So there are basicially still a lot of people that are significantly taller than me. It's most noticeable when going out to party imo. Lots of tall dudes out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:25 PM
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I know bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:25 PM
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Don't do this to me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:40 PM
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Honestly since i actually pay attention to tall guys i think i finally realized as how much more attractive they are perceived. I'm considered fairly tall but not really over average and somewhat jacked and muscular. Whenever i stand next to taller guys (like 1,90m+) i feel like they are so much more intimidating than i am (Not that i'm trying to be an intimidating guy at all but you get what i mean). I dont know if thats confirmation bias but most of the times they have way better frames than i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:12 PM
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Lol in that case kudos to you. However you are most likely an exception to the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:02 PM
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I think we all agree that there is a difference between using media for learning skills and watching some mindless trash tv. And yea i agree that traveling can have positive effects on personality, however the typical sTaCy going traveling after school to FiNd HeRsElF is just a funny stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:04 AM
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I'd consider myself as partly or mostly red pilled but i don't consume any red pill content on YouTube beside lurking and commenting on the Purple Pill Debate subreddit. I think a lot of the Red Pill content creators are sketchy or even frauds but i don't think that RDP or even the Black Pill are frauds themselves. The simple concept of RDP is: maximize your looks (through gym), dressing well and get charismatic or/and rich/successfull. I think most of this is undeniably helpful in getting succe…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 12:36 AM
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I'm in a mixed friend circle. Almost all my male friends are virgins despite getting along well with the women in our circle. Literally all women have a boyfriend and had several boyfriends before. None of the guys are ugly, some are just a bit shy around girls they don't know. One is a bit too nice (friend zone stereotype guy). I'm one of the few exceptions being in a LTR for several years. Honestly my friends are the best example for men being absolutely invisible in everyday life. If you don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:53 PM
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M in his early twenties: Not anymore. I put a lot of effort into my body, my education and other skills to the point where i believe i'm on a good way to become a "high value man" (I don't like the term and i don't want to come across as arrogant). I think once you figure out that you have to put in effort in literally everything, being a man can be a cool thing. I'm still a lazy-ass person but i get shit done most of the time. If i was still the average, simping Average Joe i was in my teens i …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:57 AM
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Thats what i mean. If anyone can overshadow their own smell with perfume, its harder to find the "right" partner on a biological standpoint (at least if you care about that aspect).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure this topic was discussed here already on its own. However since I'm not a fan of whataboutism I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and agree that when we are talking about women's fears its inappropriate to change the topic. Btw you don't have to down vote to oppose my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:09 AM
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Lol calling the fact that men are way more likely victims of violence vague is at least the same level of avoiding empathizing. It's kinda hilarious when women think that men could walk alone at night even though it's more likely that we are beaten up, stabbed or robbed. By the way it doesn't matter that the attackers are males because it doesn't change the fact that more victims are male. It feels like you are normalizing violence between men just because both are male. Still doesn't mean the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:01 AM
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Isn't it kinda illogical from a biological standpoint to judge the smell of a parfum on a man? The reason behind it is to find genetic compatibility so shouldn't be the natural body odor be judged?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure hormones rule more than most people know. No matter which gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:45 PM
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I think most men are aware that most sluts, escorts, prostitutes and whoever can get into a relationship eventually. Since men are already struggling and there is far more demand than supply, there will always be a guy willing to take the slut. I think its kinda unfair for men but there is not really a solution so we just have to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:06 PM
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This should be a red flag for both genders honestly. I know women who act like their man has more benefits out of sex. Some even withhold sex as a manipulative "punishment". I'd never want to have sex with a woman who thinks her body is just some form of leverage. I can only support this concept in the context of a guy who doesn't care about the women's pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:24 PM
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Anime is just something else. I had my weeb phase as a teenager but i really don't like the ridiculous overexegeration in anime. I think its hard to find good animes with a more serious approach, because almost all of them still have some cringy elements to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:33 PM
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There is no necessity in explaining a daughter how to attract boys. Men are still the chasers in most cases so you can't just flip it around. We already know that it's mostly young men struggling in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:29 PM
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A question about this topic (if this is more appropriate under the auto mod let me know): Is a mans experience only defined via n count? For example if I'm coming from a LTR I had since I was a teenager and now I'm in my twenties is this considered as low experience because of n count being 1? I mean while there wasn't much variety that is probably a lot more sex than a guy who had 50 ONS's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:06 PM
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I doubt that. While the younger people fuck around a lot more i'm pretty sure most want a monogam relationship eventually. Polycouples are a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:12 AM
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Not every insecure person is so revealing. There is plenty of middle ground between the women described.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:18 AM
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Only problem I have with this is that more intelligent and educated people tend to not have children. We will still have a lot of stupid and immature people becoming parents who will make a horrible job raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:10 AM
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I honestly don't know if you're trolling me or if this is your serious opinion. If the latter is the case that's a very interesting description. I'm pretty sure a man would have been torn apart for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:03 AM
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Honestly I think the ick feel with high n count women is a problem women just can't grasp. In the same way a man will never understand how it feels to be on the period (for obvious reasons), women can't understand why a majority of men are disgusted by women with a lot of sexual partners. You can call it misogyny but I don't think that is completely correct. I don't hate or judge women for being promiscuous. It's just a thought you won't get out of your head knowing a Lot of guys were already wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:30 PM
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Okay i guess i got your point and i even agree. However i feel like the term patriarchy is often used to tell men (even absolute average ones) that they are opressors. When even most men suffer because of the patriarchy then i don't understand the hate towards many men in the modern feminism sphere. I think many women think the average men benefits from the patriarchy while this is just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:08 PM
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I think its the wrong focus to say we live in a patriarchy because our world rulers are male. The uneven distribution of our wealth is way more of a class problem than gender. As far as i know the majority of the most rich and influencial people are jews. Does this mean we live under the opression of jews?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:58 PM
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I understood your comment and even agree with your statement. I just wanted to point out that there are lots of situations where people demand some kind of artificial balancing. Don't be so rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:22 PM
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Yes I agree. I think men need to focus a lot more on themselves. Especially because we can't change the dating market to be more fair. It's a game you are either willing to play or not. I never got the idea of simping but on the other hand I'm not a socially crippled and isolated man. I'm not saying this in a mocking way I honestly feel sorry for those guys but they let themselves be financially abused and like it. Guess it's hard to fix those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:33 PM
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The man can’t make more money because that’s unfair to the woman. See how stupid that sounds. Yet this is a very common argument from feminists who think men earn more because of their penis. The western society balances out things all the time. Many of which are plain stupid in my opinion. In America students from different races have to acquire different points to be accepted at certain universities only because their average points vary. Illogical. Feminists always want to balance out every a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:21 AM
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Yes the way and tone when you talk about it is very important. However i still think most men will come across kinda strange when they show that they invested time into understanding dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:32 PM
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I would never ever reveal to any woman that i invested even a second into analyzing dating, the dating market, TRP or any other stuff related to any of that. For some reason women see it as a red flag. Possibly they see you as "try hard" rather than a guy who naturally "gets it". Going into these things with logical sense seems to be a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:58 PM
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Absolutely this. People who make their political views a major part of their identity are often so toxic and full of themselves. This also applies to people who have similar views as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:43 PM
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I really hate the concept of having a political left to right spectrum. I have different views on different topics that apply to various points on the spectrum. Leftists think i'm racist because I'm against mass migration in Europe and think critical about islam. But in most other aspects i'm pretty much left leaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:40 AM
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There are people having abs without training at all. Of course these guys won't look muscular but skinny. Even 2 heavy full body workouts can work wonders. You don't have to train a 6 days a week bro split.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:23 AM
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Honestly i think its kinda harsh to make fun of these guys. As someone who experienced love and companionship from a woman i know i'd be missing out something if i could never have this again. Getting desperate and sad after a long time of loneliness is totally legit imho. I can understand that its kinda hilarious that these guys are complaining all the time while saying they will go their own way but in the end its understandable. Even if you find a passion, being lonely for your whole life is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:28 PM
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Yea pretty much every girl i know had sexual partners shortly after a breakup while the ex bfs had a harder time attracting anyone. Sex alone won't heal the damage from a breakup but it surely helps and when you can always find someone who validates you its probably easier to get over it. I think its absolutely soul crushing to hear about your ex banging other dudes. Feels like being extra disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 06:05 PM
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Yea i don't want to get too political in here but having doubts about the COVID vaccine is a lot more legit than being anti vax in general. I know that there are many misinformed idiots out there but there are also legit arguments against the covid vax.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:11 PM
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Not in this case. Surely we all had the phase in our young teens but since we were 16/17 we started going out regularly. None of them are antisocial. I bet most women wouldn't even notice that they are virgins. They absolutely don't follow any of the weirdo, anti social or incel cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:45 PM
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For some probably. Women here often claim, that men overexaggerate their problems with getting sex or relationships. I think some don't understand how invisible you truly are if you are not constantly approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:31 AM
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Most of my male friends are virgins at the age of 22. Kinda strange to think about that it's slowly going to "weird" area. None of them are creepy or weird at all. I guess if you don't put in the effort and initiative you won't be chosen as an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:34 PM
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Yea I'll give you that point. The women here try to acknowledge their own problems while many men don't. Maybe I will write my own take later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:07 AM
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Making better choices and don't being weak minded possibly include that men should not rape or be criminal in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:48 AM
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Absolutely true. I'm working on myself not to rely on validation of others and I'm on a good way right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:19 PM
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Yes we talked about it. Didn't improve that much. There are better and worse times depending on stress levels, menstruation cyle and other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:18 PM
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I (M, 23) never cheated and i never had a serious urge to do, but i can't deny that i sometimes tried to test my SMV on some occasions, especially during times, where the bedroom was boring. I see it as a reminder that i have to work on myself on not trying to get validation from other women/people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:41 AM
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White (german), height around average so 6ft. One guy is a bit below that so that could be huge factor. Clothing mostly normal, nothing outstanding. 2 of them are more into fashion and have a good style. None of them are rich we are all still students. Nontheless this should not exclude men from the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:11 PM
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More common than some think I guess. Almost all of my male friends are virgins in their early 20s. All of them study STEM subjects with high earning potential (not a career so far but what do you expect from students), none of them are ugly, none of them are overweight, some are into fitness so body is on point. Generally they have their shit together. Face wise they are mostly average but definetly not ugly. I know that some of them had chances they missed so it's not like they can't get dates …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:46 PM
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I agree on Peterson, but let's be honest. Andrew Tate is a dick. He degrades women and his hustle school or whatever this shit is called is borderline scam and reminds me of cringy self improvement gurus or PUAs. It's okay to have a role model for masculinity but Tate is the wrong one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:48 PM
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I don't think there is much of a negative stigma anymore. Probably on Tinder because it's considered a hookup app mostly but I know plenty of people who used OLD Apps and no one gets shamed for it. There are probably better potential partners outside, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:17 PM
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Most woman can get both easy. The hard part is mostly to distinguish between the guys that just want to fuck and genuine guys that want a serious relationship. I can assure you that most orbiters around women are not only interested in sex, so yea i think its also easier for women to get love, aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:41 PM
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Just my guess into the blue: Most women who say they could be happy single actually aren't. As we know most women have absolutely no problems attracting men for Sex or relationships. It's like the rich people saying money doesn't buy happiness. The statement is kinda true but it's still coming from a person that has no financial problems. Most women are never truly alone. Maybe some are fed up by a relationship and stay single by choice for a year or so but as soon as she decides to search for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:31 PM
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My take about women: There is no male privilege in the western world (especially in the country I'm from, Germany). I think many women and girls grow up with some kind of victim mentality that every bad thing that happens to them has some sort of mysogynistic background. However almost no women wants to acknowledge their own privilieges. Women don't get paid less for the same work here. However most feminists still use this argument even though its debunked to the point where it is only like 2-3…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:54 PM
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I have absolutely no problem with admitting that I was quite ugly, fat and too much a "nice guy" when i was younger. Probably the most bluepill stereotype of a guy you could imagine. Compared to my former self i'm so much better in every aspect today that it makes me somewhat proud of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:07 AM
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This plus basically the fact that any woman could find another partner in the blink of an eye. Sure most women will be faithful and loyal but for me it feels like I'm always the disposable choice. I have some good traits but I'm also realistic and know that I'm just a little fish in the sea. For me it would be significantly harder to find a new GF than for my GF to find a new partner or fuck buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:48 PM
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Yea even though the message behind it is kinda harsh it's still the best thing a men can do. Maybe some men will find another purpose in life so that they can live quite happy instead of feeling miserable the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:44 AM
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Yea it's probably some kind of mental illness. I went to school with a girl I really liked platonically. We were just friends and spent some time together during free time. She basically lied about the most basic things like her parents jobs or how she moves out into her own apartment. She also claimed having a heart failure and stuff to get some empathy. But she rarely spoke about that so it never seemed like she wanted to be pitied. Besides that she acted so normal and when I heard through a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:39 PM
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I think it's kinda ridiculous to post this a few days after these absolutely hilarious bumble statistics were posted. Even though I'm 6ft I felt quite intimidated by these over the top preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:55 PM
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I think its strange to have a list or something like that but on the other hand i find it strange aswell to have such a high count that you can't remember. I even know most people i went to school with even though we barely spoke any words. Can't understand how you can forget which people you fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:19 PM
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Because it's to the disadvantage of all men. Simping men create entitled and arrogant women while getting literally nothing in return. Average men have even harder times attracting women because women have totally skewed expectations because of their beta orbiters pedestralizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:41 PM
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I fully agree to your statement but honestly I don't know how to reach these desperate simps. I mean look how many donations a simple female twitch streamer with some revealing clothing gets. I think it will take a long time until these (in my opinion mentally ill) men understand that they are playing a loosing game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:32 PM
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I just felt like he was describing his looks, not the fact that being white is more appealing in general. But even if.. It's a controversial topic because some people claim that the average western woman prefers white men. I don't know how much truth there is to that saying, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:52 PM
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Where is the racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:47 PM
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Even if it was insecurity i think it's nothing you should be blamed for. I feel like many women here look down on those insecurities just to justify their high n-count. In a way its like virgin-shaming. Who can blame a guy who had barely any action and is insecure because his partner had half the town in her bed. As long as a guy doesn't get vulgar or misogynistic about that i think its totally fine. I mean even some women feel insecure or disgusted when their partners have high n-counts. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:20 PM
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First, many men resent women for the perceived amount of gym-time needed to maintain attractiveness. Men often work hard developung an attractive physique, while a woman need only avoid gaining weight (muscles can look good but are often unnecessary). Thats a very good point indeed. Most women i know (overweight or not) think that the beauty standards are a lot higher for them. While this could be true in terms of makeup and general appearance it is definitely wrong when it comes to the body. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:03 AM
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Growing up in Germany I noticed the following things. In elementary school most teachers treated girls a bit better than the boys, although not concerning at that point. In middle school most teachers treated them better and they got the better grades on average. When there was a fight between a girl and a boy the boy was the one to blame, always. When we had our final exams only girls were in the top results. Right now I'm studying and my school spams so many exclusive offers and invitations fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:33 AM
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Mostly Rock and Hardrock (ACDC, Rolling Stones, Metallica and other typical cover band stuff nothing too special).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:08 PM
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I had the Chad moment for the first time in my life. I'm a decent guitarist and had a successfull gig in my hometown. Crowd was very pleased and it was just pure fun. After the concert a women came straight up to me and told me how much she likes me and that she is very sad that I'm already taken. My Gf was literally sitting a few meters away. I mean it's kinda flattering to hear such a compliment but it was also kinda strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:40 AM
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Yea I noticed some women want good qualities in a man but don't want to accept that those qualities often come with time consuming and disciplined routines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:58 PM
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Getting into bodybuilding was one of the best choices i could made in the last years. First of all muscle will make you look better. Almost all women like some muscles. As long as you stay away from steroids you will most likely not get too big. Best thing about it is the increased confidence though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:10 AM
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I can understand your point of view on that one. I also discovered that my disgust for high n-count women comes more from the fact that there were many different men inside her than the fact that she had a lot of sex. If a girl had a high n count through sex with different women i had a lot less issues. So for me it goes into the same direction like your statement. It is more about the men than the women herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:05 PM
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In an interview he said that their relationship was casual. While he was working on building up Microsoft, Melinda had other boyfriends. I mean it was mututal and as far as i understand he could have fucked other women too if he wanted, but still kinda cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:49 PM
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As far as I know Bill got cucked by his wife in their early years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:51 PM
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Honestly Snapchat is dead within my social circle. I see barely any stories from friends. We have a funny group to snap some silly photos sometimes but really this app feels dead af.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:04 PM
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I'm with my first Gf for 7 years now. I was 15 she was 14 when we got together. I can confirm that the attraction gets less and less but we share a very deep connection and spend wonderful times together but the fact that her desire and libido for me declines makes me wonder whether I should really marry this girl someday. Sexy time is rare enough that some people would consider it as a dead bedroom already. On the other hand it feels kinda wrong to throw such a deep bond with a loving partner a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:06 PM
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Probably because living as the average women is "easy mode" compared to the average man. Being in the top 1% or 0.1% it's probably better to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:19 PM
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Yea I know a lot of guys who use these terms as well but I'm pretty sure they don't know TRP as a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:02 PM
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I think there will be a huge rise in men's movement. I've been going to the gym for almost 5 years now but I only discovered recently that there is a big community of young, kinda desperate men who are self improving (not only through the gym but it's an important factor). TRP is going to be mainstream, the incel movement probably too to a certain extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:34 AM
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It just appeared like you would try to defend the delusional standards OP stated. I absolutely get your point that women bring more to the table tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:37 AM
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You say women are more and more educated than ever with high paying careers. That's fine but it still doesn't explain why you should expect your partner to buy you a house, car private school. OP sounds extremely entitled. Especially if you are making a career you should be able to provide for your child together with your partner instead of making him pay literally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:29 AM
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I don't deny that insecurity is a factor but I'm sure its not the only reason. Many men with higher n counts themselves share a similar opinion. In that case you can call it hypocrisy at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 09:30 PM
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Count is 1 when we talk about sex. 2 if we include oral. I was in a LTR most of the time since I'm 16 and know I'm 23. I would most likely not refer to someone as a cum dumpster. Maybe if the girl was into some bukkake or gangbang parties. In that case I'd be truly disgusted and could not date such a person. I don't know how I think about gay men because I'm heterosexual and don't really care about gay men's sex life's. What I can tell is that my disgust towards high n count woman comes from the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:07 PM
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No offense but it's repulsive to many guys I know (myself included) and most of them never even heard about TRP. Not judging tho it's just not my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:38 PM
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Most men I know don't get approached by women or maximum once or twice a year. Still some of them have plenty of success when approaching women. To correct myself: yes not only 10/10 men get approached by women but the average men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:28 PM
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90% of my male friends seem to be loosers even though they study chemistry, physics and other complicated stuff. As a man who is not a 10/10 you can easily end up as a virgin if you are not actively looking for a partner. If you set your priorities more towards hobbies and career there is not much time to get pussy. I'm pretty sure none of my friends have "to do better".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:19 PM
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Dirty bulking too hard is kinda pointless. Your body is not able to convert such a high surplus into muscle. I get it that some people want to make sure to have enough energy and are willing to add a few pounds of fat but overeating to the point where you get chubby isn't really smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:14 PM
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Is there any chance you have scoliosis or pelvic tilt? I have the same problem with my traps being a bit asymmetrical. When I stand straight my right shoulder is a bit lower than the left as well. I just hope that doesn't produce problems in the long run with the training.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:41 PM
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Thanks :) yes it's from puberty. When I was younger I was quite overweight and had some man boobs. Even after growing und weight loss there was a bit of tissue left. I'm natural and not planning to hop on gear in the next few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:27 PM
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Im kinda mixed about my body. I'm bodybuilding for 4 years now and i look quite impressive compared to the average man (check my post history for a quick glance lol). However i had some pubertal gynecomastia and went for surgery because of that. Now i have a slightly asymmetrical chest because the surgeon didn't take out everything on one side. Other people will not notice this most the time but it makes me very self conscious. I'm trying to be thankful for the body i achieved but i'm also a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:56 PM
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Thats interesting. I was and still am more pro legalize it than anti but i noticed that the pro weed people neglect any sorts of negative effects. Alcohol may be worse in general but for me THC trips are way too unpredictible. Best life is without drugs but on some occasions i'd rather drink a few beer or some good gin than to mess up my brain again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 04:48 PM
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Oh boy i had a very paranoid phase for a few days after way too much THC and i honestly feel sorry for the people in this sub. Thats peak psychosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:46 PM
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This was probably brought up already but Testosterone is one hell of a hormone/drug. Female bodybuilders can confirm what Test does to your brain and your libido. Men who take Test or anabolic steroids often get extreme high libido and want to fuck everything that walks around. I think women should listen to women who took steroids. Could help to understand the brain of the average man a little bit better. We can try to be as rational as possible but in the end the chemistry in the brain decides…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:57 PM
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What is the context of most male violence? Are men being randomly attacked by men stronger than them or are they getting into bar fights that went too far? I honestly don't know the numbers but from my own perception being a victim of violence as a man can be pretty random. I'm living in a fairly small and mostly peaceful city and even here every few months young men get stabbed or beaten up. ​ If I am substantially more likely than a man to be the victim of a sexual crime I am not going to slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:21 PM
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Not on rape and sexual crimes probably but still a lower number in total. Would you rather get beat or stabbed to death with a way higher probability? In terms of safety you should be glad being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:07 PM
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Don't worry as a woman your chance of being a victim of violent crime is a lot lower than as a man in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:02 PM
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Why are people discussing online in general? I do it myself and while it's kinda fun sometimes most of the time it's just a waste of time. But honestly this sub is a lot better than discussing about politics online. That's the worst thing you can do on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:43 PM
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The fact that he first laughed about the joke and then went on the stage after his wife seemed to be unpleased is an absolute beta move. But I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:33 PM
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I have to disagree. Going to the gym gives you a good body. Lower body fat can improve your facial structure. Being muscular makes a lot more attractive. Higher testosterone through exercise makes you feel good and more confident in general. Even if you are not that attractive to begin with, your appearance WILL be improved. Plus its just a nice hobby to have where you can let out aggression and frustration. Some broscience: I think higher testosterone can improve your face slightly. It is very …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:09 PM
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This exactly. Life is just unfair for some men. I was on both sides. Through self improvement and a glow up in my late puberty I can now consider myself as quite a catch but not "Chad". In the age of 14-15 I was extremely jealous because almost all girls started having experiences while literally 90% or more of the guys didn't even kiss a girl. I know that this is partially due to girls maturing a bit earlier than boys but seeing that getting experience for the average girl is absolutely normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 02:21 PM
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Don't worry she has a lovely husband :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:35 PM
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I have a very mixed friend circle and I really like alle the women in there in a platonic way. I'd say around 50% have some serious red flags (like hoeing around, having no real hobbies or creating drama) as LTR options but I still really like them as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:16 PM
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Even though this discussion comes up here a lot lately i still agree. The ideal mens body is only attainable through extreme disciplined training over years or the use of PEDs. Many physiques you see in hollywood are natural attainable in theory but due to short time frames its not possible. The fitness influenecers you see on insta and Tik Tok are roided out and shift the perceived "natural" scale a lot more towards roided physiques. Best thing is to avoid shitty influenecers and just go for go…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:31 PM
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I think many men feel like they are in constant concurrence with other men they don't know. I notice all the time that many guys want to appear as tough, angry and dangerous people. Even I can't deny that i like to look a bit more intimidating than the average male by working out a lot. Of course thats not my main motivation but it's a nice bonus. I sometimes even wonder if blaming women for having high n counts is even a purely misogynistic thing or maybe a bit misandristic, too. Most men are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:28 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Sometimes i just wish for a bit more initiative from her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:10 PM
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Actually yes, she likes being by my side. When we are watching tv for example she is always in my arms. I guess it could be a lot worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:03 PM
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I think even if you're attractive there is a chance that you won't have that much sex after years in a LTR. I'm almost 7 years with my first GF (i was 16 and she was 15) and i only got more attractive within the last years. I'm doing bodybuilding for like 4 years now and i am in the best shape i have ever been in my life (i was quite chubby before). Guess what, my lovelife is still kinda boring most of the time. Sometimes i think thats the price you pay for really loving a person and having a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:28 AM
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Perfectly described. I discovered reddit through this sub (I honestly forgot how i got here) and was quite disappointed how much censoring takes place in other subs. Automatic bans and blocks just because of certain subs for example. This place is the closest to freedom of speech you can find on reddit i guess. I like how based many discussions are in here and even though i sometimes read things i don't agree with i laugh about the directness of some people. Its just a cool place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:11 PM
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Thats exactly what the whole problem about AF BB high n count women and all this stuff is about. Most men feel loved and validated through sex. So for men it is basically a big deal if a girl is easy with some random douches and lets a "good guy" wait so long. For most women sex seems to be a lot less important so thats why they are behaving like that. Its just two different perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:41 PM
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Mostly because I had severe self confidence issues even during my relationship. So I guess I mostly did it for myself. After a while it gets really addicting and without working out I feel a lot worse mentally. Maybe it's not the healthiest obsession but it's still better than being addicted to video games or eating bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:04 AM
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Even if your statement was true why give a fuck? Ignore those comments and act confident. Most people on work find it funny that I bring my own food every day but if you work out constantly and care about progress it's necessary. When people see that you are quite serious with your efforts they will respect you. If not it's not your problem, haters gonna hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:38 PM
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As a man who is working out constantly and has a pretty decent physique: Yes the bar for men is higher. Basically every male model you see nowadays is probably on steroids and or other performance enhancing drugs. Every Hollywood actor has a physique which is not attainable natural for 99%of the people. The whole male fitness industry is full of roided people there is almost no place for naturals. Women on the other hand just have to look lean and slim. Of course being restrictive on calories ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:41 PM
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I think the majority of people are way too addicted to short term gratification for a change. Maybe there will be niche for people like you but not for society as a whole. The attention span of young people and children has become soo incredibly short due to tik tok and other social media. I can't even watch a movie with my gf without her looking at her phone various times. My nephew is playing on his Nintendo switch while having the TV on witch some stupid YouTube kids let's players. Way too mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:12 AM
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Okay honestly Ive never been too deep in those stuff. I used some red pill tips but I'm not active in any forums or something like that. That's a shame of course. Best thing is to only pick the good things out of TRP (gym, fashion, bit of personality development) and then leave it all behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:25 PM
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Red pill is not incel per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:51 PM
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I don't think many men would confess their TRP beliefs. Understanding the concepts of attraction is one thing. Talking about it the other. I think the same Chad would get rejected a lot more if he openly stands to his TRP beliefs than just being BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:45 PM
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I’m guessing she has a boyfriend and a fulfilling life? Yes currently. At the time we got to know each other she didn't and she already had her profile like this. But she has always been very confident, sometimes even a bit arrogant so i guess she just didn't need getting her validation from social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:15 AM
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True i know an absolute gorgeous girl and when we connected on insta i couldn't believe she has only around 100 followers and a private profile. On the other hand i know plenty of average and under average girls who have 1000+ followers and who like the attention of some male simps. Huge red flag in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:51 PM
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Avatar had more beautiful characters than i could handle as a child lol. Azula, Ty Lee and Katara <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:45 PM
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This statement is stupid IMHO. I don't know much about children and babies because I'm fairly young but I'm pretty sure the father should not only be a provider for the children's future. Bonding and upbringing is important as well and I don't think this should just be the mothers job. However the percentage of fathers in such a high position as stated in his tweet is probably pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:19 PM
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I can understand your arguments and would even agree to a certain extent but you're still a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:38 PM
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Yea most people don't consider the given time frame. Even if some of those physiques are attainable natty its just not possible in such a short period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:09 PM
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Wow i feel kinda flattered that your second image is almost too much. I think i'm pretty close to that one. (Not as shredded though)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:00 PM
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Women who are into music or play an instrument get instantly sympathy from me but thats because I'm a guitarist who plays in various bands. In general i think its just important to have something you really enjoy doing. I know some people who just dont know what to do on their own. Thats a huge turn off. I know a few women who are extremely jealous and control freaks. Most of them just can't be alone because they have nothing to do (despite thegeneral mental issues). So i think having atleast on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:47 PM
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I guess it's not just about sex its about validation as well. If I had to pay a woman to get sex I'd feel unwanted and pathetic. Guys need some love too. Also many guys here are not only complaining about the lack of sex. They are complaining about loneliness in general. You can't buy love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:13 PM
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Is this the same reason for being disgusted by high n-counts? For me its hard to describe exactly why its such an issue but your explanation seems to make some sense to me. I guess thats just a man thing because most women on this sub can't understand the obsession with n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:54 PM
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Yea I'm not trying to argue against that. Life is too short to be suicidal in general i guess. I just wanted to point out that some people have some serious problems with their confidence / self-image and such things can act as some kind of trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:21 PM
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Most people probably won't know until a later stage in the relationsship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 12:27 PM
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I think many men seek their validation in their sexual validation. So if a girl did dirty stuff with other people but not with me I feel like I'm "worse" than the others. I don't think you'll understand but I can assure you it's not like I want to think or feel this way so don't judge me lol that's just the way it is for me and many other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:51 PM
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I don't think it's about the trying and not liking. It's about having a lot more sexual chemistry with an ex or someone else. For some people who already have some self confidence issues this can get really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 11:42 PM
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I'm a bit biased because i had somewhat of a cosmetic surgery myself as a male but whats exactly the problem here? It's pretty obvious that people who want to fix something they don't like have some kind of insecurity but is it that bad? Some go the acceptance route and some do not. I totally agree that some women look totally fucked up after some surgeries but that could be due to poor surgeon choice or shitty expectations. On the other hand a surgery can give serious improvement of life qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 09:11 AM
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If you are already average gym, beard, haircut and general fashion should be enough to get you above average so i guess the surgery could be a bit overkill especially considering that not every surgery goes well (i know what I'm talking about although it's not in the face). A good body through gym can also help with confidence which is also very important. Personally i wouldn't recommend to do such a grind just for getting laid alone. You should atleast have some fun with working out and fashion…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:02 PM
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I think it's harder to compare just sex because for many men getting casual sex is a lot harder than for the average women. If it was easy for men only a minority would go to prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:48 PM
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Yea as a male with a low n-count (In my first LTR since i was 16 years old, now 21) i can kinda understand both sides. Of course n-count shouldn't matter but somehow it would be discouraging knowing that a new partner had alot more sex with different partners than me. I think there is some subconscious disgust knowing that 20+ different men railed over a girl. But i guess the higher the n count of a male the less a man cares about a womans sexual past. I read that mostly men with not much sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:59 PM
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Bioshock trilogy for a good story. Witcher 3 for an overall good game. Dark Souls and Hollow Knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 08:41 PM
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Nah not really more intelligent than most other people I'd say. I'm doing business informatics and it's not too hard I guess. I had some tough weeks during exams but most of the time it's not too demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 09:20 PM
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For me its kind of "upsetting" because i don't want to be the typical career man who only lives on work. I'm studying at university right now and i absolutely appreciate the time i have in the moment. I have some decent and time consuming hobbies and find it hard to think about the future with a 40+ hours/week labour. In my country my future salary will probably be above average so i guess i will maybe try to find 30 hrs job but i don't know how realistic this will be. For me there are just too …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 04:25 PM
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I'm usually a very calm person but the type of guy you describe really bring my blood to boil. I think men should try to get along with each other more we are not living in the fucking stone age anymore. I was raised to be a respectful person so i really despise people who try to look down on other people (especially in the situations you describe). Experiencing such a behaviour helped me to realize i need to grow some bigger balls. Not to become an asshole myself, but to stand up against these …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:00 PM
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On the long run no young male could pay for all the sex with a prostitute. I think I could easily fuck 3-5x a week. Sometimes even 2 times a day. In a fresh LTR or FWB that's a lot easier and cheaper than with prostitutes. So I'd rather go through the dating process than to spend all my money on hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:16 PM
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So the graph shows that most women find most men unattractive. It also shows that still the majority of women text with these in their opinion below average men. But it doesn't show how successful these men are. It could be that women message with some beta orbiters to gain some confidence but in the end only date above average men. An average woman can easily get a three digit number of matches in a short time do you really think she will pick the below average dude in the end? Messaging is no …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 02:19 PM
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There is almost no advantage in being physical superior. Most people who get beat up here are violated by groups, even with experience in fighting you can't stand alone against 3+ people. And if someone has a knife your physical advantages become pretty much useless, too. And statistics don't lie so where is the advantage of being stronger when you are getting attacked more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:39 PM
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Wow no one is going to use violence to get sex from me. But maybe someone is using violence against me to get my money or just to beat someone up out of boredom. Like i said in most parts of the world the chance to experience violence is higher for a man than for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:11 PM
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Absolutely. No male privilege in this world can save me from the dangers that lure outside in some places. Women get raped, men get stabbed or killed. I would not consider any of this as a privilege. It's even more likely to get beaten up or stabbed as a male randomly than getting raped as a woman, atleast where I'm from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:12 PM
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Sometimes I'm not even sure women know their "needed" sizes because most men lie up on their dick sizes anyway. If you have an average dick that should be enough with some decent skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:58 AM
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How can dick size be so important when women will probably see it when you already succeeded. Height and Face are alot more important i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:35 AM
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How is it even possible to downvote here? I've seen some negative karma on some comments before. Is this some kind of bug? I thought its only possible to vote up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:38 AM
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Is it really so difficult to find a partner that isn't promiscuous? I am M, 21 but in a LTR. She was my first girlfriend and if i this LTR should end one day I'm 100% sure i would not look for casual sex or living promiscuous. Most of my male friends are also not interested in fucking around. I always thought women tend to be more promiscuous because generally they have more options (depending on how much the 80/20 rule really applies). Meeting new people after Covid should not be a problem i gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 07:27 AM
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I'm really glad that I'm not in such a situation but I really noticed that most women will never experience true loneliness in their lifes. As soon as someone talks about his dating problems women act extremely passive aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 07:00 PM
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I think it depends to which extend a woman considers money and wealth. That women don't want loosers who barely earn any money is kind of understandable. But if they think I need to make 6 figures (hello FDS) (which is weeeell above average in my country) that's just shallow and I would not consider dating such a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:20 PM
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For me it was quite the opposite during school time. I often thought some girls were just nice to me but later on i realized they probably wanted more. I once got asked from a girl for some technical help in music stuff (I'm a musician) and we spent some good time making music afterwards. She was honestly like 10/10 in looks and was a very nice person to spend time with but i never even imagined that she could like me more than as a friend. My gf at the time was very jealous and told me that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:25 AM
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Yes powerlifters will always be stronger than bodybuilders because they are constantly training for 1 Rep maxes. As a bodybuilder that's not your main goal. I just wanted to point out that the myth of the pumped up bodybuilder with no strength at all is a lie. Of course a bodybuilder is not in the same league as any other weightlifter but compared to the majority of people bodybuilder are still one of the strongest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:41 AM
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A person that looks like Henry Carville will most likely be a lot stronger than the average man. Of course if you are stage ready with extremely low body fat and dehydration you will loose a lot of strength temporarily. You can still have visible abs and decent strength at like 12% bodyfat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 12:19 AM
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I think that's a bit too harsh. Most women think you look like a God with a physique from Taylor Lautner in Twilight. If you are into fitness that's achievable without any PDs. The Hollywood movies are absolutely over the top with their physiques.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:06 PM
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Yea that's true but I guess it also depends on the environment of the person. I have high standards for myself but I think it's not too unhealthy yet. But I also know some women who watch way too many mediocre youth shows with perfect male athletes lol. Same applies to some men too of course. But I'm very happy to see that more and more people understand the BS in the whole fitness and Hollywood scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:04 PM
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Being an hobby bodybuilder myself i'm very interested in this topic and i really noticed how the standards for men in looks and physiques are 1000x higher than womens. Most women i know still think the standards for women are unrealistic but in reality they are so much easier and healthier to achieve than any mens physique you see on every movie or on every fitness instagram page. Another problem is that nobody admits the use of PD's so all young novice lifters have way too high hopes for their …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:39 PM
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Enjoying the loneliness and naivety of some needy men sounds quite miserable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:49 PM
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I won't argue against your statement because I totally agree but I think the thing that upsets most men are the double standards: Good looking guys have a lot less consequences with inappropriate behavior most of the time. Sometimes it's even wanted by women. Only average to below average looking guys are generally labeled as creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:32 AM
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Dark chocholate is no problem. It's healthy when not overconsumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:05 PM
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I looked it up for my country (Germany) and it seems like the young people aren't that obese. Women are about 9-10%. It seems like this problem is coming with an higher age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 01:04 PM
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To be honest most girls i come across in my life are fairly attractive in my opinion. Maybe i have low standards but i straight up think i would have sex with 80-90% of the women i meet lookswise in my age group. I just think most girls are not ugly. I guess the biggest turn off for me would be obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:02 PM
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Nah you're kinda right but there is almost no demand for male attractiveness as long as you are not top 5% or even more in looks. Every 0815 insta girl can become some kind of influencer as long as she is not totally ugly. Men need to be much more attractive in general to get that much female attention on social media. I don't blame women for that there are just to many thirsty simps. But I really envy them for some easy ways to make extra money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:51 PM
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I trust our mutual friend. She told me this story and after confronting my gf she admitted something happened. In the time we were seeing each other again she lied to me and told me she only kissed a guy on a party. Lol typing this it really feels like I'm a fucking cuck. She knew i wouldn't stay with her if she told me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 08:43 AM
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A LTR is a lot more than just sex but yea I agree it's pretty fucked up. I will try talking to her if that doesnt change her mind ill end things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:26 PM
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I'm pretty sure she loves me very much. That's why i didn't leave her yet. We have gone through quite some things and we still enjoy the time we spend together. I just feel like her attachment is waay more emotional and less physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:05 PM
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Finding someone new sooner or later is not much of a problem i guess. She didn't know about the bullying thing though. I haven't seen this guy for years it just came back to my mind that he tried to make fun of me a few times back then. I'm really not sure whether i want to stay with her. I always thought i just have to get over it and that i should not be so insecure but its been in my head for quite some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:57 PM
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She simply told her. Theyre best friends. Ironically she's my best friend too so she told me because she was kinda shocked by her behaviour. I know this guy because he tried to bully me in school almost 10 years ago (nothing serious though) . It really felt like a hit in the chest that she fucked this idiot but apart from that I don't know him. Yea it really sounds like an AF/BB story but we are both still young and not making any money so I'm not really a provider right now in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:35 PM
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Need some help with my insecurities: I'm with my gf since almost 5 years. About one and a half years ago we split up for half a year. In that time she fucked a guy (which is no problem at all even though i'm a bit jealous but i know she can do what she wants as a free woman). Unfortunetaly i witnessed some details from our mutual friend. They fucked the whole night (like 6 times and without a condom). This stuff happened so long ago but it still bothers me. Since we were together again we did no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:10 PM
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Still it seems like only the majority of women want advantages and whine about "male priviliege", atleast in western culture. Of course here are a lot more men discussing so it appears that men are more likely to whine about female priviliege but in the real world feminism is a lot more common than any mens rights group. So i think a great amount of women would not like to accept these differences. In the last years women got tons of privilieges or quotas for jobs, education and "equality". But …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:53 PM
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It's very confusing since many people already stated that some of these numbers aren't even average and the chance for passing all these numbers together is very low. Not passing these standards has nothing to do with being in the bottom 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:59 PM
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So first you defend women for using the 6s rule and say that men who don't apply to this rule are just well below average and now you say this rule isn't really true and only incels use it as an excuse. So i really don't get your standpoint here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:24 PM
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It's pretty shallow to want things a man can't even change about himself. Most men I know don't care about cup size or height in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:44 AM
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Usually i mostly don't agree with Lillith but what kind of women do you know? That sounds horrible. I have a very mixed circle of friends and men and women get along very good with each other. I never felt like i had to invest monetary things into my friendships with women. I'm not saying that women won't use their sex appeal to manipulate men (getting drinks for example) but they mostly do this with men they don't really know. I know thats pretty anecdotal tho but the type of women you describe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:07 PM
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That's pretty much manipulative asshole behaviour. When I say I see sex as a need I don't mean that women owe men anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:47 PM
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No I can't. I don't think that something is not a need just because you are not able to force it. The same applies to my argument considering Sex is a need. By stating that's a need in my opinion I'm not saying that we should force women to have sex with sexless men of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:37 PM
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In that case it's your own opinion that doesnt make it a fact. Social company is basically a need whether you consider it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:24 PM
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No when a man uses violence it's entirely his own fault. I agree that women should be aware that many guys will hit on her if shes wearing provocative clothes but that doesn't justify any sort of harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:03 PM
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Will you die if you don't have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 09:54 PM
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Could still be other factors. (labor, career) Higher age until family doesnt mean that people dont want to have families at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:55 PM
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Do you have some statistics for this? Where I'm from its definetly not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:27 PM
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So you want to tell me that the next generation will be mostly voluntary singles in high age? Will there be any more children? Will women who want kids mostly get it by artificial fertilization or adoption? I don't think most people get along without a LTR sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:20 PM
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Isn't that pretty anecdotal though? Only because you get along without relationsships and or sex doesn't mean that everyone else has. Surely some people try to cope with sex or relationships but definetly not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:32 PM
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Hello there. I said it and I guess one of the links will lead to my comment. I also gave some arguments to that so you can judge for yourself. However I'm not desperate just because I'm claiming this. It's pretty rude to assume that honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:20 PM
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I dont really want to shit my pants. The fat and sugar stuff is quite interesting because it was basically a very smart instinct back then when starvation and hunger was a serious topic. You could also think like that: Sex is not really necessary for humankind anymore but its still in our brains because evolution is pretty slow. That goes even with your fat and sugar argument. Of course people can control themselves thats what seperates humans from animals but that doen't necessarily disprove th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:15 PM
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What people do to babies? Whats the matter? Its still an important part of a relationship to almost everyone. ​ People have movie nights non-romantically too. Probably not my best argument. ​ Love shouldn't just come from romance. That's a redflag. Why? love comes from friendship, family and/or romance. I know plenty of people who have good friendships and still feel lonely without a partner. And this is a concern for women, too. Why should this be a red flag? ​ I have gotten all of those things…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:49 PM
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Cuddling kissing, Romantic movie nights, love, having a family or just talking, Deep trust. Thats all things i cannot really have with platonic friendships (deep trust and deep talk hopefully tho). Of course sex is also an important topic within intimacy but you just deny that sex is a need all the time without giving some proof. I'm at least trying to explain it in some kind of biological and evolutionary way. My question to you: Why are you so desperatly trying to neglect sex as a need? It fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:10 PM
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He didn't have say sex only. A relationship is more than just sex. Honestly after reading a lot of your comments it seems like you are not able to have serious arguments because you are constantly using strawmans and assume more than the texts give.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:51 PM
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Obviously not anymore but instincts do change very slowly and evolutionary. Maybe the sexdrive of men and women will decrease with future generations if overpopulation becomes a serious topic in a view years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:01 AM
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"you men" you know that opinions can vary among one gender, too? I'm sure some men would argue just like you did. Like i said i just think its a need because its basically what saved our existence. Masturbation is a good compromise but i dont think it will satisfy in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:34 AM
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If this comment was supposed to be directed to me of course not. You all should read more carefully and don't create so many strawmen. I initially said that Sex is a need. After that I specified that a relationsship with another person is very fulfilling and I think almost every human being wants to receive love and affection. I never said that i expect that for nothing though. That's a completely different topic. I'm in a happy relationsship for 5 years now so I guess I must be bringing some go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 10:16 AM
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That's a hard topic. To a certain extent I agree with this. I don't know how it's on LTRs but in casual sex its definetly like this (that's why the 80/20 rule exists). However I think there are far more exceptions than red pillers want to admit. I know a lot of women and men who really care about personality and other traits rather than looks and attractiveness only. And yes I agree with your first point. It's a really unhealthy worldview to demand dating or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:19 AM
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Maybe because people who don't struggle with getting into relationships don't think too much about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 01:07 AM
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I knew someone would come with the friendship argument. Honestly it sucks. Yes friendship is extremely important, like family too but it's just not the same as a relationsship with another person. All of these relationships have different kinds of "love". Honestly I would not want to give any of these 3 up. I know many people who have a good social life but just don't feel complete without a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:57 AM
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I think we get to the point here. Yes sex is truly something else. And I don't know how to deal with people or mostly men who desperately can't get what they want. I'm just saying that's an important need for most people. Not saying that we have to provide sex for those who can't get it. (like you said you need 2 people with consent). I guess it's an unsolvable problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:54 AM
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Yea it's good to satisfy the need for a while but honestly sex is just different especially in a relationship. In that case it's not sex alone but love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:46 AM
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If we are talking about the same pyramid I learned in school I'm pretty sure there are several elements. There are also social needs which could include sex. So only because Sex ist not the most basic need like food doesn't mean that it's not an important need at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:42 AM
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True but how can you surely say? Sex is absolutely evolutionary. We are hardwired that we want to have sex. We need sexdrive to reproduce. Without it humanity could barely exist. So how do you come to the conclusion that it's not a need? I know that humans can suppress their instincts to a certain extent. That's what separates us from animals but in the end almost everyone desires sex so why is not a basic need?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:33 AM
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Who says it's not? It's discussed a lot so it doesnt seem that you can surely say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 12:27 AM
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Isn't dating about society aswell? Casual sex aside love and affection is a need and even though the love of the own family is worth very much i think you need some love from a significant other, too. Loneliness in men is rising from year to year who knows which consequences this may have in the next couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:55 AM
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It seems like you think men are whining pretty much about this stuff so i have a question: If men should just accept this situation and stop whining why shouldn't we stop equality and feminism aswell? Women are whining all the time about opression. (Even though some arguments are totally invalid btw). They want regulation to have the same opportunities so isn't it just fair that average men want some opportunities too? Of course dating is nothing you can regulate like wages or quotas in certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:56 PM
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It's a privilege to be a provider? Thats some major responsibility. It's one of the major complains of men that they are not loved for being themselves, that they always have to provide (money, social status). You want to tell me that this is privilege? With the pay gap i mean equal pay. I mixed those 2 points up which could lead to some confusion. Even men who do the same work can get different wages. It's not only gender or sex in this case. Wouldn't it be smarter to only hire women if they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:28 AM
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First of all OP is not asking for women's opinions only. Second just to name a view things out of my head (if you want I can look up a lot more stuff) mostly related to Germany: Male suicide rates in literally every country The gender pay gap was busted a lot of times before and is still used as an argument. I dont know the situation in the US but here in Germany it's still used even though it's statistically a mess. We use quotas to "encourage" women in better positions even though there are me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 10:02 AM
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I think most men have no problems with equality and "real feminism". But some actual stuff is just toxic towards men in general. It's pretty easy to take the victim role and accuse every one else for sexism and misogyny. Doesn't mean that there aren't some absolute asshole men but generally it feels like feminists are in fact trying to get more privileges instead of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:23 PM
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bro don't be blackpilled with 15 years old. When i was 15 i was ugly as f*ck. Luckily i didn't know anything about incels back then. You can still get a glow up in looks and personality if you work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:26 AM
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As an pretty average looking man I don't know how it feels like to have constant attention from the other sex but if i had to decide i'd rather get "harassed" It sounds strange but a clap on my ass from a girl is more a confidence boost for me than "harassement". Obviously it's because of the rariety of those situations. I totally understand that women feel annoyed and violated by such sexistic things because they experience this all the time. So yea i guess i'd take the harassement and being li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 09:54 PM
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Mainly for having sex. But i guess when the general number is bigger there are also more potential candidates for a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 06:43 PM
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I think not. Most women aim above their "league". I know plenty of fairly attractive women who are totally boring and have no hobbies at all. They have nothing to offer but their pretty slight above average looks and still have absolute easy mode in finding guys. It's a really bitter pill to swallow but I guess as a man we just have to accept these facts. Of course there are some exceptions but a good amount of young women are like this. Luckily I'm in a relationship for quite some time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 03:54 PM
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