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Use that rage and envision your life as an rpg and max out your stats, fuck it. I play boss music in my head when i think of my failures and tribulations, do what you gotta do to succeed, who gives a fuck about everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:45 PM
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whos not on my side?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:19 AM
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The tiktok algorithm mentally destroyed me again, saw multiple "what race would you not date" 80% of the answers are Indian, it's all so tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:36 AM
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Can you provide me a recommendation of material to get better at it? Or what lessons you could provide someone starting out given your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:40 AM
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what was your success rate like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:39 PM
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If you go outside you see so many ugly to average guys with very attractive women, what I have noticed is these guys tend to be very stereotypically masculine guys and probably confidently approached these women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:18 AM
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I don't understand why the men here vent and try and seek empathy from women. You will never receive genuine empathy from a woman that doesn't already love you. Women will never understand or internalise how it is for a man, and men will never understand how it is or internalise it is for women. You lot are wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:14 AM
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low iq comment. over 90% of men wouldn't subscribe to onlyfans either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:06 AM
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im not debating you, im telling you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:08 PM
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low iq comment, the market for one is obviously different. One has higher barriers of entry, lower demand and makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:08 PM
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With my work ethic if i was an attractive woman, I would be very successful with this if I chose to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:01 PM
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I honestly feel quite jealous and angry when I think of how hard I work to make money and then I read of sugar babies, only fans' creators and findom mistresses. I already know all the rebuttals, "not all girls make alot of money" "its actually hard work" "men can do it too". The fact that women have this privilege to them, makes me irrationally lose empathy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:51 PM
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No you are wrong, comparison measures interest over time relative to its own data. "Numbers on the graph don't represent absolute search volume numbers"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:16 PM
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Anecdotally, I have heard of quite a few women confiding that they will overlook toxicity in men so long they are tall. Being tall is a huge halo, well done if you won the genetic lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:26 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:43 AM
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I dont think you are interpreting the stats correctly the interest meter is measured as a score on its own search history popularity, it does not measure or compare absolute numbers. If an interest score of 2 on how to get a girl compared to how to get a guy with lets say an interest score of 10, it could still be true that there is still more searches in absolute numbers for "how to get a girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:37 AM
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women believe they are just as if not hornier than man but are able to control it better, thus eluding to the fact they have better self control than men. I believe this is false, and they simple just dont have the sexual urges us men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:09 AM
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pretty stupid arguments made by the women in there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:43 AM
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men are hornier than women and gay men prove this, do you agree with this? I made a post and got many lesbians vehemently disagreeing. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/12y09sn/women\_are\_just\_as\_if\_not\_hornier\_than\_men\_how\_can/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:36 AM
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I really don't think so, I think men just want their women to smell clean and nice too, personally, I have had a few women excitedly show me all the different perfumes she has, while I feign interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:46 PM
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People always say people have to smell good, and people prefer different scents, it is in my experience that women prefer the musky cologne scent of men rather than florals, vanilla or sweet. To your question of the ones you have listed I like vanilla the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:39 PM
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How many negative experiences am I permitted to have with an outgroup that it then becomes okay to have a prejudice/negative bias against them? 5? 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:23 PM
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"If you lived the exact same life and had the same experiences as a person 1 for 1, you would not be significantly different to them." Who agrees/disagrees with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:21 PM
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Its quite interesting that uncircumcised is such a turn of for Americans, most places around the world its a non-issue, some even prefer uncircumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:12 PM
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Bring on the ai robots like from the movie Her, modern dating can be really unforgiving for unconventional people especially men, autistic and neurodivergent, disabled and socially stunted people have a hard time sifting and adjusting to all the barriers they face to find a date. I hope ai robots become so advanced that they can provide them solace from loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:06 PM
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I've always found it very hard to empathise with the issues of celebrities, even if they suffer tremendously I don't emphasise with them as much as a random civilian experiencing the same thing, because of the "but you're rich and famous, you can do whatever you want", that privilege they have over every civilian. I wonder if that's how women feel about men and men's issues in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:37 PM
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Nobody cares about men issues, certainly not women, not even men so much either. I believe women's issues in contemporary society get amplified and rectified because women support women very well, and men support women because they want to fuck them. These things don't hold true for men's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:34 PM
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If i could take a pill that would kill my sex drive to 0, with 0 side effects, I would take it in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:30 PM
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Fair perspective, but not pertinent for less seedy encounters, such as a man flirting and courting a woman he likes at work/school/etc. I wish I could experience that for once, maybe this speaks poorly of how low value I am, but it feels like I am a nuance when I try speaking to women. Feel like dobby from harry potter just trying to get a woman to like me. makes me sad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:29 PM
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did a fake tinder women experiment, gained a little sympathy and insight on why women are so picky, when you have so many messages and matches that you can't even keep up, it makes sense to only pick the top 5% to allocate ur time too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:22 PM
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only idiots strawmen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:17 PM
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not the same experience at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:13 PM
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I am a man and have no desire to be anything feminine, but I really wish I could experience some women exclusive events, such as being approached and courted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:08 PM
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Almost did something very stupid, didn't think i could fall this low
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:02 PM
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The entirety of left tube and left twitter is essentially this, they aren't as pointed and cutthroat compared to Andrew Tate but they are much more numerous and have been around for many years. I will say on a basic glance it seems currently that there is a much more push into the manoshphere lately, but theres always pushes and pulls. When one side gets too heavy the other side gains notoriety
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:32 PM
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:( What is outlier What is "the exception doesn't prove the rule" You realise that even if Andrew Tate by absolute numbers could be the largest by views, this could still not prove your thesis to be true, if you don't understand why that could be, then I am afraid you are just not equipped to handle these leves of discussions, sorry. You could be right, you could also be wrong, but these heuristics hold nothing in weight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:08 PM
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Because most non christian men dont want a virgin christian trad wife. TBH i am being a bit semantic your point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:04 PM
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Given a large enough population size I can construct a narrative on anything. Even if there is 1 false rape accusation for every 1000 real rape accusations, men here still falsely believe that they are at risk of it, they have a poor heuristic, you have a poor heuristic. You want to vent and rage bait. The vast majority of men do not demand pity from women, no one wants pity sex, you have fallen for the chinese robber fallacy. If you want to prove me wrong, get some stats behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:03 PM
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you have to look at the other side, then seek out the population of each and then compare each other. Otherwise, it's just a baseless claim. Me saying "it's far more lucrative and profitable to be a misandrist on YouTube, podcasts and Instagram than it is to be misogynistic" is just as valid if using the same method as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:57 AM
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Ehh you know most non-white non Christian men have conservative values also right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:54 AM
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Conservatives have kinda lost the plot, they unironically made me more pro LGBT with all the bitching they do about trans people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:53 AM
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are u an idiot? When did i say it was the women's fault? And enlighten us on an effective courting method then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:49 AM
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you are lost, you are just talking to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:47 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:46 AM
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Lillith comes to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:40 AM
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Social proof, we use it when buying stuff, seeking out services and dating also. If other people arent buying/desiring/using this service am I doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:38 AM
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It's tautological what you are saying. You think the people here are under the false perception that they HAVE to be assholes and NOT emotionally intelligent to attract women, everyone already knows this. It's like telling a depressed person "hey buddy just cheer up" and then complaining about why all these people are so depressed. If you aren't equipped to have those discussions then just don't participate in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:35 AM
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Full transparency I only post on this sub when I want to vent about my dogshit dating life,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:29 AM
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survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:23 AM
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Everytime i have asked women for dating advice they always give very cookie cutter advice, its nothing profound and not novel, not to say it's bad advice it's just something that everyone already knows. I even asked lillith and she gave very generic answers like "be a high quality man" "dont be an asshole" "get hobbies" while saying that since she had to be general because its individual based (which i don't disagree with)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:22 AM
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why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:17 AM
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ehh i get your point but i dont think this is really a point you can have a say in (men approaching women and rejection) unless you are a man and have experienced it yourself. There is likewise issues where I think men will never understand unless they were women and experienced it themselves. Even if men approached only women that they surmise they had the best shot with, they would still get rejected alot, and realistically unless you have incredible resilience and mental fortitude, rejection …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:16 AM
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yeh i agree, but i would point to alot of other things where i would hold this same standard that women and men would be pissed of at
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:07 AM
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This logic can be applied to almost every single first-world problem, I wonder if this heuristic is even a valid way to judge things. Why are some ppl seemingly happy no matter occurs to them, while others are always dissatisfied? I think moreso it is the comparison we make to our environment, the poor kids in Somalia aren't sad that they aren't getting regular women to have sex with, because relative to their environment this issue isn't even considered, but a millionaire living on a street ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:40 AM
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Nothing will ever change, in the initial stages of a relationship women have alot of power, why would women need to change
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:31 AM
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I made a vow after my last relationship, that I would not actively pursue women and hopefully meet one organically while going about my life. 1.5yrs later, haven't had any contact with women apart from friends girlfriends and customer service workers. Fellas don't do what i did if your life is not filled with socialising with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:27 AM
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So women always say they dont understand why men negate womens advice on getting women and listen to men's instead. I want to know what advice women have for men who want to get a quality woman, from approaching and courting to maintaining a healthy amicable relationship, genuinely interested in hearing what women have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:57 AM
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It’s pretty subjective if you like New Zealand more I can understand it through ur reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:47 PM
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Australia is better than New Zealand in almost every way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:37 PM
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It’s full of French ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:30 PM
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It’s exciting im keen for self driving cars, I hate driving
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:30 PM
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France is the worst developed country
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:20 PM
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What do you think of my opinions? I might dm a pic depending what u say about me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:52 PM
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I would stake my whole existence I could do it with an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:28 PM
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Yes when it comes to tinder that is true, but they still are way to passive and rely on the guy to do all the courting. If i was transplanted into a womans body, I think I could lock down an above average rich man who would treat me right within a month
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:27 PM
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I am right, women will always get higher quality partners if they are in control of their dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:25 PM
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yes but probability is much less, always some guys and girls will slip through but you just get better at filtering through
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:06 PM
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I disagree, I think you are much more in control of your dating life if you approach rather than passively waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:06 PM
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But getting into relationships with men that approach you/make the move leads to better men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:42 PM
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Approach them and make your intentions clear that you’re not looking for sex and don’t have sex till you know he’s not gonna play u
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:32 PM
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Then go approach within a month you’ll find a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:11 PM
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This is what I mean, approach them and make your intentions clear don’t fuck them until you know their worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:11 PM
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Yes women are honestly overpowered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:45 PM
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Women if you approached men your rejection rate would not be high, you MAY face a couple rejections if you're asking out above average men, but undoubtedly you will land one, within 5 warm approaches. For men this number could be 10x, knowing this why don't you approach? Is it fear of rejection? Because I am pretty sure approaching men, is more empowering, allows you to choose the guys you want, and will probably leave you with higher caliber men in your dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:43 PM
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If women were not so passive and put effort into dating even 1/10th the amount of a guy, an average women could easily get an above average man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:40 PM
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It blows my mind that women even get into relationships with average and below average men, there is a huge imbalance in favour of women in terms of dating dynamics, most women who are atleast average should be able to lock down above average guys with just a little bit of effort, the inverse of men securing above average men is extremely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:27 PM
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yeh they're made fun off because they believe in illogical things such as prejudice+power that justify punching up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:23 PM
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what is your explanation for why guys do it then? I think guys think other guys can handle it but girls need assistance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:49 PM
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They do know it matters, it's just that they get frustrated with the double standards, because you don't have to be mindful of your language when shitting on men or a perceived higher class aka punching up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:48 PM
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Im a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:44 PM
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Yes but thats because they see women as delicate and weak with less agency and emotional strnegth than men, also there help or empathy may just be a way to show sexual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:27 PM
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By chance looked at one of my ex's Instagram page, see she has a tall chad for a boyfriend now sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:23 AM
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it depends on location, which country are u in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:30 PM
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Not the most objective way, photo quality will change the rating alot, I have pics where I am rated 6 and others were I am rated 9.7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:26 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:02 PM
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What is the point of this comparison? This is a lopsided issue, just like sexual assault and rape is a lopsided issue towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:53 AM
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hhahha absolute delusional, every single study ever done has noted height being an attractive trait with many women preferring taller women. You can choose to deny this but just remember your denying years of peer-reviewed studies, and that my friend is some insane hubris to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:27 AM
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That wasn't the question haha do you prefer being 5'6 with your average plain face?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:19 AM
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now imagine being 5'6 would you prefer that over being 6'2? the reality is that you have a huge advantage, just because you havent capitalised on it doesn't negate the advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:13 AM
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The fact that a non-overweight woman will respond almost 2x more to an overweight white man compared to a non-overweight asian man kills my self-esteem, I really got to stop surfing these subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:00 AM
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I don't believe women's sexuality is as rigid as mens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:50 AM
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He is not good looking but he is a tinder god? I don'y buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:49 AM
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Why don't women just date other women, if there is so many issues with men? Srs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:37 AM
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To be fair he has also got with women who were unaware of who he was or his wealth, is what he claims. I think his body count would be 10x less if it weren't for his status, but IMO he could definitely pull women without all the status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:18 AM
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I have not seen your face and the answer is that it is not worthless and neither are you. The fact that you are cognizant of the way someone may feel with you approaching them, says incredible things about your emotional intelligence, just do it, it may work out and the experience will help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:15 PM
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I think that's true that women are more emotionally supportive towards their friends but also there is a lot of stuff that I can't relate with I think the original account is still heavily skewed from a female perspective but nonetheless I still agree with alot of it. For example, Male camaraderie has always been a very strong part of my life, and I don't really feel any desire in showing physcial affection towards my male friends like hugs as the original account desires for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:13 PM
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I unironically still disagree with some of what is said in the original account, but i know women are more open to hearing stuff from a trans man compared to a cis man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:49 PM
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I would love to get the women off PPD thoughts on this video, its a trans man's account of what it's like being a man, after transitioning from female to male. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNME0cloyyM&ab\_channel=AnnaAkana
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:37 PM
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There is a great account of a trans man on his feelings becoming a man, alot of women showed sympathy towards it because they perceive a trans man as being a friendly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNME0cloyyM&ab\_channel=AnnaAkana
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:33 PM
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I hope everything works out for you bro, you really have to have extreme resilience and mental fortitude. The book the obstacle is the way helped me alot. As for me I personally don't like pursuing women in general but I realise its a necessary evil, I have had long-term relationships and now have taken a break from any dating until i reach some personal milestones. Dating is great, but it is a significant time eater, time which I prefer to keep to myself atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:32 PM
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I am still successful with women, I just can't be bothered pursuing women, I have 2 fuckbuddies that I see here and there to kill my urges. I used to lurk incel sites in my teens and was a very late boomer, I know more than anyone how hard it can be for someone in your position, I promise you I do. There is no one single trick or tweak but a culmination of things that you should work on to overcome the negative bias of being Indian in the west. If you wanna chat, dm me bro im happy to help as mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:11 PM
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Off course yes i can find indan women but they are very rare like 1% of the population, is there anything I can do to broaden myself from such a small niche so Im not so limited?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:52 AM
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I live in the west 80% of women are white,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:03 AM
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i live in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:31 PM
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I feel you dude i'm 5'9 indian I literally just made a post in this very thread asking the same thing. I was in your position a few years back, and i ended up dating some women and it was mainly just me shooting my shot and getting through rejections
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:25 PM
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I don't know how i can be objective tbh i would say i see myself as like a 5 but idk it could just be my low self esteem in my looks. I can send you my pic in private if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:21 PM
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then who with? apart from obvious answer of other indians
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:14 PM
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its over for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:13 PM
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ive been told im goodlooking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:13 PM
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How is this incel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:13 PM
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yeh just left a bad taste in my mouth I guess haha,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:30 PM
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that's definitely true and what makes me feel bad about my reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:29 PM
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fair enough, it was just us 3 tho, I felt like I was a burden to her and unwanted by her in the night however. But that is true she doesn't need to placate to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:26 PM
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only been in the country for around 5 years, and the customs in her country are different, she also said that sometimes she struggled to understand me. However he body language was also quite rude IMO, but this may be where I am overreacting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:24 PM
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I didn't argue with her, I was very nice and inviting to her. I told my friend the next day that her actions came off as rude just to let them both know that is how she comes off, but I am having doubts now that maybe I jumped the gun a little
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:22 PM
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Am i overreacting here? Friend's gf generally ignored me and avoided being seated or seen around me the entire night while we went out to eat. I asked her plenty of questions and included her in the convos to be cognisant that she was not left out. She didn't ask me a single question, and didn't even say my name once, didn't speak to me at all unless I spoke to her first. I asked my friend if she disliked me and its all good if she did, but he said that she didn't and enjoyed the night out, I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 07:01 PM
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There are things in life more important than sex, certainly for me at this point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:56 PM
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No i dont want that its too time consuming
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:37 PM
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I am scared of the long term effects of this tho, but ill research further IIRC when i last looked into it, the risk/reward on catching a potential negative side effect was bad for me but i'll look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:04 PM
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prozac is it safe to use if not prescribed and not for depression? Have heard of long term side effects that stay after stopping medication
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:51 PM
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Appreciate the response, getting fat is out of the question, anti depressants I am a little hesitant but i'll look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:50 PM
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This is a serious question and perhaps the wrong sub to ask to but whatever. Is there a way to temporarily kill sexual drive? My libido is too high and it interferes in my productivity, I also hate wasting so much time chasing women and seducing them literally despise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:46 PM
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I really feel like, outside of rich and famous people, attractive white women are the most privileged class and have the best starting point for “success” in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:37 AM
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I’ve seen recent tinder expirements with way most catfish profiles that drown in matches
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:22 AM
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Why isn’t he getting matches? https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/zvxcth/im_absolutely_bombing_do_i_need_an_ego_check_or/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:50 AM
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I’m trying to make peace with the fact that to get a girl I will probably have to face 10-15 rejections first with varying amounts of pain and embarrassment is there any resources or material I can use to Increase my indifference to being humbled via rejection or my view towards it Decrease the amount of rejections I face before I succeed Thanks in advance guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing glad you found it to be useful, seems like there is benefit i could get from it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:00 PM
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Thanks for your insight man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:46 PM
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How did it change ur life if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:42 PM
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Thanks for sharing man, maybe i am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:39 PM
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How do i know if i need to look for a new one? if my problem still persists after a specific time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:38 PM
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I can definitely see it being useful if you need someone to honestly talk to that will listen, most people including me don't have that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:23 PM
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Whats the difference b/w a good one and a bad one? The only things that fill me with peace are the insignificance and briefness of our existence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:18 PM
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On the surface, i could be desribed as a HVM or a LVM depending on what traits of mine you want to key in on. IMO i would never call myself one, stay humble stay happy could never imagine myself thinking im better than others due to some ostensible arbitrary indicators.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:16 PM
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Has anyone been to therapy here what is it like? Feel like it will infantilisation sessions of "you're so brave", feel like I'm too aware of what is happening to derive any utility from it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:09 PM
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Thats my point, because onlyfans girls are not employees of Onlyfans they can't be held accountable through onlyfans outside of payment issues. Hookers have restrictions placed on them bro, bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:58 PM
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Maybe, I don't think it's a fair comparison. Does playboy provide personalized service? Also playboy is a corporation that can be sued and must abide by regulations pertinent to them, no accountability for singular only fans girls and their actions. Smoking and alcohol was also free of restrictions for many years doesn't mean that it shouldn't be now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:52 PM
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games the game brother it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:47 PM
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Tbh i used to agree with you until I seriously thought of the types of men purchasing onlyfans. If there is a product being sold where a majority of the consumers are using it in an unhealthy manner, or the product itself appeals to disproportionately vulnerable consumers, there are restrictions placed on it, this standard is upheld in almost every product/service that i can think of off the top of my head that has this phenomenon. I would argue that Onlyfans is in this camp too. Thus there's IM…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:47 PM
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She was Maltese, also while it is a nice sentiment to think western women's actions disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:35 PM
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After she said that she asked me what I was and I told her Morrocan I think she bought it because i can speak ok french and spoke it, and because im pretty good looking for an Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:17 PM
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Brief Story time Acquaintance invited me to chill with her friend, we ended up fucking. After when we were chilling she casually mentions that Indians disgust her and she would never fuck an Indian. Didn't have the heart to tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:14 PM
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lmao takes me back to frantically searching on google about astrology on my phone while she was preparing drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:04 PM
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no ones saying you dont but the margin or error is larger and the opportunities are greater. Picture it like this, you're stepping up for a free kick, the short person has a standard sized goal to score in (lets say 10m) whereas a tall person has a larger goal to score in (lets say 15m)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:59 PM
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probs a mix of younger generation being taller, taller guys having more success and confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:33 PM
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How can the shortest guy you met be 6ft if the average is 6ft, there has to be people more and less than 6ft for it to be average. Also ngl Netherlands seems like hell for short people, im sure height means a lot less there where everyone is tall than in a country where the average is much lower. My point being I think drawing a conclusion that height isn't important from a country where the avg man is tall is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:25 PM
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Maybe, but male friendships are hard to cultivate nowadays let alone female ones. I have 0 female friends and dont even know about how to get genuine women friendships. It all just feels so tiresome, feel like ranting on reddit is more more +EV at this point then anything in that realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:34 AM
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I think if anything its the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:27 AM
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hate having to take risk for an ostensible reward, hate how that the effort is so mismatched and the onus is on me to do everything right and "right" changes from girl to girl and is unknowable to me and if i slip up even once its over. Just makes me very cynical and im not good at either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:25 AM
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I think i need a radical change in my brain chemistry or something. As it pertains to dating, I hate being single and alone, but I strongly despise seducing women even more. How can I change? How can i trick myself into being an opportunist and just start shooting my shot indiscriminately I need help bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:33 AM
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ok sure why not the more the merrier I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:20 PM
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ok i have messaged u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:53 PM
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i got a surprise cant say it was a good one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:48 PM
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5 is still 5x more than me congrats on being 5x more handsome than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:38 PM
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I'm not in that camp but i could see it for models
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:29 PM
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its over for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:24 PM
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pain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:23 PM
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Guys, if I've never been approached by a woman, am I delusional to think of myself as above-average looking? edit. - i dont wanna dox myself and wanna stay private, is there anyone that i could send my pics to that would not leak or save them? To verify if im average looking or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:22 PM
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