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Interesting. I'm an introvert-extravert (google it). I have a lot of friends, but they tend to be one-on-one friends, not a "crowd." I have never had any trouble with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:21 PM
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Much better because you sound like a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:44 AM
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I am not red pill, but I think society is healthier when there are a lot of people who have a vested interest in the next generation and the ones after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:17 AM
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Because real autism isn't hypermasculine - it's a tragically profound disability. Ability, not disability, is masculine. The current fashion for calling anyone who is odd, awkward, or (God forbid) very smart is wrong and unfair to real autists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:01 AM
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Maybe if the 900 count took 20 years to achieve... but not in a day (sounds physically impossible, dangerous, and unsanitary).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:27 PM
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They are non-rational. I like rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:03 AM
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If you think it's a capitalist hellscape, I don't want to have anything to do with you. I spend two-thirds of my waking hours practicing my trade (to the benefit of me, my family, and society including providers of capital) and I would hope a potential partner would be curious about that aspect of my life. I don't think I could have a relationship with someone who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:58 AM
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Not where I come from. Courting is simply getting to know a girl slowly and respectfully, usually with the knowledge and consent of her parents (courting usually refers to girls who are too young to be out in the world on there own).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:41 PM
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I had the same problem when I was single. Lots of girls seemed to like me, but it was hard to get laid. (I'll admit that I'm not very good at the last step of closing the deal.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:39 PM
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The Bay Area has the opposite problem. The sheer number of autistic, slovenly but rich Techies has created a paradise for women there. In what way is it "paradise" for women to be chased by a large number of unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:36 PM
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I think sex should be sellable and buyable if that's what someone wants, but it's not what I want. Not that complicated...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:32 PM
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Is "Linda" fun and funny? Is she smart? Does she have friends? Is she average looking or better? She'll do fine. Most of us guys prefer a woman who can stand on her own two feet financially, but it's not a requirement, especially if you (the man) want to have a traditional marriage with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:29 AM
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Nobody holds exactly the same values as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:38 AM
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The whole men needing to know a child is theirs is a pretty modern invention When resources are very scarce, which is most of human history, men won't support children that aren't theirs. They will abandon them or worse. So if you wanted to survive childhood, it was in your interest to have a known biological father. It's *civilization*, which softens this, that's a modern invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:37 AM
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In general it did, what with the lack of birth control, most people were young, etc. Only gays had an active sex life with a low probability of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:27 AM
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That does seem fairer, even if there is something yucky about enforced anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:27 AM
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Yes but I don't know the names of the 11th, 12th, 13th...10000th greatest scientists of the 17th century. (I can probably make it through the first ten.) I'm not Isaac Newton, and what I produce (which I think is pretty good and valuable) will be completely forgotten in 50 years. It's just human nature to think your genetic line (incorrectly called a bloodline) has some value and is worth preserving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:24 AM
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Don't tell my grandmothers that. They were born in the 1880s/90s. One was an actress and opera singer, and the other was a businesswoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:21 AM
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Paul Simon is very short. Do you want his genetic line to die out? I mean, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:03 AM
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I graduated from HS in 1971 and never did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:44 AM
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Top 1% income in the U.S. is $880K. In New York it's much higher. This is a first world country - not everybody is poor. C'mon man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:20 AM
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That's more like 10% of the population. $200K and up. You can't live like a Hollywood playboy on that in New York but you can live on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:16 AM
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I'm exactly the opposite. When you're older and have been single a long time, notch count and casual sex are positives for me. In both my partner and myself. The woman I married has a history along those lines. (So do I, but not enough.) But some sex acts are just ewwww. If a woman did them once and hated it, OK, but if she actively sought them out, no. MFM and FMF, sure, I've done it, only liked the latter (ha). No real desire to complicated my marriage that way, but these scenarios have worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:55 AM
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What do you mean by race play and age play? My wife and I aren't very kinky, but she has some "characters" (just verbal, no dressing up or anything ) that are a black girl, a Southern girl, a teenager, etc. and I love it. Is that race/age play or is there more to it? By the way, there's a lot of comedy in what she's doing. We don't take ourselves very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:42 AM
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If they have children, the husband would have to be the primary caregiver. I know now couple like that and they have 5 children whom they homeschool. (I would rather have the wife's job!)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:26 PM
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Women are taught by other women. What male-dominated culture? Do you live in the UK or Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:10 AM
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The Matrix was made 24 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:09 AM
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My father told me to be nice and to be chivalrous but also to make something of myself and be ambitious and well-rounded. He didn't say it would get me laid because that would have been inappropriate, but of course that's what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:08 AM
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I am "boomer" age and I have never met anyone like that. Or if I did, I didn't know it. The description you gave does not resemble me (or, for that matter, my parents) in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:04 AM
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Freedom of choice? Prostitutes and porn stars don't typically get to choose their sex partners. Also, there is just something yucky about messing up such a natural, enjoyable function with money - don't ask me why. I am not a psychologist or philosopher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:09 AM
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Geez, *writing* Game of Thrones (actually called A Song of Ice and Fire) isn't monetizing your sexuality. The person who wrote it is a big old fat guy with a real gift for storytelling. He is monetizing his intellect. I don't even think the writer of Fifty Shades of Grey is selling her sexuality. (She isn't such hot stuff, and the book is truly awful, but even if she were beautiful and the book were good, it is just writing.) Sex is something you do, in person, that involves at least one of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:06 AM
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Stripping? (I don't mean what goes on in the back room, not all strippers do that. Just dancing on stage nude or almost nude.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:01 AM
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Obviously, but you're on Reddit where nothing makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:39 AM
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Over 22-23, yes. Sex is too basic and important an aspect of human life for a sensible woman to have avoided it longer than that. And if they haven't had any offers, there's probably a reason. I would say the same thing about a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:36 AM
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I think you're reading way too much into the expression. Very attractive men don't have to have a lot of money to attract desirable women. Less attractive men do need the money. That's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:10 AM
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Good comment. My two older lady friends, when I was a young guy, fit your description. But the one I stayed with for a while (open relationship, she wouldn't have it any other way) was not gobsmackingly older. She was 8-1/2 years older. That and the fact that she had a young son made it impossible for her to confuse me with someone her son's age. In those days almost everyone was on hormonal birth control so, yes, bareback. The STDs of the time were pretty mild and most people didn't take precau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:01 AM
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Because, in effect, she lied to you. What she did in the past doesn't really matter, but what she does in the present matters, and she presented herself as somebody she's not. That is the source of the pain, not biology or instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:48 AM
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That's a reasonable sociobiological position to take, but it is not my experience. Most of my girlfriends, and all of my serious ones, have been somewhere between slightly promiscuous and wildly promiscuous. I don't care (I liked it) because (1) I started having sex late, at 19, and most girls are experienced by that age; (2) they know what they're doing and are more open-minded; and (3) if it turns into a long-term relationship, they've sowed their wild oats and might not feel the need to do so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:43 AM
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Actually, it's bad sex. I was 19 and had quite a lot of non-intercourse sexual contact with quite a few ladies (I am not a dork) when I lost my virginity. The girl that finally did it was disappointed all right, and she never slept with me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:59 AM
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My grandfather was 5'4" and he was quite a successful guy. He obviously found someone to marry or I wouldn't be here. (She was short, very smart, and according to my mother she was a wonderful parent.) Keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:12 AM
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I don't disagree, as long as he's not married when he's fucking as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:04 AM
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Channeling Rachel in Friends, I "have a job" so I can "pay for things." The alternative, becoming a bank robber, is only attractive until the prison gates close behind you. What, pray tell, do you want your prospective man to do for sustenance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:59 AM
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That isn't sluttiness or sexual aggressiveness, which I kind of like - it's psychopathic suicidal behavior and I would run like the wind from someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:56 AM
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Somewhat nerdy girls (not extreme) are the best girls. You can actually have a conversation with one; they're not bimbos; and they are just as interested in love and sex as any other kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:23 AM
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That's what I thought when I was 14-15-16. I was wrong. They were interested. I was stupid and couldn't pick up clues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:19 AM
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I would not extend "teen love" to 25. At that point you've been an adult for years. Teen love is so much fun because you're inexperienced and it's fresh and new. You're learning at an amazing rate. By 21 I would hope that phase is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:17 AM
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For whatever reason (probably due to men controlling most of the narrative about sex)... Do you live in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:16 PM
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Yes, it's very easy. I got over it by having long-term relationships with three girls and then marrying the last one. That was 42 years ago. It might have been fun to be a Casanova (google it, kids) but I guess I wasn't cut out for it. I did OK anyway. I'm so glad I'm not dating in this century. These discussions are mostly horrible. I'm more of a "let's just hang out, get stoned, and listen to some music" guy and then see what happens. Dating these days just seems like incredibly hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:08 AM
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The 3rd date rule is from the 1960s, when the first Gen X'ers were being born. It's also been said (by serious psychologists) that women know whether they're interested in sleeping with a man within three minutes of meeting them. Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:14 AM
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obviously... I tell tall tales occasionally too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:45 AM
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One person's power insecurity is another person's sense of adventure or curiosity. One of my longest relationships was with a woman almost a decade older. Was it perfect? Not even close. Did I learn a lot about adulthood and living? You bet I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:06 AM
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Interesting. When I was 55, which was not all that long ago, the sweet spot romantically was 45-60. A relationship is only possible with someone who has something in common with you. My wife is 4-1/2 years older than me. (The sweet spot for girls to look at on the beach was, is, and always will be prime fertility age. "We get older and they stay the same age.")
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:04 AM
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They literally ask him if he has money? Or do they check out where he lives, what kinds of restaurants he frequents, whether he has some dress-up clothes, etc.? If a woman asked me if I had money, I'd say "I don't carry cash because I lose it too easily. I use Apple Pay." It's a question ripe for parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:58 AM
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The "hoe phase" phrase is the black, hip-hop influence. Before the 1990s it was called swinging singles, sleeping around, party girl, playgirl, liberated woman, etc. Yes there is a benefit. Most people want to have some sexual experience and adventure before they settle down with one person. It sure beats going through the phase when you've been married for seven years - ever hear of "The Seven-Year Itch" with Marilyn Monroe? It was filmed in 1955 and was about people your grandparents' age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:58 AM
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Older women are more interested in ballroom, tango, etc. I mean 55+ although a few will be 35-55. My wife is one of them. A few athletic young girls are into swing dancing, Lindy hop, etc. and they are very impressive (google "Lindy hop competition").
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:51 AM
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Damn right they are. Biology 101. My criteria are smart, nice, pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:24 AM
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The most intimate act between a man and a woman is choosing to spend a substantial fraction of their lives together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:56 AM
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That is if they are of the opposing party. If they are of the same party, it's "I did some dumb things when I was a kid." <cynical/exaggerated>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:49 AM
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Was this in the United States? Tango places here tend to have more women than men. A man who is just adequate at tango can dance with any tanguera he wants except for the real pros.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:45 AM
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You don't have to be a "total whore" to have a ONS. Geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:38 AM
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It depends on what you want out of life. The stereotype that "dimes" are self-absorbed and distant is not entirely wrong. 4-7's are people too, and may have much to offer. They are more likely to be attentive and good company, and *much* more likely to date an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:31 AM
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Statistics are tricky. I've had 20 partners in five years - once. Every other five-year period of my long life, exactly one partner (same one every time), or none. So where do I fit in to that table? It depends on how the table is constructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:25 AM
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You nailed it. A man (not a teenage boy) who is a virgin has been rejected over and over, for some reason. This gives off a vibe of either desperation, undesirability, or both, and it feeds on itself tending the perpetuate the virginity of said man. Maybe the French have the right idea: the boy should lose his virginity early with an older woman who has no expectations, so that his future girlfriends will benefit. Pay it forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:22 AM
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Well, duh. My wife is barely coherent around a very muscular man. I think a lot of girls are like that, but don't necessarily talk about it because it sounds superficial or slutty. Just wanting to fuck someone right now doesn't mean they'll actually do it. I have never, ever known a very muscular guy who didn't attract a lot of hot-looking girls (unless he was gay, and even then...). They might not be the girls you would choose for a wife or girlfriend but they exist, which is something of an an…
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:11 AM
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Actually, sounds like my brother-in-law except for the arrest, the mattress, the filth, and the trailer. Basically he's an overweight, unemployable but amiable lunkhead who pulls a lot of women his age (not "girls") (OK, one is in her thirties, he's 60). The women tend to be drinkers or druggies but not too bad looking.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:55 AM
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Thanks. My marriage is not perfect but better than average. We have a lot of laughs. There are awesome times and there are difficult ones. Also, she was my third long-term girlfriend and then there were the in-betweens but I always look back on the ones that got away and wonder why. :-)
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:50 AM
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That is not my experience. I've been friendzoned by at least 100 women. Maybe way more if I think back to my teenage years. I have a lot of different interests and talents - a bit of a Renaissance man - so women find me interesting and maybe charming but not sexy. Hmmm. Well, I'm married now so I guess I did OK.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:52 AM
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I've had a 225 and she was very pretty and crazily sexual. I was young and I learned a lot. We were together a little over a year, Don't knock it till you've tried it. It helped that she was tall.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:45 AM
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I was on house arrest, I slept on a mattress on the floor, I had no job, and my room was filthy. Also I lived in a shitty trailer. And the girls were also on house arrest, slept on a mattress on the floor, had no job, and their room was filthy? Sounds like my brother-in-law. "What did the cat drag in?" Of course, if you were pulling cheerleaders and models, I take it all back.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:41 AM
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