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If you agree to a monogamous relationship to begin with, you've already violated 1 and have already lost.
/r/seduction28/03/26 10:14 PM
1

So, what flipped you for him?
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:32 PM
8

Yes, race and face > height.
/r/BlackPillScience18/01/26 03:38 AM
3

"Shit testing" is just cope for the fact that she simply has low interest in you. You think if you were her fav pop idol she would ever "forget" a date with you?
/r/seduction13/01/26 06:30 PM
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In any culture with arranged marriages...betabuxxers get artificially-selected and alphafuxxer traits naturally-attractive to women get artificially-deselected. So, you end up with a population of betabuxxers with no clue how to get women on their own.
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:50 PM
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Agreed. Tech hubs are the deathknell for any city...which just turn them into overpriced, soulless, womanless, tech brotopias.
/r/seduction23/12/25 03:06 AM
-4

Correlation =/= causation. She probably didn't reject you because you got excited about her...but you got excited about her because she was basically out of your league. Which is why she really rejected you. Because she thus had higher standards and better options.
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:55 PM
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The key is being relatively better-looking. So either you looksmaxxx and/or lower your (conventional) looks standards for her to increase volume.
/r/seduction28/11/25 03:42 PM
3

I mean, you answered your own question, haven't you? Girls look for face, race, masculinity (height, dick, etc) as their primary prequalifiers. If you pass all those, you're basically in as long as you don't fumble it. But if you don't meet those prereqs, you're not even getting admission in to begin with. Just like with college.
/r/seduction05/10/25 06:39 PM
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Did you even watch the video? She didn't call his lunchbox girly...but simply playfully asked if his girlfriend made his lunch for him. And he got triggered, interpreting it as implying his girlfriend wasn't highly-educated.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/25 07:10 PM
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Actually, it can kinda work that way, with frivolous complaints even against women (usually as a cover for some underlying personal grudge). And it is absolutely devastating when someone gets falsely accused and wrekt due to this. People should honestly wish this on nobody.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/25 07:07 PM
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If he's not good-looking, but all the local girls want him...then he probably has a big dick and word got around. None of this shit is that deep. And if you think it's that deep, then you must be missing something very simple.
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:24 AM
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Most relationships start going downhill after the honeymoon phase is over and so most marriages are shitshows. I'm personally not into cheating though, so prefer transparency (open, enm, poly, whatever you wanna call it).
/r/seduction10/06/25 01:49 AM
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I agree. I feel like it's kind of like shitting where you eat. It might work if you want 1 serious gf...but it still feels a little too close for comfort.
/r/seduction30/05/25 11:33 PM
1

Sure, you do you...but there's also some basic minimums to customer service. I guess you could always ignore them, but that seems like unnecessarily setting your game to harder mode.
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:20 PM
3

I dunno about that. I'd def at least have my bed made and any clutter on the floor at least tidied up. As well as the bathrooms cleaned up enough. And have some dim lighting available. That'll put both of you more at ease.
/r/seduction24/05/25 03:57 PM
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A little preachy, but it makes some pretty based observations, too. when men’s and women’s evolved mate preferences play out in the modern West, the lowest-value men become excluded from mating. Incels have been common throughout most of human history (Larsen, 2023c, 2023d). The early-second-millennium Church’s imposition of life-long monogamy restrained Homo sapiens’ bias for polygyny and hindered women from channeling mating opportunities predominantly to the highest-value men (Larsen, 2022, 2…
/r/BlackPillScience22/05/25 01:21 PM
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Agreed. And you don't even have to be great, just at least have a functional dick of adequate size and be able to get her off somehow. The bar is not too high out there, apparently. Ofc, even this is not always easy, as it requires sufficient knowledge, experience, and health.
/r/seduction29/04/25 06:01 PM
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All else being equal, looks/height makes a big difference. But this video is a good example of how good-looking/tall guys tend to slack in other areas, while a determined short kang will try harder to compensate. So, their respective efforts (or lack thereof) can narrow the gap. Like, James has worse posture and his fit is horrible...with jean shorts and a tight T that flexes his beer rolls? Whereas Phil's efforts have boosted his attractiveness, while James's lesser efforts have detracted from …
/r/seduction24/04/25 12:38 PM
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Right, and once you "settle down," you can't even really just socialize and get to know other diverse women much at all, even before any sex. So, I feel you just have to shut yourself off from and miss a lot of opportunities to even get to know half the population. Not to mention, once a woman "has you," you lose all leverage and she loses respect for you, IMO. Since she knows she's your only option with no competition, now.
/r/seduction16/04/25 11:50 PM
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I'm kinda in the same boat. I feel most males are happiest and built to be uncommitted and dating around...but most just don't have the ability to. I mean, even if you have 1 woman you're great with...why wouldn't you still want more?
/r/seduction16/04/25 04:04 PM
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Agreed. If anything, apply Occam's Razor to an extreme in dating. Only follow actions, and can pretty much ignore words.
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:06 PM
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Right, but as you said, without physical attraction first...it doesn't matter how good your verbal game is. Physical attraction is the first big filter to pass through. And each successive filter then matters less and less.
/r/seduction19/03/25 03:11 PM
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Lol, becoming a high-status, alpha bro who can throw parties with 5:1 ratios...is the Hugh Hefner model. Sure it works...but if it was that easy, everyone would be doing it. For the average Joe, optimizing your look and verbal game is far more doable than an entire lifestyle makeover.
/r/seduction19/03/25 03:08 PM
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This guy fuxx. Step 1 (80%) physical attraction followed by step 2 (20%) verbal game.
/r/seduction19/03/25 02:55 PM
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Only 20% is your game and 80% is just your ability to find right women. Yea, my rough guesstimate in 2025 is that it is 80% your looks (which also largely determines who will sleep with you) and 20% game.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:01 AM
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It is a numbers game. With the primary number being your looks on a scale of 1-10.
/r/seduction15/03/25 03:27 AM
2

I wonder how tall Steven Gress is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:12 AM
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I don't push the dates (not saying it wouldn't work), but a little playful roasting and false obstacles def do make the interaction funner. Ofc, all of this is predicated on the fact that she is at least already physically-attracted to you first. If not, then no conversational game will work. Seduction is like a marketing funnel for both parties with successive filters where only a small % of the starting pool will end in sales.
/r/seduction09/03/25 04:51 PM
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And the second most relevant question is how tall is he? Once these 2 variables have been determined first...then, let's talk.
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:08 PM
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Why do so many guys simp and sub to OF girls...but not vice-versa? Guys are just wayyyyy more desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:08 PM
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Alphafuxx, betabuxx is law of the jungle. Why wouldn't it be that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:13 PM
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You're probably her physical type to begin with, though. And from there, it's all a downhill slope.
/r/seduction26/01/25 07:08 PM
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I dunno, a European with a Euro accent may clean up house in the US.
/r/seduction25/01/25 08:16 PM
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I've found that women have their specific physical types and if you don't fit those templates...you will immediately get filtered out off the bat.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:24 PM
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Some or most of those are fake and even used the same openers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:25 AM
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Well, it worked for the Boomers back when women had to fight over survivors from 2 world wars, many of them still couldn't even vote, couldn't have their own credit cards, and so were entirely dependent upon men. So, it should still work for everyone else now, right? 🤡
/r/seduction23/12/24 12:20 AM
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There is no bigger betabuxxing simp than a guy who pays for a virtual girlfriend. Which they already have...called OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:23 PM
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After 3 months they chill out a lot. By 12 months they're fine. By 18 months they're walking about and you can give them basic commands and they can kind of tell you what they want. LMFAO. Weaning, potty-training, and sleeping through the night could take years. And they need a close eye through their terrible 2s and toddlerhood to make sure they don't break other things or themselves. Not to mention, just constant attention and holding, since they're babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:29 PM
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No, she denied the existence of alpha/beta traits. I don't mess with all this alpha or beta stuff. I think it's nonsense tbh. But her actual turn-on shows just how important mere physical "alpha" traits are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:55 PM
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No I perceive it as hot af and also warm for me to snuggle with. Right, and I'm just explaining WHY you perceive it hot af...and how that actually proves af/bb theory. Because that's what actually gets you wet, not the soft academic beta bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:24 PM
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body hair that could shame a buffalo Probably because you perceive that as an alpha trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:17 PM
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Keep tech bros from turning your city into another tech hub...or this is the inevitable conclusion. A sausage fest full of 49rs (4s who think they're 9s).
/r/seduction12/11/24 12:21 AM
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Because if you want to know what women want...look at the men women actually want. Which then forms the basis for various pill theories. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:16 PM
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Read all the comments to get a glimpse inside chad's world. Can you only imagine the DMs he gets? 4b won't even phase guys like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:06 PM
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Exactly, whatever rules women come up with for men...will only apply to the ones they aren't interested in anyways...and will still always be broken for chad. Always have, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:01 PM
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Real chads DGAF because they know they will never get canceled by thirsty women, no matter what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:43 PM
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Probably depends...as these flairs are pretty broad. In my case, I believe in the Red Pill axiom that alphafuxx, betabuxx...but I'm OK with that. I also believe in the free choices of women to be a tradwife or boss babe, abortions or not, etc. And I am very against the whole Biblical toxic patriarchy originally derived from their "gods," the Anunnaki aliens...that still rules us today. So, how is that against any woman's human rights and self-sovereignty? I actually wish more would stand up agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:17 AM
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Well, good points for MAGA men...and I agree they shouldn't be further enabled with sex. That's like a slave voluntarily fucking her massa. But, I don't see why this would apply to non-MAGA men...and by the same token, should even boost our dateability since we are actually allies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:29 AM
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Guys who I know have been dumped more times than that are basically perma-single cynical fuckboys with no intention to settle down. Why is that bad? Isn't that just being realistic and accepting human nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:58 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:52 AM
1

Most men not only put up with this, but they actually feel like it's their role in life to "provide" for women so they actually get a sense of purpose from being used. It gives their lives meaning. More like if Plan Alphafuxx fails, then they have to resort to Plan Betabuxx and simping on OF. A man generally only betabuxxes as much as he has to. Alphamaxxing is hard though, as you have to fulfill your true potential and beat the competition. Hence, most men never achieve that status and settle f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:09 PM
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No, because women always codeswitch and censor themselves in male company. So, I only follow their actions or listen to anything they say in girl talk only. For example, the other day I overheard one girl tell another how she liked a specific racial mix of men. So that's her scale and it's really that simple. But, would she ever tell that in mixed company with other males? No...then it becomes just about how she wants a guy with a sense of humor, etc. Ofc, she's omitting how it's not just any gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:57 PM
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I don't feel that implication here...just how differently this guy has gotten treated by women depending on where he fell on their overall female preference spectrum. The point being to determine what most women on average actually want in a man based on his actual lived experience...so that men can know what to focus on developing the most to better our chances. In general though, women have minimums (inches, dollars, etc) and men have maximums (lbs, kids, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:28 PM
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what one woman thinks is top 10% looks-wise, is NOT AT ALL the same as what each one of her friends will think is the most attractive dude There's definitely bell curve standards to this and while tastes do still vary...this scale still applies to each woman and her own personal type. Like, if you are within the top 1% of HER personal scale...then she'll treat you as that per the OP's spectrum. But yes, sometimes a woman will be talking about how good-looking her man is (to her)...and when I see…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:40 PM
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Women are constantly telling men to not approach them. That they don’t deserve love or relationships or sex. It’s associated with sexual harassment and assault It's actually pretty simple, with no contradiction here. The rules obviously change based upon how hot the man is. That's what makes the difference between wanted and unwanted attention. If he's hot, it's romantic. If he's not, it's harassment. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:41 AM
1

Right, so women may tend to get goggles and fall harder for men after cumming, then. Whereas men may sometimes feel the opposite.
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:30 PM
1

Men get post-nut clarity. Do women get post-nut goggles?
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:20 PM
1

He's at least average, but his gift of the gab is off-the-charts elite. Dude can riff off-the-cuff and hold an entire convention hall rapt at attention for hours on end. So, just grabbing and holding a few girls' attention is like child's play compared to that.
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:27 PM
1

Geez, how good-looking and tall are you, bruh?
/r/seduction17/10/24 05:00 AM
10

The first thing I notice is that the top hits are from skinny, heavily made up conventionally attractive women talking about their personal experiences. I highly doubt these women ever struggled with men because of their looks or needed to be told that looks were important to men. They struggled with dating for other reasons, so that is what they are discussing. Lol, yea I always get a big chuckle out of how this "divine feminine" dating guru sells all these teachings on inner spiritual game to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:57 AM
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Wishful thinking, lol. No = no. Mixed signals = no. If she wants you, she'll make it very easy for you. Words mean nothing, unless backed by action. Sex = yes...the rest is BS.
/r/seduction15/10/24 05:53 PM
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If she's grilling you about your job, she perceives you as Beta Buxx and is looking to drain your wallet. If she doesn't care what your job is, she perceives you as Alpha Fuxx and is looking to drain your balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:00 PM
1

So, this was just like a SFW photo with your shirt off? See, this dramatically shows how much female attraction is actually based on physical traits, not behavior, to me.
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:21 PM
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After that barrage of getting ghosted I sent a photo of my gym pump (also something I don’t do now. It shows low smv) and she called me 3 minutes after saying she wants to come to my house. We banged that night. Had you guys already banged before?
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:01 AM
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Right, guys can only get away with being bad if they are good-looking and/or masculine - which is what really attracts their women and gets them to tolerate the "bad" treatment. Ofc, most women don't want to openly admit this in mixed company (with any males present)...so just blame the symptom, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:52 AM
3

No idea...200 likes in 48 hrs? Ngl, I'm shocked. That would be absolutely smashing it for any age.
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:59 PM
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Yea, I've had this...more often than not, actually, as grown adults who don't have time to waste. Because whether you connect over texting or a date...what's the difference, really?
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:29 AM
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K-Fed has snagged a whole grip of baddies pumping out his babies...including pop queen Britney, ofc. So, I'd consider him good-looking, then. Which goes to show...if she thinks you're hot enough, she'll basically live in a van down by the river with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:28 PM
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True, how good-looking and tall was the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:06 PM
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I bought a Lambo, now how can I go off-roading in it and make it more fuel-efficient? 😄 Also, if you have to try at this point...you're simply not hot enough.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:47 AM
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Lol, JP tells his followers to stay worker bees in the hive...while he gets paid tens of thousands a month to ragebait on social media to farm engagement. Remember guys, these brocasters aren't going to get clicks just posting sensible takes. They need to keep pushing buttons to get all the rubberneckers clicking on, responding to, and reposting their content. This whole thread is a case-in-point of that mechanism at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:36 PM
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Very well said! 👏 The better the looks & greater the sexual dimorphic gap...the hotter you will be to most women. Behavior is very secondary...female attraction is primarily based all on physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:41 PM
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There's def always exceptions, but he's right as a general rule. Women who can't or won't have any more kids will find their LTR dating pool shrink to some droplets and will likely just stick to casual sex or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:28 PM
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You expect men to stop simping and have some absolutely bare minimum standards for self-respect? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:35 AM
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I've found that whatever they say doesn't matter for men...actually matters the most (face, race, height, sexual performance, physical masculinity, age, etc). Similarly, there is not a woman for every man out there...but many men for every woman out there now. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:35 PM
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A lot of dudes I meet in the IT field can be insanely arrogant, combative and condescending but its masked in this sheen of "niceness" and/or non confrontation. None of this would matter if they were physically hot or masculinely sexy. But, your stereotypical IT nerd is an unfit, skinny-fat slouch with low EQ, especially with women...and simply doesn't even pass the eyeball test to begin with. When you got picked for playground ball is a much better corollary for how you will get picked by women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:45 PM
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Alpha fuxx, beta buxx is true law of the jungle. Women make rules for betas, and follow rules by alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:34 PM
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True, she can lose interest after physical attraction from a number of disqualifiers...but it's much harder for her to gain physical attraction, if there was none to begin with. Well, by much harder, I mean no unless maybe the guy just has some amazing glow-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:59 PM
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Do you not think 2 people can actually love each other and want to have regular sex and make each other happy? 🤣🤣🤣 Love is conditional and relationships are transactional, by definition (or you would just treat everyone in the world exactly the same). You both formed an exclusive symbiosis precisely because both met transactional conditions of the other. The more both parties swallow the pill and accept that, the happier and more authentic your relationships will be. Resisting that just sets up …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:28 PM
2

I think there is something to this, like a feedback loop where you could amplify or acquire tastes based on repeated, available exposure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:02 PM
1

I think if he had that much rizz/game...he would've turned her out and got her excited upfront...so still no difference, really? You know what'll really blow OP's mind is when she does finally lose her V-card...and it will be very easily without all the hurdles...but to some guy who just meets all her prereqs.
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:16 PM
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But let's say she has a religious hang-up about staying a virgin. Even then, she would still want to kiss, suck, and maybe even have butt sex with you...and go as far as she possibly can. Look, rules are only for guys she's not that attracted to. The more attracted she is to you, the more rules she will break for you. If not, just add her "rules" to her list of excuses covering up the fact that you simply don't get her wet and check off enough of her boxes... I mean, I've been in this boat manny…
/r/seduction03/08/24 06:32 PM
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Mixed signals = no. If she's not excited to have sex with you ASAP because you fit the image of the ideal man in her head...then she'll just keep cockteasing you until she finds someone else who does. You likely tick some of her boxes, but also have a few disqualifiers that DQ you. A woman now is either excited to fuck you...or not. With the sheer amount of choices they have these days, it's all or nothing. That's the bar.
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:58 PM
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🤯🤣🤣 WOW...case-in-point of: Most people just don't know what they're missing out on because they're not hot enough to experience it firsthand...or even have any friends hot enough to see it secondhand. Man, I wish really hot women would start some video channels showing all the radically extreme pretty privilege they must experience on a regular basis... It must just be absolutely mind-blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:55 AM
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Agreed. The rules change the hotter you are. And if you're reallyyy hot, the only rules are whatever ones YOU make. Most people just don't know what they're missing out on because they're not hot enough to experience it firsthand...or even have any friends hot enough to see it secondhand. BTW, has anyone else noticed that extremely hot girls tend to hang out with other extremely hot girls? Like, their group photos always look like sorority parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 12:40 AM
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Fumble means you got the ball, just dropped it. That means your game is largely the culprit, not looks.
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:54 PM
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I think you got it backwards. Women cheat more than men when they're younger (18-29) and chasing their "best" men to have their babies with, with vast options... Once they're done having kids (40ish), they care less about sleeping around, have less options, and get way nitpickier with behavioral traits. Ofc, she may still easily bail as many women in general do...especially if his health is ailing...but I just think your reasoning may be backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:05 PM
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the second the man shows a sign of weakness, expresses emotional vulnerability in a non-masculine way, or experiences hardship in a non-masculine way (e.g. job loss, mental issues), the woman's attraction fades and she checks out of the relationship. I felt that. Mask-ulinity demands men never remove their masks and reveal any failures with women. Overall, excellent thesis and facts!!! 👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:17 AM
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The Harem hypothesis comes into play, we do have a Black friend in our friend group and he spills the beans on his escapades all the time. He's 6'8'' and readily admits to rotating 6-8 girls at any one time, he gets them all from Hinge. Is this kind of situation taking place on a wider scale? Yes, I remember years ago before Hinge there was a tall, Black collegiate hooper at an apartment complex I'd frequent. Whenever I happened to see him exiting his unit, he would be carrying a different coed.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:22 PM
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May be that in college, girls are at their prime age for being single and looking...plus it's a "safe bubble" dating pool of similar students. Out on the streets, you have a lot more older and attached women who aren't looking for partners anymore. Plus, it probably doesn't feel as safe to women because everyone's background is entirely unknown. So, they're less likely to just flirt with totally random strangers. Not to mention, many are also glued to their phones and oblivious to their physical…
/r/seduction25/07/24 03:19 PM
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Yea, I mean these girls are constantly getting propositioned by high-ranking politicians, sports team owners, etc, etc. They are essentially rock stars with infinite choice.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:13 PM
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She's hot, knows it, and likes to have outlandish fun...not be square in uptight, prim & proper affairs. I would not have invited her to the work-related BBQ with the dress codes and just mutually enjoyed her as your personal porn star. I mean, your loss now. Who cares about stuffy house rules when you had a hot chick taking all your loads... 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction19/07/24 01:51 PM
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💯! Even corporate dudes def goof off too. I think this video actually showed a great work culture with high morale. That usually translates to higher productivity and better business. Keep in mind that this was the marketing team for a women's skincare company too...so they should be keeping the fun, creative juices flowing..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:45 AM
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I completely disagree. Having a common main hobby/pursuit/lifestyle can narrow down her pool and DQ a lot of other contenders not in that scene/subculture, thus being the one thing that can override looks/power/status a lot. For example, a lot of hot gamer girls will date dorky gamer guys...because they're both so into gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:18 PM
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I don't know there's much you can do? I think usually it means you check off some of her boxes, but not enough. So, she might enjoy toying with you, but you don't quite make the grade for more...
/r/seduction12/07/24 04:55 AM
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Yea, but not even good enough for a ONS? Lame, but not uncommon... A lotta girls just like to flirt for a cheap thrill and some validation. So, nothing really counts unless they actually have sex with you. Until then, the rest is all just cheap talk...
/r/seduction12/07/24 01:07 AM
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Then she left me on read, and so i never saw her again. That didn't feel so good. Damn, she ghosted after all that? Ugh, girls are soooo fucking frustrating... 😬
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:53 AM
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Hmm, fascinating. It's crazy how she spoils him with gifts and pursues him for sex. When that's almost impossible to find in a typical adult relationship...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/24 06:38 PM
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I wish they would show what these boys looked like...just to see what all these hot teachers all are willing to risk it all for?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/24 05:56 PM
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And don't forget that most girls don't even resort to dating apps unless they are lacking options irl for some reason..
/r/seduction10/07/24 09:58 PM
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Some girls either want the attention or want to reproduce the unavailable caregiver Dynamic. (Hence flirting but the moment you give her attention she go away) Oh yes, young women loovveeee to do this especially. Never underestimate how much satisfaction they derive just from knowing you want them...and not wanting anything more.
/r/seduction04/07/24 04:32 PM
2

Move on. They’re not interested. It couldn’t be anymore in your face and yet you ignore it. Exactly, their interest level is directly proportional to their texting frequency/response time. Every. Fucking. Time. And I have yet to find 1 single exception in retrospect. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:29 AM
0

Yes, young women have literally referred to this as the Dorito shape...and admittedly one of the reasons why they still like guys who treat them poorly. Remember, young women are just picking their baby daddies...so only care largely about looks/hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 08:04 PM
7

Well, she even admitted that was true using her own logic. But why get offended by the truth, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 07:38 PM
2

why are the graphs of attraction between men and women so different, where women like men their age, but men consistently like women under 30 more? The map with more single women than men is for 50-59...not 30. Meaning women have vastly more sexual options than men until they are done having their kids and entering menopause. And even then, they still have plenty of sexual options...just maybe not the full laundry list dreamboat they are holding out for a relationship with. So, lonely women? Lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:57 AM
1

I dunno...got any stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:58 PM
3

Depends if the guys searching are enjoying cheating with, or being cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:47 PM
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Actually, they deliberately lie to men all the time. Amongst themselves, girl talk quickly code-switches and revolves around height, dick size, sex, etc all the time. Anyways, let's check out their ultimate male fantasy in Fifty Shades Of Grey: Christian is tall, lean yet muscular, and broad-shouldered, with dark copper-colored hair and intense, bright gray eyes. He keeps in shape by kickboxing, running, and having sex. As quoted by Anastasia, "He is not merely good looking - he is the epitome o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:24 PM
2

Yes, if you draw a spectrum from blue to red to black pill...the basis that women will do anything to have sex with hot guys is found on the red/black end of that spectrum. Women make rules for betas and break them for alphas (hot guys).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:36 PM
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Huh, that is a core tenet of TRP - that alpha fuxx and beta buxx. 🤦‍♂️ I think you're talking about TBP here...where women just seek emotional intimacy and looks don't matter, blah, blah...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:31 PM
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Men can show emotion...just can never show any weakness/inadequacy. That's why most guys always brag about being bigger, taller, richer, more powerful, etc than they really are to women. I'm 5'3", nearly broke, and my baby dick don't work too well...said no guy ever to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:05 PM
2

Lol, Big Tech is like 99% male...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:38 PM
1

Exactly...a good personality for women = extroverted + narcissism + gift of gab
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:57 PM
4

Agreed, correlation =/= causation. Married men are a selected pool of men more attractive to women to begin with...and thus happier. That's the real causation, married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:55 PM
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Sounds like BS. I'm sure he has veryyyyy many opportunities, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:41 PM
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Lol, BS. If even Tom Brady couldn't pull that off with Gisele and 14 million a year...it can't be done in 2024. You might agree upfront...but it will wear you down once the honeymoon phase is over and the fighting starts...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:10 AM
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See alt-right, tradwife poster girl Lauren Southern...who fled her Catholic hubz and is now a single mom. All that Christian talk is a lot harder to walk irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:07 AM
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He's got like a dozen kids with multiple baby mamas...so obviously that's what women want in a man..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:15 PM
2

Jay Z has clout and a massive eggplant. Similar profile as Biggie Smalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:43 PM
0

Well, the hotness # (1-10) matters more. Most guys top out at a certain # they can have sex with, regardless of how many...
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:49 AM
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Just goes to show...if a girl is attracted, she is fully capable of opening and carrying a conversation.. And I guarantee then has no 3 date rule or other hoops to jump through for sex, etc..
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:16 PM
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I call BS. No way this guy turned down pussy on a platter...
/r/seduction06/05/24 04:39 PM
7

Here's where you have to be really honest with yourself. How comfortable are you with your intimate details like bedroom performance and relationship behavior being gossiped around the water cooler? If you are confident enough that that would sound like good free advertising, then I would say the risk would be worth the reward. But if you have any more personal insecurities and might feel any potential humiliation, I'd probably have to pass or maybe take it reaaalllllll slow by ear...
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:47 PM
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She also has a boyfriend but she constantly vents to me about how she doesn't really like him and she wants to break up with him. Just keep playing along and see how far she'll actually take it. A lot of these girls love flirting just for validation... 🙄
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:10 PM
1

Yea, I wonder if "owning" it is a way for inadequate men to at least feel in control of it...sort of like the last stage of grief - acceptance?
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:31 PM
0

So, why are you with him if he can't satisfy you? I guess because he pays the bills, while letting you f whoever you want?
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:29 PM
1

Exactly, the more attractive you are, the more choices you have. But the less attractive you are, the more you have to settle for what you can get. For a lot of guys today, simply finding mutual attraction is already a feat...much less checking off all the other boxes on shared values...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:08 PM
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How is she struggling? I'm sure irl, she has no problem finding dates... Vagina has almost no expiration date these days. Maybe somewhat before menopause for LTRs, but almost never for just casual sex..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:04 PM
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Yea, what a joke. This IG influencer def isn't bottom 80%...and even if she was, she still wouldn't be struggling. Maybe the bottom 5% has to lower their standards and more actively seek out men...if you want to call that "struggling." 🤣🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:34 PM
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I was shocked that my friends' dads never took them anywhere with them, never had friendly conversation with them, barely gave advice, didn't ask at least once every few days how they were doing and if everything is fine, mostly didn't cook for them, never had dad-daughter/son activities.. A lot of Boomers were like that, and that was probably even their norm. Gender roles were very strictly divided and dads were completely hands-off with child-rearing...and household chores, for that matter. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:17 PM
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taking on the majority of the planning when they go on vacstion Basically suggesting most activities they do Lol, and who's paying for these vacays and activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:48 PM
1

As it stands, no one is winning from the current situation. Huh? Women are winning with a massive, capital W!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:27 AM
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I understand social safety nets...but in addition to, not to exonerate responsible parties from their responsibilities. And we already have 8 billion people on Earth, while all other wild species are suffering the 6th Mass Extinction. Only Boomers concerned about the financial pyramid scheme collapsing before they die are worried about our population not still going exponential.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:26 AM
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No, because then you're just forcing other men to pay child support for that absentee baby daddy. If a woman wouldn't have sex with me, why should I pay for her baby? The biological dad should be liable for child support if he consensually had sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:52 PM
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You have to reverse engineer what women want. One of the most common complaints attractive women make about men is narcissism. As in, "I was married to a narc for 30 years, before he dumped me!" Which actually reveals that the secret to keeping women...is to be a narc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:21 PM
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If she thought he was hot enough, she would never have asked that question...and would've laughed at his response. Reality is she wasn't that into this guy to begin with...and so basically whatever he replied it would've bombed.
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:17 PM
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Yea, I live near a college campus. Groups of co-eds have started parading outside in their bikinis lately. And they look just absolutely un-fucking-believable. Just like flawless IG models. I was honestly just blown away. 🤯 No doubt, these women are at prime peak perfection. It is what it is. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:44 AM
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Yup, America edition - ultimate hard mode for men here! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:09 PM
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Women evidently care because financially successful men wanting to “have fun” rather than have a long term relationship with women or providing a woman with security is against the goals of women in her group. I don't think so, really. Most women have NO TROUBLE snagging any men, and are usually on guard beating the undesired ones off with sticks. Especially some hot sorority party girl type. These women basically won't hit any kind of relationship wall until menopause in their 50s...and probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:02 PM
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I think it correlates most with female independence and choice...which women still severely lacked during the baby boom. Women couldn't even get credit cards on their own until 1974, ffs! Reality is that women are under NO OBLIGATION to help perpetuate a patriarchal, old boys' club "civilization" that has historically literally treated them like livestock property. And now entitled boys are finding out just how vital women really are to their whole system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:14 PM
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Ratios are everything and women had to fight over the surviving crumbs... I think this period is when all "traditional" stereotypes of women not caring about a man's looks and other outdated cliches arose. It wasn't actually their natural baseline, but a temporary reaction forced by a severe depletion in the supply chain of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:22 PM
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60??? Srsly? 🤣😳🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:08 PM
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No, I actually believe in a more democratic power struggle...but with a quorum of 2, that leads to stalemates with no tiebreaker. Then what? Yup...divorce becomes the only tiebreaker to the Mexican standoff (aka "irreconcilable differences"). I mean, it's just common sense. Forget about marriage, imagine living with a platonic roomie, but you had to vote on every JOINT life decision together. How long would that last???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 11:19 PM
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Sort of. Welfare doesn't remotely provide for the Eat, Travel, Fuck lifestyle most women aspire too...so very few women resort to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:32 PM
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Until the honeymoon phase is over... Being married will be misery because you've given up all your options and relationship leverage as a man...and handed it to her. And she knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:28 PM
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Lol, except women here want sex, dating, and marriage. Although I wish they would adopt the marriage boycott!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:12 AM
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Ideally, a man doesn't want to commit by nature. If he does, it's because he lacks options. For most, committing to a fat woman who doesn't want kids will never be a better option than remaining single and keeping other hypothetical options open. I think if she shoots for casual sex, she can get many takers, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/24 04:40 PM
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Done with kids now...just wants a beta provider to take her out for fine dining and on weekend holiday trips. Form an orderly line now, boys...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/24 02:09 PM
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Lmao, how to say you have no kids without saying you have no kids... 🙄 Honestly, this resurgent patriarchal attitude is one of the factors that triggered feminism. Men completely underestimating, underselling, unappreciating, and disrespecting the immense labor of parenting...especially before school age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:26 PM
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The concept of the wall just means that a woman's Relationship Market Value (RMV) declines a lot as they get older, especially in her 30s. There is a correlation between a woman's fertility and her Relationship Market Value. As a woman's fertility declines, so does her RMV. That's it. Older women can always get sex, even with much younger guys...but no more babies, no ring. I've seen this relationship wall quite a bit. Ofc there are some exceptions, but that's the general gist out there... I eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:11 PM
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Right, well unwanted options aren't really options...which is basically the wall. The lack of desired options. Women at that stage also have much more baggage and much less to offer for what men want for longterm commitment, yet have much longer laundry lists of wants...to the point of becoming delulu as you said. So, it becomes a double-whammy. Location can make a difference in general, but most places are still going to be waayyy easier for women. Anyhow, it's all relative. Women hitting that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:14 AM
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Ofc, I'm just making a generalization on average of women I personally know. At that stage, they seem to stay free on the market with no serious, longterm takers indefinitely...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:50 PM
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Red herring. "The wall" refers to when most men will stop commiting to women (usually when she's done having kids), not what men women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:03 PM
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According to all their posts on social media...women can't resist narcissists and spent all their best years dating and married to them. Moral of the story is...become a narcissist. 👍
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:43 PM
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nor are affairs controversial (most of the decent looking finance people in Beijing does it). If you don't make good money as a male, you are considered a loser. And the bar is high. In essence, the people are realistic. Spinning plates. This is being an asshole. And it takes a lot of time and money. It seems opposite of working on yourself. women value men who have had a lot of sexual history. Most educated women do not. Sexual history is correlated with cheating and breaking up. This is true f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:32 PM
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They are actually extremely rational, with relationships. They just make up irrational excuses because they don't want to tell you the real reasons...usually always to do with looks, sex, money, etc.
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:51 PM
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Not when she has 5 dozen other options lined out the door. Her time then becomes a lot more valuable than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:25 AM
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That's the thing. Guys that are missing out...don't know what they're missing out on. The only way they might realize secondhand is if they befriend a really hot guy and notice how different his experience is...
/r/seduction06/03/24 05:41 PM
1

Probably from "low T women"...who suffer no dating penalty for being "low T?" Just like short women...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:25 PM
2

Right, there's always going to be some gurus monetizing male sexual frustration and venting about it or selling some software strategy (reverse-engineering alpha behavior like Mystery or big beta-providing like Myron). Not that they're entirely wrong, but definitely take it with a grain of salt because attraction is mostly physical...but that pill is even too hard for most of those guys to swallow. And really tough to monetize because there is no easy fix for that. Which explains why guys like P…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:37 PM
1

Bumble is the red flag. Lmao, FACTS! This guy fuxx! 👏
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:41 AM
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Funny, cuz a solar oven state is basically where blondes are least-adapted to survive...
/r/seduction03/03/24 03:33 AM
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Hot girl playing dumb to get more views/subs. Reality is that she still has more options than any guy could possibly imagine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 05:13 PM
1

Was she following the OP's rules (short, dry, delayed responses) for these guys she was just leading on, but not actually interested in?
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:06 PM
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Men feel shame about not being enough. Women feel shame about wanting too much. Whenever a woman holds back, it's because she's ashamed that she wants more than you're providing. You're not hot enough, you're not good enough in bed, you don't spend enough on her, etc. But, she's too ashamed to tell you that...so will nitpick other more virtuous excuses that ultimately make no sense...giving women the reputation that they are illogical. But in reality, they're more just extremely dishonest in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:36 PM
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I think a lot of guys are plugging into patriarchal Abrahamic faiths now just to utilize their dogma to domesticate their women (like Andrew Tate). I have a few Christian female friends and it's mind-blowing to me what they believe in - like how the man should be the head and the woman the neck in marriage. It's crazy that they buy into this ideology so hardcore and I can't convince them otherwise...even though it vastly benefits me at their expense. 🤣🤦‍♂️ Sadly, I've even found it to possibly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:16 PM
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Most women in situationships just seem to have low standards Actually, they have high physical standards (looks, face, race, height, testosterone level, sex, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:57 PM
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It's related. The less attractive you are to women, the lower-quality women you will attract when you do. Basically, you're dumpster-diving for half-eaten cheeseburgers...
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:55 PM
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It means that if a woman is settling to begin with, nothing the beta simp can DO will be enough...only what he physically IS could satisfy her. But since she couldn't get or lock that down, then she will remain unsatisfied. You always have to go layers DEEPER than the cover story women give on the surface to mine the taboo truth out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:59 PM
5

Interesting, could you elaborate? 🤔
/r/seduction10/02/24 01:00 AM
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Share some stories, bro! Fuck, you should start a YouTube channel for that!
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:29 PM
1

Agreed. This is military marriages - aka worst-case scenario on the far end of the spectrum. I think your average divorce may register somewhere on the spectrum here in some of these categories, but to much lesser degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:46 PM
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Exactly!!! A woman's SMV dropping 20% from stratospheric still exceeds a man's SMV increasing from low altitude. The only wall a woman hits is for long-term relationships once she's done having kids. Sexually though, she'll never hit a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:35 PM
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It doesn't matter, deep down they're all like that...so you don't have a choice. And I never said all women would actually cheat...but they will at least feel unsatisfied and become miserable over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:26 PM
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Actually, they do. The more other women who desire you, the more she will desire you...and the more your desire for her will mean. Even if you hypothetically just wanted 1 woman for life...the more options and experience you have, the better. And in fact, the best way to keep 1 woman, is to have the options for many...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:38 PM
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My best streak this month was 7 days of sex in a row with 5 different girls. My best day was 3 different lays in one day (slept over at a girl’s place the night before so I had morning sex, then had a girl come over in the afternoon, then met up with a girl in the evening for drinks). Holy shat, how hot from 1-10 and tall are you? 🤯
/r/seduction02/02/24 04:06 PM
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Exactly, physical traits trump all. She starts with those as non-negotiable...and then hopes to tolerate or fix the rest. 6'2" with nice eyes and a beard? Time to make some D1 babies! 💦 👶👶👶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:53 PM
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You don't need to "attract women", you need to "attract a woman", and the two things are very, very different. No, your skill with 1 women is very dependent on your skill/experience with women in general. Just like a great fisherman is one who has caught a lot of fish. And always having other options helps you keep any 1 you do want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:09 AM
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That was the primary prerequisite for marriage. So, if you're archaic enough to still want marriage, you need to be archaic enough to be a virgin, too. Otherwise, it makes no sense to still take the wedding cake...but leave out the main ingredient.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:04 AM
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Same here. Like HUGGEEEEE difference...like maybe 4-5 pts in desirability (wayyy higher irl).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:51 PM
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The funny thing is that desperate guys follow male gurus just hoping to even get a date. But girls have it so much easier today, they only follow female dating coaches to nab the men at the very top of the totem pole. I think there's a lot of false hopes and grifting either way, though. Like this female coach markets her shtick as improving your inner game and divine feminine...to make it more hypothetically achievable by everyone. But the reality is, she's also a 10/10 and that alone gives her …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:42 PM
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Exactly, when she had all the choice in the world...she chose alpha fuxx. Fair enough...but now what man with a pair would wanna be her beta buxx at 38 with 2 kids? Srsly???
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 07:25 PM
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Huh, you know gender abortions there were illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:53 PM
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Yes, I mean beauty/fashion are an interest...and one of the biggest industries out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:26 PM
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Right, lots of deflections in the comments. 🙄 But your observation is spot-on. 💯 girls do this...in school and after! You'll even notice in social media...where hot girls all hang out with other hot girl friends. And they are also actively mean to any girls not as hot as them, to gatekeep them out of their circles. My guess why is because women are not into hobbies as much as guys and their identities revolve more around their looks and general lifestyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:24 PM
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we talked about marriage and children on our first date. 😳 How do you segue into that on the first date???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:55 PM
3

Interesting...care to elaborate on those cases?
/r/seduction21/01/24 05:38 PM
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Facts. Never double-text.
/r/seduction21/01/24 05:53 AM
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I think most women may be talking to several guys at a time, but usually not fucking more than 1 guy at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:57 PM
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I've seen a lot of posts on internet where people deem women in thirties as unattractive or less valuable (for eg comments like they hit the wall after 30). But since I (24M) have been talking to some women who are above 30 and I'm noticing that they are so much better than the many women of my own age. They are more appreciative, they reciprocate efforts more and they are emotionally very supportive. Whereas my experience with many women around my age was not that good. My level best efforts fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:32 PM
1

Duh, this kinda guy is the most common woman's romance novel archetype and a well-worn cliche by now! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:12 PM
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I see so many posts of women in their 20's who are very frustrated with dating. Huh? Most women in their 20s are out having fun having the time of their lives! 🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:37 PM
0

You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:18 PM
0

You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 PM
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It was revealed further that the reason for said divorce was due to Destiny putting his foot down at her sleeping with other men. Or was it the other way around? That Melina had stopped fucking other guys on her own and wanted Destiny to stop fucking others too...but he refused to go monogamous? And then fucked someone she didn't want him to? Based on this thread, it sounds like he was always a cheating player, but tried to commit somewhat when he met Melina (a hot, Swedish Barbie)...but still u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:13 PM
6

Exactly. Men have a verrrrryyy low bar for easy pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:26 PM
5

Huh, Taint is over 6' tall, masculine, and very athletic...and although he has a receding chin and hairline, shaves his head and grows a beard to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:01 PM
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Don't forget fanatical dog mom...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:35 PM
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This isn't normal person rules. This is gold digger on the toxic woman side of tiktok rules and a lot of the people saying this is normal are kinda telling on themselves. Well, she's some kind of OF girl looking for sugarsimp subs in that video. But for actual sex, I guarantee she doesn't give a fuck about salary and only cares about how hot the guy is. Alphabuxx, betabuxx...as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:31 PM
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Actually, makes total sense these days...cuz women still want and get the most out of marriage. Or any committed relationship. So, why isn't the onus on them to get down on bended knee to beg for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:47 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if maybe people posting here are assuming feminist men are FEMININE? My husband looks like a burly lumberjack. He basically embodies masculine. That doesnt mean hes not a feminist. Yes, no women will date physically feminine men, not even feminists...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:53 PM
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Not to mention, STEM is also very devoid of women to begin with. So, it's like 50 guys fishing for a minnow in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:11 PM
7

Tables have literally turned over the last few generations, as they always do. Young women ghost guys all the time, yet have never been ghosted themselves. And looks for men now matter more than ever, because women don't need men primarily as betabux providers anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:09 PM
10

And of course she went on and on about how it's not true. That's why you shouldn't have this convo with your parents Yea, that's always the kicker. The relentless denialism of your own lived experience...that's also backed up by general stats. Yet somehow noooo, it's still "not trueeee!!!" Not at all, Tommy! Boomers know best! 👍🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:03 PM
1

Yes, none of this works if you're not hot to begin with. Then nobody cares if you're chasing them or not...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:52 PM
0

You guys are digging too far into the weeds and missing the big picture. It all depends on the guy. If he's Billy Betabux, then yes she is going to nitpick him to death and demand he keep doing more, more, more...because she secretly resents how she was "forced" to settle for him. And thus silently expects him to keep simping for her to compensate. But ofc, if he's Chad Alphafux, then she would feel blessed just to get his seed and feel honored being his submissive bangmaid. And we still see bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:48 PM
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A number of guys I've talked to recently have said that young women (early 20s) go for hot, tall guys until they get into their late 20s and settle down with a safe option. Is that true, or maybe a better question is - how common is it? Alpha fux, beta bux is the law of the jungle. A hot college girl without baggage is at her prime with her pick of the litter - so reveals what women really want deep down (a hot guy for sex/babies). Only as she ages and accumulates more baggage, does she have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:57 PM
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I was in a long relationship with a woman who found me ugly (I found out near the end), though she always treated me like a king. So, what was her motivation for being with you, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:27 PM
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And it isn't about attractiveness since we are relatively similar in terms of looks. (in fact I'd say my traditional friends are objectively more attractive as well) BS. Hot IG baddies are already top tier % in face and body by definition...and amplify that even further by showcasing themselves sexually (attire, posturing, body art, etc). This will attract nearly ALL men - RP or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:25 PM
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He didn't just give the driver a break, he gave them all a break. No, he gave the driver the biggest break by far because she was the one actually driving while underage drinking at 20 mph over the speed limit. But she gets a hall pass simply because she showed deference? She could have killed everyone in her car and others outside of it... Meanwhile, a mere passenger gets ARRESTED and jailed simply for questioning his authority? This is the definition of power-tripping, instead of simply conduc…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/23 04:51 PM
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In reality the US was built originally by modesty and puritanism. You mean modestly genociding all the aboriginal heathens, stealing all their land, and then quickly converting all of its virgin natural "resources" into money with slave labor...just as good Puritan colonizers do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:38 AM
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Generally, I'd agree. Despite what some women might claim, I think "signs" of aging like gray hair, balding, dad bods, etc...generally just make you look older and less attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:58 AM
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The cop just seemed way too chatty. Why give the driver a break...when she was going 20 mph over the speed limit while underage drinking? Just because she started bowing down to him and being apologetic? And instead of arresting the other girl when she said they only had empty beer cans in the car...he should have simply responded with the open container law to dunk her weak defense...instead of throwing her in his car without ever answering her question. Basically, he seemed to treat them based…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/23 02:01 AM
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This cop was power-tripping. He arrests the girl questioning him (instead of just answering her questions)...while just giving a ticket to the actual driver who was underage drinking??? 🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/23 02:17 PM
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Right, you got a dog because you truly want and cherish one...not as a mere chickbait prop - which is then certainly not justifiable for its environmental cost or its own emotional health in that case. We are currently undergoing the planet's 6th Mass Extinction of all other life besides humans and all our domesticated pets/livestock. The last such extinction being the one that killed the dinosaurs 66 million years ago... 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:39 PM
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Meeting through activities – You can go down this avenue without (a) meeting someone who is single, (b) meeting someone who is available, (c) meeting someone who is interested in you. If you join in with something, and all of these three issues apply, this then begs the question of whether you continue with the activity, or stop doing it and try something else. Again, it is often a big investment of time for little or no reward. Meeting through peer group / introduction – This is unquestionably …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:16 PM
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Exactly, this is simply the ole' alphafuxx/betabuxx dual-mating strategy...a tale as old as time. It's not "maturity," but just having your cake and eating it too by selectively multisourcing. Women's standards vary WILDLY when looking for baby daddies vs resource acquisition. Best believe that OP's mom would have puked in his stepdad's direction when she was still in her childbearing phase...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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You do realize that older men in their 40s and above are usually not looking to start families, correct? Perhaps, but most men aren't looking to commit unless they're having kids, no? Dating yes, but longterm commitment no. Because then it's really not worth the sacrifice...or am I wrong? What's women's actual experiences out there on this? Can you still get a man down on bended knee when you're done with kids? Because of the women I know...there's lots of shotgun weddings with young women to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:00 AM
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Well I'm talking about the wall for women, not men here. Men are a whole different topic with some different variables. But feel free to correct me if I'm wrong? Do older (or younger), infertile women have trouble securing longterm commitment because they're done having kids? Or no? I'd love to hear more anecdotal observations and experiences here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:22 PM
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I already inferred from the data & anecdotal reports. But again, that's why I'm asking you for your own observations amongst your friends and family? Are women you know having more trouble finding men who will commit longterm to them if they can't/won't have any more kids, especially once they reach 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:39 PM
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Uh, you can easily infer the Wall here, honey. Men & women both still want relationships up until 50. Then suddenly, men start rejecting women more for relationships (hence there's more single women after that age). Why 50? Hmm, what happens around 50? 🤔🤣 BTW, I anecdotally know of several women in their late 30s to 50s who can't/won't have kids anymore...and no man will commit to them longterm (but some later did to another). And some even told me it was specifically because the man wanted kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:28 PM
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Once women become infertile (age 50+), there suddenly becomes more single women than men. They can still have casual sex indefinitely, but most men will not commit to infertile women. Also, a lot of women only want men as sperm donors, and once they're done breeding, also lose interest in relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:07 PM
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if you are doing this shit you are genetic trash. In a nutshell, yes. And ironically, it was the past few generations of betabuxxing that created so much male genetic trash because it allowed just any dweeb to spawn. Leading to so much male suffering now. Which is why I don't advocate returning to it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:22 PM
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Well the demand is there, as young guys will swipe on anything with a warm hole. Ofc, it's usually just for sex, but that may be enough for women who aren't getting relationships anyways...
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:50 PM
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Or 5'5 Balding Indian 6-figure Tech Bro meme...still makes little difference.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:59 PM
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Looks kinda staged, TBH. Red Hoodie licks and cocks his hand, before White girl walks right into it...and then dramatically takes a fall? Seriously, how would Red Hoodie even KNOW in advance that she was going to walk right over to him and give him a baby slap...to justify him Will Smithing her back with?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:55 PM
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Not at all. Chad is the genetic lottery maybe 80% born, only 20% made.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:27 PM
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Hmm, may just have been the 7-year itch then. The natural instinct to mate, rear young, and move on. As for bud, I was poor as dirt when we started dating, working part time living with my mom. It was only the last 3 years I started making 6 figures So this is interesting. She bails, even after your income gets high. Goes to show how money means less and less these days. The era of golddiggers is about over. Now, they want the factory hardware.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:44 PM
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Though, I don’t think women do this beforehand to get out of a relationship, just their inability to take accountability for anything makes them rationalize it after the fact. I disagree. What's she thinking when she's putting herself in those situations to begin with, much less actually cheating? Her heart has already left the building (you)...and going out on the prowl is already a conscious act of disrespect. I mean, that's presuming her heart was ever even truly in the building, to begin wit…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:27 PM
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So I started doing some cyber sleuthing, and found out she was cheating. 3 days before she came home, I confronted her. We talked for over 4 hours, she told me of her issues with men who use her for sex, we agreed to to try and work on things when she got back. Two days later she goes back and cheats with him again, I call her, she just yells and screams at me says I’m abusing her by not leaving her alone. And this is why women keep behaving worse and worse. Because men just keep simping harder …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:14 AM
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Huh? "Okamoto co-founded the lifestyle period brand August with Nick Jain." This is Nick Jain...not the "hottest man alive" featured in her videos..
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:05 AM
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None of those really change your phenotypical looks and height...which is probably ~90% of attraction.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:51 AM
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File that all under biological masculinity...which is what women primarily care about (not behavioral). Basically, if you score high in looks and masculinity...pussy will find you like a bloodhound.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 01:15 PM
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Wow, sounds like the stakes have been raised to live-action porn now! Not sure how a male stripper is supposed to be able to stay hard while doing acrobatics, though...before leaving his sloppy seconds for the luck groom? 💦💦🤣 When I started serving and stripping in the later part of high school, things were a bit different. I used to get away with little or no touching, of course, with a quick flash or light touching at the end. However, nowadays, I have girls who ask me to perform or serve in a…
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 04:43 PM
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This guy fux. And it's actually even "worse" than this, as some of the most openly shallow women are not even hot sorority girls!
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:48 PM
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Good point. But when they attack their baby daddies, those issues never come up...because they would never make babies with such lil' dudes to begin with.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 02:03 AM
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Literally, like textbook... 🤣🤣🤣 Unfortunately, my local group has had manyyyy breaches where women were going back to men and telling them they were on there… most dangerously, they were able to find out who posted them. They’re a really dangerous concept because you can’t trust women either.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 06:43 PM
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JBB seems to overcompensate for a lot.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 02:47 PM
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I’m black That's the usual exemption for all these other qualifiers.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 01:52 AM
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Correct, then you (could) fall into the generic, tall, dark, and handsome mold without all the racial stereotyping. I know of a young guy like this over 6' who works out and has a 9/9+ tan, straw blonde Barbie Stacy in her youthful prime.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 07:24 PM
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Would love to see some screenshots? And are these attractive women?
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:13 PM
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Have NEVER seen that in Austin. JBW is OLD in EZ mode... Black Dicks Matter has always been a growing niche, though. Especially on the West Coast (Kardashians, Ice-T, etc). But Christian conservative ultranationalism is probably amplifying it even more now.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:09 PM
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Right, JBW and no Asians/Indians is the unwritten norm. So much so that it doesn't even need to be explicitly stated.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 06:02 PM
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LMAO wow...you can see how she literally closes her lips, shirks back, and recoils at :05 when he leans in for the kiss... YOIKES!!!
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:59 PM
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Right, many are young, hot, and addicted, but broke. Drugs are expensive and illegal (risky)...so fucking a dealer is an act of desperation for many of these party girls.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yea, I've seen the same thing at the playgrounds. In the nicer ones, the White dads seem to range from about 5'10" to 6'4"...basically the taller end of the spectrum. And some of the White moms were ex-cheerleaders, based on some of their overheard comments. In the more lower income areas, probably close to half the White moms had half-Black babies. I also remember that in tech hubs like San Francisco...out in farmer's markets, for example, almost all the Asian women had White hubbies. So, basic…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:39 AM
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I live in a smaller city and most of the men getting into relationships have low paying jobs and completed no formal education. Several of them have been in and out of drugs and done time. But, they are handsome and thus women are sexually attracted to them. When a woman is truly sexually attracted to you all you need are the literal basics that is some job and not being obese and you will be craved. In many cases the man simply had to exist and be willing to joint raise the kid with the girl, b…
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:25 AM
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Right, if he could get that simping from a hot chick...then that'd be something to brag about. But ofc, he can't, so has to date way down in looks to get it. And on the flipside, it shows how all these women care about is looks. I mean, this video is frankly cringey from this girl, who has to brag on social media about getting boned by a trophy dude.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:10 PM
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Wow, srsly??!! 🤣 More like fake families and lies were being exposed...
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:49 PM
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Lol, you can tell the son's actual dad was probably model-tier like Rob Lowe... 🤣 Feel absolutely horrible for the betabuxer, though!!! 💔😭
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 05:12 PM
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Lol, if you wanna nitpick... But she would still pass the bar for hot out in the real world. And sure, but that's not a good test. The Rock is considered very tall, dark, and handsome for a guy...but imagine if he were female? He'd fall hard to the other end of the scale...
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:29 PM
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Especially not conventionally hot women like her. They don't even get on the playing field, much less first base...
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 11:30 PM
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I should have not replied, ghosted her for four days then hit her with a "what are you doin" at 2 am. No, those would've been even worse... Main problem is you simply weren't hot enough...and she had hotter options. With any young, attractive female...all men are essentially playing on the Bachelorette, without knowing it. Probably your only Hail Mary chance would've been if you had massive game to compensate...but your pedestrian response was entirely generic. The only guys with real options th…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 04:34 PM
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https://ibb.co/7JpfBzP 🤣🤣🤣
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 10:40 PM
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Yea, I went on a date with an ex-drug addict once. I didn't know it, until the date. Beautiful and superrrr sweet lady, but was kind of a space cadet (probably from all the past drug use) and I didn't take it further after that. So yes, I believe you could more easily have sex with hot women...but uh, even that kinda loses its appeal when you couple it with past or present drug habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:10 PM
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Aka STUD for breeding 💦, just like his daddy! 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:46 PM
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Lmfao...alpha fux, beta bux...a tale of 2 men as old as time! 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:46 PM
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Thing is, the more choice women get, the more they willingly cherry-pick and choose the playaz that she's bitching about! I mean, women are freely choosing to be baby mamas with Andrew Tate, Nick Cannon, and Elon Musk...who each have like 10 kids they obviously spend little time with.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 03:27 PM
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Ya, no way the EU is like the US now. The difference has always been night & day..
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:16 PM
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once you're married to a woman her emotional state dominates everything which is why it sounds like hell to me. That's it! Once you get married, you get held hostage by an extremely emotional captor and essentially then have to live your life "like a woman."
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 08:11 PM
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have several kids from a guy that apparently was not le heckin good personality after all, it only took them twelve years of getting dicked down by their tall exes to figure out their heckin' baderino personalities. They know, they just don't care because they are using them as sperm donors to pump out all the babies they want...before they close up shop and then settle for another beta provider to raise her litter.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 08:09 PM
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Right, the pool of women without kids in their prime keeps shrinking rapidly as you get past the early 20s... And since women keep shrinking their age gaps, this group becomes less accessible the older you get.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 08:07 PM
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The even funnier part is when she pulls it out in bed, later..
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 07:55 PM
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Yea, but lots of money doesn't work for primal attraction. Generations of betabuxxing is what created this problem in the first place. Looks and swag do (see Kpop).
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 04:23 PM
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Agreed... I mean what's 1 common trait that soooo many women "complain" their ex's (often husbands) had - narcissism (also see Trump). Which actually means they find that kind of self-promotional, egotistical attitude very attractive...hence they so often date and marry these guys!
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 11:29 PM
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Ya no point in tryharding when even betabuxxing won't work anymore... If they don't have to try to impress women, most men are happy living very cheap, simple lifestyles.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 09:22 PM
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6.5 is considered small for most western women LMFAO...WTH are you basing this on? No, most Western women find that on the bigger-than-average side (as it is statistically), not small. I would say they may find <6" on the smaller side...even though that may be average. But if you're 6" and up, you will not be considered small by them.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 06:59 AM
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Agreed. ~6.5"ish is the lower end of the "big, but not too big" sweet spot for most women...going up to about ~7.5"ish. And that zone is defined as being able to go as deep as possible, while remaining fully-inserted and able to grind her clit, too. So then she gets the double-whammy. 💦💦 The definition of "too big" is when it bottoms out before full insertion, leaving no clit contact. "Too small" is the opposite, albeit even worse since she won't feel filled at all.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 06:18 PM
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Lol, and once they're all in school...she will have waayyyyy more free, alone time on her hands everyday than a woman working an outside job before her kids and hubby get home. 💦💦
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:13 PM
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There have 3 been women who wanted kids with him while they were in relationship.He refused two but the one he has kid with she lied about taking pills but later revealed that she wants to keep the kid as sign of their love Holy shitballs, what does this dude look like? And yes, if you don't give her baby fever without commitment...she ain't that into you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 05:13 PM
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Once they're in school at 5...what do you think mama will be doing at home alone all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:21 PM
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Ofc not, but most people are just shooting for maybe a .5 or 1 pt increase with these types of looksmaxxing. I mean, Dr. Mike Mew himself looks to have a pretty well-developed jaw...but that alone certainly doesn't make him a 7 or 8.
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 01:03 AM
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LMFAO... 💯!!! Men's standards are a bottomless pit...as evidenced by this experiment. There's not even a rock bottom, because if you drop a rock down that hole...you will never hear it hit any bottom..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:42 AM
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Oh OK, I'll give you credit for that then...especially with them asking YOU out! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:27 PM
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As for the average guy, I took adult swimming lessons back in 2018 when I was 34 and had active interest from a 21 year old and a 26 year old who were also taking them. Nothing counts, unless they actually fuck you. Young girls especially enjoy sport-flirting just for validation, but nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:13 PM
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I went from only getting one kiss towards the end of high-school at a prom party to now where I find a new 4-7 girl to fuck every month on average. Growing to 6 5” How tall were you in high school?
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 02:37 PM
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Exactly, notice how every marriage cliche is about simping for the wife? Happy wife, happy life! The secret of my long marriage is always saying, "Yes, dear!" Herpy derpy chuckle 🤪🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:53 AM
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No they don't. They all acknowledge that physical looks/hotness are primary. Guys like this have girls crushing on them since childhood and high school sweethearts... However, if you lack that (as the majority does)...then you have no choice but to try Plan Beta. Which means trying hard to upgrade your software (rizz, resources, etc) as an alternate strategy. It's not that this route will likely prove massively successful with hot women...but that it'll at least give you a better shot with SOME …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:49 AM
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Yea, I tried upholding some standards years ago...but was easily undercut by handfuls of desperate simps who had absolutely no bottom to how low they would limbo to be with an ex of mine. It's like trying to strike for minimum wage...while there are hordes of strikebreakers who will gladly work for free.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 08:54 PM
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Most guys are beta simps with no standards who don't even care though...and will just feel lucky to take whatever they can get. I mean, if hordes of men will pay women simply to exist on OF...you think they will have ANY standards with a woman irl??? 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:58 PM
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No, he's right because sexual attraction doesn't care about your job or behavior ("green flags"). So, if she starts asking or commenting about those upfront, it means she has no real sexual interest in you and is already derailing to the exit ramp...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:47 PM
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Right, the genetic bar for men keeps getting raised like an Olympic sport. As has been said though, this is nothing new...but was actually the natural, evolutionary norm. Whoever the fittest specimen was, every female wanted to mate with it in order to propagate that coding through the species as fast as possible.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 03:35 PM
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Most American women who want kids started having them before 30...although this has admittedly jumped up to 30 now on average over just the last few years. So I wouldn't say single moms are a minority at 30, at all. Thing is, a lot of 20-something girls view 30 as a huge milestone for getting older, and feel waayyy behind their peers if they haven't "successfully" gotten married and/or had kids by then. Fact is, the top pick guys had high school sweethearts. Later rounds got college steadies. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:28 PM
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Your fellow youths may not appreciate it, but I assure you more mature women will. Time is on your side. Lol, by "more mature" you mean older women with more kids and less options who now need a beta provider to pay her bills... It's called being last pick in playground ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:33 PM
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Right, women hit their prime earlier...but even at their subprime in their 30s...still outrank most men then, lookswise. A man might still peak more athletically in his early 30s...but generally not lookswise. As most men, including Tristan Tate, already start going bald before their 30s, and graying by their 40s. Whereas very few women go bald, ever. I think women are just more easily prone to gaining weight. But that is at least more controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:32 PM
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I think that proper nutrition only works to heightmaxxx before adulthood while you're still growing..
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:23 PM
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Civilized humans are what have caused global warming and the 6th mass extinction. Civilization is founded on always taking more from Nature than allowing it to recharge back and was never sustainable...which is why they're always hellbent on conquering and stealing new lands (because they inevitably destroy their own). And their whole economic pyramid scheme of breeding exponentially more youth to support the elders obviously isn't sustainable either, and also bound to collapse. You just can't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:18 PM
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Lol, you can't change your face that much naturally and even then it's only 1 outta the Big 3...
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:01 PM
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Agreed. It's probably thicc and around ~6.5"/6.75" - ~7.5"/7.75" or so... Also, most women aren't measuring dicks with a ruler and start progressively overestimating the size of larger ones. Even the biggest guys in porn ever top out around 10" (NSFW)...so I seriously doubt actual 10" or 11" would even be real data points in their survey.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:58 PM
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In Hollywood, it's called "leading man looks." Note it's called LOOKS, not behavior. If you've ever worked with women, when one of these guys pass through, at least one or a few of them will start gaggling about him after he leaves. I saw one of these guys once...he very roughly a Chris Hemsworth type...about the same height (6'3"), although not quite as good-looking or with roided out muscles.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 04:24 PM
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Don't detect single mom vibes, so I'm gonna guess she's emotionally frustrated with her inability to secure relationships from guys who are a little more conventionally-attractive than her...and so comes here to punch down and take it out on all the "Reddit dorks." Remember, Chad never pays for his sins. All other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:43 AM
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Yes, but a 40s woman could still get casual sex and at least short-term relationships. And this is only after already enjoying decades of having had casual sex, any kids with, and LTRs with her pick of the litter... Whereas a 40s (or many) men can often not even get relationships, much less casual sex... And then end up just fapping away to porn or subbing to OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:00 PM
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They admit the woman will not take of themself and men have all the genetic of Clooney just waiting too bloom. I don't think they actually do that or claim that men age like fine wine, either... What they do claim is that as men get more mature and established in their careers as they get older, then they'll start attracting more women. I think this is outdated beta provider thinking, though. Women care farrrrr less about a man's income now...since they make a lot of their own. It really boils d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:20 PM
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If they don't take care of themselves with diet, exercise, and minimal skincare, this is true. It also doesn't help that average male test levels have been falling for decades, which helps slow aging. Most men notoriously do little self-care. Women definitely do more, but most of them also get fat (well beyond thicc) by their 40s. So most men don't age like wine, but most women sure don't either...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:09 AM
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even if women have “less” options than their 25 year old self, they still and likely always will have far more options than a man of any age or any SMV save celebrities and top 10% Chads. Bingo!!! Frankly, I feel lucky I even get laid at all these days...just knowing how many fucking other options a woman always has!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:04 AM
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Healthy weight women in their 40s I'd say most American women are in great shape up through their 20s. But by their 40s, probably 80% of them are fat/clinically obese (not just thicc/chubby). So no, I think guys enjoy the best dating pool in their 20s...and it starts dropping quickly as they enter their 30s. Thing is, a good-looking guy will get the best results during whatever ages he is good-looking. Some guys start out that way, but may get bald and fat with age. Others may be late-bloomers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:00 AM
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LMFAO! I don't personally know about the real bad boy part...but I can attest that they don't care too much about your profession/income. Which has been a surprising relief as I transitioned into a lower-paying one...and fortunately, no women seem to care, lol! Whew! So meanwhile, all these 6-fig tech bros slaving their lives away in front of a keyboard to hopefully become great beta providers one day...may not even get that. And in fact, getting stuck in their technical minds actually kills the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 03:58 AM
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At least the disappointment and hurt she's feeling I have a hard time believing her "shock" at just being told water is wet. Women aren't stupid...of course they realize that their relationship market value gets dropped significantly being a single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/23 03:48 AM
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Exactly. He is nothing new at all...and has always existed. There is no doubt Flynn had sex with many under-age girls. David Niven recalled being on Sirocco at Isthmus Cove at Catalina Island (future floating place of Natalie Wood) when three young girls swam over naked and climbed aboard without even an invitation. Niven remarked years later, “Young ladies just chased him, he never had to arrange for anything; women everywhere were available to him.” "My problem wasn't getting women into my lif…
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 07:30 PM
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Maybe a better poll question to control for age is about how many new partners do you currently fuck per year?
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 03:53 AM
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I know this anecdotally from some women I know at that point. They can date around casually...if they choose. But those relationships always have max shelf lives of a year or 2 before they get too serious. I believe the reason is that men generally will still only commit long-term if they may have kids with a woman. And, those men who don't want kids...then also see no reason to commit to LTRs. While the men who do want kids...see no reason to commit to women who won't have kids with them. Which…
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:31 PM
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However, this fact regarding pregnancies has nothing to do with her overall SMV, especially on dating apps! The only wall she'll hit is LTRs after she's done with kids...but casual sex will always still be on the table!
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 03:41 AM
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Looks matter, but an attractive guy with poor social skills just hanging out isn’t going to pick anyone up. Exactly, the main focus is on looks because that's the primary trait that attracts women, and also the hardest to have for men (most of it is factory hardware you're either born with, or not). Ofc, then you also have to be able to talk a decent game, based on past experiences with women to seal the deal. But this is software that is at least easier for anyone to install and update. And fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:02 PM
1

Super hawt! Especially the ones right below their cleavage and on their hamstrings!
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:55 AM
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Lol, yes you sound extremely feminine and not neurodivergent AT ALL!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:01 PM
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LMFAO...oh yes, girls (especially conventionally-attractive ones) tote talk like that...JFC. So overused on their dating app profiles, sheesh! "I'm extremely feminine and not neurodivergent in any way."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:23 AM
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Right, I'm sure if she posted her pic...it would all make sense. Most likely, she is not conventionally attractive...and so still dating up in looks in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:21 AM
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We need to start writing reality fictions (books & movies) with this plotline...
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 08:29 PM
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But they also usually own dogs...that will shed and shit everywhere. And don't forget about all their student loan and shoe collection CC debt, either! 🤑
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 01:54 AM
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Right, a true Chad is (or can) consistently fuck Stacies (hot cheerleader/sorority/OF/IG model girl types in their prime).
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:15 PM
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I believe that the most misogynistic men are the ones who sleep with the most girls. They see women as commodities or trading cards. Girls come and go for them. They picked them up and drop them off on whim. The same way girls will entertain guys and then ghost them I don't believe that's misogynistic, just realistic. You realize that women are doing the exact same to men...but can understand why. Attraction is all strategically transactional. Women like having sex with hot partners, just like m…
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 12:29 PM
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I could imagine this as a viral graduation speech given at a major university by Matthew McConaughey.. 🤔👨‍🎓
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 12:18 PM
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Question is how the comments would be affected if he ever did a face reveal?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:29 PM
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Exactly, the Boomers played on a very unlevel sexual playing field tilted very heavily in favor of men...and even beta benchwarmers got some playing time then. But nowadays, we are actually returning to more of the natural norm and law of the jungle. Where physical looks + manliness are kang and only the top players even get any minutes in the game.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 01:23 PM
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Huh, you mean no > stacylite has ever approached. Hot girls don't need to approach, they get approached in droves like moths to a flame. If a girl has to approach, she probably isn't hot enough to attract approaches...
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 06:03 AM
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STEM guys are more intelligent and make a lot more money! Which makes them the perfect beta providers to suck up the sloppy seconds...if they're lucky. 👍
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:31 PM
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And by contrast, all their "green flags" are BS too. As soon as a girl starts commenting on some green flags that I have...I already know it's going nowhere. In reality, either she's thirsting after you...or she's not. And if she is, then she could care less about any red or green flags.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:05 PM
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It's all BS. As long as he's hot and good enough in bed...all of these "red flags" fly straight out the window...
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 09:56 PM
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Right, looksmaxxing is the next step...although improving a point or 2 is still not going to be enough for those starting out as 4s... These days, a guy has to be good-looking with enough game just to get a girl...and just good enough in bed to keep her.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:10 PM
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I really like that Western women will have sex with you first if they find you attractive That's a biggggg if, though. And why most guys here are failing with them. But, if you are attractive...you do get to enjoy the spoils!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:46 PM
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Absolutely...they have a lot of the most elite athletic genetics/swag/whatever... Whereas the beta burbs have higher concentrations of chubby kids with braces/glasses...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:45 PM
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Interesting, I mean it is true that nerdiness has been slowly mainstreaming and destigmatizing over the last few decades with the popular rise of computers, gaming, anime, tech in general, and even glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:29 PM
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Well, it's a lot like rap freestyling or stand-up...and especially ad libbing crowd work and handling hecklers. Coming up with the perfect (socially astute) things to say on the fly is what good conversation is all about...but what bookish nerds often suck at...and IQ tests don't measure in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:25 PM
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Goes to show...it's harder to get into a beautiful woman than an Ivy League...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:50 PM
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The Homecoming King was always archetypically the C-student QB, not valedictorian... But yes, being cerebral and thinking in the box actually cockblocks your spontaneous, improvisational skills...which you need to interact with random people, especially girls. And a lot of witty banter is deceptively simple slang, but that actually requires a lot of social understanding and lived experience of the human condition. Which is the type of social/emotional intelligence that actually makes you effecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:48 PM
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Huh, the original tweet is talking about how a small one be hitting? It's easy to tell how satisfying your size is, though. If her eyes roll back, gives other similar body language, or moans something verbally when you push it in...she's enjoying it.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 12:22 AM
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Most dudes I know would feel perfectly content in a mediocre studio apartment with a lawn chair, air mattress, TV, iPhone, and Xbox. So long as they’ve got indoor plumbing, internet, electricity, and safety from the elements. Facts! Just basic survival needs and then a fun hobby. Most guys aren't into luxury and fashion, like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:22 PM
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Right, think of it as a zero-sum game. If a guy's a 10, he can be a zero in behavior. But if he's a 1, he would have to be a 9 in behavior (and even that likely wouldn't be enough).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:19 PM
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Exactly!!! 👏 And the higher the physical bar gets raised, the lower the behavioral bar gets dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:17 PM
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No, he is def sub-average for SE Asians, and any race. This dude doesn't fuck...and I'm actually wondering if that might be driving his alt-Right politics?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:20 AM
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Right, this dude is one of the most active alt-Right MAGAsite bootlickers on Twitter...hence many women hate him, regardless.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 01:25 AM
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Most Women’s only option is to share Chad and be in competition with other women, or settle with a man they ultimately detest. Women would sooner use a toy or be with another woman before genetic trash. Chad has less incentive than ever to quit. Right at his fingertips are endless women. The only way genetic trash can get women is to offer massive amounts of resources. Few women need these resources any more. Women will fly around the world, pay all his bills, share him with other women, and raw…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 06:59 PM
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That's close to mine: 7, 5.5, 6, 6.7, 3, 4.7
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 05:45 AM
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I do, and I'm not even "Chad," but maybe Chad-lite to some. ONS and "instant" sex without dates absolutely do happen...and they are based primarily off looks.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 04:30 PM
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OK, so a quick fact check reveals **drumroll**... I'm a solo parent, elementary teacher in a low income school, and have to work a side hustle to get by LMAO...the memes write themselves, don't they!!! She's a desperately poor, single mom...who suddenly now finds herself "attracted" to short, bald, steady paychecks. Gee, surprise, surprise! So much for the "outlier exception to the rule!" NO, she actually is a textbook CONFIRMATION of the rule!
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 06:46 PM
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Women complain about the behavior of high value men, first of all. Exactly! All of the men they "were forced" to make babies and stay with for 20 years before they got disposed of were hot narcissists and cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:42 PM
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looks are paramount. And no, intelligence, kindness and humor are NOT attractive. They are not sexually attractive traits. They do not make women want to fuck. Look, you don't hear women screaming hysterically for fugly nerds, and you never will. Women only become "sapiosexuals" when they're done breeding with alpha fokkers...and need beta buxxers to bail them out.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:52 PM
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You're an extreme extreme outlier. You are not the norm in any way. No, I GUARANTEE YOU 1000% that she is a single mom who got knocked up by Mr. Alpha Fux...and is now using bald, shorty Mr. Beta Bux to raise his spawn for him. Women aren't mysterious...but completely predictable like robots...ONCE you understand their whole game!
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:49 PM
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Lmfao...enjoy the ride, buddy! Your game is good...but just don't delude yourself that your hardware isn't the main pull. Exhibit G Jen is a stunner, btw! 👏🏆
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:07 PM
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Jammall also just happens to be 5'5"... ☠ Frankly, he's punching above his height to even have had 3 dates at all.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:29 PM
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one super hot guy was having sex with all the women. What exactly is so special about these men who get all the sex? Uh, you had already answered your own question, duh..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:20 AM
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Most alt-righters are short/balding dweebs like Ben Shapiro/Tim Pool and/or wannabe Chads obsessed with alpha-trans/Super Male Vitality/Alpha Brain/elk meat/saunas/TRT/hormone therapy like Joe Rogan, Alex Jones, etc.. (Nothing against short or balding guys...just using them as examples here.)
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:35 AM
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Exactly! It's all about looks, not politics.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:30 AM
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Facts! Beta providing was always a compensatory cope, to begin with... But the more you can shift towards the other end, the less of the beta bullshit you have to do. Looks are kang!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:56 AM
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Im a woman and I can guarantee you appearance matters. Thats the first thing you notice because its apparent, people dont carry their personalities written on their face. If you are a really nice guy but the girl doesnt find you attractive, they will place you in the friendzone since she probably likes you as a person but doesnt have any sexual/romantic interest on you. With that being said though OBVIOUSLY personality matters more Lol, personality matters very little...and much of it is a bypro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:51 AM
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If your wife gets comfortable and you aren't gaming with her The other guy was just fucking hotter..."gaming" has little to do with it.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 07:00 PM
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So what? LOOKS ARE KANG, boys! :35 "my dream guy who was SO FUCKING HOT" And there it is in a nutshell, no chaser!
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 06:54 PM
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They're just as likely to mistreat a woman and take her for granted, it's only the cheating bit that might be more difficult No, they're actually more likely to put her up on a pedestal like a beta-buxxing, OF simp, while tolerating bad behavior from her like a doormat. Ofc, you're right that ultimately this is due to less options, not higher morals...but the end result is the same...so she's not going to care to split hairs there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:51 PM
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I would definitely date a feminist and support her fight for equality until women are allowed to casually walk outdoors or go to the pool topless just like men! Until then...the battle isn't over yet! ✊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:03 PM
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What about tall, DARK, and handsome for men? Jeremy Meeks enters the chat...
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:44 PM
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And you can feel it with someone who is not that good looking, doesn't have money, is lazy, doesn't work, but you just can't help yourself and you FEEL the spark, chemistry, you see all the flaws and you know it's wrong but the spark is just there. I would describe the spark as a pull to a person. It doesn't have any logical explanation, it doesn't have to be looks based Not thaaatttt good looking...lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:01 PM
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Jeremy Meeks enters the chat...
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 04:31 PM
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Most of these men, like Matt Walsh, are conservative Christians...which as a LOT to do with it.. ✝️🇺🇲
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:43 AM
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He could just be a friend, FWB, or they could be on the rocks, who knows? But if she's really eye fucking OP...then clearly she's on the prowl, regardless...
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 05:47 AM
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Unless a guy has a legitimate cuckhold fetish, very few relationships would survive if a man was placed in a room and forced to read or watch everything their partner had done with other men. Disagree. As long as she's clean, I don't really GAF...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:14 AM
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So, your personal preferences are completely useless here, then. suprised pikachu 🙄🤣
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 06:23 PM
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It takes a generation or few for the societal brainwashing to progressively wear off. But marriage keeps trending down...while unmarried births keep trending up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:59 AM
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The ONLY possible benefit is that you might save a tad on taxes by filing jointly and then falling into a joint tax bracket with a slightly lower tax rate. Ooooo... 🙄 THAT'S IT, folks! Everything else is a downside for men. So no, it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:51 AM
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Actions always speak louder than words... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:06 AM
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Also there are 105 men born for every 100 women, even with a free market, 5 men must struggle, regardless of how hard they work Actually, because of female hypergamy, maybe 85 men would still struggle as all the women go for the same top 20 men... For example, K-Fed has 6 kids with 3 women (including a top pop star) and Brian Austin Green has 5 kids with 3 women (including some of the hottest actresses ever).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:33 PM
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Mr. Allard said he had recently offered 35 vials produced by a particularly handsome blue-eyed, black-haired male, which is a rare combination. On these Facebook groups, particularly handsome men are bombarded in the comments by dozens of women. 😅
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 06:37 PM
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men crying about women liking Chads. I don't think men are crying about it...just pointing out how true it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:13 PM
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Doesn't really matter what the specific mismatch was...every couple has them, and so every relationship hits the wall and starts circling the drain once the honeymoon phase is over in a few years. The only difference is whether or not people then decide to flush it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:23 PM
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Neither men or women are naturally monogamous. Men just want women to be faithful before pregnancy, to ensure the baby is theirs. While women want men to help raise their baby after pregnancy. But note that helping raise =/= being faithful...as women simply don't care as much about that. So, the only difference is biologically situational. Why do you think dicks have heads? They evolved to push and scoop out the sloppy seconds from the last guy who busted a nut in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:51 PM
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It's ironic. The more you commit and limit your options...the more she loses primal attraction to you. Because your desirability to other women is one of the top attractants for women. Being seen as a trophy catch like a designer bag makes her feel like a qween by extension.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:39 PM
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Imagine a man meets his dream woman. How will he behave? He will pay for every date He will call and text her every day with gusto and enthusiasm He will give her gifts He will be as gentlemanly as possible: holding open doors, carrying and holding things for her, and walking on the edge near the sidewalk He will wait for sex He will be a good and loving masculine provider Lol, you just described a beta simp like an OF sub...that women only want for money. But, you'd actually rather have a hot g…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 06:25 PM
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But in today's dating market...is she even being delusional??? I think she could certainly fuck a guy like that, although locking him down would still be a stretch...I think?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 05:12 PM
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Right, because she had to settle for a mid-looking guy in order to find one who would marry her. As the hot ones with infinite options in quality and quantity wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:02 PM
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Stay in shape, work hard, dress well, be charming and if she perceives you as having options then she will never be bored because she will always have that competition anxiety that excites her… women. Then, don't get married or commit to begin with. Because once you do, you've cut off all your options yourself...which will only cause her to lose attraction to you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:00 PM
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Well, marriage was always for chumps to begin with. But again, this shows how you don't really get rewarded for good behavior anyways. Which is why hot guys can act however they please, and women don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:57 PM
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JFC! 100+ matches...many with top-tier looking guys in just about 14 hrs!!!
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:00 AM
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That's one of the ways the Abrahamic cults achieve world domination - by breeding like rabbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:31 PM
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"Toxic masculine" is a red herring...all that matters is that you be physically hot/masculine. And if you are, then very little else matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:48 AM
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Right, it's simply all about looks. The rest is all just gaslighting deflection away from that factoid.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:48 PM
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Race (and stereotypes) is included in looks. Notice how those girls immediately get extremely sexual all on their own unprompted, without him even having to lift a finger. And mind you, these are young, hot women in their prime, too!
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 09:55 PM
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Aside from the frauding that will easily get exposed, no way you're going to get to a 6' minimum from 5'8" with all that anyways...
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 07:47 PM
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If you really make effort to gymmax, looksmax, nichemax and moneymax altogether, then you'll have a chance to ascend to chad level. Not at 5'8" homey...
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 06:53 PM
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Like they'll fuck you without even knowing your last name...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:15 PM
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1) Physical attraction is paramount in dating, so have a haircut that suits your face well, go to the gym regularly, stay groomed and wear clothes that fit you well. All the personality in the world won't make a difference if she isn't physically attracted to you. Physical attraction is a huge component of the spark, chemistry and 'feeling it.' Yes, and as the 2 rules state, this is the hugeeee bulk of it. It gets wild how much the game changes as you get better-looking. I mean, take note of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:01 AM
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I'd say the wall for just sex with women keeps going up in age. But for a committed LTR...I would say there is a wall for older single moms/career women that also keeps slowly dropping lower in general as less men in general want relationsimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:09 PM
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Lol, 16-17 is "older"...damn that's crazy. I woulda guessed that sexual harassment might have started at 16-17, not at 10 and then stopped at 16-17. Wowzas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:18 AM
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Dafuq? Started at 10...and stopped by 16-17? Why did it stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:25 AM
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Wow, the comments in there are a gold mine...where women can be honest about attraction when they're not on the defensive. And it settles a common misconception that "women are attracted to bad boys"...when in fact, they're really just attracted to (facially) good-looking guys that may happen to act "bad" (or low-effort because of their oversupply of options). It’s the physical attraction more than anything. I’m turned off by emotionally unavailable behaviour and I’m able to see red flags. I’m j…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 05:32 PM
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No, I'm saying use the OP's narrative as a script! 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 01:11 AM
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There's 8 billion of us now, homey...high time for culling the gene pool and female sexual selection is a good mechanism for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:01 AM
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If he's unattractive, it will be seen as more of a negative. But if he's very attractive, it will be seen more as preselection. For example, some of the hottest A-list women chose to have kids with single dads like: Megan Fox & Brian Green Katy Perry & Orlando Bloom Britney Spears & K-Fed Gisele Bundchen & Tom Brady Melania & Donald Trump Obviously, these women had their pick of the litter...yet chose guys who had already started their own litters. And Nick Cannon, Elon Musk, & Andrew Tate all h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:51 PM
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Tons of men date single mothers, though...to the point it's become a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:44 PM
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4 day drinking bender starting Wednesday? He can't do it, he has to work. Skipping class to smoke weed and eat all the pizza? Sorry, he's gotta go to the gym and get a good night's rest. Randomly hopping into a car and driving 15 hours away for an adventure? Nope, he has appointments and errands to run this weekend. Agreed, kids find that generic stuff fun because they suddenly can do them when they're away from home LARPing as adults for the first time. But, once the novelty factor wears off as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:26 PM
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Denial and anger are the first stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance).
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:54 PM
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LMFAO! This could be a new genre in male fantasy novels and movies...
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:43 PM
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I'm curious what the female stigma against Indian men is, exactly?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:41 PM
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you guys aren't fucking. Women aren't doing virginity to you. You are just not taking steps towards being someone anyone would want. Who said we weren't fucking? And 💯...but in order to take the right steps towards being what women would want to fuck...you have to first understand who/what they want to fuck. Capisce? I have no problems with whatever women want, BTW. I am just very rigorous in nailing that down and weeding out all the gaslighting BS because I want to embody as many of those actua…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:26 PM
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Bro, that's kinda the whole topic of this sub...who and why women are fucking? 🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:15 PM
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Right, but a hot guy gets a loottttttt more at bats and reps in to learn from experience, starting from very young ages. So, their whole learning curve is vastly accelerated, and many lose their virginity by their early teens... Meanwhile, compare that to your average techie nerd who might not even get his first kiss until his 20s... Now, sometimes the tortoise could still eventually pass the hare if he's a late bloomer and a good learner...and the hare starts aging badly and loses his looks. Bu…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:10 PM
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Right, but even more specifically on a deeper, more biological level...a strong jawline indicates proper physiological development. Developed glutes mean you are properly aligned to recruit your glutes like elite athletes. And ofc, undegenerated physiological success then helps breed more social success... I mean, not all good looks are based on good physiological function, but there is at least some general overlap there.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:00 PM
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💯! The hotter you become, the more it will increase the quality/quantity of women you attract, lower their barriers, and increase the effort they put into having sex with you. It's like entering a different world, the VIP room of women. You see the real rules as women get overpowered by their reptilian brainstems... For example, at this level...having multiple women is seen less as "cheating" by their prefrontal cortex...but actually turns them on as it taps into their primal instincts and indic…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:42 PM
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i.e. personality and confidence bullshit Anything, but looks! Also, consider how guys develop a good personality and confidence with women in the first place? Generally through positive feedback, and success through trial & error with them. But all of which comes a loottttt more when you're handsome...starting in the playground in kindergarten! So, a lot of these traits still go back to looks...
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:21 PM
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It's literally what they're told by women, who are afraid to come off as shallow. They will stick to it, cause they don't wanna believe that their "rizz" or "personality" have never mattered at all. Right, the whole point of the denialism of their looks primacy by woman is from them getting defensive and simply protecting their reputation with virtue-signaling. IOW, making it all about them...and not about the subject at hand. In essence, they're not saying that "looks aren't my primary green fl…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:10 PM
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Every guy, be that guy. I’m telling you. Height doesn’t matter just be like him. Lmao...you should've just stopped at be that guy. Why did you have to throw in that height doesn't matter...when the guy is 6'2" and clearly that skyrocketed his appeal?
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:37 AM
14

Lmao, 6'4" and also looks like Tom Brady. Yep, looks are king. For the few guys who have them...women will drop all hoops to jump through just to get a thicc load from them. Dating, waiting, green flags, etc are all BS barriers for guys that are just barely hot enough to settle for in the meantime...
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:32 AM
7

In related news, the final winner of The Bachelorette 2023 is Dotun Obuleko, "coincidentally" the tallest contestant ever (6'7") and former All-American collegiate track athlete...
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:25 AM
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Right, the TRT Brogansphere fanbase is just a bunch of gym bros. But who's packing stadiums full of screaming girls, who are posting IG stories about it? It's all the young musicians...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:43 PM
1

There was a greater obsession with virginity in the old days to ensure paternity, as well as reduce STD risk. But a woman who has a healthy (not repressed with hang-ups or overactive) sexuality will likely have a moderate number of sexual partners between the extremes of 0 and 100. And she is just going to be a lot sexier with that wicked look in her eyes and mouth! 🔥
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 08:46 PM
1

Well again, I'm not looking for marriage because once you do, you cut off all your other options and lose all your leverage. So, that's a moot constraint. I mean, if you're going to be "traditional" and go for marriage...then both of you are generally supposed to be virgins as a prerequisite. But if you're not, then you're only taking parts of the tradition that you feel are convenient...
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 06:57 PM
1

I think it'd be really hot to deflower a virgin. But also really hot to fuck some tattooed baddie who talks dirty with a wicked gleam in her eye... 🤷‍♂️ I also wouldn't necessarily assume the virgin would be more faithful in marriage, though. She might feel more curious because she hasn't had her wild oats sown, yet.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:17 PM
3

Her words mean nothing, only her actions speak the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:08 AM
1

What kind of guy do you think gets 200 likes on his first day on Hinge?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 06:42 PM
1

Dogphilia is epidemic amongst women now to the point where they are clearly treating them like substitute children. That in itself wouldn't bother me...but the massive amount of poop they leave everywhere and other environmental damage def does!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:39 AM
2

I'm pretty familiar with all the pills... But, I don't see why it's wrong for women to prioritize looks? I mean, it's not like they really have a conscious choice in what makes their hoohas wet.. 🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:37 AM
-2

Yes...but then please don't get a fucking dog as a baby/boyfriend substitute and create new problems...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:34 AM
1

the problem with redpill and bluepill is that they give you false hope and tell you that you can't attract girls by being yourself. the problem with the blackpill is that most people can't cope with genetic determinism, while it relives you making you aware of the fact that it's not your fault, it gives you the burden of accepting a reality where there's little room for hope. Success is never 100% genetic determinism, albeit it is admittedly a huuuggge portion. But effort can still at least max …
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:16 AM
2

I’ve been deluded into believing that women are witches and devils Huh? All the "bullshit" pills really say is that looks are king for women. That's a far cry from them being "witches and devils."
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:08 AM
1

Good observations, actual experience confirmed. Being impulsive can make for some easier, hot sex. As far as women knowing their bodies better, it usually is a guy who shows them things that they respond to. So, just be that guy. True...and if they've been with more guys, then more guys have shown them what they respond to.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 02:00 AM
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EI will help an existing relationship last, it won't help in attracting women. Not really. Only those hard, physical traits will keep her attracted and emotionally happy. EI could make you see that...but ultimately doesn't change the equation. Similar to how seeing how a cat is hungry still doesn't actually feed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:47 PM
5

Right, it's all about her physical/sexual desires. If those are fulfilled, so will her emotions be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:43 PM
5

Austin's turning into a tech hub, which means it's turning into a nerdy sausage fest...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:10 PM
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Right, it's even worse that looks aren't a total silver bullet. You do also have to have game on top of that... 😄 But without them, game doesn't work much, either...
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:08 PM
1

That being said, the more physically unattractive you are, the most you will have to impress her with your "social competence". Once there are too many slip ups or if she finds someone who is as equally socially competent but more attractive, the female brain gives women the "ick" feeling. Yes, I suspect that if you aren't that hot and she is settling for you to begin with...then you were already starting out on thin ice and she was actually hoping you'd level up, not slip up. So, you have no bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:29 PM
3

It was a beautiful house on a cliff over a mountain lake. His building it was tied to his romantic notion of a good man building a place for his woman to raise his children, but that seemed to have been his dream more so than hers. That dream is a nightmare if the hubz is an absent workaholic who is never there, though. And the exact opposite of romantic. Even Gisele got fed up with Tom Brady doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:24 PM
2

I also had a dynamic career that had me traveling the world. However, I was often able to bring my wife with me to live in places like Bangkok, Boston, Beijing, and San Diego because we didn't have children. I don't know, but maybe that's why my wife stayed and his left. That makes a hugggeee difference. Simply being left at home alone vs being left at home alone to take care of multiple kids all on your own like a single mom is world's apart. Especially when the kids are very young before schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:20 PM
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Right, just boredom is an extreme understatement. The hubz is basically completely absent while she is left at home handling all family affairs completely on her own? Ofc, your typical Boomer male would express shock that a woman would ever want to escape this arrangement... 🤣🤦‍♂️ Let's see him do that for just a week, much less years, and see how he reacts, though??? Even if the guy was extremely hot, I think this would still be a tough sell and pushing it...unless she was really far below him …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:16 PM
-1

Not at all. Ever had a ONS? When the physical lust is sufficiently there, zero money or even last name is needed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/23 04:15 PM
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Depends. If he had to compensate with money to get her, then him alone wasn't enough to begin with. Which seems likely in his case as he was 19 years older... But if she was sheerly driven by lust because he was so naturally hot...then there would be no need for any compensation. She would feel lucky just to be with him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/23 03:26 PM
1

Yes, the planet is infinite and inexhaustible. 😉 And global warming and the 6th Mass Extinction are all "Malthusian nonsense" that have nothing to do with industrialized human civilization as an 8 billion whole...just a few rich ones. 👌 Hypothetically, if the 1% suddenly died...all our environmental problems would instantly disappear! I mean, the modern extinctions of the Passenger Pigeon, Dodo Bird, Ivory-Billed Woodpecker, Carolina Parakeet, nearly American Bison, etc etc...had nothing to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:17 PM
5

As opposed to environmental catastrophe and exponentially-increasing housing/living costs as industrialized humans keep exceeding the natural carrying capacity of the region?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:58 PM
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Nothing wrong with either tapering off and decreasing. Or do the pyramid schemers just want it all to keep going exponential?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:09 PM
13

I find it absolutely fascinating that the human race crumbles when women are more educated. There's 8 billion of us on this planet. The human race isn't crumbling, but the planet sure is...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:07 PM
13

Losing hair Getting fat 1 seems to be happening to many guys by their 20s now...although 2 is more controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:15 PM
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Look, she's 19 years younger and stayed with him for 18 years...and now she wants the compensation for that. 😅 But since Kevin chose to marry her...well, she can get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 05:48 PM
1

Lol, by definition, they're already not competition to begin with...
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 05:14 PM
0

No matter how much women claim that men don’t care and shouldn’t, it will never be true. Deep down every man knows and so do the women. I'm not looking for marriage because I think it's unnatural...but as long as she's clean, I don't care. I mean, especially if she's hot...why would you expect her to be locked in a box? Hell, women who are more experienced also know their bodies sexually better.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 05:09 PM
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But, why wouldn't she? CS is usually calculated as a % of the spouse's income...not how much it costs to actually raise a child. So, why would she leave money on the table?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 04:32 PM
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Ofc they'd prefer not to share...but those sites indicate that they still are since their demand outstrips the supply. Because they all want a hot guy who's good in bed. Which is a fairly rare commodity, and not easy to find out there. So, they are far more willing to compromise on other factors than those core desires. And who can blame them? My goal as a man is to become the man woman most desire both for their benefit and my own. So, it's a win-win! 🏆
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 04:21 PM
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Not at all. The hotter a man is, the more women he gets with less commitment. And the less attractive he is, the fewer women he gets with more commitment. The "rules" change and are completely dependent on how hot you are. And after all my own lived experiences, I have to finally admit that all these old sayings are true. A woman would rather share 1% of a hot alpha, than have 100% of an unsexy omega. Etc, etc... For extreme, illustrative examples of this, look at top rock/jock/influencer stars.…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 04:00 PM
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And he also doesn't want or need one. I mean, if you have a constant conveyor belt of willing women...limiting yourself to just 1 would be doing yourself a great disservice. As Chris Rock said, men are only limited by their options... All you basically need to have women at your disposal is to be hot and good enough in bed. Which granted, is but a tiny capstone of the population pyramid...but if you have that, it overrules everything else.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:47 PM
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Women rate 80% of men as below average while men rate women on a near-archetypal bell curve. 90% of different-race women will reject an Asian man. 40% of Asian women will reject an Asian man. Women are very selective when it comes to male height. About 65% of women will reject a 5'7 man. Absolutely brutal! So, your average Joe out there logically thinks that being 5/10 is at least average...but in reality, women basically believe 8/10 is "average." "Looks don't matter"...yet Asian and short king…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 02:12 PM
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Looks are king and the bar keeps getting raised...uh, literally... Referring to detailed records from between 1935 to 1967 of more than 94.500 Dutch people, the researchers found that the most "fertile" people (those who had the most children) were tall men, and women of average height. As people who tended to be taller also had more children, they contributed more "tall" genes to the gene pool. The researchers thus concluded that natural selection must have also played in a role in increased Du…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:39 AM
1

One you're aligned with as your passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:29 AM
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Having enough talent and balls to perform well on a stage in front of others makes you an alpha...especially to your fans. Much more so than going to the gym to pump up your biceps in the mirror...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:25 AM
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Women will hysterically scream for pretty boy musicians. But, you will never hear women hysterically scream for Joe Brogan TRT manosphere stereotypes... This is nothing new, folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:10 AM
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Lol, the women I know have men dying to fuck and "be friends" with them. It's not the other way around of women dying to be friends with men. 🤣🙄
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 11:57 PM
2

-Completely disagree. Even though online it seems much more normalized in my experience girls are either broke as fuck or cheap as fuck cause if we’re not dating I’m paying and if I don’t pay sex/2nd date is basically completely off the table. Not saying it’s all women or that’s a bad thing. I do well and take pride in the money I make so no big deal but it’s been my experience, however I will say in relationships it’s been much more sharing of cost on dates(tho I always end up paying more) so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah… because we all know that 4/10 guys get all the hoes amirite 🤪… lol smfh Lol yeah, anyone 5/10 and under ain't getting shit...and are simply going to get weeded out of the gene pool. The next tier of guys above average up to about 7.5/10 can have some fun with women who may be attractive, but usually have some general strike against them (overweight, single mom, etc). The remaining hottest men can reallllyyy have fun with the hottest, 20-something women with no kids in their prime. Ofc, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:38 PM
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No one besides a small percentage can enjoy the fruits of this modern society. But everything that you wrote here is true for them. Unfortunately, that’s 10-15% of men Yes, if you're in the top tier of hot men...it can blow your mind what you can enjoy sexually now with women, when you really stop and think about it. I mean, even just a casual hookup after a brief exchange is pretty mind-blowing, which probably would've been mucccccccccchh harder to accomplish just a few generations ago... But b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:25 PM
1

💯!!! It all simply boils down to how hot you are, how good in bed you are, and if you can fulfill her life needs at the time (like if she wants kids, then you must be virile, for example). But if you aren't...then she will nitpick all sorts of other excuses for why you aren't buttering her bread. But that if you were more attractive, wouldn't even cross her mind. So those are always red herrings that are used instead of telling you that you're just not hot enough. A million "different" problems,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:16 PM
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The result is the 6'2 rich handsome guys have tons of options while 90% get left out as most women are chasing their "dream husband". Yea, sucks for the lower 90%...but just imagine the fantasy theme park ride the top 10% are enjoying right now. When 90%'s losses become their gains. I guess they also run into high-quality problems like how to juggle multiple women and realizing that "love" is really just physical lust, if you even want to call that a problem? Most guys struggle with just getting…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 04:09 PM
1

She said, "I was actually looking at your friend the whole night." So I pointed over to my short friend, asking her if she was talking about him. She shook her head. I pointed at my gymcel friend. She shook her head. I pointed at my chad friend. She nodded. He didn't say a single word to her. I'm the one who approached her and made her laugh, yet she chose him. She made out with him a few minutes later and they were dancing and kissing eachother for the entire night, from midnight till 6am. 🤣 Fa…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:45 PM
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Well, there's new losers, but also new winners. If you are on the more attractive end of the spectrum, dating has gotten even easier with a lot less hurdles and "gold-diggers" than before. So, it's just a lot more natural now, actually.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 12:53 PM
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Women will list character traits first and physical traits last (sometimes they won’t mention it all), as if the former drew them in. I think that's a relic from how suppressed female sexuality has been. Which is now getting a chance to fully express itself more again. Because, at the end of the day, if a women doesn't find you hot, how would she enjoy sex with you? She can't even force that lust if she tried? So, I predict women will start becoming more frank about how they actually place physi…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:14 AM
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Not empty...but based on all the marriages these days I've known about and heard of behind closed doors. They all hit the same wall...and then some just choose to split, while others stick it out like coparenting roomies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:56 AM
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You do realize that most all marriages end up as shitshows regardless...whether they decide to actually divorce or not, for the kids or moral conditioning, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:19 AM
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living like vegetative cyber-monks, doing just enough work to get by and indulging in the occasional hobby or hyperfixation. Yea, the grind ain't worth it. Without women to try to impress, most men are happy just living far simpler lives tinkering away at their hobbies.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 09:18 PM
1

What did you do to looksmax?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 09:12 PM
-1

If she marries (a relative) alpha, he will behave badly and eventually leave her (30%). If she marries (a relative) beta, she will not respect him and will eventually leave him (70%). So either way, there is no scenario where it would work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:09 PM
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The problem is that women gaslight men by pretending they want a bunch of green false flags (usually having to do with best gentlemanly behavior)...when in fact their main green flag is simply "genetic phenotype." IOW, some "subhuman" could jump through all the hoops and wave a wheelbarrow of "green flags," but it would still make no difference in the end. But, women still want them to try in order to make society more livable for them. Although for themselves, there's really no reason to bother…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:59 PM
2

dating has changed and specifically become more competitive for men. You could say men need to up their game, but its not unreasonable to say women are most attracted to attributes that cannot be easily obtained or obtained at all. They must be genetically produced and rare. All this could be correlated to other changes in society, or maybe not. It’s not entitlement, just a more pure reflection of women’s preferences: it’s better to be single and childless than with a man any woman could attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:53 AM
2

Ok what about the "not hot" ones? Not all married guys are "hot" which suggests to me that there may be more to being successful with women than physical appearance. Women will sacrifice looks to settle for commitment...just like men will sacrifice looks to settle for sex. Which is why women in those marriages nonetheless get extra-bitchy, demanding, and often view sex as a chore. If he's ugly, yes. But would you agree there's some space between revolting and hot? Well sure, as a secondary facto…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:23 PM
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you will come home a hero with money and glory for prostitutes. 🤣🤦‍♂️ American Dream, 2023 edition...
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:01 PM
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A fuckboy could come up to us and say "wanna fuck?" easily outing himself. We immediately know not to waste time or energy on him. If he's hot ("genuine quality"), you will teehee 🤭 and waste no time "wasting time" on him. Instead, the fuckboy listens to our advice and approaches us like a gentleman. "Sorry to bother you. I love that author you're reading..." Strikes up a conversation, avoids sending up the red flags. Next thing you know the fuckboy has struck. If he's not hot, you will still 🙄 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:48 PM
-1

I have three daughters and six granddaughters -- let me assure you that (for the five old enough to notice guys) it's not white guys they're looking for. So, who are they looking for, then?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 03:36 PM
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Yea, it's not that deep. Just go back to grade school and think about what guys were at the top of the sociosexual food chain? Generally, the frattyish, cute jock was the most popular and got the Homecoming Queen. And that's it in a nutshell. Copers focus a lot on their software...when in fact most of it is based on your hardware, before you even open your mouth.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:05 PM
3

Really think about sexual selection. Sports athletes got a larger variety of women compared to the mathletes in school. This was a preview of things to come. Society needs men to not realize this en masse. Over time, it could potentially weaken a country (since alphas and women ain’t tryna go to the frontlines 😂) Right, women "love intelligence" amd "looks didn't matter to them," yet the nerds always got shunned in school, while the jocks got pedestalized. So, the truth was always there...no mat…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:43 PM
1

No mystery there...he got her because she literally thought he had a big dick, he's 6'3", and was also a superstar singer... Compared to all that, the lupus scars on his face were like some minor scratch & dent.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:18 PM
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Wrong, nice guys/bad boys is a false dichotomy. The real dichotomy is hot guys/dweebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:37 PM
2

Right, anyone can make a hole-in-one on one shot...but let's see what his batting average is over a whole season?
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:47 AM
1

How did he meet her and what made her interested in him?
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 04:45 AM
1

Agreed, I can't really blame women for acting that way just based on their sheer quantity of matches/messages alone...much less low quality.. 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:19 PM
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But then he made an OF and his pictures got leaked. And he has a massive dick. Like 7" size. And then I realised, that's the reason the girls stick around him even though he's a stinky 35 year old NEET. Looks, race, height, and dick size (physical objectification) are the real green flags.. ✅
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 03:37 PM
1

But you're probably better-looking than her so the looks gap > age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:00 AM
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Yes they do. My friend is 37 and as soon as he took over his dads company and was successfull he was getting hot 18-21 year olds after him all the time. He's now dating a 19 year old who is fine as hell. How tall and hot is he? And are these real reciprocal relationships...or is he simping as a sugar daddy? Because everything I've seen lately basically agrees with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:57 AM
1

Those are the (typically narcisisstic) studs who put in zero effort in general, but women can't resist anyways cuz they're so hot. The real question here is why women choose to have children with such men who will spend little to no time with their children...but I just answered that question. 🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 03:46 PM
1

That's true more where women depend on men for money. But women making their own income now care a lot less about "gold-digging."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:24 PM
2

Right, I mean this is a female example and it's hard to definitively measure...but I would (subjectively) say that she does enjoy some halo effect in all the comments on her appearance on Shark Tank.. I mean, she did have a good presentation like most and was great with numbers as a CPA, but her product really wasn't that innovative (natural deodorant).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:58 PM
8

restaurant owners, successful real estate agents, clothing business owners, or pro athletes. And are they also good-looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:10 PM
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Where Have All The Good-Looking Middle-Aged Men Gone? 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:44 PM
1

Well, it's probably a bit oversized to leave a handle they can hold onto...
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 08:41 PM
1

I am a 5'9 average looking on my best day black man who is on the skinnier side and I have had no issues having relationships or getting interest from/with average women in a large city. Why would it be hard for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:30 PM
1

Lol, they say this because they select based on looks, not personality. And so "emotional depth" is what's lacking...because again, they're not selecting for it.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:52 AM
1

My bad, I stand corrected! 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:48 AM
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Trust me, all her real standards are primarily physical (face, race, height, dick, etc)...she's just not going to list them and seem superficial. But that's all that really counts and practically nothing on this list actually does... 🙄🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:57 PM
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She's going for young, top Gs with better options, and thus standards. Cuz most average dudes have neither...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/23 07:12 PM
1

But some much earlier than others... Anyways, don't shoot the messenger. I'm just talking about what women find unattractive - the only true red flags. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:02 AM
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Ugly, short, fat, balding, and/or broke guys Those are the real red flags It's mostly just handsome, tall, fit, and/or rich guys with a full set of hair Those are the real green flags
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:41 PM
1

Andrew Tate has stated that he currently has 10 to 12 children and desires to have a maximum of 20 children. And now, also keep in mind that he doesn't commit to, much less marry, any of his baby mamas. And there's no way he invests any time with them or his kids, either. And HE'S ONLY 36!!! Now, explain why women would sign up for this using blue pill theory? What are the REAL "green flags" here? His sterling personality? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:30 PM
2

LMFAO - that thread is crazy. More women than men believe they have it harder in dating now??? 🤣🤦‍♂️ And for a casual race/height pill...one commenter reduced her 2 recent prospects down to simply race and height, and nothing else. The men I recently dated outside of the USA— the last 2 being a 6’10” German and a 6’2” Dutchman Srsly, when was the last time you heard a male even include a girl's height in his description of her? 🙄 Meanwhile, if a girl's man is over about 6'2"...she'll never fail …
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 06:59 PM
1

Tate is ~6'1"-6'3", often muscular, sometimes sports a thick beard, an ex-kickboxing champ, and mixed White/Black. He also has thinning hair and an extremely receding chin, for some lesser deductions.. But by comparison, Bill Gates is "just" 5'10", very cerebral with glasses, hips nearly as wide as his shoulders, moobs/pooch, and no discernable athleticism or physical prowess. And their respective results with the female species shows just how important these purely physical differences alone ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:14 PM
0

Not true. Tate is physically manlier than some ultra-rich dweeb like Bill Gates. Primal attraction > money. That's why Tate has had hordes of hot women and ~10-12 kids with multiple baby mamas without having to commit to any of them (plus he's expatting in Eastern Europe).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:49 PM
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He has ~10-12 kids with multiple baby mamas alone. You think he committed to any of them, much less paid them for that? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:45 PM
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women select tall + good looking men then the future generation will have better genes and be smarter and healthier. True, although it will create taller and good-looking future generations, but not necessarily smarter and healthier...
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 04:40 AM
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Lol, most of the triggered comments here prove your headline. I will say that based on my eyeball test of couples and moms with babies out at parks and the mall...it's def very common now. And forget about all the ones you don't see in public, but are just hooking up behind closed doors!
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 04:26 AM
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The struggle is real...like not feeling hurt when your bf doesn't mind leaving you out of your MFF 3sum... But, the hotter he must be, the more you'll put up with! Still beats a beta provider loser! 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 04:19 AM
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Lol, BS. Apparently, he was still sexting Sarah to no avail after he got with his rebound doormat. 🤣 Here's what the big baby didn't understand. How much a woman worships you is dependent on how awesome you are. And if you have ask for it, much less demand...then you by definition simply aren't awesome enough. Respect is based on true value/worth...and if it's forced, then it's not really respect. If a woman is obsessed with you...then she'll be naturally clinging and hanging onto every word of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 07:38 PM
2

Most start TRT and hair systems by their 30s now. Take those away and then see what you're left with?
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 07:20 PM
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these privileges expire roughly around the age of 35 (depending on your lifestyle and self-care). Once your wrinkles start showing, your tits start sagging, men aren't going to put in the effort for you anymore LMAO! As if a 60-yo woman won't still have men around her age beating down her door... Or a 45-yo single mom right now doesn't have 20-yos hoping to be her boytoy... 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:01 AM
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Women tend not to improve for the men they have, they improve for the men they want. 💯! I would love it...except that this is always the motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:23 AM
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It's not for me but I'm not in a relationship with Jonah Hill Let's be honest, Sharia Law is not for most women...which is why his ex was so shocked and couldn't resist exposing him for it. That being said, I agree that there's no point in exposing all your ex's bad or odd behavior...unless it's maybe in response to set the record straight or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:13 PM
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His conditions for a woman to be his girlfriend are that he gets to micromanage all her interactions with other men. Yes, that's called a control freak, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:20 PM
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I think his boundaries were very control-freakish, TBH...and I think that's what all the collective heartburn from women were for. Ultimately though, to each their own and yes, he has the right to his preferences and to find someone else who will tolerate them in exchange for his fame. But most relationshitshows all end like this, so no real need to broadcast all the gory deets, either. No one had a gun to either's head to be together...so if you don't like him, leave. Which they did. Join the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:59 PM
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Not to mention, it's a (presumably) hot, young OF girl, too, lol... So, pick of the litter that he treats like an afternoon snack.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:16 PM
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Lol, facts! The internet is a great equalizer in that every poster magically gets granted equal street cred...that they would never get in person irl.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 04:58 PM
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Hey, don't shoot the messenger, bro... Her baby, now nine months old, is called Oscar after a character in a comic about the French revolution -- a nod to the donor's French ancestry. experts say regardless of the availability of Chinese or Chinese-American donors, [Chinese] women are still chosing to have mixed-race children. "Basically, the selected sperm donors are mostly white," said Xi Hao, a clinical coordinator in Beijing who helps Chinese customers access a fertility clinic in California…
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 06:10 PM
1

Dude wasn't fine. He was so distraught that his gf had sex with guys due to pure lust...and not because they offered resources/commitment...that he threw a tantrum and dumped her. But if he was truly alpha...he would've been ONE OF THOSE GUYS that she had sex with just out of pure lust...and BENEFITTED from thirsty girls dropping the bar and their panties for hot studs! Instead, he was on the losing side of that whole equation and so had a raging meltdown. 🤣🤡
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 05:49 PM
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Yea, naive beta men get pissed because it totally reality checks and wrecks their brainwashed view of women as childlike damsels that are sugar and spice and everything nice. So after he spent all his life jumping through hoops waving his green flags...and then finds out all the carnal sex she had with hot (the only real green flag that counts) guys who simply didn't have to do any of that...he fucking loses it... 🤣🤣🤣
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 02:55 PM
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Cope, when that's literally what the girls said... 🤣 Occam's Razor cuts deeeep, bruh.. 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 02:44 PM
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there isn’t much of a return provided by attempting to flirt with strange women It goes much further than that and explains why there is such a huge double-standard for unattractive vs attractive men. Girls will just quickly have casual sex with hot guys who make no investment in them. Meanwhile, a less attractive guy will have to jump through hoops, trading commitment and a whole checklist of green flags, for sex...and mostly with single moms just seeking beta providers for their kids...with ho…
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 02:26 PM
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Show me a picture of his wife? And he was a tough guy with a boxing/wrestling background who also already had kids...so women had already found him attractive before his prison notoriety... Meanwhile, most of the mass shooters were frustrated dweebs who couldn't get girls at all...yet as they grew increasingly dark, that didn't help one iota...until they finally snapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:00 PM
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Instead of expecting a surfer model to modify her behavior, he should steer clear of those models and seek a non-model, just as redpillers suggest men avoid women with a high promiscuity level and pursue women who are more innocent sexually That's basically what he ended up doing...knocking up some plain Jane after he broke up with surfer girl. I think they both handled the mismatch very poorly...but really it was no one's fault. They had different goals and so were simply better apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:48 AM
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When mutual attraction does occur, it’s a rare event, so out of desperation people will try to make it work. Yea, it's hard enough just to find mutual attraction, much less a behavioral clone...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:40 AM
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Jonah certainly sounds like a control freak douchebag, but was there some reason Brady had to air their private laundry out? I mean, most relationships are shitshows...so does anyone really need to win in the court of public opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:10 PM
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Jeff Bezos is: 1) ~5'7", bald, and 59 2) Divorced with 4 kids 3) Tech nerd 4) One of the richest men in the world But basically, without #4, he'd be getting zero swipes on any dating app (like Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates). He's ONLY a "HVM" because of extreme wealth. Lauren also has 3 kids...the first of which was with an NFL stud she never married. Or, take any other guy with more physical attractiveness like Andrew Tate (~6'1"-6'3" with more hair & muscles)...and he only dates young, attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:44 PM
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Uh, that was about 60 years ago like just 2 decades after WWII...when even a square beta provider could easily snag a decent-looking wife. That being said, he was the equivalent of a YouTube influencer today...so his social popularity would vastly enhance his attractiveness and still get him girls now.
/r/AllPillDebate08/07/23 10:51 PM
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Because women are much more likely to feel harassed when they're approached by men they find undesirable, approaching is especially risky for unattractive men. Try a thought experiment. If you're a straight male, imagine how you'd feel if random gay/trans guys kept hitting on you everywhere you went, while just minding your own business... That's basically how I'd imagine women feel when constantly getting hit on by men she finds unattractive. (Ofc, if you're attractive...entirely different stor…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:28 PM
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If they don't lust are you, hyperbolically beg for your seed, then it's over. FAX!
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 05:24 PM
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But, that's the point...lesser looks must be compensated for, if that's even possible...
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 06:00 PM
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First you make the money. Then you get the power [social status]. And then you get the woman. Without money and status you are nothing to them. That's very outdated...the primary traits now are simply looks (tall, short-haired Jesus). Money alone is not sexy. For example, your typical young softdev pulling 6 figures has no power or bitches... Whereas all the hot young women in their prime are hooked up with guys that look like short-haired Jesus in baseball caps.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:39 PM
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Not really. The available pool is just wayyyyy smaller irl (basically limited to some handfuls of very local guys they encounter on a regular basis)...so they have a lotttt less to choose from there.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:30 PM
1

The male version of "love" is respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:13 AM
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Lol, it's followed by reams of the same complaint from other girls who all had longggg relationships with guys who DIDN'T make them feel safe. IOW, the opposite is exactly who they all actually dated in their younger, prime years...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:18 AM
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Right, it's like when a girl goes to a car lot. First, she sees what car catches her eye after scanning the selection...and then starts reviewing the terms for any total dealbreakers. But, she doesn't do it backwards. No, the first cut is by farrrrr the biggest one...eliminating like 99% of other contenders and based on all the visual preselection criteria (looks) she already has programmed into her head.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 04:02 AM
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Real problem with simps is that they lower the bar sooo damn farrr for women that even their absolute lowest standards for behavior get completely obliterated. So now, there is no floor. Why can women make a living for simply existing on OF...SIMPS! 🤦‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 02:21 AM
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Facts! Like if a woman is mentioning you have green flags...she's not really interested. Because if she really was, she wouldn't even care about flags at that point. Either she's super-interested and is helping to set up a meet soon...or she's not.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 12:21 AM
1

Soooo...must be Southeast Azn/Cambo/Lao checking in, then? 😄
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 04:05 PM
2

I don't think losing your V-card at 12 and a 40 body count is normal (average) in any community...and probably not yours, either. You are statistically, an outlier. My question is how do you think you've been able to get so much more play than average?
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:33 PM
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👏 So, what's your secret for breaking the mold? How good-looking/tall are you? 😁
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 03:00 PM
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Exactly, looks = face/race/height/masculinity And physical looks >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> behavioral personality 🤣 Ergo, the things women claim matter the least, actually matter the most...and vice-versa. (Ofc, there are always exceptions...but we're talking about the bell curve here.)
/r/AllPillDebate02/07/23 02:54 PM
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Exactly, if you're hot - anywhere. If you're not - nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:46 PM
1

But where do they come up with the "not even 50%" figure? They listed no equation or real way of determining any of this. Dunno, but I presume they're applying a bell curve to it and its standard deviations to come up with that stat? I mean frankly, it sounds reasonable. There are definitely statistical consensuses on who's hot, and how hot they are... Otherwise, there would be no common trends and everyone would be viewed equally randomly.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 02:02 PM
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Interesting sub, sounds like they got looks down to a science... 😳
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 01:22 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 rimshot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:46 AM
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She lives with me. Most people of my socio economic status believe that she never stopped being homeless because she does not have a way to get a roof over her head on her own without my help. Oh ok, I wouldn't consider her homeless anymore, then. Otherwise, you could consider all babies and children homeless, too. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:11 AM
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I was looking for a partner in a homeless shelter while volunteering. Wait, you strategically volunteered at a homeless shelter to find a homeless girlfriend there? Why did you intentionally seek a homeless girlfriend - because their standards are presumably rock bottom? Both miss moral and I think that staying together is better for everyone involved and everyone not involved can go fuck themselves. No, I meant that she's still currently homeless, despite dating you for 9 years? So, was there n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:50 PM
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1) How did you meet? 2) Why is she homeless and is she attractive (or look like a stereotypical, homeless drug addict)? 3) So, you would both rather she stay homeless than live with you after 9 years together? 4) What does your relationship arrangement consist of? Regular date nights and sleepovers at your place, or what? 5) Is this a mutually-monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:23 PM
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Barely. My mother is not happy that I chose a homeless woman as a partner. I told her the same I told to everyone else. Accept it, be cordial about it. If I find out you failed to respect Miss Moral in any way you are out of my life. You've been dating a homeless woman for 9 years? Uh, I got questions... 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:58 PM
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An obvious one, you can have random sex as a single guy. I have gone out not planning to have sex, but I'm grabbing a drink and the opportunity presents itself. Obvously you are having less consistent sex overall, but more more variance. I sleep better without someone else in the bed. Freedom to do stuff without needing to confirm with anyone. If I wanna fly to Mexico for a long weekend, I can book the night before, drink tequila, fuck a rando, and come back. I also tend to get invited more by f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:53 AM
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And peace/sanity...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:44 AM
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Was he hot or more masculine than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:53 PM
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Funny, that guy doesn't even look that tall.. 😄🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate26/06/23 04:39 PM
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you will face the exact same hurdles with a low and high smv woman Lol, 💯 coping BS...sadly.. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:49 PM
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Link her? But it's all relative and I'm guessing her fanbois are even lower on the totem pole and exxxxxxtremely desperate... 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:26 PM
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True...what men want and fantasize about (noncommital sex with unlimited, hot, subservient bangmaids)...is obviously not necessarily what's best for women. Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:09 PM
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Bitchy girls who are cold, selfish andact uninterested tend to do better in some cases It's not that they're bitchy, it's that they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:08 PM
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Totally! I mean, I see just as many vids on TikTok of girls posing with nice, short guys who shower regularly! 👌
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:11 PM
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he has said some stupid things that detract from his overall viewpoints. Yea, he's like 80% solid logic...but then goes another 20% into archaic, black & white, patriarchal notions that simply aren't true.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 02:18 PM
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access to the women behind all the subscriptions. pay this much for unlimited swipes! this much for read receipts! this much to see your likes! this much for super likes! If you're not already getting matches free, I don't think paying will help..m
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 12:45 AM
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True crime is erotica for women. 🔥🥵💦💦
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 12:28 AM
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Yes, but a lot of the same traits that could make women less attractive would make men more attractive - like various traits of masculinity/testosterone. For example, a flat-chested V-shape in female is far less attractive than the same in a male. Similarly, big tits and a phat ass look great on a female, but horrible on a male, etc...
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:12 PM
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NP, just Nature rebalancing itself and the pendulum swinging back after generations of patriarchy. Male gene pool and behaviors are long overdue for a mass culling for quality control, tbh. In the future, the whole meme that "looks don't matter for men" and simply a steady paycheck guarantees you a faithful bangmaid happy to serve you at home will be viewed as Peak Male Entitlement and delusion. As in it happened...but men were totally deluded to think that such women were truly happy and that i…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 06:33 PM
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🤯 So, tell me about this transmaxxxing... 😂 Srsly, did they have to go on hormone therapy or any surgery...or just put on makeup? I mean wait, how did your friend look like a BBL IG model?
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 03:07 AM
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Sounds legit. Seriously, what lower position is there in life than a slave who voluntarily goes to fight wars for his master?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:37 AM
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healthy, self-respecting man Lol... 😅😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:35 AM
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To some degree yes, but in a corporate job, your life usually isn't at stake and you aren't totally at the mercy of your superiors...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:23 PM
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Any guy joining the US military now to defend elite American imperialism as disposable cannon fodder alone...is already cucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:25 AM
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Right, but most of those patriarchal privileges have been sociopolitical in nature. Dating is almost never covered in academia because it sounds too...trivial and "unacademic." Nevermind that it is a central metric to quality-of-life. So, I don't think that they're indoctrinated that men have it easy in dating. I can only guess that they can't even fathom that it could be so radically from their own experience of literally being inundated with a tsunami of suitors every fkg day?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:34 PM
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now they show me videos of threesomes and orgies with hot women and two even have girlfriends who look like girls on the Brazzers ads Wait, so now they bagged hot women as MtF "ladybros?" So, girls think they're hot because they look like chicks, but have dicks? It would def be interesting to hear this opposite life experience of transitioning the other way? 😳
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 01:28 PM
2

Link to these posts?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 01:22 PM
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Nah, just be yourself and Be ConFiDenT, bro! Women love confidence...plus smarts and a good sense of humor. So, don't forget to smile! 😁
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 01:21 PM
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LMFAO...it really boggles my mind that women really are this delusional about the male experience. I mean, they actually expected to be treated like kangs or something? But instead find themselves kicked to the curb like trash on the streets...LMFAO!!!!
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 04:58 AM
1

Oh OK...sounds good. 👍
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 12:51 AM
1

Define "young?" Up until school age?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:06 PM
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I am about to finish undergraduate school with a BS in chemistry then go off to graduate school to get my Masters in nursing. I also currently work two jobs on top of that. If you plan on being a SAHM, isn't that a lot of money/time to spend on degrees that you may not use that much?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 03:38 PM
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Yes, the delusion of "male privilege" is absurdly strong with most women in general...ESPECIALLY in the realm of dating. Where in fact, women hold all the cards by a LONG SHOT. In a recent episode of this podcast, a female said that if she was a guy, she'd get sex simply by pulling her dick out on the street...in all absolute seriousness! And yes, Norah Vincent even wrote a book chronicling her experience disguising herself as a man...and how the absolute worst part was trying to date, lmfao!
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 03:30 AM
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Lol, basically agreed. If a woman is actually attracted to you, she's not going to wait past the first or second date. And if she's not...then what's the point, really? Rules are only for guys she's not really attracted to. Because if she is, they all fly out the window...
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 03:04 AM
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Right, it's a spectrum with benchwarming beta providers in the belly of the curve.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 10:07 PM
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Beta provider = masculine? 🤣 More like the usual pimp for muh thrills, simp for muh bills...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:34 PM
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It's because today, women have exponentially more choice than men. A recent girl's dating profile I saw said to stand out or wait in line because she had 60 guys in her inbox. So clearly, the ball is in the girls' court, on average. Men have very limited choices today, while women have all the choice in the world. I mean, there are many young women today who have NEVER even experienced any form of rejection from men, including ghosting. That's like an entirely foreign concep to them...yet more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:22 PM
3

You have to also at least be a celebrity to crack 7 for a (probably low-to-mid) woman... 😄
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 01:09 AM
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She's trying to disprove your point...but in reality, I GUARANTEE there are some unusual circumstances in her situation that she is not revealing that perfectly explain her "exception" to the rule.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:32 AM
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Prob because men always orgasm from sex...while women do so far less frequently. Therefore, any sex for a man is a guaranteed orgasm at minimum...whereas it's far more of a crap shoot for women. Women enjoy good sex probably as much as men...the problem is that it's far harder for them to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:54 PM
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I'm sure there's exceptions...but I'm talking about your typical Silicon Valley techie boy like at Twitter...vs the stereotypical image of Jesus in a trucker hat, which is more what women seem to find "hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:32 PM
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Exactly! Given that men are still prized for being providers or established Lol no, this is definitely NOT a given today...nor was it ever, really. Just check out who the hottest chicks on social media are usually dating. It's usually some scruffy, HWP, baseball cap-wearing type, local townie-looking bro with a full beard...not Bill Gates "dweeb." If anyone has seen any with a software developer STEM type (who are likely wayyy wealthier on average)...please post it. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:44 PM
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That's kind of the problem with RP. If there are no exceptions- I'll tell you all you want to know. Ok, so tell me about the exceptional factors that explain this "exception" and role-reversal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:25 PM
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Uh-huh. There are no exceptions. I guarantee you're leaving out some really key aspects of the equation here then that "defy conventional standards" of female behavior. 🙄 Something's gotta give. If you weren't a single mom...then it was something else...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:08 PM
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IOW, you settled for a beta provider as a single mom with less options who needed a simp with resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:48 PM
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Usually some tall, bearded guy with chiseled features who looks like a Bachelor/MLB/NHL player/Hollywood leading man...
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 04:37 PM
1

Serena's husband resigns from Reddit board (6'5") Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohanian has urged company to replace him with a black candidate Talk about a Black ally who goes well above and beyond his call of duty to put his money where his mouth is, JFC...what a WORLD of DIFFERENCE! These 2 are NOT the same...I REST MY fkg CASE!!! 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 05:24 AM
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Case-in-point of women lowering their physical standards for beta simps who will commit and provide...but deep down they aren't sexually fulfilled...leading them to fuxxor hot studs on the side, and even secretly have their love babies... 😳😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:48 PM
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Right, whereas women will RAISE their physical standards for just casual sex. IOW, they'll freely have a ONS with a HOT guy...but no way in hell with just some beta bux simp (who she'll make jump through hoops by comparison, if at all). Meanwhile, men will have sex with all sorts of women they find just attractive enough in some way...but would never want to date, much less marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:26 PM
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Men will lower their physical standards for just sex. Women will lower their physical standards for a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:59 PM
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Now, now...have you tried taking a shower? JBYourself, bro! I mean, that worked for a whole generation of men left alive after 2 WWs, the Depression, and the Spanish Flu against an overwhelming supply of undereducated, surplus women whose futures depended primarily on a beta provider... 🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 10:10 PM
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Why do you even care what they deem as "better?" You seem so desperate for their approval, yourself. It's like whining about why a dumpster diver is "pretending" a moldy cheeseburger is better than a fresh, artisan meal. Who cares what a dumpster diver pretends to cope with his lowly status in life? He's a desperate bottom feeder, not a professional food critic, so why are you even elevating him up on that pedestal and awarding him the unearned authority of final judge/arbiter of taste? 🙄 Sounds…
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 02:16 PM
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It's insulting...because it's like a homeless beggar aggressively asking a queen what she can do for him? A girl like in that video would probably get 100 likes/day on any dating app and could probably become a millionaire on OnlySimps without too much effort. When you try to negotiate waaayyy out of your league from a position of no power...it's just laughable. Imagine some random civilian trying to boss the US military around... Right or wrong, it's like a toddler challenging Mike Tyson.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:54 PM
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Lol again, you act like these super betas even have a choice...when they are lucky to even get any woman at all. A lot of other WOC, much less White women, have much higher physical/sexual/ethical standards...and would refuse to even entertain dating some far-right activist dud on morals alone. Whereas Asian women will often SUBMIT to the same colonialist beliefs and gladly serve as bootlicking enablers/jock straps for such idealogues.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 01:39 PM
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Right, it's a secondary qualifier at best. But, high intelligence alone as the first qualifier? Hard no. Otherwise, mathletes would have groupies thirsting in their comments and sliding in their DMs...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:51 PM
2

😳 Damn, that's eye-opening...
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 02:13 PM
2

Yea, exactly. The "girls don't care about looks" cope never made sense even starting as kids. Who were all the girls crushing on in school - the cute boys! Ofc, you could always find an example of a girl with an ugly bf, but same vice-versa too (if not even more frequently). But even then, that boy didn't have broad appeal and basically got lucky. No, the guys with the broadest appeal...were usually the cutest ones.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 04:35 PM
2

Right, they were settling for beta geeks ordering them around like Steven Crowder...and gritting their teeth plastering fake smiles and orgasms on like they enjoyed it. And all the spoiled, pompous Boomer males actually bought it! 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 04:19 PM
1

Neither was Yeshua (according to the Bible, at least)...or his daddy Yahweh (who knocked up his mom out-of-wedlock). Remember, actions always speak louder than words.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 04:13 PM
2

Yea, guys like Jeremey Meeks, Blake Griffin, and Chris Brown are legendary slayers who are basically gaming at the top of the sexual pecking order on admin mode.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 03:25 PM
1

Timothee Chalamet who's literally a 10 Lmao...Tom Holland and this dude are a 10? 🤣 I think they might even have a little trouble getting dates today if they weren't famous actors?
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 02:53 PM
8

Yes, some events will trip a tipping point where most delusional men now bending over backwards to simp out of final desperation to get girls...will finally just throw in the towel and stop caring/trying. Hypothetically, this would be symbolized by the OF bubble popping and crashing... Women will lose the red carpet treatment they get everywhere from men...to be replaced by blase indifference. The only guys that will still entertain women will be the hottest ones...that never needed to make any …
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 03:23 AM
1

Interesting what women find the hottest... I woulda guessed this guy might be a little too on the husky side, but guess not? Big-framed and masculine-looking seems to be better in general for many grown women, though. For example, Gabe Kapler is another dude whose comments are filled with women thirsting after him... None of them even care that he's 47-yo...and in fact just say he keeps getting better with age!
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 01:27 PM
11

Well, you can now buy dirty socks from a 32-yo woman for $500...
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 06:42 PM
2

Exactly. Likes and follows don't lie. They very quickly find out what content goes viral, and what doesn't. And obviously, thirst-trapping is what sells most... So if you wanna "blame" anyone, blame the hordes of men simping over them.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:15 PM
8

No need to force it...women are already weeding ugly dudes out of the gene pool all on their very own.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 01:43 AM
2

Pointless. Don't date a guy hotter than you with more options. Or if you want a total simp who's ready to marry you after you simply breathe in his direction, date someone waaayyyy less hot than you (or that society considers so). Ofc, granted that neither of these options will likely be palatable to most women...go back to chasing hotter guys, getting pumped & dumped, and then complaining about it on socials. 😄👌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:38 AM
1

More masculine traits will be selected...making men more handsome, but women more manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:33 AM
1

Women love men unconditionally? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:30 AM
3

Lol, so 6'3" blonde ends up with...3 dates. Did he even get laid? 😄
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 07:42 PM
4

Well, Jason Momoa did marry Lisa Bonet in 2017 when she was 49, a single mom, and 12 years his senior... 😄 And Jennifer Coolidge is only 6 yrs older than Lisa. 🤷‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 04:32 AM
6

Lmfao...so they met on Tinder...and she GHOSTED him, first! 🤣 IOW, he was LUCKY to get HER! 😆
/r/AllPillDebate25/04/23 04:09 PM
9

Why can't I get laid? Enters rabbit hole and 5 years later is tracking down prehistoric human origins and calculating Neanderthal DNA %s... (And still can't get laid.)
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:41 AM
3

6'1" BM? Ofc a few Stacies wanna try you on for size... So, nothing disproven here, only confirmed. 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 02:14 AM
0

Goes to show, it all primarily boils down to looks, height, dick, masculinity...basically biological traits. Women in their peak years could care less about money, model minority behavior, etc. Because if they did...then beta-providing Asian men would be in highest demand.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 03:53 AM
14

Danielle is running the London marathon in Jelle's honour 🤣🙄
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 01:27 PM
3

Right, if it's unconditional, then what made you feel it exclusively for just one person to begin with? No, it's always extremely, and entirely, conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 PM
4

It's not at all depressing. You can have a healthy work-life balance, build communities, learn different skills, travel, make lots of friends of memories, and just fuck around. That's what men tend to want to do anyway. Right! Sex with women is great, but relationships are fucking DRAINING!!! So there's a trade-off there and given the choice, most men would prefer just the former anyways. And if they can't get that either, well it's not that different than periodically just having occasional sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:58 AM
1

That's the true freedom aborigines all had here for tens of thousands of years before the Christian colonialists came and replaced it with their unironic version of "freedom." 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:54 AM
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💯! Most men don't require luxury and tons of toys to be happy. They usually only acquire those to impress women, who do. But just left to our own devices, we can work a job we love for less money and live happily with a lot less stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:44 AM
-2

They already do that on their own. Girls who want kids already have them in their early 20s now with their cool high school townie sweethearts. Basically, if a girl wants kids...she already starts pumping them out in her early 20s, if not late teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:44 PM
4

Right, looks are the basic cover charge just to get in with most women in their peak years with the most choice. Game will still increase success some...but is really just compensation proportional to effort, like attaining power/wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:30 PM
7

Why? What color pill on the spectrum do you preach in theory, and what color have you practiced in reality?
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:29 PM
22

There's women on here? 😳😅
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 03:05 PM
2

Is the dating game in this world as fucked as you all make it sound? For context I’m 23 mainly into anime women and haven’t participated in dating culture since I was in high school nor do I plan on it. I like to live in a little bubble I’ve created for myself Yes. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:25 PM
1

the average guy who's looking to meet someone? Lol, the average guy has no leverage and is stuck fighting/simping over leftover crumbs like a flock of pigeons after a bird of prey has finished feasting...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:06 PM
1

Damn, what face are you using? 😮
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:48 PM
1

Lol, look at the bait & click thumbnail vs the actual woman in the video... 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:45 PM
1

I've known a few short (5'6"ish) guys who some decentish women crushed on or got with. Most were good-looking in the face and 1 had really good posture. Another seemed more average all-around...so I'm not sure what his appeal was? But most of that was also some years ago...so I don't know how they're doing today after the bar has literally been raised so much more over just the past few years?
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:22 PM
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Right, even if looks are your initial bottleneck that you never get past...doesn't mean that dick size and perceived sexual prowess don't still matter. Women will still pick guys they suspect/hope 🙏 are good in bed and stay with ones who are. Physical hardware (looks, size, genetics, clout, etc) is everything. I mean, Jeremy Meeks, Wilt Chamberlain, or rock stars like Elvis (also known for his looks, btw) are the classic examples of what actually directly get women wet.
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:05 PM
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Exactly. People always wanna cope by pretending relationships are all about personality, emotions, and intangibles...yadda, yadda... When the driving factors are really primarily all about the physical, tangible hardware. Which is what creates all the emotions, "chemistry," etc. Because when push comes to shove, women will break their behavioral rules for their physical standards...but rarely vice-versa. IOW, they'll settle for a ONS with a 6' hottie...but will not settle for a committed relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:36 AM
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No, looks plays a formative role...especially in developing that confidence. Look, who was popular and got the hottest cheerleaders in high school? And then got the hot sorority girls in college? Etc? It was the cute jock...which is largely all physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:31 AM
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Yes, the "it" factor is not some mysterious quotient. It's simply looks, as you said. Face, height, and race are probably 95% of it...none of which can be changed with personality or gym. It's not that deep whatsoever...but simply face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 01:17 AM
9

Yes, after she's done popping out all her kids with her hot studs...then she'll settle for giving a simp the privilege of supporting her world as her retirement plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:51 PM
-1

Don't date eco-friendly people? Edit: Nvm, I missed the "don't" (have) there...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:00 PM
3

More the opposite. They are hot enough to get women without having to pay for them through providing. PIMPing, not SIMPing... 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:23 PM
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Broke men who make less cheat because they’re trying to prove their own masculinity to themselves because they can’t prove their masculinity through providing Actually, they were probably already hotter to begin with...hence women married them, despite them being broke. If anything, they have less to prove...because they don't need to be providers to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:21 PM
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The issue is that I don't fit the standards for what is considered a conventionally attractive black male in the US. Yea, the 2 rules are paramount...which largely boil down to face, race, and height...just to even get your foot in the door, at the bare minimum. And working out or minor software updates don't change any of this hardware a whole lot, lol. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:38 AM
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LMAO...meanwhile the average scrub is hoping to get their attention with some witty banter and mitigate their risk with just a coffee date...ZOMFG it's so over. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:46 PM
14

they've had a "slutty" phase where they hooked up with anyone and everyone and had sex just as frequently Well, anyone and everyone hot... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:49 PM
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A woman will "break her rules" so to speak for a guy she likes. 2 of the 3 said "I don't normally do this" etc. Right, if not, she's not interested enough. So, either she's really interested...or not enough. If she's not breaking her rules for you, just cut your losses and fuggedaboudit...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:00 AM
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In fact, I'd prefer if more women were brutally honest about their true desires (to others and themselves), and I wish they would shout it out early and often. Right, that's not going to happen so we can only infer the truth from their actions. And that truth is critical for us to know in order to effectively play this game. I'm not telling women what to do here...I just want to an accurate compass to navigate romantic relations with them with. Whereas the conventional one is practically backwar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:39 PM
3

Yes, I agree. I'm fine with Nature taking its true course...but just want to stop the lies and expose that truth for what it is. That way men can do the best they can within the actual "rules" of this game...rather than wasting tons of time and energy on red herrings and wild goose chases...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:35 PM
1

She then suggested i do the same and see the world. But little does she know that I'm lucky to get one date in 6 months, we are not the same, haha. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:55 AM
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Mens frustration is because they know how it works, yet women and “society” will gaslight them about how its a them issue Men are expected to be "emotionally available"...while women are never expected to be "rationally available."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:25 PM
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Exactly. Cheater was a selfish, entitled POS, and he knows it. And his wife repeated her multigenerational cycles in cherry-picking a POS (probably for his looks alone) and giving him her best years/popping out 2 kids with him. After which she can now bash her ex and shop around for a simp provider with a huge laundry list of hoops to jump through (none of which her alpha stud had to 🤣) for the honor of raising her world with her. 😁👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:16 PM
2

The other thing is that physical attractiveness is also relative. OP didn't say how physically attractive his sister was. Let's say she was below-average...then she would still be falling for a more attractive guy than herself (and maybe the best she could get at the time)? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:58 PM
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Except the OP said it worked for an average-looking guy on his sister? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:34 PM
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Well, men with choice will keep choosing that and you just weeded yourself out of the gene pool. Nothing wrong with that...but it's probably one big reason why career women are historically more of an anomaly. Because natural selection, evolution, and reproduction don't favor women diverting the majority of their child-bearing years to...not bearing/raising children, lol. But hey, that's also better for our planet...so actually a good thing in the bigger picture! 🌎👍👏🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:58 PM
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Apparently, I'm too educated and men find that intimidating. I have a master's degree as a woman. Never mind that I'm working in a field I didn't study in. Or even have any kind of career at all. My ex left me for a woman with a GED who gets to be a SAHM. Men aren't intimidated by career women. 🙄 They just view you as dedicating a lot of time to something they don't need from a woman (workaholic materialism with student debt)...leaving far less time/interest for things they do desire from a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:06 PM
4

what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women? None. 0/10 don't rec.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:14 AM
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For 1000s of years, women selected men for their status and power. For being the protector and provider. Not exactly true. Women have always desired an Elvis romance novel hero who could make their thighs quiver. And they got it when they could...but it was just a lot harder under very rigid, patriarchal systems that arranged marriages or forced them to marry before sex, etc... None of that was natural, though...but very restrictive social structures. As a result, you've been brainwashed to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:41 PM
9

he was attractive, well dressed Just be hot, bro. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:38 PM
7

all the men obsessed with getting a Bugatti and material success That's usually just to attract women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:41 AM
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Well I know, they're dating Chad. I've had a few hit me up after they had some of his kids. Lol, exactly. Gotta love the OLD standard issue..."My ex was such an a-hole, I had 3 kids with him. Thank god I'm done having kids now...so now I need some simp to actually treat me well and commit to me and his kids!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:26 AM
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Women love material comforts and dream of lives of leisure/luxury. That's why all the top IG influencers are always doing photo ops in resort locations or fancy restaurants. But, men don't need all that. We don't even need box springs/bed frames FFS. Most of us are very happy with our hobbies and just bare essentials in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:14 AM
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It also hurts women to rely on intuition, as they end up being single moms, cheated on, and marrying losers just because their "intuition" told them those men are better. Yea, but you could say their intutition was right for its purpose at the time - having sex with a hot guy and maybe pushing out his baby...for which him not commiting, cheating, etc is just a distant, secondary concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:17 PM
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Do you think that if a lot of conventionally handsome and even successful men started hitting on your girlfriend or partner 1 month into your relationship that would she start nitpicking and looking for reasons to breakup? Started, lol? Unless she suddenly had a massive makeover, a hot woman has already been attracting hot guys since she was a child, knows it, and has already "raised" her standards long ago to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 12:24 PM
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"A lot of people getting these jobs don’t have enough life experience and are susceptible to conditioning from prisoners." Since 2019, 31 female officers in England and Wales have been dismissed for inappropriate relationships according to Ministry of Justice statistics. They include one officer who had an inmate's baby. 🤰🤣
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/23 02:40 PM
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At the end of the day, males are going to want sex and relationships with real women because nothing can compare to real validation from a human being. It even goes beyond sexual validation. Agreed. The fact that hordes of simps willingly pay wheelbarrows of money for OF streamers...DESPITE the infinite availability of FREE p0rn all over the internet...already thoroughly debunks the OP's thesis. I mean, I don't even understand it myself, but it is what it is... Apparently, male sexual desperatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:28 PM
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Well, according to her...he was 16 (and thus legal) when they started. “Jennifer talked about [his] age at the time they became sexual [16 years of age] and how their relationship would seem odd or inappropriate to other people,” the filing continued. I guess the interesting part for me is that this dude presumably had sex with both the daughter AND mother?! How does this actually happen IRL? Who is this dude??? 🤯🤔
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/23 02:35 AM
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So how is it rape then? If he was of age and consensually had sex with her 300 times? And thennnn all of a sudden decides to press charges? 🤔🤨
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/23 01:54 AM
0

Agreed. Economic dependence might even be the biggest distorting factor. Lift that handicap away, and you see far more of the true female sexual demand at play...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:08 PM
1

Only 5.9% of males reproduced throughout history while nearly every female did Wow. For every 1 man, 17 women reproduced. Insane. Perhaps if men just got a haircut and took a shower, those numbers would be even? Lol, well it makes sense. That's just an extension of what infinitesimal % of sperm fertilize an egg... 😅 Males simply bear the biggest brunt of natural selection and survival of the fittest. That's actually the true, traditional baseline...not the 50s Mad Men stereotype when women were …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:30 PM
1

Well, a lot of girls here say they prefer to at least pay for themselves, for various reasons...none of which included being unattractive. So, wouldn't those same rationales also apply to attractive women, then? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:25 AM
2

Even just basic things like going out to clubs or going to museums is like a $100+ outing every week. So, I'm guessing these dimes never offer to pay, or at least go halvsies, either?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:04 PM
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Right, whatever women complain about the most is what actually matters the least because they tolerate it the most in favor of other primary criteria (like looks/height/size/etc)... Hence, rarely do they ever complain that their man is too ugly/short/small/poor/etc...because they simply wouldn't even be with them if they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:20 PM
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Right, it's just guys finally figuring out that they've been gaslit with red herring deflections (just shower and be yourself!) their whole life...and recognizing that all that really matters is your (largely physical) hotness. Cuz...nothing else matters...so why even bother? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:59 AM
3

Oh well, that's a sweet gig then! 👏 Although still not for attracting or interacting with women. Because tech is just inherently a turn-off to women and you're still effectively stuck at home alone in front of a computer all day...and now isolated in a 100% male space (just you), lol! 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:31 AM
2

Lol, that don't sound like no romance novel, bro... 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:26 AM
4

The life cycle of a $TEM bro is to spend all his life as a workaholic bee glued to a monitor and remain perpetually-single past his 30s and 40s until he finally dies a rich drone with a big pile of fiat money to show for it. 😅😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:24 AM
5

Right, I totally agree with that. Hotness is what rules now with the most leverage by far. And being underemployed is actually an advantage here because you have a little more free time to develop yourself and socialize. I mean, people get conditioned to reduce worth to just a metric of money. But TIME is also HUGE to quality of life! And a lot of people making a lot of money...do so at the cost of leaving themselves very little free time. But as in all things, you need a balance. I suggest maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:06 AM
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A lot of high-paying jobs are in extremely unsexy, white-collar, beta fields like Big Tech/STEM. Not only are these pussy dehydrators by nature due to zero emotional resonance...but they force you to rot away long hours in 95%+ male spaces... So, you've reduced yourself to a robotic paycheck who's inherently unattractive to women...whom you have little to no interaction with anyways.. I mean seriously, show me just ONE romance novel where the leading man was a software developer or engineer... 🤣…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:49 AM
0

Nah, women revered him up until his bitter end, death, and even after death... Because as opposed to Hef or Bilz, he never had to "pay" for women directly/indirectly...he mesmerized them simply with raw sex appeal based purely on his looks & sheer talent. Guys like Hef and Bliz couldn't do that...so had to resort to flexing money/social power, instead. But ofc, your average Joe has none of the above at all...so either scenario is but a far-fetched, remote fantasy... 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:52 PM
1

she just happened to enjoy living with him as well 🤣🤦‍♂️ Rigghttttt... 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:43 PM
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It never did. If you study deep time in history, women only settled for betas when they couldn't get their first picks. Either because male supply was depleted through war, or they were heavily socially pressured or forced to marry betas with arranged marriages, etc. Being beta is good for your own security in life, but bad for getting women. And there's frankly nothing wrong with that, as their turn-ons serve as 1 quality control check to help balance the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:31 PM
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Lol, yea I mean Sofia Vergara with Al Bundy in Modern Family? 🤣 Righttttt...LMFAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:23 PM
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Actually, I agree...those are actually 2nd rate, try-hard examples. The true fantasy would be being an actual sex symbol with swag and directly raw sex appeal like Elvis...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:46 PM
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The Male Romantic Fantasy I'd say that men usually feel most loved when this normal state of affairs is negated; when they are made to believe that a woman's love is not conditional in the cause-and-effect manner described in the parent post. I'd go farther, and say that even love is a female-gendered concept. Men want respect, not love. And respect brings all the things you then describe, along with natural submission...as opposed to a loss of respect. Hence, the male fantasy is Hugh Hefner, Da…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:03 PM
1

No, the age gap narrows as male supply exceeds female demand. Females had to forgo looks in most of the 20th century due to the massive shortage of men from multiple world wars. Hence, they dropped a lot of their physical standards and settled for a lot of uglier, shorter, and older guys just to even get a man (similar to what men are doing now with women). That was never their actual preference though...just lack of choice. But, now that the tables have turned, their true desires are revealed w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:40 PM
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💯! THIS! Young women don't give a shit about emotional availability or whatever...but looks/race, height, build, etc. Even "confidence/swag"...is largely a symptom of those physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:53 PM
1

Uh, the past was filled with 2 world wars...that vastly depleted the supply of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:49 PM
1

Yep, exactly. I didn't think that many more males were naturally born than females...but I guess it makes sense because many were meant to serve as disposable drones. 🤷‍♂️ But yea, it's a numbers game of musical chairs and the m/f is what it mainly all boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:48 PM
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Well, declining birth rates and industrialization is a good thing for the planet. And I do enjoy spending a lot of my free time ALONE enjoying the simple pleasures outside of the materialistic rat race. Company and sex is nice sometimes too...but most men actually enjoy their uninterrupted solitude tinkering in whatever their man cave is most of the rest of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:10 AM
2

So, are you childfree women unmarried by choice...or just can't find men who see any point in marrying someone without having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:22 AM
1

the need for excessively large populations anyways. There’s no need to keep trying to push for population growth forever. Agreed. The only "need" for more population growth is to support aging, entitled Boomers. And the only population crisis for every reason outside of that is of overpopulation. So, if women don't wanna have kids, great! Although, there is no reason to commit to any woman who is not at least having kids with you. Best to just keep things casual unless that might ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:15 AM
1

Agreed. If you're not her Chad daddy...then there's no point in committing to be a step-Chad provider. Casual sex is really the only fair compromise there for both parties...where she settles for sex with a less hot partner for a little extra life support and you get some sex without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:33 PM
1

Right, but practically no woman is going to be talking about geopolitics like Zionism or the US blowing up Russia's Nord Stream gas pipelines, Roganesque left/right culture wars, political history, etc, etc... 99% of the time, it's going to be all dudes studying and debating that stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:28 PM
1

Lol, ofc I figured...women are just so predictable. 😄 Now that she is done reproducing with her "hot male specimen"...only now is she looking for resources on the side from a provider. So, the truest test of female desire is always when they are young and want kids. The only time they settle for shorter/less attractive providers, a "nice" guy, "good character," abstract "love," etc...is once they're done breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:01 PM
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Right, well most women (especially before middle age) aren't heavily into politics, sort of like sports fans. Political debate is more of a male space, online or off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:54 PM
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I think most women don't care about political leaning Right, I think politics is just something that might get discussed further down the line. Most people don't care or even talk about it in casual dating, especially not upfront. Usually the conversation is rather about flirting, life stories, hobbies, recent events, etc. For example, of the last several women I had relations with...I only know of one's official political affiliation. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:58 AM
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Even my sugar baby/gf now, she admits when she was 20 she only fucked tall hot guys. Interesting. So, is she a single mom and/or just broke now, or what? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:46 AM
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Not necessarily. What % of women 18-29 are also single? If it's also 63%...then they're not likely dating older men. They're just also "single." Although, what does "single" really even mean? Not committed...but possibly still having casual sex, or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:02 PM
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Right, not for me psychologically. But purely based on the arrangement, it's not that different than having a live-in girlfriend...except for her doing zero chores. But like he said, he'd normally be doing all the chores himself anyways, so it's not that much worse relatively-speaking. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:25 PM
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Exactly, a population pyramid Ponzi scheme obviously can't last forever. The planet has a carrying capacity and cannot sustain infinite growth. So, moar and moar people is not the solution...contrary to technocratic industrialists like Elon Musk. 🙄 People just have to go back to living healthy lifestyles and then dying fairly peacefully from a little environmental stress in their 90s...like in rural, preindustrialized villages before WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:11 PM
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"don't air me fam, bitch be realz when I'm on your blower" Oh, I think that's just hip hop-influenced, teenage slang. If anything it shows he's "cool" and with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:11 PM
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They were profanity filled, derogatory, misogynistic, sexist, and simply vile in how he addressed his points across to my niece. Could you give some examples? And a lot of girls like the lanky bad boy look (think Tommy Lee), contrary to what gym bros think. Was he a pretty boy, though? Just trying to get the full picture here to extrapolate from? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:49 PM
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The problem is none of those really change inborn traits like your looks/race/height to her preference, which is a primary factor. For example, White bros enjoy immense mainstream appeal. However, huge K-pop fans are likely going to desire Asians. But, a Kardashian would never date an Asian, period. It doesn't matter how buff, rich, and smooth-talking he got. Etc. So, the rest of those are secondary factors which may help a little, but not really that much...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:09 PM
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Your “chemistry” is just you subconsciously vetting for a guy that is competent enough to supply and secure resources so your monkey-human body and potential children can survive the winter. Right, exactly. If she wants kids, she only cares about how hot he is. If she's done with kids and needs a provider, then it's money. "Character" is always but an afterthought in all these cases. Although in every case, it'll just feel like "chemistry/love" with "the one" to her. But once she's extracted wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:54 PM
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The main difference is that women are looking for "the one." If men were too...then we'd be a lot more selective as well. But instead, our criteria is more on the other end of the spectrum...good enough to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:33 PM
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Girls just get dogs and travel now. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:52 PM
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Thing is, a lot of it does simply boil down to attributes that are very hard to attain like physical attractiveness or being in the top elite of your field. Your actual behavior has probably the least influence, lol. So, understanding all this still isn't going to make much difference if you don't even pass the eyeball test to begin with... I mean, for generations our patriarchal culture has been downplaying the importance of male looks to women. When in fact, it is probably the primary criteria…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:04 AM
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why me? “I was bored that night” and she found me attractive. That's what it boils down to...and physical attractiveness is generally the main portion of attractiveness to women...especially young, childless ones with the most choice and least-compromised situation in life. Although even then, that alone is often not enough...but only gets your foot in the door for the first elimination round... 😄 I asked her if she thought any guys in the world had a tinder like that. Top 1% guys. Asked her why…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:36 PM
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LMFAO! Yes, 💯 accurate! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:22 PM
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Yeah absolutely true for sex. I have seen many hot babes fuck absolute losers because they were simply hot and it didn’t matter if the guy had a job or potential or whatever. Agreed. Young fuccgirls fucc fuccbois. Don't give a shit about provider B$.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:59 PM
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So, I wonder what ugly guys with high T experience from women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:24 AM
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JFC women have it SOOOO EASSSYYY in dating these days! Like, they can literally do NO WRONG! 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:04 PM
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“The next time you’re feeling horny, you need to call ME!” Lol, simp daddy is still giving her a next time? 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:22 PM
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Lol, it's inexcusable that a shrink mag would so grossly misinterpret the results of that study. Nowhere in the study did it say men found tattooed women less attractive (hot)...just different in various specific, behavioral traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:27 PM
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Lol, now who do you think gets wayyyy more women in the first video? I guarantee you the more "patriarchal" guy in the clip...simply because he has model-tier looks...not the simpathetic ally. So, as long as looks trump attitudes for women...then they will keep choosing fuccbois, but bitching about it. 🤣🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:18 PM
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Right, a lot of "rules" fly out the window in person, lol. There's always exceptions, especially exceptional people when you meet them in person. And people also tend to get treated more by the way they actually look, than what their stats are on paper. Like, you could have 2 40-somethings...and one looks 30 and the other looks 55. So, they will obviously get treated differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:25 PM
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Right, but approximately what % of women is that? I'm guessing under 10%? Like maybe 5%ish? I mean, I've had quite a few even younger than that attracted to me...although they were still hesitant to actually go out with me. Maybe due to the age gap, or just something else like many women in general? So, I do think it can happen yes, but it's still a small minority, I believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:48 PM
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It's not very common, tbh. Which is weird why this topic seems so popular...given it really doesn't happen all that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:26 AM
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Lol, only because Asian countries used to have arranged marriages (which hard-selected for stable providers and took away vaginal choice entirely)...but the more those cultural norms fade away, the more they return to the natural baseline of the wild as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:58 AM
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Now 1/3 of male population is single, they can be bribed by the chinese in order to betray their nations, chinese can tell the communist chinese women that in order to secure geopolitical objectives they should become the waifu of lonely single western men. Sounds more like a devious plot to shat in the Chinese gene pool with all the leftover sexual rejects that American women refuse to fux...that normally would simply be culled out of the future population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:48 AM
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Most of them came from a single poster...and even then, I don't think he said anything about forcing women to have sex...just wanted to reboost the marriage rate up. So, still strawmanning, in combination with cherry-picking... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:50 AM
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Yep, including blocking natural Vitamin D production...which helps fight cancer... 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:07 AM
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But no rigged system will. And then once the walls do eventually collapse, it's game over for everything that was bred in captivity inside. The most robust forms are always the F1 feral forms. But men raised in patriarchal societies steadily degenerate from wild wolves into toy chihuahuas. This then becomes a problem for those men, women forced to fuck them, and the species as a whole. Especially once fairer competition is ever restored. Social conservatism always only makes sense if your worldv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:27 PM
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Lol, no. When one generation wins, the following ones lose. Whenever patriarchal structures lowered the sexual bar for men, quality control went down and a lot more unsexy men reproduced than normal. This may have been "good" for them, but bad for their unsexy male descendants (see societies with arranged marriages for the far end of that spectrum). Similarly, patriarchal norms raise the sexual bar for women, selecting for sexier women. Which also is tougher for women at that time, but makes lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:00 PM
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Yep, it's a textbook logical fallacy called strawman... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:15 PM
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So, instead you got a dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:09 PM
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Now more young men refuse to pay taxes, refuse to work hard, refuse to involve themselves with society. In case of war I hear that plenty of men would leave the country, they wouldnt give their lives to defend their country, they would scape to South America or be jailed. Agreed. There's basically 3 options for guys now. Be born attractive to women. Adapt and evolve yourself to become attractive to women. Not be able or willing to do so. If you're in category 3...by all means just do whatever yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:27 AM
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Actually, the entire planet and environment breathes a huge sigh of relief with lower population growth. So, while we're in the midst of the 6th Mass Extinction (caused by humans)...there's no reason to subsidize further population growth. Not to mention, it's not fair to force fellow, single "incel" employees to pay for kids (maternity leave) by women who would never give them the time of day, either. Not to mention, take on their workload while they're gone. And yes, single male employees are …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:05 PM
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I remember a decade or 2 ago when only the biggest social outcasts had trouble getting girls. Crazy that it's now basically even hitting the top end, lol... 😅 Here's what I've figured out, though. At the end of the day, girls go for whoever they feel butterflies with...and will settle for nothing less. So, even if a guy looks like a total catch on paper...if girls aren't getting butterflies from him, then he's out too. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:19 PM
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If you're somewhat asexual...then your male sex drive is suppressed, and thus so is your primal male sexual fantasy. Or in many other cases, we're also socially-conditioned and brainwashed to guilt trip ourselves out of that fantasy. But, I think when you really free yourself from any psychological baggage and are truly honest with yourself...you will admit that is our true Nature as men. 🤷‍♂️ Now again, that is still pure fantasy in reality for 99.999% of men...and most men would still fairly h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:30 PM
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Obviously, I meant "buy" somewhat figuratively... If this really was a men’s movement especially a conservative men’s movement then these “mentors” should be telling you how to be a better man, husband and father. This movement can be summed up in an analogy think of any high school movie, you have the jocks that get all the girls and beat up on the nerds these “mentors” are basically that they are taking all the girls and still stealing your lunch money. the average girl will be happy to have y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:01 AM
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Well, unattractive guys hoping to buy a wife with a steady paycheck don't like it. Which is essentially the conservative model. More attractive guys who believe they can get more hot women with less commitment would like this hookup culture more. Ofc granted, this is an elite minority of men (players/pimps). 😅 For now, that is. As generations of unattractive men get culled out by female sexual selection and NPCs who cannot adapt/evolve on their own, sexy traits in men will become more common aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:03 PM
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if you understand that the fantasy is not reality and you want reality then shouldn’t you give up on the fantasy Lol, neither men or women give up their fantasies...they can only suppress them temporarily. Hence, 70% of divorces are initiated by...women. Why don't women just give up their fantasies of marriage, then? Because clearly, that ain't workin' either... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:24 PM
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Infinite young women are male fantasy...not reality by any stretch for 99% of men. The less sexual options a man has in reality, the more he wants marriage. Because 1 for life is better than 0 for life. Which is why incels are the ones who would love arranged marriages the most. And in fact, incels are probably often the statistical results of societies with arranged marriages and/or periods where men enjoyed the upper hand in dating. Which then selects for beautiful women, while lowering the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:25 PM
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HOT whores. Well, men just like HOT women. We'd prefer them not to be whores...but it often goes with the territory because HOT women have such high market value that they can name their price and get it. I guarantee all these strippers who were finessing money outta men were HOT, which is the real common denominator here. I mean, for a woman to be beautiful enough in the face with a hot enough body to be a stripper...is already like the top 20% of young women. For most girls, being a successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:19 AM
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I think not being too emotional with women, understanding they care just as much about looks as men do, understanding that they have way more options than men do, understanding hypergamy, and the concept of AF/BB are all good things to keep in mind. That’s why I consider myself more or less purpled pilled now a days because I do indeed think there is a lot of nativité that comes with BP thinking. Yes, that's it in a nutshell! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:47 AM
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Would you say you lost more babyfat and your face got more chiseled?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:25 AM
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Like one girl mentioned in my previous post - she "saw stars" for the first time with a guy who had an above-average dick. Interesting, do you have a link for that? 🤔 But yes, marriage has always been for men with no better options (granted, that's for a vast majority of us).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:16 PM
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Exhibit A: Jeremy Meeks Personality: Chiseled, lean, tall, tattooed, outlaw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:39 PM
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Huh, MGK is tall with a sharp jawline and chiseled features. Pete Davidson is also tall with a huge eggplant...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:34 PM
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I think this is true, based on my own experience lately. Women have flirted, told me I'm handsome/cute, yet still ghosted me in the end without sex. So, I do believe sexual attractiveness is a prerequisite for women...but you still have to pass other requirements after that...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:24 PM
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True, but men also gain/lose some attractiveness in their overall score with some other stuff like swag, power, status, etc... Although I guess the same could be said for women too if she were to become very subservient, doting, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:07 PM
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But I think the Wall is not just about sexual attractiveness...but relationship attractiveness. A MILF can still be sexually-attractive, but is generally going to be less relationship-attractive. Although even then, I don't think any woman just hits a Wall...more just a steady/stepped decline in relationship options with decreasing looks and increasing baggage/demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 03:53 PM
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🤣 If it doesn't make sense, then it's not the truth. The truth is more likely that she got so turned on by the experience, she was left totally dickmatized, and had to cheat on her boring, nice boyfriend to go back for more... 🍆💦💦 Ofc, she can't admit that to herself, much less anyone else...so has to construct some false narrative where she is noble and virtuous. Which ofc creates a ridiculously ludicrous scenario in this case. 🤦‍♂️ Gullible men then complain how illogical women are. But the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:28 AM
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Arranged marriages are already gone in China. A nice guy is like a Chihuahua...a toy pet bred for domestication. But, once that domestic system collapses...feral dogs left out in the free wild will either revert to original wolf forms or die out. The worst situation to be in is as a highly-domesticated male from generations of domestication...suddenly confronted with a breakdown of that domesticated system. Because without that system that vastly tilts the playing field in his favor, he has no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:39 AM
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traits like rebelliousness are less attractive in societies that value stability like China, where traditionally respected occupations like doctors are most valued. The reality is, genuine kindness, optimism and generosity are valued by most women 🤣 Wrong. Societies like China and India imposed arranged marriages to increase social stability. But, that never changed their women's primal instincts...it only artificially cockblocked their free expression temporarily. However, as arranged marriages…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:31 AM
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Hm, good point. Any guy could be nice...but not any guy could be good-looking, for instance... 🤔👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:21 PM
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Any time something feels "off" to a woman, strike one and you're out. Most simply don't have patience and often feel disgust at anyone who doesn't fit their mental picture of what it means to act appropriate. Yes, this 💯! Although this is not innate to women...but simply due to demand so vastly outstripping their supply at this point in time. At other times in history when the tables were turned, it was the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:15 PM
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Well, it's "low" finite supply vs infinitely high demand at this point in time. And all strongly enabled and made worse by the fact that collectively, men SIMPly have no "bottom" to what they'll tolerate from a woman. Which is all free choice and fair play, but unfortunately makes it vastly harder for the rest of us men with any standards. A low tide drops all ships... Because for any of us who say no, a woman knows she'll still find 10K men who'll say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:50 PM
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“guys i need you to treat me like crap, understand that you're better than me leave me at all times don't let me talk shit to you don't call me back don't take me out on an expensive date for the first date, fuck me and pull my hair, treat me like a slut and uh make sure under no circumstances you over validate me” That's it in a nutshell. Excepttt...all of that only even "works" if she is highly-attracted to you to begin with. So, the real key is to be extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:27 PM
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Yes, I had a similar experience. Was talking to a girl for a week or so, but she was still hesitant on meeting... Then she mentioned that she kissed a guy she just met off an app. That set me off. So, I've invested a whole week talking with you and get put on hold...while you then go kiss another dude you just met? And there's not even any shame over it...but simply casually disclosing it as some norm. But not in my book...so payce out. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:55 AM
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I recently asked a mid-20s girl if she had ever gotten ghosted? I then had to explain what that term even meant...because she had never been.. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:14 PM
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Maybe legalizing prostitution in the States would help level the playing field here? Or would it make it worse...because then all women would start charging pay for play? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 PM
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Basically dating multiple people at a time has become a standard. If you fail to maintain her interest, especially if you didn't immediately knock her off her feet with your looks, you're gonna get dropped for one of her other options. Agreed. I was out of the scene for a while and when I got back in, things had changed. And I think a lot of it was from the influence of dating apps going mainstream. In the old days, if a girl found you attractive and you had some good conversation...then that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:20 AM
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It's true, but just remember it's all cyclic. See, when enough men get left out...they feel they have nothing left to lose in life anymore, start looking for scapegoats, and eventually start wars against them. Wars decimate the male population...and suddenly women have to bring their AAA game to fight over the survivors again...and still largely fail (much like men today). One hazy morning in 1917 the senior mistress of Bournemouth High School For Girls stood up in front of the assembled sixth f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:43 AM
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Same here. Every time I break the rules and fawn over a girl...she loses interest and I sorely regret it. If there's one thing I've painfully learned, it's that none of them are different. There are no special exceptions. They are ultimately all the same...and the rules cannot be broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:01 PM
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His wife still does all the cooking and housecleaning. He does dishes, laundry, yardwork, and gaming tournaments. In a way, she's like a sugar mama bangmaid...which is a way bigger flex than him just being the beta provider...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:10 AM
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Not to be mean, but Vanessa Williams and Rick Fox look like Black Barbie & Ken...but their daughter is fairly average-looking. So, it's always still somewhat of a crapshoot...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:45 PM
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Oh, you may be right on average. I guess I'm kind of an exception then...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:54 PM
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What very rarely happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:52 PM
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Lol, huh? Straight women give other women compliments, yes...but that's not flirting. That's no different than dudes giving other dudes props for a great shot in sports or something... So, when a much younger girl privately texts a much older guy that she's always found him handsome...that's not flirting? Or what if she gives him customized, homemade gifts? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:01 PM
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Go for what in practice - actual dating? Yes, that's what I said...although they will still engage in heavily flirty talking...but the age gap is still a hangup that often probably keeps them from taking it any further... Although if you're claiming that young women just wouldn't find any older guys 10 or 20 yrs older attractive enough to at least even have a flirty precursor to a physical relationship with...then you're def wrong. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:53 PM
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Agreed...although I think they are a little more open irl than whatever their general rules are. Which applies not just to age gaps, but other factors as well... That being said, I think a lot of girls may find a guy attractive and enjoy a flirty friendship with them...but still not want to actually date them based on some criteria like that...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:53 PM
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Lol, I think you've officially lost the plot here... Although I would actually agree with your last paragraph. However, I think your first 2 are far too cynical. Most guys are not going to "round up" 2 whole inches...especially the guys who are already large. Like, why would an 8" guy have to pretend he's 9"? That's like a 6'6" guy pretending he's 6'7"... Now, I wouldn't be surprised if Pete may have simply rounded to the nearest inch, but that still wouldn't be far off...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:13 PM
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Men who are 7s and 8s like myself, will end up with the women who are 6s or less. Of those 20 something matches I got, arguably only 4 were decently attractive and one of them responded to me. Right, so even just to get a match as a man is a real accomplishment considering the absurd odds we're up against here. Ofc, you should only be swiping right on ones you find sufficiently attractive to begin with, to ensure all your matches are. But once you do match, the majority will just be wanting that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:08 AM
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Well, if they were also star-fucking like there was no tomorrow...I would certainly be more inclined to believe them. Remember the last guy who was running a bonafied sex tour through all the top starlets in their prime? Wilmer Valderrama. Who also later claimed to be...packing slightly over 8". Like I said, there's no mystery here, guys. When all is said and done, it's not that deep. "It" being the real, base drivers and dealmakers. In fact, it's as shallow as it can possibly get... 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:51 AM
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Not even close. Someone estimated him at just over 7"...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:11 PM
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Yea, if you look at porn or IG bikini models...that's the shape you see. Even guys who like thicc girls...are still going to include the skinnier bikini models in their range. So, you can definitely say they enjoy the most universal appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:03 PM
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The thing is, there are dozens of other famous men who tick all of these boxes (and more) who are also more conventionally attractive. Dozens of famous men are 6'3" and packing 9"??? Name these "dozens of men???" I mean, 9" might be the biggest dick Kim ever sat on...and that's saying A LOT for her!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:53 PM
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In dating, Occam's Razor always overrides all the mental gymnastics used to avoid the truth. But the truth is always very simple and not that deep. Or in Pete's case, it's about 9" deep to be more specific... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:51 PM
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Right, his main draw is really that he's a tall celeb packing a 9-incher. "He told me what it was: It's his endowment," Pharoah said. "He confirmed it. He was like, 'Yeah bro, it's like nine inches.'" Which just confirms all "based" theories about women, not debunks them. As said, his immense junk size (huge even for porn stars) alone already puts him into the tiniest top percentile of men. And then add on his top-tier height. And then his fame, money, and edgy humor (game). His looks are his on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:48 PM
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Ofc, women only care about power, not morals. As every moral they have can be broken if the guy they want is powerful enough. A good collective example is how many women devoutly buy into extremely patriarchal, misogynistic, toxic, Abrahamic religions. I think the main reason they do is because they strongly brainwash men to ignore their natural instincts, date conservatively with women, and commit to marriage...which is what most women want. So, they're willing to overlook everything else as lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:04 PM
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A lot of the time, the core issue in a relationship is a power imbalance of beauty, money or status, which is extremely rude to communicate overtly Bingo!!! 💯 Well, it's not even so much the fact that it's rude...but that it's a dealbreaker. So, the problem here is not "lack of communication"...but the imbalance itself being a problem. Which is a dealbreaker and open communication would not solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:28 PM
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Americans aren't uniquely unattractive IME lol But overweight, yes. They probably got about 30-40 lbs more chub on average than people in Europe or Asia, for example...where overweight people are rare and obese people basically nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:20 PM
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No, more the opposite. Because with that little experience, their learning curve gets stretched out into infinity, lol. And we get no real mentoring or role-modeling from our Boomer dads, who all had it a lotttt easier in post-war times when women were fighting over survivors. So you end up with a lot of guys making boring small talk or getting sexual way too fast...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:51 AM
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Lol, exactly. There really is no such thing as "too fast"...but just the male not being hot enough. The hotter he is, the less any rules apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:41 AM
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I have an average of 40 messages a day Meanwhile, those chumps get 1 message every 40 days... 🤣 The gender gap is simply 🤯...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:35 AM
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"Wtf you are rich, I was hoping to live this glamorous lifestyle with you, but you are unwilling to spend to make that happen" What they don't tell you is that they are very angry that they gave up getting back shots from a hot fuccboi to settle for you, because the IG lifestyle would compensate for you being a mild-mannered Clark Kent. So, when you "reneg" on this unspoken deal in their own mind...they get pissed off and bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:48 PM
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IME, looks trumps even height for women... Like, someone should use this male model's pics on Hinge/Tinder just as a social experiment. I wonder how many matches he would get per week?
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:37 PM
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Based on a small sample size, that's what I heard too. Outside of organized activities from school, teens nowadays just stay home online in their free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:13 PM
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Agreed. Most women who wanted babies, already had them in their early 20s. By 30s, you have a mix of single moms and a few wannabe moms still. But by 40s, it's mostly all single mom divorcees done with kids just looking for "true love," now. Because an abstract concept is all they really have left to offer, in lieu of all else. But ofc, men still wanna fuck 'em all. The only difference is that they want to commit to them less and less as their age/baggage ramps up. Like, very few men would want …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:38 PM
2

Be tall white & handsome gang
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:55 PM
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Exactly, the dude prioritized his career over family (wife and kids) the whole time, and simply refused to give that up. Gisele was already on her last nerve over that, and yet another season was just the last straw for her. I totally sympathise with her, because she was basically reduced to a military widow and single mom for years on end already...and was just fed up.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:46 AM
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choosing better means not choosing men based off of shallow things like looks and height and income and being more selective about things like how well they treat u Nah, it's basic instinct for them to choose mates based on those core factors. But, just don't complain about being used like a cumrag when they do... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:40 AM
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if she is so hot she will have opportunities from djs to stars to fitness models, to millionaires etc. Exactly. At that level, she's likely been hit on by moguls, politicians, and had some celebs sliding in her DMs. In addition to just all the mass hordes of regular civilians, lol... 😄
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:24 PM
1

And this is actually the more traditional way. As in, natural instinct before marriage and all these social constructs were drawn up. People think of the last few decades or generations as "traditional," but those were just one slice in time. And not necessarily a natural baseline. For example, the narrative used to be that women were dying to have babies, become SAHMs, and didn't care what a man looked like. Well, that may have been true during the world war eras when hordes of men were killed …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:03 PM
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Agreed. It's simply not that deep. But more the opposite. Looks, race, height, age...are all the most basic and primary factors at play here. People wanna make it out more than it is. But it's not. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:02 AM
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Lol yea, ghosting is the norm now. At least he managed to actually see her for 2 weeks, lol... 😁
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:21 AM
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Wow, thanks for going back in the trenches and doing the autopsy in the name of science! Yea, relationships are just never that deep. It always boils down to the most "superficial" basics like looks, etc. A surprising find though is how a girl would still go out on a date and kiss a guy she didn't find that physically attractive. But, I guess that may still be worth her time just for the free meal and validation alone. Do notice how completely fake they are with their words, though. Which were i…
/r/seduction26/10/22 03:38 PM
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Right, every man still needs game, but hot dudes need far less, while they also get tonnsss more practice at it due to how many massively more reps they get with interested women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:06 AM
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top 20% genetic fitness in men? That's determined by women...but usually means tall, good-looking guys with game, good D, and being in a sociopolitical leadership position over them. But for a good pilot test...see your local ghetto and who all the baby daddies are. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:20 PM
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Fellas, what's really important here that actually TRIGGERS her mating instinct is BEING IN A DIRECT POSITION OF POWER OVER HER. Money too, sure...but that is only secondarily more just for resource acquisition. But being in an officially dominant (alpha) position over her is what really gets her (beta) pussy drenched. And there are maannnyyy examples of this all over, especially where money isn't even a factor. I remember taking a tour bus and the shaggy bus driver who looked like he lived out …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:50 PM
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The 6' tall Korean guy is gay...so out of the running for women. No, click the 2nd link in my previous post...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:33 PM
3

Dude, I already completely debunked your previous claim that Bezos's wife married him before he was rich... 🙄 And you have no idea under what actual circumstances Ned met Ariel and why she fell for him, either...you are just completely speculating again...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 05:07 PM
1

Did you ask your friend how he pulled in 15 min later???
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:06 PM
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Ok, so you have friends for companionship and a vibrator, then. Fair enuff. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:04 PM
1

Soooo...that means you are hooking up without dating for your sexual needs and/or dog-momming to fulfill your companionship needs? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:50 PM
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Bullshit. I just fact-checked this. Jeff met his first wife when he was a VP at a hedge fund interviewing her. 🤣 This mirrors the exact same situation as Ned cheating. A very wealthy man in an ownership position in a company is the definition of "alpha male" to a female employee there...and that clout literally drenches their panties and makes them biologically lose all control. Now, someone tell me how Ned met Ariel... 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:40 PM
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Right, he's a minor celeb with $10 million. Who's also the most conventionally-attractive of the group, vanilla-looking most like Ryan Seacrest. And also, constantly bragging about his wife is actually a red flag...like he's feeling guilty and trying to remind himself of that. So, he had the most mainstream attractiveness of the bunch (and thus wife) to begin with, and then amplified by fame, power (sub dating boss), and $10 mill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:29 PM
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True, in the short run. Although I believe we can choose our career paths in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:20 PM
1

True, and it applies to all sectors in life, as well...including your jobs. Lots of people also settle for boring jobs just to "pay the bills," but then encounter the same phenomenom you describe...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:12 PM
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💯! Ofc, if you have a child under school age, living separately makes caring for it exponentially more difficult. So I would say, realistically, cohabitate temporarily to raise kids under school age, but never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:54 PM
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Inviting you over for NSA sex? No date, no more hoops, no games, no commitment required... Damn, how much easier can it get??? 🤦‍♂️ And you turned her down not once, but twice now? Did you at least offer another time when you could go clap her cheeks? 😬 This is a troll post. This has got to be a troll post, right? 🤣
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:13 AM
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Exactly - ghosting = she's not that into you...and is more into another guy, likely. No need for an "honest chat" to try to force that out of her explicitly. There is no 2nd place with pussy. Winner, and ONLY winner, takes ALL.
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:38 PM
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I'm guessing your ex broke up with you and you wanted more out of her? Usually, you obsess over an ex you have unfinished business with. Although in reality, if you were meant to finish whatever business that was, you would have...
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:27 AM
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Literally been told I look awesome, handsome, with sexy genes, etc. Sexted to where they got so horny they had to go rub some out. Been given personally-crafted gifts. Her actually picking out a B&B to stay in, and then flaking out at the last moment... Etc... So no, I'm not talking about just generic politeness that dweebs overinterpret as romantic interest. These girls were all somewhat sexually-interested, at least. But again, if you don't pass the overall bar for some reason..."somewhat" sti…
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:34 PM
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Agreed! But this has also happened to me in person with a flirty coworker, too. So, it's not even just necessarily over text. Maybe there's a girl you see regularly at work/school who strings you along...but won't actually go out with you. Same damn thing. As soon as you suss out that she's not DTF, stop wasting any more time on her. Just ghost her or talk about impersonal stuff if she initiates, as you should when you are now disinterested. If he's not that interested, he'll just smash and dash…
/r/seduction20/10/22 03:45 PM
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💯!!! 👌 And the real kicker is...when they then suddenly find the time to go hang out with some other dude, who has probably invested wayyyy less time than you! I'd say that if she shows ANY hesitancy for actually meeting up soon...then she is just stringing you along for validation. Either she's really excited to meet up with you soon...or she's not. Because, ultimately it boils down to a binary choice - she's either DTF or she's not. And there is no in between. Either your peen is going in her …
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:18 PM
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majority of men will pick an 8-10/10 pretty woman who is less intelligent and has little to no personal achievements over a 5/6 and below intelligent woman who has achieved a great deal in her life Well, they would pick if the 8-10 would accept. But very few men can land an 8-10. So, most men will still settle for a 0-6. Also, career workaholic women are not attractive to men because that means she's always going to be gone working and away from him, much less any kids they might have. And for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:45 PM
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Lol, they can find a desperate simp...but never their laundry list at that stage. Because no guy who fulfills all that...would lower his standards to commit to her. Casual sex, sure. But commitment - very likely not... I wouldn't say the 20s coeds are less pickier, though. They are just far pickier on just a very few select criteria (like looks) to pop out rugrats with due to their stratospheric market value and infinite suitors... Which is why if you are able to even try dating one...you always…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:00 AM
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it is a desire to have them want me. i am aroused by a mans desire for me once hes "attracted" me with some aspect of himself. Very interesting self-awareness and powerful point about how female sexuality differs at its core! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:30 PM
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his skeletal frame. women are not generally "aroused" by mens bodies. what you all are failing to understand is that gym bodies on a man are now an accessory for the hottest girls. you think think womens "attraction" to gym bodies is sexual, but its not. like all things female it is solipsistic and FSM based What do you mean by skeletal frame? What skeletal frame arouses you? And what's FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:20 PM
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There are gender double standards for a reason. With women, it's more about what baggage they don't bring...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:20 PM
0

Lol, power imbalance? Do you know how much power an 18-22 yo female wields in the dating market these days? In that field, she blows the damn wheels off any 30s or 40s man, lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:17 AM
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Well, it's partially that...but also because the women you are more attracted to...are likely more conventionally attractive. Therefore, they have a lot more options and higher "standards." Whereas the ones you are less attracted to...are likely less conventionally attractive...with less options and lower "standards." I know there's a lot of subjectivity here, but there's always still a bell curve to subjective tastes and any market will show this. Whether it's music, cars, real estate, or women…
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:21 AM
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I sort of agree, just not to that degree. Women in their 20s CAN find some men even in their 40s physically attractive...like the few who still look younger. But attractiveness only gets you an interview. And even those guys are likely not going to then get past some mutual flirting into actual dates...because the girl is going to get hung up on his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:15 PM
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This post is pretty much strawmanning. Because no men here really care, except for Christian men/women to varying degrees. Abrahamic cults are the common denominator here. So, if you exclude Christian men...you're not left with anyone else, really...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:17 PM
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Hot 20smthg women without kids...but looking for their future baby daddies...are the truest litmus test. These women are the most widely desirable based on looks and lack of baggage. They are the proverbial pick of the litter. And their motivations are the most unadulterated...seeking pure lust/love/commonalities/swag with the hottest guy (to them) the most to mate with. Only once they've had kids with low-effort alpha Chad...do they then lose leverage and start settling for a resource provider …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:09 PM
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That's just it. Life on Chad-mode is like a VIP room that most men have never even seen, much less been in. So, they have no fkg clue what they're missing! A tall...AND really good-looking guy...is basically a unicorn. That's already the full sexual package alone for a lot of young women looking to mate...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:50 AM
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Not at all. I've experienced both ends of the spectrum. Girls who are interested will serial text me multiple times in a row (up to 50) with novels about their daily minutae before I even reply once. They'll gravedig and still text me even after a month or more of no replies from my end. And ofc, they will try to set up dates. Meanwhile, girls that want nothing more than attention will respond back with short, one-liners and often long delays. Just enough to string you along, but never open up e…
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:45 AM
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Lol, IOW you're not that into any of these multiple filler guys you're dating simultaneously... Which is my point. If she's slacking on texting...she's not that into you. Of which one sign is...she's too busy dating a lot of other dudes at the same time. 🤣 I...rrrrest my case!
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:37 AM
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I'm in the US. 1-2 is low...if the ball is in her court. And moreso, short, dry replies at that. The (lack of) writing's on the wall...it's a wrap.
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:21 AM
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Agreed 💯! After tonnsss of experience...with no exceptions...a woman's actual interest can be most accurately gauged by her text response time, frequency, and character counts. Period. Actual content can even be ignored. It's literally that simple. I've even had times when women would slack on texting, yet get very sexual or plan a date. So I thought, hey, maybe this is a rare exception? Butttt no...inevitably, they would still ultimately flake in the end! Basically, if a woman isn't excited to …
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:02 AM
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Krist, getting off on actively simping is even wayyy worse than Japan! 🤦‍♂️🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 12:25 PM
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But the so called "bad boys" may offer something the "good boys" do not. Are they funnier? Are they better in bed? Do they take rejection better? Do they always have a fun story and a skilled hand? Sure, many of them are likely more attractive in one way or others... But regardless, if women are going to knowingly enable them simply because they find them hot or powerful, etc...then take their damn accountability for their own free agency and stop blaming men for everything! For example, here's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:40 AM
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Right, a common remark is..."Oh, I know all about narcissists...wait for it...I was married to one for 17 years!" Or, "My father, grandfather, and great-grandfather were all abusive alcoholics!" I mean, at some point, you realize that these are the rule, not the exceptions! 🤣🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:32 PM
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True, but women still love the apolitical bad boys (cheating, narcissist, alcoholics, etc) of all stripes...that they then complain about after pushing out their babies... I've seen this a lot on one spiritual forum where most all the kind, empathetic guys there are spiritual incels...while the women just complain about all the studs they keep dating who mistreat them or won't commit.. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:15 PM
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💯💯💯!!! Women will never take accountability for this, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:11 PM
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How is he hesitant...he already tested the waters and basically asked her out. But, the OP is still wondering if he likes her? WTF... 😆
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:35 PM
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Yes, this move was super cringe, like sending an unsolicited dick pic to a friend with no apparent sexual interest. I mean, this is sexually-harassing a roomie and what puts women on guard with bitch shields. Cuz give a guy an inch, and he wants a foot...
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:59 PM
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Right, a healthy woman is always going to want a relationship. Like, I just checked out Feeld based on a Reddit mention elsewhere, which apparently is for casual sex. Well for starters, the pool of women is tiny. Secondly, the prototypical woman there has a Redditor build with purple hair. And many of them just seem to emit broken vibes. As if they are embracing this lifestyle because ultimately, it's the best they can get? One even gave a shoutout to Satan (a fictional character IMO, but it's m…
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:00 AM
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Oh, hell no! That simply means you passed the eyeball test. And then comes the brain test, the dick test, and eventually the money/lifestyle test...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:14 PM
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Yea, women are different from men in that they have multiple elimination rounds like a reality show and are also very fickle. So, you have a very low margin of error at every stage and even a slight faux pas can result in instant ghosting, lol... But, it's interesting to see the data and conversion rates other men are experiencing out there! It def seems like we're all in the same boat, to varying degrees!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:41 PM
1

So, 80 matches/yr is about 2/week. And when do they flake? Right after matching, or after some messaging before there's a date? Also, crazy they don't realize how tall you are when it says on your profile! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:38 PM
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I've thought about creating a fake female profile just out of curiosity to see how many likes and what kind of messages they typically get? But aren't profiles linked to your phone number? So how would you make multiple accounts? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:35 PM
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I’m 6’4 and good lookin, and even that seems HARD af when I right swipe on 100s of women and get no matches Rly? 😲 About how many likes and matches would you say you get per week on average?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:27 PM
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He treats her differently after the honeymoon, she doesn't "feel loved" anymore All of this is blamed on the man...but you can bet the man also gets tired of getting raged at and blamed for everything not magically going right in their life. And after his Amber shats his bed...he's supposed to feel and get romantic with her? 🤣🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:46 AM
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Exactly. Once the man has paid in full upfront with marriage...that's the beginning of the end for women and just a slow race to the bottom for them. First they'll stop admiring you, then keep dropping their effort level, then find things to gripe about, until finally 70% of divorces are initiated by them. Fact is, Al Bundy was right about marriage. 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:42 AM
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No one said womanizing was easy. In fact, it's more like a sport, where very few will excel. You have to be attractive enough just to get an "interview." Then you have to have enough game to get the job. And then you have to do a good enough job in bed to keep your job and get repeat business. That's 3 major stages right there that you have to become proficient at to succeed. Which is no small feat, to say the least... And ofc, money/lifestyle also becomes more important down the line if you wan…
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:57 AM
1

Lol gotcha. You compensate for looks with being jacked on your resume...but still struggle to catch their eye enough to get the interview. But once you get the interview, you bone crush it...
/r/seduction03/10/22 03:01 PM
1

Ok, pretty close on age...but srsly fugly? What makes you so attractive then? 🤔
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:55 PM
2

Damn, I presume you are in your late 20s and good-looking?
/r/seduction03/10/22 02:48 PM
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It rather stems from a desire for extreme validation. She likes calling her partner daddy, because she loves the idea of a protective, and overly doting partner. She harbors rape fantasies, not because she enjoys the violation, rather likes the idea of being irresistible to the point her partner can't control his impulses. To give you an example, in my anecdotal experience, the majority of my dates wouldn't be comfortable with being called a slut in general. But they're surprisingly okay with be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:45 PM
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Right, who cares either way? This is the oddest question lol...
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:59 AM
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Lol, OP was slotted in her friendzone...how the hell were "things going great?" 🤨🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction29/09/22 04:09 PM
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Ah, a 6'2" 8? Nice, figured lol...so the dog routine just helps to lube the process and give the girl a convenient pretext... 👍
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:58 PM
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Brilliant live prop routine...just wash, rinse, and repeat! How good-looking are you from 1-10, btw?
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:37 PM
1

Right, I mean this is just inherently more attractive to women. So if you scroll through his comments, they're practically all from women. I mean, what made throngs of fangirls literally lose control, shriek, and scream hysterically en masse like a religious experience? Seeing musical IDOLS like Elvis, the Beatles, Michael Jackson, Justin Bieber, Chris Brown, BTS, etc in live concerts... Even no IG model has ever screamed like that for Dan Bilzerian... Who is still levels above your average Joe,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:02 PM
1

Agreed. Top musicians are the real MVPs here. Although I wouldn't call the alpha male fantasies simply betabuxxers, either. They're also decently physically attractive, do have psychological game, and of course, do offer that luxury yacht IG female fantasy lifestyle on top, too... Which is still more than 99.9% of the male population offers, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:02 AM
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Huh? IME, women start their pools off with guys they at least find attractive enough. And from there, it's more elimination rounds to narrow it down further...
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:16 AM
8

Damn, 5 dates in 1 week? 🤯 Are these off cold approaches or OLD? And how would you rate your looks from 1-10?
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:17 PM
1

Young women are subconsciously seeking (whatever they consider) "sexy" genes to pass onto their hypothetical kids. And your looks are mostly based on your genes... Look at Khloe Kardashian. She literally used her baby daddy Tristan as a sperm donor even after he massively cheated on her...
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:06 PM
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Agreed. Aside from celeb status...looks are the bait and game is the hook. Status/money really only factor in more down the road if you are in an LTR...
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:57 PM
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Hmm, not sure about that. I think your basic physical looks actually goes a looonggggg ways. I mean, grooming only does so much. And as far as style...most guys are wearing casual T-shirts and shorts everywhere day-to-day...and you may look overdressed if not.
/r/seduction26/09/22 02:50 PM
3

Dating in any context is one of life’s great journeys of personal growth and development. Savor the bitterness and embrace vulnerability, the universe awaits. I agree. For some, the goal is to catch a big fish. For others, the goal is more to master the art of fishing, not just catch a specific fish. OLD is like a video game, and great for getting reps in for feedback to see what works and doesn't. For starters, you see just how important attractiveness is and what makes a man attractive-looking…
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:05 PM
1

Right, well just go read the rooms and look at the crowds. How many hot co-ed IG models are at bodybuilding shows...vs music festivals... 😅 Women are highly emotionally and voice-activated. Musicians can really touch them through those pathways and flood them with emotions and fantasies... How many supermodels has the Weeknd dated? When you look at the guys who can consistently pull la creme de la creme...it's usually rock stars, because they're the full package for female fantasy. A single, oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:46 PM
1

Right, I think pretty "bad boy" rock stars actually are the most common ultimate fantasy males for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:56 PM
2

I doubt his looks are the main bottleneck here if he's been complimented on them before and these cold approaches are also at least giving him their real number and texting back a bit. The more mental game he has, the more he could convert those opportunities. Just sounds like he has some bait, but no hook. No hook = no hook-up. I mean, obviously he has some text game if he's hooked up before off OLD... But, the difference between an amateur and a pro in any field is their technique and shooting…
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:09 PM
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Good bait, but no hook... Attraction is only half the battle. But then you need game to actually reel them in. And this is a prime example of that... It's not just OLD, either. Girls also behave the same way IRL. So, you will encounter the same fizzling interest IRL without game too.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:01 PM
3

Well, you could be attractive to some women in other ways too...besides just looks. Like, typically also in the form of talent in the creative arts, or sports, or whatever else...etc.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:31 PM
12

game is played on the girls who are already into you. It's about leading the attraction to sex. (not always as easy at that sounds for various reasons) - Nobody has ever proven the ability to basically 'seduce' or persuade whoever they want into sex. Probably true (I just never say never, lol). Attraction is the bait, game is the hook. You can't hook her in, if she hasn't taken the bait. And similarly, you (generally) can't reel her in if all you have is bait, but no hook...
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:17 PM
3

OF is more about building a connection to the content creator So, they could hypothetically eventually have sex with her? 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:36 PM
5

I think you emotionally escalated too fast and jumped the gun. Because after you said you couldn't stop smiling...she didn't reciprocate or escalate that...but just changed the topic to something else completely random. And after that just gave emotionally-disengaged responses before predictably ghosting and then going out seeking more vali-dates elsewhere... Lately, I'm starting to think that nothing kills attraction/sexual tension from girls faster than validation? Because that's what so many …
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:48 PM
8

Definitely something missing from her version of the story, lol...
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/22 02:11 AM
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She swiped left 94% of the time. Ninety-four percent. Lol, imagine if this were a guy. It woulda been right 94% of the time and ending up with casual sex with close to 90K women! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 03:43 PM
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If a young and attractive woman grabbed a paramedic's crotch the police and courts wouldn't care. And neither would the paramedic... Although that would only hypothetically happen as often as a man-bites-dog story...
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/21 07:15 PM
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Yes, and the 2nd headline might even be subtly sexist, if that's not even a fair assessment? I mean, many countries' responses were hampered by a whole lotta issues. And many with male "leadership" chose piss poor responses (see Trumperica).
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/21 01:17 AM
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Interesting, but they never revealed the average "ideal" girth in that study...which I guess would be one of the dividing lines between AF/BB, lol. 😄
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/21 04:10 PM
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Funny how men feel the exact opposite. And so they're trying to stay outta the fuckzone, while we're trying to stay outta the friendzone...while trying to tolerate it for the sake of the other, lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 03:10 PM
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Lol, typical entitled female mentality. And of course, it's the man's job to simply magically fix it, no matter what...and pronto! Chop, chop!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 12:43 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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